Like many I'm looking back at a previous relationship with 20/20 hindsight, seeing my transition from alpha to beta.

She was a hard 9 university cheerleader, emotionally unavailable, and basically a sloot. She had been "trained" by a guy who was 19 when she was 16 or so, this went on for a few years and I got her when she was 19/20.

Would we say she's an alpha widow and that I came into play because I was a strong beta/provider to combat the years spent as the afore mentioned alphas sex slave? And yes this is a typical "she was only to happy to be a slut for chad" scenario. He would never commit to her and had a girlfriend that he cheated on with my ex etc.