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| 433 | How Tinder facilitates SMV/RMV price discovery, or Why "No Hookups" is the funniest, most common phrase on Tinder | Revo_Luzione | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 03:48 AM | |
| 260 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s. | Field Report | Revo_Luzione | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/17 05:59 PM |
| 62 | What to do with one's romantic inclinations? Be the emotional rollercoaster. Be wild, unpredictable, | Red Pill Theory | Revo_Luzione | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 06:06 AM |
| 44 | Adult women who baby-talk: experiences, theories, cautions, and what do to about it (if anything). | Red Pill Theory | Revo_Luzione | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/15 05:14 AM |
| 29 | RP confirmed by Google Search Data correlated to infant birth and death rate | Science | Revo_Luzione | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/18 05:20 AM |
| 9 | Rural areas just outside big cities--stragegems, and perspective: | Revo_Luzione | /r/askTRP | 16/02/15 09:30 PM |
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| 1 | Don't Get Cucked By CuckservativesI chortled at the jokes. Note: it's the Neoconservatives that are for more wars. Solid take otherwise. A more strategic commentator than I might note with ironic joy that NoFap is in a way, a TradCon concept--they were the original NoFappers. A bit beside the point. Best strategy along these lines, IMO, comes from @BronzeAgeMantis--keep a low profile, get rich, do you. Succeed grandly, then influence the narrative from a place of F-U money. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/18 10:36 PM |
| 1 | I have a face people stereotype as intelligent no matter how hard I work out, what do?You can change your facial shape somewhat through your tooth and jaw structure. Dr. Mike Mews presented at the 21 convention a few years back, and talked about how you can make your jawline stronger & more prominent by exercising your jaw muscles. He showed before & after photos and presented research. The video was on youtube. According to Dr. Mews, by chewing big wads of gum & exercising all the jaw & tongue muscles, you can strengthen your jaw line & develop your facial muscles. A more extrem… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 07:42 PM |
| 2 | It seems like some of you have fucked dozens of women. Just how jacked/rich are you?Great use of stats to paint a real world picture. Pay attention, this stuff is key. You're seeing the best of the best at the gym. Don't compare yourself with them, but with your former self. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 07:32 PM |
| 3 | How to improve public speaking/ ability to speak in front of people ?Practice in front of a mirror, and/or video yourself. Visualize yourself speaking smoothly. Read a few books on vocal power. A book called "Change your voice, change your life" really helped me. In front of big groups, when nerves are natural, focus on your breath control, your annunciation, and your facial expression, and don't worry too much about the group at first. It'll become more natural over time, with more experience. For what it's worth, I've been public speaking since high school, and… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 07:29 PM |
| 11 | How the fuck do you do all this shit?Pick your top priority, and focus on that for 90 days minimum. 6 months is probably better. Don't try to do it all at once--prioritizing is a necessity. For you, I would guess that it's your health--being out of shape and injured will put a damper on everything. Once you're fit, jacked, and healthy, you'll have plenty of energy and confidence to tackle the other tasks. Your priorities may differ, but consider how important basic health, energy, and confidence are. Getting a solid foundation heal… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Alpha widowing in action. I wouldn't believe it if I didn't hear it from the horse's mouthBad case of AW, for sure. I've seen a few bad cases, this is up there. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/18 04:51 AM |
| 14 | Raising a glass to a fallen brotherThe guy was broken. Word is, he was divorced or in the process of getting one. We cannot rule out cripping one-itis. God knows that kind of destruction caused me to find the red pill. In his state of brokenness he mustered the pure courage to create one final act of beauty. His final act of courage took less than an hour, and ended, as he said, going nose down & calling it a night. His example is that he put his life on the line for an act of courage that ended up creating an iconic event. The t… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/18 03:31 AM |
| 2 | Solipsism- AKA, the Blue-Pill, Sexual Success and SocietyWomen can't be "red-pilled" and therefore neither "blue-pilled", by the very nature of being solipsistic. RP is men's sexual strategy. A woman is said to be "red-pilled" when she's consciously aware of both male and female sexual strategy. There are a few out there. I'm not sure it makes them inherently more valuable as a partner, but a all things being equal, a sexy feminine woman who is aware is probably going to be less of a headache in the long term than one who is not only unaware, but resi… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/18 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Solipsism- AKA, the Blue-Pill, Sexual Success and SocietyWomen, also, are blue-pilled like never before. Their solipsism translates directly into how they attract men and bear children. They find the masculine attractive, so they become more masculine in appearance. They dress like men, have short hair like men, behave like men, because that is what they find attractive in men. There's a scientific name for this: the attribution bias. Individuals tend to think that other people think & feel the same as one's self. Thus women think men are attracted to… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/18 06:49 PM |
| 4 | The "Real" Red Pill: If we're not getting them pregnant, is sex just a fancy way to jerk off? Existential crisisgiven the current world population... not reproducing is a revolutionary act. Yes, but if you're an intelligent person with good genes for physical and mental health, the 'revolution' you're speaking of is leading to idiocracy. A literal dumb revolution. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/18 03:58 PM |
| 2 | The "Real" Red Pill: If we're not getting them pregnant, is sex just a fancy way to jerk off? Existential crisisTheir Venn diagrams overlap. One must have sex to impregnate, thus sexual strategy is a part of impregnation strategy, if one desires to do so. People have sex for many reasons, impregnation is one of them. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/18 03:52 PM |
| 9 | The "Real" Red Pill: If we're not getting them pregnant, is sex just a fancy way to jerk off? Existential crisisGreat post, this is a topic I've been thinking about a lot. I agree with what OP is saying here. I've been in the game for a decade, and went from wicked one-itis to having sex every week for years on end, often with different women. Spinning plates, soft harems mixed with longer relationships, sometimes overlapping the two. What I've noticed: I look at fathers with kids, the ones in good relationships with healthy sexual dynamics, and see that as a desirable end state. I look at my father, who … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/18 10:20 PM |
| 4 | Blue Pill TraumaI lol'ed. And WTF would people downvote your post? Fuggin' bitch-made Bourdain fans are butthurt? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/18 04:39 AM |
| 6 | Blue Pill TraumaMaybe. If so, it's sad for him. What he really needs is a strong dose of consistent iron therapy, and a bolus dose of red pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/18 04:37 AM |
| 6 | Blue Pill TraumaSame. At first thought the chick texting was the dude, and was expecting the story to be about the cold, calloused mean man who broke up with the poor woman. Plot twist indeed. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/18 04:36 AM |
| 1 | At the Longwinding End of the Cock Carousel>Sex is like parachuting. Women forced to sex don't enjoy sex anymore. This isn't true always. It may not be true often. The psychological science literature describes hypersexuality as a common response to sexual trauma. Numerous therapists & counsellors have said or written the same thing. Damaged people tend to replay or relive the circumstances of their trauma. It's likely an attempt to deal with the trauma, but it mostly fails to work, because it's not taking place in a therapeutic context … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/18 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Statistical Proof: 20% of Men Dominate 60% of the Sexual MarketBest of luck to you. Remember to practice and apply what you've learned. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/18 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Statistical Proof: 20% of Men Dominate 60% of the Sexual MarketWere you always able to pull this off? Are you a natural chad? Definitely not a natural chad. I'm a natural introvert, and can tend to overthink things. I had intermittent and often situational success in my early life, but rarely with the attractive girls I really like. Worse still I had numerous bouts with wicked one-itis. After a particularly difficult breakup, I discovered game & RP philosophy. After internalizing & working at it, my success went way up, though I still have challenges. I was… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/18 04:35 PM |
| 12 | Statistical Proof: 20% of Men Dominate 60% of the Sexual MarketChad is a state of mind. Swole helps, but confidence trumps all. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/18 05:05 AM |
| 2 | Statistical Proof: 20% of Men Dominate 60% of the Sexual MarketReal world example: You bed 11 women in 4 years. Averages 2.75 per year. Close enough. These are averages of a large number of people, everybody's individual average will be different. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/18 05:05 AM |
| 14 | Statistical Proof: 20% of Men Dominate 60% of the Sexual MarketYeah, the answer is 60% not 80%. Fuggin' incels can't math. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/18 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Get comfortable with being uncomfortableThen train all your other body parts. Do rehab, get your core strong and flexible as you can. Find a really good, I mean rock star quality physical therapist or functional strength oriented chiro. Look into all the therapies out there for your injury, like traction tables, etc. I have an congenital L5 S1 issue, it will make my feet go numb if I sit too long. I stretch it every day, and I can squat & deadlift heavy as long as I focus on core strength and flexibility. YMMV, see a top notch profess… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/18 02:09 AM |
| 20 | Statistical Proof: 20% of Men Dominate 60% of the Sexual MarketIt's an anonymous survey. No need to lie, and no incentive not to. Sure, some still will, but the data is collected from mass groups. In 2014, it was 60,000 people. The laws of large numbers tells us these are pretty reliable numbers, even if, as OP stated, women tend to lie down (no pun intended, bada bing), and men tend to lie up, when it comes to number of sexual encounters. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/18 11:47 PM |
| 14 | Statistical Proof: 20% of Men Dominate 60% of the Sexual MarketShit... that is hard to read Anger/denial phase. Once you've reached full acceptance, it won't phase you. Having hooked up with 3 (I think) married broads, and plenty more with BF's whilst still in my own anger phase unequivocally shows how the SMP really works. I know two of the three wives were in dead bedroom marriages. Better to be Chad than the cuck. Wouldn't do it again today, my prospects are abundant so need to poach or cut another guy's water, but man were those experiences instructive.… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/18 11:38 PM |
| 46 | Statistical Proof: 20% of Men Dominate 60% of the Sexual MarketDon't ever feel guilty for having success. Don't be less than who you are, or are capable of, to make someone else feel good about themselves. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/18 11:32 PM |
| 33 | Statistical Proof: 20% of Men Dominate 60% of the Sexual MarketYeah, the cognitive dissonance in that article is astounding. Blue-pill normies will twist their brain in knots trying to justify their unicorn beliefs, even when the evidence stares them in the face. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/18 11:31 PM |
| 34 | Statistical Proof: 20% of Men Dominate 60% of the Sexual MarketNah, those other 8% would if they could. They're the omega females. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/18 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Is TRP enough?See them as humans who are making the best decisions with the roadmap of reality that they have. Have compassion for them, because a lot of them are fucking up their lives by riding the cock carousel, taking drugs, acting bitchy, student debt, etc, etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/18 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Is TRP enough?Definitely, society has changed, some for the better, but a lot for the worse. There is both more opportunity for success in all areas, and more pitfalls. People do have more ego, more emotional armoring, and are more distracted. But people are still people, with the same evolutionary drives and human needs as we've always had. Women still want boyfriends, still want to fuck, still want a masculine man. We just have to figure out how to best deliver our value in this new environment. It's not ea… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/18 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Is TRP enough?I think what he's trying to say is, lifting and all the other stuff don't automatically guarantee results. Results come from a lot of failure--and not just mindless failure, but failure that leads to analysis, shifts in mindset and calibration, meaningful change, more experimental action, observing results, and repeating the cycle. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/18 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Is TRP enough?Harsh truth here: You may think your SMV has increased, but your results speak for themselves. Not trying to throw shade, but SMV is an objective thing, based on your results. Clearly you're still in the anger phase. There's a lot of bitterness in your words. It seems you dislike, maybe even hate women. In order to succeed, it really helps to drop that, and see women as the flawed, insecure humans that they are. Most of that Instagram ego is simply an insecure woman's way of attempting to fill i… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/18 11:23 PM |
| 5 | Height-related Red Pills from a Short ManWomen are terrible at estimating height, or dick length for that matter. All sorts of thing affect a woman's perception of height. Your clothes, how jacked you are, and most importantly, how confident you are. Bottom line: abundance mindset conquers all of this and more. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/18 07:00 PM |
| 3 | Height-related Red Pills from a Short Man"Everyone is the same height when we're horizontal." Or some variation. Or pressure flip, if she's a tall girl: "Your height and long neck makes you look like a giraffe. Giraffes are so cute! You can reach the top shelf items for me in the kitchen." etc, etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/18 06:53 PM |
| 8 | Height-related Red Pills from a Short ManThere's a great book out there, "Change your voice, change your life." It's helped me a ton. It has a ton of exercises and practices. I do some public speaking as a part of my profession, and it's payed dividends there. Even better, I can now speak for two days in a row, a full 8 hour a day weekend seminar, plus socializing before and after, and never get hoarse. Before the book, I would get a sore throat & have to take a day off of all speaking to recover. Best part: My voice is deep and sonoro… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/18 06:38 PM |
| 4 | Checking her phone, an alternative view on protecting your investmentThey typically feel guilty for getting caught, at least for non-psychopathic women, for minor offenses. Bigger offenses may generate guilt even if they're not caught. I've known some very promiscuous, narcissistic women who still have some conscientousness around morality. The most LTR-worthy women actively seek to generate trust in the relationship and voluntarily communicate the things that could be potential relationship hazards. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/18 04:45 AM |
| 21 | Checking her phone, an alternative view on protecting your investmentI have a key logger on my Lap top and eventually they need to use it for something they can’t do on their phone. Then I have their iCloud login and can see whatever you want to see at anytime. This is an interesting strategy, one I've considered but not pursued, for several reasons, namely the following: Two-factor authentication, now pretty standard, means that she'll get a notification on her phone for a new login attempt. Yes, this can be disabled with access to the phone. This also may gener… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/18 04:44 AM |
| 14 | Checking her phone, an alternative view on protecting your investmentI've been on both sides of this debate. With both of my recent LTRs, both wanted to generate trust and both voluntarily gave me, without asking, their phone and computer passcodes. With one, who was trustworthy and had deep one-itis for me, I never felt compelled to check her phone. It was obvious she was devotedly in love with me, so I never had issues. She was and is a great woman, and to this day is still a great friend, even though we knew we weren't cut out for each other long term. With th… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/18 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Cynical ImplementationChillax, bro, I wasn't trying to throw shade on anyone. Lots, probably most readers are at least a few standard devs above the mean. OP's post was aimed at guys who don't speak "basic." Basic implies median IQ or lower culture. So the post implies that this concept is for men who have trouble relating to those people. Are you autismo the socially inept robot? Will you be 'experimenting' with variations of the fedora tip? The magic mirror of projection at work once again. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/18 11:13 PM |
| 11 | Cynical ImplementationThis is a great post. Subtle, cuttingly funny, and no doubt effective. Is cynical implementation in the night club instance for me? Probably not, but I might play with it when out one nigh for fun. It's so simple, it's hard not to want to experiment. Night Club Guy can talk to basic bitches without feeling resentment and feel good in a basic environment, because Night Club Guy is a basic bro who speaks lives and breathes basic. It's often not worth the brain damage for a high IQ man to attempt t… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/18 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Catholicism vs. Biological Instinctual HardwiringIf Catholicism were so important to fuel renaissance and other societal upheavals then why is it that countries without Catholicism are moving forward at an incredible pace? Conditions change. Time moves forward, culture and people evolve. In Europe, catholic countries are at both ends of the spectrum--extreme growth, and extreme stagnation. Poland and Hungary vs Spain and Portugal, respectively. So it's not about the religion, but the culture and politicis. I'm not shilling for catholicism in i… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/18 05:46 PM |
| 17 | Reminder: The biggest part of 'Relationship Management' is choosing the right woman.Once you learn how to handle a very difficult woman the more submissive ones are cake. Good advice. Maintaining frame with a difficult, domineering woman is indeed akin to a mental-emotional jijitsu match. Ideally, it is your unshakable frame that blows up the relationship when it inevitably detonates. Most of these difficult and domineering women will never submit to a man. She taps out when you force her to withdraw on your terms, while you maintain frame. This is excellent training in maintai… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/18 05:00 PM |
| 3 | Reminder: The biggest part of 'Relationship Management' is choosing the right woman.I'm to the point where I don't want to waste my time with thots and feminists (but I repeat myself) unless I'm in a dry spell. Even then, the answer is approach more, and continue to screen hard & qualify. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/18 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Catholicism vs. Biological Instinctual HardwiringChristianity, and catholicism worked incredibly well to build western civilization as we know it. Yes, it was a tool used by the elites, first the Romans, then others, to corral the masses. It worked because it put a check on both female hypergamy and male polygyny. It spread out sexual options. It incentivized men and created incentives for civil behavior and cooperation. Of course it has its flaws, all ideologies do. It became corrupt, as all or almost all large organizations do over time. The… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/18 02:25 AM |
| 2 | RP confirmed by Google Search Data correlated to infant birth and death rateCorrelations have meaning if we can find it, but sometimes it's elusive, or the correlation is meaningless. Thinking creatively, sometimes correlative links can be seen. Sometimes correlations are simply cultural indicators: the led zep listening crowd, at least in some states, are having fewer babies. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/18 11:45 PM |
| 3 | RP confirmed by Google Search Data correlated to infant birth and death ratewhat would be the best strategy for "Begone, Thot" I'm assuming you mean when a plate reveals herself to be Thot Level 12, and you want her out of your life. I favor the gradual fade. It seems to produce less angry feelings than a quick cut-off, or worse, ghosting. Fewer calls, longer to return communications, make fewer plans to hang out, break some at the last minute. Excuses, lots of them. If/when she calls you out on it, take a thoughtful moment to think, and say something like "you're reall… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/18 11:44 PM |
| 7 | RP confirmed by Google Search Data correlated to infant birth and death rateYeah, elephant in the room for sure. I'd for sure avoid that topic like the plague in almost all social settings. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/18 11:32 PM |
| 6 | RP confirmed by Google Search Data correlated to infant birth and death rateGender isn’t taken into acccount into this experiment, so despite how convienent it is for us. We can’t actually draw conclusions on how women act from it. For all we know it’s a bunch of cats on keyboards. Predictably spergalicious comment. Yeah, cats on keyboards, genius. EDIT: Also, they only used 1000 randomly selected samples per geographic region(state), doesn't fly with me. Next time, try reading for comprehension rather than to take down an argument you don't understand. The study used 1… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/18 04:24 PM |
| 7 | RP confirmed by Google Search Data correlated to infant birth and death rateWhat does that have to do with anything? Causation was never mentioned nor implied. Edit: In the TL;DR I was being humorously overdramatic. Sue me. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/18 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Stuff has ChangedHaha, that's epic. Fuck. Academia is so screwed up. So many studies in the social sciences can't be replicated. This one could clearly get replicated by eating a burrito & waiting for it to exit the gut canal. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/18 02:08 AM |
| 15 | Stuff has ChangedDo you even read? It was a journalistic summary of an article published in Evolution & Human Behavior, most definitely a peer reviewed journal, and was performed at Brunel university in London. If you want, you could get the full text from sci-hub. I may do so later & post it for grins. Continuing to improve yourself in everyway includes evaluating/scrutinizing your own biefs from time to time to see if they still hold water. It also means new information can change your opinion of a previously … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 10:29 PM |
| 7 | Stuff has Changedfree speech isn't actually important to most of society. Fuck that. It's the reason it's the first amendment to the US constitution. It's foundational for a free society. See: the UK, Tommy Robinson, gag orders, Rotherham grooming gangs, today's news. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 08:48 PM |
| 17 | Stuff has ChangedHere's one, and there are others in the literature if you dig a bit. Note that conservative views also show compassion for minorities and poor people, but see it through a lens of economic empowerment, creating jobs, rather than a handout. See: Candace Owens. The safety net was never intended to be a hammock, to paraphrase Thomas Sowell. https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/weak-men-more-likely-to-be-socialists-study-claims-rsnc3l8mk | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 08:46 PM |
| 13 | Stuff has ChangedPorn is a "supernormal stimulus" from an evolutionary perspective. It creates dopamine highs that are far above what our ancient ancestors would have experienced, which is what makes it addictive and damaging, by rewiring your dopamine circuits to desire an ever-increasing stimuli load. It's a vicious cycle. Further, orgasming to porn as opposed to with a real person does not release the balancing hormonal effects of oxytocin and vasopressin, which mediates the dopamine overload. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 05:33 PM |
| 31 | Stuff has ChangedThis is true, and it's also true that lifting and raising your testosterone will drive men to a more conservative view. There's good studies on this, though the exact mechanisms aren't well understood yet. There's a reason why so many liberals are low T soyboys, and the opposite as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 05:29 PM |
| 5 | Stuff has ChangedWith free speech being so important to the rest of society, it's hard to curtail. However, it's basically prostitution. In porn, women are being paid for sex, and it shouldn't matter that it's a production company that's paying them--it's still sex for money. It would be interesting, and beneficial to society for a red-pilled, ZFG prosecutor to start going after the porn industry as a prostitution racket. A lot of porn stars do sell themselves outside of the film industry, so it would seem like … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Friendzoned After SexQuality comment here. Read u/VasiliyZaitzev, recalibrate your mindset. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/18 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Friendzoned After SexThis is a socially intelligent piece of feedback here. The "sex was too soon" comment is clearly a need for more comfort & closeness on her part. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/18 07:20 PM |
| 1 | To Those Who Haven't Completely Swallowed the PillGenes + childhood nutrition, which is why all of us are the height we are. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/18 12:50 AM |
| 3 | RP reading: The Memoirs of Giacomo CasanovaSolid writing & analysis here. Thank you for your post, this is quality stuff that I'd like to see more of on this forum. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/18 07:52 PM |
| 13 | [Field Report] How I went from 3 matches in a week to 22 matches and an f-close the same day of downloading Tinder. - The Importance of Lifting and Frame.I upvoted just for your handle. The spergadelic science trolling comment is just a bonus. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/18 07:21 PM |
| 3 | 32 more RP and relationship tenets - learned the hard way5) Sex, despite producing pair bonding chemicals is the least trustworthy emotion. Conservative societies had to force restraint and morality down people's throats for a reason. This is true even if you're a sex god. This is a brutal truth, from a guy who's mastered a number of Daoist & Tantric techniques and who routinely is exalted by my lovers. It's a superpower, but doesn' really convey that much advantage in the modern SMP, except with relationship-oriented introverted low-N women. So basic… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/18 06:01 PM |
| 8 | 3 More Sex Tips To Up Your Sex GameOk, I laughed hard at that one. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/18 05:38 AM |
| 16 | More TRP observations/lessons from my best friends sister.Oh, and he’s dead now. "Darwinian de-selection is none of my business." Nonetheless, lessons from beyond the grave on the power of fearlessness. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/18 04:41 AM |
| 9 | More TRP observations/lessons from my best friends sister.I've heard that handsome men sometimes have more challenges because women expect more, and need both more mental/sexual game, as well as more comfort with "hot" guys. Also there's more variability in terms of what women find handsome. Clearly you have a plan, based on your last sentence, so keep after it. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/18 04:39 AM |
| 1 | A Psychology Grad Student's Experience with Vulnerability, Empathy, and AttractionEarly anger phase, incompletely digested red-pill, and suffering from cognitive dissonance based on the clash from thoroughly blue-pill, feminine-primary professional training vs. what his own eyes and RP theory demonstrates. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/18 04:26 AM |
| 3 | A Psychology Grad Student's Experience with Vulnerability, Empathy, and AttractionThis. I went to a graduate program in the health sciences that was at least 70% female. The skewed sex ratio creates a lot of situational alphas that may not even be mid-tier in a program with balanced sex ratios. Nonetheless, I'll cosign on OP's theory of measured vulnerabity. Bottom line is that the OP found a strength, even if it's a situational strength, and is maximizing it for both professional and SMV gain. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/18 04:21 AM |
| 4 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread May 21Let's say that sexual promiscuity exists on a bell curve. Most women, under the right conditions, will fall in that bell curve. Societal expectations form some of the boundaries of the curve, and male sexual value and dominance pushes on those from the opposite direction. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/18 11:46 PM |
| 3 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread May 21If you do some searching in the evolutionary biology/psychology literature, you'll find some academic work on this. I wouldn't say it's "settled science," but as I recall, there's pretty strong evidence of this exact concept. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/18 11:44 PM |
| 2 | The Paradox of Declining Female HappinessThis is why healthy lifestyles are mandatory for truly red-pilled men. Age is no excuse not to maintain and build the body to its highest potential, whether single or partnered. Life is way better at any age when you maintain strength and vigor. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/18 03:01 AM |
| 3 | Only thing women got going on for them are their bodies??Some women only have wet holes, facial symmetry and a decent waist-to hip ratio to offer men. No femininity, grace, or charm to be had. Some women have physical beauty and femininity, and other elusive qualities., They are rare, exceedingly rare. But there are a few. Someone recently said hunting for a truly feminine woman is like hunting for a snow leopard. Few and far between, but they're out there. Until you find that snow leopard worthy of LTR (if that's your goal), stay frosty! | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/18 12:21 AM |
| 2 | The Paradox of Declining Female HappinessThis is an interesting reframe for me. "Spinning plates is good for women." hmmm. gonna marinate on that for a bit. I see the logic, need to get that one deep into the unconscious mind. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/18 12:08 AM |
| 50 | The Paradox of Declining Female HappinessAgree with the advice on not getting caught in the eternal hunt for poon. That is a real potential problem for RP minded men with low time preference. You're absolutely correct that for many, even most men, having a family will provide deep meaning in life in your golden years. A lot of men can't think that far ahead. However, the warning on sperm quality is objectively untrue. Men can have healthy babies into their 80's. Healthy men have healthy sperm. Yeah, if you're a fat fuck who smokes, dri… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/18 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Made a girl cry...Crying is sometimes a genuine signal of emotional distress, sometimes conscious or unconscious manipulation. Either way, this early in the game, she's either: A. really into you B. crazy (those two AM texts batshit text might be a giant sign) C. Hormonal D. some combination of above three only time will tell. Stay alert, look for red flags... next her if you see signs of excessive drama building. Also: read the sidebar. Wanting to be "a good dude" may be part of your downfall. As Jack Donovan sa… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/18 11:54 PM |
| 7 | If you are paying attention to a woman, she is winning.100%, especially if you can qualify her while still being charming. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 02:07 AM |
| 0 | Don’t wait for sex: An Experiment with results I expectedI've been playing around with this idea but flipping the script on this. This concept came to me after reading Shawn T. Smith's book. He's been a guest on the Red Man group show with Rollo Tomassi and Richard Cooper. This seems like a good thread to bring this up, so pardon the potential threadjacking here. If it floats, I'll post it as a standalone. So the idea is, I'm considering a sort of extended edging concept to build up tension & filter out women with non-LTR characteristics. I'm currentl… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 01:59 AM |
| 4 | I Don't Have Time For Womensounds reasonable, and probably lots of hidden costs that are not accounted for. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/18 03:50 AM |
| 4 | I Don't Have Time For WomenThis is an interesting line of reasoning. I've considered that the changes to the SMP wrought by the pill, antibiotics, no-fault divorce, etc, are actually beneficial to the gene pool. After all, these changes unleash hypergamy, whereas with marriage 1.0, aka sexual socialism, genetic quality is not optimized. It may be that unchained hypergamy does increase sexual selection. No doubt about that. The challenge happens because unchained hypergamy damages the "nurture" side of the equation. Look a… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/18 03:49 AM |
| 40 | I Don't Have Time For Womenthots: You make the world a better place Short term, for alphas--yes indeed. Long-term, for society--they are a huge net drag on the system. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/18 12:12 AM |
| 8 | How to go from vanilla sex to kinky - a guide.I see your point and largely agree. Two things to consider: First, Most women arent' worth having a family with. If a guy's already set up to have a family, e.g. successful, stable, and antifragile career & home, then some sexual exploration may not be bad if in low-dose & moderation. But a lot of guys would be better off hammering at career success, rather than chasing pussy, so that he can settle down later & have kids. Maybe not get married though, the state is a bugger. Second, BDSM can crea… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/18 04:59 PM |
| 2 | 47/M two-year transformation storyThanks for your report. This is a very inspirational post, older cats who are on this board, take heed. It's not too late, at any age, to build yourself up & create a life worth living. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/18 12:55 AM |
| -1 | Fucking A Girl Within Hours Of Meeting HerShit vaccine with wicked side effects. There's no proof it works in men. Plus "long tail" side effects. Hell naw. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/18 05:43 AM |
| 3 | Sex parties and sex clubs could be the next level of game: How to think about non-monogamyYep. Most of that scene is Low SMV city, and nasty/unhealthy to boot. There are scattered exceptions, but those are universally, in my experience, private events that are organized/bankrolled by high SMV players in the scene. There is a high attrition, meaning the girls turn over quite a bit. It does attract some hotties, but most are pretty damaged--single moms, lots of substance abuse, etc. It's an interesting approach if one is simply seeking sexual variety and exploration without a lot of st… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/18 02:35 AM |
| 2 | Why do you think ~80% of women today are competing for 20% of the men? What do those men all have in common? What qualities/traits/skills of these 20% are learnable?The top 20% of men who get girls, and especially those who get the hottest girls all have one thing in common: They display overt and easily recognizable (to the female hindbrain) signs of reproductive fitness. Read the sidebar, and recognize that when we talk about "sexual market value," what we're really talking about is reproductive fitness. That is, the attractiveness and quality of women that a man can get in dating, mating, and marriage markets demonstrate his overall genetic quality, whic… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/18 03:56 AM |
| 2 | "Id like to play a game"Some people would rather LARP at having a real LTR, while actually having a quasi-clandestine open relationship. I think it's an unconscious response to the instability of having options. In today's SMP, anybody with decent attractiveness has easy options, and that creates instability. So people hedge their bets. I don't agree with it, but I understand why people do it. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/18 04:42 PM |
| 34 | "Id like to play a game"It should go without saying, but fucking lock your phone & computer with secure passcodes, and change them on the regular. Nonetheless, OP dodged a bullet. Somehow the craziest ones are best in bed, and crazy-good sex is supremely addictive, and he clearly wasn't going to cut off that supply of amazing sex on his own, so this is the best possible outcome. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/18 04:38 PM |
| 2 | PSA - what is a plate ?Cups need saucers, and what are saucers but little plates. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/18 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Don't Get Cucked By ConservativesAgreed. If someone's beliefs and/or genes lead them to want to remove their genes from the gene pool, why would anyone want to stop them? It's like self-deportation, but from the gene pool instead of from the country. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/18 07:35 PM |
| 9 | Don't Get Cucked By ConservativesDon't be a sperg that misses the point..... Projection. Lots of that in your reply post, and plenty of straw-men too--If this strawman, if that strawman. There are plenty of red-pilled men who are moving the needle in the culture wars, shifting hearts & minds. That is shaping history. And this can be done without a lot of money, with nothing more than a phone & laptop, an internet connection, something to say, and the balls to say it, and the social understanding of how to say it that reaches pe… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/18 07:29 PM |
| 65 | Don't Get Cucked By ConservativesYour cynical nihilism is not a red pill crisis. Politics is simply the acquisition of power. It is war by other means. If you do not engage, you're simply surrendering. That's fine, but some of us have more gratitude for those who came before us. My great grandfathers did not survive the Napoleonic wars, fight and beat the Axis powers, simply to get cucked by modern liberals. Fuck that. Have fun getting cucked because you refuse to stand up. At least you're getting your dick wet. Great. You slay… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/18 05:14 PM |
| -4 | What I do when she sends nudesTry sending a compliment followed by a subtle neg. "Nice gams. Why is your left titty smaller than the right?" No body uses "gams" anymore, but I'mma bring it back. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/18 04:08 AM |
| 18 | A Common MistakeI'll cosign to this. 10 years in the game. I have met.. a handful of girls who aren't total sluts. Once you've been around a ton of sluts, you can tell the ones that aren't. It's not hard. More or less, non-sluts are capable of deep bonding, don't have a lot of sexual experience (again you can tell), aren't jaded about love, and don't hate men while simultaneously crave their validation. All of the non-slutty women I've met came from stable, two parent households with at least some religious bac… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/18 06:08 AM |
| 7 | She doesn't want to be happyGreat post. This is why maintaining frame is so important. Maintaining frame allows a man to maintain his composure while creating the conditions of the emotional roller coaster ride that women need in their lives. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/18 05:02 PM |
| 5 | She doesn't want to be happyGood post. This is a very old-school way of thinking. It's fraught with peril, but it's needed for western values to survive. I'm currently contemplating how to best put this into action, considering the current socio-sexual climate in the west, and whilst still absorbing the lessons of the red pill without being too jaded. The last part is tough, when you've seen up close and personally the behaviors and values of most western women. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/18 05:00 PM |
| 1 | REMEMBER: "Girls Gone Wild"Ask any 30yo post wall if she knew how quickly the alpha attention would drop off. This is true for some but not all post-30 y/o's. Depends on genetics and lifestyle. Also some mid to late 20's look like hell, even if they were hot. Also depends on self-awareness & SMP awareness. A small number of women do know their options drop post-wall, even if it's intuitive and emotional knowledge, rather than rational thought & observation. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/18 04:03 PM |
| 3 | Back to Basics : Hypergamy doesn't care... about women either.This is why women were demonstrably, measurably happy under traditionalism. Traditional sexual mores protected women... from themselves. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/18 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Hinge data: top 10% of men get 60% of all likes, bottom 50% get 4.3%What kind of guy makes selfies, uses snapchat filters and shares every aspect of his private life? Exactly. Pretty much you have to be Dan Bilzerian or Gianlucca Vacchi, or close to that level for this strategy to work. And those guys aren't snapping selfies, they have entourages to do that kind of social media scut work for them. The latest Heartiste post drives the nail even further. https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2018/01/04/technology-and-female-hypergamy-and-the-inegalitarian-consequences/ … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/18 05:46 AM |
| 4 | How come even if you fit into a woman's ideals of beauty and personality, share similar background (same religion,race, etc) and the girl is open for catch, she won't necessarily be interested in you? In particular why would they prefer poor abusive partners who are flatout terrible father material?Clear case of RP anger phase. It (hopefully, and with self work) will pass. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/18 02:27 AM |
| 10 | How come even if you fit into a woman's ideals of beauty and personality, share similar background (same religion,race, etc) and the girl is open for catch, she won't necessarily be interested in you? In particular why would they prefer poor abusive partners who are flatout terrible father material?I cannot understand this logic. There's your first mistake. You must realize that female attraction to a male is governed by unconscious and subconscious drives, instincts, and hormonal pathways that are about as far from logic as it gets. It's feral, and is rationalized by women as being something conscious. It it isn't. This is the "rationalization hamster." | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/18 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Hinge data: top 10% of men get 60% of all likes, bottom 50% get 4.3%Quality comment. I saw that graph. I think Heartiste linked to it with commentary. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/18 02:09 AM |
| 9 | How Women Should Be Treating YouYep, I've experienced it a couple of times. It's great practice for the jujitsu of relationships, since the lovebombing is followed by epic frame battles. Iron sharpeth iron. Hone your dark triad traits. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/18 10:07 PM |
| 4 | Open Cuckoldry - Closer Than You ThinkI see all this shit going down and I realize that this is the way the world works. You can either adapt, survive, and thrive, or you can cower in your home afraid of being turned into a cuckold by your woman, afraid of the decline of your civilization, afraid of the barbarians who have been pouring in through your gates for the better part of a generation. I say, if it is to be cuckoldry than so be it. I will be the bull. I will be the man fucking your wife. Fuck yeah man. We have to live in the… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/18 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Open Cuckoldry - Closer Than You ThinkIt's a big washing machine, huge flywheel, lots of momentum. Could spin for decades. Look how long Rome lasted after the empire started to crumble. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/18 09:56 PM |
| 2 | The difference 4 years makes.I've done this a few times. Even more often, I've taken the number, and said--yeah, I'll call you, we'll go out. Then ghost. With the former, you've scored, but given validation in return. In the latter, you've denied even that validation. The latter is preferable when you have abundance. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/18 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Hinge data: top 10% of men get 60% of all likes, bottom 50% get 4.3%I get that. It does however sound very arbitrary since social media perception is probably the most inaccurate way to judge a man, or a woman The original article had access to the source data from Hinge. It's a math problem. We've been in this online bubble for a decade or so now. It won't be much longer. I don't know. I think when VR hits big, it's gonna make every issue in digital bigger, weirder, more vexing. And VR will hit big, if and when it creates a compelling experience. That's coming. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/18 04:48 PM |
| -2 | Hinge data: top 10% of men get 60% of all likes, bottom 50% get 4.3%In related news, yes, girls are in fact so stupid that they think if you look cool in one picture on your tinder account you that you must actually be a cool guy with lots of friends That's a false equivalency. We're just talking about the right swipe. First step, making contact. After that, yes, you're right, you need game. As for the pro photo thing, and how it will be received by friends, business colleagues, etc: It depends a lot on your age, location, and profession. Lots of my friends, bot… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/18 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Hinge data: top 10% of men get 60% of all likes, bottom 50% get 4.3%Yeah, you bet. Life experience: I live in a relatively small city. Under 250K. I have a great memory for faces, and I've seen at least 8-10 women in real life that I've seen on some dating app. I've also seen 3-4 on the app that I know personally. With only one exception, they all looked way better on the app. For some reason, one of the more attractive women I know played down her hotness with more plain pictures--a weird exception that proves the rule. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/18 04:25 PM |
| 0 | Hinge data: top 10% of men get 60% of all likes, bottom 50% get 4.3%. He has 4 kids. All by hot girls. All crazy as Fuck.. This is an interesting strategy. Evolution favors the bold. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/18 03:58 PM |
| -1 | Hinge data: top 10% of men get 60% of all likes, bottom 50% get 4.3%You can see the answer in the data. If a guy went from getting zero matches, ever, or only rarely, to getting quite a few a week, then yes, absolutely. Like it says in the post title, the top ten percent get 60% of the attention. So just be in the top half of that. Even an ugly man who isn 't fat, who gets good professional photos with decent attire, yes, he's got a good chance to be in the top 5% in his area. My post said be decently fit, and get pro photos. A pro is going to help you dress pro… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/18 12:51 AM |
| 0 | Hinge data: top 10% of men get 60% of all likes, bottom 50% get 4.3%If it's a part of an overall life story where you actually have, let's say, fractional ownership in a yacht or access through a relative or just straight up own one, then it's strategic. Think Gianluca Vacchi. Look him up if you're not aware. Whereas if it's just a fib or a glib bullshit saying in your profile, then it's a tactic, and maybe not a great one. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/18 12:46 AM |
| 3 | Wishing You a Red Pill 2018Carbon fiber cock rings are all the rage, I hear. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/18 12:38 AM |
| 6 | Hinge data: top 10% of men get 60% of all likes, bottom 50% get 4.3%After a while, it becomes obvious when women are saying things to a guy to discourage him from increasing his SMV. Call it the Red Pill of Relative Female SMV Arbitrage by Sabotage. Welcome to one of those experiences. There will be more. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/18 08:18 PM |
| 8 | Hinge data: top 10% of men get 60% of all likes, bottom 50% get 4.3%After matches, you still need to meet this "leads" in real life. Thanks, Captain Obvious. We were talking about top 5% in terms of right-swipes, not overall SMV. Geez. Context, bruh. Edit: It should be obvious that a right swipe is just the beginning. Looks do not equal game. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/18 08:15 PM |
| 9 | Hinge data: top 10% of men get 60% of all likes, bottom 50% get 4.3%It's really not any kind of enormous effort to be a top 10% man. You're correct. Yet the fact that the top 10% is the top 10%, and not the top 50%, is instructive. 90% of people think they are above-average drivers. That means 40% have un-earned self-image inflation. In reality, improvement is hard. Human nature is capricious, evolution has programmed humans to be efficient (read: lazy). True warrior spirit is rare, thus its value. Thus, the top 10% is the top 10% for a reason, because if everyo… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/18 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Hinge data: top 10% of men get 60% of all likes, bottom 50% get 4.3%What most females do with their own photos has nothing to do with what they respond to in male photos. A small portion of women do have pro photos, and they're not coincidentally top SMV women. The rest might be using goofy photos as virtue signaling, but most women would not turn down a professional photographer's offer of free photos, and would absolutely use them on social media and dating sites. So with that in mind, would you want photos that resemble theirs? Mirroring is a tactic, not a st… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/18 08:04 PM |
| 92 | Hinge data: top 10% of men get 60% of all likes, bottom 50% get 4.3%Getting professional pictures makes a big, big difference. If you're reasonably fit, have a decent face, and look your biological age or younger, professional photos can easily get you into the top 5%. I've seen it firsthand. A good buddy of mine went from getting no matches on Tinder, to getting many matches a week, simply by hiring a professional photographer. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/18 05:30 PM |
| 5 | It's Time We Start Demanding MORE! Flip the FieldThis is true, but it doesn't detract from OP's message. Standards mean something in a world without them. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/17 07:21 PM |
| 1 | 7 rules for LTRHeh. Nobody said it had to be open. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/17 06:58 PM |
| 7 | 7 rules for LTRYeah, I've had this experience many times. Few talk about this. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/17 11:19 PM |
| 3 | 7 rules for LTRDepending on jurisdiction, audio recordings are legal. I think they're a reasonable safeguard, not for relationship leverage, just in case she were to try to make a case for something. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/17 11:18 PM |
| 22 | 7 rules for LTRimagining your fingers break. It's a stoicism thing. Not sure how I feel about it yet. I see the utility in it, but not sure it's necessary. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/17 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Rejected 9/10 and she raged and spilled her drink at meabuse of simile should be a crime, and a banned behavior on this sub. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/17 05:39 PM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread December 27You failed a shit test in there somewhere. If she was into you, and then she wasn't, you did something wrong. Something you said or did, or something she said that you failed to respond to her appropriately, damaged your value in her eyes. Might have been a comfort fail, or maybe she picked up on an insecurity, etc. Figure it out. Treat it like a learning experience, and move on. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/17 12:31 AM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread December 27Yes, it happens. Tease her about it. Tell her she's a cradle-robbing cougar. See what she does. The more upset about it she is, the more likely it's true. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/17 12:29 AM |
| 5 | askTRP Megathread December 27Definitely need to address the stuttering. Check out Jim Qwik's blog. He was a stutterer, but overcame it and is now a professional public speaker. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/17 12:26 AM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread December 27Try "cognitive behavioral therapy," which basically means gradual, graded, progressively increasing tasks. For the first week, just go out once a day, and say hi or hello to five people. If one happens to be a pretty girl, great. The next week, make it a point to say hi or hello to at least 3-5 pretty girls per day, or as many as you see in your day or night out. The next week, say hi, and make a statement about her or what she's doing or some immediate object or event. Tell her you like her sca… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/17 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Here's how to fuck one girl/week from swipe apps in 2018 with little time investmentYeah, women have a lock on the photography secrets of bumping SMV 1-2 points. Judge accordingly. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/17 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Here's how to fuck one girl/week from swipe apps in 2018 with little time investmentOn Bumble, a lot of girls list their Instagram in their bios. It's a thirst trap, but still a way to screen. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/17 04:38 PM |
| 7 | Here's how to fuck one girl/week from swipe apps in 2018 with little time investmentOP, how much age-lying can you get away with? I'm 43. I consistently get mid-30's when I ask people to guess how old I am, but I don't think I can get away with 27.. maybe if I dye my hair & a few other things. I'm on bumble now with my actual age, and I consistently match with late 20's dames. I set 18-32 as my age range, and still get a few matches. I've got decent pics. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/17 03:55 AM |
| 3 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.Thanks man. On point 1: I had a great girl, 10 years younger, who worshipped me. I wasn't attracted to her enough, so I let her go. I don't want to make the mistake of going after crazy 9's again. Been there, done that--the original experience is what brought me to the red pill, almost 9 years ago. I don't want to settle, but I do want to meet someone who I'm really attracted to, and who's really into me. Challenging, but worth it. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/17 03:44 AM |
| 3 | Aesthetics>GameThis is oversimplistic. There are men with great aesthetics who have poor game, and they suffer as a result. Dating & sex isn't just about attraction. Other important aspects include qualification, dominance, mastery, comfort, and sexual ability. And Attraction isn't just about aesthetics. It includes aspects of the above, particularly dominance (frame control). And saying "lower your standards" is just admitting you don't have game. Game really is the ability for men to get with women that are … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/17 07:15 PM |
| 6 | Passing the Shit Tests, Holding the Frame is more important than you think it isLegit interpretation. You listened to her & heard everything she had to say, and accepted it. But because you held frame, she entered your world, and remained in the relationship on your terms, with little linguistic exchange on it, other than you swatting her shit tests away like flies. Great job. I've done this on a few occasions. It's worth the minor trouble if having a deep roster of plates is your main purpose in life relative to women and sex. Also it's good practice to have to deal with s… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/17 06:38 PM |
| 38 | Passing the Shit Tests, Holding the Frame is more important than you think it isBurn unit, report to the bedroom. We have a female casualty, her ego is on life support. Seriously gotta remember this one. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/17 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Did patriarchy evolve by natural selection? If so, is feminization of men the death of a society?Apparently he's already got a thing for helicopters, and seems to have some proto-shitlord qualities. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/17 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Did patriarchy evolve by natural selection? If so, is feminization of men the death of a society?These strategies are not mutually exclusive. They go well together. Look at what Trump's accomplished. Don Jr. will likely pick up where he leaves off, and God help us all when Baron reaches adulthood. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/17 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Did patriarchy evolve by natural selection? If so, is feminization of men the death of a society?That's an interesting perspective. Obviously it is from never having been subjected to divorce in the US. You don't have to be married to have a kid. Or many of them. Also, if you really desire to make positive changes in the culture, it's imperative to have several kids and red pill them as best you can. Best to have 2-3, 5 maybe, because you'll probably lose at least one to the leftist ideologies. Yes, you can keep your game up into late life. You can also have kids. I don't fear the state, I … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/17 09:29 PM |
| 7 | Did patriarchy evolve by natural selection? If so, is feminization of men the death of a society?Think of how much better the world would be if Tesla had actually had kids. He died destitute, and his best ideas never manifest. If he had sons to carry his ideas forward, the world would likely be far better now. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/17 08:49 PM |
| 13 | Did patriarchy evolve by natural selection? If so, is feminization of men the death of a society?Crazy as it sounds, some guys do want kids. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/17 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.I'm going to post something soon in another post on interviewing & asking questions. Thanks for asking! | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/17 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.I did read it, though it was pretty good. The local lefties didn't like it at all. I thought Wilbur displayed a lot of moral courage by writing that, because my impression is that it was deeply unpopular with his fan base & followers. I need to re-read it, to be sure. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/17 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.Exactly. I feel embarrassed for sticking around so long after observing the crazy. Should have nexted her a long time before I did. Lots of lessons learned. I do still have a bit of blue in there that needs to get scrubbed. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/17 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.Thank you, this is very good. You undoubtedly have a well-studied, even specialist level knowledge, whereas mine is allied health level, not GP level, generalist knowledge. I see some signs of the random outbursts & indignation, definitely. I think her intellect helped hide that, and her depression & fear of abandonment. There was definitely more self-harm in her early years, with the random & risky sex and hard street drugs. It's much more muted now. Ironically I think taking ayahuasca was a tu… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/17 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.Also, I find that alpha widows are generally really sad inside, and the anger & bitchface is a cover for that sadness. Not that it changes things much. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/17 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.My last LTR had a body count of 15-16, she worshipped me. Moderate numbers are OK if you have high SMV and strong masculine qualities. Lower SMV guys and less dominant guys have a lot more to lose with higher N women. Above a certain point, they are irredeemable, or so I'm finding. Also, education and socioeconomic status help blunt these effects, and both are proxies for intelligence. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/17 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.That was my point about including the background info of their parental relationships. In the case of C, her mother's immorality and chaos was and is probably as much or more of a factor than the weak father, but both are factors. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/17 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.Thanks, Lol, I'm not creative enough to come up with all these wild experiences. Truth is stranger than fiction. These are 100% true to what these dames shared with me, and I'd post more detail if I could without doxxing these girls and myself in the process. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/17 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.I think she stuck to it as best she could. She rejects 99% of all suitors. And yeah, there's definitely cognitive dissonance, especially when she discusses that long-gone relationship in her early 20's that she threw away. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/17 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.Haha, glad to do it. It helped me a lot to write this & contextualize the whole experience with C. And yeah, there's a lot of disgusting aspect to it. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/17 08:19 PM |
| 3 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.She has insanely good genetics for hormonal health and overall body vitality. Obvious exception is the part that predisposes her to mental illness. She's also into nutrition, does yoga, has a skin care routine, etc. As for this teacher, look up Ken Wilber, he's a newer student of this lineage and has done an even better job of synthesizing and expanding this body of work. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/17 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.This kind of social engineering & incentives really improves quality of life for all involved. We as RP men should be thinking about how to do this. In a way, RP philosophies and actions lead to this indirectly, but more direct action towards this as a goal would be massively beneficial and pro-social. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/17 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.Also consider that education & socioeconomic status changes this whole equation. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/17 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.Shyness is related to introvertedness, a genuine trait, no doubt. Jordan Peterson talks about a lot of this. Introverts can still be CC riders, but tend to have lower body counts due to less social exposure, though online dating can change that. You're right, it's a screening problem for us. The better our pattern recognition gets, the better off we'll be long-term. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/17 08:06 PM |
| 3 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.Thank you! Agreed, and only thanks to RP did the bullet whiz by instead of inflicting a mortal wound. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/17 08:04 PM |
| 3 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.Thanks! I dig writing, plan to do more. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/17 08:03 PM |
| 4 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.She can have high level conversations about genetics, evolution, politics, philosphy. Genuinely smart. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/17 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.The more I think about it, the more I know you're correct. I think her intelligence masked it. I wished I'd have picked it up sooner. Need to learn the earliest telltale signs. Also think she's probably bipolar as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/17 08:02 PM |
| 4 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.Thank you. Consulting in health & medical. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/17 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.Yes, thank you, great example. There are 9's above 30, they're just near-unicorns. Sofia Vergara is another great example, and Christie Brinkley in her 30's and even 40's. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/17 08:00 PM |
| 7 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.Thanks, glad you enjoyed it. I like shy, smart girls who are into health and fitness. Hotness is a given. I would like to have kids, with the right woman. That's why I tried a relationship for a while in late 2015 till early this ear. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/17 04:39 AM |
| 18 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.I'll do a stand-alone post on this soon. Thanks! | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/17 04:37 AM |
| 23 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.No, of course, I'm not arguing that a 9 at 20 carries her SMV forward like interest. Not at all. It's all about the genes. Some chicks can look great after 30. The key is you don't know they're over 30. Yes, most chicks hit the wall. A tiny minority with amazing genes, and excellent lifestyles, last longer. Getting fat will make any chick uglier. Staying fit will help any woman keep her SMV. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/17 04:36 AM |
| 27 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.Keep in mind, the timeline is the 20+ years of these women's adult lives. Certainly in their prime, these dames were both top shelf. That's the identity they internalize. Are they as hot as the hottest 20 year olds today? No. But they were at one time. And they're still hotter than 99% of their age matched peers, and probably hotter than 80% of younger dames too. Your comment is correct, but needs perspective. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/17 03:38 AM |
| 67 | Don't ask girls the details about their dreams because they have no ideaShe just qualified herself as a series of holes to be pumped and dumped, if that. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/17 12:32 AM |
| 9 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.Exactly my train of thought. Great comment. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/17 10:14 PM |
| 11 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.In Table 3, the study references age of marriage/age of marriage squared, as a correlate to risk of divorce by number of premarital partners. In all graphs the risk has risen from the 1980s, to the point where it is riskier today to marry a woman with zero or one previous partners, than it was to marry a woman with 10+ in the 1980s. FFS, the current SMP is a fucking jungle war zone. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/17 10:11 PM |
| 5 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.Thanks. I won't identify the band or singer she was married to, because it would be reasonably easy to identify her. I can tell you that the second band, the punk rocker, was a member of the Germs and several other short lived but influential punk bands of the 70s and 80s. Yeah, he was way older than her. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/17 10:03 PM |
| 7 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.Heard it years ago. Useful saying. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/17 09:54 PM |
| 3 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.Thanks. I think prescription use in normal context would be a "yellow flag," but coupled with the past substance issue, it shifts to a red flag. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/17 09:54 PM |
| 9 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.Seems like it, but not really. C is crazy, no doubt, but hides it well unless you know what to look for. At the time, I was just going with the flow & exploring what was in front of me. I don't see it as enduring, it was learning, exploring. A massive test of frame control. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/17 08:51 PM |
| 14 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.From experience, relationship sex is often better than ONS or short term flings. Plus, getting some strange or sex with a side piece can often energize the experience with your main bitch. It's additive, and addictive. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/17 08:43 PM |
| 6 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.No idea what that means, and I refuse to look it up. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/17 08:22 PM |
| 19 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.Definitely just age-adjusted hotness, but still hotter than a lot of 20 something women who don't have that fine facial stucture, WHR, facial symmetry, hormonal health, etc. In this city, they still may crack the top 10% of all women in hotness, definitetly top 20%. And it's self-perceived hotness that drives hypergamy--both these dames received intense validation for their looks from the day they were born until today. Even post-wall, they'll get tons of validation online and IRL from the army … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/17 08:13 PM |
| 19 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.All of the interviews with C, the girl I was dating, occurred with her, one-on-one, on road trips or walks. I transposed J for M in a couple spots. Fixed. Yeah, the daughter is a train wreck. She's already having a tough life. She's already a bitter atheist. And how couldn't she be? If a young person's model for God is her father, and he's been absent the entire time, it's natural for this girl to be nihilistic as can be. She is. But yeah, not my monkeys, nor my circus. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/17 08:10 PM |
| 13 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.Good point. Low N relative to age-adjusted peer group. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/17 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.Added in 3rd from last paragraph. Probably could be a longer TL;Dr. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/17 07:35 PM |
| 34 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.Thanks. On the labs, it's a telltale decrease in acetylation in an immune marker, histone. Only a few drugs cause this. Some antibiotics, antihypertensives, and carbamazepine & its related drugs. I know she doesn't have hypertension, and wasn't taking antibiotics. Process of elimination. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/17 06:58 PM |
| 11 | Meta: I like the idea of GEOTRP but no one goes to the sub. What if we made it a weekly thread in the main sub highlighting one city (or region) a week?That's a very bitchy comment. Men can gather to discuss self improvement, business, politics, law, art, and a lot more. Might wanna lay off the salt there, Rasalom72. There's more to RP culture than just "AWALT." | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 09:05 PM |
| 5 | Meta: I like the idea of GEOTRP but no one goes to the sub. What if we made it a weekly thread in the main sub highlighting one city (or region) a week?Good idea. I think this is workable. It's important to meet up in person, for lots of reasons. Not least of which, digital culture is a poor facsimile of real, in the flesh culture. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Pre-wall woman asked advice on how to improve the interaction with her beta boyfriend.Lol at the downvoters. Crybabies cry at the truth! | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/15 04:47 AM |
| 3 | Roissy's maximsI lived with my parents for years after an overly expensive grad degree, and after full RP assimilation. I had no troubles at all banging. In my car, her car, in city parks at night, in mountain parks during the day. Don't make excuses. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/15 05:24 PM |
| 0 | Men should never enter into an open relationshipStill, this happens a lot, in one way or the other (the most obvious is 2 parents with light eyes (blue or green) having a brown-eyed child). Brown eyes is dominant, and will express with heterozygous parents, meaning only a single copy of brown eyed gene will cause it to manifest. Blue/green are recessive, and need homozygousity (2 copies of blue/green eyed gene, 1 from each parent, to manifest). Same with blonde hair. Those are general precepts. Specifics: Teh mother has black hair, light skin… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 10:06 PM |
| -6 | RooshV slams the Red PillWhere's your world speaking tour? Where's your men's interest websites? Easy to hate from your anonymous position of nothingness. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 07:38 PM |
| 9 | RooshV slams the Red PillHe also makes outstanding points about this very platform being run by an extreme-left feminist SJW. Don't throw the baby out with the bathwater. Nobody's perfect, and hes' contributed a lot to the field. He had the motherfucking balls to go on Dr. Oz, and uses a variant of, and doesn't hide, his real name. Let his next moves speak for themselves. He may sell out, but don't prejudge that. Based on his and ROK's recent emphasis, I'm betting it's going to be a big push to legitimize and grow aware… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Men should never enter into an open relationshipI know an SJW type progressive male, he's actually a really good hearted niceguy (TM). He's mixed-race, very dark skin, dark brown eyes, and afro-curly hair. He hand his wifey have been in an open relationship for seven years. They have one child. The child is whiter than the driven snow, blonde, and has blue eyes. Basic middle school biology class teaches us about genetics, recessive genes (blue eyes & blonde hair, both are recessive, requiring 2 copies of each). Draw your own conclusions here. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Post-wall, ugly female professor's bitter rant about her colleagues hitting up 20 year old coeds instead of her.Sailer's law of female journalism applies here: That, come the revolution, the author will be considered more attractive (to her college professor peers.) AFTALT (All Female Journalists Typists Are Like That | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 07:25 PM |
| 13 | "I like your tits" instead of "You have nice tits"Complimenting a girl is a way to establish sexual intent. It must be delivered in full confidence, and without supplication. Sometimes that's tough, so negs, push-pull, takeaways all are useful to DHV after sexual intent is clear. This is a big difference between direct & indirect game. If a guy isn't confident to congruently pull off the direct opener, indirect is better. As Uncle Roosh says, don't scare the cat, that's why the "elderly ramble" works. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/15 02:58 AM |
| 12 | The Red Pill, You, & ModalityWhat hasn't been said in this debate: Sometimes the Alpha Agents of Righteous Karma who swoop in with game blazing to take a beta's LTR(or wife) in the restroom at a club-- sometimes--often--that AARK is doing the beta a slew of favors. One, he is showing the beta his LTR/wife's true colors. It's a litmus test of both the wife's integrity, and the strength of the union. Two, he is opening a doorway for that beta schlub into the world of RP and game. Whether or not the prostrate beta chooses to w… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/15 10:13 PM |
| 8 | "Early men and women were equal, say scientists" -- The GuardianNOOOO THEYRE SPECIAL, DIFFERNT BUT EQUAL. LIKE OMIGOD SHITLORD HOW CAN YOU NOT SEE THIS. ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/15 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Deeply seated issues from my childhood fucked up my sexual drive (cross post from r/asktrp)Number one thing, if you haven't already, get your testosterone (free and bound both), DHT, SHBG, estradiol checked ASAP. Don't assume that because you're young, "fit & healthy," that your endocrine system is working. Stress can fuck you up. Get it checked out, and fix any glaring issues. As a medical professional, or on your way to be one, you damned well better have resources to do this. If not, you better figure it out quick. It is possible that you are simply a low-libido male, the so-called… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/15 11:37 PM |
| 4 | Never, EVER reveal your age.Don't let it get to you. Like you said, experience for the pile. I'm 20+ years older than you, and I also don't look my age at all, though not in the way you do. I don't tell people my age, and if they persist in asking, I make a big stink (in a humorous way) about privacy, age discrimination, start asking her boob size, her dress size, how much she weighs, etc. Some people will get offended, and I'm OK with that. The good thing for you is, you'll age out of this problem within a few years. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/15 03:56 PM |
| 3 | More feminists nonsense on the origins of male dominance...You missed the point. It's about sexual selection. It doesn't matter if the traits are passed on to female offspring, they're simply the vessel. Check out the "Mating Mind" by Geoffry Miller. It explains why women like smart & creative men. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/15 01:14 AM |
| 6 | Mad Max: Fury Road is indeed feminist (mild spoilers).A+ comment. Nice review of the film history integrated with Aussie cultural references. The original film has strong RP undertones--if you're gonna get involved, fuck the rules and hammer some motherfuckers. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/15 08:56 PM |
| -5 | Mad Max: Fury Road is indeed feminist (mild spoilers).It is without a doubt the best action movie I've ever seen. So apparently special effects, 'xplosions, and shit make a "Best Movie" in your mind. Good to know, that means you are shite at identifying good action movies. FYI, the "action" should serve the plot. Your review makes clear that the action in this new Mad Maxipad is simply to polish a clearly lacking plot. You can't polish a turd. Go back & watch the original "Conan." That's the gold standard for good action movies. It's ALL plot. The … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/15 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Questions on dating multiple women at onceThis is brilliant. I plant to use this in the future. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/15 12:24 AM |
| 0 | [Serious] Legal professionals of TRP, I need prenup advice.You're going to get a lot of haters here. Accept that, & move on. IF you really want legit advice on prenups, check out Mike Cernovich's podcast on the subject. I think he did it at Sovereign man Podcast. Search for Prenup Mike Cernovich podcast, and you'll find it. Cernovich is a total RP lawyer, he's done some stand-up work on the whole gamergate thing, gives no fucks, and hammers the SJWs like nobody's business. The truth is, for real high value men, guys who produce high six & seven figures … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/15 06:44 PM |
| 9 | It's Official: Fellatio Is A " Benefit-Provisioning mate retention strategy" and " mate retention behavior" for women.If this holds, it means that increased BJ frequency is strong measure of success of dread game. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/15 05:35 PM |
| 6 | Disposable time for Women vs Men - utilizing our limited time to achieve our Higher Purpose.Great post. I started a men's group with my closest male friends locally. I'm slowly introducing RP ideas to them. ON the flip side--yes--get shit done. Win at life. That's how we succeed & win against the SJW menace. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/15 04:03 PM |
| 4 | The dance of the masculine and feminine.How does one handle an LTR with a masculine/balanced woman? Ideally, you don't. If you do, you hold frame like it's your last set of matches on a south Pole expedition. I've found that if you hold frame and live from your most masculine core, even the more masculine women will fold, and will submit or surrender. Those masculine women who don't submit, well they just filtered themselves the fuck out. All things being equal, more submissive, feminine, nurturing women definitely have the advantage. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/15 09:38 PM |
| 4 | AWALT: My 35yo FWB'S Rule of 666Good post. Not sure why trolls are downvoting. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/15 05:38 PM |
| 5 | AWALT: My 35yo FWB'S Rule of 666Lie. Wear heel lifts. Thug'em, fuck'em, leave'em, bust, then be breezin. If a dame is so shallow as to diss a guy over an inch or three of height, they deserve the pump & dumps that are most certainly coming their way. I'm 5'8". I wear 2.5" lifts on occasion, in dress shoes that already have a 1" lift. If a dame asks me how tall I am, I do the same thing with age: make'em guess, and never give straight answers. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/15 01:42 AM |
| 2 | Is the characterisation of men as sex obsessed in this circle the right idea?If men weren't sex-obsessed, the species would have died out long ago. The drive for reproduction rules all others--as Heartiste says, it's the ur-market. The market for luxury goods would not exist without the libidinous impulses of men. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/15 04:47 AM |
| 3 | A Question: Is there a second Carousel?It's the same carousel. Some women just never get off of it. Some just pretend to get off (marriage, but cheating). Men who remarry fall into two categories: Guys too dumb to know better, and guys smart enough to know better but rich enough not to care. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/15 05:38 PM |
| 1 | AffirmationsI've been working with affirmations for a while. It's awesome to have a master list like this. Personally, I find that using the top 10 or 20 at a time helps to stay focused. Also---repetition. I endeavor to repeat them 2-3x daily. I sometimes speak them forcefully, and with conviction into my voice recorder, then I play it back & feel the powerful vibrations enter every cell. A friend who has had success with affirmations swears by writing them repeatedly into a journal or notebook. The kinaest… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/15 01:59 AM |
| 6 | I've internalized the AF/BB concept. But seeing it happen in an instant blew mind mind. Check this outBut you don't need your plates. You can get more. Abundance mentality done right. A+ comment, would read & comment again. My life, post RP of course, has been one experience after another of this. Of course, the problem is, that many will try to lock you down, while few are worth of that. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/15 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Adult women who baby-talk: experiences, theories, cautions, and what do to about it (if anything).It happens so rarely, I don't think it's a significant factor in this situation. Girls who do this stuff often will do it daily, for a sizeable portion of their communication. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/15 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Adult women who baby-talk: experiences, theories, cautions, and what do to about it (if anything).Being challenged socially is awesome I agree, I need more of that. Emphasis on quality is where it's at. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/15 02:07 AM |
| 3 | Adult women who baby-talk: experiences, theories, cautions, and what do to about it (if anything).If a girl I'm spending time with (in any sense) talks like a baby, and she didn't grasp that it was annoying, I'd very quickly be not spending time with her. For being supposedly the more socially astute gender, women can be suprisingly dense. Anyone that spends time (or sleeps) with someone that they consider beneath them (Or a "plate".), has some serious fucking questions to ask themselves. The essence of hypergamy means that by definition, most men date women "beneath" them. Be prepared to br… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/15 06:33 PM |
| 3 | Adult women who baby-talk: experiences, theories, cautions, and what do to about it (if anything).A+ comment, thanks for posting--it's a field report & case study on this topic. I think you're in the clear & don't need to do tell her to stop babytalking, because the scope of babytalk is limited to post-coitus and when she compliments you. The latter leans to the idea that her limited babytalk is seeking comfort--after all, when she compliments you, she's essentially highlighting aspects of your SMV. Also, thanks for the CH link. I think it elucidates well the point I was trying to make, writ… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/15 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Adult women who baby-talk: experiences, theories, cautions, and what do to about it (if anything).On the flip side, listen to your friends when they're on the phone with their girl. Their voice usually softens and goes up in pitch. True. Masculine men typically drop their voice on the phone. Voice itself can be sexy as fuck to a girl. I do some public speaking professionally, and have had attractive women give IOIs based on my voice. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/15 04:24 PM |
| 7 | Adult women who baby-talk: experiences, theories, cautions, and what do to about it (if anything).it also de-sexualises the relationship. It's comfortable cotton pyjamas, and cuddling on Friday nights watching Netflix instead. It is a subconscious power play by the female that ensures the shift, and cements the LTR into the beta-provision model - the model favoured by the female's sexual strategy. Brilliant. That was what I was attempting to convey. Thanks for painting a vivid picture with it. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/15 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Adult women who baby-talk: experiences, theories, cautions, and what do to about it (if anything).The perceptual bias toward infants is definitely driving the bus here. But the destination depends on the goal. My point is that there can be a variety of goals on behalf of a woman who baby talks. Primarily, she can be seeking more comfort from a masculine partner, or more masculinity from a beta partner. Or more sexualized energy from a projected daddy figure. If you know whhat you're dealing with you can make wiser choices. If you've noticed people who are in the early stages of falling in lo… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/15 03:38 PM |
| 6 | Adult women who baby-talk: experiences, theories, cautions, and what do to about it (if anything).Interesting.. weight gain is another method of desexualizing. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/15 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Adult women who baby-talk: experiences, theories, cautions, and what do to about it (if anything).Yes, exactly. You manage to convey the more stark contrast between cases 1 & 2. Case 2--what I call "Masculine deficiency" can be remedied in one of two ways: 1--the male sacking up and laying down the dominant behavior, and laying pipe like a silverback gorilla on speed. 2--the woman can remedy her masculine deficiency by getting a side order of hot-beef-injection from Chad Thundercock II. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/15 03:34 PM |
| 6 | Adult women who baby-talk: experiences, theories, cautions, and what do to about it (if anything).For plates, it can be fun & sexy. For an LTR, occasionally, maybe, but I don't want that dynamic to be common. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/15 03:30 PM |
| 7 | Adult women who baby-talk: experiences, theories, cautions, and what do to about it (if anything).Next time you get babytalk from a girl who's not into you, call her out on it & see what happens. It could be a decent neg. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/15 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Adult women who baby-talk: experiences, theories, cautions, and what do to about it (if anything).1- They are trying to use your more protective side. Applies to both Freudian and masculine deficiency examples, (1 & 2 above, respectively, and of course I agree with you. 2- The men in her past allow such retard beauvoir. Mostly applies to the masculine deficiency, though I have known some strong & masculine men who actually encourage such behavior in their women. I suspect these men have issues of their own. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/15 05:41 AM |
| 9 | The Male WallVasalgel might be the game changer. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/15 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Record yourself.I do this all the time. I use my phone, sometimes with a bluetooth mic/headset. I put it in my breast pocket, I wear button-ups with pockes a lot. There are also some sophisticated tools out there: http://www.penrecorderpro.com/hd-pen-camera-hd180?gclid=CMKMhfyKqcUCFRAaaQodt4YA_w http://www.penrecorderpro.com/voice-activated-recording-pen-mq77n | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/15 10:06 PM |
| 1 | The Biological Basis For Routine Male CuckoldingAnd that's skewed by teh fact that 75% of women can't even orgasm from vaginal sex. The crazy multi-orgasmic chicks are wrecking the curve. Heh. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/15 04:03 AM |
| 2 | Suiting UpAnd a cape. Can't forget the cape. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/15 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Suiting UpIf I wear jeans and a shirt with buttons, people think I'm going to a funeral. I lol'ed. Been to a few spots in the midwest like this. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/15 03:57 AM |
| 7 | Suiting Upit still masks your physique more than other outfits. Solution: well-fitted dress shirts, no tie. (I'm already assuming your suit tailoring is on point. A poorly fitting suit is worse than no suit at all. Make your entrance to a social event--for example a dinner event-- with the jacket on, then perform, as Mark Leyner calls it, a pre-prandial peel. As you doff your jacket, be sure to watch her eyes scan your muscular build. Voila--best of both worlds. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/15 03:56 AM |
| 2 | Suiting Up"Dress British & Think Yiddish!" ~ Dan Pena. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/15 03:41 AM |
| 1 | If you really want pussy, then get a side job that involves socializing.There are more women getting into rock climbing, mountain biking, really all outdoor sports, but yeah, even with more female participation, it's often sausage city. Biggest female to male ratios--yoga & pilates. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/15 12:52 AM |
| 9 | I just went out with a woman "my age", and you should too... but not for the reason you might think.I had a ball with these dames when I was on Tinder last fall. They're my age cohort. I made it a point to only meet at a bar on my block, or within 10 minutes walking of my house. The rapid fire shit tests usually quit when I'd casually mention my ex-gf was 23.. that usually nuked the whole date. I did get a few sloppy makeouts & BJS from it, but never called any of them back. I lost frame exactly one time, when a late 30's crossfit chick, ripped to shreds, full of tats, bleach-blonde, she was p… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/15 05:17 AM |
| 1 | The Dad Bod: An AnalysisInteresting. Perhaps this is a partial explanation--all those liberal Pacific NW chicks on the pill looking for wussyboys due to hormonal dysregulation: http://www.livescience.com/28237-women-on-pill-prefer-less-masculine-men.html | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/15 02:41 AM |
| 17 | The Dad Bod: An AnalysisWhere are you located? I'm in the western US, fitness land. Skinny hipsters are not in, but neither are the super swole. Functionally fit seems to be the big thing here. Best advice: look good naked. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/15 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Anyone ever LTR'd/married a woman that had a lower SMV than you because you wanted to avoid the bullshit?I haven't done well at gyms, but I'm not opposed to it. Yoga studios--have done well. Also health foods stores and bookstores have been good for me for meeting non-club women. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/15 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Anyone ever LTR'd/married a woman that had a lower SMV than you because you wanted to avoid the bullshit?For a guy who had political ambitions, Shriver had other assets besides SMV--namely being a Kennedy. Worked out pretty well. He may have seen it as a political marriage, whereas she saw it as real. Besides, Arnold had a famously massive libido and was said to be a bit short on standards. Liked bigger girls (obviously based on his maid). | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/15 03:38 PM |
| 0 | Company gets attacked for "sexist" advertising. Stands its ground and makes over a million in less than a week from the outrage publicity.Growth is only antifragile in some contexts. Growth by trial and error, tinkering, primarily. Evolution is antifragile when applied to biological systems. As far as I can tell, he hasn't righted the term, others are using it. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/15 03:33 PM |
| 35 | Company gets attacked for "sexist" advertising. Stands its ground and makes over a million in less than a week from the outrage publicity.This is called "antifragility." It is perhaps our most powerful weapon in the crusade against the leftist dingbats. Learn this shit, memorize it, embody it. We're going to need it, and like Protein World, We're going to prevail like Mongol warriors. Now let's hope RooshV pulls off a similarly antifragile appearance on Dr. Oz's show tomorrow. A solid showing will push our cause ahead significantly. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/15 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Hypothesis: Alpha is a hormonal state susceptible to mental stressWouldn't it be better to opt out altogether then? Depends on what your goals are, your strengths & weaknesses, etc. Some individuals have the balls and the brains to set up a life, get what they want, and effect positive change in the system. Then again, maybe not. In that case, going galt may be a better option. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/15 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Women reach their sexual peak in their 30s-40s?Women have far more sex when they're young. Yes, and no. Athletic women often keep a high libido late in life. But for sedentary or only lightly athletic girls, yeah, the libido slacks. Caveat: super-low bodyfat girls at any age can have libido crashing. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/15 08:17 PM |
| 3 | Women reach their sexual peak in their 30s-40s?Just fucking do it. You need all that info, you're gonna be a high SMV man. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/15 08:15 PM |
| 8 | Women reach their sexual peak in their 30s-40s?Dude. You're going to have access to a large pool of nurses, PA's, and a slew of other medical practitioners, and all of those females look up to doctors. You're gonna slay. Nurses especially are wild & kinky. Boom! | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/15 08:14 PM |
| 0 | Even "good" wives treat their husbands poorly: post from /r/parentingAll too often I'm being corrected and reminded on how I could have handled something better. --from the OP in r/parenting. This is a shit-test that he's failed repeatedly and miserably. The fact that the shit-test involves his kids makes it that much more important to squash it with the hammer of impenetrable frame. What's the answer? I'm not entirely sure. It's something I've contemplated a lot. To my observations, the instances where I see this not being an issue are in heavily patriarchal, ex… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/15 04:15 PM |
| 9 | Even "good" wives treat their husbands poorly: post from /r/parentingAl Bundy could hold frame like a boss. He was also portrayed as a buffoon, but at least he was a masculine, wisecracking, take-no-bullshit buffoon. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/15 04:08 PM |
| 2 | FR - Re-Plate successChicks love that shit. It's weird, but I didn't make the rules. Evolution did. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/15 12:48 AM |
| 2 | FR - Re-Plate successYou clearly don't get it, sir. Life isn't all Sesame Street, where everyone plays by the rules. Outside the rule of law (and sometimes not even then,) nobody owes you shit. This episode may be the thing that BB needs to get his ass into gear in life. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/15 12:46 AM |
| 3 | FR:Oneitis attempts to re-orbitizeExactly. I'd have killed for this level of emotional mastery over my one-itis tendencies at age 22. Even at 40, it can be a challenge. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/15 12:36 AM |
| 2 | fucking married womenGetting upset about cheating is a waste of energy. Exactly. Bigger fish to fry. Getting upset about it either way is a loss of frame. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/15 12:29 AM |
| 4 | fucking married womenWhat if the loaded guy's wallet jumps out of his pants, lands in your lap, starts playing with your hair, giggling, and after a few cocktails starts feeling the bulge in your 501's? What if you're not initiating at all, and the broad, er, wallet full of cash, won't take no for an answer. Certainly agency can be seen in such a scenario, and it ain't the "mugger" acting with agency and purpose. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/15 12:20 AM |
| 2 | fucking married womenAs far as this is concerned, in my limited experience, it's simply that they want you so damn much, easy and eager pussy, it's hard to say no to. This has been my experience as well. It's happened to me at least 4-5 times. I never chase, they chase harder. As for the rest of your post--it can be summed in the positive by a quote from the Chateau: "Marriage (and LTRs by extension) is no escape from the sexual markeplace." | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/15 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Girl forgets to lie about her n-count, makes lame attempt to reduce number, shows AWALT.One of my few friends that is a girl just roared past her 90th cock. She's 22. Jesus. Assuming she became sexually active at 15, that's a new sex partner slightly less than once a month, every month, for seven years. Talk about a damaged slut. I admit, I'm morbidly curious. I wonder what her SMV rating is. I'm betting it's a 6 or 7. Truly hot women have little need for such rapacious sexual validation. Also bet this girl has wicked daddy issues. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/15 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Girl forgets to lie about her n-count, makes lame attempt to reduce number, shows AWALT.Its just my family life is literally similar to a Robert Heinlien novel Great post. Which Heinlein novel? I'm going to guess "Stranger in a Strange Land," only because I've heard it referenced before as an alternative family structure model. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/15 10:07 PM |
| 0 | Girl forgets to lie about her n-count, makes lame attempt to reduce number, shows AWALT.This makes sense IF you're man enough to maintain frame without fail, and fuck her like she's never been fucked. High N women are often alpha widows, and thus have extensive experience in shit testing alphas and getting fucked by alphas. You must in effect out alpha the most alpha man she's been with. This is why Monica Lewinsky will never be marriagable. Whatever else you can say bout Slick Willie, the man is a master of charisma and frame control. Low N women simply have a smaller experience s… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/15 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Girl forgets to lie about her n-count, makes lame attempt to reduce number, shows AWALT.I upvoted because I agree. I'd also like to see the debunkage you've read, because the marriage=hardmode is an RP meme that won't die. It helps to convince the naysayers to have some evidence, though seeing an RP father & husband in action is really the most convincing proof. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/15 03:56 PM |
| 11 | Girl forgets to lie about her n-count, makes lame attempt to reduce number, shows AWALT.Insanity. 20-year olds with mid-30 N counts. Plate, but avoid marriage at all costs with those hoes. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/15 03:52 PM |
| 22 | Girl forgets to lie about her n-count, makes lame attempt to reduce number, shows AWALT.Yeah, I agree, and so I never allowed her to call me her boyfriend. I always called her my lover, and never committed, and always maintained a rotation. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/15 03:58 AM |
| 5 | The all purpose redpill attractiveness ThreadI believe there are studies showing the ridiculously tall don't reproduce as much as those who are taller than average, but not overly so. Also super tall people have shorter life expectancy, and higher cancer risk, likely due to higher lifetime exposure to GH. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/15 12:42 AM |
| 90 | Girl forgets to lie about her n-count, makes lame attempt to reduce number, shows AWALT.I have shared a similar experience on this thread. I was dating a mid-30's chick. A bit of a relevant recount: Fun fact: she was married, in an r/deadbedrooms scenario when we first hooked up. Very early in our relationship, but very late one night after some booze and lots of sex, I asked her as she basked in her post-coital, multi-orgasmic bliss, what her N count was. She wasn't expecting the question in that vulnerable moment, and she stumbled and spit out "about 36 or 37, which at the time w… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/15 12:34 AM |
| 6 | Possible write up?Only one way to find out--write them up, then run them up the RP flagpole & see who salutes. One problem I see right out of the box--you're asking permission. Just fucking do it. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/15 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Humankind is DevolvingEvolution does happen quicker than you think--mostly through epigenetics. edit: link to think about in regards to epigenetics. http://theconversation.com/how-your-grandparents-life-could-have-changed-your-genes-19136 | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/15 04:02 AM |
| 2 | Humankind is DevolvingTechnology in its infancy. It's gonna mangle some folks before it helps. It remains to be seen whether it can mature as a treatment, or dies on the vine. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/15 04:00 AM |
| 2 | Humankind is DevolvingIf 4% of aircraft crash, no one would fly. Besides, the biggest expansion in births is women 40+, who not coincidentally are fuelling the boom in fertility treatments. http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/databriefs/db152.htm Fertility treatments also result in less healthy offspring & far greater risk of complications. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2536202/IVF-births-carry-FIVE-TIMES-risk-complications-Babies-born-thanks-fertility-treatment-likely-stillborn-premature-die-weeks.html Solution… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/15 03:58 AM |
| 1 | mgtow and science; the theory of positive disintegrationGreat stuff. This appears to be a deep rabbit hole to dive into, but I'm bookmarking for future study and use since your well-done synopsis offers far better fitment with my own observations compared to more mainstream stuff. Positive disintegration explains the evolutionary adaptive advantage for things like anxiety and depression. That in itself is very valuable. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/15 12:54 AM |
| 6 | I'm tired of us being the ones who have to always pass the shit tests. How can I make her jump through some hoops to prove herself to ME once in s while?isn't this kinda unethical Fuck that. Female orbiters are a sign of success. If you don't have orbiters you're not doing it right. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/15 07:41 PM |
| 20 | I'm tired of us being the ones who have to always pass the shit tests. How can I make her jump through some hoops to prove herself to ME once in s while?Great example of a disqualification routine, which then makes her qualify herself. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/15 04:25 PM |
| 28 | I'm tired of us being the ones who have to always pass the shit tests. How can I make her jump through some hoops to prove herself to ME once in s while?A very powerful male equivalent for early-stage game is called qualification, and its closely related dread-game evil twin, disqualification. As you intuit, these techniques can put you in the driver's seat when properly applied. It's asking questions to see if she's worth your time and attention. One of my favorites is "do you like to cook for your man", since so many girls don't. The hamster then runs, as she rationalizes why her other good qualities make up for her lack of kitchen prowess. Fo… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/15 04:24 PM |
| 4 | Is stress just a frame of mind?"Most stress is a result of reality not matching your expectations." -Peter Sage You bet your ass it's a mindset. Steps to get out : Be grateful for what you have. Tap into your passions, develop projects with strong potential upside based on your passions. Develop momentum in projects by taking action. Continually get fired up about the project, and taking action, making it a virtuous cycle. Manage your social circle: A. Spend more time with people who are also stoked about your project and can… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/15 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Managing ExpectationsGreat post, Rollo. Irony is, and RP experience confirms game will work better in those egalitarian countries. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/15 01:38 AM |
| 3 | Feminism is "Fertility Negative"I agree, but governments and even employers in the developed world have fucked themselves and future generations by making retirement a ponzi scheme that requires more people in each successive generation to pay the retirees of the previous. It's gonna fucking crash, and it's gonna be ugly. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 11:00 PM |
| 20 | The easy way to become a better manPersonally, I've studied TRP for a while now, but it didn't click for me until I hit absolute rock fucking bottom (physically, mentally and emotionally all at the same time) and realized that I had two options: either I kick and scream because nobody is there to help me, or I stand up and progress. Amen, brother. There's only two reasons to make massive changes in one's life: desperation and inspiration. Most choose the former. After choosing the former a few times, it's quiet instructive to att… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Partial FR - Beware of the breederInverse applies as well. If you're not charming to her, ideally without expending any effort, then she probably won't love you long term. There's a respect piece there as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 06:20 PM |
| 3 | Guy who's been doing my PT stripped of license, nearly lynched in bogus rape chargethis is truth. I know the laws in my state, and I record many (but not all) encounters. Some professionally, some private, some on the phone. There are great phone conversation recording aps. Also for business situations where you have dodgy folks that you can't just zero out of a deal or project, recording can also provide peace of mind. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Guy who's been doing my PT stripped of license, nearly lynched in bogus rape chargeFun fact from a friend who was a high end security consultant: when security companies install camera systems, particularly those with DVRs, many companies instruct their techs to disable the microphones and/or the audio recording on the DVR. That's because it's illegal in some states to record audio without consent. Video somehow is OK. Weird fucking laws in this country. The audio delete easy enough to fix--most of the time it's simply a change of settings in the DVR firmware. I'm about to ins… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 04:50 PM |
| 3 | Reddit CEO bans salary negotiations because women are poor negotiators.But what does Reddit produce? Aside from TRP, Reddit seems to produce a lot of internet keyboard warriors & hamplanet grrrlpower types. Still, those demographics do consume shit, so whatever half-assed talent that hasn't been snaked by other tech firms will figure out a revenue model. Advertising. Think Chef-Boyardee, Twinkies, tattoo removal services, etc. The bar is pretty low, really. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/15 05:13 AM |
| -2 | English sucks."May I have a glass of water?" Supplicating as shit. With a girl: "Be a doll & get me a glass of San Pellegrino on ice." When she brings it: "Thanks, sweet cheeks." | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/15 05:55 AM |
| 12 | English sucks.This is a subtly brilliant post. A culture's logic and values are implicit in its language. Take apart the language, you take apart its values. Our culture's ancient (relative to modern techno-dystopia) roots valued supplication. Supplication is no longer relevant. The solution is embedded in your post. Avoid questions as much as possible, instead using statements. That's a game classic--old Roissy post on that, I believe. To your post, and your original contribution: discard "let's", which by i… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/15 04:51 AM |
| 9 | The primacy of your bodyA lot of people should first rest and charge their bodies with nutrients and proper intestinal flora, specially hardcases/eternal skinny fats. Utter bullshit, especially the "a lot of people." There may be a FEW that need to rest, fix adrenals, etc. Maybe 5%. Everyone else--lift. Science shows that there are NO non-responders to strength training. Lift AND clean up your diet, fix your gut, etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/15 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Failed Biggest Shit test in past relationship, passed the same shit test in current LTR.Yeah, I did some searching and discovered that as well. Still, the US tobacco industry is not regulated as tightly as the swedish, and contains a lot more weird ingredients. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/15 12:55 AM |
| 3 | Failed Biggest Shit test in past relationship, passed the same shit test in current LTR.Cosign. Snus users in Sweden get cancer at the same rate as non-users. They may experience some other problems, but their cancer rates are low. In Sweden, tobacco is regulated like food. THere are only 4 legal ingredients in snus--tobacco, sugar, salt, and mint flavoring. Contrast to the US--Copenhagen brand smokeless tobacco puts all sorts of nasty chemicals in it, plus things like microscopic fiberglass shards (irritates the cheek & gums, making nicotine delivery faster). I used Swedish snus (… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/15 11:16 PM |
| 1 | I'm 99% Mother and 1% Wife - And It Has to Be That WayI support equal rights for all. I don't support it because most everyone is as capable of using those right as well as I can, I don't believe 95% can, but I understand that to disenfranchise a sizable portion of the population creates a population of people who will necessarily see the system that I'm working with and in as the enemy and work to undermine it. This is a non-sequitur. FLTW16's post has nothing to do with equal rights, or the system, or whatever other quasi-libertarianism you're sp… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/15 10:44 PM |
| 4 | I'm 99% Mother and 1% Wife - And It Has to Be That WayRiding a motorcycle is a great metaphor for marriage. Both are inherently fragilizing. Both also have inherent risks and also inherent advantages, and thus when one engages in either, the risks must be assessed, mitigated, and still be prepared for a potential blowup. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/15 03:26 PM |
| 2 | I'm 99% Mother and 1% Wife - And It Has to Be That WayYou're confusing me with u/FLTW16, who wrote the original reply that we're debating. I concur with FLTW16, in that good wife material is a woman who's willing to work part-time, or not at all, and focusing on doing the best job possible, with my help, in raising the kids. I'd go so far as to say that I will actively disqualify as a mate any woman who professes to want to work full-time before the kids are in middle school. I was fortunate enough to have a stay-at-home mother, who invested in me … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/15 03:25 PM |
| 9 | I'm 99% Mother and 1% Wife - And It Has to Be That WayInstead of making yourself the best you can be, you would rather stunt her ability to be a full fledged person. False dichotomy. Who says a woman can't be all she can be, a "full-fledged person," by being a stay-at-home mother? You're insulting a thousand generations of women who self-actualized through nurturing strong, intelligent, inquisitive children. You're simply parroting feminist ideology you've internalized since childhood. This is TRP, not feministing, chump. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/15 04:20 AM |
| 2 | PSA: Remider That Adopting TRP Doesn't Mean Becoming a ShitheadWhen people learn a new skill, they're not often perfect with it. In archery, marksmanship, or any other skill involving subtle skills causing big effects, they often go from too little to too much. It is overshooting the mark that allows one to get better. The reminder for folks is probably good, and your post is well-intentioned. I think that those with decent social skills will learn to calibrate, and come correct, especially with those close to them. . Some won't. C'est la vie. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/15 04:45 AM |
| 1 | PSA: Remider That Adopting TRP Doesn't Mean Becoming a ShitheadEither OP is trolling, or just doesn't get RP theory. Holding frame is all about being an amused master of one's circumstance, which implies a massive sense of humor about everything. The intermediate phase of game & red pill requires that men who were people-pleasers to stop being a people-pleasing pushover. By nature, those who use and abuse people pleasers are going to be labeled "asshole." If you were bending over backwards to please a girl you were orbiting, an entitled friend or boss, and … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/15 12:30 AM |
| 21 | FR - "I don't kiss on the first date."Some of us find satisfaction in the process of seduction. It's like playing chess, but with a better ROI. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/15 04:38 AM |
| 2 | Take SabbaticalsI actually have 3 businesses. One is in education, the online part is just getting started, I've developed a ton of content in my area of expertise and now putting it online. Second is a product company, has decent local following, looking to blow it up soon. Third is my private consulting business, keeps me busy a few days a week. For an online side hustle business--think about what areas you're either really passionate about or really knowledgeable about, or both. Find out how to leverage your… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/15 03:57 AM |
| 3 | Take SabbaticalsMore reason to get down to business on that side hustle, the internet business, etc. I've been self employed for seven years, and I hope to never be an employee again, unless it's at one of my own companies. I take 2-4 weeks off every year, in 1 week chunks in the fall to go elk hunting, often with my father. It's the best time of my year. I hope to do at least a 2 week chunk this year. Next year will be the sabbatical in the true sense of the word. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/15 06:03 PM |
| 2 | New father, horrified by what our current mainstream American society wants my son to become.I got a solid grass-fed Argentine freeze-dried liver powder from NOW foods, and put it in my protein shakes, for when I don't have a container of cooked liver in the fridge. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/15 05:11 AM |
| 2 | New father, horrified by what our current mainstream American society wants my son to become.Get a bottle filter, or filtered water. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/15 05:10 AM |
| 2 | New father, horrified by what our current mainstream American society wants my son to become.Solid post. Great work. You are an educated man, and your health will benefit from your well-researched and well-tested protocol. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/15 05:10 AM |
| 3 | New father, horrified by what our current mainstream American society wants my son to become.A hormone replacement doc here in the states told me that in Europe, where baldness is less of an issue, doctors will supplement with DHT. It's got more metabolic effects, better effects on muscle & erections, than testosterone enthanate. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/15 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Decide to be a father or not—but don't let blue pill pussification dictate your fateI bet that he could be successful in SE Asia. I've seen a few young hot Thai or Indonesian women with older wealthy white men. Also, if xplat's blog is to be believed, he's a baller down in Bali (?). | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/15 04:54 AM |
| 2 | Decide to be a father or not—but don't let blue pill pussification dictate your fateGreat post. I'm 40 now, and have decided I want kids. I've been in the seduction world for 7 years or so, have spun plates to excess, now focused on quality, and motherhood abilities. Now it's just a matter of finding a suitable mother, a woman I can be with over a long period of time. I'd love to hear more about your experience, how you found and locked down a suitable woman--this au pair you mentioned in another post. Also--are you in Germany now, or in the states? Excellent stuff, and thanks … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/15 04:52 AM |
| 6 | Spinning Plates and their ValueDude, you're 21. Don't think so much about this stuff. Just go out and get a ton of experience. The cure for one-itis is to have 3 more in the pipeline--it is the mentality of abundance. Just remember the most beautiful girls still have to take a dump, and still have a weird thing in her vagina that looks like a combination of a penis and a belly button (the cervix.) Hot chicks are not special. Just keep hammering away on creating more value in yourself, and then lead with the idea that you're t… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/15 10:53 PM |
| 3 | [Rant]Recently taken The Red Pill and now I am disgusted with my life (long post from a 100% beta trying to change)Great comment. The only things I'd add: Be patient with yourself. The unplugging & rewiring process takes time. Secondarily, focus on frame control. It sounds like you have a lot of out of control emotions. Emotions are great, but you must ride that horse, not be ridden by it. Read the sidebar stuff on frame, meditate, lift, do what you need to do to have impeccable self-control & calm under pressure. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/15 05:06 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Your VoiceI haven't seen it as an ebook. A used copy was very inexpensive on amazon. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/15 04:19 AM |
| 6 | [FR] Your VoiceGreat book on voice "Change your voice, change your life." Helped me a ton. I do public speaking professionally, average around 30 hours of speaking a month. It has made a MASSIVE difference in my vocal projection, confidence, and my ability to speak for hours without losing my voice. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/15 09:22 PM |
| 11 | [FR] Multiple girlfriends = Multiple lives lived in one. Reflections on a life of plate spinning.Also of note: japanese character "futsukaoi", if memory serves me, is an ideogram containing 3 females. It means "noisy." | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/15 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Does anybody here think that the suffering is worth it, because being in love, no matter how long it lasts, is actually the greatest feeling in the world?No, being an emotionally stunted spergdroid is not only blue-pill, but an omega strategy of the loveless. I'll take love, any day of the week. But on my terms. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/15 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Does anybody here think that the suffering is worth it, because being in love, no matter how long it lasts, is actually the greatest feeling in the world?Love is not the only thing that's important, but it's pretty damned huge in a man's life. Look at that 75 year Harvard happiness study on men. Love ranks head & shoulders above everything else. That study began in the 1930's I believe. The world of those men doesn't exist anymore. But we can do our best to create and maintain loving relationships, even in the fucked up modern SMP we've inherited. Let me also qualify my statements. I'm 40 years old, and have had an interesting journey in game, se… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/15 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Hypergamy, pain, and jealousy made me the great man I am today.Perhaps you know a word that describes that emotion in another language. I was thinking about schadenfreude, which is a great German word which doesn't directly apply here. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/15 02:54 AM |
| 13 | Small technique that works wondersThis is a nice example of "push-pull" done subtly. Well-done. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/15 01:11 AM |
| 1 | TRP's place in society.Isn't it amazing that some of us were some time ago repeating these very things that @TealApostropheC is saying? I for one know I was repeating them, since it came from my parents and I trusted them. Yeah, this whole thing is amazing. Men seem to have a stronger ability to resolve cognitive dissonance by looking at actual facts and resolving disparate beliefs by amending them to match observed phenomena. Women mostly can't or won't undergo that process. As they say, it's a feature, not a bug. I … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/15 02:16 PM |
| 1 | TRP's place in society.All this proves is that women are not as happy (and I believe men are also less happy) Actually, men are getting happier & show higher levels of well-being, as women sink into the mire of unhappiness. It's called the paradox of declining female happiness. Gender is biological. Men & women are different. Get over it. Funny how you dismiss my "anecdotes" but then argue on your own anecdotes. Squirm, feminist. Your arguments are weak. Have fun with your cats! hahahaha! | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/15 02:09 PM |
| 1 | TRP's place in society.It's why reality TV is so popular. Yet another sign of your degeneracy. No, the standard line did not fail, you failed. Proof by assertion. Try harder. I'm blessed in life, because I think outside the box. RP is only a small part of that. Have you considered what life is like for women? If you're here, probably not. Tell me, what is life like for women? Where is your compassion for women? Was heavily involved with gender studies, took lots of feminist theory classes, dated hardcore feminists. I … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/15 05:49 AM |
| 3 | TRP's place in society.Now we're getting somewhere. You came in with your guns blazing. You never had any intention of having a rational discussion. You already had preconceived ideas about TRP ideas & community. You don't want rational discussion, you just want to troll for entertainment. Are you not entertained? If you have a serious question, I'd be happy to indulge you, but, like most modern feminists, you've got your ideas prebaked, no thought nor discussion needed. Most of us are here because we bought the stand… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/15 05:06 AM |
| 1 | TRP's place in society.logic behind my point You have a bright future as a fiction writer. Hahhahahhaah....what? Oh my. I just...like...smh...I think I just had a stroke at the mere thought of flirting with you. (And jokes on you, I'm going commando.) While I am deeply flattered, there are better ways to flirt than describing how you masturbate while about me. If you get any more graphic than describing your stroking habits, you'll have to start posting in r/porn or maybe at literotica.com. I thought you wanted to hav… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/15 04:36 AM |
| 2 | TRP's place in society.If someone said that Hitler Congrats, you took only 3 posts to prove Godwin correct. That has to be a troll post land-speed record. Sometimes, there is so much evidence Shifting the goalpost. Classic leftist move. Nice try though. Additionally, your definition of ad hominem is incorrect. Ad hominem is attacking a person to discredit their ideas. I'm attacking both. Your philosophies are terrible AND you are terrible people. So you deny an ad hominem, then admit it. Thank for confirming your DSM … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/15 04:09 AM |
| 1 | The red pill are a bunch of bigots who can't get laid.I enjoy setting up shit tests with emotionality, only to crush them mercilessly with teasing and dread game. It comes from the Temujin Khan school--big emotional ups & downs. It's fun & sharpens the dark triad chops. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/15 03:31 AM |
| 2 | The red pill are a bunch of bigots who can't get laid.I enjoy setting up shit tests with emotionality, only to crush them mercilessly with teasing and dread game. It comes from the Temujin Khan school--big emotional ups & downs. It's fun & sharpens the dark triad chops. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/15 03:31 AM |
| 3 | TRP's place in society.The reason we are dismissed and cast aside so readily is because we believe in a truth that is ugly. The truth of human nature hasn't always been cast aside, nor will it remain so for perpetuity. In fact we're already seeing great strides. Remember we don't need total acceptance, we just need a committed 10% minority to make major shifts. It's happening. Keep hammering, men. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/15 03:22 AM |
| 0 | TRP's place in society.You should be ashamed of yourself for leveling an accusation with zero evidence. That's called an ad hominem attack, and is an egregious logical fallacy that shows your complete lack of intellectual prowess. Show some evidence or GTFO. This isn't your little SJW hug-bubble--men are talking here, so be prepared to back up your state ments or once again STFU. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/15 03:20 AM |
| 2 | Girlfriend broke-down from consistent demolition of shit tests. Intermittently slip in some beta-ness.Nassim Taleb wrote a great book about it, by the same title. The concept that some things benefit from chaos, and grow from disorder. It' a class above being strong or robust, which resists chaos and disorder but do not benefit from it directly. If you like to read, and like interesting, unusual ideas that have immense practical implications, you'll love Taleb's books . | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/15 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Understanding the Price of Oil: Redpill StylePeak oil is not a popular topic in any group. I think the fact that you got a couple of positive comments at all shows the overall openness of this community. Try talking about this stuff in an economics or an automotively oriented forum--you will get blanked. Hubbert was excommunicated in the 1950s from the petroleum industry when he made his predictions for domestic peak production But he was vindicated within a couple of decades--domestic production, even considering the fracking/shale "revol… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/15 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Understanding the Price of Oil: Redpill Stylegreat post. though no one is for sure about how much the price of oil is gonna be in the future. For now, we're seeing a ton of demand destruction domestically--fewer vehicle miles driven, more efficient auto fleet, etc. Cost is low because there's a glut of production relative to demand. But if there were a big geopolitical storm, like say a big shooting war in the middle east, a blockade of the strait of hormuz, an earthquake destroys a big chunk of oil infrastructure (Texas gulf coast, for ex… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 11:23 PM |
| 2 | NAWALT: A Base Rate FallacyThe man is proven to be objectively of low rank. This one is dicey--women are not known for objectivity. In fact, an argument can be made that game & PUA stuff specifically works because it trips the subjective triggers (most of them) of high SMV. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 11:10 PM |
| -2 | Girlfriend broke-down from consistent demolition of shit tests. Intermittently slip in some beta-ness.Way harder to maintain a relationship than to just bang a slut Yes & no. I find it easier to maintain a relationship with someone 1-2 SMV points lower than me, than to constantly be prospecting for new plates. Of course the balanced strategy is to employ both, while working to improve my value, so the SMV of both my OLTR and plates improves over time. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 08:12 PM |
| 14 | Girlfriend broke-down from consistent demolition of shit tests. Intermittently slip in some beta-ness..just answer like a normal human being. I find that's maybe 5% of the time. Witty asshole works better the rest of the time. If you're sensing a true need for comfort, as in the OP, then connecting, comforting, loving works better. But if you're in doubt--witty asshole is just about as antifragile as you can get in the realm of dating. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 08:09 PM |
| 8 | I started working on not being a nice guy at the age of 24, and started seeing results. 1.5 years later, I am starting to realize that I am consciously exploiting women for what I want. I am still not happy.I know that my attractiveness to them is situational, not physical. This is game. 80%+ of male attractiveness is based on context. Learning to intentionally manage context is the essence of game. Give yourself a pat on the back, spin a few more plates, recognize you're doing a good job, and keep moving forward. Find happiness within, and remember Dre's words. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 05:54 AM |
| 66 | A Cause For Concern - 27 personality traits to avoid in women.She believes in "true love" and the concept of "the one". This isn't necessarily a red flag. This belief, or a variation of it, is held by approximately 87% of the women on this planet. The other 13% are jaded as fuck, and are truly damaged in the worst way. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 01:55 AM |
| 3 | Post-wall woman writes 9 paragraphs on r/okcupid convincing herself that she's more sexually desirable than younger girls. Comedy gold.You see Sailer's iron law playing out constantly on social media. I chuckle every time I see another episode playing out. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 01:46 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Shit test – “Do you think about other people when we have sex?”Best answer so far. My answer: "Yes. I think about others. I think about a massive stadium full of people watching, as I pound your little hole to oblivion. They do the wave as you come, and I get a standing ovation for my O-face." | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 01:43 AM |
| 4 | [FR] AWALT is the hardest thing to swallow.It's a sad day in my life. Should be a happy day. It's the day you were unchained from falsehood, set free. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 07:45 PM |
| 2 | My Free Ebook Release: "Why Get Married?"I wrote #2, verbatim, in the comments for part 6 or 7. This is a legit, well-researched, skillfully written piece. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/15 01:47 AM |
| 2 | My Free Ebook Release: "Why Get Married?"Thanks for this, I'll be distributing it through various channels to men who need this info ASAP. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/15 04:08 AM |
| 11 | TRP help: How to overcome "Emotional Attachment" tendencies?Abundance conquers all. If you've got 6 more in the pipeline, and 2-3 solids in the rotation, you may still have feelings of emotional attachment for your unicorn, but they won't stay around long, and won't bother you. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 03:27 PM |
| 3 | About frameFor me, the single biggest frame-builder has been to learn to enjoy, embody, and explore the finer points of amused mastery. Nothing is simpler, easier, and more fun for frame-maintenance than just keeping a happy smirk on my face and a flip comment on the tip my tongue. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 03:18 PM |
| 2 | Why Get Married? (Part 7/7: Divorce, Assets, Alimony, and Child Support)This has been an outstanding series. I believe that this material would circulate farther than the semi-gated walls of Reddit, if it all 7 posts were combined into a single PDF/e-book. That way, men could share this info with other men (and women) as a simple email attachment. You could even set it up for free distribution on amazon, then sell it for a few bucks. It's that valuable, and I do believe people will purchase it. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 11:06 PM |
| 2 | Simulated Sex - Will It Spell The End of Beta Bux for Post Wall Women?Good point, and great handle. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 09:14 PM |
| 13 | Simulated Sex - Will It Spell The End of Beta Bux for Post Wall Women?We are blinded to the geometric nature of technological advancement by the "normalcy bias," that is the human neurological tendency to see current conditions, no matter how strange or contextually anomalous, as totally normal. In reality we've seen more advancement in the last couple of years in technology than in all of the previous 2000-5000 years. And we can't imagine what's going to come next. All we can say is, that the future is going to be... weird. Sexbots, VR sex, and so much more await… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 06:49 PM |
| 1 | I know how to be socialize. I know how to be dominant. I know how to seduce women. I understand TRP. However, I feel in pain, physically tired, and 0 motivation 24/7, which prevents me from doing any of those. What do?Get your testosterone, estrogen, and cortisol tested--both free & bound. Get your diet sorted, look for signs of inflammation, and address as needed. If the above two are out of your pay grade, see a good functional medicine doctor who can help you. Write & keep a journal, and work on letting go of past hurts & integrating the lessons of the past. Seek counselling & therapy for your emotional issues, but don't get stuck on it. Find a solid, alpha male therapist to help you, which may take a whil… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/15 07:48 PM |
| 19 | PSA: Being Alpha does not involve flashy non-essentials to convey success and influence.A pro baseballer living out of a van works for him precisely because he's a pro athlete and worth millions. It's what evo psychologist Gaad Saad calls a "costly signal." Nassim Taleb uses his visit to the UN as an example--he was the only one without a tie, and he'd earned it due to his acclaim. There are some evo-psych studies that bear this out. High status college professors are seen as moreso when wearing casual attire--they're alpha enough to do so. However college students wearing casual a… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/15 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Why Get Married? (Part 6: Weaponizing the Female Vote)I second that. This excellent series of posts could and should easily be formatted for distribution as a book, e-book, or PDF. Thanks for the awesome Esther Villar PDF, BTW. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/15 04:12 PM |
| 2 | BDSM Is Very Red Pill If Done Right and Done Legitimately.Excellent post. The submission of a beautiful woman is one of life's true pleasures, and it must be earned through dominance, frame control, emotional modulation, and using intermittent rewards for your subs. Your story is an inspiring one. Keep up the great work. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/15 04:06 PM |
| 3 | The MGTOW-unless approachWomen get the men they deserve..Decide where on the quality spectrum you are to be, and be patient with yourself. Spengler's law is a beautiful thing. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/15 05:11 AM |
| 1 | "Male genes more important" - says Science.Yes, hypergamy is an evolutionary adaptation, and a pretty slick (heh) one at that. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/15 09:43 PM |
| 6 | Schrodinger's SlutYou've mangled Schroedinger's uncertainty principle. A more literal reading of Schroedinger's Slut-certaity Principle follows: Premise 1: All women exist an a quasi-slut/non-slut state, which represents properties of both. Premise 2: The only way to tell if a woman is in a slut/non-slut is to check. Premise 3: The act of checking into her slut/non-slut status preturbs the quasi-state effect, causing her to bounce into either slut or non-slut. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/15 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Some TRP theories are common knowledge in China, known and accepted by all, including women.Jun Zi originally came from Daoism, and meant someone who ordered their live according to the Dao (natural way) vs according to ego, etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/15 12:28 AM |
| 2 | stereotypical alpha widow story.Huh? You're loco, too much weed, brah. I've been in Denver a ton recently for work, that place is crawling with athletic dames. Go to a yoga, pilates, or adult gymnastics class, you'll see more tight bodies per capita than at the beach. Dance classes are great too. Where you don't go: sports bars at happy hour--sausage factory. Especially in the tech center or Broomfield. If you must go to happy hour, go to a wine bar downtown, preferably early, during the week. You will see some hot dames. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/15 12:13 AM |
| 8 | Keeping an abundance mentality as you get older.Word. I'm 40. Spinning plates keeps getting better. Women pursue high value men. As men age, if we do it correctly, we build SMV equity, and then enjoy the leverage it comes with. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/15 12:06 AM |
| 11 | Narcissism, Frame and EmpathyFor the younger guys... there is no great accomplishment in spinning plates. You're shooting an arrow, then painting a bullseye around it. Learning to manage multiple women IS an accomplishment, and a significant one at that. Just because you don't have the predilection for it, doesn't mean it's not significant. 'Holding frame' is exhausting. Maybe for you. Not everyone has this experience. Part of it may be that you're defining it as something that it's not. "Frame" is not a form of projection,… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/15 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Lose-lose situation for women?I don't know, the lower SMV girls try just as hard or harder to lock it down than the high ones. In fact that's part of their charms, but you must, like all charms, resist them. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/15 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Lose-lose situation for women?That which has happened before, will happen again. History doesn't repeat itself, but it rhymes. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/15 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Russell Brand talks about 50 Shades of Grey and porn, but more importantly how we've become voyeuristic in our pursuit of women. A brief analysis and then a hardy helping of Patrice.50SOG is really not true submission. It's "topping from the bottom," because the little subbie slut has control. Fuck that. But 50SOG is a cultural phenomenon that RP can embrace, because facts are facts--100 million copies sold, 100 million in film revenues its first weekend, for a shitty book and a shittier movie. Why? Because bitches want to be dominated. End. of story. They made it a feminist-friendly "topping from the bottom" storyline, only because they had to, to get it onto the big scree… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/15 04:44 AM |
| 5 | Pretentious yoga women have sexual affairs with Bikram Yoga founder. When he obviously didn't commit, they accuse him of rape instead.I think you have it backwards. In my state, audio recording of a converstation is legal with consent of one party (that would be you) but video needs both. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/15 07:03 AM |
| 1 | What to do with one's romantic inclinations? Be the emotional rollercoaster. Be wild, unpredictable,It's not necessary to completely kill the beta. Beta, like most human traits, is an evolutionary adaptation that has benefits and drawbacks. I think of beta as withdrawing from the masculinity account. If you have a huge surplus (alpha state and credibility), you can withdraw from the account & not go into the red. Further, beta is simply comfort. I've blown girls out before being "too alpha," too aggressive, too much player vibe, not enough comfort (beta). Beta characteristics are a tool like a… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/15 05:17 AM |
| 0 | Monogamous LTR vs Harem style many girlfriendsHow are they semantically different? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/15 05:11 AM |
| 3 | What to do with one's romantic inclinations? Be the emotional rollercoaster. Be wild, unpredictable,Great reply. Can you elaborate on some of the things you say & do, to both people you know and to strangers you just me that elicit these responses? Particularly those: --"I'm going to admit something to you - don't let it get to your head - but I love rereading your texts while I'm at work" --"Are you crazy?" --"You have an awesome energy to you" --"Man you're intense" --"I think you're a terrible person" I'm super interested in the frame, subcommunication, and actual context. This is close to … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 08:41 PM |
| 5 | TRP is working well, but I don't feel like a LTR is worth it anymore...How to know when to turn a plate into an LTR: For me it comes down to my attraction to her, first and foremost, and whether or not it's sustainably strong. Do I like her scent, taste, her body, face, etc, not only now but into the forseeable future? Key. Secondly, it's dependent upon how feminine she is, how well she follows my lead, behaves submissively, meets my needs, etc. If a plate has both those qualities, I'd monogamously LTR a woman. I've been RP for 5 years, had many plates, and have ye… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Monogamous LTR vs Harem style many girlfriendsTears simply show how much value you created in her life, and allow her to mourn its loss. At first I had a hard time seeing a girl cry. Then you get inured to it, then you embrace the tears, knowing it's a good thing, a release, as well as a statement as to your importance in her life. The scary stage is when you start to get some strange high from fucking a girl who's crying about the loss of the relationship. That's some dark BDSM shit right there, compelling in its emotional power and vulner… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 05:45 PM |
| 3 | What to do with one's romantic inclinations? Be the emotional rollercoaster. Be wild, unpredictable,Great reply,man. This is what I was looking for when writing this post. Thanks. you don't betatize if you own it, if you don't give a fuck about her reaction, if you do it for you, for your own selfishness. This is challenging to do, but so worth it. Ironically it conforms to some of the 90's era pop psychobabble about "owning your feelings," but only after you've attained sufficient alpha credit rating to own such a volatile property. And it's holding frame that gives a man this emotional equit… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 05:40 PM |
| 3 | Monogamous LTR vs Harem style many girlfriendsIf you're a high status man and they're into you, they'll keep coming back, I don't think there's any need to manipulate. This has been my experience. I don't manipulate at all. I do say "I love you, " but only when I genuinely feel it. It's not manipulatio to say "I love you" if you truly feel it. I feel it easily, so it's no lie, and it's no skin off my back to be emotionally available. It's possible to be an incredibly emotionally present man, to say I love you, to give all these incredible f… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 05:45 AM |
| 7 | What Women Really Mean When Calling a Man an 'Asshole'You've made it too complex. Asshole is simple. It means you have failed to conform to her expectations. And it is good. Go forth and shat upon expectations. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Monogamous LTR vs Harem style many girlfriendsMAYBE is my friend. one of the best tools in a man's arsenal for frame control. Along with "perhaps," "We'll see," and especially, "If you're a very good girl." | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 05:05 AM |
| 5 | Monogamous LTR vs Harem style many girlfriendsMy main problems with Mormonism, and Islam, for that matter, is that if I'm going to have multiple wives, I'm definitely going to need to drink alcohol. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 05:03 AM |
| 15 | How do women control hypergamy ? Easy. Self Awareness. We need to hold them Accountable.In other words spin the fuck out of some plates. The cultural climate will break you if you try and do anything else. Deep irony--that open polyamory is such a powerful response to open hypergamy that it negates it. We're not quite there yet in our society. Women still furtively branch-swing and hamster-rationalize, attempting not to look like sluts. And men like us, well, like me, I refuse to commit to a woman, but I also don't cop to any other women in my life. So it's more covert hypergamy me… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/15 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Optimize your Testosterone to Cortisol ratio for mental and physical gainsMostly true. When people eat a grip of fructose, like in HFCS, the liver will synthesize cholesterol from the excess fructose. But you're right that you can't really get cholesterol from an egg yolk into your bloodstream, not directly. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/15 08:01 AM |
| 8 | Optimize your Testosterone to Cortisol ratio for mental and physical gainsYou're not a gorilla--they are giant, mostly vegetarian omnivores with tiny nutsacks and penises. You are a man. We are omnivores with teeth to tear meat, to digest fat. It's well known to degrade cardiovascular health, which in addition to hindering workout performance, can impact erections. Humans aren't canines or tigers, we don't clear cholesterol from the blood efficiently. Your "science" on cholesterol is about 20 years behind. Get with it. Read Taubes, Wolf, Cordain. Cholesterol is the li… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/15 08:00 AM |
| 26 | LTR cheated on you? You have a right to be mad!My ex cheated on me. It stung like a major league fastball to the head. But it was a gift. Channel that anger into self improvement. Rage on the barbell. Hammer the weights, the classic books, challenge yourself. Greatness waits for you to emerge from the crucible of your own forging. It introduced me to the redpill world. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/15 07:55 AM |
| 7 | Maybe we can put a positive spin on this whole "late bloomer" and missing out on stuff growing up issue.At 30, you are NOT at the peak of your SMV. Not even close. It depends on your career, your genetics, fitness, fashion, and your game. It may peak at 35, it may peak at 45, but if you're at 30 and at peak SMV, you're definitely NOT a late bloomer, but a very early one. Yes, we will never know the amazing feeling of being the big man on campus or the popular kid in high school that had sex with hot girls on the weekends, but I think that it is okay. Maybe, just maybe blah blah blah This is thinly… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/15 07:52 AM |
| 3 | Optimize your Testosterone to Cortisol ratio for mental and physical gainsLong term student of botanical medicine here. Kava is dangerous, when using aerial parts, i.e everything but the roots. Studies showing hepatotoxicity were done using whole plants, when traditional use is roots only, not aerial parts. Some herb companies got greedy & tried to cut their product with aerial parts, as they're more potent & make a stronger product, but also cause gut problems, including liver toxicity. Bottom line, get your kava from a reputable source, and you'll be fine. It's a re… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/15 04:26 AM |
| 15 | Suggestion: Take A Break From Reading TRPKudos. I think I need to take a break. In fact I'd like to engineer a break from technology all together for a week or two. I've definitely internalized TRP. It serve me well to break from reading so much, digest what I've read, learned, and practiced. Reading RP material is addictive, because this path has provided me so much value. Yet I still recognize the need for a break. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/15 09:39 PM |
| 1 | An Easy way to re-frame any command.I've used the "what's the magic word?", and still use it on occasion. My favorite when a woman attempts to grab the frame by issuing a command. "Bossy, aren't you?" or "OK, bossypants." And then I do the opposite, or I do nothing. Usually then she'll be really sweet, ask nicely, and then I'll make a big production out of doing whatever she asked. Another favorite is when she commands something, with a trailing question, which is usually something like: "Hey, go get my laundry, will you?" And to … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/15 06:22 AM |
| -2 | The Ancestral Environment of Femaleswhether people should start screening for Variants of AVPR1A gene and ignore such women as partners. Since long before reading this post, I've planned to have my wife/partner take a 23 and me genetic test, and have plausibly deniable reasons "our family historys are so interesting!" Now I have another allele to look for in the list. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/15 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Is there a relationship between the quality of sex and amount of shit-testing one's partner possesses?There's no relationship between sexual quality and volume of shit tests. I've had amazing sex with girls who rarely shit test, and I've had amazing sex with women who shit test constantly. Reverse is also true--bad sex with heavy shit testers, and with angelic unicorns. In my experience, the factor determining shit test volume and frequency is twofold: 1: male's ability to pass said tests. 2: woman's self-assessed SMV. For some women, they self-assess accurately. Most do not--skewing too high, o… | /r/askTRP | 17/02/15 01:33 AM |
| -4 | Younger guys, get vaccinated against HPVIt's up to OP to prove it's safe. Burden of proof is on party making the affirmative case. In this case, the OP is claiming that the vax is both safe and effective. But because I'm feeling especially generous today, here's a link from the CDC's own fucking website that shows a 6% rate of adverse effects, including 32 deaths: http://www.cdc.gov/vaccinesafety/Vaccines/HPV/jama.html If 6% of airliners crashed, the deaths would be astronomical, and nobody would fly. That's not to mention that these … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/15 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Younger guys, get vaccinated against HPVfalse equivalency. Nice try. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/15 01:27 AM |
| -4 | Younger guys, get vaccinated against HPVthis is beyond dumb advice. HPV vax hasn't been proven safe, and has a history of killing & maiming young women. The vax is not a panacea, it does not guarantee good sexual health for anyone, and likely does the opposite. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/15 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Lifting, muscles, SMV and social classParaphrasing Rippetoe: anyone who claims that squatting is bad for the knees has conclusively demonstrated the lack of qualifications to intelligently comment on the subject, and should be ignored. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/15 08:57 PM |
| 15 | Lifting, muscles, SMV and social classIt's true, there has been a perception of bodybuilding as low class. There was an article in Outside magazine a while back about a guy who discovered that in his SWPL social scene. But it's mostly SWPL men who perpetuate this. I don't believe most women, especially younger women have that attitude. They're not thinking culturally when they respond to a muscular male. Women respond viscerally, that is with 'gina tingles, to a fit male, and they're not thinking about social class. They're not thin… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/15 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Become a man because that is your purpose in life, don't do it only to slay because you will not find proper motivationPUA was/is simply tactics. RP is strategy. They can be used together or separately. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/15 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Do you tell your plates about your other plates?Plausible deniability. I never admit to other plates, but never commit to monogamy. I phrase carefully so as not to lie. "I'm not in love with anyone else." Technically not a lie. But also not inclusive of the truth. Simply put, I have assumed the form of my quarry, I have learned from how women phrase things, and subcommunicate. Yet I will joke about "other girlfriends," and if questioned, I say "a lot of truth is said in jest," but admit to nothing else. I let a little truth out, then slip bac… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/15 03:30 AM |
| 6 | Examples of the first time, or most salient time you became aware of social proof/preselection/hypergamyFirst real experience with hypergamy & branch swinging: it was 2010, I had just read Roissy's classic post "Valentine's day mascara" and a few others. (I'll always remember my first). Background: being a professionally trained health clinician, I have highly developed interview skills. I was just healing over a massive breakup precipitated by the knockout combination of one-itis and betatude. I went on a road trip with a girl I just started dating, a cute 30-year old blonde (I was 35 at the time… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/15 03:52 AM |
| 2 | The "warped" world of 1950's marriage counseling.Great write-up on the article. Aeon mag often has thought provoking, countercultural articles, though I'm not surprised it's taken on a bright blue sheen here. I'm reading an amazing book, written in 1959, that chronicles the cultural evolution of love and marriage. It's called "the Natural History of Love," and is rife with RP perspectives, though even in the late 50's when it was written, there are already feminist and BP ideas infiltrating into the work. The author later wrote a book on divor… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/15 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Tease Your Girl: The Atomic Bomb of LustDo you also like it when a girl teases you? Do you also like it when a girl plays hard to get, acts aloof. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/15 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Tease Your Girl: The Atomic Bomb of LustYep. If I get the "you're an ass," or similar, I know I"m on target. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/15 02:49 AM |
| 0 | Tease Your Girl: The Atomic Bomb of LustI have neices & nephews. THis crayon thing is happening. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/15 02:47 AM |
| 0 | Tease Your Girl: The Atomic Bomb of LustGive her an irritating nickname I'll use sporadically but sometimes a few days in a row. I do this all the time. Best ones are those that imply that her body is of an unfortunate shape. "Love nugget," one of my faves. When she calls, I call her those. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/15 02:46 AM |
| 0 | Tease Your Girl: The Atomic Bomb of LustYeah, I do something similar, I go "this is you:" then launch into a caricicatured impression of her speech, etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/15 02:43 AM |
| 10 | Age and SMV in TV CommercialsWhen Hollywood calls for a 45 year old woman, in commercial-world they mean fairytale 45-year-old and not an actual one. Which is why plastic surgery, botox, and any other anti-aging treatment is a big deal in Hollywood, and in any other community where women have access to enough disposable income to afford them. Not that they work--like Rogan says, 40 year old women who get botox or surgery don't look 24, they look like a really weird 40 year old woman. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/15 11:30 PM |
| 3 | New BoingBoing Post decrying TRP(as well as MRA, GG, etc)Boing boing? Who takes that shit seriously. It's stupid clickbait, a sad excuse for journalism. Reading that shit pollutes your mind. avoid. Go lift, approach, or write. If you can't get it out of your mind, then yeah, write a rebuttal, but do it to free your mind from it, not to attempt any rational discourse. These choads can't be reasoned with. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/15 07:14 PM |
| 1 | How Tinder facilitates SMV/RMV price discovery, or Why "No Hookups" is the funniest, most common phrase on TinderNailed it. AFBB has been with us since agriculture and paternity fraud. Before that, paternity was a non-issue because all men that slept with a woman prior to a childbirth invested in that woman and child. Today we need illusions and market distortions to enforce this. RP clears the fog. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/15 03:19 AM |
| 1 | How Tinder facilitates SMV/RMV price discovery, or Why "No Hookups" is the funniest, most common phrase on TinderI am not on Tinder but I get the sense from online comments on female-heavy blogs that this awareness and resulting dread (seen by men as more respect) is actually appearing. I'd love to see some links to that effect, archived, of course. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/15 03:14 AM |
| 3 | How Tinder facilitates SMV/RMV price discovery, or Why "No Hookups" is the funniest, most common phrase on TinderIndeed. I've listened to all 3 of his appearances on JRE. He's got his own podcast, Tangentially speaking, that's great as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 09:18 PM |
| 3 | How TheRedPill facilitates the disillusionment of Betas, or Why most of are wasting our time here.Here's why I disagree with the body of your post, but not the second to last paragraph: Alpha status is largely contextual. Find a community of common interest that you're into, that also has a decent population of attractive women. Ideally, it will be at least 50%, if not more. Then be excellent at that field of interest, in addition to being charming, confident, charismatic, and reasonably fit. As long as you're reasonably average in looks, you'll slay with this approach. Example: the yoga wor… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 05:05 PM |
| 1 | How Tinder facilitates SMV/RMV price discovery, or Why "No Hookups" is the funniest, most common phrase on TinderWhere in Italy are you? I've been wanting to go to Italy, for lots of reasons, partially as a test of my game, and as a jumping off point to Eastern Europe. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 04:16 PM |
| 3 | How Tinder facilitates SMV/RMV price discovery, or Why "No Hookups" is the funniest, most common phrase on TinderGood book, interesting author. It deserves its own post. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 04:09 PM |
| 0 | How I plate: Tall Girl EditionIn principle, I agree with you, they aren't needed, and masculinity is primary, before height. I've dated taller women, long before I had lifts. Not a foot taller, though, that's impressive. But I must say, there's something to it that's interesting. Women are unlikely to be able to tell how tall a guy is. THey just know that he's either taller or shorter, but often don't have a precise guess. Women are terrible at estimating height, distance, or any other linear measurement, except maybe volume… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 04:06 PM |
| 1 | How I plate: Tall Girl EditionI've got some 2 inch insoles I use occasionally. You get used to walking in them, it's really not a problem. I do feel a subtle shift in the energy in a room when I walk in wearing the lifts. I am more likely to wear them for business than for a date. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 04:03 PM |
| 3 | How Tinder facilitates SMV/RMV price discovery, or Why "No Hookups" is the funniest, most common phrase on TinderI agree completetly, Tinder is accelerating a general trend towards more poor bonding experiences due to higher and higher average N counts. Unfortunately there's not much we can do. As they say, the market must correct itself. The only saving grace is that women, even moderate N women, will bond with men whom they perceive as having high SMV. You could say that falling in love is realizing that the person is as good as you're likely to get with. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 03:57 PM |
| 3 | How Tinder facilitates SMV/RMV price discovery, or Why "No Hookups" is the funniest, most common phrase on TinderShort version--she initiated. We were sitting next to each other at a bar, my phone was on the bar, and she asked me "What's your experience been like on this crazy site?" then aggressively grabbed my phone & attempted to open my tinder. Crazy bitch, I know. It was locked, of course, and I let her fumble with my locked phone for a minute. I answered, truthfully, "Pretty good overall, weird, interesting, but good." She got this really intrigued look on her face, and I knew I could fuck with her b… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 03:50 PM |
| 2 | How Tinder facilitates SMV/RMV price discovery, or Why "No Hookups" is the funniest, most common phrase on TinderThat defeats the purpose of the filtration aspect of the app, because the data set of women who wants you is irrelevant. THe only set that matters is the set of women who you want that also want you. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 03:45 PM |
| 1 | How Tinder facilitates SMV/RMV price discovery, or Why "No Hookups" is the funniest, most common phrase on TinderGet good pics, by a pro if needed, and work on your text game & first date charisma. You'll go far with it if you 've got a couple hundred matches. In the parlance of this post, you're an underperforming asset. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 03:43 PM |
| 2 | How Tinder facilitates SMV/RMV price discovery, or Why "No Hookups" is the funniest, most common phrase on Tindergoing short means you're going to make a bet that the value is going down. Selling it, basically. Opposite of going long, which means you think it's going to rise in value, so you're buying like mad. Good financial acumen is an RP trait, might want to find a good source to learn about it. I don't have a reference for you, I have simply accumulated some knowledge over time, and some commenters here undoubtedly have far more knowledge and experience than I. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 03:41 PM |
| 2 | How Tinder facilitates SMV/RMV price discovery, or Why "No Hookups" is the funniest, most common phrase on Tinder"younger, hotter, tighter." From heartiste's blog, coined by commenter Great Books for Men | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 03:35 PM |
| 3 | How Tinder facilitates SMV/RMV price discovery, or Why "No Hookups" is the funniest, most common phrase on TinderBrilliant. Disclaimer, especially so. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 03:31 PM |
| 4 | How Tinder facilitates SMV/RMV price discovery, or Why "No Hookups" is the funniest, most common phrase on TinderI tend to agree with you. Another example, as above--betas--high RMV, often low SMV. Male models with tons of options--high SMV, low RMV, however due to handicap principle, super high SMV men don't seem to need much RMV. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 03:31 PM |
| 1 | How Tinder facilitates SMV/RMV price discovery, or Why "No Hookups" is the funniest, most common phrase on TinderYes, thanks for the correction on the call option, you're right the put option makes much more sense in the metaphor. I'll consider what you said about real versus perceived option. If SMV works as a global concept encompassing potential relationship value, it must work then because humans are pair bonders, and our genetic lineage has a much better chance of long-term success when parental investment is high. This gets us into a discussion of r vs K selection. So perhaps there's a distinction to… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 03:29 PM |
| 12 | How Tinder facilitates SMV/RMV price discovery, or Why "No Hookups" is the funniest, most common phrase on TinderQuite possibly true. Overplaying my hand, or pricing myself out of the market, is one of my biggest fears. But, overconfidence isn't necessarily a handicap in dating markets, quite the opposite, as long as one is willing to make bets and commit to decisive action with that self-perceived SMV in mind. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 05:41 AM |
| 9 | How Tinder facilitates SMV/RMV price discovery, or Why "No Hookups" is the funniest, most common phrase on TinderYou are quite right, I should have clarified SMV vs RMV in that reference. Betas are high RMV, but low SMV. We all know they might as well be invisible. Women want both high SMV and RMV. But SMV is primary, and in this chaotic market, it's almost a sign of high SMV to admit that you're not boyfriend material. It's almost as if she wants to prove you wrong, that her superior feminine energy will unlock her partner's latent RMV simply by nature of her specialness. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 05:30 AM |
| 27 | How Tinder facilitates SMV/RMV price discovery, or Why "No Hookups" is the funniest, most common phrase on TinderIt was a natural and inevitable progression, considering all our discussions of "market value" of some kind. I'd be surprised if Rollo or another manosphere heavy hadn't already written about this, though perhaps not related to Tinder. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 04:38 AM |
| 26 | How Tinder facilitates SMV/RMV price discovery, or Why "No Hookups" is the funniest, most common phrase on TinderIndeed, sex value for women is "imaginary," unless they get knocked up. Then they've secured the DNA of that man, and maybe his money too, but most women are looking for the whole package. From a genetic perspective, it may be that the current roiling, turbulent sexual market is bad for happiness but good for genetic quality, in addition to being a better model of price discovery. Early and widespread monogamous marriage creates market inefficiencies by "locking in" those with strong SMV mismatc… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 04:36 AM |
| 7 | Considering The 80/20 RuleTake a gander at the primary data source she used for the article--it's sexual self-reporting. This is notoriously unreliable data. Just look at it by race, and you'll see the strawmen building up like in the beginning of Wizard of Oz. The latina chicks all say they're virgins, and the black guys all say they've fucked a ton of women. These are, no pun intended, likely to be "fat-tailed" distributions, and thus from a mathematical "tail-risk" perspective, they may be right, but if they're wrong,… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/15 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Is the pursuit of 9's and 10's for an LTR is a horribly bad idea?Bingo! This is the reason we use the verb "pull" when describing the general process of seduction. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/15 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Ski Game: The Ultimate Cold ApproachMaybe I'll be getting a season pass next season after all.... | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/15 02:33 AM |
| 21 | Plate the tallest girl you can findStart with your social circle. I know a lot of taller women who have trouble dating, because they're not hot enough to pull a tall, hot man, yet are still attractive. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/15 02:30 AM |
| 3 | There's an AskReddit going right now about how it feels to have "settled." A lot of AWALT going on in there.AF/BB isn't as old as mankind, but it's as old as agriculture. Hunter-gatherer/forager tribes are much more egalitarian, including sharing of women and meat. They had much less established ideas about paternity, and believed that every make that fucked a woman had some part in producing that child, so often all men who bedded a particular woman would contribute to mate and parental investment. Yeah, it's often the alphas, but the egalitarian system made it much smoother, less social friction. Ag… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/15 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Taking care of your faceIf you don't have acne, don't bother with any special face soap. In fact, your skin will be healthier if you don't use any soap at all. Rinse with pure water, and use an all-natural moisurizer. I find a locally made salve with lanolin works amazingly well. I'm 40+ and am commonly guessed to be around 32. This is changing now that I have a very short haircut that shows off my gray hair, but with a dye job, I could pass for a lot younger. And yes, I've been using natural sunscreens for years, and … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/15 07:36 PM |
| 3 | The Reddit Sex Partner Count Thread - a case study in Hypergamy, the Cock Carousel, Beta Bucks, and The Wall.Yes, pretty much. The women I know IRL who use reddit are all pretty sexually active, though most are also pretty nerdy. On the flip side, the younger women I know who aren't into reddit or tech (yes, they're out there) have much lower N counts. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/15 03:29 PM |
| 43 | The Reddit Sex Partner Count Thread - a case study in Hypergamy, the Cock Carousel, Beta Bucks, and The Wall.Those crazy bitches. Remember, this is Reddit which itelf creates some kind of selection bias. Who knows that the fuck that selection bias is, but I'd bet a Benjamin that the average female Redditor is sluttier by at least 2 standard deviations above the mean. Call it the "attention whore fuck factor," where any woman who has shared intimate details in a digital fashion can be assumed to have an N count equal to 5.67 times (claimed)N. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/15 05:46 AM |
| 3 | The Reddit Sex Partner Count Thread - a case study in Hypergamy, the Cock Carousel, Beta Bucks, and The Wall.It wasn't in 2x, it was in AskReddit. Thus it's all about seeking validation. Same difference prettymuch. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/15 05:20 AM |
| 0 | Best Place in USA for Red Pill Women?Good luck, sir. The corrosive culture of US mainstream media has worked its magic everywhere. Utah and Idaho probably have the best ratios of more conservative folks, which is sadly about as close as you'll get to non-internet RP culture. Even then, a lot of BP stuff gets absorbed into "Churchian" culture--see Dalrock for details. If you're looking for a city with a lot of Asian and Eastern European women, LA is probably tops, with NYC second. Not that these are by any means "TRP friendly," exce… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/15 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Advice required ;"cheated "on girlfriend / attachment issues /oneitisFurther, what is a "hamstering?" You used that term both in your FR and here. What is it, exactly? How does it apply here? Not trying to be harsh, but you may be misusing or sloppily using RP terminology, and in the process missing some critical feedback from this girl. Hamstering typically is how we describe a rationalization post hoc, and typically describes prosexual behavior being excused on the grounds of "it just happened." "Hamstering" about being hurt isn't a useful heuristic, it doesn't… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/15 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Advice required ;"cheated "on girlfriend / attachment issues /oneitisGotcha. Your FR isn't clear--you wrote things like "she asks" and " I tell" without stating they are over text. Much more clear now. Secondly, if you're clear you have enough attraction, then the so-called "comfort" shit test isn't a shit test at all, it's a error in calibration on your part. You misread her need for emotional connection & comfort as a shit test. Shit tests occur when a woman is unsure of a man's true SMV, which she attempts to ascertain through the shit test as a tool. The need… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/15 07:34 AM |
| 3 | Advice required ;"cheated "on girlfriend / attachment issues /oneitisJB's comment really says it all about the best strategy moving forward. Onward, son, don't look back except to learn from your mistakes. That is to say, the only thing I would add would be to do a post-mortem on your game with her. You failed some critical shit tests. When she asked you the last time you had sex, your response in some manner conveyed guilt, shame, or someother weakness. Consider your response in that moment. Further, you had another chance after that, possibly, but lost frame, w… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/15 06:13 AM |
| 11 | Why it's Important to Learn how to Spin PlatesYou're on the right track. On the other side--know when to dial back when you've spun a lot of plates over a long period of time (I've been spinning plates for the better part of 5 years), and have created a couple of alpha widows. The last one was pretty amazing--a very good woman fell deeply for me. I'm dialing back now, seeking quality over quantity. Still spinning plates, but looking for that fine bone china. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/15 06:01 AM |
| 6 | AWALT: age, attractiveness, and relationship status mean nothing.Two kinds of lesbians: the ones who have no other choice (omega females) and the ones making the wrong choice. ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/15 05:55 AM |
| 2 | On Phone Guarding and Being "Disrespected"Be interesting. Be attractive. Don't be boring. She will forget her phone. You'll be far more compelling. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/15 02:28 AM |
| -2 | How to survive working with womenThese rules are all different, and mosty useless, when you're the business owner. If you're gonna tap the help, you must be discreet, careful, kind, and maintain frame totally. Lots of dames have fantasies of fucking their boss, or other authority figures. Help a girl out! Haha. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/15 10:31 PM |
| 10 | Oldschool ProTip: "Moon phase" watches.Check out the "Code Red" app. Does the same but for multiple dames. Problem is, most chicks are not healthy enough, nor in touch with the moon enough, to be synced with the moon. Women who don't get much artificial light, and who see the moon regularly, and who eat real food, will, when balanced, ovulate at the new moon, and menstruate at the new moon. So a lot of modern chicks who eat too much junk, booze it up, face glued to digitally illuminated rectangles--they may ovulate at day 11 one mont… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/15 02:49 AM |
| 1 | bill burr puts things so wellCosign. "I'm sorry you feel this way" is some of his best work, it's got his biting humor, but he also does some amazing physical comedy, as well as being RP to the core. Burr is the man! | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/14 07:26 PM |
| 11 | Keep it simple - lift and approach.It's also easy to get caught up in the anti-feminist BS, the politics, the news-story of the day courtesy of the Megaphone (TM), that is, the overhyped, blown-out-of-proportion media story that is being used to control the masses. Or one may get caught up in following the the latest red-pill twitter slugfest as manosphere twitter writers duke it out with SJWs. Both the manosphere vs. SJW skirmishes and The Megaphone stories (ferguson as an example) simply serve as a distraction. I've found it's … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/14 07:23 PM |
| 99 | The biggest cock carousel rider is posting sad posts on her Facebook about being single past the age of 30.penis debt Classic turn of phrase, deserves to be up there with carousel, AF/BB, and my favorite, younger-hotter-tighter. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/14 06:43 PM |
| 3 | A relevant excerpt from Henry Kissenger's new book, World Order.Wow. I've always thought of Kissinger as a rather slimy character. He seems to be a political opportunist, in addition to a shrewd strategist & tactician. Clearly, there is much to be learned from him, even or especially choosing not to emulate his ethics. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/14 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Use Online Dating SparinglyI got on OKC for about a week over the summer. My only solid hit was a 5. She had very cute face, but fat from...wait for it... literally just having a baby. She had a newborn at home, she was 25ish, living at home with her mom, popped out a kid, dad was MIA. She didn't tell me till about halfway through our coffee date. I was mad. I didn't let it show. I was a gentleman, waited till the date ended, and I kissed her with passion, she reciprocated. Then... blank. She called or texted me at least … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/14 07:21 AM |
| 1 | Use Online Dating SparinglyHow old are you--or do you say you are on eHarmony, and how old are the dames you're meeting? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/14 07:18 AM |
| 2 | You can never really win in life and love - which is why even guys that are successful with women are depressedYes, women who love being dominated often will cheat on or leave a betabux BF with an alpha ex. As for my next serious LTR--based on the chicks I can pull, I'm in the 7.5-8.5 range. I'm grinding towards another level, looking for additional SMV advantage from lifting, life & business. Granting that goal is constantly being fulfilled, I believe that I can meet, pull, and keep an 8-9 dame in for the LTR. It may take massive filtering (opening many girls) on my part, and a significant expansion of … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/14 08:57 PM |
| 7 | You can never really win in life and love - which is why even guys that are successful with women are depressedLove has been described as the state when a person knows they're in a relationship with the highest SMV person they're capable of. For women, that calculus is often an either partially or completely unconscious process, and the only conscious aspect is how wet & tingly the pussy gets, how much she gets butterflies in her belly, and how much her heart beats rapidly in anticipation of being with her beloved. Women are absolutely capable of love. You simply have to be at least 1, or preferably 2 SM… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/14 05:53 PM |
| 1 | lol Sweden, the cuck capital of the world, this is unbelievable. (Try not to die laughing)A stupid-feminist article on the subject, but it at least cites sources. Circa 1914-ish, pink was considered a masculine color, associated with boys (a lighter shade of red, and red being very masculine.) http://www.thescavenger.net/feminism-a-pop-culture-sp-9560/feminism-a-pop-culture/128-how-the-colour-pink-lost-its-masculinity.html | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/14 01:35 AM |
| 1 | The funny thing about feminism is that feminist ideology is bad for women... Feminist tells women to "marry down."Here's something interesting to chew on: "By many objective measures the lives of women in the United States have improved over the past 35 years, yet we show that measures of subjective well-being indicate that women’s happiness has declined both absolutely and relative to men. The paradox of women’s declining relative well-being is found across various datasets, measures of subjective well-being, and is pervasive across demographic groups and industrialized countries. Relative declines in fema… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/14 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Hot female roommate -> shit-test maniaI'd throw down the "I may be short, but I'm a man, and men age better, wine:milk" at an opportune moment. It establishes your SMV as higher just due to your sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/14 06:31 PM |
| 2 | The 4 Noble Truths of The Red Pill.as are most worthwhile philosophically based actions. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/14 04:56 PM |
| 56 | Updated /relationships thread - Wife close friends with "Fit Guy" confirmed to be cheating. My take away from this is if your LTR/wife is constantly hanging out with another guy and texting him you should be suspicious, and it's not "controlling" if you decide not to put up with it.Here's the bitch of it all: Low SMV guys can't win by mate guarding harder. It simply confirms their low SMV. The ONLY strategy worth pursuing if you're the guy in the original /relationships post is to: A: Study human sociosexual evobiology, a.k.a game B: Lift, get jacked C: earn more money D: spin plates, advertise it a bit, e.g. dread game E: Increase SMV via all the above. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/14 09:57 PM |
| 66 | Never Take the CouchFrame status: Maintained. Hand status: Maintained. LTR game status: Legit. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/14 09:38 PM |
| 4 | Working in a female dominated career fieldI'm in a female dominated field as well. Except the leaders of the field are largely men. It's a field that is related to, with some overlap, your field. I've been in this field since my early 20's. I discovered pickup in the late 90s, and then RP in the late 2000's. My take on it is that I'm basically running cocky-funny game, almost 100% of the time. I've learned to be glib & charming. I've definitely used RP concepts to advance socially/professionally. I've also benefitted sexually from my in… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/14 04:41 PM |
| 6 | Marriage is not optional in our society for high-powered leadership careers. Marry a good woman with a good prenup.Better than prenups: using non-disclosure state (like New Mexico) LLC's to firewall your assets. If you have a registered agent in NM, your registered agent (usually an attorney or accountant) is bound by attorney-client privilege not to divulge the true owners of the LLC. Put your house in one, car or cars in another, retirement account, gold, guns, etc. It's not completely foolproof, but it does offer some advantages. It's part of the 'corporate veil' strategy that is intended to keep shyster … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/14 05:25 PM |
| 0 | Why can't smart progressive Blue Pill women stop themselves from fellating Red Pill alphas?best post ever. It's Delicious Tacos meets Mark Leyner's Tetherballs of Bouganville. encore! encore! encore! | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/14 08:03 AM |
| 3 | TRP and the Political SpectrumThose stats are old. Newer stats show lower crime in states with more guns. Europe's crime is rising rapidly, largely to due immigration and recession. PS nuclear power is dumb. It may be statistically safe, but risk, as NN Taleb tells us, occurs in the future, not in the past (where stats are culled from.) Statistically Fukushima "shouldn't" have occurred. But it did, and the Pacific will be forever and progressively more contaminated by radiation due to the foolishness of those fraglistas who … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/14 11:04 PM |
| 2 | TRP and the Political SpectrumTrue red pill politics happens when we realize that the biggest blue-pill lie comes from the idea that people are well-represented by the uni-dimensional spectrum of left-right politics, and even more so the two party system. True independent thinking is to think critically and speak freely about all issues. For this reason, anarchism and minarchism (minimal goverment) tends to offer the most freedom of movement. In practical fact today, sometimes we must choose a side, a candidate, etc, in orde… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/14 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Tinder pickup linesI wonder if this would work for older guy/younger girls. I'm good looking--get a lot of matches, even with some 18-25 year olds. They don't message much though. I'll try this & see what happens. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/14 07:44 PM |
| 7 | Successful business woman doesn't feel like a woman because too many of her male peers respect her.It's not just about IQ. Males and females of a similar IQ will show disportionate income. It's not always better for men, but when it's better, it's a lot better--men take more risks and when risks pay off, they are rewarded. Like with IQ in general, men's income at a given IQ is more widely varied. Women aren't risk takers. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/14 09:43 PM |
| -1 | How to Not Get Mad About Feminism Anymore, in One Easy Step.Yeah, it's impossible to next feminists from life, even if you live in a really red state like Idaho. (I don't, I live in a blue state bastion of liberalism). But your strategy, the black knight strategy, is better. Subtley encourage feminism in individuals you meet, but don't reward with commitment. Banging them silly & then refusing to "man up & marry those sloots" is the best outcome in my mind. No, wait second best. The best outcome is to meet a 2nd wave feminists's daughter, date without co… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/14 08:22 PM |
| 16 | Time to remind you again: Always wear protection!I've told this story before--a plate I had spinning a few years back, mid 30s dame, very hot body, but OK in the face, had been married for 7 years prior to our getting together. In an unguarded moment early on in the relationship (most likely, late at night after a marathon sex session), I asked her count. She wasn't expecting it. She sputtered, and stuttered, and spit out a number in the mid-30's. I changed the subject, and didn't bring it up again. We continued to date non-exclusively on my e… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/14 05:46 PM |
| 10 | How to Not Get Mad About Feminism Anymore, in One Easy Step.That's a bit of a black knight strategy. Welcome to the dark-side, young Padawan. A related story: Went on a date with a formerly very hot, mid-wall-collision, 33-y/o Arab-American getting her PhD in something related to race/gender relations. Almost immediately she started in with the ultra-PC man-hating, anti-white cultural hegemony blah blah blah. I was too nice. I should have hammered her crazy feminism. I should have gamed harder, hate-fucked her, and then never called her again. She was wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/14 05:34 PM |
| 32 | RSD Max gets Assaulted by FeministToo fucking late. It's done. BTW, if you're in this sub, we're all pretty much poolside. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/14 05:30 PM |
| 2 | [Old FR] About that night a few months ago when I accidentally was perceived to be of high SMV, and got to bask in drunk female attention for a whole. (And a rant about me probably never going to achieve that again.)RP lesson: get a hot girl to wing for you. Fuckin' money I tell ya. Done it before, gonna have to do it some more. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/14 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Question in regards to Marijuana. What is the Red Pill's view?Cannabis can be estrogenic, which is clearly a no go if you're a male & interested in maximizing T. It can also decrease motivation. Again, different for everyone. I don't us it. Though I believe it should be legal. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/14 07:50 PM |
| 1 | So what event triggered you to find and become redpill?I had studied pickup in the late 90's, early 2000's. Used it to get a girl, a superhot blonde hardbody BPD queen, then lost her due to betatude. I spent a lot of time doing a postmortem on that relationship. I somehow stumbled onto a link to Roissy's old site. I remember specifically the post "Valentine's day mascara." Something clicked. I started reading a ton of that stuff. Then evolutionary psychology. I started asking a lot of questions, talking to a lot of people, eliciting stories from gir… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/14 02:09 AM |
| -1 | Do we have double standards for Reformed Orbiters vs. Reformed Sluts?What do you mean, it's not good for women? It's how the human race got this far. It's an evolutionary adaptation. It's a feature, not a bug. RP guys, of all men, should realize the benefits of this adaptation--we're the beneficiaries, when we succeed, in being the AF. At the very least, RP gives a man the tools to avoid being BB. AF/BB may bad for individual women, but it's good for women, and the gene pool, overall. But so many human traits fall into this category. It may suck donkey dick to di… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/14 03:17 AM |
| 3 | Rational discussion attempted.Sensed hamster incoming. Bailed.Best thing to do--let it go. If you do want to continueu to engage, you must troll harder, and thus you must not care about your FB image or the outcome. Don't try to engage them seriously, that's the worst thing you can do, because they'll never listen to reason. FB is a haven for feminists and weak-minded fools. It's not set up to deal with logical debate well. Probably by design. I quit engaging politically in there years ago. I do not promote much there unless it benefits me clearly to do so… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 10:50 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with Bitch-Voice Syndrome?Legit. Internalize your frame of reference, and the rest will follow. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Thought Experiment: What would you consider your "Equal" the SMV?see recent post--height is not an excuse. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Thought Experiment: What would you consider your "Equal" the SMV?Good work. Keep your chin up, keep hammering. Get your value and your confidence up, work on your ability to connect emotionally while still remaining outcome independent. I love seeing posts like this--guys getting real about where they are, and setting up goals and programs, and working to achieve them. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Thought Experiment: What would you consider your "Equal" the SMV?Also your sheer physical size--a massive plus. Also no pun intended. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Thought Experiment: What would you consider your "Equal" the SMV?Interesting--can you flesh out more of the idea that being a single dad helps you? I get it as a massive bit of preselection, but doesn't it also deter? Some case reports would be very illuminating, no pun intented. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 08:36 PM |
| 4 | 'Till Careers Do Us Part ~ A new generation of smart, accomplished women is learning the hard way that just because a man says he's enamored by a successful woman doesn't mean he actually wants one.Shit, I think a guy can live a happy life on half that. Studies on happiness show a point of diminishing returns begins after earning $80k. I'm under that but not by too much, and I have a lot more free time for study, exercise, socializing, etc. There's no reason for me to reach strongly for those higher tax brackets, the gubmit takes a lot more of it then. FUG Em. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 07:06 AM |
| 10 | 'Till Careers Do Us Part ~ A new generation of smart, accomplished women is learning the hard way that just because a man says he's enamored by a successful woman doesn't mean he actually wants one.I like successful women. My last 2 main squeezes have been very successful women in their respective fields. They have money, to buy steaks & wine for our dinners. (I cook the steaks, a woman can't be trusted not to fuck it up. Learnt that the hard way after eating rubbery, overcooked filet. Never. Again.) Also, career dames are usually busy 4-5 nights a week, sometimes more. That makes the logistics of spinning plates a lot easier. Thanks, Feminism! You've made my soft harem much easier to main… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 07:04 AM |
| 1 | 6 Scientifically Proven Things Men Can Do To Be More AttractiveHeh. Yeah, I have had a few girls react with extreme pleasure to my manly scent. One ex would stick her face in my armpit & inhale. My last few dames really dig my scent. Of course, when that sexual chemistry is 10/10, I'm digging her scent too. I have noticed I only really "stink" if I've had too much coffee and/or are highly stressed. I don't use deodorant. If I feel like I might sweat, I use a few essential oils that compliment my body chemistry, but don't seek to mask it. Also, choice of gar… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 06:36 AM |
| 3 | Thought Experiment: What would you consider your "Equal" the SMV?Call me crazy, but think you're setting the bar too low. Assuming you're not blowing smoke, you probably have more potential than you're giving yourself credit for. and at 23, unless you meet the proverbial unicorn, why commit to long-term? go for the 6's, but consider it gaining experience, practice, and maybe social proof. You won't peak SMV wise for a decade or better, so might as well get your skill set as sharp as possible before settling into an LTR. They can be a grind, and you need tight… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 06:24 AM |
| 5 | Thought Experiment: What would you consider your "Equal" the SMV?I'm 40, 5'8", 8% body fat & 155 lbs & pretty fit. I look young--olive skin that's very smooth, not a lot of grey in the dome, though the hairline is mildly thinner than it was at 30. People ask my age & I have them guess. I get early 30's consistently. I own a couple of businesses & have a tight crib by my area standards. I've worked on my voice quite a bit, built a decent wardrobe. I've done a lot of social circle game, very successfully, but not a ton of cold approaches--a glaring weakness I'm… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Thought Experiment: What would you consider your "Equal" the SMV?Indeed. SMV in this context is not a value judgment, but simply as an objective as possible assessment of the women you've been able to date. A guy could be as handsome as Brad Pitt, but if he's a spergy omega who stutters and can't bring himself to leave his apartment, his SMV is effectively zero. This doesn't mean he's worthless, it just means that the market hasn't been permitted to explore the usual process of price discovery, to borrow some ancap terms. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 06:00 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with Bitch-Voice Syndrome?Progress was pretty quick. The biggest thing was just catching myself when reverting to the old, higher pitched voice. A lot of it is noticing when I would tend to revert to the old voice. Only other advice is to go easy, don't strain your vocal cords. The book talks about that. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/14 04:05 PM |
| 1 | David Deida's The Way of the Superior Man is a treasure trove of Red Pill Wisdom.I bought it on a CD in a health foods store, of all fucking places. It's from an audiobook company called "sounds true recordings," and its Deida himself reading it. It was I think 5 CDs. Lost track of it an a move, but have it in paperback now. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/14 06:04 AM |
| 15 | How to deal with Bitch-Voice Syndrome?I've done extensive voice work, and developed a deep bass voice over time that commands respect, attention, and occasionally garners comments from women. I do some public speaking for work, including audio and video work. There's a great book on the subject, "change your voice, change your life." Actually it's not that groundbreaking, but it worked well for me. THe main key is, don't force it, because forcing it can strain your vocal cords, which is worse. The humming exercise helps you find you… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/14 05:58 AM |
| 3 | The guilt of initiating a breakup. And the brutal reality behind doing itBlue pill thinking. If he's demonstrated value, and a woman decides to spend time with him, he's earned it. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/14 09:46 PM |
| 3 | The guilt of initiating a breakup. And the brutal reality behind doing itIt's not stealing--they give of their time willingly. I do agree--I work on educating the women I'm with, even with very simple, casual comments & jokes, but I do make clear the narrow reproductive window. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/14 09:46 PM |
| 1 | The guilt of initiating a breakup. And the brutal reality behind doing itInteresting concept. I see where you're going. Trouble is, there are vanishingly few acceptable candidates in that 20-22 year old age range. I had a pretty decent one, but even she had some issues that couldn't be surmounted. Left her and went back to spinning plates. I'd like to follow your strategy, strongly so. I'll even extend the age range to 27 ish, but the odds are tough. Maybe better abroad.. not sure. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/14 09:40 PM |
| 1 | The guilt of initiating a breakup. And the brutal reality behind doing itExcellent post indeed. These views tend to reinforce the idea of working towards only dating really attractive, minimally damaged women. (all women in our culture are damaged to some degree. maybe all humans are, not sure yet. need more sample size.) | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/14 09:38 PM |
| 2 | The guilt of initiating a breakup. And the brutal reality behind doing itThat's pretty much what I said in my comment. You did it more pithily though. Props. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/14 09:28 PM |
| 5 | The guilt of initiating a breakup. And the brutal reality behind doing itI agree, and have experienced this many times. Here's how you leave a girl better than you found her: You can't do it emotionally, you're going to ding her & leave her to greater or lesser degree, an alpha widow. But you can explain some basic RP truths, about women's eggs and their expiration date. Do it with teasing: "Wine:milk" and all that. You can inspire her to be more fit, to be more feminine, to eat a better diet. If you're working on your value as a man, that will rub off on her to beco… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/14 09:26 PM |
| 3 | So you cuckolded or poached your current plate away from her beta bf? Study says she will repeat the behaviorI've done the poaching, and been poached during an LTR by another dame. But this is all while spinning plates. Thus the RP lesson loops back to a basic: Spin plates. Keep 2 in the kitty. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/14 07:58 PM |
| -7 | American MothersMicrowaves suck. I do the same on my stovetop in the same time or less, without totally wrecking the nutrient content. Halfway down this article, there's a good literature review on legit studies that show a 97% loss in nutrients in Broccoli, for example. http://articles.mercola.com/sites/articles/archive/2010/05/18/microwave-hazards.aspx | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/14 11:16 PM |
| 3 | American MothersHumans are like cockroaches. Some will survive the rubble of this civilization collapsing. And it will collapse, sooner or later. Maybe in 3-5 years, maybe in 30-50. It depends on a lot of resource flows, if they experience Black Swan type events or not, and how severe, how many, how close together. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/14 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Halloween Costume Guide for CadsOverall, good overview, except I have had good luck with Hunter Thompson costumes. A lot of millenial chicks into drug culture & literature have seen that movie like 500 times, and lurrrv some Johny Depp. I had a sexy minx take me home from a house party a couple years back after she got so into my costume. She, and my costume, did all the work. I think I"m going native american or Hawaiian this one this year. It's un-PC nature worth some extra points, methinks. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/14 11:07 PM |
| 3 | Part #2 to "4/10 American girl goes to Japan." Author writes follow-up, called "Are North American Women Really THAT Bad?"Vegas is fat due to all the visiting midwesterners & southerners. Vegas locals are often quite attractive. You don't see them visiting casinos, they work there. Dancers, escorts, bouncers, waitstaff, bartenders, etc. There's a thriving fitness culture among vegas locals. Super sick mountain biking & hiking trails close to town, usable 9 months out of the year (not in summer, except for the diehard desert rats.) And yes, lots and lots of superfit gym rats in vegas local culture. I had an aunt who… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/14 11:02 PM |
| 9 | Part #2 to "4/10 American girl goes to Japan." Author writes follow-up, called "Are North American Women Really THAT Bad?"Terms from biology that indicate the level of parental investment in offspring. Humans, elephants, and cetaceans (dolphins/whales) have the highest--they invest years of parenting in offspring. This is K selection, high parental investment. Insects have the lowest--many species die off before offspring are born. This is R selection, low parental investment. Comparisons can be made interspecies and intraspecies. Different races of humans, different breeds of dogs, or populations of dolphins can b… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/14 10:58 PM |
| 9 | David Deida's The Way of the Superior Man is a treasure trove of Red Pill Wisdom.I've read it a bunch of times, and listened to the audio books. If you read between the lines, you'll find a lot more RP in Deida's work than is actually there. Deida's work, believe it or not, is actually more aimed at women. Women read more books in general, and buy a lot more books in the New Age genre than men do. Deida's lineage is very new-age, he was a student of Adi Da, a famous guru, artist, and, yep, ladies' man. Deida charges a fuckload for his in person seminars, often held in Santa … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/14 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Big Data shows that women DO have an expiration date: 29Brilliant analysis. Additionally, BP guys over 35 don't even have the balls to go for a younger woman even when a girl throws herself at a guy, even if they have the SMV to pull. I know a tall, wealthy, divorced doctor, early 40's, who got his teeth figuratively knocked out in divorce--he had a very cute 21 year old throw herself at him. He choked, due to ingrained BP attitudes. Meanwhile he can't get a date online with chicks his own age, because his looks aren't top notch & his understated cha… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/14 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Big Data shows that women DO have an expiration date: 29Huge data sets, wide range of socio economic status, ethnicity, political affinity, etc. Might not be perfect, nothing is. However it's P values are gonna be pretty tight, and that has merit. The data is useful, for generalizing to the OKC population, which is considerable. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/14 06:55 AM |
| 2 | Big Data shows that women DO have an expiration date: 29that's a very articulate response, which added much to the discussion. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/14 06:48 AM |
| 3 | Big Data shows that women DO have an expiration date: 29Thanks, V_Y, for your detailed response. Maybe I'm a bit thick, I'm new here, but I don't see your link in the sidebar. Can you tell me how I can find a link to your game writing? We have some resonance for sure. I'm the same height as you, maybe not quite as jacked, and similar taste in clothing and vibe. I'm 40, but look a lot younger due to maintaining my health and skin. I've had a string of under 30 girls, the hotest was all of 22. All were social circle, but need to build my rotation again… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/14 06:45 AM |
| 2 | Big Data shows that women DO have an expiration date: 29Vengefullyyours, and _ROOSTER, Can you elaborate a bit on your game strategies? Briefly--are you a daygame guy, or night game? Just a brief overview of your strategy, and logistics would be fantastic. I've got similar demographics as you guys, a bit younger. I know I need to overcome approach anxiety & get a good rhythm going. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/14 11:57 PM |
| 10 | "My brother is a doctor". Hypergamy in action.It's AF/BB all the way down. If you're a doc/lawyer/tech IPO millionaire, you need game to prevent being the BB. Position yourself as alpha badboy hustler. Think G Manifesto's personnae | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/14 03:03 AM |
| 3 | One of the best RP Theories "women who are less promiscuous traditionally make better partners" Fuck me TOO trueKegel exercises can make a vagina tight again, even if she's had a lot of dicks. One of the sluttiest chicks I"ve ever known had hands-down the tightest pussy I've ever encountered. She could grasp my finger strongly with it. (I didn't fuck her, my red warning lights were flashing, so I only fingered her, which is how I learned about her supertight hooha.) After our makeout, she shared with me her very rigorous kegel routine, and also the fact that she'd slept with more guys than she could count… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/14 10:12 PM |
| 0 | One of the best RP Theories "women who are less promiscuous traditionally make better partners" Fuck me TOO truesounds the concern troll alarm, points towards OuagaNoma. A key that opens multiple locks, is a master key. A lock that opens to many keys, it's just a shitty lock. I won't bother with the science, but it's a well-known study around here, that men psychologically and emotionally are built to handle many partners, whereas women get dodgy as their N count goes higher. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/14 10:06 PM |
| 1 | "You have “the right to retroactively withdraw consent” from any encounters you had, at any point in the past, that no longer feel good or safe to you." (when feminists go full retard)Tape your sex, tape your sex, tape your sex. If it's on digital audio recording (surreptitious audio recording is legal in most places, but often not video), and if you ever do need it, investigators can hear her enthusiastically yelling "yes, yes, yes," then all the "retroactive consent withdrawal" in the world won't mean shit, because she consented in the moment. There's not a competent prosecutor in the world that would take a case like that to court with that kind of evidence... This is why … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/14 11:45 PM |
| 3 | "You have “the right to retroactively withdraw consent” from any encounters you had, at any point in the past, that no longer feel good or safe to you." (when feminists go full retard)Exactly. Female solipsism for the win. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/14 11:38 PM |
| 40 | I have been making lots of progress... but it now appears that I have become intimidating. Help!You'll get used to it. You may also learn to defuse tension with humor. Think more amused in amused mastery. Work on your humor, on your witty banter. Clearly you have the beast mode dialed. Time to become more versatile in your vibe. Also, if you're really good looking, you might have to tone it down a bit, make yourself more humble in a joking way. Calibration is king. You'll figure out over time how to be a confident, powerful man and still attract the girls you want, and have the vibe you wa… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/14 05:30 PM |
| 5 | The Antifragile Red Pill ManTaleb's main point on future prediction is that the frequency of past events does not predict future, because future events occur... in the future. He advocates that we prepare for events based on severity, not on probability, because probability does not represent potential impact. An example: When riding a bicycle or motorcycle, one's chances of falling off & getting a traumatic brain injury are low. But we wear helmets to mitigate impact in case that small chance does come through. THis isn't… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/14 03:12 AM |
| 6 | The Antifragile Red Pill ManTaleb's referring to a self-employed taxi driver who owns his own vehicle & pays a dispatch service. He's antifragile, because he basically can't get fired, and his income is variable but more or less random. He may have a bad day, but get a big tip. Multiple sources of income (many customers), benefits from randomness=anti-fragle. Whereas employees are as only useful as their employee ID number is profitable, and thus fragile. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/14 03:08 AM |
| 11 | 30+ years old and think that you're over the hill?Many/most of the best endurance athletes, too, are in their later years. Dave Scott won most of his Ironman championships in his 40's. Charles Poliquin is still killing it in his 50's, strength-wise. I think he has a much, much younger, uber hot girlfriend. (Chick in his videos.) The grandfather of physical culture, Jack LaLanne, did insane feats of physical strength and endurance into his 70's, and is said to have been able to still do hundreds of pushups & pullups even in the year before he di… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/14 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Former classmate falsely accusing professor of harassmentIn criminal court, and in civil court in the US, generally, yes, the statute of limitations will prevail. It is generally about 6 years, and varies by state. But remember, this is a university proceeding, and as such is subject to administrative law and the capriciousness of the "kangaroo courts" of the university. Who knows what will happen there. There's no real rule of law in such instances. The recording thing is another interesting issue. In most states, you can record audio as long as one … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/14 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Are Male Feminists Getting Laid?Hugo Schwyzer, male feminist par excellence, was getting laid like floor tile. Course that dude also had some serious dark triad shit going on, admitted to banging students & much younger dames, having affairs, almost killing a bitch, etc. TL;DR--yes--dark triad ones who use it as a trojan horse, definitely are getting it wet. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/14 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Rollo Tomassi on The Real Christian McQueen ShowRollo, If you could please, for RP men in their SMV (35-45) peak, especially in the later part, can you touch on the most important aspects of game for LTR with younger, peak SMV women? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/14 03:11 PM |
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