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| -1 | Why do cucks exist, what's the RP theory on these degenerates?I'm not into it at all but from what it seems like. It's a form of masochism. Rather than a physical pain payoff, it's a payoff of a variant of shame/humiliation. The wife probably has less to do with it than it appears It's probably related to a form or early childhood trauma or imprint. The female version would be similar to a sub. The dom is not the cause, her upbringing probably was. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/20 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Dead numbersI just test ran it with my roommate and another bro. Step 1 check! | /r/askTRP | 21/08/20 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Dead numbersYeah dude, the above thread is hilarious. Got any recommendation on a good/low effort curiosity enducing mass text? Needs to be generic I'm on "hey you, whats up" but that seems weak imo | /r/askTRP | 21/08/20 09:33 PM |
| 0 | Regaining frame on date 2Ones a 5 that I used to get out of a funk. The other is an 8 that is really chill. You know how it is though. You want what you can't have (haven't got yet) I think there was a lot of desire and I dropped the ball. We'll see what happens I guess. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/20 08:30 PM |
| 0 | Regaining frame on date 2Thx for write up. Not sure about the beta strategy. It will tell her I'm selling what she's buying. Which I am not. I'm selling dick and she either buys or doesn't. The beta route, while being dishonest, also sets me up for beta sex which is lame... The context was, I said "need to use bathroom" at her place, then got to her room. The "no" was on a final physical attempt for hand on pussy (I was nude and she was panties, tried ~3 times), no verbal. For the contradictory statement. It's that I wa… | /r/askTRP | 18/08/20 06:01 PM |
| 16 | My GF was making jokes about me with a coworker of hers and it pissed me off badly. Why is this? Should I start nexting?It's a shit test and it's working at pulling on your beta strings. She is utilizing male attention to push your buttons and poison drip you. Problem is, it's working and she knows it. Proper response is dread game, flirt with a girl in her presence. This will send the msg that she is on your time and she needs to be on her best behavior. What's happening now is she is using weak dread on you. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/20 10:46 AM |
| 0 | Lmr first date analysisyeah, the pin to the wall was my "I'm not butt hurt" move. Like, I'm still interested even though we didn't go all the way. It left it neutral instead of negative imo. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/20 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Lmr first date analysisThx man. I had pretty good week with other girls but this one left a sour taste. I'll just go for date 2 and chill a little. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/20 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Lmr first date analysisI know, I think the going for it and not making it killed it a little though. You think 3 days to reinitiate is legit? | /r/askTRP | 15/08/20 09:56 PM |
| 4 | Having the worst time on bumble. What am doing wrong?Read the sb You're trying to be a nice boy so she will like you Try being a man and change your internal to "hope she likes me" to "Does she have what is takes for me to like her" Also, at her "any plans this wknd" you had the chance to say I got x and y going on. You should join. She will say yes or give you a chance to say "give me your #, We'll set something up next week" Live and learn dude | /r/askTRP | 13/08/20 10:32 PM |
| 1 | LMR & ASD really turn me off. Tricks on changing focus/perceptionI fucked for an hour 10 mins after this play. She was absolutely down bro. Also, you power through ASD but you stop at heavy LMR and call it a night. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 10:24 PM |
| 2 | LMR & ASD really turn me off. Tricks on changing focus/perceptionTo be fair, both presented as 8's but were 6's in person. You win some you lose some. Is your comment not circular logic? I want to close because I won't call em back, therefore, I don't close? Trying to close with minimal effort is my only option with surprise 6's. I'm not crying myself to sleep here but I could train myself to put up with a little more shit to be more successful. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 08:34 PM |
| 0 | LMR & ASD really turn me off. Tricks on changing focus/perceptionDude, second date lay is not the problem. I want first date lays (or some action, a good BJ is fine in my books). The reason I don't accept anything less is because I have been the dude girls fuck 20 mins in and anything else is "not as good as chad". That's why my question is one of focus/perception. Yet every single comment here is projection or completely unrelated to my post. My game is much more advanced than what the comments allude to. I'm right up against the line of what's possible. Als… | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 08:00 PM |
| 1 | LMR & ASD really turn me off. Tricks on changing focus/perceptionThis is tinder direct, 10 msg max exchanged. Meet at the corner of my street and bounce to my place in 1 min. I say "let's meet for drinks"... and the drinks just so happen to be at my place. That's why the guy above that says. "1h you ain't fucking?!?!" must have missed something because I have fucked some instant on arrival an they were terrible in bed. It takes at least 20 mins to vibe and that's for uber sluts. 1h to 1h30 is totally reasonable in my books. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 07:57 PM |
| -1 | LMR & ASD really turn me off. Tricks on changing focus/perceptionI have 7 body SMV 9 face SMV but 9 RMV. This is why I get them soaked but still wanting to sell me the "good girl". I can see the conflict in their faces. Thing is she says "good girl" while giving me a hand job so I could hang in there and get my nut (progress to oral then bang) but I lose my erection to the constant lies and denial. This is the issue... I'm getting a "I want to keep him around as to not lose his interest" vibe Think I'll get some ear plug next time and see how I do. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 06:41 PM |
| 5 | All I'm doing is nexting girlsDid I say I don't do those? Yes I have lost my edge since isolation. Still I exercise daily and have a good shape as stated above but I am not 10% bf atm though. I'm not a fucking robot bro. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/20 12:02 AM |
| -2 | All I'm doing is nexting girlsI'm very open to accommodating any change that does not remove "sex logistics" from the equation. The changes that do, I consider power plays. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/20 07:52 PM |
| 8 | All I'm doing is nexting girlsYup, short and sweet but reality. Tough for my ego to swallow though... | /r/askTRP | 09/08/20 07:01 PM |
| 5 | All I'm doing is nexting girlsMaybe there are gaps in my post that lead to misinterpreting. My bad I give enough slack and have a good banter with them while remaining direct. Slack is enough but I'm not a doormat. Rescheduling, time changes, local venue changes for preference (this bar vs that bar), meeting near her place, etc are all no problem for me. What I mean by venue change power play is basically anything that remove sex logistics from the equation. I am adaptable but will not put myself in a situation that cannot b… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/20 06:58 PM |
| 1 | All I'm doing is nexting girlsYou're right sir | /r/askTRP | 09/08/20 06:44 PM |
| -1 | All I'm doing is nexting girlsI was doing extremely well before covid. I've lost my way a little since then tbh. Still have a shape to me but am definitely not ripped. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/20 06:30 PM |
| 4 | All I'm doing is nexting girlsI think this is the hard truth that I don't want to swallow. I want plates and not gf but my current lure is handsome bf and the gap to ripped fuck boi is pretty fucking daunting. I'm not an idiot and work with the girls to find a time and place but when my lead is challenged I hold strong and handsome bf holding strong is take it or leave it. Ripped fuck boi's unwavering attitude is tingles fuel... | /r/askTRP | 09/08/20 04:47 PM |
| 1 | All I'm doing is nexting girlsI'll try more of this. I'm very final in my approach, not verbally but more mentally. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/20 04:43 PM |
| -4 | All I'm doing is nexting girlsThat's all nice and dandy In theory but if I only select top 90% interest chicks that fish themselves into the boat, I'll be jacking off most the year. It's the same as the "next" dilemma. If you're a god and your filter is overflowing you can't next em fast enough... thing is this is real life and the gods ain't struggling on ask trp... | /r/askTRP | 09/08/20 04:43 PM |
| -11 | All I'm doing is nexting girlsNot time change bro, that's no problem. It's a venue change power play problem. Frame crack | /r/askTRP | 09/08/20 02:52 PM |
| 19 | Need serious help."Girls scare the fuck out of me and I’ve suffered from anxiety and depression for a long time." It's not about "meeting women", it's about getting your mind right. Stop fucking jacking off and cucking yourself to porn. I mean, what do you have to lose other than your "acting like a bitch" attitude? Give it a shot brah! | /r/askTRP | 07/08/20 09:27 AM |
| 18 | Need serious help.Stop jacking off and watching porn | /r/askTRP | 07/08/20 09:00 AM |
| 1 | Reeling from LMR, feel like I almost had itVery insightful reply! The reason I take "the talk" as bad is that usually the date after the girl withholds sex in order for me to commit. Example: With "no condom girl" my talk went "I'm open to something organic but won't be getting married tmrw" at the end of sex on date 2. Date 3, she invites me over for dinner (that felt pretty good, especially the way she kissed when I walked in, genuine desire). As the evening progressed we had a great time for 2-3 hours, light making out, dancing, etc. … | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Reeling from LMR, feel like I almost had itThat's pretty much what I have concluded in my last response to itiswr1tten's comments. However, I'm still caught in the black and white of Dick/relationship. I absolutely want "sex only plates" if possible but that is not working for me apparently. In your opinion, what is a good route for dick + something without triggering "the talk" aka bf vibes too quickly? Personally, I think it might be an SMV problem. They're like "He's good in bed but not enough to entertain him if he doesn't commit to … | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Reeling from LMR, feel like I almost had itThe way you say it seems pretty condescending and reads contextually as "close to rape" but if you mean I don't generate enough attraction to garner long-term interest before moving in for the kill, I can see that. I'm just caught between that and giving off relationship vibes. Guess I'll just have to keep trying in order to find a balance. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Reeling from LMR, feel like I almost had itThx for the input and yeah, the STD thing killed my vibe. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Reeling from LMR, feel like I almost had itNot offended, but you frame that shit like i'm a rapist. I clearly state that I presented and she proceeded to put it in. In the body of the text It mentioned that we had condom sex for ~2 hours then finally removed the condom for our last go. She loved it in the moment and felt naughty after with the spinning hamster. I went on three date with this chic then she tried to relationship trap me with "the talk" and dinner at her place, I chose to walk. Pushing boundaries is our job as men. Maybe th… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 11:52 AM |
| 2 | Reeling from LMR, feel like I almost had itI liked your first iteration better haha. That edit section is wildly unfounded and just not true. I always get consent or walk away. There are some desperation elements in that I beat myself up if it doesn't work out in my favor but to say I coerce women and they drop me because of it is ludicrous. Most girls come back a few time then try to use sex as a tool to BB me or orbit me, then I walk away. They probably have access to high SMV dudes and I need to work on that. Keep your crazy speculati… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 11:29 AM |
| 2 | Reeling from LMR, feel like I almost had itI mean she was definitely not the highest interest girl ever, playing a little hard to get. We gotta shoot with those girls too or else I would have ~2 dates a month rather than ~2-4 a week. I had this chick soaked in my bed and failed to make it work. It pissed me off because I feel like that's on me and I'm trying to learn how to do better next time. Also, I rarely get a second date if no close on first. Is that not what ask trp is for? | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 10:54 AM |
| 1 | I am emotionally unstable and it is destroying my personal and professional life. I am seeking expert advice so that I can live a happier life. Kindly help me out.You need PARAGRAPHS BRO! Also, seek professional help. Might cost you a little money but since you have tried a fair amount of healthy "self-guided" avenues, with no success, you need the external input from someone who can assess you properly. Good luck dude! | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 10:34 AM |
| 15 | Flirting mistake , I messed up when a girl asked me if I have a girlfriend.Think about it like playing hot potato. She has the burning potato (in your frame) she tosses it with "gf?". You catch it and toss it back with "Many" (you probably delivered the line with lack of conviction). She sensed weakness aka "look at what they do, not what they say" i.e. you say "I'm a pimp" but acted like a bitch while saying it. She shit tested immediately to confirm her suspicion and she was right and you wound up with hot beta potato all over your face (in her frame). Happens to the… | /r/askTRP | 01/08/20 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Feeling lostDude, bow down a little. Get the ball rolling for the funds. Then try working at the reception of a medical facility that could serve as your residency spot or would at least help pad your cv. With a job in place you have an out to "going back during breaks", they get to help you and ultimately your relationship might get better once you have left the nest. Mine got much better when I left. Any disrespect was met with absence and it quickly stopped after a few longer periods of withdrawal. Towar… | /r/askTRP | 01/08/20 09:25 AM |
| 5 | Date logistics and counterThat's one way to go but that's not what I'm selling. I'm selling dick at my place not a fun activity. I'm looking for counters to 20% middle meet girls. The offer is already very successful for the most part. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/20 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Cycle of failureThx man! Makes a lot of sense and I get what you're talking about. A lot of what's missing for me is SMV related options. Bringing those "options" to my table and making sure they can perceive something they can pursue. A lot of this is missing for me atm but I get it. I'll work towards it moving forward. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/20 11:22 AM |
| 0 | Cycle of failureObjective: Plates lasting 1-2 months, just sex (maybe dinner) at my place or hers, no dates. 3 in rotation with 1 that breaks every month or so and a new one added in accordingly. I'm 31, I just want sex but also for them to desire giving me that sex rather than chase them for it. Post comfort: I have started to notice this but it's either "off" or "beta comfort" that comes out. What kind of comfort are we looking at here? Leading to the plate phase? I had one girl give me "When can I see you ag… | /r/askTRP | 28/07/20 10:29 AM |
| 0 | Cycle of failureIf you are looking to plate a girl it takes 15-30 min a day till you have her in the grove I don't understand this? 15-30 into the grove?Groove of what? Sorting fast or meeting slow? The only reason that they are having 'the talk' with you is because you open yourself up to it. I mean, if this were true then no guy would ever get the talk because who the fuck wants that? But your responses are good. I used "I'm open to wtv but I'm not getting married tmrw" and was met with sex withdrawal the nex… | /r/askTRP | 28/07/20 10:20 AM |
| 4 | What to do with extra $3,000My question for you is how many shares are outstanding? If company "A" has a market cap (all shares x price) of 100k with 100 shares issued for $1k a share vs company "B" that has a 100k mc with 1000 shares issued at $100 a share. The companies are worth the same thing and an increase of 10% is the same for both companies. Regardless, you're taking on a gamble/unnecessary risk by choosing individual stock names. I would highly recommend avoiding this route and purchasing the etf baskets I have m… | /r/askTRP | 28/07/20 05:45 AM |
| 3 | What to do with extra $3,000Don't buy individual stocks right now. You only have 3k. First they have commissions of probability 5-10$ on each end (BUY AND SELL), ETF's don't with the right broker. Also, the s&p 500 index has AMD within it already. Think about some crazy circumstances where AMD has unforseen problems (corrupt management, shortage of chip material due to trade wars, etc) With broad market exposure you eliminate that risk from your exposure. If you had 100k, I would probably say the same but you could then th… | /r/askTRP | 28/07/20 04:53 AM |
| 2 | What to do with extra $3,000Don't gamble, invest your money instead. Find a low mer (sub 1%) Etf's that tracks the s&p 500, tsx and a 3rd that covers international exposure (bric). Put 1000$ in each and leave it be. As you move forward and make money keep adding to your positions. Your first purchased will probably be property in a 5y + time horizon. Use a broker that allows free etf buys (no comissions). | /r/askTRP | 28/07/20 04:13 AM |
| 1 | ASD even after f-close?Had the same shit happen the other day. Date 3, I stayed chill but left her place rather quickly after a few attempts, as per the sidebar recommendation. It felt extremely foreign as a reaction to me but soft next is the protocol. I'm interested in seeing the other replies. Honestly, I think she got bf vibes (for your and my situation) and wanted you to buy the cow. Battle was probably lost prior to the date if you look closely. You gave her the impression that she could get away with this type … | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 04:29 AM |
| 1 | What were your experiences of finding out about your partner's past and how did you deal with them?Dude, this is between you and you. Let's be honest here, you're subconsciously getting off on cucking yourself. First, why pry through shit that doesn't concern you? You feed off it... Second, she's a 29 year old human being. Wtf were you expecting? A pure virgin princess that... Wait a second! This is ask trp. Did you take the pill yet? Ain't no princess for your matrix dream, AWALT. Stop cherry picking shit and join reality. It's disgusting that you expect someone, let alone a women, to live t… | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 06:34 AM |
| -3 | Tinder date logistics - what to do when they're not OK with proposed location?I do the same and it works great. The let's meet "alt location" girls are showing you that they won't follow your lead and ultimately will be a hassle down the road. NEXT! | /r/askTRP | 17/07/20 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Failed With Childhood FriendThis is a humble brag. There is no question here... | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 08:50 PM |
| 0 | Where are you supposed to find nice, kind, sensitive women these days?All women have both the facets you mention. Not to be offensive but your mom gets horny and does her thing too. Proof, you're here... You're just too naive and self-centered to accept the complexities of human, in this case female, nature. Instead of trying to warp reality to fit your dream (will never happen and you will forever be disappointed), try and sculpt your perception of the world to that of reality. If you don't, you're asking to be continuously let down. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Matches on Tinder but no responses.Your main pic is legit but the follow up pics either suck or there is one in particular that is killing you, cat, hunting, fishing, a bad pic that you use as filler, etc I went down to 3 awesome pics, rather than 3 awesome + 3 soso/shitty ones and I have much more success | /r/askTRP | 12/07/20 06:57 AM |
| 5 | Older guy game with younger girls?Some bad advice on here man. Stop thinking about assets and appearances. If you got your shit together set it and forget it. Do not try and impresses these chicks, the fact that you are the older dude with his shit together will do all the work on the girls that like older dudes The lead comment is one of the only good ones. You do basic date (drinks) with cocky/charming convo, then you show them your place. Also, no fucking "trying to not scare them away" wtf is this shit? You're a "busy man wi… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/20 06:45 AM |
| 2 | Went to the mall to cold approach for the first time and got 5 numbers what now?Hey "name", it's Dripsonhold Then you wait Some will reply "Hi Drip :)" Then you plug what you got Ex: I bet you shopped your butt off, What did you get me at the mall today, What were you thinking wearing those shoes, etc She replies contextually You reply with contextual date offer Ex: Bubble tea with me to recoup that energy, I guess I'll just have to show you what I like, When we meet I'll teach you how to match em. She laughs You send "What's your schedule like?" She replies with availabili… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/20 06:27 AM |
| 3 | Some see Alpha others see BetaThis girl clearly fucks but she totally threw me to the "He waits for it camp". I pulled 3 date rule and hard nexted. I'm just still a little insulted that she had the nerve to pull that shit on me. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Progressing or failedThere was actually no butthurt on that one surprisingly. When she adamantly said "time to leave" the 2nd time. I just said no problem, we had fun and peaced. Just texted with her a little though and the interest was dead. On to the next boyo's. Sucks but my strike rate is pretty high so it will only sting for a moment. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 04:15 AM |
| 2 | Progressing or failedI'm getting this vibe too. Think I'm just going to cut my losses. It's so weird how some women see me as alpha and I bang them in 30 min (8-9/10 nurse, 8/10 doc, etc) but then there are some that play me beta (8-9/10 doc) and I just walk away... I play the same cards but get mixed results. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 02:01 AM |
| 42 | Virgin here - How much do you really need to practice having sex?At this age, you're missing the experience that shows you that it isn't all that. Don't get me wrong, it's fucking amazing, but as all who have been virgins past 20. Your idea of what it is, has become inflated and far from the reality of what awaits you. This might be an unpopular opinion but I have used escorts a few times to successfully end dry spells and get the ball rolling again. I was fortunate that I had a few random success that were normal before trying this but if I could go back and… | /r/askTRP | 07/07/20 03:48 AM |
| 8 | Virgin here - How much do you really need to practice having sex?How old are you? | /r/askTRP | 07/07/20 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Trouble getting repeats/platesAlready done, and factually so. We discussed this before going raw. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/20 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Trouble getting repeats/platesI really don't think this is an obvious mistake. Our job is to push past boundaries and she was thanking me for doing it and is only now pulling back. It's not what she say's but what she does. I presented it and she put it in for us. The text sounds like I'm struggling to build comfort. I even think there is a way to turn this back around and that this is a "shit test"of the comfort kind. I resumed it but her text had a lot of "shoulds not" and "probablies". Alluding to her needing a reason to … | /r/askTRP | 06/07/20 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Trouble getting repeats/platesI try for raw if I can and BC is talked about. I get tested every 1-2 months. After 2 hours of fooling around wrapped she says she has an IUD and there was a little push pull and we banged for an hour raw. No sexual assault here only hamster guilt on her part. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/20 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Trouble getting repeats/platesReceived this from the example girl: "Not sure we should see each other again. I had a fun, but I didn't wanna have sex without a condom, you insisted even though I warned you multiple times. Not sure you're able to respect me enough" Pretty much the "rationalize part" you mention. Any points to turn it around ? | /r/askTRP | 06/07/20 04:42 PM |
| 1 | RPed, but lost purposeYou sound like Cypher. Don't be Cypher. I have my own struggles and have not been where you are yet but the way you describe it seems like you have arrived at the point of moving into true self-actualization. Mainly the part of self-fulfillment. You seem afraid to leap to it because it is the end of forward momentum through the natural cycles of personal growth. You are therefore, sabotaging your esteem cycle repeatedly in order to avoid the final stage. This sabotage is taking its toll on you b… | /r/askTRP | 01/07/20 07:18 AM |
| 0 | How to avoid cockblocking my boy?You're lying to yourself here. First: You have no business matching coworkers, especially as a grown ass man Second: You're trying to live vicariously through the way you perceive his looks/potential status because it's easier to externalize this goal (much like a woman's futile attempts at working to change a man) than focus on your own shortcomings. Lastly: If you really did care about his well-being you would avoid hooking him up with a wall bomb that will ruin his beta life even more. She wi… | /r/askTRP | 01/07/20 06:23 AM |
| 40 | Did i Pass this shittest?You need to understand your position and learn to read between the lines. Let's break this one down. Action: Showing you other guys are interested. This is a two stroke move on her part "Look at me, I have value." This is good because she's seemingly seeking your approval contingent on you passing part 2. "How will he respond to a challenge?" This is the test, IMO you did not pass but you did not total fail either. You neutraled it. Pass = "Looks like we need to work on your confidence" (alludin… | /r/askTRP | 01/07/20 01:15 AM |
| 80 | What do you guys think of smashing someone’s wife who used to wrong you in high school?Stop living in the past, it's robbing you of your present. Forget both of these people because you're thirsting for drama and revenge rather than becoming a better you. You're coming from the wrong place buddy. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/20 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Can you help me with this girl?The hamster spinning in your head is going to die of a heart attack. Make her an offer to meet near your place and play it chill. Once you push the chips in the middle you've made your play. You're clinging to the dream here by not pulling the trigger. You might very well miss your shot but pull the damn trigger. Soon enough you'll be firing full auto and have more than you can handle. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/20 12:21 AM |
| 5 | How to avoid cockblocking my boy?Both of you are simps. Stay away from trailer/single mothers/wall hitter/ that you fucking work with... So much garbage here. This is a humble brag on your part because "flirt with both of us" makes you feel good. You're a big boy that got a look and wrote a book about it. Also, you're using your bruh to protect your fragile ego from challenging the illusion of your desirability. Your only job is to lift and get your dick wet outside of work. YOU ARE NOT DOING YOUR JOB BRO! | /r/askTRP | 01/07/20 12:15 AM |
| 9 | Girlfriend's abusive manipulative ex got a hold of her again, she's basically gone now. Any way to outgame the narcissist or is it dead game?"She did find me attractive for the duration of us talking to each other, but I never made the transition of turning into a real guy from a random e-boy" Wtf is this? Sounds like you never even made it to the field. Also, sounds like this dude is the guy she fucks while you simp like a nice guy. Read the sb and stop simping... You had nothing but Disney here. The real issue isn't becoming an asshole. It's checking your ego and cutting the "nice boy looking for mommy" shit. Do better | /r/askTRP | 01/07/20 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Ex texted me that she's fucking other guysThink about the last time you were this involved (oneitis) and how little of a shit you give about that previous girl now. This one will be the same after the time frame required to eject the "Disney" from your mind. Do your best to shorten that period time and time again, because there will be another one, another after that, etc. If you put in the work, you will learn to have the feeling last but a moment. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 12:02 PM |
| 3 | Most epic rejection storiesMet a girl and got her # while out walking my cat on a leash, I was in ltr at the time. After 3 months, ltr breaks and I call the girl. She says " I though you forgot me", I set a meet for 9pm. She shows and we go to the corner for a slice, then back to mine for a cup of tea. I go for the kiss and it's meh, I pick her up and bring her to my room. She straddles me and says "got a condom?". I grab one and get back into position, then she says "Wait! I really want a cup of tea", I say "It can wait"… | /r/askTRP | 03/06/20 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Therapist called me attractive. You think shes lying?You should be seeing a male therapist if you're a male. No matter how nice she is, she will never understand your drives. Also, you're unattractive by the fact that you validate yourself from an exterior source approving of your visual appeal. Fix your mind through other means, like meditation, exposure therapy and exercise. Gaining a footing through validation of your appearance is a nice step down the wrong path. Work on that and you'll be good to go. Even if you're the ugliest fucker in the r… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/20 12:31 AM |
| 1 | If one of the core tenets of TRP is to be muscular as fuck (bodybuilding), then why are some figures of this community out of shape ?You took the time to look this guys shit up and try and shame him for asking why you're probably a fat ass? You flinched and look weak as shit here. You should ban yourself for 30d srs. Be better next time plz. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/20 05:34 PM |
| 2 | How do you choose what "look" you're aspiring to?The choice between those 2 looks doesn't really matter. What matters is that the fact that you have forward motion and that is enough. Read "The 37 rules to getting laid like a warlord" and forget about the women aspect of it for the purpose of your above inquiry (I mean the women aspect is legit too). It's about your mentality at the moment. Also, don't get tattoos to suit peoples perception of you. Do get tattoos if you really enjoy it for yourself. As for a look to aspire to, I'm sure you can… | /r/askTRP | 18/03/20 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Having the mentality of "needing to prove oneself"You need to prove it to yourself. Don't listen to anyone that leads a life you don't want to live. Show him Joe Rogan and mention that he credits a lot of his well being to TRT post 40. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/20 03:51 AM |
| 3 | Difference between alpha and beta?Great idea! I can see it now, I think we should call it Side... Sidebar. That's crazy, I'm sorry for even thinking that could work. Best just forget about it and not approach any females ever again... | /r/askTRP | 18/03/20 03:43 AM |
| 4 | Feedback on this Tinder exchangeI try and get the digits fast to avoid the endless validation machine that is tinder. My 4-5 message banter # pull has worked in the past, I took the shot thinking double shit test passed/she knows she's lucky at this point. Guess not, oh well next! Thx for input guys. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/20 12:52 AM |
| 3 | If a woman's happiness is to get pregnant, do they have a soul?You post poorly worded, unanswerable questions with a culmination of white knight suppositions about the nature of women. You're in the wrong place, making the wrong assumptions and asking the wrong questions. Individuals like you are ruining this subreddit. This sub is about being a strong/better man that puts effort into his life and carves out a place from himself in the world. For most people being lustful is a foundational part of life and really enjoyable. If you have such a strong religio… | /r/askTRP | 15/03/20 10:12 PM |
| 5 | If a woman's happiness is to get pregnant, do they have a soul?Get this shit out of here. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/20 09:27 PM |
| 2 | What went wrong with this attempted pull?Are you purposefully dodging this guys question? He's not asking you about your fucking shower. He saying why did you call to ask them for "permission" when you already had the location and the green light? | /r/askTRP | 15/03/20 03:28 PM |
| 3 | 2 month Plate ended things. Do I respond to text?no response needed, move on brah! | /r/askTRP | 03/03/20 09:45 PM |
| 3 | How to stop myself from getting depressed over girls?"The last girl I approached is in long distance relationship and I don't how to make her break it" You tried, you found out, you move on. I'm under the impression that you think because you muster the resolve to approach that you "deserve" that woman's affection. That's not how it work and probably your main issue. You have outcome dependency. Fix that shit! Also, just to be clear, you're dead with that girl you mentioned, move on. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/20 04:39 AM |
| 2 | Just broke up with my LTR of 3 years. Going insaneStop being a bitch! You just replied with exactly what I mentioned you would. I wrote about your thought process being a lie and you need to think about past loss and the effect time had on it (Girl, family, friends, etc). I'm sure you've lost something in the past, don't bother playing with words here. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/20 01:29 PM |
| 1 | i stuffed up"She probably would of come back" This is your problem, this is your lie. Fix that shit bro! | /r/askTRP | 27/02/20 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Just broke up with my LTR of 3 years. Going insaneThink about a past relationship and how it made you feel when it failed. Now think about that situation now. It probably hold no value to you now. Right now you might say "It's different" or "This was my longest...blahblahblah" It isn't and you're just lying to yourself. Hit the gym and bang some other chicks if you can muster up the resolve. It's all ascension from here on out man! | /r/askTRP | 27/02/20 01:19 PM |
| 17 | Is it a bad idea to connect back with an ex?Why even bother asking? You know the answer. You're looking for someone to tell you that it's ok to be weak. It's easy to find comfort in what you know but when you think about your past, it's obvious that the unknown is always the right path to take. Stay strong, move the fuck on. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/20 01:13 PM |
| 0 | Two girlsThis is one of those cases where you do whatever the fuck you want, reach out or don't and wait to see if she does. Seems like you have everything going real well here and you even swung a logistical nightmare into your favor. Well played sir, keep on keeping on. Also, no talking this out like adults blahblahblah. Make sure you guys have fun and that is all that matters. Her hamster is spinning in the right direction. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/20 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Confused on what to doI brought up That's the point here. You're bringing up relationship defining questions... She's a plate, what do you care who she is seeing? Also, never try and define shit, that's her job. All you do is lose ground when you try that angle. If on the other hand, you were trying to LTR her (not happening with current state of affairs, need more work) you still never bring it up. You maneuver as to have her bring it up for you. That is your job in both cases, and her resulting actions will show yo… | /r/askTRP | 24/02/20 04:59 PM |
| 4 | Confused on what to do"I brought it up to her and she said..." This is where you moved from "she withdraws and you respond with the same" to "she withdraws and you fall into her frame". The first is salvageable and essentially a shit test. The second is you failing the shit test and opting for the web of lies that she's about to throw your way on your journey to orbit. Move way back or next her. You've accrued a lot of frame loss in the sequence you described. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/20 03:44 PM |
| 8 | 2 year contract with 3 times more money per month or remain with my company where I have a certain future?The answer to this question is age and responsibility dependent. I would choose option 2, the 2 year contract + travel. I'm 31, not married, no kids with very little fix location dependency. However, reverse a few of those factors and add a decade and I would possibly opt for option 1. Even then, 3x money is almost a no brainer time/value wise. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/20 08:02 PM |
| 0 | Is it possible for a woman to realize you aren’t a beta ?I'm not talking about a specific girl either. These questions are oneitis questions. If you have them, you're done. When you don't, you're good to go. Stop being a bitch and utilize your time efficiently to the point were you can't type this weak shit. Lose pussy, alpha/beta, perception of you, etc. You think this way therefore you're beta and not in abundance, these things are not on your mind, you're alpha and drowning in it. What are you doing right now, in this post? | /r/askTRP | 22/02/20 07:26 PM |
| 1 | I have oneitis we finished on good terms but she comes to my mind. I’m in monk mode and not spinning other plates as I’ve got priorities in life right now. I think it would be weak of me and show I care to delete her but then I spend time procrastinating (which I’m working on)It would be weak to consider her perception related to any decision you make. Fix that shit m8. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/20 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible for a woman to realize you aren’t a beta ?Oneitis, move on. You're not walking in the right direction here. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/20 07:10 PM |
| 3 | Lost Weight and Now I Want Him. Am I Shallow?The quality of posts are extremely weak lately. There is little to no focus on the content of the sidebar and the masculine improvement it preaches. Don't read this garbage and please stop posting it here. The ban hammer need to swing a little harder. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/20 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Should I have approached her?You sound like a bitch. All I see are a bunch of excuses and regret that could have been avoided. Why waste our time with this shit? You know exactly what the answer is and there is no point to your post. Keep your shit tight, this is embarrassing tbh. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/20 07:00 PM |
| 3 | ltr wants to be my first sex actOutdoor sex in a place you've never done it. If you've had sex literally every place on earth then go to a spot you've been (like a hike in a private place) and film it amateur style. If you've already filmed yourself having outdoor sex every place on earth. You're a whore and a liar. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Have you quit smoking and how did you do it?I started buying individual cigarettes off people. The act of socially interacting with people for a smoke, while offering $1, made me feel pathetic and like a panhandler. After about a month my addiction was way down and I just stopped. At that point, you need to watch the random cravings and drinking with buddies. After like 6 months you're good to go. Also, having good cardio is a strong motivator to abstain from smoking. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 10:29 AM |
| 9 | Kind of stuck in between a rock and a hard place when it comes to pulling off lays.You're being a bitch. Your parents probably won't even give a fuck if you bang a chick if you use common sense while going about it and your neighbor is a non issue. You're setting obstacles (weak ass excuses, I mean the're not even good ones) to avoid challenging your ego. You're 20 bro, not 14. Your dad will probably be relieved to find out you're not gay. Stop posting garbage and pull the trigger. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/20 07:35 AM |
| 4 | How to respond to possible shit test???Bullshit! Then why are you posting this garbage? If you're "friends" then there is no shit test cause that pussy is sealed shut to you. So which is it? You in the friend zone or are you being a thristy insta orbiter? Don't respond, stop posting garbage and go talk to some real women. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/20 11:55 AM |
| 4 | Should I be taking this personally?Kind of a catch 22 here man. The fact that you doubt yourself to this extent i.e. The way I danced, how aggressive... is the reason you failed. If a girl giving you resistance shakes you to the point of you doubting multiple aspects of actions you've taken, then she's essentially subconsciously read your weakness before you even flinched. The selfdoubting aftermath is probably the same frame you subtly displayed leading to the dismissal. I'm not judging you, I've been there before and will proba… | /r/askTRP | 09/02/20 11:40 AM |
| 2 | How to be... "Normal"?Stop watching porn and masturbating. It's very subtle but you will gain the "it" factor that most of your peers won't have at this stage of your life. It will allow you to navigate most social situation amused rather than self-conscious. This means that rather than escaping/fearing social situations you will revel in them. I'm older and wish someone had told me this in my formative years. Also, start working out. I still play video games but I have a strict rule about accomplishing my workout be… | /r/askTRP | 09/02/20 08:30 AM |
| 3 | What do you call somebody who talks shit about you on social media and with others but in person doesn’t say anything?You call them a hypocrite | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 05:20 AM |
| 3 | Days where you just want to end itWhen this happens, take a moment to write down/acknowledge 3 things that you are thankful for and 3 goals that you still have to accomplish. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/20 08:00 AM |
| 12 | Got cold approached by a girl at a barUsually the "take the number and contact later" is to avoid the uncertain variables that arise when you interact with her peer group i.e. jealous friends (male or female), your potential social value in that group, the perceived availability of your time, etc. Some of these variables could diminish your game by no fault of your own, except for the fact that you opened the door to them in the first place. It's the same as texting for logistics only. It avoids you giving validation without properl… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/20 07:49 AM |
| 5 | I have a six pack, am jacked, wear clothes that show off my figure, play poker semi professionally, am graduating from a top tier University in a few months and will be making six figures after, groom my facial hair, shower 2x a day, brush and floss 2x a day. Why can't I get laid?You mention all the materialistic things you possess. I'm hard pressed to find the I tried to talk to this girl..., I got her into bed and she lmr'd..., I got 10 # but no dates..., etc. Therefore, I suppose you think the perceived value of your assets (looks, status, etc) are enough for you to avoid having to temper your ego and strengthen your game. Well, that shit ain't working out for you so get in the game and take some fucking shots. Also, stop guarding that fragile ego and break that shit … | /r/askTRP | 14/01/20 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Trouble with retention after sexThe influx of new is lower than the burn rate. My needs are being met but only in bursts and the drought period has me getting frustrated and needy. Basically, I need to have like 5-10 bangs per plate before a break to have the abundance I want. There are other chicks too that the sex is just bad and I'm not looking for a repeat. I have not been able to lock down a date for 2-3 weeks (tons of online flakes and cancellations recently) and feel pretty frustrated and the smell of desperate is creep… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/20 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Trouble with retention after sexUsually I just run through what makes them tic and play cocky funny with it. I most often get a huge workout in before my dates and this give me the closed mouth cocky grin and it works magic for me. I make a lot of sexual innuendos and poke holes in their flawed logic forcing them into my frame. Is this what you mean by rapport building? I feel like I lose points during the after sex talk, like my guard is down. More so the second time maybe, then again I feel like its fine in the moment. I'm m… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/20 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Trouble with retention after sexI'm seeing a theme of not building enough rapport through the comments and analyses here. Like I have shut that part off maybe, leading my plates to be of a shallow and brittle consistency. I think it's possible that my true smv might be too low in certain spheres and I compensate by skipping deep diving rapport building. Thx for the feedback man. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/20 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Trouble with retention after sexMakes a lot of sense, I'll trying bringing that side back from retirement a little and find a good balance between no LMR and proper retention with creating more interest in her. Thx for the perspective! | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 09:15 PM |
| 0 | Trouble with retention after sex3 examples, Asian doctor, best pull. Bang 4 time no condom, she goes for trip, comes back, bang once and trigger "the talk" (What are we + I don't think were at the same place i.e you have low smv). She found another dude that she thinks might commit. I handle it really well but no boomerang. (2 months ago) Gym receptionist (My gym but matched online, asked her out in person), don't finish drinks, she asks me to bring her to my place. I rock her world but she seem very slutty. I message "had fun… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Trouble with retention after sexI think you nailed it. I shut that shit off because I lived that in my blue pill existence for too long but I need to make it work for me now. Any pointers on doing this without being weak/orbiter? Atm, they see zero opportunity for bf material because it used to be a major source of LMR for me. Since the snuff out, LMR do not happen at all but rarely does the 3rd session either. Thx! | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 08:45 PM |
| 11 | Should i fuck her or should i wait for a better plate?"Don't get me wrong im not scared or anything i could fuck her brains out and move on but im not sure if it's the right course of action..." Meaning: Don't get me wrong im not scared or anything: You're scared. I could fuck her brains out and move on: I could try it, probably mess up, and leave it in the past after the experience. Im not sure if it's the right course of action...: I'm not sure if my ego can handle this. I just translated that for you. Get your dick wet bro! You'll realize it's n… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Trouble with retention after sex"In the end, a plate is a plate. They only last a few weeks anyways at most." This is my experience but from the posts I see on here it seems like people spin some for month and sometimes years and have women coming back no problem. This is where I am failing and don't know where to better myself. They seem to want to make me an orbiter but that just goes nowhere with me. Is that the process for CC girls and I need to accept it and hunter other places for longer plate retention or does this mean… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Trouble with retention after sexYou misunderstand, I create dom/sub vibes during the act and I really throw down like a beast 3x times. 100% no issue there, I bring them to new places. What I mean by light-hearted is I don't make it seem like it's that special and there is no nervousness and during refraction we are having a good time. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 07:46 PM |
| -1 | The girl I’ve been chasing is friends with all the slutsWhat business is it of yours the guys that she's fucked? It's just your turn bro, enjoy or get off the ride. The feelings that you have atm are due to you putting her on a pedestal in order to fuel your illusion of extrinsically motivated self-worth and value. I.e. You feel better about yourself when you think you're special to her and she's a princess. However, reality is showing you that you are just a dude that likes sex banging a girl that likes sex and the illusion is removed. Create your v… | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 05:14 AM |
| 13 | Has anyone had TRP just click suddenly ? A book did it for me.Reading the 37 rules to getting laid like a warlord change everything for me. Realizing that women testing my frame was a gift and a challenge rather than rejection and disinterest changed my dates from maybe a kiss to not finishing our first drink and them begging me to go back to my place. It allowed me to drown out the surface conversation and speak the underlying language of attraction not being a choice. Changed my life tbh. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Confused on initiating or letting them textThx man (and the guy above too), you both put it into perspective for me. I still have cookie cutter plays while trying to finding my vibe in this new territory. I just texted her and I'm heading to her place this evening for some fun! | /r/askTRP | 23/11/19 07:43 PM |
| 27 | How to have the abundance mentality when you don't get girls in abundance?I have my fair share of issues with all this but "That may lead to same result" is you being a bitch and not trying. You're getting your bitch prize for being weak. Lift weights and talk to women irl and get paid | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 07:05 AM |
| 2 | Messing up when going for follow up meetCool man! I've been getting recent success since diving into TRP but have yet to get the repeat volume under my belt to feel the 2-3 week cycle that you mention. I'll be patient and see if I have a similar sequencing as you. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Did I play this text game wrong?Thx for the break down! I was putting it into #3 but now that I reread it I can see the #2 in my approach and have had this happening to me with several girls after having sex with them. They covertly and successfully crack my frame after sex because I think I have them on lock and lower my guard. It's a tough game but I'm learning day by day. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 05:47 AM |
| 2 | Did I play this text game wrong?true! thx for the answer. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 04:23 AM |
| 1 | First date drink+bang, now she asks about activitiesWhat would you go for? I'm leaning for a "If I can't even say movie without you thinking about my netflix account, it doesn't matter where we go. I'm making dinner at 6 tmrw, you bring the wine. If you behave, maybe I'll watch a movie with you." Still there is the "I'm busy tmrw" retort that I don't like. lmk what you think. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 07:29 AM |
| 1 | First date drink+bang, now she asks about activitiesThx man! This is what I wanted to see. I could smell the "shit test" but am still rather new at this. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 07:06 AM |
| 1 | First date drink+bang, now she asks about activitiesThe thing Is I often get a "leave it". Like my results for this one, posted above. My frame is just fine and that's why I get quick lays but I am still learning and failing at converting a lot. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 06:22 AM |
| 3 | Frame test or insulted? What's my move RP veterans? Also, New to RP + a little background.You speak the truth I didn't want to stomach. Thx for the reply. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/19 08:39 AM |
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