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Raven-OA_/r/seduction05/08/19 04:00 AM
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You have good goals in mind. You’ll get there with focus and determination!
/r/seduction21/01/20 08:19 PM
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I personally think when a man shows vulnerability that it’s highly attractive. I’m not attracted to highly confident men. If a guy is shy, anxious, or bashful, it’s adorable to me.
/r/seduction18/12/19 07:44 PM
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This is true that a girl is hornier during this time and especially mid month when they’re most fertile. Still you have to feel comfortable enough with the guy and to sleep with them while being on your period. It sucks to stop the guy and tell him you’re on your period. Then trusting him enough to be okay with it. Because in the back of your mind you’re wondering if he is grossed out. Some guys probably get grossed out from blood being all over their dick. I mean right?
/r/seduction04/11/19 09:49 PM
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Could not have said it better!
/r/seduction04/11/19 09:31 PM
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I’m a female and could care less about muscles and all that other crap. It’s all about chemistry and if you vibe. Just be yourself and you’ll meet the right girl who will mesh with your personality. All a girl really wants is to feel safe, protected, and special in your eyes. Doesn’t mean you have to fight. Just if you can give her that warm feeling inside.
/r/seduction04/11/19 09:29 PM
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She seems super immature. I’d say cut it off, especially since she is enjoying it by admitting she likes to be vague. That’s just a mind fuck for you.
/r/seduction04/11/19 09:24 PM
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Sounds even better! She is for sure into you if she invited you back to her place.
/r/seduction27/10/19 06:49 PM
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Thank you so much! You’ve been a big help. I will check that out lol.
/r/seduction25/10/19 09:46 PM
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It’s extremely painful... Thank you though for responding. Most people ignore me on here.
/r/seduction25/10/19 09:40 PM
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It’s very difficult with him to tell him these things or ask him. He doesn’t really give me a clear answer or he will say I don’t want to talk about that. He will think I’m pressuring him when I’m just trying to get a clear answer back. Sighs, I will try...
/r/seduction25/10/19 09:29 PM
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All I’ve done is wait though and we haven’t seen one another in a very long time. So it’s not like I’m up under him. I know he doesn’t know what he wants. Which keeps me stuck waiting as my life passes me by... I’ve had many guys ask me out but I’ve turned down everyone waiting for him as we have history together. It also hurts my feelings. I’d rather just know straight up if he wants to just be friends. Instead of making me think there’s a possibility.
/r/seduction25/10/19 09:16 PM
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I’m a girl and flirting is for sure not an easy thing no matter how pretty you are. I am extremely fucking shy so I understand where you’re coming from. Takes a lot for me to open myself up. I guess the only way to do it is to ask him subtly if he is seeing someone and see how he responds. Then tell him you’re not good at this and have never done it before, but could I give you my number. Go into it with no expectations. If he says no then you won’t feel terribly rejected. Although, you will fee…
/r/seduction25/10/19 08:49 PM
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Try not to be intimidated because under most alpha females are a gentle and soft spirit. Most women feel the need to protect themselves from all the vulnerabilities it takes being a female. If we come off weak, men will sniff it out like dogs and take advantage. It takes a strong man to handle an alpha female. Just have to know how to handle her and then take the reins if possible.
/r/seduction25/10/19 08:43 PM
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Just ask her for a re-due date...
/r/seduction25/10/19 08:38 PM
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Ask her to go to the movies with you. She sounds like she is really into you and wants you. Coming from a females perspective...
/r/seduction25/10/19 08:38 PM
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I hate condoms, ruins the whole hot moment. It’s like hold on for a second while I unwrap this and put it on my dick lol. It gives you a latex smell and to find out I have a small allergy to latex. However, I’d say never sleep with a stranger or person who you don’t know is clean without protection. If you can find a girlfriend who is clean and on birth control. If you’re playing the field a lot then protection is obviously your best bet or catching an STD.
/r/seduction25/10/19 08:36 PM
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I hug everyone and their were plenty of guys. None of the people were models, just your everyday people in all shapes and sizes. I’m a female btw. No harm was intended when I wrote that. If anything I’d go out there with him and put a free hugs shirt on. Make it a group thing.
/r/seduction23/09/19 04:38 AM
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Wear a shirt that says free hugs 🤗 They did this in Salt Lake City Utah and I hugged everyone!
/r/seduction22/09/19 11:28 PM
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Damn, I wanted those flowers! Coming from a female.
/r/seduction10/09/19 04:36 AM
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Rejection happens to all of us. Women get hurt just as much. I think you just have to work on your cognitive skills and not letting defeat win. You just have to get back up and focus on getting yourself together. Then getting back out there. The right one could eventually come, but you have to be open and ready for it. If you’re a closed book then that’s all the book will ever be. You should try to stay open even through the struggle and heart break. Things always change. A storm can pass throug…
/r/seduction09/09/19 10:55 AM
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Haha, same! I feel bad for blowing up this dudes page... I don’t disagree with, that the only opinion that matters is your own. It doesn’t sound egotistical if you really think about it, it’s true. If we’re guided by everyone’s opinions of us or of the people we care about. How can we ever truly live life? We will be too afraid of what everyone’s opinions of us are or of what they think of people around us. This goes for relationships as well. Outside people can be extremely opinionated and judg…
/r/seduction08/09/19 12:57 AM
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Gosh what I would do to be in the woods laying on a blanket and looking up at the stars! I miss that so much. I grew up in the woods as a child so I’m kind of a tree lover haha. Meditating is so therapeutic. Today I was thinking about meditating to sound music. While doing breathing techniques. I’m also playing the game Shadow of the Tomb Raider. It’s can be very challenging figuring out the puzzles, but it keeps me distracted while I’m recovering from surgery. I think it’s sad your mom had to g…
/r/seduction07/09/19 11:51 PM
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That is true, a lot of people can get worse with age. Not just mentally by physically as the older you get. My brother has really fallen deep into a lifestyle that seems to be impossible for him to get out of. I worry all the time for his life. I worry about a lot of my loved ones in my life and their mental and physical health. Not to say that I don’t have my share of problems as well. I’m sorry about your Mom and her worrying so much what others would think. Being embarrassed and humiliated is…
/r/seduction07/09/19 10:43 PM
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Yeah, it’s like being anxious seeing a girl for the first time who you haven’t seen in a while. It probably never crossed the persons mind that they’re just as nervous and afraid. We focus more on what we’re feeling then what the other person is. When we’re probably mirror imaging one another and on the same wave length. What do I say? Will he think I still look good? Will this date go good? Will he still like me after this? I hope everything goes okay... Basically just wanting to be approved an…
/r/seduction07/09/19 10:12 PM
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I get nostalgic as well by memories of songs being played with people I love.
/r/seduction07/09/19 10:04 PM
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Thank you, that’s very nice of you to say. You also seem like a really cool person who is very wise in thoughts. I enjoyed reading everything you wrote and couldn’t agree with you more. It’s almost like you’ve read my mind or have been in my head. Every person I’ve been with brought out a different side in me. Even my friends. Some bring out my outgoing and silly side and others bring out my more serious side. Especially if it’s friends who I hung out with when I was a teenager. I’ll notice when…
/r/seduction07/09/19 09:42 PM
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I love that you guys expressed that with one another. I can see the humor in it. It just shows that it doesn’t matter what a person looks like or does for a living. By the way I have the same intimidation. Guys are bigger and more powerful. It takes time to build trust and knowing you won’t be hurt physically or emotionally by someone. As it’s happened to most of us before some where along the line.
/r/seduction07/09/19 09:17 PM
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The lyrics are so powerful in that song. Anytime I hear a good song I’ll listen to every part of the lyric. Then I’ll look up the music video to see what the artist/singer was communicating. There’s always your perspective on how you listen to a song (what relates to you). Then there’s the perspective of the artist who is singing it. Each video is a story. If you listen to the song “The Scientist” by Cold Play for example. You could maybe relate to the lyrics and feel like this is a story about …
/r/seduction07/09/19 09:06 PM
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Thank you, same with yours! Yes, it does not matter how many times I’ve been told I’m beautiful. At the end of the day if I’m not feeling beautiful it won’t make a difference. It has to be genuinely felt within. I read this book where the author wrote that when someone compliments you. You should never take it too much to heart. Because then you’ll have the pressure of always having to live up to the expectation. He thinks I’m beautiful, so I’ll always have to look exceptionally beautiful for hi…
/r/seduction07/09/19 08:53 PM
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Omg I dedicated “The Night We Met” to my ex too. Every time I hear that song it breaks me to my core. All the advice you gave that guy was spot on. I hope he really hears you.
/r/seduction07/09/19 07:48 PM
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I respect what you said a lot about women being intimidated. Your girlfriend might have laughed not to be harsh. Maybe because she thought it was endearing? Which I can see how that could maybe hurt your feelings if it did. By feeling like she was not taking what you were saying really to heart. It probably only made her like you more because you were being vulnerable with her. I laugh on nerves when people tell me serious things because inside I feel so bad for them. I just want to hug them and…
/r/seduction07/09/19 07:39 PM
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That sucks! I wish we could be in the movie “The Invention if Lying”. Where everyone had to be truthful and upfront about how they’re really feeling. Then guys wouldn’t have to guess what girls were thinking and feeling. Girls wouldn’t have to guess either.
/r/seduction07/09/19 07:22 PM
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I really loved reading your response and how you articulated yourself. It makes a lot of sense. I also love how you admitted to your mistakes and how you’ve improved yourself by looking at it in another light. Women do this too of course. Some are cruel and play hard to get. Others have anxiety or are extremely shy. Or if they feel a guy is disinterested, they will play it back. One of my ex’s who I was with when I was 17 just told me he was sorry for treating me so badly. He said I was the best…
/r/seduction07/09/19 07:09 PM
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Well, obviously and I’m saying that as I’ve seen it too many times. Whether it’s the girl complaining or the guy.
/r/seduction07/09/19 04:14 PM
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Wow, you really hit the nail on this one. I’d say most guys say they’re the nice guy and end up not being so. I’m a female and everything you said is truth. Wish more guys thought like you. It’s important to be genuine with who you are. If you want a girl, be honest with your feelings. Also, don’t play games! Like playing hard to get because that gets really old fast. All it takes is another dude to come in while you’re away playing games. Then bam it’s over. Women like attention and as long as …
/r/seduction07/09/19 12:55 AM
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If you want to keep a girl you need to be on it. Don’t let another guy come in and take her. Just show her you love her and care. You don’t necessarily have to be interesting or constantly entertaining. I’d personally rather be with a relaxed, down to earth guy who is being genuine with who he is. Then to be with an actor and to find out later it was all show. That’s just me though...
/r/seduction07/09/19 12:45 AM
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She shouldn’t have led you on like that but it happens all the time with people. It’s on her at the end of the day. Wouldn’t stress it.
/r/seduction06/09/19 05:30 PM
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That remark was meant for another guy on here who mentioned that people fantasize about others while being in a relationship. I personally do not. I believe you wrote in response to him that not all people are like that or think that way. Your last paragraph pretty much sums up what I was talking about with the all you can eat buffet.
/r/seduction06/09/19 03:02 AM
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Ah I see, well I still agree with a lot of your points.
/r/seduction06/09/19 02:54 AM
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I have to agree with you here. In my opinion I believe Polyamorous or Polygamy is an action some people take because there’s a deep void within them. Maybe having a lot of partners makes them feel good and valid? Without that they could feel like they’re not worthy. It’s like trying to fulfill a missing puzzle piece inside them by being with one person after the next. Much like a rabbit jumping from one hole into the another. Getting a taste for what’s in the hole and jumping out after getting i…
/r/seduction05/09/19 10:16 PM
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Polygamy is for sure not something I’ve dabbled in. I also haven’t fantasized about other dudes except the guy I love. I also haven’t wanted anyone else. Does this make me not normal lol?
/r/seduction05/09/19 08:24 PM
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Ugh, hate when guys do what your friend does. Your way of looking at a girl shows respect and not desperation or objectifying. A girl will most likely remember you that night because you made eye contact respectfully, then the guy salivating. Especially, if the girl gets a million of those in a night. Just think about it. Who would you remember?
/r/seduction02/09/19 10:59 PM
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Say, how about you buy me a drink. My brother always tells the girls that and they look shocked and end up buying him the drinks. He is a big time player. He never ever buys girls drinks. Don’t get taken advantage of by girls who will use you to buy them drinks. Just a little word of advice.
/r/seduction24/08/19 03:07 AM
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You’d have to take off my shirt first to see.
/r/seduction22/08/19 07:18 PM
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Yeah, that might be a little tricky but the right woman will come around I’m sure with time...
/r/seduction18/08/19 05:04 PM
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I don’t like labels but perhaps you could be bi or bi curious... The only way you’ll know is if you try to be with a female a few times. I say a few because sometimes your first time can be nerve wrecking... It sounds more like a fear of being able to perform to the other persons expectations. Just be yourself. Also, going down on a girl does not necessarily mean you have to get hard or stay hard. Maybe you need to be stimulated or just try to relax and enjoy the moment. You could also like to p…
/r/seduction17/08/19 04:37 PM
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I don’t think anything he said is weird. He actually has more balls then most people to post this up. A lot of people have similar problems or perhaps different but they don’t talk about it. Or reach out for a solution.
/r/seduction17/08/19 04:27 PM
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I’m not sure where there was any sarcasm in what I wrote? Why would I be that viscous of a person when this guy is obviously in some sort of pain? A Christian is a Christian. Some are extremist and others aren’t. I’m not an extremist but I go to church and read the Bible from time to time. Lately due to health issues I haven’t gone as much as I’d like to. Also, I’m not anywhere near being perfect. I’ve tried that route and it drives you insane. Not sure where this judgement is coming from.
/r/seduction16/08/19 01:53 PM
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You can remain celibate and find a female who is celibate too. Or even a girl who is more experienced should understand it’ll take time for you to improve on your skills in bed and getting to know her body as well as your own. If you choose not to be celibate just know God loves you unconditionally. There isn’t anything you could ever do to make him love you any less. We’re all sinners no matter how perfect we try to be. I became a Christian but later in life. I would not forget your roots. I’d …
/r/seduction16/08/19 08:07 AM
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Of course 🙏🏻
/r/seduction14/08/19 02:16 AM
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Of course, I hope you won’t worry but I know it’s different being in your shoes and going through it. Perhaps she will reach out in time. If she does then you can be raw with your emotions. It could be a huge misunderstanding like most things through text messaging and such. If she ever reaches out again just be honest about your feelings. Women love that more then anything. I love when a guy is vulnerable and shares how he really feels. Remember though if she doesn’t reach out again then it’s s…
/r/seduction13/08/19 07:16 PM
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No, I think it’s sweet that he remembered a hug from you from four years ago. I wish you good luck and happiness!
/r/seduction13/08/19 07:09 PM
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Man, I’m a female and even that one confused me. I’m wondering if she was seeing another guy. Or perhaps she felt used when you left her after sex and couldn’t stay. Sounded like she was upset with the short replies. Usually if a girl doesn’t respond or gives short messages it means you did something to offend her. That or she is into someone else. I also think it’s good to tease but sometimes when you do it too long the expectations increase. You both will set the bar high. I’m sure though that…
/r/seduction13/08/19 03:46 PM
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I’ve learned a lot too about men from this website. It’s interesting to say the least to read the stories. Now I notice things that I didn’t beforehand. If I was cold approached I’d wonder too if it was from this site.
/r/seduction13/08/19 02:43 PM
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Nope, he for sure likes you! Anytime a dude brings up something from that many years ago means he was thinking about it. That hug must have been memorable lol. Sometimes all it takes is a hug. Hugs leave a lasting impression with a person. It’s not stupid btw.
/r/seduction13/08/19 02:10 PM
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I’ve been approached by so many foreigner men at the mall. They are just like that naturally. They grab you sometimes and pull you towards them. Or they come up to you and just straight up tell you you’re beautiful and ask to take you out. They’ve even done it with my brother standing with me. They just don’t care. Be careful as a lot can be players especially when they have that type of personality. Smooth and like they don’t care. They’ve probably done it to hundreds upon hundreds of girls. I …
/r/seduction13/08/19 02:04 PM
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It has to be the fear of rejection. Everything is primal though in the end. It’s like an animal who want to mate with a female. The female could reject the male or submit to it. Other times you’ll see two tigers fighting over a female lion. Whatever alpha wins gets to mate with the female lion. They also mark their territory.
/r/seduction10/08/19 10:28 AM
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She could just be shy and doesn’t smile a whole lot. Hides behind those big shades. I look serious and angry when I’m not and don’t smile a whole lot. I feel happy half the time but it’s hard for me to express my emotions on my sleeve like other women. You also stated she isn’t with her boyfriend anymore. She could be sad and grieving inside. Try to make her laugh or talk about something light to open her up. Remember though that you’re an equal to her and whatever you say will most likely intri…
/r/seduction10/08/19 10:16 AM
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Haha, thank you 🙏🏻
/r/seduction08/08/19 05:04 PM
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I noticed you used the word “kinda” like her. Seems like you’re not sure... Also, if it’s a date or not. Do you know what it is? If you don’t, then she really will be confused. If you want it to be a date then don’t be afraid to tell her “if” she asks. I’m sure she would assume it was if nothing was said on either side. So if it isn’t then you should make that clear to her from the beginning before going out.
/r/seduction06/08/19 05:45 AM
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I am a girl... I feel like I’m attractive and I’m not saying that at all in a condescending tone. It’s just I’ve had a lot of admirers and people tell me I’m very pretty. I just feel like the guys I’ve been in relationships with don’t stick around. It’s like being a door mat. When I’m too nice they lose interest and then when I start to lose interest they come back. Or want me more. It’s so fucked up. They say nice guys finish last but I feel like nice girls finish last. Starting something new w…
/r/seduction06/08/19 05:14 AM
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I wish I had a guy who would love me hard.
/r/seduction05/08/19 03:24 AM
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It’s the heart that does it for me. Everything else just fades with time. Even if a guy is the most gorgeous man that walked this planet, yet he was not a good person. It be a turn off instantly for me personally.
/r/seduction21/07/19 07:49 AM
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She sounds like a high maintenance bitch.
/r/seduction18/07/19 05:33 AM
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This spells disaster waiting to happen. Unless you’re specifically looking to have fun with him and that’s it. Relationship wise, highly wouldn’t recommend as it’ll probably not work out in the long run. So I’d prepare myself for that burn. Personally, if I was 45 I’d never go for that young of a female especially if I worked with her. People that age do not have the maturity of someone who is 45. So if he ended things, in the work environment it would not be good down the line. He is actually p…
/r/seduction11/07/19 04:55 PM
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I’d say stick with the flowers and the card. However, she will appreciate the gift without question but she probably won’t feel worthy of such a gift. Sometimes small gestures is better. Also, you seeing her will be more of a gesture then buying things for her. Flowers are something she can sit on her table or next to her bed and think about you when you’re away. Or even a stuffed animal or blanket. A spa package is something that will relax her but then it’s over, if you get my point. I’d get h…
/r/seduction11/07/19 05:31 AM
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Cafe’ go for coffee. Or take a Yoga class or some fitness class. The best class to get physical with a person is Acrobatics. It’s not as hard as it looks. Everyone is hands on and it’s the perfect way to get close and meet a female. Join a dance class. Or you could ask a girl to the movies, picnic, that type of thing. Join a book club if you’re into books. There’s also single groups at church’s that hook people up. You could also go to the zoo or museums around the city. That would be a good way…
/r/seduction11/07/19 05:16 AM
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Well, I don’t think you love her if you’re asking this question. Sounds like she freaked you out? Don’t say anything back... It’s better to be honest. If you loved her you’d say it back. It’s scary to say it the first time and even a bunch of times after that. However, don’t feel obligated or forced to say it back if you don’t feel that way. Doesn’t make you a bad person. If you do love her then tell her when you’re ready. You could even say I’m not ready to say it just yet or just be silent. Ei…
/r/seduction03/07/19 10:46 AM
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There’s no shame in feeling happy or confident after this happens. It’s a good compliment. It’s just foreign for most guys until it happens to them.
/r/seduction03/07/19 10:29 AM
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I’d say you’re not compatible with those women. Perhaps the topics just aren’t all that interesting to you. Or you’re thinking to much into it and cannot relax/get out of your head. Maybe you’re too focused on what they will think of you or if they will like you to the point to where you cannot enjoy yourself with them. This might be an insecurity that you’ll have to work on within. You shouldn’t have to feel you have to always fill the void by talking and entertaining. Or focusing upon those th…
/r/seduction03/07/19 10:01 AM
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I believe one should never live life by the rules of a book. Have to think outside the box a bit more. These are great tools in all but it’s more complex then that. I believe society is screwed due to the fact that everyone is for themselves. It’s a very narcissistic world we live in when it comes to relationships. Due to the fact that we tell one another to be this way. Women for example, “don’t rely on a man to make you happy.” Men, don’t rely on women to make you happy. This goes against our …
/r/seduction03/07/19 09:21 AM
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Amen 🙏🏻
/r/seduction01/07/19 03:26 AM
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You’re not pathetic at all! Congratulations on going out there and being brave. I hope her number is real but even if it’s not it’s good that you did it. It’s even better that you’re proud of yourself. Don’t let anyone take that feeling from you.
/r/seduction01/07/19 03:26 AM
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This goes both ways you know ☝️ but your point is very valid.
/r/seduction01/07/19 02:33 AM
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Depends on the female. Most go for looks but some go for chemistry and personality. It’s the same for men.
/r/seduction30/06/19 03:53 AM
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All it takes to winning a female is persistence. You’ll win the girl if you just be yourself but be persistent in action.
/r/seduction30/06/19 03:50 AM
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It’s just a mask so you can feel and act different. I think women are gorgeous without makeup more. I’m a female btw. I wear makeup but I really hate it. It’s not who I really am. Just what society says we should look like. It sucks that it makes us feel better to wear it then to just be ourselves. However, I’ve noticed a lot of women are going more towards the natural look now ever since the feminine movements.
/r/seduction30/06/19 03:48 AM
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Just the fact that you’re asking already says you’ll be a great boyfriend.
/r/seduction30/06/19 03:44 AM
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This happened to me. My friend was talking about this stupid site all the time. How she basically lives off of it. So I opened an account to see how it was, what it was like. I could not believe how many guys kept writing. I deleted it the very next day and asked my friend how the hell she does it. You’re basically bate, it’s disgusting!
/r/seduction27/06/19 08:03 PM
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I’m sorry that’s a tough situation. It could be stress, his diet, weight, if he is working around any chemicals? Is he depressed? Does he take any prescription medication? Does he exercise? Does he drink alcohol or do any drugs? If none of that checks off on his list then he can always get these shots that guys take to increase their testosterone levels. He will have to go see a Doctor and bite the bullet. It’s not embarrassing because Doctors hear this a million times. If anything they see and …
/r/seduction26/06/19 06:47 AM
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She is probably super shy and socially awkward. Or what you’re talking about she might not understand. Or it’s something she isn’t interested in. She also could have other things on her mind. Or just likes the comfort of quietness and isn’t used to being around a guy who talks a lot. Try to do activities with her instead of the whole one on one thing. Warm her up to you first.
/r/seduction25/06/19 07:39 PM
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That’s a good question. I guess the best way for me to get passed that is to get to know him and see if I can trust him. Also, if what he is looking for aligns with the same interests I am. Like is he looking for something serious vs a one night stand type thing? Talking or texting for a while helps. Then once I’m in person with him the chemistry will either be there or not... Right now I’ve been single for quite sometime so I haven’t been on any dates. I was asked out recently though which kind…
/r/seduction25/06/19 07:06 PM
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I was just joking about the beginning part but being serious about the other part. I’m a girl and when I’ve been asked out a guy normally says, Hey what are you doing this weekend? Or are you free this weekend? Would you like to go out to dinner?
/r/seduction25/06/19 09:25 AM
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Remember girls get off too. So he is right ☝️ Have to think about her needs as well.
/r/seduction25/06/19 08:21 AM
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No, not at all. She is just wanting to explore more avenues with you. Be open to it because you could discover you might like something she wants. She could also be curious if she hasn’t tried something before but wants to try it with you.
/r/seduction25/06/19 08:18 AM
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Sounds like you’re looking for more reason not to do it with her. Which means you’re probably not into her. Or you’re having insecurity issues about who is alpha and not. You shouldn’t get caught up in the whole power trip thing. Otherwise, you’ll let a lot of opportunities pass you by.. Her asking you “let’s fuck” is an odd way of trying to get your full attention. Which means she really likes you. All the alpha beta crap needs to go. That’s just ego and pride which are weaknesses. If you don’t…
/r/seduction25/06/19 07:39 AM
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Just know it’s them and not you, They could be in another relationship, getting out of one, stuck up on one, or just don’t want a relationship or fling. It’s so hard to find a women who is available. Don’t take it personal. When the time is right you’ll meet the one who likes you.
/r/seduction25/06/19 07:24 AM
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Rejection is painful and can cause insecurities within. It happens to all of us. I guess the best thing to do is try to know it isn’t you. It’s just not what that other person wanted when it comes down to it. Could have been any guy she left.... Even if she ends up in another relationship. I’m sure she will do the same to him. Also, stop being the victim. Easier said then done as I’m going through the same ordeal. Been rejected in every way possible. It’s the shittiest feeling in the world. Just…
/r/seduction25/06/19 06:59 AM
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Okay if you saw her then that’s fate! If she is the one who got away don’t let it happen again because you can’t have your cake and eat it too. Have to make a decision. Either you’re in or out. Also, do you know if she is single at this point?
/r/seduction25/06/19 06:41 AM
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Maybe you could gently tell him that you prefer being submissive or dominant in bed. However, you also have to please him too once you’ve let him know what you like. Can’t be a one way street or else he will become you. He can’t read your mind so he doesn’t have a clue. I can tell you feel bad that he doesn’t know. You’re gonna have to be honest and tell him. I understand being shy and embarrassed to ask because I am the same, only when it comes to specifics. For example, I like to be spanked, h…
/r/seduction24/06/19 05:56 PM
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You need to be genuine to yourself or you’ll be miserable. Every girl is different in what they like. Some like high energy vs low energy, or opposite. I personally have gone for men who are more calmer and relaxed. I’m a pretty down to earth women so I don’t think I could handle a high energy guy. I’m also a little more serious in nature but love being playful at the same time. Just not to where it’s over the top. You just need to find a girl who will appreciate and like you for who you are. A …
/r/seduction24/06/19 04:50 PM
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Thank you, I really appreciate that 🙏🏻
/r/seduction24/06/19 08:22 AM
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Lose her, she isn’t into you and is a jerk for doing that to you. Unless it was an absolute emergency.
/r/seduction24/06/19 08:22 AM
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Thanks, just glad I could be of some help. Psychology was my favorite class in college. I’d love someday to be able to help people.
/r/seduction24/06/19 07:28 AM
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I’m sorry that happened to you. It’s obvious you still carry that trauma with you. Just might have been subconsciously. A lot of past relationships can carry over into new ones to where we don’t even realize we have that baggage. You could have some guilt about it or fear that’s still there. Also, two years without sex is a long time. So what you’re feeling is very normal. You just need to find that right girl who understands you and is willing to help you get through it. Women are emotional and…
/r/seduction24/06/19 06:47 AM
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It sounds like you’re interested but you’re more afraid then anything. You could just be letting your insecurities get in the way. Just know everyone, including that girl has insecurities. About being physically inhibited. If a girl really likes you she will make the first move, unless she is super shy. This girl straight up asked you for your number which shows she made the first move. So physically she will most likely make the first move. It’s okay to be nervous and scared with women. If she …
/r/seduction24/06/19 06:03 AM
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If you’re a virgin then it’s totally normal to be nervous. If you’re not a virgin, but haven’t had sex in a very long time. That could be a reason why... Maybe you’re afraid of how you would perform sexually? If that doesn’t apply then you need to dig deeper into your past. Did something bad happened to you in the past that for sure could play a role in it? Any type of abuse... Or if you were in any abusive relationships? If not, you could just be afraid of commitment or have trust issues. Or of…
/r/seduction24/06/19 05:35 AM
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Being attractive means nothing to me. It’s all about chemistry. It does not matter if you’re the hottest guy on this planet. If there’s no chemistry there, or you have a crappy personality, it’ll be an instant turn off. I can’t say it’s the same for everyone. Most people go for looks which is horrible because looks fade. If you don’t love the person on the inside then it’s not genuine and shallow. What people need to value is what is at the core of that person and their values. I don’t particula…
/r/seduction22/06/19 02:36 AM
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She probably doesn’t want to move too fast and is testing to see what kind of guy you are. Next time try not to be as aggressive. Just take it slow with her and let her put the moves on you. It already seems like she did but for sure wasn’t ready for what you thought with her signals. I don’t blame you though as girls can be confusing.
/r/seduction22/06/19 12:56 AM
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You’re going to have to flirt with her. Let her know you’re interested in being more then just friends. If you wait too long you could mess up your chances with her and just end up in the friends zone. You could read some books on how to flirt or watch some YouTube videos as a starter. Assess what feels right to you and your personality. It’ll be uncomfortable probably at first until you practice more and more with females. Just start by complimenting her more. Your hair looks beautiful today, y…
/r/seduction20/06/19 06:34 PM
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You’ll do great 👍🏻
/r/seduction20/06/19 06:07 PM
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Do not kiss her on her cheek. She will think you’re not into her or that she messed the date up somehow. Be brave and go for the kiss.
/r/seduction20/06/19 05:48 PM
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By being one of the good guys genuinely. Shy girls usually always go for the good guys. Slow and steady. Shy people observe you and pick you apart in their minds. Assessing you and seeing if you’re actually a good guy. The hardest thing you’ll have to do is put yourself out there by making conversation. Which is super hard with a shy person haha. You’ll probably have to do most of the talking at first. If you go into a book store for example. See what section she goes into but don’t be creepy ab…
/r/seduction20/06/19 08:27 AM
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It’s easier to fixate on the fantasy/lusting after, then the reality. You’re probably just attracted to women who are impossible or hard to get. Or are unavailable due to being in a relationship, getting out of a bad one. Or are in love with someone else. Either way it’s best you accept that they aren’t into you. Don’t take it personally as it could be a lot worse. Some guys don’t have any women that like them. Same goes for women. I’d try to focus on some of the ones who actually see you ☝️ the…
/r/seduction20/06/19 08:04 AM
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I can already tell you feel bad so imagine if you have sex with her. Then she falls for you. You’ll feel much more shittier. Just be honest! If she doesn’t go for you, you always have your hand and perhaps another girl down the road who shares your common interest. My feelings on this one ☝️ is she will go for you because you’re being honest with her. Who knows you guys might just end up liking each other. 50/50
/r/seduction20/06/19 07:50 AM
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You have to know nobody on this planet is perfect including the dummies who commented before me lmao. This seems more like you’re fantasying and lusting perhaps? Deceiving yourself with an illusion of how you think he is then “who” he really is. Which really has to do with your own self worth and confidence in the end. Because you feel you’re not adequate enough for him. I’d say in order to get better. You have to look at the big picture and at your own self image and like what you see back. Oth…
/r/seduction20/06/19 07:39 AM
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If you want to seduce a women just try to be yourself and make her laugh and smile. Make her feel comfortable with you. If you’re a super shy guy, a lot of women find it cute. It’s the same if a guy finds a shy girl cute. Another thing is, if you’re nervous. Just know that most likely she is too. Also, if you have confidence issues. Women have them just as bad if not worse because we think with our emotions. So compliment her, which should instantly make a smile go to her face. Observe and asses…
/r/seduction20/06/19 07:24 AM
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Yes, facial hair is very attractive on a man. It shows maturity, masculinity, and growth 👍🏻 I’d recommend to keep it slightly clean and trimmed up.
/r/seduction20/06/19 07:12 AM
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Every women is different. You have to find out what they like and dislike. Observe them and study them. Find out what her goals are and what she actually wants from a guy. I can say most of us want stability, loyalty, and commitment. I also think if you do play mind games with a girl. Where you take them on a rollercoaster of emotions they will burn out eventually, or become bitter and resentful towards you. Not to mention angry which is never a good thing. In the end, it’s emotional abuse. Even…
/r/seduction20/06/19 06:54 AM
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Book stores, but good luck on getting them to talk.
/r/seduction20/06/19 06:22 AM
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