Fellas! You ever been in this kind of situation before? Here's a hypothetical for ya:

So you're having sex with a woman.... you're very enthusiastic, you're sensitive to her needs, you start slow and gentle and then escalate, you communicate, you try every position, you go down on her for 30 minutes.... she mostly just lies there an lets you do all the work.... and after 2 hours you have an orgasm. She doesn't.

She's clearly frustrated, but tells you everything is ok. Later in the week you hear from her friends that she's been saying "my man can't make me cum"

So, like a responsible adult, you sit down and have a good talk with her about it.... because you genuinely want to make sure your woman is sexually satisfied with you. Through the conversation you learn that your woman doesn't even know how to make herself cum....

Seriously guys, why do so many women expect you to know how to push all the right buttons when she doesn't even know how her own body works? When will these women hold themselves accountable for their own sexual dysfunctions instead of blaming literally everyone and everything else?

In most western societies, women are not obligated to please their man sexually. If your woman goes cold after marriage, and you express disdain for lack of intimacy, it's the man who gets blamed, shamed, dehumanized; He is seen as brutish, selfish, and disgusting no matter what he does to remedy the situation.

On the other hand, if a man stops having sex with his partner, he is mocked, emasculated and branded as the one with the problem.

Am I overgeneralizing? Or is this phenomenon as widespread and socially acceptable as it seems?

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