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I disagree, but still think he has a great point.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 04:55 AM
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Has a woman ever performed oral sex with you? Did you think you were the first person to put your dick in her mouth?
/r/MensRights17/01/24 04:06 AM
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So unfortunate to have such weak-chinned individuals here.... in more than one way ... A strong chin works well to stimulate the lower vaginal area and the taint during oral sex.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 04:05 AM
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Happened to me 25 years ago.
/r/MensRights14/01/24 01:42 AM
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This phenomenon is almost non-existent in most cultures around the world. It's very much a modern and western 'thing'.
/r/MensRights10/01/24 10:32 AM
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This is just universally true with both men and women everywhere..... I don't think it's so much of a gendered issue, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:34 PM
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It seems like an accurate analogy... We are witnessing the same kind of behavior in a lot of countries.... Broadly speaking....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:26 AM
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The popularity of your retort is hilarious. "Yeah, lol facebook and texting" Is that the best you can come up with? Can you provide some nuance to such a broad statement? Your eduation system has failed you severely....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:21 AM
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It's entirely intentional. There is no massive governmental or sociological oversight. Every aspect of the collapse is going perfectly, as per design.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:12 AM
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There's no need for personal attacks here. But to answer your question, if people don't like my behaviour, sure, they should absolutely keep their distance from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:16 AM
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Fun retort... i had to laugh. Upvoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:07 PM
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Do you not have nothing to take away from the retort, or did you find your lack of humor? I'm joking... you had a nice point, but i thought it was funny the way it was worded.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:04 PM
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I almost had a stroke trying to interpret the message. It's like a convoluted algebraic equation. I think he meant to say that he can think clearly for over 6 hours. I'm not undoubtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:00 PM
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Yeah. For real. Try Asia. Every male public restroom that has a bathroom attendant is female. Non of them have ever been interested at spying on my 'junk'... but... i still think it's weird and invasive.
/r/MensRights19/12/23 09:18 PM
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Hey! You can't just point that out, it's offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:08 PM
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No, i'm not doing that at all. I would be foolish to 'judge a book by it's cover' I'm refering to gauging a persons behaviour over time, not just how they look in a snapshot.... It's wise to judge people on how they act.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:53 PM
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Futile indeed. I was in total agreement with the parent comment, i'm not really sure where all the downvotes came from.
/r/MensRights19/12/23 08:43 PM
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Vetting. If it quacks, has 2 wings, a bill, and waddles around, it might be a fucking duck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:26 PM
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Good for them. I'm not interested in changing their mind.
/r/MensRights19/12/23 08:03 PM
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Well, ok. Obviously, you have everyone's best interest in mind....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:00 PM
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I don't date people who are like burning crosses. That's so fake. I only date REAL burning crosses. I also don't date people who can't use their native language properly, it's "like" a bad indication.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:10 PM
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As they fucking should.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:54 PM
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No, we don't need to take foolish risks. If you don't pay attention to how people present themselves or how they act in public, how can you know if they would be a suitable partner? Are you a teenager?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:53 PM
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the entire world is not owned by fugly entitled western crotch goblins, no matter how much they complain or try to convince you otherwise....
/r/MensRights19/12/23 04:31 PM
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Fair enough... but.... How is my opinion bizarre? Is this not obvious? Where are you from, exactly? Do you like having sex with people you're not attracted to? Have you ever travelled outside of your country? What do you mean by 2D graphing, are you refering to some statistics? Please, enlighten me......
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:32 PM
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It's all about perspective.... i'd say that most men and women in some nations like America, Mexico or England are unattractive....(mostly because of the huge obesity epidemic) i'd also say that most men and women in other countries like Estonia, Vietnam, Nigeria are actually quite the opposite. But that's just my opinion because I don't think fat people are physically attractive. Some do, but they seem to be a minority. As I mentioned in a previous post, in some places MOST people are out of sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:53 AM
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Sure! The term "passport bro" is really new, It was only popularized a couple of years ago. It's a childish label, in my opinion; Regardless, the hype is justified. How so? Shall I go into detail? Your opinion of women might change a lot (for the better) once you start living outside of western countries. Although That's an entirely different post that deserves some contemplation.... Otherwise.... The cultures out here are cooperative, family and community oriented, and open minded regarding oth…
/r/MensRights18/12/23 05:04 PM
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I'm a middle-aged bachelor, I moved to SE Asia about 5 years ago. Never been married, but have had a few long-term relationships. I notice that, in every country i have visited out here, every woman i meet who is single, 25-55 years old, (and looking for 'love') is also divorced and has at least one child. There's this cultural expectation that, were I to have a serious relationship with any of these women, (who are lovely, kind, gorgeous, and otherwise outstanding) I will be taking care of them…
/r/MensRights18/12/23 08:58 AM
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Dicken's Cider, a favorite fireplace draught amoungst my dear lady friends.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 01:04 PM
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Your attitude makes such a big difference. Thank you for your genuine concern, if everyone was as compassionate as you, i don't think western society would be in so much trouble. At this point, just bringing awareness to the public (without being vilified) is, I think, a good first step. But... honestly, I don't have enough faith in humanity to believe that anyone will care, but we have to try, right?! I'm also an advocate for the homeless (and have been homeless from time to time) .... i am gra…
/r/MensRights16/12/23 12:45 PM
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There was an " all - female " commune in Brazil i think.... with hundreds of women living there.... it was quite successful but after many many years the women decided to start accepting men, not because they needed our help but because too many ladies were lonely. Why the heck I didn't move there, I don't know. Sounds like either the best or the worst idea in the world but I can't tell which one it is.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 02:34 AM
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I want to believe most people can be smart independent thinkers, but when it comes to college these days, indoctrination is more important than knowledge and learning.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 02:18 AM
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How much have you traveled ourside of America? How would you define a 'regular American' as opposed to a 'regular' citizen from other countries? Sure, there are really well-rounded people everywhere, America included.... but stereotypes exist for a reason.....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:04 AM
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"Acrossed it" Our education system has failed us.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:29 AM
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The U.S. has such a brutally individualistic and materialistic culture, men and women are often bound to have some emotional baggage and trauma by the time that they reach adulthood... And these issues are never resolved because the resulting behavior is considered to be socially acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:59 PM
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the lady from r/sex says specifically " I don't want to be responsible for ruining his life " like it's totally OK to avoid any accountability for her actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:54 AM
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Source: trust me bro aka "our survey" I cannot believe that 30% of the couples are unhappy or 30% of the women in couples are unhappy with penis size. This is straight bs statistics. Also, why does it affect women more? this paragraph circumvents one letter. ​ "d" huh.... .... .......
/r/MensRights05/11/23 12:57 PM
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right on, good news. ​ hole night next time, a whole-some night.
/r/MensRights29/10/23 08:57 AM
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You were drugged?!! Oh, I'd be going back there again the next day, with my lawyer.
/r/MensRights29/10/23 07:32 AM
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As a woman, feeling sexy and attractive for my partner is paramount. I need to feel desired. If I see the slightest hint of lack of enthusiasm, I cut him off. I would never be in a relationship with a man who doesn't see me as his first choice. As a man, I resonate with this statement. If there is no mutual attraction and arousal, I'm not interested. Fuck all of the mind games, from both genders. Keep it real.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:02 PM
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assuming that you're correct.... ​ how did this situation develop? And why?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:51 PM
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No, I'm a frayed knot. I just turned 7 and a half, please on't make fun of me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:36 PM
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dude I'm so angry... I don't want a hug. Just put me in a head-lock and to sleep. Intentional astral projection. It's time that I finally confronted our reptilian overlords. wish me luck, homie.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:34 PM
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Exactly! Thanks for illustrating my thoughts in such an efficient way. You said it better than I.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:28 PM
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I guess that some people don't have any real world experience, and assume that what they read online is the same as what happens in the wild . A tragic mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:26 PM
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So I've noticed... hahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:23 PM
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I live in a community oriented country, Thailand. for better or worse....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:22 PM
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What makes you think the perspectives here are outlandish compared to the population at large? having lived in many countries / cultures in the east and west an observing the differences. Great response, thank you.... these are things we all need to be aware of when we put these studies under a microscope
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:15 PM
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yeah... that's all I'm tryin' to say, basically
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:09 PM
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that's actually a very good point. It sits nicely next to mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:22 AM
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please, sir / ma'am. Would you be so kind as to show me around? It's a bit messy in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:20 AM
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often, unfortunately, suicide.
/r/MensRights03/10/23 09:40 PM
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Bill Burr will never run out of material....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:10 PM
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yeah, fair enough. The USA has a "big" problem in every sense of the word
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:21 PM
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downvote this comment all you want.... It's your opinion and you're entitled to it. Where's the retort? Nobody has anything to say? Feedback?
/r/MensRights27/09/23 07:04 AM
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In response, she openly admits that she "slapped him on the shoulder," and then "yelled at him." Slapping someone on the shoulder is physical abuse. It is domestic violence. Yelling at someone is verbal abuse. It is domestic violence. dude, no. That is not domestic abuse. If she punched him in the face, ok, totally domestic abuse.... but the situation you describe is anything but that. what a dumb post. It makes me upset, because it paints a false narrative about domestic abuse at the hands of a…
/r/MensRights26/09/23 10:27 AM
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These women will defend any bad behavior. EVERY TIME. Huge unconscious in-group bias.
/r/MensRights24/09/23 01:43 AM
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damn, sick burn, homie.
/r/MensRights16/09/23 06:46 AM
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I could see this post as a good discussion on r/PurplePillDebate.
/r/MensRights12/09/23 10:05 PM
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can you elaborate?
/r/MensRights12/09/23 09:46 PM
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Yes! This should be obvious to most folks at this point.
/r/MensRights12/09/23 09:43 PM
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is a common experience for racial minorities who work in fields where they lack representation. As the only Asian writer in many rooms, I felt so alone, buckling under the pressure to represent my entire race and prove that I deserved a seat at the table—or a spot on that stage. Imagine being so insecure and xenophobic that you have to blame every issue you come across as an attack on one's gender / ethnicity / sexual orientation / religious persuasion / 2nd favorite color / unearned sense of en…
/r/MensRights12/09/23 09:42 PM
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I would never have such lack of self-respect and abysmal self-esteem to get into such a one-sided relationship to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:06 PM
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circular in a self-defeating kind of way..... ... like you can't get a job because you don't have a car ..and you can't buy a car unless you have a job.... Fuck it, I just walk everywhere, it's always worth the effort. Sometimes I get a taxi. It's cheap, since I don't have to pay for owning and maintaining a vehicle.
/r/MensRights12/09/23 08:22 PM
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It’s an easy, lazy retort I was going to say the same thing. Otherwise, how can people not realize that if you treat someone like an animal / enemy / cartoon character / outsider / etc... over time they will resemble (and resent) the sentiment? Is this not obvious? Or is everyone stupid? Or just selfish and shallow? Are these rhetorical questions? I want to know.....
/r/MensRights12/09/23 07:54 PM
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It's CNN.... fuck them.... we've been talking about this shit for 10-20 fucking years.... and like always, it's become such an issue that only NOW are the 'news' programs discussing them
/r/MensRights12/09/23 07:29 PM
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Imagine growing up with Leukemia, or Multiple-Sclerosis, knowing that women are disgusted by you because you exist and have a sex-drive. Can women still just slap the 'dirty incel' label on you?
/r/MensRights11/09/23 11:31 PM
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If the girl you are dating seems upset with you, she might just be hormonal because she's on her period. Suggest this to her. bonus: gently remind her that your ex-girlfriend never behaved as aggressively.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 01:21 PM
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You speak with such absolution, , like you've carved your belief-systems out of stone with a rusty spoon. Often, the ideas expressed on this sub are so specifically about western-american culture that I'm starting to wonder if you guys realize that the rest of the world exists, and that your cultural fixations only represent a small percentage (4.23%) of the world population.... ...and most folks from other parts of the world thinks you're bat-shit crazy It's as if you think everyone or every cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 10:11 PM
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And a lot of these ladies are so self-centered and immune to criticism that the irony would be completely lost on them. "They're just jealous because we're so hot and trendy".... ....no, Kayla, everyone just thinks you're a loud, rude, and insufferable bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:23 AM
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I agree. I find myself shaking my head sometimes and muttering "Some people's kids" under my breath...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:14 AM
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American women have a princess mentality in a harsh world and when they experience hostility fold or cry Because many of them were raised to believe that: 1) They have been and are oppressed forever, despite that American Women (as a group) are probably one of the most privileged groups in all of recorded history. 2) They are immune from any kind of criticism or accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:04 AM
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Sounds like she had her guard up at first. I get that sometimes... I sympathize with that kind of behavior, honestly.... A lot of guys AND gals don't care about pleasing their partner. It sounds like, once this girl realized that you were receptive to her sexual needs, she opened up to you a lot more. I can't blame anyone for being defensive like that. But now I'm just being presumptuous, like your gal. I getcha though.... that shit would rub me the wrong way too.....
/r/MensRights03/09/23 05:51 AM
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No surprise this is the top comment. It makes my point without so many words. Thanks for being Frank. haha.
/r/MensRights03/09/23 05:39 AM
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I moved a few years ago to a country where it's (unfortunately) considered to be shameful and taboo for women to masturbate, so a large percentage of women here never experiment with their own bodies and have no idea how to give themselves an orgasm.
/r/MensRights03/09/23 05:33 AM
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You make a good point. There are a lot of contributing factors, physical, psychological, pharma logical, societal, etc. that contribute to ones sexual nature.... ...good and bad... .... but there's a lot of bad shit out there.....
/r/MensRights03/09/23 05:28 AM
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Right?! I've dated a few girls like that. It's almost like they had the attitude that sex is just something a man does to a woman, and that's it..... I think a lot of it had to do with them being raised in a strict traditional and highly religious families.... but....of course this is just ANOTHER non-reciprocated expectation... Like i'm supposed to give my time, money, attention, love, and sex, and she's supposed to just lay back and receive everything? That shit gets old real quick
/r/MensRights30/08/23 03:53 AM
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"He cared a lot about people," he added. "He always greeted them with a smile and he was always a kind person to them." Perhaps he smiled and said hello to this young woman. I mean, a 60+ year old man being friendly with a 16 year old girl is basically sexual assault, right? I'm so fucking glad I moved to Thailand.... I live on a 'walking street' that has a lot of foot-traffic from locals and tourist alike. I'll just be sitting outside, enjoying the weather, and Thai women walking by will smile,…
/r/MensRights29/08/23 04:54 AM
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Everyone is different. Some women can orgasm quite easily, some women have tried and tried for years, but just can't. I don't appreciate your assumptions about me, it comes off as rude and condescending. If you feel the need to speak this way to a stranger, it says a lot more about you than it does about me.
/r/MensRights28/08/23 04:42 AM
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Can be any number of things from a lack of chemistry, to completely unrelated stress, to physical issues, you're jumping the gun in saying that many women are blaming others. Well obviously there can be all kinds of factors at play, like you mentioned...and obviously not everyone is like this, this is not a universal situation....... ....but as others in this thread have pointed out, it's just convenient and socially acceptable to place the burden of responsibility on the man alone.... and as us…
/r/MensRights28/08/23 04:35 AM
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I lived in Travis county, Texas, where it was (is?!) legal for women to walk around topless. My GF had amazing tits. I encouraged her to test it out. Some dude got in a car accident when she took a stroll around the neighborhood. I gave her a fist bump. On the flip-side: I dated a girl who worked with me in the construction industry; grunt-work, remodeling, tree-trimming, driving tractors..... she was fucking fit and feisty, and would run men (who doubted her because she was a female) in circles…
/r/MensRights18/08/23 04:03 PM
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What a cunt! please excuse my language. but while we are on such a topic, I'm compelled to compliment your writing skills. You have a natural talent for such things, homie. I'd love to hear what else you have to say.
/r/MensRights12/08/23 05:56 PM
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That's a bit weird... like ... "oh you look like the kind of man who plays video games but I'd rather put you into an over-played stereotype instead of actually bothering to treat you like an autonomous person" You could wave your arms around "I've never heard of Nintendo before!" but you're just a squirrel on a power line at that point. I know the struggle. And... I love Nintendo games. Fuck 'em
/r/MensRights12/08/23 01:50 AM
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I hear this sentiment sometimes that 'grown-ass men should not be playing video games' and just have to feel sorry for people who actually feel that way. I told my daughter when she was young that.... there are some things from our childhood that we should take with us into adulthood to be guarded and cherished! Like a sense of curiosity, and wonder, and creativity. And fuck anyone who tries to crush these important things to make themselves feel better about their miserable lives. She really to…
/r/MensRights11/08/23 12:14 PM
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I lived in the Philippines for a few months and was in culture shock over this topic. I go for long walks just to check out the community (I travel a lot) and was pleasantly surprised how kids and their parents reacted to me trudging through their neighborhood. Kids would smile and wave and come up to me, ask me where I was from, invite me to play basketball with them. If their parents were around, you could see how proud they were that their children were so kind and confident, and I'd stop and…
/r/MensRights11/08/23 12:05 PM
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I'm glad I don't live there anymore. ​ I used to take my daughter to the playground and would have to assert the fact that "Yes, I am her father" "Would you like to see my ID, ma'am?" fuck that.
/r/MensRights10/08/23 09:11 PM
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can you elaborate, please? Your comment is so vague, I have no idea what exactly you're referring to. ​ ETA: tell us how " can see why you would project this sentiment."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:52 AM
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I'd probably fall into this category of a "Passport Bro".... And I have to laugh at your statement because it's totally true. There's obviously a lot more nuance to it, but .... yeah... western men often get used for their money out in places like S.E. Asia a lot more than they would back in their home country. I see that happen a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:28 AM
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In a lot of cultures in South America, like in Columbia for example, the men can be really aggressive, arrogant, and 'machismo' .... and so many women are fucking sick of it.... ....and would rather have a partner who is kind, gentle, and humble. I think you'll do just fine over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:18 AM
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The vast majority of Americans never leave their country (aside from maybe a short trip to Canada or Mexico).... I've noticed that the Americans I meet while traveling abroad tend to be a lot .... different than your average American living state-side..... like more humble, kind, generous, open-minded, etc.... Just my personal observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:09 AM
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testosterone
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:44 AM
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No one would ever be allowed to make that movie... But it would be interesting to make a satire of the Barbie movie by reversing the gender dynamics.... People would flip the fuck out! On a side note, I recently watched a Thai movie (comedy) where the husband and wife are constantly beating the shit out of each other. They don't portray the man OR the woman as abusers, they make fun of them and diss their behavior quite equally. Domestic abuse is a big problem here in Thailand, but the culture a…
/r/MensRights05/08/23 02:57 AM
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you keep talking about guys who "get sex" as if it's something that comes out of a vending machine... actually, I DID. Are you here to debate, are you not paying attention, or are you just here to disagree with people for the fuck of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:58 PM
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you don't think that treating people like a consumable item that comes from a vending machine is 'shallow' ? Or did you not understand what I was talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 10:22 AM
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dating, relationships, appeal... which are the entire fucking themes of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:10 AM
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if you're attractive AND shallow enough, perhaps....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 10:28 AM
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Dude, this whole language you use is weird and ... quite telling... you keep talking about guys who "get sex" as if it's something that comes out of a vending machine... ...the other day I heard "asking a woman for sex" (on this sub) ... which is equally creepy. If these kinds of statements are any indication of your attitude, it's no wonder that you've had problems "getting" relationships. People generally don't appreciate being considered to be a material commodity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 08:42 AM
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Christ. When I was in my mid 20's, I was single for years, not for lack of trying. It took a while for me to understand.... asking myself "Why don't women want to be in a relationship with me?" as I was very physically attractive, had a steady job, a car, my own apartment, no debt, a very very rich social life, goals, talents, etcetera..... Why was I single for 5+ years? 1) I was autonomous, BUT POOR. 2) I was a fucking pushover Now I am in my early 40's..... and the difference is that: 1) I am …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 06:20 PM
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I would say to be aware that: "Almost everything society 'teaches' you are lies and manipulation tactics designed to indoctrinate you into a life of suffering and slavery." and that "One can find their own dignity and self-respect by becoming self-sufficient in a world that wants you to be dependent, and by actively, positively making the world a better place for everyone, in spite of the competitive dog-eat-dog nature of the world" ETA: I love such an open-ended, non-bias question. Thanks for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:28 PM
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The average American is fat, depressed, has financial problems and a few different personality disorders..... ....so yeah... I totally agree, but it's not just true for men.....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:16 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/Jokes/comments/157es0e/one_day_a_mother_sees_her_daughter_playing_with/ ​ It was a popular joke. At first it got a lot of downvotes, but over time.... hahaha. I tols ya I'd steal it. Thanks for such insightful humor, homie.
/r/MensRights24/07/23 04:00 AM
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Likewise! We all gotta stick together and help each other out. Even if it is only in Spirit
/r/MensRights24/07/23 03:42 AM
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Fuck that. I care. Your life experience validates mine. You deserve to be treated with respect
/r/MensRights24/07/23 02:50 AM
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aye! simply for being (born this way) (male/female/black/white/purple/straight/gay/trans/etc/etc/etc.....) I thought we got over this childish bullshit 60 years ago.
/r/MensRights24/07/23 02:44 AM
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it's sad but fascinating. Like watching a school bus of evil children catch on fire.....
/r/MensRights24/07/23 02:32 AM
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"The Crucifixion of Men" Damn..... I'm reeling because your metaphor seems way too accurate for me to be comfortable with.
/r/MensRights23/07/23 07:14 PM
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It helps to put this all to light and expose this kind of manipulative behavior.... regardless of who it came from. Sometimes, that's all we can do.
/r/MensRights23/07/23 02:46 PM
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I'm going to steal your joke... I hope you don't mind..... hahaha
/r/MensRights23/07/23 01:20 PM
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The same is true in reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 12:59 PM
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true.... now you are vilified BECAUSE of your depression.... as if that will help.... ETA: as if that would help ANYONE......
/r/MensRights23/07/23 12:51 PM
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For context.... r/feminism has 272k members. r/MensRights has 351k members. But... you know.... we are some fringe group while their 'movement' is ....."all around us".... Yeah, ok.... If you want to shit on everyone who's not in your 'ingroup' I'd consider it more of a 'bowel movement' than a socio-political one.
/r/MensRights23/07/23 11:06 AM
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but given the brainwashing people receive their whole life, they will believe the opposite is true, despite overwhelming evidence.
/r/MensRights23/07/23 10:41 AM
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Yes, exactly, there is a lot of double-speak, contradictions, and gaslighting in this particular department. What women actually want and what society SAYS what women want are at odds with each other..... and often people are so overwhelmed by this programing that they can't even understand the difference between the two, even if these concepts are competing inside their own heads.
/r/MensRights23/07/23 10:29 AM
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...and that their calls for help are largely ignored.
/r/MensRights23/07/23 10:23 AM
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Yes, OMG YES. Not just with asian women either. It's a totally different scene out here.
/r/MensRights28/06/23 12:12 PM
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And having visited america I can say that all the stereotypes dont even scratch the surface. I never seen someone so wide as an american woman i seen in texas. Hahaha.... yep..... I grew up in Texas, I know what you mean. On another note, I love the Brazilian attitude concerning sex an relationships; It's very openminded / natural / organic. It helps 1000% that Brazilian folks tend to be more physically active and more slim than their American counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 02:52 PM
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nearly 80% of men AND women in America are FAT and ugly. .... 80% of Americans ARE below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 12:00 PM
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do you have any other reference point besides some plastic "reality" TV bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:33 AM
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I admire your passion. thanks for being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:29 AM
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Ah, ok. If we have taken ourselves out of the dating pool, than this entire conversation is irrelevant. Happy Halloween.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 03:11 PM
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how do we know that they're not the same character?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 03:07 PM
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American women are pretty worthless in all aspects Damn, that's harsh. I wouldn't go that far.... It's just that, on average.... (that's crucial)..... .....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 03:05 PM
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Oh, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 02:49 PM
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I'm not really sure why so many here think that shaming women into lowering their standards is going to be a successful strategy. fuck my conclusion. It's irrelevant. What did you mean by this statement. Please share with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 02:47 PM
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Don't you have a pretty big sample bias? Yes. THAT"S MY POINT. I don't know how anyone can have a bigger sample size when it comes to face-to-face (NOT ON THE FUCKING INTERNET) conversations. For years. With men and women from every continent and socio-economic background. I'm getting tired of repeating myself. Have you ever lived for more than a month outside of your home country? Where are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 02:42 PM
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Yeah, there is that cultural meme that people think of when it comes to American culture. I love to play with it. I am not from America, but I grew up in Texas.. mostly. Sometimes folks ask me "Is it really like that in Texas? Guns, liquor, and cowboys?" I retort: "Yes, but only in small rural communities. And there are thousands of them. Folks still ride up to the drive-thru window on a horse with a pistol and a shotgun and pick up a few burgers and trot back to the ranch" ...and then I have to…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 02:12 PM
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"shaming women into lowering their standards" As if American women are by default BETTER than women from other countries. Is that what you mean? Please explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 02:02 PM
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All of your assumptions are false.... I'd 'assume' you'd get one detail right, out of pure luck... it's like you scored zero on a (4 answer) multiple-question test. keep talking, you're just making my point with every sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:58 PM
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I have never heard of this term before in my life. Ever. 'confirmation bias?' Obviously, I'm just pretentious and shallow, and so is everyone I talk to. Case closed, everyone can go home now guys! Thanks for enlightening us. Where did you say you are from?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:51 PM
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*arguably* as in, it's a close match. Yeah maybe. I'd add England and New Zealand. Anywhere suburban homogony is rampant.... Which is a lot of places....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:22 PM
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Not sure you could really label a whole gender of a country as better or worse. fair point, but... people DO sometimes. It comes up in conversation when folks from across the globe sit down and drink about it. This stereotype gets drudged up from many peoples lived experiences. from Men AND women, I should add. As I've mentioned elsewhere in this thread, American men don't have a good international reputation either.... it's just.... not as bad. ​ Now having an inflated sense of self-worth, with…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:17 PM
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It IS the case for Americans in general, yeah. But even more so for American women.....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 11:21 AM
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I've heard the women from his country complain that the men are entitled and ungrateful. yes. That's what my Thai friends tell me too. I agree. I specifically mentioned this in my main post. Did you read all of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 11:17 AM
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Sure kid. Have you ever actually lived in SE Asia, or are you going off of what you have been told? Have you ever lived in a different country besides.... *checks notes* ..... America?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 11:14 AM
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However, having been to America several times, having friends and family there and witnessing who the whole fucking country runs like a movie set, I would give a good level of trust to what I'm getting about American women on the media and through the internet. I laughed out loud. Thanks for that. That's a very clever statement, can I borrow it? ​ Of course, not all women are the same, but we all know what archetype of American women we are talking about here. Yes. So much so that it's essential…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 11:05 AM
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Yeah, a lot of people here in Chiang Mai will say the same thing (but not so loudly, just like what you were saying) The Americans show up and everyone plays along with their routine. ETA: clarity
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:59 AM
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yeah, fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:56 AM
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A few friends of mine are beautiful, intelligent, compassionate, and fucking rich. And American. sure.... But.... if you meet people from so many different countries all the time, you get a feel for it. The English have a really shitty international reputation too. (if you go by the stereotype) They're fine at home, but go ape-shit on holiday everywhere they go, beat people up, steal shit, break thing, fires, etc.... I seen it so many times. Stereotypes exist for a reason. They don't just materi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:54 AM
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well..... I disagree. Americans are widely regarded as being.... "widely regarded" both men and women, to be fair..... (National Obesity) ....Are not considered for their beauty, internationally speaking. And I don't think just existing (being fertile) is enough for most... people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:48 AM
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while I agree with what you say, I can also see how your words are a defense mechanism, and how they avoid the entirety of the main post. This just makes my case more solid in my "fabled" over-there-ness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:40 AM
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Thanks for your courteous reply. ​ How Asian men view attractiveness are often more about races than nationality. Would you mind explaining this a bit more? I'm just curious. personally, I'm a lot more interested in someone's cultural values that their specific ethnicity / genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:34 AM
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I think these guys are probably judging on a stereotype rather than actual interactions with American women sometimes that stereotype comes into play, but I'm referring to dozens of conversations of people's personal experiences.... from literally all over the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:21 AM
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how much were those views influenced by TV and social media? That's a great question, and one that we should all be asking ourselves as well. How much influence does the international media have? (a lot).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 09:28 AM
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I enjoy cooking too.... art and science. I love to feed my friends and family; I get personal satisfaction from creating something that other people can enjoy. Unlike this other fat-ass ungrateful person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 09:47 PM
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to be fair.... the idea of being "fat" or "overweight" is relative...... In your neighborhood, you are at an average weight. In my hood, you would... "stick out" a bit more. More cushion for the pushin' honey, I can understand the hype. I'll take your word for it and assume you're "bangin'" like you said. I like your self-confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:48 PM
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Who WANTS to cook or clean. I do feel very lucky to have a partner who enjoys cooking. 😉 you mean 'pretends' to enjoy cooking, right? After all, who actually WANTS to cook?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:31 PM
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I'm 5'4 and 170 lbs I'm not fat You're delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:27 PM
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I don't need luck, I have everything else, like morals, integrity, and self-sufficiency. And I'm not fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:21 PM
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Will you be in a relationship or single by 2030? It's only 7 years from now. I want to die alone. I hope the entire human species gets scrubbed off the surface of this shit-hole-prison -planet and permanently avoid you fat, lazy question-less snatch-goblins.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:06 PM
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I'm getting older and my balls are hanging. "I don't want to cook or clean" because you're a parasite.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:52 PM
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And yes, I don't want to cook or clean. My partner does most the cooking, and we share the cleaning. So you got me there ​ So you don't clean up after yourself and you couldn't be bothered to learn how to feed yourself... and you just expect everyone else to do it for you? Your height / weight ratio makes sense all of a sudden.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:40 PM
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The average American woman 20 years old and up weighs 170.6 pounds and stands at 63.7 inches (almost 5 feet, 4 inches) tall. ​ What the fuck? ​ The average American man 20 years old and up weighs 197.9 pounds . The average waist circumference is 40.2 inches, and the average height is just over 5 feet 9 inches (about 69.1 inches) tall. ​ Are you serious? the "average'? I'll give your fatt ass a forklift ride to the local slop-house for 20 dollars / mile.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:31 PM
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I know this couple down the street; husband is 6 foot 5, very handsome but has the same kind of social awareness as a rusty left-handed thumb-tack. His wife is 5 foot tall and 3 feet wide. If you put them together, they resemble either the number 10, or the number 01. They 'secretly' hate each other and talk mad shit about each other (when either the 1 or the 0 is out of ear-shot) ​ We all want to ask him "how did you end up with this fake-sugary, demanding, passive aggressive fat-ass pill-bug" …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:23 PM
2

the "divide and conquer" principal is being weaponized against the public because it has been a successful tactic for hundreds of years..... And people are dumb, ignorant and brainwashed enough that they are unaware that their opinions and ideas are factory produced cookie-cutter unoriginal cult / religious / nationalistic vomit.
/r/MensRights10/06/23 03:23 PM
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Just my personal opinion.... I'd say that the lady pictured is slightly overweight, but just has a wider frame and bigger skeletal structure than the average person.... She wears that little extra weight quite well though, It's cute, suggestive ..... I can understand the appeal, but it's not my style; I am 6 feet tall, 168 pounds, and the width of my hips is about as wide as her left butt cheek. I prefer women who ae closer to my build / frame / proportions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:14 PM
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The whole incel witch-hunt is a great public distraction to keep attention away from state-sponsored pedophilia and human-trafficking rings.
/r/MensRights08/06/23 08:10 AM
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For example, women are paid less than men for doing the same job. This statement might be misleading. in which country? Turkmenistan? In America for example, this is illegal. ​ ETA: holy shit I hadn't even gotten to the second part about MRA's.
/r/MensRights02/06/23 05:21 AM
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so then, if a man is financially dependent on a woman he doesn’t love he’s completely justified in cheating as well, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:30 PM
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What these same people fail to realize is that this ends up hurting women that are “average” as well. Men have been lamenting on this point for decades. Nobody listened. In fact, the dudes who made the same point were vilified and ostracized. ​ So... what.... now you want to talk about it because it affects you, personally? Fuck outta here......
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:14 AM
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It was never about equality.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 09:18 AM
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Great Post, homie. I can relate. In public, sometimes women are intimidated by my physical appearance..... I have a bit of a 'feral' look; tall, fit, dreadlocks, beard, hobo-sexual kina vibe. If they happen to get into a conversation with me, my personality throws 'em off. It's not what you would expect from my style or demeanor. I get emotional (in a good way) sometimes when a song or a movie moves me. I get this reaction, like... "OMG, are you... are you crying?" "Yes, I am crying. This is bea…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 09:17 AM
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I could travel the world, if the world wasn't on fire and my country wasn't holding the gas can. I had a chuckle reading this, some poetic truth. I left America for SE Asia about 4 years ago, and for me it was the best move I ever made. Settled in Thailand. Folks here don't really care where you come from, Thailand is a very neutral country, politically speaking. And the locals really like American culture (politics aside). I recommend coming out for a visit. Plane tickets aside, it's extremely …
/r/MensRights19/05/23 06:40 AM
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men have more localized logical capabilities which is one of the reasons women and men compliment each other so well. Well said. Logic / Intuition is a potent mix.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 05:22 PM
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Canada doesn't care how many people get raped and killed in China..... if it doesn't suit their agenda. Canada doesn't care about the raping and murdering of their own indigenous population, because it doesn't fit their agenda.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 09:17 PM
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no.... you didn't.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 09:02 PM
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yes. ​ oh... you haven't noticed the laws they are passing in Canada?
/r/MensRights11/04/23 09:00 PM
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The West, specifically America, knows how to spread a mind-virus or two around the globe...... Feminism being one of them. Good to hear that you folks in Ch are not so foolish.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 08:30 PM
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I understand. We have the same problems everywhere in the world, it seems.... When our governments don't let us speak freely about their abuse, we have a lot of problems Like in Canada, China, Cuba.... you will find laws that prevent people from living and speaking freely.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 07:53 PM
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which one? I can think of a few....
/r/MensRights11/04/23 07:40 PM
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no, it's cool.... "Affirmative Action" ! "Equity" ! it's only fair...... right? hahaha.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 07:29 PM
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Guilty until proven innocent. Justice surely is blind. I'm sorry your family has to go through this bullshit.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 07:20 PM
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THIS RIGHT HERE is why it's a good idea to keep a record of these kinds of dangerous and manipulative situations. A fellow posted this yesterday. (the day after OP's post) If he had recorded the interaction, he would have saved at least 50,000 dollars and years of utter hell and stress. We all really need to be careful with who we choose to trust, especially when it comes to romantic relationships. I sure do, anyway. Cheers mate!
/r/MensRights03/04/23 12:15 PM
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Likewise, homie!
/r/MensRights02/04/23 08:23 AM
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Welcome! You're making platonic friends with some girls at school, shouldn't be anything to be stressed about. That's awesome, actually. Something to feel good about. It sounds like you expressed your boundaries (by telling her that you are asexual) ...... and she is reacting out of jealousy (by lying to people in order to hurt your reputation) because she has romantic feelings for you. rough situation for sure.... but it's not your problem...... As other Redditors have suggested, I'd just ignor…
/r/MensRights02/04/23 07:55 AM
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right.... so you can expect that sort of behaviour from her in the future as well. And so can everyone else who is unfortunate enough to interact with her. People like that should be exposed and ostracized. Unfortuately, this kind of behaviour is often given a free pass in today's western societies, when it comes from women. (and men too, but I'd say to a lesser degree) You seem to be handling the situation very gracefully.... ...although it's like running a marathon through quicksand... best of…
/r/MensRights02/04/23 07:37 AM
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You're a wise lad to do so..... You never know..... The old-timers were right: "Hell hath no fury like the scorn of a woman" I've had more than one woman make false allegations against me because I didn't like her company..... .....and having solid evidence (backing up / saving conversations) has helped me prove my innocence before. hats off to you, sir.
/r/MensRights02/04/23 07:25 AM
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Sorry, Mate. Yes, you should be concerned. Yes, the kind of behavior she's presenting is selfish, childish, and unnecessary. Yes, sometimes grown women 2-5 times your age still act like this. No, there's not a whole lot you can do about it, accept avoid her (which is the last thing she wants and might exacerbate her ill-behaviour.)
/r/MensRights02/04/23 07:16 AM
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The most honest women I know are all prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:14 AM
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Eloquently said.... made me laugh. I have to agree with you. "Incel" has become such a tired and baseless insult, that just uttering the word in such a fashion really indicates how many brain cells are still floating around someone's head.
/r/MensRights20/03/23 10:53 AM
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that gut reaction / instinct is there for a good fucking reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:49 AM
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'society' has nothing good in store for these young men. Just a life of servitude. No gratitude, just animosity and hatefulness. Why contribute to a culture that hates you, wants you to suffer, wants you to die, and won't offer you anything in return?? If these kids get so disillusioned that they walk away, can you really fucking blame them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:39 PM
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I reluctantly agree. Who downvoted you? Is that too much to fit in your head?
/r/MensRights16/03/23 10:28 PM
1

fucking predictable.
/r/MensRights16/03/23 10:25 PM
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My advice would break reddit's policies. ​ but I'll try.... If anyone picks on you physically speaking, break their arm, or their jaw, their leg, or snap their wrist. Put them in the hospital. People won't fuck with you if you fight back. Do it hard. Don't put so much weight on what other people think of you. What you think about yourself is infinitely more important. If there are values in your society / culture that doesn't serve you (or your loved ones), reject them, and make your own values.…
/r/MensRights16/03/23 09:45 PM
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r/HOMELESS
/r/MensRights15/03/23 05:52 PM
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sounds about right. add in a sedentary lifestyle into the mix and stick that in the oven while you're at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:45 PM
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My score was 19% If I took out the "no overweight or obese" factor it shoots up to 62% Damn, how did all you American ladies get so fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:50 AM
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Of course they will miss the point. I don't think any of us will be shocked, either.
/r/MensRights12/03/23 10:38 AM
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If she could queef something as complex as the star-spangled banner, I'd for once consider her a talented entertainer.
/r/MensRights09/03/23 09:07 AM
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TEACHING! (as someone mentioned) It's THE most important job there is. and..... The youth needs more positive male role models.
/r/MensRights06/03/23 11:54 AM
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Thanks for the link, Brotha. More horror / nonfiction, haha.
/r/MensRights06/03/23 10:00 AM
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nice catch-phrase. Did you think of it yourself?
/r/MensRights02/03/23 06:05 PM
1

Oh... you're an English girl......... how predictable....
/r/MensRights02/03/23 05:50 PM
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go grow a backbone. And stay in your country.
/r/MensRights02/03/23 05:03 PM
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Offensive to you. Hirarious to everyone else. Good luck to you.
/r/MensRights02/03/23 03:55 PM
1

What dots am I having trouble connecting? What makes you feel so bothered by my perspective? And how does being a technology consultant give you a perspective on this issue ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:38 PM
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I've lived in many different countries... Africa, North and South America, Asia, not enough of Europe.... There are so many different cultural perspectives concerning sex and relationships.... I ask you again, where have you lived? get out of your city, state, country, and your tiny point of view might expand.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:34 PM
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hahaha.... I'd say.... western women, in varying degrees. American and UK women have the worst reputation. Germany is not far down on the list. I tend to shy away from French women for the same reasons... But to be fair, there are plenty of countries that I would avoid in the dating market if I was a woman..... like Italy... or Morrocco.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:56 PM
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Yeah, that was largely my experience too, until I moved away from America. Ok so fair enough, most American women I've ever met are like that, but most women (globally speaking) are not like that at all. America is only 5% of the world population, but an extreme example of entitled behavior and perspective. Most of the world can see that the whole country has lost its collective mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:41 PM
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that's a bit vague. "Closeness" ? how do you define that? What else do people get in a relationship for? oh, yeah... money. right? what else?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:22 PM
1

But men basically don't want much else other than sex. Do you really think so? Men don't want companionship? Men don't want to have children? Maybe you don't want much else from the opposite sex, but most other men and women do. Where do you live? Have you ever lived elsewhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:10 PM
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😂. Nope. But cool story Is that all you can muster? What countries have you lived in? Don't embarrass yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:06 PM
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"Men only want sex..." Men want sex just as much as women do. All of these people who say "Men are much hornier than women" live in very small social bubbles and can't comprehend what the other 95% of human experience is like. Sure, your personal experience might tell a different story.... but if you move outside of your social circle / city / country and look at this from a global perspective, these claims tend to hold a lot less weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:06 AM
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go watch an average Japanese game show and prepare to get offended.......
/r/MensRights02/03/23 09:21 AM
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you guys both have a really good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:09 AM
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I had to look after our second child because she couldn't bond with him after the birth, and because she really disliked being a stay at home mother the first time around, and she said she couldn't do it again. wait...... WHAT?! "I didn't enjoy taking care of our first child, but let's have another one anyway, and by the way, you have to take care of it, because I don't want to do it." is what I just heard. It doesn't seem like she thinks anyone else in your family is important except for her. ​…
/r/MensRights23/02/23 12:37 AM
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I like to argue that almost everything about modern western culture has been fabricated by marketing agencies and government run cultural indoctrination programs. It's getting harder and harder to find people with authentic ideas and perspectives.
/r/MensRights13/02/23 02:37 PM
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In this way, people can set themselves up in a win-win situation to avoid any embarrassment or bruised egos...... to the detriment of the other party. It's a defense mechanism for people with low self-esteem. Keep in mind, ***this kind of behavior is not exclusive to women*** although (in my opinion) it's probably a lot more common with women (in some western cultures) because of the way (western) society is structured.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 01:22 PM
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What would come to mind and how would you feel if someone tried to convince you to "just turn straight?"
/r/MensRights12/02/23 02:37 PM
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maybe? I've never heard the term used in that context before. Perhaps "Social Conditioning" is a better term. Or even "Psy-Op"
/r/MensRights12/02/23 11:59 AM
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In 2 words? "Social Engineering"
/r/MensRights12/02/23 11:37 AM
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99 participants is a really small control group. Make it bigger. I bet you'd still get the same results.... but it would be more credible to the indoctrinated masses.
/r/MensRights09/02/23 04:08 PM
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Dude, come the fuck on. It's just HUMAN NATURE to use stereotypes, and sometimes it's not a good idea to paint any individual person into a corner... I'm merely pointing that out. It's called "self-awareness"
/r/MensRights09/02/23 11:56 AM
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It's a big problem everywhere. Especially on the internet. Even more especially on Reddit. I see all kinds of blanket statements being made here, (although maybe not quite as much), just as anywhere else. I think we should all be aware of this.
/r/MensRights09/02/23 11:45 AM
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Yeah it IS a big problem. We all need to denounce these kinds of generalizations, it doesn't help anyone.
/r/MensRights09/02/23 07:13 AM
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You and me both. Same sub.
/r/MensRights08/02/23 04:22 PM
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She froze up because you were using logic. I think it's funny. Good job, OP!
/r/MensRights08/02/23 04:18 PM
1

I almost wanted to point this out, but hesitated. I'm glad you did. It's OBVIOUS, in'nit?
/r/MensRights08/02/23 12:49 PM
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Some Psychologists are starting to suggest that Narcissistic Personality Disorder has SKYROCKETED 10-fold from 1-2% of the population to 10-20%+ in the last 20 years or so in America. It sure seems like it.
/r/MensRights08/02/23 12:46 PM
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I’ve never had anyone say that That's the problem. Do you feel appreciated? Well, YOU FUCKING SHOULD. You certainly have my respect, sir.
/r/MensRights07/02/23 05:42 PM
5

"pinned by Moderators" just says so much about western society. Because we can't express this enough, considering the level of brainwashing going on right now. Hay Nako...... best of luck, fellas!!
/r/MensRights07/02/23 09:47 AM
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This is relevant for me. when life gets really rough for me personally, I don't get sad, it doesn't make me want to cry.... ...It makes me fucking angry. That's always my gut reaction. however, man..... I'm such a softie sometimes when it comes to family, and love, and sentimentality, and I'll be cryin' over some cheesy feel-good type of shit without much provocation. So, these days I have a really sweet and emotionally mature GF who shares this sort of vibe. Last night I showed her an interview…
/r/MensRights07/02/23 09:42 AM
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That's fucking sad and tragic, man. Props to you sir, for actually giving a fuck about your sister. Damn.....
/r/MensRights07/02/23 09:21 AM
1

When people fish they do that where fish are. If they look in the water and it's just plastic fishing lures that people left there, they are not going to fish there because they can't eat those. That's a really clever and accurate analogy. I laughed out loud. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:14 AM
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Is this some kind of "Buy American!" shaming campaign? Yes. That's hilarious! Because it's true. "If you're not buying 'American', you're buying an inferior product!" seems to be a common sentiment... When in reality, America has the absolute WORST to offer, comparatively speaking. American women have a really awful worldwide reputation, and from my experience, it's generally well-deserved.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:24 AM
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I moved away from the west about 4 years ago, and the difference in how I was / am treated by women (Like ALL women, not just the locals) was immediate and PROFOUND. There's literally NOTHING DIFFERENT about me, but the difference in attitude and perception that women have towards me is insane! Guys, if you live in a country like America, England, Australia, Canada, or New Zealand, I highly recommend checking out ANY other culture, and you will be pleasantly surprised that women will treat you w…
/r/AntiFeminists07/02/23 04:26 AM
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Do lesbians open doors on dates to assert dominance? Hahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:15 AM
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Sshhh!!! It's socially unacceptable to point this out. (insert stereotypical insult)
/r/MensRights03/02/23 11:40 AM
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I love the pink placard. Do they have a water fountain, at least? I hope nobody minds if I *zip* Haha.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 05:41 PM
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How convenient.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 11:56 AM
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Yeah, I agree. It also makes sense that a man is going to know his own body more than a woman "going at it" for the first time. The issue is when the woman doesn’t bother to learn how to make the experience good for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:49 PM
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Is that so? hahaha. I didn't realize that it was some sort of contest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:16 PM
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If you don't know how to give yourself an orgasm, how to expect someone else to?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:22 PM
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I totally hear you... I'm behind you 100%, but at the same time, I totally disagree. haha. Some games can only be won if you refuse to play in the first place. Many of you guys would cross the street to avoid passing me on the sidewalk, if you saw me waltzing around.. . I live on the fringes... I make very, very little money. I have absolutely no worldly ambition. I look and smell like a caveman. My lifestyle is erratic and unhealthy. I despise modern culture and generally avoid people. But inex…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 09:14 AM
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kuddos, man! That's such a sweet way to handle the situation.
/r/MensRights30/01/23 07:57 AM
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oh, the Mods, the Moderators here on PPD. I was just joking though. They deleted this thread shortly after your insightful comment. But that was just a coincidence..... I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:15 AM
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yes, millions of people are thinking this way.... compared to the BILLIONS of people who are NOT. As in, a very small percentage. How many different parts of the world have you lived in?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:42 PM
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I'm just joking. Self-depreciating humour. It's a British thing. ​ Mom says she's always had one.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 10:35 PM
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Oh, is this guy a friend of yours? Dude, I didn't even know vaginas got that old. I'll ask my mom how long she's had one. ​ yo, ma!!!
/r/MensRights28/01/23 10:30 PM
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Yep. Well, at least some people can see through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:26 PM
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It's free entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:25 PM
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Dude, you scared the MODs, haha. props.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:24 PM
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Well, that's kind of my point. Going offline, people don't act the same way. Leave your hometown, people don't always act that way. leave your home country, people don't always act that way. The kind of behavior you see online or in your community or even in your country is a tiny fraction of a perception compared to .... like everything else in the world. People tend to not realize that, and have this false idea that everyone in the world thinks the same way that they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:17 PM
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Some countries consider it a crisis, because of rapid declines in birth-rates. Not only are folks opting out of marriage and kids, the global fertility rate is also plummeting. This has dramatic negative implications for future generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:07 PM
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Yep. Too much coffee and ran out of popcorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:02 PM
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The reason people here struggle is that they are socially isolated That's quite profound. I'd say that's universally true. Here it's just more obvious, given the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:00 PM
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OK, a home birth is a hard act to follow..... but you gotta parade the baby around with the placenta still attached for extra shock-value. And then I might have to agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:57 PM
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maybe, but men are way grosser. Proudly said.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:43 PM
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The fact you don't even know proves my point. I'm well aware... and I totally agree it is a crisis. Sorry for the questions, I'm just playing the devil's advocate. What is the common denominator with the countries that are struggling the most with these issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:41 PM
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I'd call it "cultural tunnel vision" A common misconception that the rest of the world has the same attitude, perspective, etc... than the one you happen to have been brought up in. Well, it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:35 PM
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35% of men are sexless like worldwide or just where you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:28 PM
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Hahaha. I can't even tell if your serious, or just playing along. Either way, I love it!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:27 PM
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Your culture is quite likely dysfunctional and mentally ill, even more so than the world at large... What is considered acceptable normal behavior in your society is probably anything but... Abandon all logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:53 PM
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Dude, leave. Don't waste your time with women who want to fuck your head up with childish mind games that only benefits her sense of insecurity. Some games can only be won by not playing to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:37 PM
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Today I saw the results of this survey where 61% of American women identified as Feminists. Does this seem accurate to you guys? I'm skeptical. Damn. I don't know, I moved to Asia a few years ago. All I know about the west these days come from other people's experiences. Most women in my hood have either never heard of feminism (local folks) or they recognize it for the extremist movement it's become. (the local expats). ETA: I hear that South Korea is going through a massive social upheaval wit…
/r/MensRights28/01/23 03:13 PM
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Dude that's some cold wit. Thanks for the laugh.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 04:51 AM
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testicular fortitude I love this phrase. Yeah, genuine confidence makes a helluva difference for guys when looking for a mate, of course. I've also noticed that genuine apathy does as well. Once you really, honestly don't care anymore, and have absolutely no interest in dating or finding a partner, women will often be more drawn to you. The psychology of it is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 04:30 AM
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Are you sure she was really crying? Or was she faking it to gain your sympathy? Some people's dignity has a low price.
/r/MensRights25/01/23 10:29 AM
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I totally disagree with your sentiment. This is not a gender issue at all, why make it one? Both men and women get used and abused by big companies. If you get pregnant, or your house burns down, or if your child dies, companies will consider you a liability and "let you go" It's a big problem, but I don't think it has anything to do with female entitlement.
/r/MensRights24/01/23 04:19 PM
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Those broke 'Chads' are bringing something desirable with their 'Chadness'. Having money can only get anyone so far in life. I've seen (rarely) some ugly broke 'Chads'. What do they have that makes them so attractive? Ultimately, it's self-confidence; Which usually doesn't come to people if they don't have SOMETHING to be confident about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:36 PM
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As a disgruntled societal dropout (43, M) I wholeheartedly agree with your historical evaluation and sentiment. "What can I bring into this relationship" should be the FIRST question ANYONE asks themselves. when they begin a serious partnership.... But these days most people DON'T EVEN THINK about what they have to offer, only WHAT THEY CAN GET. This is a fundamental problem in the dumpster fire we call 'western society'. I can hardly think of anything clever to add, your post is so good.... I t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:45 PM
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Because everyone has Narcissistic Personality Disorder these days.
/r/MensRights24/01/23 06:47 AM
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"lowkey"? You're being generous.
/r/AntiFeminists16/01/23 10:21 PM
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The more independent a guy is (especially on an emotional level), the less time he is willing to compromise, which leaves women feeling less-than desired, and on some dumb fake-psy level the guy seems more attractive and worth pursuing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:40 PM
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Not a mom here but a Dad saying Fuck yeah! it's your own body, you can do whatever you want with it , Fuck what other people think.
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 09:32 PM
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r/latestagecapitalism
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:47 PM
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Because it's not good for anyone to make negative assumptions about a total stranger. I always try to give people I don't know the benefit of the doubt, and a certain level of respect.
/r/MensRights26/12/22 04:57 PM
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Dude, what do you mean "my type?" What's with the big assumption, you don't know anything about me? I said I dated Thai women, that doesn't mean I'm trying to take advantage of anyone. Your comments say a lot more about you than they do about me.
/r/MensRights26/12/22 03:27 PM
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how so?
/r/MensRights26/12/22 02:25 AM
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I'm being satirical. If I was serious, my parents might be related! Hahaha dude, that's such a great retort. Mind if I borrow it? Can you post my bail next week? Haha thanks for the awesome comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:54 AM
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Dude, no. Women are genetically incapable of immorality. Didn't they teach you anything in primary / elementary school?! There are a lot of idiot men who can't understand this absolute, even after a university education!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 08:33 PM
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The police will say "I was in fear of my life" as they murder an unarmed suspect who was running away in terror from being murdered or locked in a cage for an indefinite period of time. We give women the same benefit of the doubt in western society. You could verbally, physically, and sexually assault a man, then call the police, haha, and have him arrested even if you are the perpetrator and predator. No questions asked, despite often overwhelming evidence, the man goes to jail almost every tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 08:06 PM
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In another country, where they take marriage, family and adultery seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:45 PM
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It depends on who you ask.... but there are definitely a lot of Asian women I know who exclusively date western men. For a lot of reasons.... a lot of them are disillusioned by the traditional over-masculine conservative wife beater (it's a stereotype for a reason) and want a guy who - -really appreciates them. -And is wealthy. - And Attractive. -With a big dick. ​ well, gentleman, I'm not rich... but I'm at 75% so I've had some success. Plot twist though...: I dated a lot of Thai girls (Tigers)…
/r/MensRights24/12/22 07:28 PM
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It's funny to me that you actually need to provide empirical evidence to point out the obvious (I live in Asia) People won't believe you... or if they do they'll make defensive excuses as to why they don't like it. But It's true.... Asian women fetishize western men just as much as the other way around.
/r/MensRights24/12/22 06:25 PM
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It's funny to me that you actually need to provide empirical evidence to point out the obvious (I live in Asia) People won't believe you... or if they do they'll make defensive excuses as to why they don't like it. But It's true.... Asian women fetishize western men just as much as the other way around.
/r/MensRights24/12/22 06:23 PM
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The fact that she committed these crimes, confesses to them, and IS NOT HELD ACCOUTABLE is unremarkable. What really upsets me is the "You Go Girl!" attitude, women laugh as if drugging and robbing someone who is interested in you is something to be celebrated.
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 12:57 PM
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They're fierce independent queens until the boat starts to sink, then all of a sudden its 'women and children first'
/r/AntiFeminists17/12/22 06:56 AM
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makes sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:51 AM
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well, maybe not directly, but... sex is an implied part of the marriage agreement. And these days, there are plenty of financial stipulations involved... Money is one of the biggest factors as to why people get married and divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:42 AM
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Isn't a marriage contract kinda the same thing, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:25 AM
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I don't disagree with you. I can understand the idea that sex is a form of intimacy that is sacred, and that adding a monetary value to it is spiritually offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:23 AM
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It makes sense to me as well, which would be a good reason to be morally opposed to prostitution. ​ as most women who do have choice aren’t willing to perform this kind of “job” I have a few friends who are sex workers. They mostly have middle-class day jobs and just do it as a side gig for fun / extra cash; They never go with a customer if they aren't attracted to them or don't feel like having sex. But that's just a personal anecdote; You raise a good question. How many women and men have abso…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:16 AM
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I agree ... we have a long way to go too. and closer to the topic at hand, we have a widespread sex-slave industry that needs to be torn apart. Do you think making prostitution legal (or illegal) would help it become less of a problem? Actually, here... I found a study that shows a strong correlation between legalized prostitution and human trafficking: https://orgs.law.harvard.edu/lids/2014/06/12/does-legalized-prostitution-increase-human-trafficking/ https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abs…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:38 AM
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Fair point. As a tangent: imagine if people were willing to destroy or even boycott companies like Nike and Nestle for their use of child slave labor. It's pretty much public knowledge at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:53 AM
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yes, that's what having a job is like. We do things we don't want to do in exchange for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:49 AM
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how can someone buy or sell consent? That seems like a contradiction. I'm not really sure what you mean.... Prostitution without consent is not prostitution, it's sex-slavery.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:42 AM
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what do you find immoral about prostitution (as long as it's safe and consensual)? Do you find trading money for sex immoral in itself, or is there more to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:23 AM
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I never said I was ok with anything, I just think it's an interesting topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:52 AM
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but buying sex shows a certain lack of empathy and morals which is a turn off in itself. how so? Does selling sex also indicate a lack of empathy or morals?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:38 AM
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Yeah, I really find the whole cat and mouse game to be childish. When girls approach me, I always admire them for having the confidence and charisma to do so, even if I'm not interested in them.
/r/MensRights12/12/22 02:34 AM
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I love the title of your post, why all of the downvotes? I feel like this is actually a great metaphor for today's day and age when literally EVERYTHING has been commoditized, ESPECIALLY the commodification of love, sex, and family. So sure, we all have a right and reason to be salty about such an observation / situation... ...but... ....dude, this idea is good stand-up comedy material to toy with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:58 AM
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I am one of those men who emigrated out East. I moved from the U.S. to Thailand a few years ago. Every day I feel grateful for being here, for a lot of reasons.... especially after hearing from all of my friends about how everything is going back in America. The difference in the women here are a big example of why I don't want to go back to the States. They are generally very feminine, kind, laid back, and way less defensive. When they have a partner, they really go out of their way to please t…
/r/MensRights11/12/22 11:33 AM
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A significant portion of the women who say they "want a REAL man" are about as feminine as an Apache attack helicopter. If you try to make them aware of that, their reaction will further prove your point.
/r/MensRights11/12/22 08:24 AM
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If she expects her crush to conform to traditional stereotypes, she had better be prepared to do the same.
/r/MensRights11/12/22 07:54 AM
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This is a really great rundown of the situation. I've looked at a lot of the same data and come to the same conclusions.... Not to mention a lifetime of personal experiences to back it up.
/r/MensRights08/12/22 08:25 AM
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Almost as if they just read / heard "Domestic Violence" and just automatically assumed that you were the perpetrator without bothering to look at any of the details.
/r/MensRights08/12/22 08:18 AM
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In America, it's just about standard operating procedure to arrest the male, regardless of the circumstances. I hear this story soooo many times: wife/GF punches husband/BF in the face, boyfriend calls the police.... police come, BF has a black eye, GF has no visible injuries whatsoever, claims the man started it, and the man goes to jail and is charged with assault or DV with absolutely no evidence.
/r/MensRights07/12/22 07:27 AM
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You could be good looking, kind, smart, funny.... but if you are poor, those things barely even matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 02:03 AM
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our personal day of emancipation To coin the term "Mancipation Day" Best of luck, gentlemen!
/r/MensRights04/12/22 06:49 AM
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A lot of them decide to retire early. ​ if you know what I mean......
/r/MensRights29/11/22 07:34 PM
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I think most folks would rather date a man or woman who can provide for themself. Wouldn't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:28 PM
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Naw, lady, you just gettin' started. I got friends over 50 who are still *hot* and rockin' it like they were, well, your age. There are a lot of guys who won't date anyone UNDER 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:46 AM
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Not that this is by any means equivalent, but... Imagine a man explaining to a woman that he will not spend any money on her while they are dating until he is sure that "She's the right one" and "Doesn't just want me for my money" Imagine the indignation and outrage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:34 AM
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I just wish people would debate instead of arguing and try to learn something instead of trying to be right or prove someone else is wrong... Which is why I don't like talking to 3rd and 4th wave feminists.
/r/MensRights29/11/22 07:02 AM
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That IS a rather clever insult, haha. Kind of a waste of creativity though, like, come on, can't we have a logical discussion without resorting to such blatant derailing, dismissiveness, and combativeness?
/r/MensRights29/11/22 01:58 AM
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Most people (including Feminists) have been indoctrinated into belief systems that were not willingly adopted, but coerced. Over a few generations, in most cases. Most people's value systems have been twisted around to favor their in-group, and they don't even realize it. Best of luck.
/r/MensRights27/11/22 11:03 AM
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Well, I misunderstood the point of this post, so... please forgive my obtuse interpretation. But I'll throw in a couple bucks to the debate while I'm here: I believe that trust is something to be earned (and taken away), but respect should always be given (unless it's not reciprocated) I don't buy into the blue / red pill dichotomy, and I'm nearly sure that most of these dualistic ways of thinking are the result of generations of social programming that (otherwise) innocent people have been suck…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 08:29 AM
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but nevermind, you're talking about trust... whole other issue. My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:04 AM
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It means that in prison, if you are impolite and don't give other people respect (that you have and have never met before), you're eventually going to get beaten up. I take this idea to the outside world. I think it's good to give everyone the benefit of the doubt, and that everyone is worthy of respect unless they explicitly prove themselves otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:02 AM
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People who say that respect is to be earned and not given have never been to prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 04:35 AM
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Try telling your adult offspring that they only exist because Mom was so enthusiastic about having children, that she poked holes in the condom, since Dad never wanted to have kids but she liked his genetics and family money.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:13 PM
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I'm sure 95% of the guys on here would agree with you. The other 5% are being used as bait with their sexist and hateful comments to make this sub out to be a nest of extremism... which it clearly IT NOT. I'm also sure most o' ya'll dudes would agree that the female-centric subs on reddit (and reddit at large) are filled with mod-approved, media-celebrated male bashing, and we're tired of the double standard. It is what it is.
/r/MensRights23/11/22 08:22 AM
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Same here in Thailand. I'll ask my female Thai friends, "so what do you think of feminism?" and nobody has even heard of the idea. Many feminists back in the west would have you believe that Thai women are meek and subservient and need to be rescued by western values... But Thai women are a great example of fierce independence and fortitude. I say, "you guys aren't Thai girls, you're Tigers!" and they stand up, and are like, you goddam right, son! I Love 'em !
/r/MensRights23/11/22 04:51 AM
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90% of the world has not been brainwashed by this particular victimhood cult. (Feminism) Don't let them fool you into thinking they have any kind of majority or sway outside of the western mainstream media
/r/MensRights22/11/22 08:30 PM
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Emotional Intelligence builds relationships that don't collapse.
/r/MensRights17/11/22 02:42 AM
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She is still regularly sleeping with her ex who sexually, physically, and verbally assaulted her She is a staunch feminist ​ oh. ok. ... No contradictions here to see guys......
/r/MensRights15/11/22 07:27 AM
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Being feminine is not in any way "weak." It is in fact extremely strong. What a lot of women have failed to see in the last 20-30 years is that being feminine is a more subtle strength than being masculine. Take a look at almost any female film character before 1965. They get their way, they win, they are strong...but not by pouncing forward like a tank. By being smarter & more subtle. That's one of my points, although you said it much more eloquently. Thanks for your thoughts.
/r/MensRights11/11/22 11:30 AM
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fair enough
/r/MensRights10/11/22 11:14 PM
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like so many ideologies that get twisted around to serve the people who created them, instead of... well..... everyone else.
/r/MensRights10/11/22 08:45 PM
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why be so dismissive? We are here to have a discussion, not to sling mud. Go strike your own path.
/r/MensRights10/11/22 08:40 PM
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ok
/r/MensRights10/11/22 08:08 PM
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Your reaction just makes my point.
/r/MensRights10/11/22 07:31 PM
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Do you have anything meaningful to contribute to this post? Or do you just want to point fingers. Sorry if my observation rubs you the wrong way.
/r/MensRights10/11/22 07:28 PM
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I love this question, thank you. No, it's not fair! And neither is it a woman's role to be submissive or passive. Fuck that. A person is a person.... there is so much that men and women have in common than we admit. Everyone has a dynamic balance of feminine and masculine energy.
/r/MensRights10/11/22 01:25 PM
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What happened?!
/r/MensRights10/11/22 01:19 PM
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At some point, it was about equal rights, and those were the values I was raised on, by my mother and father.
/r/MensRights10/11/22 01:19 PM
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Where I live, people are generally passive and cooperative. We expect each other to act that way because, like any society, our quality of life improves when we all work together.
/r/MensRights10/11/22 12:55 PM
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can you be more specific please?
/r/MensRights10/11/22 12:49 PM
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Wave 1 had arson, bombings, intimidation..... The first Feminist manifestos were quite militant.
/r/MensRights10/11/22 12:46 PM
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There is no shame one way or the other.
/r/MensRights10/11/22 12:45 PM
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and this corruption of the natural, unconscious dynamic between men and women has had its consequences. Just look at the statistics on mental illness, and the amount of young people who pay money to see a psychiatrist. It's no wonder that it seems like everyone has lost their fucking mind...
/r/MensRights10/11/22 12:44 PM
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there's a gigantic difference between being seen as weak, and being compassionate.
/r/MensRights10/11/22 12:37 PM
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Social engineering at it's finest.
/r/MensRights10/11/22 09:01 AM
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I know a lot of female contraceptives are really bad for the health, but what about female condoms? I know they exist, but I've NEVER seen them for sale, I've never slept with a woman who wore one, and I've only heard a woman mention them in passing maybe 2 or 3 times. If women are so concerned, why can't they take the responsibility to wear a condom, like maybe even once? Thought, fellas?
/r/MensRights09/11/22 02:42 AM
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Fair enough. These are touchy subjects, I think it's wise to be diplomatic about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:06 AM
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Depends i guess? ​ but most (not all) women might look at you a bit different? I hear so many women frame these ideas as a question, instead of standing by a particular viewpoint. Almost like fishing for validation or testing the hivemind.... why is that? I agree with what you're saying, regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:18 PM
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Yeah yeah... I notice it personally. I live in Thailand, the diet here is really healthy, and delicious.... however, I LOVE American, European, and Mexican food, but I have to limit my intake, otherwise I will gain weight. And it's 2-3 times more expensive to eat 'farang' food.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:08 AM
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The upper classes are heavier because they can afford the decadence of a western diet.... excess sugars and starches and fats that used to be important for surviving harsh winters. Elsewhere, closer to the equator, half of the world mainly eats Rice, meat, vegitables, and fruits and people are generally a bit more slim.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:37 AM
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The majority of Americans are overweight or obese. Most of them are ugly, men and women. If you go to a different country, like Vietnam or India for example, most people are in good health, and quite attractive. If you live in America and you are NOT overweight, you have a very distinct advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:18 AM
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Oh that's a great metaphor! I'd argue that the majority of people in general these days are'nt much more than byproducts of social engineering. Generations of social engineering.
/r/MensRights20/10/22 04:21 AM
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He's a very level-headed men's rights activist with a popular Youtube channel https://www.youtube.com/c/BetterBachelor
/r/MensRights19/10/22 08:04 AM
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Holy shit!
/r/MensRights19/10/22 03:17 AM
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This is really eye opening. The public needs to be aware how widepread these practices are. Thanks for sharing, OP, I'm gonna bookmark this thread!
/r/MensRights18/10/22 10:11 PM
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I'll try to bring it to his attention, if i can get ahold of him. Joker is pretty good at reponding to his peers, he's a humble dude.
/r/MensRights18/10/22 09:11 PM
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Joker from the 'Better Bachelor' would probably get a kick out of exposing this. Can you send him a link?
/r/MensRights18/10/22 08:48 PM
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I undertand what you're saying, haha.
/r/MensRights18/10/22 07:37 PM
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well said. my idea of "always needing to be right" is changing your mind in the face of evidence that contradicts the previous belief I like the way you put it. Do you mind if I borrow this statement? It's my kind of philosophy!
/r/MensRights18/10/22 06:52 PM
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This kind of "science" is commonplace now. It's pervasive in many ways. Most people are not looking for the truth, they're looking to be RIGHT, to be validated by someone else. Facts get twisted around in every possible way, to the point when most people are not even concerned with the truth.... They're only concerned about 'fitting in' ..... even if it's detrimental.
/r/MensRights18/10/22 06:36 PM
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Yes, Love IS love. I really like this idea. I have a close friend who would totally be into it. Platonically, of course. We would never stop laughing about it. Think of the tax deductions and 'woke citizen' brownie points you could get!
/r/MensRights18/10/22 02:44 PM
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It's the 'Women are Wonderful Effect" in action. It's well established through many studies. If you put a female name on your school exams and job applications, you will get better grades and more job interviews. It's not even up for debate at this point. The crazy thing is (due to cognative dissonance) that Feminists by and large have convinced themselves that the opposite is true, despite all of the hard evidence.
/r/MensRights18/10/22 12:52 PM
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You might actually be on to something. I could see this idea becoming a trend, considering how western society is progressing.
/r/MensRights18/10/22 12:40 PM
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I guess so? My family likes to move to a new continent every generation or so, I'm doing the same. We moved to America when I was young. I don't like American culture.... I moved to SEA a few years ago. I might move to South America again next year, idk. I like cultures who emphasize the importance of family and community more than they do in the West.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:49 PM
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Oohhh, OK. I live in Thailand, relationships are so much different here. The women here that I meet have more sexual energy than I can handle. Once a day is enough for me, but they always want more! Christ forgive my sins!! I've never really spent much time with women from Eastern Europe, but they do have an internationally obvious negative stereotype of being cold and selfish (much like American, English, and Scandanavian women).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:29 PM
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Considering everything else the DoD and Navy are trying to hide about their own operations, this is clearly another PsyOp program to further divide the public into their respective echo chambers.
/r/MensRights12/10/22 08:54 PM
1

where do you live? Have you ever left your country and experienced a different culture before?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:32 PM
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Men ARE NOT significantly hornier than men. That is just what you have been taught to believe. 200-300 years ago the architects of western culture were trying to convince the plebs that WOMEN were the hornier of the 2 sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:41 PM
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laws always apply when it can hurt you, and they never apply when they can protect you You're spitting some truth, brother. Laws mainly (90%) exist to protect property owners. The police have no legal obligation to protect the public from harm. I was refering to the USA.... I grew up there in Texas, but moved to Thailand almost 3 years ago. Best move I ever made!
/r/MensRights12/10/22 05:10 PM
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In SE Asia, where I live, most women actually prefer older men. Not by a whole lot, but, talking to a lot of woman and seeing many OLD profiles, (where they can really be specific about it), I'd say that the general preference is for a man who is AT LEAST a year or two older, preferably 5-10 years older. The idea of a woman dating a guy younger then her is considered a to be embarrassing here. On the other hand, the idea of dating a guy twice your age is also a bit embarassing here too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:03 PM
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Ah ok, I didn't think of that..... It's kinda a strange contradiction though..... Being in the most public place possible (the mall) yet you're on private property. Well, consider all of the stop signs and speed limits in the mall parking lot to be mere suggestions, if you're on private property, traffic laws don't technically apply.
/r/MensRights12/10/22 04:48 PM
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Even if you were homeless, doesn't mean they would have any right to bother you. But then, what if you were a woman who 'looked homeless'. Do you think security would have felt like they needed to talk to you? Hmm...
/r/MensRights12/10/22 02:02 PM
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straight up
/r/MensRights12/10/22 12:06 PM
2

The world is a gritty, filthy place, cupcake.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:12 AM
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Everbody's different. My last girlfriend had kind of a semen fetish; She'd get angry if I 'wasted' it. She legit enjoyed swallowing cum, called it her vitimin D. ​ But I'm kind of a freak like that too when it comes to vaginal fluid, so..... ​ to each their own....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:07 AM
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Almost every man (and a sizable portion of women) you have ever shaken hands with had masturbated with that same hand probably less then 12 hours beforehand (no pun intended) And traces of their semen (or vaginal fluids) made contact with your skin. Now you'll think about that everytime you shake someone's hand. Have a nice day!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:50 AM
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What activities did the therapy consist of? Hypnotic regression?
/r/MensRights10/10/22 11:37 PM
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IDK I feel like men and women wouldn't fear getting rejected so much if some people weren't so cruel and insensitive about it..... And if you're asking someone out that you don't know very well, it can be difficult to gauge how they're going to react.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:22 PM
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r/conspiracy Where people don't mindlessly believe all the garbage that is fed to them we get a few folks who are a bit off, but I guess there's an idiot in every village.
/r/MensRights29/09/22 06:14 PM
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This is culturally specific to a few Western Countries.... ​ If you reversed the genders, it sounds like a night in my town. ​ As a man, I can't walk down my own street without getting cat-called, whistled at, or groped.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 02:45 AM
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That man handled the situation like he'd been there before.... He was calm, polite, honest, firm, and did not back down in calling this childish woman out on her behaviour. Likewise, the Walmart employees were very professional about the situation. I'm impressed. I would not have been so graceful or patient.
/r/MensRights29/09/22 02:41 AM
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no doubt. But if you push a single man who has nothing else to loose, it's going to GET REAL bad in REAL LIFE..... for EVERYONE.
/r/MensRights29/09/22 12:08 AM
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It's not your resonsibility to take care of her or her child if she tricked you into conception. You probably can't prove the deciet happened, (unless you have docomented evidence like text messages) so you might as well stick up for yourself 100%.... and move on. No contact! Remove any resources that she can take from you. ​ If she pushes you, push her back. ​ DONT LET ANYONE TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU ​ *My Girlfriend did the same thing to me 23 years ago.
/r/MensRights28/09/22 09:24 PM
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Most people are really suggestible and prone to going along with social engineering programs without giving it much thought, ESPECIALLY if that program is based on fear. Fear inhibits peoples ability to think logically.
/r/MensRights26/09/22 12:28 PM
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If you respect your partner you won’t cross their physical boundaries or try to pressure them into sexual acts. Yes of course. No boundaries crossed. I let my partner know that she has my permission to do these things. I like it. I would not want my partner to feel as if I’m only with them for sex ​ I feel that. I would not want my partner to feel as if I'm only with them for money. Many people look at me and just see a 3-legged ATM.
/r/MensRights21/09/22 01:12 AM
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Just wait until they poke holes in your condom while you're not looking.
/r/MensRights20/09/22 11:44 PM
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Oh, they probably just think you're cute. Or weird. Or both. We shall never know....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:09 PM
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Some would argue that marriage itself is just a sanctified form of prostitution.
/r/MensRights16/09/22 06:05 PM
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Where I live, if you 'make a move' on a woman and she's not into you, she might laugh nervously, cover her mouth with her hand, and politely decline your offer.... ...Like it's embarrasing and flattering at the same time. I honestly find the reaction to be just fucking adorable and endearing.... Everyone feels awkward in a warm and fuzzy kind of way, and then we go about our day. SE Asia
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:04 PM
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Right. We should encourage strong communication about these things between men and women. It's really important.
/r/MensRights14/09/22 05:52 PM
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A “sex pest” is a man who..... ​ but a "sex pest' cannot be a woman, who....?
/r/MensRights14/09/22 01:32 PM
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I know what it's like. My X-girlfriend would ask me for sex every 2-3 hours. She was constantly groping me and "pestering me for sex" ....I couldn't keep up with her, honestly.... and most of the time I had to decline. She was an absolute hornball, and I fucking loved it. I didn't hate on her because she liked to have sex so much... I really loved the attention. ​ But, that's just me.
/r/MensRights14/09/22 01:30 PM
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Exactly! This particular quote really threw me off. It sounds sociopathic and manipulative... creating "rules" like this in a relationship is perverted. It's almost like saying "You don't deserve any of my affection or intimacy until it serves me directly."
/r/MensRights14/09/22 01:20 PM
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Men and women both want a partner who desires to have sex with them. As you point out, It's absolutely OK to tell your partner No. Sometimes we are just not in the mood and there's nothing wrong with that. But if your wife consistently refuses to have sex with you, even considering you a pest for expressing such desires, then there is obviously a huge problem in the relationship. Vilifiying your husband because he wants to fuck you just seems absurd to me. ​ I didn't see anything in the article …
/r/MensRights14/09/22 12:58 PM
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she clearly said that they'd rather have a roommate
/r/MensRights14/09/22 11:17 AM
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...and not gradually... you'd practically teleport there.
/r/MensRights14/09/22 11:14 AM
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I guess some dudes are still unlucky enough to be married with kids to women who read articles like this one and take them seriously.
/r/MensRights14/09/22 11:12 AM
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For real... I certainly would't want to have sex with someone who considers me to be a pest.
/r/MensRights14/09/22 11:07 AM
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The quickest solution to putting an immediate end to sex pest behaviour is to come to an agreement on a mutually acceptable way to request sex.I would strongly advise you settle on words not actions. Ask him to say, 'Are you in the mood for sex right now or can you tell me when you think you might want it? Because I'd really like to have sex with you as soon as you'd like to.' It's imperative to separate sex from affection. Otherwise even innocent affectionate gestures will be seen as thinly dis…
/r/MensRights14/09/22 10:57 AM
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This had the unintended effect of polarizing the party. Are you sure this was unintentional? Maybe she felt jealous, hanging out with some happy couples, and wanted to destroying something beautiful.
/r/MensRights14/09/22 10:30 AM
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One of the most important things I learned in school (i'm over 40 now) is that the education system is designed to indocrinate and brainwash people much more than it was designed to educate them.
/r/MensRights06/09/22 05:10 AM
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Given inflation, if your company can double your salary in 5-6 years, you're going to be in the same financial situation you're in right now. Not that you should believe them anyway. And how the fuck can anyone live off of less than $20 an hour in America these days without living in a tent? ​ It's bad enough getting divorce raped. How can people even pay for their divorce rape without their employers also bending them over the financial table to have their turn?! ​ Shit's whacked.
/r/MensRights22/05/22 07:14 PM
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Wait..... This is satire, right? Witty dark humor? I was laughing pretty hard for a minute, but... wait, are you serious??!?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:52 PM
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novelty
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:36 AM
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it's only fair
/r/MensRights22/02/22 03:41 PM
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Life in Prison, no parole.
/r/MensRights22/02/22 03:41 PM
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Dude, we are glad you are here!!! I didn't expect this post to blow up so much..... Yeah apparantly this is a lot more common than I had anticipated.
/r/MensRights22/02/22 04:50 AM
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Yeah.... I don't think I could, I don't think it would be productive. My daughter knows that she was not 'planned' but that's as far as I went with the truth.
/r/MensRights22/02/22 04:44 AM
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I'm glad someone said this, so thank you. Condoms are not fool proof, they DO fail sometimes. Even if they ARE about 98%-99% effective, eventually the safeguard will fail if you use it enough times. When this happened to me, I thought it was just a 'happy accident'..... but there was so much other circumstancial evidence that indicated that it was intentional. It all could have been coincidence, but I'd be lying to myself at this point if I believed that. ​ anyway, I agree with your sentiment. A…
/r/MensRights22/02/22 04:41 AM
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Now I always use the "pull out method" and I've never impregnated a woman since (to my knowledge). When a woman says "it's ok, I won't get pregnant" I just laugh. No way am I gonna spit my seed in your belly, woman!
/r/MensRights22/02/22 04:31 AM
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Good advice. It can save you and your potential child a lot of misery. I never wanted to be a father..... even now after my kid has grown up, my attitude has not changed.
/r/MensRights20/02/22 02:30 PM
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Have you tried? I'd say say the toddler years (like 2-5 years old) is EXTREMELY burdensome for parents. You love your kid, but sometimes you just want to throw yourself off a cliff. I'm sure most parents can relate.
/r/MensRights14/02/22 01:45 AM
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I had a girlfriend back in the day who could (with some hand-manipulation) pee standing up. Quite proudly. She could even put in a good 2-3 meter arch. It's entirely possible. Go camping for a couple of months and try it out for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:32 AM
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I wholeheartedly agree
/r/MensRights10/01/22 03:17 PM
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I had this issue with my X. She used these moments when I drove her around town to scream at me while I was driving. Cornered. So I asked her to get her own drivers license, and she flat out refused to do so even after offering to buy her a car. This is a common cluster B manipulation tactic that both men and women use to break their 'partner' down. Eventually, after one such 'episode' I dumped her... Found out later she had been cheating on me for a long time.
/r/MensRights09/01/22 07:54 PM
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Considering how much you care about how your husband would feel about it, and how you are willing to have an open conversation about such things, I don't think you have anything to worry about.
/r/MensRights29/11/21 07:30 AM
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I've made this observation before here, but it seemed to fall on deaf ears. The views on this sub are completely focused on American and western culture and ideology. I moved to Asia (from America) a couple years ago, where the "rules of engagement" are totally different. PPD is sadly nostalgic for me. We have our own relationship issues here where I live, no doubt, but it's a completely different playing field. I see people here talk about men and women in such absolute terms as if their way of…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 04:08 AM
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Please don't let this person screw with your head like that. That's exactly what she wants. From what you said, you have a very solid moral foundation, and you should be able to just be yourself without having to second-guess your behavior. Take pride in the fact that you have good principals, and stick to them.
/r/MensRights09/09/21 08:39 AM
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Sometimes. I think this attitude is a form of projection. Not all of the time; but... When you view people as a potential target, you tend to realize that you, also, are a target. And then your behavior, with that frame of mind, will often mirror your expectations.
/r/MensRights30/08/21 12:18 PM
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hilarious!
/r/MensRights17/08/21 07:44 PM
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sad but true
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 02:24 PM
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People who want to go out of their way to give advice tend to give bad advice, as far as I've experienced. Where is the line between giving helpful advice and pushing a specific agenda?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 02:23 PM
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I'm fascinated by this conversation. Please, retort
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 10:48 AM
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Gaslighting is a colloquialism for a specific type of manipulation where the manipulator is successful in having the targets (a person or a group of people) question their own reality, memory or perceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 10:43 AM
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"Fuck off incels" Why the hateful assumption? "like men are any better at this" A good point, but why did you preface this with the first statement? It says a lot more about you than the demographic you're referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 10:36 AM
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The fact that you're trying to convince this person that they don't understand the definition of gaslighting, is an example of gaslighting. Thanks for the laugh!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 05:20 AM
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That's a heavy loss, but at the end of the day, you know you have your priorities straight and you can sleep at night. Much respect to you, sir!
/r/MensRights12/08/21 04:59 AM
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As in, 'if you use the opinion "woke", your word is irrelevant. I commend you, sir.
/r/MensRights12/08/21 04:39 AM
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I'd guess, from my own observation, yeah, about 80% of young men in the dating marketplace are single not by choice and about 20% of young women in the scene are single, not by their own choice. I'm probably off, but that's what I see
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 12:50 PM
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that's not what I was saying.... but.... I'm not sure, to be honest. are we talking worldwide or in western countries? what's your estimation?? what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 12:45 PM
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what the actual fuck?! why should Rex be surprised? Someone shave his head and throw him into the ashram
/r/MensRights08/07/21 12:39 PM
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you know..... sexist.... like it was the other way around. Be careful. The Feminists will take this out of context and throw it back in your face, ignoring the obvious satire. But, who cares at this point?
/r/MensRights08/07/21 12:37 PM
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when the bottom 80% of men (in the relationship marketplace) are invisible, women are only seeing and commenting on the actions of the guys who they are interested in. So when women talk about their troubles with men, often times they are just relating their own personal experiences without realizing that their choices in a partner are a glaring reflection of how shallow and manipulative they are..... they're going to attract a shallow and manipulative person on an unconscious level and then ass…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 04:31 PM
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it makes sense to me. but there are so many other psychological factors as well, of course!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:50 PM
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From what i understand, couples that are more educated and have higher paying jobs tend to have longer lasting relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:25 PM
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'The partial defense of diminished responsibility is available to the defendant on the basis there was a severe depressive episode with psychotic symptoms at the time.' "diminished responsibility"?! ​ murder is murder
/r/MensRights05/11/20 06:56 PM
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Someone (not me, mind you) is going to cut off their testicles and shove them down her throat. Just to make her stop talking.
/r/MensRights31/10/20 08:03 PM
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There's a middle path in there somewhere.... I'm still trying to find it myself. Very thoughtful comment
/r/MensRights31/10/20 08:00 PM
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although your assumptions will likely turn out the way you predicted, You better get ready for a few surprises. For the better, I hope! I surprised the hell out of my parents, the way I turned out was not what they expected. BUT..... the ethics and values I learned from them as a kid have always stuck with me! Thank you from one Dad to another.
/r/MensRights31/10/20 07:59 PM
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My daughter's family (on moms side) has been teaching my daughter that she is a victim of society, and that everyone is out to get her. Now she just stays in her room all day (at moms house) and has too much social anxiety to interact with anyone on a basic day to day level. I don't know what to do about it. ​ so yeah.... i understand. We should teach our boys to be careful, but if you helicopter them, you're just making them feel like they have no agency or self determination... the results are…
/r/MensRights31/10/20 07:49 PM
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when the house gets quiet, you KNOW they're up to something dangerous... like climbing the walls, running blindly into the road, drowning their siblings, and fitting the silverware into electrical sockets. fucking terrible room mates
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 05:03 PM
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Thank you for leaving my post up for as long as you did. Perhaps this isn't the proper sub for this post... But I think this is the crux of the matter here in PurplePill.... humor and comedy is a great way to approach uncomfortable topics and it's worthy of discussion. Next time, I'll come up with a more appropriate way to make my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 04:52 PM
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I'm inclined to agree with you wholeheartedly. Felines are predatory by nature... but elusive and aloof. They embody a lot of feminine characteristics.... or have been characterized that way. But still..... woe to the cat who even disrupts the Baby. the Baby's needs run the house, not the cat. ​ The Babyarchy is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 06:39 AM
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But It's always the Baby who really rules any functional household
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 05:55 AM
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yes, but what a lot of people don't take into account: about 50% of all babies turn into women. Babies are still the root of our oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 05:53 AM
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Cats are much more dangerous as household political opponents, I can agree with that. where Babies might be the barbaric and bloody tyrant in the domestic world, Cats are the cold, calm, and calculating type. You know they are quietly and patiently aiming to be at the top of the hiearchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 05:49 AM
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It makes no difference right? Sexism is sexism
/r/MensRights08/09/20 02:48 AM
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yeah, you know exactly what i'm talking about. As EXWebics wisely pointed out, people are generally the same everywhere you go...... BUT..... the culture you are in can make a huge difference. ​ I hear folks from back across the pond talk about sex and relationships as if the American attitude and lifestyle is the only one that exists. It's so blatantly xenophobic and well, ignorant.
/r/MensRights08/09/20 02:22 AM
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that's good to hear, man. and i take no offence. I can see how my comments come off that way. To be honest I don't really have any stake in any of these 'movements'. I don't live in the west anymore, western concepts like "Incels" just don't apply where i live. People here wouldn't have a clue what you're even alluding to, even if you explained it in great detail. I'm so grateful for that. my question to you is: have you ever dated other women besides Americans? let me flip this for a moment: If…
/r/MensRights08/09/20 02:14 AM
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Maybe I'm a bit more risk-oriented... but I would take the opposite approach. If her arguments are flawed, challenge them. stand up for yourself. who else is going to do it? say you get an F. so what? at least you stood up for what you believe in. Just make sure you have a solid foundation, and people will respect you for it. be kind. be understanding. if they don't like you... who cares?
/r/MensRights07/09/20 08:48 PM
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and ive been to therapy before. it was a great experience. but ive had much better "therapy sessions" just by having an honest conversation with my friends.
/r/MensRights07/09/20 08:17 PM
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I agree with you on that, mostly.... but most people can't afford to pay a psychologist / therapist. what are they supposed to do? also... I think it's foolish to seek guidance in something that is 100% your own responsibility. mental health is not something you can just fix with pills or therapy. It's entirely up to the individual. therapists don't help people. they show people how they can heal themselves.... and sometimes people need that too.
/r/MensRights07/09/20 08:14 PM
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I agree. but I'd say that the worst part is that this perspective has become normalized in western culture, its what is being "taught" from pre-k to upper level university. This level of indoctrination is already having devastating effects on society. if it continues, what will it be like 20 years from now? ​ it's been at least 20 years already. An entire generation has had this shit drilled into their heads since before they were even born. ​ need I mention how the CIA has infiltrated every maj…
/r/MensRights07/09/20 07:45 PM
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and there are some very legitimate and long lasting consequences for doing so. ​ it took me a long time to realize this. ​ recently opened up to a (female) friend of mine.... emotionally speaking. but thoughtfully laid out my experiences and how ive dealt with it. ​ she literally ran away. like.... she left really quicky. and now she doesn't respect me anymore, because, idk, i guess it's unrealistic to expect men to have feelings.
/r/MensRights07/09/20 07:33 PM
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when i have an emotional issue in my life that I need to express, I talk to my male friends about it. We give each other a lot of support. some of my female friends too i should add but... lordy..... I've witnessed firsthand how quickly a women will run off (even literally) when you try to express your insecurities and vulnerabilities. ​ It's such a blatant double standard. MANY women say that they want nothing more than their partner to open up to them. But when it happens, it's often an instan…
/r/MensRights07/09/20 07:28 PM
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I abhor stereotypes. but here i am making unfounded assumptions... hmmm
/r/MensRights07/09/20 07:16 PM
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let's see his / her picture! haha. let me guess... it's a guy. he's a bit overweight, wears black thick rimmed glasses and has 'tribal' ear plugs and tattoos. Considers himself to be a "revolutionary"
/r/MensRights07/09/20 07:15 PM
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this sums it up really well. ​ I recently heard a (female) comedian talk about this. you've probably heard. she doesn't beat around the bush (haha) ​ straight up says that it's only sexual harrasment if the guy is unattractive. otherwise it's quite welcome. ​ it was pretty funny, honestly.... because it's true. ​ i love how comedy can slide in a lot of inconvenient social truths, ha ha ha
/r/MensRights07/09/20 06:40 PM
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wish you all the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 06:28 PM
1

one more thing: ​ I had a couple of abusive relationships in a row. 10 years of my life. they both had Narc Personality disorder . It destroyed everything i had built up in my life. but instead of taking the easy route and blaming these failed relationships on them, i feel i have to ask myself.... how and why am i attracting this kind of partner? and why am i attracted to them? when i think of it that way, i can see how i have let these things happen, and i really have no one else to blame but m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 06:27 PM
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he means, for example.... men and women average out on intelligence. same same. but... BUT.... there is are more men with a higher IQ than the average women. Conversely, there are more men with a much lower IQ than the average woman. ​ like, we aren't any smarter.... there's just a lot more diversity in intelligence (or lack there of) ​ just one example
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 06:16 PM
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you know, this is why i keep coming back here. PPD is a place for a lot of fringe perspectives. you have to expect a lot of friction in this sub. that's why it's so awesome to see reasonable and well adjusted people here come together to try to figure each other out. ​ it's a hot mess.... but i think it's needed. it's important. ​ so thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 06:12 PM
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well put
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 06:07 PM
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#kill all men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 06:06 PM
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and this is LITERALLY how genocide happens
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 06:04 PM
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i hear women say that men don't have any real empathy or any authentic emotions aside from fear and anger. And they actually believe it because they've been indoctrinated from such a young age. ​ That's so absurd. like we aren't even considered to be human anymore. it's so far from reality.... i think that people only believe this kind of nonsense (on both sides of the gender coin, so to speak) because it's easy and convenient, and allows people to make some very dangerous assumptions without go…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 06:03 PM
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Like what good does it do me to have a solid moral foundation if I'm just automatically going to be unceremoniously shoved into such a spot without even trying to learn my character? ​ It's a losing battle on both ends ​ you realize that. right?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 05:57 PM
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the over-generalizations i hear on this sub really puts me off. I understand that stereotypes exist for good reason, but come the fuck on..... it's just so easy to write off half of the population into a category you feel comfortable with. It's unrealistic. It's not healthy. It's not accurate. I bet you would be (rightfully) offended if men made such crass generalizations about women too. and that pisses me off just as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 05:54 PM
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Actually, I was born in South Africa, but I mostly grew up in Austin, Texas. I just moved out to Thailand 6 months ago. It sounds like I have some interesting reading material to check out though, is there anything else you'd suggest? I love reading this type of stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 09:04 AM
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ok, I get what you're saying. Thanks for clearing thing up for me, I think this is a great discussion. I'm here to learn. I love hearing other people's perspectives, even if we don't agree.... Although here I think we have a very similar perspective on the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 09:06 PM
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" femininity as an artifice and a prison imposed on women by society " that sounds pretty extreme.... Couldn't we say the same thing about how masculinity is imposed and enforced on men by society to keep them in line and in their role? I mean, you realize that men are also under a lot of societal pressure to fit in to the "manly" stereotype, right? ​ To answer your question, I really don't know what most people consider feminism these days. But I can say that my mother's idea of feminism is VAS…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 08:47 PM
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Sure, there are lots of ladyboys in Thailand. They've been accepted into Thai culture long before the transgender movement in the West, as far as I know. So hey that's one thing we have in common! Otherwise, the perspectives and attitudes here about things like gender or race and such are, well, just different. Iidentity politics, political correctness, cultural appropriation, micro-aggressions, toxic masculinity.... these concepts just DONT EXIST here. It's not applicable
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 08:12 PM
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Well, ok, it's a foundational belief in 3rd wave feminism perhaps... ....are they the majority of feminists these days, or just a very vocal minority? I honestly have no clue
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 07:48 PM
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I feel you on this one. I think people get too wrapped up in what they think society expects from them. What we think of ourselves is much more important. It gives people confidence when they're comfortable in their own skin, so to speak. And confidence is a very attractive quality
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 07:37 PM
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Well, maybe a small minority of feminists think that way.... or more? IDK But fuck, they're shoving this philosophy down students throats in the universities....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 07:29 PM
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Maybe where you live, people tend to be more androgynous, but for most of the world the lines between masculinity and femininity aren't quite so blurred. But I think we all have m and f traits and I like how open the west is about expressing those things regardless of gender Having said that, I've noticed that folks on this subreddit (and others like it) don't realize or consider that all lot of the subjects we talk about are a completely alien concept to the majority of people. Like as if the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 07:22 PM
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I find it perplexing how so many feminists suppress their feminine side and accentuate their masculine qualities. Like, shouldn't feminism be a celebration of all that is feminine? It screams 'cognitive dissonance' to me. Or am I missing something?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:56 PM
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Yeah, that's a really good point, and perfectly legitimate. On the flip side, (and sadly enough) a lot of guys won't be interested in being friends with a woman if she is taken. Or will only do so in the hopes that one day he'll have a turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 05:51 PM
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This was back in 2005, people didn't really refer to each other as a number back then. I find it kind of off putting, but whatever. I'm kinda just guessing, lol. I think back then, the gay guys who hit on me would have thought I was a seven. The women (who didn't hit on me, lol) maybe a 5... But I'm 40 years old now, apparently most women consider me a 4 at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 05:45 PM
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The kind of man you described is obviously going to be undatable and unsuitable for marriage and I agree with what you say. But it's not just those kind of guys I was totally sexless for about 5 years in my 20's, and not for lack of trying. I certainly wasn't ugly (maybe a 6), I had a job, my own apartment, a degree, my car was paid off, lots of friends, (men and women) made enough money to travel a month or two out of the year.... I couldn't figure out what I was doing wrong (or not doing right…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 12:28 PM
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Women typically desire men who are desired by other women. This has definitely been my personal experience. In times when I was single, women were overwhelmingly disinterested in me. In times I had an attractive girlfriend, all of a sudden they all want to get to know me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 11:54 AM
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D
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 03:01 AM
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