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/r/askMRP15/10/17 06:52 PM
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I agree on some of your points but the issue is more about deception and lying than about cheating specifically. To give an example without cheating, if someone asks you to do something that you do not want to do do you say "no" or do you say "yes" but then proceed to be sneaky and not do it. E.g. will you take me to the airport tomorrow at 5am. An alpha has no need to be deceptive. He clearly states his values and acts accordingly. If his values are to be deceptive I wouldn't call that alpha bu…
/r/askMRP15/10/17 06:40 PM
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Results are judge
/r/askMRP15/10/17 06:08 PM
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Reality is judge
/r/askMRP15/10/17 06:03 PM
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You don't get what morality is either.
/r/askMRP15/10/17 05:40 PM
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Well there you go. If RP is about results and not truth then there is no conflict. And your strategy is much more respectable IMO. Being sneaky is the least masculine thing you could do.
/r/askMRP15/10/17 04:49 PM
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Guess it could have been in marriedredpill
/r/askMRP15/10/17 04:47 PM
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Married redpill. If you're single then by all means date multiple people. Redpill is about the swallowing the truth. If you're cheating on a spouse then you are living a lie. That is beta. Lying is beta. Redpill = truth Lying =/= truth
/r/askMRP15/10/17 04:39 PM
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I don't either. What's your point?
/r/askMRP15/10/17 04:34 PM
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I generally agree with this. But if the morality you bring is to always say yes to your SO even for unreasonable ultimatums then your morality is not redpill, its bluepill. Likewise if there's any deception, self or otherwise then it is also bluepill. That is, if the redpill is about swallowing the truth.
/r/askMRP15/10/17 04:24 PM
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Red pill is not amoral. It has its own morality. If it were amoral then anything would go, but there are values that govern behavior. If the values include lying then at its core its actually blue pill.
/r/askMRP15/10/17 03:56 PM
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Yup lol. If you spin plates you look like an idiot and you're whole world will eventually come crashing down.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/17 12:17 PM
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The same reason any word exists. To abstract an idea. Spinning plates is not just casual dating. Its a balancing act while in a LTR. https://rationalmale.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/andrew20van20buren20plates.jpeg There's a lot of background material behind every phrase.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 06:14 PM
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Done
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/17 06:01 PM
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https://imgur.com/ccvMf6i
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/17 05:31 PM
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Bad robot
/r/askMRP13/10/17 12:40 AM
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This community is hard on you to keep you on your toes. No need to get butthurt.
/r/askMRP12/10/17 11:15 PM
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Get butthurt
/r/askTRP12/10/17 07:57 PM
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Good bot bleepity bleepity boop
/r/askTRP12/10/17 07:54 PM
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Its best to fully experience the emotion. Fighting emotions will just make them persist. That part of your brain is wanting to be heard so listen to it, fully acknowledge it, then let it go... Let it go not by dismissing the emotion but by observing it. Doing this can allow the feelings to be resolved a lot faster so you can go do something else.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 07:53 PM
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Pseudo science is only bad if an actual science already exists to explain the phenomenon. All of psychology could be considered a pseudo science. But its still useful until neuroscience can pick up the slack. This applies to the red pill especially. If someone posts a scientific study that contradicts red pill ideology it would be down voted to hell. Red pill is a pseudo science. A useful pseudo science.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/17 03:41 PM
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I didn't mean to give the impression that I give a fuck about you personally. I was curious as to what kind of mind pours this much work into this topic. Replying with your myres briggs personality type would actually answer my real curiosity.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/17 03:00 PM
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No one said you were a demagogue.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/17 02:49 PM
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Yes, mrp is more than just a sexual strategy. Hard mode is a different beast.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/17 01:42 PM
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She's protecting her ego. Her emotions flaired up because, well, she wants that too. But acknowledging that would require change and change takes work. So she reasoned that you must be wrong, not her. All of this in a split second.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/17 12:09 PM
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Curious, what do you do to have such a high income.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/17 12:44 AM
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Bad bot
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/17 12:37 AM
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If you are now 168 and you were 10% bf 5 lbs ago that puts you at 12.7% bf now. If I subtracted 25 lbs of fat I'd be at 12% 205lbs. Completely different frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/17 12:31 AM
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Whats your body weight, fat %, and bench now
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/17 11:16 PM
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You're competing with me. That's cute.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/17 09:21 PM
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Lol
/r/askTRP11/10/17 01:57 PM
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If a guy shit tests you he is testing your frame and seeing if he can trust you to lead him. You don't have to have a comeback necessarily. You just have to keep leading keep doing what you're doing and keep inviting him to follow you. A real shit test from a guy isn't the middle school joker, but the guy who challenges your authority.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 01:12 PM
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If a guy shit tests you he is testing your frame and seeing if he can trust you to lead him. You don't have to have a comeback necessarily. You just have to keep leading keep doing what you're doing and keep inviting him to follow you. A real shit test from a guy isn't the middle school joker, but the guy who challenges your authority.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 01:11 PM
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If a guy shit tests you he is testing your frame and seeing if he can trust you to lead him. You don't have to have a comeback necessarily. You just have to keep leading keep doing what you're doing and keep inviting him to follow you. A real shit test from a guy isn't the middle school joker, but the guy who challenges your authority.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 01:11 PM
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Maybe she is into cuckold. Some people are.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 12:34 PM
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Curious, how did you give selflessly but be shown the door? If you were giving a lot of value then they would take advantage of you, not make you leave.
/r/askMRP10/10/17 07:18 PM
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I agree that this is a smart play, and I do play the game this way currently. But as I move up in my career and age it appears my options become limited. I could take a lower paying job of course but if I want to stay at my level then my boss unfortunately has some power over me. My goal is to create my own business. I do have outs.
/r/askMRP10/10/17 07:15 PM
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I heard somewhere that we tend to explore our fears through sexual fantasizes. E.g. if you like public porn you may have social anxiety in crowds. Lesbian porn may be a fear of female domination and anxiety around beautiful women. The idea is that sex is pleasurable and mixing pleasure with your anxiety helps you become more comfortable with the anxiety. If this is true then it doesn't mean your SO wants a LTR with a black dude. It may just mean she sees them as dominate and it gives her a bit a…
/r/askTRP10/10/17 06:36 PM
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How do you know mother fucker?
/r/askMRP10/10/17 05:47 PM
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Not true. Power is real.
/r/askMRP10/10/17 04:25 PM
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I am a top performer but he doesn't seem interested in protecting me which is odd. I am a software engineer and I have written the architecture of several mission critical applications. If I left a ton of shit would not get done for at least a year while they tried to find a replacement. I've wondered if its butthurt on his part for being dependent on me. But, i have everything else I want in a job. Good pay etc. Its not worth leaving over.
/r/askMRP10/10/17 03:40 PM
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Good points. I would naturally want to protect the boss if I felt he had my back. If i don't feel that then I have no incentive to protect him and just STFU.
/r/askMRP10/10/17 03:05 PM
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Sounds like you are wanting to control her responses to you. You can't. You can only control you. By suggesting ending it you are trying to manipulate her. Stop it. Do what the fuck you want to do when you want to do it and don't let her responses effect you. Since this is a LTR post this in askmrp and see what kind of responses you get.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 02:03 PM
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I have considered the "fuck you" money. For my situation it would just be getting out of debt which would allow me the flexibility to take a lower paying job. I am currently at the top of my pay grade for this area. Highest paid in the company for my job description. I am on plan to be out of debt in 24 months. Explain the covert space.
/r/askMRP10/10/17 01:46 PM
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Week 1 Been lifting regularly for a year. Gained tons of strength. Body weight has stayed the same. 230 lbs. Bench max 275lbs. Bodyfat 21% This week starts my 90 day alcohol fast. Too many empty calories. Intermittent fasting. Cardio for lunch. Going to lose some fat and bring that body fat % down. Obviously not much progress since this is week 1. But I am owning my shit. It will get done.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/17 12:29 PM
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is any of this my fault? Yes. Its ALL your fault. You're responsible for both your behavior and whatever bullshit you are willing to put up with. You can only change you and your boundaries. Don't create any shit and don't put up with any shit. This goes for every relationship. Not just your SO. You control who you let in your life. You could be doing everything right except have poor boundaries. But still that is something you need to change. Read "Keep your love on". Its a good book with good …
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/17 12:19 AM
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If he's broke up with you several times already he may not know what he wants and is too weak to break it off permanently. If you break it off it isn't going to give you more power. And even if it does that isn't what you want. Either 1) he wants it to end and you're just doing him a favor 2) it does give you more power and because of that you resent him for being weak. The red pill likes to talk about power and sex but the good bits are when it encourages you to not put up with bullshit and to …
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/17 12:00 AM
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Am male. An ex broke up with me and I was relieved. I was weak and wanted to kill the puppy anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/17 11:51 PM
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At best you're cashing in a short term gain for a long term loss. You're decreasing your value when you do this. If you get handed a big project at work, cry about it and the project is given to someone else, THIS IS NOT A VICTORY. Keep it up and you'll get fired.
/r/askMRP09/10/17 10:32 PM
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To do this would be to do the opposite of what you want. I won't let my dog shit all over my house to prove a point. I'd have a shitty house and the dog is too stupid to get the point. Or perhaps a better analogy. Don't let the 14 year old drive the family vehicle and let him wreck to prove a point. That's dumb.
/r/askMRP09/10/17 10:17 PM
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I would add to not even give a bullshit reason. All that does is give her the opportunity to find faults in the reasoning in an attempt to change OPs mind. Not everything needs a reason. Often its cause emotion, not reason. You simply don't want to. "Why?" There is no why. Its an emotion. "Why the emotion?" I don't know, i'm not a neuroscientist.
/r/askMRP09/10/17 04:36 PM
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Yes on the "continuing" sex. She can say "this is what I have to offer, is it worth your soul?" Lol. I'm making it a priority to not tell my sons or daughters how to live their lives. Its my job to be a leader and show the right path. Its their job to chose their own path. I come from a very manipulative family and I don't want that trend to continue. The conversations in WISNIFG reminds me of my extended family. And your daughter wanting to save herself is a good thing. Women need a different s…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/17 01:50 AM
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Well, it really depends on the type of girl/relationship you are looking for. If you want a hookup then a bar/tinder is the way to go. If you want a LTR then dating your friends sister or your friend's girlfriend's friend is the way to go. For girls, beauty is not in the eye of the beholder or an objective number. Beauty is in the eyes of her friends. If you have a high social rank in comparison to the other potential mates then you win her affection. You can have several groups of friends so yo…
/r/askTRP09/10/17 01:17 AM
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I agree having kids is the main and only PURPOSE in getting married. But the reasons people get married vary. Some good some bad. We hate on women but if it weren't for all the shit tests I wouldn't be here improving myself. If it weren't for women in general.. if men reproduced asexually we would be slugs. Sexual reproduction for all species causes competition and helps the species evolve. The entirety of industrial and modern society and the reason we work our asses off is a by product of buil…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/17 12:57 AM
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Don't worry about her. You can only control your behavior. Right now you are spending your time complaining. Doesn't sound like a wise choice. Get to work. Sidebar --->
/r/askMRP09/10/17 12:29 AM
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You're
/r/askMRP09/10/17 12:21 AM
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Thanks for the share. First time seeing your blog. I'll be reading this for sure. I love finding blogs that have had this much effort put into them over a long period of time. It would be nice if there was a way to sort by popularity. Curious, what kind of work do you do and what other interests do you have besides mrp?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/17 08:25 PM
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There's your answer. Let us know how it goes.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 03:03 PM
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Some as any interaction really. Ask questions to ping their interest. So how long have you two been dating? When did you know you were bi? Have you ever had a threesome? Is that something you would like to try? If you get any negative vibes or ew gross then stop.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 02:58 PM
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she listens to all my problems. STFU. Now. She is not your therapist. The best way to have the abundance mentality is to actually have abundance. Lift. Have a good income. Dress well. These things take years to develop.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 02:27 PM
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This is the question. OP is probably chasing or afraid of losing her. IMO oneitis is just insecurity and the fear of loss because you perceive her as more valuable. And perhaps she does have a higher sex rank. So the solution is to increase your sex rank or find someone of an equal sex rank so you can avoid a manipulative relationship.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 01:58 PM
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This reminds me of myself a bit. Not being in a loving and supportive family as a kid can really mess with your mind. I was under socialized but as an adult I realized I had adhd the whole time. I did't know how to socialize myself. Its typically something that happens naturally regardless of how your parents are. Your saying you can't remember what you ordered or the restaurant sounds like you may have it as well. Go to the doc and see. A combination of low dose adderall and lexapro (ssri) help…
/r/askTRP08/10/17 01:40 PM
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WISNIFG. You're not interested in an argument. She is trying to break your frame. Don't let her.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 03:08 AM
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Lol maybe he really is an autist
/r/askMRP07/10/17 09:06 PM
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He posted it twice? Lmao. He was triggered. I bet he gets all the girls using Game Theory.
/r/askMRP07/10/17 09:05 PM
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If OP has a history of begging for sex and being butthurt about it then yes, asking is a bad idea. Better to work on his frame. But if it works then why not. Works for me. Ill ask "do you want sex tonight" she says "yes" and then we fuck. If she says no then its not brought up again. Its been this way our whole relationship. She has a very practical personality so that may help.
/r/askMRP07/10/17 09:00 PM
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Yup. You won't believe how much body weight exercises can kick your ass until you do them. But it all depends on OPs medical condition. Not being able to get your heart rate up is different from being a quadriplegic.
/r/askMRP07/10/17 08:15 PM
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If a guy is upfront about wanting a sexual relationship then that gives the girl the option to continue or not. Instead of a bait and switch that is cowardly, weak and manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 07:47 PM
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Yes be selfish as in, take care of yourself. Improve yourself and make your self more attractive. Improve your career, hobbies, your lifts. This type of selfishness shouldn't even be called selfish. Its really just thriving and living life. Actual selfishness is to play video games while the wife takes out the garbage and does the dishes. That's the wrong way to be selfish. Taking responsibility for your own health is attractive and not really selfish.
/r/askMRP07/10/17 05:33 PM
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There really isn't any difference. The difference boils down to actually having something women want. Money, status, charm, good looks. To appear to have abundance actually have abundance. If you're not attractive then you probably just come off as aloof or creepy.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 05:12 PM
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Get a vasectomy asap
/r/askTRP07/10/17 05:08 PM
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A book will not get you laid. Women are not computers with secret codes. What you need to get laid is a women, not a book. Find out where they are in whatever culture you are in. Be in a group with guys and girls. Look and be better than most of the guys and you can get one or more of the girls. There are books that help you be the best version of yourself. That is the question you should be asking.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 05:01 PM
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This is what I think of when I hear nice guy. A guy that will bend over backwards for a girl while praying she will reward his friendship with sex. Its a covert contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 04:53 PM
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Often true masculinity gets nothing in return. An alpha father that takes care of the tribe. He is a rock that others lean on. He shows no weakness because once he does the tribe loses faith and anarchy happens; chaos in the search for a true masculine figure they can lean on once again. A selfish masculine figure isn't alpha or beta, they're omega. Outside the tribe.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 03:37 PM
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The flirtation is there. I do have game If you get butthurt for not having sex or not having an emotional connection then she is going to see you as a female, not a male. And she isn't into chicks. It sounds like you are more into her than your mission. Adding T and lifting will help.
/r/askMRP07/10/17 03:05 PM
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What works for me, and every couple is going to be different. My wife doesn't initiate sex. Ever. Even if she wants it really bad. She gives no signals but has made comments about wanting sex after the fact and after taking care of it herself. So initiating sex is all on me. I never get butthurt about no sex but I try to always let her know that I'm into her. It makes her feel good to be wanted and to know that sex is not an obligation. So I do kino, not every day but on a regular basis. Just to…
/r/askMRP07/10/17 02:55 PM
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Yep. That's really what this is. Getting defensive and butthurt over her pointing out that i'm not doing my job. Ego must die. Does everyone start out with an ego problem or are some people blessed without one? I think I rank very low on agreeableness.
/r/askMRP07/10/17 02:41 PM
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Damn. It was a shit test!
/r/askMRP07/10/17 02:38 PM
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Yep. I have been a drunk captian and instead of looking to fix my own leadership i look for fault in my First Mate. That's right on.
/r/askMRP07/10/17 01:00 PM
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So the dirty diaper is not a shit test. Its just something that needs to be done. This is a problem I have to fix in myself. My ego doesn't like being told what to do. But if it needs to be done then I do it.
/r/askMRP07/10/17 12:31 PM
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Reading now. Thanks. Looks like these boil down to 1) shit test - she is asking you to manage her emotions and make her feel better 2) non shit test - stuff needs to get done.
/r/askMRP07/10/17 12:19 PM
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She's feeding the baby and smells a dirty diaper on the toddler. Asks me to change it. I do it because its my job. I see no issue here. If I say no then I'm just being an ass for no reason.
/r/askMRP07/10/17 12:18 PM
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