Keep Slutty History a Secret

Like many here, I used to be a slut. I would orbit girls and offer commitment to any who wanted it. After a particularly bad experience I swallowed TRP and have been working on myself since then.

It may seem obvious, but you should never talk about your past beta ways to girls you're hooking up with. The fact that you used to dole out commitment but now make girls work (sex) for it is as disgusting to women as it is for a girl who used to be a slut making you commit to her before she fucks you.

From a strategic point of view, women should lie about their sexual history, and men should lie about the history of their orbits.

I have a two plates at the moment, and both of them have complained to me about previous hookups/boyfriends being too needy and clingy, and what a turnoff it was, and that they felt guilty (or rather felt that they should feel bad) about being so cold towards them. In order to help them hamster their guilt/justify fucking me I re-assured them that most guys (including myself) are like that when they’re 20, but that they’ll grow up eventually.

I realize now that I was revealing that I wasn’t naturally dominant and that I was trying to pass myself off as something that I wasn’t. There weren’t any repercussions, but it’s something I’ll avoid in the future.

Redemption for Sluts

Women want natural alphas, but if that isn’t available, then they’ll end up happier with former betas who have swallowed the red pill and maintained frame than with a BP ‘partner’.

RP men of course girls who never rode the CC and were naturally good, but should we be more open/encouraging to women who used to be slutty but have swallowed TRP and are trying to self-improve?

We often complain about women (Indians in particular have come up recently) being sluts and then finding their husbands and becoming prudes. We should be absolutely discouraging guys from these relationships, but at the same time we should acknowledge that mot game strategy is equally dishonest and deceptive.

CC Women like this are comparable to PUA’s in that they pretend to be of high quality to get what they want from the opposite sex. We find it abhorrent when women AF/BB, just as women find PUA’s disgusting.

Where RP differs is in that we actually try to improve ourselves both as men but also as potential husbands. Beta guys can reform, but most of us needed to find a community like TRP and hit rock bottom in terms of being emotional tampons before we started improving ourselves.

Given the histories of many guys here, I’ll describe a comparable woman.

A former mattress is sick of being used for sex and has decided she wants to become marriage material for an Alpha, so she hides her sexual history, focuses on developing domestic/parenting skills, a strong work ethic, frugal spending habits, and looks to her husband for leadership and guidance.

While she’s not exactly what most of us are looking for, she’d be pretty damn close if she reforms her ways while still relatively young.

The Red Pill is a bitter pill to swallow for most guys, but the success we find afterwards is leading to more followers every day. This is how cultural revolutions begin.

There aren’t enough naturally good girls anymore for all the RP men to settle down with, rather than encouraging men to find a wife in Asia; I think that a positive way forward for society would be to encourage this sort of redemption for women and focus less on dismissing all women with colorful sexual histories as unmarriageable. I'm aware of those studies that show divorce/infidelity rate increasing with sexual partners, but we should keep in mind most of those women married guys who either can't maintain frame or never had frame to begin with.

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