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Red Pill TheoryReverendDexter/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 05:54 PM
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Dreads, nose rings (studs are iffy), wearing shoes that they complain about how uncomfortable they are, that glassy-eyed about to puke drunk look.
/r/seduction21/12/14 05:20 AM
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Better yet, it got best-of'd.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 12:37 AM
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"We're not having sex tonight" "Okay, I don't want to do anything you're not comfortable with. I had fun tonight; I'll text you later." {put clothes back on; exit stage right}
/r/seduction12/11/14 12:12 AM
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Just spitballin' here, but I'd say it's that in a crisis we allow ourselves to treat the event as special, we put ourselves in the mindset of dealing with the event ("just get it done"), we accept that there are "best" decisions in the moment that might end up wrong, and we allow ourselves to dedicate time and resources to recuperating afterwards. The day to day grind doesn't have any of that. You may even have feel peer/social pressure to specifically not gear yourself properly for dealing with…
/r/seduction29/09/14 06:38 PM
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Keep in mind college is where most people start to figure out who they really are separate from their parents and clique, what they like that's not just what's accepted by their "friends", and have the first inkling of a clue about life that doesn't involve going to school. You're very unlikely to find any girls in high school than have any of that figured out. Take advantage of those teenage growth hormones and get/stay fit. Work on your own passions. Have some shallow fun and don't expect to m…
/r/seduction16/09/14 10:15 PM
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You're being outcome dependent. Knock it off. Have a few drinks and see where the night takes you.
/r/seduction09/09/14 02:43 PM
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I don't think 4chan is part of the problem. The fact that 4chan is gets such a reaction is very telling; you don't react to things you don't perceive as a threat, and you don't find your beliefs threatened if you have what you feel is compelling evidence and/or logic to support them.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 09:38 PM
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/r/wicked_edge - Learn to shave like a man.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 06:42 AM
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There's not really enough information to give any sort of real answer to this, but you have a number of places to possibly tell them. You could do it in your Tinder blurb. This wastes the least amount of time; any girl that's not okay with it won't even swipe right in the first place. You could do it in your initial messages. Seems a bit odd, if you're going to be that up front with it it seems like you should just put it in your blurb. You could do it when you first meet in person. "Hey, just s…
/r/seduction12/08/14 10:38 PM
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What my point is what does that muscle do besides become a fashion of just some eye candy for a chick? Stop liking what I don't like! People lift for different reasons. There's nothing wrong with the pure pursuit of being swole.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 09:45 PM
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Fly solo. Or get better friends that recognize how awesome you are and don't think better of a stranger than you.
/r/seduction29/07/14 06:38 PM
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This guy LITERALLY says cockblocking is rape prevention. What in the absolute zero fuck?
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 06:54 PM
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Not OP, but divorced. do you recommend marriage in hindsight? No. At least not for the reasons I got married, which were along the lines of "because that's what I think I'm supposed to do given our situation". I might still be blinded a bit by societal norms, but I do believe that marriage is worth it for some couples, just not anywhere near the volume of couples that actually do get married. I do want a family Why? I thought I wanted that, too, and I would never give up kids/dogs/etc now that I…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 04:46 PM
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This isn't new by any means. Thor was female in the EarthX/UniverseX/ParadiseX series. I believe it may even be directly tied to the actual mythology, where Odin, possibly tricked by Loki, turns Thor into a woman to teach him some lesson. I'm also not seeing how this is a feminist grab. A fictional character now has a fictional vagina instead of a fictional penis.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 08:56 PM
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Just because you own a Ferrari doesn't mean you actually know how to drive it.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 10:12 PM
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Sounds like bragplaining. "Oh, I went out with 98 guys in 3 months that each would take me to a fancy restaurant and then try to woo me with their riches and powerful connections; dating is so turrible I don't know why anyone does it! I just magically have wonderful fulfilling relationships that appear out of nowhere, why doesn't everyone just do that?"
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 03:53 PM
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Don't know how you paid zero, just in filing fees and some very basic paralegal work for a completely amicable split, we spent somewhere between $1500 and $2k. Thanks, California.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 04:57 PM
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3) had rented out a room to me That^ doesn't make sense when combined with this: as long as she didn't drink, or go to the bars, and to look for work (with my help of course), etc. that I would not sue her Why in the fuck do you care that the person renting you a room drinks or goes to bars?
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 07:03 PM
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Real gangsta-ass niggas don't flex nuts, 'cause real gangsta-ass niggas know they got 'em
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 05:26 PM
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"Hi, my name's mickelo13. I just wanted to talk to you because I (thought you were attractive | was stoked to see someone wearing a zelda shirt | would kick myself all day if I didn't talk to a cute girl | et cetera). Whatever's after the 'because' doesn't really matter. There was some study that I'm feeling too lazy to look up that basically showed that people don't care why there's a reason just that there is one. And to sound genuine, be genuine. Take the truth, give it a quick spit-polish, a…
/r/seduction29/05/14 05:20 PM
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And baseball... I'm deep in "Giants territory". After they won the world series three years ago or so you couldn't spit without hitting orange and black. I don't care one bit for baseball, but it makes me want to be an A's fan sheerly out of spite.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 10:08 PM
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I've never found it necessary. It helps that I'm a gearhead, though, as instead I can talk about cars.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 09:34 PM
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There's two things. There's what you need to say, and there's what she needs to hear. You need to talk to someone else first, either a close friend or a therapist, about your resentment. Figure out exactly where it comes from, and why you allowed those events to happen in the first place. Get control of yourself and your own feelings. Once you have that, then you can talk to your wife. Sit her down and communicate what you're feeling, why you're feeling it, and what you are going to do about it.…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 10:21 PM
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I disagree with this completely. Red pill isn't going out and cheating. Red pill is having the frame from the get-go to not be in an exclusive relationship if that's not what you want, or to open your exclusive relationship when you realize that that's no longer what you want. Cheating is breaking the rules of your relationship; rules that, if you don't agree to, you should change. When you cheat, you're putting yourself in a position where you're showing that your worth is so low that you have …
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 07:42 PM
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On top of that, it has a high minimum investment of time. Unless you're classy enough to take a lady to fast food, you're looking at an hour before either of you can bail. That's what's great about coffee; minimum investment is about ten minutes.
/r/seduction14/05/14 06:16 AM
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The core flaw I see is an incapability to find a woman would agree to live under this arrangement while in an exclusive committed relationship. You might find poly women who are more than happy to have their own space, but a monogamous one? I just don't see it happenening.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 10:51 PM
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sometimes it's called "common law marriage"
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 10:44 PM
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It's not immature or needy to have a high sex drive. If your current is turned off by the idea of you coming on to her, that sounds to me like a problem. You should be able to find someone (or some more-than-ones) that match your drive. Don't minimize your own happiness due to your ideas of others' perceptions.
/r/seduction17/04/14 04:13 PM
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Probably not just you, but that definitely doesn't work for me. I do much better in person.
/r/seduction17/04/14 05:57 AM
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If you have it, you're not desperate for it. Desperation is a huge turn-off.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 05:34 PM
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I look at that high of mileage on a car that's <10 years old as a good thing. It almost certainly means they're mostly highway miles, which are way easier on a car. Congrats on getting the smile, man. I know how much of a confidence boost that can be.
/r/seduction16/04/14 05:14 PM
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Unfortunately I had a time-sensitive mission to go meet a guy who was selling his 2005 Subaru Impreza WRX (sorry guys, but that is way more important than day game) Agreed. Did you buy the WRX?
/r/seduction16/04/14 05:01 PM
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I don't interpret it that way. To me it just means that no matter how attractive she is to you, she's still human. She still makes bad decisions, does gross things, has opinions that you disagree with, etc. She might still be an awesome person, but she's not some perfect angel.
/r/seduction09/04/14 03:40 PM
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I've always heard that one as "No matter how hot she is, somewhere there's some guy that's sick of her shit."
/r/seduction08/04/14 10:37 PM
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"The reasonable man adapts himself to the conditions that surround him... The unreasonable man adapts surrounding conditions to himself... All progress depends on the unreasonable man." "People are always blaming their circumstances for what they are. I don't believe in circumstances. The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and if they can't find them, make them." Both by George Bernard Shaw. I just found the second one today lookin…
/r/seduction08/04/14 10:15 PM
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I would think that it's more similar than different. Your market is different, but you're still taking personal responsibility for your self. You're still going to do what you can to make yourself the best version of you that you can be. You're still framing yourself as important and someone that should be respected. You're still accepting that within that market there are certain things you can do to increase you SMV and make yourself more attractive to potential partners. You're still viewing …
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 04:37 PM
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It know it's become trite to say, but today really is the first day of the rest of your life. You don't have to keep doing things just because they're what past you did. Take a step back, figure out what you do and don't want, and keep those things in mind with even your most mundane tasks. People talk about being a "loser" but no one ever talks about when you're losing; you lose every time you make that little decision that steers you away from your goal. You lose when you eat that extra cookie…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 03:22 PM
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That's why you need to practice and make it natural.
/r/seduction02/04/14 02:16 AM
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You can make anything creepy. All you're doing here is smiling at people. The intention is just to be personable and maybe make them feel a little bit better (don't you feel better when someone smiles at you?).
/r/seduction02/04/14 01:29 AM
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I agree with what you say about there certainly being a subset of female comics that subsist purely on saying things that are shocking coming from a woman (echoes of "Tits or GTFO"). That said, do you consider Kathleen Madigan to be male-derivative humor? What about Iliza Shlesinger? Or Maria Bamford?
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 03:47 PM
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No matter how hot you think she is, somewhere there's some guy that's sick of her shit. What's your goal in all this behavior? Do you just want to look cool? Stop it. You either look cool or you don't, and actively trying to look cool plants you firmly in the latter. Are you trying to talk to her? You're not going have that happen by just making eye contact and expecting her to come hither. The easiest way to fix this is to stop doing it exclusively for pretty girls. Make eye contact with everyo…
/r/seduction31/03/14 03:20 PM
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I've got dance frame like a mofo; I used to teach ballroom ;) It's my other frame I'm working on. I think that might be part of my issue though; I dance "properly", so it throws me off a bit when they don't respond to my lead "properly".
/r/seduction26/03/14 04:00 PM
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The foxtrot was developed by a guy who had a mad limp. You can make it work if you want to.
/r/seduction26/03/14 05:11 AM
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Alright, looks like a blend of salsa, merengue, and foxtrot done in a 2-hand hold. That's a cakewalk, assuming the girl can follow worth a damn... which is the dealbreaker 'cause around here, random girls usually can't follow to save their life.
/r/seduction26/03/14 05:09 AM
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Doesn't matter what they mean, it matters what you want. Are you interested enough in her as a person to hang out with her, listen to her problems, all while she's knockin' boots with someone else? Sometimes that answer is yes, in which case by all means stay friends. Elsewise just keep doing what you do.
/r/seduction26/03/14 05:02 AM
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What I'm reading is that you're feeling this girl is the one and only girl in the universe ("finally found a girl you really like"), and it's crushing you that even though she's displayed interest, she's not treating you the same way. You talk about losing the upper hand, and IMO, you already lost it because you've blinded yourself to any other women. You can't come into this with the idea that she's the only one, because it will wreck you when she's not. You gotta cool your jets, man. She's bus…
/r/seduction26/03/14 04:57 AM
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Take your weakness and find a way to make it a strength. I have zero experience with stuttering, so I'm just spitballing here. If you're not overly sensitive about it, find some way to make it humorous. Build a some routines around it. Write something pithy on a post-it that you keep in your pocket, and when you start stuttering pull the note out. Pick up just enough mime and/or sign language to use body language/physical comedy when it happens. Maybe none of those work for you, but you should b…
/r/seduction25/03/14 06:22 AM
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You're driving down the road and you've got a quarter tank of gas. You're interested in filling up your tank, but you don't care if you miss this gas station up on the left because you know there's another one up the street (and another... and another...). Now, I'm not saying hooking up is filling your gas tank or that women are gas stations, this is just to illustrate the frame of mind around those two ideas and how they're not conflicting.
/r/seduction25/03/14 06:14 AM
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I don't really think "ignore" has the right semantics. The idea is don't be at their beck and call; you respond as is convenient for you. Sometimes that's an immediate response, sometimes that's not for a few hours (or maybe not even until the next day). You're busy being awesome, right? That means sometimes (often, even) you're not paying attention to your phone for a while.
/r/seduction25/03/14 06:08 AM
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The trick is having a longer term view of happiness. I think there was a cousin comment that talked about this, but satisfying an ephemeral want might give you a pittance of happiness now, where denying yourself that small bit of momentary happiness gives you greater joy later on. I view myself in terms of three people. Present me, past me, and future me. Past me wasn't always a tight bro to present me, so I try to learn from his actions and set up awesome things for future me. When past me does…
/r/seduction23/03/14 06:35 AM
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It's not if it's preventing you from getting what you want and you're ultimately unhappy because of it.
/r/seduction23/03/14 12:19 AM
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I think that's perfectly valid. Ultimately I think the right action depends on the girl in question and there's no blanket answer for all women.
/r/seduction20/03/14 05:57 PM
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I think it's a lot easier for most guys (especially those of us to to the game) to over-text rather than under-text. Blowing up her phone is annoying, and could come across desperate or even creepy. By not texting it builds intrigue. "Why isn't he texting me back? Is he busy being awesome? Does he not care about me? Why wouldn't he care about me? I HAVE TO KNOW WHY!" By all means, if your personal experience is elsewise, then go with what works for you. There's certainly more than one path to th…
/r/seduction20/03/14 05:43 PM
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Go in with an outcome independent attitude. You're there to have fun and be entertained no matter what happens. If you become outcome dependent, that is to say that your happiness depends on some predetermined outcome of the evening, it's already a non-starter.
/r/seduction20/03/14 05:02 PM
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whether it might make a girl avoid me based on that fact? If she does, it just means you get to move on that much quicker. What would happen if you got more seriously involved with that type of girl under the pretense of being kid-less and then she found out you were a dad?
/r/seduction20/03/14 04:59 PM
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I just screwed up recently with this. I met a girl out at the bars, it went really well that night, she was texting me a bunch until we went out again, but then on that second date I just sort of shut down because I didn't want to ruin this image I thought I'd made of this single/unnattached guy. I should've just been up front about my kid and used my being a dad as a shibboleth rather than trying to hide it like some albatross.
/r/seduction20/03/14 04:55 PM
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I'd just caution that you don't use this as a sour-grapes excuse to bullshit yourself into not pursuing a girl you are interested in.
/r/seduction20/03/14 04:50 PM
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My recommendation is to keep it to an absolute minimum. Maybe one mid-week confirmation of your plans. Elsewise, let her text you.
/r/seduction20/03/14 04:46 PM
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Now every time I try to talk to someone I'm attracted to, I keep over thinking things and trying to find the right words to impress her. I feel that I'm trying too hard and she can see that. Instead of initiating a conversation with a goal of impressing her, initiate it with the goal of learning about her.
/r/seduction17/03/14 05:26 AM
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You need to take her out on fun dates that don't cost anything (or very little) but time. Go for a walk, preferably someplace pretty like a beach or a forest. Cook her an amazing meal at home (vegetarian in particular can be very cheap to make). Find some critical-to-you-movie she's never watched and make her come watch it. Be creative and you can engineer time together that you'll both enjoy that shouldn't involve a huge outlay of cash.
/r/seduction17/03/14 05:21 AM
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Groups are always judged by their most vocal minority, and TRP ideals, on the surface, do attract a number of truly misogynistic assholes. So, no, I don't think the majority of us are "that bad". I just shrug off the comments I see elsewhere, knowing that they're based on ignorance and hearsay.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 11:41 PM
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I think this depends on your definition of the word "fashion". Much how "diet" can mean either a short-term change in how you eat or the type of food you consume overall, "fashion" can either mean the current trends or the general types of clothes you wear. You certainly don't need to care about "fashion" in the trendy sense, but you most certainly should pay attention to fashion in the "how clothes look on you" sense. Wearing clothes that fit correctly and compliment your body most certainly im…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 12:21 AM
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In regards to diet, you're much better getting your nutrients from food than supplements. More info
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 10:52 PM
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When used as just "RP" it's an adjective to describe red pill like behaviors.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 05:36 PM
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If she asks the classic gold digger question "What do you do?". Say something like I do charity work to help disadvantaged children it doesn't pay well but is really fulfilling. I agree with everything you said except this. Don't sink to lying. I'd just say "I work in the medical field" and let them assume that because you didn't specify that you're a doctor that you must not be.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 05:33 PM
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RP = red pill
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 05:30 PM
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I take solace in that she'll never breed.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 12:03 AM
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