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[–]man_in_the_worldRed Beret3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Anger is your best diagnostic tool for areas needing self-improvement.
[–]BobbyPeru4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I think you should use this as fuel to negotiate sex.
Make sure your logic is sound though.
[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
By realizing your a bitch?
[–]RedPillPurple6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're
[–]eiue 1 points1 points1 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Wrong sub, bro. Thank you, though!!
[–]SteelSharpensSteelMod / Red Beret9 points10 points11 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Realizing you're a bitch is the first step to enlightenment.
The second step is to stop being a bitch.
[–]RedPillPurple2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Don't worry about her. You can only control your behavior. Right now you are spending your time complaining. Doesn't sound like a wise choice. Get to work.
Sidebar --->
[–]Triadis3 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
The anger is aimed in the wrong direction.
This is your fault.
The trick is never care if your wife is "happy", it's not your job to regulate her emotions.
As always, the only thing you can change is you.
Why does your wife not like you?
Fix that. For you, not for her.
Happy wife, happy life Happy life, happy wife
[–]FlyingSexistPig1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Shut the f*ck up.
Go lift.
No. I'm not joking.
[–]matrixtospartanatLVRed Beret1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago* (9 children) | Copy Link
"Wife texts terrible things about me."
So fucking what?
"That makes me angry at her and not care about making her happy."
FUCKING EXCELLENT!
"How do I turn that into fuel for self improvement instead?"
You... DON'T.
MRP is a little different from other subs and maybe not what you expected.
The only Married part of the Red Pill here is that it's understood you are married or in an LTR.
Otherwise...
MRP doesn't give a fuck about the disrespectful cunt shrew you're married to.
MRP doesn't give a fuck about your marriage relationshit.
MRP doesn't really give a fuck about you, either.
MRP exists primarily as a sexual strategy to fix your deadbedroom and get you laid; ideally by your wife, but if not, a string of hot bodies that will leave you breathless, soft, and ordering supplements to keep up the supply for the demand.
This is where you come in.
Along the way, MRP praxeology will develop your masculinity, turn you into a man, and give your wife something else to text about you.
Sidebar>>>>>>
It can be daunting. If you are serious about it, I'll send you an outline to get started well.
By serious, I mean you are going to commit to 1 hour a day of work, every single day for the next 6 months.
That's boot camp.
Basic training.
180 hours.
Commit to the program or get the fuck out.
We don't fuck around.
We just...fuck
Please do, sir.
[–]matrixtospartanatLVRed Beret12 points13 points14 points 8 years ago* (7 children) | Copy Link
First, watch the movie, The Matrix. I don't give a fuck if you've already seen it 3 times. Watch it right now. 80% of the metaphors here are based on that movie.
Next, as an overview, read this:
https://illimitablemen.com/understanding-the-red-pill/red-pill-constitution/
Before you ever post again anywhere around askMRP or MRP, read this:
https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/4z84w5/posting_quality_guide_for_rmarriedredpill/
Now, go here; find out which drunk Captain you are and WRITE DOWN the prognosis/reading assignments.
https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/2vykau/a_guide_for_beginners_to_mrp/
Next, go here, read it word for fucking word, twice, and use it as a pacing metric;
https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/2lpafb/the_12_step_plan_of_dread_book_excerpt_from_my/
Once a week, go here, and read a new article/book.
https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/wiki/index
Every single time you come to an exercise in your reading, a book, or an article, fucking DO IT.
There is no skipping shit allowed.
You have two primary goals;
Develop your body in the gym.
Develop your mind/frame in the sidebar.
I have posted twice in four months.
I don't expect to see you post for another couple of months unless you have a legitimate fucking question about something you've actually read.
You come in here complaining about her ghosting you on twatfuck while you're out of town and a whole bunch of us will tear you a new asshole.
The mantra is:
LIFT
READ
STFU
LIFT: 3-4 days a week, primary lifts. No fucking talking, no fucking around, BECAUSE YOU HAVE READING TO DO.
READ: aforementioned
STFU: you do not talk about fight club. You do not become an asshole fucking retarded autistic moronic Rambo, go off on the wife, lay down the law, set new boundaries, or other bullshit.
It is business as usual. STFU about your changes. Let them and her acknowledgement of them be natural and organic. You will avoid a lot of shit this way.
EVERYTHING I have just written IS IN the sidebar. I just saved you an hour figuring it out.
Now, welcome to MRP.
We look forward to an awesome FR in MRP in 3 months because this shit is so awesome and you are doing it right.
So...
and...
Get to fucking work.
[–]Triadis3 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Gold, bud.
This should be autocopypasta stickied to the top reply on every noob question that gets posted here.
This is the goddamn step by step roadmap every sad sack motherfucker needs to have tattooed on his dick.
Kudos.
[–]matrixtospartanatLVRed Beret2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Thanks.
I'm working on it now in iPhone Notes.
Tired of typing it out; copy-paste coming soon to a post near you!
[–]Triadis3 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
If you are serious about it, I'll send you an outline to get started well.
Delete delete delete.
He must have been REALLY SERIOUS.
[–]matrixtospartanatLVRed Beret1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
But, why?
Why do so many of them quit?
Is it the work?
[–]BluepillProfessorMod / Red Beret1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It is because they start with the assumption they will win their dream girl oneitis and then realize that it is about being a strong independent man who doesn't need women to complete him. THAT is to much work.
Another reason is you often find /r/thebluepill links (automatically deleted but the mods see them) and I suspect these vulnerable guys are being bombarded with PM's by bloops in a more or less organized campaign. They either pass the shit test or they don't.
[–]screechhaterRed Beret0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Take a couple steps back, what if it that you are doing that is creating this ? It's something and it's you
I agree, just have to accept that women are children.
[–]screechhaterRed Beret-1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Oldest teen in the house, fucker, remember that
[–]bigOlBeta0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think you're already on the right track. The fact that it naturally makes you want to care less is a good thing. Once you realize women's true nature you won't be able to help but care less about them.
Don't get mad at her or give off the impression that you're disappointed. Instead just find something that makes you happy and do that. Carry that happiness with you in the home.
[–]Rian_StoneMod / Red Beret0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
How bout tell her to hit the bricks?
Jesus, fucking faggots
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