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How long have you been married for? and when did you start to become unplugged?
/r/askMRP17/11/15 04:51 PM
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sorry it was implied that you shouldnt do something you dont like. but i should edit it to be more clear
/r/askTRP18/08/15 07:25 PM
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find out what she like and you like too and tailor you date. does she like art go to a museums, does she like poetry, go to an open mic, does she like animals go to a zoo, does she like outdoors, go for a hike, go for picnic...but dont subject your self to something you dont like to do make sure you will enjoy what ever you do.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 06:14 PM
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What is Traditionalist creep? taxes Ok that the first time i have seen this come up. Care to elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/15 11:41 PM
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So this problems don't exist! Ok! No your problems exist to you but maybe not to me. It would depend on the problem. The problems faced by young black male are not the same faced by a young white male. In fact i am sure to the majority of young white males the problems faced by young black men dont exist. Also Im sure at some point a bunch of women got together and said hey there is problem here lets fix it when no one else saw a problem. Marriage? broken. How is marriage broken? You can can sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/15 11:19 PM
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Interesting so the MRA/MRM groups are the red head step child?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/15 03:59 PM
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Because…. Ideology!Is this your argument? No. Ideology - It can be described as a set of conscious and unconscious ideas which make up one's goals, expectations, and motivations Does Red Pill have a set of conscious and unconscious ideas? Yes. AWALT/NAWALT, briffault's law (Now with corollaries!) etc. Does red pill have a set of goals? expectations? motivations? Yes. Varies by each sub-group. PUA want to get pussy. Some people want to better themselves, some people MRA want to change things. Som…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/15 03:49 PM
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Fucking medication… hence the user name?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/15 06:56 PM
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philosophy and ideology To me philosophy doesn't describe red pill enough. Red pill is more then a philosophy at this point. you are beyond the point of seeking the/a truth and really you want to change the world or parts of it. and yes i am aware that you may now want to change it on the scale or MRA groups (changes to the system) but you do want to re-define it for men. but yes there are philosophical parts to it. Lastly, the ideology within TRP is always changing. that is true. in some ways t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/15 06:52 PM
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Its condensed in one place and repackaged. thats fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/15 06:12 PM
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then there are a lot of complete morons because i have yet to see any one display this idea in fact i recall people seeming to be surprised when my experiences dont match up to theirs and even question if its true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/15 06:10 PM
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I wouldn't. So because these comments are not coming from TBP and by this i assume you mean that people that post on TBP are not over here in PPD, they shouldn't count even if they are arguing against the red pill? The dichotomy you set up is you making up positions on behalf of TRP So the people that identify as red pill are making up assumptions or the people that identify as blue are making up assumptions? No such divide exists in practice So why is there red pill and blue pill if no divide e…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/15 06:08 PM
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And you are making those claims for me. That is not the basis of my statements. Its much more complex then that. Edit: But it seems you do at least agree with me on those points.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/15 05:45 PM
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Everyone gets this. i really wonder about that. its not the sense i have gotten from my conversations on PPD. That depends on how you use it… i will be and conceded point 9 to you on the grounds that i can be overly anal about using the terms blue pill and The Blue Pill
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/15 05:42 PM
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im not making those claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/15 05:38 PM
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They lack the context in which a Red Pill person came to understand and agree with those thoughts. Exactly. Because my experiences have been radically different then a lot of PRM i have trouble accept some of the premies of Red Pill. Different experiences lead to different outcomes. As to which i side understands this concept less, i am not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/15 04:28 PM
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why do we count them as a side in the debate? How else wold you count it? As far as i can tell its red pill vs blue pill with the no other option. So if you are not red pill you are blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/15 04:13 PM
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It well practiced. I have had to use a lot on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/15 12:58 PM
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well i would add that AWLAT is used a lot more then just in reference to women being shitty. Pretty much in a women does something that is fits the stereotypical traits of women as defined by Red Pill the AWALT label is added.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 06:04 PM
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What are some examples of both feminine and masculine traits that you are referring too? Traditional gender roles for these men aren't being taught by masculine father figures, So why are fathers not doing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 05:57 PM
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So AWLAT is the default state of women, which also just happens to be mostly negative state (well negative to some that has not swallowed the red pill)? Women can be just as shitty as men, and it's ALL women ok i dont think any one on here, i know i wont, will debate that statement. But that can also be changed to AMALT or APALT. If a woman seems like NAWALT… know her well enough. So what is the point of NAWALT, it really sounds like it doenst exist or even need to exist. The specific 'That' tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 05:34 PM
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AWALT is human nature observed in women. Its human nature observed in women by red pill men, AWALT dosnt exist out side the manosphere. i think thats why people (like me) really dont get it. Also if i have a counter example to every example of AWALT what does that say about? There are many areas in life where we operate under APALT Maybe but those are just generalizations based on experience, not a reflection of what is true. Like when i say A BMW drivers are shit (ABDAS) it based on my interact…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 05:26 PM
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Interesting. So i ge that those are two of the main ideas of Red Pill, two ideas that i support. But i fail to see how the apply to AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 04:59 PM
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you better get on that you SMV is already starting to go down...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 04:38 AM
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Here is how i see AWALT based more on what people have said in PPD then what i read on /r/TRP, because honestly i am not there all that much. from what i gather AWALT in red pill is used to generalize 99.999 percent of women and NAWALT is your escape pod so you can be well "no NAWALT" when in reality that NAWALT applies to such a small faction of women is not even worth admitting they exist, hence the mythical "unicorn". sure it may exist but good look finding it. So AWALT is AWALT except when i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 01:57 AM
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Good response.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 10:30 PM
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what results they got in order to determine why they weren't successful. What results would you look for? Similar to how Economics is the most comprehensive model of how humans value and deal with material resources. bad analogy because many competing schools of thought with each one claiming to be the best but in reality they probably all work just with different ideas of what success is….oh wait your analogy works 100 percent. I started "swallowing the red pill" (for me, it's never fully swall…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 09:31 PM
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it does. thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 06:57 PM
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Ok thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 03:42 PM
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TBP is not Blue Pill. Blue Pill is label that Red Pill give to people that are not Red Pill. TBP is place where Blue Pills gather to talk make fun of Red Pill. You can be blue pill and not post on TBP. PPD is not really TRP vs TBP, its more the Red Pill vs every one else that is not red pill. You can be on PPD and not post on TBP.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 03:18 PM
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Ok so is red the same as alpha? or can you be red pill and still beta and vice versa blue pill and be alpha?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 02:50 PM
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i would add depending on the type of disability, it can even work for you. Its all about owning it not letting it own you. when people ask me about my disability i always end it with the line "and chicks dig it" which they do but more because i chose to let it define me i define it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 01:41 AM
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Interesting. I will give (based on looking back at my experience) that i guess i did have lot of red pill traits (this was years before red pill/blue pill blew up the btw) but at the time i would not have identified them as red pill at traits at all (i still wont) because it was just stuff you did. i am sure you understand that at some point you have to make a decision to live or do dont? and if you make that decision you do what is needed. and yeah seven years ago i made that decision and did w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 01:39 AM
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thanks. i am going to check some of these out and book mark them for when this question comes up again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 12:06 AM
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so its still just "alpha/red" and "beta/blue" or is there an in-between or scale on which one can be a little bit of both? and how does that work for some one (me) that doesnt fit the stereo typical characteristics if Beta/blue but also doesnt identify as Alpha/red?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 12:03 AM
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it could be that "a lot" of people are just the most vocal but i agree if the sentiment behind "a lot".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/15 11:58 PM
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Out of curiosity OP how are you disabled?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/15 06:27 PM
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interesting. So what about if you become disabled latter in life? and one a side note do you think a RPM would have a better time dealing with a drastic change the a BPM?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/15 06:26 PM
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Here is the key to why he is alpha What makes you say he is alpha?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/15 06:07 PM
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yet equal in importance/value as human beings, no? IMO highly debatable. Or at they very least that is my perception of the way women are viewed in TRP. Edit: Example: train her behavior so she submits to you if you really believe this, can you see that person as an equal?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/15 06:04 PM
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If you want, it can be. But i am hoping for some serious response. questions like this help me try to understand each side.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 03:32 PM
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that i agree with
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/15 05:03 PM
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That's true, but you'd be surprised how many little things guys let slide when it comes to their girlfriend. True. I have seen that happen, both in my relationships and the relationships of others. IMO what it comes down to is how important is this thing to some one? To use you're example of being late, if that is something that is important to you, who ever you are with has to respect that. if they dont then they need to be aware of the consequences. My only thing at this point is how to yo dea…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/15 02:14 PM
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And what make you think i do? Do you think because i have not swallowed Red Pill that i must? Personally i don't. if anything the idea of what is 'just' or 'right' or 'moral' is not universal and changes from time to time and culture to culture. Understanding that alone makes me see how that hypothesis is wrong. or maybe i have enough major events happen in my life that burned out the idea there is justice or fairness? when the reality there are just events that happen. and i really wonder how m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/15 01:53 PM
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Well this is interesting as it proves that women will change there answer based on how they perceive it is being recorded, which i will agree can be used to bolster the argument that women lie. But also the reported value of 4 is pretty much in line with the cited report so, depending on how they conducted the survey the value of 4 could be right. So i will give that you have evidence that women lie but you still have not convinced me that the statistic of the report are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/15 04:28 AM
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For instance when my girl was 20… I dont think that is treating her like a dog. that is letting her know that she did something that was unacceptable and not ok for you. Depending on how you handled it, its adult communication. The things that I believe now are based on the patterns I found. Which i get. And those patterns are very much real. i dont deny that red pill theory doesnt work, if it didnt people would subscribe to it. And what you have noticed works and happens under conations xyz but…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/15 04:17 AM
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There is a certain degree of self-fulfilling prophecy ist amazing how many people dont really see this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/15 02:21 AM
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Gottacha. I see it now. So essentially /u/whsiper's argument is that the the number (4) that women report is not correct because its a reported number and women lie, esp when it comes to the number of sexual partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/15 02:20 AM
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Treating women like children is silly unless it's in a playful funny way Which is something i get, but it is also something i feel is grey area in red pill. where is that line? I've been with about 80+ girls and from my sample group I've found that you need to treat them like dogs. In what capacity? in the bedroom or outside? i will confess i have been in relationships, including current one, that yeah in the bed room it can get that way. Outside, no. it doest fly. But i do know women where its …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/15 02:15 AM
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Lol maybe you need to actually read the report. Females 30-44 report an average of 4 male sexual partners in their lifetime (Mosher, Chandra, & Jones, 2005).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/15 01:15 AM
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yeah but inst the end game of red pill to do what you can to increase your SMV/social proof/what ever so you can be alpha and attract girls? i mean its a sexual strategy where the alpha chad thudercocks rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 09:15 PM
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I was speaking in terms of sexual relationships Fair enough. i just wanted to make sure. Yes Southern California, San Diego, of all places. White, male, 35, one older brother, raised by a single mom with a disneyland dad. 've been all over North America and had my experiences validated repeatedly. I dont doubt that you would just as my experiences have validate my beliefs. I mean TBH had something happened to me that i have heard a lot of people in Red Pill say happened, idk i might of found Red…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 09:06 PM
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i never made any claim that studying STEM is 'alpha' i am making fun of the over reliance on it in TRP. Srsly you guys sound like broken record over there some times.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 08:52 PM
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so a women that is offend by you is more likely to sleep with you then a women that is indifferent?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 08:50 PM
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Fuck the bots.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 08:49 PM
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Lets be careful to not muddy interactions with sexual interactions. The two are different. When i say my interactions i am referring to interactions in all types of relationships, both sexual and non sexual that i have been in or been exposed to. also by my interactions i am also referring to what i have seen between male and females among my social circles, not just experienced personally. as for your question i really dont know. i haven't never really wonder or considered if i have had a lot o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 08:48 PM
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A woman is more attracted to you when she is offended by you than when she is indifferent to you. What definition of attraction are you working with there?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 08:33 PM
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Women respond well to being treated like children? That's not true because it makes women feel bad No. Its not true because that goes counter to 99% percent of my interactions with women. Again here is my disconnect with red pill because my experience in life has lead me to the different conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 08:30 PM
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STEM = science, technology, engineering and math or what every one should be majoring in in college. Its a joke on the over emphasize of STEM in higher education by Red Pill. Its right up there with lifting and meditating as something that every red pill person should be doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 08:27 PM
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You dont even STEM bro? How beta. /s the fundamental premies of this post is assuming the TBP thinks the Red Pill Theory is false, which (at least for me) is not true. There are parts of Red Pill theory that are true and even more true under xyz conditions. i am not going to debate that. i am not going to debate some of the effectiveness of some the core ideas of Red Pill, like "lifting". Its true "lifting" can lead to a lot of positive stuff. But there is a lot of Red Pill claims as red pill bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 07:47 PM
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well if she is confusing the two then that a whole different issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 07:18 PM
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i could agree to that. :) look i smiled
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 06:47 PM
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See i disagree with this both for ONS and LTR. Being where i am i see a lot of average looking guys getting some pretty nice looking women. its pretty unfair and really makes me wonder. edit: Oddly enough these very guys hit some of the other ideals that i see in TRP, i.e. there are in frat, they have money/come for money, lift (but not enough to hide the belly they have from drinking) but outside that they are pretty average in the looks department.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 06:20 PM
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but thats the whole reason she thinks she is 10 in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 06:14 PM
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right. And i get that there might of be some confusion by me using date instead of fuck. but changing date to fuck and it still holds. where does the choice come from? i mean if women start thinking that they have a higher SMV because Chad fucked her well if Chad stops fucking her wont she think different?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 05:59 PM
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Men have the tools at their disposal to make themselves more attractive to women Sure but then you you get it things like what do women want/look for in guy that makes them attractive which is still some what of a myster y to me. Personally i would love to see women hold guys to a higher standard the way guys do to women but it doesnt seem to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 04:55 PM
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is this really as prevalent in society as red pill makes it out to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 04:42 PM
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So then is the problem on the women who are sleeping with "alphas" or is it with the "alphas" them selves who are sleeping with the women? If the "alphas" show restraint and dont fuck every women, wont the women realize "oh hey i cant get mr thudercock, maybe i need to step up my game?" the other flip side is that i would actually love to see women be more picky with men. If they think that they are 10 and only will fuck other 10s then maybe guys will step up their game and realize that hanging …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 04:40 PM
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You might want to define Toxic masculinity for those of us that are not aware of it and also to make sure every one is using the same definition as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 03:49 PM
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Women are far more picky for the sex. but i though All Women Are Sluts (AWAS) and doesn't being a slut mean you like to have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 03:41 PM
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Ask what makes a man attractive and prepare for a verbal delivery… i disagree. i have never heard this. any time i have heard this question asked i have seen just as wide a variety of answers as when the question is asked of females. shouldn't they have similar standards to men? If they did all of red pill would fall apart…but that aside, no, its pretty accepted that women look for different characteristic in men then men do in women. I dont think any one is going to debate that. Or could it be …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 03:38 PM
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Interesting. Thanks for responding.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/15 02:53 PM
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there's a lot less incentive these days for men to have families because there's a lot of responsibility with little reward Can you give some examples of this, other then the TRP line of "divorce rape"?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/15 03:46 AM
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If we trade out the boxers and the timberlands. it sounds like a pretty sweet deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/15 03:38 AM
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I would think its a pretty simple idea called self control
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 06:40 PM
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Rolling stone fucked up. The were more concerned with a story then any actually journalism. I would hope that this debacle would lead to some serious discussion over rape and more Comins argues that men who are unjustly accused can sometimes gain from the experience. Lol. She needs to GTFO with this. Thats right up there with what doesnt kill us makes us stronger sure it ruined your life but you will get over it and be a better person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 06:36 PM
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So not all people are red or blue by nature but more by their actions? So is there a spectrum or a sliding scale then? or is it more that people have both blue and red pill traits but just in different degrees? or is it red pill or blue pill with no in-between.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 02:34 AM
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So not all people are red or blue by nature but more by their actions? So is there a spectrum or a sliding scale then? or is it more that people have both blue and red pill traits but just in different degrees? or is it red pill or blue pill with no in-between.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 02:26 AM
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My understanding is that if you are not red pill your are blue pill so blue pill = not red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 09:16 PM
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he problem is the abuse of this system one hears about constantly in the manosphere. which is essential an echo chamber for all the men see as wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/15 07:55 PM
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if that was true then reddit would not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/15 07:24 PM
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If it was me, yes but i hate dislike when people quote stuff like its the god dam holy bible and they really understand it themselves. But dont feel picked on i feel this way about a lot of different sub-reddits hive minds
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/15 06:26 PM
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is this an example AMALT?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/15 05:44 PM
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I while i find it hard to believe that this is true because it goes against so much of what i have seen i can see how that would affect things. But that at the same time isn't a man who has slept with a lot women proving he has high social proof which is active to women? So then women want to demonize men for the very thing that makes them attractive to them? edit: i just set my self up didnt i?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/15 05:43 PM
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no thats what we have /r/cats and /r/foodporn
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/15 05:39 PM
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I question the ability of all people to think independently and actually go look at the source of what they quote.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/15 05:11 PM
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There truth to it. People associate with other people in the basis of what we get from them and the relationship. The quibbling is going to come down to benfit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/15 05:09 PM
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Lol. have an up-voted
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/15 04:32 PM
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shutting down the whole sub-reddit seems a bit extreme and then what would TBP do? If someone is too stupid to see that a quote is surrounded by opinion… Which is 90 percent of the people in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/15 04:14 PM
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yes. see how it is used and mentioned by people on TRP it makes me wonder if The Red Pill, esp new people, understand that there is BL and then BL with corollaries which is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/15 03:49 PM
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Lol perfect meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/15 03:41 PM
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exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/15 03:41 PM
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and here is BL from TRP side bar… …and the source for the post
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/15 03:40 PM
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/r/nofap
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/15 03:18 AM
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It's funny though that /r/nofap is probably bluer than /r/thebluepill. lol esp in the ball department..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/15 10:24 PM
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Ok i can see that. if you dont jack and you might be more inclined to try when you are out but at the same time jack it before you go out would leave you a less outcome driven. i.e. you dont care if you get off or not. ofc once you jack it you might be like fuck going out and stay in. i wasn't sure if it was for a reason like you said or as part of a way to help people learn discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/15 08:08 PM
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this is def part of it. I know for me the hunt is just as fun if not more fun as the catch
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/15 09:11 PM
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I think there is a small but clear window of inebriation where people haven't yet passed out but they act out their true carnal desires. i agree and i dont. I agree with the idea the people use intoxication as an excuse for actions, the "oh i was so drunk last night" excuse. thats a universal tactic regardless of your gender. i disagree because i don't think is true representation of our-self and of our desires, well after a point, its not. Example: One of the last times i went out drinking, i e…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/15 06:55 PM
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So i agree with /u/lola_k when she says Something I see commonly on trp is men being told to put themselves above women, or that they should be better than the women they date. because i have seen it to. So that leads me to think that there is some truth to her statement. It would be useful to see the links your referring to here specifically, See this where i tell my self i need to save the threads/comments where I see this because it always comes up and i generally dont feel like going back an…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/15 09:50 PM
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1) What first attracted you to the red pill? I first head about The Red Pill via PUA and MRA websites which i heard about after the 2014 Isla Vista Killings. 2) What made you stick around and post on the blue pill? Disenchantment with the TRP. 3) What brought you to PPD? To hear other people opinions on things. Some times there are great arguments and great points. some times there are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/15 04:40 PM
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ou're basically saying: "Would we really know about this Jesus guy if he wasn't hanging out with the 12 apostles?" No we are not. Hip hop was entirely pioneered by male artists. I'd like to see Missy battle rap BIG, Pac, Eminem or Kendrick Right. As have a lot of things. That still doesnt change the the fact that there are females that are consider legends or people of importance with in the community. No one knows or cares about any of those people. goes ask /r/edm, go ask anyone that follows e…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/15 11:06 PM
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Men dominate electronic at both the mainstream level That doesnt mean they are any less talent women. Dj Irene - Hard house legend spinning the major festivals. Dj colette - Chicago house legend Sandra Collins - trance legend on par with Oakenfold and still more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/15 10:54 PM
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having spent time with people that study music compassion, theory and history i have heard ideas like this come up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/15 10:43 PM
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with casual relationships/ONS its a little bit hard because you really dont have an equivalent "girl fucks asshole even tho' she says she wouldn't be attracted to him" trope for men. or at least not one i am aware off. i think the classes is "fat chicks". Every one is eww no dont hook up with a fattie but then at the same you have sayings like "they are like, scooter fun to ride but dont let your friends see you on one" or "more cushion for the pushing" or such implying that you even if you dont…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/15 10:32 PM
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Yes. i think that goes with out saying for any one though, male or female. We think we are have the potential to have and idea of what we like or dont like in our mind only to have that idea shattered when we are faced with in in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/15 09:52 PM
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To be muscular, strong and physically fit. No To be tough, stoic, fearless, and not succumb to emotion( "Real men don't cry") Yes and no. I think it is important to have all these traits but it even more important to not ignore the other feelings and emotions. To be in charge or be the leader of a group Always a good thing but better to know when to lead and when to follow. To never show weaken ss or laziness Same as feelings and emotions. To be popular with the girls/ladies No. To overall be th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/15 09:47 PM
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Um i think we are A) either laughing at you or B) shaking our heads in disbelief but not crying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/15 02:04 AM
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Whoopi fucking Goldberg? Ok maybe not my best but i betting amy Schumer, Sarah Sliverman, Kristen Schaal aren't going to make you happy either even though they are accepted by other comedians as great comedians. Be honest, do any of those names feel as weighty to you as John Lennon, Hendrix, or Elvis? Yes they do and i can keep giving you more names that are just as big or accepted as big within the musics industry. Patsy Kilen for Country, Sarah Vaugen for Jazz and still more. as for Lennon wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/15 01:59 AM
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All of them. You seem awfully sure of that. What are you basing that on? No. But i know (both from here and reading TRP) that self improvement is a big thing on TRP and thats fine. '
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/15 12:17 AM
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/r/askscience?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 11:42 PM
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really did you take a poll of TBP? how many people on there are anti gamergate people or the rad fems, SJW. and how many are on there to make fun about TRP? I know i am on there for the latter…and (maybe in spite) because i got banned from TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 11:40 PM
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Does it need to be pointed out? when he makes a leap from TBP to anonymous, its going to make me wonder.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 11:12 PM
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anomalies" set the tone of your sub by being the most active posters. Kettle calling the pot black. Given that the entire tone of TRP is defined by the loudest voices which also happen to be the most toxic and which happen to belong to all the newcomers swallowing the pill and entering the anger phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 11:11 PM
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yes and they are using the pretty pass. i dont deny that it doesnt exists but it not a all access pass and its only going to get you so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 11:02 PM
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Janis Joplin - Rock Lauryn Hill - Rap Hildegard of Bingen - Classical Composer Maya Angelou - writer/poet Anne Frank - Writer Ursula le Guin - writer ella fitzgerald, sarah vaughan, billie holiday - jazz frida kahlo - painter Joan Mitchell - painter all of those women have been accepted as defining or important artist to their respective genres. and i can keep going.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 11:00 PM
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None of those are on par with the comedic greats Ok i will bite even... Phyllis Diller, Whoopi Goldberg, Joan rivers Rap: Lauryn Hill, Missy Elliot, M.I.A. Rock: Janis Joplin, Pat Benatar, Joan Jett Electronic - Like djs and producers?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 10:51 PM
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This is something TRP seeks to avoid because we believe male and female opinions should be treated with equal importance. i agree, and i am of the opinion that you should never ask a question you dont want an answer to. The idea we take into mind is that by default… and see this where i disconnect because it goes counter to every thing that i have experienced. Which i get is my experience not yours. Thanks for playing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 10:39 PM
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Yes. They do. i never claim to argue otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 10:24 PM
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right i agree esp this Behavior. thats really what it comes down to. the rest status, money etc you can really tell about some one till you get to know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 06:44 PM
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honestly its pretty heavily edited that you dont really see how he approaches the girls. saying 'you're pretty, can i buy you a drink' vs uy who calls a girl a slut and tells her he wants to fuck her all night long. all depends on how you say and what context.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 06:42 PM
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not following.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 06:34 PM
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Haha. i am sure he learned some mind control trick for scientology. kidding aside Tom Curise is really only creepy when you get to know him and that mostly because of scientology other then that he is has all the right marks. hell i bet he is pretty smooth when it comes to picking up the ladies and only goes psycho when things settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 06:34 PM
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Part of it is game. Attraction = Money + Looks + Status + Game Fine and assuming "Money + Looks + Status" are all the same (as we can in the video) then it does come down to game, which is how you approach some one. Which in the video his luck changes on how he approaches some one or what type of game he uses. When he as good game he has success, when he has bad game he doesnt regardless of all other factors. If Leonardo Di Caprio said god awful shit, worse than calling a girl a slut or whore, h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 06:29 PM
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How are we defining excellence then?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 06:20 PM
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Dont worry i just asking for question for my own clairficaton. So you want some to ask your opinion on things but only if they really want it? if they dont want you dont care if they ask? So how do you decide if some is not asking your option enough or not? I don't want a woman who is totally set in her ways about everything and not open to learning what me or others have to say for me personally thats an ideal for all relationships. am i know for me its a path to growth. which think goes agains…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 06:15 PM
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i did. Hence the deleted and revised post. i am not sure what you are trying to prove with this video. To me i see some one who, when he approaches girls as an "alpha" he has luck with them when he approaches them as "beta" he doesnt regardless of how he looks. so to me that has more to do with how you approach some one then anything. Tyler even says lets see it comes down to demeanor. which i dont argue. my whole argument is that good looks will only get you so far it comes down to how your app…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 06:10 PM
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Interesting. So would you rather have some one ask you for your opinion on what color to paint her nails even if she knows red looks great on her and that is what she is going to go with? and I want one who is an honest human being. So do i.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 05:38 PM
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I dont know about female writers that used pen names but in terms of famous fame writers… virginia woolf, charlotte bronte jane austen maya angelou… and i can keep going
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 05:31 PM
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What are we using as our basis for measurement?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 05:28 PM
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Plus the complete lack of talented women in some fields. Like comedy Tina Fey, Ellen Degeneres, Kathy Griffin, Amy Poehler….all accepted as very successful comedians. certain genres of music? Like?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 05:26 PM
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men outclass women To subjective. How are you defining "outclass"?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 05:23 PM
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I had with exes and think about how I was clearly right and they should have just conceded. Totally setting yourself up for joke here. I had with exes and think about how I was clearly right and they should have just conceded. See to me it doesnt really mean anything with out context but that could be personal thing. Anytime some one describes me with a label i want to know why and i want examples. "forcing" people to let me be nice to them. How does this work? how do you force some one to let y…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 04:01 PM
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Dont confuse Blue Pill with /r/thebluepill (TBP). They are not the same. you really cant use them interchangeably. /r/thebluepill =/= blue pill Blue Pill is label TRP applies to people, we would not be blue pill if you didnt call us that. The /r/bluepill is something different, its where what you would call Blue Pills, come to gather and talk shit about TRP. However, the sole reason TBP exists is it make fun of TRP. that itself, is childish. I will give its. it's a childish indulgence. its an es…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 03:52 PM
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This. All examples of being a creep that are going to be creepy regardless of how good looking some one is. Good looking guys (or girls) only get a pass for so long
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 03:27 PM
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Creep is a gendered slur aimed at unattractive men. i (somewhat) disagree with this. You can still be good looking and come off as creep. Its all down to how you approach some one. But yes a physical unattractive man will most likely have this label applied more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 03:23 PM
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Asking me for my opinion about things she does. Down to what detail or level? Also dose she have to agree with your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 03:08 PM
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I've been described as "willful" many times by men Did they ever give specific examples of you actions that defined you as "willful"?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 03:05 PM
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Footnotes?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 03:48 AM
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professions like athletes and moviestars thats good question. I dont know. i want to say no, other wise the majority of movies stars and athletes would be on the cover of cosmo as worlds sexist man, but in reality there are lot less George Cloonys and Brad Pitts then there Michael Ceras. Same with Athletes. then if you do look at the attractive ones, brad pit is a good example, he is pretty good looking even if he wasnt in the movies. So, no i dont think being movie star or athlete makes you sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/15 10:46 PM
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do you believe a woman's professional accomplishments, or anything about her career enhances her sexual attractiveness? For me, no. what they have managed to accomplish in their professional life doest change how i see them sexually. Do you believe the sexual attractiveness of males is influenced by their professional accomplishments? In my experience, that has never been the case. My sexual attractiveness has never been influenced by what i do. And that seems to be the case among a lot of guys …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/15 10:31 PM
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BPers are feminists and argue from a feminist perspective. i would really disagree with that, I m blue pill (i guess) and while there are some aspect of feminism that i agree with there are a lot of aspects i dont. them triggered, they need to flee to these specially designated rooms to 'detrigger' that is really over board if you ask me...but this would be an example of feminism that i dont agree with and has gone to far. As for your question How can any... Its very, very difficult. And will wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/15 03:36 PM
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i am pretty sure that was sarcasm...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/15 03:28 PM
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and one of the least attractive in males. Well this should work well for RPM as they really only seem to have two expressions, stoicism and smirking
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/15 03:25 PM
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unless you drive off with my car and i dont see you or it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/15 06:23 PM
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ok thanks for clarifying. Thats an interesting view but one i have hard time relating too.. Maybe it because my experience in life have been so different i cant comprehend that the average male has an scarcity mentality I mean thats never been something that has crossed my mind (at least since i started dating). I have always know that if i didnt want to be with my partner at the time, going out and getting a new one would be easy. Hence i never engaged in think things like i must be the best ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/15 06:07 PM
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and this is the disconnect. what you have seen and experience vs what i have seen and experienced. they are different and how do you reconcile them or do you even bother and just accept that we have different experinces?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/15 05:53 PM
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He is happy that a women degrades herself to be with him and thus he does everything for her. "Yes darling, ok honey, everything you say pepsi, as good as done sweetie" Im not sure i follow you here…so the average guy will let a women get away with stuff, i.e. sleeping around because she will degrade her self for him?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/15 05:08 PM
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I disagree. For me there is a difference between teaching and telling. i can tell some one what feels go and what i like when they are giving me a blow job, but its nice for them to have some idea of what they are doing first or where to start. a real life example: my last two gfs. One knew how to seduce me and one didnt. the one that didnt had no idea on what to do, like none, so i had to teach her. The one that had an idea, well her it was easier i could just be "i like this" or "i like when y…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 11:16 PM
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That works.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 10:30 PM
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Why? Dont worry this is not judgement question.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 10:26 PM
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Fair enough. Thanks for playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 10:25 PM
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As for your edit... but you can't win 'em all. That's both parts "aww" and "lol"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 10:18 PM
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So then if a man has all the traits but a low partner count or is a virgin that wouldn't turn you or women off? edit: added "or women"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 10:16 PM
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There is no doubt that having had a bit of relationship experience tends to lead to less intense honeymoon infatuation I like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 09:45 PM
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Lol. Have an up-vote!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 09:39 PM
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i would argue there is a difference between taking charge and telling them what to do and teaching them, which with a virgin you are going to be teaching them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 09:21 PM
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I realise I'm probably falling right into your trap here. haha gotcha up narcissistic pig! how dare you say it good for women to be virgins while you get to sleep around!?! /s Quite frankly I don't need to know and I don't see that any good would come from finding out about it. This. i am right here with you on it. i have never asked about my partners sexual history, but its never really been a go or no go for me so... on a side note, have you actually slept with a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 09:15 PM
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Partner count for men doesnt matter or a high number is consider ideal, ie if a man has lot of partners is better then having a few or more is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 08:58 PM
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But its women's prerogative to care about potential suitors' notch counts Yes. So let them decide. If they want men with a low partner count let them choose such. If women don't care about, or heaven forbid, prefer promiscuity in men, what incentive is there for a high SMV man to remain chaste? There isn't any. Do women WANT chaste men? Not a women so i couldnt tell you. Are such women attracted to shy, scrawny, pimply nerds (the stereotype of a male virgin)? Probably not, but thats not all guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 07:33 PM
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Lol. Nice edited.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 05:44 PM
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So then as long as the potential for sex exists, its ok for that man to be friends with a women? But if it out right doesnt exist its not worth perusing?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 05:43 PM
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I will confess you lost me here. Care to elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 05:31 PM
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thanks for respondi
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 05:17 PM
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thanks for respondi
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 05:17 PM
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thanks for responding
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 05:16 PM
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Mansplaining for those that need a definition. And while i am sure there are men who feel the need to explain something because someone is a women, i feel it could cut both ways male > female or female > male. Hell it cold even be done because of race not just gender. So is it a thing yes but is it limited to gender and specifically male to female communication, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/15 07:54 PM
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Thanks for responding
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/15 03:54 PM
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Thanks for responding /u/apenanme
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/15 03:53 PM
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Thanks for responding.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/15 03:52 PM
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Thanks for responding.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/15 03:51 PM
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I bet there was influx of people after that. That really pushed a lot of MRA, PUA and manosphere ideas in to the mainstream
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/15 03:50 PM
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Thanks for responding.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/15 03:45 PM
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I see this question gets asked a few times a year… Thanks for responding.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/15 03:43 PM
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Interesting. If you haven't talked about this in another post already, i would like to here more about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/15 03:42 PM
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Thanks for responding Rafay.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/15 03:41 PM
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Except i am not going to try and tell him what he did or didnt do or what pill could of helped him or couldn't of. If his story was posted in /r/theredpill or even /r/realtionships my advice would be the same. The girl fucked up, cheated on you emotionaly and physically, and pretty much crossed a line that there is no coming back from. Time to move on. If he then went and found TRP or the TBP or TGP (The Green Pill) and it helps him then hey good for him. i am srsly not here to approve or disapp…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/15 03:40 PM
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Thanks for the response.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/15 03:32 PM
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Thanks for the response Cyralea.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/15 03:30 PM
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Thanks for responding.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/15 02:38 AM
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Thank you for responding.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/15 02:19 AM
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Thank you for responding. And i am sorry you had to go through what you did with your ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/15 02:18 AM
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No you right, I didnt. But then again this is PPD where its really not about being constructive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/15 09:27 PM
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Here is an idea. Come up with a better test. this was shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/15 09:12 PM
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Ok so it didnt prevent the death of my brother but he also was a highly liked, very successful young man. i mean the turn out at his wake in SF was a testment to the effect he had on people. people that he had know for week were showing up to his wake because he had the effect on people. And think back he had traits that red pill would of approved off. as for his suicide being preventable we still dont know why he did. so i cant say. if he suffered from depression it was because of my dads actio…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/15 11:53 PM
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Lol. Fair enough. But then what counts as well? I am successful at work. I am good looking. I lift. I mediate. I have hobbies. I have shit ton of self confidence. and did it all with out a lot of influence from my dad. So yeah what counts as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/15 08:06 PM
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did being raised in a home like yours make you prone to, when older, always putting women on a pedestal, giving them lots of gifts/favors, and trying to win their hearts by being kind and treating them well? having being raised by single mom, because my dad left when i was 4, no i did not. it did teach me to be kind but i a kind to women, men, children and animals. For example, if a man says something offensive to a woman, and the woman slaps him on the face, is that acceptable? No. But she has …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/15 06:07 PM
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So do you think this type of environment while growing up is damaging for a young man's confidence, AKA not having a leading male figure in the home? According to TRP yes. According to real life. No. Source: me. and my brother*. who we raised by a single mom and turned out pretty dam well. *well probably a lot or TRP would jump on that fact that my brother killed self as a sign that she didnt do a great job raising us
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/15 06:04 PM
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He's a better leader than everything Russia's had for years and is largely the reason why Russians no longer need to feel ashamed about going on living. It's all going downhill for Russia, again Russian Economy Shrank Russia: How long until the economy cracks? state of human rights human rights in russia which if this is the best russia is getting, i kind of feel sorry for them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/15 05:50 PM
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i think Putin is the definition of a red pill alpha male. but i also think because of that and the power he has he is can be bad for the country and the rest of the world. He is more concerned with leaving his mark then the actual welfare of his country. It's all going downhill for Russia, again Russian Economy Shrank Russia: How long until the economy cracks? But hey thats what red pill is about. Me first every one else second. Also this.. In Eastern Europe, women are less promiscuous, less mas…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/15 05:35 PM
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M/36/Blue Pill. in terms of personal actions and choices i have made, i really dont have any regrets. Sure looking back i can make the argument that ok maybe i should of done this or should of done that, but at the time every choice, action or decision i made was based on the best information i had at the time. most recently (<5 years) trying to due home renovations using credit cards, not the wisest move, in fact it was down right dumb, and i have been dealing with for the last 5 years and yes …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/15 05:13 PM
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you forgot the higher tax rate the unmarried people pay too...
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 07:41 PM
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Would you be willing to work hard at your job — 15 hours a day, 6 days a week — if, upon return to your home, your wife was sitting there in a clean dress, smelling good and dolled up with her hair done the way you like, ready to give you an enthusiastic blowjob and a bowl of hot Campbell's Soup? No. i wouldnt, it would take a lot more then that to to make me want to work 15 hours a day/6 days a week. What do you do? Do you tell her that she's a disappointment? Complain? Sulk? Start chatting wit…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 08:59 PM
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express the desire that they want their partners to want to fuck them willingly, often Its really inconceivable to me that this in not that case, i have never been in a relationship (LTR or ONS) where my partner didnt want to fuck me willingly and often as i wanted. and based on the number of women the post on TBP it really seems that the women that dont like to have sex are the exception. So dont you ever wonder that it could have something to do with RPM or the women that RPM chose to date tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/15 04:49 PM
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till your hour runs out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/15 06:24 PM
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First i would have to say a Fun/interesting personality and this is just because i like to live a very fun, interesting and activity lifestyle and it is essential that they are able to keep up. Strong career, earns a good amount of money finically wise is more important to me then being with some one that that is finically wise with their money Because lets be honest you can be making 6+ figures and still be living pay check to paycheck. i would rather have some making less but knows how to mana…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/15 06:19 PM
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Sigma ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 10:55 PM
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Thanks for your response.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 10:37 PM
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Interesting. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 10:36 PM
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For example, AWALT is obviously not true but in TRP it has to be or it all falls away.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 09:41 PM
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edited.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 04:12 PM
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First don't you mean all respects? Not some? Second i now have a way to justify my hatred of blacks. This term is often levied at people who say unkind things about BLACK PEOPLE. It strikes me that PEOPLE don't seem to understand that you can make rational observations about the world without feeling hate. I'll use an example. My buddy Steve is a good guy, but he absolutely sucks at basketball. He's put up so many bricks in his lifetime he could have built a house by now. I think he's inferior t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 04:02 PM
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Apex fallacy or rich doesnt in count because of poor… which is idea that has not gained any traction outside the manosphere. so here are some examples that are more in line with OP *If you have a bad day or are in a bad mood, people aren’t going to blame it on your sex *you can be careless with your money and not have people blame it on your sex *You can be confident that your coworkers won’t assume you were hired because of your sex *If you are never promoted, it isn’t because of your sex *A de…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 07:03 AM
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It destroys the foundations and faith in marriage. and / or the justice system.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 06:17 AM
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I think the official answer though, is the only hobby you need is lifting 5x5. Lol srsly. and FIFY
/r/askTRP20/02/15 05:54 AM
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113th Congress: House: 441 total (83 women/358 men) Senate: (20 women/80 men) Source 112th Congress: House: 439 total (74 women/365 men) Senate: (17 women/83 men) Source 111th Congress: House: 435 total (76 women/362 men) Senate: (17 women/83 men) [Source](www.thisnation.com/congress-facts.html) Number of female state governors 2015 6 Source Women on the Supreme Court: Current: 3 Total: 4 Fortune 500 CEOs: 24 women Source well i was going to keep going on but then i remember that i will get the …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 12:10 AM
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Wood working.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 12:37 PM
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I want to improve on my life and relationships and really aim high, can you be more specific about what you want to improve on? is there anyway i can implement TRP to benefit me? Yes there are aspect that will help you, the most universal one being working on being better physically, mentally, and socially but you have do decide what that means to you. then i think there are other specifc ideas that may help but first asl what you want to improve and how you want to improve it? then look at how …
/r/askTRP19/02/15 12:21 AM
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haha ok. gottcha you now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/15 12:12 AM
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and that's Reality Red Pill Reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/15 12:02 AM
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and now we circle what is reality drain...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 11:43 PM
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People assume it is hate because of the noobies getting into TRP who are still in the 'anger' stage of realization True and they tend to be the loudest and most vocal and that is what people learn to associate with red pill TRPers who have been in the sub for too long and have absorbed all the negativity of being responsible for everything are they absorbing the backlash being generated by the new kids that come raging in? are they being blamed for all the toxic perception of TRP? or what? surge…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 11:13 PM
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total back handed compliment..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 11:01 PM
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No one else can change except for me....No one. Is that true? No But yes it is. you are the only that can change you. i could help ie offer advice, ideas support what but only you can change. at some point if i keep offering advice support help what ever and i dont see any change on your part, i am going to call it quits. Human beings have a tendency to avoid responsibility and pain at all costs True. By making things all about you and only you (as I would argue Red Pill does), it can help mitig…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 10:49 PM
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I can't change my cards, and I can't change anyone else's cards, either. To be successful, I have to focus on how to best play my cards in any given hand. yes but how does that work if you are playing poker and the other person is play go fish?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 10:46 PM
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Blame has its place. its what you do with it and how you process it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 10:01 PM
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I can't concern myself with how someone else is playing their hand.... but you have to other wise you are playing a different game.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 09:59 PM
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i agree with that. i will never argue that point*. being able to step up and say "i have problems because of <x> what can i do to change <x> is a major deal. but both men and women can do this. not just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 09:58 PM
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MGOTW? Monk mode? sure while maybe not extreme there is def a preoccupation and indulgence of one's feelings...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 09:47 PM
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fuck a lot of strange women, improve their LTRs and marriages, GTOW and avoid pitfalls You are right i oversimplified. that's three different agendas right there, not just one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 09:36 PM
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if this By the nature of a military structure, I am obligated to respect the chain of command. then this I go full on monk style, swallow my pride, and feel oppressed just dont be a child and feel oppressed. take it like an adult. Life is unfair at time.
/r/askTRP18/02/15 09:13 PM
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if the group is larger enough it you shouldnt have any problems esp if the group likes you.
/r/askTRP18/02/15 09:08 PM
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Its all about how you say it since this is text follow with a smiley face. A reply like this would mess up the friend group? I dont think so. Sure she might tell some people but i dont think it will kill the group. What would her reply to one of theses be? Probably nothing. These are the types of replied that i thought i couldn't use as we are in the same friend group. i actually bet nothing would happen or she tells may her close freinds. How large is the group and how key is this girl?
/r/askTRP18/02/15 08:44 PM
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I find if I drink a little too much I lose composure. Dont drink or dont drink three pints.
/r/askTRP18/02/15 08:37 PM
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personally 9/10 30 year old but i am pretty sure red pill says the 22 year old
/r/askTRP18/02/15 08:36 PM
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"Only if we sleep together"" "Friends no, friends with benefits yes" "No i only want you for your body"
/r/askTRP18/02/15 08:34 PM
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TRPers are also told to accept women for who they are based on what red pill tells them they are like. TRP WANTS to give women...the same way TRPers do... no they dont or they would realize that there are women that do. for every women the TRP beings up as an example of i can think of an opposite example. Same with men. But TRP also knows that they can't change women for who they are, so that want of equal responsibility is never fulfilled. So TRP cant chanhe women or women cant change? The firs…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 07:42 PM
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So who really encourages men to relinquish responsibility for their lives failings, and who encourages them to 'man up' and take charge of their own lives? Not Blue Pill Blue pill, outside of red pill world, is mockery of red pill. i dont go to blue pill for advice i go to post and discuss the more toxic shit redpill says. the blue pill is the SRS for red pill. Red pill does, but it advocates things form a very narrow point of view. it has its own agenda. Its essentially an "ism". IMO in "-ism" …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 07:29 PM
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I cant really say anything to your situation with out more details i mean I hit a dry spot with girls doenst really say anything. the best i can come with, with out details, is it happens. as for the TRP. Dont throw it away completely it has some very useful things but also dont, and i repeat dont, swallow it lock stock and barrel, there is a lot of crap. Remember its a guide not gospel. Apply some critical thinking to it. Read other ideas, try out a few different things explore. and most import…
/r/askTRP18/02/15 06:30 PM
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Why tell? why not let her keep thinkinng that you were the one to send them and ride out her good will as long as you can/want. And if she brings up that some poing latter some eles sent them to her, just deny and keep to the plot that it was you.
/r/askTRP18/02/15 04:39 PM
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No. i call shit when i see shit regardless of gender. edit: but that can be hard to do when you are only hearing onside of the story, which may be extremely basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 12:41 PM
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haha yes. the example are in descending order from newest to oldest. and all things consider, not that we dont have our problems, i got pretty lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 12:20 AM
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shit well he might just be born with an irrational self confidence. there are people like that. lot of them turn bad lets hope he doesnt
/r/askTRP18/02/15 12:18 AM
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Sounds a little like my wife. She didn’t (still doesn’t at times) feel, secure in life. And given everything that she had to deal with growing up I cant blame her. It’s a wonder she made it as far as she did. And I try to do what I can make her feel secure. We have had some great conversations and breakthroughs on that, specifically in terms of what I can and cant do but at the same time she has done a lot of heavy lifting and dealt with the core underlying issues that lead to her feeling secure…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 12:15 AM
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So what was her deal? She probly has cancer. No really she has cancer. Did she just not like me touching her or did she think it was supposed to be sexual and responded with a shit test? Again she has cancer or it was an obsevation the you are touching her arm and she wants to know why. using slight touch to tell some to move or that you are behind them is pretty common in service sector jobs where you have a lot of people and not a lot of space so its expected, but outside that sphere its not e…
/r/askTRP17/02/15 10:44 PM
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You can't just be confident without a base, can you? what makes you think he doesnt have a base to work from?
/r/askTRP17/02/15 10:38 PM
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i dont think so but i live in beach town in SoCal so wearing things that expose bra straps, midriffs, or wearing booty shorts, strapless shirts is pretty normal so no i dont think it will incress or decress you chances.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 10:31 PM
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Hmm interesting. i didnt think off that. thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 10:28 PM
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That's one of the "feels right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 10:23 PM
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Would she not come on to you if she was feeling it? and you were not? Mostly i am asking beacuse my wife has the HL and i am trying to get her to realize tht she can come on to me to she doest neet to wait for me to be in the mood. she can make me be in the mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 10:21 PM
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damm brother. i hate to say (i have a feeling you know it) but it really seems there is something going on with your with your wife. i mean if all she is coming up with is "not feeling it" for repeat extended periods of time well it goes without saying that something is not good. I mean fuck redpill/blue pill theroy at this point go post on [r/deadbedrooms]( (http://www.reddit.com/r/DeadBedrooms/)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 10:19 PM
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So how did it work out in the LTR where the women had the higehr sex drive? was she always coming on to you or did she just wait till you were in the mood?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 10:01 PM
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I still grab at his junk every chance other then this how do you come on to him? or show him that you want to have sex or do you just wait for him to come to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 09:57 PM
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I know women who love sex, but find many/most sexual opportunities fail to get them aroused. i know women that love sex but dont take intitive with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 09:56 PM
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The opposite has happened with my wife and I. She didn't feel good/safe/okay/intimate/whatever, so she wouldn't have sex until she did. I didn't feel good/safe/okay/intimate/whatever without the sex, and that difference sent us into the sexless marriage death spiral. Ouch that is rough. Sorry that you have to go through that. I kind of understand where you are coming from. It is tough thing to juggle. Me and my wife are still working on it. I have to make sure that I am doing things to make her …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 09:55 PM
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Leadership doesn't simply mean declaring I am the boss, "respect muh authority", rather it involes actually being good at leadership skills, thinking maturely, making plans, dealing with contingencies, etc It also means know when you can’t lead and need to step down. And IMHO marriage is largely about domestic stuff where men are definitely less mature than women Nope. I way more domestic then my wife in part because I was raised by a single mom. Instead we are stuck in dull safe office careers …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 09:12 PM
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i disagree. IME women will have sex when they feel certain way but also will have to sex to feel a certain way. So lets look at two common feelings the need to "feel safe" and the need to "have fun". Example 1 – My Wife. She can not/will not have sex with me when she is not feeling safe, is she doesn’t feel safe its hard for her to be intimate and want to have sex. So yes she has to feel a certain way to have sex. However when we do have sex will feel safe. So by having sex she feels safe. The m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 08:51 PM
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that is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 05:07 PM
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TRP is more about the "why" than just the "how", it helps people really understand and make themselves better rather than just "memorizing" what they're supposed to do. yes i agree. that is one of the better parts TRP but its not anything ground breaking or new.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 04:42 AM
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"No she is not but if you find her pretty we can see if she wants to go home with us" or if i do find her prettier "yes" either way should shut down the question. edit: No if some asks me that question i will be honest simple and direct "yes she is" or "no she is not"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 12:28 AM
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i think the better question is would you not fuck some because they are a trans? otherwise i am going to answer you question with a depends, it really depends on how hot i find them and there are some amazingly hot transexuals (MtF) that appear and act more feminine then biological women. And if you saw them in the street, bar, club what ever you wouldn't know. we have the term line trap for a reason. As for why? Well in part i find there is a hyper feminization that they feel they have to do to…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 10:11 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 09:52 PM
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Fair enough. Thanks for the time and your response.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 09:47 PM
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Thank you. I think there is some useful stuff if i am willing to dig deeper. Edit: if your wife asked you something like "who's prettier? Having gave this a little thought i think i would respond with something along the lines "Does it matter who is prettier? You are the one i am going home with"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 09:44 PM
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I feel like you wanted to edit this post before I read it but ok. Probably. If i did, it was because i posted it before i was done with my thought. premature posting. but I'm guessing you don't think its dread. Yes correct. And i fixed my horribly worded statement to make more sense. "also i dont find no off that as an example of dread game. also it doesn't match many examples that i have came across" if your wife asked you something like "who's prettier? Honestly, a few months ago it would of b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 04:49 PM
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i think you nailed it. i think some level is ok but once you get to the point where you are making the girl feel disrespected for an extended period of time and/or repeatedly it goes to far and the only time it will work is when the girl is, for lack of a better term, broken. for me i get sick when i see people spouting out out about using dread game as way to degrade, humiliate and put down women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 04:11 PM
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interesting. thanks for the response.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 04:07 PM
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right. i agree there is line you have to draw. i just dont see this example as shit test or if it was there were way better ways to handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 04:06 PM
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ok. i have on occasion done the same thing or something similar and yes it all comes down to how you do it. Set and setting. You you can get away with it but you have it down where it is not harmful and malicious (correct me if i am wrong) and i think while it drives the girl crazy she knows its not with and intent to put her down or degrade her (again correct me if i am wrong) I also treat every other girl no more or less special than I do which is the way it should be with in reason but i am t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 04:04 PM
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which is not shown when you bow down to the needs / service of women that i get. you have to draw the line. i am learning that esp in context of what i need in terms of a relation ship. for me personally if i slept with some one and the next morning they wanted me to walk them to the car that is not an issue.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 03:56 PM
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interesting. thanks for your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 03:50 PM
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Yes but its how they deal with it that is what really matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 03:50 PM
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haha. Thanks. and yes once i get past what i consider some of the toxic elements of red pill i will admit there are some good ideas. I love the idea of "bettering your self", i think the abundance mentality is great and i am going to explore some of the ideas of using PUA tactics on my wife and a few other things. but no fucking way i going to swallow it lock stick and barrel i will take what i need and change as needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 03:48 PM
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thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 03:44 PM
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That was a loaded rhetorical question actually you are right. it was. age as nothing to do with it. i knew a girl that dread game work would of worked amazing on and she was late 20 but she was also very broken so i think my part of my point still stands. aslo i am believing that there are a few different versions of dread game some like the one i quoted above are disgusting but some like the one linked further down are not too bad. so its really just pick and chose what works for you. But do yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 03:42 PM
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I can live with that fix
/r/askTRP16/02/15 03:27 PM
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or prove me wrong. I'm open. i just fail to see how it could or does work but as others have pointed out there are other definitions of Dread Game then the one i quote that are complete different.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 06:46 AM
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Everyone usually has room to do this in a relationship…give a shit i agree with the 100 percent. Good for you. Thanks. its take awhile learn it. You'd best be on point with your game, brah haha ikr? saving grace is she is starting a business now and not making any money so i am the bread winner…at least thats what i keep telling my self as i sit here and post on reddit It's an expression...a jab and no worries no offense taken. i was just honesty just trying to clarify what you meant. Thanks for…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 06:45 AM
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So if we were out on a date, and i open the door in for you would you think less of me? or would you even really register it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 06:08 AM
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How old were you when that happened if may ask? And i can see how being singled out could make you feel weird. Personally i will try to open the door as much as i can for some one but i do it for men, women and children so i dont single any one out. But if you asked a guy to walk you down to the car after you spent the night, which i think most people would assume is common courtesy, would you think less of him? Or what if he offered to walk down with you but you didnt ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 06:07 AM
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Because that statement applies applies to any person in a relationship, romantic, sexual, platonic and business. as soon as you stop adding value to said relationship there is no reason for it to continue. Dread Game could be used by a boss on an employee. Dread Game could be used by a friend on another friend. Dread Game could be used by a women on a male. Dread Game could be used by a male in a relationship with another male (or does that even exist in Red Pill) Anyways the point is any one is…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 06:01 AM
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So what would a high value man do in this situation how does a high value man treat a women?
/r/askTRP16/02/15 04:02 AM
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why are we still having this conversation? i agreed you figured me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 03:47 AM
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Yes. Next the bitch. she is slut and whore and full of STDs
/r/askTRP16/02/15 03:32 AM
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So you got a girl to use her pussy pass to go get you a candy bar from some that was giving out candy bars? was there a limited supply? was he only giving them out to certain people? did you have to be special to get one? pretty much makes this a special case and not just asking a girl to go get you something that you could of got but decided you were to lazy to go ask for yourself?
/r/askTRP16/02/15 03:27 AM
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Icy Hot
/r/askTRP16/02/15 03:23 AM
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you want to come tell that to my wife who went through 20+ years of therapy to work past a child hood where she was raped and beat by three generations of men and then went on to become a successful professor, composer, musician and writer but hey..i am sure that is something all RPers do everyday...
/r/askTRP16/02/15 03:21 AM
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How is this a shit test and not just common curtsy?
/r/askTRP16/02/15 03:17 AM
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Whelp there you are go. you have me figured out. thanks for enlightening me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 03:14 AM
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Explain what the possibilities are besides anything that would have been sexually involved that would provoke a comment like that. Could be anything from sleeping around, to doing drugs, to being raped, to be adducted by aliens. Why dont you just ask her what she means and they decide if it something you can handle.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 03:06 AM
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I can't relate to Colombia but when i was in Meixco a few years back there were just as many 1% there were Stateside. So i wouldn't go in expecting to be 1% percent esp since it is the 2nd largest city in Colombia. The best thing you have going for you is that you are white. But while down there just get out and have fun. that said the best thing 1st thing meet some natives that are around your age and get to know them they will be you key.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 03:03 AM
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instilling worry as a means to handle women This is one of the places red pill loses me but hey i do get its not for every one or that there is something for every one or better take what works and ignore the rest. Thanks for your responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 02:50 AM
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No… Perhaps i phrased my question wrong. Lets try "How am i being naive?" Where I disagree with TRP is beyond the general direction, it's better to figure it out on your own. Oh i disagree with TRP a lot. there is way to much that i find toxic. You don't want solutions you want the mechanics to solutions, so you can adapt What am i trying to adapt to? the red pill or the dread game? because i am not. as stated above i find TRP pretty toxic and as for dread game. i see no point for it (as describ…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 02:26 AM
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Fair point. I have often used similar tactics as server, but i think people understood what i was doing. I mean when ever a server flirts with me i recognize that it is part of her job but i can also tell when its not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 02:19 AM
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So nothing there is ground breaking. I am surprised that people need a guide like that. I do like the idea of doing things to better yourself, which is one of the parts of red pill i like, even if it can be summed up pretty simply. And as for maintaining a separate life from your gf/wife/plate or what ever thats common sense and if you dont space its not going to be successful. Partners should have their own life and they should encourage and support each other in that. Level 8 starts to lose me…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 02:14 AM
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you just make sure to follow up with viagra
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 12:17 AM
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Yeah that too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 12:16 AM
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thats actually hot. i might use a little more build up in to a little more but… i am totally going to steal that idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 12:13 AM
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As you might imagine this started a fight and as you might imagine we ended up buying said shitheel the present with the appropriate price tag. aww dude. that sucks. and as for that 1st example, i see what you saying now and i have seen my friends gf do something similar but i never saw it as manipulation. Childish sure, but not manipulation. either way its a pretty lame way to communicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 12:08 AM
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Ok so this one If you have a buddy who lives out of state, casually mention you may go visit him for a 'guys weekend'. Bonus Points if your buddy is a player and she knows it. or this one If your phone is usually on silent, turn it on. Have your friends blow it up with text messages or this one Take her somewhere where you know a waitress/host. Flirt shamelessly and if these are not good examples is it safe to assume that dread game is taken on a whole new meaning by a different generation of re…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 12:02 AM
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yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 11:58 PM
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I was only half serious brah. I dont have a crystal ball and I wont pretend to know everything about your relationship Thank you. I do think that you are either too modest More this then anything. most people are aware of the fact that if they wanted to, if they really wanted to, they could put one over on their SO. In what way are you "using put one over" either you are on a very tight leash in your relationship, close, but the only leash i am on is what i have allowed myself to be on and is so…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 11:56 PM
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Please enlighten me and fix my naiveté.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 11:45 PM
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No had not thought of that one
/r/askTRP15/02/15 11:40 PM
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Pretty sure i found it on marriedmansexlife but the site is now down so i wont know for sure till it is back up. and that definition is much more subtle definition and one that makes more sense but it also seems to be at odds with a majority of examples of dread game that i have found which all seem to actively install fear in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 11:33 PM
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Pretty sure i found it on marriedmansexlife but the site is now down so i wont know for sure till it is back up. and that definition... Dread game is a demonstration that you do not have a scarcity mindset, and have no inhibitions about leaving where you are unhappy. It is the implicit statement that if she does not add value to your life, you will find it elsewhere. You will replace her. And most importantly, it is her belief in your ability to do that. is much more subtle definition and one th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 11:32 PM
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how you think your wife would react if you received flowers from a secret admirer? She would ask me where they came from, she would find it amusing, and then she would realize that i am a guy that other girls go after and if i left her i could have any easily have a new gf or slew of gfs. rolls eyes you know I didn't literally mean that she is your slave fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 11:22 PM
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So what is an example of dread game that you use and how does it help you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 11:19 PM
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The trick is to make it see effortless and unintentional. So would these be examples of dread game?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 11:07 PM
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The thing is, she was dreaded by basic shit like girls posting flirty or even non flirty stuff on my instagram. thats a very insecure girl
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 11:00 PM
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I would like to hear what generalities you can apply to a relationship you know nothing about. But srsly what are some ways you see women subtly manipulate men? and in terms of a relationship not typical examples like out a bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 09:51 PM
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A hilarious example of active dread given the other day was sending yourself flowers Thats pretty ridiculous and quite sad. unless they comply with your demands. Like changing something or doing something for me. Sounds like dread game. Well she is yours so to do what you ask is pretty standard. Well she is not. I didnt buy her, i dont rent her, i dont owe her. i can ask her to do something but she is not required to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 09:49 PM
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Overly ask topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 09:46 PM
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1) Work out. Honestly no one wants to sleep with a fat slob. Male or female. 2) Clean up when you go out (Nice clothing, good hair cut, shower shave) 3) Dont get attached to the out come, sometime you will get lucky some times you wont. When you dont, dont take in personally, dont blame the girl, dont blame your self. 4) Dont view sex as conquest, its not. its something people engage in to have fun. But dont settle. if you dont want to sleep with a girl you find unattractive dont. 5) Go to a pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 06:23 PM
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1) Take amphetamine This is key.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 06:11 PM
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Prescription pills and bottle of alcohol.
/r/askTRP15/02/15 06:09 PM
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whelp i just guess you should go kill yourself then.
/r/askTRP15/02/15 05:43 PM
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Basically, how can I snap out of this bitch mode I'm in over this chick? Figure out what about her lying to you is upsetting you. till you figure that out it might be kind of hard to let things go.
/r/askTRP15/02/15 05:37 PM
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sounds like you are dealing with depression. Have you considered going and seeing a counselor?
/r/askTRP15/02/15 05:18 PM
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I don't know what I'm doing wrong Why do you think you are doing something wrong? and what do you think you are doing wrong? Then i guess what do you like about your self and what do you want to improve?
/r/askTRP15/02/15 05:16 PM
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Yeah I'm somewhat happy, just not satisfied. What about your life is living you un-sastified? I meant anxiety like I get nervous when talking to some people. There is a lot you can do for that. Toastmasters is one option as is taking an improv class. and how old are you btw?
/r/askTRP15/02/15 05:15 PM
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I'm going to focus on saying other things instead of saying "I'm sorry" to communicate that I sympathize with her or feel bad for her. Interesting idea. I find my self doing the same thing. What have you came up with to replace "I'm sorry"
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/15 10:56 PM
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Good story as to why not to have kids.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/15 10:43 PM
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what is notable here is that she's displaying emotional instability and is trying to fix it on her own And that is worse then her coming to the OP to asking him to fix her problems?
/r/askTRP13/02/15 08:27 PM
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This kind of...
/r/askTRP12/02/15 01:41 AM
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He told me that men are hard wired to be attracted to young women and that it's natural that he feels that way. Yes that is natural but just because you are attracted to some one doenst mean you act on it. thats where the term "I'm married not dead came from" but again being attracted to some one is different that acting on it.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 12:02 AM
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Is this something to even worry about? Does a bear shit the woods?
/r/askTRP11/02/15 10:35 PM
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Well what do you want? Are you ok with him having a relationship with another girl while he is married to you? IIRC just because you are in RP marriage and he identifies as RP doesnt give him a right to sleep with some one else. And honestly he is using RP language to justify feeling attracted to some one else and to justify sleeping with her. but that he can't deny his biology and attraction any longer. and thats bullshit.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 10:32 PM
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Discussing feels What are feels? or did you mean feelings? also in this case feel != feelings. feel is saying the way you are and the way it is going to be. my thoughts are if you want to keep her around you can sacrifice and give up who you are and change for her or you can just be yourself and be up front about what you want, who you are and what you feeland how its going to be and let her decide what she wants to do. So why not keep her around till she gives up and moves on and then replace h…
/r/askTRP11/02/15 09:30 PM
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"of course you will" or "like over drinks at <insert time, place>" or "of course you will because we are going to <insert place, date, time>" or "in bed" the last on is a classic.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 05:49 AM
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me-Cool, in that case we should hang out sometime way to vague and opened end. you should have invited her out to do something specific. Day, time, place.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 05:43 AM
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my thoughts are if you want to keep her around you can sacrifice and give up who you are and change for her or you can just be yourself and be up front about what you want, who you are and what you feel and let her decide what she wants to do so why not keep her around till she gives up and moves on and then replace her?
/r/askTRP11/02/15 05:42 AM
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Puma not cub.
/r/askTRP09/02/15 10:41 PM
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Correct they are Pumas but that is also deepening on how old OP is as key component of being a Puma, Cougar or Jaguar is dating down.
/r/askTRP09/02/15 10:39 PM
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what is your take on it looking at through "red pill lenses" ?
/r/askTRP09/02/15 09:30 PM
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wouldnt that make sheldon from big bang alpha as well? you forgot to add that sheldon also has disdain for women and also an example of MGTOW.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 01:41 AM
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so again, bad example of an alpha over someone who is dismissive of women in general. right i keep forgetting that is the key to being a alpha in redpill literature.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 01:39 AM
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meh. Benedict Cumberhatch may be a redpill or a redpill alpha male a far better example of an alpha male from TV is Ron Swanson from Parks and Recreation.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 11:38 PM
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You can start by getting off Reddit… Try outside
/r/askTRP05/02/15 07:20 PM
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what u/Cum_on_doorknob said. Plus if you take a few different styles, jazz, hip hop, salsa you will learn a lot of basic moves you can then work together in to rave/club style dance.
/r/askTRP04/02/15 11:37 PM
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this is pretty good advice.
/r/askTRP04/02/15 11:35 PM
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source?
/r/askTRP04/02/15 08:42 PM
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It is and its not. IMO its a way to get power, but power doesnt equal being a better person.
/r/askTRP03/02/15 05:16 AM
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Well it sounds like you are on the right track. Something went wrong, you didnt get the girl, so you deconstructed that game and see where you went wrong. and yeah probably playing as to much of nice guy on the 1st date was not the best move also i bet if you look back you will see she was DTF and you just ignored it because it was the right or nice thing. but i do understand where you are coming from. i have done the same thing played it safe and nice and well i miss out on a lot of sex. and i …
/r/askTRP03/02/15 05:11 AM
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Post-wall women ?
/r/askTRP02/02/15 09:04 PM
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Use a fake name. Bond, James bond, the original James Bond
/r/askTRP02/02/15 08:54 PM
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My 1st though is the people that are Tinder are really just DTF and not looking for long relationships, but i could be totally wrong. 2nd what was the goal for the dates? did you want to get her in to bed? did you want an LTR or what? Then what did you do on the dates, how do you keep her attention on you? I want to drop the nice guy attitude, and show it. What does this mean to you? How are you the nice guy? and what would you be if you were not the nice guy? self-confidence/self-esteem This is…
/r/askTRP02/02/15 08:51 PM
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my take alpha is not the same as redpill or redpill alpha. you can be alpha and not redpill.
/r/askTRP01/02/15 07:48 PM
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if i am reading his post correct that might be a little bit hard. i believe op is in the armed services. Which IIRC is not easy to get out of and yeah if i am right hopefully some ex armed services members will be on here and have some good advice.
/r/askTRP01/02/15 04:24 PM
1

Is being attractive going to keep me away from arbitrary false and phony rape accusations? No. if some is going to try an hang a rape accusation on you, they will do that regardless of you attractiveness.
/r/askTRP01/02/15 05:49 AM
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Never let your disability affect your attitude. You are still the prize! this is truth. in my experience you own it, chicks dig it. i swear i had more girls come on to me after i lost my leg then before. But i got lucky in the fact that early on i fell in with a good group of people. One was an amputee with a HB7/8 wife and ran his own business making arcade style video games consoles. he was one the happiest go lucky people. he and his wife now have house and kid and he is doing all right for h…
/r/askTRP31/01/15 01:30 AM
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I blew it I feel awful man fuck I was feeling suicidal after the date. Well ditch the mindset right away, yeah you blew it but oh well, we have all been there. so pick you self up learn form it and move on.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 06:01 PM
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The reason why I feel like I want to see her again is that we had really good chemistry on text. Sound like you didnt have good chemistry in person tho' and plus you made some mistakes so unless she is like HB9 i would just write it off as learning experience and move on. and if I experienced racism wtf type of question is that?
/r/askTRP30/01/15 06:00 PM
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well i was holding off on this next part because i am not sure if it relates or not but fuck it i tell the story anyways… so seven years ago i was in a car crash, it left me an amputee. suffice to say the adjustment was hard in a lot of ways. i had to deal with a sudden change in my lifestyle and adapt to the idea that things were going to be very different. in addition to that change i suffered a major blow to my self esteem and confidence. i started comparing my self to other people, other men…
/r/askTRP30/01/15 05:53 PM
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Long Distance Relationships don't work. this. or it takes a SHIT TON of work and maturity that most people dont have and i always advise staying out of LDRs when you are young or if it is your 1st relationship. Curious to see if there are any other disabled RPers i am above knee amputee.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 05:28 PM
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My disability gives me self confidence issues If i may ask what is your disability? I'm taking the breakup with my long distance LTR very hard because she was my first everything. That happens to all of us at some point. the thing is it will be ok. there will be more. I'm just so jaded towards everything now. again that happens. its pretty normal. just try to not let yourself wallow in it and dont hold on to it. it wont help anything. I thought I had something good. Saddly i dont think you did. …
/r/askTRP30/01/15 04:30 PM
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and after a day now she's trying to call me. should I answer? Do you want to keep the plate spinning or not? if you do, then yes answer the phone and call her back.
/r/askTRP27/01/15 05:01 PM
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Good luck bro, go crush it
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 05:44 AM
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ok maybe the wording is bad but the idea is the same and its still better then the other help in this thread...
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 05:41 AM
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Thanks for clarifying. the OP makes more sense know. Him offering to leave the military for her indicates that he's a follower, not a leader. He's leaving an important life decision in her hands. He lacks personal ambition and is just willing to go along with what she wants. i am going to disagree about the leader vs follower and lack of ambition as but i do agree that he should not of made that offer. It would seem that this, his military career is very important to him and not something he sho…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 08:56 PM
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But you will see that it is more than getting girls, its about getting a better life! and this is why i follow it, to get a better life and to be a better person, thats that part i respect about it, not the PUA, plate spinning aspect that seems to get the most attention on r/theredpill. But i think that is just because i am older and past the anger and hatred.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 07:31 PM
1

Why is this your responablity? Shouldn't you plate be the one that is handling this drama, after all its her roommate. I think you you should tell your plate to deal with the roommate or its over for you.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 07:22 PM
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hmm. i would of fried back with something like "well i was off to the gym to get my fitness on and keep my rock hard abs for the ladies (then take her hand and place in on your stomach) i guess i could miss if i you give me good reason. whats up?" but thats hindsight so now i would go to work the next day and find her and say something like "Sorry about yesterday, just had to go the gym i need to keep my guns going for the ladies (flex). So whats up? did you need help with something yesterday or…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 06:32 PM
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ITT: People date girls that lie about the number of partners that have been with. I am guess i am lucky, in the fact that that has never been an issue for me, i.e. no one has lied.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 06:28 PM
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So i can see breaking up with some one becuse they lied to you, which she admitted latter. i personally would of looked at it the greater scheme of things. and see if it was something i could work past but thats me. and srsly? I also had this feeling like that she got to have her fun and I didn't I'm the man and should have more lays then her Holy shit man. were one of the kids that threw a fit when some got something you didnt? grow up.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 06:24 PM
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So why was she asking you to stay late? Did she want to hang or was there actual work that needed to be done?
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 06:17 PM
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Grow the fuck up and get over it. You now =/= you in the past. Be happy with where you are and what you have done. #redpillproblems.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 06:06 PM
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So because the guy said he would leave the A) military and/or B) said he would take the girl back after a 6 month break he lost value in her eyes and she wanted to break up with him?
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 04:14 PM
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Fair point.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 03:18 PM
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sarcasm? if not it is going to take a hell of move to pull of a save on this one.
/r/askTRP25/01/15 10:41 PM
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What dafuq do I respond to you dont. You messed up. You match with some on tinder, you dont message them for two weeks and you start off with "hey, how come we never talked"? ofc they are going to respond with a lol and honestly you are lucky they responded. next her.
/r/askTRP25/01/15 06:22 PM
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quit picking up chicks that hang out at cemeteries. i bet you will find its different. oh and FYI Buffy and neil gaimean are not dark. and cutting is not dark is a cry for help or attention you decided.
/r/askTRP25/01/15 06:19 PM
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Do you really want your 1st time to be some that doesnt rate high, meet you standards and dont want you friends to know about? it sounds like you are so excited about the prospect of sex that you will settle for what ever you can get. Dont do it. it's just sex, wait till you find some you are actually excited about. Dont settle. I did for my 1st time, it wasn't worth it.
/r/askTRP25/01/15 06:16 PM
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whelp. lesson learned. wont commit to promiscuous women.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 04:09 AM
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Since i got back on my work out routine in december, going to the gym every other day i have noticed increased self confidence, increased happiness and decreased stress all of these have work together to make me a happier healthier more confident person and it just shows and it not only changes the way women interact with me but also men.
/r/askTRP23/01/15 02:21 AM
1

I am much better shape than everyone else which is a giant confidence boost. This.
/r/askTRP23/01/15 02:18 AM
1

Good advice, but swimming really only works if you know what you are doing. I would replace it with bike riding.
/r/askTRP23/01/15 02:06 AM
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Get to know them. Chose one you really like and concentrate on her. Sit next to her in class, talk to her before/after class or during break, go study with her and escalate it that way. if it doesnt work or you do something wrong, move on to the next girl or wait a semester and do it again.
/r/askTRP23/01/15 02:05 AM
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Consciously, I think I should do it because our admiration isn't mutual. If you are not feeling it you are doing no one service by staying with her, least of all yourself. It's also likely that it's affecting my self-esteem negatively. I am curious as to why but if that is how you feel its probably a good time to get out. Also consciously, I think I shouldn't do it because I may get distracted, lonely, or depressed during these next important semesters. thats called safety, never a good reason t…
/r/askTRP23/01/15 02:02 AM
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Dude you are 20. How is that to late? my life didnt start to take off till 20. What happened? i got away from him, was on my own, started working on myself and got out and played the game. yeah sure i took some punches along the way but thats life. you take the punches learn from them and move one. Sure some people by luck might end up starting in the top 20% but others have to work to get there. It just doesnt happen over night. So yeah maybe you got a late start but you are 20 that is young an…
/r/askTRP23/01/15 01:58 AM
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I have some plans saturday night that I would like her to join but I'm asking you opinion on this from the outside. Does this, in her view, come off as desperate? So you have plans on your side of the metroplex which is opposite of the side the women is on? And you want to ask her out? Are you planing on driving over to her side of the metroplex and picking her up? or are you going to ask her to go out with you and have her drive over to your side of the metroplex? if you are planing on going an…
/r/askTRP23/01/15 01:51 AM
1

Im confused by this post. is this rant and something you need to get off you cheats or are you looking for feedback. If this a rant, ignore the rest of my post... So she slept with some one else, 23 months in to a relationship with you? or she was 20 and slept with some one three months into a relationship with you? If it was the 1st then i am assuming you had a talk about being exclusive and that yes she did cheat. But what did you do and how did you confront her about it? and when? and since y…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 06:20 AM
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Good luck.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 06:01 AM
1

Thats good.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 05:03 AM
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what makes u think i don t have a bf i would ignore that question. She then gave me her number and said it would be a strictly "friendly" outing Covering her bases, ignore it. I checked her fb and found one guy who could be her bf. Could be, not is. Why compare you self to a could be? I d love to get a piece of her but i fear my insecurities might ruin it. Well right before you meet up, get dressed, get groomed, and put extra time into. Then stand in from of mirror and admire yourself, point out…
/r/askTRP22/01/15 05:03 AM
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Well she is a) kidding around or b) something is up. Hard to tell at this point. Now i dont know anything about tinder, but i am assuming it keeps thing like phone number, address, etc, private so that is protected… So I would plan on meeting up with her in a public place, try to avoid / be gauge / lie about the details on where you live, work etc so she can't get any info on you. Then when you meet her you can get a better judge of if she is crazy bad or not.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 04:57 AM
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first, I think you are to concerned with what how people are reacting and responding to you. You are assuming that just because some one is not making eye contact with you then there is something wrong or off. What you are failing to consider is set and setting. what u/davevd is pretty spot on. Most people men or women general avoid eye contact during the day when they are just out and about. Its very rare that they will make eye contact unless there is a reason, i.e. you open a door for them or…
/r/askTRP22/01/15 04:46 AM
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Well do you want to meet her or no?
/r/askTRP22/01/15 04:33 AM
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She has bf? why would you want to go for that? if you dont want it to go back to that freindzone where it was before, then just keep doing what you are doing, keep distance and treat her as coworker, it work great you to the company happy hour and then you just let your guard down. It happens.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 12:00 AM
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yeah i figured we were on the same page a just had to be more alpha then you and bring you around to seeing it ;) Fucking Legos dude. Lol.
/r/askTRP20/01/15 01:34 AM
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So they'll reschedule as many times as they need to, until the poor sap throws his hands in the air and says "fuck it Yes they will. Which is why i never give them more then one chance and why guys need to realize this and draw a line. Example: I proposed a date. They counter (i am busy how about this day). I accept. Then I follow up as the day gets closer, if they reschedule again (oh hey i am busy can we do this day), i will agree (sure call me) and then will forget them and not waste any more…
/r/askTRP19/01/15 10:17 PM
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I'm not telling you this to be an asshole, I'm telling you this so you don't waste your time pursuing a lost cause. haha. No worries. I know you are looking out for me and OP. and its appreciated. Their actions are the message Yes there actions are the message, as is anyones. Communication 101. But i assume that if some one tells me the are busy, sick, out of town that day, i will believe them. But i will also force the ball back in to their court. Example: I ask some one out, they have plans. T…
/r/askTRP19/01/15 09:34 PM
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All right well i hope it work out for you. Good luck.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 07:56 PM
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Every time they reschedule Do they actually give you day or date? or do they just say lets me up latter and never follow through?
/r/askTRP19/01/15 07:53 PM
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Dont. its waste of time and energy. and if a girl lies, is that a girl you real want to associate with? So in this case if she is lying about meeting up because she is sick, is that some that you want to even pursue?
/r/askTRP19/01/15 07:51 PM
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I get what you are saying. And i dont think you were being to overt in what you wanted. and yes its always good to let them no what your intentions are. that a sign on true man. for me its juts the way you approached it. I would of instead sent something "oh sorry to hear that. i was going to ask you to meet for lunch but since you are sick. Lets me up another time. Call me when you are feeling better" intention made clear, balls in her court. then if you wanted you can always follow up latter o…
/r/askTRP19/01/15 07:50 PM
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So i am assuming this was Sunday night? or maybe saturday? Regardless, i would wait a day or two more, maybe say tuesday or wensday, then call (DONT TEXT) and ask her out again for this coming weekend. then take it down your usually path from there?
/r/askTRP19/01/15 07:25 PM
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So why not assume that what she says is true? You honesty have no reason not to. Why not send her back a text saying "Ok text me when you are feeling better" Put the ball in court, go one with your life and see if she calls. And... Then I said ok then let me come examine you meet me at this place. really? why would you say this and what do you hope to accomplish?
/r/askTRP19/01/15 07:16 PM
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While i agree with you and the sentiment,i would hiope that she is rempremainded, i think i am going to go with wishful thinking and say nothing is going to happen.
/r/MensRights14/02/14 08:45 PM
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and she will be reprimanded for her false accusations. No guarantee. i would like to know what if anything happened to the accuser.
/r/MensRights14/02/14 07:55 PM
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