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| 12 | What is a RPW way to deal with an adulterous husband?He doesn't sound like much of a partner let alone a Captain. The fact that you are making 90% of the income and he expects you to take up 100% of the housecare, while having gone through cancer treatment and that sort of trauma is just insane. Throw the cheating on top of that mess and the blame shifting.. no ma'am. Please let him go. I promise you, you will feel so much lighter and happier for it. And he can bring his wants for poly or infidelity and BDSM elsewhere, while you get a much needed … | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/08/20 08:47 PM |
| 4 | SO is upset I hung out with my friend’s guy friend thereSorry if this is out of line.. but are most RPW's men so insecure and is it RPW advice to cow-tow to those insecurities? | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/08/20 05:46 PM |
| 4 | SO is upset I hung out with my friend’s guy friend thereI guess bisexuals can't have friends then? If you have to keep your partner on such a short leash because you're convinced being in the same room as the opposite sex will lead to infidelity; I think.. you have a problem with trust. Honestly, cheaters are gunna cheat. No matter how many doors you close or how close an eye you keep on them, they'll find a way. But treating every partner like a potential cheater sounds exhausting for both parties. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/08/20 05:38 PM |
| 5 | Seeking help for a sensitive problem between my fiancé and ITo put it bluntly.. his expectations are turning sex into a chore for you. No wonder you are feeling mentally drained by physical intimacy at this point. I'd tell him that, personally.. not sure what his reaction will be, but to most being told that you are basically ruining your partners sex drive by making sex an on-demand expectation instead of enjoyable intimacy between partners.. would be a wake-up call. Maybe put it into perspective. Find something he really personally loves (besides sex) … | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/20 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Is this all in my [21F] head or something else [22M]?And there's SOME amount of sense to that, right? It kinda makes sense? Until you understand that if people are constantly doubting or questioning you maybe the issue is you, not everyone else.. and expecting people to just trust and not doubt you EVER is ridiculous. People are human. Humans have opinions, and their own fears and thoughts. How are you ever going to have proper discussions or communication if you're not able to express concern or opinions without fear of coming off as doubting or … | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/12/19 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Is this all in my [21F] head or something else [22M]?Also anyone willing to completely drop people from their lives who question or doubt them in any way is just.. scary. It comes off more like he can't handle criticism or other people's opinions if they don't feed his ego. My reasoning for thinking this way is because the most trustworthy people typically value other people's counsel and don't consider themselves infallible. A Dom who admits he's human and can make mistakes but sets up saftey nets still to avoid or counteract any possible mistake… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/12/19 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Is this all in my [21F] head or something else [22M]?That's actually his reasoning? How is that even in any way comparable to expecting it.. from anyone, let alone someone who is to be your slave. It's a lot easier to trust your friends because you're not exactly expected to kiss their feet or be physically manhandled by them you know? Do you even have a safe word? Are you prepared for the worst if he ignores it or expects you to do things you don't want to do? Is he going to claim that using your safeword means you don't trust him completely? He'… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/12/19 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Is this all in my [21F] head or something else [22M]?As someone who is the 's' of a TPE M/s style relationship of 10 years I'll tell you that this guy sounds like he's playing 50 Shades and it's not a good thing. He's had so few relationships but thinks he can call himself a Master and demand trust from the beginning as well as full-on submission without allowing trust to build? Major red flags there. There is some amount of surrender in submission which requires a bit of faith and not always full-on trust, but all that is tackled SLOWLY and handl… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/12/19 06:04 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel about men who watch porn/have addictions?I don't see anything inherently wrong with porn use.. as I know I'm worth far more than any of those women. In my opinion those who have issues with it are typically deeply insecure with themselves and that doesn't read high value to me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/19 05:39 AM |
| 7 | Need an attitude adjustment about messy dishesDoes considering it your proud kitchen or joyful realm not make it more aggravating when others mess it up? Considering cleaning my job instead of calling it my space tends to help me disassociate better when people dirty things, because it feels more like a personal insult to me otherwise. You can also look at each mess as an opportunity to be useful and needed, which is also what I do. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/11/19 04:25 AM |
| 6 | Need an attitude adjustment about messy dishesDoes she not need improvement either? I think keeping it to yourself would honestly do her more harm than good, and if you care about her as a person and a friend perhaps a decent heart-to-heart is in order. But beyond that- if you truly wish to stop having it bother you, then make cleaning your job and own it. You need to stop expecting or hoping others will pull their weight or help out, and start telling yourself it's solely your responsibility. You can of course accept help here and there, b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/11/19 03:43 AM |
| 14 | Attitude readjustIt seems like a double standard because it is. He's treating you like property.. and some people are into that, but it sounds like you didn't sign up for that and he's taking it to extreme levels by playing with your emotions and complicating your ability to see doctors easily. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/19 06:17 AM |
| 3 | Should I talk through my jealousy with my boyfriend, or work through it on my own?Jealousy is a difficult topic, especially in this setting. From my perspective I do not OWN my partner, and I trust him implicitly. He adores me for many reasons, because I keep myself attractive, because I have my passions, and because I put my heart and soul into being the supportive and care-free partner that he needs. Because of this we are both confident in our relationship, and of growing old together. Even if another woman catches his eye from time to time, I can be confident that it's no… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/04/19 12:40 PM |
| 2 | Pet names/terms of endearment?Sir, Master, or Wolfie. Sometimes I call him my Lord. Or when I say 'Oh god.' He says 'Yes?' lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/19 03:10 PM |
| 35 | What’s a ladylike way to deal with women being interested in your man?In my opinion the best way to deal with it is to not. You can't control how other women act (and attempting to will only make you look catty or immature). If you trust him then there should be nothing to worry about. Let them make fools out of themselves trying to impress him. If he wants it to stop he'll handle it. As for how you can cope? I suggest just ignoring it like he does, trust in him to handle it, and maybe distract yourself with some self improvement, a hobby you enjoy, or doing somet… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/19 08:57 AM |
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