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You can hear his comeback at 0:12 is "I heard you get sodomized quite often"
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 06:43 PM
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Oh come on, now you're being ridiculous. We're talking about whole, natural foods compared to processed foods not some esoteric concept.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 06:18 PM
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marketed of course, because the goal is to get us to buy the product. this video explains it in more detail. If you have 5 minutes to watch, it seemed to make sense to me.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 04:41 PM
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women just had to raise the babies" They didn't even have to do that. All they had to do was feed them and make sure they didn't die of an accident. The kids practically raise themselves even more so if there's a group of them
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 09:45 PM
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waking me up in the middle of the night for sex. You mean raping you (no consent) /s
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 09:41 PM
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"Hey, want to go to a slutwalk with me?" "No thanks" "Why not?" "I already have a few dates this week and can't handle more" Done. Boom. Over. Your argument with her was pointless.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 07:35 PM
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Unrefined fat would be eating the actual olive, coconut, avocado, and walnut instead of ripping apart the whole food to extract just the fat.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 06:10 PM
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sounds like you have it all figured out. best of luck.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 05:56 PM
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it's cutting refined everything that's important. refined sugars. refined fats. refined protein. The problem of overeating stems from eating concentrated foods which are way easier to overeat. You can eat a pound of salad (100 calories) with a chicken breast (280 calories) and have it come out to about 380 calories AND feel incredibly full. You might not finish it. 3 tablespoons of oil is 360 calories which is easy to eat if its added to food. Same goes for refined carbs. Refined sugar is about …
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 05:53 PM
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Fat is important. where I did I say/imply that fat is not important? Do you think that people will have 0% fat in their diet unless they consume refined oil? Concentrated refined foods are unhealthy. Refined sugar is unhealthy. Refined fat is unhealthy. Refined protein is unhealthy. Any time you refine/process a food, you increase the concentration of calories and remove nutrients/fiber. The more carbs, proteins, fats that you eat from WHOLE foods, the better. There are plenty of healthy sources…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 05:42 PM
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Add in oil to your calorie chart. It's the most concentrated calorie source known to man at 4000 calories per pound. Meaning just 1 tablespoon equals 120 calories. Cutting out oil completely is a big step in losing weight. Yes, that means olive oil and coconut oil, too.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 04:05 PM
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I met with a good friend a couple of day ago. If you want him to stay a good friend you tell him "Congratulations, that's great!" Keep in mind that you're his friend not his life coach or parent. Don't you truly want him to succeed? Don't you wish that this girl fulfills all his needs? If you're a friend, then yes regardless of the fact that the odds are stacked against him. Think of going to vegas with him and playing craps. You KNOW that the odds are against winning but you still hope that he …
/r/askTRP05/04/16 05:21 PM
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First off, why do you hate them? Let's go through this and figure out how to maximize what's left of your school experience.
/r/askTRP05/04/16 05:12 PM
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Attraction is about gene mutations. The more attractive someone is, the fewer gene mutations they have. If YOU feel attracted to someone, that's a signal to your nervous system that they have fewer gene mutations than you do. We are always trying to mate with people who have fewer gene mutations than we do. In essence, everyone wants a better deal. So, getting all kinds of enhancements may fool someone for a short period of time, it may even get you laid a few times, but a typical, normal person…
/r/askTRP05/04/16 04:56 PM
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and now she want to become an activist for feminism you're right but this is the part that I'd be more concerned with
/r/askTRP05/04/16 02:19 AM
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Fading isn't a horrible move but if she's more nuts than average, she may start stalking you. 2 months is not an LTR, that's the beginning of a LTR. In the future, maybe delay exclusivity until the girl displays interest in you like you expect.
/r/askTRP04/04/16 11:05 PM
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Depends on your relationship dynamics... Why are you thinking of breaking up w her?
/r/askTRP04/04/16 10:47 PM
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out of the blue i texted her saying i wanted to fuck her. mind sharing what you said? simply curious, the ol' "hey come over let's bang" hasn't really worked for me
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 05:21 AM
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that's a normal exchange. She brings her looks/fun/sexuality/femininity and the men (who want her there) take care of the logistics.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 05:20 AM
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He didn't consent to being woken up either so we can tack on rape-by-sleep-deprivation!
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 08:11 PM
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Openness to experience - aka Closed minded/open-minded Conscientious/Flaky - think "accountant" versus "used-car salesman" Extraversion/Introversion Agreeableness/Argumentativeness Stability/Passion - emotional amplitude/swings. They are all on a bell curve so it's not like someone is either extroverted or introverted. Someone can be in the 70% percentile of extraversion meaning they love being around people more than 70% of the population but they can have their introverted moments. If you want…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 01:15 AM
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What you and /u/raisins3142 are talking about is Conscientiousness (internal tension to "do the right thing") - one of the big Five personality characteristics in Evolutionary Psychology. People who stay married are much higher on the bell curve than the avg person.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 12:56 AM
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Accusing her of rape won't negate her accusation against him. It just shows how completely dumb the "consent culture" is. Normal people are just fine with having sex and then learning from their mistakes if they regret it. With consent culture, it gives direct power to exactly the type of crazy people who aren't mature enough to handle it.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 12:29 AM
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woke him to perform oral sex. looks like she did a bit of raping, herself. He was asleep and therefore couldn't consent.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 08:46 PM
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Why are you wasting your time hearing her complain about her failed relationships? I hope you realize she is probably lying to you about most of this just to save face and keep up her image of a perfect woman to you, her beta male best friend. You're being a time-ho.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 06:55 PM
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Gee, I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say that this subreddit thinks Trump is TRP in the flesh
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 05:46 PM
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To keep/acquire as many resources as possible and to have as many casual sexual partners as possible.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 08:46 PM
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It will not increase your SMV unless you are world-class and making bank. Otherwise, you are grinding on the tables during peak entertainment times because that's how you make money. Your Thurs, Fri, and Sat nights will be working hours. The element of mystery is if you are a drug dealer, wealthy businessman, or have money and can afford to play high-stakes poker and not care that you just lost a few thousand in a couple hours. It's something to play with friends at each others houses over beers…
/r/askTRP16/02/16 08:08 PM
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"Wrong, I don't want to see you with clothes on if we aren't having sex"
/r/askTRP11/02/16 05:00 AM
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Hold my morals, I'm going in!
/r/askTRP09/02/16 12:21 AM
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Title should be "Children only do twice what you let them do once" Great post, btw
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 08:49 AM
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Holy crap how do you eat 7000 calories? All junk food? Pretty much. It comes down to the calorie density of the food. The more calorie dense - meaning the container is small but has lots of calories- the easier it is to eat more calories. Oil is the most dense food known to man at about 4000 calories per pound.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 10:53 PM
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Ha, I bet. I was referring to the unconscionable marriage contract.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 10:51 PM
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People are so fucking scared to fail/be judged Social media plays a large part, imo, since it's so easy for others to publicly judge/shame someone who simply annoys them. Everybody, during some self-improvement, makes mistakes, over-compensates, or fucks up a little. But, in general, those mistakes are confined to very few people who usually forget. Not so, with social media - if it makes it on there, it's forever. The risk of being judged publicly is small, but the downside is that if it DOES g…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 10:49 PM
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I wonder if the "Unconscionable contract" argument has ever been used during a divorce
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 07:03 PM
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SJW's will agree that "It takes a woman to make a man a millionaire" what they don't realize is that he must also, first, be a billionaire.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 07:02 PM
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The underlying motivation in men is to conquer the tribe over the hill and prepare for battle everyday. Whether you're Alpha #1 or the #4 man, the motivation is the same. Your hierarchy in the tribe is based on what you offer for this goal. You are either big, can fight, have good tactics, or can make stuff, or some combo of all 4. If none of those, you go be with the women and help them do their stuff. So everyday, the male practices/sharpens their particular skills. That's what causes the mood…
/r/askTRP25/01/16 07:16 AM
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When it comes to women & social life, this is where most 20yo guys fuck-up - they get married too young without knowing what to look for, what they want, and how to spot it in a mate. We all know how that goes. Alternatively, they get good jobs and spend all their disposable income on trying to hook-up, live the high-life they've earned, and build a social life with that as the goal - fancy cars, clothes, nice flat, fancy dinners, concert tickets w great seats, music festivals, Vegas, travel, et…
/r/askTRP25/01/16 06:28 AM
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MGTOW would say "don't be a fruit"
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 10:12 PM
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Oh god ... I fucking hope so
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 09:59 PM
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You put into a gif what I could only put into words. I salute you
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 09:54 PM
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Find a witch and piss her off
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 06:59 PM
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Be the banana. I'm framing this and mounting it above my bathroom mirror
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 06:30 PM
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Go to a cuddle party. You will see TRP on display more prominently than anywhere else.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 06:13 PM
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man, your Valentine's Day must be interesting
/r/askTRP22/01/16 05:17 PM
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"dang, I thought I was the only one who was that wild" or "what's her name? Oh.. yeah!! I know her! "
/r/askTRP22/01/16 05:09 PM
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If I was gay, I'd totally let you do me
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 12:45 AM
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I have never seen 'pleased' animals after mating Pleasure and happiness are not the same thing. Your POV is a common misconception but I don't have the time to dissect and explain why. So, I think we can agree to disagree without it affecting the end result. Either way, it doesn't change TRP principles that we must constantly improve ourselves and keep up the work for a relationship to succeed.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 10:55 PM
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No. Let's look at this logically - Why would animals go through all that trouble? It's because of dopamine - the reward/pleasure chemical. Chemicals drive motivation which drives behavior. There are 3 motivations that all livings things have: 1. Seeking pleasure 2. Avoiding pain 3. Conserving energy Reproduction involves a lot of effort and in some cases pain which no animal would do unless there was a significant amount of pleasure reward at the end of the tunnel. It just so happens that sex/or…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 09:23 PM
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What I mean is that every animal is motivated to reproduce because the actions are pleasurable NOT because they desire to have kids.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 08:48 PM
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Every animal has sex for the pleasure. Humans are the only animals who discovered that sex causes kids. So, we created contraceptives to prevent the kids while still having pleasure. The underlying drive for wanting the pleasure remains the same biologically.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 01:57 AM
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You can increase it naturally by sleeping better, exercising more, eating more healthy, avoiding junk foods, fried animal foods, dairy, etc.., getting adequate sunshine, and in some cases fasting.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 11:02 PM
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There's exactly ONE friend that I talk about it with - we both just happened to read about game and TRP concepts around the same time so we brag to each other a little and we discuss strategy, TRP concepts, and give each other ideas about texts/what to say, etc... No joke, he gets laid probably 4-5 nights per week by different girls. On weekends, he can hook-up w 2-3 girls in one day. I'm not as good as he is but close. Not to brag, but just giving you an idea because we have endless stories to …
/r/askTRP06/01/16 12:30 AM
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She's acting like a close guy friend. Guys bonds by insincerely insulting each other. Girls bond by insincerely complimenting each other. So next time she says something compliment/thank her with an over-the-top sarcastic tone. "Aww sweetie, that's soooo thoughtful of you. You NEVER do that for me!!!" she said that's her first charity donation of the year I'd sink to immaturity, grab my crotch and say, "I got your charity donation right here" but then again I don't think this chick sees you as a…
/r/askTRP06/01/16 12:11 AM
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I really hope someone puts this on the actual facebook post
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 06:21 PM
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AFAIK, neither of us is being taken for a fool. We just differ about the type of response. Struggle on, brother. We're all dealing with this shit.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 06:09 PM
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at that point will you be angry? I'll be angry when I think it will benefit my situation. Until then, I'll focus on what needs to be done.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 07:15 PM
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It's called "cognitive dissonance". Dissonance actually means "lack of harmony". The way the mind works is like a spider web where every connection inside the web represents an idea/thought/conclusion. Logic & philosophy is based on finding consistency between all of these ideas. When they are all connected & intertwined appropriately & CONSISTENT (meaning none of the ideas interfere with another idea in the chain), we feel intellectually happy, satisfied, content, proud, confident, etc.. As we …
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 07:04 PM
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Society is fucked up, but you're acting as though it's your responsibility to undo that. Start with worrying only about your own self and how to make yourself happy based on current circumstances.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 06:03 PM
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what would be a better response edit: why the downvotes? I agree it's a cringe-worthy response but stating that is hardly helpful.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 05:09 PM
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"I can't tomorrow, I already have plans. Let's do it Wedn." or "Hanging with a buddy that night. Bring a cute friend with you and we'll make it a double date." Basic rules to learn from this: it's ok to haggle over plans. People are busy and have lives. If both people really want to hang out, they won't mind dealing with conflicting schedules. The last thing you want to do is think, "OMG, she agreed to meet up! Gotta drop everything and make it happen!". That is a mentality of scarcity, makes yo…
/r/askTRP28/12/15 05:06 PM
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and doctors are expected to "find the good in people"
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 04:55 PM
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I can't tell you not to be angry - that's part of swallowing the pill. BUT consider this.. What your genes are designed to do is sometimes different than what will create long-term happiness and an optimal life experience. The biological goal of your genes is to reproduce and set a foundation so that your genes have the best chance of still being on the planet a few generations from now. This is why parents are driven to pressure their kids to get good grades, go to a good college, get a good jo…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 04:53 PM
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It's more likely to find green flags in religious communities, smaller cities, and conservative towns.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 08:28 PM
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medium ones are alright, tho
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 08:20 PM
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you're having abnormal sex Rough sex is also considered abnormal sex. Being fit is abnormal. TRP is abnormal. Since when are we supposed to conform to what's normal? I don't want to watch anyone bang a girl whether I'm involved or not So I take it you've never watched porn or got excited by a sex scene in a movie? Even if I got past standing around boner-out with my bros it would be hard for me to reconcile the act and my dignity.. Like I said, preferences are preferences. I personally prefer mo…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 08:16 PM
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I prefaced it with Sexually for a reason. Professionally, it doesn't matter what the gender is if both can mutually benefit. Sports-wise, gender doesn't matter if you can win. Financially, it doesn't matter the gender if you have enough brains, savvy, connections, etc.. You didn't bother to address my other points and instead whined about how there isn't a 30+ sub. I'm 30+ and guess what, we still disagree. How about having an intellectual discourse?
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 07:07 PM
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some MFMs can be fun if it's with your bros. I prefer FFMs and FFFMs but I've had some fun experiences with girls who are hoppin the CC and want to have experiences.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 06:38 PM
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Some of your friends are still stuck in the bar-hopping stage and others have moved on. Gender dynamics don't change with age. Neither does biology. People just get better at hiding what they think is undesirable and advertising what they think is. We inherently realize this when we hear of a bad situation and think "Yeah, XYZ people don't change". Why should anything else be any different? When people claim "That's not who I am anymore", biologically, it's not true. It IS still who they are, th…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 06:34 PM
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You're right, his list are primarily girls who are fun and have had experiences. That's what makes them fun! They want to have fun and enjoy life in the moment. Nothing wrong with that. Want to get high and fuck in the middle of a field? that's your girl. Want to try a threesome with a rando and not have to care about jealousy, attachment, etc.? That's your girl. Want to roam around and go to festivals with her and enjoy life? Perfect! BUT......Want to get married, have kids, start a family, and…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 02:38 AM
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A quality woman understands gender dynamics and won't hang around alone with guys as friends because she won't want to lead them on.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 02:29 AM
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Not OP, but around these parts the common green flags are: Low partner count Mostly female friends who aren't party-girls/slutty friends Recognizes differences in male/female friends i.e. doesn't hang out with guys as friends often because "I don't want to lead them on" Comes from intact, loving 2-parent family Low extraversion, more introversion - Less likely to be into clubbing, partying, basking in attention Not overly agreeable (can stand up for herself and say no) Higher conscientious, less…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 02:28 AM
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they think they're being honest but they're not. they honestly believe that XXX from Mexico doesn't count because I was drunk or ZZZZ from Germany doesn't count because he didn't tell me he was married and I don't do that shit! or George from the wedding doesn't count because he ended up being a creep , etc.. I can't tell you how many brutally honest conversations I've had w girls about our fuck numbers. We share and then I say, "Ok, now include all the ones that don't count because of blablabla…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 02:18 AM
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How do I get over a false DV claim from a crazy ex? Had to hire a lawyer and talk to the cops. Left me w serious PTSD from that and every hot girl I talk to, I fear them because they can ruin my life if they wanted to.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 01:56 AM
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A simple "ok" works. If she doesn't offer another day/time, she's not interested or horribly socially clueless. If she was super into you, she wouldn't just tell you "I'm going out with John" she would follow it up with "BUT, I'm free tomorrow ;)" Or some hint that she wants to hang. She's not giving you that. She simply letting you know that she's hanging out with another dude i.e. you've been out-competed.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 07:58 PM
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You lack abundance mentality. Plates drop, FWB's fade away, LTR's end. That's just what happens. Don't get too hung up on it. Just move on and do your thing and keep finding more. If she reaches out and you have the time, go for it.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 07:54 PM
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You can say daddy told me to defend myself. FTFY
/r/askTRP19/12/15 07:51 PM
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normally, I agree, but this is in an office environment 9-5. Can't offend straightaway even if they started it, gotta play some politics and be diplomatic
/r/askTRP18/12/15 06:00 PM
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who has zero interest in us, tries his best to ignore us you may not realize this, but your lack of interest and your physique is turning them on. The shit-test is their way of flirting with you. They are "negging" you - girls do this because they know it works on them.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 05:44 PM
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Straight-up Shit-test. Correct response is: "I know, right. I got a 2-for-1 AARP membership in the mail. Want to go halfsies on it?" Or "Seriously! The movie theater is having senior discount night tomorrow, want to join me? Oh wait, nevermind, you're not old enough. Or are you? Yeah, I see a couple gray hairs. You can definitely pass."
/r/askTRP18/12/15 05:39 PM
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Telling a woman that she's wrong never gets you anywhere. It only makes her resent you for pointing it out. Except OP didn't "tell" her she was wrong. He withdrew affection and she introspected and realized she was wrong. I think that when women are surrounded by attention & validation, they get more confident and as a result, they aren't very introspective - leading them to act however they want no matter how wrong. Withdrawing the affection/validation activates those "Oh shit! What could I hav…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 04:56 PM
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For those who haven't seen the debate, Milo absolutely destroyed her and the crowd loved it. Ninja edit: Highlights version
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 03:50 AM
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Honestly curious - what is a successful relationship to you? By the sounds of your question, is it "one that lasts forever"?
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 10:14 PM
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and an Alpha Widow is born
/r/askTRP29/10/15 06:09 PM
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The denial/anger phase is strong with this one. AWALT, bro. CC-ers have no more character than any other woman they just live in a circumstance that lets them run around uninhibited.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 05:55 PM
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Is it codependency? No. That's psychobabble. Think stone age times. Our brains are still the same as then. The purpose of life, biologically, is to spread the genes. For men, they do this by pursuing and having sex with as many partners as possible. Higher quality is better but sperm is cheap, easy to make, easy to ejaculate, AND here's the kicker there is NO investment needed by the male after he deposits sperm - he doesn't have to nurture the fetus, carry it in his body, or take care of it. So…
/r/askTRP29/10/15 05:48 PM
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Everybody is shallow. Even you. Get used to it.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 05:34 PM
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If I was this guy, I would seek a restraining order on her. "...I'm afraid of what I'll do to you if I see you again.." "...you could die today and I wouldn't feel sad or a tingle..." "You thought I was kidding... that if you ever fucked me over I had permission to do crazy shit" "I'm going to do my best to mess up your life" "Would have cut your brakes or harmed you in a way to ruin your career" Let her stand in front of the judge and defend herself against the restraining order.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 12:44 AM
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Don't get too discouraged. They all have the capacity to behave like that but few do. We just see them because they make good reading material. There is a finesse in dealing with all people so they don't go bonkers on you very often - it's in Dale Carnegie's book How to Win Friends and Influence People.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 12:40 AM
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I'd rather get charged for illegal recording (which would be true) than have a detective trying to pin me for domestic violence, rape, etc.. (which would be false). Chances are it may get dropped anyway or only be a fine especially if it was used to exonerate, but IANAL.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 12:38 AM
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I've found the splitting of the bill to be, strangely enough, the most difficult to navigate. That's because every other guy fucks them and just pays for dinners and shit automatically because "hey, I got sex, so it's worth it" In essence they're so used to sex being an unspoken transaction, that it blows their mind and they resist. This is ironically why TRP is more egalitarian, sex-positive, etc.. than any other philosophy - sex is assumed to be for enjoyment of both parties not a quid pro quo…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 12:35 AM
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That's why you don't let her in. Let her pound on the door and make a scene for all the neighbors to see. Call the police and tell them there is a crazy person banging on your door and harassing you - record her if you need to. When they show up and she lies saying you hit her, you don't open your door unless they have a warrant. You talk to them through the door and tell them that this is the girl harassing her and you'd like her to leave. Get a copy of the police log/report for that call and k…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 12:29 AM
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He was also about to be frozen forever
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 12:12 AM
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Around here, the correct response to "I love you" is "I know" and a smirk and/or gentle pat on the knee
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 06:02 PM
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This is why you keep up as alpha of your social circle when in an LTR. When it ends, you still have friends to go out with to get more girls. As played, start building up your social circle and go from there.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 04:19 AM
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Ways to increase "game" or value to women? Increase your value, period. To you. If you're trying to do it simply for the women, you will thirst for their validation, and then you lose.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 05:45 AM
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you did not live up to your username in this post
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 04:56 AM
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What do you gain from being around him and the rest of the family? This is a toxic environment and I wouldn't be around it for the sake of my sanity & dignity. Find better people to hang around with who actually respect you and vice versa - people who you'd be proud to eventually call family. There are older men/mentors who you can get to know who will be much more like a father figure to you. When he asked for your credit card, you should have just said no and if he pushed it, you pay your shar…
/r/askTRP20/10/15 06:00 PM
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Excellent points. Coincidentally, this is almost exactly what is recommended by Dale Carnegie in "How to Win Friends and Influence People" - a TRP recommended book
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 05:32 PM
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you can get it almost for free if you know what you're doing
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 07:47 PM
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Protip: Reverse image search escort photos. You'll find their online dating profiles and just game them from there but for free. Also a good way of checking if they're fake.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 09:35 PM
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My bad. I misunderstood. We agree.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 09:14 PM
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You are completely wrong about happiness, then, from an evolutionary psychology perspective. Happiness (long-term) is NOT a destination. It is one of many moods we feel when we are on the path to pleasure (short-term).
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 06:19 AM
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Seriously. Every time I hear about "forced" oral, I think of Shawshank redemption.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 08:34 PM
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I would never let my wife or gf work in a jail and have direct contact with these guys. I may be nit-picking but I wouldn't "let" or "not let" my wife/gf do anything. She's free to do whatever and then I may or may not be there afterwards. How do you explain those boundaries of yours without being controlling?
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 08:28 PM
2

nothin, what's a motto w you
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 04:52 PM
1

I dont get why my value as her orbiter is soooooo huge and such a big deal. It's not about your value. It's about her value - which she measures by how many orbiters she can control. Her friend helped you out of that by banging you which was a HUGE HUGE loss for April - inexcusable in her mind - she can't have you around enlightening other potential/current orbiters. .
/r/askTRP14/10/15 05:32 AM
1

True, but you can't do anything if it's "not your fault". You might as well just be a victim. If you search and look for how you contributed to a bad situation (even in the smallest way), you can empower yourself to improve. There's a key difference in approaches. One is perpetual victimhood. The other is self-improvement through personal responsibility.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 05:26 AM
3

I'll take your word for it
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 06:51 PM
8

have sex with a constipated dude
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 06:11 AM
1

That's dark. I love it. Who knows, maybe April has an STD and didn't want to have the talk, or maybe she just doesn't like you. Good luck and post some FRs Updates for your plan
/r/askTRP30/09/15 08:33 PM
1

as long as you don't swing towards being cruel with it(to her or about others) ,sarcasm can be very effective for making friends and attracting girls
/r/askTRP30/09/15 07:08 PM
3

Notice how quickly you banged her friend compared to her (We'll call her April) . 6 months versus 1 night. Yeah, her friend is actually into you. April isn't. Who knows why? She was just using you for validation that she's desirable. Now that April's friend had sex w you, you won't be needing to pursue April that much ala no more validation. That's why she's pissed. Even if you hadn't banged April's friend, you should go cold on April. Not rude, just cold.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 07:05 PM
1

How is this abusive? Don't be one of those false-accusation idiots who just like to throw around the word "abusive" just to get sympathy.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 05:05 PM
3

Actually, you're kinda doing it right if they think you're serious and then they realize you aren't. When she thought you were kicking her out of the car, she got an adrenaline rush from possible rejection and then immediate dissipation of that after she realized you were joking. That's what "tingles" are. You're taking her through an emotional rollercoaster which girls will say they don't like but by their actions, they'll show you that they keep coming back. If you make it easy for them to tel…
/r/askTRP30/09/15 04:46 PM
1

This girl really likes you but she probably met someone else and is seeing if it will become a LTR. Either way, you could msg her and say "Tell you what, I'll be at XXX on XXX at 8pm, you should join me for a drink/game of pool/etc.." Then go silent unless she confirms. If she doesn't reply forget her.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 06:22 AM
7

What older men lack in testosterone, is more than made up for by savvy, frame, confidence, and knowing how to fuck
/r/askTRP30/09/15 06:16 AM
3

Late 30's, later if they had a babyface
/r/askTRP30/09/15 06:10 AM
7

His favorite positions enable him to avoid looking the woman in her eyes. So all the girls I've been with must be misogynists, too, since their favorite positions are face down, doggystyle, or reverse cowgirl
/r/askTRP30/09/15 03:33 AM
6

I was having trouble finding a date for the weekend, so I ended up messaging her back. Me: Alright, I'll bite, please. You just entered her frame of "beg me for my number". I continue to escalate--groping, hand under the dress, etc. She keeps on slapping my hands away, and saying things like "No", "Stoppit", or "Who said you could do that" Too needy. Finally, she sits up and says "I'm not going to suck your dick." This is girl-speak for "I'm thinking about sucking your dick. Stimulate my tingles…
/r/askTRP30/09/15 03:29 AM
2

"I would miss you, but I'd survive"
/r/askTRP29/09/15 08:11 PM
5

ED is super common/normal for your first multi-partner experience. Go over to a swingers or polyamory sub and post your question and you'll see that. My first 3some and 4 some, it was hard to get it up, and I was devastated - "This is what I've always wanted and now I can't fucken get it up!!!??" Then one of the girls told me that it was super common for guys to have ED their first or second time w multiple ppl because it's new things to focus on compared to just one person who you know. She was…
/r/askTRP29/09/15 07:59 PM
3

a good way to get an assault/battery charge
/r/askTRP26/09/15 12:30 AM
4

What's a good response?
/r/askTRP25/09/15 07:53 AM
1

Would you mind expanding on this a bit more, either through PM or here? I think I might be falling into this trap and would love to read more about why. I really get a lot out of your posts, btw
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 06:33 AM
23

She's getting such a fucking good deal That's why high value men are so extremely picky with who they commit to
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 02:49 AM
3

the same thing businesses who sell a shitty product/service don't want: an educated buyer FTFY. I run a business that has an exceptionally high quality product/service. I LOVE educated buyers because they can actually recognize the value/worth of what I'm selling. In the SMP, educated buyers are the equivalent of girls who come from good families and know what it means to be in a good LTR & how to spot/keep a quality man.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 05:55 PM
60

I never understood why TRP advocates not telling the girl why until your comment. I used to think that it was "the right thing" to tell a girl why I'm breaking up with her so that she can improve herself. Now, I realize that they typically don't improve themselves, they just learn what not to reveal.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 12:21 AM
7

"If you have a key that can open multiple locks, that's a good master key. If you have a lock than can be opened by multiple keys, it's a shitty lock"
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 08:06 PM
1

No, it's to get real with her expectations and accept the fact that she won't get commitment from a man the way she wants/expects. Similar to how a man should not expect unconditional motherly love from a woman. The real solution is to date a man much older who she is compatible with and is looking for companionship rather than marriage/kids.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 06:49 PM
1

You just wasted hours of your time crafting your replies and arguing with them. Is your time not valuable? Do you not have important, interesting things to do? They won because you allowed them to take your time. A high-value man guards his time & commitment very dearly since they are often the most valuable resources he can provide.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 07:37 PM
1

Start reading epjournal.net It's an evolutionary psychology journal with free articles/experiments. TRP is nothing new and it is global throughout the animal kingdom w very few exceptions. Some of the terminology has been adapted from PUA (like HB9, SMV, shit-tests, etc..) but the message is the same.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 05:43 PM
1

what does "on the brink of a LTR" mean?
/r/askTRP12/08/15 05:32 PM
5

Forget about her and go fuck 10 other women. That means no contact - no text, social media, in person (except for polite hi/bye if you can't avoid her). After that, if you're still feeling it for her, try it. Meanwhile, wish your friend luck w her - literally - and if he succeeds, congratulate him. Keep lifting. Read the sidebar. That's about it, mate. Pretty simple stuff.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 05:07 PM
1

let us know how that works out for you
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 07:37 AM
2

Would you feel bad if husband found out and shot himself?
/r/askTRP05/08/15 10:17 PM
1

'I don't know when I'll be free'. At which point you reply, "ok" and make plans without her. A woman who wants to hang out with you will make time or offer another day/time.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 02:45 AM
2

ok, you're probably right. Tryin to make inter-species connections. Perhaps they aren't there, but we all came from some sort of lizard-brain so I tend to think we are more related to other animals than we think
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 05:17 AM
-5

lol sterotypical white trash idiot, first insult is "gay" or "retard" every time. Relax bro, nobody's gonna take the cock from your mouth.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 03:45 AM
2

lol u still in anger phase, bro?
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 11:18 PM
1

liberals proclaiming their holiness and they're using the argument of "disgusting treatment of an animal" while eating animal foods.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 11:17 PM
1

Dude, being alpha doesn't mean you don't get killed. It's not part of SJ propaganda to love animals otherwise they would all be vegetarian/vegan. I agree that most SJW dislike hunters because it represents full-bodied masculinity but that's not what I'm saying here. I'm hypothesizing that there is something ingrained in our DNA that allows us to empathize with what we perceive is Alpha (Cecil) and go nuts when he's killed AND THEN turn around and completely ignore the fact that the same or worse…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 11:16 PM
0

Nobody's asking you to give up your meat. Look at this logically. People are going nuts because he was this beautiful animal who was killed inhumanely. Guess what? Animals die inhumanely every day to sustain our animal-centered diet. It's complete hypocrisy. I'm suggesting it's because majority people empathize with an alpha-type rather than with a beta-type animal like a helpless pig, cow, chicken, fish, etc...
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 11:12 PM
-2

even the non-animal rights people are up in arms about this not realizing they're being hypocritical since thy eat meat
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 07:49 PM
2

I barely make any money right now and you want to use your free time playing video games? Get a part-time job or read about financial freedom and work towards that. Interesting people are interesting based on what they do in their free time. ....and with that, I'm closing reddit and going to do something productive.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 02:28 AM
1

You misunderstand "Freedom of speech". It means that the government can't censor you. Private entities are allowed to censor you. The consequence is that they lose your business if you find out. If TRP is banned, understand that a cost/benefit has been run and the cost of TRP subscribers leaving (ad revenue potential from TRP) is worth the benefit (ad revenue potential from rest of reddit).
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 04:53 PM
-7

Why does it say "3 comments" but I can only see 2?
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 05:37 PM
8

Knowing all this gives me Erectile Dysfunction with women. Anyone else have that problem? Not sure how to fix it. Edit: I'm no longer angry about the truth. Maybe I'm in the depression/acceptance phase?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 04:47 AM
1

EPjournal.net is a goldmine of scientific evolutionary psychology papers
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 10:21 PM
2

In the time you spent posting on FB and here, you could have driven to the gym and worked out. Instead, you posted your non-conventional views on facebook with your name all over it. Strive to minimize this since you never know who reads it and where you might meet/need them in the future.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 06:14 PM
10

I guess I deserve this feeling right now Stop playing victim. It's really simple. He doesn't want to be friends with you, he wishes you were sexually attracted to him and he realizes you're not. You should be grateful that he was honest about it. If you really care for him, you need to realize that you can't use him like a best-girlfriend. That's just no how men are.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 10:44 PM
1

Absolutely bat shit crazy ones. If a girl is coming on to me, I've learned - it's only a matter of time before the crazy comes out. Great sex, though.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 07:35 PM
8

Don't fret. At 35, you'll look 25 and the 18-20 yr olds will be after you. DON'T. GET. SURGERY.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 07:29 PM
2

Ok, so there's no need to confront her. You weren't exclusive and she wasn't cheating on you. Who initiated the talk?
/r/askTRP12/06/15 07:23 PM
1

Have you had "The talk" about becoming an LTR? If not, she's not cheating on you. Based on his texts, I'd guess she actually may be dating the orbiter had some mediocre sex (the guy above) and you are her main AF. "I was thinking I may have been too rough" is just pathetic...
/r/askTRP12/06/15 07:18 PM
4

Why are you just bringing this up now? Plate =/= LTR. So which is it? If she's a plate, it isn't cheating and you should expect her to be fooling around w other guys and you should have your own plates.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 07:03 PM
2

Make a plan to earn enough money to hire a driver, uber/cab, etc.. whenever you need it. You don't want to be forced to be biking everywhere when you're 50.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 06:47 AM
22

take it off, run water into it (like filling a water balloon). If the water leaks from the tip, go buy Plan B. If it doesn't, pour out the water and toss it in the trash. Sperm washed out. Tested condom for tears/holes. Done.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 06:41 AM
-1

You're asking us to TELL you the answer. Impossible. You have to LIVE in such a way that you find the answer yourself eventually. So, go lift, eat well, find a mission, get financially healthy, find an intellectual passion, and create an interesting life. ONLY THEN CAN YOU COME TO THE ANSWERS YOURSELF
/r/askTRP10/06/15 11:42 PM
2

I'm guessing your biggest concern is that a girl won't believe you that it's not an STD. Get a letter from your doctor. Keep it with you. Be easy-going and non-chalant about it if it comes up and just show her the letter. That's probably the best way to protect your rep. ymmv
/r/askTRP10/06/15 09:22 PM
16

you have to be extremely narcissistic & delusional to think that there's nobody better than you even at your best.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 06:44 PM
2

What do you do in your free time right now? Be specific. Believe me. I try so fucking hard every weekend to find parties or groups of people who know me to hangout with. But I can't. They just don't want to hang out with me. It's either you or them. Take a good hard, honest, brutal look at yourself and ask: Would you want to hangout with you? Are you an interesting person? Do you do interesting things? Do you have some favorite spots to hang out at? Do you make good conversation? Are you uninten…
/r/askTRP10/06/15 01:14 AM
1

Thanks for this post, I've been feeling step 4 - had a lot of fun sexual escapades lately (threesomes, multiple girls in same night, etc..) but had some slight ED during some moments when I stopped and thought about the reality of TRP that I think had to do with some post-TRP sadness. This guide is helping me through it.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 09:30 PM
1

What a terrible place for fitness advice. just like /r/fitness would probably be a terrible place for TRP advice...
/r/askTRP25/05/15 08:02 PM
1

update?
/r/askTRP14/05/15 12:11 AM
4

Cause they jelly. "Sluts" have more fun than prudes. Guys with game & genes have more fun than guys who don't. Shaming is a tactic used to manipulate behavior.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 07:30 PM
1

You should have been lifting all of high school, saving money to get good fitting clothes, and having hobbies & interests that make you an interesting, fun, exciting person. Can't develop that in a week. "Prom night" is irrelevant. It's just another night. Have fun. Also, be different - EVERY guys wants to bang at the end of the night. Pick her up a little early and have your way with her over her dresser BEFORE prom.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 12:42 AM
2

Im 19 but look 12 which means when you're 35, you'll look 25 and will attract the 18-22 yr olds easier
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 11:53 PM
6

welp, I came here hoping to learn about bondage tips n tricks
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 07:46 PM
1

Your response should be: "Negging?!?, Get out of here with your racist language, you! "
/r/askTRP29/04/15 05:09 PM
1

Treat her therapist like a beta boyfriend, which he/she is. "Ooh, your therapist seems so nice, he should come and cook dinner for the two of us and if it tastes good, I'll cuddle with him after I'm done with you." Be sarcastic as shit about everything she or therapist says. Get her laughing with you and A&A to absurdity every freaking thing about it.
/r/askTRP29/04/15 05:07 PM
2

customers
/r/askTRP23/04/15 03:04 AM
2

Calling it like I see it. I gave you plenty of encouragement and information on my original reply and the others.
/r/askTRP23/04/15 01:18 AM
1

yeah, I would have bitten his toe off if he stuck it in my face in front of his parents
/r/askTRP23/04/15 12:31 AM
7

You sound like a shitty partner, tbh. She's hyperventilating near the end because she picks up on your irritation and can tell by your non-verbal cues that you want her to stop talking. Next time she starts talking. Let her go on and on for as long as it takes and just be silent. Just listen and be silent and see what happens. Don't get irritated or annoyed, don't "emotionally qualify her" (what does that even mean) just let her talk. You seem just outraged that she won't let you in the conversa…
/r/askTRP23/04/15 12:30 AM
7

Those are not specifics. If you want help, be honest with yourself and post the whole fucking example with details instead of trickle truth. You are wasting everyone's time otherwise.
/r/askTRP23/04/15 12:22 AM
4

Need specifics. Give us your best example.
/r/askTRP23/04/15 12:13 AM
6

Seduction is: "We want customers to buy this product so let's get really good at marketing & sales" Red pill is : "We want customers to buy this product so let's improve the product AND understand the marketplace" Customer = women/opposite sex Buy = Have sex, date, attract, etc... Product = You Marketing/Sales = routines, openers, NLP, cocky/funny, etc... Improve = lift, frame, mission Edit: "And understand the marketplace"
/r/askTRP23/04/15 12:11 AM
2

Go to the downtown in your area during weekdays early morning. Wait for the huge delivery trucks and ask for a few bucks helping them unload the trucks. Go to a home depot and try to score a manual labor job.
/r/askTRP23/04/15 12:08 AM
2

"Girl, you thicker than a bowl of oatmeal" Field report
/r/askTRP23/04/15 12:04 AM
11

It's not about "you didn't say please". You embarrassed her in front of your mom, the ONE woman she especially does not want to look bad in front of. She doesn't want to look weak, slutty, or "non-wife" material in front of mom because girls think mom's have a lot of pull with their son's wife choices. She already feels insecure about looking slutty because she's a live-in LTR. That means be aware that she'll be more sensitive to any perceived status loss around your mom/family. I listen for a m…
/r/askTRP22/04/15 11:54 PM
4

If he settles somewhere in the middle between this and original, he'll be fine.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 07:04 PM
2

Too indecisive. Too much explaining. Too much useless conversation. "Hey Anna, Are you free to catch a movie on Wed night?" Instead try: We should get together Wed. night Theory behind it: Don't ask. Tell. "Yeah I'm just grateful nobody swiped it. lol. Leaning towards watching Monkey Kingdom. Disney+monkey = good bet. Instead try: "Ya, leaked pics are no bueno. Pick u up 8pm, wear that blue dress from bowling night" Theory behind it: The "leaked pics" joke creates mystery, playful banter, gives …
/r/askTRP22/04/15 06:29 PM
2

People type with their mouths open? Is it just you?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 05:52 PM
2

It adds nothing to the conversation Explain how your first response added to the conversation. Then, let's get back on to the point of the thread.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 06:18 PM
-2

If you have 10 girls around you, having a girl pulled away leaves room for the others to dance closer. Keep raisin that SMV.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 05:16 PM
7

You missed the point of the example and are, instead, arguing the example.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 05:08 PM
-1

you can't be 100 percent sure cost-benefit. For some, the pleasure is worth the risk. It's on you.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 05:05 PM
14

she may have turned them down because she was 24 and didn't want to think about marriage for another decade. And the trait being observed in your example is "poor future planning" i.e. inability to delay instant gratification
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 05:02 PM
0

Working today so I'll post a more thorough response tonight. I'll just say right now, the main issues are not about partner-count. There isn't "one study" that proves everything, there's a compendium of research that seems to point to a particular conclusion. Stay tuned
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 05:24 PM
1

Working today so I'll post a more thorough response tonight. I'll just say right now, the main issues are not about partner-count. There isn't "one study" that proves everything, there's a compendium of research that seems to point to a particular conclusion. Stay tuned
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 05:24 PM
1

"They stole it from your dad" -Grandpa
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 05:22 PM
2

it felt there's your problem right there. You should be a non-feeling, emotionless robot to prevent future mishaps. Because, biologically, we're not We're on the same page. Pair-bonding takes place even amongst non-sexual friendships, it's just that eternal monogamous romance requires it to be a stronger bond than any other types of relationships. Not 100%, just best possible chance for success.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 02:47 AM
1

I'm sorry, Why are you sorry? Monogamy is a social construct. I'm not disagreeing. For the men who want to/prefer to remain monogamous long-term, their BEST bet (i.e. highest odds) is with a girl who hasn't explored around yet for the reasons I gave. I ain't judgin' a girls choice to enjoy sex, I'm just sayin' it results in less ability to emotionally pair bond to that one partner who's supposed to be the last one.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 02:18 AM
12

"Girls need a reason, guys need a place" - Dad
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 05:44 PM
5

Btw, those experiences don't make her a bad or immoral person. Just the opposite - that kind of sexual experience can be very fun in the right environment. I'd rather have a MMMF experience w my bros and this girl than some virgin because I know that it will emotionally fuck up the virgin, whereas the other girl it's more physical. Her past just represents a poor traditional LTR/marriage partner.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 05:37 PM
22

In short, yes. Women emotionally bond through sex. The more partners they have, the more this pair-bond ability diminishes. A girl who has all of those sex acts will lose the ability to bond to her man because the mechanism has been dulled over time. If LTRs/Marriage are about long-term/life-long partnership, don't you want someone who is physiologically capable of that? She may WANT an LTR/marriage, but she will lose biological ability to stay emotionally invested in it.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 05:32 PM
7

if you are attractive, it doesn't matter. Feminists will want a manly handshake. RP-type women will prefer a queen's handshake.
/r/askTRP22/03/15 07:48 PM
4

Yeah, I've insta-nexted 1 or 2 girls the second they did that to me. Something about that attitude repulses me
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 07:10 PM
11

I would instantly downgrade this LTR once she goes here. Is that too harsh?
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 07:03 PM
7

Where do these guys get time? They're probably exaggerating how often they have girls over. I'm in the same boat as you and the few girls that I'm casual with know I'm busy because I told them up front. One even came over and made me a few days worth of food just to hang out longer. Keeping your shit up will last longer than the guys /u/cmiovino described
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 06:13 PM
3

the hot blonde that loves partying and going out ...has ridden guys with higher SMV than you. You can't live up to that right now. It doesn't mean you should stop improving. Who knows, maybe later in life when you have improved yourself even more, you'll catch her eye, but until then hypergamy rules and you're not cutting it compared to the others.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 11:16 PM
1

Play sports or do projects together . Men bond over activity.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 06:39 AM
4

Not gonna happen. Nobody wants to risk being doxxed. Ask your question here or go to the chat
/r/askTRP16/03/15 06:37 AM
1

Your friends giving you shit lovingly is not the same as a shit test.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 06:21 AM
1

If someone generally likes you and holds you in high regard, they'll shit test you less often, argue with you less. IOW, they will make an effort to get along. When there is a disagreement it's a discussion not an accusation or resentment display. Those people accept you for who you are. If someone does not like you, doesn't hold you in high regard, or is in competition with you (subconsciously), they will be compelled to shit test you publicly, argue, be dismissive, get offended. All in a subco…
/r/askTRP16/03/15 04:29 AM
2

It's better to under-apologize than to over-apologize. Deep down, if someone respects you, likes you, and holds you in good regard, they won't get so easily offended if you slip up and say something wrong. It would take more than one time. If someone doesn't like you, doesn't respect you, it doesn't matter what you say or do, they'll FIND something to be offended about. In that case, it's even more important to maintain your frame.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 04:12 AM
6

If you push further, she'll tell your friend that you made a pass at her and she'll turn him against you. No turning back after that one. Just keep having your own life and keep inviting him so he knows what he's missing out on.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 11:30 PM
7

Don't give her massages unless she does something OUTSIDE OF SEX to make you feel desired. Can you give a few examples? I can't think of a single thing, I couldn't do better than my previous LTRs. Cook dinner? Nope, she can't cook worth shit. Wash the dishes? Nope, she does a shitty job and leaves bits of food on them. Massage? Nope, she barely squeezes my shoulders and sides the whole time. Are my standards too high?
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 11:28 PM
1

She does this late night because she's tired & hungry (low blood sugar) - 2 things that make everyone more impulsive. During the day, she is overriding her desire to talk about these things then by late night, her impulse-control part of the brain relaxes and out it flows. The best solution: 1) Go to bed earlier - before her brain impulse control relaxes 2) Eat a light snack before bed, like apple slices, banana, etc.. to bring the blood sugar up.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 07:45 PM
0

Dude, her/his username is PROSTHETIC_ASS_FARTS... That should be enough information as to the depth of her/his mind. Don't feed the troll
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 06:35 PM
1

That's like 2 full minutes of talking non-stop. most girls just get bored and tune out
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 03:56 AM
3

Most of the single 30 year olds I know are pathetic and depressed. Perhaps that's because I'm only 23 It's the other way around. The 30yr olds who have many 23 y/o friends will probably be more pathetic since their successful peers their age don't want to be around them.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 06:44 AM
1

become motivated for the next day or two, then back to normal. That's why motivation is like bathing, it's required daily.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 09:35 PM
1

also check out /r/altTRP
/r/askTRP25/02/15 11:10 PM
1

Like I said above, check out the BDSM community, you may find a willing dom female.
/r/askTRP25/02/15 10:53 PM
1

female with a slight case of pedophilia or just get with older women. someone deranged like that would definitely be interested. check out the BDSM community, you may find a willing dom female.
/r/askTRP25/02/15 10:31 PM
1

I am curious, curious about relationships involving people like me. If you're not very stereotypically manly, you will have a harder time finding a quality woman who will be with you long-term AND respect you. You will end up being with women who manly men don't want to put up with - dominant, feminazi, aggressive, low sex drive, etc.. and not because these women actually like you, adore you, or are attracted to you, it's that you'll be the only one willing to put up with them so they'll settle …
/r/askTRP25/02/15 10:17 PM
1

Makes me want to sign up to support Bikram within all this madness.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 09:56 PM
6

Quantity will do while searching for quality.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 05:56 PM
1

Makes me want to sign up at the local Bikram Yoga studio
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 05:52 PM
1

Then fuck working for someone else. Work for yourself. You don't want someone telling you what to do anyway. If you're in good shape, tell people you're a personal trainer and help them work out. Walk around a business area during the day and I guarantee you some trucks will need to be unloaded. Offer to help them for a few bucks. Clean yourself up and look neat and offer to do odd jobs here and there until people get to know you. Never underestimate what people will be willing to overlook if th…
/r/askTRP19/02/15 04:51 PM
3

There is no book or material to read, you have to work your ass off ENOUGH to be proud of your own accomplishments. That's where confidence comes from. If you ain't proud, you ain't workin your ass off enough. Your self-esteem is exactly what it sounds like - Esteem of your self - In what regard you hold yourself. If, internally, you know you aren't putting in your full effort, your subconscious mind will not hold yourself in high regard --> Low self esteem is the result. If you know you are put…
/r/askTRP19/02/15 04:44 PM
2

a 9 will hear this and be intrigued, but she's got plenty of other dudes after her, so she'll wait to confirm all the other check boxes until she sees you in person and how you act, hold frame, your social circle, status, etc... This stuff will simply raise an eyebrow for a 9, because looks can be deceiving and she's probably fallen for "fake High SMV guys" before and won't let it happen again.
/r/askTRP18/02/15 08:05 PM
14

Be VERY careful of this type of girl. She will convince herself that you two are in an LTR despite what you say and if/when she finds out you're seeing other girls, she'll throw a fit and say you are "cheating" on her. Decrease the frequency of your interactions and keep it FWB-style. If you can't do that, let her go. She WILL go crazy the more invested she becomes and will feel no remorse in getting "revenge" once shit hits the wall since she'll think you're the cheater. She is demonstrating he…
/r/askTRP18/02/15 07:59 PM
3

You are an orbiter. If you didn't hope you might sleep with them, you wouldn't put up with it. If they wanted to sleep with you they wouldn't complain to you as it's not attractive. If you still want them around, here's what you do: Lead the conversation. Set the tone by asking questions and making comments about interesting things and they will follow. If you wait for girls to do it, they will talk about what they want which is complaints 'n' problems. If they still only want to complain, find …
/r/askTRP22/01/15 09:59 AM
9

I can easily tell my wife to behave and turn her attitude around but as a mature adult do i always want to be managing my partners behavior? That's the hard part of RP, is that if I want an LTR, I have to always be on guard
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 11:30 PM
56

Men used to fight for women's honor when women had honor worth fighting for Nowadays...you never know
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 05:11 PM
2

I don't think that way Your username says otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 08:10 AM
2

Not sure why you're getting downvoted, btw. I completely agree w what you wrote - books should be selected for content just like internet articles. But for me, reading TRP is awesome BUT it comes with being on reddit and being just a mouseclick away from un-productive activities (porn, AdviceAnimals, useless clickbait shit, facebook, chatting, etc...). With a book in hand, it takes a little more effort to be unproductive. Check my post history - I've been posting for close to a year. It's not li…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 06:37 PM
61

Take your hands off your cock and go do twenty push-ups right now. Did just that and feels great. Just closed the porn I was about to watch and getting off reddit after this post to go read a book. Thank you. You da real MVP. PS: (How did you know my hand was on my cock?)
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 07:46 AM
1

You're flirting with everyone. You might not have been at a real BDSM environment if they allowed it. TRP doesn't apply to fetishes. What's a better approach/etiquette for those environments? TIA
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 07:36 AM
1

Don't push stuff like that too hard if you want continued access to alt communities. Can you expand on this a bit more? I'm young but I don't want to start off on the wrong foot if/when I explore those communities.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 07:35 AM
1

What kind of question is this? Like, what percentage? On a scale of 0-10? How the hell should the internet know this???
/r/askTRP12/01/15 10:56 PM
5

there's no reason anybody should shame him for not wanting to take her back And we all know how reasonable SJWs, White Knights, and their ilk are. You've got a good answer.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 10:13 PM
0

"Why" smirk "Cause that's how I roll"
/r/askTRP01/01/15 09:02 AM
1

Saving this to re-read over and over again. I'm still getting over the hump of anger mode, so I think I'll fuck around a little more, but you make some great points.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 08:56 AM
1

She HAS to do that to stand a chance for male attention. A 30 y/o divorcee doesn't have much to offer that a man wants physically, so she makes up for it by being feminine, cooking, cleaning, etc...
/r/askTRP26/12/14 06:37 PM
3

Just wait until she brings it up and be honest with her. Until then, she knows exactly what's up btw you two and she's enjoying the moment just fine. No need to spoil it.
/r/askTRP25/12/14 02:25 AM
1

Upvoted for the Rob Ford comment
/r/askTRP25/12/14 02:15 AM
2

TV/Movies Lie to Me White Collar Van Wilder House of Cards Wild Things Books: Anything by Sidney Sheldon, like "The Other Side of Midnight"
/r/askTRP24/12/14 09:01 PM
1

Forget the girlfriend angle. He's acting like a mediocre friend if he's half-assing every interaction with you. Depending on your history and closeness, just talk with him and tell him that you miss hanging out with him like you used to. If you make it about his gf, he'll get defensive. People usually side with whoever they're sleeping with.
/r/askTRP24/12/14 08:54 PM
1

She probably called to cancel/flake on you.
/r/askTRP24/12/14 09:03 AM
16

Welcome to oneitis/orbiter town. Population: You You live 8 hrs away. Of course she doesn't want to commit to you and miss out on all the other dudes wanting to bang her. But, she'll string you a long with flirts to get validation from you. Hint: When a girl says she wants to just be friends, there ain't no convincing her otherwise. You've missed that train. Get to the gym and move on to the next ones.
/r/askTRP24/12/14 09:00 AM
3

it somehow feels wrong to not be married The signal you're sending is - you would marry anyone just to be married - think about that. No wonder she doesn't respect you. She didn't have to do anything to earn your respect. You're just with her because your culture dictates you should be married. You have a lot of thinking and reality-checking to do. I suspect your "red pill" will be a very difficult pill to swallow.
/r/askTRP24/12/14 08:48 AM
1

Sometimes you have to be willing to lose everything you have to gain everything you want. QFT
/r/askTRP24/12/14 01:28 AM
3

What a toxic person to be around. Get out of this relationship. There is nothing you can do to change her. Even if she complies and you become the "Ideal TRP man" it will be completely exhausting and a daily struggle to deal with her. Take what you've learned from TRP and from this relationship and move on with your life. You are torturing yourself by staying with this hideous, evil woman. Are all those past memories really worth it? For what? In 5 years, your current life will be your past memo…
/r/askTRP23/12/14 07:22 PM
7

imagine all the sexual things you'd do to her. She'll pick up on it and get flustered.
/r/askTRP23/12/14 07:06 PM
1

Perfect agree & amplify example, fellas.
/r/askTRP20/12/14 09:26 AM
2

If you've read the prison guard experiments (forgot the name), you can see that people can become downright evil if given the opportunity. TRP is about recognizing typical human tendencies and then focusing on behaving in such a way that brings out the best result for our own purposes. If you want a successful LTR/Marriage, you need to know what to do to increase those chances. If you want a casual sex/FWB/hookup, you need to know what to do to increase those chances. Etc... for everything. TRP …
/r/askTRP20/12/14 03:17 AM
7

You tell her that she can go on vacation with anyone she wants and to have a great time. Then you pack up your shit and leave. She is no longer your gf after bringing it up. To even ask/bring it up with you is beyond disrespectful and shows she is not worthy/loyal enough to be your wife/LTR. Where's that 2XC post of the girl who brings up the idea of open relationship with her bf of 5 years and he instantly says "You can fuck whoever you please" and then nexts her with surgical precision. That's…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 09:17 AM
3

You laugh and say, "Welp, third time's a charm. See you Saturday (or 3-5 days from then) ". Then don't touch yourself until then.
/r/askTRP17/12/14 05:35 AM
3

Don't ask. Be somewhere (your place) and tell her to join you.
/r/askTRP17/12/14 05:32 AM
3

Treat her like a potential plate. But she has demonstrated her high-propensity for hypergamy so forget about an LTR in the near future w her
/r/askTRP16/12/14 09:26 PM
1

She might consider you her friend but you clearly do not consider her a friend. Correct. He wants more than friendship and we are telling him not to help her move expecting more than friendship in return - that's stupid and naive. I don't think she's "using you" in as much as you would be using her. Everyone uses each other, it just has to feel fair for both parties. In this case, he shouldn't use her needing moving help expecting a relationship as payment. Women don't like to trade that. I hope…
/r/askTRP15/12/14 07:28 AM
20

do it and post a FR. pretty please.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 05:58 AM
8

she's using her feminine wiles to get you to help her move. Don't expect to "get some" just because you help her move. She's counting on that. If she's into you, it won't matter if you can't help her move. So, if you want to get with her, make plans and invite her INDEPENDENT of moving. Ex: "can't, I have plans that day/time. We should grab a drink/ do XYZ and celebrate your move afterwards, though." If she declines the date, then you know she was just trying to use you.
/r/askTRP15/12/14 03:23 AM
2

try it and see how it goes.
/r/askTRP11/12/14 12:51 AM
7

And yet she's still with you. That should be proof enough that you're captivating her w TRP behavior even if she's shit-testing you. Continue w amused mastery and A&A. I've been full on TRP with my SO for a couple months now you can try to dial back a little but only outside the bedroom and see how it goes.
/r/askTRP11/12/14 12:45 AM
17

Makes a nice backup in case we get shut down, too
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 05:54 AM
1

Swim. If you can't do that, tread water. If you can't do that, take cold/hot showers.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 05:48 AM
6

Virgin when she married? Your wife's living vicariously through her slutty friend. Wouldn't surprise me if your wife's the one pulling the strings and encouraging the sluttiness. There are worse things a wife can do but if you hadn't married her, she'd probably be riding the CC harder than her friend.
/r/askTRP09/12/14 11:14 PM
1

And poor Rick may lose an 18 yr old plate
/r/askTRP09/12/14 07:02 AM
3

"My mom always told me I came from heaven"
/r/askTRP09/12/14 06:56 AM
1

She's just trying to get to know me... That's when the hot girls turn to each other and squeal, "Awww, isn't he just so cute??" She isn't trying to get to know the beautiful you inside, she's trying to see if you're fuckable
/r/askTRP09/12/14 06:54 AM
3

Before you go blaming her, take a good look in the mirror and figure out what you did that contributed to her cheating. Then smile and realize that it's completely in your power to improve those things. Edit: Something doesn't add up... got some girl pregnant when I was 26 Four miserable years later, I'm glad that I can be single again at 33 Shouldn't you be 30?
/r/askTRP09/12/14 06:50 AM
5

Men have to work so hard for things that women get for nothing Let that sink in. In your entire life, Have you ever achieved satisfaction/happiness from doing nothing? Or, is the hard work proportional to the satisfaction & happiness when you accomplish something? Regardless of gender, happiness is difficult to attain when you didn't earn it.
/r/askTRP07/12/14 08:38 AM
2

Haha, completely agree. This onion article illustrates your point. Satire or RP truth?
/r/askTRP07/12/14 07:54 AM
1

Get the 100k/year job. If it's truly as mundane as you think, you can live w only bare essentials then save/invest 60k per year for a few years and then just quit and play around the world until your money runs out then do it again. If you lift, and eat super healthy, your 30s n 40s should not feel much different than your 20s, so don't worry about getting old and decrepit. You'll have plenty of free time when you're not working to live life on the edge. But if you don't have stability, it won't…
/r/askTRP07/12/14 01:17 AM
1

Holding frame extends to everything you do. I used to get really irritated while driving at every little wrong thing someone else did. Then I realized it's a perfect opportunity to practice frame control. I started practicing ignoring, laughing it off, etc... at other drivers and I actually noticed that I improved a lot with my frame control in "real life", too.
/r/askTRP07/12/14 01:12 AM
2

are you talking with her over the internet? If yes, you've already lost
/r/askTRP07/12/14 01:08 AM
14

You would do well to spend your efforts finding a guy who can give you what you want instead of trying to change a guy just because you're attracted to him. You can be attracted to a guy but it doesn't mean that he is what you want in a relationship. What does "be more serious with me" even mean? If I were him, I would think, "Geez, why does she want to get more serious now? Things have been going well. What changed?" To top all of it off, your big "turning point" that things are going well is t…
/r/askTRP07/12/14 01:05 AM
2

Why are you with this person? I'm not implying you should leave yet, just asking what value you see being with this person?
/r/askTRP06/12/14 09:49 PM
1

Insert song: Do you want to build a snowman?
/r/askTRP06/12/14 09:17 PM
2

I'll give you 4. Start being more honest with yourself Re-read your post and highlight the statements that don't add up Stop trolling TRP If you're not trolling, read the sidebar links, one by one.
/r/askTRP06/12/14 09:15 PM
2

who cares? use what suits you
/r/askTRP06/12/14 08:58 PM
2

not being as nice, being more argumentative, more emotional, more demanding, challenging everything you say/do
/r/askTRP06/12/14 07:07 PM
1

he is the butt of the joke. ICWUDT
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 10:09 PM
1

and the louder they yap, the worse they fight
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 10:07 PM
9

If she's a good follower, then be a damn good leader or someone else will.
/r/askTRP05/12/14 09:51 PM
5

Act like a man, and they will like it. Act like a chump and you will see them start acting out. Nice girls don't throw out many shit-tests. They simply observe your behavior. If it's what they want, they stay. If not, they find someone else. They're the best kind.
/r/askTRP05/12/14 09:43 PM
2

came here to say this. Awesome to see someone else who's read The Moral Animal
/r/askTRP05/12/14 09:34 PM
1

you: "a hunk of [jimmAo] runs $200 per oz on the black market" her: well i can't afford that/that's too much/bla bla bla bla you: ok, you can take me to dinner instead or "can you fight off the others?"
/r/askTRP05/12/14 09:31 PM
7

"because i don't want to get you pregnant" "btw, who is this"
/r/askTRP05/12/14 09:15 PM
5

You're trying to play teams and live an "us" vs. "them" world w your "gender war" stuff. TRP is about recognizing that there is no team, it's just you and maybe a few close friends you might make along the way.
/r/askTRP05/12/14 10:35 AM
13

As a man, nobody should ever get close to your balls without your consent.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 10:15 AM
1

I'm with you, man. Good on you for taking shots w Ms. HB 8. You're inspiring me, too. Ok, here's a few tips: She expresses interest in hanging out with my friend and I, but when we went out she didn't respond. Flake #1 - expresses interest, but doesn't respond. Finally comes after a text from your friend. Maybe she's into your friend, instead? But I'd be cautious of her trying to find an orbiter after this. Don't protect/block her at the bar - it's too much "Mate-guarding", Has she done anything…
/r/askTRP05/12/14 01:29 AM
6

Chill out dude. With your attitude, very few people will want to be around you if you're always trying to establish every single thing to be even. It's too stressful. It comes off like you're constantly feeling cheated and feel like you got less than you deserve. Not very attractive. In a relationship, things don't need to be exactly equal 50/50, but they have to feel close to that. Shoot for about 45/55 some days and 55/45 other days. i.e. "I'll get this one, you get the next one" Occasionally …
/r/askTRP04/12/14 11:39 PM
1

That the cat is the only one benefiting.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 10:17 PM
1

growing up, my family taught my sisters to never ever deny the SO sex and to never use sex as a weapon or negotiation tactic. Didn't really realize how RP I was raised until I swallowed the pill.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 10:15 PM
1

and social media makes it even worse
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 10:09 PM
2

me and her talking all night + there was a little hesitation on both our parts and I ended up kissing her cheek + She has since went radio silent = You're her gay best friend/orbiter who tried to get some and now she's trying to re-frame. she enjoyed hanging out and we will hang out again “multiple times.” = The carrot on a stick to keep you in orbit. Look at what you said about yourself, honestly. I’m still a little overweight with some posture issues I’m broke. So broke that I had to leave a b…
/r/askTRP04/12/14 09:48 PM
1

Don't ask her out. Tell her that you'll be doing something awesome on day/time and that she should join you.
/r/askTRP04/12/14 06:42 PM
2

You are broke, yet you're going to a bar with your friends. Save your money, and start putting your life together and your confidence will improve. In general, if a girl shows interest, do awesome stuff and tell her to join you. If she was just faking interest, she will find a way to not join you. But to do awesome stuff, you'll need time (which you shouldn't have if you're broke & trying to improve that) and/or money (which you don't have). So see my first paragraph.
/r/askTRP04/12/14 06:37 PM
2

Well then do it yourself so all of us can benefit.
/r/askTRP03/12/14 02:30 AM
3

You are not in a place to be in a relationship. Man up and work on yourself. Bless that woman's heart, she's actually trying to get you to act like a man by offering you other women.
/r/askTRP02/12/14 10:45 AM
3

Use protection. Don't develop oneitis. Don't go back to LTR if she moves back.
/r/askTRP02/12/14 08:57 AM
5

"Why don't you want to hang out with me? sad emoji" "cuz I don't want to get you pregnant" Credit here Edit: just keep it fun & funny and just ridicule/amplify/sexualize everything she says back
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 08:10 AM
1

Try a lot of things and your mission will become clearer. Until then, it's just useless guesswork.
/r/askTRP02/12/14 07:38 AM
1

Yes, when I was new at it. It is very normal. It fades with experience even if you're still nervous every time just like public speaking.
/r/askTRP02/12/14 07:33 AM
12

The girls who are THAT good at the details are high-end prostitutes who give a superb GFE. All the rest who fake it can be spotted, smelled, and heard a mile away.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 05:42 AM
4

"I'll let you know my answer in 2 days" "Nah, that doesn't work for me. Don't worry about it. " And move on. They are either too shy to reject you or they are shit-testing you. Avoid this by telling them where you'll be and telling them to join you instead of asking them.
/r/askTRP02/12/14 05:09 AM
0

Why don't you try a 30 day reboot? No orgasms, no masturbation, no stimulation, no sex, no prostitutes, no porn, nothing. Just 30 days of pleasuring your wife only without reciprocation. Who knows? It may help.
/r/askTRP02/12/14 05:04 AM
16

consider potential LTRs to take an academic or logic test of some kind Nah, with practice, you can tell most of this within about 5 minutes of conversation Edit: And with enough observation & practice, you can tell most of this by just observing her from a distance for a few minutes.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 04:53 AM
1

Here's the secret: The "leaders" don't know what they're doing anymore than you would if you led. So the point is to do what you want and if you're and fun person to be around and you need followers/helpers then you've got 'em. Say, you're planning a party, the followers are going to be a huge help if you know how to delegate. One guy brings the speakers, another guy brings the beer pong, another guy brings the food, another guy orders the pizza, another guy brings the hot girls (since he's an o…
/r/askTRP02/12/14 12:41 AM
1

A few advantages: Multiple offspring: In the stoneage, LTRs only happened when a genetically lower male got w a genetically higher female. For the girl, sleeping down was the tradeoff for life-long protection + resources (the man sharing his kills). For the man, getting genetic upgrades for children was the trade-off for sharing his resources, protecting her, and being monogamous. Ex: A genetically 10/10 female sleeping w a 6/10 male = 8/10 children. More than the 6/10 male can ever get since fe…
/r/askTRP01/12/14 07:58 AM
2

This sounds like a shit-test to get you to doubt your own SMV. If she's being serious, then she's only factoring looks into her own SMV and ignoring her vapid personality. Higher tier guys look for personality +looks once they know they can get looks easily.
/r/askTRP01/12/14 12:18 AM
1

Doing it on social media just seems like attention whoring (for lack of a better word). You're right. But then again so are toasts at parties...
/r/askTRP29/11/14 01:50 AM
2

Depends on what else they do for me. If they flake, immediately.
/r/askTRP29/11/14 01:31 AM
7

Your girl of 9 years cheats on you instead of breaking up with you first. It's solipsism because to her, nothing exists outside of herself. It's all about her own feelings. She can't comprehend that she should break up first or the pain she's causing by being unfaithful.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 11:38 PM
3

Don't ask her. Tell her where & when she should meet you.
/r/askTRP28/11/14 10:49 PM
2

Good luck. Most TRP-ers will not meet you. Too much risk of getting doxxed. Read the sidebar. Participate in the discussions. As you get the idea, you'll start to notice who the RP-minded guys around you are.
/r/askTRP26/11/14 10:32 PM
2

-wokkout daily Do you wokkout with your cock out?
/r/askTRP26/11/14 09:56 AM
0

Strong willed and a bit of a bitch but it may help her lose the weight. Being a bitch is a good thing when your friends offer you junk food and you can say no.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 06:07 AM
1

"hey, i'm doing XX tomorrow night, you should come" But seriously, there's gotta be something more interesting to do besides movies. Otherwise, why else will she hang with you over the other 5 guys wanting her to come over?
/r/askTRP25/11/14 11:37 PM
2

"Those who matter don't mind and those who mind don't matter" - Dr. Seuss
/r/askTRP25/11/14 06:01 AM
1

Scientific video on the type of dancing that attracts the most women
/r/askTRP25/11/14 05:57 AM
6

Who cares? You can't change it so focus on the stuff you can change.
/r/askTRP24/11/14 08:30 AM
1

assume she's insane and a massive whore You should already be doing this with everyone. Have fun with it.
/r/askTRP24/11/14 05:54 AM
10

Why not both? "Swallowing the pill" isn't a checklist, it's a lifestyle and a mentality.
/r/askTRP24/11/14 05:53 AM
1

Doing 6 out of 7 of those things ain't bad
/r/askTRP23/11/14 12:05 AM
1

And you're saying that these people deserve respect? No, what I'm saying is give respect based on actions not based on weight or appearance. If someone is bitter & unhappy, or tries to bring you down that's a good reason but to simply lose respect for them because they are fat is oversimplifying it. Many fat people actually try working at getting skinny and want to change but it's much harder than it looks. It's akin to an alcoholic, smoker, or drug-addict trying to get clean over and over and o…
/r/askTRP22/11/14 08:26 PM
-2

So do you think your mom wants to be fat? You were fat a whopping 5 years, she's been fat probably 30+ years. It's a much more difficult thing to reverse than most people think. Edit: Think of it in TRP terms. Should you judge a woman for being the way she is? No, or at least you shouldn't because it's in her nature. Same goes for obesity. Would you judge an animal for trying to shove in as many calories as possible? No, that's what every animal does and they all get obese if they can get proces…
/r/askTRP22/11/14 01:44 AM
1

Keep doing it but you can push/pull by starting then stopping and saying oh nvm, don't want to get you too horny. But don't stop because she clearly likes it and you have to build up to when you see each other.
/r/askTRP22/11/14 01:07 AM
-2

Your mom feels the judgement from everyone around her so she acts out by bringing them down with her comments. Try to be less judgmental about your mom's weight - you probably are doing some of it unintentionally - and she'll tone it down. Obesity is the result of a serious food addiction neurologically similar to drug addiction. It's just not as simple as "just stop eating shit and exercise more". If it was that easy, there would be no fat people.
/r/askTRP22/11/14 01:04 AM
6

Good. That means you're turning her on with your texts. She doesn't really want you to stop, she wants you to fuck her when she's horny. It's just not right to get a girl so horny and not give it to her when she most wants it. Text her back: I'm coming over to ravish you tonight at 9pm. Answer the door in something sexy. Don't need to plan a date. Just come over and have at her - she wants it.
/r/askTRP22/11/14 12:59 AM
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it is her own damn fault she fucked him, not my brother's. You are 100% correct. But our brains operate on constant cost-benefit analysis to maximize pleasure, avoid pain, and conserve energy. Him being with her hits all of those circuits. Him committing to her is his brain's way of trading off uncertainty of future options in exchange for certain pleasure. He's not even aware this is happening and uses societal terms to make it sound good (i.e. sales/marketing) hence the whole "I want to raise …
/r/askTRP21/11/14 11:07 PM
2

Have you read the sidebar info?
/r/askTRP21/11/14 09:17 PM
2

Not much. He probably loves being able to cum inside her w/o condom. Can't beat that feeling....
/r/askTRP21/11/14 09:13 PM
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Ok, makes sense. Warm up to the idea that they will never ask you for relationship or TRP advice. And for you to give it out unsolicited may even seem disrespectful. Also, don't talk about your relationship opinions. It'll single you out and make you look anti-social, weird, and like you don't "fit in".
/r/askTRP21/11/14 09:11 PM
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When the guy is ready for guidance on this, he'll seek you out, then you can guide him. Until then, you may slow his realization down if you force the issue and he gets defensive.
/r/askTRP21/11/14 05:32 PM
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Right now. Close reddit, hibernate your computer. Then take a cold shower. Go to the gym. Eat a good meal. Go watch a comedy show with some friends. Enjoy the company of a great woman.
/r/askTRP21/11/14 07:45 AM
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100% correct. They HAVE to be demanding and argumentative to be good lawyers. The girls who are shy and submissive make TERRIBLE lawyers because it's not in their personality. So in essence, by the time they have gotten through law school, passed the bar, worked as a lawyer, the shy , nice ones have been weeded out. Plus, the shy, nice ones aren't gonna be at a bar lookin' for dates. If I ever need a lawyer, I want one who has the personality of being demanding and argumentative - just on my sid…
/r/askTRP21/11/14 06:43 AM
2

how do you feel about beating your meat if you don't beat your meat, you can't have any pudding
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 07:48 AM
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but dammit, I saw it on TV and read it on the internet so it must be true
/r/askTRP20/11/14 03:35 AM
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You don't obtain it, you work at it. Self-discipline is like a muscle, so if you work it out, it will get stronger. Example: Practice sitting up straight every chance you get. Take cold showers and see how long you can stand it. Consciously use less slang. Literally anything that works your self-control/discipline will help you in all of your self-discpline. Read the book "Willpower" by Roy Baumeister for more detailed info on why. But also, keep working at it. Nobody wakes up and suddenly has g…
/r/askTRP19/11/14 07:32 AM
3

Never negotiate desire. Move on to someone who wants it and enjoys it as much as you do.
/r/askTRP19/11/14 07:28 AM
0

Or she digs black guys
/r/askTRP19/11/14 07:25 AM
1

Start one and see where it goes. I'm curious, too
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 02:17 AM
2

TIL some ppl don't get your sarcasm...
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 01:51 AM
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Your tone reads like you are expecting results and that you somehow deserve certain results by now. You don't. Just keep trying and keep working hard. There isn't a magical formula of "Do this and you'll get girls". TRP is "work hard and become a better person physically, mentally, and spiritually and you have a better chance at succeeding." There are no guarantees and there is no beginning or end, either.
/r/askTRP19/11/14 01:47 AM
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It means they have to go, but they'll be back. Or maybe they won't be back. Don't be anxious about them leaving, just keep doing your thing and having fun.
/r/askTRP19/11/14 01:34 AM
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I am working on getting women into my life This is your problem. Instead of centering your life around getting women, read more, lift more, become an interesting person that men & women want to be around, and find yourself a life mission and go towards it. Once you're doing that, life will feel awesome for you. And women will want you. The difference will be, though, your happiness will no longer be dependent on their desire of you.
/r/askTRP19/11/14 01:32 AM
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/u/bicepsblastingstud pretty much nailed it. Also, though, start fucking her much harder and more dominantly than you have, she's signalling to you that she needs it. Current girl I've been seeing was throwing these towards me all the time and although I maintained frame, it was getting annoying. But it pretty much stopped once I started being much more dominant with sex.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 08:30 AM
1

Status is dependent on a lot of things: Your facial symmetry, height/weight, age, income, education, intelligence, value that you bring/offer, trading ability, etc... But it's all RELATIVE to your social circle and the people around you at any given time.
/r/askTRP17/11/14 08:04 AM
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See her less often. Just phase it slowly and become busy with your own shit to do.
/r/askTRP17/11/14 08:01 AM
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Dude, that's a fucking excellent sign. They are looking up to you. These are the guys you should build your social circle from as they see you as the alpha and will be excellent wingmen.
/r/askTRP17/11/14 07:58 AM
0

you're fucked up if you do that to any animal. Human or dog.
/r/askTRP17/11/14 04:53 AM
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Dogs that are constantly chained up are actually not that loyal or obedient. They just submit for food and shelter.
/r/askTRP15/11/14 10:12 PM
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Replying to this post for visibility /u/anoobaccount: I told her that she needs to come up with more places we can fuck where she feels safe No. You're the man so it's on you to find the places. Be creative, be adventurous. That frustration from her is probably deep down where the shit-test came from. Otherwise, she's right, she WILL find someone else who is more adventurous, has a better place, knows better spots, and can sex her more frequently.
/r/askTRP15/11/14 09:53 PM
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That's what friends do with each other. Everyone needs to vent occasionally and everyone needs someone to listen. If that's ALL they do, then it's a problem.
/r/askTRP15/11/14 06:29 PM
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and make sure you don't ditch the condom. She may want to secure a U.S. immigration by getting knocked up.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 09:42 PM
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How do you even get out of the bedroom?
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 04:39 AM
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It's all one giant shit test. Most people will preemptively surrender and will take their place on a lower rung as a result. But not you.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 02:26 AM
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you may be done with her, but she's not done with you
/r/askTRP13/11/14 11:59 PM
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she talked about moving to see if you would fall for it by qualifying yourself to help her i.e. she gets to choose whether or not you get the privilege of helping her move. This is how it shoulda gone down Her: Moving, blah, blah blah, moving You: You tryin' to use your feminine wiles to get some help? Her: What? No, haha, bla bla You: cause you couldn't afford me. (with a smirk) Then just change the subject.
/r/askTRP13/11/14 11:54 PM
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Agreed. I suspected that, too. However, newbies to TRP may read that and stay in the anger phase longer if they believe that women are consciously calculating how to exploit men.
/r/askTRP13/11/14 11:37 PM
1

"Baby, I'm free on Mondays, but all the other days I charge by the hour"
/r/askTRP13/11/14 09:16 PM
1

Knowing this for myself helps me not be too needy with sex since logically: If sex, then it feels good If no sex, then my "energy" gets re-routed into better motivation Win/win in both cases.
/r/askTRP13/11/14 06:39 PM
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It has for me but considering the trade off, I just have to focus more and get back into it.
/r/askTRP13/11/14 07:40 AM
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You really think they have that much foresight and calculation at 18? I suspect this is just ingrained in their genes and the cost/benefit of dopamine-rush vs. commitment doesn't skew towards commitment until their body signals their brain that their eggs are drying up.
/r/askTRP13/11/14 07:28 AM
1

I think that they lose their virginity to the guy they consider top alpha. Turns out he probably wasn't a top alpha (still in high school/freshman in college) or he turned beta so then they spend their 20s trying to find that feeling of oxytocin/pair-bonding again. Similar to chasing that first high with drugs. Not realizing that their behavior is actually counter-productive.
/r/askTRP12/11/14 09:05 PM
2

Get a massage. This +1000
/r/askTRP08/11/14 07:34 PM
1

Jennifer Lawrence comes to mind for some odd reason... She's slowly gaining some weight. Let's see her in a couple years.. Kinda like Rachel Ray...
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 06:10 PM
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Correct. Before he stopped porn, he felt the effects of less nerve sensitivity and therefore could go longer. We can extrapolate that now he has stopped porn, he cannot last as long because his nerves are more sensitive.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 07:17 AM
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You are incorrect. Porn is a hyper-stimulus. Meaning you can masturbate and orgasm more frequently if you are watching porn than without. Frequent masturbation leads to less sensitivity in the nerves of the penis which results in being able to last longer without orgasm. Porn leads to ED because of the hyper-stimulating nature of it. A long-time user won't get turned as much with a live (real) human because it's not as stimulating as having it on-demand, any position, any time, multiple girls, e…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 07:08 AM
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Penis is less sensitive from constant masturbating to porn so it takes longer to cum.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 06:16 AM
2

If this is only today and she's not home yet, she may be in trouble. If this is a consistent thing, then it's been in the works for a while.
/r/askTRP06/11/14 07:26 AM
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"We're going on an adventure. Meet me at my place. 7pm. Wear xyz." Then plan out a fun time doing something awesome. Make sure you end up making out w her sometime before you get back to your place.
/r/askTRP05/11/14 09:57 PM
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discussions on "career women" being less attractive as spouses I look at it this way. The type of woman who can make it as a career woman (claw through a male-dominated workplace) will probably have the following personality traits: Highly disagreeable - she has to be, otherwise she will be out-competed by all of the disagreeable males. High extroversion - she has to be, otherwise she won't have the energy needed to socialize with so many people and lead them. High novelty seeking (likes many ne…
/r/askTRP05/11/14 05:35 PM
1

So, have a social life but not too much, then. No, it's not about TRP or me telling women "Don't have a huge social life". People should be free to behave how they want. It's that the type of women who have a huge social life are less likely to desire and truly WANT to have a family AND behave in a way that is conducive to that. Compared to ragers, raves, constant male attention, fun hookups with hot ppl, bars, beer pong, etc.. a family life seems very, very boring. Having a family means that th…
/r/askTRP05/11/14 05:25 PM
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You're doing something illegal if you sell. Forget the morality for a second. Do you know what the laws are and the punishment if you get caught selling to a child?
/r/askTRP04/11/14 11:40 PM
2

Yes, less need to go out all the time and socialize with others - less distractions from family life. The current world is set up in a way that any human will feel the desire to join in on the flashy lights of iPhone apps, constant texting, parties, drinking, dancing, meaningless sex, hooking up, drugs, etc.. If you're exposed to that constantly, it makes it really hard to focus, in a meaningful way, on your husband, wife, kids, family, etc.. Cheating is just one concern. If I have kids with a w…
/r/askTRP04/11/14 11:36 PM
2

I definitely do not see the relationship as sustainable Why did you get in a committed monogamous relationship, then?
/r/askTRP04/11/14 09:52 AM
2

Go make yourself a sandwich. Seriously. Then go lift.
/r/askTRP03/11/14 11:17 PM
1

iirc - besides being a virgin, after 1-3, is where the dropoff starts.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 08:55 PM
1

there's a study out there (can't find it right now) that has that data. Basically, the more men a woman is with, the less her pair-bonding chemicals have an effect.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 08:52 PM
1

turning 29 in a few months, so feel like I either need to go all in with this relationship or get out and start looking Let me translate: "I'm hitting the wall and my eggs are drying up. I haven't found a guy willing to wife me yet, despite my best efforts. So, I need a new manipulation strategy to get my man to devote half of his life assets to me before it's too late. If my current dude doesn't fall for it, I'll have to find another guy who will." what makes a woman high value for guys High va…
/r/askTRP03/11/14 08:30 PM
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Start planning how to be financially independent from them and get your own place when you get back. Guaranteed you won't have as much time to do it when you're in training.
/r/askTRP03/11/14 03:35 AM
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It's their house. They make the rules. If you want freedom to make your own decisions, work hard and earn enough to get your own place where you can do whatever you want.
/r/askTRP03/11/14 02:57 AM
2

I need to find a way to consistently deliver results No, you don't. You need to find a way to consistently put forth your full effort - i.e. more effort today than yesterday. You can't really control the results as they are more random than you think BUT you can control yourself and your effort. The only time you did put forth more effort was when you felt a loss of status in front of your boss and felt angry i.e. insulted. I'll ask you a question: Do you think you might be able to close 2 sales…
/r/askTRP01/11/14 07:27 PM
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my boss thinks I have the potential (I'm 100% sure I have the potential) Fuck your potential. As of today, you don't have any because potential means absolutely DICK in the real world (for now). Can you pay for a meal with "potential money"? Your boss is telling you about your potential because he thinks it will motivate you. He's wrong. Actually, you or anyone believing you have potential de-motivates you. Think about it. As long as you or your boss gives you status for something you haven't do…
/r/askTRP01/11/14 06:17 PM
2

My bad. Thanks for the heads up. I'd correct the title if I knew how.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 05:36 AM
2

You know that look you give a guy when you want to fight him for being completely outta line? Same idea, except, it's the look you'd give a girl when you want to have raw, passionate, mad, hot sex with her. No words are necessary - they know. I've thrown that look around with random conversations w girls and it's a good indicator of attraction. If they're attracted, they get all flustered and start flirting.
/r/askTRP29/10/14 07:25 AM
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I wouldn't argue with her - waiters and their friends always tell everyone to tip fat regardless of the logic. I never understood tipping in restaurants. Isn't the food marked up from cost to factor in cost of prepping, cooking, and serving? Yes, the pay is shit, but it's because almost anyone can do it and you don't need extra schooling, special skills, or a certificate.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 05:47 PM
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It isn't a binary scale. You can be polite and well-mannered to someone you don't respect or don't know yet.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 03:45 PM
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which is surprisingly redpill as is the entire Ferengi culture - the woman is expected to cut up her man's food for him before he eats.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 02:26 AM
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they all do this given the chance Morals are doing something regardless of what another person does. A man needs to have his morals and boundaries and they should be unshakable even if someone else is acting out.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 02:20 AM
2

So, are you making an argument for or against votes for women? For women's suffrage (other than equality) based on Sure, but I was wondering, from a purely narcissistic perspective, what's in it for me? Edit: Just so we're clear - I'm personally in favor because of equality but you were looking for arguments besides that.
/r/askTRP25/10/14 01:36 AM
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If a man wants to be in power and he is better at relating to women than men, then it's in his best interest to get women to vote. In essence, greater suffrage allowed for greater competition in politics. Prior to that, the elected officials were those who only had to get groups of white men to look up to them. Nowadays, those officials have to develop skills or be naturals at relating to (and manipulating) many different people.
/r/askTRP24/10/14 07:35 PM
2

Is there any way to recreate that feeling in a long-term relationship? Yes, try to go 30 days without any physical contact together plus no masturbation, sex, or orgasms. Don't avoid her, just refrain from physical contact. Both of you. That oughta get you both lusting after each other.
/r/askTRP24/10/14 04:47 PM
1

I fell into this trap when I first got into TRP. I set out to do everything "alpha" and nothing "beta" 'cause I was so angry about and over being clueless/beta-like. It's probably normal as an overcompensation so long as you swing the other way and eventually settle somewhere in the middle.
/r/askTRP24/10/14 05:03 AM
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You don't need to dominate everyone you interact with. If you do, you won't make many friends. Give some, take some. Make sure it's about even or not many people will want to be around you.
/r/askTRP23/10/14 08:39 PM
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Tell that to the judge!
/r/askTRP22/10/14 05:07 PM
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You cancelled plans with her based on gossip from your friend? For all you know, the "warning from your friend" is just him being jealous and trying to sabotage you. Be a man, make your intentions clear and proceed forward with making plans. Forget all "Oooh, what did she say about me?" drama bullshit.
/r/askTRP21/10/14 11:25 PM
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Find a way to say it less harsh, then. But the message needs to be the same. Or just simply stop hanging out with her. You cannot and should not negotiate desire & attraction.
/r/askTRP17/10/14 09:21 PM
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women love that feel of something huge in their vagina. It would be like their dream of getting impaled by mister 12 inches. They just wanna be overdramatic like shut up bitch you love that feel As someone slowly making it past anger phase, I laughed my ass off at this even though I shouldn't have.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 05:12 PM
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Be who you are and own it. Fuck all the haters. You may experience a little bit of pushback in terms of attraction from girls because a lot of them prefer a stereo-typically masculine male BUT that shouldn't stop you from being you.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 04:56 AM
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A little harsh for my personality, but still gets the same message across. I'm not sure why I'm being downvoted. My comment reinforces her hard work, instead of responding to her pouting about luck.
/r/askTRP10/10/14 06:41 PM
-2

"Luck? You didn't need luck, babe. I saw how hard you worked"
/r/askTRP09/10/14 11:21 PM
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Her: "Babe I miss you." Me (about 45 min later): "Aww, I know. Btw, who is this?" Her: Her name You: which one? the blonde/brunette? crazyhot or shybeautiful? etc.. and reinitiate flirting and slight teasing. If she doesn't continue, just move on, she wasn't interested anyway.
/r/askTRP09/10/14 08:09 PM
1

Still in the anger phase me or him? (asking for honest feedback if I sound like I'm still angry)
/r/askTRP09/10/14 08:02 PM
1

fair enough. just seemed over the top
/r/askTRP09/10/14 04:30 PM
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These troll posts are getting better and better every day
/r/askTRP09/10/14 04:02 PM
2

Be a man. Be honest with a potential gf about what you want out of your relationship - esp if it's multiple girls. If she doesn't want the same thing, find someone who does. If you can't find anyone, perhaps you need to alter your expectations instead of resorting to dishonesty and sneaking around. Being knowingly dishonest will kill you a little inside each day and will destroy your confidence and self-esteem. Not a way to live, imo.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 09:48 PM
2

Is this why it seems to appeal to people who feel a bit lost or unhappy? That they are looking for a deep transformational change that alters their outlook and behaviour to such an extent that their whole life shifts? People who feel lost or unhappy are more open-minded to new ideas and are more willing to try them out. But it's not enough to just be unhappy, people who gravitate towards TRP are also more introspective and thus willing to be honest with their behavior and the reality of the worl…
/r/askTRP08/10/14 09:45 PM
3

The appeal of Red pill and evolutionary psychology is intellectual consistency. This is why it's so attractive, philosophically, to those who can recognize it. It ties all the questions about who we are and why we are the way we are into a consistent idea. I can go anywhere in the world across any culture and have success interacting with people based off these ideas. To date, there doesn't seem to be any other philosophy/theory/idea that refutes it in a logical way.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 09:41 PM
1

Is it worth it?
/r/askTRP08/10/14 03:03 PM
1

No, you didn't. Well trolled, though. You had me going.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 12:40 AM
2

Pls report back if you do it. would be cool to see.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 12:01 AM
1

(Alt+11)
/r/askTRP07/10/14 11:52 PM
2

Why would you put yourself through that? Forget the sex, how about just being around such a toxic person? It can't be good for your psyche and your emotional frame. Dump her before this shit starts leaking into your other personal life, your work, and starts incorrectly shaping your frame for future dealings with people.
/r/askTRP07/10/14 11:46 PM
1

This is why you figure out what's important to you before you relocate for a few years. As played, keep getting a kick out of things and keep doing interesting things. It's no wonder there are no women. Hell, most people wouldn't want to live under those conditions...and they don't.
/r/askTRP07/10/14 09:15 PM
1

Then what the fuck are you doing there? If what you're saying is true, why would anyone want to live there? I'm asking.
/r/askTRP07/10/14 09:12 PM
1

Just have to find the women to invite Once you start doing these things, the women will appear. They want to have fun with an awesome, interesting person and they pay attention. Esp in a rock-climbing gym, they're everywhere and they're super chill, too.
/r/askTRP07/10/14 05:24 PM
1

Let's see if this point thing works. (Alt+11)
/r/askTRP07/10/14 05:22 PM
1

It was a weak move but you can still recover. Have your high school friend set up another get together/dinner. The minute you see her again, you smile and say, "Oh by the way, before I forget, let me get your number so we can do something awesome together." Make it as non-nonchalant as possible almost like it's in passing. If she says no, change the subject and talk about something funny. If she says ok and gives you her number, do the same thing.
/r/askTRP07/10/14 05:20 PM
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Ahh, ok. I'm not a fan of online dating (a lot of TRP isn't) because girls have very unrealistic standards of men online. It's like a fast food menu of criteria, so it promotes ridiculous selection. If you meet girls in person, it shouldn't be an issue. I suggest an experiment: Message 15 girls in their 20s online - that you like. Do your thing and try to date them, plate them, or whatever you're looking for. at the same time or after, Go out and meet 15 girls who look like they're in their 20s …
/r/askTRP07/10/14 04:29 PM
1

At some point, she has to accept responsibility for her actions and the resulting emotions. You can't shield her from this forever. Be up front with her that this is not a restart of the relationship and you've done your due diligence. After that, she may just crave your affection/body and decide that it's worth the resulting heartache. That is her prerogative.
/r/askTRP07/10/14 04:19 PM
1

What's wrong in that behaviour? Nothing. But don't expect to be successful with it AND happy at the same time with me by your side Amen, brother.
/r/askTRP07/10/14 04:14 PM
5

Stop asking them how old they are, that's how. It automatically gets them to ask how old you are then they start comparing and rationalizing.
/r/askTRP07/10/14 04:08 PM
2

The red pill seems to glorify and vilify very sexual women No, TRP strategy and philosophy does not do that. Part of TRP philosophy seeks to understand what factors in a man and woman favor a successful LTR, what factors favor short-term casual mating, and what factors favor no contact at all. Selling sex for a living is not conducive to a successful LTR. It's possible. It can happen. But the odds are astronomically stacked against a man & woman to have a successful LTR if either of them have do…
/r/askTRP06/10/14 10:20 PM
2

What do you mean by a "pay off" ? If you mean more sex, then just look at pop- culture and get really good at those things - singing, dancing, sports, languages, adventures, etc... If you mean more satisfaction, then it doesn't matter - it's anything that YOU want to do that feels worthwhile.
/r/askTRP06/10/14 09:56 PM
1

People listen more closely to those who have something entertaining/interesting to say. But, you'll never be perfect no matter how good of an orator you are - I'm sure even Martin Luther King Jr got interrupted occasionally when around close friends/family. People also listen more closely to those do not speak as often. This is where appropriate body language comes in. If you just stand there silently and you look bored, judgmental, angry, intimidated or intimidating, then you'll get ostracized …
/r/askTRP06/10/14 06:02 PM
1

Fair enough. She has locked you down, though. Not the other way around.
/r/askTRP06/10/14 03:58 PM
1

It'll be much less stressful for you, too.
/r/askTRP06/10/14 05:35 AM
0

On that day I asked her where she wanted to go and at what time, she said she was busy and she'd get back to me when she was done. This is why you don't ask. You suggest/make plans and inform. I.e. "Tuesday works for me. 7pm?" If she can't, she'll tell you and then it's up to her to counter-offer/re-schedule. If she doesn't, she is subtly communicating that she doesn't want to meet. She never got back to me. She is subtly communicating that she doesn't want to meet. She wasted my whole day, WRON…
/r/askTRP06/10/14 05:32 AM
1

I'm more curious about why you have only been dating for 2 months and she's already your GF. How can you possibly get to know someone that fast and decide that they are relationship material? Did you do what most guys do and just decide to be GF/BF because she started having regular sex w you? If so, you need to re-evaluate your "GF" criteria because "hotness" and "willingness to sex me" should be a given NOT the main criteria.
/r/askTRP06/10/14 05:14 AM
5

Do something more interesting than just dancing, smoking pot, or hanging out in the dorm. Go on adventure on campus and find some good views, or some hidden corners, or go play some ping pong/pool/foosball in the recreation room, or something fun and interesting. Those kinds of things are much more exciting for a woman compared to what you offered her. Plus it makes your life more interesting/exciting.
/r/askTRP06/10/14 04:56 AM
4

Try the opposite (increase your standards) and see what happens and report back. You'd be surprised with the results - they are not intuitive.
/r/askTRP03/10/14 05:29 AM
3

Whatever you do, don't get drunk or naked then jump into the pool
/r/askTRP03/10/14 12:10 AM
1

I would say go for it, but only if she's really unattractive. That's even worse since she won't be getting any and will be constantly jealous and sabotaging you any chance she can get.
/r/askTRP02/10/14 09:05 PM
1

Update us, OP
/r/askTRP02/10/14 05:11 PM
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It's neither good nor bad. It's amoral. It's like starting at the gym and just bench pressing the bar for your entire workout. You're accomplishing something but since you didn't aim high, you really didn't accomplish anything amazing. It feels good if you haven't ever done better, but it's not out of your comfort zone and so you can't possibly get better/grow. Personally, if I didn't succeed that night, I'd rather just go home than get with just any girl like that.
/r/askTRP02/10/14 04:58 PM
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Eventually What kinda time frame we talkin about? Give a brotha some hope
/r/askTRP02/10/14 04:52 PM
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She's a fucking loser really and leads a more depressing life than my own (which is saying something) Is she a loser because she didn't go for you? You're not entitled to female attention. You have to work hard at it and even then you won't always get it. If she's a loser, then why did you pursue her? Have some standards. Be a man and pursue women who are decent people not losers. If you don't, then don't be surprised at the type of shit they do. Are you leading a depressing life? How can you ex…
/r/askTRP02/10/14 09:22 AM
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if she means "Clear her head" as in go for a walk around the block, take it at face value. If she means she wants a break, you say "Ok" and let her "find herself" or "clear her head" but she is no longer your LTR/gf. Which means, if she comes back to you, she should stay a plate (DUCY?) and nothing more.
/r/askTRP02/10/14 09:17 AM
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and it may have just been freezing cold for her
/r/askTRP01/10/14 11:36 PM
1

Her: "OMG! Like, Yeah, wait... you think she's hot?" You: "Hmmm, that's interesting, do you think there's a difference between attractiveness and personality?" Her: "Wait, what? Ummm, I don't know... maybe... why?" you: then start talking about that The goal is to pull her into your frame of mind which is to have interesting discussion about ideas and other fun topics instead of gossiping and bitching about her girlfriends.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 08:29 PM
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Showing your boss/company that you can and will go to a better job if you are being undervalued is the equivalent of "Dread game" in the workplace. You may not need to specifically say you've been looking, but you need to imply that other companies want you.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 08:15 PM
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Ok, but what should I do about it?
/r/askTRP01/10/14 08:06 PM
2

You can check out but you can never leaeeeve
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 08:04 PM
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How do I deal with this accusation? Make sure that it's something that's more awesome than just getting drinks or food. "Hey, I'm going to go watch a sunset, you should join me" or Hey, I'm going to go shoot some pool or I'm going to go watch a local college basketball game, or my old high school's homecoming or whatever but make it something that isn't awkward to do alone and be comfortable being by yourself for something. The times when she can't and you go and do it yourself reveal your chara…
/r/askTRP01/10/14 08:33 AM
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No, you shouldn't try to help them. Let people be who they are. Realize that the way they act in a social group may be different than how they act in private with a woman. Some people just appear enough of a beta to get along w the group. If you try to dominate everyone you encounter, you're gonna have a tough time making friends.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 08:29 AM
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pls expand on this. Not sure what you are saying.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 07:45 AM
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Improve yourself. Put forth your full effort. Confidence comes from the internal knowledge that you are doing your best at life given your particular circumstances. So, that means, whatever you do, put full effort into it. Don't use someone else as a measuring stick. You know internally if you are trying your hardest or if you could do better. However, you must be productive. Don't waste time, and make sure to do things that contribute to your life (present + future). Playing video games at full…
/r/askTRP01/10/14 06:31 AM
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First off, you need to make sure that what you think you're worth is actually reality and not just hopes n dreams. Go online and find out what the average person doing what you do gets paid. Next, call around to companies hiring in your field and send out resumes, go to interviews, etc... and get job offers. Once you get the dose of reality you will have a few options: If you are actually worth more and other companies are willing to pay you what you think you're worth, then you can quit and get…
/r/askTRP01/10/14 06:24 AM
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If you're eating dinner and she asks you to get her a glass of water and you do it, you're her orbiter. Would you ever serve one of your male friends like that?
/r/askTRP01/10/14 06:14 AM
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Check in at the girl's vagina with Foursquare.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 11:00 PM
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thank you. Definitely needed to hear that. Image is everything despite only being "burnt" by one girl out of many (bringing me to TRP)
/r/askTRP30/09/14 10:26 PM
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Haha, thanks for that. Yeah, I deflected/amplified similarly but was doubting myself. It sucks not being able to be honest and open about feelings but I guess that's life and a fair trade-off for having a woman look up to you (?).
/r/askTRP30/09/14 09:39 PM
1

try out EF college break. It's 18-30 year olds all together in one bus doing sight-seeing with a tour guide.
/r/askTRP30/09/14 09:35 PM
1

"What do you think I might be hesitant?" To which she said, "I don't know, who hurt you badly in the past?"
/r/askTRP30/09/14 09:29 PM
1

Whatever you do, just own it. If you've seen 22 Jump Street, think the Cynthia poem during open mic night. Didn't matter what he said, he owned it.
/r/askTRP29/09/14 03:58 AM
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Never EVER make direct comments about her weight/body and your erections. It's the same as her making comments about your penis size and her satisfaction. Deep down, you know that it's about frame and performance more than size, but it's still very hard to hear and could be hurtful if you are insecure about it. If you want to be a decent/good alpha leader, you also have to be a little sensitive to personal vulnerabilities and know when and when not to joke about them. In the future, don't have c…
/r/askTRP28/09/14 07:36 PM
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dude, remove her picture unless you want her to get harassed. Why put it up for the whole world to see??
/r/askTRP28/09/14 06:33 PM
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This is how some people say "No" or "I'm not interested in hanging out with you". They are embarassed to say the actual words, so they keep making excuses hoping that you get the message. It sucks that they can't be straight forward but it's really their inability to communicate NOT you. Would you want to hang around a person who can't communicate their needs to you anyway?
/r/askTRP28/09/14 03:15 AM
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This is the perfect opportunity to show off your SMV with regards to your intellect. You go to the gym, eat & dress well to show off your physical SMV. Now do a little work on your brain. It's a win-win. The girls who like intellect will get super turned on. The girls who don't understand it, won't care anyway. Make it subtly sexual. Make it witty and funny. Write it and re-write it to get it right (just don't tell anyone that you tried so hard). Have fun with it.
/r/askTRP28/09/14 03:12 AM
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You are missing the point of TRP. It's not "Har har, I'm gonna bang sluts all day long". It's about self-improvement. What do you want out of life?
/r/askTRP28/09/14 03:07 AM
2

On a Saturday night? Trying to weed out the talkers from the doers, I see....
/r/askTRP28/09/14 02:59 AM
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Step by step behind the scenes: 1) Make a list of your most fun friends (guys or girls, they just have to be fun to hang out with and no drama) 2) YOU decide on an awesome place that YOU want to go - bar, pool hall, hiking trail, karaoke, sunset, beach, club, a secret spot on campus, etc... Doesn't matter - just make sure YOU think it's awesome (unless you think playing Pokemon is awesome). 3) Text, call, or msg all of your friends " Hey, a few of us are goin to XXX around XX time tonight/today/…
/r/askTRP28/09/14 02:57 AM
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First rule: Don't ask a girl to be FWB. They will get offended that you even have the nerve to think that they will give you sex without commitment i.e. their ASD will kick in hard. Second rule: Be awesome and just keep hanging out on alone and keep escalating if you get positive feedback. A FWB situation will be implied but without any unnecessary labels. Third rule: Let her bring up the issue of commitment/exclusivity/etc... Then act according to what you want. Fourth rule: Don't ever beg for …
/r/askTRP28/09/14 01:31 AM
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I'd remove such specific information about yourself. You might get doxxed.
/r/askTRP28/09/14 01:24 AM
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until 100% sure the girl won't play any games Every girl will play games. Your actions determine if you are the winner of that game or not. In this case, she is playing games and the winning strategy is to withdraw your commitment and see if she wants to earn it back (she probably won't).
/r/askTRP27/09/14 05:11 PM
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scale never really goes to zero If it does, you're dating a dude.
/r/askTRP26/09/14 08:18 AM
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If you pass a shit-test, she will respond positively to you escalating (asking her phone #, being sexual over text, etc...) If she's just seeking attention, it won't matter how many tests you pass, she ain't givin you shit.
/r/askTRP25/09/14 11:18 PM
1

Talking about /u/bobbybluepill
/r/askTRP25/09/14 11:11 PM
2

It sounds like you're not spending enough time outdoors. Get out in the sun. Go barefoot in the woods. Go on a full day hike and camp out in the stars. Reconnect with nature. Your body will thank you.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 11:56 PM
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The Blue Pill is quite literally the status quo. It's not based on a philosophy. Rather, it's based on a lack of philosophy. People who are "Blue Pill" are people whose actions are instinctual and nothing more. They do not seek to understand human nature (either because they don't care or don't want to know). As such, they are often slaves to their ingrained subconscious psychology ruled by their genetic predispositions (beta tendencies, alpha tendencies, etc...). Being "Blue Pill" is not a righ…
/r/askTRP24/09/14 11:54 PM
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This is a hilarious troll post. Well done.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 11:25 PM
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I hate my life. You can't expect other people to love your life and desire to be part of it if you hate it yourself. Do the best you can with what you were given. It's definitely not fair, but it's reality. You can only control your behavior (i.e. creating your own awesome life). You can't do shit about your genetic lottery.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 07:10 AM
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Analogous to the expression "she's the town bicycle". That expression means that "everyone's had a ride"
/r/askTRP24/09/14 12:27 AM
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The family giving you large money gifts? Sounds like your wife is complaining about money issues to her family.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 04:35 PM
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maybe I'll let you buy me Starbucks soon Instant NEXT after she says something like that. In her mind, she's doing you a favor by allowing you to spend money on her? Seems very stuck up and entitled. Don't see how she's a fun person to hang out with.
/r/askTRP22/09/14 11:23 PM
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You're on the right track with that kind of question. Now, try to make it slightly witty, funny, with a small sexual overtone so that she is attracted to you and is compelled to reply. Make her feel like you are deciding whether or not to meet with her based on her answers and playful banter. This will result in her flirting harder.
/r/askTRP22/09/14 08:44 PM
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Don't mention it ever again to anyone. She either doesn't remember or doesn't want to remember.
/r/askTRP22/09/14 08:40 PM
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You cannot change freewill and you ultimately can't stop people from doing what they want to do. You can try and you might get by short term using fear and other manipulation tactics like shame, but is that really a life you want to live? In essence, you are trying to force her to live differently than she wants. She is not your property or "riches" that you put on display. She is an adult who can make her own decisions. If her decision is not what you want, then find someone else or alter your …
/r/askTRP22/09/14 08:35 PM
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You aren't making her qualify herself which turns her off. The way you're leading the conversation it seems like you want to meet her ASAP i.e. you're desperately seeking attention from a woman. Say or ask something that reveals IF she is interesting enough to hang out with you. Make her demonstrate that she is "worthy" of joining you while you do something fun - iow, that she is fun, interesting, and sufficiently into you. If she isn't demonstrating this, then you'll have a shit time hanging ou…
/r/askTRP22/09/14 08:02 PM
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Don't try to micromanage her behavior. If you aren't happy with the way she is, don't marry her. It's perfectly fine to tell her that you expect your wife to dress/act in a certain manner according to your religious laws. But, if she doesn't want that, then you shouldn't be demanding, forbidding, or "putting your foot down". You should move on and find a woman that fits your expectations.
/r/askTRP22/09/14 07:54 PM
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You can't because if they are doing TRP correctly, they shouldn't be answering that question.
/r/askTRP22/09/14 07:46 PM
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"Orbiter" - you keep using that word. I don't think it means what you think it means.
/r/askTRP22/09/14 06:14 PM
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RP tactics are to get off Tinder and meet people in real life.
/r/askTRP22/09/14 12:27 AM
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makes me feel life is so unfair You are absolutely correct in your feelings. There is nothing you can do about your height. There is nothing you can do about the color of your skin, the placement of your eyebrows, the size of your nose, or the flaring of your ears. What you CAN do is be the best person you can be given what nature/God/the universe gave you: working out, being able to hold a conversation, being a fun/interesting person, and being intellectually attractive. Trying hard to do those…
/r/askTRP21/09/14 11:29 PM
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We'll have to agree to disagree here. Her saying "sorry" is just a way to acknowledge the flake out hoping he'll take the hint. You have to know when to follow up and when to realize she's not into you. In this case, she's not into OP. In your case, she was very into you, hence a successful follow up.
/r/askTRP21/09/14 10:34 PM
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That's the whole point. That type of ambiguity intrigues women.
/r/askTRP21/09/14 06:46 PM
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In your case, she was very apologetic and clearly wanted to hang out again. In OPs case, she flaked and wasn't interested in making it up to him.
/r/askTRP21/09/14 06:46 PM
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You are right, but if OP chooses this path, he has to get good at verbally antagonizing (with plausible deniability) so that the other guy throws the first punch. Otherwise, he'll have legal trouble and get a violent reputation.
/r/askTRP21/09/14 06:35 PM
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And she spelled dessert wrong. The nerve.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 05:34 AM
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It's your house. You can do whatever you want with your stuff without having to justify it. Just pack it up and put it in storage or a new apt on a day she isn't there. If she starts asking about it, just deflect and ignore her or if you badly need to answer her, just say you're selling it on ebay, gifting it to a long lost nephew, etc... The very next day or same day you empty your shit out, you tell her that the relationship is not working for you. Give her notice that you are moving out in 30…
/r/askTRP20/09/14 04:26 PM
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Red-pill tactics are about self-improvement and sexual strategy. The women who "don't respond" are either not interested in you, or you're not doing it right. Your question implies that if you "red-pill" perfectly, every girl will want you. That is not true. It's about increasing that likelihood.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 10:18 PM
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Stealthily reach down and turn on the hidden tape recorder in your shoe. Make sure you get her to say her full name, including middle initial. Be playful - say "You know what's really hot? When you say 'I consent to your sexual advances' slowly and clearly." You had me at "hidden tape recorder". This is gold.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 08:32 PM
1

Correct me if I'm wrong, but, your original comment was a powertalk example, right?
/r/askTRP19/09/14 08:22 PM
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Also, don't discount the possibility that she caught an STD and is re-evaluating her ride down the CC.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 08:11 PM
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Move on to a more willing participant. She is not attracted to you and she's made it pretty clear. Take a hint. You probably came off too strong and pushy/needy. That or she wants a relationship in exchange for sex. Do you really want to make that trade?
/r/askTRP19/09/14 08:16 AM
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Laugh it off and have fun with it. Here is a good clip to illustrate holding frame while being ridiculed publicly. The head guy is mad at first but he breaks the tension by just laughing it off and playing it like it's a roast. And everyone relaxes. It's not the greatest example for a date, but considering the big picture, this is how you handle verbal attacks.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 05:24 PM
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Let me give it to you straight. All of human nature is based on hierarchy. It is a status ladder and everyone has their place. As you grow older, you find your place on the ladder based on how you act and how everyone acts towards you. This is ingrained and any genetic tendencies will show up absent outside influence (like reading TRP). You have plenty of time to earn your place in the ladder through verbal fights, physical fights, play fights (Sports, wrestling, etc..), having fun, playing, etc…
/r/askTRP18/09/14 06:21 AM
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If you aren't being exclusive, it'll be harder to have her agree to be exclusive. It's not impossible, but there are much fewer women willing to do that unless you're a James Bond, Hugh Heffner, etc... If a girl likes you enough, she will want to be with only you, but you've got to be a pretty good guy and you have to be seeing them more than once every 7-10 days. Also, it'll probably not last long as even the most hopeful girl will realize that you're not serious.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 06:08 AM
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I've eaten my fair share of fucked up Alfalfas..
/r/askTRP18/09/14 06:00 AM
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Treat her like a friend you've just met. Don't act like she's special. Act like you are trying to get to know her and evaluate to see if she is a fun person to be around (like you would with any potential friend). This is why you shouldn't be asking someone out via mobile - You are more attractive in person vs. just a faceless sentence competing with all of life's distractions. Ask her out in person, THEN you can use text to send her details - time/place/what to wear.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 04:21 AM
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No. They will always seek an alpha. It's just that many high quality alphas may not want to commit to a 30-year old who's been around the block and has no desirable traits except for her has been beauty n body. She realizes this subconsciously and quite literally starts looking to "settle down".
/r/askTRP18/09/14 04:09 AM
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Just deflect and diffuse. She's looking to start an argument. By the sounds of things, it looks like she's succeeded enough times to know that you'll indulge her. What do you do when a child acts out and is pouty? You change the subject, do other activities and distract them until they settle down. After some time passes, somehow, it's magically all better.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 11:33 PM
1

Don't put your love life on hold. Go out with your male friends. Go meet some women. Flirt, go dancing, have fun. If you don't have male friends, go do some sports and make some friends.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 11:31 PM
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You handled it fine. You didn't get sucked into her annoyed frame by getting annoyed yourself. The difference between a "natural" and everyone else, is that a natural would then go up the girl after the test and ask her out (if she was cute). If "sorry" isn't your thing, try saying "My bad" or "Oops" or "No worries, I'll move somewhere else".
/r/askTRP17/09/14 11:15 PM
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What I’m asking TRP here is that should I put this delusional bitch in her place that I’m not some therapist you can just walk all over Don't try to "put her in her place". Act like a man and she will want to be in "her place" all on her own. Don't have conversations over text or facebook, you will lose like you did. Have them in person or over the phone where you can take advantage of non-verbal communication and you can get more real responses from people.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 11:11 PM
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Treat her as you would if a child was upset that you didn't buy them the sugary cereal at the store. You said no. Now, act normal. Act like nothing is wrong. She'll eventually want the cereal you have.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 10:23 PM
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Prepare for some brutal honesty 1) Her: She's a woman. Women seek to be with an alpha male. If you are not providing that experience for her, she will go elsewhere REGARDLESS OF ANYTHING YOU'VE DONE PREVIOUSLY (there are no brownie points for being awesome 2 years ago if you aren't awesome now). If a woman has an alpha male she's secure/happy with, she will deal with beta-orbiters appropriately - you won't need to coach her that much and she will tell you all about them and how pathetic they are…
/r/askTRP17/09/14 10:20 PM
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I'm in relationship purgatory, waiting to find out Be the man. Be a leader. Don't be stuck waiting because the reality is that everyone else is getting ready to move on with their life (with or without you). Start planning an awesome life situation for yourself and if gf wants to join, great. But don't stop everything waiting for them.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 10:04 PM
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It's also just plain and simple, women's nature /u/svoudrie4915, this is your answer. But let me explain further. Women have always been smaller and never had a size advantage in a dangerous situation. In the wild, anything could turn into a potentially dangerous situation. So, women had to be very emotionally sensitive to all the environmental cues because that was their only hope to survive. They had to trust their gut instinct much more and rely on their own intuition. This shaped their depen…
/r/askTRP17/09/14 09:41 PM
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Apparently, a blowjob makes her sick on an empty stomach Make sure you stay clean, trimmed, and odorless down there. Eat more veggies/fruits and less fast food, dairy, crap, etc.. and you will taste better, too.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 05:30 PM
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"See, aren't you glad we waited?" You were the one waiting. I was having plenty of sex without you.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 12:24 AM
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It works but if it doesn't come out right or she isn't that attracted to you, you could end up looking like a creepy douchebag Step 1: Be attractive Step 2: Don't be unattractive
/r/askTRP16/09/14 06:00 PM
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Being tired makes you more impulsive and decreases your self-control. Most ppl here at TRP are trying to alter their habitual previous behavior which requires some self-control. So yes, being tired will revert you back to your ingrained tendencies. So will eating unhealthy, not exercising, being hungry, and being overworked.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 05:54 PM
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You've got yourself a new stupid GP. Not really. If you keep taking melatonin, you will not be able to sleep without it. Taking a pill without knowing the root cause of the problem is a recipe for a long-term issue.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 05:50 PM
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Text her what time you'll be there and what she should wear. Depending on your style, tell her to make both of you some breakfast. At breakfast, be playful with her and don't be upset that she was too tired to hang last night. You could say "I'm glad I didn't come over yesterday or you would have been even MORE tired today" with a smirk and a leg rub, if it's your style. Have a plan to do something fun/interesting if she gives any resistance to sex - which she might. If you have a backup plan - …
/r/askTRP12/09/14 08:28 AM
1

She was too tired for him to come over and sleep over, but that he could still come over the next day.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 08:24 AM
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Does it really matter? The secret to life is to work hard at improving yourself as often as possible, having fun, doing interesting things, and being around interesting people. That will make you happy REGARDLESS of outcome.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 07:48 AM
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Don't ask "where to meet up". Tell her time, place, "wear something sexy" or "wear a cute skirt", or whatever. Have a plan. Execute the plan. Have fun. If you're going to pick her up - Tell her what time and what to bring/wear (i.e. bring something warm, etc..) based on where you're going, and tell her to send you her address. Be the leader. It's attractive.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 07:43 AM
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Just think- you'll be putting all this time and thought into your profile and your messages and while some 10/10 hot dude just has to say "sup bb, lez fcuk"
/r/askTRP12/09/14 06:48 AM
0

Am I the only one who read this in an Indian accent?
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 06:53 AM
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Think of it this way: Girls want to find a fun, interesting, adventurous, exciting, smart/witty, attractive, awesome guy to be with. That's what makes them excited, horny, sexual, feminine, etc.. If all your free time is spent watching or betting on sports, you're not a very interesting person EXCEPT to someone who's also interested in sports. Personally, I'm not that much of a sports watcher. Sports is just watching other men working towards their mission and accomplishing their dreams, while I…
/r/askTRP11/09/14 06:31 AM
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in return, she says she wants to be able to talk to me when she feels like she needs me. make sure to have sex BEFORE she unloads her feelings EVERY TIME she "needs you"
/r/askTRP11/09/14 06:24 AM
1

Read as much as you can. The answers will lie in that material. Where do I meet these women? I started by driving to a town about 1-2 hours away and just standing in the middle of a mall, busy boardwalk, or college quad talking to everyone. I felt more comfortable doing it far away from home so I wouldn't feel embarrassed or worry that someone would recognize me.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 06:22 AM
2

The bigger picture is this: -She had her chance with you and she still broke up. -Breaking up then getting back together astronomically increases your chances of breaking up again. -She has demonstrated that she is not a worthy woman to be in a LTR/gf with you d/t her jumping ship. -If you get with her, DON'T be monogamous or exclusive. You lose if you agree to this. If you want to help her through her mental breakdown, fine, but don't let her manipulate her way into a commitment from you. She f…
/r/askTRP11/09/14 06:17 AM
1

Like /u/xiko said, you can enjoy a girls company and have a lot of fun with her in various activities (including sex) but that doesn't suddenly mean you should get into committed monogamous relationship.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 06:07 AM
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act the way I act normally around a girl I really like Evaluate your behavior after the fact and come up with a few things you would do differently. Rehearse those things in your mind and try again next interaction. Rinse, repeat.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 12:42 AM
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You committed to a girl because you wanted regular sex. Not because she was a quality woman, but because you wanted sex. What did you think was going to happen? If you don't properly screen a woman PRIOR to getting in a monogamous relationship, your odds of a good one are WAY WAY lower. It sounds like you're not too messed about it, though, which is good since at some level you probably accepted that she would cheat on you based on her past. As played, you no longer have a gf, you have a f-buddy…
/r/askTRP11/09/14 12:39 AM
3

Practice. You can't read a magical sentence on the web and become a different person. Keep trying and keep practicing.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 12:29 AM
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Confidence is directly proportional to how much you accomplish physically and mentally REGARDLESS of actual outcome. So, go to the gym and accomplish something you didn't accomplish yesterday (lift higher weights, press longer, run harder, whatever) Go accomplish something new in work, finances, etc.. Go accomplish something new in terms of adventure - go on that hike you've wanted to try, or go to a dance class, or play that game of basketball in the park near your house, or meditate in the wil…
/r/askTRP11/09/14 12:05 AM
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it's just slang for overvaluing sex. Here's a start - Focus on improving yourself (gym, books, adventures, fun, friends, etc..) instead of trying so hard to have sex with every woman.
/r/askTRP10/09/14 11:55 PM
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The fact that she keeps coming back and makes it a point to reschedule means that she's into you and it's not your behavior that's causing her to flake. She's sounds like an over-extended person who has a lot of plans. You're just sex to her which is fine, but understand that your schlong won't always be her top priority. Have other stuff to do as a back up.
/r/askTRP10/09/14 10:21 PM
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I am not going to sacrifice basic principle of decency and honour Reminds me of this swordfight from Game of Thrones. Basically there's a swordfight and the white knight ends up dead, the queen insults the winner by saying "You don't fight with honor", The guy just looks at her and says "No, but he did". So powerful, but so relevant. "Honor" is just a manipulation strategy for the masses to keep them in line and focusing on anything but themselves.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 04:39 PM
1

You don't need girls to improve yourself. Work out Find interesting hobbies Read interesting things Do interesting things Go on adventures Play a sport even if it's a pick-up basketball or soccer game
/r/askTRP10/09/14 12:14 AM
1

call her on her shit and don't tolerate it. How would you go about calling her on it? Won't she just argue away that she's just asking you for a favor like you? Genuinely curious. Thanks.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 06:14 PM
1

This sounds like the symptoms of an alcohol addiction.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 06:02 PM
1

Her saying pretty clearly that she doesn't want a relationship or anything that resembles it = She wants something casual, NSA, etc...
/r/askTRP09/09/14 03:19 PM
1

No. You're misunderstanding. The saying is how it is regardless of who's asking. AFPJ just mis-used it. She is asking how to be kept AFTER she's been caught which is why RPW can help.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 03:11 PM
4

It's the other way around - something like: Don't ask a fish how to be caught, as a fisherman.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 05:59 AM
3

I think it's my ethnicity, too. You can't really correct it because it's THEIR problem not yours. Just focus on being the best you can be but you're gonna be shit-tested a lot in life.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 05:53 AM
2

I've had this happen to me, too. My theory is that by acting and being higher than your perceived SMV, you are upsetting the apple cart and some people get pissed/cold because of that to "try and bring you down a peg or two".
/r/askTRP09/09/14 04:55 AM
1

It's fine to have one girl, just don't instantly wife/gf someone just because they had sex with you. It puts you both into the "sex for committment" category and basically makes her a prostitute with commitment being the currency.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 01:57 AM
1

trollolololololololol
/r/askTRP08/09/14 11:33 PM
3

Practice singing in a deep voice for a few weeks. It can help a little with the vocal chords. Also, hold off on any orgasm, or masturbating for a few days and see if you notice a change. I noticed it for myself starting at about day 5-ish pretty consistently over a dozen experiments. Try not to smile as much when you talk, I think it subconsciously adds an inflection to words.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 11:31 PM
3

How long have you been dating? Dating =/= girlfriend/boyfriend. You should be guarding that title very dearly as it is reserved for only the best woman/women. That way, you can see how she handles herself and THEN decide if you want to be exclusive. You can evaluate her sex drive, her personality, her craziness, dedication, etc.. BEFORE you commit. If you would have done that, my guess is you would not be her boyfriend, she would be a casual date and you don't need to get mad/hurt or need to 'pu…
/r/askTRP08/09/14 11:28 PM
5

A light tap or slap to the arm/shoulder/chest followed by a smile or laugh is flirting. Pulling her into a playful bear hug is the correct display of Amused mastery. A tap to the back of the head is meant to be dominant and authoritative and therefore is disrespectful. Your co-worker stopped talking to you because she wanted to dominate you and you did not comply (great response, btw). If she was embarrassed and joking and didn't want to cause an incident with HR, she would have apologized.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 10:10 PM
2

wat?
/r/askTRP08/09/14 09:59 PM
1

A confident look deters fights. Bigger ripped guys who don't know how to fight are usually the biggest crybabies if shit goes down. Remember - with regards to fighting - if the only thing they have going for them is looks, treat their shit-tests accordingly.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 09:49 PM
16

It's time to get off reddit and get busy doing interesting things and raise your SMV FTFY
/r/askTRP08/09/14 04:32 PM
4

The bigger question is why are you becoming gf/bf with someone after just 2 months. Is it because she had sex with you a few times?
/r/askTRP08/09/14 04:21 PM
2

Lifting will not help you in an actual fight. It's mostly for show. Go learn how to fight and your confidence will be much higher even around guys who are "bigger" than you. Look at some early MMA fights and you'll see that size match-up does not matter as much if you know what you're doing.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 04:19 PM
1

if she wanted to do something about it, she would have. Girls rarely are looking for solutions when they complain/vent.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 05:07 AM
1

a lot of favors for her to get her to like me It gives off radar signals to the brain that you need to DO FAVORS to get her to like you. A high-value person does not need to do favors to get people to like him/her. They can if they choose, but it's not needed.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 05:04 AM
2

don't talk about who you're fucking or trying to, and you'll do better on this front, plus the girls appreciate it a LOT. Right on, brother. I am slowly applying this and it is working wonders.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 05:01 AM
2

You don't run after people who do not value your input, you withdraw your input. If she doent reply to your text she forfeits her right to attention and privileges, Thank you for this. Much appreciated. By the way, once someone notices this and asks you why you've been withdrawing input/attention, what do you say? Do you tell them exactly why, just downplay it, or what? Thx
/r/askTRP07/09/14 08:26 PM
0

No response = A "No" response With friends, it's a numbers game as well. Find friends who want to hang out with you and join you in your life. If they don't, just move on. Let them qualify themselves and be easy going about it. No response? Wait until they respond back to you. And then you just say "No worries/All good, we're hanging out [here/there/date/time/place]. You should come join us, etc.." Good friends should also be texting/calling you to see if you want to hang out. It's a give/take.
/r/askTRP05/09/14 06:45 PM
5

Ignore and say something completely random and smirk. Girls like making verbal observations about personality to see if you embrace it or if you are insecure about it.
/r/askTRP05/09/14 06:41 PM
2

Put on some music and tell her you'll be practicing dancing with her. If you feel bold, add in that you need to make sure she's sexy enough to be seen with you (or something along those lines). Great set up for holding, touching, dipping, kissing, escalation, etc...
/r/askTRP05/09/14 06:38 PM
3

Women don't like to share a man's attention which means resources/protection. When a man has sex with a woman and gets her pregnant, he is biologically driven to engage in some sort of protection/providing for the mom/kid (since it is his DNA also). A man that has many children (or the potential of many children) from many mothers cannot devote his full attention to protect/provide for one woman. If a man was wealthy enough and/or high value enough it wouldn't matter since the providing/protecti…
/r/askTRP05/09/14 06:34 PM
2

Dread game is when you are sleeping with a girl and, through your behavior, she can sense that you have plenty of other female options and that you are not overly invested in her. Act normal and ask her one last time then forget about it. If she was very interested, she would find a way to let you know but there's no harm in trying a third time.
/r/askTRP05/09/14 04:54 AM
6

Yeah she went about it wrong, but don't "blast out" sound in a common area. Who cares if "everyone" does it? Give respect & get respect.
/r/askTRP05/09/14 03:53 AM
1

If your girlfriend wants to stray, let her. She's an adult. But that should come with you withdrawing your commitment/investment. You should be constantly deciding if you want to hang out with her based on her behavior NO MATTER WHAT her status is (plate, gf, wife, etc..)
/r/askTRP03/09/14 07:03 PM
3

Just as you are not entitled to sex from women, women are not entitled to money/gifts from you. You don't need a "budget" for a woman. You need to focus on getting to know if she is a decent, interesting, attractive, etc... person who you WANT to spend time with. You can't buy those qualities, you can't negotiate them, and you can't budget for them. A woman either has them or she doesn't.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 01:08 AM
6

Do the best you can to be a man - work out, have a mission, be interesting, etc... BUT - accept the fact that you will have a harder time than other dudes for now. Your best years will probably be late 20s-late 30s, because you will look like a mature early 20-year old which will attract the 18-22 y/o girls. All those guys who are getting girls now will look way too old for the younger girls by then.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 10:00 PM
1

Sports. Go to the gym and play basketball with the guys. Or join a local baseball/softball/hockey/touch football/etc.. team. Become a regular anywhere and you'll make friends.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 07:18 AM
5

You aren't being straightforward and it's not attractive at all. Women want men who are straightforward. Even if she's not interested in you right now, you being up front makes you attractive. Drop the immature "I'll get back when I have time" games. It signals to her that you're not man enough to be straight with someone - not an alpha quality.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 08:28 AM
2

They are using you, plain and simple. Their hope is that they wiggle their ass and flirt, you will fall for it thinking you'll have a chance.
/r/askTRP25/08/14 06:15 PM
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It's because EVERYONE looks at them and wants to start a conversation with them in hopes of sleeping with them. If you had lots of options you'd also become selective/picky about who you look at, talk to, sleep with, etc.. It's not personal, and for most girls this isn't even conscious. Their nervous system does all the work for them. Super hot girls are somewhat like celebrities. They can't give their attention to everyone otherwise it would be too exhausting and they would never get any of the…
/r/askTRP18/08/14 04:49 PM
1

Make sure to take some Evolutionary Psychology.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 09:12 PM
5

Objection, Your Honor! Counsel's entire question is argument!
/r/askTRP15/08/14 08:49 PM
2

No, she can tell a lot about you as a man by how you react to losing or missing shots as well. Perfect "frame control" exercises
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 04:52 PM
2

"Clicking" is the most important screen test
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 04:58 PM
2

My go-to short first dates are either the pool hall, bowling, ping pong, or mini-golf, etc... You can tell a lot about a girl by how she reacts to those games (missing shots, losing, winning, how insecure she is if she refuses to put on bowling shoes). At most, the date costs $10 total and you don't necessarily have to over-talk. And if she's not a fun/interesting person, she can leave and you can call up some buddies and keep playing.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 04:57 PM
15

I was lucky enough to be raised my a mother who didn't let me watch those shows because she said they portray men as bumbling idiots instead of real masculine, alpha males.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 06:33 PM
3

Good luck with that. It'll keep you busy, but I'm not sure it will lead down a path of happiness and satisfaction.
/r/askTRP10/08/14 07:05 AM
3

Welcome to the real world. Most people are shallow. It's not personal, it's human nature. It's also animal nature - every animal on earth is shallow and only gives things attention if they judge them as useful. Humans aren't that much different. The trick is to let go of the bitterness so that it doesn't prevent you from hanging out with people who aren't that shallow.
/r/askTRP10/08/14 06:27 AM
2

"my girl" as in you're in a committed, exclusive, monogamous relationship with her? If so, then next her - she's not respecting your relationship. If not, then treat her like a casual dating partner.
/r/askTRP10/08/14 06:16 AM
4

You can't. Don't try to change her, it's a waste of your time. If you prefer skinny girls, go after skinny girls.
/r/askTRP10/08/14 01:55 AM
2

Your question is like walking into a training hall and saying "How long until I can fully defend myself and my fighting ability is all unconscious reflexes" There's no answer. Keep training, keep studying, and keep improving yourself and stop wasting your time and mental energy trying to figure out how long it will take you improve yourself. Just start doing it and put your full effort into it. When you start doing that, the time frame will become irrelevant. Relevant quote for you: "Start small…
/r/askTRP08/08/14 07:30 PM
1

"not long, was it cold out?"
/r/askTRP07/08/14 06:41 PM
5

Telling you to improve yourself is the opposite of validation, which everyone so desperately craves. The thing is, most people are not brutally honest with themselves so they live life and want to receive validation even if they don't deserve it. They then give to others what they themselves want to receive - validation regardless of action. IOW - people tell each other what they want to hear not what they need to hear.
/r/askTRP07/08/14 06:40 PM
4

Don't try to control women. Be the best version of yourself for YOU not for anyone else.
/r/askTRP07/08/14 06:27 PM
4

I think you mean, Women having meaningless sex outside of commitment with many, many men so that they feel validated and loved makes them lose value. That seems to be more in line with TRP
/r/askTRP05/08/14 07:13 PM
2

Good news for you. If you are at Zero, you can only get better. Keep improving yourself and give it time. Go to the library and read books. Go to the gym. Go on adventures - hiking, camping, roadtrip, etc.. Take martial arts. It's not an all or nothing mentality. Also, it's not magic. You can't just wake up tomorrow and be a changed man. That's only in the movies. It takes time.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 05:10 PM
1

No, not at all. But putting your best effort into improving yourself is realistic. Stop being outcome-oriented. You don't want to fall into the rut of "oh well, I will never become a 10/10 so what's the point of even trying at life". Focus on trying hard, self-improvement, and being the best you can be regardless of your results and you will have good self-esteem and you will be happy.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 05:24 AM
2

No, because this philosophy is about understanding what your genes are constantly trying to get you/others to do NOT about what you need to do to be happy & satisfied with life. They aren't always the same. The worst alternative for a 1/10 is to give up. The only logical way to improve life is to try to become the 10/10. That's not to say you will ever get there, but it doesn't change the point of trying to improve yourself constantly. Most people will never be the fictitious character Tony Star…
/r/askTRP03/08/14 04:51 AM
2

There is always immense competition from guys who are close in status. For example: The #1 and #2 guy, #4 and #5 guy, #6 and #7 guy. But almost never between guys far off (Like #2 vs. #9) because they both know there is no competition. That's doesn't mean that the lower guy doesn't WANT the top spot and he may try to orchestrate a coup occasionally but because he's lower, he can't plan or lead that great so it usually fails. Remember, though, the alphas that got there because of trust, leadershi…
/r/askTRP02/08/14 06:39 PM
1

This is a very confusing post. That said, let me clarify some key points for you. The social hierarchy of status is more subtle than your example. There are a lot of factors at play besides just looks. Humans evolved in tribes so getting along with the tribe is an important characteristic. UNLESS, you're the biggest, baddest motherfucker out there, then you can (theoretically) hack it on your own or at least be the leader of the tribe since no-one can defeat you. If you come from a genetic line …
/r/askTRP02/08/14 06:15 PM
2

It does. TRP's core principle is "Don't talk about, do it." That is the manly way.
/r/askTRP02/08/14 12:13 AM
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This is not new. Male friends do the same thing. Especially if they are professional orbiters and think they can get a leg up on you by talking shit. This is the world we live in. You will have very few people you can actually, really, honestly trust to look out for you and to share your feelings with. Everyone else couldn't give a flying fuck about what you think. A big red flag is when people start talking shit about someone else to you out of nowhere. If they gossip to you, they'll gossip abo…
/r/askTRP01/08/14 11:57 PM
1

OK, well then don't do them. What are you looking for? A magic cure for a lifetime of abuse? It doesn't exist. Seriously, though, go get some professional help. You can only find so much on the internet and you are looking for answers to a very specific, individual situation that only a trained professional will be able to guide you through.
/r/askTRP01/08/14 09:37 PM
1

Move to a town where that is considered normal and make sure you are financially stable enough to support a family or are at least on your way there. Work out, eat well, socialize, meet new people. It's not a guarantee but it's your best shot.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 04:34 PM
1

She is NOT mad/pissed at you. I would bet money that she made her older sister text your friend to try to get you there. Just re-kindle as if your ONS happened last weekend.
/r/askTRP26/07/14 09:36 AM
2

I so want to believe...
/r/askTRP25/07/14 10:59 PM
1

Work out. Break a sweat. Get out of breath. Learn a language. Laugh out loud. Play team sports. Have intellectual discussions. Go on an outdoor adventure. Play chess or checkers with a random stranger in the park. There is life beyond sleeping with women. Just get up and explore.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 10:57 PM
2

Tell him to eat healthier. It's the best possible thing for him to do to lose weight, get less depressed, and get it up. Watch this video for the science
/r/askTRP25/07/14 10:51 PM
1

Sounds like a good opportunity to practice frame control and control your frustration.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 06:50 PM
2

Let me add a little more to my last point. If your focus is on sleeping with girls and spinning plates, you're gonna have to do a lot of honest self-improvement. So, some people focus on that as an "end that justifies the means". Other people just focus on the self-improvement and let the cards fall where they may. It's really YOUR choice what you focus on, but you can't ignore self-improvement to achieve any of your goals.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 07:31 PM
2

It's way easier for a woman to sleep with multiple guys. She doesn't have to do ANYTHING except say yes and there will always be a guy willing to sleep with her. That's it. She doesn't have to be intelligent, interesting, moral, decent, honorable, sweet, kind, or even attractive. For men to sleep with multiple women, they have to improve themselves, make themselves physically and intellectually attractive, be socially adept, be savvy, be entertaining, smart, interesting, fun, prove themselves to…
/r/askTRP23/07/14 06:45 PM
1

Congrats. You could have stayed away from putting up with her talk shit about your friend behind his back and planning to watch him make a fool of himself. That's not what a man does. Have your fun, but there's no need to rub it in your friends face.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 05:20 AM
2

I think mentioning high-income makes them label you as a provider, which takes away from the label of "lover". I think so, too. But I don't want to lie about my profession, I just want a better response to delay or avoid my answer or to fuck with them if they are the gold-digger types.
/r/askTRP22/07/14 07:10 PM
1

Fixed it before the edit* appeared
/r/askTRP22/07/14 07:06 PM
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I thought so, since I've tried lying and saying a low-income profession and they just avert thier eyes, end the convo, and move on.
/r/askTRP22/07/14 06:57 PM
1

What for? There are so many other better options than to deal with the ensuing drama.
/r/askTRP22/07/14 04:55 AM
1

Yes, very childish. Be a man. Improve yourself. Go to the gym, eat better, sleep better, do interesting things with your life. Be an interesting person. Don't worry about "Text/tinder game" or shit like that because if you aren't a better person, the theory of "game" won't matter. There is no "do X, Y, Z, and you will get girls" formula. It's "improve yourself as best you can and you're giving yourself the best shot you have" with girls and at life in general. You do not seem ready to date women…
/r/askTRP21/07/14 10:26 PM
4

Videotape it maybe? if she ever finds out im fucking other bitches she might go crazy and ruin my life. This is the part that concerns me more. Didn't you already tell her that she's not the only one?
/r/askTRP21/07/14 09:22 PM
1

asking if I would hate her if she took a rain check, because her best friend is going through a bad breakup and she would feel bad if she left her friend's side. "I wouldn't hate you, but I'll need a sexy pic or I might forget what you look like" or something like that If you see her as possible gf material she may no longer see you as being possible bf material. if she's already willing to blow me off for her friends, A) This was a shit test Dude, relax, you've only been on 1 date with her, tha…
/r/askTRP21/07/14 07:27 PM
1

Move on to someone else. If she's interested, she would put forth more effort (she wouldn't want to risk you getting the wrong idea). If she's not interested no amount of your effort will help. Good compatibility is surprisingly easy because both parties want it to happen. Edit: As far as text/Tinder game, I can't help you there, I don't use it. It's way better to get practice at real life approach.
/r/askTRP21/07/14 07:09 PM
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If you want to significantly alter your smv, you have to significantly alter your life. There is NO way around this. There is NO way to improve SMV without working out. There is NO way to improve SMV without getting good sleep. There is NO way to improve yourself without doing a lot of the things you read on this subreddit. Find a way. Otherwise, accept your fate of living your current life. You don't have to be 100% hardcore superman from day one, but start taking small steps in that direction.
/r/askTRP21/07/14 07:12 AM
2

Why are you going on a date with a mom? Why are you going on a date with someone working 14+ hour work days? Why are you going on a date with a mom who works 14+hour work days and goes on dates instead of spending the extra time with her kids? You seriously need to find a better date next time.
/r/askTRP21/07/14 05:48 AM
1

This is why you should not be in a LTR until you have evaluated the person in many scenarios to see if they qualify. This girl will not be your supportive SO when times get tough - and believe me they're gonna get a helluva lot more tough then missing club night for an early interview. This girl is casual dating material and nothing else. Treat her as such. She will never be happy in a LTR with you.
/r/askTRP19/07/14 05:04 PM
2

If she's just a "plate", be wary of continuing to invite her into your life, especially if you have a kid. Kids get attached easily and you don't want them to have attachment issues because of this.
/r/askTRP19/07/14 04:56 PM
2

Saving Silverman
/r/askTRP19/07/14 01:48 AM
1

Look into Vitamin D for her
/r/askTRP19/07/14 01:47 AM
1

Get married if you want kids. With adoption you don't ever really know what you're getting since personality is genetic. If they're your own, it creates a bond that is indescribable.
/r/askTRP19/07/14 01:39 AM
1

You can't manipulate her into not cheating by "dread' or anything else. Well.... you can but only temporarily since this just how people are and eventually their nature will come out. The current thinking on this, afaik, is that some people genetically have a less sensitive pair-bonding mechanism and so they don't get attached as easily. The other side is that pair-bonding increases with more oxytocin release. A higher partner count dulls the oxytocin response (almost like neuro-adaptation). Thi…
/r/askTRP16/07/14 12:29 AM
2

God, what a load of drama. Good luck OP. "I want to Revenge fuck my friend's ex because he fucked my ex" is not how a grown-up RP man acts.
/r/askTRP15/07/14 11:21 PM
1

Her only red flags, from what I can see, is her inability to standup for herself and say no - and obviously the previous cheating. Do you see how these are quite possibly the most important criteria to answer your question? It's like being a judge and a defendant comes in pleading not guilty to theft. You look at his rap sheet and every time he has been in jail, it has been for theft. And because the law isn't perfect, he probably has stolen a lot more, just hasn't been caught. Then he tells you…
/r/askTRP15/07/14 11:13 PM
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This is one of the key understandings of TRP - that this is just evolutionary strategy. It is amoral. No need to be mad about it so long as you understand it and look out for your own interests.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 11:07 PM
0

Find a university around you and call them up and ask for the psychology professors who teach evolutionary psychology. They should be able to help themselves or know others who can help.
/r/askTRP15/07/14 10:34 PM
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It's a huge difference if a girl goes out w her single friends because they don't have to do any work to get approached and then laid. All they have to do is "give in to temptation". For guys, they have to better themselves and become attractive to pursue a girl. And it doesn't always result in sexual success. Which is harder? If a LTR-woman is mad at a successful single guy friend of the group, it's likely because he is introducing the idea to his friends that they can get better if they improv…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 06:42 PM
6

Good lord. I'll just answer your original question. Is there anything that can be done to decrease the likelihood of a GF cheating? Yes. Selection criteria UPFRONT. The more picky you are with potential gf's BEFORE they become your GF, the less likely they will cheat. Here are some things that will decrease likelihood: Low partner count Low extraversion, more introversion Not overly agreeable (can stand up for herself and say no) Higher conscientious, less flaky Stable Doesn't have countless sex…
/r/askTRP15/07/14 06:34 PM
2

Clean your room, one square foot at a time. Get out in the sunshine. Laugh out loud. Walk around the block. Eat more vegetables. Get to sleep on time. Take a cold shower. Try to do a few of those every day. Realize that it's not going to happen overnight like magic. But if you try to do it every day, it will catch on eventually.
/r/askTRP15/07/14 08:15 AM
1

wow, putting your email onto reddit. I, too, like to live dangerously...
/r/askTRP15/07/14 08:12 AM
4

Which is why I'm hesitant to pick up this world view when I may already have the correct one And this is why TRP usually attracts men who have been hurt, dumped, rejected, cheated on, etc... If everything is going ok in your life, there is little reason to question your world view. TRP is more of a self-improvement philosophy in general. With regards to marriage and sexual strategy, the odds are stacked against Western men & women for successful marriage but that's not to say it's impossible. TR…
/r/askTRP15/07/14 08:07 AM
4

You need to accept that you are responsible for the sex being boring. Take control of the bedroom situation if you want things to change. Can you expand on this more, pls? I've had good sexual chemistry w girls, but lately it's not that great and not sure what it is...
/r/askTRP15/07/14 07:54 AM
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This isn't magic as in "I read it, I'm cured". This is a life-long process of self-improvement. If you are very worried about results, keep a journal. One year from now, you'll see a big improvement. Thing is, because improvements day-to-day are so small, you'll likely not notice them and think that you're not progressing. Even failing "shit tests" is a success if you recognize that it was a shit-test and if you can think through what you could have done differently.
/r/askTRP13/07/14 08:56 AM
4

"Hey, I'm in town for the weekend. We should get together" If she replies, you're good. If not, no problem.
/r/askTRP13/07/14 01:32 AM
3

Meaning women don't like to be induced to stay through mate-retention behaviors (jealousy, violence, etc..). They want to FEEL like they want to stay on their own. Again, no surprise - we can't control other people, we can only control how WE act.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 09:31 PM
1

would be enough to push her to her senses Stop expecting her to change. This is a key life pro-tip. You should not base your behavior on HOPING she will change as a response. You have to accept someone for who they are and then decide if that's what you want. If your woman wants to fool around, ride the carousel, etc.. let her do it. It's her life. Find someone else who wants to live life WITH you as the captain.
/r/askTRP02/07/14 07:17 PM
1

Seek out mentors. Read. Educate yourself. Exercise. Find a hobby. Work on yourself. Improve yourself. Make yourself a better person. Earn income. Find a way to make your business work. That makes your life more interesting to yourself and to others. You'll have to figure out the specifics on your own. It is your life, your journey. You have to own it and make it all yours.
/r/askTRP02/07/14 06:23 PM
2

Wouldn't surprise me if she got sexually assaulted eventually. Creepy guys with blue balls is not a safe situation. Try an experiment for a month - start getting in better shape, start doing productive, awesome things then come back here and see if you feel the same way. My guess is if you perceive your value as higher you will not put up with her behaviour.
/r/askTRP02/07/14 05:39 PM
12

Understand this - Girls subconsciously want to join YOU in YOUR life journey. They don't have either the capacity or the desire to create that journey all on their own. So they look to an alpha male to create that for them and then they join him. So, create a fun, attractive, awesome life for yourself and girls will want to join you. So, applying this to your situation - Don't justify why you want to see the movie at 1:50pm. I would say this instead: "I'm going to watch this movie at 1:50pm. You…
/r/askTRP02/07/14 05:31 PM
5

This is a chance to go on 3 'dates' with her in one evening which will likely result in a nice evening for both of you. Don't escalate at the gym. Your job is to look focused and do your exercise. Go get something to eat after(have a place that you want already in your head). Flirt and escalate at dinner. Then suggest drinks at a bar or back at your place. Once you start making out, you casually whisper in her ear, "We should go take a shower", gently take her hand and lead her to your shower an…
/r/askTRP02/07/14 05:19 PM
1

"Yes. I don't know. Yes. Yes. Ok."
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 10:47 PM
2

Depends on many things - namely, the conversation topic, tone, and her body language. This is one of the values of escalating and constantly flirting - girls who are open to escalating will keep conversing and those that aren't will leave. If this is your thing, then call her up and see where it goes.
/r/askTRP23/06/14 11:12 PM
0

the feelings will catch up. as an example - even if you fake smile, the same hormones as a real smile get released to make you feel happy.
/r/askTRP23/06/14 06:55 PM
2

Having a male social circle is good for this since we are hard-wired to compete with each other even in the absence of females. Your brain can actually detect if your friend is getting stronger, smarter, etc.. by non-verbal communication and that will release a few more competitive/motivation chemicals so you can keep up. Non-science answer - A good social circle will keep you motivated without depending on horniness.
/r/askTRP22/06/14 02:09 AM
23

Because she's an adult not a child. Chances are, if you look at her other behavior, I'm betting this is not an isolated incident. Child behavior is to "forget" the time, come home 5 hours past their curfew and need to punished so they have boundaries. Adult behavior is based on mutual respect. She either 1) Is a child who needs to be punished or 2) Is an adult who does not respect the relationship enough to give you the decency of peace of mind. In either case, she is showing you that she is not…
/r/askTRP22/06/14 02:05 AM
3

If I met my identical self. Would I be friends with him? This is really fuckin awesome, man. New words to live by.
/r/askTRP22/06/14 01:54 AM
5

Keep in mind, it's not an "All or Nothing" thing. If you've never woken up at 7am and lifted 5 x per week + noFap, it'll be almost impossible to just wake up and do it from now on. It's a process of continual improvement so don't get down on yourself if you don't "do it from now on".
/r/askTRP21/06/14 06:45 PM
-1

No. Do you really want to center your life around gaming women? What are you getting from using snapchat, fb, etc..? Is it to flirt? With whom? Is it truly validating to get texts, likes, snapchats, vines?
/r/askTRP18/06/14 05:13 PM
7

People are always in competition for status. Status is a zero-sum game. If you gain status, someone else has to lose status. They are feeling that. You can try to make yourself more valuable to compensate i.e. bring information, resources, etc... to the tribe, make them feel more valuable i.e. give them status by asking them lots of questions about something they know, or find a new "tribe" where you are the high status one.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 08:54 PM
2

They can smell your insecurities by your body language - facial expressions, eyes, posture, etc.. Shit tests aren't just for girls. Here's an experiment to try next time you go out: Stand up straight, smile/smirk, look into the distance of the club. Once those comments come your way, smile, ignore, then casually walk to the bar and get a drink, then come back. Make them repeat themselves 2-3 times for those comments - just keep pretending you couldn't hear them. Then finally laugh a little and c…
/r/askTRP17/06/14 04:50 AM
2

OP - if she wants to be friends, you can try to be friends. Here's the gist of why "male/females can't be friends": Females are hard-wired to USE beta orbiters for protection, validation, and resources. Beta-orbiters are hard-wired to do it because it increases their odds of having sex with her some day. The female is hard-wired to use this to her advantage to gain more resources, protection, and validation. This is called "Let's just be friends" between men/women. By all means, try to treat her…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 10:32 PM
3

Anything you get in a friendship with a guy like good advice, jokes, hang outs, sports partner, reliability, etc... It should not be based on complaining, feelings, gossip, whining, unnecessary validation.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 10:05 PM
1

No. But you can accept who you are and what you are working with and make the best out of it.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 09:18 PM
2

My favorite one.
/r/askTRP14/06/14 06:18 AM
1

Don't fight when you're hungry. People are way more impulsive when blood sugar is lower.
/r/askTRP12/06/14 06:46 PM
4

Waste of time. Tons of free validation for looks and pictures instead of actually doing something worthwhile for the world/yourself. It promotes inaction - i.e. Just click the "like" or "share" button instead of actually doing something worthwhile
/r/askTRP12/06/14 06:40 PM
3

You don't need to do it.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 10:18 PM
1

And she won't because she's your parent/provider. You bring value to her life just by existing and carrying her genes. She doesn't need more value from you. Anything else in terms of close relationship is just icing on the cake and largely influenced by individual personality traits so make do with what you have and don't try to convince her to see "the truth".
/r/askTRP11/06/14 08:35 PM
2

It does 2 things simultaneously: 1) More circulation --> It's energizing/invigorating. 2) You practice your self-control. A "Willpower workout", so to speak.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 08:32 PM
2

Good points - I agree. My understanding of "blue pill" or "orbiters" is that they do something for a girl hoping/expecting that they will get sex, attention, etc.. in return. If he wants to help her, he should help her just for the sake of helping but don't expect anything in return. Also, if he DOESN't want to help her, don't help her, but not because he's trying to punish her for rejecting him. I think the collective suggestions are, though, that he should get busy with life so that he has oth…
/r/askTRP11/06/14 06:14 PM
1

Amused mastery. Don't brag to your mom how smart you were by doing bla bla red pill bla strategy. That's just how you are now there is no need for explanation. I know how you feel, though. I tried talking to mom & dad about this stuff as I was learning it and it was always met with arguments. Funny enough, I realized that she & my dad were always raising me and my siblings to be red pill/traditional. People just don't like when it's put into words. You should just live it and find something else…
/r/askTRP11/06/14 06:09 PM
1

You can practice "alpha habits" but that will make you an actor in your own life - which will suck. Improve yourself and your insecure tendencies will reduce themselves. Workout Do martial arts if that's your thing Read interesting books Exercise your mind - books, games, discussion with other smart people Go on adventures Learn what you like to do and don't like to do by doing many things.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 06:04 PM
1

Been there before - it becomes almost like they use YOU for entertainment when they say "Go get her". You can simply say, "Would love to, but it's your turn, bro. I'll wing". Also, be a good wingman. That means your friend is alpha when it's his turn. Make him the center of attention. Tell cool stories that demonstrate his higher value. Be a little beta. It's good practice to really understand the roles.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 05:59 PM
4

Take her through a different path home next time making sure it's something cool you want to show her, maybe a view, a cute dog, etc.. Then lead the way and hold your hand out as if to grab hers. She will grab your hand and then you're holding hands. Great for building attraction and it leads up to a kiss slowly so it's not a big surprise.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 05:54 PM
41

Every day, for the next little while try really hard to do any of the following: 1) Go outside for at least 1 hour 2) Take a nap in a park 3) Watch stand up comedy i.e. LAUGH 4) Walk/run/exercise/ play soccer, etc.. 5) Make a homemade meal 6) Do some pushups 7) Call an old friend and ask them how THEY are doing 8) Volunteer somewhere for an hour or a day. 9) Take a hot shower then switch to cold for a minute then back to hot, keep alternating until you feel giddy. 10) Clean your room. Try really…
/r/askTRP11/06/14 05:49 PM
2

Communication is a two-way street. If you don't exist to them, then they don't exist to you. Just ignore and do your own thing.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 05:39 PM
1

You don't want to imply that you don't WANT to help her. It's that you CAN'T help her due to other priorities. IOW, if other more important things did not come first, you'd be happy to help. It signals to people that they must become more important to you in order to get your time. It's not about being an asshole who "only has time for you if you put out". It's about being a friendly, awesome person whose time is valued by others as well. Edit: Also, if you have time, OP, why not help her? It se…
/r/askTRP11/06/14 05:34 PM
2

Get off of facebook. Go to the gym.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 08:28 AM
6

This is the true problem of being a beta orbiter. Now that you want to stop providing services, she'll guilt you by saying "So you won't help me since I rejected you. You were only helping me hoping to get in my pants! What a jerk, etc.." Essentially by being a beta-orbiter, you come off as a sneaky asshole. Just become busy and tell her "Good question. I don't have time to deal with that right now". To be high-value, you must have an actually busy life with shit to do.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 08:12 AM
1

Evolution explains sexual strategy. Everything else is just personal preference.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 11:04 PM
1

The scientific theory is that of evolution and evolutionary psychology and the mating strategy of all animals not just humans.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 12:03 AM
5

I accept her apology. How do you do this? I don't know what to say when someone says sorry. My default response used to be "That's ok/fine" but it wasn't ok. I don't want to be overly aggressive as in "Just don't let it happen again."
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 07:49 PM
1

wait until she's off the phone. If she pulls it out while you're talking to her and starts up with it, you've lost her interest in a BIG way and she's being obliviously rude. Move on to the next one.
/r/askTRP06/06/14 08:08 AM
-1

"Not the type of girl that enjoys a real man? That's a shame."
/r/askTRP05/06/14 03:27 AM
4

It's not personal if you just pull up naked pictures. BUT, if you are a clown for the girl in exchange for naked pictures, it's personal and it feels validating to them. It's a biological signal that their display (being a clown) is working i.e. they are desirable.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 06:27 PM
2

Somewhere between full-blown TRP Asshole and full-on Gentleman BP is the right way, but you'll need to figure out which it is. If only it were as easy as just reading it on the internet....
/r/askTRP16/05/14 04:44 AM
1

You could start by being smart enough to not have appalling grammar mistakes in your title. FTFY FTFY
/r/askTRP14/05/14 08:26 PM
1

Step 1: Be attractive Step 2: Don't be unattractive. That's the only difference between a douchebag who girls want and a DB that they don't.
/r/askTRP14/05/14 08:20 PM
1

Why do you want her know she fucked up? Are you her teacher/parent? Move on and stop seeking justice for being "wronged".
/r/askTRP14/05/14 08:12 PM
1

What's next after she tells you her name? I don't know where to go after that
/r/askTRP14/05/14 08:07 PM
6

Do you even homo, bro?
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 07:22 PM
28

Sup brah, I gotta go to the gym, brah. Look at my biceps brah, do you even lift brah? What'd you bench, brah? Gotta go lift brah
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 07:21 PM
2

we need a subreddit called "Tip of my Red Pill"
/r/askTRP14/05/14 03:51 PM
3

It makes sense to have a strategy for anything in life. Especially if you're planning on doing it over and over again. Want to learn to eat better? Want to learn a sport/exercise? Want to start a business? Planning a business negotiation? Planning a vacation? Planning a night out with friends? Have a strategy and you will have a better time in all of those. If you have a strategy for life, you will have a better life. Some people are raised in a culture where this strategy is ingrained or it is …
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 07:37 PM
14

You may want to fix those last few words there, buddy....
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 06:59 PM
1

You both were in competition for status and she lost her frame and, as a result, her status by acting like a child. Storming off and guilt-ing you "all this over some fucking beads" was the only way for her to defend her status. If she is capable of self-analysis/ being introspective and can handle admitting having lower status than you (which you proved), she will realize that and come back and apologize. HOWEVER Tread carefully because something similar will probably happen again. You are now …
/r/askTRP23/04/14 06:11 PM
0

Be a fun person to be around. You like cars? Go to car shows. You like cooking? Have a cooking night with friends. Hell, even if you're boring and you only like watching TV and if you live in a major city you can even make THAT fun by being an audience member for a TV show. It's a numbers game in terms of meeting people and being around them. Set up situations where you will be around more people.
/r/askTRP23/04/14 05:52 AM
1

You could just say, "Could you repeat that middle part? I zoned out, thanks :-P" And then just walk out.
/r/askTRP23/04/14 05:47 AM
1

I don't think you need to commit to one or the other. Just do your thing and keep improving yourself - sex may or may not be a side effect but not something to focus on.
/r/askTRP22/04/14 11:15 PM
7

Big red flag when you're living together and she "announces" that he's coming to stay instead of asking you. Don't you both live together? Roommates who aren't close even give each other that courtesy. If anything, this should be a bigger red-flag than anything because if she keeps up this behavior, she may not cheat now, but she's setting herself up to cheat later.
/r/askTRP22/04/14 09:27 PM
1

There isn't anything you can do. I think this stuff is ingrained in girls' DNA - if your upbringing was traditional then she has a better chance but the odds are against her especially if she's more extroverted, agreeable, and open to new experiences than the average girl.
/r/askTRP22/04/14 05:42 PM
1

Exercise - break a sweat, sprint, do some sparring, anything to get out of breath for an hour. Eat more vegetables and WAY less junk food than you are eating now. Doing both of those releases chemicals that decrease all of those emotions.
/r/askTRP22/04/14 05:27 PM
2

I'm no expert but I thought that the Jungian "types" were not as scientifically validated as the Big Five personality bell curves.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 02:16 AM
3

A very poorly done study with only 1300 people that didn't really specify what a "vegetarian" diet meant. People could have been eating 100% Oreos and be classified as being on a vegan diet. You'll save yourself a lot of headache if you don't just rely on 1 single study to make vast conclusions - that signifies a poor understanding of how science and data works. Watch this video lecture by a medical doctor. If you watch the whole thing and pay attention, you might just get a better understanding…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 10:25 PM
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