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Tells us she doesn't enjoy Republicans and Donald Trump Then tells us she is not here to fulfill our BDSM fantasies. I think there is a story behind that. Even through the computer I feel the urge to wipe that nasty smirk off her face. Imagine seeing that every day, after day after day.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/20 01:16 AM
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Behaviorism works both ways for sure.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/20 12:59 AM
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🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/20 12:59 AM
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Don't forget the old saying: When you have a hammer every problem is a nail. This is powerful but it is not the whole picture. Some humans are different than animals in that they think. Occasionally.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/20 12:58 AM
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It is called "Extinction" and assumes that your attention is the cause of her bad behavior. If not then it assumes that your inattention is aversive and punishing. If not then you are out of luck until you become attractive enough or at least until your in-attention becomes at least slightly punitive.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/20 12:56 AM
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alpha/beta talk is an extension of dancing monkey behavior. This is the biggest criticism. We should be able to just Alpha up and then she should be willing to follow us and fuck us on demand. Should have, would have, could have.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/20 03:09 PM
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I will. Thanks Rian!
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/20 03:07 PM
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Schrodinger's post. I always say men are General Relativity while women are Quantum Physics. The goal of this post is to help you identify which of the double slits you are going to pass through. Red and Blue Pill tactics exist in a superposition and the probability wave does not collapse into an actual particle until it is observed. That is what I advocate. Observation. Then when you figure out if the cat is alive or dead you can take appropriate action.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/20 03:06 PM
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Yes.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/20 03:03 PM
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reframing excessive alpha behaviors as "Ramboing" No, this is not even a reframe. Excessive Alpha behaviors are the essence of Ramboing. We have well documented over many years on MRP that excessive Alpha behaviors, in particular suddenly coming out and deciding you are "Alpha" is counterproductive and often leads to divorce.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/20 02:58 PM
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Except it's not Beta with a side of Alpha but Alpha with a side of Beta.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/20 02:57 PM
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Yes, we are in agreement.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/20 02:55 PM
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That's the argument. Rollo is, of course correct that the first step is making yourself your own mental frame of origin. However, you cannot sustain a marriage forever as a narcissist or psychopath who only cares about himself. You need your mental point of origin to be the family alpha or the patriarch. That means your mental point of origin should include your wife and family- not exclusively but there should be a place for them there. That is all I am saying.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/20 02:55 PM
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Are you in your Frame or not Of course this is the most important thing and it is indeed "all." It is "all" you need to get laid. In order to have a happy long term marriage you need more. you can do this while operating in your Frame Absolutely and it is essential. The best outcome is when your frame is as a family man, leader and patriarch who looks out for his wife and family.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/20 02:52 PM
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All is not equally important. Results are the only thing that matters. I have worked with a number of guys who failed to balance their Alpha and Beta and they are getting divorced. Every guy who was able to Alpha up while remaining emotionally connected has had great success. The guys who end up divorced "Alpha up" and continue on the path burning it right down. how do you choose That was the whole purpose of this post. You Alpha up, and then you need to back off. If you continue churning down t…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/20 02:49 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LA0aoNf_NSU I spent some time remixing the audio and republished. Edit: Still sucks. I am not redoing this one again. On to the next video.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/20 02:43 PM
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I remixed the sound. There was a mismatch at the beginning between the music intro and he voice sound. I fixed it as well as I could without retaping the entire audio.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/20 02:42 PM
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Sounds to me like your wife is trying to reset while you are the one holding the grudge.
/r/askMRP11/09/19 03:17 PM
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The answer is hard, not easy. You need to let go of the emotional attachment and finally realize that you are alone. You were born alone into this world, naked and screaming because it hurt so bad and guess what? You are probably going to leave the world in the same way. Your wife will not be there to comfort you. You only have yourself and if you were raised that way, your faith. You rely on your wife for validation but she will never provide it- until you no longer need it. It's only when you …
/r/askMRP10/09/19 03:50 PM
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Common Ground A wonderful equalitatian concept except we knew this doesn't work more than 3,000 years ago: "Once made equal to man, woman becomes his superior." Aristotle
/r/askMRP10/09/19 02:50 PM
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No. The righteous anger of a just man should be feared. Today we silence the just men, belittle them and shout them down. Then we wonder where are all the good men.
/r/askMRP10/09/19 02:46 PM
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went full artistic He sure drew her a picture didn't he?
/r/askMRP10/09/19 02:44 PM
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Another Cold War story. Dammit I see this so much. Wife is hypercritical. Husband accommodates. Wife pushes. Husband gives in. Husband works all fucking day. Wife is a SAHM who watches Oprah and expects husband to work when he gets home until 11:00 at night. Fuck that! Why do wives think it is OK to interfere with a man teaching his children? Where did wives get the idea that a man raising his voice with the kids is the worst thing possible? No dear, raising an amotivated child who is still livi…
/r/askMRP10/09/19 02:42 PM
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You are not autistic. Spergy, but not autistic. Join the club.
/r/askMRP10/09/19 02:30 PM
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Your problem is not mechanics. Your problem is mental. You crave validation from your wife and can't imagine telling her to shut the fuck up and knock it off.
/r/askMRP10/09/19 02:30 PM
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Agree and amplify is the clowns method of dancing monkey strategy. It works, provided the tests are not constant. It works because redirects her and shows her she is being ridiculous. In your case you have an uphill climb. These are not typical shit tests. These are challenges to your authority and leadership. The only way to win is to...WIN. You have to break through her shitty, critical, bitchy attitude. Sometimes you have to call her out directly (DON'T AGUE!) and sometimes you have to ignore…
/r/askMRP10/09/19 02:26 PM
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if it was your wife, what would your response be? "Goodbye dear, I will see you after the game. Have fun at the party."
/r/askMRP10/09/19 02:20 PM
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I tried to explain to her what my words meant How did that work out for you. All you did was validate her bad feelings. Should have laughed at her, thrown her down and screwed her silly. She was practically begging for it though it is possible she was just trying to get you to initiate so she could reject you.
/r/askMRP10/09/19 02:15 PM
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Yes.
/r/askMRP10/09/19 02:13 PM
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Like, I just can't like think of any examples.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/19 01:29 PM
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That would be perfect! A girl has to relive her wedding day over and over again until she get's it right. She starts out as Bridezilla, blowing some hot guy in the parking lot the day of her wedding and it goes downhill from their. After a disastrous ceremony she falls asleep drunk, next to her passed out Chad husband (who was groping the bridesmaids) still in her wedding dress. Then... she wakes up alone with Titanic playing on the radio. After hundreds of Groundhog Days she slowly learns that …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/19 01:25 PM
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The kids already know this dynamic. Dad desperate and whiny. Mom arrogant and haughty. No love or affection in the home. They know-and that is a big reason why their sons are refusing to get married.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/19 01:20 PM
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Working in a dead industry has managed to kill her dreams. Sorry dear. Men didn't kill marriage. Women did. Some men even tried to speak up but they were shouted down by almost all the women and their hordes of White Knight slaves. never had problems "dating" I always love the euphemisms that girls use. You aren't fooling anybody any more. We know what "dating" means. You have no problem FUCKING. We know. But men don't want the town bicycle after it has been "dating" 100's of guys for 1 1/2 deca…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/19 01:17 PM
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99% certain her ex only sees the crotch critter on weekends.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/19 01:13 PM
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We call them fuck-zoned.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/19 01:05 PM
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if you're told by society that 2+2=5 your entire life, you will accept it as truth. Yet manospherians routinely blame men who are told their entire life that women LOOOOVE nice guys and to just wait for the right girl and when she is ready she will find you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/19 01:04 PM
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WAATGM providing the badly needed bright red pill vaginal suppositories since 2019.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/19 01:02 PM
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I like the argument that Baptism is important but not necessary for salvation but how do you reconcile that interpretation with Jesus discourse with Nicodemus?
/r/RPChristians25/08/19 02:35 AM
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I see no room for Scriptural disagreement on this issue. Given that there are gay and transgender churches, I find this a bridge to far. At the beginning of Paul's diatribe (which in no way and nowhere does he suggest that this checklist is inspired) he says not to have sex and to remain a lifelong virgin and to not look for a wife. We don't consider it sinful to have sex, however, or to look for a wife. Likewise I don't see it is sinful to marry a non-Christian. A great apostle who talked with …
/r/RPChristians25/08/19 02:31 AM
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I think it is God's way of reminding men that she is not yours. It's just your turn.
/r/RPChristians25/08/19 02:16 AM
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Clearly Christianity is more accommodating and loving than Judaism or Islam.
/r/RPChristians25/08/19 02:10 AM
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No it's different. BPD's have a history of screwed up relationships. They leave a trail of destruction in their wake. FA's are often quiet little mouses. They don't deliberately screw up their relationships. They are not cunning, lying, manipulative, or sociopathic either (all BPD traits). Instead Fearful-Avoidant Personalities avoid conflict until it is too late to to anything about it and then they explode. OP can tell us in 2 seconds whether she has FA traits or BP traits. However, adding the…
/r/askMRP10/06/19 09:18 PM
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I would actually consider filing a police report for the attempted kidnapping. I would see a lawyer about doing this. Local customs are going to control whether he should do this. Some jurisdictions are so anti-male you would not want to invite the government into your lives. For example, if you mention that you laid hands on your wife to drag her away then I suggest you use LONG TERM PARKING before you enter the police station. I also suggest you put together a FU account so that you can live i…
/r/askMRP10/06/19 09:13 PM
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I agree this is the safe, prudent course, but he can still regain control of this situation. I am not sure he has the emotional awareness to pull it off but I have seen plenty of guys as bad or worse than this recover. Think about it from HER perspective. She dominated a weak man the entire marriage. That was the sole source of security for her. Then suddenly Rambo appears and deflates her power. He does this without establishing trust or establishing that he is in fact a source of power (leader…
/r/askMRP10/06/19 09:06 PM
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I think I have discovered your problem. 2 hours of fogging What...the..ever...living frack? No, you don't fog for 2 hours while she get's more and more hysterical! The best move would be to initiate hard and bang the ever living crap out of her. Shove her face right into the pillow and slap her ass. Unfortunately I bet he will want to fight instead of screw. Why do some guys want revenge instead of hot makeup sex? I laughed when she said I throw out all her stuff and she cried saying I was mocki…
/r/askMRP10/06/19 08:53 PM
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I encourage people to STAY married, not GET married in this political climate and using this formulation of gynocentric marriage we have today. Originally, as God intended, marriage was an amazing institution. Today, not so much and it practically takes bailing wire and trickery to hold it together a lot of the time.
/r/RPChristians10/06/19 08:32 PM
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she can't handle being a stepmother. This may be your mistake. She is NOT the step-mother. She is your wife. Your kid has a mother who is in the picture and it isn't the woman you are currently shagging. Maybe she should try being friends with the soon to be teenager rather than being the mommy?? It's not her job to discipline a kid who is not hers and you might want to consider setting it up with her as the kids advocate/ally and you as the disciplinarian/Captain/father. That might give an oppo…
/r/askMRP07/06/19 04:24 PM
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Part of your aftercare should be to tell he she is a good girl and you love it when she does those things. Not to argue with her! Because those are the facts.
/r/askMRP07/06/19 04:19 PM
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I thought that was jack who coined the term!
/r/askMRP07/06/19 04:08 PM
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Almost?
/r/askMRP07/06/19 04:06 PM
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I would be extremely pissed off if my wife sent this type of information to a "therapist." She is trolling for "abuse" points and I think you are in serious legal danger! I would consider writing up a sexual contract (or at least confirming letter/email) for her that shows her consent to the semi-rough sex she describes. Otherwise this smells like a divorce-rape setup. Be safe. As for the verbal responses to her complaints? DO NOT take them seriously. He literally never cries or gets upset or em…
/r/askMRP07/06/19 04:03 PM
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Where can you get links to the major articles?
/r/askMRP07/06/19 03:56 PM
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Yes, this is common. Sometimes it takes the Hamster a few days to calm down and process the information sufficiently before her manhole slicks up. Humans can control their biological reactions using anger and rage but when they calm down, the natural reactions come through loud and wet. Try to be slightly more subtle and less in-your-face about your flirtations. Dread works best on the covert level, not out in the open.
/r/askMRP07/06/19 03:54 PM
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Say something like: "K" Then let her vent and complain. Complaining to women is like Oxygen. If you try to shut her down the poor dear might suffocate. If you try to change yourself the little darling loses sexual interest. What fun is it for a cat to torture a mouse when the terrified rodent stops struggling? If you don't give a fuck and remain the rock her mood will shift back in a few hours or days.
/r/askMRP07/06/19 03:48 PM
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she is losing respect for me No! You are losing respect for you and your girl feeds on it like the vampire empath she is. get on with more important things in my life. What does this platitude mean?
/r/askMRP07/06/19 03:47 PM
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I think all these cases are running together in my mind. Weird. I'm a huge asshole. Gratz! The proper response is: Thank you! That is sweet of you. Be careful you don't make her bust an aneurysm! Am I being too much of a dick and insensitive about the HELOC issue I think you should inform your First Officer about major purchases and issues like this and it would be fine if you were just being the good husband trying to protect her. The problem is you were being a chicken and trying to avoid conf…
/r/askMRP07/06/19 03:40 PM
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5, sometimes 6.
/r/askMRP07/06/19 03:29 PM
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No, I am 100% serious- and if we don't figure out the answer we can kiss this civilization goodbye.
/r/RPChristians07/06/19 03:28 PM
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condition her to not be difficult 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Good luck. The only punishers we have left is ignore, remove attention, time or affection but even that is "emotional abuse." Per the extinction curve, the behavior will get worse (increase) after treatment before tapering off (decreasing over time). However, you can't change her. You can change your behavior and how you react to her. Her being "difficult" is probably her personality- and I am quite sure you knew all about it before you said "I do." You …
/r/askMRP06/06/19 03:30 AM
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Those are my thoughts. ALL women can rewrite their sexual history and you gave her little hamster mind every incentive to run wild. Most likely she had sex, he pressured her into it. She felt bad afterwards. Then she meets a guy who puts a premium on a low n/virgin and ANY woman can easily rewrite this one previous encounter into "rape." Notice the quotes. To her it is RAPE but in reality it was a "rape." My advice might surprise you. I think you should probably let sleeping dogs lie. It is not …
/r/RPChristians06/06/19 03:21 AM
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That's a brilliant response! How can we channel the energy of the MGTOW's? My first thought is that God had it right. They need wives and families and responsibility and authority.
/r/RPChristians06/06/19 03:14 AM
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I don't believe a rape claim when the girl refuses to report it. She can easily rewrite herself as the victim and you already see she can lie effortlessly. Your girl has had more than just the "rape" partner. Give me a break. A born again virgin sexual assault victim who knows her BF thinks it is OK if she was a "victim." Uh Huh. I can name that song in 3 notes. Try this reddit if you want to know how to properly view your virgin: /r/whereareallthegoodmen
/r/RPChristians04/06/19 05:39 AM
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I swear MGTOW is a religion with disciple makers and proselytizers.
/r/RPChristians04/06/19 05:32 AM
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There is nothing natural about abstaining from sex during ovulation. I wonder if this practice contributes to the bluepilling of Catholics that many have observed?
/r/RPChristians04/06/19 05:31 AM
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First read the RP Christians Sidebar then head over to the /r/marriedredpill sidebar. Look at it using Old Reddit. It's great you are a brother in Christ but I have found the Holy Spirit rarely gets involved with your love life. Our God is not Cupid running around notching arrows! However, you can detect Him in His absence and it often manifests with the ILYBINILWY speech. The truth is, Scripture provides little help for this issue and why would it? Paul warned us it was better to stay unmarried…
/r/RPChristians04/06/19 05:27 AM
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No man would ever be with a woman who he had to bitch slap on the first date. That comes later with the uncontrollable, insane, and deliberately provocative behavior.
/r/askMRP27/05/19 02:40 PM
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Sure you translated that right soldier? I thought it was boys are for lovin. Young boys, young girls, young goats.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/19 01:26 AM
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I've got it! Being honest right before sex is like John Snow telling Grey Worm that he killed the Queen even though the Dragon carried off her body.
/r/askMRP23/05/19 08:08 PM
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To be honest Oh FFS! Being honest right before sex is like....well I don't know what it is like, only that it is incredibly stupid! what are some ways you brought back that connection/tingles? I think Dread Game might work! If only there were some resources on using Dread Game in marriage!!!!
/r/askMRP23/05/19 04:22 PM
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NMMNG was a pre-manosphere book and even Glover admits he got those parts wrong. To be fair, before men started comparing notes online, there was no way to know that this segment of his advice would not work.
/r/askMRP23/05/19 04:18 PM
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Why do you feel so compelled to confess to mommy what you have been doing?
/r/askMRP23/05/19 04:16 PM
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That's you not caring about yourself. What would not caring about your wife's bad behavior look like?
/r/askMRP23/05/19 04:13 PM
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"I'm always a good girl" and immediately changes the topic. She is embarrassed at being a slutty little girl for you. Dirty talk primarily works when the girl is turned on. If you try it- or sometimes if you even reference it- when she is NOT turned on then she gets embarrassed. It is a dominance trick she is pulling on you. Be submissive and slutty, and then assert your authority and dominance. A dance as old as time.
/r/askMRP23/05/19 04:12 PM
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It is excruciating because of all the examples. Read them with an eye towards applying the examples to your personal life.
/r/askMRP23/05/19 04:09 PM
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“Why are you being quiet?” I am just listening. I think it is cute when you complain for no reason.
/r/askMRP23/05/19 04:07 PM
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Yes. Let me tell you a little secret. The reason your girl freaks out when you argue with her about stupid shit is that it shows you can't take care of a child. When you show your incompetence, it freaks out your girl because she is banging a guy who might not even be able to take care of his orgasm. This is terrifying to a girl. Be a man. Step up and take care of business. Don't argue about stupid shit. Redirect and order her to stop. Show affection when she claims you are ignoring her. Ignore …
/r/askMRP23/05/19 04:05 PM
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What? There is a sidebar book that helps guys who feel guilty when you say no? And there is another one that helps guys who are nice guys? Where?? ------------->>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> sidebar
/r/askMRP23/05/19 03:58 PM
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I don't know how men can possibly tolerate a sex denying woman who claims that porn is "cheating." I would go full John Snow on the dragon lady who tried that on me!
/r/askMRP23/05/19 03:56 PM
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Congratulations! You don't know it right now but your life just took a turn for the better!
/r/askMRP23/05/19 03:53 PM
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In the old days, the proper answer was to redirect the bitch and apologize to the maligned man by blithely telling him she is not usually like that but you will give her a good dicking later to calm her down. If the bitch refused to be redirected then it was 5 across the eyes.... Today how do you control a raging bitch in public? You don't. You have no power to enforce reasonableness or anything else for that matter. You have the power to leave her at the store and ignore her. You have the power…
/r/askMRP23/05/19 03:50 PM
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I don't see a conflict between Iron Rule #2 and Scripture. Unless i missed that commandment, the Bible has nothing to say about the Husbands duty to disclose his sexual history. Women, of course, have a rather strange 'mark' placed on them which reveals when their sexual history surpasses one and there is OT Scripture about virgins. This implies (and I believe also states directly in the OT) that women are gravely sinning when they try to pass themselves off as virgins and thus lie about their s…
/r/RPChristians15/05/19 06:52 PM
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Welcome to the next level. I see that "what to expect when your expecting" still tops the charts for understanding the pregnant wife. Next you will want to read up on developmental milestones. There are several recent books on raising boys although they tend to be more sociological than practical: "The boy crisis" by Warren Farell is a noted exception and is must reading for any father of boys. Then read "the first year of life" to become an expert on, well, the first year of life. basics before…
/r/RPChristians15/05/19 03:58 PM
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No, this is a MGTOW screed and as far away from Married Red Pill and RPC as you can get. It exists on the exact opposite side of Red Pill thought.
/r/RPChristians14/05/19 12:34 AM
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marrying a girl who is TRULY serious about Jesus Christ makes that concern a very small one I was with you all the way to that. The boys have stories about church girls and born again virgins and sunday morning night club that could curl your pubic hair.
/r/RPChristians14/05/19 12:30 AM
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how will i find the right one for marriage if all women are whores? This has to be a troll. Obviously this is a NAWALT. It could also be a new guy suffering the red pill rage. Don't worry brother, this will pass.
/r/RPChristians14/05/19 12:28 AM
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Do you consider the mere state of being 'same-sex attracted' sinful? (I ain't gonna be trigged if you do) I think there are significant doctrinal problems with that view. There are specific prohibitions against same sex behaviors and sexual immorality but I am not aware of any prohibitions against attraction because that would be silly. I am not even sure "lust" is a sin. Yes it is one of the 7 deadly sins or whatever but every Biblical sin involving sexual conduct involves specific behaviors. J…
/r/RPChristians14/05/19 12:26 AM
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I will be interviewing Red-curious, founder and head moderator of RP Christians very soon on this channel.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/19 04:57 PM
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I endorse this. Could be a great post. Or even a chapter.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/19 08:15 PM
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I read it that she works at Mcdonalds but her many, many lovers work in the oil fields. That means they are gone for long periods of time and return to her for a P & D every 8 weeks or so. She probably has a stable of guys who fill her up with oil and gas.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/19 04:12 PM
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It is power, power, power. Women can kill their babies even after birth. They are in control of who lives and who dies- and no input from ANY man is welcome. Similarly, women decide who they have sex with at all stages. Once, in the long before time, marriage meant that women voluntarily disarmed their Nuclear Sexual Denial Weapon. Now they are given extra warheads by the State, their girlfriends, and the manginas who support them- and if you think that marriage should confer at least SOME right…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/19 04:28 PM
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You can find a "wife." The problem is finding a loyal, sexually available wife who will not shut off the day after the wedding. That minimal requirement already brings your chances to about 5%. Finding one who is helpful, kind, and sweet AND sexually available AND won't weaponize sex? Now we are down to about .000001 %.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/19 04:26 PM
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The urges are still there but like they say, the juice is no longer worth the squeeze. Women have become so intolerable the unpleasantness of interacting with them is now greater than the pleasantness of sexual congress. This is evolution in action in real time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/19 04:22 PM
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That is not Blue Pill. That is the mythical Family Alpha. The problem is that in the game of thrones, you either win or you die. All of them today are Denarios fucking Stormborn. They ride fire breathing dragons and are protected by vagina worshipping, cockless soldiers with big wooden sticks. That was some serious prose for you right there.
/r/askMRP24/04/19 02:28 AM
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Women have been hitting their husbands for decades and feminists celebrate it! They gave awards and prizes for a movie about a woman who burned her husband to a crisp. Women are every bit as violent as men and 85% of "abuse" cases are situations where the man and women are hitting each other. I think the dynamic is exactly as you state. It is the wife exercising her power to keep her husband in his place.
/r/askMRP23/04/19 02:35 PM
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Better idea: Ignore he words completely and watch how she behaves. Tone, content, bullshit, good point? It's all the same. They poke and test. You ignore and deflect. It is when they realize their total horesecrap is not going to affect you that they suddenly "turn on the (sexual access) switch." Remember, God's clear commands did not make women tolerable and your clear demands are not going to fare any better. You have to understand the dynamics. She acts up and shit tests to gain POWER. She ke…
/r/askMRP23/04/19 02:32 PM
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Yes, this is common. MRP teaches guys how to gain some power in the relationship. That means we take power from the wife. That means, she falls back on her only source of true power (vagina) and bangs you into a coma. Next she will try hot-cold and denial to see if she can affect you and push you back into a box. Then she will accelerate her bad behavior until she eventually learns she can still control you with bad behavior- or until she learns that she can't.
/r/askMRP23/04/19 02:26 PM
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How did you develop that inner confidence? All we have is fake it till you make it. Become more competent and your confidence will go up accordingly. Learn to ignore the pic, pic, pic, dig, dig, dig of the woman you are currently schlogging because they work overtime to chip away at your confidence. I think it is harder to build confidence in a relationship than alone. That is why we say MRP is Red Pill on Hard Mode. Women are rebellious and will NOT help you become a stronger man. She will oppo…
/r/askMRP23/04/19 02:21 PM
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Who knows what else she lied about. Thinking like that is circling the drain. It's so hard for me to believe all women are just lying constantly and have no moral compass. Their moral compass is whatever make them feel good at the time is "good" and whatever makes them feel bad at the time is "bad." is it possible to be red pill in a LTR with a great woman yes! who isn't bullshitting you No! and you feel a genuine connection to? That's up to you. However, if you have this deep "connection" and m…
/r/askMRP23/04/19 02:15 PM
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Yes, the Church is Blue Pilled in all of it's forms. Women dominate the governance of most churches. I believe that is why Paul gave us the wisdom of not permitting women to teach or hold positions of authority. If they dominate most church activities, and dominate charitable works, and are allowed to teach and hold high positions then guess who get's completely dominated, and ultimately cucked and totally Blue Pilled? Paul warned us not because he hated women; but to prevent them from taking ov…
/r/RPChristians23/04/19 02:33 AM
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What do you think about doing an interview for my youtube channel? I think people would love to be able to put a face to your ministry and I would love to hear you answer questions about Red Pill and Christianity. Let me know.
/r/RPChristians16/04/19 06:31 PM
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Thanks! I actually did not know that but Google is never wrong. Here is the actual scripture from Wikepedia: Colossians 3:23 - Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men. Deuteronomy 28:8 - The LORD will send a blessing on your barns and on everything you put your hand to. Proverbs 6:10-12 - A little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the hands to rest—and poverty will come on you like a bandit and scarcity like an armed man. Proverbs 12:11 - …
/r/RPChristians16/04/19 06:20 PM
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Anyone who's lived with a woman knows how to deal with that Au contraire! Many of them don't know that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/19 09:28 PM
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I pray that you get a good lawyer and a good judge. In my experience, the Holy Spirit rarely interferes in courtroom matters. My experience as an attorney with divorce litigation and now as a Marriage Mediator and Life Coach for men (and the women who love them) is quite extensive- and I think if there is any place on Earth the Lord has forsaken it is at a divorce hearing. See a lawyer last month!!!
/r/RPChristians14/04/19 09:26 PM
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A strong man has options and his woman knows that she cannot use her body or her wiles to control him. She may try, but a strong man prevents it with as much counterforce as is needed. The woman knows where the lines are and the man enforces them. This makes her feel that she is with a strong man and makes her feel safe/sexual etc. In the Christian married context, a strong man is able to protect his family, provides, and leads well.
/r/RPChristians14/04/19 09:21 PM
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extremely negative views, both of myself and society and people as a whole. So, you want to work with kids but you are struggling yourself and you have extremely negative views about people. Your reason for wanting to work with kids appears to be based on anger and not a well thought out plan. You want to deprogram kids before they get caught by the Matrix? Right? I have a lot of worry about society and only see things getting worse. So? Have you read about conditions for Christians in the 1st C…
/r/RPChristians14/04/19 09:13 PM
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I have no idea how though. Nope, try again. What would you need to know in order to have an idea how instead of no idea?
/r/RPChristians14/04/19 08:29 PM
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Hopefully you are not just now seeing that? LOL!! I have only seen women in the church act with the Holy Spirit when it is charity for the needy and such not when the hens start cackling. The guys description of the all women Bible study group applauding and encouraging a woman to divorce a man so she could "focus on her relationship with God" is credible and probably distressingly common. Women are programmed to favor team woman and to be hypergamous and supportive of team woman's hypergamous c…
/r/RPChristians14/04/19 08:28 PM
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She was probably getting more than 70% when you were together so gratz on that at least. My experience is that when you have a she-wolf unveiled, then "coyote love" is the only answer. Get out of the trap in any way possible even if you have to gnaw off your arm.
/r/RPChristians14/04/19 08:18 PM
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No.
/r/RPChristians14/04/19 08:11 PM
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All of your questions are directly found in Scripture. Funny how that works! instead of chasing women were supposed to find a mission and as long as were doing that to the best of our ability and honoring God he will put a woman in our life to help Citation needed. This is a covert contract with God (as Willow-girl pointed out). It is written: "Therefore God has mercy on whom he wants to have mercy, and he hardens whom he wants to harden." does this mean we no longer go out and do things like ap…
/r/RPChristians14/04/19 08:08 PM
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I have always liked you.
/r/RPChristians14/04/19 07:53 PM
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It took me 5 days to get it but I did. LOL! Albeit paid through two very different currencies.....
/r/RPChristians14/04/19 07:51 PM
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Men didn't let them do it: Oppression, patriarchy reeeeeee! Men let them do it: It's all men's fault! Boys drool, girls rule. Wait!! Where are all the good men?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/19 03:22 PM
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Thank You for this!
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/19 03:33 AM
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I have a little bit different view of God and Jesus and the Judgement. I think all of us are judged. However, Jesus will vacate the judgement for those who accept Him and are baptized. For all others the Trinity will deliberate and fairly judge them. That means those who never had the opportunity to know Jesus will still be fairly judged and can go up or down depending on their works. Is this heretical? Maybe, but I think it is consistent with Scripture and it answers the question better than ma…
/r/RPChristians09/04/19 04:22 AM
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They get paid by the word.
/r/RPChristians09/04/19 04:16 AM
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God doesn't beat around the bush about sexual sin I really wanted to make a joke about beating around the bush and this posts topic of masturbation but the point is a very good one.
/r/RPChristians09/04/19 04:12 AM
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I think you have touched on something that is deep and burning in our society. Where are all the good men? What does it mean to be a good man? What does masculinity look like? What do you have to DO to be a man? I don't have any easy answers for you. Jack Donovan, The Way of Men suggests that we are tribal by nature and we establish a rough and tumble pecking order very quickly. I would say men are distinguished from women in that men are active. Strong men take the initiative and make the world…
/r/RPChristians09/04/19 03:58 AM
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some Yes, and "some" does not mean "a lot." Women want vulnerability from strong men but only FROM A POSITION OF STRENGTH. Do you think any woman wants a weak man to be vulnerable with her? She wants to conquer a strong man with her magic hoo hoo and make him "open up" to her. She doesn't want a vulnerable man to be even more vulnerable.
/r/RPChristians09/04/19 03:29 AM
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After a lot of tears and talking, I asked her if she was happy with our relationship before this week, to which she replied yes, very much so. I suggested this might be a fluke, and maybe she's having an off week. This girl has demoted herself. This was a nuclear fitness test. The trick is predicated on Rollos Cardinal Rule of Relationships. He who cares the LEAST has the MOST power. Had you raced to the bottom of caring (DNGAF) and essentially kicked her out my bet is she would have come racing…
/r/RPChristians09/04/19 03:13 AM
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And he can go back and read this 6 months from now and say what all the others before him have said. Wow! WTF was I doing!
/r/askMRP28/03/19 06:13 PM
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she mentioned that she wasn't sure if we were ever really in love or if we married for the right reasons. All the "experts" insist that you should talktalktalktalktalktalk about your relationship. The experts are full of shit. YOU...DO...NOT...TALK...ABOUT...YOUR....RELATIONSHIP...WITH... yOUR...WOMAN. If you follow the advice of experts you do several things: Cede all power to the woman since talking and manipulating are their strong points. Activate her hamster mind that there IS something to …
/r/askMRP28/03/19 06:09 PM
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Plate her and date her but don't give up on looking for a mate if that is your goal. She downgraded herself and you need to accept that fact.
/r/askMRP28/03/19 06:00 PM
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OP's post also made me think of that Archwinger classic.
/r/askMRP28/03/19 05:58 PM
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The one time of the week she does agree it feels like some of the time is just to please me and not out of behingh horny. Hmmm, if only their was a subreddit with carefully selected and curated readings on how to activate the attraction triggers in women! Do you even sidebar brah? why with me is it different? You can't handle the truth right now but since you asked I suspect you will get it. Be prepared to reap the whirlwind of 'faggot' and 'pussy' and 'unattractive.' Get thee to the Iron Temple…
/r/askMRP28/03/19 05:51 PM
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The common trope that all young men are told by women is: Don't worry about getting laid. When you have money and a good job the right woman will find you. PUA's often say similar things and relegate all the choosing to the women. They are often "Alpha" so they are content to sit back and let the women "choose" them. Some Red Pillers think this is terrible advice for the 80% of men. We advise men to NOT wait for the woman to "find you" but to have the attitude that a man TAKES what he wants. YOU…
/r/askMRP27/03/19 06:08 PM
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Heavy lifting 3 x's a week is the cure all for anxiety. However, while it stems the feelings, it is usually best to find the source and stop it. I smell an Elephant in the room. You know EXACTLY what is causing the anxiety so fess up. What is it? If there really is no source, which I highly doubt, then look at your hormone levels. Anything highly estrogenergic can cause intense anxiety as you describe in men. Could also be a temporary virus or spring (Hay) fever. Do you wake up at night and can'…
/r/askMRP27/03/19 05:28 AM
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is there really a middle ground in between? or do you settle Life is a perpetual settlement. Every day. Every hour. You should take careful consideration that what you feel is a loss of limerence- that first excitement of new pussy smell. If that is what you have lost you should definitely consider settling because that is the best it gets. On the other hand, sometimes a relationship ONLY has limerence and once it is gone so is the relationships. Torrid affairs and cheating tends to be like this…
/r/askMRP27/03/19 05:20 AM
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Tried to reason with an angry woman. It didn't work. How can I make my arguments so compelling and incisive that she will be forced to admit she was wrong and I am right? Ummmm..... OK, I will bite. For starters, stop trying to control your woman like that. You can't win this game. Do you know what the only winning move is? Here is your hint: Arguing with a woman is like global thermonuclear war. It is a strange game.
/r/askMRP27/03/19 05:13 AM
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And...this is why some guys claim the women are like the PUA's. Same philosophy. Don't worry, when your ready the right girl will find you.
/r/askMRP27/03/19 05:10 AM
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I wrote the 12 steps of Dread book to explain this answer. Follow the 12 steps and when you reach 10, that is when you pursue plates. Saving a low sex marriage: A Man's Guide to Dread, Seduction and the long game The Bluepills think it was written as a "cheating manual." It is not. Quite the opposite. It is an attempt to slow down you Rambos and settle you into a slow, methodical program of improvement so that "cheating" can be avoided. If not, you are prepared to take that step.
/r/askMRP27/03/19 05:06 AM
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This is not a "kink." This is normal female behavior. We have several aphorisms to describe it in the popular culture such as: Power is the ultimate aphrodisiac. Women are attracted to powerful men. Their little midges get all soaked when one man dominates another- ESPECIALLY when HER man dominates another. It is not a bug. It is a feature.
/r/askMRP27/03/19 05:02 AM
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You are correct to identify my religious and marriage coach bias in favor of couples staying together. I am curious why marriage counselors do not have a similar bias in favor of marriage. People come to you to fix the marriage, not to be guided into a divorce. As a coach I do whatever the client wants to do and frequently check with them to be sure that is that they still want. If they want to stay married, we work on that. If they want to divorce, we work on that. I generally acknowledge colla…
/r/askMRP27/03/19 04:46 AM
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That's some supernatural Stoicism right there!
/r/RPChristians22/03/19 09:33 PM
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How do I find decent Christian women as a pastor in an ‘older church’? I don't know about the ethics and such but it seems having a conversation with the "older ladies" would be the right strategy. As it turns out, those old birds have daughters, granddaughters, nieces, and so on and so on. Let them know openly you are looking for a preacher's wife to join your ministry- and QUIT being ashamed and quiet about it. Sure discretion, blah blah. You probably don't want to put it in the Sunday bulleti…
/r/RPChristians22/03/19 09:19 PM
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The Betas aren't going to like this one! I think it is a bit much to say it is better to sin like the devil and repent rather than be lukewarm. I see the point but think it is a reach. Not a huge reach.....
/r/RPChristians22/03/19 09:12 PM
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she is extremely volatile and has threathened to leave several times over lesser things. If I fire her that could very well make her actually leave. -------1 Corinthians 7:15 If the unbeliever leaves, let it be so. The brother or the sister is not bound in such circumstances; God has called us to live in peace.
/r/RPChristians22/03/19 09:05 PM
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valuable team member right now, but quite difficult to work with because of her stuborness. That's not a valuable team member. I sentence you to read Genesis Chapter 3 until you understand it. Is there a way to make this work with me being the CEO/President and her not eventually leaving me to do all the work Yes: thy desire shall be to rule over your husband, but he shall rule over you. She feels like I'm trying to control her not only in the marriage but also at work Eject! I recommend against…
/r/RPChristians22/03/19 09:00 PM
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You will love what he did with original sin. Not to mention the Curse of Eve.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/19 08:56 PM
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"I have been seeking a virtuous man and have found only 1 in 1,000 but not a righteous woman among them all." God
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/19 06:10 PM
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I would recommend doing some Sex God Method very, very soon.
/r/askMRP17/03/19 02:15 AM
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Do I need to offer more comfort, or just STFU and keep my foot on the gas? That depends on what you want. Your choice. I think that sounds....right. Why don't you?
/r/askMRP17/03/19 02:13 AM
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It's almost like a system they will fight to protect.....
/r/askMRP17/03/19 02:09 AM
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Here's a better idea. Stick your penis in a hornets nest. If they want to read --The Rational Male, --No More Mr Nice Guy, --Married Man Sex Life Primer, and --When I Say No, I Feel Guilty, M. then you could have a discussion with them about it. Of course the fun discussion really begins with: Saving a low sex marriage: A Man's Guide to dread, seduction, and the long game
/r/askMRP17/03/19 02:05 AM
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I have a client right now who has not had sex with his wife in 3 years. I have another client right now whose brother, father, and sister died in the same week. The following week his wife walked out on him and their 15 year marriage. As a lawyer I had a client who was made a paraplegic by an uninsured drunk driver. I was only able to get him a $20,000.00 settlement. His wife walked out on him after taking the money and left him. He tried to kill himself and was in the hospital for months. He is…
/r/askMRP15/03/19 02:04 AM
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problem is I resent her. I just can not stand her anymore even through all the positive attention I'm getting from her, she will sometimes get all giddy or flirty with me and I hate it, I find it disgusting. If only we had some experience dealing with the feelings you are feeling! (News Flash: We do!). You are not mad at your wife. You are mad are YOURSELF! Your wife changed ONLY in response to you. Now you know she would not have been an intolerable harpy all those years if you had behaved diff…
/r/askMRP15/03/19 01:52 AM
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Thank you so much for your encouragement. I was afraid it was a bit much sharing. The enemies of the truth could have a field day with those voices in my head, LOL. It was a state of consciousness I have experienced once before (both times in prayer) but this one seemed a lot more direct, perhaps dismissive or impatient(??) and lasted only a few seconds. With the clarity I also got a real "that's all you get and it's far, far, far, more than you deserve" vibe. I have heard my whole life that is …
/r/RPChristians14/03/19 07:15 PM
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I was working up a follow up post but will put it here since you asked so timely! The meeting was finally held yesterday after being cancelled last month due to a snowstorm. It went great! I collected 4 names of pastors that I am meeting individually and told the story of my religious conversion into coaching. It is a real 1 John 4 type of story and they liked it. I explained my credentials- lawyer, M.S. PhD, Professor, Author etc- and admitted that none of it made me happy. So one night on vaca…
/r/RPChristians13/03/19 03:20 PM
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I skimmed over it and thought she was just transfering the baby watching duties to him, no big deal. Now I get the spectacular joke. My guess is the dude is another sperg who is trying to Alpha up without the slightest understanding of human emotion- especially when a vagina person human is involved. A pregnant vagina person human might as well be a bug eyed alien to these guys but I agree with /u/johneyapocalypse (who really needs some Flair for this response alone) that I kind of like his wife…
/r/askMRP12/03/19 09:07 PM
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If you want to do well with women, get yourself some money and a nice home. Or three. Ahh, the old Beta bucks strategy. Let us know how that works for you. Beta bucks will get sex- until the honeymoon. Then, weirdly, the spigots shut off and before long you are calling the Red Pill Coach.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/19 05:23 PM
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No woman is going to want to be beheaded or beaten to death. The only way to control women is through shaming. According to your own words the only way to control women is through threat of beheading or beating to death. Slut shaming comes from the threat of a dishonorable death and cultural norms being violated. If those norms are towards sluttery then no amount of shaming will make the least bit of difference. Only the threat of beheadings and beatings will make a difference.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/19 05:20 PM
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Is it opposite day again? A good relationship with the father prevents an n=100+ count. That is the primary benefit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/19 05:17 PM
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Craigslist. Set it for at least 100 mile radius to find all your options. Your economy option is two dumbbells with plates, and a solid bench, and you don't even need a spotter. A mirror on the wall and a pad for the floor would be helpful.
/r/askMRP04/03/19 04:25 AM
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I still count dozens.
/r/askMRP04/03/19 04:16 AM
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Cue the fireworks. There is not an agreement among Red Pill guys about porn, masturbation, or celibacy. Many Red Pill types abjure porn and the no fappers have practically turned it into a religion.
/r/askMRP04/03/19 04:14 AM
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She...she...she....she. Is there a you in there? we had sex. Everything looks like sunshine and birds Lord have mercy! You seem to view it as progress. Want to know how your wife sees it? Mum gave little johnny his candy and he stopped stomping his feet and grumbling for a time.
/r/askMRP04/03/19 04:09 AM
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Fair winds and following seas.
/r/askMRP04/03/19 04:03 AM
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Don't base your relationship on what happens during mid-terms. A better strategy would be for you to get out of dodge and leave her to her studies. No buddies to call? No friends to visit? No gyms to pump? The problem is yours, not hers.
/r/askMRP01/03/19 07:49 PM
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Absolutely, positively yes. They continue to do a particular surgery even after studies clearly show patients do better without surgery. They do surgery on the Bursa but that is not what your doctor proposed. There were probably some bone spurs that he wanted to scrape off and smooth out inside the joint. That's probably not a problem to lifting heavy now with a few reps but it is a bigger issue with repetitive motions.
/r/askMRP28/02/19 10:43 PM
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am I risking a situation Yes. 5 X 5 is a heavy weights lifting program that is practically optimized to exacerbate an old ligament injury like this. However, your story doesn't even suggest a ligament injury. Bursitis is not a ligament injury. This is largely confirmed when you claim the die cured you. Most likely they injected steroids which relieved the inflammation of the bursa (Itis = Inflamed so Burs-Itis is inflamed Bursa. Nothing to do with ligaments, and commonly treated with a Steroid i…
/r/askMRP28/02/19 07:31 PM
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Telling her this at the right time in a matter of fact, deadly serious, quiet, calm voice is likely to wake her right up. Telling her that WE have lost a child already and WE are not going to lose another one is likely to work even better. Try to remember that you are not the only parent who lost a child. A few years or a few decades doesn't matter. My daughter died as a baby and would have been 15 in just 2 days. For the last week my wife has been intolerable and I called her out on it. She sai…
/r/askMRP28/02/19 07:12 PM
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TERRORISTS 100% on point. This behavior is emotional terrorism. You don't usually have to blow up your home; but you do have to be in a position that you will absolutely not tolerate emotional blackmail and terrorism.
/r/askMRP28/02/19 07:09 PM
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Son died of cancer 3 years ago Condolences. This changes everything and the divorce rate for people in your situation is ridiculously high. The dynamic is that the wife is flailing around for emotional support. She expects and demands it from her husband. The problem is that Husbands are far less equipped to handle the loss of a child than the wife. You would think it would not be so but it is. Thus the husband cannot provide what the wife needs and she becomes more and more angry. All that said…
/r/askMRP28/02/19 07:04 PM
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Hmmm, another story that seems oddly familiar! Please read and internalize what the guys are telling you! The fact she is demanding to stay in her parents town rather than moving with her husband is very, very strong evidence that this woman is checked out. She only appears interested in controlling and manipulating your behavior, not in having a relationship with her husband. You have 3 options, none of them particularly good: Stay put and wait out the 2 years. Normally this would be a nonstart…
/r/askMRP28/02/19 06:54 PM
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If you stay celebate for 2 years while she is miles away doing who knows what while her parents watch your kid, there's no fucking way she will ever respect you again. That's my problem, at least one of them, with all of this. If he just sits around pining for his superior, goddess like wife there I just don't see how it can work in the future. She will have no respect, no desire, no passion, and no need to stay faithful. He literally would have a much better chance if he cheated on her and got …
/r/askMRP28/02/19 06:32 PM
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When you read the Song of Solomon They don't.
/r/RPChristians24/02/19 02:20 AM
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"I should dress like a loser, never shower or clean my clothes, right dad? Because only my character maters!" Right son. That's exactly what I said. You make a solid, masculine argument. The problem is when you are talking about a daughter of the King!!!! Then your job is to shut up and love her with the sacrificial love that Christ gave the church no matter how repulsive she might look. Yes, the Churchians make these arguments right to your face. One standard for men. Another for women. Men nee…
/r/RPChristians24/02/19 02:18 AM
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I think men are very, very easily swayed by good looks. If only there were some lessons in Scripture about this! /s
/r/RPChristians24/02/19 02:15 AM
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Have you read the OWS thread? That's where this stuff goes but you need to reframe it first. Hint: That's the point.
/r/askMRP22/02/19 02:19 AM
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She is checked out from me. I bet you two are so checked IN that you finish each others sentences. In many cases, certainly yours, the solution is to differentiate yourself, build a life without her, and then later offer her a chance to join you. my wife mocked me No woman can ever harm you except that you give her the power to do so (paraphrasing Marcus Aurelius).
/r/askMRP22/02/19 02:18 AM
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understand the reasoning behind the psychological games. That's the problem! There is no reason. It...just...is. All of this is based on observation and ancient wisdom. Take the red pill. Pick it up off the ground and put it in your mouth. Swallow it this time. Red Pill is like Quantum Physics. If you ask things like: "Why do electrons like to be in specific orbits? Why do they like specific numbers of electrons in those orbits? Why is light a particle and a wave? Then you are not going to get a…
/r/RPChristians20/02/19 07:07 AM
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Shouldn't she just be attracted to you for being a healthy productive man? No, and she won't. We didn't make this model. If you have a problem, take it up with the designer.
/r/RPChristians20/02/19 07:00 AM
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psychological games just seem extremely immature. Women are the most responsible teenager in the house. Stop using your standards of what is "mature" when dealing with women. If you want to treat her "mature" you will get a mommy and trust me, that is not fun! If you want a fun loving little girl sex-kitten then play the game.
/r/RPChristians20/02/19 06:59 AM
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why play along? Why not just tell her to grow up and knock it the hell off. God set the rules of the game and you are a dang fool if you refuse to play by His rules. That said, refusing to tolerate her fitness tests is a strategy for some but you can use them much more productively to establish a better relationship. insist that a lack of sexual desire for your spouse is a sign that you've got something deeply wrong with you Ha! You think that is the problem with most guys on Red Pill or RP Chri…
/r/RPChristians20/02/19 06:57 AM
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10 Oneitis confirmed. How often can I say sorry? Not bloody often. She wanted What do you want? Who is the leader of this relationship? How can I prevent myself from feeling so damn lonely in times like these? Pray. Develop deep male friendships. Men are alone. You were born alone, naked and screaming and you will most likely die alone, slouched over and covered in crap. When she's moody, how can I re-kindle the positive, fun energy that we constantly lived in at first? You can't. Limerence last…
/r/RPChristians20/02/19 06:47 AM
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Millennial confirmed.
/r/RPChristians20/02/19 06:40 AM
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Lying to your wife is not a good look (not to mention a sin) I was with you to this point. The precise words of Scripture are well known. Don't bear false witness against your neighbor. I am pretty sure "liars" was mentioned just once in Revelations condemning all liars to "Hell" but I need to check the translation. Bearing false witness is a lie meant to hurt or defraud another and/or under oath. I can't believe telling a "white lie" to smooth social interaction is a "sin."
/r/RPChristians20/02/19 06:39 AM
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adapt secular red pill - and say that we need to spin plates Yes, that is Red Pill. This sub is RP Christians- and what you describe is essentially the great schism between Red Pill and RP Christians. Even married Red Pill does not abjure spinning plates but clearly RP Christians does as Scripture could not be more clear.
/r/RPChristians20/02/19 06:34 AM
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heart shaped pancakes!! Oh lawdy! next time don’t stack the pans on top of each other cause they will scratch” Shit Test. No you can't dodge them. But when your ready, you won't have too. Spend more time identifying your Covert Contracts than you do worrying about your wife only coming halfway to kiss you. Let me guess you read that tactic in MMSL and were insulted when your wife did it to you.
/r/askMRP20/02/19 06:27 AM
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Are you her lover or her therapist? It would be important to distinguish those roles and keep them seperate. Warren Farrell writes very persuasively about fatherless children, boys and girls deprived of fathers. It's not good. I have not studied the literature on motherless children. In this case, it seems she has a clear example of how NOT to behave and a clear way for you to maintain control. I assume she is very keen to avoid being like her bad mommy. Also, fear of abandonment is likely to be…
/r/askMRP20/02/19 06:20 AM
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Ahh, to be in love limerence again. I need to withdrawal attention I can’t even go to the store without her blowing me in the car What are you doing Brah? Why are you deliberately withdrawing attention when sex is on demand? Have a nice ride. Limerence lasts 12-18 months. Then... I legit feel like... Nobody cares how FEEEEEELLLL- and you need to care less how you feel. Being in Twue Wuv makes all men weak. Enjoy it and stop freaking out. Should you cheat to prove you can? I have heard dumber thi…
/r/askMRP20/02/19 06:07 AM
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Everybody says 'sidebar.' They mean the /r/marriedredpill sidebar. I wonder if that could be clarified and funneled better?
/r/askMRP18/02/19 11:30 PM
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Oh no! It's the Chad they cry about in /r/whereareallthegoodmen Hi Chad. I think you have safely made it past Rambo. I was thinking of a better alternative but could only come up with Predator. Is that too judgy?
/r/askMRP18/02/19 11:24 PM
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Best....thread....ever Holding frame is a real thing, just like flowers, chocolates, and coconut oil massages in the buttcrack. The important thing is to negotiate openly and schedule the sex on date night no matter how much you have to pay. Because communication is critical to long term intimate relationships.
/r/askMRP18/02/19 11:20 PM
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Aww, you ruined my image. Carry on.
/r/askMRP18/02/19 11:11 PM
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Right, but the wife was a SAHM baking cookies. Are you saying she doesn't work but you do? Do you do half the housework and expect to do half the child care? I don't think you are saying that but it sure reads like it. I have a picture of my wife on her laptop in the hospital, reviewing spreadsheets and billing for her time- so it was surely fair that I would change 1/2 the diapers but your situation appears to be slightly different. Are you being taken advantage of? If you don't recognize that …
/r/askMRP18/02/19 11:10 PM
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it doesn't seem like it would be alpha of me to just say fuck all and do my own thing You are the Family Alpha now. I think it is Alpha as frack to lead your family and raise your kids. spend too much time at home leaving all the responsibility on my wife No problem! Two problems, one solution. Take your kid to the gym with you. Most have a day care thing going so use it! That is truly Alpha. Wife gets a break, you get bonding time and bulging muscles. Win-Win and it even works for the crossfit …
/r/askMRP18/02/19 11:02 PM
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this is going to be something that will cause us to separate. wife is unhappy your son is going to miss out on things if we can't afford them. There are subcoms and there is this. WTF is going on? Why is this talk going on in your family at all? What is your son going to miss out on?
/r/askMRP18/02/19 10:51 PM
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Take note all you unicorn riders certain that your woman is not like that and won't shit test. Get injured. Get sick. Have a parent die. Then get back to us. This behavior you have described is ubiquitous in women. It is 100% of the time that the Shit Testing increases when you show any weakness. If you are made weak by an injury, the woman's every instinct screaming in each of her Billion or so odd X Chromosomes is telling her to TEST THIS MAN who is injured. Can he still protect me? Is he stil…
/r/askMRP18/02/19 10:46 PM
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This is really an impressive ass thread!
/r/askMRP18/02/19 10:42 PM
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That's some graduate level NLP right there. You should make this into a post.
/r/askMRP18/02/19 10:40 PM
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This title gets an upvote if nothing else. her arm swung around and nailed me Next time block it with your free hand and put her in an armlock but don't lose the doggy style rhythm. you can’t just spring that Does she literally have to stand on the bed with those flashlights and guide you in? This was an invitation to talk about what you want. Chickening out from that conversation is not going to increase her attraction. This was golden opportunity to tease her. Next time I will have to tie you …
/r/askMRP18/02/19 10:37 PM
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Red Pill mostly arrived at the same conclusions independently Check out what the Bible has to say about women and relationships for another independent evaluation.
/r/askMRP18/02/19 10:29 PM
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All of the above. Let me give my opinion in confidence that it will not unduly influence yours. I think traditional MC assumes toxic masculinity and that the man is abusive, a cheater, or at least quasi abusive. Thus when the man is indeed toxically masculine, abusive, or a cheater, traditional MC- emote, share, feel, dredge up your childhood, expose your weaknesses- in short, bring down the man. Then in that case, MC probably "works" because you have a guy who genuinely needs to be a non-asshol…
/r/askMRP13/02/19 07:26 PM
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Yes, I filed a case alleging that Reddit committed political and gender discrimination in refusing to do business with me or accepting my advertising money. Reddit house counsel contacted me and a discussion ensued. Essentially they argued Reddit had the right to do business with whoever they wanted and to not do business with whoever they wanted. Remember, my case was not about "public use" but about using the forum for advertising. So I had not been Quarantined or Banned and I was arguing that…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 07:20 PM
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What type of patient/clients do you think would do more poorly using traditional MC (communicate, listen, talk, talk, expose your weaknesses, cry, dig open your emotional weaknesses in front of the wife)? What type of patient/client would do worse in "Red Pill" informed MC (be the man, let her be the woman, appreciate the differences, cultivate personal and leadership excellence)?
/r/askMRP12/02/19 09:27 PM
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I can't find it. The most recent NYT report was that 25% of couples do worse after MC. Weirdly, nearly 40% of couples are divorced within 2 years of MC so I don't know how they get the figure 25%! I think I got this idea from Gottman who reports that less than 20% of couples make improvements in MC. That would mean 80% don't.
/r/askMRP12/02/19 02:55 AM
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Yah think da bas ass doesn't get shit tested constantly? He just swats them away but her behavior is the same. Constant challenging etc.
/r/askMRP11/02/19 04:07 AM
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Where the shit doesn't fly and she just quietly respects me for the rest of my life. Nope, that was under the old set of books. Under the new ones it is a battle every day. Stoicism is your ally and at the end of it all, if you don't care about her whining and complaining and disagreeable and contentious behavior then it doesn't matter. That's the best many of us can do. She is not going to one day submit and surrender. However, one day you can learn that they don't matter. Then they will seem t…
/r/askMRP11/02/19 04:05 AM
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It's frustrating having her want to be around me this much and keeping it all non-sexual. I still find her attractive so having her trying to cuddle me and smother me is like smelling a juicy hamburger and not being able to eat it. Why? Could it work to use the Justin Fairfax style of initiation? Or perhaps you could be slightly more circumspect and achieve an even better result? Studies show that swallowing the semen of the babies father eases morning sickness so what's the problem?
/r/askMRP11/02/19 03:58 AM
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No, I think he actually turned it around and is doing well now. Some guys just need to freak out before they can go back to being somewhat normal.
/r/askMRP11/02/19 03:54 AM
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comfort test I agree if that is all she does. I think if she adds other value it is a clear Shit Test.
/r/askMRP11/02/19 03:52 AM
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Rian Stone has a new youtube channel that features him cooking and explaining Red Pill concepts.
/r/askMRP11/02/19 03:50 AM
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What other value does your wife add? If all she does is the "womanly chores" you have one response but a different one if she adds other value (i.e. has a good job, home schools the kids, washes the feet of the saints, whatever).
/r/askMRP11/02/19 03:49 AM
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You can probably take control of this woman, question her to get the information you need, and then tell her how it is going to be. What is the information you need to fix it? I don't know that but you probably do know already. There is no discussion of fee fees over texts. Find out what is going on from the hamsters mouth.
/r/askMRP11/02/19 03:45 AM
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Marriage Counselor? Do you know that 80% of couples do WORSE after marriage counseling?
/r/askMRP11/02/19 03:39 AM
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Bluepill Professor was inspired to do a MRP basic class and had it all formulated with every episode named and outlined in a single weekend. Everything was planned from the beginning. Red Pill coaches videos get better over time (and yes, I have been told I look like John Goodman by many people. You will have to get in line to insult me with that one) so it took time to develop my purpose and theme for the newer videos. Marriage or Divorce? The answer finally came to me but it took time. Until I…
/r/askMRP11/02/19 03:34 AM
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MRP is for whatever works. Gottman, like Red Pill, bases his entire methodology on observation rather than Marxist claptrap and feminist ideology. So it is hardly surprising they largely match. I have found Crucible Therapy (Schnarch) to be even closer to Red Pill but Gottman has a complete system.
/r/askMRP11/02/19 03:31 AM
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I have an entire video series on the sidebar "Red Pilling" Gottman. Not many tweaks to make it work but a few. Red Pill Coach on Advanced Topics in Marriage
/r/askMRP11/02/19 03:28 AM
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Link it to the mod team and ask them to put it in the Wiki.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/19 04:08 AM
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Farewell Faggots These posts always bring a tear to my eye. Don't forget to teach other men what you have learned in this place. Fair winds and safe journey.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/19 04:04 AM
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Navigating this part is a challenge, and I’m hoping a level headed TRP man might have some suggestions/insights. First decide precisely on your destination. You are "navigating" but you give no indication what port your ship is visiting next. What about in 1-year? 5-years? Grief is simply process and it takes time. don't know if she will recover fully She will. how long it will take That is the mystery and there is no way to predict. You need to do a few things. First, don't assume that the fun …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/19 02:12 AM
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Are you even aware that men and women have different meanings when they say words like "love?" Or "committment." Let me help you out: Love (women) = "He makes my clit tingle and my pussy throb" Love (Men) = "She is hot enough to bang and would make a good wife and mother for my children." Commitment (women) = "RIGHT NOW I THINK I will love you forever." Commitment (Men) = I will love you forever. Does that help?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/19 06:03 PM
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Yah, she is a real pro!
/r/askMRP05/02/19 05:49 PM
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Yes and weirdly enough when you have full access there is rarely a need to check on it. In situations where there is a loss of trust (read infidelity) then open social media, and possibly geo-tracking is a minimal requirement for moving forward. However, checking up on a spouse's social media posts is usually seen as very unattractive, needy, and off-putting. You are better off building 0ptions and expanding your OI than you are mate guarding.
/r/askMRP05/02/19 05:47 PM
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she doesn't want her plowhorse to start getting attractive to other women, I usually say these are unconscious on teh part of women but I wonder. With his Stats on the bench, just a little right lifting will go a long way for him- and I am quite sure she knows it.
/r/askMRP04/02/19 09:30 PM
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Of course she was. The record will reflect that Chad didn't want to be around her either.
/r/askMRP04/02/19 09:26 PM
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Going to the gym has turned into her saying I'm all about myself and it takes time from work. Get back to work for that woman you narcissist, toxic, masculine man. more dominant in bed has turned into her saying I fuck her like a whore Basic Fitness Test. Yes darling, you are my little whore. to rough, not loving. Mix it up. If she needs more affection give it. Rough sex shouldn't interfere with cuddling and loving in the least. However, none of these are your problem. The issue is that your wif…
/r/askMRP04/02/19 09:24 PM
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A filthy bed full of rice would certainly be a hill I would die on. Once my wife left crumbs in the way you described. I stripped the sheets over her vehement protests and left her laying without covers before going downstairs to watch TV. She figured it out and by the time I got to bed fresh sheets were in place.
/r/askMRP04/02/19 09:16 PM
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This story feels oddly familiar. Love the 'what is it about me touching you that is bad' which is from the WISNIFG sidebar book. I don't think you executed it well and am certain you did not follow through well (i.e. lost frame). How can I recognize the moments where I'm being pulled into her frame and break that? In other words, how do I learn to dodge bullets? The answer is always the same. When you're ready, you won't have to. You are not ready because your own emotions are clouding your abil…
/r/askMRP04/02/19 09:13 PM
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Paul for the win! Thanks.
/r/RPChristians04/02/19 08:28 PM
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what you hope to achieve in your 5-10 minutes but I am guessing that your goal to influence them. I want them to refer me Marriage Coaching Clients and to reassure them that my approach is consistent with Biblical doctrine. 95% chance these pastors would appreciate more sex with intensity from their wives. Aye! I hadn't thought of the Pastors as clients but yah. I can almost guarantee many of them are trapped in a low sex marriage. And 'trapped' is exactly the right word. What can they possibly …
/r/RPChristians04/02/19 08:25 PM
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biblical headship That was the phrase I was flailing about trying to find! Thank you!!! Submission I think that is covered by Biblical Headship. So do you pray the "Hail Mary" prayer on the Rosary? Just know that this is not biblical - Mary is not a perpetual virgin, she gave birth to other kids after Jesus, she is not Co-Redemptrix with Jesus, etc. This is one main reason I did not convert to Catholicism. These ideas contradict Scripture. Not surprisingly, like much of the world, when you read …
/r/RPChristians04/02/19 08:14 PM
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This is kind of what I want to convey. They can't draw attention to certain uncomfortable truths in Scripture without having a female revolt on their hands. I can and if the girls don't like it they don't have to hire me for another session. I appreciate that they have everything to lose by mentioning Ephesians but I have nothing to lose. I don't care. I only want to work with clients who are not SJW's and who can acknowledge Biblical truth. Pastors have to work with everybody so it limits them.
/r/RPChristians04/02/19 08:02 PM
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No, only male Elders, Deacons, and Pastors. No musical instruments either. Very Conservative wing of Christianity- but also very, very Blue Pill, Servant Leadership, Husband must love as Christ loved the Church but it doesn't really say wives need to "submit" and we are just going to ignore all that to avoid offending the contributors (women). In my denomination of COC, women are allowed to speak before the Closing Prayer to give announcements and activity updates but that is as far as they have…
/r/RPChristians04/02/19 07:57 PM
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That would have been said with dramatic irony with a laughing shrug and something like "who knew that the Bible really does have all the answers, right?"
/r/RPChristians04/02/19 07:53 PM
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This passage continues to describe the virtuous woman in exquisite detail and she would provide strength and energy to her man. She would not take it. A man thinks he’s being manly when he defers to a Christian woman. And the Christian woman, having heard sermons about this sort of thing over the years, believes that the appropriate thing for the godly man to do is defer to her on this Sunday School question. Nails it! This is the problem in the modern church and in modern society. We give an in…
/r/RPChristians03/02/19 10:17 PM
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Hope Birth Control is in your control. That sounds like a woman who wants your sperm and an 'oops' waiting to happen.
/r/askMRP03/02/19 07:36 PM
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People who claim to be great players at Pussy Hero 9.0 often lack heavily in dominance and make their partner feel used. Sure they scream and yell and quiver but it lacks the weight of a man's body on them, pounding mercilessly while she can do almost nothing except receive his strength. Do you have that technique down?
/r/askMRP03/02/19 07:32 PM
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manual stimulation over toys Have you tried vibrating rings that you can now get at CVS drugs? Or a vibe egg? I bet the farm you don't have a Hitachi Magic Wand with the Rabbit attachment!
/r/askMRP03/02/19 07:27 PM
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25% of the time. But we usually fuck within 2 days if I was rejected. Do you see how just a bit of masculine power at the right moment could have fixed this problem completely? she only cums from oral As crudely and succinctly as possible. Bring her to the point or orgasm and then jam it in. It may take some practice but this works 100% of the time if you time it right. She may complain it ruins her orgasm or whatever. Sometimes you can carry on and give her another one but do this for YOU, not …
/r/askMRP03/02/19 07:25 PM
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I was not as ‘emotionally available’ as she needed. Oh, I am sure she was sexually available for you when you needed. Stop this DEER and Hamster crap. You are justifying and defending what your wife did and blaming yourself. Knock it off. Spent more than a year trying to ‘work it out’. Relationship is actually good and peaceful today. Sex not as often as I want, but better than some I’ve seen. Oh FFS! She dropped a branch swing and now she has slightly increased the sex and you are hooked like a…
/r/askMRP03/02/19 07:16 PM
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This can work if you play it out to the full conclusion. Many couples find that role playing the prostitute/John game can be quite fun. You could also graphically burn your vouchers and help yourself to a permanent lifetime voucher- you know, the one in those vows your wife supposedly meant when she said. That's probably my advice. Simply turn in those same day tickets for a lifetime pass. As is, they are insulting and disrespectful.
/r/askMRP03/02/19 07:00 PM
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when your wife is now possibly into women I see two errors jst in that short selection. "Possibly" into women? What does that mean? It means hedging and bullcrap. Check out her porn stash for answers. "Now" into women? Guess what. All the evidence suggests that sexual preference is baked into the cake by age 8 or 9. She is not "now" or "possibly" into women; she is into women or she is not. Don't forget she could also be into men AND women which is probably most common in women and provides some…
/r/askMRP03/02/19 06:56 PM
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That's because people and situations are all over the map so the darts you throw at them will seem to be 'all over the map' when the dust clears. Never been accused of not making sense before so that's a new one. You want to debate how the (former) SO viewed this ghosting over NYE? Or whether she didn't hop on the first pop that was available that night?
/r/askMRP02/02/19 09:14 PM
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That is not me masturbating but I guess it is me validation jerking off the Red S guy. No homo.
/r/askMRP31/01/19 08:09 PM
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her friends Ha! Now we have the full truth. Let me stoke your insecurity by suggesting that she may have "known" this guy in the past. Again, the question is why does any of that matter?
/r/askMRP31/01/19 08:05 PM
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Another one on the spectrum. Why do we always get the aspies? I think it is because the normies read this and learn to read their woman while the guys on the highly functional/high IQ end of the spectrum are terrible at reading emotions. Usually you end up on AskMRP if you are screwing it up in some way so those are the guys we get. He is saying you are in a better situation than some guys who come in and end up whimpering and crying over issues like this. Those are the guys who need to get the …
/r/askMRP31/01/19 08:03 PM
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Of course she enjoyed the attention from the guy. Why is a little open, double entendre flirtation a problem for you? This is normal female behavior and does not sound disrespectful.
/r/askMRP31/01/19 08:00 PM
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I confronted her (mistake) You think? but I wanted to know if she was into him. Mate guarding and weak. Why the frack would you need to ask a woman if she is into a guy. You have eyes, right? Women think they are being cute and mysterious but if you have red pill knowledge they are an open book. It is blindingly obvious she was attracted to him and we were not even there. The question is why is that such a problem for you? My girl tingles hard for Drogo/Aquaman. So what? I prefer young Demi Moor…
/r/askMRP31/01/19 07:56 PM
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No, the oak doesn't react beyond swaying in the high winds. Canceling NYE to a girl is literally the end of the relationship in her mind. Almost certainly your stunt was an end to her fidelity. Want to bet she did not spend NYE alone?
/r/askMRP31/01/19 07:51 PM
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TDLR: DEER-ed. Failed Shit Tests. Mate Guarded. Used text for more than logistics. Argued with LTR about stupid shit. Claims to STFU but doesn't. Claims to not be butthurt but is. No abundance mentality and heavily affected by hot/cold. MRP, what am I doing wrong? Did I miss anything?
/r/askMRP31/01/19 07:48 PM
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Dread Game works about 90% of the time so that is pretty good evidence the vast majority of women are Cuck Queens or something very close. Certainly the vast majority of women get wet imagining their man banging other women. Competition get's the juices flowing and confirms that they have a man who is in demand and desired by other women. Of course in the case of "cheating" the wife/GF still gets wet but, amazingly, we have discovered that women have conscious free will and can choose not to act…
/r/askMRP31/01/19 04:57 PM
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Not a troll. He is Flaired for a reason and is playing his role.
/r/askMRP31/01/19 04:53 PM
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It's not a race! 1-2 is perfectly fine to keep in the stable. If you want to whittle it down to 1 and exclusive then this can be done if you have choices. However, the grass is always greener! Is dealing with a couple plates REALLY more exhausting than dealing with a wife? Really?
/r/askMRP31/01/19 04:42 PM
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/u/Financial_Metal , Zachs offer is genuine and you would be a fool to pass it up. He can tell you exactly what is up.
/r/askMRP29/01/19 10:29 PM
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I might be a little autistic I work with guys like you all the time! It's not 'autism' but just a bit of Sperginess. Nothing dysfunctional about it- but when you match a bit of Sperg with MRP this is a common result. MRP requires you to be able to lift yourself out of your own perspective in order to read your woman properly. Spergy guys have a terrible time doing this and they end up Asshole/Alpha rather than Attractive/Alpha. Then the woman responds to the Alpha/Asshole with an increase in wha…
/r/askMRP29/01/19 10:22 PM
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I specifically asked her not to snoop and try to figure out what I was reading. Do you even hvae the first clue about female psychology and motivation. Are you aware of Pandoras Box, or the Apple Eve ate? Its the same story. The curiousity of women has been legendary since before recorded history yet you tell her not to snoop? LMFAO. Next thing you will be cursing all your descendents throughout time for her sins. If you want to be like God, my advice is to be an informed, and benevolent God ins…
/r/askMRP29/01/19 10:09 PM
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I just want her to shut the fuck up and stop trying to boss me around. If I say no, fuck off. There you go! That only took 120 comments to find out what you want. I don't see the problem. Ignore her when she is bossing you around. If you say no then adopt the attitude she can fuck off. Maybe you can talk openly with her about that? Maybe the solution is for your "no" to actually mean "no" but to use your power less, but more effectively??
/r/askMRP29/01/19 10:07 PM
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From the way you talk can we assume you are also on the juice?
/r/askMRP29/01/19 10:01 PM
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It was just an opportunity for her to boss me around. You have no idea how good at it she is. Ha! My wife is a lawyer and a CPA and she is a total control freak. I know exactly how good at it she is. I also know that you are pissed off because you feel helpless and out of control so naturally you vomit all over your family and try to gain control by steamrolling the wife. The Steamroll method of leadership can work, but if it does it produces a docile, listless, passive woman that is not fun at …
/r/askMRP29/01/19 09:55 PM
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No, you should start by STOPPING all those thoughts about your "cunty wife." You don't think she knows your change in attitude about her? She knows. Next instead of lowering your wife, try raising yourself. She is a Shit Testing demon child- but try to think about how cute it is. When you can accept her antics as adorable they will not only stop, you won't even notice when they do. Shit tests are a woman testing the man to see if he is a strong Alpha that she can safely bang. They are not a cont…
/r/askMRP29/01/19 09:51 PM
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MRP causes the man to make an attitude adjustment in realizing his superiority as a masculine man. Women may interpret this change in deference and lowering her off the pedestal as being treated like you would dismiss a college whore. When you are used to royal deference and kid gloves, anything but worship feeeeeeeeels like oppression.
/r/askMRP29/01/19 09:46 PM
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I'm not ok with what your doing and your crushing me and breaking my heart. If she is being crushed and broken then no doubt you can ease up. Is she acting "crushed" and "broken" or is she just trying to WIN? If she is just using her hurt fee fees to gain leverage or is she actually hurt? Am I completely fucking this up? Probably. I have just been refusing to let her walk all over me. Are you sure? If that is all, then why were you so worried about your behavior that you posted on a forum? If th…
/r/askMRP29/01/19 09:44 PM
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We are not here to provide your answers, only possible solutions. Some guys will call you a faggot for not pulling the pin on the grenade when you first suspected infidelity. Some guys will tell you to put it behind you and you can make it work. Either way, the stay plan is the same as the go plan but do pick a path won't you. You know what happens when you stand in the middle of the road? If you choose the stay plan and want to know: "do I simply live with this" then the answer is yes you do. M…
/r/askMRP29/01/19 09:37 PM
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www.coaching4men.com
/r/askMRP28/01/19 10:48 PM
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On top, or bottom, hook your arms around her back and grip her shoulders. You can pound away, move her into you with your arms, or do both.
/r/askMRP24/01/19 06:12 PM
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I see it. Just need to shorten the intro due to Zeps copyright. In other videos they have let me give them any advertising revenue generated but I don't see that option this time. Edit: Fixed and re-uploaded.
/r/askMRP24/01/19 06:09 PM
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What should i do? That is completely the wrong question. Try this one instead: What do I want to do? Discuss.
/r/askMRP24/01/19 06:00 PM
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I was sure I clicked on the wrong sub. This is actual advice in most of them. She Cum's First and hours of oral sex are the only way to keep a woman satisfied. LMFAO. Strange these guys who follow your "advice" get starfish once a month while their wives read Vampire Pornography and 50 Shades of Gray, practically begging for a man to throw her down and ravish her hard. While her husband meekly does the dishes hoping against hope.....
/r/askMRP24/01/19 05:04 AM
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"What did I miss?" Looks around. froze up You are going to want to figure out why you did that. Why did you freeze up? Also, why were you not looking? Are you that beaten down you are terrified to look? Do you do any tricks?
/r/askMRP24/01/19 04:55 AM
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This is your answer. Don't go Rambo.
/r/askMRP24/01/19 04:53 AM
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no chick gives a fuck how much you can lift. Until you get them into bed and they find themselves thrown around like a ragdoll. Until you get to that point I have to agree that lower BMI is the route to attraction. However, let me point out this is entirely cultural and "other" type of attraction vs. men's attration to youth and beauty. Men's preference for a 70:30 hip:waist ratio and young with tight boobs transcends all races and all cultures. However, in other cultures plump men are found att…
/r/askMRP20/01/19 06:11 PM
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I don't even know or understand what healthy attraction is. The good news for you is that you're not alone. The bad news for society is... that you're not alone.
/r/askMRP20/01/19 06:06 PM
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Do you know who turns down sex because they don't FEEL like it? Women and faggots. The wisdom is there guys. You just have to read past the cries of faggots and pussy and not get butthurt before you can recognize it.
/r/askMRP20/01/19 06:06 PM
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You have the kind of sex based on OP's missing and unknown "Healthy Bases of Attraction." Hopefully OP will realize the important point you are making.
/r/askMRP20/01/19 06:03 PM
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I ghost wrote Bluepillprofessor's Book, Saving a Low Sex Marriage which is on the sidebar. More or less.
/r/askMRP20/01/19 05:42 PM
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The title is exactly correct. This is what going Rambo and cementing it over years looks like! This is what IDGAF looks like when taken to far. You get a passionless, unhappy marriage! Of course she doesn't leave when you are a true blue (or red) asshole but the tactics we suggest for EARLY MRP AND NEW GUYS DO NOT WORK LONG TERM TO CREATE A LOVING RELATIONSHIP!!!!!!!! Read that last line again. It is 100% true. MRP tactics are mostly for new guys. You STFU NOT because it is an ideal tactic. It i…
/r/askMRP18/01/19 06:21 PM
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And...being able to explicate the precise calibration needed is why he is a Moderator!
/r/askMRP18/01/19 06:13 PM
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Why does this story sound so familiar? I have a very strong feeling that if you hold frame she will come around. If it is not a big deal to you it will not be a big deal for her. I would try to calibrate slightly better and be more aware when she is approaching the cliff. Then you can pull her into your safe, strong arms right before she goes over the edge. Also, being called an "asshole" is a complement so gratz! Own your inner asshole but calibrate it for maximum effect.
/r/askMRP18/01/19 06:07 PM
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No, you responded to the Shit Test. I am just triggered with this description of a woman taunting her man like this so as I say, if it happened again I would go cave man and rebuke her fiercely so she never does it again- because the 3rd time it would be time to go nuclear on the relationship. How is a woman taunting you when she knows it is a sore spot and comparing you to other BF's even remotely acceptable?
/r/askMRP18/01/19 03:20 AM
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Is this a typical occurrence as you're working your way through MRP? Yes. She's acknowledged my physical and mental changes and in either case I could give no fucks. The idea is to not GAF about your validation and thus kill it. The idea is to be a strong leader, NOT to not GAF about your wife. I'm sure it's her trying to hang onto what she's losing control of. Lots of women clean frantically when they want more "control." You could give her something else to handle- like learning how to deep th…
/r/askMRP18/01/19 12:57 AM
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I am sure she will get more than 1/2 the credit.
/r/askMRP18/01/19 12:50 AM
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Why does OP have to argue? Buy the damn house he wants. Get the financing. Drive the wife to the closing. Hand her the pen and tell her to sign. Or better yet just keep the house in your name.
/r/askMRP18/01/19 12:47 AM
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it seemed really flippant and spoiled to just dismiss my dream because she felt like having a house would be a hassle It WAS flippant, cruel, mean, obnoxious, bitchy, whatever you want to call it. The problem is they do it all the time. Dieda writes about this and I quote the passage in my book as well. Women are dream killers. They see it as their duty to destroy all the dreams of the man they are with. I don't know why, but that is what they do. Don't let her destroy your dreams. I would care …
/r/askMRP18/01/19 12:45 AM
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Yes, this is the best answer on this thread by far.
/r/askMRP18/01/19 12:42 AM
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You can’t picture yourself having abundance and frame in this scenario, so you assume all of it. Because he would not have OI or abundance in this situation. He would nuke that shit from orbit. When you see a Hard Core Red guy (or W & S) saying faggot, try to imagine a Drill Sgt yelling: "Pick up the pace ladies." It's not really an insult, it's a guy trying to help get you ready for battle.
/r/askMRP18/01/19 12:39 AM
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“Oh are you going to be best friends with (Ex guy she went on dates with) now My job is keeping relationships together and helping guys figuring out whether they should end it, and how. This is a relationship ending Shit Test. In no way should this be tolerated. An appropriate response might be to ignore it the first time, agree and amplify, treat it like a shit test. The second time could be a sharp rebuke but after that all bets are off. I would go thermonuclear, leave the house, and go no con…
/r/askMRP18/01/19 12:31 AM
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Friday she says she can’t wait to see me and I withdraw attention. Another one on the spectrum! Welcome...to the real world. she calls me and pussy and says i get grossed out too easily about things. I looked at her and said do not call me a pussy. Her shit tests have reached a new high. Ouch! That would have been the time to withdraw attention. Seems like she wants adventure. So a basic Thot? They always say if you don't provide the excitement she will. he’s gauging breaking things off or hard …
/r/askMRP18/01/19 12:27 AM
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I am sure you have made tremendous progress just realizing you are a snowflake and not a "special snowflake."
/r/askMRP18/01/19 12:18 AM
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Engaged for March 9t She's great The effects of Limerence last for 3-18 months. After the vows......
/r/askMRP18/01/19 12:16 AM
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Do you say you've seen the light or acta non veba? I would go with the official slogan of MRP. I am certain that it is not "tell the wife you have seen the light" so I would go with Acta Non Verba.
/r/askMRP18/01/19 12:07 AM
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This is a well known side effect of waking up to reality- aka taking the pill and has been discussed and confirmed many times. Your attraction was in whole or part based on your need for a mommy to your Beta. Now that the dynamic has changed there is no basis of your attraction. Are there other positive factors about this woman that you could recognize in order to build other more healthy bases of attraction?
/r/askMRP18/01/19 12:05 AM
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the following things happened as I stood my ground on the "no": I don't think your list has ever been contradicted by any poster ever. The boys claim "no" is the sexiest thing you can say to a woman judging by their (eventual) reaction to a man setting clear boundaries.
/r/askMRP18/01/19 12:02 AM
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The bloops are going to have a field day with you guys. Carry on!
/r/askMRP17/01/19 11:59 PM
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Sounds pretty healthy to me. You have my permission to stop punishing your LTR by ignoring her and to instead speak up directly. Imagine she is a 12 year old brat stomping her feet about doing her homework. You don't get mad and stomp your feet. You don't ignore her. You calmly tell her to knock it off. Do that.
/r/askMRP17/01/19 11:57 PM
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AI with sensor devices attached that measures your response to varying friction/speed/whatever that is programmed to respond in ways to maximize your pleasure. It would be more addicting than Heroin and Meth combined.
/r/RPChristians10/01/19 03:40 AM
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Also, put a baby in her belly before she has time to sleep around and keep her barefoot so she can't leave (edit the lol for Poe) I mean, you have an ideal and that is great, but there are many ways to make it work. I also question the wisdom of your experience. This one will end in flames eventually too unless she miraculously gets with the program. First you say your marriage is on the brink. In the next sentence you advise us to have a wife like your (second) wife who needs to get with the pr…
/r/RPChristians10/01/19 03:12 AM
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leads me to believe that there’s a blue-blooded Beta in our RPC Group. Oh good gravy. Tell us more.
/r/RPChristians10/01/19 03:06 AM
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Lucifer's Daughters never sleep. They are like terminators. They will not listen and they will not stop ever. Until you are dead. Then they will find another victim. BPD is a vile and evil mental illness that can only be tamed with drugs and overpowered by a powerful male figure (Daddy who can handle her outbursts and laughs at her attempts at emotional manipulation). She might never get better. I guess it depends on what you mean by "better." She can CERTAINLY get "better" as in better than she…
/r/RPChristians10/01/19 03:00 AM
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In fact the American Psychological Association has just classified traditional masculinity, strength, stoicism, and leadership as "toxic" and instructed their legions of therapists to avoid encouraging it in their betafied, weak, male patients. Instead, they encourage yougogirlisms and you don't need no man for the girls, and weakness, supplication, and defenselessness to the boys. That is modern therapy for those of you thinking about "marriage counseling."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/19 05:47 PM
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it's unhappily married women. FTFY. They don't have to be unhappy to cheat. They just need the right Alpha at the right stage of the cycle with the right logistics and it's hop on pop.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/19 05:34 PM
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I told her sex is very important to me and is an essential component to a healthy marriage. I told her that if our sex life continues to downward spirt, the marriage will fail. Then I STFU and went to sleep. This is not a bad move but almost impossible to pull of without being butthurt unless you are able to leave to spend the night at your GF's house. Generally not ideal to talk about sex or beg for sex but I see this as setting a boundary. Are you going to enforce it? we woke up and she was co…
/r/askMRP09/01/19 04:23 PM
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Should I start laying off compliments and withhold sex until she starts making changes? Why don't you punch yourself in the dick instead. It will hurt less and do a lot more for your marriage. Wives are like camels. If you think you can win the withhold sex game I have a bridge for you in Russia.
/r/askMRP09/01/19 02:28 AM
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MRP is sexual strategy for men in marriage in a world increasingly dominated by feminism. Sex is the primary issue and we have little to say about demanding character changes from your wife. However, Red Pill has a couple tools. First, Dread game played to the right level should induce a woman to stay in shape for her man. If she actually thinks she might lose you they usually shape up. Second, Dread to an extreme level (perhaps combined with gaslighting?) so that she is a nervous wreck and can'…
/r/askMRP09/01/19 02:23 AM
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This is a serious offense that must be dealt with as soon as possible. The only question is whether you make a huge public scene with a nuclear public put down or you take her aside privately and demand this behavior stop immediately (or the relationship is toast). She is angry at me A passive aggressive little bitch who is deliberately undermining or embarrassing you must either be made to understand that she must quit or be defeated. Why are you tolerating this behavior? Are you a man or a def…
/r/askMRP09/01/19 02:12 AM
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These are the people who set the medical and ultimately legal standards. This is a BIG deal. The importance of this cannot be overstated. If this is unchallenged I believe it is game over. There is a lot of ruin in a nation but this will exceed it.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/19 02:02 AM
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1 African/Canadian Mod on MRP and a couple Jewish guys on TRP may not be proportional representation but it is not bad at all considering we are so often maligned as "ray-cyst" and "antisemitic." Some MRP/TRP guys fit that bill but it does not define the praexology or the user base.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/19 02:02 AM
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Or he will be another statistic. Just another sad, desperate man who blew out his brains for absolutely no particular reason given his loving and supportive wife. Right.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/18 07:54 PM
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Avoid narcissists/sociopaths. All of them? How do you propose to do that and remain heterosexual? Learn how to lick the large, engorged clitoris of a M to F preop tranny?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/18 07:49 PM
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You mean just the endorsed contributors get to live, right? Because I have a list of people who pretend to contribute that need to be fully vetted before we can decide if they get to live.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/18 07:45 PM
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Doing things gods way gets a perfect Christian marriage That really stuck out for me as well. Yah, my life is awesome because I did thing God's way and you didn't. I am better than you because God rewards me and craps on you. Memememememe look at me! People who feel this way, I believe, will be judged harshly.
/r/RPChristians27/12/18 05:58 PM
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Well, Solomon had 800 wives and 1300 women who he just slept with and the Bible describes this as "Solomon's Blessing." Of course it is a warning as well because all these women 'turned his heart away from the Lord.' All of the Paulinist proto-incel writings need to be taken in context. Paul was very clear when he was speaking with authority from God and when he was giving his own opinions. Modern Christians like to take all of the passages where Paul clearly said he was giving his opinion and n…
/r/RPChristians27/12/18 05:51 PM
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If I am content with whatever happens, she has no power. No woman has power over you except that which you give her.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/18 03:54 AM
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You won't ever let a woman think you will be hurt by her leaving because you understand that is their whole endgame. That conclusion is like a punch in the gut. This is exactly how wives gain control over their husbands almost always. Men are not taught this is their endgame and women have never stopped making it their endgame. With every interaction she weaves her web. Luckily after 20 years I discovered The Red Pill and learned that thick web was gossamer- and also highly flammable.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/18 03:47 AM
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I thought it was odd he was so blasé about it and asked him to make an effort to come back because we needed his input on the moderation panel. Totally unfounded ban. 100% against Reddit rules to do what they did banning Rollo and Rian like that.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/18 03:35 AM
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I work with both men and women in difficult, troubled marriages. For a woman who genuinely wants to improve her marriage, the advice is partially the inverse of what we tell guys to do. Guys= DNGAF Girls= Pay attention and GAF. Get off your phone every few hours and make eye contact. Act interested in his stories. Laugh at his jokes. Guys= don't be a wimp (or a dick) Girls= don't be a bitch Guys= be a leader! Girls= follow your man joyfully (and don't be a bitch) Guys= cultivate your MASCULINE e…
/r/askMRP24/12/18 10:22 PM
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Is there any possible way I maintain frame and not come across as butt hurt? If you don't initiate or respond to her initiations she will intepret it as butthurt. If you do respond to he initiations she will interpret it as butthurt. It is the No Win Scenario- the Kybyoshi Meru! What Oh What could you possibly do? In the video I address your question but my role is not to provide answers. All I can do is show you historically and in works of fiction how great men have dealt with the No Win Scena…
/r/askMRP23/12/18 06:21 PM
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There are two schools of thought on where you begin to rebuild when you have let it go to Hell. When your structure collapses kick away the debris and start rebuilding on the part that is still standing. Spend just a bit of time kicking away the debris- only a little longer than it takes for the dust to settle- and then start rebuilding from what you have left. Even if the whole house collapses you still have that strong foundation. or Spend as much time as you need to remove the debris. Then kn…
/r/askMRP23/12/18 06:15 PM
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the challenge of having to learn how to pass shit tests anyway and not give a fuck about her knowledge of red pill. Once, as we were getting ready to go out for dinner, she said to me, “You can go use your dread game shit on someone else, because it’s not going to work on me”! I replied with a big grin and a chuckle, “You haven’t seen dread yet. Excellent example of why not to talk Fight Club.i Notice how she uses Red Pill not to improve herself or the marriage but to CONSCIOUSLY Shit Test her h…
/r/askMRP23/12/18 06:09 PM
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Looking forward to that post. Even the guys at NMMNG have concluded it is wrong to tell the wife about it as Glover recommends. MMSLP has been oft criticized as blue pill and not Red Pill. WISNIFG is a long, tedious slog through hundreds of pages of transcripts that could have been summarized much better. His advice could have used a lot more STFU as well.
/r/askMRP23/12/18 06:04 PM
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My wife became suspicious at the first changes. Then she hacked my kindle and read all the books I was reading.
/r/askMRP23/12/18 05:57 PM
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Two months of amazing sex and she got prego and can you guess what happened next? Holds ups hand! I know! I know! I feel this is gonna damage us down the road because when any other women gives me attention it makes me feel that way again and I hate it. When you feel desired you "hate it?" That is weird. Maybe the way you feel has something to do with your wife and not the woman giving you the attention.
/r/askMRP21/12/18 11:00 PM
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It has been normalized and the women absolutely get off on the power of watching their husband squirm, beg, and ideally, cry. They could get off banging him also but I think this way is much more fun for them.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/18 09:59 PM
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What you are describing is precursory stages getting your life in order and you should always be doing these things even when the marriage is great. Yes! You have got it. Congratulations. The problem is getting guys started just doing the cursory stages. Actually the real problem is guys failing to realize that there are clearly defined stages. Like they taught us on Battlestar Galactica- all of this has happened before and all of it will happen again.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/18 09:56 PM
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This is reversed. The second your girl sees you as your mommy the relationship is over and done. Lots and lots of girls have 'daddy issues.' Work with it and don't knock it till you tied it. (Get it? I said "tied" instead of "tried").
/r/askMRP18/12/18 07:17 PM
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You can do this version and change practically every sentence slightly so that it makes sense. Red Pill Coach said: The art of marriage and divorce recognizes nine varieties of ground: (1) Dispersive ground; (2) facile ground; (3) contentious ground; (4) open ground; (5) ground of intersecting highways; (6) serious ground; (7) difficult ground; (8) hemmed-in ground; (9) desperate ground.... When a man is fighting in his own territory, it is dispersive ground (his home). When he has penetrated in…
/r/askMRP18/12/18 07:11 PM
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she will never be aggressive, verbal, inventive Let me take a wild guess she is not aggressive, verbal or inventive in any aspect of her life.
/r/askMRP18/12/18 06:51 PM
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If you are inducing active 'fear' then the Dread is to high. Rollo calls it "The Gift of Anxiety." She should be on her toes and alert, not rocking back and forth, or crying. Anxiety //=// Fear
/r/askMRP18/12/18 06:49 PM
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Tall jacked guy in the blue shirt, call me This is all the Dread Game you need brah. Stop pushing it because your Dread Game is already at level 10. She knows it. You know it. The strategy is to back off and provide comfort and amusement. Don't forget to dance monkey dance. I can't believe you would use my low self esteem to your advantage I keep forgetting. How can somebody as high quality as myself have chosen to be with a person with low self esteem for the rest of my life. Your self esteem s…
/r/askMRP18/12/18 06:41 PM
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I spoke passionately with my brother about Red Pill ideas. After his divorce and a sexless multi-year marriage, and right after I published my book on Dread Game I had a long conversation with him. I thought it was the most awesome time we have had as brothers in almost 50 years. The next day he informed he that my book was bullshit, and my research was wrong. He actually told me: "I don't want to hear about your woman hating bullshit." I am not a typical Red Pill guy. I am a relationship coach …
/r/askMRP18/12/18 06:27 PM
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The kind of guy who is honorable and would NEVER cheat on his wife is exactly the kind of guy who would benefit himself, his relationship, and even his wife the most by actually showing himself (if not her) that yes dear, in fact I do have options. Saving a Low Sex Marriage: A Man's Guide to Dread, Seduction, and the Long Game
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/18 09:00 PM
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It is like the 6th Sense! I see Thots. They are everywhere, walking around. Some of them don't even know they have hit the wall.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/18 08:57 PM
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They are not required to control their evil natures. The problem is men and society permitting this behavior, not women. Hate the game if you choose, but hating the players is a losing proposition.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/18 08:52 PM
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That's not "Alpha" but merely "good looking" or "hawt."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/18 08:51 PM
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That is because so many men today behave like women and are feminized so they use feminine power tactics to manipulate others. Both ASPD and BPD are personality disorders characterized by pathological narcissism, lack of empathy, low emotional control and destructive behaviors. Source: One of my several academic publications on the topic of Personality Disorders In men this personality disorder manifests often in violent outbursts and evil criminal behavior. They go to prison for their behavior.…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/18 06:49 PM
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Fun fact: The entire population of the world could fit in the State of Texas and it would be about the same population density as London.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/18 08:08 PM
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I have clients from South America with traditional Catholic wives. They describe horror stories of pain and anguish that are hard to believe. The women all coordinate with the other women in the family and decide everything. The men deposit their checks into the joint bank account and that is it. Traditional Culture my ass. Machismo may not be dead but it is on life support.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/18 08:00 PM
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There is a reason one of our Senior contributors calls them "Lucifer's Daughter." Because they are. BPD is basically the female version of Antisocial Personality Disorder. They leave a pile of wrecked lives in their wake because they don't play nice. Many ASPD guys end up in prison. BPD females similarly leave a pile of wrecked lives in their wake but they are rewarded with fat payouts, vaginamony, full custody and social approval. Other than Ovarian Cancer, there is no more of a "gendered" set …
/r/TheRedPill15/12/18 07:24 PM
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Eventhough I probably handled the situation right I still feel bad. What would you answer to that? The common answer is: Nobody gives a crap how you feel. What are you going to DO. The right answer IMHO: "Aww, I am so sorry you got your cute little feelings hurt."
/r/askMRP08/12/18 02:29 AM
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Don't be obtuse.
/r/askMRP08/12/18 02:27 AM
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if it goes to shit. You are just making cosmetic changes and the wife is talking about ending her life? Trust me, you can count on it that this will go to shit and that you are not going to have an amicable divorce.
/r/askMRP06/12/18 07:42 PM
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If you are done then you are done. The key consideration for most men in making this decision is whether you have done enough to fix yourself (and by proxy the marriage) so that you can leave with your head high, knowing that you did everything that could have been expected of you. Have you? If you can say "yes" with conviction then go forth- and sin no more. If you can't and have doubts, then it is worth at least exploring in your mind (or with a coach/therapist) what are your exact boundaries …
/r/askMRP06/12/18 07:40 PM
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If this is true then why are you so afraid to provide a little comfort and/or humor for your woman?
/r/askMRP06/12/18 07:33 PM
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Ignore the flair. Everybody has it, right? Oh right! Only the value leaches who don't give good advice. Wait, that might be wrong.....
/r/askMRP06/12/18 07:32 PM
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This would work if he was Alpha. Does he sound like it?
/r/askMRP06/12/18 07:30 PM
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she’s honestly more worried about me cheating on while I’m gone than vise versa. Guilt can certainly do that so I wouldn't assume anything. comfort Do both comfort and Dread! Be busy and unavailable most of the time and provide comfort liberally. The 2/3 rule applies in this situation as in all. If she sends you 3 texts, you should respond with 2 etc.
/r/askMRP06/12/18 07:29 PM
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Isn't texting a way to game and seduce? Absolutely not for married men. It may work for some younger guys but the extent of their text game is often: "Wat sum fuck?" Works pretty awesome if you have a shirtless pic with a six pack.
/r/askMRP06/12/18 07:26 PM
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Which explains at least in part why women are attracted to drug dealers and thugs. They at least have a life's mission!
/r/askMRP06/12/18 07:24 PM
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Depends on if you have a lot of experience and spurs you are willing to use. The problem is most guys have no experience and are riding buck naked without even boots, much less spurs.
/r/askMRP06/12/18 07:22 PM
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without causing a nuclear meltdown or her to ask wtf is going on. Do you realize that you equate a "nuclear meltdown" with your wife questioning you. That is your issue and I would start there. you try to switch it up she going to know something is up. Exactly! Why are you so afraid of that outcome? If you want to change anything- a marriage, your standing position, a job, whatever- then first you need to destabilize it. If you are leaning on the wife and you pull away, OF COURSE she is going to…
/r/askMRP06/12/18 07:20 PM
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Bring the heat guys but I vote for: "Long Walk to Freedom: The Autobiography of Nelson Mandela" although it is more perseverance than ambition. Amway has a ton of self-help/business builder/ambition books like: --Think and Grow Rich --The Magic of Thinking Big --The Richest Man in Babylon --The Go Getter --The Power of Positive Thinking
/r/askMRP06/12/18 07:13 PM
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Relevant scene from Cheers
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/18 02:33 AM
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Butthurt girl lurkers downvoting. LOL. I tell my wife plainly and to her face. WOMEN SHOULD NEVER HAVE BEEN GIVEN THE RIGHT TO VOTE! THEY OVERWHELMINGLY VOTE FOR THE TALLEST CANDIDATE AND FREE STUFF Hashtag reversesuffrage
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/18 02:18 AM
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A very useful reminder.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/18 02:15 AM
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If you use the divorce threatpoint rather than the covert cheating threatpoint then it probably needs to be brought into the open. There should be no covert contracts on what you require to stay married. The Cheating Threatpoint has the advantage of being covert and secretly creams their panties without the duty sex often seen when you use the Divorce Threatpoint. I think the key we are all dancing around is submission. Is she going to submit (let you screw her whenever you want and give you tha…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/18 02:12 AM
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she noticed that other women noticed It may sound meta but it is the fundamental key to what we are doing. You don't have to actually commit adultery to use Dread. You just have to be noticed by other women and THEN when you use game with your wife.....it works! Rawdogging randoms is optional. Honest Abe!
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/18 02:06 AM
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So except for the first part it is the same as today?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/18 02:00 AM
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There are some more unique issues of LDS Christians dealing with MRP! What are you going to do about your self blame, sabotage and pity (all very much NOT at all Christlike).
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/18 01:59 AM
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We are supposed to be like Christ and He sure connected with the real world. Can you imagine walking into a town of 1st Century villagers, stand on a stump and start preaching about peace. The interchanges were only minimally recorded but I bet He was hilarious and spellbinding and I wouldn't be surprised if He was even crude sometimes to score points. My point is the 1st Century villagers in Judea would have been crude and course and rough, foul mouthed dudes who probably used a lot worse words…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/18 01:54 AM
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There is plenty there and a good contribution- but what does any of it have to do with LDS? Other than a nod at the Gynocentric Church I don't see anything different than what all the other guys face. Same story. Hell, even the same Deity. Also, /r/RPChristians
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/18 01:47 AM
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/r/redpillonthespectrum I couldn't resist. The PLAN is your life goal and your mission. Guess what? A big part of the execution of that plan includes your wife if you are married! I would like to spend Christmas in Thailand banging 18 year old triplets but I don't do it. Why? Because I am married. That changes my plan- but it doesn't change my PLAN. My life goal and mission was never to live as a drugged out and VD'd out junkie in Thailand. That plan was just to do it for a week or two so I gues…
/r/askMRP06/12/18 01:38 AM
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years since we last fucked had a baby in August, so it 4 months postpartum. I think you need to check your math. I feel nothing close to any attraction from her Well you came to the right place. We can fix that- or rather you can. What are you going to do about it? So when can I start this thing? This shit is humiliating. I guess you can start today. Yesterday would have been better. Last month even bettter and last year? Well Hell, you would be on easy street by now. So you are bullshitting us …
/r/askMRP06/12/18 01:30 AM
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The Rubicock is real and she crossed it. All it takes is one guys. Just one to cross the Rubicock.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/18 08:37 PM
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I am going against the prevailing sentiment on this thread because I think the book is just fine to give to your wife. If she reads it with interest she will learn something, be more pleasant, and more sexually available. However, in most cases she will not read it at all (though she will claim to have read it). I think most women throw it down in disgust when they realize the point is to trust your husband and they don't read any more. A few points. First, the newest version of the book is call…
/r/askMRP05/12/18 05:58 PM
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Option 3: She is AWALT and all women get a sadistic pleasure over playing sexual denial games, especially with a recovering drunk captain. Of course not all will pull this crap but all women get pleasure from denial. It reaffirms their power and control and gives them a warm feeling of security and control. The only issue is does she get more pleasure from exercising her power or more pleasure from getting pounded. The question on the floor is whether to follow the standard MRP advice- initiate …
/r/askMRP03/12/18 07:16 PM
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This is not LMR. It is more of a carefully planned and conscious shit test than LMR.
/r/askMRP03/12/18 05:00 AM
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We are way past level 101. This guy is getting laid regularly and is just trying to decrease her game playing- if that is what it is. I know he is convinced.
/r/askMRP01/12/18 04:25 AM
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They are literally to.lazy to eat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/18 01:07 AM
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I would save that one single fuck for the person who is fucking you.
/r/askMRP29/11/18 10:16 PM
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Why exactly do you think you are fucked when the only time you are fucked is when you get caught posting on Tinder? Sounds to me like your no-sex marriage is about to go through some changes. Is it good or bad? I don't know. But if you're already fucked who cares? And if you are not getting fucked, how can you be fucked? So confused. The obvious solution if you are already in for a penny is to go for the whole pound. Plate the Tinder mom next door!
/r/askMRP29/11/18 10:14 PM
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Yes, but gay questions are not.
/r/askMRP29/11/18 10:10 PM
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Unless it's all been a huge conspiracy the whole time - the church colluding with scholars to push an agenda. Yep! You have it exactly. Except it was the Church conspiring with itself not with academia because when the Bible was translated there was no separation between Church and Academia. The church fathers wanted men to be bound to a woman no matter how she behaved so that is how they translated it.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/18 08:16 PM
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I never understood this passage until now: do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces (Mathew 7:6)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/11/18 06:44 PM
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When you go back and look at the actual words used you find many interesting points. The language of Ancient Hebrew (the language of the OT) and Aramaic (the spoken language of the NT) are BROAD languages, much like modern day Arabic. They have relatively few words but they are often broad conceptual words that carry many different meaning depending on the context and the way they are spoken. Thus we know beyond doubt that the translations are tentative at best. Take a basic issue like "Adultery…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/18 06:19 PM
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Shut up and listen? Ask her questions. Get her to vent. Sympathize? Tease her and change her mood? Yes. You got it!' I guess I suck at listening Because you are determined to interject your own thoughts. Clear your mind and absorb what the other person is saying. Don't try to "fix it" by offering suggestions. Listen and absorb the emotional maelstrom and carefully read The 16 Commandments of Poon. Especially Numbers 9 & 15: XV. Maintain your state control You are an oak tree. You will not be man…
/r/askMRP25/11/18 05:57 PM
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Part of Solomon's Blessing included 800 wives and 1300 concubines and yes, the Good Book clearly implies that the act of sex with a woman means you are bonded to her now. Exodus 22: 16 if a man entices a virgin who is not betrothed and lies with her, he shall surely pay the bride-price for her to be his wife. Play the game. Feel the pain. Sayeth the Lord. Isaac brought her into the tent of his mother Sarah, and he married Rebekah. So she became his wife Got that he "took her into his tent" and "…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/18 06:18 PM
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Good for you! Note how this description is very much different than using sex to manipulate another person. The Chair will note the right honorable gentlemen stands corrected.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/18 06:04 PM
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More of an expert in ancient Christian traditions which happen to be Jewish on account of everybody's favorite Jewish Carpenter. The OT prophets banged multiple woman all the time. They considered the act of sex to be "knowing" a woman and/or equivalent to "taking her as his wife." The act of sex made her your "wife." There was no ceremony, only a few grunts and a few drops of blood to show this woman- who is now your wife- was a virgin- who is therefore not married to anyone else.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/18 06:00 PM
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It's on the trp and mrp sidebars.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/18 01:19 AM
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Meth makes a difference even if women have not changed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/18 01:13 AM
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Your strategy is flawed and autistic as evidenced by your downvotes and her responses. Using sex to manipulate is like breathing oxygen to women. You going to take that away next?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/18 06:42 PM
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Define "marriage." Is "marriage" even available today? Do you think the prophets had these elaborate marriage ceremonies? The book says over and over again he "took her" and THEN he "made her his wife" aka- banged her. Only in the New Testament do we get elaborate weddings. Before that it appears a guy saw a hot girl. Banged her. Now she is bound to him for life on penalty of stoning to death. THAT is "Biblical Marriage." This fake thing we have today is not marriage. It is a monster. Also, sex …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/18 06:38 PM
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Don't forget the Dominance! Aint nobody more dominant than Bigfoot and that is the fantasy.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/18 03:57 PM
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I may need to check with the other shitlords but are you saying we should have fun with our wives and make them happy? Are we supposed to do this after we beat and rape them or before? So confused! I thought Red Pill was about abusing women and this doesn't seem to fit! /s
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/18 03:56 PM
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Thank you for this.
/r/RPChristians20/11/18 07:46 PM
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Bobby nailed this answer but let me add some thoughts: You were in a LTR for 18 months. This is longer even than a deployment and it not tenable. Your relationship was gone for many months before you ever knew. Your early relationship is classic Florence Nightingale love and this version rarely survives long separations. More importantly want to make things work with her if I can. This is sunken cost fallacy. You can do better than this distant dream. It IS a dream you are chasing. If you want t…
/r/RPChristians20/11/18 07:42 PM
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They both are in couples counseling, which doesn't seem to be working. I can't hear you! The echo is way to loud. Better speak into the mike. If only I had a nickel for every time I heard that one. the pastor who did their premarital counseling (different pastor) advised them not to get married Lord have mercy! That is a May Day Parade in Moscow. when I've chatted with the guy in the past, none of this came out. Just seemed like a normal guy I am surprised a MRP Moderator is so easily deluded in…
/r/RPChristians20/11/18 07:31 PM
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Wait, which one of you is supposed to be the Autisticus? LOL.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/18 06:35 PM
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Here's your closure: You either gave her so little comfort that she hates your guts, or you gave her so much comfort that she can't stand fucking you anymore. That's it. That's your closure. All the time guys want to know if they should provide more or less comfort. Should I be more or less Beta? The answer is simple. If she fucks you into a coma whenever you want you can afford to be more kind, sweet, and caring. If she is fucking you but whining/biting her nails/mate guarding and afraid of her…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/18 06:33 PM
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All you see on the outside are plugged in sentient programs mixed in with agents. Only outside the Matrix can you find answers to enhance your well being because none of that other stuff is even real.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/18 06:27 PM
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The best time to start doing the work was 6 months ago. The next best time to start is right now.
/r/askMRP20/11/18 04:48 PM
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Gratz! Have a cigar
/r/askMRP20/11/18 04:10 AM
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Bystanders reluctant to give women CPR due to #MeToo fears This is the result of a google search limited to news stories. There were thousands of stories reporting this "problem."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/18 07:51 PM
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the kind of environment I want to raise it in Notice your languaging! The reality has not hit you about "it" just yet but I promise it has hit your wife. When does the "it" become your baby?
/r/askMRP19/11/18 07:47 PM
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not the same Only because SHE will be different. Well fucked and 2 hours of sleep is not the same as screaming harpy and no sex for 2 months.
/r/askMRP19/11/18 07:45 PM
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It's easy for the energy vampire- they just have to stop sucking. But the victim has to fight for his life.
/r/askMRP17/11/18 06:52 PM
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NMMNG deceptive history has compounded this and I regularly get told that it’s my fault or I’ve made it worse due to my actions Please explain further. Are the NMMNG people saying you are making it worse? Or are you repeating your wife's complaints? That would be important for us to know. Does depression have a detrimental effect on the effectiveness of dread? DING! DING! An A++ winning question is not something we see every week and this qualifies. First, I would talk to her therapist for a few…
/r/askMRP17/11/18 06:47 PM
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When I was 8 I read the first Xanth book: "A Spell for Chameleon." SPOILERS AHEAD Throughout the book Bink searches for his hidden magic power and the perfect woman. He meets and bangs several girls in this Children's book, and eventually narrows it down to 3 of them. One was super hot and youngie who loved to fuck. Unfortunately she was dumb as a box of rocks and could not hold down a conversation- which wasn't a problem come to think of it. The second was average intelligence and looks, and ki…
/r/askMRP17/11/18 06:34 PM
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Did you see the story last week about so many women dying of heart attacks because the women around her panic and the men go to the other room? Even physicians and paramedics now refuse to help a dying woman but hang back and call 911. Like anybody is ever going to touch the chest of a woman without conscious consent! Or put your lips on an unconscious woman's lips. They must be fucking kidding 😾 They have given us a choice. Risk sexual assault charges or walk quietly in the other room and let h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/11/18 04:51 PM
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While classifying men as objects good only for saving any random damsel. Nope. You wanted to crush men on your way to "equality" and you won. This is how defeated men behave. We don't fight women. We pack up, check out, and go home. Fix your own car or call Chad. We don't care about you any more. Remember how you ignored all those men because they were imvisible? Welcome to reality. Where did you go? Bye.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/11/18 04:42 PM
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Another guy unable to swat away his Beta Shit Goblin. These beta traits I show. Can they become a negative thing MRP concepts are not like an individual prescription or a set of rules written in granite. They are a set of ideas that other men have found useful. YOU pick, choose, and implement the ideas that may improve your marriage and relationships. So yes, Beta traits can become a bad thing IF YOUR ALPHA DROPS TO LOW. I have an Alpha dude client with a cheating heart who has been caught in in…
/r/askMRP13/11/18 06:42 PM
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We are getting more and more sophisticated trolls. sick of her deliberately going slow so she can have more me time and then complaining how overworked she is. It ought to take less than 10 minutes to finish if her and the kids were focused on it. OK, sounds reasonable if presented in the right way. stop using folding laundry as an excuse to sit in front of the TV for an hour Which is why I call troll. Your wife gets to watch TV for an hour whenever she damn well wants to watch TV! You criticize…
/r/askMRP13/11/18 06:21 PM
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Stop rewarding disrespectful behavior by not being butthurt and by STFU. I don't see the conflict. The issue is that you don't understand. You think a "reward" is something nice or positive. It is not. Her "reward" is seeing you hurt, making you butthurt, and forcing you to defend yourself. That makes her feel powerful and rewards her. That makes her engage in the behavior even more. One version of STFU you can use on your vacation is really simple. When she is mean to the kids you can take them…
/r/askMRP10/11/18 05:34 PM
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As we left she reality must have struck her because she just broke down. I helped mend the feels Why? I don't think this person is your responsibility any longer. This is a selfish woman who wants to maintain her protection while getting rid of the protector. She deserves respect as the mother of your child but does she deserve your energy or even your support? Save that for somebody who gives a crap.
/r/askMRP10/11/18 05:28 PM
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Weren't we all Steve Mcqueen at some point?
/r/askMRP10/11/18 02:12 AM
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The facade of giving a fuck about her is becoming harder to maintain and I just don’t even like to deal with her bullshit. I don’t want to pass her shit tests Just so long as you are not resentful. imagine that in the voice of Mr. Macky Mmmk. Now, are you going to tell us what has you so pissed at your wife or are you going to continue to dodge and weave. My guess it is the standard fare on MRP. She wouldn't touch your Wee Willy Wonka so you crushed it at the gym, got in shape, got more attracti…
/r/askMRP09/11/18 08:08 PM
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If my wife threatened that I would immediately go to the police department and file a report, including all the details of the threat. Write out your entire statement. They probably won't even contact her but you will have that threat on record and they will be much more skeptical of her when they finally question her. I would be prepared with a recording device if I ever decided to pull the trigger. I would have the Personal Protection Order ready to file. None of this even requires you to see …
/r/askMRP09/11/18 07:55 PM
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I...have led her on to some degree that our marriage could be saved Since MRP is amoral I will refrain from criticism but you really should consider who is being led on in this situation. I don't think you are leading on your wife. I think you are leading on yourself. I can freely fuck her whenever I please Much of MRP/TRP praxeology and almost all of Dread Game is getting to this point. At that point, "gaming" is no longer for her. Gaming is for you. That is, you can do it or not but it is usua…
/r/askMRP09/11/18 07:42 PM
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Then the next question is easy: Is your behavior when you are pissed off and trying to get even getting you what you want?
/r/askMRP09/11/18 07:33 PM
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So, standard model available today?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/18 04:53 PM
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It sounds like she pulled a gun all right. Still, I thought she put it away? Given that, is the best response for you to continue drawing and firing? Are you sure you are not just pissed off and trying to get even?
/r/askMRP09/11/18 04:29 AM
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MRP may not help the marriage but it will help me. I have come to the conclusion there is hope for you! MRP saves the man, not the marriage. Most of the time saving the man saves the marriage but if the woman is determined to hold onto a broken man she can control it can go south. Note the Divorce Prep guides on the MRP sidebar. The question I have about communicating as in her telling me I am inadequate....STFU seems like that would encourage that sort of thing? I don't think so. STFU will even…
/r/askMRP09/11/18 04:25 AM
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They say I can quit anytime I want but it doesn't work like that- she may not let you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/18 01:37 AM
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It is less than 5% that's for sure.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/18 01:28 AM
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He would be reported for domestic abuse.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/18 01:18 AM
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Do you apologize when you meet up? Sure if you did something wrong. Mistakes were made. I don't think you want to apologize for being so clueless. Really? GNO, weekend trips, butthurt boyfriend with no options. This is so cringeworthy it has to be a Troll. Or an Indian guy.
/r/askMRP07/11/18 03:35 AM
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Is that what you think I'm doing? Hmmm, I had not thought of it like that. I will give you an answer next week. Let me guess there is more to the story. honestly, I sometimes wonder if she is trying to get me to kill the puppy, this was especially true at a few low moments last year. I haven't sensed that level of disrespect from her this year. Yes, AWALT. So what. That was in the past. Are you living there or in the present? If you are, you have to try harder because I'm not getting the message…
/r/askMRP07/11/18 03:33 AM
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Would be helpful to quote the paragraph or page if you want commentary.
/r/askMRP07/11/18 03:30 AM
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All of life is manipulation and you can't escape it. You should accept it and don't be butthurt. Every interaction we have with another person is you manipulating them or them manipulating you, or, most commonly, you manipulating one another. Every particle in the universe that interacts with another particle is manipulating that other particle.
/r/askMRP07/11/18 03:28 AM
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I’m not sure if the wife is blatantly trying to manipulate me or if this is her seeking additional comfort? Why binary? Do you think it could be both? She is blatantly trying to get you to provide comfort. Denying sex is, of course, a woman's primary weapon but when that is defused, often they only have what God gave them- an eager beaver slot C.
/r/askMRP07/11/18 03:26 AM
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30 is a great age to be single Women very frequently decide in their early 30's that their hypergamy is not satisfied and so they pull the hide-the-vagina card in order to punish their husbands who are not fulfilling their hypergamy. This is probably related to the women's eggs dying off one-by-one and her body saying: Get me some better sperm than this guy I am saddled with! These same women learn often divorce and hop on the Cock Train for a few years only in their late 30's to discover that n…
/r/askMRP06/11/18 04:59 PM
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She is acting it's all a big bluff It is. You know it and she knows it. That is not to say it will always be a big bluff but it certainly is now. The way you make it a credible bluff is to play the game for a while and pick up some good cards. Next time your bluff is called you simply smile and walk away. Have you read the book on Dread Game? That is where you need to go. I don't know where to begin Begin at the gym. Then develop a plan. Then get busy. Then begin conditioning your wife's sexual …
/r/askMRP06/11/18 04:55 PM
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Projection thy name is woman.
/r/askMRP06/11/18 04:45 PM
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not only is the kid throwing a tantrum, shes getting pissy at me at the same time. I cant stop her doing it though. You can stop caring if she gets pissy and ignore her. She is directing her frustration at the kids behavior at you. Obviously if the kid is misbehaving that is on the parents and it is much easier for the Hamster to simply attack the man. It is what they do naturally anyway. We have no control over her behavior, or at least only very indirect control. However you have 100% control …
/r/askMRP06/11/18 04:44 PM
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Many women today see their roles not as a 'helpmeat' but as an opponent. No matter what the man does or says, she always takes the opposite and creates eternal conflict. Every day is opposites day in that type of marriage and it can be absolutely maddening! You run around building a nice little sand castle and the bully with a vagina in your home follows you with a bucket of water. As soon as your castle starts to look decent she dumps the bucket and leaps on your sand castle with both feet. The…
/r/askMRP06/11/18 04:41 PM
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You can "fix" it when she brings it up again and you use your quiet introspection and knowledge to calmly and lovingly vaporize it using your experience, your increased social and emotional intelligence, tricks like Agree and Amplify or Amused Mastery, or simply DNGAF and having fun with it.
/r/askMRP05/11/18 09:31 PM
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withdraw my time due to bad attitude. I do initiate from time to time. Im getting really hard No's. But im not acting butthurt I just go back to sleep or continue doing what I was doing. You ignore your wife, STFU, and then suddenly "initiate." That's not how it works. No game, no frame, and you have probably never even heard of Kino. Am I right? You don't have a clue about how to game a girl and get her into bed so do you think that could be why you can't get your wife into bed? You know your w…
/r/askMRP05/11/18 09:21 PM
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I am working with a couple like you right now. Same situation. Wife wants it more and longer. Husband can't get the job done. Don't worry about these guys on Reddit. Most can't imagine the reverse situation even though fully 1/2 the posts on /r/deadbedrooms are women whining about not getting the hog enough. Yes guys, it happens the other way also. Probably only 20% as often, if that but it happens. Once you rule out medical issues, keeping the stiffie is not the issue unless you make it the iss…
/r/askMRP04/11/18 04:25 PM
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This is childsplay. Pump a couple bottles and go for the entire afternoon.
/r/askMRP03/11/18 04:07 PM
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How do you withdrawal attention from your wife but not lose time with your child? When she is pregnant you can't and you should probably be paying her more attention anyway. However, when that little Vaginal Turd drops out, not only does your wife no longer have the absolute Constitutional Right to kill it, believe it or not YOU gain some rights as the father. I know most of you have never heard of that or imagined having any rights but it is true. That is YOUR child (hopefully). The best way to…
/r/askMRP03/11/18 04:04 PM
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Sex therapy has a high probability of success and so does Viagra. The simplest solution is the most obvious. If you penis falls out, insert your tongue instead. Take the pressure off the act of sex. If you lose your boner there are plenty of other options so no biggie (couldn't resist). This is the same issue as the premature ejaculators and the answer is the same. So...the...Hell...what. Hold her, cuddle, touch, make her cum, and chances are the South shall rise again just as you are likely to …
/r/askMRP03/11/18 03:51 PM
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better idea Tell her instead of MC you want to try coaching :) www.coaching4men.com Coaching focuses on the future, planning your goals, and putting together a stepwise plan of action to accomplish your goals. Therapy focuses on the hurts and wrongs of the past. When you are dealing with those in a healthy way, it is time to consider leaving therapy and if you still need help you should consider coaching. This has been a completely self-serving public service announcement.
/r/askMRP02/11/18 04:58 PM
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You should not INCREASE your Dread Levels post partum or during pregnancy, certainly beyond DL5. The phrase is said repeatedly, do not use ADVANCED Dread game (above DL5) with a post-partum/or pregnazoid- or if you are happy with your marriage.
/r/askMRP01/11/18 06:50 PM
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I once had a client who followed his wife around the house reading selected passages to her about submission. Strangely, it did not work even on his holy and devout Christian wife who simply told him she would not submit unless he loved her with the unfailing love of Christ. In other words, IF you are perfect, THEN I will try to treat you with some respect (but only if I want to do so in the moment). Women believe that the vows are for men, not for them. Women will never follow any Scripture tha…
/r/askMRP01/11/18 06:46 PM
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one month old child. Congratulations! Do we really need any more information? Do you? Throws childish temper tantrum: Check Throws dirty diaper: Check I don’t know what game you’re playing or what the rules are, but I am going to find out and we’ll see how that goes... Demands to know what has happened to her power to hurt you and make you freak out? Check. Why are you advancing and even consciously using Dread Game when your wife cannot even have sex? What exactly is the point? What is your goa…
/r/askMRP01/11/18 06:40 PM
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individual sex therapy Maybe but probably just individual therapy. Sex therapy is kind of a a two person (at least) activity. In individual therapy for her you have little to no role in choosing her therapist. Just encourage her to get one and support her decision to improve herself.
/r/askMRP01/11/18 06:34 PM
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vet the shit out of them. The problem is you can almost never find an MC who is not gynocentric. They will always take the woman's side for the same reason the Church always takes the women's side. If the man doesn't like the therapist and feels attacked nobody cares in the least and he is pressured to continue "for the sake of the marriage." There you go man, sacrifice!!!! That is your only role in life. If the woman feels attacked she whines and refuses to go back to the "therapist" and the ma…
/r/askMRP01/11/18 06:32 PM
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I won’t even be bringing up counseling or therapy until I have the “FMOFY” talk with my wife, And we are telling you that perhaps you should bring up counseling and/or therapy for YOUR WIFE to deal with her hangups and that you should do it way before you are ready for divorce. That is what we call "leadership." Try it.
/r/askMRP01/11/18 06:27 PM
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learn how to do better for yourself - as opposed to going so that someone can ‘fix’ your spouse - it can be helpful. This is why it worked. You learned how to better yourself and stopped trying to fix the spouse. Everything else was incidental or directed at this specific goal.
/r/askMRP01/11/18 06:26 PM
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It is the top comment.
/r/askMRP01/11/18 06:23 PM
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a very strict religious upbringing that basically conditioned her to think of sex not intended for procreation as sinful. This is heresy. Read the damn book my man. It's all in there. --Wives, obey your husband in all things (Paul, Peter, etc). --Do not deprive one another of sex (Paul, Peter, etc). --Enjoy the breasts of your wife (Ecclesiastes) --Be fruitful and multiply (Genesis) --wet, drippy sex is awesome (Song of Songs)
/r/askMRP01/11/18 06:19 PM
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This should be a field report on MRP on holding frame and not giving into emotional manipulation, not a question seeking validation from the chorus. What's the best way to deal with someone who consciously knows that she's acting crazy and irrational, but continues to do it anyway? Everybody has a right to their feelings. You were trying to force her to feel good things and "get over it" which is why she got pissed and started the Shit Testing. Next time try a bit of acknowledgement and empathy-…
/r/askMRP01/11/18 06:12 PM
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I do restrain her but once our counselor said I'm not allowed she always pulls this card. Unfortunately he is right. I did a video recently about the Duluth Model of Domestic Violence. The short answer is that only men are violent and if a woman is violent the man made her do it. This is the model used by police and courts when dealing with DV.
/r/askMRP01/11/18 05:57 PM
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The OYS thread is the weekly stickied thread on /r/marriedredpill where guys post about what they have done and how they are owning their shit.
/r/askMRP01/11/18 05:54 PM
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I am searching but I can't find a "you're" anywhere in the post or comments. There is no you, only Zuul.
/r/askMRP01/11/18 05:51 PM
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Can you guys please put the /s/ on your comments. Seriously, some new guys will read this and say "Hey, that sounds like a great idea!" Natural selection in action I suppose.
/r/askMRP01/11/18 05:45 PM
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Newly awakened guy without a clue or well executed Troll? You be the judge. I will assume this is real since I am sure it happens often enough, especially with the 1-2 week wonders. Wife of 2 years And already an occasional DB? Ohh boy, this guy made it here just on time. on her period these days so she refused to have sex obviously. But all my advances, frame, getting her into the mood, attraction etc. didn't go anywhere. Which is why we are thinking this must be a Troll. However, it could also…
/r/askMRP01/11/18 05:42 PM
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We deliberately put the Book on Dread and the post on Dread farther down the list of readings so that it would not be discovered right away. While not a good business decision, it is clear that new guys do not benefit from reading about Dread Game in detail right away. They go Rambo and tend to go straight for flirting and royally screwing it up. You have to understand Rollo before you try to use applied Dread Game.
/r/askMRP01/11/18 05:29 PM
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I know what it means.
/r/askMRP01/11/18 05:25 PM
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My advice: The top poster in your thread said it best. You're caught in a cycle of abuse and a major case of Stockholm syndrome or maybe Munchausen syndrome. Get professional help. There is very little that can be done except to blunt her emotions with drugs. She is Alpha Widowed and it is over. Nothing but a felon will do for her until she get's bored of the drama and figures out the guy is a loser. But let her get married and drop a vaginal turd from Alpha bad-boy and she will turn on him very…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/18 06:51 PM
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from a male logical brain. I just have no bearing on why? Because, as Mr. Spock warned Ston, the guy who tried to cuck him in Star Trek The Original Series: "It is not logical, but it is often true." It can be completely illogical and still be true. Women are completely illogical and they exist, objectively speaking anyway. Women are attracted to "Bad Boys" for many reasons including confidence, attraction to dark triad traits, thinking they can turn him into a simpering Beta reform him, excitem…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/18 06:43 PM
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You are missing her bids for connection and attention because every interaction with her is full of confrontation and flooding. I bet your blood pressure goes up to the mid 200's every time you hear her voice and that is a problem- because it shuts down your brain. IF you can take a step back I bet you will see her screaming, whining and begging for help. She is not always screaming, nagging, whining, bitching and carping at you. Sometimes these are bids for attention and ignoring them is bad. C…
/r/askMRP30/10/18 06:35 PM
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God is not going to help you find a match on Tinder dear. He said: For the wages of Thottery is cats (or something very close).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/18 06:27 PM
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It is a lot easier when you wake up while married before it all goes to Hell. Yes, the aphorism we always use is that "the stay plan is the same as the go plan." MRP is about you, not your wife. Lots of guys complain bitterly about their wives and we usually let them because that is part of the process of grieving the blue pill idea of unconditional love. However, bitching about your wife is certainly not the purpose of MRP! We leave that to /r/deadbedrooms. Once you work out the anger- and well…
/r/askMRP27/10/18 07:05 PM
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It is not. They teach how to land an alpha or beta. It now to be a plate. Hey, plate academy could be a heck of a business model in this new age world.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/18 04:17 PM
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He wanted to avoid that dynamic from developing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/18 04:14 PM
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Ahh that rare subset of women known as wives.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/18 04:09 PM
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Definitely not about race. This is about gender. We say awalt not abwalt.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/18 04:01 PM
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AWALT
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/18 03:42 PM
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60,000 men kill themselves every year, most over some woman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/18 03:32 PM
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The term Nazi is a psy op. The name is National SOCIALIST.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/18 03:19 PM
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Keep reading and let me know when you get the joke. I mean it is serious and solid advice but it is also a tiny bit of an inside joke. Once you understand it better you will understand it better.
/r/askMRP26/10/18 04:26 PM
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Read the books in order. Thousands of men contributed to the sidebar and the 3 top books remain the 3 top books. The order of the rest of the books and posts can change a bit depending on where you are and who you are especially on the Alpha/Beta/Simp scale but again, it is best to read them in order. Do you think it was a good business decision to put Saving A Low Sex Marriage so far down on the sidebar? Nope! A pretty terrible one actually from a business sense but the decision was made becaus…
/r/askMRP26/10/18 03:10 AM
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Feelings mean nothing except what you do with them. They just are and what matters is action. What actions are you going to take about being a lazy, out of shape bitch?
/r/askMRP26/10/18 03:02 AM
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We have a stay married plan and a don't stay married plan. We call it the "stay plan" and the "go plan." You could try the stay plan for your situation.
/r/askMRP26/10/18 02:57 AM
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Most guys see faster improvement if they hire a trainer or coach. If you can self-motivate everything that is always best but few people can do this optimally. Even those who can would probably still do better with a trainer or coach. Pros hire personal coaches to help them train. For amateurs? If you took 22 random guys and let them train themselves for 3 weeks and you matched them with 22 random guys on a team who went to 2-a-days for just 3 weeks guess which group is going to win every time? …
/r/askMRP26/10/18 02:53 AM
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LOL it's way more lucrative than what I am doing. He can stack it and layer it with assistants and helpers and build a residual income. In coaching it is all me all the time. If I don't coach that day, I don't get paid.
/r/askMRP26/10/18 02:44 AM
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Some guys need to take it to the edge of divorce before the wife even notices anything is happening. Some guys read a post and a light clicks on and the wife is suddenly worried sick. I’m acting different and she doesn’t know what’s changed about me but that I’m different. This calls for Amused Mastery. She can smell her little Beta Boy slipping away from her power. Have fun with it.
/r/askMRP26/10/18 02:41 AM
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This guy took the Red Pill. That is what the wife is seeing. She knows he is on to her now. Some guys accept this readily. Some take years of struggle. Most never make it and turn into Cyphers. It wasn't the "Dread" it was the resolution and determination. It was the energy change and she is just figuring out the best way to exploit it.
/r/askMRP26/10/18 02:40 AM
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At the moment it feels like it's getting worse, it was bad before I started executing the boundary setting, and for the last 6 months it's just deteriorated. I do not enjoy her company, I don't want to spend any time with her, and i'm not interested in talking to her about anything. We have not functioned as a team, and there is no topic we can agree on. 6 months is time to begin seeing improvement. There is always an initial kickback to even more bad behavior that improves over time (i.e. the e…
/r/askMRP26/10/18 02:33 AM
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Dread level 4....spend significantly less time at home (I started already), make her a roommate and sparsely give some kino/affection and engagement. I tried in the past to full-on remove affection and that was retarded. Yes removing all affection is retarded. Turning your wife into a roomate is also retarded. The idea is operant conditioning. Begin rewarding good behavior with time and attention and begin punishing bad behavior with the loss of your time and attention. Reset every day.
/r/askMRP26/10/18 02:29 AM
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I seriously need help processing what’s going on in my head You have not told us what is going on in your head. Only your heart and only the surface. What IS going on in your head? making sure that it’s okay to be like this. Be like what? It is almost never 'bad' to feel anything. Feelings are like the weather. They are not good or bad. You can bitch about the rain but without it you don't get the green trees. Feelings just are and you deal with them. What do you hope to accomplish by asking a r…
/r/askMRP26/10/18 02:25 AM
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You like your wife less because part of the attraction was your neediness and longing for a mommy. Now that the dream is gone, what is left? That is the question you need to answer.
/r/askMRP26/10/18 02:20 AM
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Right, I may have done some type of Fruedian thing with King David given that his sexuality is not exactly something to which we are supposed to aspire. It is interesting that King Solomon's exploits are not criticized until his wives manage to turn his heart away from God. Perhaps that is also what Paul was warning us about.
/r/RPChristians25/10/18 12:16 AM
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Paul wrote: "I say this as a concession, not as a command. 7I wish that all men were as I am. But each man has his own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that. 8Now to the unmarried and widows I say this: It is good for them to remain unmarried, as I am. Modern Christians often claim this is the idea. They think Jesus called us to be incels! I think they are wrong. Read the passage. Paul was NOT giving us a divine command! He specifically said it wasn't a command to remain incel and a…
/r/RPChristians23/10/18 05:37 PM
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On MRP we have resolved this issue many times. You should be an "Alpha" with a side of Beta. Be the Skittles guy, not eager guy sitting around ready to compliment your wife in the hopes she will reward you with affection and sex. I say to you those men have already received their reward in full.
/r/RPChristians23/10/18 12:44 AM
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every morning I wake up more and more upset at the fact that I'll probably never find someone who I'm allowed to love (biblically speaking). I think you need to read that Bible some more! Never find somebody to love? Last I checked Scripture casts a rather wide net on who you can love. More important for you, I don't think there is anything wrong with being a bit more like King David and a bit less like Paul.
/r/RPChristians23/10/18 12:39 AM
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It works best when you are rich and famous.
/r/askMRP22/10/18 06:54 PM
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This is not "beyond saving" but it may be well beyond "worth saving." This is classic behavior of a wife who is not sexually attracted to her husband. This is also hotwife/cheating behavior. You really think your 32F wife is not having sex with anybody when she sees you only 6-8 days a month. Take the Red Pill my friend! Your wife moved away because she wants to get away from the disgusting, pawing hands of a husband who she knows is desperate and cannot do better. Your choice is to show her she…
/r/askMRP22/10/18 05:12 PM
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This is not exactly a 'fail' but it is certainly not a pass and you could have handled it much better! These were simple compliance tests and some MILD punishment is appropriate. Simply a very quick scolding- "Stop it dear. I have got this." Ignoring is also a significant and mild punishment but if you take it as far as you did it turns into Stonewalling and "the silent treatment." In a word, butthurt. You should always use the mildest punishment possible to achieve your goals- which I assume is…
/r/askMRP21/10/18 05:09 PM
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You are overthinking this. If you want her to suck your dick I suggest you let her suck your dick. This is far less complicated when you just ask yourself a simple question: What do I want? Do you want to play stupid games and win stupid prizes or do you want a blowjob?
/r/askMRP21/10/18 05:03 PM
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how to get frame back in my marriage and become the alpha I once was. Lift. Read. Make a plan. Get Busy. Pursue the plan. Work through the failures and adjust. Get some successes. Restore confidence. Build Options. Screw like rabbits. Happy Life, Happy Wife. Frame is the "you" at your best. Find that place by self-improvement and then stay there.
/r/askMRP21/10/18 05:01 PM
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How is this downvoted? Looks like another Blue Pill brigade.
/r/askMRP21/10/18 04:55 PM
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At a minimum it is a $500 problem and probably a lot more. She knows what the insurance will pay and probably reminding her of it was not necessary. A better way would have been to tell her you will call the insurance and figure out the repairs issues today. Don't worry, I have got this.
/r/askMRP21/10/18 04:53 PM
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I smell a book excerpt!!! Very nice!! My husband is beta and won't lead. How can I help him become the leader God wants him to be without being a nag or compromising my role as a submissive helper to him?" Lord have mercy is that not the question? I have not figured out the answer so let me bootstrap on you for a bit. Biblically, that decision should be that the woman lives in the man's frame. If the husband lives in his wife's frame, he is no longer leading and she's no longer submitting. Did y…
/r/RPChristians19/10/18 04:59 AM
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If Jesus told us to be beta sissies who live every day to serve the feminine imperative and wait on our wives hand and foot for our entire lives, I would do it. Period I think it prudent to point out that despite you bolding the above and me re-quoting it that Jesus did not in fact say that- and he would not say that. Jesus is Ousia, or the substance of God who made himself known through the Old Testament and you won't find Goddess worshiping beta sissies there either. You WILL find a ton of war…
/r/RPChristians19/10/18 04:38 AM
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That is a fascinating theological point! Did all the rules suddenly change when He called out "it is finished?" I always thought He just added a new way to make it because so few people were getting to Heaven under the Old Testament rules. That is, I think you can still get a favorable verdict from God on Judgement day standing alone before Him. That is why I can believe some Muslims, and Hindus, and some of all the rest will be in Heaven with me. However it is a lot better to have Jesus with yo…
/r/RPChristians19/10/18 04:16 AM
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5 Jesus answered, “Very truly I tell you, no one can enter the kingdom of God unless they are born of water and the Spirit. The Lord tended to talk in allegory but even without that this is CLEARLY a reference to Baptism. Paul wrote; for all of you who were baptized into Christ have clothed yourselves with Christ. Mark wrote: 16 Whoever believes and is baptized will be saved, but whoever does not believe will be condemned. A careful reading suggests that Baptism is not a total prerequisite for S…
/r/RPChristians19/10/18 04:06 AM
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I find the two conflict each other Absolutely 100% false! Red Pill is truth based on observation and analysis and if the observation changes, so does the "red pill truth." Red Pill is most certainly not written in tablets of stone. In contrast, Scripture was and is 100% truth. Thus, Scripture is "Red Pill" by definition. See what I did there? It's called the Transitive Property- 7th grade math applied to logic. My advice for a new Christian who is also new to Red Pill would be to come to grips w…
/r/RPChristians19/10/18 03:44 AM
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Great! Now start focusing on what you WANT.
/r/askMRP19/10/18 02:34 AM
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They are 4 legged little children with hair don't you know? But seriously, the bond between a man and his dog is not something to dismiss lightly. It may not be as important as the bond between a man and his weapons but still. My Wife? Yes! My Dog? Maybe? My gun? NEVER!
/r/askMRP18/10/18 04:27 PM
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Your flair checks out and shows we can help anybody and everybody. Several of my clients are pretty Spergy, especially when trying to understand and interpret female emotions. They freeze up like a deer in the headlights and then, well, they DEER. Forget the index cards. We want to see your spreadsheets. I have several guys who keep spreadsheets. One has kept a daily spreadsheet on his wife for years. The dude has columns for sexual frequency, sexual acts, general mood, attitude towards him, shi…
/r/askMRP18/10/18 01:23 AM
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Now you are getting it. Your wife is a women, right? She wants feels, not honesty and certainly not integrity.
/r/askMRP18/10/18 01:07 AM
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Athol Kay wrote a book called: "Do these pants make my ass look fat?" My wife saw me reading it and asked me if I thought her pants made her look fat. I told her the pants look fine. It's the fat that makes you look fat.
/r/askMRP18/10/18 01:04 AM
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Yes, you throw an olive branch the next day as if nothing has happened because guess what? Nothing DID happen. A woman got emotional and bitchy. A little brat got mouthy and loud. Nothing happened. If you wouldn't punish your 12 year old for what she said the day before you shouldn't punish your wife. The idea is to lead her to a better place. Sometimes you have to take her by the hand and actually lead.
/r/askMRP18/10/18 01:00 AM
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I notice she screamed and then shut the hell up. Nice work. Reset every day and hold frame on bad behavior and keep that attitude about the 14 year old. They are hillarious to watch once you know what to look for. So what to look for? Look for the stuff that makes you laugh and have a ball.
/r/askMRP18/10/18 12:57 AM
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Your experience is not rare but it is also not common.
/r/askMRP18/10/18 12:50 AM
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I can tell wife is already losing respect for me. I have $10,000 on this guy leaving a big clue for the actual cause of this problem- probably in the same paragraph. I feel useless. Yep. The problem is not that your wife is losing respect. That is an effect, not a cause. The cause is you losing respect for yourself. Frame is all.
/r/askMRP18/10/18 12:48 AM
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Is hand pain a valid reason to not have sex? What the Hell kind of question is that? Is pain a reason to lose your sexual desire? Umm, I am going with yes for $500 Alex. If you want to save this failing relationship I would wait for at least a brief time after she is cleared to return to normal activities before you even begin the evaluation and the options/demands. If you want to dump her then pull a Newt Gingrich and drop it all on her when she is laying in her hospital bed.
/r/askMRP18/10/18 12:43 AM
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She moves out today. 5 years go poof. No that was 5 years of experience. Love is like science. You have not failed. You have merely demonstrated yet another way that it cannot be done. Now go do something different. as I sit hear crying like a little bitch writing this over the loss of my dog.... No way! You can cry over a dog and not be a bitch. That said, why not negotiate weekends and every other Wednesday for 1 hour with the doggy?
/r/askMRP18/10/18 12:36 AM
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Looking at her I don't want to masturbate.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/18 11:04 PM
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I hold a Masters Degree in physiology from a medical school and I have no idea. This is a complicated medical question that even a General Practitioner physician could not answer. Consult with the person prescribing the IVF meds or a psychologist/nurse who works with that person. Your wife might also have some input- when she is not bedridden you should talk to her about it. I think it is certainly reasonable to take a person by the hand and have them stand up and move around several times a day…
/r/askMRP17/10/18 05:28 PM
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its hard calling her out when shes verbally abusive as my mr nice guy was verbally abusive towards her all these years. So I'm calling the kettle black i suppose. It is easier if you preface any criticism by making it about "us" rather than "you." Sweetheart, I know I have not been a good example with my [insert maladaptive behavior you are working on] but I really want us to work together and get better at not/limiting/reducing/stopping/ending......[insert maladaptive behavior that you are work…
/r/askMRP17/10/18 05:05 PM
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You are much closer to the truth than most of these idiots are prepared to believe. It's almost like a second red pill.
/r/askMRP17/10/18 04:57 PM
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Sure it is. His Love Language is "Acts of (cock) Service" Only awful and terrible people refuse to speak their partner's love language!
/r/askMRP17/10/18 04:52 PM
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I ghosted all my plates. I hear unghosting only requires a few taps on a keyboard but seriously...I bet all you have to do is stand up and start being a man (Dread Level 1); Develop a Plan (Dread Level 2); and start going out with the Buds to a place where young hotties reside at least once a week (Dread Level 3). She has you trapped like a fly on tape. You don't have to frantically rip off your legs and go pollinate another lady fly. You don't even have to fly away. You just have to carefully p…
/r/askMRP17/10/18 04:48 PM
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after telling her that if she will not you’re going to find someone else will So close! You made it to the final sentence without going off the rails. Don't tell her shit. Show her. When you walk out, you don't have to say a word. Just walk out. When you leave the house to go to the mall to practice gaming random women you don't say a word. She will know and by not saying anything you turbo charge the hamster. TLDR: STFU
/r/askMRP17/10/18 04:37 PM
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Blowjobs are all about the woman giving to the man. They are given by women who are essentially overcome with attraction for their man. When they are withdrawn this is often the first indication of a loss of attraction. Another interpretation treats refusal to provide blowjobs as a shit test. She doesn't want to please her husband and even a minor inconvenience (i.e. 'gag reflex') is enough to put her off. This is why no blowjobs. She doesn't want to please her husband and she doesn't feel any p…
/r/askMRP17/10/18 04:34 PM
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Heratical Churchianity replacing the holy spirit with the feminine imperative, aka Moloch worship.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/10/18 03:28 PM
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resources/perpecteives that any of you have to help me (and her) move through this old part of her she wants to get through, so she can move forward without it feeling like it's pulling her down. No resources but some perspective on a death like that. You never get over it. However, it is to your advantage because it is the mother of all comfort tests. Providing support can deepen the bond with your wife considerably and create a great deal of personal shared meaning. You can provide support fro…
/r/askMRP14/10/18 11:33 PM
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You are wrong. This is exactly where it is headed. The path is well known and we have seen it many times from Salem, to day care sex abuse hysteria to me too it is all the same. Silence your opponents and if they keep talking arrest them and burn them at the stake. Learn history before you repeat it. All of this has happened before and it will happen again.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/18 06:16 PM
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The only answer is to go fund me and sue them. This is a clear 1st amendment violation. Reddit is a public place. You don't get to open a park, invite the public, and then say no republicans or conservatives allowed. Freedom of association in public spaces is protected. Full stop.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/18 06:09 PM
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It is the alcohol and chads, not the blond hair.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/10/18 04:51 PM
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Not all but the vast majority are as bad or worse.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/10/18 04:48 PM
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Yes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/10/18 04:37 PM
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The only alternative is if she is actively helping you hook up with other girls. That is what a friend would do. If she is not fucking you or being a friend and trying to hook and set you up then she is not a friend and has no intention of being your lover. She is using you and wasting your life in the cruelest possible way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/10/18 04:35 PM
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Dumb bitch are the wrong words. Try wilfully blind. Or deliberately played stupid so long it became true.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/10/18 12:55 AM
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That's because there is. The MRP mod panel is about as united as Red Pill with an MRA branch, a happily married group, and even a couple of hard ass Hellbound Heathens. LOL
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/18 02:21 AM
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I would not have stopped the movie but I would have told her to knock it off and if she didnt I would have walked out and left the house. This was open disrespect. Yes it was a shot test but it was worse. She was deliberately and maliciously ducking with you just to somewhat she could get away with. You showed her. No boundaries, no limits. Only raw power being rubbed on your face. She was daring her little boy to act out. Mocking him really. I am sure she had a good laugh with her work husband …
/r/askMRP12/10/18 04:03 PM
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Bogey comments below. MRP is not a debate forum but focuses on sexual strategy. I think these stories are needed to educamate the boys on female nature but some of the guys don't like MGTOW-eque Women Bad posts. Just a guess but this might be better received on /r/theredpill ??
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/18 07:01 PM
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It is the same reason they can pass a polygraph. Their Hamster whispers in the ear and they believe it. They are literally able to rewrite history while you watch. Even if you show them a video of the behavior they will freak out, deny, and attack before ever accepting responsibility for their behavior.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/18 03:42 PM
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He was stuck in the sunken cost fallacy, did his due diligence and went above and beyond the call of duty. Now he can end his marriage without a shred of guilt.
/r/askMRP11/10/18 03:38 PM
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Want to bet the wife did not suddenly become the never say no girl until after the affair?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 01:44 AM
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This is happening all over the country. Women are pulling this act by the tens of thousands. As I have suggested, this is a naked power play and all or almost all women are in on the game to expand the definition of rape to...whatever the woman decided later.....and Believe Women!!I They want men to be in fear when interacting with a woman. It looks like they are going to get it.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 01:39 AM
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you're on the sexual marketplace armed with a PUA playbook and that's working for you, but in an LTR you're not sure you actually have the frame for it. Did you really swallow the red pill? Are you really alpha, with a rockhard frame and unwavering abundance mentality? I thought this needed highlighting. This is the ultimate question on PUA's and MRP. They can't seem to make it work long term. We can. They work on putting up a front to pull hotties. We work on building a frame to maintain what w…
/r/askMRP08/10/18 08:34 PM
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1) Are there any other people that started a new relationship after being married/together for a long time, that had similar realizations? Yes, this is a common realization. Girls are expensive and time consuming. They suck up our energy like a well paid prostitute sucks up what she sucks up. Many guys find the answer is MGTOW. Not many come to the realization that a steady bang is easier and cheaper so i doubt it is true- but some guys swear by it. What are some of the things that I should be t…
/r/askMRP08/10/18 06:34 PM
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That is one point of view. The other is what we tell men: Fake it till you make it. According to The Surrendered Wife, a woman CAN make a man more "Alpha" by being more feminine and stepping back so that your man can step forward. I would definitely read the latest version of this book which is called "The Empowered Wife."
/r/askMRP08/10/18 06:25 PM
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When we made MRP men only, we tried to work with Red Pill Women to funnel women over to a site that could help them but we discovered that working with women did not accomplish our goals and they apparently threw up smoke to deliberately distract from the discussion. Therefore, unfortunately we have no referrals for women. Traditionally, married men become "Red Pill" after years and decades of a sexual desert and a frigid, cruel, harpy wife who treats him horribly. Perhaps there is a middle grou…
/r/askMRP08/10/18 03:59 PM
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He's just a bum. Rework that thinking! He is a MASCULINE bum. The two are not exclusive. You can do all you are doing and still be masculine. However, you can't do it with your attitude!
/r/askMRP08/10/18 03:54 PM
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is it because the jobs he manages to get are in construction? Nope but it probably doesn't hurt. Because he goes hunting? Nope, but it probably helps. then I get angry Nobody cares. I pay our bills. I am a good father to our baby. I have been a dedicated partner and husband. I keep our house in order. None of that is "Masculine." Who told you that it was? Yet this fucking skid is more masculine than me. What I heard was, he's more of a man than me. And it's frying me. Nobody cares. Your wife des…
/r/askMRP08/10/18 03:52 PM
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Comes off as butthurt. He would have had better luck warning his wife once before sending the message to the Flirting manwhore and his unfaithful wife- and CC-ing it to his Girlfriend.
/r/askMRP08/10/18 03:39 PM
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Hmmm, wife loses her shit over things and gives you shit to test your mettle. I sure wish we had a name for this weird behavior. We could like, get together online and figure out appropriate responses.......
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/18 02:09 AM
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They will pick security every time unless she is banged out, post wall baby ravaged and knows you are the best she can possibly get. Then She will resent and despise you for not being as "good" as some of the guys who pumped and dumped her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/18 04:36 PM
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We are not headed there. We are there. We are living in Orwells world. All animals are equal but some animals are more equal than others. Lie is truth. Freedom is slavery. We have always been at war with East Asia.I As if two dystopian lives- animal farm and 1984 is not enough they added a third, Fahrenheit 451. I think somebody should write a new book about modern social media- Fahrenheit 2577 (the melting point of silicon) with the Reddit sjw hordes howling for a new age book burnin while the …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/18 04:29 PM
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NAWALT is the shield and sword used by ALL women. NAwalt is definitely an AWALT.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/18 04:19 PM
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Preach the word to the Righteous my brother.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/18 04:17 PM
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False rape charges should carry the possibility of the death penalty or at least life in prison. I am serious.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/18 04:14 PM
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im coming from the career beta side of life, Then just a bit of your natural inclinations are usually sufficient. The idea on reforming the career Beta is to lose the weepy, whiny, complaining, "unfun" nonsense behaviors and gain the stoic, strong, confident leadership behaviors. The idea is NOT to (necessarily) lose the kind, compassionate, considerate behaviors. Kindness is ALPHA! Well, more "Family Alpha" but you know what I mean. One obvious leadership trait that inspires loyalty is to actua…
/r/askMRP05/10/18 07:09 PM
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it greatly depends on how you do it. No it greatly depends on who you are when you do it. An Alpha Aloof Asshole guy with a cheating heart and a long-suffering wife requires a different remedy and a different behavioral change than a career Beta who not only has never cheated but could NOT cheat if his life depended on it. Alpha and Beta is a mix in marriage. If you want to be the pure Alpha Asshole then don't get married. If you want to be the pure Beta you are going to get stepped on and squas…
/r/askMRP04/10/18 04:00 PM
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274 He says no treatment is warranted, get tested in 3 to 6 months I say I am depressed and lethargic and want my levels to be higher. Either give me the script or I am going to a men's clinic to get it.
/r/askMRP04/10/18 02:05 AM
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Unless you are a top 10-20% guy on looks alone, then Tinder is going to be a huge downer and ego buster for you. How likely is it that somebody of the opposite sex living in my same city would see my profile? Since this is the goal of Tinder my guess is 100%. What did you think? If the wife has sisters, coworkers, or friends who are single and on Tinder, you will probably get found out. places to go out and meet/flirt with women Back to the basics. Women are an adjunct to an already good life, n…
/r/askMRP04/10/18 02:01 AM
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touching my dick and telling me how she’s not normally this type of girl. Why does this remind me of the guy who wants to tell his ONS about his Wife? He would probably argue with her- NO! You are normally this kind of girl. We need to get this into the open right now. LOL. my low interest has had the opposite effect on her. By turning down sex it’s made her more into me. You guys get why the Red Pill has be Quarantined? This information MUST be hidden from the men. We MUST not learn about femal…
/r/askMRP04/10/18 01:52 AM
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I see women as actual human beings with the capability for thoughtfulness and humility Oh for the love of God. Give me a single example of any woman in your life acting with humility. Old Grannie Smith maybe but a woman our age? Your jousting us.
/r/askMRP04/10/18 01:41 AM
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I’m also good at handle it Aww, you are worrying about hurting the girl's feelings. You are just dick number 144 on her extended ride.
/r/askMRP04/10/18 01:38 AM
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when do I tell them about the GF The question is not "when." The question is why? Should I tell them right when I feel they are going to be down to come over. Wait till they bring it up. What are your suggestions? I would tell them what will make them and you most comfortable with accomplishing the mission. Do you think a Tinder whore who comes over for a quick fuck cares to hear you brag about your girlfriend? since I live with her and plan to bring them over when she’s not home I feel like the…
/r/askMRP04/10/18 01:34 AM
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any information in this book that isn't already scattered out throughout all the sidebar material Actually, not really. It is just a confirmation of female behavior but from a more Evo Psych angle rather than pure PUA/Red Pill observation. It is where it is on the sidebar because after you have digested the Red Pill and accept female behavior without the anger, this book is an excellent review and recapitulation of Red Pill praxeology.
/r/askMRP04/10/18 01:28 AM
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work on the attraction. Usually that means work on yourself and that is not what he suggested. He said work on your connection and to be more seductive and less...rapey.
/r/askMRP04/10/18 01:24 AM
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im going to pick up some free weights this week. My body fat is about 15%, close to 6 pack territory and im average muscle size wise. The contradictions in these two sentences make my head spin. Body fat at 15% with a six pack but only average muscles? Free weights? No brah. Red Pill Kindergarten: Go to the gym. Not dumb bells. Not free weights. Gym membership. i need to be ok with it Why? Still people pleasing after 10 years of Red Pill?
/r/askMRP04/10/18 01:22 AM
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I don't think it is a Shit Test. I think she honestly believes her idiocy. People with different belief systems end up fucking and getting married and having families all the time. I don't see the problem. Don't be a disrespectful asshole and roll your eyes when she babbles on about her fairy tales any more than you would roll your eyes when a Christian tells you about the magic man in the sky. Just go with it. Appreciate it. Have fun with it. Without being a dick, you can sure use it to tease t…
/r/askMRP04/10/18 01:14 AM
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I have known a few guys find satisfaction spinning plates with a wife but never just randomly Tindering away while they have a wife. I don't know why. I would speculate that a side piece that the wife grudgingly accepts is different to women than a Tinder manwhore?? Nice report with good details of the changes you have made. It is not a bad start at all! can’t suppress the feeling that I wasted my 20’s Time heals all my friend. This feeling is the final stage of Red Pill unplugging that occurs r…
/r/askMRP04/10/18 01:03 AM
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Kind of sad. I hope grammie cucked pa pa.
/r/askMRP04/10/18 12:58 AM
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She said she feels threatened and doesn't know why she stays with me. I'm wondering if any advice on how to unfuck myself and get my ego in check. Basic Comfort test. This is usually EASY to pass. The trick is it is only easy to pass if you really to care. Do you? You pass a comfort test by taking her in your big strong arms and reassuring her that there is no need for her to feel threatened because you are both on the same team...or whatever. The words are probably not important. Give her a hug…
/r/askMRP04/10/18 12:55 AM
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better off single and plating If you are the hawwt guy who is in a committed relationship, it is possible to have be non-exclusive and have side pieces. Before breaking it off with your "primary" I would try to impose the rules that you want.
/r/askMRP04/10/18 12:52 AM
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TLDR: Cheating manwhore wants permission from MRP to be a cheating manwhore while married. Not quite. I also see a bunch of self-discovery words: "Addicted....Addicted....Addicted...Ego...Faggot...Unhealthy....Craving..." However, that is not your answer. I am on juice Your post is the literary equivalent of Roid Rage.
/r/askMRP04/10/18 12:49 AM
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I get lost when it comes to how to apply and have a strong frame in certain situations. Is it like being delusionally confident? Interesting word choice. Why do you think you have to be confident to the point of delusion? Couldn't you just be "confident?" Exh 1: Every woman wants you Obviously it is not correct. The idea is that you assume they do unless proven otherwise with extreme prejudice (cuz she could just be playin you know). The idea arises from the "assume the close" wing of the PUA's.…
/r/askMRP04/10/18 12:41 AM
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I feel the most alone I've felt since i left and i'm trying to figure out if i miss you because i'm lonely or i really miss being with you. It's hard to differentiate and i'm sorry for putting you through all of this. This is pure hamsturbation on her part. Classic hamster-eeze. Forget her words for now and let's play the game of hypotheticals. IF you were in a position of strength. IF you had options. IF she knew you had options. IF some of your options were younger, prettier, and nicer than th…
/r/askMRP04/10/18 12:31 AM
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Have you even seen /r/askMRP ?
/r/askMRP04/10/18 12:24 AM
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i am stuck many years later Nope, try again. You are not "stuck." You can move in several directions but you choose to stay in this place and you can choose to move to another place. Right now i feel really trapped within her frame and emotionally abused. Nobody cares how you feel. I have almost no contact with friends because she hates my friends and gets angry if i want to spend time with them. A bit the same with my family. Blame shifting and failure to own your shit. This is 100% your fault …
/r/askMRP04/10/18 12:21 AM
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Women will accept men (And yes, even experience attraction) That depends on how you define "attraction." Women will certainly not do the unconscious hair flipping, giggling, and shamelessly licentious behavior for men for whom they have to force themselves to "experience" attraction. I think attraction is organic, not an "experience."
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/18 12:05 AM
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I'm not even sure they can control it. I'm certain they can't.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/18 12:03 AM
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I like the post. You would not believe how many guys don't get the concept of providing security to your wife. Cuddles are an easy way to do it and establish an "emotional connection" as well!! If you are getting regular sex, then regular cuddles are almost mandatory. Why wouldn't you want to relax with your wife that way? Exactly as he describes.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/18 01:12 AM
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You ask "how" but let me throw it back into your court with the more pertinent question. Why?
/r/askMRP28/09/18 05:34 PM
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The wife told me she has zero desire, not just for me but anyone. She went on about feeling 'dirty' with the kids in the house and how she is always thinking about it in the back of her mind. Yep, got it. I leave the room, she asks where I'm going, I state that 'I can't sleep' and retreat to my office to figure out what I'm doing wrong. I don't know if these feelings are legitimate on the part of your wife or if they are grounds for divorce. I do know that getting butthurt when your wife is reve…
/r/askMRP28/09/18 05:21 PM
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If you are wrong then owning your shit should be part of your frame, IMHO. It doesn't mean you grovel. It means you learned something and are ready to be better. You can be wrong but you have not "failed." You have just discovered yet another way that doesn't work. You have discovered another way to get better (by not doing that again!)
/r/askMRP28/09/18 05:13 PM
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I have Bells Palsey from surgical trauma and have horrible crows feet. Unfortunately, if you are fat, and then you lose a bunch of weight, fatty bags often appear under your eyes and they have to be surgically removed (for about $4,000 or so). Despite that, I am operating a youtube channel so I know that facial problems can be (mostly) overcome. I have to concentrate on holding up the right side of my face during the entire video but it can be done. Growing a beard can help looks considerably, d…
/r/askMRP28/09/18 05:00 PM
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Let us know your status 7 years after you wife it up.
/r/askMRP28/09/18 04:50 PM
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Today she said (unsolicited) I could look at her phone whenever I wanted too, three weeks ago I demanded to see the phone and was told to stop crawling up her shit. This very solid progress. What are you going to do with it? All your suggestions involve your "gut feelings" about past behaviors that may or may not be true. Guess what? Nobody cares. She cheated or she didn't and there is nothing you can do about the past. Any or all on your list may be true. So? How does it benefit you now, today …
/r/askMRP28/09/18 04:46 PM
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Ultimately, she had left emotionally and was struggling with the a number of things. This is not a "Main Event." The Main Event is a major blowout that often precedes a new and better marriage. This is a "Divorce" and the time to intervene as a strong, masculine man is BEFORE she leaves emotionally and while she is struggling. Just a tip for all the other guys! In the end she said that she didn't love me, she didn't want what I wanted, she couldn't give me what I wanted and that the person who s…
/r/askMRP28/09/18 04:36 PM
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Eventually she'll tire of it and give it up so long as you are consistent in utilizing absurd humour to deflect her attempts to assert control. She will tire of it and behave like a human or...if you are emotionally unable to read her, she may give up on the marriage altogether if you continue this behavior of ignoring and punishing for to long. What is "to long?" NO idea! That is what you have to figure out. Most of the time you have to give her something. This female curiosity goes back to the…
/r/askMRP28/09/18 04:26 PM
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I get so sick of the bombardment of questions that I will try to avoid them completely either by Stfu. AA. AM. This is common. Women control the sex, the conversation, the behaviors. They are constantly policing men. It is what they do. Your response can be acceptance and amusement at her cute little hamster. Or it can be anger & defensiveness. Either way, verbal intercourse is optional. You have no duty to be interrogated by the wife. What would happen if you told her that henceforth, all Depos…
/r/askMRP28/09/18 04:15 PM
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I was never one to take the easy road and Jake is probably not either. Besides, what would 'erring on the side of caution' look like? Change the locks and file a restraining order? Good luck making that stick. Move out and let her have the house? If we precipitously move out this may not make economic or practical sense. It's not like there are "Men's Shelters" and I wouldn't blame him for not wanting to rent a shithole in the ghetto. I for one would take a substantial risk of death before I vol…
/r/askMRP28/09/18 03:52 AM
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After a 10 minute search the best I could find to suggest owning your s# was Proverbs 28:13 “Whoever conceals his transgressions will not prosper, but he who confesses and forsakes them will obtain mercy.” The RP Christian Moderator wins by a wide margin even without the Paul Creds in the cite.
/r/RPChristians28/09/18 03:34 AM
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It is properly sanitized for the masses but lacks the emotional impact of MRP's concept of OWS! Still a very interesting approach and an even more interesting contrast between "Self" (representing the full actualized and saved person) and the "expletive" (representing the wretched sinner with his multitudes of malefaction). I wonder which version is closer to the Kingdom?
/r/RPChristians28/09/18 02:56 AM
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I like the question. Nothing in Scripture prohibits us from talking to women who catch our fancy and I think being a Christian, calm, stoic, strong can be very attractive to women. we should all be disciple makers as our purpose (I will admit, I've been bad at this There you go. Assess your strengths but begin by shoring up your weaknesses. I think your discipleship skills might just be related to your Pickup Skills. Improve one, and you get a twofer but you probably have to improve the right on…
/r/RPChristians28/09/18 02:47 AM
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My wife doesn't turn me down for sex, but I'd like to see her more into it. This is typically not a good use of Dread Game. Dread games turns the "No, my vagina is precious and you can't have it" to "yes, I want you to take my precious vagina before somebody else throws a tighter and wetter one at you." It does NOT make a woman more horny, more likely to have an orgasm, or anything of the sort. You know what does increase desire? LIFT MOTHERFUCKER! LIFT! Be a strong, solid, consistent leader. Sc…
/r/askMRP26/09/18 04:36 PM
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Yes, this has been reported a dozen times or more on MRP and AskMRP. These types of dreams do indeed appear to be linked to the use of Dread Game. Please recall everybody that "Dread Game" is used against women playing hide-the-vagina who is in sexual withdrawal/denial mode. If your woman is having stressful dreams about you cheating, chances are high that you are not being turned down for sex a lot so I don't get the need for advanced Dread Games.
/r/askMRP26/09/18 04:28 PM
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Shut her down with a kiss to the forehead. This is what you need to do- however, I would let her vent on occasion. She does have that right as a woman to feel how she feels and she should be able to express her feeling to her husband. At the same time, YOU have the right to shut down repetitive and unhelpful conversations- with a kiss to the forehead of course- which may be the apex of "Amused Mastery"!
/r/askMRP26/09/18 04:22 PM
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given the whole pregnancy thing I should expect extra freakouts an Yes you should expect more freakouts. Expect nuclear comfort tests and I would make every effort to pass them. Of course now that she has her hand in your wallet for the next 21 years, she might also use the anchor baby to take that wallet from you.
/r/askMRP26/09/18 04:19 PM
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relapses where she goes batshit. One option would be to treat them like a Shit Test with Amused Mastery. Not likely to calm her down but eventually it will make her stop reliving it. I would focus on providing reassurance and comfort rather than getting defensive and flooded when she brings up the affair(s) again.
/r/askMRP26/09/18 04:17 PM
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Owning your shit is not the same as being a whipping boy for her emotions months and years later. The wife has PTSD. This is a medical condition. I recommend you get it treated. I don't recommend you "treat" this with "marriage counseling." That "treatment" usually involves you repeating over and over again the most intimate details of your affair(s) while the wife gets to "ask questions" (aka beat the living shit out of you over and over and over again until she gets tired of beating you up). T…
/r/askMRP26/09/18 04:15 PM
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Once I was teaching a class and a couple of my students had just come from the Authoritative Women's Action League of Thundercunt Students (AWALTS- that is, they had just come from a Women's Studies course) and proceeded to interrupt my lecture showing the biological effects of Testosterone. They claimed T was a "social construct" and I laughed at them before telling them a story. In graduate school for my M.S. in Physiology we did the "unknown hormone study." All of the students were given a ma…
/r/askMRP26/09/18 04:02 PM
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Self harm behaviors are an almost automatic referral to psychotherapy; it is not a topic coaches work with very much. The guy needs to get himself into therapy. Hurting yourself physically is not going to prepare you for the anguish of divorce and thinking that it will is the definition of psychopathology. Get help with this! Don't tell the wife you are in therapy but get it!
/r/askMRP25/09/18 10:33 PM
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Sometimes those bots hit it right out of the park.
/r/askMRP25/09/18 06:56 PM
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You would be shocked how many guys do that. The Male Hamster is more powerful than the female version, and even more persistent.
/r/askMRP25/09/18 06:47 PM
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ready to leave marriage. This is the point when you have the most power you have ever had - and with great power comes great responsibility. First on-site your safety. Lose the guns. Second, a Hail Mary might not be out of line. Third, you can only do what can be reasonably expected of you. That point is very near being reached. I would start to recruit allies. Talk to her family about the depression and how you are at your limit with this alleged wife. Tell her the boundaries and precisely what…
/r/askMRP25/09/18 06:41 PM
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Let me confirm this is not a troll. This is what men deal with in modern relationships all to often. I can also confirm he is definitely not retarded or even slow on the uptake. He is way above average on intelligence! He has a wife who is likely mentally ill and does not want to leave her when she needs him most. It is a sad situation all around but there is no doubt Jake will land on his feet when the dust settles.
/r/askMRP25/09/18 06:32 PM
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Tell her she is a good girl. Then pat her on the head and scratch her behind the ears when she is good. Triple down on asshole game. "Wife gushes." You: "Of course" or "I know." Cocky smile. Then bring her in for the back and ear scratch and a kiss.
/r/askMRP24/09/18 04:53 PM
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Oh for the love of God. It is getting harder and harder to tell apart the bluepill trolls and the redpill-esque spergs. I guess next time she refuses to drop to her knees and suck your dick after a period of vagina drying negotiations you could just backhand her to the floor. When she finishes crying drag her to her knees by the hair and then pull her head back hard so she opens her mouth. Then you can just insert your member and throat fuck her. That makes everybody happy, right? Edit; To the S…
/r/askMRP24/09/18 04:40 PM
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The long version has all the richly detailed stories and analogies. The short version has only the laws of power and a description with truncated stories. I have listened to the long version several times. Awesome stuff!
/r/askMRP24/09/18 04:31 PM
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Now you know the direction. Take your time getting there. Don't forget the 1,000 foot rope analogy. Your ship is moving in the right direction but only barely! Keep heading in that direction and full power to the engines. Just try not to keelhaul the wife through the barnacles more than a couple times before you reel her unmoving body onto the ship. It is only then you can make a solid decision whether to give her mouth-to-mouth or throw her back into the briny depths.
/r/askMRP24/09/18 04:28 PM
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But the thing that actually PISSES me off the most is the "why don't you" questions. If I am taking Advil, she asks "why don't you take Tylenol?", if I wash the white clothes, she asks "why don't you do colours?", and if I run the dishwasher at 8:00 pm, she asks "why don't you run it before we go to bed"? Or the "did you" questions. If I mop.....blah, blah, blah, blah..... All of these are basic Shit Tests. It is what women do. The reason you get "PISSED" is because you dislike your wife. I bet …
/r/askMRP24/09/18 04:24 PM
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Use the guilt to stop your unfaithful antics instead of dumping your guilt on the innocent wife. Or ignore your guilt and continue your behavior. Either way, you wanting to "own up" and tell your wife is cowardly. Of course telling her could lead to acceptance of your cheating ways and that's what you really want, right? You want your wife to condone your behavior so you don't have to feel guilty. Like I said, cowardly.
/r/askMRP23/09/18 04:08 PM
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Yet she knew her name? Something is starting to sound fishy.
/r/askMRP23/09/18 04:06 PM
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My goals have been. Keeping my frame, don’t snap because I have been and I’m trying to bring some fun back into the relationship. I’ve been removing my attention from bad behavior. Giving it for good. And man have I been absent. There’s a lot of bad behavior. Or maybe just more shit than I’m willing to put up with right now. And it’s actually not been fun being around her, so I haven’t been and I feel like shes looking for attention and comfort now. So last night I took her on a date. And right …
/r/askMRP23/09/18 12:11 AM
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And it works even better.
/r/askMRP22/09/18 11:59 PM
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Spreadsheets. /s/ attach a pic They have Reddits that do that. Red Pill does NOT do this so please don't do that on TRP, MRP or anything related to that brand. We could give a fuck how you look. It's your problem not ours. We have enough of our own. MAP Read Athol Kay's book and Saving a Low Sex Marriage to develop your MAP. Most guys don't write anything down but you should. Develop a 1 week, 1 month, 1 year,and 5 year plan of self and relationship improvement. write it down in a notebook? Do y…
/r/askMRP22/09/18 11:47 PM
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she’s such a great girl she doesn’t deserve to be lied to. So I need to come clean with what I want. If your frame is that you can't lie to protect your wife's feelings then you are in a bad place. Why do you "need to come clean?" If it is to "help" your wife I think you are wrong. Telling her the "truth" will only hurt her and probably destroy your marriage. If it is to protect yourself then I would just suck it up and keep lying- and if you can't live with yourself being a cheating bastard the…
/r/askMRP22/09/18 11:21 PM
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4 month old They always bury this in the post. Weird.
/r/askMRP22/09/18 01:23 AM
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I have said numerous times I wrote it with that purpose in mind. I wanted to slow down the Rambos who were detonating their marriages early on in MRP. Red Pill is some long lost powerful deep and dark magic. If you use the deep magic badly then bad things will happen. If you can harness it then good things are sure to follow.
/r/askMRP22/09/18 01:22 AM
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Bought some dumbbells No! Damn it! No! Get thee to the Iron Temple my friend. Breathe in the man stench and testosterone and sweat, and add to it. I do dumbells- AT THE GYM. There is a difference. Believe it. That is your first and gravest error. I have come to the conclusion that the whole of my relationship with my wife I have been so far past beta its untrue. What is truth? You were lost and now you have been found. It's like a cult man. LOL. We have a rule. We never free a mind after a certa…
/r/askMRP22/09/18 12:50 AM
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It is reasonable for you to do BJJ 3 times a week for an hour. However, as long as we are being "reasonable" it might also be reasonable for your wife to consider this a dealbreaker for the marriage. Probably not under the facts as you portray them (you are home by 3:00 p.m. & just slip out for a couple hours and can still put the kids to bed). But there are always two sides and this is definitely a screwed up time that seriously interferes with your family life. At a minimum it would be "reason…
/r/askMRP22/09/18 12:40 AM
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The exact same. I have taken my lawyer wife by the hand when she is upset and shown her a shiny object in the next room. She thought it was very pretty and laughed. The key is that you DNGAF about her reaction. You are just having fun. What's the problem? Do you know? Hint: It has to do with you actually giving a shit about her reaction. You cannot laugh and maintain the humor if you get drawn into her objections. What if she complains: "I am not a child." The answer is always Amused Mastery: -W…
/r/askMRP15/09/18 03:36 AM
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I’m just trying to do the STFU thing. Maybe I’m approaching it wrong. Somebody should do a series of youtube videos on this problem. I would put it on the sidebar!
/r/askMRP15/09/18 03:26 AM
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I missed that one which is an exceptional description. You win the thread. Or I should Say /u/Rian_stone wins the thread.
/r/askMRP15/09/18 03:23 AM
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Other than it is making me a lot of money? Many of my clients are dudes who discovered the Red Pill, "went Rambo" and now are trying to "fix it." Sure I am having good success with guys but let me suggest that it might work better if you don't blow it all to shit before you call me. Just saying. Recall that Rambo blew up a lot of stuff and destroyed things. That is what a MRP Rambo does. He blows up and destroys his marriage. He decides he is THE MAN and starts issuing orders to a long suffering…
/r/askMRP15/09/18 03:18 AM
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2/3 times a day and full submission with their wives from a desire perspective and not to be psychologically / emotionally validated by her. I would say give it 2/3 times a day sex for 3-6 months and subservient frame, from her and they would be in exactly the position as the OP. I agree totally. Many men have a mission in life to NOT be happy and not matter what they cannot be satisfied.
/r/askMRP14/09/18 07:02 PM
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She just gets annoying to me sometimes and I have a hard time wanting to do things for her like I used to. Dogs will be dogs- you and her. Sometimes I sit back and think man I was so into this girl. What happened. I don’t even know what happened besides just getting comfortable and bored of the same old thing. You answered the question. We talk an awful lot about the issues that arise when girls slut around and let themselves be passed around like a platter on a buffet. However, there is an effe…
/r/askMRP14/09/18 06:59 PM
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From a RP lens, I can’t help I bet you can. Rollo writes about BP men acting in relationships based on the “old books, or the old set of rules. The teachings and lessons in my current counseling class are mostly based on those old set of rules, Ha! Like I said. This is vital information to know for any Red Piller considering "marriage counseling." Rollo says, women are playing by the “new book,” or the new set of rules. Men who are still playing by the old set of rules will be in for a rude awak…
/r/askMRP13/09/18 07:01 PM
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I spend hours with some guys working on this problem. Energy and motivation is internal. It does not come from an outside source. You have to give yourself rules and follow them consistently. There is nothing wrong with an occasional "deload" so your first rule is easy: When I realize I am being a lazy, tired piece of shit I will always make it a point to turn off the games for a few hours and go crush it at the gym. I don't care if I am tired or feeling lazy. That's my rule.
/r/askMRP13/09/18 06:54 PM
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The first thing to do as a Drunk Captain is to take a step back and take the time to catch your breath. If the wife has been the Captain for a while, coming stumbling out of your ready room still reeking of funk and drunk and demanding the helm is not likely to go well. This is BY FAR the number one mistake new guys make. Bigger priorities (than sex) Because lack of desire and sex is a symptom, not the cause. The problem is lack of leadership. That means lack of desire. Finally we get to the no …
/r/askMRP13/09/18 06:47 PM
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Oooh boy, you are going to get roasted with this post. Enjoy! Muslim and are looking for a life partner. Well you are anyway. Your description of her flakiness suggests otherwise. Hopefully you are not planning on honor killing her on your wedding night if it turns out she is not a virgin cuz I doubt it. LOllllzzzzz. asian culture promotes arranged marriages and i sure as hell don't want that. Why not? You don't trust your parents? This girl was straight up with me right off the bat and both of …
/r/askMRP13/09/18 06:41 PM
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A lot of problems that happen in marriage have very, very difficult cures. This one not so much. The cure to cumming fast is to simply cum again. Call the first minute a warmup, keep her tight and warm, on the front burner, touch her, kiss her, caress her, get her close to orgasm (or give her one) after the "failed attempt" and then when you are ready again....fuck her right in the pussy. If you cum to fast the second time, go for a 3rd time. There are other techniques such as numbing gels, star…
/r/askMRP13/09/18 06:20 PM
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I find Steinbeck tedious. A quote should be memorable and engage the mind but he just paints a picture. An excruciatingly detailed picture including crap I would completely skip over if I were surveying it in real life. Yet reading Steinbeck forces you to examine every particle of dust. I'm like, dude, get to the point. Does he smash her or not? My Red Pill revelation was not heralded by angelic music and songs of praise. It was a long, painful slog. The anger stage was like peeling away a scab …
/r/askMRP13/09/18 02:43 AM
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Cutting out angry phases should actually get more of my attention. Now we are getting somewhere! What does a 6'3" dude who is getting laid 3X a week have to be angry about? I know I am simplifying but Geez Louise and by golly? What would you need to do different to get past the anger stage? Everybody get's past it, except the MGTOW's.
/r/askMRP13/09/18 01:59 AM
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Can Weakandsensitive change your mindset? Probably not- though it has been known to happen. Can YOU change your mindset? Of course.
/r/askMRP13/09/18 01:55 AM
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after a week of silence I initiate That sounds like a horrible marriage for both you and your wife. An entire week of silence? she would understand if I cheated on her because she apparently cannot make me happy, the only condition is me staying with her. It's either a hall pass or a Shit Test likely to end the relationship if you fail. Why do you treat your wife in a way that makes her think she can't make you happy? Are you impossible to please? It could be that I am a bad captain and I do not…
/r/askMRP13/09/18 01:53 AM
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Exactly! One is not "Red Pill." One obtains "Red Pill knowledge." How you use that knowledge is up to you. How you gain that knowledge is to sit down in the coffee house, listen, and learn from the experiences, failures, and successes of other men.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/18 04:29 PM
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Have you found /r/RPChristians ? Red Pill is fully compatable with Christianity. Takes a couple tweeks and reading the actual text for most Blue Pill denominations but Red Pill is truth and Scripture is 100% Red Pill.
/r/askMRP11/09/18 05:06 AM
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The 7 Habits could be on the sidebar especially if there were a specific section for self-help books. That might not be a bad idea to collect 3-4 Red Pill-esque self help books for the MRP sidebar. Some mods may be interested. Before we get to the 7 habits on self help and frame development we would need to include: -The Way of the Superior Male -The Art of War -The Meditations of Marcus Aralias
/r/askMRP11/09/18 05:04 AM
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Please don't.
/r/askMRP11/09/18 04:55 AM
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advice on how to handle these “we need to sit down and talk about this” situations? I am familiar with this type of woman. She wants to pin you down and torture you until you relent and agree with her. You screwed up letting this dynamic develop. Relationship problems don't require a "talk" in a closed room until one side gives up (until the Divorce Mediation of course). If you are in a relationship you talk all the time. So....talk. I don't see the problem. Why do you have to lock yourself into…
/r/askMRP11/09/18 04:51 AM
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Sounds like an opportunity to forward the action. You got her to shave for you. What else do you want? I would respond to her shit test with what you want her to do next, and most likely the filthier and nastier the better. Just a hunch. I would tell her hair is fine but she has to finger herself for the pic.
/r/askMRP11/09/18 04:39 AM
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Hell No it is not over! Not even close. But you have lost the faith of your First Officer. You have lost her trust. And it sounds like she has ample reason to respond like this. The clue is in your description: Blah blah....past history of alcoholism and belligerent behavior when drunk. cleaned my act up, went to AA, and quit drinking all together for about 6 months. Great! Hopefully your not one of those 12 Step fanatics! Get addicted to lifting if you need an addiction. Trust me. Then drank in…
/r/askMRP11/09/18 04:19 AM
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wife flipped and really screamed and threw away my stuff. Nothing important, just some card games. I’ve confronted her b4 after taking TRP. So you confronted your wife after taking TRP? I almost want to put up that Willie Wonka meme: Really? Tell me more. i was tired today. I felt a headache, i wasn’t strong enough. I let her bully me around, and it happened in front of the kids. So? Ignoring and short term stonewalling a wife who is being obnoxious is a viable strategy. You gonna argue with her…
/r/askMRP11/09/18 04:00 AM
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It was an epic rant. We really should collect those somewhere. /r/redpillepicrants
/r/askMRP11/09/18 03:52 AM
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i’m going to divorce her sooner or later. But i fear the fight. I don’t want to be burdened so much financially so much so i can never be free of debt again. This is obviously a legitimate concern. Instead of 'quitting' and giving up after getting knocked on your ass have you considered getting up, hitting the gym and the books, getting a good night's sleep, and continuing to fight? And how will i know when i’m strong enough to file for divorce? With your attitude I am compelled to paraphrase Le…
/r/askMRP11/09/18 03:50 AM
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Just a thought: Since things were "good" before you moved in together maybe the solution is not breaking up completely but simply not living together? There can be stayovers and even an underwear drawer but keep a place of your own. The Tom Leykis model of "marriage" in society today works for plenty of people. Explain how I was feeling her (yea I’m a faggot) Points for owning your faggotry but telling a girl face-to-face you want to move into separate places is not a faggot move. Texting her wo…
/r/askMRP11/09/18 03:42 AM
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My personal view? It's not cheating unless a dick is involved. Girls just playing is adorable and hot. I wouldn't divorce her but maybe you can use this to your advantage? Put it into your wife's mind how it might feel to have TWO tongues on her- or perhaps a penis inside with a tongue outside? Then get her to invite her "friend" over for some....linguistics. Reasonable minds differ on this and many a girl has been put away, divorced, and even executed for "cheating" with another woman.
/r/askMRP11/09/18 03:34 AM
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Actually you are not in bad company. Athol Kay wrote about the Co-Captain in the cockpit or some nonsense.
/r/askMRP11/09/18 03:28 AM
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Neither MRP or Red Pill has anything to say about having kids if that is what you want to do. Our beef is with the institution of marriage, not the continuation of our species.
/r/askMRP11/09/18 03:26 AM
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It was an angel of the Lord I tell you!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/18 03:47 PM
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I would definitely swab that kids cheek shortly after it comes bawling into the world but don't tell the wife your concerns. Honestly, I would not worry at all about your silly concerns and would assume the baby is yours. You had a ton of sex at the bookends of a trip and sperm can live for 3 days. You are going to be a dad! Yah! Congratulations. However, if it were me- and this is certainly NOT advice or suggestion time but merely an idea- I would directly tell my wife you are getting a genetic…
/r/askMRP09/09/18 05:01 PM
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she hates being accosted with surprise spanking (which she generally likes), or pulls away from groping kisses This is good information to have that would be good to act on, or not act on as the case my be. Have you tried an approach to not scare the kitty cat? Have you tried caressing and stroking her cute little butt before pulling a sudden spank surprise? Not sure if I just need to continue working on my SMV and dread, or if she really desires more beta than I'm giving her right now. This is …
/r/askMRP09/09/18 04:35 PM
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It is extremely common for people to tune out when they decide it doesn't apply to them. If they are wrong and it does apply to them that is a problem. You are NOT the typical "nice guy" with your anger problem. Nice guys don't let themselves get angry because they are to busy people pleasing. As a general rule. Anger is an issue that can be worked through in therapy or you can get to the root of it yourself. Either way it is the same place and the same direction. It comes from somewhere. What a…
/r/askMRP09/09/18 04:30 PM
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Have you tried hate fucking her?
/r/askMRP08/09/18 05:03 AM
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NMMNG Let me guess that you decided you did not have nice guy syndrome and rejected the rest of it. Did you get to the part about Covert Contracts? Have you identified your covert contracts? WISNIFG Again, let me guess you skimmed it. You mention AA above but what about fogging? Negative inquiry? This book is very dense and difficult to read and requires you to immerse yourself in the assertiveness seminar transcripts to get a feel for the languaging. It's not what you know that gets you in trou…
/r/askMRP08/09/18 05:02 AM
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If you can learn and appreciate why the guys are giving you shit and why they are not answering your question it will help you much more than giving you the answer. Men interact by hazing and ball busting. Women interact by telling each other how wonderful they are. Neither side means it. Except for Weakandsensitive whose frame does not include much patience. Me? Well you are in luck because I make my living these days helping guys like you. Actually most of my clients have it together a lot bet…
/r/askMRP08/09/18 04:42 AM
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That is just mean. At least tell him to read the sidebar.
/r/askMRP08/09/18 04:25 AM
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Is that really what you got out of that gif? He is calling you a fussy baby who keeps turning his head away while you are being spoon fed the Red Pill. Get it now?
/r/askMRP08/09/18 04:25 AM
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Actually, in reading the relevant scripture I am wrong. Below is the King James Version and the American Standard version. TLDR: If an unbeliever wants to stay married the believing husband or wife CANNOT dump their spouse. However, if they can become intolerable enough to force the partner to "kill the puppy" they are free to remarry. English Standard if any brother has a wife who is an unbeliever, and she consents to live with him, he should not divorce her. If any woman has a husband who is a…
/r/askMRP08/09/18 04:13 AM
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Individual counseling for you (who needs it) and for her if she needs it, but what good can possibly come of couple's counseling? if she knew I wasn't a believer she would never have married me Your marriage is far more fragile than you realize. Rian Stone is right (usually). Christians are specically authorized to divorce non-believers. Also, your lifting numbers are incrediblely pathetic. Get your T checked ASAP and get to work. I don't care if you are depressed. Lift the damn iron.
/r/askMRP07/09/18 07:34 PM
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I’m more afraid that one day I’m going to pick a fight with the wrong dude or pull out my gun and hurt someone because I’m not okay with who I am. You took that line almost word for word out of the coaching textbook section on: "When you should refer clients for therapy." May I suggest taking up a martial art? Besides the mental discipline which you badly need, I think when you walk into a room and know that you could destroy just about anybody in that room without breaking a sweat it wierdly le…
/r/askMRP07/09/18 07:25 PM
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I like this post. It is a decent example of owning your shit, or at least a very Blue Pill guy moving in the right direction. I’m that guy who gets defensive for absolutely no reason and thinks the world is out to get him. Hey. You missed the boat there brah. There is absolutely a reason for you getting defensive and I would try to find it. Also...pro tip: The fucking world IS out to get you! Own it. After screaming, crying and screaming again all in the span of half an our on the way to work I …
/r/askMRP07/09/18 07:11 PM
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Acid is ridiculously safe physically but has been known to cause psychosis and trigger some really crazy schizophrenia attacks that are some of the worst things you can imagine. If you want to try then imagine seeing and hearing Fredddie Krueger who terrifies you and tells you to kill yourself. Source: Mental Health Technician for a couple years. I seen some shit. I kid you not, I seen some shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/18 04:42 AM
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Can new people join too?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/18 04:33 AM
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On my way....by /r/deleted Not a promising beginning to a post but I will bite. Dropped acid I really want to try that in couple's coaching. Holy Moses we could work miracles. realized that MRP is simply one of those frames. And I had been using a lot of mental energy filtering the world through this worldview to try and make sense of it. Everything I experienced, I thought "what does this mean through an MRP lens". I have seen this several times with guys. It is a twisted version of Medical Stu…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/18 04:31 AM
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I will put together an outline of my questions for your comment. My goal is to make you guys appear solid, reasonable, & quality men which won't be very hard with the guys I have picked out. Early November works great.
/r/RPChristians05/09/18 04:01 PM
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The rules for deployed guys have got to be a bit different. DNGAF + Dread + Deployed for a year? I seriously don't even get how any marriage can survive being apart for a year at a time. My hat is off to each and every one of you guys. I know it doesn't mean anything but thank you!
/r/askMRP05/09/18 12:42 AM
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Good for you for recognizing that! You are closer than you think.
/r/askMRP05/09/18 12:39 AM
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I am happy to do whatever you want me to do! email: [email protected] I would also like to do an interview of you for my youtube channel on Divorce, Red Pill, and the Christian Red Pill lens- and whatever else you want to cover. I am thinking probably a recorded interview with pics but Skype might also work. Let me know if and when we can get that done.
/r/RPChristians05/09/18 12:32 AM
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Had a weeklong convo with an uncle last week. He is the retired ag of an eastern state. Two minutes into my red pill explanation he stopped me. Dave, I have been divorced twice so that makes me red pill by default.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/18 09:11 PM
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Lift for YOU not for some random woman. This is the mother of all.covert contracts.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/18 09:06 PM
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And then on the honeymoon.....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/18 09:02 PM
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As long as you wear a condom you should be fine.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/18 08:49 PM
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If that were true men would not have a problem with thots. The problem is them giving it away for free and slutting it up while holding back on the man she "commits" too. It has been said before but women's behavior is exactly like a man spending his money on thots for 30 years and then for his wife he says, nah, I am past that part of life. I love you so I don't want to spend any money on you. Why isnt my love enough? Where are all the good men?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/18 08:47 PM
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Welcome to mgtow4life my brother.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/18 07:57 PM
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No they get all The action they want. They don't get commitment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/18 07:52 PM
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tradcuck sociologist Not as bad as communists aka the majority.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/18 07:23 PM
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He used direct manosphere quotes. One of our subs got to him for sure!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/18 07:06 PM
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User name checks out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/18 07:01 PM
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Of course not dear, unless you force me. Want to talk about the kind of behaviors that would force me to dump you for a younger model or shall we leave it to your imagination?
/r/askMRP04/09/18 06:55 PM
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This is wrong. The unnamed relative got cucked by Boaz on the threshing floor and ended up Ruth-less. Boaz did what he wanted, took charge and ended up the grandfather of the lord. Edit: Esther not Ruth but too clever to delete.I Esther shows women how to influence their men. Note the lack of whining, nagging, and complaining. Lots to learn!
/r/RPChristians04/09/18 05:57 PM
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I had to stop reading at my book If you want a reader or anything at all I can help you with let me know!! I know Rollo talks about doing an rp Christians book with Dalrock so I recommend you shoot them a contact. Hate to have duplicated effort in this wide open topic!
/r/RPChristians04/09/18 05:25 PM
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Next!
/r/RPChristians04/09/18 05:18 PM
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Amen! We are terribly maligned by feminists but the reality is that women like what we do. Following the Lord's example we should not listen to what they say, but rather watch what they do! God listened patiently to Eve's lies, but he watched what she did first and foremost!
/r/RPChristians04/09/18 05:17 PM
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The prophecy may well have been true but that does not mean it comes from God.
/r/RPChristians04/09/18 05:12 PM
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"Beware of false prophets for many will come in my name." Paul teaches us the only way to tell is to test the spirits. A false prophet and a spirit not of God will be unable to acknowledge that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh. A spirit that is of God will acknowledge that the Son of God returned in the flesh to redeem mankind.
/r/RPChristians04/09/18 05:11 PM
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Totally clueless responding It seems that we have an initial task for you! Read, learn, become less clueless , more fun, more in control, more dominating, more aware, with an expanded circle of love and compassion. In short, ask yourself what would Jesus do? Then do that.
/r/RPChristians04/09/18 05:06 PM
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Good Lord! Another saving the best scenario. It took me years to get over the last one and I still require monthly radiation treatments. Please tell me she lets you take pics and does not limit your menu. If so, there is hope for the relationship. If not and she is playing the titilate and punish game, then it is much harder. You still have time to refuse to tolerate her games any more but the amount this would piss off most men would be fatal. Tldr: if she is giving u her best and equal to what…
/r/askMRP04/09/18 04:59 PM
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Amazing a girl who complained about me wanting to talk to her just a few months ago now tries to keep me on the phone for as long as possible. This will be amusing. This comment is not for you as you have made your bed...but for other guys, dealing with the wife is a balance. If you give her to much attention she loses attraction. To little and she gives up - or YOU give up! This guy went from chasing right to nexting. The right way is to SLOWLY withdraw your time and attention and eventually yo…
/r/askMRP04/09/18 04:49 PM
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When doing rope bondage it is important to have a knife or scissors immediately available to free her. Muscle cramps are very much a turnoff! Even if your girl is a pain slut who cums while being whipped (is that really a thing?) You don't want that kind of pain.I As any dom site will explain, the sub is under your control which means her welfare is completely your responsibility. I think that is half the turn on for them so read up, so it is safe and take the precautions to be sure your woman i…
/r/askMRP04/09/18 04:36 PM
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She is very cool, sometimes too cool but I bring the hot head and enough passion and good times for us both so we are happy now!
/r/askMRP04/09/18 04:18 PM
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By my standards yes this is true. Perhaps that is why I can get away with it? I do not have a six pack, my BMI is high, and my belly is not substantially smaller than my chest. However, objectively it would be a tremendous stretch to call me a fat motherfucker. Perhaps just "motherfucker" will have to suffice? You can see me on my youtube channel because I have nothing to hide. I am a 51 year old, heavyset but active man. I bench press 300 pounds, Leg Press 800 pounds, and work out with 2-80 pou…
/r/askMRP02/09/18 04:22 PM
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I answered a question with humor designed to astound my wife with my audacity. The sum total of my statement was: "Look at your mother" thus comparing her female form to my rougher, more muscular, and leaner frame. He laughed. I laughed. The mom pursed her lips. Good times were had by all.
/r/askMRP02/09/18 04:00 PM
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A lot but it is worth every penny. If she is also represented it is much harder to reject a prenup. However, important point- each State is different. See a local attorney on this issue.
/r/askMRP01/09/18 07:21 PM
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abusive bullshit No, it's push-pull. Try it. Women like it, but no, I will not ask my wife anything. I will watch how she responds. see a therapist and show them your comment. Ask a feminist trained in the Duluth model what I should do? Nah, I will do what I want to do and LOL at the downvotes. Any Terp who downvotes that post needs to turn in his man card or find a wife who is not as sensitive. I guess I can see how if your wife is a tubby harpy who would lose her mind and become terribly hurt …
/r/askMRP01/09/18 07:20 PM
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You are in for a treat! Patrice figured out Red Pill before there was anything like Red Pill. There are specials, roasts, stand up comedian shows, call in advice shows, badger the feminist shows, and more in this all to short life! RIP Patrice!
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/18 06:58 PM
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You are going to get roasted. There is absolutely no effective way to protect your finances and savings from being gutted in a divorce. Prenup? Think again. A Prenup is whatever the judge says it is and can be thrown out on a whim. However, if you BOTH have lawyers and you both negotiate a reasonable and fair agreement as a prenup before marriage then most of the time courts will uphold it. However, reasonable and fair depends on the State and the State laws. You can get a little bit better deal…
/r/askMRP31/08/18 06:48 PM
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This answer is so underrated it could be a meme. Just cut and paste it for a good chunk of questions on askMRP.
/r/askMRP31/08/18 06:18 PM
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No matter how much I rationally explain to her... You owe me a dress shirt and a bottle of Snapple. Thanks for a good laugh my friend. I still need to do everything for her What would it look like if you stopped doing everything for her? What would happen if you gave her an ultimatum and separated your finances? How would it look if you set some reasonable boundaries and started being a bit less of a Captain save-a-ho? What if you stopped caring that your woman loses her job/mind/keys whatever a…
/r/askMRP31/08/18 06:16 PM
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Backhanded complements are one way to accomplish this. Criticize her rudely but make it a joke. 10 y/o son asks at dinner if women have more body fat than men. I say: "Look at your mother." [PUSH!] He turns to her and nods. "Oh yah dad, a LOT more." [OUCH!] Wife opens and shuts her mouth twice working her gills before shutting up. While loading the dishwasher I hugged her for a few seconds [PULL!] and when she tried to pull away angrily I gripped her belly fat and held her tightly [PUSH-PULL MIN…
/r/askMRP31/08/18 06:07 PM
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wife has been a total cunt. ​ What does this mean? You describe how she is texting and calling. That sounds like absolutely adorable mate guarding behavior. This is a basic comfort test and if you really do love your wife passing it is a piece of cake. If you really don't, it becomes more difficult. ​ DNGAF ​ Is about losing your 'give a fucks' about her silly drama. It is not about losing your 'give a fucks' for your wife. If you do that it is usually game over. ​ I can't believe I have to keep…
/r/askMRP31/08/18 05:46 PM
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There is a split of authority on this issue but even the NMMNG forum abjures this advice to 'talk.' It appear the split is being slowly resolved in favor of STFU.
/r/askMRP31/08/18 05:12 PM
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That depends on your perspective. If you are the Kafirs being lied to repeatedly, told Islam is a "religion of Peace" and criticized for noticing the no-go zones all through Europe, hile taught to ignore the rapes by the lies, then lying certainly is on of those million things wrong with Islam.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/18 03:21 PM
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The little darlings are certainly the experts at that aren't they?
/r/askMRP27/08/18 10:35 PM
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sadness Awww, let's try not be cold to each other again. Come here sweetie.... day and a half If you STFU for that long it is NOT STFU it is stonewalling- check out my MRP Advanced Class on the sidebar and learn the difference. STFU is a short term solution to a short term problem- you being to much of a wimp to stand up to your wife without losing your cool. Hopefully that lasts for an hour or half a day. When it goes on for days at a time you have a problem.
/r/askMRP27/08/18 10:32 PM
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She wants a bf who says yes not no, That must make the breakup easier for you. Dodged a bullet. She does not want to submit to a man. She wants a man to submit to her so she can drain him into a dried out husk. Then she will move on to the next man to harvest. Congratulations! You are immortal again. Omnipotent!
/r/askMRP26/08/18 03:55 AM
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Absolutely 100% correct. And welcome to the next level of Red Pill. STFU is for guys who are not in control. If you want to have a good scream off go for it. Guys do it around the fire and solve all the problems in the world over a few beers. Girls do it at home and try to solve their problems. Quiet and sullen = you lose. Butthurt = you lose Dismissive = you win Angry = Win or Lose depending on your frame. For new guys, the only answer is STFU but when you develop your frame you can start havin…
/r/askMRP26/08/18 02:31 AM
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You married this woman and presumably intend to fuck her regularly. So yes, it is worth actually listening and actually caring. If you don't (listen or care) then why are you with this person? Why would you marry and continue to bang a woman who you don't want to be around and thinks everything she says is boring? I always reccomend spending at least 30 minutes a day listening to your wife. They call it "talking" but we know the score. The girls need to decompress and unload their emotions and t…
/r/askMRP25/08/18 06:40 PM
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Yes! SHUTTING DOWN IS NOT STFU!!!! Somebody needs to explain this better. Oh, right! I did: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T1UOAFnSmBg&t=675s You have gone past STFU and are "Stonewalling" unconsciously. Become aware of it and limit it's use to stopping very bad behavior. Pick your battles. When they get gossipy I just don't respond Why? Women love to gossip and talk about others. If you are autistic to a woman's emotional needs and treat her pleasures with anger and contempt then bad things wi…
/r/askMRP25/08/18 06:30 PM
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You have to be fully and completely into it or it doesn't count. That's what the guys tell me on duty sex from women so it must be true for guys also? Or maybe it is not true in any case whatsoever? That's where my money lies. Early period bangs don't just stir up that messy pot. It introduces prostglandins to ease the cramping walls and introduces Testosterone that directly counteracts some of the Estrogen and Progesterone that is causing the pain and cramping. Sex is good for you! Who knew?
/r/askMRP25/08/18 06:13 PM
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What? A woman is an uncooperative bitch right before her period? There should be some name for this Syndrome that occurs Pre-Menstrual.
/r/askMRP25/08/18 06:09 PM
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The usual. Track her cycle and stop being butthurt.
/r/askMRP25/08/18 06:08 PM
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I would like to see a thread where this is expanded and discussed. Do you sex up the ex? What do you do when the final decree is entered? I can see the pleasure of going no contact after the divorce but how fun would it be to actively fuck with her? I mean, why not go completely Dark Triad on her? Gaslight, lie, and laugh at her. Criticize her openly. Point her out to your friends and laugh at her when you see her at a party. Oh sure, I will be right over to kill that rat. Turns off phone... "Bl…
/r/askMRP25/08/18 06:06 PM
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The title of your post contradicts your question. You have clearly gone Rambo and you appear just slightly on the spectrum. I am sick of my old self Hopefully you realize your old self caused the old marriage? See a lawyer. Read The Art of War Watch the movie: War of the Roses During the divorce proceedings make it a point to TALK with TEN (10) random women every single day that catch your eye. This is not negotiable. At least introduce yourself to 10 new women every day. Could be in line at the…
/r/askMRP25/08/18 06:00 PM
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then I’ll get a comment like “you’re more the intellectual type” So? Einstein was Alpha as Frack. Oppenheimer was an uber Alpha. Intellectual has little to do with "alpha." Free Tip: Wives who see you as Beta cut you off sexually and turn frigid, cruel, and domineering.
/r/askMRP25/08/18 05:48 PM
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Alphas can be 'sensitive.' What's the problem? The most successful Alphas have a sensitive streak and a clear understanding of human emotion. They are able to read emotion and adapt to it without losing their minds and becoming self-absorbed. Sensitive is not "Beta." WEAK is "Beta." You will lose the "Beta" tag when you stop thinking like a Beta. You can get a new family, but if you are still thinking like a Beta it will happen all over again. You can enhance the Alpha tag and change perceptions…
/r/askMRP25/08/18 05:45 PM
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What should I reply if a girl calls me a nerd? Who cares? If you don't care, you won't have a problem responding. A belly laugh works. Ignoring works. "Nerds rule" works. The common theme is IDGAF and good humor. How to deal with passive-aggressive friends of people I like? Who cares? If you don't care, you won't have a problem responding. If they annoy you then avoid them and get friends of friends who don't annoy you. This is just people pleasing. Stop! You are under no obligation to make othe…
/r/askMRP25/08/18 05:37 PM
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Can anyone give me the best resource to get me over the 20 year old oneitis I have for my wife quick. Fresh, young, tight, eager, and wet vagina. The young hottie it is attached to is entirely optional.
/r/askMRP25/08/18 05:13 PM
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It is programmed into our nature to fuck women. Somehow, with the help of laws, and the culture, we manage to control it and only fuck women who are willing. I think with the help of laws and culture, women's hypergamty could similarly be controlled- as it was for all of human history until the 1980's.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/18 05:07 PM
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Nice flair but the irony may be a bit subtle.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/18 05:06 PM
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Why? You're upset that women naturally seek the uncompromised, and that the hindbrain doesn't adhere strictly to vows. Come on! You would be one of the first to call out a guy for cheating. But when women do it we call it biology. Screw that. Women are responsible. The solution to hypergamous whores like this is social isolation, shunning, shaming, and ultimately people clapping with joy when the bodies are found alone, half eaten by cats. TLDR: Shun hypergamous divorcees and single mums.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/18 05:03 PM
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I love the guys who "understand" that any woman will just leave and dump you if you lose a foot. I don't understand and I don't accept it. The woman should be stoned until dead at the city gates with the rest of them. If a man had a wife who lost a foot and missed time at work you can be sure the White Knight pestilence would join the high screeching female chorus of how terrible, awful, and evil the man is for abandoning his woman when she needed him most. But it's a man who lost his foot. Nobo…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/18 04:59 PM
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Is a wife worth a foot A good wife is worth more than rubies, but who can find one? I have searched through the world high and low and found an upright man among a thousand but not an upright woman among any of them.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/18 04:51 PM
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If you define "Hoe" like most Blue Pillers then almost ALL women want to be treated like a hoe. Most of the time. Guys don't get the concept that women are vampires. They just want to receive your masculine energy and often times they don't need- or want- a performance, 4 orgasms, oral sex, fingers, vibrators and toys, or anything except a swift and powerful fucking. These guys that demand that she "has to be into it or I can't do that" should try it once or twice. And they should read Sex God M…
/r/askMRP24/08/18 08:40 PM
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reading for me it is Take notes if you want to increase your comprehension. Just write down bullet points of the important concepts covered in each chapter as you go. Keep a Notebook next to your Kindle to scribble in. Even if you never review it you will double your comprehension. It increases reading comprehension MANY times if you make an actual credible outline of the book as you go that you can review.
/r/askMRP24/08/18 08:33 PM
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It is not that we hate older women as men. We just are cautious about having long term sexual relationships with them. One reason is that a man's sexual prime (finally!!) begins to level off in the early 40's. Guess what? Women's sexual prime is WAY earlier than that and many of them lose considerable sexual interest in their 40's. You married a woman 10 years older so you were welcomed to the Hell of Perimenopause in your sexual prime of the 30's. Lessons Learned: ?? just don't give a damn abou…
/r/askMRP24/08/18 08:19 PM
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Now that is funny. It really does stretch that tendon. I mean, you know. So I have heard.
/r/askMRP24/08/18 08:09 PM
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Additional exercises for tennis elbow? Umm, no. This is a repetitive use injury and you are not going to lift through it. See a doctor and get a couple physical therapy sessions and they can set you straight, tell you the exercises to do, and what not to do. I do not believe you should be lifting with your apparent level of knowledge and awareness until you at a minimum get a personal trainer for a few sessions and medical clearance and physical therapy. Please get expert advice about you person…
/r/askMRP24/08/18 08:05 PM
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what is the fly in the ointment of you achieving your optimal level of success? My temper and getting flooded in everyday interactions- especially when I am Hangry. A more general answer to the question, I think, will find that the answers are different from person to person but revolve around a personality defect that is innate to them and which formed early on- either genetic or interacting with your parents (almost always the momma). I suspect the answers will include: --that unshakable desir…
/r/askMRP24/08/18 07:54 PM
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Hah! He needs Job Dread Game to get a raise. Makes sense.
/r/askMRP24/08/18 07:52 PM
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steps would you recommend to help be less introverted. The first step would be figuring out why you are introverted. The second would be deciding whether this is a problem. You posted it as a question so it seems you think it is a problem but the whole justification is a performance review. What do YOU think about your introversion/extroversion level? That is all that matters. Of course the trick most guys advising you on this thread may be missing is that you can take a 'performance review' int…
/r/askMRP24/08/18 07:50 PM
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I think it was Jung or Freud or one of those crazy guys who wrote about the collective unconscious and also about that little voice in your head that can often be so critical. One theory is that little voice is YOU! That is, he is the 'real' you. I am not so sure and suspect that little voice may very well be your mother. No, I am not kidding! When you do the disassociation thing OP suggests imagine that little voice criticizing you in your mother's voice. Recognize that critical tone? Now we ar…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/18 11:13 PM
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a mass of theories and opinions with no cohesion in unifying It with human behavior. Much like string theory to physics, I have this feeling there is something more out there. I have a feeling you are right. However, Red Pill is just a praxeology as other EC's have pointed out and you will not find a unifying theory in it. I tried it with my book and made considerable progress towards your way of thinking. However, at the end of the day the book is nothing but a praxeology! It is practically a s…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/18 11:07 PM
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Love the username mentions- thanks! Graham is still not able to imagine himself as the person who is in charge and responsible for the decision. He second guesses himself like a woman and has issues developing his own ideas much less pursuing them. You are absolutely right. Graham is one type of guy I coach. However, it is much more about helping the client find his own point of anchor than being the anchor for him. A Therapist might be an "anchor" but most guys don't need therapy. They need a s…
/r/askMRP21/08/18 04:19 AM
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I know a cannabis induced post when I see it.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 02:40 AM
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Well I hate to rain on your little divorce parade but this is how it is probably going to play out. You will find somebody younger and much hotter than your wife. She will come sniffing around when it gets started but you will not root through the garbage. The ex-wife will be forever angry at you because you did not "fight for us." Between relationships you may go rooting through the garbage but you probably still won't be able to pass the comfort tests. Probably even less likely to pass them at…
/r/askMRP09/08/18 02:34 AM
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I interpret the whole Apple thing to curiosity and, or course, curiosity is the twin sister of hypergamy. Always curious. Always looking around for what is new and interesting. Where have I heard something like that behavior? It would have been simple and subtle to turn that curiosity into full blown hypergamy. Imagining that you are right and God did curse us with hypergamy helps me finally understand the instructions to fear the Lord.
/r/RPChristians06/08/18 02:09 AM
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Welcome! Interesting to have a brother of the Book with an interesting question. The final chapter of my Book was reconciling the teachings of Jesus with Red Pill. Specifically the Divorce instructions in the NT are a tricky thing to navigate for TRP guys. I don't see any problem whatsoever between TRP and Islam. Just make sure you only spin 4 plates at a time!!
/r/RPChristians06/08/18 02:02 AM
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Trust me, you make a lot more money representing, legalizing, servicing, and coaching clients than you do blogging on Reddit or even writing a book. Ask me how I know :) Sunrise Hoodie has a weekly Red Pill Sermon: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjVhxbG6CPGw3YP-BpaOIqA Beyond that you are absolutely correct and I agree. There is a dearth of Christian focused red pill knowledge on youtube. You just gave me an idea though! I should interview our host Red-Curious for my youtube channel after I in…
/r/RPChristians05/08/18 11:49 PM
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Melatonin is perfectly safe for infants. So is benadryl. And cbd drops. Certainly not for everyday use but for a plane trip? Not a problem medically speaking. That said, you can have whatever standards you want.
/r/askMRP05/08/18 06:47 PM
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Got incredible blowjob. I don't even have to read these anymore. Stories the same. Be a man. Gets blown.
/r/askMRP05/08/18 06:38 PM
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To be honest I have a bad feeling about this. Gone for a month and this is the kind of home you come too? Sounds like an awful woman and a clueless man who wants to "fix" it while she disappears right after you ask her for help. I would chip her car or download a tracking app on her phone, and check her social media posts \ texts with her story. Don't let her catch you and don't say word until you have proof and are ready to confrontnt her.
/r/askMRP05/08/18 06:35 PM
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There are lots and lots of resources assuring us we just need to listen to her and make sure she is comfortable and happy because, ya know women have to feel an emotional connection before they can bang a husband. Weirdly Chad never had to make her feel comfortable and assured of his love. I guess the husband just has to sacrifice more and try harder. Grovel more. Talk more. Beg. Buy flowers. Make her feel special. That is the lying message repeated over and over from the time we could roll over…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/18 06:22 PM
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I think somebody got your flair wrong. IMHO.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/18 04:33 PM
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The common thread is DNGAF and being amused at her antics, not what is actually said.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/18 06:34 PM
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Like this: https://youtu.be/76OJ848Kpjk?t=70
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/18 06:32 PM
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LOL, no he is talking about cultural suicide. aka: MGTOW
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/18 06:18 PM
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I was thinking that first thing this morning and came back to say the blackout story was probably bullcrap.
/r/askMRP03/08/18 06:14 PM
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I am just saying that all black outs don't end up in sex. Contrary to popular wisdom to 'guard your drink because all men keep roofies up their sleeves in the bar' the fact is that most men are very much turned off by blacked out unconscious women. I agree that a woman of high virtue does not put herself in a position where she blacks out.
/r/askMRP03/08/18 02:48 PM
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Yes I am guessing that this is a troll because we get about 3 a week with wild stories like this. Again, the cure for to much Alpha is to show some Beta. If the wife is upset (understandably) that her husband is gone for long periods then showing up to demonstrate you care seems a reasonable option and to a woman it would be the only possible option with any man choosing something else being an evil ogre. This post seems designed to garner the Hard Pill Red guys and the DNGAF advice which is 100…
/r/askMRP03/08/18 02:46 PM
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No way, that was me blackout drunk.
/r/askMRP03/08/18 02:40 PM
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So umm, what is your workout routine these days? I kept falling down because I didn't see improvements from my wife. I think you may have missed the entire point. I remember when I wrote my Red Belt paper in karate I explained a form that I had memorized and thought I understood. I could do the damn thing in my sleep. But when explained Naihanchi I completely misinterpreted and misunderstood it. The form is all about power and I described it as a smooth and flowing. It is brute force. Anyway, th…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/18 04:06 AM
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I just walk out of the room and she's pissed to hell. Riding the horse to victory or to Hell? It depends on your frame and smart and judicious use of your weapons. What you did is called "stonewalling" and it is only effective for limited purposes (like stop talking to me in a contemptuous tone, oh you won't stop. Bye). Using it like this is a disaster. Hopefully you get the concept that changing a diaper with a squirming baby is very time sensitive, balancing things and so on. 5 seconds waiting…
/r/askMRP03/08/18 03:19 AM
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sticking with her through the 4th time shes done this Come on man don't bullshit us. You can't even be bothered to fly home for a few days to reassure a woman you say was set off by you being Rambo. What exactly does you "sticking with her" mean to you? There is a reason guys have called you autistic. I will just bet that if you do end up flying home you will hold this over her head for the next 50 years.
/r/askMRP03/08/18 02:49 AM
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This approach is very appealing and I would not be surprised if it is very effective. It has a fatherly air of authority. Putting your foot down and ordering the woman to behave reasonably seems to work most of the time.
/r/askMRP03/08/18 02:42 AM
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Wow, this is quite a story. I am sorry. I would Ignore the AMOG's venting on you and worry about yourself. I caused her to be that way...going Rambo We are not your Priest and we cannot exonerate you or even hold your hand and tell you it is going to be all right. This is a known danger of going Rambo. You can literally make the woman insane- though it doesn't sound she was starting with a full deck to begin with. Remember, much of this MRP praxeology was developed for the DeadBedrooms scenario.…
/r/askMRP03/08/18 02:36 AM
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That's a flaw in the current Frankenstein incarnation of marriage, not a flaw in MRP. Merps are well aware of the issues. Caveat Emptor.
/r/askMRP03/08/18 02:13 AM
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You have never blacked out? I seem to remember waking up on the floor multiple times and never once got laid while blacked out. As far as I remember.
/r/askMRP03/08/18 02:10 AM
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There may be a statue of limitation of exactly 7 years on adultery and holding it in abeyance like this while you hamster away is very...womanly. I am guessing you have plenty going on in your wife (get it?) right now without doing the Don Quioxte style of marriage where you run around slaying dragons but end up just chasing windmills.
/r/askMRP03/08/18 02:07 AM
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A beautiful essay and nice takedown of all the life coach blue pill charlatans out their selling a fantasy. It is one reason I chose and fought for the name red pill coach so I do not forget my roots. Coaching and therapy and all the self help stuff is almost inherently blue pill, or at a minimum purple pill. We as practitioners are drawn in that direction inexorably but at least we can resolve to never forget. I see it like Conquests second law of politics that any organization not exclusively …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/18 09:31 PM
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What you did is called a "repair attempt." The guys use the 1,000 foot rope analogy. Your battleship is sailing and your wife has jumped overboard. So throw her a lifeline! She may not take it at first, so throw her another one. Sometimes she doesn't grab the rope but usually they put it over their head- and in typical female fashion wait for the man to make the next move. When the rope pulls taught you end up keelhauling them through the water which can be great fun! Eventually, if you do it ri…
/r/askMRP02/08/18 02:47 PM
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>I ended up getting the biggest kick in the balls. > There is one of her coworkers that is the world’s biggest douche bag. This is not hyperbole, he is a jerk and not in the bad boy way. Thanks for a good laugh. Look up AWALT my brother. A-freacking-WALT. >cheated on her BF with a marred man. Well the good Book says she will be forgiven and redeemed in child birth so what are you going to do? Lots and lots of women bang the douchebag. Want to really lose your mind? Read this: https://therational…
/r/askMRP01/08/18 01:43 AM
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>Now what? Now you lead your family on the greatest adventure possible. >nothing I do will ever be good enough for you. Again, very common reaction from a woman. Less common reaction from a man but not exactly rare. I believe it stems from being dissapointed at yourself for choosing who you chose. Again it is not anger or dissapointment at the wife but at yourself. This is a normal result of going through the anger stage. It is like mourning the loss of something very close to you (i.e. your blu…
/r/askMRP01/08/18 01:02 AM
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We get these every week. Anger Stage. Give it time. Stop externalizing your anger at yourself for being a weak bluepill for so long. You are not mad at your wife. You have not lost interest in your wife. You are mad at yourself. It passes in time.
/r/askMRP01/08/18 12:56 AM
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This is me: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCRCcXsJScfWlYHP5kHJqNbg
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/18 12:42 AM
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Yes we have. AWALT: Solipsism, female in group preference and projection. A woman's reality is her emotions and nothing else exists. Go ahead. Try to have a rational discussion with a woman about rape culture, MeToo, or anything else requiring you to set aside emotions. They can't do it. When you peel back all the layers of the onion you find an empty plate that stinks. When you peel back female emotions and in group preference for other females you find nothing but emptiness and a strong, punge…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/18 04:03 PM
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Nah, this is how unplugged men and soyboys write these days.
/r/askMRP29/07/18 05:35 PM
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I ruined this marriage, but what do I do here? Fix it by addressing the problems and showing the wife that you are fixing yourself?
/r/askMRP29/07/18 05:32 PM
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If this is the problem: she is so hurt from my verbal abuse that she has built a wall and even if there are changes, it’s just a matter of time until I change back. What makes you think this is the solution? my plan is the same as before. Continue to lift, build my social network, career and stick to my map.
/r/askMRP29/07/18 05:31 PM
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4 months? Soldiers and sailors are away for a year at a time and then they re-enlist and go again. I don't see the problem.
/r/askMRP29/07/18 05:27 PM
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There is a bright line between respecting your wife's feelings in the moment (and taking EASY steps to fix them) and making her feelings your mission in life. Ignoring them like a proto-autist while you are gone for months at a time is probably not the ideal strategy. Nobody said you should drop everything but you chilled, lifted, and watched a movie rather than sending a one word text to reassure your wife that you appreciated her attempt to connect. In fact, you shit all over her attempt to co…
/r/askMRP29/07/18 05:23 PM
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Several hours go by and she says, I'm so hurt right now. I dont respond. Why? persistent shit test Then why not some amused mastery? A simple text: "Nice!" would have been sufficient. You seem to be deliberately disrespecting your wife's fee fees. Why?
/r/askMRP29/07/18 05:19 PM
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gender specific. That is not what the books say but I have no doubt the gynocentric MC's play the genders very different. If you criticize a woman even slightly that will be your last session with the couple. You can beat the Hell out of a man over and over again and the woman will laughingly and with great delight schedule the next session. If the man balks you probably only have to question his manhood or commitment and he will be there with bells on ready to be beat half to death again- and a…
/r/askMRP29/07/18 05:16 PM
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she has a real chemical imbalance and takes prescriptions for it. I guess I'm at a crossroads. Most of the time this is total horse shit and an excuse for not getting off your ass. If your woman forced herself to work out she would feel a lot better than taking SSRI's to manage her "chemical imbalance." It is weird to me that women and other "depressives" have a mysterious magical "chemical imbalance" that has NEVER been tested in the real world and which I doubt actually even exists. But it is …
/r/askMRP28/07/18 04:31 PM
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The social stuff arises from reading the sidebar and taking action. Not from writing on the internet. You need a full attitude transplant, not a little red paint around the trim.
/r/askMRP28/07/18 04:26 PM
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Nobody spends 18 months in TRP, ‘devouring material,’ and ends up like you. Yep, the plan is 12 months. If things are not much better by then you have not swallowed the pill (or you are married to a BPD).
/r/askMRP28/07/18 04:19 PM
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I just act like I didn't hear it and then minutes later she acts like she never said it. Jesus, I wish I learned that one decades ago Unfortunately this advice is less than 10 years old. It is basically a counterculture response to the near total victory of 3rd wave feminism and the destruction of men. Red Pill carries the hopes of the future and is the last stand of men in the Western world. After this there is only darkness and cultural decay turning into an avalanche of cultural destruction.
/r/askMRP28/07/18 04:15 PM
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First you say this: when I am communicating with the SBX I am finding myself mentally just laughing at the situation due to what the RP has taught me. Then this in the very next paragraph: This woman stated 1.5 month ago that she couldn't stand me and bought a home to leave me, and yet she is reaching out more than ever before and being more engaged. Do you not see the connection? how should one keep this amusement in check as the hamster spins, trips and falls, when her "plan" goes to shit? Why…
/r/askMRP28/07/18 04:10 PM
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DNGAF is for BAD behavior or criticism directed at you- aka Shit Tests. When your woman needs a hug and some reassurance this is not the time for DNGAF or STFU! she never follow through Well YOU initiated it. Did you follow through? I think you need to take charge of more than just the finances. I would think about taking some charge over your wife's work schedule. Just tell her, I scheduled a meeting with Jill to talk about subcontracting some of your work. Her possible answer: "No, that's OK, …
/r/askMRP28/07/18 04:01 PM
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See those links to the right on MRP? They have been carefully and meticulously curated for more than 5 years by thousands of men. Click on them and read. They include "Red Pill Jargon" and "Red Pill Terms and Acronyms."
/r/askMRP28/07/18 03:55 PM
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Just remember Rambo: You are not hunting her. She is hunting you. I did not come to rescue the wives from Rambo...I came to rescue you......
/r/askMRP28/07/18 03:51 PM
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Is she just checking to see if I'm for real? This is the most common interpretation of this common behavior. It also means she does not fully accept you as her Captain and is trying to fight you for control. This is especially true if she is testing you after she has sex which she did not initiate. She want reassurance she gave it up to a strong man, not a Beta.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/18 03:45 PM
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> The fact that he would entertain the idea of a relationship with you disqualifies him from being “Red Pill” I have a rare disagreement with the master. Having a relationship doesn't disqualify you from being "red pill" although it may disqualify you from being an "Alpha" and certainly an "Apex Alpha." Red Pill is just a body of knowledge while Alpha or Beta describes the man. > the husband who lives in a Blue Pill fantasy land, so rattling his cage about the visceral realities of Hypergamy and…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/18 03:31 PM
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If women's egg counts were dropping we would be at full employment because the government would hire and fund tens of thousands of scientists working day and night to solve "the problem." Since it is just boys and their yucky sperm....ho hum...why not ditch the tight jeans guys. No problem. Nothing to see here. In fact, have a Tofu burger while we watch untrained Mary Sue Jedi beat the Hell out of highly trained Sith Lords. Yougogirlllz. Wait! /r/whereareallthegoodmen ????
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/18 03:22 PM
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something about new clothes makes a woman's hamster spin We figured out during a coaching session that new clothes are a force multiplier which is why it is at level 5 instead of earlier. Once you build some muscle, and start responding to her shit tests correctly you may or may not see improvement because it may or may not be enough to start up her hamster. However, when you build muscle and confidence and THEN start "dressing up" suddenly the hamster appears and starts running as fast as her l…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/18 03:17 PM
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In fact you usually only have to be better than you were before and to be improving. Unless your woman is cheating, she only has you to compare and if you noticeably improve she will notice and will usually respond sexually, with less bitch and more sweetness.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/18 03:15 PM
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>I looked intensely into the empty eyes of that fat loser. I can't remember a time when I felt such clarity and knew my way forward. Every man should do this in his life. Clarity is a divine gift from God or from the cosmos. I wouldn't want to waste it!
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/18 03:13 PM
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Lots of shit testing along with it though. That is the function of women. The man leads, the woman carps and challenges to make sure the ship is headed in the right direction and the Captain has his whits about him. If he does, she stops and relaxes into a place of feminine warmth and almost an oxytocin/drugged high of love. If he shows doubt she can't relax and redoubles her shit testing.
/r/askMRP28/07/18 03:10 PM
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>Calling for a position change That's one reason we lift and why am I imagining Full Metal Jacket? Rather than barking out orders, in most cases a better strategy is to simply pick her up and put her in the position you want. They love it.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/18 03:07 PM
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This is "whatever works to enhance male sexual strategy" red pill. If sleeping around works for OP then more power to him. I agree if he wants to "save" the marriage he may not be pursuing the optimal strategy but that is not his goal.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/18 03:05 PM
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>I cannot stress how important it is to start with a clean slate mentally on these things This applies with new bitch management and also with changing the relationship with an old bitch. Start a clean state to start a new relationship. It is really that simple. The only difference is you are terrified- yes TERRIFIED- about popping a thumb in your wife's ass when you take her from behind. Not because you don't want to do it but because you are buried in the detritus of your old relationship. Wit…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/18 03:02 PM
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The game stops when you do. You can love her all you want. Love her long time.
/r/askMRP28/07/18 01:25 AM
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overtly telling me so Yes, when a woman resorts to overt communication she is out of ideas. This is a woman who is really trying to make it work. The Captain and First Officer Relationship: the Frame of Marriage The Drunk Captain: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nk0oSyLdDLI&list=PL1lJ9Z9nTem5Sj-5RROEKgBX-w1WR4Bam&index=12
/r/askMRP28/07/18 01:09 AM
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Dude is a charming with the gift of gab and a happy disposition but he is not anything special. A single 40 something guy can nail lots of 30 something single mom tail. The key is first to lift weights (no lie- even at 5'7" being a stacked manlet makes a real difference). Second, to truly NGAF.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 01:02 AM
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The strategy for counseling with infidelity is to let the betrayed partner ask anything for about 5-10 sessions. Therapy consists of beating the living Hell out of the cheater while (he) grovels and begs for forgiveness. Then after reducing the cheating partner to dust they work on "rebuilding" the marriage. I always thought it made sense to not tear down the thing if the goal was to rebuild it. The only thing you can do as a man is to own it and provide assurances to the extent possible that it…
/r/askMRP28/07/18 12:49 AM
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Orwellian.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/18 03:15 PM
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So all.Women are sloors?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/18 02:58 PM
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I do feel like God has me here for a reason My problem with this answer is that he should only do this if God indeed has made him feel he is there for a reason. And if God had indeed led him to do this he would not have needed you to tell him to do it. Oh Lord have mercy. I need to get off Reddit.
/r/RPChristians21/07/18 08:04 PM
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Your words were fine and so was your attitude. He had every right to be a bit jerky, angry, or whatever else he wanted to feel in that moment- and there is nothing you could have said that was going to make it better. For the real answers to your question I would ask that nurse. She seemed to have the right answer and probably deals with this type of situation a whole lot more than you or me or anybody on this board.
/r/RPChristians21/07/18 08:01 PM
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Poe's Law.
/r/askMRP21/07/18 07:02 PM
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Amen!
/r/askMRP21/07/18 04:57 PM
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5 ll is not on the sidebar. Mafm is useful only to the most hopeless beta who thinks men and women are the same.
/r/askMRP21/07/18 04:56 PM
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I just told my wife I was studying how to trick her into doing a threesome. The guys say you should pick up a 19 y/o and when you two are in bed I can jump out of the closet. She dropped it. Tldr: Agree and amplify. Don't take her seriously. Tease her about it and turn the tables.
/r/askMRP21/07/18 04:53 PM
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Welcome to the real world. Yes they are all crazy. Reminds me of a Bible school song- red and yellow black and white, all are crazy in His sight. Also women rarely leave a man who cheats and almost never leave a man they suspect is cheating. They ramp up the crazy but rarely leave.
/r/askMRP21/07/18 04:46 PM
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It is often fine to apologize for now she feels. I am sorry you feel that way. This lets her know you care and so on. It is fine to apologize when you screw up. My wife wanted me to move a bed. I told her I would then forgot. She complained. I said sorry, about that. I will do it right now. It is NOT fine to apologize for her carping and complaining or for "You statements" like you never.... Apologize for your broken promises but not her demands. It is about you and your standards not hers.
/r/askMRP21/07/18 04:41 PM
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Red pill is sexual strategy for men esp to get more of it. Women are sexually attracted to leaders. Therefore........
/r/askMRP21/07/18 04:34 PM
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All men are like that. The oneitis hamster is powerful. I recommend you kill it! Blast it with nerve gas if you must but oneitis is fatal most of the time.
/r/askMRP21/07/18 04:33 PM
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gave op sex to strong him along I disagree with this interpretation. Women are attracted to alpha. When she gets some it turns them on. It is manipulation but often it is not conscious. They don't know why and they don't care. They just follow their emotions.
/r/askMRP21/07/18 04:28 PM
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Yes it is a good sign. The wife has been waiting for her alpha far longer than you have been waiting for more sex. Now her shit tests will begin in earnest. Don't go Rambo, don't be autistic with your stfu, watch for comfort tests, keep upping the alpha, and enjoy the ride. Also, study game and use it with your wife. I suspect she will respond quickly.
/r/askMRP21/07/18 04:24 PM
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How can anybody help you if you willingly disarm and throw down your best weapon?
/r/askMRP21/07/18 04:16 PM
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This is rp 101. Men, own your shit. You may be open and honest but if your husband started unloading his fears and emotional pain in you rather than the other direction it would go downhill fast. Sex would dry and you would be at a loss to explain your itchy bitchy feelings except maybe to explain: I love you but I'm not in love with you.
/r/askMRP21/07/18 04:14 PM
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I think you are correct 100. We emphasize alpha but many of my clients went Rambo and need to up the beta.
/r/askMRP21/07/18 04:07 PM
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They work until the woman loses interest. Women always get bored with betas. Then she becomes prickly and unpleasant. Then she cuts off sex and the beta doesn't even know what hit him and has no tools to deal with the ultimate shit test. I have seen many happy loving couples who go to church and hold hands who have not had sex in years. They broadcast their happiness in public but it is a.lie.
/r/askMRP21/07/18 04:04 PM
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Stop cock blocking yourself.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 03:47 PM
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No but it is enough for you to be the man and approach.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 03:46 PM
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No, your young and inexperienced and you exude the incel aura. Girls can smell desperation and right now girls your age are rock stars. It will not last long.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 03:45 PM
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You are the man and it is you who approach women, not the other way around! The gym may not cause women to fall down in front of you fumbling for your junk but it will give you some badly needed T and confidence so you can take the initiative instead of making excuses!
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 03:43 PM
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I have a 5'7" friend who has 3 hot plates , a wife, and a smoking girlfriend who does threesomes with him.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 03:40 PM
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Women are an addition to an already good life. Work on that! No woman is going to take a suboptimal life and make it better. Go to the gym for the iron, not the spandex. Be aware at all times. Who knows? Next week you might be standing in line for a smoothie and you notice hottie number 1 without her tights standing in front of you. That is the time to introduce yourself, throw out some bait and start a conversation. Then the next time you see her in the gym call he by name, say hi, and then ign…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 03:36 PM
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Pook is a toolbox that provides the right mindset for banging hotties. It is long and drags on spots so the strategy as with all recommended rp books is to take what you can use and reject what you cant after due consideration. Gratz on your recovery. I wish more incels would wake up and stop giving up. The world is yours but you have to put down the game controller and take a look around.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 03:24 PM
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She hated me because of my resemblance to my father. I am very sorry if that is the case and even more sorry if that is merely your perception. You speak very eloquently of hurt women lost in a world of pain and I see that you realize your mother fell into that category. I did take care of her while she was dying, out of a sense of duty, but I can't say that we were ever reconciled You are reconciled with her and have behaved as an honorable Christian. Reconciliation takes two and it sounds like…
/r/RPChristians18/07/18 03:31 PM
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You are still the one who has the final say. Horse hockey. The courts have the final say in this life. Not you. Not the husband. Not even God. Sure He could but I have never once heard of Him overturning a custody and child support award despite millions of prayers.
/r/RPChristians16/07/18 07:19 AM
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"headship" means men are responsible for and/or to be blamed for his wife's/women's sins. If true we are all going to be tormented and gnashing teeth on that day. With great power comes great responsibility. With no power, what is our responsibility? Are we supposed to smack her to keep a rebellious wife in line? Can the brothers and elders be relied on to support the husbands authority?
/r/RPChristians16/07/18 07:13 AM
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NAWALT. Got it. manipulating me to what end Into being on her side. Your mother was manipulating her children like pawns in order to "win." As the other guy said which I now paraphrase: Women do this type of manipulation like a fish breathing oxygen through its gills. They don't even know they are doing it and even decades later women find excuses for other women to justify this ubiquitous female behavior. I am sorry but justifying this sinful behavior with "emotion" and scary stuff excuses is p…
/r/RPChristians16/07/18 07:08 AM
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I'm just at a loss how to act / respond in those situations. I think you respond BEFORE those situations arise. You head them off before they get to that point. I would also preempt it from the very beginning- or at least from this point forward. Make a rule that both of you can agree on. In my home, the "D" word is not to be mentioned or even considered as an option.
/r/RPChristians16/07/18 07:00 AM
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1.She says I constantly challenge her. This sounds like projection. That I push her and push her. Why? That I don't respect or empathize with her. Part Projection, part Why do you think she feels that way?
/r/RPChristians16/07/18 06:56 AM
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Biblically? Sure! It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” 2But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband.....to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I do. 9But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.
/r/RPChristians16/07/18 06:53 AM
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am I supposed to do act like I don’t care? About being in contact with a man who she has seen naked and has been inside your wife? I wouldn't act like I don't care. The hard and loud boundary is for you to set.
/r/askMRP15/07/18 03:41 AM
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It becomes foreplay when you keep yourself in charge and then refuse to be drawn into her maelstrom of emotions about your "change."
/r/askMRP15/07/18 03:37 AM
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Why wait? File your own case and beat her to the punch.
/r/askMRP14/07/18 07:57 PM
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Please do so!
/r/askMRP14/07/18 07:55 PM
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Isn't it amazing how women keep the bad items stuffed away and easily accessible to use as a weapon whenever they want? 10 years...20 years...30 years. It doesn't matter. They remember everything bad because they have been allowed to weaponize it and beat their man over the head with it for decades now. Honestly the only defense that works is to DNGAF and to understand AWALT.
/r/askMRP14/07/18 07:54 PM
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"My" shit test. You write as if this is the one Shit Test that you have to pass. Women don't use Shit Tests like snipers, waiting for a shot. They fire them like a machine gun with a seemingly unending belt of bullets. More are coming. Snapchat contact of an old boyfriend of hers This is a very, very hard and loud boundary that was violated. Ive been a dick for the last few days How is that working for you?
/r/askMRP14/07/18 07:47 PM
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not getting very many bites on these damn dating apps Most of these apps you are using are not "dating apps." They are hookup apps. The picture of you as mega Chad is the only thing you need and the only thing the girls on those sites want. They are looking for Chad dick and that is all. You have several options. First, there are some actual dating apps out there so use those instead of Tinder and Plenty of fish Whales. For example 'it's just lunch' sets up a lunch date (which is not going to tu…
/r/askMRP10/07/18 05:17 PM
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My solution for this situation has been to simply just shut off my emotions and get shit done I really don't get how these are connected. You can use emotions to motivate you and get more done or you can let them get in the way. "Turning them off" is not a strategy I have heard discussed ever before on Red Pill, in marriage counseling courses, as an attorney, in my Coaching courses, or in my PhD program except when I studied Spectrum Disorders. I do think all of those diverse areas of study woul…
/r/askMRP10/07/18 05:07 PM
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You're not recovering from being a unsexy beta looser, you're trying to recover from the amage you did to you LTR. A lot of Red Pill guys, most new guys, and all Blue Pill creatures seem unable to understand this simple concept. Different situations require different strategies. For example, MRP guys tell a lifetime Beta guy in a sexless marriage who is deep in the hole to STFU. Every time we do this I think the the Blue Pills assume we are telling an Uber Alpha who never get's turned down for s…
/r/askMRP10/07/18 04:44 PM
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Why is it shitty Because he got caught.
/r/askMRP10/07/18 04:35 PM
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suggestions on how to handle this whole situation and her going forward Provide sympathy and comfort while remaining the oak tree. Listen attentively and sympathetically. Talking to her back and forth and getting sucked into her maelstrom is the worst thing you can do. This is not the time for STFU but it is the time for a strong, stoic, and QUIET presence. for the most part. Now is the time to take control over your wife. If she cries, hug her. If she needs to be alone, pat her on the shoulder …
/r/askMRP10/07/18 04:28 PM
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I see your point that married incels have essentially the same solution as unmarried incels. That might be the main insight of Married Red Pill. Perhaps we need a different name for "Monk Mode" for married guys but the idea (again) is the same. Stop focusing on sex as the goal and work on yourself.
/r/askMRP10/07/18 03:46 PM
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I'm the only person who she's open with/doesn't surround herself in a shell/keep her distance/emotional dumping ground. I think one thing you can do is encourage her to have some female friendships. This can also be sisters and mothers. Life is just like 'Who Wants to be Millionaire!" When you don't know the answer, it can help to phone a friend. Women are great for downloading their negative emotions on each other but when they don't have female friends and dump all their negativity on the man …
/r/askMRP10/07/18 03:42 PM
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Monk Mode can work for MERPS who are in a sexless marriage. If you remove the pressure of sex from your life you also take her off the high pedestal she is on and it can help clarify your mind. Going into Monk Mode when the wife is putting out but not as enthusiastically as you would like can be a disaster.
/r/askMRP08/07/18 04:40 PM
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Should I just start my dread levels and go back to my old ways of initiating and fucking her and just start ramping up my personal improvements Yes. Try it without the covert contracts this time.
/r/askMRP08/07/18 04:38 PM
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I always get sex. Always. Then you need a different strategy than most MERPS. Throw her a lifeline (play your "nice" card) and then STFU/ignore if she resorts to harping and carping but keep the life preserver next to her. She will eventually grab it.
/r/askMRP08/07/18 04:35 PM
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I think I'm going to use this trick Taking a woman- or a child- by the hand and leading her to where she is supposed to be is a time honored "trick" that works.
/r/askMRP08/07/18 04:28 PM
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You think this will ever get better? I can almost assure OP that it will get better if he does it right.
/r/askMRP08/07/18 04:25 PM
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doesn’t there come a point where you’re just being neglectful as a captain Yes. If you are not being denied sex, all these Dread Games are just a diversion to the real issue which is leadership. The model for MRP is Captain- First Officer, not Court Jester- Princess. What’s the point of a relationship if you’re just a dick to her because she’s a bitch all the Time Now we finally get to the meat of the issue. You think A and A and the other "Alpha-esque" techniques are being a dick. She feels tha…
/r/askMRP08/07/18 04:22 PM
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I almost don’t even have the effort to put in the work that it will take to get back out with her. This is your problem. Do you need me to be more specific? When I’m back I seriously start to hate her. I hate to be around her' The Red Pill rage is a real thing. Stop blaming your wife for being a woman. This is pure externalized anger. You are mad at yourself for being a Beta Chump and are taking out your anger on your wife. I cared. But she gave me way less shit. It’s like every time I try to im…
/r/askMRP08/07/18 04:18 PM
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Why is MRP is labeled RP on hard mode The common RP answer to a relationship issue is "NEXT." This is pretty easy to do. Pump. Then she starts to sink her claws into you then you Dump and move onto the next P & D. However, if you are married "NEXT" is not an immediate option and it is a whole lot more difficult to execute so marriage is RP on hard mode. Further, to be a successful MRP guy with a high sex marriage, you still need to be successful with other women. MRP is not about playing a danci…
/r/askMRP08/07/18 04:07 PM
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I think you passed it. Providing reassurance doesn't mean you are supplicating or fawning. You just give her a quick hug. Then, later, initiate hard. Be careful that your hug is not a covert contract. It is merely to calm a whining wife by treating her like the 9 year old bratty little girl she is. They love it if you handle it right. The time to Agree and Amplify a Comfort test is while you are holding her in your arms: I am worring because you are going to find somebody better. "Aww, sweety, l…
/r/askMRP08/07/18 04:01 PM
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I might add she is ultra religious and sees most of that stuff as dirty or slutty. I seem to remember some Scripture I read somewhere that supports the man as the head of the family and the wife as submissive to her husband. Maybe your ultra religious wife is reading a different book? I think you should read her the Song of Songs while she blows you and then follow up with a couple tidbits from Paul. advice to get your wife over these bullshit sexual rules? There are several other strategies for…
/r/askMRP08/07/18 03:51 PM
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I lost the battle that day, but I suspect that I won the war. I have absolutely no doubt! She thinks I am Alpha When your opponent is convinced of something that helps you then this should be nurtured and encouraged in both your mind and in the mind of your opponent. we've had a lot of other relationship trouble - everything but the bedroom. Which proves that the wife does in fact see you as "Alpha." Your relationship troubles most likely stem from what I call "Red Pill Autism" and you appear to…
/r/askMRP08/07/18 03:38 PM
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Would STFU help in this situation Maybe. Maybe not, but I caution about autistic level STFU when the wife is whining that you don't care about her feelings. That's a comfort test not a shit test and the answer is often not DNGAF or STFU (which will actually make the problem worse) but to provide reassurance and to Agree and Amplify. Make her laugh. Make her cry. Show her that you care about her feelings by taking control of them while simultaneously being unruffled by them.
/r/askMRP04/07/18 06:14 PM
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Advice Absolutely not. We are here to trade notes and throw around ideas. Taking advice from a random dude on the internet is moronic. Take the ideas and apply them to your situation. like these guys saying why is she driving. Because I told her to drive. Good example of why these are ideas, not "advice." The man driving tends to set the tone of him as the leader so it is strongly suggested on MRP. However, it is not always necessary. It can be useful especially for the Beta guys when the tone i…
/r/askMRP04/07/18 06:10 PM
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I found it better to STFU Better to remain silent and thought a fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt.
/r/askMRP04/07/18 06:05 PM
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why do you always have to be an asshole. There are various theories but most converge on the line between genetics and learned behavior. I ignore it. Not the wrong answer but it is likely to just make her more pissed that she had to carry a heavy item by herself even though her big strong man was standing right there. I’m not doing this. If you needed help you could have asked. Oh no! You stood up to your crabby bitching wife. Gee I wonder what will happen later? blew me Of course she did! Women…
/r/askMRP04/07/18 06:02 PM
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There are reports that MDMA works magic with fighting couples who take it together. They join together in a spiritual awakening (naked of course).
/r/askMRP02/07/18 03:47 PM
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Tell it to Brad Pitt.
/r/askMRP01/07/18 05:56 PM
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This is an excellent opportunity for leadership. Don't go over the top and slip into betadom but the optimal response to "feels gross" is to take her in your arms and feel her up slowly. Then say something like: "Feels fine to me" and walk away.
/r/askMRP01/07/18 05:56 PM
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Every day is a new day because they change every day.
/r/askMRP01/07/18 05:50 PM
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We need books on the sidebar that cover these topics because this is clearly a gap in MRP. Mods, add something about how to not be manipulated as a 'nice guy'and maybe another book that explains assertiveness and how to not be manipulated by learning to say "no" without feeling guilty.
/r/askMRP01/07/18 05:49 PM
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is there a way to let the kids know she was unfaithful and that's why this is happening Yes, and the way is for you to NOT tell them. If they ask, tell them that is adult stuff that does not concern them. Or you can designate an uncle/brother to tell them while you interrupt the sordid tale as the "good guy." No matter how you handle it, the kids will find out on their own and you telling them will make you look bad.
/r/askMRP01/07/18 05:41 PM
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She got your sperm. She got her fuck prize. The big boys in blue with small penises and large guns will make sure you pay her everything. She doesn't need you any more and has dropped all of her lies and pretenses. I believe she will make every effort to demonize you and alienate you from the child. she’s still saying she doesn’t want to come back nor be with me. Not entirely sure if this is something like post-partum depression/anxiety or if there’s something more. I really think that about cov…
/r/askMRP01/07/18 05:37 PM
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I said 'youve kissed me before you should know' - she asked if i liked her kisses and i said no... She then left crying and drove away? According to manosphere lore, any time a woman cries (unless she is alone) it is for the sole purpose of manipulating somebody. How could have i done it better? Be a leader and kiss her. Show her what you want next time without the words. Hold her tight and kiss her good. I would tell her that you want to practice your kissing. Tell her that you read this cool i…
/r/askMRP01/07/18 05:26 PM
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An emotional affair is like pornography. You can't define it but you know it when you see it.
/r/askMRP01/07/18 05:22 PM
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If telling your wife to "shut up bitch" will cause a divorce you have much bigger problems than a pathetic bench press.
/r/askMRP01/07/18 05:16 PM
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We know her Deadlift is at least 152 pounds because she is throwing him around like a rag doll.
/r/askMRP01/07/18 05:15 PM
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All women turn to the herd and try to sway public opinion in their favor. AWALT. If you left women for doing this then there wouldn't be any marriage at all. Might not be a bad thing, but just saying.
/r/askMRP01/07/18 05:13 PM
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She doesn’t care what it is, only how she feels about it. AND you can determine how she feels about it because how she feels is determined by how you feel. If you are anxious/ashamed and DEER guess how she will react. If you laugh and say "Yah, I am studying ways to turn your panties into a dripping, slippery mess" then the most she will do is feign outrage or complain that "all you ever want me for is sex" to which you assure her that you also want her for blowjobs.
/r/askMRP01/07/18 05:10 PM
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bringing back the “emotional affair”. If you already "cheated" once then employing Dread Game is often not a good idea. Dread is to slowly make your woman realize that you are capable of cheating if she continues being a bitch. Why do you need Dread game if you have already shown that? Sounds to me like this minor freak out was more than justified on her part. some parts of the sidebar are not “nice” Yes, own it. How would you handle it if wife found that part of MRP/TRP as the only parts. Get g…
/r/askMRP01/07/18 05:07 PM
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I have come to realize that women are pretty fucking good at game and mind fuckery. Much better than men. The scary part is that men have to "come to realize" this obvious and basic fact. Women start with emotional manipulation and bullying by age 4. They only get better at it over the years as society reinforces them and all the damaged men recoil from the power of the goddess. Like Athol Kay says, most drama queens are waiting for their king to show up and tell them to knock it off.
/r/askMRP01/07/18 05:02 PM
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I’ll take all your stuff This is how female empowerment looks. They KNOW that they hold all the cards and they can leave with cash and prizes any time they want. I wanted to show you how quickly I could change the locks Sure she is "joking." This is a power play, pure and simple. This is the mother of all shit tests. WHAT THE FUCKING FUCK IS GOING ON WITH THIS WOMAN?!? This is a woman throwing her weight around, enjoying the power that you and society have given her. It gives her a warm feeling …
/r/askMRP01/07/18 04:57 PM
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I think this is an important question but it is phrased wrong and the assumptions are dead wrong. You cannot lead a person out of depression. True depression is a medical condition and a mental illness. You cannot fuck somebody out of depression. You CAN fuck and lead women into a better attitude and a happier life but MRP doesn't fix mental illness. she loves kids and wants to be a mom This might be biological. Women who don't have kids by their late 20's often spiral down into depression. The …
/r/askMRP01/07/18 04:51 PM
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when I either say no (comfort test) or AA/AM it pisses the wife off. She goes from 0 to 100 saying how she feels trapped now, can't wait to divorce me She feels trapped because she married a nice compliant Beta who provided comfort and $$ and now she sees him turning into an Alpha Fuckboi who is no longer providing the comfort and she doesn't want the fuckboi any more. This behavior is very much a strike but we are not out of the game yet. Use of the "D" word should not ever be used in a married…
/r/askMRP29/06/18 04:34 PM
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That link needs to be on the sidebar.
/r/askMRP29/06/18 04:13 PM
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The guys have you pegged correctly as Rain Man I think. LOL. I would redirect the child by asking him how the animal sounds but I do a credible dog and cat imitation.
/r/askMRP29/06/18 04:12 PM
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The underlying answer to both the wife issue and Reddit issue is your need for validation. You care to much about what other people think. If you truly didn't care you would not be compelled to answer. I have lots more for you on the wife thing. You are most likely flooding whenever your wife appears unhappy with you. When your fight or flight reflex kicks in you no longer think rationally and you do stupid shit like DEER. Study the stoics (read the Meditations by Marcus Aralius every day) and l…
/r/askMRP29/06/18 04:00 PM
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dread is a gift Thank You! Way, way, way to may guys (and girls) see Dread Game as a cruel game or manipulative ploy but you are 100% correct. It is not anything mean or vengeful whatsoever. Dread Game is a gift you give your wife, not an excuse to cheat or hurt her. The problem is that Dread gives great power to the man and with great power comes great responsibility. We forget that sometimes.
/r/askMRP29/06/18 03:44 PM
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The wrong answer is to espouse unconditional love. "Dont' worry darling, I would never leave or cheat on you no matter what you do or how bad you treat me." I can see why "unconditional love" is a turn off to women because that Blue Pill mindset they teach us from birth is just gross.
/r/askMRP29/06/18 03:41 PM
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didn’t do any of this to cause dread but it seems to have caused some. Not exactly. Dread is the fear that you will leave her for somebody better. This looks like leadership more than Dread to me. It is tricky to distinguish because both techniques moisten those panties. Don't give me any reason to divorce you Love it! should I offer some more comfort Bang her good and hard and then lay in bed comforting her all you want. Short of that, a hand on the shoulder, deep eye contact, and a sympathetic…
/r/askMRP29/06/18 03:36 PM
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ARRRGGGHHHHH!!!!!
/r/askMRP29/06/18 03:30 PM
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What part of STFU was unclear? This is negotiating desire and it doesn't work. You did gain some very useful intelligence. You also found out that you have a wife who is trying. The only issue is does she have a husband who is trying? Stop negotiating desire and start generating and creating it. Stop talking to the wife about sex and desire and show her that you are a sexual person who is desirable. wife was devastated because she felt how she's not good enough, she is "never enough" As you say,…
/r/askMRP29/06/18 03:30 PM
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enhanced my SMV Spending the night in jail is a growth event and you know how women like MEN vs. little boys. Unless they are bad and dangerous little boys of course and picking up a criminal record covers both ends.
/r/askMRP28/06/18 03:23 PM
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This is why BDSM play needs to be researched before anybody does even light spanking. There are protocols to avoid this outcome- safe words, boundary setting up front and so on. In your case I agree with many of the other commenters that your wife planned this outcome from the beginning. Having a safe word and clear cut boundaries would not have kept her from calling the police but would probably have prevented the charge.
/r/askMRP28/06/18 03:21 PM
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This is not canned. I am deliberately countering the "next" advice this guy is getting. WTF doesn't know that? Half the guys who post on Ask MRP.
/r/askMRP28/06/18 03:18 PM
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It is not logical, but it is often true.
/r/askMRP26/06/18 12:49 AM
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Turn out she doesn’t like the way I dress, the music I listen to, the way I handle my stress, that I get to loud when I am happy or too quiet when I am tired. This is the big one here, I even for a time was convinced I was an alcoholic because she started not liking me when I drink All of these are related to her loss of attraction and you compounded it by failing her test (by getting butthurt). I’ve confronted her many times trying to have some conversation about tit, I’ve admitted many times m…
/r/askMRP26/06/18 12:49 AM
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Spend time with your kid. If you want to keep score then keep score- and give it to your lawyer to handle, not the wife or kid. Why not? 21If thine enemy be hungry, give him bread to eat; and if he be thirsty, give him water to drink: 22For in doing so thou shalt heap coals of fire upon his head, and the LORD shall reward thee. 23The north wind driveth away rain: so doth an angry countenance a backbiting tongue. 24It is better to dwell in the corner of the housetop, than with a contentious woman…
/r/askMRP26/06/18 12:37 AM
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What makes men do this Lack of abundance mentality.
/r/askMRP26/06/18 12:31 AM
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You can use it to enhance your bad boy cred or you can whine about it. Having this on your record probably raises your SMV. According to Heartiste, a criminal record is a full point on the SMV scale and surely you did not plead guilty so there is nothing on your "record." She got a PPO. So what?
/r/askMRP26/06/18 12:30 AM
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I'm specifically wanting to know how much to interact with the woman. As little as possible. If she texts you respond with as few words as possible. If she calls let it go to voice mail and text her. If she asks a stupid question as in your original post you can ignore or answer it briefly. Your choice. The important thing is for you to stop caring how much you interact with this woman because you need to be busy interacting with people that you like and who appreciate you. This person does not …
/r/askMRP26/06/18 12:22 AM
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I wonder if this is an outlier side effect of Me Too? I am really sorry for you man.That is one of the more messed up stories I have ever heard. The million dollar question is were there marks on her ass when the po po showed up hours later?
/r/askMRP26/06/18 12:18 AM
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I definitely went Rambo Oh good gravy not another MRP divorce story. Why do they always include..."I went Rambo but...." I wouldn't engage, at least not emotionally like I had in the past. So you checked out. This is not going to be good. our marriage couldn't handle the dramatic change I introduced and she lost her mind, at least temporarily. They do that. Going Rambo is like crashing a plane. You have plenty of time to pull up but I think some guys get that 0 G negative thing and lose consciou…
/r/askMRP26/06/18 12:13 AM
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I personally think this is the answer.
/r/askMRP26/06/18 12:01 AM
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lick his jizz out of her pussy too I wouldn't go that far but the truth is all this could have been avoided if he had taken the time to examine her box.
/r/askMRP26/06/18 12:00 AM
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A dozen unanswered texts and calls My initial reaction is a single word: Done WTF do I do? Do I numb myself and believe that she didn't fuck him and just messed up majorly? Accept that she probably blew the dude with recognition that I drove her there? Do I see if this incident is leverage to build the life I hoped for and pull the cord if it's not? Straight up divorce? I don't know what you should do but I do know what you should NOT do. DO NOT listen to somebody on the internet who doesn't kno…
/r/askMRP25/06/18 11:55 PM
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As a Relationship Coach I turn down people all the time if it is not a good fit. You can only work with a certain number of people a day and why would you waste your valuable time on people who don't want to work? For a couple extra Sheckels? Lame.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/18 08:12 PM
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Those numbers are for ONS. For plates my understanding is it changes back in favor of the man. Therefore it seems a viable strategy for a high value, top 20% guy who gets Red pilled while married and realizes his wife is a slut, would be to open it, expect nothing from her except a hole, and keep a harem of girlfriends and fuckbuddies. I am not advocating cuckoldry, just exploring all our options.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/18 07:59 PM
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I haven’t owned my shit and been the Captain from a support standpoint. You not only haven't owned your shit, you haven't done shit about being a poor support person. You want to break the impasse? It may be as simple as starting right there. Probably not, but maybe.
/r/askMRP22/06/18 07:51 PM
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One month right now So we are at an impasse are we? I wonder who is going to make the first move and whether it will be towards reconcilliation or divorce. A marriage this short turning sexless has an extremely grim outcome and it is also relatively rare. Are you sure she is not getting some on the side? Have you checked? This woman is behaving like a cheating whore (pulling away, crying during a hug, "whining this will never work" and suddenly denying sex are all clues and warning signs of chea…
/r/askMRP22/06/18 07:48 PM
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you’re saying, like other have, the side bar/books/lifting is really key to any marriage? The sidebar books and readings balance the Beta Husband who wants to be more Alpha very well but is less helpful for the IDGAF Alpha (or Sperg) especially if he already has a girlfriend in addition to a wife. For that you need "Bitch Control and management" from the TRP sidebar and usually a not always healthy dose of psychopathy/lack of empathy. Lifting and staying fit is definitely one of the keys to any …
/r/askMRP22/06/18 07:41 PM
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They are not programmed to accept responsibility. True, but we are.
/r/askMRP22/06/18 07:37 PM
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I’m ready to move on and become the person I was before we were married that was more selfish and goal orientated. Great! You can be that while married or after you are done being married. Your choice. You say you want to "try" because of your vows and I think that is great. Then maybe you need to try and stop watching the clock? This process takes at least a year and there are few shortcuts that are in your control. Sure you can juice and take your T Shots and build muscle quicker but you still…
/r/askMRP22/06/18 07:35 PM
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I don’t know why I find it so hard in the heat of the moment. Because you get "flooded" and the fight or flight reflex prevents you from thinking clearly. If you can remain calm and control your physiological and emotional responses you can begin thinking rationally in the moment. This is what Heartiste means when they teach us that "when you have control over yourself you will have control over her." This is what we mean by STFU and DNGAF and Agree and Amplify, and a lot of the rest. Read the s…
/r/askMRP22/06/18 07:24 PM
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We see it all the time. This is a woman fighting to maintain control over her Beta. You forgot to tell us about her lists. not giving a fuck isn’t good The idea of NGAF is to NGAF about your wife's bad and manipulative behaviors. Yes, you actually are supposed to GAF about your wife and the relationship. Otherwise WTF is the point? Just get divorced and spin plates.
/r/askMRP22/06/18 07:18 PM
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Is this bitch crazy ? Or am I Nobody is crazy but both of you are talking in your gender specific languages so the connection is definitely crazy.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 04:26 PM
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They seem to have a hard time “being second” You are dating WOMEN on the side, right? She says you want me just as some toy. She sounds like an insightful girl. What could be the problem? Is there a better way to handle this Yes. Stop treating your side pieces like fuck receptacles and cum dumpsters and try treating them like real human beings. Women will gladly share an Alpha so long as they feel they have a shot at something "more." Your approach completely takes that away from your side piece…
/r/askMRP21/06/18 04:23 PM
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The old marriage is dead. The point of MRP is to create a new marriage that is much, much better than the dead old one.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 04:16 PM
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Love the analogy. Good work. The Freshmen always get hazed by the older guys as well. They often leave the locker room in a huff but the guys who stay are the guys we can work with and who post around 4-5 months in about how MRP and RP actually works. Stick around. It is just about to get good and this was just a minor setback.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 04:15 PM
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duty sex. No desire. Nothing. I DEERed like a weak mother fucker That's not DEER-ing! That's ok. I'm going to go finish Laundry That is DEER-ing! what's the best approach now Get out of your head and stop worrying. By definition, 50% of sex is in the bottom half of your experiences. If you try something new it is a much greater chance that it will be in the bottom half. Same answer if you haven't done anything for 3 months. pussy hero You don't have to go for the high score but a bit of lubing u…
/r/askMRP21/06/18 04:09 PM
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Fiance is on the rag last week and into this week. Been initiating and either AA or AM when I get shot down. Broh, your FIANCE is turning you down. Before the wedding. There are not enough Red Flags in all of Moscow and Beijing for that. You are having transactional sex with a person you did not even marry. Nobody knows how that will turn out but we can promise this: Whatever sex you are getting now you can cut it by about 90% after the vows. Whatever games and control power she is playing now w…
/r/askMRP20/06/18 04:51 PM
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So many men I see in the wild are just giant weeping pussies. I can't stand it sometimes. Sometimes I have to take deep breaths to keep my heart rate under control when I read them. So many guys deliberately make trouble for themselves and they accomplish nothing but spin their wheels. It is like they discover the Red Pill and realize all the Shit Tets they have put up with so they go 100% the opposite direction. I am the man and I will never put up with backtalk from a woman again. Umm...yes yo…
/r/askMRP20/06/18 04:44 PM
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That is interesting because I had a couple of questions myself: Why didn't you tell your wife? Were you ever going to tell your wife? This is beyond avoiding validation seeking. You are deliberately hiding good news from your wife. Why?
/r/askMRP20/06/18 04:36 PM
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how is your thought any different from: What is mommy gonna say about how I handled this issue A fair point except we aint your momma. Men have a different way of doing things and it is a useful model. New guys often whine about how we are "mean" but this is what men do. Iron sharpens iron. I don't think it is out of line to draw an archetype and imagine how 'he' would react. Men used to have fathers, uncles, and brothers to emulate but not so these days. Besides, I wanted to make it a meme: WWM…
/r/askMRP19/06/18 08:17 PM
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It is a not uncommon side effect of taking the Red Pill. Take the women off the pedestal. Stop worshiping vagina. Stop craving vagina so much. Hey wait! What happened to my sex drive? It will last as long as you let it last. What do you need to do to improve your sex drive? More importantly, do you want to? Is that still important to you?
/r/askMRP19/06/18 08:11 PM
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STFU doesn’t mean withdraw and be a faggot. Another man sees the light! We are going to get all of them sooner or later. I fucked up bad with the Rambo and now I don’t know what to do. Yes you do. Back off the Rambo and start identifying those Comfort Tests from the Shit Tests. Then react appropriately. I think this might be my main area of work in my Relationship coaching practice. Start by reading my posts on The 4 horsemen and Building an Emotional Connection with your wife. Then start offeri…
/r/askMRP18/06/18 05:43 PM
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You are describing 90% of girls who are trying to slip a knot over their man's testicles. Sexually receptive. No shit tests. Accepts your lead. Yep, this is how almost all of them behave....before you say the vows. Read this post and then 18 months after the wedding or 2 months into her first pregnancy, whichever comes first, tell us how it is all the same. That would be an extremely rare marriage success story.
/r/askMRP18/06/18 05:32 PM
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Do you think OP gets the joke? I don't think he does.
/r/askMRP18/06/18 05:18 PM
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Reddit shit the bed with this new design. All of the carefully created sidebar formats were wiped out. You can get it back by going with the "Old Reddit" design.
/r/askMRP18/06/18 05:16 PM
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You should have gone to the restaurant by yourself- or invited your potential plate. Why do so many women have babies and then decide the husband is no longer useful? It is like she got your sperm now you can go fuck off.
/r/askMRP18/06/18 05:15 PM
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askMRP is for the new guys who are struggling. When they improve they advance to MRP and post the success story there, often on the Owning Your Shit weekly thread.
/r/askMRP18/06/18 05:11 PM
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hell i like you, you can come to my house and fuck my sister.
/r/askMRP18/06/18 05:09 PM
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A++!!! Unfortunately the anxiety is also there. He needs to get rid of the anxiety and his responses will be crisp and perfect. This is what we mean by "building frame."
/r/askMRP18/06/18 05:04 PM
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I saw a youtube PUA video that featured a super hot girl Shit testing and then pausing so you could practice. For example, super hotty would look in the camera and scowl: "I have a boyfriend" or "Are you a player?" Somebody should do this for MRP and wife shit tests! "Am I just a sex object to you?" "Why do you always want to have sex?" "Get up and get me a glass of water."
/r/askMRP18/06/18 05:00 PM
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You last sentence reveals the problem. This is not a "Main Event" or a relationship ending crisis just before she accepts your frame. This is yet another argument and yet another guy who is terrified of upsetting his wife. She going psycho. Not violent, just loopy. Yes, they do that and despite what the boys tell you here, going full autistic STFU is not always the best solution. Try a different approach. Offer comfort! Take her in your arms and reassure her that it is fine. Tell her I have got …
/r/askMRP18/06/18 04:52 PM
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I was going to say this. The FO is excited about something and has a dream. Why would you be a wet blanket and put out that fire? Obviously if the kid loves BBall and is good at it encourage him! If he doesn't, then dad and son need to talk to mom and have her cool her jets.
/r/askMRP18/06/18 04:42 PM
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More of an AskMRP report but this is a common Red Pill awakening moment. Is my life better when I am not catering to her every whim and am focusing on myself? Finally facing this question is what forces that last contraction that dumps the Red Pill past the esophageal sphincter and into the stomach.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/18 03:53 AM
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Talk about a pressure flip! LOL! she seemed totally vanilla through-out most of our marriage Yes, they do that and many guys discover the freak on right about the time they discover the Red Pill and Alpha up. I wonder if there could be a connection? (My sources say "yes"). How would you feel if your wife said she wanted to use a leash in the bedroom? I think we both know where this is headed. You worshipping her feet, drinking her bath water and getting pounded and milked by her 11 inch big blac…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/18 01:53 AM
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You are right about the email being somewhat cringeworthy. I read it that you said all this to her. I don't think it is completely cringeworthy, however. You set a line in the sand and all depends on you defending that line in the future. How you conveyed it is not as important as maintaining. I do want to comment on another thing the wife said to you. "I don't want to have sex every day." A lot of guys interpret this to mean she would screw Brad Pitt every day but not you so all you need to do …
/r/askMRP13/06/18 04:14 PM
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If the stomach is bigger than his chest height doesn't matter but once you get there, height does make an aesthetic difference.
/r/askMRP13/06/18 03:25 AM
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comfort testing The crying and sobbing might have been a clue to those my friend. Why can I read your wife over the internet from a second hand half baked story better than you can in person?
/r/askMRP13/06/18 03:23 AM
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I’m still fat So. That can be fixed. shouldn’t be using her behavior or sexual frequency as my measure of success in my journey Right, and now you now why. I’ve had kids hanging on me all day, I don’t need another needy kid grabbing at me. I can feel the butthurt but she has a point. Do you? After dinner, I completely withdrew my attention Why? What kind of sick games are you playing? Is this a troll? What is the point of "withdrawing attention" after you fail a shit test? I don't get it. I don'…
/r/askMRP13/06/18 03:18 AM
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The moment I realize she's just not going to be into it, I'm done, even though mentally I want to keep going. Once you have the physical under control, and while you are getting it under control, your biggest gains will be from changing your mindset. Start thinking more that she is your lover. Stop caring so much about her immediate reaction. Go for it with complete, 100% gusto and she will be into it and your wee willie wonka will be as well. You are letting her control you and possibly passive…
/r/askMRP13/06/18 03:03 AM
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My issue is not a DB or sexually related. This is important and largely rules out the use of advanced Dread Game. The answer in 80% of these cases is better leadership and in 20% the solution is actually counter-intuitive to what MRP normally suggests to deal with a Dead Bedroom situation. That is, if the wife is not playing the sexual denial game, then the solution might be to lighten up and to show her more affection and kindness, especially after sex. things are getting worse. I've have not h…
/r/askMRP08/06/18 04:02 PM
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so something changed in her feels. You mean a guy found the Red Pill, is implementing a plan to become more "Alpha" and it changed his wife's feels? No way! Some guys don't get a reaction from the wife even after they file for divorce. Some guys get an early reaction like you. You have been blessed and you are free to shit on this blessing or run with it. I would choose the latter but that might be to easy.
/r/askMRP08/06/18 03:51 PM
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How would fogging or AA helped me find a solution to this issue? It is good practice. If you can't do it on the internet to a random stranger then you certainly can't do it with your wife.
/r/askMRP08/06/18 03:47 PM
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I don’t think it’s unfair for a Captain to dictate how his ship is cleaned and cared for. I think it is terribly unfair to you and to your FO. Imagine Jean Luc Picard. He says: "Get the ship underway Number One" or "Take us to XYZ Planet." He doesn't say "Number One, Order the Engineer to begin feeding dilithium into the reactor....now order the navigator to plot a course....now power up the engines....now bring the ship up to Warp 5..... The Captain sets the overall direction and mission, but h…
/r/askMRP08/06/18 03:46 PM
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she felt that my behavior has changed lately, and that it seems like I have been micro-managing her more. Part of being a good leader is letting your subordinates do their job without you micro-managing them. Your wife is your First Officer. She should be a competent, strong, independent, Commander in her own right. She is not a plebe and she is not a Crewmen First Class. She is a commander. She manages the crew, assists the Captain, and keeps the boat operational. I don't think you should tell …
/r/askMRP08/06/18 03:42 PM
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If only that worked! MRP smoothies could cure all that ails you.
/r/askMRP08/06/18 03:36 PM
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When you reread them with Red Pill insight it is much more likely they will click for you. Without understanding the ways of men and women those books almost read like a word salad of random phenomes. However, when you do begin understanding female psychology and swallowing the pill these books will light up your brain like a child's face on Christmas morning. Read them in order. I hear they worked very hard over many, many years to develop the syllabus for the Married Red Pill course. The books…
/r/askMRP08/06/18 03:35 PM
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A moral statement would criticize you for trying to cheat on your wife. We are criticizing you for your incongruity. It is not a "moral" position to say you should give more fucks for your wife than for a pretty stranger. I even told you how to fulfill your cheating heart more easily and it can't get much more "amoral" than that my friend.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 06:07 PM
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My advice as a coach presumes that you are a thinking, rational, non-autistic human being who can handle the fallout from all of this and I have to say your initial response is not overly encouraging on the autistic criteria. Why do you want to "research" shared meaning? Go out there and create it. You can't plan it very well, it is shared experience in life. Are you sharing life experiences when you "research shared meaning." I am saying to be a leader. Plan activities. Live an awesome life wit…
/r/askMRP05/06/18 03:38 AM
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Divorce lowers T by quite a bit. It's not just that they rip your heart out through your wallet as Robin Williams said. They hook your balls to your wallet and then rip it out of your chest.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 02:25 AM
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Go to Thailand, rent a motorcycle, and go on a whorehouse tour.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 02:09 AM
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This effect is well known and discussed on r/MGTOW and other sites. I have not seen it discussed on MRP. All I want to do right now is buy a motorcycle and go on a long, long ride. There you go! What is the problem? Get your motorcycle and take off for a week. Or two. You have our permission. Maybe you could rent it for the trip and decide later whether to buy it? Let me guess that your ex-wife is the one who put it in your head that this is "juvenile." Why are you still listening to your ex-wif…
/r/askMRP05/06/18 02:07 AM
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What did I do wrong You are willing to cheat on your wife but not lie to a stranger about your marital status is where I think you went wrong in securing this particular bang.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 02:02 AM
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where this dudebro's line in the sand is. I would bet SSS would kick his woman to the curb if she tried to go on a 1 week GNO trip to Europe. So would I and so would most men. That is some fucked up shit right there. Why do you care about the dudebro's line? The question is: What is your line in the sand?
/r/askMRP04/06/18 02:38 AM
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>because you haven’t been showing me any attention. I want attention. Using the truth as a shit test is quite devious. I would have congratulated her. This is graduate level shit testing right there. >Is this fixed by showing her more attention If it was the truth she told you then yes. You will know immediately so why not try it? Have you considered whether you might be on the spectrum? She wants you to game, seduce, and fuck her. I don't see the problem.
/r/askMRP04/06/18 02:26 AM
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course this just turns into pointless fighting. Whoo, you are going to get roasted. So many principles violated in so few syllables. -don't fight with women -failure to own shit role for allowing and participating in the fighting -wants to change partners behavior rather than his own -overconcerned with what she thinks/does Any suggestions here Yes, when you improve, sometimes the partner refuses to go along and you realize just how low value she is until just about the point you are ready to le…
/r/askMRP04/06/18 02:19 AM
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just had to pay her some attention and she would reciprocate touch and we were off to the races. Kino and Seduction. It's not just for right before sex. Initiation is completely individual to the relationship that you have allowed to develop. Some couples light a lava lamp. Seriously. Some actually talk and say things at the right time such as: "I plan on fucking you when we get home." Most guys just whine and cry until she gives him his twice monthly starfish. Initiation is what Gottman would c…
/r/askMRP04/06/18 01:59 AM
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clicks and pops With new Clicks and Pops, especially in the shoulder and especially if they "hurt" it is NOT the best approach to double down and build up the shoulders. The shoulder joint is ridiculously complicated and a lot can go wrong. I would lay off the shoulders for a couple of weeks at least until the pain/pops disappears and then work my way into it. If the pain recurs you should get a check with your family doctor. A couple things to consider are: Is the pain constant? Or is it painfu…
/r/askMRP02/06/18 04:37 AM
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>She's not amused. Right now. That can change. Your frame is righteous. Is it solid?
/r/askMRP02/06/18 04:06 AM
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More gay than the typical poster? Possibly. But don't forget we have 10-20 times as many lurkers as posters. That means no matter what he wrote he is way above average and likely in the top 20%.
/r/askMRP02/06/18 04:03 AM
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I thought there was a military rule that it doesn't count as cheating if you are on a different continent? I really don't have the answer for you guys who are deployed for months at a time. It binds me up just to think of it. How the Hell does it even work? How can it work? /u/rian_stone will have more insight but he will probabl just call you a faggot.
/r/askMRP02/06/18 02:36 AM
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>It does not fade. Yes it does, but not until you are past 50, and that only takes the edge off.
/r/askMRP02/06/18 02:32 AM
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>Isn't the temptation to "trade in" for a newer model constant? Yes. Luckily (for women) men have honor and tend to work to keep their commitments. If only we had Hall Passes forever would not even be so long.
/r/askMRP02/06/18 02:31 AM
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>what do you guys do to 'caffeinate the hamster I have been married 25 years so I know things about my wife that will set her off. I also know things that will make her clench her jaw and count slowly to 10. Sometimes I help her count. I don't know your wife so have no idea what sets her off. I am sorry to have to state this out loud but usually it is best to avoid the really sensitive areas like miscarriages, dead babies, dead parents, and long lost beloved pets- but the rest is fair game. I ev…
/r/askMRP31/05/18 07:33 PM
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This happens all the time. Your frame is the "you" at your best. Therefore, when you are sick or injured this is when your frame is weakest- and often when she tests the hardest. Your "lost ground" can be regained much more easily the second time than the first time. intentionally provoked shit tests Of course! It can be great fun so long as it stays fun (for you).
/r/askMRP31/05/18 07:28 PM
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If she is the Captain it is time for her to be demoted to First Officer. She is free to steer her boat in any direction but YOU NEED TO BE THE ONE STEERING YOUR BOAT. Right now she is running her boat and yours and she is probably tired of it.
/r/askMRP31/05/18 07:10 PM
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I guarantee that is how she feels.
/r/askMRP31/05/18 07:08 PM
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Leaving the house is not something I do often for pleasure. Then it is time to start! Join a club. Take up a martial art. Learn how to parasail. Do something that you have always dreamed of doing and stop relying on your one true love to supply all of your needs. It doesn't work. You have to first be a complete individual.
/r/askMRP31/05/18 07:05 PM
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I either acquiesce and she is happy and thankful, or I refuse still and she is passive aggressive, gives me the silent treatment, and brings up the fact that I denied her that food she wanted for weeks to come. Yes they do that. The important issue is how you respond to it. I am not experience enough in Alpha traits to know when to assert my wants and needs and when to pick my battles You have identified the key issue. You don't know your wants and needs so you don't know when to fight and when …
/r/askMRP31/05/18 07:00 PM
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This is not a good post for MRP. Like the guy said, what is your question? If your question is what I think it is, then only you have the answer. >wife made one plate less leaving out a old but very capable woman that acts out as my sargent on the team, i wanted to stop by and buy one more plate on a restaurant, and wife started to make a big scene and telling me how next time i should cook and organize everything. Ended up telling her to have the food and i'll buy something for myself. This isn…
/r/askMRP31/05/18 06:52 PM
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Welcome to the real world my brother. You describe a truly awful wife with almost no redeeming characteristics. So what on Earth prompted you to marry this person and then make a baby with this person less than 2 years ago? If you want to take responsibility I would start right there. I read a lot about you, and you, and her...her....her...her....her but very little about your daughter. If this wife you have chosen is so awful what the Hell are you doing to protect your daughter from her? You re…
/r/askMRP29/05/18 03:39 PM
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when you grow up a bit Nice try. I am 50 and have been married for more than 25 years. In 5 years you will be the one to wake up and realize that your supplicating "talk to them like people" strategy has got you friend zoned by every woman you ever loved and/or relegated to a deadbedroom marriage with a woman who despises you. You will learn- when you grow up. Right now that process would be relatively painless. You can just take the Red Pill now brother or you can wait until the Family Courts u…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/18 04:55 PM
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that will go away with time. Red Pill explains why. Can you? Hint: It's not pretty.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/18 04:46 PM
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everyone should try to hear ideas that may contradict their own. We get all that from the MSM, every woman we meet, and the rest of the internet. We don't need "equal time" on the Red Pill. The Red Pill IS equal time.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/18 04:45 PM
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Girls and boys are NOT so massively different that you cannot have the same conversation with both. If the goal is to have sex with the women in question then you absolutely cannot have the same conversations with both sexes. This sub is about sexual strategy and until you realize that men and women approach sexual strategy very differently you will have problems. weird idea that women exist for you to try and fuck This is incell language. No thanks. Are you really claiming that women exist for …
/r/TheRedPill26/05/18 04:43 PM
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Gottman calls this 'learning to self soothe.' Some suggestions: Recognize when you are starting to lose it and take control of yourself. Breathe. Count to 10. Meditate Pray Practice Biofeedback (EM Wave Machine) Stop giving a fuck. Picture your wife as a 5 year old little girl whining and complaining. How would you react? Do that.
/r/askMRP24/05/18 04:33 PM
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If you have to ask, you aren't ready to talk about it. This is the best answer.
/r/askMRP24/05/18 04:30 PM
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The most basic Red Pill rule is you don't talk about RAPE with women. -Religion -Abortion -Politics -Economics
/r/askMRP24/05/18 04:26 PM
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I want to remove my attention altogether today and ignore her. This will only work if you are OI and you are not. Because..... I’m butt hurt and pissed... mostly at myself as I’m unable to hold frame. I hate the power she has over me Read this again and again. She only has the power over you that you give her. It is not being denied that is the problem. It is the feeling of being rejected. Guess what? You have total control over your feelings. In fact that is all you control. How do I unfuck thi…
/r/askMRP24/05/18 04:23 PM
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escalate with your actions Guys miss this regularly. Even when the official sub motto is Acta Non Verba they miss this all the time.
/r/askMRP24/05/18 04:22 PM
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Now it is time to "negotiate" the 10 second kiss every day. Do it when you guys are getting along, perhaps after sex. Just tell her you read about a way to improve your marriage in just 10 seconds a day. Can we take 10 seconds every day to improve our marriage? Of course she will say 'yes' (if she doesn't you have bigger problems). Then you just show her and kiss her for 10 seconds. Swap spit. Taste her. Do it every day. Don't use it to initiate sex, but it has been known to happen. the best tim…
/r/askMRP24/05/18 04:15 PM
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i find thinking about my dick in her mouth lightens my mood That would definitely be putting the "Red Pill" in "coaching." Let me work on that. On assuming good intentions: don't assume that. little fucks are devious and often do not have good intentions. Marriage Counselor's give this advice of assuming good intentions to avoid and limit "flooding" (i.e. one or both parties getting pissed and starting a freak out). I still think it is good tactical advice- in the moment to maintain your attitud…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/18 09:04 PM
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When you have a stoic frame, it's actually saddening to see the hurt from daily confusion. I have so much empathy for them Writing more on this is a very good idea! However I get a headache channeling Hamtereeze for longer than a few minutes at a time. When I do make the effort, it seems to greatly improve how I feel about my wife and women in general. However, it feels like approaching an Event Horizon when I contemplate just how deep the hamster hole actually could be. That's right guys- it's …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/18 08:50 PM
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It is a very potent power but this is also often where the Ramboes screw it up. They discover the power of "no" and then they keep using it even when they shouldn't. "No" works, especially at first because it is you establishing dominance and relieving her of having to make the decision. When "No" becomes a long term power play and/or is used arbitrarily and unfairly it becomes a problem for the guy.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/18 08:40 PM
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I have nothing but respect for any guy willing to show his mug in real time.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/18 08:37 PM
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You called it. I still enjoy an occasional venison dish but draw a hard line at eating crow.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/18 08:35 PM
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epitomizing congruence No, but it does epitomize positive change even if you assume the rumors.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 04:38 PM
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He's much akin to the teacher who has never held a position outside of academia I coach men in marriage and have been married for 25 years. I am more like the professional who fixed his issues and then went back to school to learn how to help other men fix themselves. I combine the practicals of marriage from both blue pill marriage counseling and Red Pill praxeology in ways nobody else has ever done.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 04:36 PM
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pink dumbbells My 60 pound dumbbells are at the gym and they are black. What is your maximum bench buddy? I can still put up 300 pounds at 50 years of age, after 25 years of marriage, 3 kids, 7 dogs, and way past my prime. Those dumbbells I lift are 60 pounds in each hand 3 X 10. Previously I did 5 X 5 using 90 pound dumbbells but plateaued so I switched my program. Tell me about your successes in long term marriage and your maximum bench and maybe we can have a conversation. I have never claime…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 04:30 PM
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You might look this good at 50 but I doubt it pal. Life happens.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 02:25 AM
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the standard RP move would be to remove attention due to unnecessary drama but that would almost certainly exacerbate the scenario. Exactly! I tackled this issue in my post just 5 minutes ago.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/18 07:31 PM
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You have identified the root of his problem. He is getting "flooded" when his wife disagrees or shit tests him. When guys say fix yourself first that is what they mean. When you have control of yourself, you will have control over her.
/r/askMRP21/05/18 06:33 PM
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My wife claims I was flirting with her, which is fucking ridiculous. I kept saying I wasn't while she claimed I was. Finally she said, "Maybe because you don't know what flirting is is the reason you never got any action in high school." Your wife WANTED you to be flirting with her. She WANTED to feel that her man is a strong, confident man with options but that he chooses to be with her. She doesn't want a thirsty, desperate man who is only staying with her because no other man would have her. …
/r/askMRP21/05/18 06:26 PM
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A woman is using your children against you to gain power in a relationship? Who ever heard of such a thing? I thought women were all about the chillen.
/r/askMRP21/05/18 05:14 PM
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She is not an ally but an enemy. If he forgets it even for a second she will use her power to destroy him.
/r/askMRP21/05/18 05:03 PM
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Any tips? Yes, stay away from the ex-wife. Do Not permit yourself to be alone with her for even a second. Record all your transactions. Don't forget for a second that she is the enemy and that she can and will use the big dicked White knights with batons and guns to enforce her will once she figures out she can't seduce you and ruin your current marriage. Don't forget that is her goal in moving back. She is the enemy. Plan accordingly. That said Do Not let the ex wife know. Play along. Smile. En…
/r/askMRP21/05/18 05:00 PM
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When I ask him to take on tasks with our children, such as bedtime or supervising homework, it generally devolves into screaming matches between him and the kids. So she orders her husband to "help" with the kids but then micromanages, intervenes, overrules, and countermands everything he does. I think I have found the problem with their relationship. It is not just that he won't "step up." It is that every time he tries to "step up" she beats him down and shit tests him into oblivion. Being a b…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/18 04:07 PM
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We are still working on that one because the concept has only been talked about a few times. It looks to me like every response and every relationship is different when she starts to do this. One common theme is that it requires leadership and an iron frame. "shitty comfort tests" what do these look like When she is bitching and whining and complaining and pushing all your known buttons but is subconsciously trying to get you to hold her and reassure her that it is going to be fine. I think you …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/18 09:33 PM
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You shouldn't but it is the vast majority of marriages today.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/18 04:07 PM
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No, the "comfort" is from failed Comfort Tests when a guy goes "Rambo." It is dismissing her cries for comfort and reassurance that creates the distance and drives her away. The problem is many women respond to increased "Alpha" not with classic "comfort tests" but with atypical "shitty comfort tests" (that is, comfort tests wrapped deep inside a rude shit test and surrounded by shit that she wants you to dig through so she can laugh and be reassured by her power to affect you). I see a lot of g…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/18 04:05 PM
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any reason If the woman wants a weak, compliant Beta to boss around, then improving your value can cause her to abandon ship although this is quite rare if you manage the comfort tests.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/18 04:19 PM
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If you have a classic "bottom" and a classic "top" who are attracted to one another because of the male-female energy polarization then the answer is YES! The basic Red Pill strategy is to polarize the male/female energy to enhance attraction. However, it is a rare (male) homosexual relationship that is a /r/deadbedrooms scenario so there is often no need to "charge" or "polarize" the yin and yang of sexuality. Gay guys just do it and studies suggest that gay females don't do it much at all. So …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/18 04:18 PM
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The only time it doesn't "work" is: If the relationship is so far gone not even Dr. Frankenstein could revive it; or, If the man goes Rambo and drives away the woman either because she wants an optionless Beta to boss around or because he scares her so much that she shuts down (and then she will usually desperately try to "fix it" and it "fails" only if he responds to this meta comfort test with IDGAF and doubling down on rubbing it in her face that he has "options;" or, If the man improves, bec…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/18 04:10 PM
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Human nature has not changed but society has changed. The incentives for Grandma to love, respect, and stay faithful to Grandpa have been taken away completely. In fact society encourages "feeemale indepence" and you go girl-isms, and a husband is "not entitled" to sex with his wife. Society at the time encouraged Grandma to be faithful, respectful, and sexualy available to her husband. Red Pill, unlike current society, takes into account BOTH female and male nature. Society only considers bad m…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/18 04:02 PM
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Modes of persuasion is a coaching concept covered in one or more of my classes but I think they might have stolen it from somebody with an ancient Greek accent: http://pathosethoslogos.com/ Once a practice is established, most coaching clients come from existing and past clients (Ethos) and the rest come from feeling an 'emotional connection' and rapport with the coach (Pathos). Few come for logical or rational reasons (Logos). However, Logos is the reason people remain clients and they end up r…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/18 07:44 PM
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Everything in Wayne County is electronically filed and the Imgur image was the only "court stamped copy" from the e-file system I could figure out how to retrieve. The Case number is: 18-005094-CZ and assigned to the Honorable Patricia Fresard. She is a tough, no nonsense judge, and very, very smart and reasonable. I am confident she will give my Complaint a fair hearing. I worked for a law firm last year and frankly I appeared before her many times, often handling what I can only charitably cal…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/18 07:27 PM
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it’s NOT a perfunctory function. Never been married I see. Most of the time it is not even perfunctory but merely another item to cross off of her ever growing list.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/18 02:37 AM
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I appreciate this input and will add it (or delete it) in the First Amended Complaint when I get around to drafting it.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/18 05:53 PM
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I assumed it would stay that way. But if you're a pussy long enough, it doesn't. I think that is the Red Pill. Welcome to the real world brother. She didn't take back up with her buddy I would check to see if her buddy is in a relationship. This could mean she really does want to "work" on the marriage. Or it could mean her buddy doesn't want her any more. I will probably catch holy Hell for saying this but I sympathize with your wife. She is a horndog who wants it "every day" and is with a self…
/r/askMRP12/05/18 05:28 PM
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They said no thanks.
/r/askMRP11/05/18 03:08 PM
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The Blue Pill often finds fertile ground in Ask MRP but not so much over on MRP. I find that interesting and very telling of our methods. New guys make mistakes. We all did it. Except Rian and Weak and Sensitive of course.
/r/askMRP11/05/18 02:16 PM
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I plan on making a little fun about her new boyfriend This can work if it comes from a place of teasing fun. If it comes from a place of butthurt this is extremely unatractive.
/r/askMRP11/05/18 02:13 PM
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Should I lay down a deadline for her to get a job that pays a decent wage and start paying the bills or should I just keep working my MAP and wait? How would you enforce such a boundary? I want to sit her down and tell her that what she did was inappropriate, that my wife does not give gifts (especially when those gifts belong to me) to other males that she knows only for a few months. Why do guys always want to talk and talk and make a big scene and an argument? Can't you mention it while you a…
/r/askMRP11/05/18 02:11 PM
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I have to bet you would rather be putting your energy into do what you do best, helping Men and Women You would win that bet. I thought I had put the practice of law into the rear view mirror but it always seems to be in front of me when I look ahead.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/18 03:34 PM
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Awesome! Thanks, I will modify it for the TRP audience.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/18 03:30 PM
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overhead press there bitch Not long ago I carried her upstairs in my arms. I could probably clean and jerk her. BPP We were recommended contacts on linked in because of the JD, PHD. Turns out there are many thousands of people with both a Law Degree and a Doctorate in the U.S.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/18 10:14 PM
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RPS already offered his full support but I really don't know how to use it or what it actually means. There are at least 2 MRP mods who are also TRP mods so if they want to post it over there or have instructions and/or advice for me how I could get it posted on TRP I am always open ears. I am thinking I need to crosspost it on the MRA Reddit.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/18 10:06 PM
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there is quite a jump in logic from item 20 to item 21 on his complaint. Indeed, and that is the purpose of discovery. I wonder exactly what there procedures are with advertising on Reddit? Who is on the committees? Who makes the decision? What process was followed in this case? Why was it denied? So many questions.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/18 10:04 PM
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Of course. --60 pound dumbbells 3 x 10 bench. --110 overhead (military) press 3 X 10, --2 back machines, --Supported pullups 3 X 10 and ---3 X 10 rollers (abs) is a typical workout. Not great and I could work a lot harder, I know. I can put up well over 400 pounds with leg press but usually do a minimal cardio instead like 5-10 minutes of the stair climber or 30 minutes of biking. Muscle is not my problem, BMI and endurance is my problem.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/18 09:58 PM
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Because they did not want to do business with a man who coaches other men and/or because of my name and association with Red Pill. Either is a bad reason, not a good reason and they are not allowed to do it.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/18 09:51 PM
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I think the Overton Window has cracked open. Once 10% of the population is convinced of something, it is inevitable that the entire society will become convinced. Besides, people did talk about fight club and that is how it grew so fast. I agree you don't preach to your friends or family about Red Pill. For me Red Pill is a coaching paradigm that helps me help Clients understand, appreciate, and to a limited extent control, the behavior of their wives.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/18 08:31 PM
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Thank you! My best guess is that this is the last time I will be able to talk about it because of the confidentiality agreement :) but who knows? Until we start taking action and fighting back when things like this go down and we are literally discriminated against because we have a penis then we- Red Pill, MRP, and men in general- are going to stay stuck. It is time for men to put down the X-Box controllers and fight. You guys know about that old poem, they came for the trade unionists and I di…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/18 08:25 PM
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We is The Red Pill and Married Red Pill and all the guys who worked to build this body of knowledge for men. I owe everything to Titans like Rollo, Ian Ironwood, and Athol Kay. I'd recommend you avoid this method of advertising in the future. What would you recommend?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/18 07:38 PM
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Thanks, greatly appreciated. It looks like the web server crashed but it is up now.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/18 07:34 PM
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Disagree on the word "complete." We want cooperative and agreeable wives, who are fully functioning humans able to take initiative and even improve our ideas. We are men with women, not incells with mindless sex robots. Well, not all of us anyway. However, a cooperative frame when dealing with a Wife turns into you cooperating with her, and her opposing , nagging, complaining, contempt and ultimately her undermining everything you do. You have to be in charge but if you pull in the reins suddenl…
/r/askMRP07/05/18 03:33 PM
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I like your take on swimming in emotion and leadership. It is like a dance and leadership means you lead BUT absorb and accept input from your partner. It it not much of a dance if you grab her and start throwing her around. Of course when you get into it you may be twirling and sashsying away but you have to lead her energy, not dominate it so much you stifle it. It is like a kiss, you don't grab your partner and suddenly shove your tongue down her throat! You probe with your tongue first and y…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/18 03:25 PM
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It does feel adversarial sometimes but this is how men communicate and interact when they are not closely supervised by women. Many of you are to young to remember the fraternity hazings. We had to play this damn song constantly for 7 days straight and sleep on the floor. They woke us up and kicked the shit out of us, literally and figuratively. Paddled our ass, drank us till we puked and then made us clean the house hung over. The first brother I ever met walked up to me at a party. I was runni…
/r/askMRP06/05/18 09:31 PM
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Great find. Interesting that he got nothing out of the very book that provides the answers to his next issue. It's almost like the moderators and other sidebar contributors actually put some thought into the books and posts that will help married men!
/r/askMRP04/05/18 04:05 PM
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NEEDY AS HELL. It grinds on me pretty bad. The smartest teenager in the house needs an Oak Tree? Who knew? she has a lot going on: job, some small medical stuff, school and of course pregnancy, and she breaks down constantly. She needs sympathy and support, especially during the 3rd trimester. I would go with her to the next preggo appointment and tell the doctor about her crying and fears of being a bad mother. Sounds like she needs help. Are you going to be the man and get it for her or are yo…
/r/askMRP04/05/18 04:02 PM
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I think this is a deliberate and calculated shit test. Beware of failing, or passing. First do you have a pic of this "friend?" If he is Chad then only one thing is certain, your GF has banged this guy and is trying to set it up so she can bang him again. If he is Billy Beta then he is probably an orbiter. If you show jealousy then you become Beta by the transitive property. Second, surely there are other options than a male friend staying in the room with you and the GF? Is there a couch in you…
/r/askMRP04/05/18 03:54 PM
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Could I get her to sign a prenup every single year to ensure that every asset I ever acquire is also belongs to me if we're ever to divorce? No, this will probably not work. Anything acquired during the marriage is joint property in many States and equitably divided in others. Prenups protect property and assets acquired before the marriage. Other States laws may be different than my home state of Michigan, so this is not legal advice. See a lawyer, etc. Should any wealth/assets I ever acquire b…
/r/askMRP04/05/18 03:44 PM
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They will probably hate you until at least the teenage years and frankly, they will probably never recover. You said "I wonder" so now you don't have to wonder. Now you know. This is a no win situation because they will probably still hate you if you tolerate an abusive, cruel wife. Are you sure there is not a middle ground between leaving and filing for divorce and simply refusing to tolerate bad behavior and leaving the room until she stops?
/r/askMRP04/05/18 03:29 PM
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This should be on MRP.
/r/askMRP02/05/18 07:15 PM
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Sigmas are sentient programs? Now it all makes sense.
/r/askMRP02/05/18 07:15 PM
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I recently found my ring after more than 10 years misplaced in a secret drawer to a jewelry box. I can confirm that considerably more women approach me for casual conversation at the gym and elsewhere when I am wearing my ring.
/r/askMRP02/05/18 07:11 PM
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No, this has been suggested many times but this is the advice to low T guys in a DB, no the OP in this thread.
/r/askMRP02/05/18 07:02 PM
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