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RedDreadWolverine/r/askMRP04/04/16 04:59 PM
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"Plus, I’m angry/resentful enough that I don’t want to open my cap and spill out all of this rage and bitterness. I think it would be negative for me." Bud she doesn't care about your rage and bitterness. She cares about improving standing in general, meaning her standing with you and your personal value and success. You should be dealing with that crap on your own time and doing hard things that freeze out your resentment. If you were challenging yourself and doing things that were worth your t…
/r/askMRP29/08/23 02:14 AM
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Shh
/r/RPChristians24/03/21 01:25 PM
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I have to admit it is definitely a very tough thing to do. I am a pro at handing things over and then trying to snatch it back. With my relationship with God He very often doesn’t let me get away with doing things the easy way when I ask for His help.
/r/RPChristians22/03/21 12:44 PM
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I wouldn’t call ownership a feel good platitude. I’m just saying rental infers someone else owns what is being paid for so there is ownership somewhere. Think about people who rent a house versus owning one long term. There’s a completely different shift in attitude between the two. You should hold a stake in your family home and work life. But at the same time you don’t let those things define you. And acknowledging the temporary nature of what we have does go a long way in holding onto the big…
/r/RPChristians21/03/21 02:29 PM
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I would not advise treating your life like a rental. Ownership is still important and maybe that was too vague, or you saw what you wanted to see. There is a big difference between transactional relationships and relationships build of value and desire. If a man pays a woman to sleep with him or has marriage based only on financial or provisional terms then that is transactional. If a man generates value within himself and he has a life that a woman wants to be a fixture in that is a desire base…
/r/RPChristians21/03/21 01:53 PM
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I think you misunderstand me. The mission isn’t to not disappoint you. The mission is for your man to fully realize his own wants and needs and living an authentic life regardless of what you think you want. It has nothing to do with disappointing you and it’s far more complex then that. Nothing he says does or thinks should be for your approval or acceptance.
/r/askRPC19/03/21 12:04 PM
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“Try not to disappoint her.” Thanks for that I needed a good laugh.
/r/askRPC19/03/21 11:54 AM
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And a strong successful man with a concrete frame bends them just as easily. You can’t change the external, only yourself. Whine more please.
/r/askRPC18/03/21 08:32 PM
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We are not of this world under Jesus’ blood. Society is not your king.
/r/askRPC18/03/21 08:06 PM
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You’re married sir. You don’t take a break from sex. You cut out seeking transactional sex through covert contracts. Your discussion with your wife framing sex as a problem is absolutely wrong. The problem is your own questionable preconceptions of sex. Stop seeking it and just be in the moment and be switched on and awake. If it comes to you it happens. NMMNG is book number one (intro) and you’re already bringing your wife into it. You need to stop relying so heavily on her before she realizes …
/r/askRPC18/03/21 02:43 PM
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Regarding that last paragraph about earning my place. It’s more then understood. I’ve started over several times with several groups. I will be involved and I’ll welcome input. Because being brutally honest about my IRL groups I spent a lot of time improvising. I care about these guys because I wished I had guides and mentors I actually felt connected to when I started the path. So I hope to learn more instead of just relying more on the basic empathy plus strong hand approach that’s common in t…
/r/RPChristians18/03/21 11:25 AM
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I was going to say about the same.
/r/askRPC17/03/21 10:31 PM
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How terribly sad.
/r/askRPC17/03/21 10:30 PM
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“Women are all trainwrecks” It’s nice to see some red pill thinking up in here. To be fair puppies kittens and children are train wrecks most of the time too without a stabilizing masculine force in their life.
/r/askRPC17/03/21 09:46 PM
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Only date women with a strong Christian dad in their life. Anything else is chasing trainwrecks.
/r/askRPC17/03/21 08:58 PM
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I’ve been on the path for something like seven years now. I started in deadbedrooms then moved to married red pill. I got doxxed about 4 years ago. Lost access to RedDEADWolverine and started up reddreadwolverine. Which was my own fault for having a simple password and there was no recovery email on that account. All my articles got sent to my boss at the time and I lost my job, and that dude hassled my wife on messenger for a few months trying to talk her into divorcing me. But she’s a true tra…
/r/RPChristians17/03/21 08:04 PM
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I'll probably start writing again. I haven't posted a ton since I got Doxxed. Mostly hopped on to reply to messages about how to run IRL groups.
/r/RPChristians17/03/21 03:03 AM
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There's a name I'm happy to see.
/r/RPChristians17/03/21 02:28 AM
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He’s technically following the golden rule if flexing on dudes and dudes flexing back is his love language.
/r/RPChristians16/03/21 09:43 PM
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Oh man I forgot about that one. I really miss those long discussions and the openness of those guys to my ideas. Yeah I can post stats. It’ll take a bit to type it all out as over the years with the IRL meetings it’s usually just obvious through the whole process particularly the physical/visual is plain as day. The intentional one on one conversations usually root out the rest. If writing out my stats is the price of admission then I’m down. I’ll type it out from my pc tonight.
/r/RPChristians16/03/21 06:10 PM
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It was definitely not my intention to come off as self important. I started back in married red pill before Christian red pill was a thing. As a matter fact it was a long period of time people were debating whether or not you could truly do both at once. This was ridiculous in my eyes. I guess I just figured I was known on some level because I still have guys messaging me five years later when I haven’t posted a thing in a long time. I definitely want to help people but I’m not trying to be anyb…
/r/RPChristians16/03/21 05:03 PM
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Bro you you have a 9 member sub training dogs using prongs and write long posts. I gave you the benefit of the doubt as you obviously understand the mindset based on your replies and you are endorsed. You’ve been here a year and we are supposed to be building better Christian alphas not trying to throw our weight around like a bunch of tryhards. Holding the frame isn’t the act of constantly pressuring others it’s the fact of being immune to the pressure of others while carrying about your busine…
/r/RPChristians16/03/21 04:09 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/RPChristians16/03/21 02:23 PM
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Fair assessment. I’m not trying to rest on previous exploits as that is death to ones own personal evolution. All the groups that have stemmed from my original group that formed years ago were brought to life by other men by their own time and effort. I merely showed it can be done, many have already well surpassed me as I’m sure even some here have as well in many aspects. I’m not so blinded by experience and ego that I’m not still willing to learn. I know many of you direct messaged me before …
/r/RPChristians16/03/21 01:59 PM
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This is right on. If a mans only mission is to appease his woman above his own desires he becomes like a ghost in the household. He’s technically there but it’s almost like he doesn’t exist.
/r/askMRP16/03/21 01:50 PM
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Interesting that you think I should qualify myself to you. Where do you think that’s coming from?
/r/RPChristians16/03/21 01:40 PM
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You’re touching on how men are shamed about porn in what seems to be a roundabout way. If you remove the sin context it’s still an easy dopamine hit that requires little effort. Most things we shame each other over have that modality. It’s why we get on people for eating too much cake or playing video games instead of hitting the gym. Because the dopamine hit is unearned. Porn is weaksauce consumptive behavior. If you’re trying to be Alpha you create value and make things instead of partaking of…
/r/RPChristians05/11/19 02:03 AM
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I would say read a lot of stuff surrounding the bravery, character and toughness of Jesus. Dude was a carpenter on a mission that faced down the religious royalty of his day to the point that they had Him killed.
/r/RPChristians08/01/19 01:32 PM
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Really, we are cuddling and reassuring our women now? What happened while I was gone??
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/18 01:26 PM
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This guy gets it
/r/RPChristians02/09/18 10:34 PM
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Aside from the overlay of a faith based values system how is RPC incompatible with TRP methodology aside from spinning plates and all that?
/r/RPChristians02/09/18 10:33 PM
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It’s a decent lay out. But nothing beats just doing the damn thing. The group I started has still been kicking ass. It’s a very fight club type thing now in that you really gotta want in to get in. It has two images too, one is entry and it’s a little more of an open starting out experience where you get heard and get input to make baby steps. Then there’s a whole next level that’s intimidating, frustrating, and confrontational. People who can hang in there on that next level start to really bon…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/18 08:20 PM
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Yes
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/18 08:00 PM
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Yeah I have an office, conference room, and waiting room. I just tend to get caught up in helping new guys get into corresponding fields, because it helps me exponentially. My rate has quadrupled over the past 2 years. My problem is I need to switch the phone off when I’m with the kids. It’s a little bit of that “nice guy” creep. I get a financial incentive to help through consulting but the problem is being present and in the moment with the kids.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/18 05:06 PM
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I’ve been out on the road a lot since I started my own company. In three years I’ve moved my family into a bigger house twice. Ive stayed in the gym, I’ve completed marathons and bike races, and I’m in the best shape of my life even though I’m middle aged. I’m in social clubs I never thought would have me. I’m successful. My relationship with my wife is strong. But I realized I’m not present with my kids when I’m home. I book up all my time at home with consulting in my field online. I haven’t t…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/18 03:14 PM
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Curious. How’s your boss toxic? (Are you victim puking?) What does “shutting off your emotions” actually mean? (Is it possibly stress and adult responsibility you have not learned how to deal with yet? If it’s that then seek squared away male mentors and let them give you perspective.) 1.) Don’t be vulnerable with your girl, you bring that kind of thing here or to a respected mentor type in your life. 2.) She’s not “scared of you”, she’s insecure that you seem weak. She’s prodding at you to see …
/r/askMRP09/07/18 04:27 PM
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I don't know what the post originally said... but the best way to "unplug" a friend is really to not be directly involved in their unplugging. It takes a lot of nudging and subtle suggestions and if they eventually get to the point that they are ready to confront the lies they've been believing then it's best to do so by spending a bunch of time on a camping trip alone. We run a group of 40 men that meet in person and so far a total of almost 200 have passed through, taken what they needed and m…
/r/askMRP07/07/18 12:43 PM
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Yes I can. It was the best thing thing that’s ever happened to me in the long run. I got fired, but started my own business. And being my own boss has been one of the most rewarding experiences ever. My wife got lots of creepy messages saying, “Hey look what your husbands saying about you on Reddit.” To which she told them to fuck off and came to me about it. That whole thing had a positive effect on my relationship. Because I didn’t crumble or fall apart, I said “yeah? So what?” and moved on. I…
/r/askMRP07/07/18 11:37 AM
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Aren't you ambitious? The places you'll go kid
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/18 04:08 AM
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I'm amused by your need to juxtapose what a dom you are against your failings to display true leadership within your financial management. Why don't you take all the frills out of this and address the true issue at stake?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/18 06:07 PM
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Every change effects many areas of ones life. I try not to minimize much because I live by a philosophy that anything that comes easy isn't worth having. Porn is easy. Junk food is easy. Not working out is easy. You pay later for all these things. I'd prefer to earn what I get. I embrace this even to the point that if I won the lottery I'd donate or invest it and not spend a cent I didn't earn on myself. Maybe I'm foolish, but I stick to my true values that were still there once I'd truly unplug…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/18 03:47 PM
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It used to be a problem I had when I started RP. But I've had a lot of experience mentoring others and it's pretty common. Alarmingly common. The ones that have it the worst are the ones who project back onto you when asked and then victim puke about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/18 01:43 PM
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Man. He made an account just for me. I own him. Whinemoreplease would be proud.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/18 10:00 PM
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And yes this post is for the noobs. I thought that was obvious though. Maybe I should put trigger warnings up for those that think themselves Jedi level redpillers.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/18 09:58 PM
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Oh well. The ego is for reals. Butthurts gonna butthurt.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/18 09:52 PM
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4 professional porn stars killed themselves within 2 months recently. They almost always have backgrounds of severe drug abuse or molestation too. Actual high value women don't gravitate to porn. Super conflicted low value high attraction ones do. Real high value women marry men with the correct success traits and shut the fuck up and let their man win at life. They challenge him when he's being a punk bitch but when he's handling his shit they shut up.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/18 09:50 PM
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If faith is a retarded prescription why be in a group called redpillMARRIAGE? Marriage is generally a faith based social contract. I never told anyone they have to share my faith. But that there are reasons outside of faith to abstain from porn. Lots of them.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/18 09:13 PM
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Depends on what you value. Good genetics and attractiveness are not the only thing that determine value. Background, morality, personal/professional values, skill set are also important features in a woman. I'll take a responsible 7 who has old school values and shares my faith over a 10 who is a piece of shit. Depends on what you value I suppose.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/18 08:59 PM
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Yeah. Post the links. Please.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/18 08:54 PM
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Us religious types inherently over value personal intimacy, and being less "pragmatic" and nihlistic then your average athiest or agnostic does make porn more attractive to those who belierve in deities for sure.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/18 08:53 PM
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You'd be surprised all the shit chronic masturbating is covering up.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/18 08:49 PM
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Wow. Sounds like I really hit a nerve. I couldn't hear your point above the pain my post has caused you. Get well soon buttercup.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/18 08:48 PM
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Excellent contribution. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/18 08:45 PM
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Why not change everything and freak her the fuck out? This is a tactic I get guys to use all the time to make giant leaps in their relationships. Yes, lifting, consistency and stability over time improves your situation. But sometimes it's worth knocking the chess board off the table. Here's how changing everything works. She is your current priority. Getting sex from her is your current priority. She holds all the cards if you are trying to reason or negotiate with her. You have to act in a way…
/r/askMRP25/08/17 10:18 PM
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Elmer Towns Fasting for Spiritual Breakthrough
/r/RPChristians13/08/17 11:39 AM
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The funny part is I started the sidebar but never finished everything. It launched me into a fervent pursuit of my faith and a lot of my growth happened from there. RP sidebar definitely removed some mental shackles I see plaguing other leaders in the church.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/17 05:27 PM
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Good for you. If you want to go beyond your norms. Take a weekend camping and hiking trip and bring only water, bible and a sleeping bag. Go alone. Do not speak even once. Listen. Don't bring a watch or a phone. Sleep on the ground. Don't allow your mind to whine about this or that. Listen to your own thoughts and make the weak ones shut up. Listen for God to convict and lay bare the current idol you have and set about destroying it. Before you leave... Start making meaningful commitments and ke…
/r/RPChristians12/08/17 04:57 PM
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Feel free to cross post if you think so. Tag me if you do.
/r/RPChristians12/08/17 04:44 PM
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Water, electrolytes, vitamins and I had broth a couple nights at Sun down.
/r/RPChristians12/08/17 01:09 PM
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Just made my first post there.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/17 11:16 PM
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Readings?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/17 10:46 PM
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Church guys, but started the group with four guys in a diner booth.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/17 06:38 PM
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They are allergic to any kind of accountability and expect others to solve their problems for them and then they take credit for it. I praise the actual doers and watch the scumbags shrink. I agree and amplify on divisive behavior. I directly confront with scripturally based rebukes and I don't hesitate to repent of my own short comings and sinful behavior. This sends them running fast. My groups have always been face-to-face and I never really brought up the red pill stuff right away at least n…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/17 05:37 PM
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67 subscribers... I guess you gotta start somewhere. I might have some stuff lying around to put in there.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/17 02:45 AM
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Lost like 100 lbs, got real lean, picked up red pill fast because it was a light bulb thing to me, learned leadership skills, started a group, got fired after being doxxed, started my own business... making twice what that job made me... now I make about 3.5 what I was making. I also enjoy running cultural marxists and other kinds of communists out of my church. It's like a sport to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/17 02:43 AM
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I didn't know there was one.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/17 02:41 AM
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What about virtue in general? Adhering to values or principles? Maybe my faith is just some extension of ego, but I constantly am put in tough situations by what's "right" to me. I think that being in the moment is not about the ego though. I believe losing yourself into the practice of doing or being something connects to something different then ego.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/17 02:22 AM
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My version of playing nice is generally giving dumb people enough to hang themselves. I've been working at this so much the past couple years that I see most people have idea what they are actually saying. You had to literally lead most people into saying what they actually mean. But sometimes making them double down and stand by what they say is way more amusing.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 06:58 PM
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Go read the practicing mind by Sterner. Not everything is ego driven. Most things are. But not everything.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 06:04 PM
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They might not get crossed off for you but they would for some. I'm a shooter and I train a lot. But if I bought a specific piece of gear just so my peer group knew I had it then that's ego. Or if I bought a gun to avoid dealing with my feelings about something going on in my marriage that falls into the other category. This thing isn't necessarily going to tell you the meaning to life. It's just a good diagnostic tool to make sure you're at least looking in the right direction. I've seen it do …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 05:39 PM
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Is what you want to be not also a want?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 05:23 PM
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Being in the moment and tapping into your instincts really is not ego in my personal opinion. When you're pulling back in Arrow or lining up a shot and being completely in that flow state and in the moment it's not about ego. Hence the shooting related terminology. Bad Shooters overthink everything, they flinch, blame the gun, the scope, but good shooters do the Zen "let the gun shoot itself", "let the arrow find the target", let it happen kind of approach.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 05:20 PM
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Newbies benefit the most from crossing all that shit out. This isn't high level stuff it's basics. But trust me, we have desires besides food and shelter that will be left when you eliminate the rest. There are certain things hardwired in us that are not completely ego driven. And those things can be different depending on the man.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 05:13 PM
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It's a simple, yet humbling excercise. In my real life community it's become known as "target actual" and mindfully pursuing target actual is known as "zeroing your sights".
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 05:06 PM
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Not even a hint of that. I'm too mean to die at this point. When I got the call I said, "What a fucking retard." you don't quit the game just because it's hard.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 03:19 PM
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You're extremely accurate about the play Nice Part. I have to be extremely mindful because I'm used to throwing playful slaps at everyone around me and watching their ego crumble. But I have to make sure that I'm not throwing a backhand of Revenge from hell at people instead. It has to come from a good place and not a dark one. Context always matters
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 03:16 PM
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Nah, no covert contract. Just my harsh sense of humor. I'll be calling them faggots for caring in no time.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 02:20 PM
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Stone is right. Calling a man a coward is egalitarian bullshit. Point a man in the right direction, but don't try to emotionally manipulate him.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 02:12 PM
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Is it fucked up that I've learned to enjoy having my ego smashed? Shit talk and brutal honesty are my love languages.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 01:15 AM
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That's some truth. That's what I wanted.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 01:03 AM
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I managed to hit the gym and get out the planner and lay out some plans. Luckily I don't have to completely Unfuck myself. Just get the ball rolling again.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 01:02 AM
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Yep. Right there. Its not their reponsibility. At all. Nothing binding, but I'll be sure to shit on them later for feeling sorry for me. They should know better.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 01:00 AM
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Motherfucker.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 12:56 AM
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I know exactly what you mean. I get pushback all the time even in my own church where I'm pretty well respected because some of the things I say or do don't seem "very nice". Though often when I treat another man roughly, it's for his good more than my own enjoyment.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/17 09:36 PM
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It fits. The mind is a pretty big thing able to compartmentalize many things. Look at people like Ben Carson who are wizards in their medical field while also being extremely dedicated to their faith. What I've learned here has actually enriched my faith in a big way. I hate that the modern church seems to value niceness above actual concrete values that mean something. I probably have a dislike for some aspects of the modern Christian that might even rival the feelings of some atheists on the m…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/17 08:39 PM
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There's something going on with you that I can't quite put my finger on. But don't worry I will.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/17 08:29 PM
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Basically.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/17 08:21 PM
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Pure faggotry right here. I understood your gist even though maybe you don't? Subconscious triggers of self destructive behavior? What the fuck is this? A buzzfeed article? I can think you're a limp wristed whiner without it meaning I'm angry. I'm just intolerant of your SJW lingo and mindset. Intolerance isn't anger.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/17 08:11 PM
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There wasn't any. But one should be wary of thinking a lack of judgement or anger equals some kind of moral highground.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/17 08:00 PM
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If anything I'm more free to pursue self reliance because of my faith. The hardest battle has already been won by Christ. The rest is almost a fun game. I manage what's manageable and let go of the rest.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/17 07:33 PM
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Yeah. That's what happens when you read stuff and work on yourself. You change. I hope I've changed, because if I haven't I'd have nothing more to say.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/17 06:27 PM
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That's a given.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/17 03:06 PM
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Keep it. I make my own.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/17 11:58 AM
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Much appreciated.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/17 11:20 AM
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"Triggers". I determine my actions. Not triggers.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/17 03:05 AM
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The answer is not much. But why fixate on knowing how a fuck up thinks versus someone who's actually successful? I killed that guy, I don't care how he thinks.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/17 01:27 AM
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Nope. Not too worried about them. Wouldn't have started my business if not for their meddling.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/17 01:17 AM
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It's a cycle of overcomplicating simple shit to avoid actually working on one's self. Complicate simple shit. Ask for advice. Receive reasonable or practical advice. Complicate advice. Blame advice givers for your failure. Be unhappy, because you fucking deserve it asshole.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/17 01:02 AM
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Good reply.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/17 12:58 AM
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Don't make it weird. Let's get some shit done.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/17 12:50 AM
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Sounds like your perception of her being non contributive is based on a covert contract. Your perception that you're "stuck" in a marriage is both a covert contract and a fucking excuse. Get the fuck over it or leave. You said it yourself. Stop being a little bitch and being mad when she also acts like a little bitch. Your chick is a reflection of you. If you don't like what you're seeing it's your fault. You trail off at the end with a non-point. 50/50 20/80? Did you somehow redpill and still t…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/17 12:49 AM
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Doesn't sound like you have oneitis. Sounds like maybe some insecurity and need for external validation through these other chicks. Dig into that a little more. See where you're lacking in your life and spend your time working on that. Store up value. As a former addict myself I know what can happen if you get stagnant. Always be looking for cool shit to add to your arsenal. Edit: If you're not swimming you're drowning.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/17 11:31 PM
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I kind of let myself get isolated this past year. That's the main reason I'm back. When I was here before some of you dudes could be downright vicious and it's much appreciated for me when in person people seem to be downright apprehensive about criticizing me to my face. Here's to the faceless contrarians and stoic heroes of MRP. Show me your moves.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/17 11:27 PM
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I went all over. California, Vegas, Colorado, I own my own business and I work remotely anyway. Swing that? I'm my own man with my own thing. I don't ask someone else for permission.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/16 09:34 PM
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It sounds like you don't understand the perspective of how your personal happiness benefits her. I'm taking a long break from Married red pill mostly because I've been on the road without much in the way of electronics. But I went on an adventure for about 3 months, my wife wanted to come with me with the kids and I said no. I needed this time to myself. And what she gets when I come back is a better version of myself. She benefits from it. She told me herself she realizes that this was all a go…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/16 02:10 PM
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I've gotten stomped plenty. It doesn't bother me. Heck I got stomped by the whole group in person the other day. And not a month goes by that I don't get accused by some liberal idiot in my church a being a misogynist or a racist. Usually simply because I wouldn't acquiesce to their point of view. I had to grow a thick skin so try to stab through it if you can but I'm Luke Cage bitch.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/16 05:09 PM
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His approach was awesome. He'd just come up and stomp you. If you genuinely were trying to improve yourself it would make you better. If you still had the mindset of having everyone else do everything for you he would almost force you to out yourself as a little bitch. The world needs more of this. Much less hand-holding and cuddling more kicks to the teeth. Trample the weak hurdle the Dead as one of my favorite t-shirt says.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/16 04:04 PM
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I guess I'm hungrier then most. But I truly believe that attitude doesn't come from success but that success comes from attitude. So with the right mindset Drive and attitude generally whatever you envision as successful will follow. Some imaginations are bigger than others.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/16 03:51 PM
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Neither was whinemoreplease but he was more effective at showing me how to be truly masculine then any of the regular contributors ever were.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/16 03:43 PM
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I'd only agree if you mean contentment in conjunction with getting lots of stuff done and building lots of value. If you're content with mediocrity then you're probably suffering from poor mindset.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/16 03:30 PM
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Calm down brother I was speaking generally not directly. Or better yet agreeably and then addressing what you were addressing.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/16 03:22 PM
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Fair enough I can always be better. It's just not at the top of my list as far as this particular goal is concerned.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/16 03:21 PM
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If you knew anything you would know no one just makes it and stops there. It's about finding joy in generating value everyday with everything you do. Some of you won't find any value and whatever that's fine but for whoever does it was 10 minutes of speaking into my phone on the way somewhere. I'm not bragging about how I "made it" I get up and I make it everyday. The mission is never over it is always on going there are always new objectives. You don't get to retire you never stop swimming just…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/16 03:19 PM
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Oh I'm completely content. I focused my mind shut out all the noise and now I get what I want. Isn't that what everyone here wants?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/16 03:14 PM
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Yep. I just came here to encourage other dudes who are on the cusp I'm making that mental change that results follow. No one can do all the correct thinking for you. No one can do the self-analysis for you. It's all up to you I think that is a basic ground level concept that most new guys miss out on. My writing doesn't put a porch on the front of the cabin I'm building out in the mountains. I'm just trying to encourage some guys. I don't spend all my waking hours contemplating technique and gam…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/16 03:13 PM
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My writing's probably not great because I put a lot more effort into actual introspection and self improvement then I do actually worrying about how to convey it to an audience. My real audience is the people that orbit around me. But sure it's a fair critique. I write about these matters rarely so maybe I'm out of practice.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/16 02:17 AM
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Let go of all the bullshit. Stop focusing on shit that don't matter. Read books about what you wanna know. I work 60-80 hours a week but I still find time to read and work out. Even if those happen in a park in the middle of the day. The Shit you focus on is what's gonna come at you in life.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/16 12:34 AM
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Such a flow that I have to set aside a moment on the back porch to relax and reflect on the day. Otherwise it would all bleed together.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/16 12:30 AM
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Good post brother. This is an important point. I notice often that the language used by some is very victim puke. I've learned to be very aware of the language that posters are using to get to the bottom of what's really going on. Because often they are not telling the truth but rather looking for sympathy. I think a lot of us need to get better at picking out these little things and calling out these guys for being so weak and pathetic. I don't really think this sub can be effective unless the …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/16 06:23 PM
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Great questions. There has been fallout but new members would attend under a sort of quarantine. The "core" group would often split away from the newbies that are still reading the books. This was to protect veteran members. Most of the time, men would leave after not liking what the books had to say and that was the end of it. Yeah theyd call it wrong. But most of the time we would give logical explainations of Jesus masculinity. We would just ostracize those who were subversive. We cut them ou…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/16 07:31 PM
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You'd be a lot better off loosening your tight fists off the concept of "fair". The deck is stacked against us. Yes. We thrive in those environments. It breeds greatness in those who actually want to try at life. The real mother fuckers rise to the top.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/16 03:57 PM
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You can get stronger at making excuses for why you're not doing stuff, or get stronger actually doing said stuff. Pick one.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/16 02:01 PM
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Don't force anything. Just call dudes out where you can. And share the material. Go from there.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 11:10 PM
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It's a mixture of older (40s 50s year olds) no bullshit war veterans and previously clueless seminary students and tech types 20s to 30s. How attractive it is really is based on the mission and "realness" of the group. Not age groups. It's a two hour discussion usually. It's barely structured. No cross talk, and if you victim puke or aren't saying anything helpful or relevant the group can move to vote that you shut the fuck up for the rest of the session. Emphasize value so it can be modelled f…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 09:49 PM
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You could have been doing push ups instead of typing this bullshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 09:23 PM
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Lol! http://memeguy.com/photos/images/googled-aww-yiss-was-disappointed-63460.gif
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 09:22 PM
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Did you just comment on my other post and admit you know you're using her as an excuse not to actually work on yourself? Who fucking cares if she cums right now. Build your own value, value makes women cum hard. You're obviously not interesting or attractive enough to warrant it. That's what she's really mad about. Fix that. Like you said you would.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 09:19 PM
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"been reading the books NMMNG, MMSLP." Did you finish them? If you've only been "lurking for a month" I doubt you've had time to actionably read and implement them both. "When we first met I was a fake alpha, but got by. Now full beta living in her frame for awhile." This is somewhat a bright spot. At least you're not saying you "used to be alpha" like most guys. You realize that you're a total faggot and you don't want to be because you know deep down how unfulfilling being weak is. That's a st…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 09:13 PM
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Yep.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 08:34 PM
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It's a set of 5 YouTube videos. It confirms a lot of theories I've always had about Society. And it has truly elevated my thinking but be prepared to invest over 8 hours into it total.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 08:31 PM
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It gets better and better.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 06:29 PM
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You did fine. "Oh sorry I wasn't more appreciative towards you while I was out of my mind on drugs honey!" would be been a great agree and amplify here.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 05:25 PM
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I tell people this in our group all the time don't read us a damn novel get to the problem and solution and the surrounding factors. We are here to figure stuff out not listen to you talk.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 05:16 PM
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You know what I mean. You're talking about trolling for fun and profit vs sitting through some bullshit you don't want to listen to. If you can have a "talk" with your wife and troll her for fun and profit then by all means do so. But OP is obviously ill equipped for that.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 03:00 PM
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I have not. I think the book the leadership are checking out now is operation werewolf. We are trying to replicate authentic tribalism within the group in order to break down the cultural barriers in place that isolate us. I'll order that book and add it to the list. Have you watched Stefan Molyneux r vs K series? Its eye opening.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 02:25 PM
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I made a post. Check it out. Any questions, pm me.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 01:43 PM
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Stop trying to qualify yourself to us we don't care. Talking about two months of solid red pill saying you dgaf. Saying you won't get disrespected. That's all words and actions say otherwise. Notice that when you left to go on your walk and came back she was dressed differently and tried to tempt you. That was a good sign she improved her appearance in order to get your attention but that's all it took so she rejected you again. Here's the rule that I want you to set up for yourself. If she trie…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 01:35 PM
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Basically I spoke about stepping up as the family leader, and how my wife submitted herself to me even when I was not worthy of it. The transition happened easily because we were staying up so late on a weeknight, and meeting on the weekend during the day at church was easier. I started working right from the book at that point. After that we went with general themes for discussion. The main goal was to get guys to unpack stuff with the other guys in the group to really bring about change in tha…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 03:08 AM
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You've got some very kickable teeth yes, but I'm honestly just trying to do my part.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 02:45 AM
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Any aspect of mentoring you're personally invested in? To give me a starting point. It's a broad subject.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/16 09:46 PM
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I'll kick you right in your fucking teeth whenever you need it. Just pm me.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/16 09:27 PM
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Yeah this is something I see that I feel is a disservice and I do not do this for any of my men I work with. I don't want anyone faking anything. I want them to put in the hard work up front or stop wasting my time. I will never be the kind of person who posts lots of technical data about how to look like a man of value I'd rather teach you how to be a man of value.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/16 08:11 PM
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There's a lot of nuance to the subject. The abundance mentality coupled with a lack of self-discipline can be disastrous. If you always believe it'll be there later it might not but if you're always harvesting that abundance and building up value then it is very rewarding. Even if you have an abundance you still have to put in the work to enjoy it. A scarcity mindset this one made out of fear and usually relies on the benevolence of others meaning you receive nothing unless one is kind enough to…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/16 08:07 PM
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I am pretty new to having this kind of relationship with people. I haven't written that much about it as I don't feel extremely qualified on the subject. But it seems to be extremely effective for the men I work with. I think that you need a certain degree of intentionality and focus to make it work but I guess just about anyone can do it once they've sort sorted their own crap out. I could write some on my experience with doing it if you feel that would help anyone but I don't see a lot of men …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/16 04:53 PM
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I have not been able to read it yet I'm still working on finishing Vox day social justice Warriors always lie
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/16 04:23 PM
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I might have some time to do like a FR dump with some achievements, actions, and results if you guys want. A lot has changed around the home. I could take some time over the next week and put it up since I'll be taking my first vacation in 6 years. I know I have kind of gone dark recently. I'm working hard to implement some more advanced stuff in my life. I can post some on that stuff once I've got it all sorted.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/16 11:44 AM
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It does matter you're right. People are so short-sighted they often don't want to learn from the experience of others. A big trick with most is to plant Little Seeds here and there. That's what this guy kind of did with me and then it all made sense when I came here that's why I made the change so quickly.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/16 06:03 PM
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I would get her a mini cupcake. Just to make it more comical.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/16 08:51 PM
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Brother I have been where you are and I understand. Setting a solid boundary of keeping a padlock on there can only be a temporary measure. My family used to trample all over my spaces. But now my kids come and ask me before they even touch something that belongs to me because they respect me. Even little kids (I include wife in"kids")understand the concept of respect but you have to continue being a genuine dude that commands respect. Don't let this distract you. Continue working on yourself an…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/16 07:45 PM
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That's a very complicated subject and his remarks on it could mean all sorts of things. I do know that Jack does have certain followings and has even spoken in front of groups of white nationalists. That's his thing and his perception and not one I share. But that's mostly because my tribe is a spiritual one and not so much based on shared attributes as it is on shared beliefs.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/16 06:41 PM
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I'm sorry I'm not really following you. You're hinting at something you said that you don't agree with but not actually coming out and saying whatever it is. You're telling me that Jack didn't communicate clearly and that the same time not communicating clearly with me.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/16 05:31 PM
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Do you not believe that when most men are compromised that it's a result of fear or a misguided avoidance of the appearance of looking afraid?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/16 04:11 PM
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I think some of what you said is way off the mark. What he's addressing is virtue signalling. The way everybody wants to make sure you know they are a good person because they tell you so instead of allowing their actions to dictate what you think. It's akin to when people say I'm not racist but. Why do you even need to say that? And most people say stuff like that when they're about to say some racist crap. Just speak your mind and stop trying to editorialize what people should think about what…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/16 03:24 PM
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Would you say it was pretty contextual to the way of men or did it more so seem to be its own thing?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/16 01:35 PM
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I'll be working through his books A Sky without Eagles and Becoming a Barbarian on vacation next week. I'm sure they'll inspire some more writing from me.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/16 01:21 AM
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It's also usually the main thing that causes people to argue with you when you give them solid advice. They are either afraid or they think implementing your idea will make them appear afraid.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/16 08:13 PM
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No simply it is that weak-minded people only have the one trick. It's hard to learn additional approaches and tactics. But not falling for the one trick while also possessing additional tactics set you up to win.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/16 07:24 PM
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I mostly mean if you put in the work if you've done hard things if you've gone through the crap. If you have the tenacity to endure hard things you're going to last longer in the fire then people who use fear to manipulate
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/16 07:22 PM
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You can always start your own business, triple your income and get the surgery as I did. I'm not in good company. My competition is a me of yesterday, and I always strive to win.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 04:52 PM
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Step up to the challenge then... Did you get skin surgery? You're apparently an Adonis after being 400 lbs previously? I'm a former fat ass and pretty swole but I'll always have space to improve daily. If you think you've obtained perfection I'll tell you you're full of shit or delusional. "Good as I'll get" is not an attractive attitude.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 02:48 PM
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You don't sound like a high SMV man at all. You might be delusional because you likely went from -4 to a 5 or 6. But you think you went from 1 to 10. Work on you and don't be a bitch. Be more interesting, charming, and attractive. If you can't keep up with her then it's you're own fault.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 02:29 PM
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Fat doesn't make people fat and weak. Sugar and grains do.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/16 12:30 PM
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Eating strict keto plus intermittent fasting is the way to go in my opinion. I eat nothing but meat and veg. I even feel like fruit is overrated these days.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/16 12:29 PM
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Your libido is controlled by people agreeing or disagreeing? Really?
/r/askMRP16/06/16 01:04 AM
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Your username is amusing in light of how you handle your wife. Get your shit together.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/16 05:12 PM
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What does this scenario have to do with the marriage as a contract? Did you get drunk and wake up in the middle of getting divorce raped? Did you not both sign a contract, acknowledge the contract in front of everyone you know and have some state authority authenticate the contract? Your logic reeks of weakness. Stop fucking hamstering and acknowledge that you went all in on a bad hand at the poker table and paid dearly. Its your actions that got you here and you don't get to play the victim. Ag…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/16 12:48 AM
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Basic facts that people can't seem to handle. This is elementary school shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/16 05:29 PM
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Compare how often banks get robbed along with civilian casualties to how often guys get divorce raped. If banks were getting robbed an innocent bystanders were getting shot in the process at the same rate that dudes were getting divorce raped then I would say you getting shot during a bank robbery would be your own fault because you know it is fairly common to get shot in that scenario. If you personally knew a dozen people that got killed during a bank robbery, what would your approach to going…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/16 05:20 PM
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It's literally snowflake syndrome. You're acknowledging basic truths and fundamental wisdom. But that one situation were you completely screw up you say well that was different. In life there really are no exceptions to the rule.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/16 03:22 PM
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When I first got married I actually came out on the better side of it. I was the one taking advantage of my business partner. My wife was carrying me and caring for two kids and barely complaining about it. My wife literally is a unicorn maybe not so much in just appearance though she is attractive but more so in her personal code and values. She had every right to leave me but she didn't. I didn't ask her to stay even though I was the screw up. She made that decision on her own and she doesn't …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/16 03:21 PM
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Being in a committed relationship is always a sacrifice. Make who and what you choose worth it.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/16 11:03 AM
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That shit's done and over. The ink is dry. Tomorrow hasn't started yet. All you got is right now. Start there.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 11:35 PM
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I notice that most petty people are overly obsessed with either changing the past or "what if?" bullshit and are crippled by even the thought of living in the now.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 08:29 PM
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Go on a ketogenic diet. One of my guys I help did it. Evened him right out.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 08:09 PM
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Dude, take this shit elsewhere. Run some laps or something.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 07:55 PM
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Have you tried calming the fuck down?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 07:48 PM
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It does read a little bipolar...
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 07:40 PM
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AWALT. Move on.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 05:28 PM
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Because it's an amoral framework. This is day one stuff. I learn from people from all different faiths and logic systems. I'm happier for it. And I don't fear beliefs I don't keep myself. I've gotten the most value from my faith. I also think Ken Ham is fucking retarded to be fair. And for all I know this reality is me being a video game character and God is just the dude who wrote the code for what I'm experiencing. But I'm satisfied whatever the truth is. I can't know for sure.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 12:57 AM
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I'm sure there's a fair amount of cognitive dissonance occuring. His mindset sucks. My own wife is very different from me, but we've both balanced each other out. I view her both as challenge AND complimentary, but I never would have married her if she gave me any doubts in the beginning. Who does that?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 12:43 AM
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Well... Don't micromanage everything, but forgoing technique in hopes God will correct your course is testing God. Don't do that.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 12:39 AM
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I saw fireproof a long time ago. Before unplugging. I remember enjoying it somewhat, but can't comment on particular details.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 12:37 AM
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I love your outlook brother. Good words.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 12:31 AM
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It is true that most people Are terrible at prioritizing the bigger picture, this is one of the things that separates commonplace from greatness. Fair points. I always enjoy your contributions.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 11:38 PM
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Yeah that's definitely not what I was saying.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 10:43 PM
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Maybe if you knew more about the Revolutionary War you'd understand it better.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 10:36 PM
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It's about being consistent about getting off your ass and fighting for the things that mean something to you. No great man is seeking a life of ease and comfort. We're built to fight tooth and nail to win a greater prize. Summer soldiers are the ones who pretend like something matters to them and they want to praise that comes with championing that ideal, yet they desert their friends when things get hard.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 09:58 PM
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Sadly some married redpill guys equate benevolence with enslavement. And that's just building a mental prison for yourself. You're choosing to be only one dimensional and only be able to embrace ruthless pragmatism as your only play
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 09:21 PM
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It's a lot easier to be a Winter Shoulder if you are getting laid. I worry that your exhortations to stay the course are a version of: "Man up and take it because it is your duty to stay married, soldier." No part of being a credible man is "easy". "Easy" is what petulant children and women naturally pursue. Men with vision and intestinal fortitude harden their minds and bodies by staying in the fire of their choosing. Of their choosing is the instrumental part. So worry not. I'm definitely not …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 09:10 PM
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Good questions, but mostly assumptions... I'll address them tonight.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 05:15 PM
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Mostly. But there are exceptions. Like SOME women who grew up outnumbered by male siblings along with a strong present father figure.
/r/askMRP03/06/16 03:33 PM
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Putting babies in her speeds up the wall process. She gets less sleep and time after that. If she breastfeeds the boobs change too. My wife looks great to me after 6.5 years and 2 kids, but I think her dedication and enthusiasm for me helps. I've always seen hitting the wall as something that happens to shitty petty women who previously got by on their looks alone.
/r/askMRP03/06/16 01:07 AM
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Sounds like a miracle to me. He took away her justifications, but the fact that she didn't dig in her heels is the miraculous part.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 07:31 PM
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Just muffle your joyful sounds into your majestic chest rug.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 06:35 PM
2

So was it the Merit of his intentions or was it the interruption of the usual toxic cycle?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 06:21 PM
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Very very good. You get a cookie.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 06:18 PM
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I've got plenty of that outside my work and church environment. You don't shit where you eat.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 05:14 PM
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It's also pretty typical in the church to see unhappy women buddy up to the wives of men they admire just so they can be around them more proximity is a big thing in that case. Occasionally my own wife will get a new friend like that and the second I point it out to her she will argue with me about it. Or call me arrogant but she always ends up coming back to apologize when I'm right
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 05:02 PM
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Luckily for him she has the cognitive dissonance of being a woman married to a man well known in the Christian Community. If she went and slept with someone else he'd never know about it. One thing I've learned from counseling other men in my church is that Christian women are even more secretive then your typical feminist shrew. Because they know a huge portion of their value comes from chastity.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 04:41 PM
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Its also fearful. You believe you can't manage a second woman because you know you can't manage your own wife. So you take a legal risk because you're too weak to handle an ego/emotional risk. By doing this you try to short cut past your inadequacies by fixing the game by giving away your resources for temporary satisfaction.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 04:36 PM
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Hopefully their accounts didn't get deleted for them. I admired them both as uncompromising leadership figures here.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 03:43 PM
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Make sure you use an angle that emphasizes the size of your scrotum, women are very visual creatures and ballsac to penile context is key when establishing an artistic dick pic.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 03:34 PM
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You're talking about fast-food versus killing or growing your own food. The former is convenient and meets an immediate "need", while the latter takes commitment, skill, and self ownership. No one is ever "proud" of paying a hooker to get off for the same reason no one is proud of going through a drive thru and overpaying for a shitty quality bag of foodstuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 01:24 PM
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But what are the nice guys out there that read this article going to think? It's obvious to me why it actually worked if it did but I've been here on and off for 3 years.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 11:57 AM
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To be fair he was likely a lazy fuck that just never lifted a finger at home like another reply said. But you don't get to do the bare minimum and then write an article calling it success.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 11:17 AM
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No.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 11:12 AM
4

That's a pretty unreasonable bias. I'd say trustworthiness has a lot more to do with a person's legitimacy then whatever belief system or faith they keep.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 11:11 AM
2

No sir. Are they worth the read?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 02:59 AM
5

Thanks for writing this. I'm encouraged to know there are others who get it. Reconciling our faith to our design as men can prove a complex task at times.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 02:59 AM
2

WMP can tell you you're a faggot on almost a spiritual level.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 12:52 AM
2

I feel like whinemoreplease was headed in that direction for a while. He was a big part of my transition. I'll miss him.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 12:35 AM
2

Did ultCAD climb a tower with a rifle or something?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 12:25 AM
2

Oh did I miss some kind of uprising while I was gone?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 12:19 AM
5

Bonus points if you do chores with a rockhard boner and talk about how excited chores get you.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 11:59 PM
2

I remember that one. It's an old tale.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 11:58 PM
3

I've missed the warm atmosphere we cultivate here at MRP
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 11:56 PM
3

It's practically a second job.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 11:55 PM
1

I'm fucking dying over here.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 11:30 PM
1

Apologies my eyes are so used to scanning for BS that sometimes I see stuff that's not there
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/16 06:46 PM
1

You've got it half right. You don't clean up another person's mess for them though. You clean it up WITH them. Otherwise you're just the maid.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/16 06:19 PM
2

Not sure your context. I'd like some kind of flair so they know I'm a cranky old fuck sometimes.
/r/askMRP12/04/16 05:20 PM
3

You likely put as much effort into your self as you did this post. You reap what you sow.
/r/askMRP12/04/16 03:59 PM
2

He's looking for offense. I'm honestly looking out for the guy. He's doing what I was doing at first and writing unneeded long winded posts that clearly show his hand instead of just reading, keeping his head down, and getting through the process. If you've really been through basic you know the best thing you can do is not be the best or worst. But make sure no one remembers your fucking name. Reddjive You're acting like you know when you obviously don't. You're posting way too much. We're not …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/16 09:19 PM
1

I already told you why she's doing that. You can't "logic" your way out of the situation you're in. Read lift and look inward. Stop posting here and just read. We know you're full of shit the same way military can spot people stealing valor through impersonating them. Go through the hard shit and stop looking for shortcuts. We will welcome you when you've actually completed basic. Now run along.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/16 08:10 PM
4

Because most men these days are so mentally weak that they think knowledge automatically equals execution. Execution is the part that actually requires effort. If I game women and never fuck them or am even alone with them, I'm not doing anything morally wrong. Just giving some woman something to smile about. Even if you take "sins of the heart" for example, if I'm just playing the game and learning a skill there's no wrong doing if I don't actually intend on fucking someone else. What's my wron…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/16 07:25 PM
9

Ketogains has worked for me. I look scary.
/r/askMRP11/04/16 06:47 PM
7

Wrong. You say, "party train is leaving the station, get on or stay here." she doesn't need a destination she needs a ride worth taking. Stop bargaining with life and make it bargain with you faggot.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/16 05:54 PM
3

Stop looking at all this stuff as a way to manipulate her into thinking you're awesome and actually be awesome. If I can smell your desperation for validation on your posts here it's probably strong enough to make her vomit in person.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/16 05:36 PM
1

It is a good thing. She watched my world get rocked by the doxxing and me responding by focusing on what I can actually fix. She saw my frame in full effect. And my marriage is better because I've been forced to truly internalize the knowledge here and live my life as an actual alpha instead of tricking her into believing I'm valuable by obtaining the basic milestones of what value looks like.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/16 03:49 PM
1

My wife knows my username on here. And sometimes reads my stuff. The fact that I give no fucks that this is happening already makes me high value. At the same time it forces me to be completely legitimate. If I make up bullshit with no actual fieldwork, it damages my credibility. My wife can snoop and try to "trick" me but I don't say stuff here I don't actually believe nowadays because I could care less of external validation. Anything I say in here isn't going to shock her. And if she has a pr…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/16 01:56 PM
1

What's really interesting is he didn't try to refute my theory at all. But it is interesting how some men do ask for advice in vague ways because they are actually fishing for a particular answer. And because of confirmation bias they will grab anything close to what they want and twist it into the appropriate shape.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/16 12:40 PM
2

If you could read you would know I'm asking for someone else. But sure.
/r/askMRP05/04/16 11:31 PM
2

You must because I just told you what way of thinking is low value and how you can think differently. And that basing your identity off the resource competition of other people is pointless. And your reply was, "I can't because I'm me."
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 08:32 PM
2

Ahead or behind are arbitrary concepts based on assumed value. True high value types don't obsess over each other's specific value. Worrying about me being ahead of you shows you think in a way that's dependent on the actions of others. This means you are not truly autonomous and that's low value. Take WMP, he gave me a hard shove in the right direction so I have a high opinion of him. But I don't believe I'm behind or ahead of him, because though he shoved and now I respect him for it, I'm the …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 08:17 PM
1

There's no ahead or behind to me. I don't think like that.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 07:44 PM
3

This. All this. 100% ownership of your own life and choices. No one owes us shit. Simmering resentment is an ego protecting way to say that you let let the actions of others determine your actions.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 07:43 PM
2

I don't even worry about it on that level. I simplify my thinking to focus on this moment to the next. Everything else to me is emotional flailing and accomplishes nothing.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 07:25 PM
1

It works for me because I embraced stoicism added to the belief that my time on earth is a minuscule fraction of a percentage of the time my conciousness will exist. Nothing matters REALLY so why not look at life as a fun game I get to play for a little bit before I wake back up?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 07:14 PM
2

It was just this random encounter that had nothing to do with the main story. He talked to a gym bunny and some dude asked if things are ok with him and his wife, but then said I don't want (gym bunny) tits too small, you can have her. So fucking random.
/r/askMRP05/04/16 07:08 PM
5

I think that simmering resentment is stupid personally. I'm free of that shit, it doesn't get to have credit for my drive and accomplishments.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 06:56 PM
2

Your actions aren't dependent or her or her hooker friend. Now act like it, and whatever happens happens.
/r/askMRP05/04/16 05:25 PM
1

Brother, you wouldn't believe all the details I gathered on this situation since I posted this. I'll post more tonight.
/r/askMRP05/04/16 04:26 PM
1

Make sure that reality you create is something you take full ownership and responsibility for. Imo you've said nothing. Internalize the truths available and stop musing so much.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 03:44 PM
1

I'm getting the sense he has a procrastination problem, but he wants us to frame it with this example to make it ok. Hoping we will make the excuse for him somehow. I know that line of thinking because I see guys I'm in group with do that all the time.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 03:42 PM
1

Avoiding paralysis by analysis is just knowing your job and considering all the forces in play and making a choice and running with it. Giving no fucks is a giant part of the equation. Sometimes you're just learning and you'll fuck up. The results will tell you what happened if you think critically enough. That paralysis is often procrastination. Be a man of action.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 03:32 PM
2

You spent two hours thinking about it and still couldn't articulate a concise point? What are your questions beyond, "here are some words in a book, what do you guys think?"
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 02:54 PM
2

Lazy post. You should take extreme ownership of the quality of your posts.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 02:33 PM
1

Did anyone else think he was gonna game and fuck the chick at the gym the way he set this up?
/r/askMRP05/04/16 02:28 PM
1

He's one of my favorites out of the guys I meet with. I know there's something more going on because his story doesn't make sense to me. This might be an issue with me favoring him too much. Like not seeing the forest for the trees.
/r/askMRP04/04/16 06:25 PM
3

Look forward to a good FR on this.
/r/askMRP04/04/16 06:06 PM
2

This brother. He thinks I'm just harshing on him. Dude she'll suck his dick whenever he asks. I don't see it as a problem. He's just getting butthurt in my opinion. But he's insistent that he's right about this. I'm considering just stepping back and watching him implode and then stepping back in.
/r/askMRP04/04/16 06:04 PM
1

This is what I said. If I refused to fuck my wife it's because I'm being butt hurt about it. He insists it's not the case. I don't like his plan because it's based around HER actions. And to me that's not good.
/r/askMRP04/04/16 06:00 PM
3

Probably BP brigading because I essentially just said if you train your bitch well that her new owner will treat her better. Or ego driven butthurt men not able to deal with the idea of them dying and some other guy fucking their woman while they feed the worms. Either way don't care. But my work on this post has helped me come up with a pretty good one that I'm still fleshing out.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/16 04:25 PM
0

Read the sidebar. Don't write anything else. Read all the books. Wait a week. Read them again. Then post here. Til then shut the fuck up.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/16 11:18 PM
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Yeah I think semantics made this one sail right over some heads.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/16 07:41 PM
0

If that's the case, he should stop playing around here and deal with life and come back with a FR.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/16 05:52 PM
1

I generally enjoy his comments. Just my way of prodding him to craft another post.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/16 05:48 PM
1

I did.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/16 05:43 PM
2

Said with deep affection brother.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/16 05:41 PM
1

Says the guy who's only made a single post 2 months ago.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/16 05:36 PM
1

Those same games in a sense train your wife in survivability too. Say you die doing something awesome all the fun stuff you taught her make her more likely to pull down a good man with resources to see that your kids prosper.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/16 05:02 PM
1

Ok. You're still teaching them self preservation without being overbearing and overly serious chum. Point still stands.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/16 04:41 PM
1

You're more worried about us thinking you're a faggot than you are fixing the indirect manipulative way you choose to communicate. WMP is correct. OP = faggot
/r/askMRP03/04/16 01:48 PM
3

It's not just more intellectually honest, it's a more efficient use of your drive and energy. If you've earned something you value it more than the person you might hand it over to.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/16 01:16 PM
1

I'm trying to create an army of little wolverines so we use absolutely no contraception.
/r/askMRP03/04/16 12:44 PM
5

Not calling you a liar. But you can just come out and tell us if you're just making all this up for external validation. That admission would be more valuable then what youre doing if so. People are giving you a hard time because that list sounds made up.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/16 12:23 PM
2

My wife's hobbies are doing little puzzle games and shopping with her sister or mother. She's extremely boring and she'll admit to that because she's a humble woman. Through my hobbies she gets to have new and fun experiences. She kayaks with me, rock climbing, we go camping, and I generally take her and our two small kids on adventures. I'M not boring. So when she's with me doing cool stuff she gets to experience being NOT boring. Make sense? Edit: If you need your wife to have novel hobbies to…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/16 01:22 AM
5

Some give a distorted reflection, requiring more scrutiny of what you're seeing. That's a higher difficulty woman is all. But saying you never changed is a cop out. If you are truly self aware you see that you change by the day and the hour.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/16 01:10 AM
6

That last question makes it sound like "she's" the destination or goal. If you're going to be 100% responsible for yourself, you do it for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/16 01:07 AM
2

Committing yourself to more meaningful things and killing the ego makes weak people so uncomfortable. They try to bully you back into compliance through social pressure because of fear or laziness. But once that leash slips loose it's really hard to put you back in a cage. I've noticed that most things in modern society that are expressions of killing the ego are just met with mockery and disbelief. See TBP for examples.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/16 11:59 PM
1

It's almost like the serenity prayer. God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, Courage to change the things I can, And wisdom to know the difference. You could apply that thing to almost any situation and be better for it. The ego is just blinders. And it's the thing I see newbies struggle with the most.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/16 11:35 PM
2

I need to get better at formatting and citing shit. Your posts are always polished and informative. Good work.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/16 11:15 PM
2

Breaking free of external validation made me a force to be reckoned with. Like I was a wild animal tethered to a tie out and my collar finally came loose. I just fucking ran with it. I picked up hunting, fighting, and camping. I school anyone who tried to control me with their approval. And I blast people for trying to manipulate with shame tactics. Wmp I've cited you often to my men. I always tell them that the way men show real love to each other is to tell each other the painful truth. And wh…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/16 01:05 AM
2

That fucker changed my life. I show a little too much admiration for wmp here (he doesn't want my approval or respect anyway), but he was there at a big crossroads for me. Smacked me in my head and showed me how my ego was the plank in my eye. I was not surprised when I read this post at all. The guy's awareness is almost creepy.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/16 07:55 PM
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Holy shit wmp. I'd been thinking about this exact thing all week. How that negative mindset just makes you into a tight fisted wretch. If a kid looks at a playground and only sees "danger", how will he ever actually have any fun?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/16 05:50 PM
1

You worded exactly what was bothering me about this post but couldn't put my finger on. I wanted to offer advice but the way he asked seemed manipulative. Thanks again for cutting to the chase. I don't see OP replying but he should and take an opportunity to do so, improve himself, and stop the covert victim puke.
/r/askMRP30/03/16 02:30 PM
2

Yes. It's no pressure at all.
/r/askMRP30/03/16 01:27 AM
1

I've considered starting one. I could throw my old posts from the deleted account on there too.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/16 12:06 AM
2

If you're talking about "moods" like they matter you need to put more into your mindset. Work through gorilla mindset next. Your "mood against hers" is victim talk. Don't have any kind of "mood", be focused, be driven, you're not supposed to be a kite blowing in the wind. You should be a mountian, the wind needs to go "around" you. You're thinking small right now. Improve your focus and get big. (edit: take any kind of victim talk out of your speech and thought process. You're the sum of what yo…
/r/askMRP29/03/16 04:44 PM
1

I swear that "fuck your feelings" runs on a loop in my head. Anything else is lieing to protect their fragile ego.
/r/askMRP29/03/16 04:07 PM
1

Are you really listening to your wife's words? Watch their actions not words. Like the great Dante Nero says, "you don't ask the deer how to hunt deer... You ask the Hunter." When your wife says she doesn't like muscle she's really saying, "I'm lazy, please don't make me work harder to keep up with you." Disregard the sounds coming out of her mouth and pay attention to what gets your dick into it instead.
/r/askMRP29/03/16 03:54 PM
0

Sounds like you handled it fine. Dressing the kid was a mistake. Do what you say you're going to do, don't lob empty threats or your word is shit. I personally wouldn't have responded to any of the texts at all, changed it up and went to a late movie or a bike ride instead of coming home. If she's trying to talk you into softening up you're on the right track. Don't micromanage her if you're prone to that.
/r/askMRP29/03/16 01:18 PM
2

Again I got outed before we started meeting.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/16 01:52 AM
3

Because you can't be subtle and not say red pill or not use popular lingo? They don't know where I got this stuff, just that it helped them. Also I got outed before we really started meeting.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/16 01:11 AM
2

I don't use terminology in the group.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/16 12:55 AM
2

I appreciate the words. I enjoy the process for sure. It's iron sharpening iron, whittling away the bullshit and putting on an edge that cuts through this life much better than the butter knife I had before.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/16 11:16 PM
2

I don't think we will care about much when are just jizz factories.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/16 10:53 PM
2

At one point I almost enlisted inactive to keep my house. Luckily with some elbow grease I'm doing a one man show where my boss is me.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/16 07:48 PM
2

All I've got as evidence are messages from throwaway Facebook accounts and a Reddit handle that's been inactive since this went down. They would have just said I doctored anything I sent them. As if I fucking care or find them credible at all. I talked to snow white via pm and while they said I was "irresponsible" for not making everyone aware they then said that there's not much I can do about it now. Two different stories between public and private. Not genuine at all. Could be irl people, cou…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/16 07:44 PM
2

Nah. Luckily we are moving up not down.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/16 07:34 PM
2

I just do the math. Hope that helps you somehow.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/16 06:14 PM
2

Aww. I love you too Professor. I think I did that to you my first day back.
/r/askMRP28/03/16 06:03 PM
3

You can't say he has an attitude. He just has a different personal code then you. Your perception of him isn't his problem.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/16 05:57 PM
3

If you have a wife with a history of trauma or toxic shame you can't really trust the reflection you're seeing. Its likely not as accurate. For serial validation seekers, these women are particularly dangerous.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/16 05:55 PM
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That's likely some bitterness or resentment you're harboring. Look for what's causing it in your thinking. You can only change yourself not her, a woman is a reflection of her man. (even if she's a cracked funhouse mirror.)
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/16 05:48 PM
2

It's similar to us knowing and saying sugar is bad for us but eating it anyway. Her wanting to be your equal is bad short term thinking. Because when she has to really shoulder the burden of that equality she's going to want to let you take the wheel again. They go back and forth all the time. That's just the nature of a woman. Treat like you would a 5 year old "helping" you move something really heavy. Dawwww so cute. Enjoy it. Its adorable.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/16 05:42 PM
2

Now you have.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/16 05:25 PM
2

Even in tribal communities that are less based around authority and bloodlines (read "patriarchy" chieftains etc) the woman is not equal with the man. The woman raises up new people from her body, so in that way we are not equal to them. The women have sex with whomever and the men don't know which children are theirs so they are fathers to all the children. But the men protect and hunt. Its not equal. Without women there is no new beginning, without men there is no sustained continuation. Men n…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/16 05:24 PM
3

You need to build yourself and show them it can be done. If you don't do it who else is going to?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/16 03:17 PM
2

You stood there with the door open and the light on while a new mom was trying to get sleep because "your left ass cheek was asleep"? You concisely communicated that you suck. As the oak and leadership of the household you should have oversight of all the moving parts and realize that you are NOT adding value by causing your wife to lose sleep. You are not improving the plight of your household. When my wife says unreasonable shit I don't quip back at her like a little boy trying to cleverly jab…
/r/askMRP28/03/16 03:14 PM
2

I honestly feel like Jesus would want to backhand more then half the men in the church. Hardened driven men can bestow more "love" to another person with a single sentence than a spineless coward could over a lifetime of desperate approval seeking gestures of "kindness".
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/16 02:25 PM
2

That's high praise. I'm a big fan of Dalrocks material.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/16 01:58 PM
2

The latter. Seriously. I'm trying to help other Christians who have struggled with the idea of being captain of the ship because of how feminized the church has become.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/16 02:31 AM
2

Don't tell anyone your name. Make up the professions of the people you talk about. Don't mention events you've attended. Be somewhat vague.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/16 02:14 AM
1

Thanks. Its good to be back.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/16 12:58 AM
1

Don't wear cargos unless you're camping out in the woods dude. Make sure your body's on point and wear form fitting light weight buttons ups. Just because you're trying to dress for the heat doesn't mean you can't still look powerful.
/r/askMRP27/03/16 10:41 PM
2

Good for you. This is really what it's all about. Just being the best version of yourself and realizing your potential as a grown ass man.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/16 10:17 PM
2

Yes it's a completely different book just a similar premise.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/16 05:04 PM
2

Well I'm fine. I lived in a car for half a year when I learned my first trade. But now I have two kids and a wife to look after.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/16 01:58 PM
3

That's short sighted thinking.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/16 01:54 PM
2

You're an insightful man. Yeah it's basically this.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/16 01:17 PM
3

At will employment.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/16 02:25 AM
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I'm good. I don't need some man with a fancy title to tell another man to give me money to correct some sleight against me.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/16 02:21 AM
2

Remember that excercising as much personal self discipline you can muster is the key to building those. We often believe we can eventually accumulate enough workload to build frame and focus but it's more a situation of perfect practice makes perfect.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/16 02:01 AM
3

This is all that needs to be said right here.
/r/askMRP26/03/16 10:26 PM
1

Ha. You're such a dick.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/16 10:13 PM
3

That's a pretty good theory. The facebook profiles that messages my wife were basically throwaways. And I don't shy away from speaking my mind to people IRL so yeah maybe so. But everything is buttoned up now.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/16 10:13 PM
3

I appreciate the kind words. Yes my profile got hacked and deleted along with some of my posts. My old pw on here was pretty easy to guess if you had access to my facebook. Dumb mistake.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/16 09:44 PM
6

I think the only REAL reason women fight it so much is it puts a mirror in front of them. They realize how fucking lazy they actually are. They get mad like a shitty coworker gets mad when you work harder than them and then they have to either keep up or look terrible. Also it threatens their power. Now not everyone is as lucky as me to have a wife like mine. She held all the cards in our relationship before and she was asking me to step up and be in charge because she genuinely believes in the …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/16 09:39 PM
6

I know TRP principles work really well because I jumped 2 positions up at my old job just from reading all the sidebar stuff. The thing that really surprised me was I could still stick to my other personal beliefs and values since TRP really is amoral.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/16 09:27 PM
6

Haha. You basically run dread game on your customers. That's awesome.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/16 09:20 PM
5

They are pussies, I agree. They were already talking about me on their sub within my first couple hours back. Talking about how I'm making up the doxxing, yet at the same time pinging me in the discussion and sending me comments mocking me. I find it amusing that they obsessively read our material even though they think we're as bad as something like the Ku Klux Klan. I'll tell you what even if I had any deep passionate hatred of what the KKK stand for I probably wouldn't hang out on their forum…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/16 09:18 PM
6

Thanks brother. I just want to continue my track record for a while and get on my feet before I come out public. But instead of intimidating me they just showed me they are snakes in the grass and merely whittled down the fucks I had left to give to virtually zero.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/16 09:12 PM
5

It started as a men's group that I joined. Then we read no more Christian nice guy which led into the weaker minded leaving and the ones left became a different animal.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/16 08:42 PM
2

I don't believe in suing. As for the other part I don't really wanna give too many details. Maybe later.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/16 08:41 PM
1

There you go.
/r/askMRP26/03/16 12:53 PM
2

Really enjoyed this.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/16 02:46 AM
3

But you use the same tactic on her. When she doesn't meet your standards she doesn't get "access" to you. The key here is you have to actually have standards and see your value. You have to realize she in reality needs your validation more then you need her vagina. But for your validation to be worth a shit, you need to stop seeking validation from anyone but yourself.
/r/askMRP26/03/16 01:49 AM
1

Your self awareness is fucking astounding...
/r/askMRP26/03/16 01:42 AM
2

I was kidding. Don't fucking do that. Logistics only.
/r/askMRP26/03/16 01:41 AM
2

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZVIzZgwokgA
/r/askMRP25/03/16 11:20 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PWpippDMgbE
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 11:07 PM
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Mostly because it's lazy to try to have serious discussions via text and makes you look weak. Also because silence is golden remember ACTA non verba
/r/askMRP25/03/16 09:20 PM
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You mean like a butter bath?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 08:01 PM
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I wouldn't call it that it's just that a lot of her identity is wrapped up in being a faithful wife. (very good quality) She shuns women who leave their husbands even if the guys a loser. The fact that she sucks at communicating and being manipulative. Or that we have a kid that runs her over without my personality around to manage her. She's just wired differently. I saw the value in that when we dated. And learned later that she's put distance between herself and people just for criticizing me…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 07:59 PM
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She's just making sounds with her mouth hoping one of them Spooks you
/r/askMRP25/03/16 07:44 PM
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Usually Mediterranean I need a lot of fish and olive oil to keep my joints good
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 07:42 PM
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Can't waste time on maybes, just the facts. Everything else is speculative in my opinion. I'm only 6 years in so I'm still a rookie I'm sure.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 07:35 PM
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I actually find glee in telling people I don't have time for their shit and when people invite us to eat lunch after I always change the restaurant just to fuck with them. If they don't want to eat that food I say too bad see you next week, smile and walk away. (I noticed.) Also I hug some dudes just to make them feel weird by nuzzling my beard into their neck.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 07:33 PM
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Yeah you're correct. Thanks. I misread something somewhere. Should have gone back and re-read some of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 07:13 PM
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I'll admit that I lucked out on not marrying a fucking psychotic bitch. So I'll reserve any future judgement on the subject.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 07:10 PM
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Do your legs not work? When she does annoying shit you leave the room if she follows you and keeps going, leave the house, she follows you, lose her on the highway like you're in an action film, do a sudden u turn and escape. Her proximity to you should depend on what you do and don't like. Think of your time as your "pussy". She don't get no time pussy unless she comes correct.
/r/askMRP25/03/16 07:07 PM
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If my wife talked about "extending my sentence" I'd tell her maybe I need to bust out and find a better looking warden. And we need to talk is met with, "talk to yourself then, I'm out." followed by me doing whatever I want for the rest of the day. Don't let her rattle you newbie.
/r/askMRP25/03/16 07:00 PM
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It can change. Use it as time to self improve. Come back and look later. I was afraid to even be attracted to other women before. Now I point them out to my wife. My attraction to her is based mostly on the effort she puts into me instead of on our history like before.
/r/askMRP25/03/16 06:38 PM
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I often make it kind of gay I'll admit. I play more aloof and distant with women. But I'm more engaging with other men because I'm always trying to teach AND learn. It's outputting at first but the genuine nature of my intent becomes obvious eventually. Especially face to face.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 06:15 PM
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Good for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 05:47 PM
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Agreed. But there's anger and there's bitterness. One keeps you standing, the other is you laying down. I in particular keep a cool head because my anger often leads to making mistakes. Not everyone is wired this way though.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 05:38 PM
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Who says that you serving yourself must be a diservice to others? An ambitious man can pull others up with him.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 05:24 PM
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I'm not trying to shame. Re-read what I said in a playful sarcastic tone. Often as I do to how he addresses me. In the way men show love. With no shame intended.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 05:21 PM
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I completely understand. But does the frustration help your plight or not? Does it change anything? Is it an emotional reaction? Do emotional reactions help solve problems? I don't blame any of them. But they could be more effective without that remorse and anger.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 05:19 PM
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Nah. If I did I'd admit it. He's brilliant if you see marriage as something you're saddled with because you were deceived somehow. But to a person that actually values "family" over strange pussy as a genuine part of their self its just not helpful. If I thought I made a mistake I'd own it and go through the divorce or shoulder the burden I agreed to. Not float somewhere in between.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 04:56 PM
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Agreed with all of the above. I'd like to hear clarification on that statement as well. Because take a thought process like extreme ownership the navy seal book, in which you take 100% ownership of your mistakes and move forward without victim talk or regrets. We have to be ready to take responsibility even for our subordinates. He's obviously more of a lone wolf and doesn't want to be responsible for any subordinates. That's fine but he can't say to a bunch of tribals like us who are seeking to…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 04:50 PM
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He's not going to answer any of that in a straightfoward manner, just throw the ball back in your court, say you're projecting and that YOU have the problem here. It's almost like LADY tactics, isn't it?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 04:23 PM
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Good post.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 03:24 PM
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I can appreciate the sentiment. But I'm just not the same animal as you. I was just probing to make sure you're not living with regrets and excuses. An act of brotherly love... And not an offended outburst from having my framework rattled.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 03:01 PM
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Nah. Pretty happy with my marriage and my archaic belief system. I don't have to discount your opinions with any bias, they can just be wrong as far as I'm concerned. And that's fine, luckily for us RP is an amoral framework. Edit: I've read all the material at least twice, and anything on audio book tens of times. I just think your approach is not very stoic in practice. Its regretful. I don't have time for regrets. Just work.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 02:47 PM
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Even a broken clock is right twice a day. We have guys coming in here all the time who complain about a problem constantly but never fix it. If you're going to marinate in your bitterness that you can't go back and change the past what's the fucking point? Do you want to just come in here and tell guys who aren't married yet don't get married because you're miserable? Are you going to live vicariously through them? Do you truly believe that everyone is going to come to the same conclusion as you…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 02:25 PM
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Sounds like whining to me. As much as you talk about how bitter you are you got married, I'm surprised you haven't just left or divorced her.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 01:56 PM
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We are likely talking about two different things. Are you saying a man having a personal code is a lie? Did your original point of choosing not to fight apply only to playing the woman's game and falling into her frame? Because that I agree with. Or are you projecting some kind of of ingrained dogma?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 01:34 PM
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You can. But not if your personal code is "Happy Warrior".
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 12:32 PM
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Whatever's less comfortable and makes you want to whine more. But make sure there's no one there to hear it so you can learn to self sooth. Even fucking babies learn to self sooth. You having "problems" doesn't make you special it makes you a "problem" to the people who have to deal with you. And I'm not being callous. I've been there. Stop asking for permission and do what needs to be done. Stop asking for clarification and open your fucking eyes. If you ask me for more clarification I'm gonna …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 11:28 AM
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That's your fucking job to figure out for yourself. I've been addicted to painkillers, food, approval, cigarettes, crazy women, but guess what I put in the work on myself and got past all that. You're doing more harm than good by continuing to ask for the fucking hand holding. In the past I would have humored you but I've worked with enough men through my volunteering that I can see that you just want to play the victim and be "rescued" by men of action. I'm done. Don't have time to analyze your…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 11:24 AM
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This post is so full of horseshit and victim talk that I can't even advise you. Go live in the woods for a year and get back to us. Edit: I'm partially kidding but your post reads like MRP performance art. Decent theory, too much emoting.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 12:04 AM
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More victim speak, nothing from the OUTSIDE of you "creeped back in." You got lazy and did not choose to be self aware enough to correct it. Your mindset isn't solid unless you put in the work.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/16 04:02 PM
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Nothing special just sober thinking. Clear your mind of the emotional shitstorm you've conjured up and you'd come to this conclusion on your own.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/16 03:26 PM
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How have you been champ?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/16 11:33 AM
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Their MO is to pm you from some bullshit account and pretend to be your friend while subtly getting information from you. Also I was a regular poster for a while and I'm sure some loser with nothing better to do pieced it together from slip ups here and there. If you don't want some SJWs messaging your wife and co-workers watch it with personal details. It's definitely all the time though. You have to realize how obsessed those losers are with us. As far as their concerned being RP is some kind …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/16 11:12 AM
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Decent FR. No thing wrong with mastering the more simplistic basics until you can do it in almost a flow state. Learning that is going to free you up to employ analysis of the more critical holes in,your overall game. Never over think when you can find mastery of basics and build upon that base.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/16 12:53 AM
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Thoughts? Fucking leave on your bike when you planned to. How she gets there is not your problem. You're so preoccupied with "being nice" that you're scared of the "fight" that will happen if you gather up your balls and pedal off. You're spending so much time analyzing your fuck up. Just like with a little kid, don't let them fool you twice. You leave without her a few times and she'll hurry up or sit home butthurt.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/16 09:43 PM
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Your mindset is not that great if you think your wife can outperform you at anything besides being nurturing to children and other motherly things. It's good you say YOU let yourself. Now you just DON'T let yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/16 09:34 PM
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Don't flip out to what a woman says dude. Watch what she actually does and let the rest be background noise. Then you can't make assumptions about what she meant because you didn't really hear her say that shit anyway right? All you know is when you move into that new house and she either starts trying to control everything or she's happy to see her man turn a part of the house into a place where he gets more awesome. If she tries to "own" the rest of the house and banish you to some dark corner…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/16 08:20 PM
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Only if the goal you're talking about is fixing your fucked up insecure mindset. Confidence minus achievement is delusional but achievement doesn't automatically equal confidence. Take ownership of yourself, you're a grown ass man not a little boy. It doesn't "go away" unless you elevate your thinking.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/16 07:51 PM
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She's upping her game to keep you. Don't fuck it up by even thinking she can compete with you physically. You dread her not vise versa.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/16 07:08 PM
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Doxxed, fired, been busy starting my own business and doing damage control professionally. Putting some podcasts in the can as well as videos for a YouTube thing. That's way in the future. I've learned to let my content sit for a while and revise it before publishing. In regard to your wife analysis just remember AWALT and if you want to hunt a deer don't ask the deer but the Hunter. You can analyze but be wary of seeking clarification of her nonsense. And don't study her so closely that you're …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/16 06:53 PM
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Yup. Got some good stuff too.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/16 06:34 PM
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Do you spend a lot of time putting that much focus on her? I pay my wife very little mind unless I'm paying attention to decipher a reoccuring problem or she's doing stuff I like. I try to focus on my own game otherwise. I'm not criticizing I just find that wife analysis is often fruitless unless it's to troubleshoot something reoccurring.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/16 04:23 PM
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I let BP trolls chase me underground by doxxing me and harrassing my wife on facebook. I was overly concerned with asking permission for everything I do from the people here and gaining the approval of men I respect here instead of focusing on my own shit. I took a bunch of time away from the internet, spent more time with my kids outdoors and improved my station in life. I led a men's group in church for a while and watched other men embrace their masculinity. I watched one of the men I taught …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/16 03:49 PM
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