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This is what TRP used to be. It devolved into how to get girls on tinder. TRP used to be about attaining masculine potential and building real value. Being wanted by women is a nice consequence of being a high value man. Now TRP has devolved into pickup artistry for men without masculine role models. Grifters like Tate are making millions off of insecure, lost, young men
/r/TheRedPill21/05/26 12:17 AM
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People claim to live happy lives without women. It’s called “Men going their own way”. It means men living outside the societal expectation of partnership and providing for women. That said, most men get to that point by being miserable, frustrated and lonely. If you’re truly comfortable with your body, more power to you. However, there are 1000 reasons to get in shape that have nothing to do with your aesthetics and gaining validation. I’ll also go on a limb and say you’re not actually comforta…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/25 02:36 PM
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Interesting. When I got into PUA stuff around 2006/2007 guys like Mystery cited research concluding that women found more facially expressive men attractive than not. I don’t doubt that your thing works for you. I think ultimately modernized game is finding your thing /solidifying your authentic brand and doing it better than anyone else.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/24 06:49 AM
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Godspeed, Verm. Sincerely hoping the purge is effective. I’ll do my part and report those who deserve it. There are young men out there who desperately need the support and guidance this sub provides (because the world certainly does not). The bullshit that’s made its way through the cracks over the last few years is not what they need to see in their time of need.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/24 04:25 PM
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I’ve been here for 8 years. I was brought up on Gaylubeoil and the other greats. Hoping we can return to formal glory. Just need everyone to put in the necessary effort on the sidebar and engage content in a meaningful way.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/24 02:19 PM
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Shouldn't have said you were going to chase after her eventually. Maximize that dread.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/22 04:50 PM
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In the last three years I suffered one of the rarest acute spinal conditions on earth and woke up paralyzed and numb from the neck down. I spent months in the hospital and made a miraculous recovery. It was also the most potent serving of "no one fucking cares" I've ever had.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/22 09:06 PM
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Giving me flashbacks man. In college I dated one of the highest profile cheerleaders, legit HB9. She was an alpha widow to the core. In the early days, I got the alpha treatment. Then 2 years later when breaking up, I saw her messages with my replacement: the most debaucherous sexting you've ever seen. When confronting, she said, "I didn't know you wanted that. I didn't want you to think I was a slut"..... Yeah. She gave / saved her best for someone else. But I did the beta backslide, and I got …
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 11:56 AM
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I've been at this since 2013/2014, but well keep it unique to your situation. With an aggressively red pill lense, all most anything can be taken as a sign of doom and destruction. That's why I say keep your perspective grounded. Her never initiating seems like a huge problem, right? Remember that you are the man, you lead her, every time you fuck as a result of your initiating it's an act of submission/ reaffirmation of your role in the relationship. Speaking from my experience- which could all…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/19 02:47 PM
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You're giving me flashbacks to my epiphany days. You're going to be okay. I will say you have to keep a lot of this in perspective. For example, if your LTR is fucking you lots, there's a good chance you're doing the right things, not necessarily that she's feeling guilty. However, if you go from a dead bedroom to 24/7 fuckfest and you've been on the couch all day, you may have something to worry about.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/19 02:24 PM
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"It doesn't get better. You do."
/r/TheRedPill21/04/19 02:21 PM
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all the above following a death in the family, not that I owe anyone trying to score cool guy points on the internet an explanation.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 05:16 PM
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Yeah I agree. It was a knee jerk sarcastic response. Again, no one here is more acutely aware of me being off my game than me.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 04:19 PM
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Oh definitely. She's my favorite plate.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 04:07 PM
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This sounds about right. I think its more that my frame was impeccable until about July of last year, and I haven't really recovered since- I'm sure the contrast and inconsistency are beyond frustrating for her. Haven't done the best job of recovering from some life shake ups.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 03:55 PM
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Right. It feels like she's basically asking me to end my LTR, but I called her bullshit out and said "why? its not like you'd commit to me". To this, my side piece responded with a flirty bull shit "who knows" gesture...Ending the LTR would be too compliant. Just not sure what my play is here.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 03:53 PM
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I know my niche is basic sorority girls who like to "Wooh!" The problem is they get fat really fast out of college, are terrible people as a general rule, and general cause 12 months of drama for 4 months of plating.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/18 03:08 PM
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I would still say this all sounds blindingly familiar to a oneitis. I'm several plates and LTR's past the Alpha Widow that gave me the oneitis that brought me here in 2014, and I still think of her occasionally.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 11:03 PM
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High quality post. I have one Ex who has NEVER reached out. Go figure, its my one-itis college sweetheart that I frequently would drunkenly reach out to after graduating, breaking up and moving away. I was needy as hell, so I'm not on her mind at all.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/17 02:23 PM
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I can't up vote this enough.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 01:39 PM
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Its like Vegas. Awesome to visit, even for extended periods of time. But the traffic is terrible, there is no public transportation, prices of everything are inflated due to population. And at the end of the day, its still a small town.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 03:47 PM
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I prefer Houston to Austin. Austin is fun to visit, living there kinda sucks.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 03:02 PM
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Came here to say what OP said. Im good looking, not great looking- but I get away with saying some ridiculously over the top shit to women- that said, I can do so because Ive cultivated a vibe and persona that allows it- the right charismatic confidence. Ive hooked up with all the hottest chicks in my considerable friend network, they all no bullshit call me "daddy" as a joke. That said, it took time to cultivate that persona. Four years ago I couldnt get away with saying what I do, because I ha…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 12:07 PM
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Right. Of course when it comes nexting time she tells all her friends how in authentic and in consistent you are, and that you adapt to the setting and population of the room..... Oh no! I can thrive in all sorts of bars/sales meetings. That was shameless venting.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 05:24 AM
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Very valid and I'm acutely aware. I studied leadership/management in school and the distinction between employing emotional intelligence versus emotionally dumping on people is a very hotly discussed topic these days. I reigster very high on the emotional intelligence scale. Something about gifts and curses and all that.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 05:20 AM
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I understand. That dynamic I do play, and I have had plates say they felt special when they could tell I switched into my quieter more interpersonal animus when we were 1 on 1. I assume they felt they were being let in on "the man behind the curtain" so to speak.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 06:55 PM
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I struggle finding a balance between not saying more than I need to and being Charismatic/ funny. I love public speaking, I'm damn good at it- being the loud, well spoken, charismatic guy is my "brand of Alpha" as I've heard it put. Thats my masculine identity, I own that shit. It works for me. That said though, I feel like employing the Don Draper style of quiet, omnipotent power is just not ever going to mesh with my personality- it seems inauthentic or consciously reserved. I try to never be …
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 06:13 PM
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One of the biggest glass shattering moments in my journey was realizing this in college. Why yes, I do want to fuck your brains out, and no there's nothing wrong with that- In fact, you should probably take my intentions as a compliment
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 06:05 PM
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can't negotiate attraction
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 06:01 PM
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I've certainly experienced tragedy and the ability to act without remorse through those situations. I just don't like being in a constant state of stress.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 08:28 PM
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solid advice in any situation.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 03:24 PM
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glass breaks. This could explain why I constantly find myself on the roller coaster of highs and lows, bouncing from solving one life crisis to the next.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 02:56 PM
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This resonates with me significantly- I'm empathetic to a fault- Its always the number one trait I test for on Jungian-esque personality assessments (I worked in L&D at one point and have taken them all). I live life feeling bad. I feel bad that I had a better upbringing, I feel bad that I was born tall, white and wealthy. I think I'm still in a relationship right now because I feel bad about life circumstances that are genuinely beyond Plate's control. What the hell can I do to use my empathy p…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 02:07 PM
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actually laughed out loud. Thanks. Needed that today
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 08:11 PM
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I'd still be interested. I'm in a satisfactory LTR now, captain first mate relationship- all that fun shit that most people would say "sureeeee you do. Welcome to mental masturbation on TRP". That said, I still get a sadistic sense of pleasure putting the RP lens on my ex - arguably the biggest sloot I know. But she hid it so well.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 07:42 PM
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you should do a thread on nonsexual behavior that identifies sluts as such.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 05:18 PM
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I think I understand what your saying, but be careful with semantics. Commitment in the Manosphere specifically refers to a committed, monogamous sexual relationship. Careful trying to change the vernacular around here because you feel your sermon is under critique. The investment/reward dynamic you highlight as an alternative to commitment, is the literal definition of commitment- an engagement contingent on continual fulfillment of conditions.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 08:22 PM
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I think you have a lot of good stuff in here, and as a whole it fits the RP narrative. The only thing I would challenge is as follows: Its not so much that she's seeking to awaken the Alpha within. 90 Percent of the time, if you're dating a girl, you picked her up in Alpha mode. From the moment you give her commitment, you enter a hyper sensitive state where she goes from seeking your commitment, to immediately seeking to disqualify your Alpha status. Your commitment is your own undoing. So she'…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 05:59 PM
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my go to line was "I just wanna cuddle" With a shit eating grin that said we're doing anything but cuddle.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 02:57 PM
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makes sense. Eating healthy is really tough on the weekends. I usually eat clean monday-friday and then friday night - sunday is eating out like a trash can
/r/askTRP17/04/17 05:29 PM
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Yeah. Its frustrating that mainstream RP has such a disdain for anything tied to emotion. I have found I made my greatest strides in attaining my own masculinity when I embraced, understood, and channeled my emotions. Only using the logical part of your brain and leaving the emotional bit by the way side is like have a v-8 that only ever fires on 4 cylinders. You should be able to understand the logical, and the emotional, and craft a hybrid understanding / enhanced perspective from there. Your …
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 02:22 PM
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I thought you were about to drop my Ex's name. This shit is so mimetic. It happens to everyone once. The names are different, the transactional micro-aggressions are always the same.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 07:31 PM
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Thanks man. I will know a lot more after this interview. I think they guarantee me commission the first 4 months so I don't lose my apartment during the learning curve. In terms of job hopping, I have a great narrative for why I'm leaving after three months, and its true- the manager who hired me that really sold me on the company took a new job 3 days after I started.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 07:28 PM
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Thanks, Bro. AR15's are good stuff for sure. I need to build another. I'm definitely not bad, I have made sales, I am a people person and am known for being charismatic, my nickname at one point was silver tongue. I am definitely persuasive, have usually been an influencer in any social setting I'm in.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 07:17 PM
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This has been helpful, thank you.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 04:57 PM
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They have a 4 star rating on glass door, all the reviews for sales at the location I'd be working at are 5 star. They're rated top 50 places to work by JD Power and 100 fastest growing companies in area
/r/askTRP03/03/17 03:04 PM
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ugh. You bastard. My ex was the Queen Alpha Widow. Broken in by a 19 yearold chad when she was 15. She gave him her best, and I got to hear about it, and how she wasn't that girl anymore (she was 19/20 through our mutual torturing of one another). Beta brainwashed me bought it, neglecting to think back to the time when she was a plate, and doing a lot of that grade A college slut shit for me. I'm now recalling a conversation wherein she reminisced that in the beginning she loved fucking me becau…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 03:55 AM
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/u/walnads will back me up on this. If you want to read ONE fictional story, read The Stand. It accomplishes the same thing. If you're ready to dwelve into an epic, King's Opus Magnum, comprised of a frighteningly complete universe, THEN take on The Dark Tower. Things don't start to click untill the third book, so you need to be willing to give it the chance it deserves. WITH THAT SAID, I've just finished my third read through and am already starting again. It will change the way you look at the…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 12:49 AM
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Stephen Kings Dark Tower Series. You will discover the main character Roland to be the most Red Pill fucker ever conceived. His quest for the Dark Tower (himself/his own journey) come before all else, allowing his friends and lovers to die like crazy for it.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 07:54 PM
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I read this and came here to praise your epiphany, and then I see you're an EC. Of course. But yeah, "Anxiety over her fantasy life is a Shit Test." Definitely resonates. Think of this in the context of the Alpha Widow, where her past life IS her fantasy life. What does a jolly chap do? Clearly, you can't have anxiety over her past, and should vette her long before this becomes an issue, but what of it if you missed the flags?
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 07:50 PM
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My Ex is an Alpha Widow. She would tell me about her best, and always followed with "I'm not that girl anymore". And then I found out she was totally still that girl, just not with me. Seeing her and Chad's sexts will haunt me till I die.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 07:15 PM
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and its Mary the para legal
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 09:08 PM
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Yeah thats a pretty solid episode.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 09:08 PM
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Ah yes. A true Apology doesn't seek to justify behavior. Makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 10:13 PM
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I'd hear some elaboration on "non-apologies"
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 08:14 PM
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These exist. They're called Fraternities. Go pledge, bud.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 07:15 PM
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I call this slow erosion of man "The beta backslide shuffle". I went into my last LTR as Chadly as I've ever been. By the end of it, I was the epitome of billy beta. She broke me, hated me for it, cheated, and left.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 05:52 PM
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She was chosen from many plates. And they do exist, they're called unicorns because most will never see one in their lifetime. They're out there.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 06:41 PM
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TRP doesn't encourage suppression of emotions. It encourages mastery of emotions. That means acknowledging and processing them. You feel the way you feel, and you aren't wrong for it.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 03:36 PM
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I'm currently dating as close to a unicorn as exists. I'm her first "love" and we're certainly happy, she cooks for me and we fuck non stop. but the glass is already broken as they say. Doesn't mean I can't enjoy it. That said, I am going to create one hell of an Alpha widow when it ends.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 03:31 PM
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Read this shit every day. I've been coming here since 2013.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 07:09 PM
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Right. In. The. Feels. I'm in a very happy LTR right now, but the last one really fucked me up and is ultimately what lead me to the pill. Reading this and reflecting on that failed LTR is like a bitterly sweet nostalgic torture device.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 07:07 PM
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I told my girl nothing supports me like sex. She picks up on my emotions, I get blown. Its pretty great.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 04:35 PM
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ALERT ITS A SHIT TEST ALERT I also grew up in the rural south and now live in a big city, and concealed carry. When they flip, if you start backpedaling in an exasperated frame, then it validates their emotion. If you stay calm, cool, collected and in control of the situation and power on your hip, she'll come around. Most of my girls find it EXTREMELY attractive that I carry and shoot avidly. Also pro tip, nothing will establish a captain first mate relationship like taking a girl shooting and …
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 04:32 PM
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Number 9- Right in the feels....
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 04:27 PM
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"Never alert your mark or they'll just play smarter". This. A million times this. However, I will say that I got lucky once. I confronted my suspected cheating hoe bag, but when she tried to play smarter I caught her. She tried to play "too smart", such that her behavior was out of character for her typical ditzy demeanor. Ex. Suddenly making up a friend or reconnecting with an "old friend" that you've never heard of before. They see each other after class every tuesday and frequent group projec…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 01:07 AM
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"are brutally honest and almost gleeful about how fucking awful they can be." I've noticed this. Its actually pretty brutal.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 12:28 AM
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No one ever licks shit off a boot. Its more of a joking facade that they're going to have to do all this horrible shit and they never do. Mind games.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 05:07 PM
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Deferred freshman recruitment process, mandatory sexual assault prevention training (female-centric narrative), and many repackagings of sexual assault prevention training sold as "mandatory new member education" courses. They're not new members, they're fucking pledges, and they should thank God if I let them lick the shit off my boots.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 07:34 PM
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Funny, I learned of TRP from one of my fraternity brothers. Fraternities are one of the few remaining strongholds where masculinity can be practiced.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 04:25 PM
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I have NEVER had good luck with introducing anyone to TRP. Be careful.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 09:52 PM
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I've been Hubert. Poor guy. I think you'll find most people are here because at one time or another, they've been Hubert.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 09:34 PM
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Can we please see a blurred face pic of boo-thang? Like she has to be a dime.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 09:08 PM
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Actually I do spend a good amount of time at the track doing NASA and SCAA stuff, so there's that.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 01:32 PM
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no
/r/askTRP22/12/16 06:42 PM
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Yeah its a 2011 M3. So its not the WHOLE bill. I'm definitely a car guy, been a member of car clubs and used to frequent meets etc.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 06:28 PM
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Yeah, I'm coming from an STI so I'm familiar with pricey pets. The difference being the STI didn't have a note.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 06:12 PM
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Whatever you're doing has been working to get her to consider it thus far. Read the side bar like a bible. Then read it again, lift. For immediate course of action, I'd recommend joining a fraternity or other social organization that will give you access to exclusive events/hangouts you can invite her to. This isolates, makes you the source of good times and tingles in her eyes, and pumps up your status in general. Have hobbies. Be interesting. Lift.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 03:43 PM
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Well that was upsetting to watch.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 03:27 PM
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I can't up vote this enough. But I'm white, so it'd be racist if I did anyway.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 03:15 PM
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I always heard "tired of fucking her"
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 03:05 PM
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"Moses said "let my people go," not "Egyptian society needs to cater to our needs." I'd give you gold if I wasn't cheap.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 07:51 PM
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As most others have said, an experience of this nature tends to be the reason almost ALL of us are here.
/r/askTRP19/12/16 10:59 PM
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"Young women who want to get fucked by you don’t care about your car, house, income, or anything else. " Most of what you just named is what comes to constitute SMV.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 10:34 PM
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That's well said. There have been a lot of posts on the front page that attempt to explain what polarity looks like in an applied sense- They tend to get wrapped up in semantics and fall short. This hits it pretty well.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 01:39 PM
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Social proof is always good. Some of my best friends are hot chicks that I lusted after when I was a wretched blue piller. While I did end up hooking up with a few, remember, once a woman perceives you as a beta there's no changing that. Keeping them around for social proof is the long game to get a decent ROI on a failed bang. However, never play this game at any cost to yourself.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 01:36 PM
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This got a lot more traction than anticipated. Thanks bros. The thing I notice the most, even in skimming the front page of TRP today, is that all of the posts have different authors and characters, but they're the same damn posts. If I'm bored and sleepless some night in the future, I may be persuaded to begin composing redpill maxims. EX: Ugly women expect hot boyfriends. We get it. You raised your SMV and life is better. We get it. You thought you had a unicorn, then along came chad. Every wo…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 02:30 AM
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There are a few unicorns in the world. And that means a few out of billions, who aren't cheating whores and don't play games. There are always exceptions. But don't worry about that. Just get outside and live your life.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 02:18 AM
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True story, unicorns exist. They're called unicorns because most will go a lifetime without seeing one.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 07:10 AM
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I think you, myself and /u/solpig should hangout and get SoberTRP going.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 04:20 AM
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Losing my drinking/coke buddies scares me. Mainly, because after 5 years of this life (19-24), thats basically all of them. However, through drinking and coking- I have lost 2 close friends that predated drinking or drugs. One was my best friend of 12 years. I know TRP frowns on female friends, but this girl was the best friend I could ever have and she walked out of my life because of my drinking. So, we're sober.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 04:08 AM
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Thanks OP and everyone else for the conversation here. I've started a few threads about the idea of sobriety/ beating alcoholism, and they weren't as well received. I float in and out of the AA rooms like a Yo-Yo, and I usually end up going "back out there" for the same reason- the "glamour" of party life. When I was in college it worked and was real. Cocaine and Wild Turkey made me a cool guy. The problem was everyone else grew up after the college phase, problem being, its the only life I've e…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 07:43 AM
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Late to respond, but thanks.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 06:12 AM
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Mind saying that a little more straight forward? I believe youre onto something but I dont quite get it.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 03:12 PM
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I know I am an addict, because I have arrived at the same conclusions organically, and still use
/r/askTRP12/08/16 03:24 AM
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Going from the other angle, Taylor Swift's Wildest Dreams is literally about her being Alpha Widow'd, and being okay with it, because he's an Alpha. Am I Rite?
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 05:05 PM
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I smoked DMT while on about a .3 of MDMA, three tabs of LSD, a red solo cup of Mushroom tea, and many lines rocked on Ketamine. After that experience, I'm really not sure the human mind can be much more inebriated. It was quite the experience.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 05:46 PM
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I think its more safely classified as a psychotropic. But the difference is negligible.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 05:43 PM
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Thank you very much for the long response, I always appreciate pictures that capture context. Background on me, I'm 24, and I was a college party animal fraternity guy. I was drinking heavily 6 nights a week during those years. Now I generally will lift and eat well and work my ass off Monday-Thurs, so then when thursday night comes I ended up getting pretty trashed, feeling like I "earned" it. Friday I always sneak out of the office with my one trustworthy male friend in the office and we get d…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 05:04 PM
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Hi there, I struggle a bit with drinking. Can you explain this drinking reduction program?
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 03:52 PM
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Psychedellic enthusiast here. I find Ketamine to be very introspective. As a disassociative anesthetic, you truly look inward at yourself from the outside- you are disassociated. DMT cannot be described. I am in favor and enjoy greatly. I find more spiritual growth on Psilocybin LSD and I don't get along that well. MDMA- Only if its off the deep webs. Cocaine - Every weekend.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 03:06 PM
1

I'd really like the connect with you and talk more. I've floated in and out of the rooms for 4 years now but I'm ready to stop for good I think.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 11:16 PM
4

This is exceptionally wise
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 02:30 PM
1

The feels. This takes me back. I had the pleasure of reading the sexting that went on between my ex and the would be Chad. Of course it detailed all the things she wouldnt do for me but had donr for exs. She just didnt percieve me as being alpha enough to deserve that treatment. Scarred me for life. Her best friend encouraged her to cheat initially with her boyfriends best friend. Because it worked out better for her. I hate her more than my ex. Me ex trickle truthed about her ex's and what she'…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 03:28 PM
2

Agreed. Also ATX if you want to lift or run game.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 04:39 PM
4

I just had flashbacks to my beta relationship with a college cheerleader who gave her best to everyone but me, would never blow me, and power talked me into complete submission. Things would feel better after communicating. Then nothing changed. BRB, sulking.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 10:18 PM
1

Such truth. This entire post and comments and general just giving me haunting reminders to my last beta relationship where I heard how everyone got her best but me, and then I remember for a time I did get her best....until we were dating.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 11:38 PM
1

The people want the full post, brother. PM'ing you now.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 05:24 PM
2

Oh man. Gaslighting. My ex told me I was crazy and that my anxiety was ruining the relationship. I wanted her to be right badly enough that I went and got a Xanax prescription. She new I was going, and let me, even though she obviously knew I was right and was fucking around on me. Great post. Painful to read in that it's reminded me of it all, but great post.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 07:20 PM
1

Im saying the needy behavior is comparable. When I was dating an hb9 to years ago I bent over backwards for her while she seemed mildly interested at best. She cheated and left me, and I understand why now that the roles are reversed.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 02:27 PM
5

Id love to talk more about all this since you have some time under your belt. Im at 9 days but have gotten to the 2-3 month mark a few times before deciding I needed to prove to myself I have an issue...again
/r/askTRP24/02/16 04:24 PM
0

Also dating a younger girl makes this so much easier. Im 24 dating a 20 yearold runway model. She worships the ground I walk on to the point where Im almost losing interest. Its like Ive learned what dating beta me must've been like.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 03:51 PM
1

I guess thats sort of my fear. I was a really heavy drinker through college and built a persona around being the party animal, and chicks loved it. Im kind of said to let that version of myself and those people go
/r/askTRP25/01/16 06:47 PM
5

I could not agree more. The fountainhead is the most red pill piece of literature I ever touched. Howard Rourke forever, he alpha widowed dominique and that dynamic drives the narrative. She always comes back to him
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 03:27 PM
7

This one hits right in the feels like a god damn hammer. upon learning of how my ex was only too happy to be a slut for every chad before me, she said "I thought I wasnt supposed to be like that for you. I didn't want you to think I was a slut". No whore, you were just never really attracted to me- just my wallet.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 03:07 PM
3

You've clearly not read the fountainhead. Howard Rourke. Look him up.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 09:28 PM
4

Rand has been praised in many threads here. If you want to see the truest alpha in literature, it's Howard Rourke from the fountainhead, written by Rand.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 08:41 PM
2

Great post, very important. I can't up vote it enough.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 05:58 PM
0

I really did not mean it to be bragging of the highlight real, more that there's three bloopers for every highlight.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 04:47 PM
-2

This is all true. One question though, and please bear with me, I'm not trying to brag or attention seek. Just curious for your take on this. See, by your standards. I am Chad incarnate. I am Chad Thundercock, first of his name, and lord of the protein by your guide. Except I can tell you for sure that I am NOT Chad. I shall explain. My dad (a doctor) married a Playboy bunny (my mom), I grew up rich, I went to private schools, they paid for college as well as my fraternity dues, I got good grade…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 04:27 PM
1

INFJ here. Mystery, MLK, Trotsky, Hitler, Ghandi, and Osama Bin Laden were all INFJ's. I'm clearly destined for greatness.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 03:58 PM
5

One thing I'm curious of is another dimension to the cycle that I personally experienced and I see many others have as well. You're not necessarily Chad, but you're doing well, spinning a few plates, doing your thing, and the plates love you for it and are your perfectly little sloots. You then pick a favorite, and end up LTR'ing her. However once in a relationship, you loose your killer instinct, slowly loosing your frame and behaving how you think you're supposed to behave in a relationship. B…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 03:43 PM
1

It had been 8 months since the relationship ended and I was steadily improving. To your original point, its not necessarily progress, its feeling like myself again. I like so many others attracted the HB9 when I was spinning plates. Then when we started dating and ramped it up from being fuck buddies I went full on Beta- The classic "this what I'm supposed to do, right?" needy bait and switch. That threw me through a hell of a loop, knocked me lower than I had ever felt, and it took all of that …
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 02:52 PM
5

it will dude. I promise. if you look at my embarrassing post history it's mostly me whining and bitching about not getting better. Then one day you wake up and you're OK. it's weird.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 01:21 AM
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I hear you 100 percent man I appreciate it. I am sure others on the team will bang her now that I broke ground, but it was just satisfying to run game from 2000 miles away, fly back for the last football game of the season, see my boys, and fuck this girl within the first 20 minutes of actually meeting her. again with maintaining frame from the first second I saw her I just hit her with the James Bond style Lazer eye contact, set the frame, and held it. so excellent.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 12:54 AM
3

You're a doll.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 06:16 PM
25

ALWAYS listen to your gut. I was with my Ex for a year, my gut always uncovered the truth. I had my suspicions about a lot of things, but only got confirmation on one of them from her. That was enough for me to leave. I sent our mutual gay friend digging for information many months later when everyone's guard was down. When called me, the first words out of his mouth were, "You were never wrong". Those words were assuring, hurtful, and satisfying all at once in the best and worst ways. I was rig…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 03:46 PM
2

I would like to hear more about trickle truthing, as I believe myself to have experienced it in the past.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 03:43 PM
1

never stopped forgot to report. 2200 calories, chest abs cardio
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 05:05 AM
1

Got it. Great article by the way, really enjoyed it.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 04:12 PM
1

This needs to be its own article. Seriously, the stuff about mate guarding is real insightful.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 03:51 PM
2

So just to clarify: How she feels, about him (negatively)= Green light you're in. How he makes her feel (negatively)= red light you're out. If she's shitting on him you're good to go. If she talks about how he makes her/ how she feels because of him you're not good.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 03:44 PM
1

Call it what it is. Speed is Meth.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 03:34 PM
1

Its painful to see how far I can regress in a matter of 15 minutes. Bitch is like my kryptonite. Seriously only happens when dealing with her.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 03:20 PM
1

Yeah...I dunno I guess its wanting that last closure bang.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 09:38 PM
15

I still respond to my ex's snaps/texts every month or so In hopes that my replacement will see them and throw her to the curb like the trash that she is.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 10:52 PM
2

yeah you're picking up what I'm putting down.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 08:52 PM
1

I was a blue pill advocate because it made me an even scarcer commodity as an aspiring alpha.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 07:43 PM
2

I'm actually a pretty emotional caring guy. My theory on all of it was that it got me laid, and hey, if I did some good in the process, thats a bonus. Indoctrinating a new generation of white knights though, yeah fuck them. They'll figure it out and find the pill after their own run ins with hypergamy.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 06:55 PM
1

Should I elaborate and make this is its own post?
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 05:14 PM
3

More than happy to make meaningful contributions.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 04:47 PM
7

Note how you were turned off by him acknowledging it and apologizing. Honestly, as demeaning as it may sound, be his fuck doll and he'll do his part. If he doesn't, walk, just like he would.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 04:08 PM
1

That's some real shit right there. When she cheated on me I later found that she couldn't bring herself to fuck the guy but she blew him. She HATED giving blow jobs for reasons like TB87670 said, and that was the FIRST thing she did for new Chad. Ugh. The Pill helps, but so often it can bring up old feelings as you understand things more clearly.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 03:38 PM
1

I laughed reading this. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 03:25 PM
15

I held about every position there was at one point or another during my time in Greek life. There is a huge movement to feminize and emasculate fraternities due to the alleged rapist reputation. To respond, when I was council president/chapter president/other important shit, we'd always raise money and do awareness events so it looked like we were being proactive. It demonstrated my social value as king of all things Greek, and made me a wolf in sheeps clothing. I never banged any feminists, but…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 03:07 PM
15

I used to put on anti rape rallies and raise money for women's shelters in college. The SJW's loved me. I got laid after nearly every event I threw lol
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 10:28 PM
1

I work for a consulting firm that sells learning solutions based around emotional intelligence. I am one of four men in an office of 53 women. I am the only heterosexual male. Confirmed, emotional intelligence is rare. I will contest that it does not cause you to move on quickly from relationships. I can interpret, manipulate, and speak in emotions with these women (power talk abundant) but it does not change the way I FEEL about a given situation.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 10:20 PM
5

Yes. Exactly. And its not even another mans fuck up, its that you don't fuck her up the same way he did.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 09:08 PM
2

I can't decide if Dominique is a unicorn or AWALT at its finest. But she was definitely Alpha Widowed by Rourke
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 09:06 PM
2

Who runs things around here? I do.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 05:30 PM
3

The fountainhead is one of the most Red Pill books you can ever read. 100 percent. Roark is THE Red Pill man.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 05:29 PM
10

This resonates a lot for me. I'd really appreciate some feedback and discussion on what will follow: I was utterly sexless in highschool and early college, but my junior-5th year of college I gained some SMV (president of Greek life) and caught on FIRE. I dated a cheerleader, whom I know now to be an Alpha Widow. The Chad in this story was 19 when she was 15. He used her like a whore, she'd do anything for him and was happy to. He would never commit, always banging her on the side of whatever gi…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 05:28 PM
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Holy golden goose egg. "Worry about the day I when I no longer want sex with you" Where was that line when I desperately needed it 7 months ago. Gold star A+
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 02:47 PM
1

November 3rd: 8 hours sleep, 2300 calories, Sprinted a mile, did intense abs, jogged a mile.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 03:41 PM
1

Again my first reaction was hit the gym. My self motivation/beat myself up into lifting every day line is "You can quit/take today off as soon as you're ok with the fact that she fucked someone else".
/r/askTRP30/10/15 04:12 PM
1

I appreciate your response. I'm already seeing results at the gym and getting complimented all the time. This is somewhat of a segway, but what you said about not being able to connect with women anymore, I'm also experiencing that. It all just seems like such a futile effort. I'm the guy who was the best friend orbiter of all the hot chicks growing up, and my closest friends of 12 years are two such chicks, and recently they disgust me. Whats your response to that been?
/r/askTRP30/10/15 04:10 PM
13

Its not like she didn't do fun stuff for me, it was just on another level. Also the comparison gave me the timeline of my transformation from Chad (when I met her) to Beta Bux (when she cheated). For instance, when we were fucking 4-5 times a day when we first met, she'd do anything, and insisted I cum in her mouth after a point because "she missed that". that statement caused me to do some thinking... fast forward five months and she "hates blowjobs" and the more I ask the more she doesn't want…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 07:26 PM
1

What made it sting so much is I'm a pretty wealthy guy, ESPECIALLY for college. I drive an STI, which is a very expensive, very nice car, that only guys know are nice. I dunno. Just something about it.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 07:07 PM
10

So much resonance with this post. Nothing I didn't already know, just painful illumination. Example being, my ex said her N-count was 10, and it actually probably was. What was not accounted for was the fact that she was a 19 yearold's sex slave from the time she was 15-20 and the list of shit she did for him left me pale in the face. A very classic only too happy to be a slut for chad incident. Then again I had already had group sex with her and some of the other college cheerleaders, why was I…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 07:00 PM
1

Thanks man. I appreciate it
/r/askTRP19/10/15 12:01 AM
1

Thank you for this.
/r/askTRP18/10/15 03:14 AM
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This will be a long post but I promise it's worth a read. TL/DR:Birds of a feather flock together. This really resonated with me. I dated a D1 university cheerleader my senior year when she was a sophomore. She was a SOLID 9.5, living with four other 8.5-9s. The taking hours to get ready, the selfies being the most important part of their night, the way the house 7 turned into the hottest one of them after they got done up was crazy. They'd sit and watch the Kardashians and snapchat/Instagram as…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 02:03 PM
1

While that makes complete sense, my breakup happened in March. I thought I had moved the phases long ago. Thanks again for the insight.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 01:48 PM
1

I had dinner at a bar tonight and winged for my buddy and ended up carrying the conversation. I got numbers. I was great. I just don't have the interest. In college I got out of bed in the morning to try to hook up with hot chicks. Maybe I've developed standards beyond aesthetics now but I'm just not into it like I was. Going out and getting laid used to be my favorite hobby. Now I'm very happily staying in on a Friday.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 03:53 AM
4

Though written somewhat crudely, this is one of the most concise and accurate articles I've read here. Gold star. We all knew that its more emotionally damaging when a woman cheats, but I think that this is the first time that the proper contextual analogy has been utilized. Gold star again.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 04:20 PM
5

This makes a painful amount of sense. The sex life had gone dull, she cheated on me over spring break, that guy went beta and it fizzled out after a week or two at which point she literally came crying back to me. I rejected her, told her I would not be taking her back, but I'd still fuck her as often as I wanted to on my terms. Following this, she reported to the previously mentioned gay friend that the sex was "amazing again" Of course she fucked around on me again etc, and I got the pleasure …
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 05:42 PM
4

I'm baffled too because I know the sex was better with me. I gave her her first full body orgasm, (laughing and shaking uncontrollably) and the sex was seriously incredible. But I was a super nice fun guy. And he was chad. fucking anger.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 05:21 PM
53

I dated a college cheerleader who was an alpha widow for a year. Damn near drove me crazy until she cheated on me and taught me the reality of hypergamy. Anyhow, she would go on about this guy who was 19 when she was 15 or 16, and he essentially broke her in and sexually conditioned her. She did everything for him, as often as he wanted until a month or so before she met me when she was 19. Things ended with Mr. Chad when he flat out raped her. Enter me, the Beta Savior she was craving after get…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 05:15 PM
13

I dated a college cheerleader who was an alpha widow for a year. Damn near drove me crazy until she cheated on me and taught me the reality of hypergamy. Anyhow, she would go on about this guy who was 19 when she was 15 or 16, and he essentially broke her in and sexually conditioned her. She did everything for him, as often as he wanted until a month or so before she met me when she was 19. Things ended with Mr. Chad when he flat out raped her. Enter me, the Beta Savior she was craving after get…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 04:45 PM
12

Anyone else cringe really really hard just now
/r/askTRP29/09/15 09:59 PM
2

Dude good for you. This is honestly amazing. Its so refreshing to see the redpill have a genuinely positive effect on someones life, without it having even the slightest tint of the "dark art" vibe to it. Seriously reading this made my morning. Do you brother.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 04:21 PM
1

I know the old PUA greats used to say you should always been smiling, but what I gather from this is a confident smirk, is a notch above?
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 05:28 PM
1

God claiming to know the neurological transactions set off by drugs triggers the biggest dick measuring contests. That said if anyone wants to argue about Ketamine and its functions, I'll whoop you.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 05:15 PM
2

I hate women. I really do. Maybe I'm just bitter because my ex is an alpha widow and hearing about all the shit she would do for him (essentially using her like his on call sex slave) that she never did for me still rubs me wrong. I'm too old now and I'm never going to get the experience of breaking in/training a hot 17/18 year old.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 03:13 PM
62

As a reformed heavy drinker I see the value in this post to be in the what to drink, not why to drink. I expected negative reactions aplenty from being a sober person at the bar. However, I've found that I either immediately gain a girls respect for not drinking, or if she asks why, its an easily crushed shit test. I have any of a dozen funny responses. My current favorite is "You don't have to get me drunk, I'd probably sleep with you sober". Thats been getting great results for me lately. Deli…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 06:38 PM
2

I didn't start playing competitive tournament paintball till I was 19. I'm now 23, my college team won third in the national championship, and I'm playing the level just below pro, fully sponsored, and traveling the WORLD to play tournaments. You're at the perfect age to do anything.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 09:09 PM
1

Welcome, its going to be a long journey, but you're going to be better for it. STEP 1: Sober up. Quit drinking for the time being. Drinking is only going to keep you numb and complacent to the reality of your situation. You need to feel this emotions, and turn them into positive catalyst for change. STEP 2: LIFT. Now that the alcohol has left your system, you're going to feel intense anger. That's to be expected, and its good. Think of that anger as high-octane fuel in your physiological gas tan…
/r/askTRP11/09/15 04:16 PM
2

I've been lifting consistently for about about two months, dropped from 226 to 205, and women are starting to approach me pretty regularly. I'm 6'3" so pretty standard chubby kid gets fit regarding those numbers.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 04:06 PM
12

I have never cringed so hard in my 23 years of life.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 04:01 PM
2

I have two female friends in the world that I genuinely have no desire in sleeping with. We've been friends for 13 years, they come to Christmas dinner. They are my sisters for all intents and purposes. Outside of that, I don't keep the company of any women I'm not trying to fuck and neither should you.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 03:50 PM
1

Radio silence is the play. Didnt respond. Onto the next one.
/r/askTRP09/09/15 01:39 AM
1

Responded with "Thanks for the invite! I would love to another night. I just can't tonight because I've had my friend girl name in town all weekend and have double the grading to do tonight now. Have fun!" I will take another plate this evening. How long should I wait before hitting this one up again. There's another band playing Thursday. Before someone says next, Its not oneitis, its she's real hot and cool and I'd like to add her to the roster/ build abundance-itis.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 07:32 PM
2

I greatly enjoy the band. Tish and the mizzbehavin band for those who like blues/soul
/r/askTRP08/09/15 07:25 PM
1

Tell the boyfriend. Don't shame sluts, punish them. We cannot reward hypergamy.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 05:09 PM
3

Speaking from a wealth of direct high level experience: I was in a top tier house. My Senior year I was president of the Interfraternity Council (governs all fraternities on campus), My chapter, and the Honors fraternity (Order of Omega) at the same damn time. I am telling you how it really is. Yes, and no. Like anything else it is what you make of it. Joining a fraternity will give you the opportunities. You will be surrounded by gorgeous women, and fellow alpha males. However, if you're the bo…
/r/askTRP08/09/15 03:59 PM
2

I drink a redbull in a plastic cup. Im also introverted. However, if you can learn to be social without booze you start playing the game on easy mode. When people ask why Im not drinking, I usually say I made a bet with friends, im doing a 30 day challenge, or that Im getting in shape for paintball season, or that I dont want to get drunk and get taken advantage of by her. You can get some good cocky funny stuff going. More recently simply say, I dont drink, and it illicits a kind of firm respec…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 03:27 PM
3

It is for this very reason that I quit drinking and doing drugs. I spent college getting fucked up. Granted I frequently got laid, sobriety is causing me to face my true condition and make improvements.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 02:34 PM
1

By Alpha Widow we're referring to a woman who has been tainted by a chad, and no guy is ever going to live up to that correct? She was ABSOLUTELY that. She started fucking a kid who was 19 when she was 15 or 16, and that when on until just before I met her. She told me about how she cheated on all her old boyfriends with him all the time, he'd summon her like a hooker, make her do things she only did for me in the early stages when I was still on my alpha grind spinning 4 other plates. RED FLAGS…
/r/askTRP04/09/15 02:09 PM
1

I can't drink anymore, I've developed an alcohol allergy. I breakout in handcuffs. That said I do go out thursday-sunday with friends. Number closed last night with a date set for Saturday, so I'm feeling much better.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 02:04 PM
1

Competitive tournament paintball: Gave me the ability to say a team I helped build won third in the college national championship. Continuing to play just under the pro level is a cool talking point. Guitar: Everyone has said all the things, but when you're real good at it, they swoon. Been playing since 2nd grade, the percs are excellent. Sailing: The finest thing there is in life.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 06:26 PM
2

Can you elaborate on what you mean by alpha woman?
/r/askTRP03/09/15 06:10 PM
3

Yeah, its just tough. I don't mean to sound like a whiny bitch (so obviously I'm going to), but in my college environment I had a very high SMV, a lot of social proof, and it was like playing the game on easy mode. Combine a harsh entry into the real world with being rusty from the year long LTR, and not drinking, I feel like I'm starting from scratch. Its like learning how to write left handed. I know all the things I mentioned are crutches but damnit if they didn't work.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 04:30 PM
1

I should've been clearer, I run and do abs on my lunch break, I lift in the evenings. Is lifting every day with weekends off still too much?
/r/askTRP03/09/15 04:26 PM
2

Man I've been with three girls who were all at least as hot as she was, (8 or higher) and it didn't do shit for me. Now the dryspell associated with moving and not knowing very many people/ not having social proof and all the crutches I'm used to is killing me.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 04:25 PM
3

I boinked three girls while I was still living where I went to school, but since I moved I've been in a terrible dry spell and tinder aint working.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 04:23 PM
3

3, but I've been in a terrible dry spell since I moved across the country.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 04:22 PM
2

DMT is unlike any experience you can imagine, until you've done it.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 03:11 PM
1

I've tripped between 30-40 times, and I dunno about the no anxiety deal...I've had some pretty fuckin rough experiences... That said you do see peoples souls, but you also feel as though they're seeing yours. Its a two way street. But I do agree that a great deal of personal growth can result.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 03:08 PM
2

I mean there was only one technical taking her back with me, but from the end of March until I moved across the country July 1st it was a perpetual cycle of decide I was done with her, miss her, we'd be back fucking and hanging out a week later, then I'd hear she was with Chad's 1-5 and the cycle would repeat. Even though I was hooking up with other girls during that period of time it still really fucked with me. I'm still not ok. The anger phase is subsiding I think, but then again I'm consumed…
/r/askTRP02/09/15 08:05 PM
3

I fucked up and took mine back when she came running back. Then she did it all over again, and I ended up the needy bitch and completely losing. Now no matter how much I lift or get my life going, shes not coming back.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 04:30 PM
1

Nice! Love a clean FD. I'm going through all the HPDE stuff with my boosted Miata, road course is much more fun than autocross. But that said, I can afford autocross with my fresh out of college job. Where do you run in the states? I grew up on summit point in WV but just moved to TX
/r/askTRP31/08/15 07:18 PM
0

Time attack is dope. What do you race? STi and Boosted miata driver here, though I only autocross for the moment.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 06:50 PM
2

Ultrathins
/r/askTRP31/08/15 06:48 PM
5

You need to add cardio. A lot of people refer to the so called fact that cardio burns off muscle too. Shut up. The no cardio thing refers to serial runners who go for at least an hour at ultra high intensity. If you can grab your gut you need to be doing between 15 and 30 minutes of cardio a day in addition to your lift. This will also help your body get into reconstruction mode and build muscle.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 06:45 PM
1

Valid, thank you.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 06:43 PM
1

I dunno man I'm an American. Club rugby team or something?
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 02:37 PM
3

Plus the hot sloots who try to maintain the good girl image to feel better about being hypergamous whores always go to class. Good way to scout the field.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 04:41 PM
11

Yup. I banged GDIs, sorority girls, dance team members, and ended up dating one of the cheerleaders. Granted the Cheerleader is who taught me AWALT by way of being a cheating whore, but I digress. The adjustment to the real world has been tough, because after literally living like a king for five years, graduating to an environment where I work a job like everyone else and have low SMV sucks. Feels like being a freshman again, but I guess I just have to climb back to the top.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 04:38 PM
10

I was IFC president at a big east school. Life was amazing. Postgrad is comparatively lack luster.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 04:28 PM
1

I'm quite certain that I stated "your gut is a finely tuned instrument" in an ask TRP thread and senior dildo stole it without credit. Whatever.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 03:17 PM
6

I feel like this can be summarized by saying the person who gets upset/angry first loses.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 03:11 PM
35

This is a controversial suggestion, but I am fucking telling you, join a fraternity. Even if Greek life isn't prominent at your school, all the more reason- Its very easy to be a big shark in a small fishbowl. Additionally you'll likely be surrounded by Alpha's who will help you develop your frame.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 03:02 PM
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I shoot IPSC competetively and concealed carry every day of my life. Building AR-15's is a personal favorite hobby. Hunting for meat is a seasonal thing. Men know firearms, firearms safety, and their proper operation. End story.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 09:31 PM
2

I like that you intuitively knew I wear Sperry's.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 09:54 PM
1

I read that this morning and thats what inspired this post. Thank you
/r/askTRP25/08/15 07:46 PM
3

In march my 1st girlfriend and first love cheated, lied, cheated again. Classic Alpha Fux, Beta Bux, more than happy to be a slut for chad scenario. In May I graduated college, and moved across the country to start a new job. I left an environment where I was king, well established and socially proven. I left everyone and everything I've ever known. Then while on vacation in CO three weeks ago, I got a arrested with a small amount of...we'll call it baking soda. I am now being charged with a cla…
/r/askTRP25/08/15 06:35 PM
2

See edit, thank you
/r/askTRP25/08/15 06:29 PM
0

I feel your pain. My LTR ended when I saw sexts between her and Chad to the extent of "wrap my legs around your neck again and make you cum so good" etc. Shit will haunt me until the day I fucking die.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 04:46 PM
83

This. I needed this. I arrived at the realization that high value women are never genuinely single, and its always a stealing process. Now I so clearly understand what the green lights look like.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 07:04 PM
4

I am on day 12 of sobriety, and come from a background of having an identity forged around drinking and being the life of the party from my college days. I went to the bar Friday, sober, not drinking. I talked to more women than if I had been drinking, maintained frame like a boss, and CRUSHED shit tests. You are so much quicker and sharper when you aren't inhebriated that its like playing the game on easy mode. Admittedly, I did notice I was a little more hesitant to escalate, initiate kino, or…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 06:42 PM
2

New York Life is a financial services firm, but thanks for that.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 07:51 PM
1

How do we feel about New York Life? A buddy of mine just started working there and it would help him out if I went through him, but if they are not a premium choice I'll pass on it.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 06:20 PM
2

you're* Thanks, fuck boy :).
/r/askTRP20/08/15 06:19 PM
2

Chicken breast, and salad. Not chicken salad
/r/askTRP20/08/15 05:59 PM
3

Actually ive been eating well for 3 months now. Chicken salad and brown rice life
/r/askTRP20/08/15 05:59 PM
2

Following. But the obvious contribution is that you have to interact socially. Equivalent to turning on your Xbox to play a game.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 03:41 PM
4

I learned my that my gut is always right after breaking up with my last LTR. Before she physically cheated on me, I could tell she was talking to someone and comparing me to someone else, as she was suddenly taking issue with things about me she had never cared about. She told me I was crazy and that my anxiety disorder was ruining our relationship. Then a text pops up on her phone at 8.32am from someone called pat, and I knew she had met a pat who was very wealthy and good looking on break. You…
/r/askTRP20/08/15 03:38 PM
1

I have a lot of hobbies man its the idle time at work, or relaxing in the evenings when I get home from the gym. At work I read TRP posts all day in the name of self improvement, but I'm wondering if it's doing me more harm than good right now. I contemplate this because I find myself applying everything I read to the the demise of my own relationship. Granted it paints everything in such perfect clarity, AF/BB, Hypergamy etc...Its all just so clear now. As much as it helps swallow the pill, I d…
/r/askTRP20/08/15 03:03 PM
4

Thanks man, that means a lot.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 08:13 PM
9

I still get pretty pissed about this shit.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 07:39 PM
15

I won't lie, the worst is yet to come. Breakups follow your stanjdard mourning process. Denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance. Bargaining is the worst, its when you start asking why wasn't I good enough. Regarding her having known about your opportunities, I'm assuming you did what any rationally raised male did and used them as opportunities to say "see, look how faithful I am to you". Thats what I did. The gurus here tell me the way to handle that is flirt, don't acknowledge that y…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 06:21 PM
10

Here is where you can rejoice at being wrong. You dont have to cheat! You just have to nonverbally communicate that you could at any time, and she will stay faithfull because that puts you on the pedestal. Man i wish i could take my own advice. Youre gonna be just fine dude. I promise.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 06:05 PM
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I don't doubt you for a second man. My girl was my bestfriend too. We went through a pregnancy and subsequent termination together, that shit will BOND YOU. But at the end of the day, you were HER best friend, and in cheating she wasn't yours. You are a fucking awesome foreign guy, with a presumably kick ass accent and germanic features about the face. Whats more is you are loyal. You are a VALUABLE commodity. She doesn't deserve your support. She broke your binding social contract of trust. I r…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 05:50 PM
5

I cannot emphasize this enough. It's the one part of life where any man wishes they could take the responsiblity off of themselves, and all of your female friends will hamster wheel and say you were the perfect boyfriend, and it was all on her. But at the end of the day, she wouldn't cheat if she didn't want to. Its the most painfull and brutally honest truth of the red pill, but its still the truth.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 05:38 PM
30

Its not easy man. I got cheated on 5 months ago, and still struggle with it. Somedays I'm ok, other days, like yesterday, I'll remember a certain detail and it makes my blood boil and I'm ready to break things. Its the worst form of rejection. You were sold a lie growing up. You were the ideal boyfriend with the promise of an ideal life, only to find out it yields the most un-ideal of results. You feel broken, cheated, and outraged. Realzing that to women, men are just opportunities, and for the…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 05:35 PM
2

Move slowly, take up space, posses everything and everyone.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 05:28 PM
1

I think that 99 percent of the time we all come from fragile egos. There is a lot to be said for faking it until you make it, as the archaic PUA community used to suggest. However I think once one experiences mild success from faking, one gains a clearer picture of how what authentic Alpha looks like, and the necessity of getting there. At least thats how it went for me. Faked the shit out of it in early college, then I started putting in the work to make it real. Still am.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 04:35 PM
2

All true. Whether I want it to be or not. One thing you said about reverting to blue pill really resonated with me. Im still just so angry and hurt all at once. Realizing I landed the ex when I was on my alpha grind spinning plates, then I commited to her and over the course of a year she whipped me into a sniveling blue pill pedaling bitch. And cheated on me for it. TRP theory narrates my downfall in such brutal clarity. And im fucking angry. I hate chad, and yet theres noone else I aspire to b…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 09:12 PM
1

I am definitely very very angry.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 03:46 PM
1

Own the guys you own the girls. By the end of it he said multiple times " i like him, get his number" I was definitely sharper than usual.
/r/askTRP15/08/15 04:56 AM
1

I just went out like Normal, not drinking, and Ill be damned if I didnt talk to more women than on a drinking night. Pulled a number off of a very touchy feely 31 year old, Im 23. She was with a beta bux cowworker who initially was trying to ward me off, but I won him over and the rest was just about maintaining frame. I only didnt go home with her because she got VERY drunk by nights end and I dont need a rape accusation
/r/askTRP15/08/15 04:21 AM
1

UPDATE: Went out with a potential plate tonight. Stayed sober as required. This was honestly the first time I'd been out with a girl since my ex and I broke up in early July. It was weird, I definitely wasn't as good as I remembered myself being, but alcohol not cutting that inhibition probably playeda part. On the positive however it did allow me to clearly see where I need to improve. I need to work on sexualizing conversation. While I wasn't pushing it as hard as a real Alpha would, it was ni…
/r/askTRP14/08/15 03:09 AM
2

God this shit makes my blood boil. I think Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks, and only too willing to be a slut for chad is the most infuriating part of swallowing the pill for me because it hits so close to home.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 02:29 PM
2

Probably worth noting I'm fresh out of a College environment where I had an unbelievable amount of SMV and social proof through Greek life etc. Basically building social proof and SMV in the real world is a new phenomena to me.
/r/askTRP11/08/15 08:24 PM
1

Absolutely, but when my Monk time is over what are some ways to start building social proof and social status in a city of young people built around drinking (Austin tx)
/r/askTRP11/08/15 08:21 PM
2

Yes. Absolutely. I a came to college overweight, undersocialized and beta as fuck. By my senior year I was spinning 5 plates and ended up in an LTR with the hottest of the cheerleaders, all because of the social proof that came from being a) a member of my chapter b)president of my chapter c)president of the Interfraternity council, d) president of the honors fraternity. You will make incredible friends, who are more likely to be alpha's you can learn from. I cannot stress the value of this enou…
/r/askTRP11/08/15 07:36 PM
3

Trump is a boss, but not positive who the country needs.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 01:36 PM
1

Very much so. Her parents divorced, specifically because her father had an affair. Even though she had boyfriends in highschool she never let them touch her, while cheating on them with the older guy on a weekend basis. She said she did it beacause "She needed to understand what that was like". When I connected all that to Alpha Fux Beta Bucks the whole duality of female strategy really came into view for me. Not letting her providers touch her while being a whore for a much older guy who wouldn…
/r/askTRP06/08/15 08:21 PM
4

Yeah the d1 college cheerleader I dated was emotionally unavailable. Through the initial phases when I was spinning plates a didnt give a shit, went wonderfully. As soon as it was "official" and I started trying to get her to meet me halfway emotionally and talk about shit...yeah...didn't go well. She made a beta out of me in about a years time, and then fucked someone else. Yay hypergamy. TL/DR give no fucks, don't try to lock it down, frequent plate at best
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 07:25 PM
-1

Where abouts in texas? I just moved to Austin
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 04:35 PM
3

Ecellent post. This resonates greatly with me as I'm in a transititional phase of life, having just left college. At the college bars or in any fraternity house, I felt like the man and had my pick of the litter. I was president of Greek life, the honors fraternity, and my own at the same time. I literally was king. Now in my new environment, in a corporate starting position, just another 23 yearold new to the city, I don't have the same swagger I used to. I feel like building networks to create…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 02:29 PM
5

Didn't help that she was my first girlfriend. Its just infuriating to look back and now be able to see so clearly how it went down. I was a senior in college on top of my game, president of greek life, spinning 5 plates, she was one of them. for the first few months before it was official she was more than happy to be my slut. Then we started dating, even though I was aware of the redpill I completely let my guard down and the Beta backslide began. Then I knocked her up, even though she was on b…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 03:26 PM
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I dated a University cheerleader for a year, and then found she hadn't cheated yet but was talking to a guy she met on spring break. When I tried to leave and walk out she threw herself on the ground in front of me and gave me the don't leave blow job. I foolishly ended up not leaving, and three weeks later I saw that the next weekend she cheated, and I also got the pleasure of reading the most graphic sexting I've ever seen that will haunt me till I die. Full of all the shit I wanted and the ot…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 06:44 PM
1

I'm an INFJ, which is quite rare if I understand correctly. What advice can I infer from this?
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 06:33 PM
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