Fading away/ghosting LTR

abdada · 2016-04-04T22:33:48+00:00

This is a shit post for not mentioning the situation better.

How long were you together? Is she integrated in your social circle? Does she spend the night at your place all the time?

I never fade an LTR. I've faded plates for bad behavior. LTRs deserve a break up unless they cheated on you or lied about something major.

Easy breakup conversation: invite her over and just tell her: "This relationship is no longer heading in the direction I thought it would. I don't feel it's in my best interests anymore."

OneTouchHowMuch · 2016-04-04T22:47:27+00:00

Depends on your relationship dynamics...

Why are you thinking of breaking up w her?

Sir_Distic · 2016-04-04T23:37:38+00:00

Correct me if I'm wrong. But you want to end it because you are unhappy as you being a leader from the beginning and she's followed?

Easiest thing is just talk to her. End it by telling her it's just not working out.

meh613 · 2016-04-05T05:20:02+00:00

Don't... Make it as unambiguous as possible and no more. Leave them no doubt that this is what you want. By the same token, be polite about it. Don't do the name-calling, blaming, etc.

Reddened · 2016-04-05T06:31:01+00:00

I don't know about the TRP community, but as a decent human being I'd say you owe her a direct conversation when ending it. Based on your description of the relationship below she doesn't deserve ghosting. Yeah maybe she's a bit selfish and not into you the way you'd like, but I'm not reading that she cheated or exhibited any other major bitch behavior.

Not to mention that if you do just ghost her there could be negativity being spouted about you that you don't need if she decides to share what a dick you are to anyone that will listen. Women already are already bad enough about shit talking their ex's when they didn't initiate the break up, no need to give her even more motivation to do so.

Title	Fading away/ghosting LTR
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	19
Date	April 4, 2016 10:30 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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