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In or just arriving from someone’s nutsack. You happy now.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/04/21 03:01 PM
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Take your upvote, and I hope we don’t have to have this discussion again, for everyone’s sake.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/04/21 02:47 PM
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Idk, can it do a kick flip?
/r/PussyPassDenied23/04/21 02:21 PM
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Talk about an Oxford comma, no pace for all that drama
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 03:04 PM
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Although I was working before CV19 in a provisional capacity while awaiting the results of my first attempt, I had to step back to study further in the struggle to be licensed. I can work in my area of practice but not at the level of my professional degree w/o State/Fed certification, which would be a very significant drop in earnings.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/21 11:06 PM
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Won’t TRT make you a bit unfocused, on account of all that surging, new energy?
/r/TheRedPill09/03/21 11:34 AM
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Someone once said time is like a flat circle. Weak men create hard times, hard times create strong men (you are here), strong men create prosperous societies, prosperous societies create weak men. Rinse and repeat. We simply need to do our part. The rest is in God’s hands.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/21 11:30 AM
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I agree with you and OP. What you said is true. I’ve seen this everyday of my life; both men and women, some free, others not so much. I believe OP is specifically pointing out how that trend is going to explode in terms of size/scale. And to think of it, I’ve seen it playing out already; went to get my doctorate degree about 4 years ago and let me tell you, it’s become like an assembly line. Many schools are accepting more people than the markets are naturally in need of. As a result, State Boa…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/21 11:27 AM
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The way I heard someone describe it was since they couldn’t get the men to stop behaving in certain ways, it began being encouraged in women to also act in those ways. Then it probably became a shouting match basically.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/01/21 05:09 PM
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I like his little top hat.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/20 04:32 PM
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Honest response - If you are considering a LTR, compatibility is a key ingredient to a healthy relationship. Even with regard to short-term relationships, its not something you should disregard. Getting involved with the wrong person can have consequences down the line. Imagine the person who has a ONS with someone, only to find out months or years later they've contracted an STD, or someone who is then falsely accused of a sex crime, or even someone who is being lured into a larger plot for the…
/r/askRPC23/04/20 10:17 PM
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Well, for a good example, lets consider nature: just look at how sharks and dolphins do it. One is an undisputed ravenous predator of the sea, with an undying thirst for blood. The other is a shark. Any self-aggrandizing white-lab-coat scientist would tell you "it cant be," or "thats crazy," etc. Somehow though, despite the odds and science, love finds a way.
/r/askRPC23/04/20 09:10 PM
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My favorite YT channel. Check out the Knight of Cups video.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/19 07:53 PM
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Pain of Discipline: RP Pain of Regret: BP
/r/TheRedPill06/12/19 06:32 PM
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Weak people, like that wife in OPs story, are always looking to drag others down.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/19 04:19 PM
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ScammerRevolts!: How does it feel to be a behnchod? Scammer: Its awkward ....
/r/PussyPassDenied02/12/19 02:10 PM
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The word you’re looking for is “Behnchod,” ... heard some Hindi-English guy use it while connecting online with telemarket scammers and reversing hacking them to erase hundreds of thousands of files of stolen info from their computers.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/11/19 10:44 PM
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I bet it was that French guy.
/r/MensRights01/10/19 02:54 AM
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You should start judging yourself by what you are good at/what you have to offer, and not by what is not within your power to control. Also, realize that progress is rarely lineal. You might move back and forward, repeatedly.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/19 10:28 PM
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Formed one while there, it was the best. Miss those guys. Also, lowkey brag, at the time I was very fit, lots of muscle development and was the oldest/most experienced so things kinda worked out nice.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/19 07:49 PM
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With regard to the living in a "jungle" hypo, can confirm. The first time I went abroad when younger, as the first time I was away from home without someone watching out for me, with food, shelter, support, etc, it was terrifying at first and I was constantly worried about "survival" in terms of getting enough food, "social survival" in terms of friends and finding a "mating partner" (jungle theme, ok), and just living. When I got back home, I was the most insufferable asshole I had ever been, r…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/19 02:58 PM
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Yes and someone still gave gold. Expect more.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/09/19 08:55 PM
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“The public squares have been filled, but the hearts are empty of the God.”
/r/RPChristians25/08/19 05:18 PM
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Think he just wants the money, for whiskey.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/19 06:07 PM
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Frowny face because that’s the expected human reaction, and she still wants to be considered human, not some cold, calculating machine.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/19 05:05 PM
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In other words, own your shit and move on. I’ll say that I understand OP and his POV but in reality the problem is we’re all highly retarded and looking to each other for guidance, hence weaponized autism. No one has exact answers, especially some OP on the internet. He may have his experience but fuck it, it’s better to go out there and live, mistake and successes alike. Live so hard you make a name for yourself, develop a skill, learn a profession, etc. have some balls and build some value.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 10:42 PM
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I don’t think women see it that way. I’d say that more a masculine perspective, building long term legacies and the like. I get the sense many women operate from a solipstic POV because they assume finding/marrying the right guys erases the past. They are more whimsical and open to fairy tales of leaving their current place to a far off (dissociated) place.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 10:27 PM
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If I’m understanding your point correctly, it’s an existential threat to their current way of life, at least to the point where it is currently able to fully maximize pleasure seeking and satisfaction. If the average woman, because of some global consensus by men becoming basement dwelling BB unwilling to sexually chase, had to change that current strategy, they would be at a dopamine loss. That would be unacceptable. #ManUp ... /s
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 10:24 PM
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Let's see how you'll counter these. Do you live in a female frame, or are your balls gone? If others are trying to make it a huge factor, more than it should be, then its because they have an interest, i.e., NBA players are not gonna put down being tall. By that same reasoning, women with nothing to offer will cling/definitely play up that value because they can "attain" it by finding a tall boyfriend. Hating on shorter guys is they're way of taking eyes of them, off their weakness, like the fat…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 03:32 PM
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Pretty sure someone wrote something exactly like this less than a week ago...
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 02:21 PM
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Agreed. A lot of people will argue genetics, wealth, luck, etc, but the power to be our full potential came into being the day we were born. Unfortunately, few can say they were born with a perfect scenario to be developed and encouraged into that state of being, which is not to say perfect but at least it was not contrived or fabricated. We need to realize now that we are immensely lucky if living in the western world, if only we would realize it and retake control of our lives.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/19 04:55 AM
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Bro come up with whatever rationalizations you want, you seem to be relishing in your “above-being-questioned-alpha-fetish.” Fucking emo. If you’re triggered by a question, good luck.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/19 09:23 PM
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It’s not a waste of time if there is something to be learned. Your comment implied sound reason, which OP’s friend was lacking. If your opinion had no benefit, why comment?
/r/TheRedPill23/05/19 07:13 PM
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I think the crazy amounts of Add available is contributing to the general cognitive dissonance we regularly see.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/19 05:03 PM
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Can you explain a bit? Fem-Dom?
/r/TheRedPill23/05/19 05:01 PM
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Agreed, things would be different if all person were held accountable. Over-saturation of dick on the SMP means women can totally destroy themselves on an individual basis with someone that they should otherwise value, knowing full well some thirsty BB or careless AF will happily look over that past because "unicorn," and so the cycle repeats.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/19 03:39 PM
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Ok yes, the dissociation, kind of what I was imagining. IME, I think exactly that is sometimes a moment-to-moment reality for a lot of young women, and some young men, where they just don't get the concept of cause and effect. Maybe it's just happenstance but I've been seeing an increasing number of videos where girls repeatedly shout things like, "you can't touch me," or, "never hit a woman." I agree with those of those points, resorting to either out of anger or else is weak. What I am seeing …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/19 03:06 AM
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And there are answers. Just b/c a finger fits in an electric pencil sharpener does not mean introducing the two intimately would be a good idea.
/r/RPChristians22/05/19 02:46 AM
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​ This is why Blank Slate idealism and Social Constructionism are a preferred mythology for women. Without the Blank Slate a woman would be forced to accept the evolved realities of her sex. The Blank Slate is a prime source of women’s solipsistic denial of her own nature. ​ Could you expand on this?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/19 02:42 AM
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To clarify, does that mean you plan to forgo state recognized marriage? I accept that my views are likely to change as I continue growing in faith, but unless absolutely certain that I found a woman who was absolutely within my frame, wishing to help me directly in my mission, in much the same way I imagine some of the mods here have made it work (?), I won't ever enter M2.0 willingly. Marriage, while a theological and holy institution by design, is also a product like any other. To sell a produ…
/r/RPChristians21/05/19 07:28 PM
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I decided many years ago that exactly that was going to be my own personal solution to the M2.0 issue. Still, I don't see it become institutionalized anytime soon as a norm because material benefits are concrete and change hands quickly. Things would either need to change in some manner to encourage M3.0, or alternatively, men wherever possible would need to dedicate themselves to the creating a value which the M2.0 cannot match. That definitely means becoming objectively better men than then th…
/r/RPChristians21/05/19 11:05 AM
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IMO, and IME, be the former, from the one group that really DGAF. Why, cause you'll be more authentic and true to yourself, which is what TRP is really about. BP is about pleasing people by changing one's own views, thoughts, and actions. Trying to please a woman, by pretending to NGAF but in fact caring a whole lot is why we have AskTRP and other subs, and it is the epitome of BP. Plus the girls you find when faking it do not compare to those when you're really living the life. Imagine pretendi…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/19 08:58 PM
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It really helped me see how much stronger I was then I thought, how much I could do without, without falling apart or failing others or myself. I have tried IF for dieting/bodybuilding and water fasting, which I did for about 10 & 36 hours. It was an intense and amazing experience. Make sure to research as much as possible if you decide to do so. The gut is very sensitive when fasting and could cause serious injury if not done so properly.
/r/RPChristians07/05/19 05:56 PM
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Keep being nice, to the point of death. Obey, but pay attention and learn. Eventually, though you might not believe it now, you will start to give a shit MORE ABOUT YOURSELF then about your social survival. At some point, you will realize that the birth of the DGAF & AF version of yourself will necessitate the death of your presently nice & BB persona. Matthew 5:30 Also, Matthew 6:33-34 Good luck and trust your gut.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 12:39 AM
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I think I could sum this up for myself with the phrase, “Jesus’ mission on earth was TO NOT find a physical wife.” (A spiritual wife is the opposite of an earthly one I imagine.) I say this because since as far back as I can remember, I’ve had a desire to find a wife, and despite being somewhat a natural alpha, my beta programming in search of a wife had put me into a terrible spiritual position given my constant searching outside myself. Only after coming to Christ over the last few years have …
/r/RPChristians11/02/19 03:00 PM
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Don’t believe I have a mission as of yet, other than some abstract concept to become more free in Knowledge of Christ and spreading that knowledge that they may also be free and continue spreading. Rom 12:2 seems proper and right, thank you. I agree and it is something I have put off for sometime. I am so wrapped up in worldly ness and hanging in past let downs like it growing up with my dad and thus all the missed opportunities God set before me, all squandered for lack of guidance, along with …
/r/RPChristians04/02/19 12:17 PM
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By not accepting the narrative, you break through it and get the ever so attractive bad boy street cred Yes, the whole point of frame is that YOU decide the narrative of your life, if not some higher power.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/19 12:43 AM
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Prayer / Relate Emote Attraction Switches : I was struggling here, I’ll have to study this more. Relating to God is awesome, just hard to wrap my head around. What does this mean to you? Genuinely curious. Do you mean to say you struggle with how much emotion to feel or show? I ask because it’s where I find myself struggling, between how often I should seek to pray and how often I express to my SO what I’ve been praying about, if at all.
/r/RPChristians01/02/19 07:57 PM
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So as someone who usually does not have a healthy starting barrier with LTRs, usually meaning that there is no chance, I want to know how, when I’ve found someone who is seemingly willing to play along with this robotic tendency that slowly thaws as the relationship grows, given that she has given me that space to breath and relax, how do I just accept it and move forward without any concern at all about whether or not I should be looking back to see if she is following my lead, as she said she …
/r/RPChristians01/02/19 05:37 PM
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I agree with your position. I just wanted to know more about that line of thinking since you mentioned it and I’ve imagined there must be people who hold to it absolutely.
/r/RPChristians25/01/19 04:05 PM
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Ok yes, agree with it being a sinful nature issue, and since it can’t be solved directly, the goal is to vet however much possible, taking on the burden if need be of vetting further, leaving relationships when necessary, and maintaining frame, all of course while remaining true to God and building a life, if it turns out that some AWALT tendencies are allowed after marriage, we should not seek to burn the bridge via divorce because “AWALT and it’s sister Acronyms” associated fears.
/r/RPChristians25/01/19 03:59 PM
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Ok understood and agreed, really. I would only add; I meant to say I imagine we seek to vet at all cost, including whether the vetting is successful. If I pull the trigger and it turns out that AWALT, then that was on me for not vetting properly. I don’t want to be in a constant struggle either, that sounds like a chore. I meant to convey that it is best to become good at being near to God, the result being that ones own reality become more concrete, stronger in frame, as a consequence of living…
/r/RPChristians25/01/19 08:45 AM
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Is it possible that vetting is not about eliminating all possible issue, but about embracing and accepting great, more burdensome issue than before. I can only imagine that the issues associated with maintains a healthy & faith-filled HB8+ relationship don’t not approach a secular one, at least in terms of the magnitude of complexity required to solve. I know now God rewards us not for what we think we managed to get lay hold of but instead with what we bear every day, making strong those who ac…
/r/RPChristians25/01/19 07:00 AM
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AWALT and expecting anything less is not trusting in Christ, noted.
/r/RPChristians25/01/19 06:53 AM
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Why do you find it bizarre to oppose a gender allegiance or loyalty? Genuinely curious.
/r/RPChristians25/01/19 06:48 AM
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Probably too much time reading TRP without understanding TRP. Lots of guys there - and on any RP forum - tend to play the "don't trust women" card too much, without balancing it with what you should do instead. I think this is why I jumped out of posting on TRP/AskTRP a while back, it seemed like a bottomless pit, and some of the guys there were even complaining so I took it as a sign and began focusing here. Still nowhere near where I should be in terms of real world progress despite leaving th…
/r/RPChristians23/01/19 05:44 AM
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Thank you for simplifying what to me seemed complicated. I need to learn to keep things simple, and positive.
/r/RPChristians23/01/19 04:58 AM
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You recognize this fight within yourself My eternal struggle. I understand your advice, I'll try and practice this how I can. I will admit, I've realized how unnecessary my serial monogamy has been. I don't even know where I picked up the idea that I knew what it was or why I should seek it. Thank you for offering the alternative.
/r/RPChristians23/01/19 12:12 AM
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To quit altogether the CBD & porn would be good cause I realize I rely on them to keep my body in a false homeostasis, using those substances to maintain the euphoria from day to day. It’s never the right time to quit. My plan should be to quit tonight and if not tomorrow which is easier said then done as I’ve slowly accepted the reality of a substance dependence. Very glad to be finishing school, the stress is at an all time high of course. My daily readings and just being connected to the Lord…
/r/RPChristians18/01/19 06:49 AM
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OYS# 2 Background / Stats: 28 years old, 5’9”, 165 lbs, 12 % BF, Student. Physical: Lifting 3 - 4 times, weight training and occasional cardio. Diet is mostly high in protein, moderate fat, low carbs. Lighter use of CBD vaping, porn still, set goal to stop completely. Not married, can employ kino when necessary. Have gone too far with girlfriend before. Fashion sense is fairly good/modern. My time is spent between school [last semester of grad school], gym, occasionally at home or with girlfrien…
/r/RPChristians17/01/19 02:50 PM
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This place will really tie the room together, welcome brother!
/r/RPChristians13/01/19 12:48 PM
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As the saying goes, chicken dinner.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/19 12:08 AM
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Yeah to follow this point, OP, sometimes if you completely back off, even to the point of NGAF and I mean really being there internally as a mindset, she may instantly notice the subtle cues that show your lack of want for her and she will work to make sure you want what she has. Don't take it when she throws it back. If a woman wants you, she will move heaven and earth to get to you.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/18 07:04 PM
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I like a low of what you wrote and also how forgiveness and continuation of marriage are the not same thing for you. >For me, that trust cannot ever be earned back...and that’s ok. The "that's ok" part is what resonated with me most. I used to wallow in sorrow whenever a relationship ended because I realized that the trust could never be reestablished or the like. Overtime, the development of an "that's ok" part of response I attribute to the Spirit, in that with every attempted and failed relat…
/r/RPChristians25/12/18 05:22 PM
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Any expected date of completion/publication?
/r/RPChristians25/12/18 04:18 PM
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I think you are saying you are trying to make it easier for yourself. That’s good and all. Anything else, you trying to major it easier for us, is BP. I like the post and concept, and and if it’s what you made up for yourself to get you through some difficulty, cool, and I like the creativity/effort. However, trying to pass another “lesson” or “rule” to the guys caught in this echo chamber will only lead to more confusion, like the post, pushing them further into their heads to think about what …
/r/TheRedPill23/12/18 10:53 PM
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“Never wrestle with a pig. You get dirty, and besides, the pig likes it.” That’s good, and easy to remember. Nice!
/r/TheRedPill15/12/18 03:30 PM
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Your post was an essential component to this post. Have a nice day.
/r/RPChristians12/12/18 09:40 PM
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Agree absolutely, for me the whole experiences kicked off my re-discovery of faith, in a way that I had rejected as a teen who knew science and stuff. It was to me both a psychological experience, and even more so a spiritual one.
/r/RPChristians02/12/18 10:41 PM
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I'm glad you're alive too!
/r/RPChristians02/12/18 08:20 PM
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Your Spirit knows the way and your mind (perspective) is not giving you the insight into how the possibilities for better relationships are possible? Ask yourself, like has been mentioned already, what sort of girl you think you want now? Sounds to me like the girls around you are not the type you think you can build a relationship with? If its the case, I would say don't focus on creating a LTR and instead focus on developing passive friendship with the women around you, whether attractive to y…
/r/RPChristians28/11/18 09:20 PM
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TL;DR: Like u/Unrealenting said below, ... ​ That being said, I've had the same thing happen a number of times and luckily I [M28] have only had minor experiences in the large scheme of things but from the perspective of a kid, devastating. First time I can recall, frame started crumbling after focusing on a new GF and completely abandoning my own mission. Within a few months, I had lost my job, my car in a 3 car accident I was responsible for, all my money and savings, my friends and family slo…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/18 07:36 PM
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Could you expand on the ins & outs of your version of RPC plating? Edit: like steps, reasons, mentality, etc.
/r/RPChristians14/11/18 05:43 AM
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It would help if you post your stats, physical, reading, finance, etc. Went through something very similar recently, and despite not being a fun experience, in the end I remain content in Christ because this is my abundance: even though I had this potentially great LTR applicant in front of me, with her having looked past a number of my own instances of beta-behavior, and who also had a number of red flags I conveniently looked past, it was not a right fit for God so I walked away. How do you ac…
/r/RPChristians12/11/18 03:48 PM
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Good one-word response! XD
/r/RPChristians06/11/18 05:21 PM
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Self-medicating with the vape really. No sex, just easily become attached, forgetting God in the process. My business plan is solid, though it will take time and energy to accomplish, day by day. It's "clicking" more and more each day, some leftover wavering thoughts/feelings. Yes, I will STFU more. Thank you for the feedback!!
/r/RPChristians01/11/18 09:56 PM
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PHYSICAL: How are you doing with lifting? I [M28, 5’10] go 3-4 times a week, arranging a 6-7 day routine soon. Losing weight? A bit, at about 168 lbs. Where's your body fat %? 13% What have you been eating lately? Low carb, moderate fat, high protein diet, avoid dairy and would prefer to be more vegan like, less meat would be nice. How about your porn/alcohol/drug/cigarette/whatever use? Regular cbd vape use, occasional alcohol, some porn, no cigs. Are you employing kino on your wife properly? N…
/r/RPChristians31/10/18 07:17 PM
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PHYSICAL: How are you doing with lifting? I [M28, 5’10] go 3-4 times a week, arranging a 6-7 day routine soon. Losing weight? A bit, about 168. Where's your body fat %? 13% What have you been eating lately? Home & school. How about your porn/alcohol/drug/cigarette/whatever use? Regular cbd vape use, occasional alcohol, some porn, no cigs. Are you employing kino on your wife properly? No wife. Are you going too far with your girlfriend? Yes. How's your fashion sense? Good. Are you still lounging …
/r/RPChristians30/10/18 11:07 PM
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Awesome!
/r/RPChristians23/10/18 06:03 AM
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Double Whammy !!
/r/RPChristians11/10/18 02:56 PM
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Asking the important questions I see, love it !!
/r/RPChristians11/10/18 02:55 PM
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Thank you friend! Still learning and failing yet loving/living it all. Thank God :]
/r/RPChristians06/10/18 06:39 AM
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She and I had to split ways, even though we still cared about each other. I forced this by pulling away as best I could because In all honesty, I had let myself get blinded in the idea of being with her. I think she did too. I was too in my head however so like I said I had to pull away. It was not until I went for a monk mode with Matt 6:33 in mind that I understood why it was so essential. Monk mode allowed me to pull myself out of the world and back into harmony with God and myself. Instead o…
/r/RPChristians06/10/18 06:33 AM
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Trust yourself and do the best you can, practice daily prayers and readings, even if only a chapter or two, lift, ask for help, like you’re doing right now (probably the best sign that you’re on the right path), keep trying new things with discernment. Personal experience with this verse ... A while back I was in school, hating how miserable I was, unable to tell the girl I liked how I felt about her even though we were best friends, hating the fact that I was about to finish grad school, wishin…
/r/RPChristians05/10/18 07:12 PM
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You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you. Could you elaborate on this verse? I don't really understand its deeper meanings?
/r/RPChristians05/10/18 06:58 AM
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Intent and context is everything, why I am working on breaking down those automatic interpretations of what I think is going on.
/r/RPChristians04/10/18 04:38 PM
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Yeah I’m actually working on something similar, like a daily practice. I tell myself various times throughout the day, I think about Genesis, and I try to envision the absolute beginning, before the heavens and earth were created, I imagine a void and try to sit deeply in it. From there, whatever the event, I consciously make myself aware of the meaning I am attaching. This has definitely helped deal with little situations like the one in the post. Appreciate the reply.
/r/RPChristians04/10/18 04:37 PM
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Honestly, I’ve been in a real awkward place for years but that’s only because I broke through my dense-ness in a way I feel buddy hasn’t, like I’m very sensitive/aware of body language/symbolic language and I instantly felt something was off about the whole interaction so I thought I’d ask about it because it’s not the first time. However, because the guy had been working with the majority of the people there, I imagine an outright confrontation would be a no-go. It’s really why I asked about it…
/r/RPChristians04/10/18 04:33 PM
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Okay so basically the golden rule? I get how it would be a good start and a way for me to set the tone. Appreciate that tidbit. Thank you.
/r/RPChristians04/10/18 04:29 PM
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I like the first 2 points. The third one may be a stretch given that she seemed, at least in my opinion, to not be so excited as he was but regardless, I understand the mindset. Win the person over and not the small, insignificant battle, which I was never even trying to be a part of, right?
/r/RPChristians04/10/18 04:25 PM
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the more men that subscribe to the nihilistic hedonism of "enjoying the decline" is further empowering the enemy. Agreed, absolutely. I honestly think the only thing left to do for us now is, in mass, to boycott the current SMP and its dynamics, creating something completely different and real that empowers all the people who have not been on the vanguard of the CC and the like. I mean, there are so many beautiful women out in the world, but because men in general keep acting like thirsty pre-te…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 08:04 PM
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I like this & I understand why it would be a great course of action. Thank you.
/r/RPChristians02/10/18 07:56 PM
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The young woman who introduced me to the project was guiding me through the workplace/event we were at, this person I mentioned came in between she and I fast, shook my hand as hard as possible, pushed me off a bit and just started overly hugging/touching her. He didn’t ask my name or give me his like everyone else had done and it just gave me a bad vibe. I didn’t get this sense from anyone else, and then everything I mentioned in the post.
/r/RPChristians02/10/18 07:01 PM
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Absolutely!
/r/RPChristians02/10/18 07:01 PM
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Wow, I am actually reading the book now, its part of our work curriculum. Ill give a shot next time I can, say hello and get to know them, and see what happens. Appreciate the feedback.
/r/RPChristians02/10/18 06:57 PM
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I agree with you, and what I do to get there is pray and read scripture. Still, I can't escape the memory of yesterday so to speak (the habits, patterns of thoughts, etc). I want to say I believe I should stand my ground to the point of death, like christ, but the example I gave all seemed trivial, not worth engaging other than to avoid. I have a few times manages to love on my "enemies" usually by really understanding them and empathizing with them but that is not always a viable option. I appr…
/r/RPChristians02/10/18 06:55 PM
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I read Way of the Superior Man when I was about 21, right when I began my RP odyssey. I imagine I absorbed very little of it given I had little to no frame of reference. I did a general idea for the sort of frame that was required, like the emotional blueprint. I’ll see if I can find the next first recommendation. I’m not married or in my sort of LTR but I get that being able to have a relationship is a sign of some sort of health, and regardless of whether or not I find someone soon because of …
/r/RPChristians27/09/18 10:17 PM
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What book would be good for a single guy like myself [M28] who has no serious relationship at the time but would like a fulfilling marriage, something to help better understand the underlying dynamics?
/r/RPChristians27/09/18 04:11 AM
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In the beginning [it] was created. This made a lot of people angry and has widely been considered as a bad move.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 02:58 PM
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Your lack of faith in the number 42 is disturbing.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 08:05 AM
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Beginning to do just that, getting together with people who are on the same journey to be better in a healthy and genuine way. Being around them, and this sub, or just healthy communities in general, its so beneficial. As I think about it now, its so based on perception and attention, in that a lot of these communities and hobbies have always been there but unnoticed due to the 9-5-Rushhour cycle. The TV has had me and many others focusing on the wrong things for too long.
/r/RPChristians22/09/18 11:45 PM
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Right now, as I near finishing my graduate program and beginning the next step, I am wanting nothing more as a mission than to become more christ-like and to disciple others in that direction too. I had never really understood any of it, the process of discipleship but it makes so much sense, to be healed and to heal.
/r/RPChristians22/09/18 11:42 PM
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Thank you Chuck! :]
/r/RPChristians22/09/18 11:39 PM
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I have found that over the last year or so, despite being in the TRP field for some 8 or more years, that I have made the most progress in the last year or two specifically because of one thing: faith. Let me explain. ​ By faith I don't necessarily mean a religious faith, though I like to consider those things myself, but I mean instead how we know and believe things. Example: When I was in kindergarden and the teacher told me that I was in North America and that around the globe there was a pla…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/18 08:41 PM
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Agreed, that's why I did a fast, Intermittent Fasting, for a month or so and I saw tons of benefits. Slimmed down more than I ever had in my life, easily 8 - 10% bodyfat, increased awareness, focus and confidence. I was only advising OP about unseen issues that arise from drastically changing a diet. I looked up everything I could and it still had some negative consequences b/c every body is different and the info out there is all very general.
/r/RPChristians19/09/18 05:04 PM
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Like I said, I tried the shortest fasting method (IF). I did wonders for me in many ways, just I couldn't maintain longterm b/c I didn't have all the necessary info. I was only suggesting OP make sure he is ready and knowledgeable before he begins.
/r/RPChristians19/09/18 05:01 PM
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Do you want to fast for a specific reason? Can you explain what those reasons might be? Personally, I have no experience with long term fasting but I will tell you, be careful messing around with your diet based on some Youtube videos or w/o proper guidance. It is not the same as missing a meal or two. When I started IF, I thought it was going great until I got blindsided by the consequences 4 or so weeks later, I wrecked my digestive system and spent just as long recovering from my IF.
/r/RPChristians19/09/18 12:45 PM
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Ok so expand. What do you know about it and why do you want to practice it?
/r/RPChristians19/09/18 11:54 AM
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Occasionally an intermittent fast (I.e., eat all food for day within an 8 hour window) but nothing more serious, though I’m sure there are others out there. It’s really about what you want to accomplish. Any particular goal?
/r/RPChristians19/09/18 11:40 AM
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Great post OP! >“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.” Romans 12:2 I've had trouble with this before, unable to be honest with myself, and so even less with others. The mind is an incredible thing, how it tries to reason itself out trouble or discomfort, even more so when it does so unconsciously without personal effort. I've had friends purpo…
/r/RPChristians18/09/18 03:19 PM
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Tip #1: Don't sweat the small stuff. Tip #2: It's all small stuff.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 02:48 PM
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Reminds me a lot of myself at about 20. I could talk to girls no problem, but then again, I wasn't really considering any of my actions. I was on autopilot blind to my own ways, but when I finally did see myself, I couldn't be myself. Literally, from one night to the next, acting and behaving how I had a few hours before repulsed me and I didn't want to do anything, not talk to girls, or go out. or be with friends, etc.... in hindsight, it was like a divine intervention because the way in which …
/r/RPChristians15/09/18 09:55 PM
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Thats right, you might be too old when you figure it out but you don't know if it will happen at all if you don't try. So try, and try your hardest so that you can get there earlier than your expecting.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/18 12:49 PM
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Great post, very helpful! As a kid and teen, my experience in life was an example 2 experience for sure. As a late teen and young adult, my experience was an example 1 experience as I began to see things more clearly. Than in one day, the system did a full reset, and I've found myself in the example 3 experience, completely confused and disoriented at first but better everyday since. This post also reminded me of something I made up when I found myself further from God than I had ever imagined, …
/r/RPChristians12/09/18 04:21 AM
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This is an excellent response. Really encouraging to read that. I'd like to say that although I spent some 5-8 years looking at TRP, the last year alone of RPC has really helped me really tie it all together. Without faith, all of this is really difficult because there is no trust in the process otherwise.
/r/RPChristians11/09/18 04:56 PM
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Believe me it is, but again, no sub will ever do. No thing. No person. I'm sure you get the pic. Think about these post though in relation to your friends. This is what I meant by whiny earlier. It isn't building towards anything or advancing any goal other than proclaiming "I'm good, they're not." Its normal to notice differences in others, even when you care about them. Love should not make us blind. Self-love can be just as dangerous, where it is easy to notice "good" in ourselves but "evil" …
/r/RPChristians11/09/18 01:30 AM
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Lol this reminds me of why I "left" TRP in favor of RPC.
/r/RPChristians11/09/18 01:11 AM
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Right now, here in this subreddit, the question is not whiny or anything of that sort. Why? B/c we understand for the most part, the struggle, confusion, etc. Overtime, though, as a RP adherent, you will not be posting these sort of post personally, not b/c they are not full of meaningful lessons, but b/c at some point you just need to trust yourself and go forth, have fun, play with people, take none of it serious, A&A, amused mastery, etc. It will get easier to move within a RP frame as you ju…
/r/RPChristians11/09/18 01:05 AM
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I agree but I will say, OP should not take it to heart. I've been in the same spot and as he finds answers, he won't ever need to be whiny about it. I will add, it helps to start early the practice of NGAF, for lack of a better term.
/r/RPChristians10/09/18 06:16 PM
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OP, keep focusing on TRP concepts and principles, and get real deep with why these small things that other people in the world do, why those things bother you so much, what you can do about it, what you can't, and what your best route may be. It sound to me like you have a hyperactive mind and that okay, it will help you spot a lot of the things you are already seeing. However, I can say that from personal experience, seeing an issue that others don't is not necessarily a long term benefit if an…
/r/RPChristians10/09/18 06:13 PM
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OK well if I can't help her, what can I do to slowly over time introduce RP principles for my sister? Should I just not bother, let her fail/learn on her own?
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/18 06:52 PM
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It takes some of us a bit to get there because of all the social conditioning and "be a strong independent woman" kind of thinking that's ingrained in us. It took me a few years. Yeah, we grew up w/o our dad so she is very strong-willed. I figure the paper might help b/c she is honestly the type of person I can ever talk to about deep stuff. It is almost always surface level stuff, doesn't really ever seem open to self-inquiry, especially if I prompt it. Ask her how it's going or whatever is app…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/18 05:50 PM
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This sounds about right, Chad is a state of mind. I know because I've been both in and out of it. A guy may be much more Chad is a certain environment and not others, with certain people and not others, Chad is illusive. Some work years to polish up there reflection of Chad, and the more clear the Chad in me, the more girls are ready to CC it.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 12:14 AM
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There was a real interesting post a day or so ago about GenZ and hypergamy. It was shocking to realize how hypergamous that generation will be but it makes total sense when we look at the world today. A part of me was concerned b/c I still had some hopes for some version of TradCon principles could still survive but hearing 13 & 15 year old girls spout TRP knowledge was just a final nail in the coffin. I felt much better when I realized that I will no longer be the younger, BP kid who will be ch…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 09:06 PM
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Lol, they're more concerned about what a libertarian socialist is, can't make that stuff up. Nice field report, I can't help but see all the subtle, yet flagrant, IOI that women in committed relationships give. Like its difficult to not read into any of it too much but damn is it consistent. Quick example, at pharmacy picking up meds last night and a hot spanish HB8 was there on her own. One of the first things I noticed was the ring on her left hand. Well, that didn't stop her from lifting the …
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 08:54 PM
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I didn't need to read your post to agree/upvote. I think any discipline can be a meditation, but the intent must be there or at least acknowledged as a part of the experience. ​ Instagraming/goofing around, ego-lifting, and babe spotting don't really have the same benefits as, lets say, daily, weekly, monthly, yearly discipline in showing up, lifting, dieting and sleeping well, and just all around accepting personal responsibility for ones own path and obstacles in life.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 12:38 PM
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I agree with all of what you said, all of it relating to small inner/personal decisions about what is important and worth fighting over. I had an abusive ex-girlfriend and I was too concerned with putting up the front of a strong frame, I would just take it. Wasn’t worth it, especially when that careful confronted charade of a “frame” came down. I guess what I was wondering is what else aside from talk therapy could possibly develop that context of strongly held beliefs and principles. I feel al…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 04:23 AM
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That realization, at the very end, don't lose sight of it.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 01:48 AM
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Can you please explain more? I've been dealing with similar issues and I feel this was spot on. Myself in the past, I either went full BP and lost whatever original attraction was present, or I go the route of OP, silent, avoidant, etc. I understand fully what you mean by a moral rock, but do you think a proper context for it could be developed through anything other than discipline, in whatever task, or through suffering (ex. loss of a loved one)? I realize it is a fatal flaw, but I've felt com…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 10:20 PM
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Okay, you should definitely write more. What was the context for all of this?
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 06:13 PM
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I PM'd you with a reading plan. Disregard the first one, it was not formatted properly as I tried to send it from my phone. This is the one I use, as it goes back and forth between the Old Testament and the New Testament, and goes through each book as a whole before moving on to the next one. Thank you for sending this. I read the passages for today earlier, and will probably reread them again today. Part of my hesitation in engaging the word is that I can take things too far too easily, so I ha…
/r/RPChristians24/08/18 05:53 PM
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I thought this short paragraph was great. Can you write more? ​
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 04:22 AM
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I always refer to Paul's statement of his own sinfulness in Romans 7:14-24 This is exactly the verses I read over this weekend when I was troubled, and it just connected with a lot of what had been on my mind. I realized that it was describing that experience from a couple of years back and I could see the internal struggle that my mind was struggling with during this period. I am not sure if I had read these verses in the past, I feel certain I could have but it was the first time something cli…
/r/RPChristians24/08/18 03:11 AM
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If you truly believe in Jesus Christ, you have eternal life. But how do you know you have truly believed? Even if you’ve had some sort of “conversion experience”, felt some sort of peace of God and so many other emotions—how do you really know it’s real? One of the ways you will know it is real is that it will continue. It’s not that necessarily the emotional high will continue, but what will continue is that you will continue to grow in grace. ... So I can definitely agree with this statement a…
/r/RPChristians23/08/18 11:31 PM
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Well, the answer to this depends on whether you have been born again or not. I shared the gospel with you in one of your previous posts I remember and I appreciate you remembering too. I want to say that I am born again, mostly due to a powerful experience that occurred to me a number of years ago where my sense of self shattered and I could see how hollow and vain and worldly I had been. It has taken me years to understand all of it but I have come to the conclusion that it is akin to the Roman…
/r/RPChristians23/08/18 06:34 PM
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Maybe you already have, check out Like Stories of Old on youtube, awesome channel with a specific video on Walter Mitty and maladaptive daydreaming. ​ Edit: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kj5XR32zs7E ​
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 04:30 PM
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Did not grow up with men but with women so male friends as a kid was a thing of contention. Lots of pointless fights and animosity. I was not used to the shit-testing that comes from male friends or even step brothers so it took some time to just loosen up and learn how to give and take. Definitely is one of my favorite things now about male friends. Also have to constantly remind myself to not take anything female friends/relatives say too seriously. They don’t usually feel the same way, so I j…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 04:58 PM
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Can you expand? I like the train of thought.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 01:22 PM
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Ideological thinking is like a curse, bounding people and blinding them to the objective world and their subjective perceptions of it, and no one is really free of that mental conditioning. And with that said, PUArtistry is just one component in a much larger puzzle. To believe that any one thing, if sufficiently mastered, can get you laid with any girl is psychopathic. An interrogator that primarily, & only, relies on violence is a psychopath. Peterson is getting at the fact that a RP man is a …
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 05:59 PM
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A wise man once said nothing at all.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 09:38 PM
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I understand fully that no one goes home to think about that guy they caught a glimpse of for 10 seconds on their way to work or whatever, it is an internal issue that has really been, more so in the past, a barrier to reaching a mature understanding of adulthood/manhood. That's what I am working on and what I regularly inquire about.
/r/RPChristians14/06/18 05:26 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=15QuHygLwFU This was a great suggestion, thank you.
/r/RPChristians14/06/18 05:21 PM
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So you see your hair loss as a result of your sinful lifestyle, and therefore view the hair loss as a personal failure? Yes, to a great extent, and I do understand that genetics plays a major role but I did not help the situation. And having grown up without my dad or any close male figure, a lot of the basic things that boys should know as they grow were things I learned after exhaustive failure, things like impulse control and real self-love. This is quite an extreme response to one relatively…
/r/RPChristians14/06/18 04:57 PM
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Thanks you for the response. I understand much of what you intended but I am wondering, what about when my seeking to follow Christ is calling me to spend time with others? I spent most of my 20s in isolation, depressed and in addiction. I started grad school after some improvement time but I haven't really reached the level of normalcy I knew prior to that period. Isolation I imagine can't be the only solution so I imagine I should just be strong and pull through, keeping my eyes in the mission…
/r/RPChristians31/05/18 11:48 PM
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Thanks, glad to hear that. I feel I can say confidently that I've was guy #2 most of my life, growing up with a single mom and a twin sister, I learned everything I shouldn't have, and I had to play a role (provider, even on a lesser scale) that wasn't mine to play out. It's taken years to unlearn most of these things and even still, habit is a hassle. Hanging out with my dad later on in life definitely has helped, doing stuff we missed out on when I was young but it too has been a lesson. I gue…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 11:42 PM
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I think on a primal level, guy #1 has means of acquiring resources and is never really in a position to lose those resources. Guy #2 is more open to giving away what he has, which although altruistic, does not bode well in case of emergencies or whatever. Given that most of us live in rich first world countries, it is easy to fall into the delusion that giving away resources is a logical means of personal survival (I.e., to make friends and be accepted). That however is only a veneer that exists…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 06:06 PM
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They are being scapegoated? I mean, I think that is what is happening and they themselves have put themselves in that position of weakness by failing to do the work.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 09:54 PM
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There is the one thing I learned and remembered from MySpace in the early 2000s: beware the profiles with lots of pictures with nonsense angles (I.e, pic from the sides or from above or from below, etc, that don't really give you a clear view). If there are no clear pics, good chance something is up. Also, duckface.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 11:30 AM
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The first time I ghosted someone, it felt super awkward, mind you we had adjoined assigned seating, so it was on the soft end but it was clear I was no longer available. It didn't make any sense when following the program blindly, but in hindsight, it was the best possible decision I could have ever made. It changed something in me that helped me realize how easy it is to lose oneself in the pursuit of other things. Follow through and it'll be worth it, always.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 01:07 AM
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So I noticed this distinction when I started hanging out with my dad more, grew up with single mom and sister so being able to give and take witty/critical comments without getting overly invested is not something I know as second nature. The word my dad uses is "embute" or something like that (not sure of the spelling, Spanish word), which is basically just ribbing, teasing, playful talking of B.S., etc. and frankly I loved it, we would basically spend hours hurling funny threats, insults, & mo…
/r/RPChristians28/05/18 08:37 AM
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I understand the point you are getting at, appreciate the feedback, thank you. Edit: Willow-girl Don't think I've seen a female openly giving advice on this sub Reddit. Out of curiosity, what would be your perception of someone who doesn't really engage others in this way? I imagine it hints at a lack of trust? Or confidence? Idk, just curious on that perspective.
/r/RPChristians28/05/18 08:23 AM
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This is a good place to learn solid foundational concepts without the validation-seeking machismo that surrounds TRP, i.e., a bunch of anonymous people on the internet trying to out-alpha others seeking advice. There is still some wisdom in what the TRP upholds but the rationales are different. Be sure to read the sidebar (available on the original reddit design).
/r/RPChristians25/05/18 11:53 PM
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All of this is absolutely true, OP. Thank you for this post. I spent a number of years undergoing a very similar period and really in hindsight, it is a transition period, a metamorphosis where we put to death our old selves and we reach for more from ourselves. I don't know exactly where on the transition timeline I am but I get the sense that it is a lifelong change. the need to adapt and change won't end at any period and life will always have more hurdles to deal with. Point is depression is…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 05:54 PM
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I imagine others will have more experience/rationale to base their opinions, but from what I've understood, it means you understand her, or anyone else's, place in the world, God's plan for her/them, and you act in a way that both propels you along your mission and which inspires the same goal in her/them, to carry out their mission as determined by God. Matthew 6:33 come to mind. Also, the 10 commandments. There really are a number of passages from which to draw a similar conclusion. Edit: Even…
/r/RPChristians19/05/18 05:34 PM
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An employee needs to be told what to do and sometimes watched in order to carry out the job. An employer know what has to be done, sets about doing so with skills/ability, and does not need to be supervised to do the job. It is possible to both be an employee and an employer. All employers are employees. Not all employees are employers.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 04:44 PM
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I try and eat as little sugar/carbs as possible but my fam is always bringing me cake, cookies, etc, making the diet as tough as possible. I eventually end up munching out and eating most of it and going up BF%. Edit: Ultimately, the responsibility lays with me.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 04:30 AM
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Positive emotional reactions in the face of adversity/challenge = golden
/r/RPChristians16/05/18 08:26 PM
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What about edging? How does that fit into the stoic view?
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 05:06 PM
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Great post! Could you expand on presumptive questioning?
/r/RPChristians15/05/18 05:00 PM
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Try the married RP sub.
/r/RPChristians07/05/18 03:15 AM
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I was actually introduced to Kierkegaard sometime ago via Youtube videos and have always felt a deep connection to the writings. It seems like he went through some of these concepts and really got to the heart of the matter with them. I think denying myself longterm, in a steadfast way, is my current obstacle. Simply denying myself through this last, dying phase of my old self to hopefully be made new on the other side of what might be a sorrowful undertaking (detox). In fact, this is what I've …
/r/RPChristians04/05/18 10:02 PM
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Trust has definitely been an issue for a number of years, I have developed the belief over the past 7 or so years but trust, no, not yet. trust would mean that I willingly accept and go through a great deal of sorrow (detox) before coming out the other side, and in all honesty I know full well it is what I need. I just keep putting it off and trying to work around it, even though I know it is not doing me any favors (i.e., being dual-minded). I guess what I don't understand fully is what is it l…
/r/RPChristians04/05/18 09:54 PM
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I agree with Matthew 12, where in the first state it was not clear that there was an impure spirit, in the last state it is known and so there is less/no defense of ignorance. Yeah I had been living in pure ignorance as to the things of God, whether willful or not, and all at once, the wax was pulled from my ears and I could hear/see/interpret symbolically from my environment how far from God I was, so I set about clearing away all of the things that I clung to in my ignorance so as to have no e…
/r/RPChristians04/05/18 09:42 PM
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Option to revert just appeared at the top, thanks for the response.
/r/RPChristians03/05/18 04:37 AM
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Agree with your post, it has been difficult to really admit and accept that AWALT and when I first began TRP or sometimes even now when I don't pay attention, it's easy to say the hypergamy issue is restrained to a certain area or group of people. It's not, I think this community whole heartedly when it says that it's a predisposition that just exists and is restrained in certain manners by different groups. And especially with those we see and interact with in a regular basis, given the chance …
/r/RPChristians02/05/18 01:03 PM
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proverbs 31 Where do you figure it says to let a group of women genetically die off? Why would God have such a thing occur?
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 11:52 PM
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What the BP man systematically prioritize as worthy ends up being his downfall for they are all things which he does not have (i.e., sex; ... "oh God, why aren't I getting any?"), and so he builds an identity around not having, not being validated for having, and so he endures. As opposed to placing worth in other things such as one's capacity to lift heavy things and put them down, or a talent/hobby like music or art which could to success. Finding value/worth in those areas would provide the n…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 10:07 PM
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Seeing that's it won't kill you, whatever it is, will push you to rinse and repeat what ever habit necessary, despite early apprehension.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 02:56 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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