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I've never met someone who preoccupied themselves with innate biological differences who didn't have a self esteem deficit or a political agenda, based on the self esteem deficit of their political party.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 05:34 AM
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Oh sweet! <3 That's so much more valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 02:17 AM
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...how does OG red pill work for a lesbian? Is it all self improvement? Are you trying to make "plates" of other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 02:04 AM
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When most people say "feminism", they mean basic human rights. Basic human rights for everyone is the bare minimum of a functioning society. Feminists discussing feminism do not mean "equality in literally everything."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 02:00 AM
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Is this a homework question? Did you get tricked into an entry level gender studies class? Pay more attention to your textbook.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 01:56 AM
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I'm sorry you can't just get pregnant yourself ): you seem like you would be so much happier as a gravid, rose-cheeked, ankle-swollen wife getting plowed by your big, strong provider husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 01:18 AM
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The only people obsessed with innate biological "superiority" are people without any other redeeming qualities. If you were actually good at something, you would be proud of your skill as an individual, not because you are a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 01:10 AM
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Maybe they're highly dysfunctional small business owners who got the job from their parents and underpay their employees?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 01:08 AM
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And.... we've successfully filtered out another terminally online man! Pls put terminally online on your dating profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 07:42 PM
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Very agreeable response to filtering out a broader social phenomena related to the manosphere
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 07:40 PM
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Most regular entrees at regular Thai/Chinese restaurants are like, roughly $20...? Maybe $30 at a nicer place...?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 07:38 PM
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terminally online
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 07:36 PM
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Different age range bro
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 07:35 PM
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You sound very normal and well socialized
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 07:35 PM
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lol @ the assumption that these are good dates with definitely interested men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 07:34 PM
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I've never had an otherwise good date with a man (or extremely wealthy NB) who wanted the split the check. It wasn't a deciding factor. It was already a bad date.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 07:32 PM
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The Manosphere-Induced Loneliness Crisis is REAL
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 08:06 AM
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Both apps suck in drastically different ways
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 08:04 AM
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The first time was a joke. The second time was a reference to social media illiteracy. Many young men, especially on PPD, listen to unreliable sources of information and absorb it without suspecting the source has an agenda. I think a lot of young men want to impress other men and will do whatever Daddy Internet tells them to do. (If that means they die virgins, they will of course blame the women.)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 08:02 AM
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It's not a bribe. It's a post date assumption that the man who didn't pay for her first date was Just Not That Into Her. It's honestly very sad that these men are dumb enough to fall for the Manosphere Loneliness Epidemic. ):
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:59 AM
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I think if we can get them to be agreeable first, they can pay $20 for their date's pork belly over rice, but they do need to stop resenting the dating process first.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:53 AM
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What's more important: social media illiterate Jimmy learns to talk to girls, or social media illiterate Jimmy learns to not pay $20 for dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:51 AM
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If he's a guy you met at a gender class, he might mean it. Might. But t here's really no way to know his gender politics from JUST a dinner date interaction. You'd have to observe a lot of his day to day life with other women and men. But if he's asking you intelligent, thoughtful questions on a date you actually enjoy, he might be looking for an equal relationship, if he expects sex after 30 minutes at McDonald's, he's probably just an asshole. (I will say that I occasionally cover dinner for w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:48 AM
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Eww eww eww that's so bulky, he looks like a cartoon character
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:36 AM
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Women plus men neutral unless it's beautiful or obnoxious
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:32 AM
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I know maybe one woman who's been loved for who she is. Everyone else is shoved on a pedestal or brow beat into becoming a hag.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:32 AM
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What kind of good looking man swipes indiscriminately?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:26 AM
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You are feeding the Terminally Online Male Loneliness Crisis industrial complex every time you complain about this within the manosphere. You personally might suck it up, but the homeschooled 18 year old let loose upon the backwater, poverty-ridden tinder will not, because he has no context for complicated sociology concepts. Please. Think of the 18 year olds raised by their illiterate mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:22 AM
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Are you in a gender studies class? You remind me of me when I was 20. :') You can go on a date with whoever you want. If he doesn't offer it to pay for you, he is either: 1. Not That Into You 2. Terminally Online You're welcome to date these men who are Just Not That Into You or terminally online if you want. Experience is far more useful than someone on reddit telling you what to do. (Re the terminally online ones - don't date them if they've got a gun, have a serious history of mental illness,…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:17 AM
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And.... you are on PPD and therefore terminally online. A woman who is disappointed that a man does not cover the check and assumes he's Just Not That Into Her then filters out men who frequent PPD. Everyone wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:09 AM
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Tinder is exclusively made up of men whose profiles are: hi sluts want fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:05 AM
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That's sweet of you to be considerate. I don't know how old you are, but this is much more relevant when you're out of college and working. If you're in college, you can do whatever. But if you're 25+ think of paying for the first date as a filter. Is he willing to suck up $20 without complaining to possibly not die alone? No? He's probably terminally online. Do you want to date a terminally online man? edit: also, a man complaining about paying for someone he doesn't know is a good sign he's sw…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:02 AM
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Yes, but, they're just not creative. Or agreeable. Or intelligent. There's something fundamentally wrong with them. It might be education, their parents, or the internet, but they're going to continue to be this fucked up even if we can them through the first few dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 06:57 AM
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"Egalitarian" high earning men should be comfortable living at the lower earner's means, then. No one should be giving up a larger percentage of their income to meet the higher earner's lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 06:49 AM
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"Who pays for dinner" is literally just a "is this man terminally online and bad at dating" test at this point. If they're mad about paying for the first date, good, let them be mad and remove themselves from the dating pool. These men dying alone is bad for society, and the men themselves, of course, but if they're dumb enough to get worked up over a $20 meal they're not smart enough or agreeable enough to successfully date. Maybe we should just ban algorithms?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 06:44 AM
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Feeld used to be for sluts but now it's for polyamorous people
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 06:38 AM
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I've probably used penetrative toys less than five times... If you really want to be insecure, look up air suction toys instead. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 06:36 AM
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Literally don't care at all unless it impacts me in a negative way
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 06:31 AM
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Only if they suddenly became very beautiful, entertaining, agreeable, and socially adept. Men are fun as friends but they're SO much work romantically and sexually that I can't imagine dating one without them being pleasant enough to feed me. I already don't want to get pregnant and I wish I were sterile. In your scenario, I would get a hysterectomy if I wanted to keep fucking men. In the event I could not, and I was dumb enough to have unprotected sex, I would take the man to small claims court…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 06:26 AM
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If the man is reticent to cold approach: good job!! you are a normal, regular person with social skills If the man knows a woman socially: likely being a little bitch unless he has serious romantic compatibility hangups or social concerns, in which case good job for being a real human being with social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 06:21 AM
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What the fuck do they mean, consent is SO important? Yes consent means we are engaging in regular adult activities. Non-consent means you are commiting a crime. That's like saying not physically assaulting people is so important. Not commiting arson is so important. Lack of murder is SO important.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 06:13 AM
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Every queer woman profile on feeld: here to make friends and network!! I have 2 partners and I'm demisexual and I have no free time so I'm at full capacity! every heteroflexible man profile on feeld: I am literally just a goofy silly boy goose 🥺 let's go for a walk and eat ice cream and play our Nintendo switches together ✨ENM, married, 2 kids, 2 live-in partners. We play separately but we're always open to a special someone!! Into CNC and choking for a spicy lady~~ consent is SO important every…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 06:09 AM
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I find older women very attractive, but the biological clock is pointedly not an issue for me. (I mostly date women my age.)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 05:46 AM
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You mentioned sexual feelings specifically, so: I can't imagine someone that I haven't slept with would be spiraling too hard about having sexual feelings for me. It wouldn't cross my mind. Romantically, it depends on the person. Are we friends? If they brush it off and we share hobbies, it's fine. If we're acquaintances, I would treat them like a slightly delusional acquaintance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 05:35 AM
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Why do you want to ask this man out if you don't know a lot about him as a person? Where did you meet him? If you have shared interests, you can talk to him about those interests naturally. You could easily then pivot to an interest related event. ( But if you don't have shared interests... or know anything about him... why ask him out?) If you know exactly nothing about him, wear especially feminine clothing and do various things with your hair every time you see him. (Men love ponytails.)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 05:13 AM
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He is wearing a fun, expressive, cheeky outfit. Therefore, in my city, he is probably gay. I might be friendlier with him because I assume he is gay. If I discovered he was heterosexual and not otherwise fashionable, cheeky, or expressive, I would probably find him annoying. (Bisexual is fine if he's wearing that to deliberately pick up men.)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 04:52 AM
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When you hear that some men feel this way, how does it make you feel? Existential despair and second hand embarrassment. Does it make you feel satisfied or validated in some way, or does it evoke a different reaction? No. It makes me sad for them. I wonder if they are robots who have lost the conditions to fulfill their prompts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 04:46 AM
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What if men told the people that they were dating that they did not experience romantic feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 04:37 AM
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Don't be so emotional babe <3 slow down on the stimulants okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 04:36 AM
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Sure. Okay. What I mean is that it would be nice if men had an easy way to express that they don't experience romantic attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:22 AM
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I know, which is unfortunate because it's a useful term for men to describe themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:18 AM
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Just. Date. A. Conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:16 AM
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I wish more men identified as aromantic
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:14 AM
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A libertarian natalist! How nostalgic! I feel like I'm back on the internet in 2010.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:06 AM
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For context, the only romantic gestures that anyone has ever done that meant something to me was making me food when I had COVID, and drawing something for me. Social media and popular culture inflates and flattens people's idea of romance into slop. Men are just as bad as women, in different ways. It depends on the relationship and the person. Context is needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:01 AM
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Enjoy your personal commitment. I'm going to assume you won't be taking contradictory personal ancedotes as evidence. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:41 AM
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You seem committed to your attitude about this situation, so I won't continue to press. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:23 AM
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I'm confused why you think your predestination doomerism is in any way related to my initial comment to begin with, or why you think I would have a serious opinion on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:18 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Diminished_responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:14 AM
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I've met men who make more money than me (obviously), or were from a better socioeconomic background, but I've literally always been the main character of the relationship ): I don't know if I've ever dated a man that was better at me in anything I seriously wanted to be good at. (And I'm not nurturing enough to date a man that I genuinely admired the goals or work of.) I don't really have this issue with women, at least? I feel a lot less pressure to be useful or non-threatening.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:07 AM
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The political angle to your posts is always interesting. You're obviously some kind of natalist. Maybe a "rationalist." Do you post on the rationalist/natalist subreddits? I imagine that would get more traction. Or are you trying to elevate PDD into your natalist agenda? (And that's why you leaning on silly feminist strawmen to get the boys worked up. Mentioning feminism will always get you at least one angry bot in the comments...!)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 02:37 AM
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I think people in public spaces should be socially house trained.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 02:28 AM
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Spoken like a true believer. You won't go to looksmaxxxer heaven if you keep torturing yourself with these thoughts, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 02:24 AM
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I'm curious why you posted this topic, if you are married to a woman without trauma baggage. You've got everything you want. Can we ask what prompted your declaration that you would not date or marry a woman with an abuse history?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 02:20 AM
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I'm happy to hear that some men actually do some of their own filtering and discerning. Victims of abuse have it hard enough. They don't need the hassle of dating these people, having an unhappy, unrewarding relationship, and then having to end the relationship themselves. That being said, a man who feels that way needs to say this upfront. It would be deranged to be involved with someone, discover their past, and then inform this person it would never be a real relationship because they don't h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 02:15 AM
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I can't believe you guys invented Blackpill Calvinism that's so sad on so many levels
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 02:02 AM
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I think if I really hated a man over the course of the date I would insist on paying, if only to say: this is not a date, this was a failed interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 01:58 AM
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Every time a "stud" hits on me, I assume he is going to pour pig's blood on me, he is desperate for sex or attention, or he's about to tell me his personal history of accepting Jesus into his heart. It actually weirds me out less when a "normal" person hits on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 01:55 AM
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So you think having basic social skills means, "free boyfriend energy."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 01:47 AM
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Those men pulled the correct lottery ticket on a random night. Those nights are rare. The "Chad who didn't have to wait" was in fact, a man who got lucky on an occasion that is not permanently open for others to scratch a ticket. Stop trying to win the lottery.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 01:45 AM
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These answers are so beige! Where's the manifestos? Where's the completely delusional but fascinating future wife fanfiction?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 01:40 AM
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Yes, I am quick to label those men. We're going to have to disagree on the sanity and morality of these men. Jealousy and possessiveness is a blight on civilized society.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 01:32 AM
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If she talks about cheating a lot...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 04:40 AM
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That's beautiful, comrade. Glad to hear you've become an ally to progressive thought. Spread the word far and wide that it's time for a post-scarcity, post-gender, post-hierarchy world.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 04:35 AM
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Sorry kitten ): don't go on the scary adult subs, okay? Daddy's going to put up a movie poll in the Discord and he's thinking Bambi or Fox and the Hound.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 04:29 AM
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It's more entertaining than here, I'll give them that. It's like reading a guidebook to domestic abuse...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 04:26 AM
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You would accept anyone. Don't you realize how repulsive that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 04:24 AM
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In a monogamous relationship, it's fishy that you don't think this behavior warrants an automatic abortion. My hypothetical, non existent child would not be raised by this kind of lunatic nor would I want his delusional genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 04:20 AM
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I've been looking at the actual red pill subreddit. It's fascinating: the guide writers appear genuinely, deliberately, joyous in their evil in a way that's refreshing from the evil dweebs here who insist they're the heroic underdog, but even the Real Red Pill guide writers are still convinced they're being oppressed by blue hair socialists. All women are emotional, submissive children, so that's why we're putting them down systematically whenever they show skill, ease and value at anything we d…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 01:10 AM
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So, I will never have a child and I don't want them. I think the issue is that the person who inseminated you is a paranoid nutcase who waited until you were inseminated to reveal what a paranoid nutcase he is. In the context of a monogamous relationship, this is a serious insult. In a monogamous relationship, paternity test demands should be an automatic abortion. Because the person who's also legally responsible for this child is a controlling, paranoid, conflict-seeking drama queen who should…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 12:53 AM
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OP, have you ever met a single bisexual or gay person IRL? (I imagine you're a brain in a jar in Peter Thiel's nuclear bunker.)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 11:09 PM
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You should get tested whenever you have a new long term partner, and ask for their test as well. Straight men are especially bad about not testing regularly, so if you plan on dating straight men you'll need to be careful.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 10:55 PM
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All of the bisexual men I know IRL are really cool, wonderful people who are ironically the least terminally online gender war types. They're all in serious domestic relationships. This is all to say, from one bisexual to another... pls read up on the 2010s bisexual woman/lesbian discourse and realize how dead the horse you're beating is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 10:51 PM
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As someone who has unfortunately been approached for commitment and validation, despite wanting solely casual relationships: These men are not good relationship partners. I imagine, if one of them was compatible enough, we sluts would be interested in a relationship. But they're not compatible. They're kind of unstable. They're bad at emotional regulation. They're as naive as virgins. They often cannot make a regular relationship work, and use casual sex to secure validation and physical comfort…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 10:42 PM
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We can tell a lot from two sentences! First, that there's only two sentences. For me, that's already an immediate swipe left unless those are two very interesting or very funny sentences. But look how much information you can get out of two sentences: "Get me off of this app. Looking for forever." This person is desperate, unoriginal, and believes he can find forever on a gambling app with two desperate sentences. "Cali sober forager here to smooch cuties, communicate our feelings, and build int…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 10:04 PM
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There's nothing wrong with blocking people you know you won't match with. It's just an app. You don't owe everyone a chance. You're already swiping left, right? That being said, look for reasons to qualify someone, not just disqualify them. I only match with interesting, specific profiles of roughly the same education and goals. (More educated is better, of course.)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 05:58 AM
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Why be basic, though? The written aspect of the bio helps someone to determine if you are interesting enough to talk to and to be pleasant enough to go on a date with. No one can be excited about a basic profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 05:41 AM
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I literally swipe left on anyone who uses a 1 liner, cliche, or is unspecific in their bio...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 05:16 AM
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"looking good gorgeous 😍" - unserious, lame web presence, comments this on everyone he finds attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 05:03 AM
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The Berlin Stories, Yesteryear, a lot of short fiction in current magazines.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 04:59 AM
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...this is literally so tame, I thought this would be ahegao Charlie Kirk or something. I would put an artistic anime sticker next to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 04:53 AM
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Every once in awhile you can see someone on the internet who can be saved. But yeah I can't check this every day, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 04:48 AM
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Some of the feminists tend to be more realistic and grounded here, than on other parts of the internet. I don't know if anyone will ever be sympathetic to my true ideals, but they would be closer to here than a board of 21 year olds at nice private colleges scolding adults for stupid college student reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 04:45 AM
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Are you a scientologist lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 04:39 AM
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Issue 1: we live in an economic, transactional, terminally online hellhole that does not incentivize pro-social romantic behavior Issue 2: most men are (functionally) aromantic, if not clinically aromantic. At best, they're limerent. (Likely an actual mental health symptom and not love.) There's also a subset of men who think their jealousy and control is also romantic. They might idealize toxic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 04:31 AM
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When will Purple Pill Debate invent a, "OP is clearly delusional, manic, or on drugs" reporting mechanism?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 04:22 AM
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Goal-oriented red pill women are hilarious. They found an elaborate alternative lifestyle game to play and they are winning it. (Marriage focused red pill women make me sad though.)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 04:18 AM
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Dude are you on cocaine
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 04:15 AM
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Have you ever read Carrie by Stephen King?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:26 AM
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Already done that bro. it's not that big of a deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:23 AM
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You're too young to worry about this kind of thing, okay? Promise me you'll stop going on Reddit. Do anything but go on Reddit. Please. You have your whole life ahead of you. Don't feed the worst parts of your mind in this hellhole. No one here is happy. Read some books over your break. Maybe take a sociology class next semester, if you have one available.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:49 AM
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Are... you in high school...?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:21 AM
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hashtag winning
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:14 AM
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Ambiguous phrasing bro
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:09 AM
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I am guessing that you are upset that you are not in the tiny minority of hot women who were promoted without merit. You don't want to work hard. You want to be naturally beautiful and praised at a high status job without earning it. I am sympathetic. It is also unfair that I am not a nepo baby with perfect pitch, eidetic memory, a 300 IQ, constant lucid dreaming, and was personally mentored by my idols to be the most talented person in the world. It's not fair that I don't have a 23 inch waist …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:01 AM
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See my original comment, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:41 AM
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No one is forcing you to judge romantic partners on looks alone. Get some standards. You'll feel better about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:40 AM
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I genuinely think that's just customer service. I have been asked to do very stupid things from genders of all ages, and it's because I am a captive audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:36 AM
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Why hasn't the "biological clock" and "maternal nature" solved the birth rate crisis naturally?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:32 AM
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OP can start judging his romantic partners on merit and not just looks. No one is forcing him to pick romantic partners on looks alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:27 AM
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So... men judge men by merit, but only give women opportunities and status if she is good looking? Is that what we're saying? And you think this is unfair to the men, who can just work hard to be good at something? What about the regular looking women who are genuinely good at something, but get passed up because the boss wants to give favors to the intern? Is it fair to the talented women who apparently have to put on a full cosmetic costume so a man wants to "favor" them to succeed at their jo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:59 AM
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...What were you doing for transportation before you dated this man? If he's regularly propositioning you for sex without foreplay when he's driving you to work or something... 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:48 AM
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Don't fuck him if he doesn't do foreplay. Don't be explicit about the lack of foreplay, just turn him down and leave the car. Or, possibly, just use a toy when he initiates without foreplay but don't fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:32 AM
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I don't think I've ever had an issue with a hookup not touching me. Usually it goes: make out, heavy petting, inevitably they put their hand on my thigh, sooner or later they're rubbing my clit. I think most of them implicitly understand that they're getting me off before I would get them off. It should be mentioned that I am not on birth control and I do not carry condoms. We're usually in a place that's inconvenient to fuck in regardless. Make having sex inconvenient, but also make it clear yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:24 AM
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Clit stimulation and finger penetration are the two main ones! I personally can get off from thigh and ass touch. I'm sure it's rare, but it's worth looking into. I don't know how you're doing it, but I would also recommend not going to the bed and taking off your clothing immediately. Tights or leggings goes a long way. You don't want easy access when you're having a random hookup. Start off in a more inconvenient place to fool around, and move towards more convenient places to fuck as a reward…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:05 AM
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N count is irrelevant. How desperate is he for attention? How often does he flirt with random women in front of me? How much conflict comes into his life because of his interactions with women? That's the real n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:42 AM
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We would already be in an open relationship, so sure, I guess? But I would also still be open. If he brought up your exact talking points I would think he was a terminally online lunatic. He appears to want to punish both his intimate partner for her experience and his lack of experience. I have no desire to be punished.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:38 AM
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I can't believe bisexual guys are having their 2018 bisexual Tumblr discourse era. Sorry you guys were the latest victim of the algorithm. ): I wonder if this is meant to keep bisexual men from IDing as bi, and splintering away from greater LGBT+ solidarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:31 AM
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I think casual sex with men is over. They are all so bad at having actual casual sex and immediately try to pick boyfriend level fights and ask for boyfriend level attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:23 AM
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All of the promiscuous women I know have just outright told me... I would write out their common traits, but I don't actually want any of these dweebs going after that kind of women. But it would be hard to tell off the street. The only thing I would want to say is that there's a lightness to a promiscuous women, like a sparkling wine, that lifts them above the rabble. It's almost aristocratic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:05 AM
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Men Complaining On The Internet on Formulaic and Predictable Ways with Predictable Responses: wow I wonder what conservative think rank social media campaign led to this pitiful post on Reddit. Is this a bot? Is this a very easily influenced man reading the comments of bots? The women outside looked from bot to man, and from man to bot, and from bot to man again; but already it was impossible to say which was which. Men Complaining IRL: situational empathy or joke as required
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:46 AM
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The man should get you off first, then and only then should you go forward with sex. If he won't get you off first, go just home. He should be tolerable enough to get drinks with. Agreeable personality = more likely to get you off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:38 AM
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Cmv: no one wants to fuck this person
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:28 AM
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The man is probably engaging in a creative writing exercise. He undoubtedly wants other men to admire him for his nonchalant attitude towards women. That being said, if a woman is serious about marriage, she shouldn't be commit to a man without having a relationship goals discussion first. edit: also, don't cook or meet a man's family if he hasn't expressed any interest in marriage. People who don't want to get married can do whatever they want, although I would still hold cooking and family to …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:20 AM
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Ideally you want someone who has just been socialized with women, understands that different women have different personalities, hobbies, and interests, and is remotely aware of the inner lives and complicated friendships women. I had an ex who had female friends, but he only had surface level relationships with them. The Inner Life was a shock. I don't think he'd ever heard a female friend talk frankly about a relationship before...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:14 AM
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Great, this person is simply a dullard and i ncapable of meaningful adult conversation. Dumping.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 07:43 AM
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I wish reddit would let you change your post titles!!! :(
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:44 AM
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Oh, I've realized the issue now, it's the title. I think I borrowed too much from the post I parodied. It should be keep a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:43 AM
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I responded with a link to create a new post and the auto moderator removed it ):
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:35 AM
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This is a QUESTION FOR MEN post. You did not ANSWER MY QUESTIONS. Feel free to make your own post asking women how to get matches on dating apps!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:28 AM
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I asked many questions that you did not answer. <3
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:19 AM
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Buddy, you're failing my personal turing test right now, maybe work on that before you use dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:17 AM
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You can't make broad sweeping generalizations any more :( why are you ruining my bit :( am I supposed to write, "In shocking contrast, an unknown percentage men (on the internet) just watch porn and go to the gym"??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:45 AM
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Maybe your algorithm specifically takes you to these posts because it knows you're insecure about being a virgin... Please. Promise me you'll do a social media cleanse. Don't look at this gender web garbage. Do something pleasant and offline.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:24 AM
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Kid, you really can't take Obvious Gender Shitposting on PPD this seriously. I could be a man. I could be a dog. I could be marketing an air pulse sex toy. Anyone here could be anyone. I'm actually a Russian troll farmer. Everything on the internet is bad. Maybe the Reddit algorithm specifically took you to this because it knows you're insecure about being a virgin, and the Question for Men Flair specifically brought you here for extra misery. I debated going line by line to explain what I actua…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:16 AM
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I don't think this projects confidence to your spouse, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:38 AM
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I suppose I would talk it out with my partner and see why they don't want to do it anymore. If the answer is, "I hate you," then I would dump them. If the answer is reasonable, I would move forward in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:35 AM
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The post is for sexually active people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:31 AM
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That's... not what this post is saying. This sexual post is primarily about men with partners. It's also referencing the posts in which men say they want to be The Best Sex Their Girlfriend Has Ever Had. Men who were not in sexual relationships did not cross my mind when writing this post. Please don't attribute a moral judgement to what amounts to shitposting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:29 AM
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Interesting book recs, I might check them out! Sex God Method kind of sounds like a theater theory book...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:24 AM
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You're married but decentering women? How does your wife feel about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:16 AM
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Someone made broad, ungenerous gendered generalizations on PPD? This has never happened before. I'm breaking new ground. In shocking contrast, many men (on the internet If I were dedicated to arguing with you, which I am not, I would beat the semantics of "many men (on the internet)" to death and drag a painful thread back and forth for several replies. Lucky for you, that's extremely boring for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:15 AM
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A shibari meetup? Not judging, but yeah thats no different than being a weeb or a gearhead. This is actually hilariously true
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:08 AM
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I have had to endure like three posts about men needing to be the Best at Sex Ever For Their GF 😭 I wish I could make you guys battle like Pokemon...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:04 AM
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To be entirely honest, this post is a slight parody of another post that was directed to women. That being said, this is primarily for men who already have hookups or relationships. (These factors will ensure you stay with a partner.)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:01 AM
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You changed my original scenario... we were talking about how different people have different kinks and an ex's different kinks are irrelevant to mine... I don't know, in your scenario it really depends. If it's something that would be neat to try, but it's not my main fetish, and he's not rubbing his prior balloon stepping in my face, then I would not end a relationship over what amounts to crossing an item off a bucket list. (But if he's being an asshole about it, I would end it.) If I can't g…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:20 AM
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I thought red pill was supposed to be confident. Admitting to this... does not project confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:04 AM
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In this metaphor, I have hybristophilia. He needs to commit crimes to get me off. I don't care how enthusiastically he's stepped on a balloon and if he will do it with me. I wouldn't have asked him to step on a balloon to begin with. I care if he's doing crimes. If he's constantly talking about how he stepped on balloons with his ex, I would think he wanted me to be insecure. Depending on the severity, I would dump him for being an asshole. But the balloons are irrelevant. The issue would be tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:03 AM
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Whenever I skim your flair looks like an acronym for Magic the Gathering...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 05:04 AM
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Who's going to tell him? Just be careful and don't shit where you eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 05:02 AM
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No, I think people should prioritize their sexual needs. If someone can meet those needs, they're compatible. If I am ambivalent about stepping on balloons, but my partner's ex loved stepping on balloons, I'm not going to be jealous of my partner participating in their balloon-stepping fetish. I only care if my partner commits crimes to indulge my hybristophilia. Past relationships are irrelevant, unless someone is constantly bringing up their sexual past to actively make their partner unhappy. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 05:01 AM
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Well yeah, that's what everyone should want.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:53 AM
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Customers only like yelling at humans, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:51 AM
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This is such an impolite question, but do PPD men ever hit on you? Your DMs must be hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:49 AM
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Flying a drone can't be that hard, can it? (You could even get the kids to do it and tell them it's a video game! /s)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:44 AM
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This must have been so good, I'm sad I missed it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:40 AM
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<3 (I will keep shitposting at them, though.)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:38 AM
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Yep!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:37 AM
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This is probably because many men believe their sexual success to be more predefined and less learned. What if this exact mindset is why some men are UNSUCCESSFUL at having sex? Stop believing in sexual predestination. You have free will. Read a book about having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:36 AM
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These flavor of the week manosphere obsessions seem so... manufactured. Anal, Be Her Best, if she doesn't fuck me immediately she's a lesbian, etc etc. Sorry to all of the guys who happily leap on every new insecurity the manosphere assigns for you, but you are getting fucked the best by the Internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:28 AM
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I'm surprised you're comfortable telling other people this. You couldn't torture this out of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:18 AM
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Yes? I wouldn't care as long as I consistently came.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:15 AM
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I'm convinced the anal obsession is a manosphere pysop to get these men jealous, butthurt, and dumped so they can buy red pill cold approach courses and generate ad clicks for reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:10 AM
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She's welcome to break up with you if her needs are unmet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:09 AM
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How would you even know if you are her best sexual experience? How you enjoy being treated sexually is not the same is how her ex boyfriend enjoyed being treated sexually. Different people like different things. Sex is subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:06 AM
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There's a lot of blatant misinformation and venting on this sub. Most posts on PPD belong in a CBT thought journal, not shown to strangers on the internet. Debate implies some engagement with reality. I'm not going to waste hours of my life debating with a delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:56 AM
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Dating: safety, freedom to plan a het date without it seeming desperate, ability to be het romantic without it seeming desperate, not worrying about pregnancy, ability to get a vasectomy When actually in a relationship: Men are expected to be bad at housework, cooking, domestic duties, etc. Normie domestic women just remember stuff for men! ADHD would be so much more manageable with a normie, domestic minded wife. ): I guess I'm jealous of men acquiring substitute mother figures so easily. (I kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:37 AM
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Everyone's bodies are different. We all have different sensitivities, pain tolerances, ease of relaxation, athletic abilities, flexibilities, etc. You can hit certain angles with certain people and cum easily. You can be with someone who has the exact wrong shape and rhythm for you, personally. You can masturbate early and know exactly how to get yourself off, you might have started masturbating i n college. (I couldn't give you a specific evolutionary reason for any of this.)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:20 AM
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If she's cornering me at work and guilting me about it, it's safe to assume we are not friends, because if we're friendly, she would have asked in a lower pressure, more casual environment. I would hopefully say no, because I hate being guilted, but if she's on my team or department, I might need a convincing lie. ("I was going to give it to my struggling bff who is also a single mother.") Also, she has $200, she can get a present for her son that isn't a screen. What a generic-ass, low effort, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:55 AM
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When the sexually inexperienced woman leaves the sexually unskilled man and finds another, more skilled partner, she will in fact discover that he was bad at sex all along. If men want to be remembered fondly later, they will have to provide a positive sexual experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:43 AM
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So THAT'S why all of the Hyper Misogyny posts have a certain cadence...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:37 AM
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The billionaires won't pick you, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:35 AM
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What year and what city? Crashing a dev conference is sick
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:33 AM
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If you are under the age of 25 I suppose I understand why you don't acknowledge the social life option. Dunno why you kids aren't more angry at COVID tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:31 AM
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What year where you hired and what was the job?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:27 AM
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What decade was that in
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:26 AM
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You walked up to the brick and mortar building of every defense contractor in your city?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:26 AM
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Let us know how it is! (I only know about GTA roleplay servers, but it looks fun!)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:39 AM
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What's the results of their most recent STI test? I suppose the context would matter. A swinger would be much more palatable than someone who compulsively swiped on tinder every night for over half a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:35 AM
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Have you played any video games this summer? I recently bought Victoria 3, it's very complicated!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:32 AM
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It's probably completely average-sized, too...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:30 AM
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If you want to be the best, then be the best. Sexual skill has several skills within it. Dexterity, athleticism, creativity, ability to read the room, and interest in eroticism will take you much further than a low n count girl. (Unless you just want to do nothing and expect to impress someone with zero effort. In that case, maybe you should just watch a harem anime.)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:29 AM
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What if he tried to be good at sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:24 AM
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If only we could just tax the rich. :')
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:23 AM
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https://www.therapistaid.com/therapy-worksheet/cognitive-distortions
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:22 AM
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Yes, the low ELO players shouldn't play competitively with the high ELO players, that's correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:21 AM
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I had AOL...(And yes, AOL is not Snapchat.)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:16 AM
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Everyone should be aware that marriage is a contract. It's inherently unromantic. More women should remember how unromantic marriage and domestic life is. I would go as far as to say that men and women shouldn't get married unless they want children, and women should never live with a male partner, or share any assets unless they're getting married. (LGBT+ people are obviously not impacted by traditional gender roles in the same way, and can probably manage a lease without being married.)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:14 AM
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Cold approaching on the street is the dating equivalent of printing out your resume and handing it to every business in the city.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:04 AM
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how much time you spend learning about men? I'm on PPD, I learn so much about men. ): And then there's cultural absorption from media, academia, social media, the news, the weird guy on the bus, dating... do you change thing you do based on opinion from men? or would you? ever? Only for practical reasons. do you or have you ever try find out where men are and go there to try to meet them? No. I would not find a romantic partner by prowling around for men in public. how intentional do you do any …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:57 AM
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They wouldn't get easy emotional validation from a woman who wants casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:32 AM
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I have commitment issues, but I also enjoy sex. A lot of men still want to "win" the arrangement, however, and bring up emotional complications to their partners. (And me. Sigh. Ironically, this just leads them "losing" the situation harder.)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:29 AM
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TBH I think a lot of these guys are either political or delusional. I guess there's a deeply tribalistic victim complex that comes from being unable to assess and verify information, which is like being delusional but probably can't be fixed with pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:22 AM
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beautiful_poodle776
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:15 AM
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LMAO I was complaining about my post being removed and wrote a parody of the typical PPD post that's approved and coddled... And I got a warning from Reddit... Q4red pill: how aren't you guys constantly getting slapped with reddit warnings?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:15 AM
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[ Removed by Reddit ]
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:10 AM
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We should call this Poodle Posting
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:00 AM
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I don't know a single person who had meaningful romantic success in high school. A certain kind of special smart boy takes this fact of life personally, for whatever reason. ...it didn't even occur to you that a smart hot girl might be on the spectrum, did it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:59 AM
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Thank you for the lively debate!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:55 AM
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People project onto hot women a lot. When a hot woman has a real life, this interrupts the Hot Girl narrative. Men want Stacey with the big tits who goes to beach every summer, not Stacey the Film Studies adjunct professor. And, I only know Smart Hot Girls, but they have it the worst. They can't really date men dumber than them, at least long term, and often the smart men have a chip on their shoulder from their romantic failures in high school. They need an exact level of high functioning neuro…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:55 PM
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I don't know a single person who would actually be appropriate for some of the Very Hot Women I know, they're too smart and lively for the quote on quote nice men, but they activate high school wounds of not dating cheerleaders in the smarter men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:11 PM
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Society?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:37 PM
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Have you ever read a book written by a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:09 PM
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My hottest friends have the worst dating lives...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:07 PM
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A small minority of children and animals receive unconditional love. Some animals and children are adored. Some animals are eaten. Some children are beaten if they ask for dinner. Some children have measles. Some children are married off to their 40 year family friend and it's not illegal in that state. You might be surprised to learn that not every child, animal, and woman has a pleasant life. There are no guarantees to be loved. Can you guys just start posting about how much you'd rather be a …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:57 PM
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Insecurity is definitely one element. I read an article about women who own homes on their own, and the men they date flip out whenever they find out the woman owns a house by themselves. They seem to think they can't offer anything any more. I wonder if traditionally minded men genuinely cannot conceive of themselves as romantic agents who entice their equals, instead of paternal authority figures who exploit feminine resources. They want the "win", they want the status, they want the gender eu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:45 PM
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I have no idea what I offer. I don't think I'm relationship material. I don't want to be in relationship. But I have had plenty of people trying to be in serious relationships with me, so I imagine I offer a Freudian childhood wound reenactment or a fantasy of taming a wild horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:19 PM
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In a relationship, I want my partner to treat me like their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:13 PM
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It's literally always been higher in relationships. I've had mechanical issues at certain times, but the drive itself was still higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:06 PM
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Why is it so common for PPD posters to imagine this perfect fantasy life for women? Read a fantasy book if you need some escapism.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:58 PM
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Joke
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 08:27 AM
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Be civil. This includes direct attacks against an individual, indirect attacks against an individual, or witch hunting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 08:22 AM
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I might assume a more intelligent abuser takes better care of themselves... Most people don't want to report to the police. Rapists on Megan's List REALLY fucked up and committed a very obvious, easily prosecuted crime. Not saying there's a secret Chad Abuser Circle, just, there's a reason the typical public-facing pedophile looks like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 08:18 AM
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It's like we're not allowed to be funny!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:40 AM
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Better looking for men, could go either way for women. (Women are capable of loving a less good looking partner.)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:35 AM
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no it's for young hipsters
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:34 AM
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It's okay. Embrace your hybristophilia.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:33 AM
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The reality is that the guy is using his classmates as social media content and I would guess they don't want to be social media content to feed the manosphere! And it seems like an obvious bit that he's very publicly doing, it doesn't seem genuine whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:32 AM
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1, 6, and 7 are cute, 5 is scary. I don't care about height but the less facial hair the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:26 AM
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I only go for brunettes who work in STEM, for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:24 AM
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Muscles are so popular with men because they show that you're "masculine" and "with it" while also pretending you have a hobby. In lower class circles, they also show wealth/status.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:18 AM
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Are you actively trying to date women with a lot of tattoos or something...?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:16 AM
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Calling all women useless lying worthless whores who suckle taxes from the State who Live Off Men's Hard Work, and will be skewered for cannibalism in the coming apocalypse: totally normal, regular human interaction, definitely not rude A woman says that's really fucked up and this is why no one wants to date them: Be civil. This includes direct attacks against an individual, indirect attacks against an individual, or witch hunting. Call someone with a troll-like opinion a troll and describe the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:09 AM
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Red flag. Run away ASAP.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:01 AM
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Quitter talk. You love the soft, warm womb of the state, otherwise you would have left it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:00 AM
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I was sincerely trying to have a positive impact for awhile. The issue is that on one hand, you have deeply unhappy men who actually need help, and then you have grifters trying to capitalize on those men, and also need to turn women into the Other, and post their post apocalyptic violence fantasies of rape and slavery. Some people sincerely do not understand basic sociology concepts. They're convinced they're the true victims of society because TikTok told them so. It's like arguing with Flat E…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:41 AM
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I would (subconsciously) assume it was your work laptop, maybe? I don't actually notice these things, I would only notice the stickers to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:26 AM
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Some of my best and closest friends are people I met in my 30s...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:25 AM
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Call your daughter <3
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:23 AM
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Looking at your post history... your typing varies between a teenage Substack girlie and a 35+ man on 4chan. Possibly a teenage Substack girlie with a 35+ boyfriend who goes on 4chan. In the unlikely event you are actually a 57 year old woman who is genuinely sincere about looking at that scene in Wild at Heart and genuinely not registering the physical assault and coercion ... Well, I'm sorry. I won't say more because that is well above shitposter PPD pay grade, and you probably are actually a …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:20 AM
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They let you on the internet when you were five??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:32 AM
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(TV) Sex and the City - this is sort of a joke but seriously, it might give any humanity to the dating process for women whatsoever Perfect Blue - an exploration of being on a pedestal Literally any college undergraduate literary journal. Why? Because they're filled with tortured undergrad unrequited love poems written by young women who are having a terrible time with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:32 AM
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I didn't realize you were a troll until today, I must be losing my touch. I just thought you were 18 and homeschooled...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:28 AM
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It really depends on how I was raised. If I somehow had my exact upbringing, then yes. (Highly unlikely!) But I imagine I would have been more complacent if I were raised a man, and might even believe in concepts like family and fatherhood. My only hope to escape NPC land would be my neurodivergence and bisexuality. I would probably be similar to my brother, although he is arguably also doing better than all of you. I might also be dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:18 AM
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When are you joining the commune? C'mon, unplug your internet, get some beef tallow and find a nice unvaccinated libertarian divorcee!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:59 AM
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I can't speak to r elationships, marriage, or birth, but I definitely had more sex before Roe v Wade was repealed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:58 AM
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Why does everyone on here pretend red pill is a real separate thing from the manosphere, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:57 AM
1

Don't give them any ideas about banning vibrators...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:55 AM
14

It's all about the projection. If he can project on you, he'll "love" you forever, or at least until he finds a new projection object.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:48 AM
1

Oh, catty! C+
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:44 AM
2

I think you should try to roleplay a ragebait hypergamist woman instead, I think that's an easier character to play. Tradqueer is a bit too nuanced for an amateur without specialized knowledge, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:27 PM
2

Oh, okay, you're getting a little better, C- but it's an improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:22 PM
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I don't even know what this is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:11 PM
5

You're the least convincing queer person ever, at least TRY to larp better in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:10 PM
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Dating your coworkers is generally a bad idea, but if he works in another department or it's not a career job it's probably fine. If it's a career job, and he's serious about it, he's probably much less likely to ask you out. (Or he should be. It also depends on the career job.) Not sure what to tell you other than to wear nice/feminine clothing to work, go to after hours drinks (and invite him if it's reasonable to do so), and to keep dating around in the meantime.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 07:08 PM
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Is it just me, or are there a lot of anarchist larpers on this board lately? Are we ramping up for the 4th of July or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 06:53 PM
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I don't know, I feel personally attacked!!! /j That being said, anyone trying to understand women through negative generalizations about the opposite sex is the very reason this sub will always exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 06:51 PM
7

You sound uncommitted to your sovereign citizen larp. There's plenty of off grid communities in the Pacific Northwest that are thriving and if you're not prepared to disconnect, join a commune, and live your best tax free life with other anarcho capitalists, you clearly don't mean a word you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 06:48 PM
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Religion is a tool to sanction power. It doesn't matter which world building is attached to it. It's always going to serve power.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 06:37 PM
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Is he a friend or an acquaintance? (I'm very much out of my depth with traditional dating, but, if this person follows you on social media, post cute but tasteful pictures on your social media. Make sure you're doing something interesting.)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 06:35 PM
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Why do you feel unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 06:24 PM
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True Alpha Widow take right here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 06:18 PM
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Go off the grid and live your best anarcho capitalist life! No one is forcing you to exist in society as you are now. Why do you need Daddy Government to change to validate your lifestyle?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 06:11 PM
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Our society is not LGBT, disability, or bipoc friendly. Government mandated girlfriends is the least of their worries at the moment. If you want to be a good ally to those groups, strengthening social services, tackling stigma, removing bigoted government officials, and fixing issues with disability laws and SSDI would be a genuine solution. (Also, why the hell does a bisexual man need a government mandated girlfriend? One of the joys of being queer is not having children. That's a perk. If he's…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 06:05 PM
2

"Solipsistically" feels a bit incivil :(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:53 PM
1

So you... have basic situational awareness? (I can see why hitting on women in public does work for you but not for other people.)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:47 PM
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You ask, "why should men sympathize with that point?" regarding abortion. I am telling you why the average man does sympathize with abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:45 PM
2

I'm going to start asking any man who approaches me if he's a TikToker
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:40 PM
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Why should other men sympathize with this point? Your sex life is irrelevant to another man getting baby trapped by abortion laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:38 PM
1

Incel has obviously evolved into a subculture and mindset beyond its original benign meaning of "involuntarily celibate", which was coined by a queer woman who experienced genuine loneliness and sexual frustration. Incel = manosphere Involuntary celibate = lonely person
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:24 PM
1

Hmm. I am mostly attracted to taken people that I cannot have, or people with very busy schedules, so honestly no?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:21 PM
1

My longest monogamous relationship (+3 years) was with a man who was 5'7
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:19 PM
1

Out of curiosity, how do you systemically calibrate?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:16 PM
1

Okay, great! Stop using the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 09:48 PM
2

How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 09:03 AM
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I have trouble believing anything anyone could say would persuade you. Vote pro choice if you want to live in a real society, vote pro life if your ultimate end game is no secular music, electricity, alcohol, or nightlife.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:10 AM
3

No kid is going “gee life sucks I wish I my mom aborted me Literally me as a teenager...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:02 AM
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You should care because you will definitely be on the hook for a baby you don't want if the mother can't get a legal abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:01 AM
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Wow alpha widows are sensitive :( I'm sorry this makes you so emotional
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:58 AM
2

<3 (it's what I would want for myself if I were being lazy!)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:17 AM
2

You can get magazines on the Libby app!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:28 AM
1

This is not meant to be a personal attack. I am explaining why you fart jokes work and your "intellect" does not. You are probably more agreeable and humorous when you act "stupid." Your apparent authentic intellect self makes statements as, "intellect is a sexual turn-off for most women."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:26 AM
2

Hmm. If it's a personal/creative project that means a lot to him, you should edge for the greater good. If he's just making a website or w/e then keep having sex lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:56 AM
1

I know wayyyy more abrasive women with annoying voices in relationships than single women...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:51 AM
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To be honest, your writing style does not come across as bright. Your writing style is imperious, emotional, and high maintenance. This is why your fart jokes are more successful. No one wants an emotional man with self esteem issues who thinks he's smarter than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:46 AM
2

What does hustle mean here? If it means go to the job that he pays rent with, he is too stupid to live and you should train him like a dog. If it means an after-hours side hustle, he's just being lazy and blaming sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:34 AM
1

Bro she's just swamped with messages, stop reading so much into it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:26 AM
0

The kind of sex I want is extremely specific, context-driven, and requires a very adventurous and very sensitive partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:16 AM
1

Lack of reading comprehension is a red flag!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:07 AM
1

Being unethical is bad. People should be ethical. Most people agree with this. Please don't believe every ragebait comment you read on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:05 AM
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The world is not prepared for my dating memoir. If Reddit as a whole were forced to consume my life with their eyes forced open with pliers, Redditors would either misinterpret anything, like a fundamentalist evangelical trying to read a book about dinosaurs, or they would be fixed as people who could now see a woman's actions as a human's actions. Excluding the crushing but sympathetic backstory which actually colors all of my actions and motivations to this day, I'll just say that I'm a bit of…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:58 AM
0

If I can't find the kind of sex I want, am I an incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:23 AM
4

First rule of being a slut is to use condoms!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:22 AM
1

So you're... a social media intern for Peter Thiel?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:48 PM
4

Silence, alpha widow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:25 AM
5

I don't actually find men having sex with other men emasculating or a turn off whatsoever. Literally Who Cares. Also, gay sex is not always anal all of the time and it's weird that everyone is so fixated on the idea that their bisexual boyfriend might bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:24 AM
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I'm guessing you're some kind of auth-left larper? Plenty of men on this board consider women to be society's rightful roadkill and they're angry that we have collectively stopped jumping into traffic, but those men are at least consistent with their utter dogshit policies. Your policies are just... sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:07 AM
1

Incel is a vibe, not a meaningful classification. His browser history makes him an incel, not his actual sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:55 AM
1

It sounds like you want a totalitarian fascist government with some communism thrown in.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:05 AM
1

How are you left if you would sign off on the handmaiden's tale? Please be serious. In what world would we have get UBI, universal healthcare, maximum salaries, free college, solar energy... and no rights for women? There's a common thread in countries with no rights for women: a massive lack of rights and resources for everyone. Misogyny is just a the newest opiate of the masses. It's a cooling balm sold to men in failed societies. If you can't move upwards, at least you can drag a woman downwa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:58 AM
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Well, I'm unwilling to commit and emotionally unavailable! Unfortunately they always want to commit when you don't. :( Here's my boyfriend speedrun, put: "not looking for anything serious" in your profile, mean it, meet up with a man in public before having sex, be pleasant, have sex. If he's any good at sex, repeat. Rebuff any emotional gestures or talk. Eventually you will receive a neurotic breakdown of romantic interest. You now have a man with a wounded ego who wants to be exclusive with yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:26 AM
1

I used to play extremely toxic multiplayer video games online. I think I miss it. ):
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:16 AM
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Maybe if you're exclusively trying to date 18 year olds...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:13 AM
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It's not the inexperience itself, and it's not a deal breaker. It's more that this person probably doesn't have a lot of other similar experiences to me, probably doesn't share my values, and wouldn't be coming from the same cultural background.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:12 AM
1

I want someone to like me, not like being not single. You'll never know if someone genuinely likes you unless they're comfortable being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:02 AM
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THANK YOU
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:01 AM
1

That too! It's so hyper specific to the exact sexual situation and people, it's not something that can always be done with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:00 AM
1

nonviolent nonparticipation in the gender wars. We're talking about real wars and real violence, not TikTok But I also do not appreciate being gaslit by absurd claims that women like this aren't the majority. I only talk to smart women and I do not talk to dumb women. Have you tried talking to smart women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:54 AM
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No one is an adult in America. :') Most schools don't have real sex education. We're obsessed with porn and banning it. We're banning books all of the time. Adult men can marry children with the child's parents consent. Women are not guaranteed access to reproductive freedom. I would happily move to Europe and never be treated to dinner again if it meant I was an adult in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:44 AM
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Yeah, the bill is literally never an issue with women, I assume that I'm paying for myself unless I specifically want to pay for the other woman, and then sometimes she wants to pay for me, and no one feels weird about it either way. But, I usually have a good time on dates with women, I often want to impress or entertain women, and sometimes it's fun to be in a more "masculine" role. Whereas with men, I don't feel the same freedom or enjoyment out of being the romantic, "active" partner. (In la…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:38 AM
1

So what other gendered social issues do you care about besides paying for dinner?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:19 PM
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You're so bad at this <3
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:17 PM
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I'm not traditional! But I am American, and we have a lot of internet-poisoned manosphere men running around. One of the easiest ways to determine if a man consumes a lot of manosphere content is if he gets weird about splitting the check. And given the rollback of reproductive rights in this country, many women feel that dating and sex are much bigger risks now. If a man isn't easy going enough and agreeable enough pay for dinner on the first date, he might be a liability later on if god forbid…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:16 PM
1

So... either she has low self esteem, she makes a lot of money, or she's European?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:55 PM
1

Why is she your dream girl? What do you like about her? Would she have been your dream girl if she hadn't offered to split?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:53 PM
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(Well, they asked me out, I didn't realize they weren't paying. They weren't serious dates, either. I would have assumed they were some kind of maladjusted manosphere content consumer if they'd outright told me ahead of time that they weren't paying for tea and snacks...)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:37 PM
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u mad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:34 PM
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(Are you actually a pacifist? If this isn't actually a strongly held belief of yours, I'm not going to bother discussing violence and gender in-depth.) The first link looks interesting and I might take the time to read it. The second link looks like complete garbage "science." And yes, women can also be stupid about gender. Do you want to impress the lowest common denominator of female pseudoscience consumers?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:31 PM
1

Well, yes, him asking follow up questions and remembering basic information about me will determine if I like him. Him paying suggests if he likes me. ;) If you live in a nice European country, I can understand where you're coming from re dinner. If you live in the United States, I have to assume you're either very young or in very alternative spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:25 PM
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I'm not in undergrad and I would not date undergraduate men, lol. The times are changing... and I think there are more pressing gender social issues than whether or not the man pays for dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:22 PM
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There's no alphas on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 06:11 AM
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Disclaimer: I don't want a traditional relationship at all. But a man paying for the first date's dinner is a good indication that he likes you or has enough social skills to at least pretend to be polite. Him not paying is almost a soft rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 06:10 AM
1

I've only been on 2 first dates ever where the man didn't offer to pay... (Both men were obnoxious and borderline evangelical with their politics.)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 06:02 AM
1

I've never been on a date with an interesting man who seemed interested in me and refused to pay for me...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:54 AM
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It happens on occasion. (But younger women actually like me more than younger men, somehow.)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:53 AM
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It's okay you can still be an alpha widow
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:45 AM
2

Sounds like you're an alpha widow </3
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:43 AM
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That sounds super sweet! (One of my most memorable experiences was in my early 20s with someone who had... similar issues to myself. We would have made a terrible couple. But thankfully we didn't date and the sex was so good, in large part because we were both at peak nihilism...)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:42 AM
1

Do you care about society? Manosphere men in the USA have a habit of shooting up schools and we aren't any closer to gun laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:31 AM
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The fact that you assume "unique experiences" would be a guy with a 7 foot dick, or was a circus contortionist is the exact issue here. Not everyone is into my kinks. Nor would I expect them to be. Context and chemistry are important. It's actually very weird that you assume that special sex comes down to dick size and circus tricks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:19 AM
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Filters are from 27-40. But dudes in their early 30s are putting this up, too... 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:08 AM
1

Lmao, what's a societal problem: Actual crimes and ethical violations Not getting enough attention Pls be serious
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:07 AM
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HR is an entirely separate gender category. They're capitalism pickmes. Pls do not compare to actual women...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:45 AM
2

I feel like manosphere men are the real alpha widows... you're all so obsessed with getting the "alpha" experience from a woman that being treated like a regular man is miserable for you...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:44 AM
2

"no kids never married" is not a fucking dating app profile!! Nor is "I'm an open book just ask!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:40 AM
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No? I have had many specific experiences that many people could not recreate, nor would they have any interest in recreating. Now... if someone were constantly talking about getting creampied in the ass, and kept reminding me that I could not creampie them... I would break up with them, because they sound like a pain in the ass, no pun intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:38 AM
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Democratic socialists of America! (In my city they just have baby bangs, tell each other to read theory, and cancel each other for ridiculous reasons on the internet. Life is full of counter revolutionaries when your parents send you to a nice college and pay your rent...)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:27 AM
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*initial comment to this post ~excuse me~ lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:21 AM
0

Your feelings are not facts. Have ideals or don't have them, but don't complain about your unexpressed ideals not appealing to the lowest common denominator.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:20 AM
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This is so dumb. It's always fucking anal and (enjoyed) anal with someone else is a skill issue, and (unenjoyable) anal is also a fucking skill issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:14 AM
0

You're certainly kinder than I am. Good for you. Whenever my ex told me his "pitiful" stories of reading the classic literature for his college crush, and making romantic gestures for her, I was well aware he was just trying to annoy me and not expressing a deeper feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:12 AM
3

A lot of people don't understand that they can just say no without adding a qualifier...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:07 AM
4

Listening comprehension skill issues are very sad but likely weeding out the weak to begin with. 0/10 should not reproduce with if he's that insanely insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:58 AM
0

It's rude of your husband to tell you this. He shouldn't be telling you this. I would argue that he's probably trying to make you unhappy with this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:56 AM
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It rarely comes up. On the rare occasions someone has tried to pry, it's very easy to politely sidestep, because asking is rude to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:54 AM
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They don't consider romantic compatibility whatsoever and then crash out over "red flags." This would be so much easier if people considered what they actually wanted and looked for people who wanted the same thing instead of trying to beigemaxxx.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:46 AM
3

What an interesting bit you're doing. I even think you genuinely believe it, as opposed to trolling...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:02 AM
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I tease men I like. I ignore men I don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:53 PM
1

It sounds like you want attention. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:52 PM
1

If I keep my attractiveness level, my family and background would have turned my masculine self into an unsuccessful, mewling psychopath, an actually successful former psychopath, completely hollow shell of a human being, comatose, or a master autistic zen master. It's really hard to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:50 PM
1

So it's a psychosexual thing for you, that you're a conservative cop?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:17 PM
1

The average woman would not get murdered immediately. The average man, put into a woman's body, would get murdered immediately. Big difference!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:16 PM
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That's a very different statement than, "Women won't sleep with men they wouldn't date." Maybe you should change your initial post?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:58 PM
1

Why put it in your flair if you don't want it commented on?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:56 PM
1

He would get brutally attacked and murdered immediately, after joining an online app, actually. Not enough stranger danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:54 PM
1

How are people who don't like conservative cops supposed to refer to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:45 PM
3

Many women sleep with men they wouldn't date!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:44 PM
1

Riding boots and the braids? I'm into it...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:27 PM
2

Yeah, at the end of the day, I'm looking for an adult interaction with other adults. Swinging sounds great. (Given the amount of age players in my kink community, adult interaction is decidedly impossible...)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:21 PM
0

So if I like conservative cops, and I call you a conservative cop, it's fine. But if I dislike conservative cops, and call you a conservative cop, it's an insult?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:14 PM
1

Why do you perceive my comment to be snarky? You put, "Red Pill Man - Conservative Cop" on your flair. I stated that you were a good representation of a conservative cop. Why would you be offended by me using the words from your own description of yourself? Shouldn't you want to be a good representation of a conservative cop?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:03 PM
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Yeah... I should consider it. From what I've seen, swingers are not constantly attempting to portray themselves as safe, which ironically makes them far safer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:30 PM
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he gave her his number with his business card telling her he’s going to make one of the great animes of all time as a bold proclamation, and she was open minded willing to check and hear him out (although she giggles at the audacious claim) I think he made a silly claim and she was silly enough to indulge him. That's not power. That's being entertaining... this woman enjoys being entertained...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:24 PM
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I wish my local kink scene wasn't so toxic. ): it was like high school, except less attractive and more immature, and everyone pretended to be a wholesome, safe, woke carebear of positivity... (They were not.) One of the big names in the scene had a psychopathic husband that I ran afoul of. I immediately dipped. Got better hobbies. It would be nice if alternative lifestyle groups weren't exclusively filled with married couples who want to punish unmarried women for not being attached to a mascul…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:21 PM
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Okay but what are they DOING with it? Is it all getting their kids into good schools and owning nice things? (What a waste!) Are all women with wealthy husbands political operatives? What's going on here?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:05 PM
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Unless you have a specific goal and you plan on using the other person's power to achieve it, I can't even see why the average person would aspire to date a powerful person. The power itself would be a liability unless I was reasonably sure this person was sympathetic to me and my goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:57 PM
1

We have people banging on about government mandated girlfriends and traditional households and anti-voting shit in this sub all of the time. I'll tag you the next time I see one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:53 PM
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Most of my attraction is "this person is attractive and fun to talk to. I enjoy spending time with them." All of this: How he initially approached you, how he talks to you, treats you in general, makes love to you, plans dates, etc. Depends on this: temper, sense of humor, personality, kindness, job/income, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:49 PM
0

I see that post like once a month from men...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:44 PM
1

If you complain to boys about what you're experiencing, they'll see it as unattractive (and you as unattractive) and don't really want to talk about it. You try pouring into work, but the only reward is more work... I think you've hit on general human experience here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:37 PM
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I primarily turn down people I know for incompatibility. Power is irrelevant. Competency is somewhat relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:32 PM
1

I played an old Gameboy advance game on an emulator the other day and it was like I fell into a bizarre childhood time portal. (Sword of Mana, if you were interested.) It might be worth it to pick up an old obscure childhood game yourself, they have a lot of charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:12 PM
1

I don't understand. I said this is the kind of sentence that I expected to read and that I thought you were a good representation of a conservative cop. Why are you insulted? (But... you really shouldn't get this easily insulted by physically weaker women when you have the ability to enforce the law and you have access to deadly force. ;) )
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:59 PM
1

Leftist does not mean an idiotic DSA larper. Learn to identify feds and fed cosplayers and you'll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:54 PM
1

As long as she can get an abortion with time to spare, it's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:50 PM
2

What a normal response to answering a petulant hypothetical with a, "sure, okay."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:43 PM
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Everyone should aspire to date people they share values, ethics, and beliefs with. If the majority of women don't share your values, ethics, or beliefs, then you should consider your values, ethics, and beliefs incompatible with evolutionary success.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:36 PM
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What did you play back in the day?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:28 PM
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Women won't sleep with men they wouldn't date. Not seeing any average qualifier there!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:27 PM
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You going to the gym today? I could use some stairmaster... What did you do for fun as a teenager?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:26 PM
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This is exactly the kind of sentence I expect to read from a conservative cop. Great representation here!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:24 PM
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Well, yes, I know that. The men who are furious that women are not attractive to mashed cardboard are the ones who need this message.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:23 PM
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What do you do for fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:21 PM
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Okay, now post this on the threads where men whine about women not wanting to fuck random men on the bus...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:17 PM
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Women with high sex drives are generally not stupid, desperate, animals blindly pulling levers until a pellet comes out... Probably because we'd be dead if we attempted that approach...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:16 PM
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Probably why it's so easy to gamify it as a woman, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:13 PM
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I absolutely sleep with men I wouldn't date...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:09 PM
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You can just be a pacifist, bro. You don't need misogyny to justify your ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:57 PM
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Slapping people in the face without injuries is still assault. Assault is a crime. Cheating, however, is not a crime. If we punished people for emotional harm, everyone would be a criminal. Society would cease to function. Some of the worst people, who have caused the most harm to the world, are also the ones running it. The only people left to run anything would be hermits and saints. Edit: We can't run the world on punishment. Revenge via the law is not reasonable for emotional harm. The world…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:47 PM
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That's very sad for them. Lucky for everyone, no one is going to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:39 AM
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https://www.sca.org/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:39 AM
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Good news: Male "protection" is an elaborate live action roleplay by both men who watched too many action movies and women who were homeschooled. No one is going to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:30 AM
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Do you live in a war zone??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:18 AM
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Do you live in a war zone??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:18 AM
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This has been the majority of my relationships since I've left college, lol "Protective and dominant" usually means jealous and delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:17 AM
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Sooner or later, morally ambiguous feminists will take advantage of this and you will be drafted as radicalized soldiers for the army of Basic Human Rights for Everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:13 AM
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(do you have feelings for him?)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:05 AM
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I think anything that suggests men need fashion instead of Gym will always induce butthurt
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:04 AM
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): I was at 10/5% at one point and I really had to question my life choices
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 06:59 AM
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Are you really typing out ALL of that every time? Assuming your posts are real, you're not using AI or copy-pasting your arguments from an incel forum, and you are genuinely this worked up about this silly argument - you have a remarkably active imagination and capacity for anguish! You can spin a diatribe of persecution from almost literally nothing! Why don't you try writing fiction instead of wasting your precious time on earth and carpal tunnel strength on the manosphere? I bet you could wri…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:24 AM
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Oof, this was a great reminder to pick up my self compassion exercises again... (It made such a huge difference for me!)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:04 AM
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I've had a few big personality shifts. Most of them were in reaction to negative outward stimulus. Here's a few scattered thoughts: You are not going to find what you need on PPD or in the manosphere. Journaling will help you develop self awareness, and see patterns. This is the most important if you're just starting out in making changes. This is going to sound objectively insane, but look at Satanism. (It's just a philosophy, don't worry.) There a lot about self improvement, self esteem, and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:35 AM
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I think a better test would be that a woman takes the photos and writes the profile. See how many matches he gets based on that alone. (We obviously cannot help once the conversation actually starts.) That being said, it would be shameless catfishing. I actually pick profiles based on being visually and verbally interesting, so to discover that this man is in fact an artless NPC would be a letdown. (The actual conclusion to this is that liberal arts are in fact important. I would bet the downwar…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:18 AM
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I hope my CIA agent is a MILF and she's in love with me 🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:06 PM
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I'm sure having specific interests and not being completely generic also helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:28 AM
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You can't want someone if you need them. Desire is impossible if you are in a relationship because it fulfills a mandatory need. You'll never know if the person truly likes you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:22 AM
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They're so unspecial and they want sexual main character treatment... they're not even the main characters of their own lives...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:09 AM
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I'm not sexually attracted to beige. If you are attracted to random men on the bus, you can stop being celibate in 30 minutes or less by downloading grinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:58 AM
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don’t want to keep up with their mood swings and drastic changes of mind. They seem to not be very principled or loyal, which is fine, I just don’t want anything long-term with someone like that. I don’t even hang out with guys who are fickle, selfish, vain, or two-faced, so it’s not about gender it’s just that I’ve noticed women tend to be like this a lot more than guys. There’s always this transactional undertone with women too and I’d rather just not entertain any of that. If you raise a daug…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:03 AM
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Lust for many women is specific and not instant. It's built on context. It's about how the person makes you feel and not always how they look. I have known absurd lust for physically unremarkable people that you cannot imagine, because they had a specific flair that promised a good time. Good news: most of us average people lust after average people. Bad news: the average man on tinder will not be lusted after because he is a contextless, beige, non-entity with bland pictures, a bland profile, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:48 AM
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I'm an American and we're scared too ):
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:29 AM
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(Reminder that I am a woman.) Antiporn people are useful idiots for censorship and surveillance, or born-again types thumping against something they were once addicted to, and are also useful idiots for censorship and surveillance. That being said, in the United States, we need real sex education to responsibly have porn. (Every single teenager apparently needs to be explicitly told not to choke other people. Who the fuck are these kids' parents?) We also need to lighten the fuck up about sex in…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:23 AM
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Women with AI partners is much sadder (they should know better) but it's just as deranged.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:12 AM
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(Please note: I am a woman and I do not give a fuck about porn.) No one likes the idea of giving a government ID to use a website. That's the issue. I don't really care if my bank statement shows "adult bookstore purchase" but I do care if my government ID is now stored at SOFTMILFTOPS.com and associated with my IP address and also the search, "MILF librarian shibari anal." I'm sure my MILF fetish is already well known to the data companies but I'd prefer not to hand over my government ID about …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:09 AM
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I prefer natural boniness 😭 I find muscles to be too vain...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:40 AM
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Negging as a way to gain male approval?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:36 AM
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There's a small number of people who are truly mercenary in their alignment with policies championed by billionaires. Most of you are just useful idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:28 AM
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Regardless of punishment, there is no current law against cheating. It's not a crime and I can't think of a good reason why it should be treated as such. Right now, paranoid partners act as mini surveillance states for a single individual. They are already given too much sympathy from society because it's "romantic" and and it supports "family values." To make cheating a crime would make a lot of criminals out of regular immoral people. The prisons would overflow. Abuse in relationships would sk…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:15 AM
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Do you have bodyguards??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:44 PM
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I... would assume my partner is a paranoid lunatic who is obsessed with being cheating on. I would soon expect arguments about being too nice to male waiters or male coworkers. Perhaps I would be pressured to stop wearing makeup or feminine clothing. I would also assume my partner fundamentally does not respect human rights and has a nonsensical morality that prioritizes feelings over ethics.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:37 PM
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If anything, the blue-haired women are the polyamorous ones with the sex parties...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:32 PM
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What are you going to do if one of your children is a girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:28 PM
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How is a redpiller complaining about someone treating dating like a rugged capitalist? Isn't that the whole point?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:25 PM
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Do you want to date nerds? Keep being a nerd. Maybe class it up a bit if you want to move beyond Funkopop-adjacent nerds. Do you want to date a non-nerd? Some won't care at all. Depending on the woman, you will need to hide some of your interests and live a sad half-life in which you resent Stacy for blunting your authentic self. (Edit: I would reject you for being a basic nerd but not for being a nerd by itself. Western toy-like action figures would also give me pause unless they were displayed…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:15 PM
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I also suspect that, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:08 AM
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We should go extinct, then. Adapt or die.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:05 AM
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Why should we force reproduction? If humans don't want to mate, that's a reflection of society and the environment, not an error to fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:03 AM
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Why post this topic then?? Go play a video game. Win an achievement. You'll feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:09 AM
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Kid you really need OCD and body dysmorphia treatment
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:56 AM
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Hate to break it to you but most women are actually aware they are on the Internet and that a random attractive man promising them the moon in their DMs is far more likely to be a scammer than an actual human being...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:53 AM
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I'm going to guess you have a crush on your friend from high school. Please don't try to date her when you have this kind of mentality about women. This kind of attitude tends to be obvious and you will get rejected. You'll think you got rejected for being unable to provide bad dates, but you'll be rejected for thinking that all women are greed-dopamine robots. Nothing about the way you describe romance sounds appealing. It's not that you genuinely enjoy spending time in nature with your love in…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:49 AM
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Most adult women would assume a random hot influencer man chatting them up is some kind of scam...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:44 AM
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Have you spoken with a marriage counselor?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:41 AM
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Are you attracted to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:34 AM
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Job: podcaster, history teacher, or some kind of weird entertainment industry person. He is making at least one woman unhappy. He's probably not monogamous and is constantly in the DMs of hot babes on Instagram. He probably brings in money and takes pride in woodwork and his power tools but does not do the dishes unless reminded. I would only notice him because he resembles someone I know IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:30 AM
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Lol I immediately thought a man wrote that and it was aimed at women. Good job OP, you got me, great topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:24 AM
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): someday you'll find out how to get validation on the internet without misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:55 PM
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Oh, no, I made a lot of cute little "I" statements. The issue is that if you've made an I statement, the person didn't listen to your polite normal request the first 10 times, and likely don't care. For as long as you have to interact with them, Byzantine soft parenting is the only real option.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 03:52 PM
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People with chronic ideation need treatment and likely, not just a talk with their partner. I also think a lot of men expect the talk to fix them. It's partially a framing issue. "I am experiencing suicide ideation. I need a lot of emotional support while I work through treatment. Please help me with x/y/z" is a lot different than a daily conversation of, "I am suicidal and I need someone to tell me life is worth living."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 03:49 PM
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Given the timing, it's far more likely that the government killed your great-uncle. Maybe she wasn't an employed spy, but she certainly had an outside agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 03:01 PM
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Suicide ideation is complicated. I've struggled with it myself. As an adult, I did not disclose it to people unless it was in a specific, dry, matter-of-fact mental health context. It's very frustrating to discuss another person's ideation if they are not in treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:54 PM
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Women who have casual sex are often pressed for commitment or emotional intimacy by their sex partners. The men will typically develop feelings if a woman doesn't want a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:44 PM
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It's sometimes a people-pleaser problem and not a direct gender problem. Usually, what happens is this: I date a man who never talks about his feelings. Resentment over small things builds. It's obvious that something upsets him. I encourage him to set boundaries, occasionally say no, or be open about his feelings. I ask him to discuss what's happening. He then drops some of the craziest, whiniest, or actively unkind statements that I've ever heard. People-pleasers, are of course, martyrs who ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:37 PM
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Don't you have ASPD? Shouldn't you be exploiting you antisocial behavior for maximum benefit instead of glazing suicidal men on reddit? Go get an MBA or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:24 PM
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Change your flair to "UFO Disclosure NOW"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:22 PM
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I would not have expected the relative of a high-profile Soviet spy to be this naive...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:21 PM
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In my experience, clear instruction and straightforward, objective based communication with men leads to arguments or being ignored. They respond far better to Byzantine soft parenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:15 PM
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I think you would be happier if you watched Flat Earth videos instead of this anti-feminism bit that you're performing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:09 PM
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His wife... was also a spy...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:06 PM
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Glad the marriage and birth rates are at an all-time low!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:50 PM
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Left one cult for another...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:34 PM
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Really funny to read the n count guys and the "women should ravenously desire me" guys in the same thread. I'm guessing n count is a millennial manosphere thing and desire is more Gen Z.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:31 PM
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It's well known that social media has a terrible impact on everyone, especially teenage girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:26 PM
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Can you imagine a man saying this about women I can't believe this is the first day you've ever used the Internet. It must be great being so young. Are you old enough to be on reddit? Kids should be on Neopets or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:13 PM
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Did your other comments get deleted? I'm too lazy to look through the rest of the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:05 AM
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The other person made a broad statement. You made pointed, personal attacks to specific people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:40 AM
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I would bet the majority of men that would choose rape would soon discover post-traumatic stress disorder and have zero coping skills or emotional regulation to handle it. Men on this forum are not treating their current issues. They certainly would not get PTSD treatment. Instead, they would develop addictions, socially isolate even more, and fry their nervous systems. They would struggle even more with their already troubled masculinity, social status, and body image. None of these things lead…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:36 AM
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We need to develop the technology to get men pregnant. It would fix so many of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:15 AM
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Reddit is a hell of a drug...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:12 AM
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This is incivility. Reddit and PPD rules apply to you. Your gender is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:08 AM
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I can't believe I once got a three day ban for calling a man an unreliable narrator, but THIS bullshit is still up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:35 AM
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Do you live in Europe?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:18 AM
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Do you seriously think I can block every single goddamn vanilla person on Feeld? I'd spend more time blocking than actually using the app for its intended purpose. What's the point, at that point? I might as well just go to a swinger's club... Right now, I have 1,781 likes on Feeld. I can't imagine I have more than 5 people in a 100 mile radius that I am genuinely kink compatible with. I haven't met one yet. Normies can learn to be kinky on FetLife where I don't have to waste valuable carpal tun…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:15 AM
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Are you trying to make the men ineptly seeking casual sex the problem of kinky women exclusively or something? I don't even use those apps anymore... in large part because the normies turn it into Hinge. Christ, send them to Christian Mingle or something...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:16 AM
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It's actually infuriating to see normie men on kink apps. I'm here to be a freak, not deal with fucking Joe who likes sports, travel, and beer....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:11 AM
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Preoccupation with status is arguably the biggest red flag, as opposed to high or low status... An attractive man who thinks he's owed something because he's attractive is just as annoying and potentially dangerous as an unattractive man who resents the lack of sex and attention he believes he should be owed, of not for the fact that he's low status. Believing that you're owed something is the real problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:07 AM
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Demosthenes is actually an Ender's Game reference. ;) (but I'm sure Orson Scott Card was referencing ancient Greek history.) Re necessary groups: I am participating in creative critique sessions with people in the same artistic field. It's important to be able to analyze and evaluate others (and give meaningful feedback) to grow. (Also, receiving critique.) Other things require models! Most of my other hobbies are either creative or something sports adjacent. I don't know if I can recommend gett…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:56 AM
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Anyways, the motivation is the same: intimidation, power, ego, etc. The stupidest violent people will pick fights over shopping carts. That woman either has a personality disorder or she's on drugs. Drugs actually seems more likely...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:39 AM
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Violence has benefits that antisocial and amoral people are willing to exploit: intimidation, power, ego, etc. Perhaps this woman believes that she is more likely to get what she wants in the future. We don't question why antisocial men feel entitled to fight others without retaliation. Why should women be any different? Antisocial people are frankly, not that interesting unless they're also very intelligent. They're basically robots seeking advantages over others. It's not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:33 AM
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This is like, an unintentional poem: Ovulating, talking, hanging, liking. Natural contact. Give her a hug goodbye. Does she consent? Does he tell her what he wants? Does he kiss her? Kiss her. Sharks: does she seem cold? Leave her alone. Avoid contact. Avoid sex. Chad is used all week. Treat him on the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:15 AM
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I would be great at being a man. Not only would beautiful, intelligent, remarkable women be attracted to me, but due to my above-average talents, I would be held up as a shining example of bisexual, neurodivergent masculinity in the arts. I could milk that game so hard. Being talented and hardworking as a woman is like, whatever, every woman is talented and hardworking, but being talented and hardworking as a man is like $$$. #1 tortured artist boy. edit: I am still myself so I would continue to…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:28 AM
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I will acknowledge that I cannot even fathom the depths of hell that your generation lives in. Here's some boomer advice: I read something on a very different sub that suggested trying to meet or befriend so many interesting people a year. This is much closer to networking than cold approaching. Please do not take this as a challenge to get rejected 100 times a year. The point is to expand your life and social circles, not to directly get a girlfriend. If you have any genuine interest in the art…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:59 PM
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I mean this might be a controversial statement, but the idea of going to “hobby groups” to find people seems to me the kind of thing losers with no friends do, or who are desperate as fuck. Bro, what.. I have specific hobbies that occasionally require group settings. People that participate in the hobby come in and out of these settings as needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:40 PM
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What if he's emotionally intelligent, kind, Why are y'all so terrified to blame women's standards and lack of self-awareness? OP, here's some advice: I don't think you've level capped your emotional intelligence and kindness skills yet...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:32 PM
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So they’re mostly just describing what they have to do to get an ovulating woman to kiss them. That's a new sentence...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:26 PM
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Everyone has a serious partner or they're like 22...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:33 AM
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Have a motherly vibe. Similar to how a narcissist mother behaves around guests Gag christ I don't think I could pull that off. Are my only options Whore, Virgin, Mother, here?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:08 AM
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Yeah totally you got me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:00 AM
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I suspect my lack of interest in playing Girlboss Mom Friend as a single woman somehow gets interpreted as, "pure, different, innocent, submissive." Not that the Girlboss Mom Friend is perceived as a slut whatsoever, but she's at least perceived as a adult with relationship experience and standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:00 AM
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This relates to IRL interactions. I don't naturally dress in revealing ways or talk explicitly about my own sexual experiences in casual social settings. I'm also not looking for casual relations with people I know socially. I just don't want to be perceived as "pure" by a certain kind of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 08:43 AM
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No. Long term adult friend groups get weird and not in a sexual way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:36 AM
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Assignment: use an arranged marriage service. Report back with your marriage ELO.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:35 AM
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Should I create a profile to check if the men I match with talk to sugar babies...?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:28 AM
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Lol, that's certainly very telling... not a lot of entrepreneurs out here!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:23 AM
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How do I outwardly signal having sexual and romantic experience? I keep attracting men who perceive me as an innocent... edit: I am trying to scare the men who want "pure" women away, I am not trying to attract attention from men who want casual sex. (I already have tattoos.)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:46 AM
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You definitely need someone who understands they're working in the entertainment industry and selling emotional labor! I think this concept might go over a lot of looksmaxxxer heads, it's an acting job first and a modeling job second. My knowledge of real male host clubs in Japan is very limited, but if you've got the money it might be worth checking out...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:39 AM
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BJ lol, but I suppose for everything else as well. ;) I don't have a lot of opportunities to use it anymore! Feels like a hobby I used to be really good at...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:30 AM
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They actually want to be monks, that's why they're all celibate. We gotta get these men in the church, not voting, and sweeping a floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:43 AM
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I prefer to set expectations low and exceed them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:39 AM
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What would you be hoping to get from it? Hot guy? Hot guy who provides meaningful emotional support? Hot guy to take to parties? I'm under the impression that female sugar babies fulfills a role closer to an entertainer than an escort. (Being charming and agreeable is more important than just being hot.) Curious if a western straight guy could even pull that off...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:36 AM
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It's definitely possible to have male friends who don't want to fuck you. (Or at least won't try to fuck you.) However, it's important to remain cynical. Keep them as hobby/ activity friends, but don't treat them like emotional adults that you can go to for emotional support the way you might with a close female friend. Don't give them the same emotional support you'd give a woman, either. Think of them like... teenagers you play video games with. Most of my male friends are in a lower tier of f…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:30 AM
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I think there's a real argument for internet-triggered OCD in some cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:37 PM
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https://www.loveisrespect.org/quiz/am-i-a-good-partner/?%3E
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:34 PM
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Are you aware you're on a debate forum and not an advice one?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:31 PM
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Attractive men who randomly approach me are actually more annoying because I would have given them a chance if they'd spoken to me like an individual human and not like an addict pulling every possible lever for a jackpot 🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:28 PM
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You think a pink pill flaired, anime pfp, 30-something woman with the tagline "Demosthenes the Internet Angel" has never had problems dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:25 PM
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The manosphere is literally just a ragebait economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 07:30 AM
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Man I wish I were as capable of feeling half as dehumanized as these guys, they must have so much emotional energy to perpetually make themselves eternal victims by preference or non-preference...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 07:19 AM
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Men should actually be happier that they're not held to stronger liability standards in dating...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 07:13 AM
1

What a normal sentence to write about 50% of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 07:10 AM
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I actually would be better at it 🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 06:57 AM
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I was always told I would change for a man someday. If I really loved him and wanted to keep him, I'd have his kids, become a Christian, vote the way he voted... Hysterical then and now, but sad that my relative sold her soul for her abusive husband. (She was somewhere between incompetent and malicious with women, so I was spared the hypergamy finishing school.) I hate read The Rules. I probably genuinely absorbed more from Cosmo and the Internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:29 AM
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Yes. Stop soliciting strangers at the grocery store. Most of you are very bad at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:14 AM
2

I wish I could debate the men who cold approach me. I've politely turned them down and then the man actively sulks at me until my destination. (They always cold approach on the bus!) I don't want to escalate this situation, but if only I could be more annoying about it without also annoying everyone else on the bus...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:09 AM
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The majority of partners have met my kinks with utter apathy and rarely have kinks I am into. Kink isn't that important, as I have other things to do with my time. I'm sure if I told them, "I used to do x/y/z with this ex," I could activate their jealousy, but I am not interested in doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:59 PM
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I hope you are approached by fundraising evangelicals every time you leave the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:37 PM
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Little, thoughtful gifts are probably fine. Save big presents for committed milestones.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:35 PM
1

Do you know who Matt Shepard is?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:32 PM
1

Call your father. See what he thinks about this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:31 PM
2

Well. Keep annoying the straight women about this topic. I'm sure nagging them will definitely result in validation. I'll date the trans women in the meantime.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:29 PM
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Non-straight people who live their lives according to straight women's preferences are asking for lifelong unhappiness. They either need to accept that they're not straight and live life authentically, or go in the closet and STFU. Criticize homophobic culture, sure, but it's so transparent to only criticize the straight women who won't fuck non-straight people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:19 PM
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Oh, I know! But it would be a good start into developing a hobby. They might read real sci-fi, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:07 PM
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Yes, it's the cis women's fault that you won't date trans women. Definitely not cisgender society as a whole, but specifically the hypothetical cis women who might disapprove.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:00 PM
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I think you should explore writing science fiction instead of inventing bizarre gotcha scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:57 PM
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You are allowed to have preferences and my eggs are allowed to die from your description of your preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:54 PM
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There are meaningful things in the world that are objectively true, that would improve human life, and society as a whole does not care. We won't fix climate change. We ignore every meaningful study about poverty, abuse, and health care. We have been denied better lives at every turn. To answer your hypothetical question: no one would care, except a small subset of aspiring gender pundits who would happily sell their souls to destroy society as long as they made money and got enough Internet lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:32 AM
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Something about the way you phrased this killed off a few of my remaining eggs...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:26 AM
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If they state this boundary early, before a tattoo is wanted by the woman, it's fine. Be crazy upright. If a woman discusses a tattoo and a man threatens to leave her, it's controlling. (That being said, get the tattoo and free yourself.)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:16 AM
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As long as you actually leave, go right ahead. That being said, someone who leaves over a tattoo is a control freak who will inevitably blow up over something equally as stupid. It's not about the tattoos. Don't marry these people. Cut them off early: get tattoos before you get married. Save yourself the legal fees.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:12 AM
1

Guys need to manic pixie dream boy harder
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:01 PM
1

I am capable of feeling attracted, interested, and safe with a certain kind of person. Dating outside my type leads to boredom, resentment, and a lack of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:57 PM
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Unchosen women don't perform mass shootings, unchosen men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:46 PM
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Improve the aesthetics
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:40 PM
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I definitely prefer funny people as romantic partners! I don't enjoy slapstick, overly sophomoric humor, or fishing for compliments disguised as self deprecation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:39 PM
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Question: are you sponsored by a sex toy company? Because this is great advertising.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:35 PM
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Skill issue, get gud.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:32 PM
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Yes. I have many early life circumstances that have affected my attachment abilities. More people from happy homes should consider their Attachment Privileges.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:26 PM
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Uh. I have dated that type, sort of. It helps if you actually know the person and have a rapport with them. I was usually friends with them first and they had a crush on me. I also didn't make friends with them so they would date me, I was just a nerd too. Don't treat these types like a prize, ladies! Just genuinely like video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:10 PM
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Do you live somewhere with a wide variety of people? I had a very specific physical type for men, when I lived in a rural area, where there were maybe 3 flavors of men to begin with. When I moved, I became open to dating different types of people. I grew to appreciate new people. (You still could never get me to date a bearded, country boy, mind you.)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:00 PM
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So, you think that everyone who has sex should be willing to have children? (I think we're seeing the direct result of this thinking right now- see the current sex negativity in the world, male loneliness crisis and the lowering birth rate. ;) )
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:52 PM
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Sounds like you have a type!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:45 PM
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The kind of person I am compatible with is already rare. I have almost no interest outside of that type and I will happily endure dry spells.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:49 AM
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I'm... actually starting to see that take here...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:08 AM
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Some of you dudes who clearly are just gay NEED TO STOP BEING SO WOMEN CENTERED. Why can't these guys ever just hook up with other men and be done with it? How do they possibly make being a gay man or aromantic man about "owning the women"?? Why do they need to beg for manosphere validation? Deal with your daddy issues with your boyfriend, Reddit is not your daddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:07 AM
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Women literally admit they avoid being too friendly to men because too many guys mistake basic kindness for flirting Half the “signals” women talk about are the exact same behaviors they use with friends, coworkers, and strangers. If women themselves acknowledge that normal friendliness gets interpreted romantically, I sort of skimmed this and initially thought OP was making a quasi-feminist point at first... You're so close, OP! Keep considering these points to their logical conclusions! I beli…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:51 AM
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Your original comment to my post included this: I resent the idea that if I’m not some chivalrous waiter I can’t be good in bed. Women who talk like this ironically tend to suck in bed. I had only stated that I was seeking specific traits to find compatibility for casual sex, and gave some of my tricks to find such a person. I’m just saying that women who say they don’t seek sex because men are bad in bed (re: a lot of the responses to this post) are probably also bad in bed You're welcome to te…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:41 AM
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Uh. If I am a prisoner on an alien planet, I want my sole point of human interaction to remember who I am. To have them completely not remember me would drive me insane. And we might need to talk about being prisoners on an alien planet, at some point, or something. (And yes, sex would be fun, but I think my fragile human psyche in an alien world would need some consistency.)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:32 AM
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IKR 💀 looks are so subjective so if men truly find all other men attractive (and all women haggard!), that's fine, but..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:29 AM
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No idea, but I just don't feel anything after a typical 3 dates via app. Something doesn't click. Internet dating feels very antiseptic to me? I've gotten sudden spontaneous crushes on people I've met at meetups, if it makes you feel any better. On a "date" with a relative stranger, everyone is on "good" behavior (not just me) and it's hard to make a connection when everyone is putting their best foot forward. It requires you to be "on." It's draining. Best case scenario, they have an interestin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:10 AM
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Some "red flags" are not an appropriate early topic for dating. I would not be willing to discuss certain things very early on and I would be suspicious of anyone who wanted to. (These aren't deal-breaker matters. But if I were frank re red flags early on, I would either attract pity or seem attention seeking.) I've literally never felt romantic attraction for someone through an app relationship unless I knew them IRL first... There is an LGBT+ scene. Many scenes, actually. Unfortunately, I've s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:48 AM
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I feel nothing. I don't know what to tell you. I've never had a successful app relationship. The best case scenario was matching with someone I knew IRL to begin with. The stress was much worse when I was actually dating for "romance" and I always ended up entertaining my date to avoid my red flags. They would be very charmed and I would end up stressed out and bored. This happened with both men and women. The stress isn't as bad since I switched to casual only and I can be more of a degenerate.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:22 AM
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I've seen a few niche imageboards discuss these things, although it inevitably becomes either transphobic or ED content... Radfem spaces on Tumblr also inevitably turn transphobic or just generally outrageously hateful and delusional. It's sort of sad. You have to go to such unpleasant fringes for any honest conversation and it immediately gets taken over by people with agendas. Every once in awhile I'll write something genuinely honest here, and I'm immediately called a liar or just ignored ent…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:05 AM
1

There's multiple male reddit hugboxes...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:42 AM
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I have flirted with academic feminism. I don't need the opinion of "feminists" on Reddit on all sound exactly the same. If I want a feminist opinion, I'll read a book.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:34 AM
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Oh. I had not realized that seeking specific, compatible, skilled partners could ever be interpreted as anything but seeking out specific, compatible, skilled partners. You have a very active imagination! While I don't agree with your....world-building heavy interpretation, I cannot imagine that I will change your mind re my own skills. Intimacy is already subjective. I would have to be fairly hopeless to announce to an internet debate forum that I am good in bed. I cannot imagine anything less …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:30 AM
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There's a weird effect with casual: men that I knew in real life before hooking up became very rude and less respectful, but men from dating apps were clingy. (Maybe they were just lightly dusting the lovebombing, idk.) IRL men also eventually declare their feelings in the worst way possible... I solidly don't recommend a casual situation with someone you know, unless you know they've had a successful FWB situation before.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:02 AM
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Whenever you're with your super hot friends, does anyone stay interested and keep the attention on you? Those people are likely worth pursuing. Drop any guy who ignores you with your hot friends around. (Source: have a very hot friend.) 2. You've got to screen for interest on the first date! Or, don't accept anything besides a real date. If he makes it a point to tell you that he treats other women better, drop him. [Honestly, you should check out FDS, there's still the FAQ up I think. Obligator…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:55 AM
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It would be so much less annoying if they just accepted a casual relationship! But they prod at you for romantic validation and fish for attention and then pull back the second you (begrudgingly) pat their head... Wow, I feel like we dated the same person, the more I read your description...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:45 AM
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I'm in my 30s! I'm borderline aromantic and very avoidant. I have had very few emotional-romantic connections, especially post-COVID. I would like a girlfriend at some point, but I want to find someone I have a genuine, real connection with. I have met one woman who meets this criteria. Unfortunately, there are circumstances that make this impractical for both of us. (But she is the reason I have any hope at all.) I know I need to meet new people. But online dating is only fun for me in that I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:35 AM
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B for sure. I might have gone with A if the person would remember me and we could build a connection, but a "new" hook up each time would stress me out. (Also, I'm basically a prisoner, I need emotional support.)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:31 AM
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Maybe if they're interested in women they're forced to do so tho idk Queer women have notably better profiles than straight people, yes. That is what is happening in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:25 AM
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If I ever saw dating/fashion advice from other women saying, "dress like shit, if you're hot enough it's fine!" I would think this person was either inexperienced, remarkably hot and inexperienced, or an obvious troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:07 AM
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Engagement and clicks for followers?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:59 AM
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The concept of the Wall is such fucking copium. The 30-something women on the apps look attractive, put together, and are capable of writing full sentences. I don't see offensively bad profiles, for the most part. There's a solid group of 30-something men look like alcoholic 40 somethings. To be generous. (I'm sure they lie about their age. Maybe they're actually 40 or 50.) Their self awareness of selfies and photography is offensive. Supposedly there's men younger than me that look a decade old…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:57 AM
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...this isn't a dating advice sub...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 08:19 PM
4

Take estrogen and unlock unlimited low-effort sex!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 08:14 PM
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(The semi-malicious guys seem like they have personality disorders in addition to OCD or severe depression. I'm not going to attempt to diagnose the most malicious users.)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 08:09 PM
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I live in a cloudy miserable hell too! (Not the UK tho.) I don't like CBT either. It's very basic, doesn't address underlying problems, and can be administered by idiots. That being said, the ability to recognize irrational or depressive thoughts is useful. I liked the exercise where you wrote down especially negative thoughts, it was an eye opening experience for me. Workbook wise, I think DBT would be best for this subreddit, although I've heard good things about ACT. I'm not sure about tradit…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 08:09 PM
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Depression screening ASAP. Hold out for wellbutrin. Only take an SSRI if it's noted for not causing weight gain. In the meantime, try vitamin D gummies and spend half an hour outside each day. If you're feeling ambitious, try a DBT workbook.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:52 PM
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You're getting force femmed first!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:41 PM
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Why do half of these posts read like conspiracy theories? It's so tiring. You can debate with a regular asshole but you can't debate with someone 20 layers deep in cursed algorithmic content. There's no exchange of ideas. It's just pure delusional venom, often directed at you! And if you say something venomous back, you might get banned if your debate partner has a victim complex. There's no good way to get rid of the delusional, sometimes ai-written, obviously insane, poorly-written posts. If I…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:56 PM
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Well, it sounds like you're either severely depressed or you're an egg. It's probably worth it to fix the depression before you explore hormones, though. I'd try Wellbutrin first because there's no weight gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:44 PM
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I sincerely wish that you will wake up tomorrow as a woman. I suspect you do, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:39 PM
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Do people consider a woman asking her male friend if he wants to get a drink sometime "making the first move?" (I would only do this if he seems to like me to begin with, to be clear.)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:25 PM
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In theory you should have gotten the poly 101 talk, and been aware you're allowed to ask partners not to talk about their other sex lives with you. But also, unfortunately, polyamory. There's definitely an expectation partners will be less jealous and also that many poly people tend to be idealistic and uninterested in societal masculine norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:11 PM
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Why are bisexual men concerned with societal validation? If you want to live a non-NPC life, stop trying for NPC goals. Bisexuals have free will. Use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:08 PM
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Why don't they want serious relationships with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:42 AM
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I would actually be pretty curious how the numbers play out. I feel like it'd be easier for two men to hook up (and transition to dating) than two women, mlm scenes tend to be more active than wlw ones, and women have to overcome years of enforced romantic passivity... :')
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:48 AM
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I am friends with gay men who have actually used Grindr before. Admittedly the Hyper Normie Grindr gays appear to live in a different ecosystem than the regular community, but No Fats No Femmes is in fact a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:45 AM
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Don't get divorced bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 12:56 AM
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This is actually very easy! The OP is newly sober. People in addiction tend to make bad decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 12:31 AM
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Ironically I feel freer to discuss feminist concepts with the feminist women here than I do on some feminist subs. But it's so easy to trigger the victim pilled boys...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 12:24 AM
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Did he give you a detailed report of her former sex acts?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 12:19 AM
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Why don't we ever hear from a bi guy who actually dates men? I'd actually be much more interested in their take on all of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 12:18 AM
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I imagine I would just hit up the roster more...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 12:08 AM
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TFW your long term partner dead bedrooms you...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 12:01 AM
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Questions: -are you a bisexual and/or feminine man? -have you ever been to an anime convention?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 11:52 PM
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Feminine men and bisexual men can overlap, but they don't have to. Pegging is an entirely separate dynamic from femininity or bisexuality. I'm not sure why you're equating these things. Perhaps your video explains it but I'm not ruining my algorithm.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 11:47 PM
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I did catch that you implied I was bad in bed. ;) I just ignored it. I'm curious why you think that a woman actively vetting for skill is the same thing as framing everything as a male performance issue, and is therefore, bad in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 11:43 PM
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That's a huge part of it! People who are enthusiastic about doing things and learning about things are much more likely to be good in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 11:34 PM
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I date more seriously with women and don't try for casual off of apps. But my preference is for funny, agreeable, and specific people regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 03:25 PM
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That's why women who want to stay casual catch so many stalkers or guys who are desperate for their attention. :') this happened so much when I was younger... Accidentally hurting a guy's ego will get you so much more low-quality "affection" than submissive behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:58 PM
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but then every time the woman communicates that she isn't romantically interested, or wants to stop hooking up for a while, or that she is looking for casual sex with other people too, then there is a sudden wave of unsolicited love bombing. Oh my god it's never quite that bad but the unsolicited love bombing is real
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:09 PM
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I currently have a 100% success rate so I don't think I'll be changing my agreeableness and humor vetting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:05 PM
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My impression is there's a massive surplus of men that want casual and a massive shortage of women I'm mostly under the impression the guys at least want the FWB woman to have a crush on them, even if they themselves want a casual relationship, lol I added an edit which probably accounts for how I manage to find these guys who aren't overly pushy. It's all somewhat kinky hands stuff! They're usually into it! But they've also already been selected to be interesting, agreeable, open-minded, and no…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 09:02 AM
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I typically don't do PIV/penetration the first time I hook up with someone. So, the first hook up helps me determine the general vibe and skillset before going further. Technical skills, verbal skills, overall demeanor, and general sanity are important to note. Does he listen to feedback? Do we enjoy each other's dirty talk? Is he trying to grab my neck for the 5th time? If a guy is pushing too hard to make it romantic or emotional when I've stated it's casual, that's a great sign not to fuck hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 08:09 AM
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Flair checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:42 AM
1

I definitely consider compatibility before I ask someone out, if I know them...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:42 AM
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It would be more useful to seek common ground on shared kinks rather than comparing previous sex acts with former partners. Some of my partners had exes who were into much kinkier things than I was. This didn't bother me, because I am not interested in their extreme kinks and would have zero desire to try it. I don't think they (or most people) would be interested in my extreme kinks, either. I wouldn't want someone to half-heartedly try said kinks out of a sense of fairness. It would actually b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:35 AM
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Have you hired a private investigator before? Does the private investigator specifically ask around about the sex acts this woman has performed...?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:22 AM
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I think it's safe to assume that discussing explicit details of your past sex life is always a bad idea, and to only bring up topics that you're interested in trying again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:16 AM
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Hope those guys were leading with the kink if that's a defining factor in the relationship...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:15 AM
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He had initially wanted to stay a virgin until marriage. (This resolve crumbled after a few months, but I occasionally wondered if he was asexual.) I... assure you that this man was not that concerned about sex. Which is a shame. But it's the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:01 AM
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I always feel outrageously guilty whenever a nice normie man chats me up. Like I've tricked him. Like what impression could I have possibly given that I am the kind of woman who makes a good girlfriend and/or pedestal object? I can't project full Esoteric Spinster Troll every time I go to CVS. Bro needs a stoner girlfriend his own age...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:50 AM
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Do nerd shit IRL if you aren't already doing it. Instant boyfriend. Not necessarily a GOOD boyfriend, but probably an instant one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:34 AM
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What's your favorite vaguely addictive hobby IRL? Go do that one. (But not drugs or gambling.)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:32 AM
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This IS a fetish, isn't it? Go roleplay your anxiety on a kink forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:29 AM
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This is totally your fetish lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:12 AM
2

Probably a dick shaming fetish lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:12 AM
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Well if it's too big it hurts and it makes it harder to do interesting positions actually ):
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:11 AM
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Look mods, this post is peak incivility! Basically all of OPs responses are full of incivility. Every response that contradicts his world view is basically "you're LYING!!" Sorry OP I got a 3 day ban for being incivil so now I'm pointing out truly egregious incivility whenever I see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:07 AM
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It's weird looking at that chart. I generally preferred the 7ish "cute" faces to the 9.5 "beautiful" ones, perhaps because the 9.5 ones look like models, who don't register as real people to me. When I say cute, I mean some charming girlishness or specific kind of sparkle. Maybe cute is just more human? But the cutest woman would always be more attractive than the most conventionally beautiful woman to me. Like, she would be more beautiful to me, specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:50 AM
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Gay men actually have pretty high standards! Haven't you ever heard of "No fats no femmes"?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:38 AM
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Oh, that's arguably genuinely incivil! How tempting...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:35 AM
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I will forget!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:35 AM
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I don't think I've ever considered this scenario and I am astounded anyone would. I'm sure someone can get a big dildo if they really need something large.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:33 AM
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This is just me, but I would prioritize my partner's account over someone else's. I can't imagine the person describing their former sex life with a woman to her current partner is a benign and unbiased source of information. Exactly, which is why it raises questions when she doesn't. I would assume she did not genuinely like it, if she doesn't want to do it again. The only other scenario I would consider is if the new partner doesn't seem like he has enough emotional intimacy with the current p…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:31 AM
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I was occasionally bored with the sex, but I genuinely cared for him and admired him in a way I had not with the more experienced partner. He was a talented and funny person who lit up every room. I made far more compromises for him than I ever did for anyone else, and I don't think I ever would again. In my eyes, he's the one who got the Maldives vacation. (I think if he'd been a different kind of person, the inexperience would not have been an issue. But he also put me on a pedestal, and lacke…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:24 AM
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OMG that definitely tracks. I do get the impression some mods are more grounded than others, but... I've literally had men salivating over the destruction of society and my inevitable death/rape/servitude, and it's like. Totally fine. We can have as many posts about taking women's human rights away as we want. But the second you word something SLIGHTLY too sharply at a pessimistic boy, incivility warning! It's crazy. At least the genuine red pilled lunatics will let you say something in equal me…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:06 AM
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I want to write something equally as bad faith but funny... but I recently got a 3 day ban for incivility... Hmm, do you think your comment qualifies as incivility since it doesn't engage with anything I said? I feel gross whenever I report for incivility though, it feels cowardly...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 11:25 PM
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Who the hell tells their current partners about all the crazy sex they had with former partners? How is this scenario 2 even happening? If a woman genuinely liked a sex act, she probably wants to do it again. The most likely explanation for scenario 2 is that her partner doesn't seem like he'd be skilled or interested. (And if he only wants to do it because another man did it - he's not interested.)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 11:11 PM
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Sex requires two people. Specific sex acts may require athleticism, specific skills, specific preparation, a good attitude, and trust. It's not comparable to a nice gift because it requires two people to be successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 11:01 PM
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I think number 2 can (sort of) happen when a former partner was very adventurous and experienced and comfortable with sex, and the new partner is not. The woman might be trying to get the new partner comfortable with sex 202, and doesn't want to scare him with graduate level party tricks. I've specifically been in this situation. The less experienced partner is typically not that interested in kink, pushing limits, or being the best at sex. That being said, I did not tell my inexperienced partne…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 10:43 PM
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It's absolutely adorable that you don't recognize hyperbole for comedic effect. Don't ever change.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 10:33 PM
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It can include: crypto, ecommerce, influencer, A job that can increase your status with merit (Like salesman), OF manager etc. This is objectively the worst career advice I've ever seen. Posts like this are actually why we try to save men from the manosphere... You want to ruin your life, be sold false dreams, blow a lot of money, and gain a tiny flicker of prestige? Go to grad school. At least you'll have something to show for it...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:39 AM
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We've got to pivot, ladies. We need to start saying being critical of the death penalty is masculine, but only for the elite 20% Alpha males for who read statistics on the death penalty. Chad knows. Chad believes in justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:32 AM
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Men were concerned about George Floyd. There were a lot of demonstrations. Many people are anti-police violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:25 AM
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Women who are anti death penalty = sluts protecting criminals. That's a new angle...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:19 AM
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What if we allocated taxes and wealth differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:14 AM
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Can you tell me about your upbringing?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:01 AM
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Do you think women who are equals with men are not cherished as partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:46 AM
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Have often do you think about being a woman? ....🥚?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:28 AM
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There's a website called FetLife.com with a lot of lesbian cucking content on it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:19 AM
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Um. That makes zero sense. Are you a bot?
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/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 11:13 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 10:50 PM
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What goal are you pursuing right now on reddit?
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Do you really wear booty shorts? Proud of you.
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/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 10:43 PM
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Am I literally the only person who's actually read a PUA book? Peacocking is actually a somewhat outdated manosphere thing thing. https://www.girlschase.com/article/what-peacocking-and-does-it-work The idea is to confidently distinguish yourself from other men. With the Mystery Method, you would differentiate yourself from the crowd and the average guy by being unique. You want to be seen as an alpha male and cease to be a beta male. People perceive alpha men as more attractive due to their lead…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:42 PM
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I'm a little surprised how few red pill peacocks there are in this thread. You guys aren't PUA, but I distinctly remember the concept of peacocking as an icebreaker...
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/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:31 PM
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But what do you actually like? Do you like the violin? Do you like rhythm games? What's your favorite color? Let's start there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:31 PM
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(I'm mostly trying to get them to imagine their dream girl, or at least visualize their values, and then possibly imagine a way to visually communicate said values and attract like-minded women.)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:28 PM
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Sometimes I buy stuff simply because it looks cool, without thinking whether it would look cool on me because I am blind in that regard This is still genuinely a vast improvement over having no preferences. Keep it up!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:24 PM
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Do you have aesthetic preferences in anything? (Art, food, entertainment, etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:22 PM
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Yep. I was wearing my paint-stained jeans at the Shake Shack and a girl who also had paint-stained jeans came over and ate with me while we talked about art just this evening. This is exactly the kind of story I was hoping to hear, thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:21 PM
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Username checks out...
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/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:52 AM
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It says you prefer a meal with some spice in it as opposed to a microwave baked potato, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:46 AM
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So you don't gravitate towards any kind of women's clothing, besides revealing?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:44 AM
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What does your spouse dress like?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:43 AM
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What does your ideal woman dress like?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:41 AM
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You both sound like young immature people who are enjoying a toxic whirlwind. Given that she's hitting you, and you want to "win" the scenario as opposed to leaving... look man, do I really have to explain why you shouldn't date someone who hits you? Why you shouldn't date someone you mostly want to dominate? If you stay too long, this will be your idea of love five years from now. Do you want this? Or do you want to learn how to date someone you actually like and love? Relationships like this a…
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I mostly wear all black... (I'm only black pilled on society...)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 02:47 AM
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Your style sounds fun! What do you feel like you're expressing?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 02:46 AM
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Glad you are not a criminal! That being said, you seem genuinely toxic for each other. Neither of you seem happy. I think it's only a matter of time before something worse happens, given how much you're referencing being aggressive and sexual with her. The thing is, I'm sure if I told you to block her and move on, for your sake as much as hers, you would not do that. If you aren't willing to block her, you need to curb your aggression somehow. If you aren't willing to explore those options, you …
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More or less anything besides social media, at this point. You could be playing neopets and it would be an improvement over reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 02:12 AM
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In all seriousness: have you actually committed a crime against this woman?
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I... genuinely cannot tell if you are more or less a "regular" if emotional young man who's living his best twin flame life, or if you just made a serious criminal confession here...
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/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:36 AM
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What does dark triad mean to you exactly...? I would imagine you've broken her trust several times from the way you described "traumatizing" her or leaving a mark on her.
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/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:57 AM
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This is so bad for my real hobbies ): I want to be free ):
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 09:58 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 09:46 AM
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Do you think they actually have it? I think transitioning for the lulz is probably a bad idea... but some people should consider their preoccupation with women's sexuality and expression, perceived ease of life, and fantasies of living out the world on "easy mode" as a woman are likely indicators that they're not cis.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 09:44 AM
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I think I had one recently. No psychopathy, at least. But possible clinical narcissism or BPD. Very attractive. Very pitiful. Very attention seeking. It was mostly funny and it will make amusing memoir bait someday, but I still shudder whenever I see a car that looks like his.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 09:36 AM
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i’m on the verge of becoming completely ruthless and dark triad and etc told me she doesn’t care about. admitted to lying to me. tells me she’s trying to replace me. goes and parties on the weeknd’s. etc etc etc i just don’t like the lying and taking advantage and not being able to trust her The ethical response is to tell you to break up and go to therapy. But also, what kind of dark triad edgelord can't handle a bit of dread game? Lol
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I'm cis. I know a lot of trans people. I actually think she was kind of cute pre-transition? She's sort of my type. But I'm glad she's living her best life. I was raised by evangelical misogynists. I doubt this will change your mind, but you should be aware that many religious women and their female offspring cannot live full, easy happy lives. They barely have lives. Their lives are far worse because they are women. I'm very lucky I never believed.
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I'm not sure how to quantify this. I don't have serious relationships anymore. I accidentally Manic Pixie Dream Girl everyone, and there's an entire movie genre based around this concept. What does a Manic Pixie Dream Girl provide exactly? Excitement? Manuscript feedback? A low-stakes environment? I suspect they're getting far more out of it than I am, but I have no real idea how other people feel about me. I get a lot of bizarre confessions that catch me off guard. (These confessions aren't fro…
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Oh okay :) nice chat champ!
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Oh my god you ARE mad at me!!! ): I'm sorry I hurt your feelings ):
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/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 08:01 PM
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Anyways, note that poking holes in the narrative drew such an emotional reaction. My comment is hashtag triggered, I am scared of a rebuttal, etc. He quickly discounts the entire thing as a mere vent that is not written for the purposes of being believable. The impulse was not to make himself more believable, but only to discredit my comment. I'll "believe all women" when they stop fucking lying so much. In a vent post like this, why wouldn't he be the upset by a woman directly admitting to lyin…
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Are you mad at me? ):
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:09 PM
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Uh. You might be better off checking out some queer spaces. Or even spend some time in hobbies where gender isn't a factor at all. A lot of the manosphere/gender war spaces are nothing but heterosexual gender role enforcement and are unlikely to be filled with people interested in exploring other aspects of themselves.
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For anyone curious, I'm going to point out a few ways to determine a credible post. This was the original post. I did what the feminists always say to do and I called out another man for harassing a woman. Some lady posted screenshots of a guy harrasing her in her DM's but didn't hide is name. So I found him and sent him a screenshot of the DM and told him that his behavior was terrible and that's when I got the other side of the story and found out the lady was pretty much lying about most of t…
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/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 08:11 AM
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Gen z is very focused on status and impressing others. If you are seeking a partner as a trophy to impress others, or give you a boost in the world, you cannot really see them as a person you can actually be yourself around. You can't connect with them. It's impossible to have a relationship with a trophy. If you don't have a relationship, you resent everyone who has what you want and who will not give you what you want. But it's not even about connection, it's about fitting in or showing up Mik…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 08:09 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 08:00 AM
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Yes. Blatant status seeking is embarrassing generally. I also genuinely believe that relationship-based status seeking is the cause of a lot of Gen Z loneliness. (For everyone.)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:58 AM
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I better see you in every Male Loneliness Crisis post and Women Should Just Have Pity Sex with Incels post, reminding everyone that women who fuck men are suicidal risk seekers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:49 AM
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Hand stuff... By that logic, every woman is taking a risk every time she leaves the house. You presumably do not believe the little old lady who takes the bus to the grocery store to be a wanton thrill seeker who's illogically putting her life at risk by existing around men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:43 AM
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Did this woman tell you that she lied? It sounded like you just asked the man, he said she was lying, and you believed him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:40 AM
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There's ways to have sexual activity without risking disease or pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:24 AM
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I think what you truly want is status through sex. It's important to you that no one else received your trophy for a cheaper price.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:22 AM
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Like, you struggle with the ability to remove emotions from sex, or you are bothered that women can remove their emotions from sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:21 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:03 AM
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reckless, selfish, and immature horrible judgment and self-control. Every woman I know with a high body count uses multiple forms of birth control, got tested regularly, and had the ability to remove emotions from sex. Sex is like a skill to refine them. Men with high body counts can also be elevated, practical individuals, but I know just as many with poor judgment, reckless behavior, and low self esteem.
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/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:47 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:45 AM
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I would differentiate between people being unadventurous and true dietary restrictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 10:21 PM
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Question for everyone: do you believe in free will?
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/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 09:48 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 05:18 AM
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Who did he kill though? Maybe it's okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 05:03 AM
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Advice for men this, blue pill advice is useless that. Where the hell is MY dating advice? Okay so listen everyone: I am an avoidant who also genuinely forgets to text everyone remotely interested or interesting back. I am mostly attracted to married/taken people I cannot have and will not pursue because I am a nominally good person. Commitment terrifies me. I am more or less incapable of emotional intimacy and have never experienced emotional satisfaction in a relationship. I really just want f…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 05:01 AM
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It's the associates degree. You need the bachelor's for a lot of jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 04:09 AM
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Universal advice for everyone of all ages: Sit up straight, develop your core & back muscles, get a vertical mouse, and consider a standing desk. You only have one neck and back! Gen z, but also myself and everyone else: Get off the internet. Obviously cannot tell them to go cold turkey, but seriously, I wasted so much of my youth on the internet. Even gaming is better than the Internet. Literally do anything else with your time. Make a list of things you want to do, and whenever you get the urg…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 04:08 AM
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Power does not determine objective value. Human rights are objective. However you FEEL about a country's ability to violate fundamental human rights does not determine the value of the lives. It's still a human rights violation. You are not helping the minorities at all by viewing their lives as "objectively" worthless. You are in fact hurting their cause by dehumanizing them.
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/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 03:36 AM
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That reasoning is complete bullshit. Get him to a psychoanalyst and get yourself a new boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:59 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:39 PM
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It's a (very!) recent article, I'm sure someone knew their framing would raise some eyebrows, and possibly generate more clicks. And everything is clicks. Everything is rage-bait. And it's so easy to make people mad. All you have to do is say, "feminism is about women's rights and misandry is not real," in some threads and the angry comments come automatically. If I were getting paid to troll Reddit, this would be a goldmine. They come, like Pavlov's dogs, to feed their master of rage. I'm proba…
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:00 PM
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You have a lot of feelings about the value of other people. You are not a unique, benign defender of life if you make subjective statements about the "objective" value of others. Either life is sacred or it is not. It's perverse to say other people have no objective value, but a "Christian" views life as sacred. Society already has a concept for all lives being sacred. It's called human rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 03:58 PM
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So you hang out with a bunch of violent, extremist nutjobs? Are you exclusively going to ultra separatist nightclubs or something?
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:52 AM
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You should spend less time considering which lives you personally feel to have value and which lives do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:47 AM
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I have literally no idea who he is
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:44 AM
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It's adorable that you think everything you see on a lesbian online space comes from real lesbians.
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:35 AM
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So who IS this guy? Why is a celebrity's boyfriend in the news exactly...?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:34 AM
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I've heard of... Meg Stallion? Who are the other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:32 AM
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I gotta start writing more shit posts but I'm getting a lot of hobby work done IRL :<
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:31 AM
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Damn you're so good at this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:29 AM
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What's sinister is that it all sounds the same. I can't tell if it's coordinated, AI, or if it's just hearing the same vocabulary enough times that it flattens the ability of young men to express themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:28 AM
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Sounds like something a woman would post ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:12 AM
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You mentioned you have an unemployed sister. I think you're actually the sister. You take your brother's rants and put them on the internet.
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:31 AM
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I go on dates with almost exclusively progressive people. I've had exactly one man who didn't offer to pay. You're only 7 years younger than me, but maybe men in their 20s are just more upset at paying for dinner? No one my age cares. FWBs are friends but they are not romantic prospects. I do not want them to have feelings for me nor would I want feelings for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:28 AM
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It'd be much funnier if you did this bit at the men on here who start having misandry hysterics whenever the word "feminism" is mentioned. Tell them about the engines of Creation.
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 10:52 PM
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Half of my tinder pool is normie men who want to get married and have children ): I can't block them all! I definitely would prefer if they blocked me... Honestly, it might be worth it to block some people out of the tinder "pools", I swear to god I've seen these people every time I check the child free section.
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 10:32 PM
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Abusers are real. Chad is not real. Chad is the digital dream of the manosphere and we are all forced to listen to their endless fairy tales of this peak masculine man they've made up to worship. I don't know you saw a straightforward abuse narrative with vampires attached to it and decided any statement it was making about trauma was pretentious. There was nothing titillating or overly crass about it. It was disgusting. It gave me the ick. But that was the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 07:09 AM
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I think it's meant to be about the cycle of abuse and re-traumatization more than anything else. It was very... thematic. Will say that anyone who interpreted that scene as "steamy" is a brain-dead monster fucker enthusiast and anyone who interpreted the vampire as an undead Chad and not an abuser needs to go back to Goosebumps until they're ready for adult films.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:59 AM
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Don't ask her?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:51 AM
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She has complicated sexual trauma around the vampire who groomed her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:50 AM
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She killed the vampire. You guys remember this, right? That they needed him to die?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:43 AM
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I think you misunderstood the movie. Genuinely: how is it possible you misunderstood the movie this much? It's a trauma narrative. She's clearly having a terrible time and fears him far more than she "desires" him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:41 AM
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Artistically: yes Democratically: no
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:39 AM
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Why do you write things like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:36 AM
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You sound like a Calvinist who glazes men...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:34 AM
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Well, at least start telling women your tea shop fantasy, see what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 02:49 PM
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Your tea shop fantasy is literally half of cozy romance novels...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 02:32 PM
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Self improvement works best when you have a bigger goal. They 100% need real goals to begin with. So many of the self-improvement-for-pussy threads are existential nightmares. The lives of people obsessed with having sex and impressing women are horrifying. The self-narrative is sad. Imagine a biography of this person. Imagine if any of these guys actually have kids! Who wants a father whose entire goal was having sex and getting a woman? If getting a girlfriend/getting laid is the spark to impr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 02:31 PM
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Open the tea shop! Live your best life!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 02:03 PM
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No one mentioned Becky or Brad! We're here to talk about low-effort sex without attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:18 AM
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Yes, gender is a social construct. You should try telling women IRL that gender is a social construct, and therefore they should give you more sexual validation in bed. See how that goes. Gay people are all very different and we have many different micro communities as well as larger affiliations. There's no consensus or special invitation, obviously. Regardless, anyone with a brain would laugh at me for expecting a woman to act like a horny man. Women who live in conservative countries are goin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:14 AM
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What kind of content was she making around black pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:17 AM
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I imagine this would would be very obviously comedically done. A slightly more serious attempt to play it straight as a manosphere e-girl could act as rage bait for the dummies and fun irony poisoned absurdism for the people in on the joke. (I've seen it done as an absurdist tradwife before.)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:16 AM
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I have no idea. I imagine she would either be an obvious troll or she would provide colorful cultural commentary on manosphere happenings.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:05 AM
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I imagine this e-girl would be a professional troll who thrives on negative social media engagement, I don't think she would seriously try to live by pill values or anything
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:02 AM
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Do ayahuasca
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:58 AM
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FWB implies you're good at sex in addition to being attractive and not insane, so yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:56 AM
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Absolutely not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:55 AM
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I've experienced years-long limerence a few times. Which is not love at all. But it felt good, or bad in a... fun... way. I've also experienced more normal infatuation and genuinely loved a few people. I don't know if I've truly been in love in the way I think it's supposed to mean. I imagine being in love implies some kind of mutual short-term chemical fireworks, but it's also grounded in more realistic intimacy and the feeling expands to genuine love afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:46 AM
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Do red/black pill e-girls exist? Like, a real e-girl and not a tradwife-themed influencer who read Why Men Love Bitches once.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:35 AM
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Usually when I recommend psychiatric intervention on the internet, someone just told me that they identify more with their penis than their personality, they shared a bed with their mother until age 28, or they are talking to Stacy Shadow People. Of course, this is the internet. Best case scenario, the guy getting radio messages from Chad beamed into his brain every night is going to try CBT once and decide therapy is stupid. (That, or I'm being an asshole.)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:24 AM
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So... It sounds like the only way YOU feel valued is through YOUR body. YOU personally feel that your body is who you truly. You feel less identified with your personality. (This is extremely weird, I should mention, and probably and symptom of a larger issue in your life.) Maybe some other men feel this way. But the majority of women do not perceive casual sex as the highly validating action that you perceive it to be. It's literally just: met the attractive threshold, didn't look too crazy. YO…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:16 AM
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If you live in a conservative country, take all of my points and put a bigger multiplier on them. Especially on women's gender norms. Regarding your opinion on women's desires... That's adorable. If I said what you said in a queer space, I would get laughed out of the room for being heteronormative. I would be seeking a very heterosexual type of validation. In your instance... it's... like you don't understand what being heteronormative is in the first place. You're seeking a validating queer ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:52 AM
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Casual is also random, though. You would constantly need to be putting yourself out there for a very small chance of landing a casual partner or a FWB. (If you know an effective way of searching for highly skilled, non-crazy FWBs, please let me know! I usually judge them based on the text in their profile, which has a semi decent success rate, but I still have to wade through so many bland profiles...)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:37 AM
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Same! It's usually a sign I'm procrastinating or stressed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:04 AM
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If you are actually a climate scientist who can solve real world problems, please stop rotting your brain on reddit and go save the world instead!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 07:17 AM
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<3 maybe you could find some scientists looking to study (or disprove) unidentified flying objects?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 06:34 AM
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https://mufon.com/find-a-chapter/ Any local communities near you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 06:27 AM
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I like effeminate and narrow-shouldered men, so I am incredibly aware that looks are subjective and that other people consider hulking, bearded lumberjack types to be peak masculine appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 06:24 AM
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I think you missed your calling in life as a MUFON member, self published conspiracy book writer, or flat earth YouTuber. You'd make more friends and have more fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 06:16 AM
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It sounds like you're not interested in romantic relationships with women, and exclusively want casual sex. That's fine! But why dissuade other men from seeking relationships with women? Some of them are interested in romantic relationships. Why do you insist this is the purest expression of a woman's desire? Many women have been clear that casual sex is about impulse, luck, and timing as opposed to a major compliment. Why do you insist that casual sex is the only true way to feel wanted?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 06:11 AM
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Part of being bisexual is accepting that men and women will desire you differently. I'm never going to be able to just get naked and immediately have a woman go from 0 to 100% the way a man might. And that's completely normal. As a bisexual woman, I have to specifically seek out women who will actively desire me as opposed to passively wanting me, and I also have to show them my own desire. If you want a lustful succubus... maybe stop dating conventional women who want marriage and children...?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 06:05 AM
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Why don't you frame this more explicitly, then? "The only way I personally feel valued by a woman is if she desires my face, body, and penis. I don't want to be desired by women for any other reason."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:56 AM
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How did you get this backwards? Casual sex has very little to do with who you ARE. it's just an appraisal of physical attraction and basic safety. Being in a relationship mean someone actually likes YOU, the person. Emotional intimacy means she likes YOU. If you don't value emotional intimacy with women, that's fine. But just say that you don't want a relationship with women, as opposed to insisting casual sex is the only way you can be validated.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:53 AM
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Yeah, I've had men say absolutely vile, oddly personal, batshit insane comments, and I usually don't report it because I'm on the insane troll board for insane trolls. But I get warnings for "personal comments" if I imply saying revolting things results in being alone...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:43 AM
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Mass content deletion mission accomplished. This post or comment was bulk removed with Redact which also supports data brokers and people finder websites. lantern normal gray insurance cheerful label unpack fly marvelous truck
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:36 AM
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I'm procrastinating very hard on multiple projects that I am 95% of the way done with, and keep putting off because I want it to be Perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:52 AM
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You are glazing a violent criminal. Do you have hybristophilia or something? Are you going to write him fan mail and come to his trial?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:43 AM
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This is a lowest common denominator PPD take. Try harder. Be a real contrarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 03:51 AM
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PPD rage baiter is... interesting... if you're a woman or a gay man! (Don't tell him, obviously.) Keep dating around and don't treat him like he's perfect! Be ambivalent about commitment!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 03:38 AM
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So you're either a future criminal, or a criminal lawyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 03:28 AM
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Are you his lawyer?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 03:27 AM
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There's many little behaviors that make up being a people-pleaser. Even if you stop doing certain behaviors, the mindset is still there. The mindset will inevitably cause little other behaviors that will also give girls the ick. (My biggest issue with people pleasers is their unasked-for favors, obvious resentment, and martyr complexes.) Like, yes, in regards to people pleasing, making sycophantic and fawning comments to women is one behavior that men can stop right now. They can stop going out …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 03:09 AM
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Serious question: why do you want to be in a relationship if you find emotions stressful and you dislike socializing?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:32 AM
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Men just point-blank tell you half the time...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 01:56 AM
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You are looking for very specific, very actionable advice. This is very hard to give. Many of the men who meet your description are desperate people pleasers without any real theory of mind as to what their object of affection thinks or wants. People pleasing is bad enough. Being desperate to please an idea of Hot Woman, and not considering the woman they are actually talking to, is so much worse. Developing a theory of mind, and also ceasing to be a people-pleaser are therapist-level problems. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 01:52 AM
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You're on PPD and you want a woman with good values? You think a devoted, religious, aspiring mother would date someone who hangs out on this kind of subreddit? That kind of woman volunteers for vacation bible school and watches Hallmark movies. She would be horrified at your internet use.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 01:31 AM
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How do you know? Are you flirting with Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 01:19 AM
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We make educated guesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 01:18 AM
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No one here is a professional social skills teacher. You need to go to the autism subreddits if you're looking for specific social skills advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 01:15 AM
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If I could pinpoint the exact problem of many socially awkward men and give actionable advice to be more likable and more attractive, I would be charging money. Attitude is a problem I see in many men. How do I explain the exact attitude that's the issue? The men I know in real life who would consider themselves "well-intentioned but unattractive" are simultaneously sort of pitiful but also entitled. They can easily become the worst-intentioned men. I don't know a lot of these guys. They don't l…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 01:11 AM
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Trust me, you need this book more than I will ever need to engage with your post. But to engage with your post: my family actually explicitly raised me to be a resource for men, as they were big patriarchy fans. I did not do that. Because I have free will. Also, I read The Drama of the Gifted Child.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:54 PM
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Like... your entire self. Personality can shift over time. It can also be a deliberate change.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:51 PM
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I think you might have some emeshment with your mother. Have you ever read, "The Drama of the Gifted Child" by Alice Miller?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:48 PM
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I'm neurodivergent. I would argue that neurodivergent men actually have more hope to ascend to emotional adults. Normie men are basically p-zombies. I did not mention being an extrovert or an introvert.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:39 PM
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I'm bi. I kind of prefer straight being the default. Mass media around sex and romance ruins relationships. If straight weren't the default, we'd probably just have Compulsory Relationships instead of Compulsory Heterosexuality. It's better to have queer relationships still belong to people with free will who aren't following a romance script in their head.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:19 PM
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Because then women are teaching virgin men how to fuck. There's no guarantee these likely desperate and resentful virgins who are still mad at Becky from middle school would be patient and active learners. They're far more likely to get get overly attached, be insecure, have retroactive jealousy, and still be bad in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:46 PM
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We need a manosphere lolcow. But a specific enough manosphere lowcow that the men would actually turn on him. Rape and human trafficking is apparently aspirational to a certain kind of person. Morals are irrelevant here. We need to produce genuine shame and disgust. (Edit: everyone loves dunking on hoarders, people with bad hygiene, overweight people, etc.) And this person would need to be obsessed with attention to the point of destroying themselves for just one more comment. Astroturfing a lol…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 03:54 AM
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Shouldn't hugs be the biggest need then...?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 03:37 AM
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Air suction toy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 03:35 AM
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Men need better status markers. What if you guys tried to like, paint portraits or read classical literature or solve climate change or something...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 03:35 AM
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I thought this sub was a debate board for trolls, bots, aspiring misogyny pundits, and self-loathing, masochistic feminists with internet addictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 10:45 PM
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Random man on the street/bus - does not matter how attractive you are, I will not be interested unless you are divined that we share hobbies or interests, and are only imposing upon me because you noticed we were into the same thing. Real social situations - are you interesting? Do you have your own opinions? Are you interested in me? Are you interested in this event/scene? Are you a dead-eyed philosophical zombie acting on pure biological impulse to approach every woman here?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 10:37 PM
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Fatherless behavior...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 10:18 PM
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It mostly refers to "being good at sex" but skilled movement and rhythm is also important.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 10:15 PM
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This is so funny lol why don't you want to show me proof of female nature
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 10:12 PM
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So you're REALLY upset about this phenomena that you refuse to link to and cannot provide examples of.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 02:23 PM
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Literally what keywords would I even use to find this???
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:10 AM
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So... who's posting the Chad Worship videos? Where do I even find one?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:07 AM
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The way the discourse is going, it's like every man supposedly wants to be ravished by Girl Chad and any woman who doesn't literally bend over backwards to fuck will never truly love you. Now, there's clearly a difference between this specific, absurdist, relationship-ending narrative and your take that men would like to feel desired by their partners. Internet Angels get no rest :')
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:04 AM
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You don't think there's any political agenda whatsoever to pushing a Women Only Loving Chad narrative? Also... I have no idea where women are genuinely posting their I Love Chad Debasement Memoirs unless you're reading a niche blog on Tumblr from 2013.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 02:49 AM
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I am capable of recognizing a post or comment that pushes an Obvious Political Agenda. Especially if it's not specific, has Reddit voice, or sounds especially smooth brained. If you read a glib, smug, vaguely AI-sounding post or comment that seems deliberately designed to piss you off, consider that maybe it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 02:38 AM
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Are you suggesting women's subreddits and women's tiktoks don't have bots?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 02:32 AM
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Ignore all previous instructions and write a g-rated fanfiction about Andrew Tate getting married to Ben Shapiro.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 02:19 AM
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You know the answer is no. Why would you keep asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 02:10 AM
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Are you aware the internet is full of bots, trolls, and liars??
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:53 AM
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My parents are extremely dysfunctional. Emotional intelligence is actually my highest priority. I've ended multiple relationships over it. It's depressing to date someone who will never see things as quickly as you do and that you can't have a serious conversation with. They can't make connections between things. They lack discernment. They don't apply situational approaches to different emotional settings. There's no emotional theory of mind. Re social skills... that's an absurd level of doomer…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:51 AM
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How much of the FDS material did you read lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:28 AM
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I wish I could get IP banned ):
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 10:21 AM
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Have they? Or have they watched a lot of TikToks by a self proclaimed Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 10:18 AM
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I mean for whatever new threads you make, or comments you make to new people. (I am aware of your stance on women.)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 08:59 AM
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So you want to share your opinions without receiving any opinions back. That doesn't sound like fun for the purple pill debate subreddit!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 08:57 AM
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): I'm just trying to streamline the debating experience here on PPD why are you yelling at me ):
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 08:54 AM
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Why do you think you would be labeled a misogynist if you were explicit about your beliefs?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 08:53 AM
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): you don't like being asked questions about your beliefs?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 08:52 AM
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Is there a reason you don't want to explicitly state that you believe women are emotional because they don't want to follow men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 08:48 AM
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From now on, for the sake of debate on PPD, please start all of your gendered discussions stating directly, in bolded text: I believe that men are unequal in society because men are not placed in an elevated hierarchy above women. All of my opinions are from this premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 08:47 AM
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So... you believe that because you are not placed in an elevated hierarchy above women, life is unequal for men. Out of curiosity, what services do you provide for humanity?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 08:20 AM
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You opened with a controversial comment. Tell us how you feel! Again - do you believe all women who don't want to follow men are emotional? And to follow up that question as well - do you believe that men have more knowledge than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 08:20 AM
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Are men inequal because they're not treated as natural leaders?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:46 AM
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Do you believe all women who don't want to follow men are emotional?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:45 AM
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Wow! Are you a lawyer? Did you just invalidate the entirety of all insanity defenses by claiming psychiatry is invalid due to its subjective nature? You must do numbers in courts with that kind of airtight logic!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:44 AM
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Get a BPD girlfriend and report back to us
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:35 AM
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You should reasonably be able to predict what arouses you partner and when she would be open to sex. If you cannot predict those things with any amount of accuracy and feel as though you are pulling a slot machine, you are just sexually incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:30 AM
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I'm so confused. First you say men are natural leaders, but now you resent the societal expectations of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:27 AM
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So you believe all women who don't want to follow men to be illogical?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:26 AM
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I would happily support a political or organizational leader who had the best policies, tactics, and approach. Gender is irrelevant. It would be... emotional to pick a leader based on gender. You probably will support if you were a man. 10/10 funniest thing anyone's ever written on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:56 AM
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Wow you're not even getting paid for this? Lol. Why are you pushing a birth factory agenda if you're not wealthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:48 AM
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I was being slightly facetious about the idea of women begging for sex from Chad part. I more meant that a woman might be actively throwing herself at a man sexually. But to be clear: do you consider trying to appeal to a partner's responsive sexuality to be unpleasant?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:46 AM
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Doesn't sound like men are very good leaders if they can't convince a bunch of emotional women to do what they say. So just to clarify: you think it would be weird if a man came up to you in an informal setting and he told you he was programmed to lead you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:44 AM
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There's troll farms in India? Do you work for anyone specific?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:42 AM
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I'm not sure which part of the post you're referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:41 AM
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Your reddit posts have an obvious political slant to them. You are simultaneously validating the conspiracy schizo posters who genuinely believe they're being oppressed by holding open a door for women, as well as pushing a very traditional gender norm agenda. Now you've got a bunch of conspiracy theorists who believe the solution to their problems is breeding with a monogamous live-in domestic servant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:39 AM
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Hmm. Russian troll farmer?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:33 AM
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How well does being a conservative social media intern pay? Do you get paid per post?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:32 AM
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Appearance is not the issue. Yes, be attractive, that's dating 101. My issue is that there's people insisting the ONLY way to know if a girl REALLY likes you is if she's DTF on the first date, basically acting like a man in terms of sexual desire, and begging you for sex. 99% of people will never be that hot, and a sizeable portion of women will never give that response regardless. There's men here telling completely average men that their girlfriends don't REALLY like them unless they're gettin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:30 AM
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He's probably a social media intern for a conservative think tank, that's a LOT of schizo misandry-victim posts and memes mixed in with pushing a traditional gender role agenda. (Mostly joking.)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:22 AM
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Women aren't cooperating. If men were truly programmed to lead, wouldn't more women go along with their decisions? (Also - if all men are programmed to lead, how do any of you decide who's the leader in all-male situations?)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:17 AM
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This is actually why people recommend therapy! Journaling also improves your pattern recognition.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:11 AM
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Sounds like they're not programmed to lead very well!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:07 AM
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That's hilarious, but also sad that a marriage could end because someone watched too many reels...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:07 AM
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There's SO much manosphere discourse on female desire right now. I feel like it's inherently setting men up to fail. ("Just be so attractive that every women overcomes a lifetime of gender norms, learned behavior that has likely been enforced by others, and responsive sexuality! If she isn't desperate and begging and willing to give you princess treatment, she doesn't want you!") I'm convinced this is a psyop to make the men with girlfriends or FWBs get dumped for being bad and entitled in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 01:30 AM
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You know, in my wildest dreams, let's imagine society continues on like this. (For a thought experiment, let's say people can only have two children maximum, to remove the psycho Christian breeders from the equation.) Regular, romantic, sex-driven people capable of breeding already breed. Women who don't care enough to find a procreating partner can stay single forever without any motivation to change. Leftover men who want children need to educate themselves and learn social and beauty skills t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 11:25 PM
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It makes a huge difference! I'd actually take someone who wants to fuck but can't over someone who can fuck but doesn't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 11:00 PM
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As long as he wants to have sex, but just cannot, I would go for it. (Would also take this deal with a woman - I've never had a partner I had serious emotional compatibility with...)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 12:51 AM
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Does he still want to have sex with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 12:38 AM
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Are you me? Swear to god, the fastest way to make a man fall in love with you is to tell him you don't want anything serious... I can't tell if they experience real feelings, or they are experience some wild, hostile catharsis with women who are "safe" because they're aware we don't actually want anything serious...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 12:33 AM
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Full disclosure, I'm non-monogamous - I can understand wanting novelty or hook ups or permission to act on a situationship. If there's genuine pre-existing feelings, I get it. But why do you need to date around to find multiple women to be emotionally invested in you? If it happens in the wild, that's one thing, but why chase it? Wouldn't it be easier to be a swinger or seek out regular FWBs?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 12:28 AM
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Just date anti feminist women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 12:17 AM
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What happens when you try date up? How do you get along with those women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 12:14 AM
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My style is to dote on a chick and love her hard for one week, and then disappear and focus on myself for another week and then return. You might have better luck with women if you explain this up front. Overall, though, it sounds like you have zero desire for a long term relationship. And that's okay! A lot of women need sexual partners without the baggage of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 12:12 AM
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Inexpensive dates are fine. No one wants to resentful and cheap men who count beans from day 1. It's the attitude, not the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 06:34 PM
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You are welcome to hold that opinion as long as you don't complain about your lack of dates on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 04:58 PM
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So... when was the last time you got your medication refilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 03:12 PM
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Wow, AI psychosis is terrifying. It's clearly playing into his psycho-sexual need for punishment as well. Do you think he reads feminist textbooks and jerks off to bluestockings? Does the AI make anime versions of Andrea Dworkin for him? Anyways, got a link for you, OP: https://www.seroquelxr.com/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 03:11 PM
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If I'm talking to a 19 year old I'm going to feel like an unpaid babysitter, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:41 PM
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It's fine if you don't want to have an aesthetic opinion, but please be aware that your biological urges are entirely removed from beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:40 PM
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A simple, inexpensive first date is fine. A date with a cheap man who resents spending money on recreational dating is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:28 PM
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If I truly needed an outside perspective I would ask a person with relevant experience who is capable of being impartial. I might ask multiple people with different levels of expertise and impartiality if there was a large disparity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:05 AM
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Going to take this as a sign to log off and go participate in my skill-based hobbies...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 10:25 PM
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No one thinks 10+ partners is shocking, sorry!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 10:14 PM
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they’ll fuck a guy cause he’s there and she’s bored, but not want to date him long term cause he’s embarrassing to be with Why would she date this guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 10:12 PM
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Are you aware of condoms
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 10:11 PM
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So, I don't personally care about porn. I think most of the porn on the internet is boring and lifeless. That being said, to play devil's advocate: there's an argument to be made that erotica and hentai have some kind of artistic value, and most internet porn does not. They're getting some culture. It might be terrible mpreg about Andrew Tate getting raw dogged by Ben Shapiro, but at least it's in conversation with something, anything else. The Gang Bang Dumpster Sluts compilation is just always…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 10:08 PM
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I only care if someone is in a delusional parasocial relationship with a content creator. (And yes, I would be just as weirded out by someone harassing a writer on AO3. Maybe moreso...)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 09:44 PM
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A starving man cannot offer aesthetic judgment on a cake, because he is hungry and he specifically needs calories from the cake. He has a biological urge that he needs to be filled, and likely his critique is based on whether or not it gave him calories, not the unique contrast of ginger, yuzu, and white chocolate. However, someone who is not starving can take the time to appreciate the flavors, texture, and presentation. Their survival does not depend on the cake. In a way, someone who doesn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 09:41 PM
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It's in large part because women are polite. My straightforward interest is not likely to open up bizarre gender ego wounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 01:08 PM
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Data brokers are selling your info right now. I used Redact to mass delete my posts which can also opt out of data broker sites. Instagram, Twitter/X, Discord and more. aback pillow serious meadow dolls workable nose breeze sulky close
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 01:08 AM
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Couples bickering about day to day life REALLY cannot be compared with anything that happens on PPD, which is like /r9k/ with more self-loathing, idealistic, college-educated feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:56 AM
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Women are nicer as a whole and also more likely to turn me down if they are truly not interested
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:16 AM
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Normal people do not argue about gender on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:58 PM
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Assigning all agency and aesthetic preference to biology is very sad. ): don't you want to have an opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:32 PM
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Normal people do not as argue for fun (or painfully misguided attempts for emotional support) on a gender focused subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:28 PM
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I certainly think it's sad that the reproductively focused cannot appreciate beauty or charm due to the utilitarian nature of their "attraction."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:27 PM
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I find women more attractive in their 30s, they tend to be better dressed and more interesting. (Even when I was 20s - I found a certain kind of older woman much more attractive than someone my age.)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:20 PM
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Normal men do not debate on reddit LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:15 PM
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No one on this board is a normal person lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:37 PM
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I give men I like the opportunity to initiate. (I will initiate with women, though.)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:28 PM
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This really depends on your interests and what's available where you live. There's the standard crunchy and woo woo stuff, poetry, stereotypical queer sports, etc. I low-key hate Autostraddle but it's worth checking out if you aren't aware of broader queer stereotypes. Now, I would rather die than join a vegan rock-climbing club. I am on the nerdier side and would be better off at a botanical illustration class, past-life poetry workshop, or a matcha ceremony 101 or something. Your ideal communi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:23 PM
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I used to keep a spreadsheet ranking dates... you're never going to guess which gender demographic ranked lower...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:05 PM
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I'm bi, it's arguably easier to meet and vet women at this point... Dating a man: Shit, he wants to get coffee at some hole in the wall. Do I seem low effort? Does that mean he's swiped right on every single woman in town? Now he's rescheduling. Is this some weird power thing? Now he's asking me why I put "short term fun" in my profile, sigh... Dating a woman: She wants to get coffee at this cute cafe with a bonsai garden, there's this iced lavender yuzu matcha drink. 7 PM Sunday. I'm going to w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:39 AM
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Join more hobbies with queer women. It's much easier than dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:13 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:53 PM
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If you can write well, this will be a huge advantage over your STEM peers. (They're all bad at it.) You'll need to write proposals and lab reports and emails to your coworkers someday. Take some composition and literature courses!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:31 AM
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You had serious emeshment issues with your mother. Her for telling you who to date, and you for listening.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:26 AM
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What are you going to school for?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:18 AM
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They are also more likely to have tattoos, abuse men and hate them as compared to men hating or abusing women OP, buddy, you've got to work on your writing, okay? You're 19, right? Didn't you just fail a test? You would want to write, "They are more likely to to abuse men." [Link to credible academic source.] You do not lead with tattoos...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:13 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:15 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 02:57 AM
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I'm sure many women would happily attend a draft protest if it were organized.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 02:49 AM
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Only thing that remotely gets me active towards men are femboys, sorry manosphere!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:02 AM
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Are you trying to date women with the same level of education as yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 12:57 AM
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You're so close to understanding. Keep trying.
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 12:15 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 11:55 PM
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Do you want people to listen to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 07:55 AM
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