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Wowww thank you to this sub, I was caught up in feeling like this man deserves a medal and the comments made me realize.... a grown man should know to do his own chores without being told, and him doing them after being confronted without being aggressive in return should be the norm but it’s not. Wack
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 10:39 PM
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I noticed this too, I know I shouldn’t be shocked but the willful ignorance I’m seeing is just so sad for humanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 03:54 AM
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Wow.. can we know the story of how your parents met and got together? Also what you mom said specifically in that scenario to put him in his place?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 04:09 AM
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Yeah it really sucks for the kid. This is why the choice is the woman’s to make, not the man’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 02:15 PM
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HAHAHAHAH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 04:14 PM
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I am 25 and I did this over the last 2 weeks. Life changing. I don’t know how everything changed but it did, and it is amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 11:15 AM
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Best part, they’re roasting her because she looks like a “Karen”, meanwhile this man pays $50 a month for the child. I understand that for many people, that is a lot of money.. but come on. $50 a month to raise a child? That’s absolutely nothing. NOTHING. Driving some miles to pick up the child you think is yours deserved that much praise??? The bar is so low.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 01:27 PM
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YES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 05:38 AM
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Yeah my premed advisor told me to drop out of premed and I’m in med school now. If I can do it, you can too. And if you’re in America, it’s only September and you have until next July... my latest acceptance came 5 days before school started in July
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 01:34 PM
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I sit at home and study 24/7 for my career. OLD is literally the only way for me to meet someone, even if it takes me a lifetime of vetting to meet a good guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 04:36 PM
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Same I’m 25 and Indian and a virgin. I’m glad my body hasn’t been used to pleasure a scrote, ewww.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 03:42 AM
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So I’m also anxiously attached becoming secure. My anxiety was so extreme that whenever things like this would happen I would be debilitated both physically and mentally for weeks. As I’ve decided to work on myself and become secure for 1 year now, things are different. I went on one date with a guy on Monday, and he messaged, but then some time went by and he didn’t respond til a bit later. I felt the anxiety and anxious thoughts, but I was able to repeatedly calm myself back into feeling grate…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 02:59 AM
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Honestly I think you two just aren’t compatible. I know I’m not boring and I have the deepest conversations with some people and silence with others. The silence just means they are not for me and that’s that. You deserve to be with someone who fits you in every way, including someone you can have long interesting conversations with without feeling like it takes too much effort. Until then, you deserve yourself and the love you can give to yourself. You’re not boring and you do not need anyone, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:22 PM
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Same, it took me a whole 5 years to meet a second man I was attracted to and he turned out to be an LVM just like the first one. And yet, I’m struck by the beauty of women with and without makeup around me everyday. Here’s to another 5 years..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:00 PM
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OMG SAME BEST DECISION EVER HE IS MY KING
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 05:51 PM
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I think we could, if we could eventually for, a large group of friends through zoom calls and then once we know each other well, meet up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 05:49 PM
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Same girl 🙏🏽 FDS has saved me so much time, no longer do I “give him a chance” if I feel even the slightest hesitation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 01:40 AM
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Wow how did you meet him? And were you extremely strict with vetting guys when you were dating around before meeting him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 01:38 AM
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Also through experience and FDS, you learn that any man who says “hang out” instead of date isn’t interested in you in terms of dating. Otherwise they would have said date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 07:10 PM
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It’s low effort on the man’s part with high benefit for the man aka seeing you basically naked. If you allow yourself to be that low effort from the start, that is what your whole relationship will be or there won’t even be a relationship at all because he’s already gotten what he wants without any effort
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 07:07 PM
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Thank you Queen🥰💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 02:18 AM
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Thank you 🙏🏽 FDS has changed everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 12:09 AM
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Life and FDS have taught me, they are most likely a lvm if they use the words “hang out” for the first time they plan on seeing you and it’s the cue to either say what I said or just cut them off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 12:08 AM
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And on top of that, he’s expecting me to go to the beach which implies he wants to see me walking around in almost no clothing and yet he can’t put in an ounce of effort🤦🏽‍♀️.. men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 04:41 PM
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Can you repost this a few times? Somehow I didn’t see this until someone commented about a new website on another post. Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 04:21 PM
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Wait what fds website..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:41 PM
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Can you make a post with this download every few days just in case so more of us can have it before the ban? Thank you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 11:05 PM
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Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 11:04 PM
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Consider spinster.xyz, I joined but haven’t used it. It looks like Facebook for women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 10:21 PM
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This happened to me wayyy too many times pre-FDS, I can’t even imagine being that much of a piece of shit to con a girl into friendship with the sole goal of using her body in mind and then dumping her and yet somehow, most guys are like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 05:06 AM
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Waitttt he was a guy that read FDS before meeting you?! And he bases his healthy behaviors on some of the things he read here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 07:34 PM
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🙌🏽 once again.. why didn’t someone teach me this stuff BEFORE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 06:12 AM
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Please drop some of your knowledge on how you met this HVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 05:06 AM
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This is true! This is why I will never tell my mom the things that happened to me when I was younger, because I know the only person blamed will be me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 04:59 AM
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I just want to point out that these red flags were most likely present prior to this situation. The guy probably prioritized other people and other things over whatever he planned or agreed to with her wayyy before the baby was even a thing. He probably never even took her on a date actually. It’s not her fault this guy is so awful, but there was probably a lot of foreshadowing here that she ignored that could have helped her avoid this situation. NEVER IGNORE RED FLAGS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 05:55 PM
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My advice is that you are putting this guy on a pedestal and you are going to get hurt if you keep this up. Why is your life so boring/lame that all of your existence is so wrapped up on this guy being with you? You need to become the woman who is loving life with or without a man. You being anxious over what he chooses to do changes nothing. If he wants to cheat, he will cheat and your anxiety and worry isn’t going to change that fact. That’s why you maintain high standards and have your own li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 11:32 PM
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I’m not even finishing reading this post. The cringe.. HIGH VALUE WOMEN DO NOT PLAY GAMES.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 01:22 AM
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Ugh this kind of stuff makes me RAGEEEEEE. How dare men do this?? I’ve had it done to me so many damn times when I was a pickme that I thought it’s just what guys do 🤷🏽‍♀️ accept that if you want your man to hang out with you, it’s going to have to involve sexual stuff and he’s just going to keep pushing til I give in so might as well just do it... What the hell was I thinking and why is society so messed up that I ever even thought that way in the first place! Men if you are reading this STOP M…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 01:07 AM
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Agreed, a HVM would know something like this would bother you once you’ve mentioned it and he would put an end to it. He likes the attention. Always ask, what would you do if you were in his shoes? The answer is, you would put an end to it because you value your partner and it’s not their burden to bear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 12:44 AM
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Aww I’m so proud of you!!!! 🙌🏽🎉💕 You deserve only the best things in life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 03:12 AM
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What about him made you realize he was a fuckboy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 02:58 AM
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I was this way too. The only way I’ve learned to change is to notice when I feel that way and think those things and refute them immediately by saying no, I am pretty enough, I am good enough etc. in my head and then behaving that way. The same thoughts and feelings may or may not come up a few more times, but after I deny them access to me the first few times, they don’t come back and I remember my worth. About your ex boyfriend, I don’t know the whole story, but since joining FDS, I’ve realize…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 01:34 AM
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So I was your friend last year, as in I was an extreme pickme. My friend kept telling me to move on but I was deaf and thought the most pickme thing “you don’t know him, he’s not like that”. Turns out, he was exactly like that. She’s just deaf and anything you say will not make sense to her until she gets hurt enough to go FDS. I think you need to just tell her one final time, “Look. This guy is playing you. He does not care about you. You are worth 1000x more than this loser guy will ever be wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 01:10 AM
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I was texting some guy. He twisted my words to make it look like I was insulting him several times and then say stuff like “wow didn’t know you felt that way” “sorry for even mentioning it :(“ and then I’d be obligated to say “I didn’t mean it like that at all.” I got fed up and communicated in a healthy way that it’s unfair for me to have to do that constantly and I am never insulting him etc. He texts back “I’m sorry! I was just joking” Today, I hung out with him and almost immediately he mock…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 12:56 AM
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Yeah I spent a whole year trying to make things work with a man who was liking a million IG ho pics which I felt bad about of course but didn’t say anything. Surprise surprise he’s an LVM and blocked everywhere - unfortunately, he’s actually extremely attractive for a male so there’s no doubt in my mind some other poor pickmeisha is going to take his shit and love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 02:41 PM
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I just want to say, good for you for owning up to your mistakes and seeking to become a better man. I wish more people actually did this.
/r/askFDS03/06/20 09:33 PM
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It’s a good thing you have your whole life ahead of you to build the wonderful life you love ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 06:26 AM
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Do you have any tips on finding amazing female friends?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 10:30 PM
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Don’t worry about what you are or aren’t. Learn the lessons this experience provides and do better next time. All the answers you seek are in the FDS handbook and our previous posts. Please do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 09:21 PM
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I love this one, I’m always lost on what to tell them. I’m going to do this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 07:21 PM
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I’m honestly in the same position. I’m going to just say “I prefer lunch or dinner dates :)”. If he hits me up with a real date after that, cool. If he goes crazy and thinks that’s asking too much, good riddance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 12:24 AM
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😭😭 the red flags are making me cringe so hard rn, but preFDS me would have immediately messaged him back and said “that’s okay, I understand :)” and keep allowing this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 11:58 PM
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Why are you asking us about this if you’re not going to listen? Sit your man down and ask him where he sees life going over the next year. If he doesn’t mention marriage, if he doesn’t mention spending more time with you and planning vacations and dates, move on. You e had 4 years of the same thing. It’s not going to change just because you keep defending him. If you were in his shoes and you had his debt, you would have paid it off while planning vacations and dates and asking your future wife …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 07:25 PM
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I agree! Mostly every male friendship I’ve had is due to them being attracted to me and then us no longer being friends because I’m not interested in more than that. I put in so much effort into the friendship and as soon as they’re rejected romantically, they disappear. Not worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 05:52 PM
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I was cringing about things I did which were way worse than what you’ve described as a pickme- this was maybe a month ago. And I was so tired of constantly remembering that stuff so I finally just told myself “it was a mistake, I do not deserve to be beat up by the one person who loves me more than anyone else ever will because of a mistake. I wouldn’t treat a friend like this, I’m not treating myself like this either. Let go.” And so I did. Also if you believe in God, it’s a good chance to “sur…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 01:12 AM
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🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 09:22 PM
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❤️ right!! 🤤 I now know the love of this woman(me) is what I was chasing in others all along 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 09:17 PM
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You can do it 🥰 every step of the journey we are on is worth cherishing as much as the results! These are the experiences and lessons that make us who we are ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 09:14 PM
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I am definitely going to watch it today! Thanks for mentioning it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 09:12 PM
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sister 🥰❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 09:12 PM
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Thank you so much ❤️❤️😚
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 09:11 PM
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As are you 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 09:11 PM
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Same!! I feel this love for myself in my bones! Just as I know the sky is blue and water is wet, I know deeply that I am perfect exactly as I am. ❤️❤️❤️ you are gorgeous in every way! So proud!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 09:10 PM
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I am so proud of you 🥰 I bet you are an absolutely wonderful human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 09:07 PM
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It is hard! But at this point, I’m pretty sure there is nothing more worth the effort than myself. I deserved this effort and love that it’s taking me to grow and so do you!! You can do this and absolutely anything else you want to do!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 07:08 PM
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❤️❤️☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 07:07 PM
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👏🏽 absolutely! Until the last few weeks, I was so angry that people treated me so poorly in the past and that I didn’t know better at the time. But I think if I was just raised with a healthy mindset, I wouldn’t appreciate just how wonderful self love is and how much better it is to be this way than the other way. And now I know that if I ever fall down again, I will be able to stand up even stronger!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 07:06 PM
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You can absolutely do this!! I have my ups and downs still, but I know that life was meant to be this way and I am at peace. You deserve this way of life! Keep fighting!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 07:03 PM
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I’m worried about you and I deeply want you to find your way out 😰. I thought I was a bad pickmeisha but you are way past that. Pleaseeee watch Breeny Lee’s videos on YouTube about this stuff- things like how to level up, how to be confident, etc. and get into this mindset. You have to do better. This is unacceptable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 04:54 PM
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Honestly, just how good would it feel to be with someone who loves you and treats you well? How good would it feel to be with someone who wants you? Why are you so desperate for validation that you are accepting so much less than that? Your desperation is causing you so much and anxiety and pain. Let this drama go. Create a better life for yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 04:48 PM
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😰 ma’am stop. Who is this loser to treat you poorly even once??? Why have you accepted so much bullshit? How hard is it for someone to get an std test?? He doesn’t care about you and he’s an asshole. Why are you wasting your precious life being anxious over someone like this. BLOCK HIM ON EVERYTHING AND DO NOT LOOK AT HIS PROFILES EVEN ONCE. DO NOT CONTACT HIM AGAIN. You lack self love. Dive into it and all of your answers will be found. Love yourself the way you are trying to love this scrotum.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 04:42 PM
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👏🏽🙌🏽🎉🎉🎉 Hell yes to the level up 😎 we no longer accept bullshit from anyone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 04:33 PM
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Absolutely. If the man doesn’t adore me, he doesn’t have me. There is no reason to settle for less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 06:57 AM
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I completely understand this 🙌🏽 you are completely valid at all times just by being you. And it’s wonderful that you are focused on self-soothing when anxious! A lot of us with anxiety are unable to reach that point. I didn’t get validation from anyone either and only realized I was searching for that all my life when I suddenly got it from an email my supervisor wrote me after I left the position. He basically told me I helped so much and he felt so blessed to have met me in this lifetime. And …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 11:43 PM
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Her username is the best part of this 😭 some guy is going to be so blessed to have that hilarious woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 11:15 PM
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I’m your age and single and loving it without the stress of an abusive LVM to deal with. You’re aging yourself way more by allowing this kind unnecessary of stress in your life. Breakup with him, move away, and block him on everything immediately. It will suck the first 2 weeks but you’ll move on after that in the blink of an eye when your life is suddenly yours again and you’re stress free. You’re young, but it’s just a fact that the longer you stay with this scrotum, the more of your life you’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 04:53 AM
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Wow did I write this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 04:38 AM
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So what did you change to become more content and in control?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 05:56 PM
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Same 😭 never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 05:55 PM
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I was trying to move on from a fuckboy I had blocked after getting treated so poorly by him for a year. I had this weird belief in my mind that men act so aloof and uncaring because women need men and men don’t need us. And I believed this is why they sleep around so much without getting attached and here are women begging for love and affection all the time. I seriously felt so incomplete without a man and was anxiously attached. Then I found FDS and realized it’s women that don’t need men, we’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 05:53 PM
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Same, I generally just avoid giving out my ig or fb either by saying I don’t really use social media. Fuck their desire to “see more”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 05:38 PM
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😭 damn I started crying the second he started crying. This is a dream, the ultimate experience to have in life to love and be loved this deeply. And yet, somehow, society has chosen to go crazy for sex and forget that this can exist. Anything less than this kind of love and devotion is just not worth it. 🥺 maybe someday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 07:44 PM
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It’s so crazy that people would rather suffer endlessly than be alone. It’s also crazy that so many of us FDS women were this way in the past too. I’m so proud of us for waking up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 05:09 AM
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I absolutely know for a fact all the fuckboys out there are still praying on the pickmes of the world and sleeping with them. They don’t care about other people, how are they going to care if they give said people a virus. Let’s not forget, these are generally the men that beg to not use condoms despite not getting tested frequently. The pickmes are desperate for love and attention and are going over to the fuckboy’s place and then getting pumped and dumped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 08:46 PM
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But you’re only 27.. if that isn’t your youth then what is??? Literally 18 was less than 10 years ago for you which was when you become an adult for the first time and when you’re actually capable of making serious decisions about dating and your life. Not going to lie, saying the ship has sailed for you sounds pickme af. Who decides when your time is over but you??? In reality, who’s opinion actually matters besides yours? Stop looking down on yourself. HVW know their worth and know there is ab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 05:22 AM
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Imagine being this frustrated at women just wanting to be treated well. Scrotes gonna scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 12:53 AM
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u/VredditDownloader
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 09:58 PM
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So true, I have learned this recently. Thank you 🙏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 06:26 PM
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Same 🤦🏽‍♀️ I completely agree. This morning I just woke up really angry and anger is just unusual for me. I know I didn’t know better at the time but still, what the fuck. Why didn’t I know better? And how is it just okay that someone treated me so poorly just because he was given the chance to?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 06:19 PM
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🥺 maybe someday
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 10:19 PM
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👏🏽 now I’m going to have to watch Captain America again. I haven’t watched it in a long time and last saw it when I was a pickme, but I think Channing Tatum in The Vow was a good guy. Also Jim from the office seems like a good person aside from a few things. He kissed Pam when she was engaged to someone else and also joined the sports company without telling her which are red flags. Otherwise he’s the kind of guy I’d hope my son will be if I have one. Jim seems to own up to his faults and mistak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 10:17 PM
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Jokes on them 🥱 I have no idea how to cook and anything I’ve ever cooked tastes like toilet paper no matter what
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 07:17 PM
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Na you also have to blame your dad. He could have done better from the start and showed you what a HVM really is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 10:38 PM
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What the fuck did I just read Let me go rinse my eyes and my whole life with 100% bleach
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 05:41 PM
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Never again, they end up being LV as well so why settle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 03:24 AM
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If he’s honestly a 25 year old... what kind of flesh blob is he going to look like when he’s 35
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 09:35 PM
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The fact is, if you don’t leave him now, you’re going to have your marriage end in a divorce. 🤷🏽‍♀️ he’s going to be violent with you someday. You’re going to be cooking and cleaning after him for the rest of your life and if you’re tired of it now, wait til you’re married a few years and have kids too. Your sex life will probably never recover if it’s that bad now and he hasn’t attempted to fix it. Move on and be single now, or do the same thing in a few years but with a nasty divorce possibly …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 05:08 AM
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🤦🏽‍♀️jeeezzzz the things women deal with. I guarantee so many pickme’s have stayed with a guy who was visibly disappointed when they weren’t hurt just because pickme’s are programmed to be that way. We desperately need to teach girls growing up to TAKE NO SHIT. I’m glad you left that anus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 12:57 AM
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Yeah it’s just such a hassle. When I was a pickme and codependent, I felt like I needed a man and I was sooo worried about figuring out what value I bring to his life rather than thinking about what he brings into mine. And none of the guys of my past have really added anything at all, especially considering the endings are so painful and dealing with their LVM traits just causes so much unnecessary anxiety and stress— it just really sucks to have to wonder if someone is using you for sex or if …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 12:47 AM
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Thanks! If you don’t mind me asking, since you are of the same mindset that it’s just a job, what made you choose this path? I’m on it because as you said in the other comment, I never really found anything else I’d be more interested in doing (also my parents pushed me into it which I eventually came to accept) and I like the challenge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 03:49 AM
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These responses are all soooo right. At 19, I thought I knew it all and I was so damn intelligent and mature. At 25, I realize I was suchhhhhhhh a child with a child mindset. I did so many stupid things and I have almost completely changed as a person. I now realize that at 30 and 35, I’m going to probably think my 25 year old self was a child because I’m literally just growing mentally and emotionally day by day, something that only happens by going through good and bad experiences which you ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 06:09 PM
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❤️❤️❤️❤️ Yes to high standards and growth. I’m so proud of you!! 👑🙌🏽 now it’s time for us to live our best lives!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 03:03 AM
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Yeah this is nice! A big take away for me from FDS is to make sure the guy is consistent with contact. I used to think not hearing from the guy for a few days at a time in the first month was okay because guys are worried about appearing “cool” or “unemotional”. But it’s just a fact, if he’s interested in you and is HV, it’s an everyday thing or near everyday thing to hear from him and dates occur one after another. There is no playing the waiting game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 01:54 AM
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I was sooo “low” maintanence until a few months... like why not get your nails done and straighten your hair and wear cute outfits and walk around like you’re that bitch. WHY NOT. If it’s coming from a place of just doing you rather than impressing anyone else, WHY NOT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 10:57 PM
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Hey I’m not a physician yet, but I’m starting medical school in the fall with plans on becoming whatever specialty I want. I can’t speak to job satisfaction, but here is my reasoning for pursuing this path: I used to have the same feeling as you until I joined FDS. The thing is, guys aren’t thinking this stuff when pursuing their dreams sooo why are we?? Why not become a physician and do what you want? If a family comes along because you meet a HVM and settle down, great! But why put your life o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 10:46 PM
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Thank you 🙏🏽(and thank you everyone else who commented). I do feel like it was a lesson meant to guide me to FDS and make me into the elite woman I’m meant to be. I’ve spent my whole life craving love and attention from a guy and just being wife material and so sooo loving to the morons I allowed into my life. But finally 😭 I no longer crave anything but peace. I don’t want a relationship at all unless it’s with a HVM who is high value in every single way. (This is huge for me considering my pas…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 07:57 PM
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The audacity. The thing is, what if you had never looked him up?? The universe was so on your side. Something similar happened to me, but the guy doesn’t match up to killing his two kids. I was chatting him for a bit, then I googled him and started finding weird articles that I thought maybe belonged to someone else with his name. Nope. I found his mugshot. This moron drove 6 hours to be with a prostitute overnight who was actually a cop undercover and got arrested. What a failure of a human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 07:51 PM
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I was strung along like this for a whole year!!! Because I was such a pickme with no idea what a fuckboy really is. I straight up thought he was just busy and focused on himself. My naive brain thought it was okay that he follows a million ig bikini models. My dumb ass sent paragraph apologies to this guy who could not care less after I called him out for flaking on me. I helped him get started on a career when he had no idea what he was doing and I got nothing back but being ignored. And now I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 03:54 PM
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🙌🏽 same, why were we ever like this. Guys are rarely ever this way yet most women are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 12:54 AM
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Anything besides a HELL YESSSS!! with a lot of effort means no. All mixed signals mean no. You aren’t an option or someone who is going to wait around to be chosen. Show him, the whole world, and yourself how much you respect yourself and block him. Move on. If it’s this stressful and emotional and not just easy and exactly the behavior you want from a long term partner, you block and move on. Wouldn’t you rather just be living your best life, loving yourself, and enjoying existing when suddenly…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 08:31 PM
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Tbh I did this stuff when I was a pickme just to feel connected to the asshole after I blocked his ig for being a fuckboy and still thought things could work out someday when he realized what he missed out on. But oh man if he or anyone else was getting notified whenever I created a new account 😰 I would look so psychotic even though I was just hurt and unable to let him go.... if only I had known about FDS then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 02:20 AM
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Still doesn’t sound right, I mean we all read stuff on reddit all the time about specific things but that never triggers me to go find a certain comment from weeks ago because it sounds familiar. And then why would he tell his friend about it and not you? I would be cautious if I were you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 07:43 PM
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How did he find your old reddit account and why?.. that’s seems a bit stalkerish
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 06:52 PM
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Friend 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 06:49 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 03:30 PM
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Honestly it’s so crazy that I’ve grown up to age 24 thinking I need to do all of these things to be acceptable to a man and then I’d stress how I behave in case it turned him off from me. Lmao hell na man you don’t act right, you’re out. I don’t have to impress anyone. Period. You treat me less in any way, don’t apologize, don’t change your behavior, you’re out. 💅🏽 next
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 11:49 PM
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