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Sounds great. Just curious though, why are you not in a position to end the ltr? Are you relying on this person for a roof over your head or something?
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 08:01 PM
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I won't pass judgment but I wouldn't have fucked her if she was the ex of a good friend. Just off principle. Don't let hoes compromise your values as a man.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 08:08 PM
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Sounds like a great night. Nice
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 08:05 PM
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I agree and disagree with your post to some extent. I think AWALT exists for certain things. For example, when someone tells a story of the woman who stuck with them for their money and then left them high and dry when the "attraction was gone" or she found someone else to fuck...All women aren't like that Emotional clingyness, manipulation, mood swings, etc? Yes, AWALT. There's different levels of these things in different women, but overall AWALT. If you've accepted the nature of women and who…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 07:10 PM
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Just replying to let OP know there was solid gold embedded all throughout this post. Pay attention.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 09:31 PM
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"The weird thing is that he's gay and only fucks nice but fat girls..." You lost me right there.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 09:29 PM
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Good responses throughout the entire thread. Thank you!
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 02:35 PM
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"she's cute as hell but a complete bitch in certain ways and I don't need that childishness in my life" I damn near teared up when I read that poetry
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 01:22 PM
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Finally had a good week diet-wise and haven't missed a workout. Feels great and starting to see consistent improvements in the gym finally as well as some very slight changes in the body from this week alone.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 01:20 PM
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Love this post. Couldn't agree more man. Never looked at it that way before but we definitely do live in a "fuck-based economy" haha. I have the same exact problem where I over analyze people and their responses too much and you're right - shit is what it is and you just have to treat it as such.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 12:17 PM
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Good, this is the beginnings. After a while you'll begin to realize that it is still a man's world at the end of the day. And that you aren't completely helpless and at the mercy of the women you love. Yes, hypergamy is real. But that's what the sexual strategy on here is for - to make sure you still come out the winner. Don't lose sight of that fact. You've learned how the game is really played. Now figure out how to win.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 09:19 PM
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No, feminism demands that you "feel" a certain way about women and demands you give them things. I'm about creating programs that teach blacks how to save money, invest, create businesses, become more literate, enter into STEM related fields to elevate themselves and their families. I don't believe in asking for handouts or sympathy. Feminism does that.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 09:14 PM
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Lol I like the edit. I agree to some extent. We must also recognize though that there's a lot of white people out here throwing around the racist label "on our behalf" as well. I don't think the victim complex is as strong as people would like to make it. I do think we as black folk do need to improve our communities. We can't pretend like shit doesn't suck in certain black areas. This is just reality. Improving that or volunteering efforts to rebuild these places and elevate people shouldn't be…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 09:12 PM
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I agree, hate BLM. It isn't a terrorist organization though. That's just stupid (not saying you said that).
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 09:09 PM
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Yeah...you would be considered "Billy Bob from Kentucky".
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 09:09 PM
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There's this weird complex in America where people tell blacks to elevate their own situation and "get their own power", yet the second we actually organize to do so its "You're being exclusionist" or "you're acting like a victim". It's confusing.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 09:07 PM
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Because America instituted chattel slavery. The idea of having a male slave specifically for the purpose of raping female slaves that were tied in cages in order to produce stronger slaves and then selling those children in addition to the services of the male slave's insemination was barbaric in ways we can't even imagine. The most common misconception people hold was that American slavery was "just slavery". It was anything but. It went far above and beyond that. It was a systematic psychologi…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 09:05 PM
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I think you misunderstand lol. It's not a "victim" mentality. As I stated in the post, if you check the numbers here in America, we're doing worse. It's not about being a "victim", it's about turning around and saying 'I want to help empower and elevate the communities which my folks are from'. In terms of victim complex, I can't relate. I bust my ass in school, get higher grades than a lot of white kids around me and possess all confidence that I will get the top jobs and live a nice life becau…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 09:01 PM
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Gotta read the whole post and understand what I said in context. I will never live my life without women and would never tell you not to. But if you CAN'T live without women, you need them and only betas need women. I'm just trying to lay out the foundation of outcome independence.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 07:25 PM
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I see your point. I'm more or less saying that if the focus is you then women will inevitably come. If the focus is solely for your women then you'll find it hard to keep frame, pass shit tests, or feel true abundance because you still have such a super high level of importance on having them. By all means chase pussy until you can't chase anymore, but don't chase it because you NEED it. Need leaks out in desperation.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 07:22 PM
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I agree with you both. My purpose isn't to "redefine" TRP or tell me to compensate for shitty strategy, but it's to bring people back to center. Yes, embrace the sexual strategy and fuck all the women your heart desires if that's what you want. But don't lose sight of the fact that there's a lot more to your manhood than that. I think a lot of that gets eternally lost in TRP and there's a wealth of posts and strategies about things that are just generally beneficial for life. The purpose of this…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 07:20 PM
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Thank you for this post it definitely enlightened me.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 07:14 PM
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You missed the point of this post on so many levels it's laughable. There's always that one idiot...
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 12:33 PM
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Words can't express how fucking accurate this whole post was
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 12:32 PM
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That poster actually said nothing about being black - you exposed yourself for no reason. You're just another fucking idiot who thinks every black guy is some illiterate "Tyrone" with his pants sagging in the "hood" screaming yo yo what up dawg! I laugh at racists like you. I couldn't imagine the level of beta it takes to be so concerned about other men that you can be labeled as hating them. "Hating" is a fucking female trait. Man up.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 12:27 PM
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Lmao "pissing in the middle of toilet water" - you think this qualifies? Remember every woman pisses in the middle of toilet water by default.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 12:24 PM
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You're a fucking idiot. This girl is like my sister I've known her since I was 5 years old and I don't plan on losing a dime dumbass. Fuck off my post pussy.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 12:22 PM
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I don't plan on paying a dime idiot
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 12:20 PM
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This is really shitty post with terrible advice in it and pray to God no one took it serious enough to read all the way through, let alone actually heed.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 12:45 PM
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Forget about her. Don't pursue anything in life with the end goal of getting any girl because you'll set yourself up to allow women to make or break you and you'll be on an emotional roller coaster for the rest of your God given life. Fortunately, there are a million other benefits to being in a STEM field so you didn't fuck up per se. Adjust your priorities, obtain a more healthy mental outlook and perspective, and talk to other people. She's probably a 19-21 year old girl, she doesn't give a f…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 12:42 PM
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I like this post lol. Couldn't agree w you more bro
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 11:22 PM
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1.) you should send questions to AskTRP 2.) You're going to look like a loser and obsessed if you do. You're also going to push her harder into his arms because you're literally hand delivering an opportunity for him to be knight in shining armor. On top of all that you completely validate her decision to leave you because she can always look back and say "Wow he was such an asshole, I dodged a bullet leaving that piece of shit." You want redemption right? That's what it sounds like or you would…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 10:09 PM
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I've done it more times than I can count. I'm aware. I find the "revelations" to be more idealistic and temporary than anything.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 04:10 PM
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I wouldn't send the kid straight to rehab now. He's not you and he might kick the habit like numerous others have. Sounds like he's young and it's not that serious yet. The Adderall is prescribed the coke... Well he needs to just lay off of that.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 03:26 PM
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Lmao you really don't want this guy to win.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 03:24 PM
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I'm sorry but I hate the advice you were given in this thread op. Your problem is you need to grow up. I'm guessing you're somewhere between 19 & 20 and you're still adjusting in life and going through growing pains. Understandable. That being said, you need to start developing into a man with real priorities and the ability to say no. That, in itself, will help your "personality". Also you need to get your priorities straight. You mentioned embarrassing your family, wasting money flunking out o…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 03:18 PM
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Don't over analyze it right now. Enjoy the relationship and the love you're feeling. When you notice shit going left, come back here so you can decode it. Until then, you're fine. P.S. - Women do love - it's just conditional.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 03:37 AM
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Yeah... I think what you're dealing with is unique to you. TRP should be helping you alleviate frustration in the long term because now you have a solid playbook to use to come out successful in situations you were previously losing. Not sure what part of TRP philosophy you feel correlates with destroying your own property or road raging, but make sure you stay on point with that mental health thing...
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 03:34 AM
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I'll definitely look into that. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 03:27 AM
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This was a phenomenal post. I learned so much that some of my Asian friends hinted at but never really went into too much detail about.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 03:24 AM
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No he is not me lol. Although I'm short and wrestled too (never at a State Champ level) which is odd.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 03:10 AM
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I like what you just wrote. The poster is on to something, I just wish he didn't throw in the percentages into the example because they don't make any sense and seem arbitrary.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 03:04 AM
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I read this with the honest intention of understanding it and I just couldn't follow
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 03:02 AM
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Displaying anger shows you let someone unsettle you. People now know what bothers you and what button to push to fuck with you. If you think of the most powerful people in the world you can hardly catch a moment where they were publicly raging over an issue. It's always going to be viewed as a loss of composure whether people are fearful or not. Be angry, but don't show it. Just do what you need to do without flipping out.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 08:11 PM
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Interesting post. Makes sense what you say about your Dad. Try not to look at your own father with such contempt. No matter how indoctrinated you felt you were, know that it is ultimately his genes and parenting that allowed you to come to your epiphanies whether you can see it or not. Also understand your father grew up in a time where men could thrive without RP philosophy. Women were a lot different then and society was working in a man's favor when it came to relationships instead of against…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 07:58 PM
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Interesting feedback. Appreciate it all - good and bad.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 07:49 PM
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Sorry just seeing this. I think I understand what you're getting at w the last one. I do think fundamentally a man should know how to defend himself and should at least be in good enough shape to not get his ass kicked by any regular Joe 100%.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 04:24 AM
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This needed to be said. I saw that thread yesterday and was a little iffy myself on it. I was more on the side of - if some girl thinks I'm less of a man because I won't fight a random loser talking shit in the bar then fuck her. But in terms of that last bit in this post, you're right. That's why I advocate applying TRP strategy in a broad manner and not just for women. Frame is useful for business endeavors, networking, etc. Shit tests come from any and everyone etc. Women are of course a huge…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 08:50 PM
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Great post and you're completely right.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 08:47 PM
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Agreed. Where have you seen people claiming RP women don't cheat? I thought the only glamour of an RP woman was that she has acknowledged her true nature as a woman and is seeking a true RP relationship.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 08:44 PM
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Trust me I'm with you lol. But a lot of them will be a little more overt with their anger. Like I said though, women are women so you're definitely gonna get rocked w a few head games over time no doubt
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 08:42 PM
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My experiences are somewhat based on the "hood" but more or less black culture is pretty pervasive on all economic levels for blacks, which is interesting. It's harder to explain if you aren't black but there's a prevailing culture for most blacks period which is originated in the hood and replicated on each ascending economic level if that makes sense. I could take you through some towns in my state filled with middle class, suburban black families where you'll find the same cultural affinities…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 08:37 PM
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Thanks for the feedback man and I can only imagine the consistent feedback you get on the dreads lmao
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 08:33 PM
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I'm there with you. Not disagreeing with you at all because what you said is true. It's just comical when you see it written out and described the way you did
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 03:47 PM
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I'm not sure why but this thread cracked me up
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 12:17 PM
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Right. Like I said if someone has physically disrespected you then kick ass. But if someone's just talking shit then they really are the ones who look like pussies for not doing anything, not you. Maybe my mentality is different on this because I was raised in a little harder of a town than most people. Talking shit where I grew up was a sure fire guarantee to get your ass kicked at best so I never saw or encountered many situations where someone was trying to publicly "emasculate" another perso…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 04:45 AM
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You have to constantly revisit this stuff and the readings in the sidebar. You want to keep this at the forefront until it becomes ingrained in your psyché. Also stay hungry. Don't let a few girls giving you attention make you comfortable enough to revert back to your old ways. Understand this is a lifestyle and not just a means to an end.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 04:41 AM
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Good luck on your journey man. Glad you've identified some past mistakes and are ready to ascend to a higher way of being. You got my support
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 03:55 AM
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Agreed, but it feels like a very liberal interpretation of "rape". Under that logic, how many men have been "raped" because they had sex with a woman that said she was on the pill and she wasn't?
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 02:17 AM
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Lol "triggered". The post had a good sentiment but the examples were stupid. Anyone anywhere can be a victim. Calling out an entire race of people as victims is stupid and I'm going to label it as such.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 02:10 AM
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Black guy here -- We are not in a "victim" class. Some of the world's greatest ushers of peace and leadership were black (see: Nelson Mandela, Martin Luther King and can't forget that lazy "victim" Gandhi) I get you're trying to be encouraging but speak for yourself. Blacks, especially in America, are the textbook definition of perseverance. Between fighting against slavery, earning the right to vote, desegregation and the Civil Rights movement, we have epitomized perseverance. Perhaps you belon…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 11:51 PM
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Rarely do you ever need to fight and if your reason for fighting is being "emasculated" then you've done the exact opposite of holding frame. If you or your girl aren't being physically assaulted then you have nothing to fight over. Let people talk their shit. I've been through this a million times at bars , parties etc. Some guy sees you and gets jealous because of your girl or angry because nobody wanted to fuck him so he wants to ruin your night too.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 11:41 PM
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Just examples. Tailor your responses to your actual personality but still convey the same energy. I think some of the responses are corny too but that's because these weren't written by me and it would probably sound natural out of someone else's mouth if they actually talk like that.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 11:37 PM
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This is probably the most legitimate answer you'll get to this thread op
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 11:31 PM
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You're crazy. There are a lot of fucked up individuals in this world that prey on a child's general naivety and ignorance. A small child isn't equipped with the mental faculties necessary to evade being coerced or finessed by an adult trying to talk to them or get them to leave somewhere. The fact that this post was prompted by your disappointment at unsuccessfully initiating conversation with a small child is concerning too.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 11:27 PM
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I don't think monk mode should be eliminated because, when used correctly, it's a very legitimate process. The purpose of monk mode is to cut out distractions and the constant chaos for the sake of pure self improvement and recalibration. It's not meant as a hyperbolic time chamber where you enter monk mode and come out a year later dominating everything. You're supposed to go in with a solid plan in mind and a focused agenda. A lot of people are simply withdrawing from everything and being just…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 07:30 PM
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That's deep. I'm proud of you for overcoming. Keep pushing and making strides forward man. And always remember no one has a crystal ball. I was a little more fortunate than you in the fact that my ex survived her suicide attempt, but it's not something that's in your control. Some people are dealing with demons in this world that we don't have the power to fight for them. Keep pressing on man.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 07:24 PM
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I don't think you should "copy" him per se, because you want to have your own natural style but Ben can be a solid influence to have in your circle for sure.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 03:18 PM
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Couldn't agree more with this post. I think that urge to try to "redeem" ourselves with past lovers once we've improved is a natural human instinct. We've all said to ourselves at one point or another "Man if I only knew then what I knew now" and past lovers present themselves as one of the few seemingly available opportunities to rectify that. The past is the past - you're absolutely right. Old lovers just inspire old habits and I find it more often results in regression than progress.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 05:39 AM
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Good to hear man and I wish you luck on your journey of growth.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 05:27 AM
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You have to start changing the way you think - that's another tenet of TRP philosophy. One of the main ideas of AWALT is to desensitize you to the "OMG she's so hot and amazing I better not blow it!" anxiety you feel w these girls.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 04:39 AM
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Love reading posts like these. Glad to see how you've improved in life and hope the results continue.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 04:28 AM
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Been through this situation a few times: Wait until you see a positive pregnancy test before even discussing it. Given everything you've stated its highly unlikely she's pregnant. Girls like leveraging these situations for attention and drama creation because they're bored or want to feel like "you care".
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 04:24 AM
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You need to learn how to actually love yourself. Your insecurity is making you feel angry and like you need to go to the gym to "show" someone who's boss. Take this time in your life to man up. Joke or not, Elliot Rodger isn't a hero - he was a loser. He let his insecurities box him in and he eventually snapped on people who had nothing to do with it. The goal here isn't to be validated by people and that's what you want. Focus on developing a healthy outlook and comparing yourself to where you …
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 11:44 PM
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Glad you overcame the situation, but you aren't "there" yet. Trust me. Read the sidebar, read some more recommended materials from there and continue to improve and build up your mental strength. You're moving in the right direction but you have a long way yet to travel.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 11:39 PM
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Imagine what you would do if you knew you could jump out the relationship at any time and immediately run into a beautiful chick the next day with a great personality who will love you and treat you for you - without fail. Would you still stay? That should answer everything you need to know about when to next.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 11:34 PM
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The worst part about this post is the fact you might legitimately believe anything you said is even partially valid.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 11:23 PM
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Also another IMPORTANT lesson in here: People don't hop on your nuts until you succeed. I don't care who you are, how smart you are, how much "potential" you have, or imbued talent God gave you --- The world, your friends and everyone you meet will never give you your proper respect until you "win". Same was true of Michael Jordan and ANY other legend you can think of. People are as fair weather as they come. Sad irony is those same people will claim they "knew it" or "saw" you before it happene…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 03:17 PM
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Great post - especially that last bit about being angry.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 02:34 PM
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It's difficult. I think as men our urge is to lay out everything on the table and demand an explanation. And to our dismay we never receive one that's even remotely adequate. You're right though. We can't save these women and it isn't our responsibility to bail them out or give them an escape rope to being better. If they can't do it on their own then fuck it.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 01:30 AM
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I haven't read all the responses nor did I read your whole post but if your dilemma is a job at Google and a girlfriend then you're a fucking fool if you turn down Google. Point blank.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 01:23 AM
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Couldn't agree more. Unfortunately, the "well maybe she didn't..." is just our hopefulness kicking in. Here's what I do: if a guy were to tell me a story about the same situation I was in, what would I tell him? Then I'd give my verdict. Females are experts at making the guys they're with believe "Other girls might do that but MINE never would"
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 01:10 AM
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Could be a little both. I think the woman's built in ego just doesn't allow them to be wrong. It's like they correlate it with their value as a human.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 01:08 AM
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Glad you came to the light.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 01:05 AM
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I'd recommend that you start reading about "frame" and "shit tests" so that you can figure out how to handle this. I'd say at the face it seems like you need to shift your focus outward toward something else besides your relationship. I strongly maintain the philosophy that if you have time to sweat the little shit your girl does then you're spending too much time with her or you're not focused enough on yourself.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 02:06 PM
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I don't think this is the right choice
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 01:43 PM
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Thank you for this. I'm feeling a lot better now (maybe it's temporary). But you're spot on about a lot of things.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 02:39 AM
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I appreciate that. I'll look into it. I'm very intrigued by the cognitive behavioral aspect as well
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 10:46 PM
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Dumb young love. I can fuck someone else but I'm not even for it right now. I wanna just focus on improving mentally right now. Even more so than the physical aspect because I already workout consistently as is.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 10:45 PM
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You're absolutely right about everything you said. I gotta get my focus on
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 07:16 PM
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Only thing that might somewhat protect me is the fact that I'm out of state and I don't think she knows what my exact address is and I have a very common first and last name. In addition to the evidence being hard to prove it was me. Especially given the fact her social media is completely deleted at this point. Knowing her, my guess is she'll probably get her number changed at some point and continue living her life. Probably get back on social media again with an entirely different alias or ma…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 06:42 PM
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What do you mean by mental model? And if I don't have the money or health insurance to access a cognitive behavioral therapist, are there books I can read on the topic that will give me the same benefit? Pent up frustration = absolutely. Scarcity? I don't know. I have a couple girls I could call today and have sex with if it was a need. I had sex with someone a week or two ago. I just was too caught up on this girl to even really enjoy those experiences like I should have. And what do you feel i…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 06:28 PM
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I felt like I was being driven crazy & IDK why
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 06:17 PM
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The craziest part is I fucked somebody else in between the time she initially left the state and that whole blow up. So there was extra pussy out for the taking. I just couldn't detach from this person and I don't know why. I couldn't just accept it was dead from true time of her leaving. It was honestly dead long before then. I had the opportunity to push the button. But I was weak minded. I enjoyed the comfort of someone to love and having someone love me. It wasn't even about the pussy. I thi…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 06:03 PM
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What do you mean by put yourself in a similar situation? I don't think I'd be able to replicate that. But in terms of the internal problems, you're right. I got a lot of internal work to do. I'm just not sure how to even go about "fixing" my issues is the problem.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 06:00 PM
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Definitely. I mean the phone works both ways right? If you not contacting her results in you two never talking again then that should tell you all you need to know about that situation.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 06:43 PM
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One if the better posts I've seen in a while.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 06:32 PM
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OP the advice you got in this thread is so fucking impeccable..
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 06:32 PM
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Agree with everything you wrote. Good post.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 05:33 PM
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I think you should read the sidebar again. My 2 cents.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 05:30 PM
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The wisdom behind this post is just remarkable.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 08:17 AM
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If this is in response to the thread I made, you missed the point. I've never told anyone to "not give a fuck". I simply stated people "care too much" and it's true. Always care about things, but put those things in perspective. People who "don't give a fuck" are losers because you need to give a fuck to get things done and be a man of accomplishment. Edit: I can't say you've misinterpreted anything because maybe you have seen that mentality but I wanted to clear up my personal philosophy.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 08:11 AM
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As a black guy reading this, I'm pretty sure you never talk to black guys.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 08:09 AM
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I said "if possible", calm down.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 08:00 AM
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Truth is an uncomfortable reality for a lot of folks in here, trust me.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 08:00 AM
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Useful post simply for the sake of other men reading who are unaware of BPD or can't recognize it. I was in a relationship with one once. They're pure maniacs. Simply.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 08:21 PM
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In what part of this story did you feel like you were "sticking up for your girl"? You both should've just left and called the venue the next day to ask them to check their lost and found. I'm not sure if you think this story makes you look good or heroic... But it doesn't. Trust me.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 08:14 PM
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Gotta try to avoid having women like this in your life if possible.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 08:09 PM
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It's NOT. Trust and believe me and take this to the grave: A woman will put her COMFORT over every feeling, concern and care you have in this world. If it comes down to you or her in any scenario or situation it will ALWAYS be her. Do what works for you man. You're a cool Ass dude I can tell, so don't worry about how she feels. She's a grown woman, she'll recover if you don't speak to her again.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 03:53 PM
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Hmm. I thought most people had some sort of group of friends. Even the "losers" in my high school had a tight knit group of other "losers" they hung out with. I think many relationships are all an illusion anyway. Very few of your friends really give a fuck about you how you would like to imagine they do. Networking is a huge part of being successful in this world, so I can't imagine anybody is climbing to the top of any ladder without a pretty high level of social aptitude. Perhaps I'm the wron…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 04:51 AM
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I disagree with this post in a lot of ways. I don't think "nerd stuff" hurts you. It shows you're a human being with interests instead of some loser who can't decide anything for themselves so they follow what seems acceptable. Now, yeah, wearing costumes and shit is weird. But owning comic books? Be real. No one's analyzing you that deeply to where they're going to judge you for that. There's nothing wrong with decompressing through enjoyment of whatever niche entertainment you decide to partak…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 04:44 AM
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No. They last forever. Women are annoying like that. Just keep your cool, ride the wave, pull back when she's acting like a brat and get back to your scheduled programming whenever she's over whatever sissy fit she was having.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 04:36 AM
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All I can say to this entire post is: You're young. That's how the game goes dude. Here's something you need to remember: You fucked. As long as that's true, you didn't "lose". Now let's move on to some rookie mistakes. 1.) Stressing over the sex. Listen, most guys been there when they were younger. You're first starting to have sex, you feel like it's your big "audition" and if you don't fuck this girl cross eyed then you "blew it". Don't trip. Just enjoy being with a cute girl. The titties, pu…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 04:31 AM
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I didn't read that last part. Absolutely do NOT ask this woman on a date. Ever. Honestly I wouldn't even contact her first. If she never texts/calls you again then you should be entirely ok with that being the last bit of communication you two ever have. I'm really trying to help you with this advice: Be ready to cut off all contact with any and everyone at a moment's notice. Stop romanticizing with the idea of people being around long-term/permanently. Idc if you met the coolest girl on planet …
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 04:15 AM
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The guy telling you to talk to other women is right. It's obvious that you really like this girl. So much so that you're really analyzing when you should talk to her, when to go out etc. Don't. From the outside looking in, your post sounds like you're a little infatuated with her and that you're trying to convince us/yourself that you aren't. It's nothing to be ashamed about. She probably is a cool ass woman. That being said, I didn't read anything in your post that indicates she's someone to be…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 04:11 AM
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I'm not understanding what advice you're seeking. On one hand you mention a strong desire to avoid relationships, then you say you have two girlfriends, then you say you met this girl who you're clearly into but you don't want a relationship. I don't know what "go for it" means. If you mean relationship, I'd say no. Judging from your post she sounds like a woman who just likes male attention and the whole game of being courted. If by "go for it" you mean keep talking to her, then sure I guess. A…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 04:05 AM
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I read it. It turns out that news actually comes in more than one form.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 03:48 AM
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You're making the situation bigger than what it is. You probably do miss your ex and you were hoping this girl would be the one to replace her in one fell swoop and you forced feelings that weren't there. Nothing to panic about. Let more time go by and just naturally heal from whatever your last relationship caused. I think one common misconception about RP is that you need to become some impenetrable robot that doesn't feel anything. You miss your old girl, it's cool. Don't look for something s…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 03:11 AM
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The why often reinforces the belief in a method/philosophy's validity in the mind of the user. Without that, you'll think something is bunk the second it doesn't work. I think your post meant to say you shouldn't become too entrenched in the why, which I agree with.... But you should at least have a fundamental understanding of the why of any technique, method or idea you hold/use.. Especially when it comes to others.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 03:01 AM
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Lol you're fine homie. Glad that cleared up though.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 02:56 AM
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Great post. Pretty relevant to me in a lot of ways.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 02:44 AM
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I'd be lying if I said I read everything you wrote but yeah eye contact is crucial. Lot of people subconsciously translate eye contact as confidence. Your voice is your voice. Sure you can talk assertively and consciously make it deeper but sooner or later it'll fall back to the habits you had. Just carry a big stick as they say (I don't know what the fuck that really means)
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 02:41 AM
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You completely missed the point I was making in this thread and I'm not going to bother to correct you because the other user that replied to this comment as well as the other comments in this thread have shelled out what I was saying beyond well enough for you to understand.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 07:11 PM
1

Excellent post. I'll look into this
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 07:06 PM
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I'd advise against SA. I understand you can fuck girls from it but most of the women on there are probably in a fucked up place in life and my general philosophy is to never surround myself with losers, even if it's "just to get pussy". You don't know what they're involved in, where they're from and how someone will really react to you hustling them like that. I know some girls up there who have guy friends as back ups to be the "muscle" if anything wrong happens. It's up to you how to play it. …
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 04:04 PM
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I disagree with those ideals you outlined in your post that society tries to cram down our throats. But instead of attacking them, I ignore them. I live by my truth and I act that way too. I don't go out of my way to treat women worse, I just treat them how I believe they should be treated with 0 consideration on how they feel they should be treated. Isn't that what they do to men? Think about it. They'll guilt you into conforming to their standards while simultaneously shitting all over yours. …
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 03:41 PM
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Hmm.. I'm having a hard time isolating the main point of this post which makes it even more difficult to respond. I think you misinterpreted what Sun-Tzu was preaching here and you're applying it too broadly. You don't need to fool girls into accepting/liking you --- you can be fairly direct with your interest, you just need to temper that interest in a way where she understands that you're interested in her the same way you might be interested in a free sample from the grocery store. Sure you'l…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 08:53 PM
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Good point. At a certain point you have to accept your imperfections though. I feel like we live in a society that wants to plastic surgery, secret technique and hack their way to the perfect existence and it just can't happen. Some of these techniques out here are just going to ruin what sexual functionality you already have.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 08:43 PM
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Maybe I'm over confident or in denial but I never cared about penis enlargement because I don't think I need it. I'm not ridiculously big but I've always felt big enough to get the job done (slightly bigger than average). I'm ok with not being the biggest. Think this might be an insecurity thing.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 08:36 PM
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Hard to explain: It's a 1.5 year relationship & she's consistently been like this. It's not that she won't have sex she usually obliges but it's just that she has an attitude about it at times like she didn't really wanna do it but she's just doing it to keep me happy. And I hate that. It's been a consistent thing since damn near the beginning
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 04:11 PM
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I'm on board with you bro. I think it is harmful to the brain because of the excessive overload of sexual stimuli is not something the brain is naturally accustomed to having and it makes us hard wired to get that same "high" through wanting sex all the time. I'd think TRP would honestly be on board w this because abstaining from porn and even sex in general for a little while helps you to learn to live and love life without sex, thus leading to less pressure to want to fuck and less frustration…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 04:01 PM
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This is true. The only thing I'm standing down on is that my thoughts are incongruent with TRPs since others have confirmed they aren't. In terms of my core beliefs though that has remained unaltered
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 03:02 PM
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After reading the comments I'm willing to stand off some of the things I said prior. There's a lot of smart ass mfers here too
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 04:32 AM
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This is good news then lol. If what everyone is saying about TRP actually believing what I believe then it appears I've finally found a group of online men who are actually... MEN.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 04:26 AM
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I appreciate this post because you enlightened me to the idea that we might not differ that much in thought. I'll start looking into it & then repost my opinion.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 04:24 AM
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That makes sense. I like how you explained that.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 02:30 AM
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I don't even care if you slap your wife every night. Nobody's advocating for women, quite the opposite actually. I'm tryna tell y'all to stop stressing pussy and breaking it down to the minutiae with "frame" etc., just do you and you'll probably fuck as many women if not more. Idk about you but I can't have a normal conversation with a woman while thinking about "frame" and all this extra shit.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 02:11 AM
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Am I shaming men or are you just being sensitive like a female? If you wanna fuck a million girls idgaf. If you need to believe in this shit go ahead. Just know at the end of the day that whatever "faq" was created by another guy's opinion just like this thread was. Only difference is you treat that like gospel for some reason and assume all dissenters are part of some "fem agenda" (whatever the fuck that means)
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 02:09 AM
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Is that supposed to be like the "official" definition ?
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 01:28 AM
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Why didn't you lead her away from those guys? That should've been move #1. Could've avoided the whole "orbiter"'situation.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 01:26 AM
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