So this is the story I met this girl at a pub and hot laid with her,she had to go early so I stayed in abundance mentality and didn’t got disturbed,so later I failed in text game (to needy in my opinion,she told me to come to her house early morning due to nobody were there) so I went in the mindset of having sex with her but I acted like an autist there and didn’t do escalation and physicality so finally nothing happened and a day wasted,so this girl told me to go to her swimming pool like a week after this and I told her that I already had plans (I dont know if I acted good there,like I wanted to do soft next),so the thing here is that this girl has texted me again saying she is going to be around my town at saturday,I am thinking of telling her that I am lazy and I dont want to go (I have to pay a bus and go 20km),what do you think I have to do?