Rhazelle Archive

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1	Unlearning/changing how to move on I guess? You don't Have to tell other people what you're going through. You have no obligation to and it might even get in the way of positive progress - for example, being friends with women would very much help, but they may avoid you if you tell them straight up you have problems with seeing them as equals. But of course if it comes up in a situation where it could lead to conducive conversation, sure. But you don't HAVE to disclose this to others. Lots of people have personal struggles they're person…	/r/ExRedPill	10/09/23 12:36 AM
6	What does "dread game" mean and what does it do to the relationship and other person? Yes the route of "doing it slowly" to an emotionally healthy person could work sometimes. Not all the time, but sometimes it could, sure. It's one of the reasons why predatory men go for younger women instead of women their own age too. Emotionally healthy people say in their 30s are (usually) more secure in themselves and have life experience to see through bullshit easier than say an 18 year old can. That's why when you see large age gaps in a relationship it's a huge red flag and most of the …	/r/ExRedPill	18/07/22 04:00 PM
2	What does "dread game" mean and what does it do to the relationship and other person? Also to clarify, dread game can be applied to anything to make the person feel disposable. Whether that's "I have women on the side that I can leave you for at any moment" or "you're starting to get fat, that's why I'm talking to your skinny friend" or what have you. Dread game is about making that person feel disposable in whatever way they can to get them to fall in line. The specifics can vary.	/r/ExRedPill	18/07/22 03:48 PM
8	What does "dread game" mean and what does it do to the relationship and other person? Ignore him he's just a dumbass. A person's worth isn't just about their ability to have children, that's fucking ridiculous and laughable. Only someone who doesn't have anything else going for them in their life would focus on "well I have viable sperm" as their prime indicator of their worth. Other people have things like family, friends, a career, hobbies, life experiences, education, a personality, etc. that define them and their "worth" as a person. If the best thing someone has to say about…	/r/ExRedPill	18/07/22 03:30 PM
9	What does "dread game" mean and what does it do to the relationship and other person? Why does it only work on emotionally unhealthy people? Because an emotionally healthy person wouldn't put up with the bullshit. Take someone who has high self-esteem and confidence and you try to play the "you're worthless and you should feel lucky to have me, I have lots of other hot bitches and can dump you at any time so you better step in line" game with her (this is dread game), watch her laugh in your face and dump you on the spot. Because this woman knows her worth and isn't going to go a…	/r/ExRedPill	18/07/22 03:19 PM
1	should I get an escort? I feel like my lack of experience is what's holding me back There are exceptions of course. I am just 1 girl out of billions, so of course there will be others with different opinions. I can only give you my opinion from my experiences, and I would very confidently say that at least within my circle of girl friends, a large majority of them would be totally ok with a virgin but cringe at men who have paid for sex. For context, we are largely of middle-class+ asian background, so "no sex before marriage" is culturally accepted (whether we actually follow …	/r/ExRedPill	08/05/22 11:33 PM
1	Trying to understand what is so appealing about RP to men and if some men are more susceptible to it Red pill definitely is a cult, but I do think us women can do something to help. Not directly to red pill, but to our environment. The movements currently in place to acknowledge and be more accepting of male emotions. The movements towards gender equality where women can be breadwinners as well (which would help take the stress off of men needing to be sole providers). The acknowledgement that men are just as capable parents as women and giving them equal rights to their children. All of these …	/r/ExRedPill	08/05/22 11:13 PM
1	Trying to understand what is so appealing about RP to men and if some men are more susceptible to it hug This was very well-written, and thank you for sharing! I've always been under the impression that those who fall into red pill ideology were in one of two categories: 1) Those who were hurt from previous relationships 2) Inexperienced men(kids!) indoctrinated into the ideology before they even know what relationships are As a woman I could only theorize as I couldn't personally relate, but what you wrote was completely what I would've imagined happened to those in the first category I mentio…	/r/ExRedPill	08/05/22 11:02 PM
2	Thoughts on the Seduction Subreddit? Lmao. Just lmao. People there try way too hard it's sad, everyone is super fake, and all the terms that come from it are extremely cringe. If I hear a guy using any of the terms from seduction/pill subs they instantly lose 10,000 attraction points in my book.	/r/ExRedPill	08/05/22 10:52 PM
1	What do you think about women who support the red pill? I feel sorry for them that they don't really see and appreciate themselves as human beings, and disgusted that they think the emotional abuse and manipulation of themselves and other women touted by this ideology is okay.	/r/ExRedPill	08/05/22 10:38 PM
1	Thoughts on Nofap? Kind of weird, and probably unhealthy. There's nothing wrong with jerking off, unless you have an addiction and you're doing it so much it interferes with living a healthy life. Too much of anything is bad, even no fapping. The key is moderation. Unless someone is going no fap as a step to reach that healthy moderation (for example if they do have an addiction or something), I think it's an unhealthy both mentally and physically.	/r/ExRedPill	08/05/22 10:32 PM
5	What do you love about a healthy man? Things I love about my boyfriend: Number 1 is definitely that he's a great communicator. I've dated many men before, but why my relationship with my boyfriend has lasted longer than any of my others is because whenever something feels wrong, we talk it through. We communicate our feelings with each other and come to an understanding, and move on knowing that we didn't mean to insult/hurt/make the other feel bad or whatever it is and that we love each other. No petty games, no whatever. We talk o…	/r/ExRedPill	08/05/22 10:19 PM
3	What is your opinion on a PUA infield when a balding fat ginger wearing bull walks up to women on the street and pulls a harem by just looking at them? Exactly. That's how lots of YouTube stars can afford to do massively expensive projects where they give outs tens of thousands of dollars to random people. They're actually making more than that from their videos so it's actually a net profit. Plus it wouldn't even be that expensive to pay a random girl to say whatever you want on camera. I'd do it for $20 lmao. Free money.	/r/ExRedPill	08/05/22 10:06 PM
2	should I get an escort? I feel like my lack of experience is what's holding me back Honestly it sounds like you're way too in your own head and overthinking it, so if getting an escort would get you to chill out a bit and have more confidence I think it would be good for you. However as someone else had also said, many girls will probably be more turned off if they knew you'd paid a prostitute to have sex than if you were a virgin. I am one of those - I couldn't care less if a guy I was dating was a virgin but if they paid a prositute for sex that's a huge no for me. So just ta…	/r/ExRedPill	08/05/22 09:57 PM
2	Is attraction more about feeling the vibe than creating it? People start with a base attraction level to each other based on first impressions, and yes it can build or fade over time as you get to know each other. That's where the whole song and dance of dating comes in, to explore that attraction and see where it goes. But if you have to stoop to "convincing" someone to like you, that's not how attraction works in the slightest. If you do that then it's not much different from creating an entirely fake persona to catfish someone into liking you. Or a bu…	/r/ExRedPill	08/05/22 09:42 PM
4	Those who are not in favor of redpill... what do you wish redpill types understood better? I would correct this to say that watching porn is completely normal and healthy in moderation (of course a porn addiction is definitely a problem). Porn itself is not inherently unhealthy, and serves as a very good tool that many adolescents have used to learn about and come to terms with their sexuality. People who come from households demonizing porn or who make them feel bad for watching it generally enter adulthood much less comfortable and knowledgable about their own body, sexuality, and s…	/r/ExRedPill	06/07/20 07:29 PM
5	Did she cheat? Exactly. She's already had a lot more patience with him than I would've. I'd have been out WAY long ago if a guy treated me like that, and even if I didn't immediately ditch I wouldn't feel comfortable having sex with him because STDs if he acts like such a fukboi.	/r/ExRedPill	03/07/20 08:44 PM
24	Did she cheat? 1) She doesn't feel comfortable being with you because she doesn't see you as a "serious thing". You can already tell she's uncomfortable about the other girls who come by by the way she talks about them. I think she likes you too but doesn't know if she can trust you because you come off as a playa, and women who want to settle down with a life partner stay away from those. That she's still around you even despite this tells me that she Really likes you and Really wants to take you seriously - …	/r/ExRedPill	03/07/20 08:49 AM
19	How can I reinvent my image after expressing redpill ideas to friends? Then I think your friend may be confused about what redpill ideals are... self-pity and being down and sad about your situation is more being depressed than redpill. Also, self-pity and all that shit is super unattractive. I'm sure a part of your problem is that you're creating a perpetuating cycle of girls finding you unattractive because of it and it fueling your negative situation. You gotta stop that shit. Also saying stuff like "I'll never get pussy again" etc. shows that you objectify wome…	/r/ExRedPill	03/07/20 08:38 AM
30	All these redpill vids I used to watch and never once saw a guy blame himself for his relationship problems. In a way I see it as a round-about mental gymnasticy way to pre-emptively "reject" smarter, more knowledgable women who can see through their bullshit first so they don't have to feel bad about getting rejected going after them. The thing is people who are 18 are, once you're an adult looking back, really just children. Many, especially ones with trauma or household issues, are really inexperienced and naive yet think they know everything, and on top of it all, want to be mature and thus if an o…	/r/ExRedPill	30/06/20 08:30 AM
10	My ex is becoming consumed on redpill ideology and it is taking over his life. I think his mental health is compromised He grew up in a single-parent home and most of the marriages that he knows of are all ruined. He never had any positive examples of couples and marriages other than my mom and dad who have been happily married for over 30 years. Ouch, that sucks for him. And I'm very sorry that despite that it sounds like you two had a wonderful relationship to begin with, that it wasn't good enough for him to consider that it could be any different. This is the part that gets me the most and would make me the m…	/r/ExRedPill	25/06/20 02:51 AM
1	What do you think about guys waiting until their late 20s/30s to date? Where are you getting the "I have no chance now but I'll have a chance in the future" from though. There is no guarantee it gets easier. For all you know you have even less chance in the future. And ESPECIALLY so if you have no experience at all in the field. Someone else here gave a really good example of it being like looking for a good job, and I wholeheartedly concur. If you don't even try to get working experience throughout your life and think that you're guaranteed to land a good job afte…	/r/ExRedPill	20/06/20 05:32 AM
1	What do you think about guys waiting until their late 20s/30s to date? What I'm addressing has nothing to do with having options or not though. The question here is "should I not even try now and wait until I'm 30 or not?" And my answer is even if it's hard that yes, yes you should try. There's a difference between "It's a struggle now but I should still try." and "It's a struggle, I'm not even going to try." One gives you the opportunity to maybe learn something, even if from your failures. The other GUARANTEES that you get no experience when you get to that stage…	/r/ExRedPill	20/06/20 05:19 AM
2	What do you think about guys waiting until their late 20s/30s to date? I mean, if that's how they want to do it, go ahead? Personally, I don't see a difference in the ease of dating earlier or later. It's just different. The relationships I had when I was younger were more naive and innocent puppy love. Then as a young adult dating was mostly for fun and having someone to learn how to be an adult with. Then as an adult it was "is this someone I want to spend my life with?" Some people are better suited for dating at certain ages. The 30 year old party girl is going…	/r/ExRedPill	19/06/20 08:14 PM
2	Do women lack respect for their male “friends” I have ~20+ male friends, MANY who have zero romantic interest in me. I simply pointed out the ones that have as EXAMPLES to show you how your thinking is flawed. My one friend is definitely not orbitting, and it's insulting to us both to suggest that. We like each other as people and get along well, and he only kept asking me out because, to be frank, he's a playa that asks anyone available out, and which is exactly why I wouldn't go out with him since I'm not into playboys. He asked me out a f…	/r/ExRedPill	16/06/20 02:27 AM
6	Do women lack respect for their male “friends” Both. Depends on how you look at it and life is not simply so black and white like that. If I'm not romantically attracted to someone, then obviously I'm not going to be more than friends with them. But it also has nothing to do with how much I respect the person. To give an example of someone that I've been interested in but are still "just friends" with, my best friend of 10 years and I used to super like each other when we first met, but life happened and it never worked out (never had sex ei…	/r/ExRedPill	15/06/20 08:57 PM
5	Do women lack respect for their male “friends” What's really pathetic here is that you don't see women as people, but as objects whose only value is if they have sex with you. That's... really sad and disgusting. I have respect for all my male friends even if I don't have sex with them. We go on vacations, hang out, play video games together, and when we date people we introduce our partners to the group and include them too. We like each other as people and have been there for each other through both good and bad times. However, someone lik…	/r/ExRedPill	15/06/20 01:21 PM
10	Found PUA notes in bf's journals So it sounds like these notes were from 13 years ago and that he doesn't exhibit any red pill red flags in the time that you've known him. That's good, and yes while I agree that 13 years is a long time and that people change and he likely doesn't think the same way now, I'd still be wary. That he took notes on it means he was "studying" and delving deeply into the topic, and more disturbingly that it resonated enough with him that he kept going. Well-adjusted people don't think it's EVER ok to …	/r/ExRedPill	12/06/20 09:57 PM
6	I have experienced feelings of great anger, resentment and depression around the mere concept of women for too long. Okay so at least one of your problems is "trust issues" then. Even just that in itself is not healthy and results in loneliness for even people who don't harbour the same hate and anger you do. This is a tricky one to resolve, even for therapists. People build walls around their minds and their hearts because they have been hurt in the past or have some reason to not trust others. The advice I can give on this subject then is that no matter who hurt you in the past and how, don't automatically a…	/r/ExRedPill	10/06/20 11:05 PM
5	You guys should block this user from your sub, he seems to be frequent poster. ...is this guy retarded? Like wtf is he even on?	/r/ExRedPill	07/06/20 01:55 PM
3	Why am I feeling like shit all the time? My friends and a lot of girls would humiliate me and call me things "deadbeat loser" and "boring guy who deserves to die alone". These aren't your friends. They're your bullies. Drop them from your life asap. How old are you man? It sounds like you're pretty young and just haven't found your "in" group yet. There's nothing wrong with liking math and science. It's great that you're into those, your parents should be proud! I'm personally a huge nerd and also like math and science. So does my boyf…	/r/ExRedPill	06/06/20 09:53 PM
7	What are some warning/ red flags that a guy is into redpill or using their tactics? Hey, girl here! I've never dated guys like this in my life even before I found out about what red pill was. The key is to respect yourself and have standards for how people treat you. That's really all you need. Red pill strategy has a lot to do with disrespecting the girl, playing mind games, acting avoidant, putting them down, all to make you chase after their attention and validation. Thing is, no self-respecting woman would go for a guy who does that. If you carry yourself every day in a way…	/r/ExRedPill	06/06/20 09:28 PM
5	The anime/manga known as "ERASED" is what single-handedly got me out of the toxic RedPiller mentality. I know this sounds ridiculous, but you have to hear me out. Very happy for you that you got out of that toxic way of thinking and have found happiness for yourself :) Just wanted to say good job, even though I can't relate.	/r/ExRedPill	06/06/20 03:55 AM
8	Can women fall in love? I started actually answering this post and then I realized you're a troll account. Stop shitposting and go do something better with your life lol. And in case you are actually serious about what you say, I'm sorry you put yourself in such a miserable and lonely world. In a way we create our own realities through our beliefs and our actions. Our beliefs dictate how we view and understand things, and our actions determine what people are drawn to us and the world we build around ourselves. Good pe…	/r/ExRedPill	05/06/20 12:08 PM
16	Can women fall in love? Everyone, men AND women, can ofc fall in love. Unless they're sociopaths, but again that would apply to both genders. On top of which, everyone is a unique individual with their own preferences and interests. Some are good and some are shitty. Some are more materialistic than others. Some girls will only go for hot guys. Some guys will only go for hot girls. Some girls will go for guys with money. Some guys will only go for girls with money. Some PEOPLE want a partner who is smart. Some want one…	/r/ExRedPill	05/06/20 10:57 AM
7	How do I overcome the perception of women as “gold diggers”? Girls have never seemed to be interested in me. Gee, I wonder why? Could it be that your toxic mentality bleeds over into your interactions with them like it has in literally every comment you've made to women even just in this post? You asked for help, and yet even so you've alienated every woman who came here to try to give you advice and made them not like you. I suggest reflecting on that and consider again whether you have trouble with women because you don't have money (which has no bearin…	/r/ExRedPill	03/06/20 03:09 PM
19	How do I overcome the perception of women as “gold diggers”? Dude it's really fucked up that your first reaction to any girl who says that they're not like that is to assume they're ugly and have no other options. That's the kind of attitude that pushes women away. If that's your mentality, then ONLY girls who only want you for material reasons would stay with you, because it sure as heck won't be because of your personality. Grow the fuck up man. What a lot of people don't understand is that you create your own reality, to an extent. If you have a shit p…	/r/ExRedPill	03/06/20 01:36 PM
6	Feel like I grew up too socially stretched thin That's cool and all dude but I'm not really sure what you're asking (if anything) or if this is even the right sub for this post?	/r/ExRedPill	03/06/20 12:24 AM
8	I think Red Pill Ruined my Relationship im just confused on what to do run far, far away from red pill ideology and don't be an idiot again you fucked up, there were consequences, learn from it	/r/ExRedPill	01/06/20 01:00 AM
11	There are men who follow red pill ideologies who think they're strong for being emotionally unavailable but they're actually really weak. Sounds like every other conspiracy theorist saying that people are against them "for their own agenda" 😂 If you really think what you're saying is true, I have a few other pieces of information that might schock you: Vaccines don't cause autism - they actually save lives and people get upset because it actually causes harm to both themselves and others, NOT a big conspiracy to make money for big pharma. The Earth isn't flat - you're not part of some special group that has exclusive knowledge tha…	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/20 12:41 AM
11	I made a short film about a flat-earther but it's really about getting sucked into an online cult, similar to red pill. Hahahah I've used the analogy a few times before that the red pill is a cult and not unlike being a flat-earther in how they get into and keep defending their beliefs regardless of how unreasonable or easily disproven it is, so it's cool to see someone else making this same comparison xD	/r/ExRedPill	23/05/20 07:39 PM
7	I've accepted the fact that I'll never be the same again after leaving TRP, PSL, and the Blackpill It sounds like you're still pretty young, which means you have time to mature, learn, and rewire your brain into more healthy views and mindsets. The worst thing you can do is give up on yourself, aight? So keep fighting, make improvements every day (no matter how small), and you'll get to where you want to be :)	/r/ExRedPill	23/05/20 12:05 PM
13	How do you go from casual hook ups to a relationship? Dang that was beautifully written and well articulated hahah. This should be its own pinned post for everyone passing through exredpill to read :o	/r/ExRedPill	16/05/20 03:03 AM
11	Women are not attracted to confidence,they are attracted to men who played the game You can be any sort of guy and get girls - it just depends on what kind of girl you're looking for. Guys who play the game will pick up girls who want to play the game. Guys who don't will pick up girls who also don't want to deal with that kinda shit. Some girls are like the ones you describe here for sure, but a lot more aren't at all. Just because you can get girls using one method doesn't mean the others don't exist - you're likely just drawing in and focusing on one specific type of girl. T…	/r/ExRedPill	12/05/20 02:02 PM
6	What made you guys “spit out” the pill? Even worse than that, redpill ONLY teaches you to get girls with anxious attachment styles and to form an anxious-avoidant style relationship. Avoidant women obviously give zero fucks about pursuing avoidant men. Secure women will see right through that shit and not bother with it. The only people who get picked up by these tactics are the anxiously attached who will try to seek the validation/attention of the "avoidant" redpiller. On top of which redpill touts that if a girl isn't trying to cha…	/r/ExRedPill	12/05/20 08:25 AM
6	What made you guys “spit out” the pill? As someone who knows about attachment theory I totally get your point, and it's definitely part of why redpill attracts and fosters unhealthy relationships. For everyone else who doesn't know what this is and finds this post confusing, look up "attachment styles". It's very useful, and will show you why and how certain behaviours create different dynamics in relationships (and why certain ones are good and others are toxic).	/r/ExRedPill	11/05/20 06:54 AM
5	Update: Someone please help me I don’t wanna be “incel” anymore Congrats! Glad to hear you are doing better! And just to put it out there as well, you say you're not even 20 yet. You're young. It makes me sad to see you already considering coming to terms with "never getting laid". It's good that if that's what happens you are prepared, but don't give up hope just yet, you've got your whole life ahead still!	/r/ExRedPill	06/05/20 11:19 PM
2	I feel like the effect of redpill is too strong and has irreversibly changed me. If you have to feel like you have the upper hand in a relationship to have a fulfilling relationship with someone, then you're not having a very good relationship. Good relationships are based on mutual understanding and respect. To feel you need an upper hand on someone inherently means you don't trust them to stay with you if you didn't control them in some way. Similarly if you have to do that for someone to stay with you, they don't really like you for you, do they? A girl who loves you for …	/r/ExRedPill	06/05/20 08:44 PM
2	I feel like the effect of redpill is too strong and has irreversibly changed me. I'm sorry you're going through this, but you've taken the first most important step already, which is realizing it's all bullshit and that you do want to get rid of this ridiculous ideology! You've created a perpetual loop of unfulfillment for yourself right now. Be an asshole Get girls who like assholes Be sad that she liked you for the asshole you pretended to be because for your own reasons and because of redpill you were made to believe that the following CAN'T happen: Be yourself, a nice gu…	/r/ExRedPill	06/05/20 08:37 PM
1	I wasn't left for Chad 😂 Keep making assumptions and talking like you know me bro. This is why there's no arguing with brainwashed TRP sheep - you guys ignore any contradictory facts to your worldview and insist your assumptions are correct so you don't have to critically think about your beliefs. Even when you have to resort to making judgments and assumptions about someone you don't know and literally going "everything you said was a lie!" in order to keep justifying your way of thinking. See a pretty girl with an u…	/r/ExRedPill	15/04/20 11:07 PM
1	I wasn't left for Chad If you want to take it to extremes, then yes. I would date a 5'4 balding overweight guy who treats me right and respects me any day over a 6'3 athelete who treats me like shit, plays mind games with me, makes me insecure at every turn and cheats on me all the time. If you want to make a point using what you consider the low end of physical attractiveness then you also have to compare it to the shit end of the douche personality scale. So yes, I would rather have the unattractive guy who makes me…	/r/ExRedPill	15/04/20 10:25 PM
1	I wasn't left for Chad Yep I can see that. I'd date a nice, average looking guy who respects me and treats me well over a super hot douchebag any day. Everyone wants to feel loved and valued. If you weren't giving that to her then it makes 100% sense for her to leave you for someone who does. It's good that you had this learning opportunity so you can better yourself and go into your next relationship with a better mindset.	/r/ExRedPill	15/04/20 03:11 AM
6	Trapped Dude these metaphors are 👌👌 (also it's a very well-written thoughtful response too, but those metaphors definitely made me laugh xD)	/r/ExRedPill	09/04/20 05:59 PM
6	My journey of unlearning the Manosphere Hm, might I provide some different perspectives on your worries that may help here: 1) It is absolutely 100% okay even if a majority of people aren't attracted to you. Everyone has unique interests, and what appeals to one person may turn off another. On top of which there are studies that show people who appeal to a more niche audience are rated as more attractive by those who are into them than the ratings received by more "generally" attractive people. For example this applies to any niche li…	/r/ExRedPill	07/04/20 10:03 AM
5	My journey of unlearning the Manosphere It's great that you already know what's wrong with your way of thinking and that you want to change! I think just keeping all of that in mind as you keep going through life and remembering to give yourself a mental slap when you catch yourself thinking negatively about yourself, your own relationships, ot other couples' relationships will slowly get there over time. Ways of thinking are a habit and the more you practise thinking in a certain way the more it will become natural to you. What may h…	/r/ExRedPill	07/04/20 08:12 AM
11	How many of you have realized you are gay after or during the RP experience? I'm not sure how old you are, but from the perspective of a 28 year old let me give you some wisdom. You only have one life to live, and it is yours. You are the one who feels the consequences of not doing what makes you happy - no-one else. Personally I never let anyone stop me from living my life the way I wanted to even if my parents disapproved of my choices or other classmates thought I was weird, and I don't regret it one bit. Being authentically who I am drew in people who accepted me for…	/r/ExRedPill	07/04/20 12:03 AM
2	Women can get away with making social mistakes way much more than a man can. Man this is some well worded wisdom right here 👍	/r/ExRedPill	04/04/20 08:55 PM
4	My ex red pill experience, amazing choice Congrats man, super happy for you! :)	/r/ExRedPill	01/04/20 03:31 AM
11	Ditched the redpill after 6 months .Thank you! Hahah good for you, you have critical thinking skills! Give yourself a pat on the back :D All of what you said is so obvious and common sense that it's mind-boggling how many people aren't able to see that. In fact here in r/exredpill we spend a lot of time trying to explain exactly those points to people and they still don't get it a lot of the time >.> Anyways, real happy for you man!	/r/ExRedPill	26/03/20 07:37 PM
5	Young male teetering on the brink of inceldom/blackpill. Relationship/gender subs like /r/purplepilldebate and /r/trp are depressing but I can't help but feel like they're right. Please convince me otherwise. A good start would be to stop reading those subs. You seem to have a good head on your shoulders. You note all the ways it is bullshit and how it's wrong and leads to depressing lives... and I can confirm as a normal human being that you're right! Don't get sucked into these. Your gut knows it's wrong, listen to it! Instead of reading these pill subreddits, try visiting wholesome places like r/longdistance to cleanse your mind of the bullshit you've seen. I like to use r/longdistance as an anti-…	/r/ExRedPill	11/03/20 07:13 PM
10	Fucking on First Date Yeah the way redpill looks at it is super fucking gross, and whether or not someone wants to have sex on the first date or not, do yourself a favour and stop thinking about it like that. Trust me your dick isn't a favour to anyone. Even if a girl wants to have sex on the first date, there are multitudes of reasons why that isn't "she's a slut that just wants the D" - because let's be real here, that's essentially what redpill is saying. Why this mentality is toxic is because regardless of what h…	/r/ExRedPill	09/03/20 01:57 AM
18	As someone who's never been a part of or followed "the red pill", I find the redpill sub-reddit(s) scream of insecurity, trying to over compensate, and just trying to seek approval / attention. Yeah it was interesting when I first discovered it too. I was never a part of it and can see it for the bullshit it is, but it was mindblowing to me and saddening at the same time to see that people take it seriously. That's why I'm here on exredpill, to help people who have been harmed by this ideology to recover and finally see reality again. No-one deserves the sad and lonely road that redpill leads them down, and I do believe that (most) of the people on there are kind people at heart who ha…	/r/ExRedPill	26/02/20 09:01 PM
24	Damn, I’ve been lied to this whole time? Hey! Good on you for reaching out for help now :) There's no one size fits all to unlearning these things as everyone's life experiences is different. A 1-on1 professional like a therapist would work best since you can get into details, however as a stranger on the internet I can give you a few things to think about that may help. One thing that would help to acknowledge is to accept that there are good and bad women out there. Just like there are good and bad men. You may have run into some bad…	/r/ExRedPill	25/02/20 03:36 AM
3	Question to EXredpill men- Did TRP appeal to your thinking style? That's not taking into account the quality of those 5 girls you DO pick up by being a douchebag either. Girls who fall victim to these sorts of tactics probably have huge underlying issues already (low self-esteem, prior abuse, daddy issues, what have you). Instead of taking hurt women and lifting them up redpill goes the psychopathic route of picking a victim, taking advantage of, and exacerbating their problems. It's fucking disgusting. Not to mention with the same shotgun approach you'd likel…	/r/ExRedPill	23/02/20 09:25 PM
2	Is this Red Pill or Not? Oh my god do I really need to write a full essay detailing every nuanced point every time I reply to one of these threads? I'm talking in general terms, but of course you redpillers are going to nitpick everything that isn't specifically spelled out, because if you can't argue the general idea the only way you can make any argument is gonna have to be nitpicking on details. Just because I don't spell out every detail and write a book on it doesn't mean the general idea isn't correct. I've addres…	/r/ExRedPill	22/02/20 02:33 AM
2	Is this Red Pill or Not? Yes a lot of this is redpill thinking. Disregarding how wrong all of these points are (and they are, as basically blanket statements like this are), and because I don't feel like writing up a 10 paragraph essay to disprove all of them, I'm going to just leave one thought that bulk calls out all of this bullshit, which is: Women and men are not that dissimilar. Anything a woman does, a man does too. Are there women who do the things you list above? Yes. Are there men who also do this? Yes. On the…	/r/ExRedPill	21/02/20 06:46 AM
6	Trying to improve, but trp/black pill view is impossible to shake off "Look outside and see all the couples that contradict what you consider to be facts about dating" is, yes, ONE AVENUE of concrete evidence. But nowhere did I say that was all the logic, reason, and evidence backing it up. Not to mention there is a lot wrong with your idea of what evidence is if you're seriously quoting PSYCHOLOGY TODAY, a non-peer-reviewed opinion magazine, as "evidence". I think you may need a lesson in what "credible sources" is first if you get your facts from unreliable and …	/r/ExRedPill	07/02/20 12:01 AM
13	Trying to improve, but trp/black pill view is impossible to shake off I'd commented in detail on your last post about this, including explaining confirmation bias. Everything I said then still holds true now. The way you didn't even seem to try to understand it and blindly refused to acknowledge that reality could be different than your disillusioned bullshit also seems to be holding true now. Everything you said here about women is complete and absolute bullshit. There are millions of examples proving how everything you said about women are false. If none of that…	/r/ExRedPill	06/02/20 05:09 AM
17	RSD Tyler ruined my life. Yeah that's kinda what redpill does to people... Sorry to hear that happened to you my dude. But on the bright side, now that you know how toxic that mindset is you can start detoxing yourself and learn how to function as a regular human being again :) You sound like you're still young, so take solace in that you discovered this early enough to have time to turn your life around!	/r/ExRedPill	05/02/20 02:37 AM
3	Since RP is pretty toxic, who do you guys watch on YouTube for life advice/improvement instead of RP you tubers? Personally I don't really look up life advice/improvement stuff ever since I find most people who make a living off giving the advice generally don't embody what they talk about, but are just charismatic enough to "sell advice", which is kind of like reading a motivational quote imo. Sure, generally makes sense and could be useful, but very shallow and doesn't really encourage critical thinking or introspection. However, there are gems that I've come across not from "advice giving people", but f…	/r/ExRedPill	30/01/20 03:02 AM
6	How to deal with emotional intimacy issues? Slow clap This dude right here apparently thinks he knows what "modern women" want or not. Keep being deluded dude. You make your own reality, and the reality you believe in and thus will create for yourself is a depressing and shitty one. I say again, I feel sorry for the sad and lonely road you have ahead of you.	/r/ExRedPill	26/01/20 11:01 AM
12	How to deal with emotional intimacy issues? So you live your life never connecting with your partner, the person who should be the one that understands you the most, that you can confide in and trust to stand by your side? ...okay dude, sounds legit. You do you. Sorry for the lonely and isolating life you'll find yourself trudging through day to day. Your SO is the one person you should be able to show vulnerability to and never feel afraid or sorry for. Never being able to show vulnerability is a shitty existence that I would barely call…	/r/ExRedPill	26/01/20 10:50 AM
12	Thoughts? Not gona lie they do have a good point imo None of that is true and if someone does believe it's true they obviously have never had close relationships with any women. Or have any concept of how people in general work, for that matter. Like someone else already mentioned in a comment, these points are so dumb it's not even worth time debating. The first analogy I can think of is how a scientist feels seeing someone who believes the earth is flat. Like no... no it's not. I don't know how you think that, it's dumb as shit, and it'd be a wa…	/r/ExRedPill	25/01/20 07:08 AM
7	Is it true women lose interest/attraction once they feel they have you? No it's not true that anyone, women OR MEN**, lose interest/attraction once they feel they have you. First, you have to understand that there are different stages of "love", the first of them being a state called "limerence". It's completely natural and basically everyone goes through it when falling in love. "Limerence ... is a state of being “madly in love” to the point that it becomes obsessive and affects the way a person feels, acts, and thinks." (you can read more about limerence here.) Th…	/r/ExRedPill	24/01/20 01:40 AM
8	4 years ago I found the red pill and it warped my perception of women. I’m here to warn other young men. Ha. Same with me! If I think someone's cute but they don't seem interested in talking to me (I generally have no problem introducing myself or initiating converasation with them first to start things off, but I let them take it from there), then I assume he's not interested and I find another guy to talk to. Simple. I don't have time to waste on someone who's not interested. There's plenty who are, so I'm going to talk to them instead.	/r/ExRedPill	22/01/20 02:48 PM
1	I'm very happy about how much I've grown! Good on you for your progress man! It's very admirable that you are able to push aside your own ego and actively seek to understand people you don't know much about. That's not something most people would be able to do, and I think it shows what a kind, caring, empathetic person you are at heart. Sorry about the shitty things going on in your life though. Don't give up, I'm sure everything will look up soon! hugs	/r/ExRedPill	17/01/20 09:57 AM
3	Red pill convinced me I might be too ugly for love. is it true? Yeah I think you're actually quite attractive. Not personally my type, but attractive for a guy of your build. You're fine in the looks department. What sounds like it does need work though is your self-esteem =/	/r/ExRedPill	16/01/20 01:25 AM
6	Is the redpill really that bad if taken in moderation(as all pills should) That's an opinion piece from ONE woman. Don't make the mistake of assuming all women are the same, the same way that you are not the same as all other men. Yes there are girls who are into assholes. Yes there are girls who aren't into assholes. But you'll find that a lot more girls who ARE into assholes and like being abused are like that because of past trauma, insecurity, or unhealthy in some way. On the other hand, you'll find that a lot more girls who AREN'T are more confident, secure, healt…	/r/ExRedPill	14/01/20 05:33 PM
10	Is the redpill really that bad if taken in moderation(as all pills should) Yes there are some good parts that the red pill suggests like working out and putting yourself first. However the good is wrapped in layers of misogyny, hate, insecurity, etc. And the more you are exposed to it, the more you'll subconsciously think about it whether you want to or not. Every good suggestion the red pill provides is common sense advice that you can see people giving on subs like r/relationship_advice or r/dating. Why pick a place to get it from that is full of misogynists who thin…	/r/ExRedPill	14/01/20 04:08 PM
3	They say females will NEVER date down... is it always true? Oof, very well written! I enjoyed reading that! Have an upvote for the time and effort it must have taken to write all that and help OP find his way :) And here I've been thinking lately that I tend to write too much in my own Reddit comments sometimes too... xD	/r/ExRedPill	11/01/20 05:22 PM
13	They say females will NEVER date down... is it always true? Wow from reading your replies to other people's comments you REALLY aren't getting it... What you or anyone else consider to be dating down may not be what she considers dating down. You sound like a highly judgmental, shallow prick. Not to mention dense af, AND she dumped your ass because you're a liar. You're asking a question and literally EVERYONE here gave you the same answer and you're refusing to accept it because it goes against your preconceived notions. So why did you even ask in the f…	/r/ExRedPill	10/01/20 03:19 AM
3	I’ve apologized and feel great Good on you, this is so great to hear! The fact that you could look within yourself and realize that there was something wrong, decipher what it was, and was willing and able to make changes to remedy it says a lot about the kind of person you are. It shows self-reflection, the ability to think critically, and proactivity. On top of this, you have shown bravery by owning up to and apologizing for the mistakes you've made. It is very rare for someone to embody all of these qualities, and I applau…	/r/ExRedPill	09/01/20 03:32 AM
1	Does texting ruin attraction? As with most things when it comes to interpersonal relationships, the answer is: IT DEPENDS on both the people involved, the nature of the relationship, as well as any special circumstances. Some people like more communication than others, and that could change over time as a relationship evolves. However there's one simple way to find out what level of texting is appropriate that many people don't do that leads to failed relationships, and that is to communicate with your SO. No-one knows what …	/r/ExRedPill	07/01/20 09:51 AM
3	Shedding Incel/Redpill worldview seems impossible because it is so true There is no truth in redpill ideology to ignore in the first place. The only true thing redpill teaches is that it's good to focus on bettering yourself and to not place too much emphasis on what someone else thinks about you. That's healthy and boosts self-esteem, and is quite common sense. Everything else is utter garbage with ample evidence in everyday life that contradicts it. So if you think there are any "universal truths" there, you sir are also in denial and operating under some form of …	/r/ExRedPill	15/11/19 06:03 AM
2	Shedding Incel/Redpill worldview seems impossible because it is so true Re: the link in my first paragraph to the Wiki for "confirmation bias", which is exactly what you're describing. You're looking for an answer, you find something that you think "explains" your situation, then you keep seeing "proof" of it everywhere. Most people who discover redpill after a bad break-up don't fall victim to its toxic mentality, because it doesn't matter how you got there if you don't let confirmation bias take a hold of you.	/r/ExRedPill	15/11/19 05:22 AM
1	Shedding Incel/Redpill worldview seems impossible because it is so true Thanks! :D	/r/ExRedPill	06/11/19 11:37 PM
33	Shedding Incel/Redpill worldview seems impossible because it is so true Do you know what confirmation bias is? Because it sounds like you are having a major case of confirmation bias right now. You believe redpill/incel theory is true, therefore you find "evidence" of it everywhere, which reaffirms your beliefs, and the cycle continues. As non-brainwashed people, we can show you as much evidence as we want that those theories are not true, but if you at heart truly believe it and will not take in conflicting evidence, there's not much we can do. Think about flat-ear…	/r/ExRedPill	06/11/19 08:52 PM
7	Advice for people that just escaped? Now I've never had to leave basically a cult behind before, but imo the logical first step is to cut yourself off from any of that material. Unsubscribe from everything, don't look it up, stay away from discussions on the topic or people who discuss it. The more you're still exposed to it the harder it is to leave behind. Next work on exposing your mind to more opposing ideas. I'm not sure which part of redpill you most believed in, but familiarizing yourself with the things that show how wrong …	/r/ExRedPill	04/11/19 08:26 PM
20	When woman leave LTR,does she always has another man? sigh I see you're also asking redpill people about this. I suggest getting away from that sub - it's toxic and only fuels sexist thoughts and rage for women. A lot of questions asking for advice on exredpill can be addressed by flipping the genders. Men and women are not really that different. I'm not claiming they are 100% the same (there of course are things like physical and hormonal differences, and of course being raised with societal gender roles would have some effect), but none of that c…	/r/ExRedPill	24/10/19 05:57 PM
12	Hey Dudes! Dude you literally just proved her point. You see how enraged you were when she asked if she should judge you negatively based on biased and racist news sources (assuming she's never met an Indian person before)? Well you're doing the exact same thing to women. You've had very limited interactions with them yet you are judging the whole sex by really biased and sexist sources. It's the same idea. The way you reacted to that statement is basically how women would react to you spewing redpill/blac…	/r/ExRedPill	26/09/19 06:58 PM
1	How do I curb my thirst/man up? Would like to help, but there's not enough info here to really have a place to start. Without more details the only thing we can give based on this is very general advice that may or may not be useful =/ Maybe include an example?	/r/ExRedPill	26/09/19 04:55 AM
2	RedPill's popularity is showing the unresolved childhood emotional and developmental traumas on a societal level Because self-reflection and self-improvement is really hard. Admitting you're flawed and improving yourself requires a lot of emotional maturity to even first understand yourself, then to be able to view yourself objectively and be critical of yourself, and then actually requires drive to make an action plan to actually do something about it. The cycle of victimhood/entitlement is a lot easier. Victimhood allows you to blame other sources outside of yourself (it's not me, it's everyone else!), a…	/r/ExRedPill	22/09/19 04:48 AM
1	The Red Pill lead me down a dark path and I don't like the person I've become Oh snap thanks for sharing that video! That was really entertaining and educational!	/r/ExRedPill	17/09/19 11:47 PM
2	Go fired after walking out of therapist Office. Is there any point in trying to be attractive anymore. The first problem I'm noticing with you is that even at this point, your concern is that having lost your job knocks down your "smv". (For the record I think the concept of smv is full of shit, but that's not the point of this post.) Your priorities are way out of whack. Getting a job and doing well (both physically and mentally) should be something you strive to do because it betters your life as a whole, not because you're thinking about how girls perceive you. Your motivation to do things rea…	/r/ExRedPill	05/09/19 07:33 PM
1	Isn't oneities a normal thing? Ha, well said!	/r/ExRedPill	01/09/19 04:30 AM
9	How do you ladies and gentlemen address the open hypergamy culture? "Logic isn't the reason they believe in it, logic won't be the reason they stop believing in it." ...or something along those lines. I forget the exact quote. It's not worth our time to argue with people who are incapable of critical thinking - I just take solace in the fact that I know they will end up with a miserable and sad life because of it and move on to helping people who aren't dumb and stubborn, and who are worth my time to help.	/r/ExRedPill	20/08/19 03:12 AM
8	Lost in a sea of red pills (Sorry this is REALLY LONG lol, but I hope it helps.) I'm a female and I discovered red pill, MGTOW etc. 6 months ago. I can share with you my experience and maybe it will help. In life I'm confident about my looks and intelligence, never had trouble with men (they fight themselves over the chance to date me), and have always had amazing relationships where my partners treat me like a princess and wanted to marry me in the long term. In short: I'm fucking amazing and I know it. My interests and …	/r/ExRedPill	19/08/19 09:29 AM
3	A woman I'm seeing is into being dominated in bed. I can't help but feel like this is toxic for me. what makes me happy romantically and in everyday life maps on very smoothly to the bedroom. Basically, just loving and caring for someone is the same for me, in and out of the bedroom. Just to introduce something for you to think about that you may not have considered before you go into discussions with your gf, would you say you want to show love and care for someone because making them happy makes you happy, or because it makes you happy to be loving and caring? It sounds like the same thing, …	/r/ExRedPill	18/08/19 11:49 AM
3	A woman I'm seeing is into being dominated in bed. I can't help but feel like this is toxic for me. Well I would humbly disagree with you then, as it seems you implying that there is something wrong with someone's mental health/psychology/self worth, etc. for someone to be into being sexually submissive. I can tell you that there are women who have been abused as children with mental disorders who are into this kind of thing, just as there are feminist women who have had a completely wonderful upbringing and family who are as well. There is no correlation between any of that and specifically l…	/r/ExRedPill	18/08/19 10:37 AM
11	What's the bluepill/ex-redpill view on LMR? If you push past LMR it's called rape. If someone doesn't want to have sex with you, you don't fucking have sex with them, REGARDLESS OF THE REASON. No means no. That's all you need to think about it. How is this a thing that we need to explain to grown ass adults now?	/r/ExRedPill	18/08/19 01:05 AM
5	A woman I'm seeing is into being dominated in bed. I can't help but feel like this is toxic for me. The first thing you have to understand is that for most people (with some exceptions ofc), what they like sexually does not translate into what they are like in everyday life. A kink is just an interest, and you need to be able to dissociate the two. For example just because someone likes country music (interest) doesn't mean that they want to go live on a farm and drive a truck all day (everyday life). All it means is that when they listen to music, they like to listen to country. Assuming anyt…	/r/ExRedPill	17/08/19 05:41 PM
10	MGTOWs views on marriage are probably the only thing left that might still make me believe in the red pill? Can someone help me out of it? I'm not sure where you're getting this information, but a prenup is a contractual agreement and needs to be upheld by the law. There are some ways to get around it, sure, as with all contracts. If one party decides to contest it, they would have to go through the legal battle same as of contesting any other legally binding contract. But if it was drafted properly and followed all legal proceedings, then I find it very highly unlikely that it can be overturned. The law isn't just willy-nilly - yo…	/r/ExRedPill	15/08/19 07:10 AM
2	MGTOWs views on marriage are probably the only thing left that might still make me believe in the red pill? Can someone help me out of it? There's these things called pre-nups, if you're so worried about it.	/r/ExRedPill	15/08/19 07:00 AM
7	Dating advice needed Maybe check r/dating_advice if all you're looking for is general advice? Without any specifics or how it relates to trp I don't think we can help you much here...	/r/ExRedPill	06/08/19 11:05 PM
21	Isn't oneities a normal thing? Well they think that all women are incapable of love and will leave/cheat on you as soon as someone more alpha comes along, so being against attachment to one particular female is like their "prevention" against it, and they are very adamantly against marriage. Basically, they don't believe women can love to begin with, so if you were to ask me what they think of that twin flames/soulmate kind of stuff, I'd guess it just doesn't exist to them.	/r/ExRedPill	03/08/19 10:25 PM
1	How is r/Redpill wrong? Hahah well I study psychology quite extensively so I'm well aware of other theories and their applications, and like I mentioned, most people who consider it garbage actually haven't delved into the meat and bones of it to really understand what it's about. But yes, let's agree to disagree on this topic.	/r/ExRedPill	23/07/19 05:21 PM
1	How is r/Redpill wrong? MBTI isn't a cult, it's a psychological theory that aims to help understand humans through defining out types of behaviours as cognitive functions and how individuals lean towards each :P Since the goal of psychology is to understand (and to an extent predict) human behaviour, this is as good a theory as any I've seen since it's reasonable to start with the basis that all behaviour and decision-making can be broadly categorized, and people are a mix of these different categories to various exten…	/r/ExRedPill	23/07/19 04:50 PM
-2	What can a. Beginner guy do to start a fwb or hooking up? Interesting. I simply pointed out that given his post, he does not seem fit for hook-ups/FWB type of relationships. You, however, are the one projecting and shaming me for wanting something different than you, which I find hilariously hypocritical. But I get it, you post all over pill subreddits about how much you get laid and the women you sleep with and push the player mentality, so ofc you Have to be aggressive to defend it! FYI, have never had experiences with any player to be able to have a…	/r/ExRedPill	23/07/19 01:01 PM
-3	What can a. Beginner guy do to start a fwb or hooking up? Hook-ups I still maintain are really only fulfilling for people who need to validate something through sex, or for people who don't mind using others. I don't think I really need to explain that one further. It's high-risk behaviour and you don't really accomplish a "healthy sex life" from it. On the topic of FWB, maintaining a successful FWB relationship requires two people to be emotionally disconnected, lest drama ensues/someone gets hurt. However, the act of having sex with someone basically…	/r/ExRedPill	23/07/19 12:40 PM
3	What can a. Beginner guy do to start a fwb or hooking up? Hookup/fwb culture isn't for everyone, and it seems like you're not cut out for it based on your jealousy. Those types of things only work for either damaged women and men who need to use sex as validation, or psychopaths and narcissists who are only looking for personal satisfaction without caring about the other person. Unless you're one of those above mentioned, this sort of thing is actually quite unfulfilling for most. It sounds like you're of the former group mentioned above since you ment…	/r/ExRedPill	23/07/19 10:50 AM
2	How is r/Redpill wrong? As someone else mentioned, red pill only teaches you how to get dysfunctional women and have a dysfunctional relationship. Healthy women who are capable of having legitimate healthy relationships will see right through that bullshit and run for the hills. Yes there are some women who only want men for their wealth and status. Some of those include psychopaths and narcissists who are just looking to use men, women who are so damaged they don't believe in love (think the woman equivalent of a red …	/r/ExRedPill	23/07/19 10:30 AM
1	I am female, but I might have gone down the TRP path if I were male. Luckily, you are only 22! You're still young and you have time to improve on looks, fashion, etc. if that stuff bothers you. Being you is enough imo, but if you want to learn, there's plenty of make-up tutorials and you can google fashion tips for people with your body type etc. On the side of being worried about hooking up or accidentally dating a redpiller if you try to date - just don't have sex with them until they're committed! That is all within your power as the woman. You don't have to h…	/r/ExRedPill	23/07/19 08:45 AM
16	Catch 22. Chicken or the egg type of situation with virgin men. I'd like to add a STRONG +1 to this comment here ^ Also OP, you're 22. That's still very young and it's not as rare as you think for people to be a virgin at that age. People are more likely to advertise the fact that they've had sex much more often than not so it could seem that way, but that's not the true reality of things. Honestly I'd say your fear is holding you back a lot more on this issue than anything else. You're fine. Don't be so down on yourself.	/r/ExRedPill	16/07/19 08:49 PM
1	How to 're-enter' the game? Imo you should see a therapist. It seems like you have a good head on your shoulders. All you need is someone to talk your problems through with you and bounce your thoughts off of. A good friend with healthy values who cares for you and wants to help could help you with it, it's just not as likely that they know what they're talking about vs. a trained professional. Your focus shouldn't be getting back into the game at this point, it should be to help you move past your trauma and negativity. A…	/r/ExRedPill	14/07/19 08:32 PM
1	Thoughts about men and women being “just friends”? It's definitely possible for two people who aren't romantically interested in each other to become great friends. It's just silly to think otherwise. If you can personally think of people you would like to be friends with but don't want to date, someone else can think the same about you. And bam, you have your "just friends". And in the case that one or both parties may have feelings for the other, it's all about maturity and respect. My 5 closest friends are of the opposite gender. For all of t…	/r/ExRedPill	12/07/19 07:52 PM
7	I absolutely hate women and I hate that I can't change It's your own standards that's messed up. There's generally no "only men like/do X" or "only women like/do Y" when it comes to preferences/cognitive functions except for those that are purely biological (for example having a penis vs vagina). As someone else mentioned, if you remove gender from your post entirely, it sounds exactly like something a girl would write. A girl with low self-esteem and a Really warped view of the world, beauty, and expectations. These are not stemmed from biological …	/r/ExRedPill	09/07/19 09:51 PM
4	Am I a new type of "pill"? Can also attest as a woman that I have a high sex drive. In fact sometimes I have a higher sex drive than my men. With my current bf if we haven't had sex in a while I'll get frustrated at the lack of sex before he does.	/r/ExRedPill	03/07/19 11:07 AM
2	How does one remain exredpill? If you're looking to have a good relationship at some point, MGTOW is not the way to go. Think about it this way: finding and maintaining a healthy relationship is a practised skill. If you work on improving yourself - you'll get really good at being by yourself, but you're not getting any better at finding and maintaining a good relationship. As for your relationship, not all girls are like that, but ofc Some are. Everyone is unique and you're going to find girls of ANY type. Can you truly tell…	/r/ExRedPill	20/06/19 01:38 AM
2	GF cried while having sex Had sex with a chick from your University? Did you cheat on your gf?	/r/askTRP	15/02/19 02:02 AM