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Red Pill ExampleRobbyHagan/r/TheRedPill01/04/20 12:26 PM
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Red Pill ExampleRobbyHagan/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 01:29 PM
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Red Pill TheoryRobbyHagan/r/TheRedPill29/03/20 11:08 PM
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Building PowerRobbyHagan/r/TheRedPill08/04/20 12:37 PM
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Social IssuesRobbyHagan/r/MensRights08/04/20 12:50 PM
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Red Pill ExampleRobbyHagan/r/TheRedPill13/04/20 11:43 AM
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RobbyHagan/r/TheRedPill22/03/20 09:32 AM
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RobbyHagan/r/TheRedPill25/03/20 01:06 PM
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RobbyHagan/r/MensRights21/03/20 09:53 PM
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RobbyHagan/r/TheRedPill21/03/20 11:41 PM
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RobbyHagan/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 09:56 PM
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RobbyHagan/r/askTRP01/04/20 12:18 PM
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I deleted all social media apps from my phone. It gives me less reason to be on my phone, thus lowering the time spent on it. Hope this helps
/r/askTRP22/09/20 09:59 AM
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Happy to help. I'm glad you found value in this advice. Best of luck to you 😎
/r/askTRP12/06/20 01:22 PM
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Thanks for the marriage advice. You let me know how that works out for you when you get married.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/20 01:44 PM
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Everyone has flaws in their approach. Yup. Even TRP. I stand by my decisions in this situation. I have been married to this woman for 10, almost 11 years and I know what I'm doing. I wonder how many people in this comment section are even married? I don't need marriage advice from people who are still in the dating game. We're not playing on the same field
/r/TheRedPill13/04/20 01:42 PM
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Owning your mistakes are not the same as explaining yourself.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/20 01:11 PM
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Let me know how that goes when you're living with someone for 10 years. Arguments develop over stupid shit, but they are usually rooted in a more serious underlying issue, in this case, my failure of leadership was the problem, and leaving the dishes was a symptom of the larger issue.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/20 01:08 PM
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This is silly what you just said. Being overt is the goal. Blue pilled guys would resort to passive-aggressive tactics, or say something like, "I feel...." or "It hurt my feelings when.." I did man's work. I owned my mistake and corrected it. If you find that blue pilled then I feel bad for you son.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/20 01:06 PM
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You need to be explicit about the boundaries you set, but it's unnecessary to verbalize the dynamic between yourself and a woman There is nothing wrong with verbalizing the dynamic between myself and my woman. Go watch some Patric O'neal. All he does is verbalize the difference between himself and his woman. it's true that women always shit-test you, but it's foolish to verbally identify tests as such It is not foolish to identify tests as such. I encourage people to blatantly call out people on…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/20 01:03 PM
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There is some confusion most likely because I am leaving out some details to the story because it's my personal life. I thought I gave enough information. The dishes are a result of the disagreement we had. during the disagreement, I "failed" to maintain my frame, and therefore, out of anger from the disagreement, she didn't feel like doing the dishes. I didn't call her on it, and so she left them until I did.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/20 12:55 PM
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It depends on the situation. If your wife is pushing boundaries, your words should suffice. "Hey, I want those dishes done by tonight." And that's it. If she still doesn't do them, then you can close the wallet a little to remind her that you're not fucking around. The problem with human nature is we get comfortable. When everything is running smoothly for so long, people tend to get relaxed. Unfortuantely, that leads to somebody stepping out of line. I think you're concerned that these 'tests' …
/r/TheRedPill13/04/20 12:36 PM
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I think the confusion is we're talking about two different types of tests. Women aren't robots, they are humans and humans are flawed. If you think you're going to find a perfect angel that plays her part and never fucks up, then you've definitely got another thing coming. Many of these guys that brag about their perfect women, or their perfect lives, are just giving you the highlights. It takes work to be the man, that's why so many fail. It takes work for a woman to be a good woman, and that's…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/20 12:23 PM
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I'm not here to convince anyone about my life's stories. I post them as guides/lessons for anyone who finds value in them. Wives will test you. I guarantee Rollo Tomassi's wife tests him. There isn't a woman out there who isn't going to test your boundaries from time to time to make sure that you're still in control. That's a woman's nature.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/20 12:06 PM
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Please explain. I'd love to hear this.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/20 11:58 AM
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Fair enough. Have you read the side bar yet?
/r/askTRP10/04/20 08:50 PM
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Why are they your friends and not your plates?
/r/askTRP10/04/20 08:42 PM
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Have you tried talking to women that aren't escorts? Just a suggestion.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 08:39 PM
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I'm glad you found value in it. I had the same reaction. When I saw that video, the next time I had a conversation I was like, "Fuck, I do that."
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 08:35 PM
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Find another girl. Don't put her pussy on a pedestal. If she won't give it up after 3 fucking months, then what do you think she'll do after you wait that year? She's holding the pussy hostage and you do not negotiate with terrorists
/r/askTRP10/04/20 12:11 PM
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Your mom is an adult. If you can afford to pay for everything there for the two of you then you can afford to move out alone. If your family cuts contact with you for that, fuck em, they're not worth having around. Family doesn't mean free ride. Your only option is to move out.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 12:06 PM
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“all streams flow to the sea because it is lower than they are. humility gives it its power. if you want to govern the people, you must place yourself below them. if you want to lead the people, you must learn how to follow them.” These men that I am teaching have been followers their whole life. So they already know how to follow. Now they want to learn how to lead. It has everything to do with everything. People with the appearance of hyper masculinity have to find ways to be approachable and …
/r/TheRedPill09/04/20 03:04 PM
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I also never said I only use neutral or breaking tones. In fact, if you see my response to the first comment, I cleared that up by specifically stating that you can use seeking tones too. Yes, I am physically strong. Not naturally, but I worked at it. That is a strange question to ask me as it has nothing to do with anything. I understand the connection you're making, that if you look physically opposing, then you should make yourself seem like less of a threat by using a rapport seeking tone, b…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/20 02:41 PM
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I never said rapport seeking is useless, so I don't know what you're disagreeing with. Although, speaking almost solely in a rapport seeking tone is not what I recommend but if it works for you, I'm glad to hear. I hold my doubts, but I'm not here to prove you wrong, so that doesn't matter. Have a good day
/r/TheRedPill09/04/20 02:15 PM
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You can't make him want it. He has to want it for himself. I was raised extremely Beta, and I wish I was able to overcome it much earlier in life than I did, but even though I became aware of it when I was late teens, I wasn't willing/able to put in the work required to change until my mid-late twenties. You can try to talk to him or show him this site (if he isn't on it yet) and maybe that will spark something or plant the seed, but you can only lead a horse to water, you can't make him drink. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 12:38 PM
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Thank you! I'm glad you found value in it
/r/TheRedPill08/04/20 09:33 PM
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You have to confront her on this behavior. Say something like, "Look, I understand that it is uncomfortable for you that I am partnered up with these girls, but you either trust me or you don't. So let me know now before we waste any more time. Do you trust me or not?"
/r/askTRP08/04/20 08:26 PM
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Thanks! You're ahead of the curve. My video game addiction went much longer than that! Keep up the great work brother
/r/TheRedPill08/04/20 07:46 PM
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That was an awesome comment and I appreciate you sharing brother. Keep up the great work
/r/TheRedPill08/04/20 07:45 PM
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I hope that I'm able to help others consider barriers to entry when coaching these men. I will do my best to keep an open mind as well
/r/TheRedPill08/04/20 07:26 PM
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That's awesome. Great coaches are so valuable to a young man's life
/r/TheRedPill08/04/20 05:01 PM
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Some of us didn't growing up feeling masculine, so we definitely want to be more masculine. I was raised by a single mother. 99% of my teachers were women. My male friends were raised by women too, so they were feminized men. All of my influences were feminine. By masculinity, I mean what makes me a man. Strength, leadership, decisive, rational, aggresion, dominant, etc. The 'about community' section says, "However, any issue that pertains to men's relationship to society is also a topic suitabl…
/r/MensRights08/04/20 01:35 PM
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Thank you. I never realized how feminine my world was growing up until just a few years ago. I wish I knew sooner, but at least I know now. Single mom, 99% of my school teachers were women, my male friends growing up also had single moms, so they were feminized men too. Everyone that contributed to raising me was feminine in one way or another. It's hard work to rebuild from the ground up but I've been working at it for a few years now and have seen tremendous leaps in my masculinity. I hope to …
/r/TheRedPill08/04/20 01:29 PM
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We were talking about RPers talking about RP Again, we've reached a fundamental disagreement on what makes someone RP. So, I'm ending this part of the discussion. Agree to disagree, or say whatever you want in rebuttal but I won't address this point any further. I never stated that endorsed contributors aren't RP. I said that most of the misinterpreted information comes from people who aren't RP. The problem I'm having with this debate is that you're not reading what I am actually writing and yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 05:09 PM
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It is a recipe for disaster in the long run, so I wouldn't be in a LTR with her. Raising kids requires a unified front, and if you both have some fundamental disagreements, it's going to effect how you parent, and there's nothing worse than not being able to agree with a parenting style. You'll end up a single dad with possible visitation, and paying out the ass because the law has her back.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 04:31 PM
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That's okay. You also mistyped 'probably' but i'm just being a dick to be a dick
/r/askTRP07/04/20 04:27 PM
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Ok, I guess we're doing this. You didn't say Americans. You said Christians. Actually, no I didn't. How many people that talk about Christianity have actually read the bible? That is what I said. I didn't say Christians don't read the bible. I said people who talk about Christianity, because my point is that most people who talk about a subject aren't really researching the subject. Americans talk about the bible all the time, whether to dispute its validity, or to make a point, but most don't a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 04:26 PM
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https://lifewayresearch.com/2017/04/25/lifeway-research-americans-are-fond-of-the-bible-dont-actually-read-it/ A quick Google search brings up many articles stating that people don't actually read the bible, so yes, studies have been done on it. I should have provided links in the first place but my mistake was thinking this would have been more common knowledge. So my "guarantee" is rooted in things I've read in the past on this very subject. As far as RP goes, you're right, I don't have stats …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 03:57 PM
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Do you mean successful? Because successive means something else. Either way, that's her prerogative and it affects me none.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 03:32 PM
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The RP content is clear. It's the content of people who are allowed to post but don't actually read the content that gets misconstrued. Just like a Christian would say that God's message is clear, but the people who misinterpret the bible are making things difficult. How many people that talk about Christianity have actually read the bible? I guarantee more of them haven't than have. If you're going to speak on a subject, then you should have knowledge of the subject. Just like TRP has a sidebar…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 03:20 PM
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Don't blame the RP for people who misrepresent it. There are so many RP followers and I guarantee most of them today haven't red the sidebar, or only read the parts that pertain to their immediate situation. Look at Rollo Tomassi, the dude isn't built, and doesn't have any prominent features, but he's the RP guru. The message of TRP has been misrepresented and convoluted and causing this type of confusion. IF we're going to boil things down to men want X and women want X, then it would be more a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 02:21 PM
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This sounds pathetic and I want better for you. You want to post pictures of your girlfriend to get more women? You're missing the point of what this is all about. TRP isn't advice for how to be a scumbag. If you're in a LTR, be in an LTR. If you're spinning plates, then by all means, have multiple women. Don't get involved in an LTR and then cheat. That's some sucka shit. That being said, even if you're spinning plates, the only way to do it is by cold approaching. Social media is for women. Ti…
/r/askTRP07/04/20 01:00 PM
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Your title alone should answer your question. "Take what you get?" You know who takes what he can get? Low value men. You know who get's what he wants? High value men. Which do you want to be?
/r/askTRP07/04/20 12:53 PM
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Unless he lives in his own place (not with his parents) then having this woman come over for his birthday "gathering" is a dumb idea. Tell your friend that having your friends over for your birthday at 20 years old is already childish and not a good look if you're trying to pick up an older woman. She's going to see it as a kid's birthday party regardless of how you want to word it. If he lives alone, then he can make it a more adult event that this woman can feel comfortable at, however, I stil…
/r/askTRP07/04/20 12:50 PM
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This is the problem when too many people are allowed to comment. Those messages you've paraphrased are from dummies who have no idea what they're talking about. Women don't have it better than men because they can get sex. In fact, a woman's experience is better or worse depending on how good of a man she's with. That's one of her hardest challenges in life is picking a good leader. That being said, in today's society, women have it better than men because we're living in very feminine times and…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:28 PM
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I don't know why my comment got deleted. I just offered some advice on how to reinvent yourself. You're welcome to dm me if you're interested
/r/askTRP07/04/20 11:55 AM
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lol
/r/askTRP07/04/20 11:55 AM
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I'll hit you back tomorrow. It's late where I live
/r/askTRP07/04/20 02:38 AM
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I'm available for that but only through email or reddit direct chat at the moment
/r/askTRP07/04/20 02:03 AM
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Don't change the place. Say "Maybe we can check that out next time, but I want to see if this place is really lame or if it's just you." Then give her a smirk and a wink.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 01:53 AM
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I realized that I was surrounded by feminine energy my entire life. I never had positive male role models, and no masculinity in my life at all really. I had to teach myself through movies, YouTube, and books, and hard work, what masculinity is and that it is okay to be that. My purpose changed in that I was just looking to fill a weird void in my life, and now I feel a strong urge to help others find their masculinity too. Once you start down the road of masculinity, you'll start seeing the wor…
/r/askTRP07/04/20 01:51 AM
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No More Mr. Nice Guy - by Robert Glover
/r/askTRP07/04/20 01:40 AM
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Diet, Exercise, Sleep. That's the holy trinity right there
/r/askTRP07/04/20 01:37 AM
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Best of luck
/r/askTRP06/04/20 08:44 PM
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YouTube vocal tonality by charisma matrix
/r/TheRedPill06/04/20 07:07 PM
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lol He cracked the code!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 01:01 PM
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Yeah, call me old fashioned but I'm not for giving up sex (unless it is consuming your life, then maybe take a break until you can develop a healthy relationship with it).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 01:01 PM
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I started a sub for this very thing. Not specifically monk moding, but repairing yourself from the inside-out. When you're back from your 30 days, come check us out and maybe share your experience. It might encourage more men to take a step back and re-center themselves. Best of luck to you!
/r/askTRP06/04/20 12:59 PM
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Be willing to walk away. I know the allure of pussy is hard to let go, especially when you think "I was this close..." but it is never worth it. She is expecting you to text her and say, "What? I don't hate you. Why would you say that?" You didn't do anything to prompt her to text you that. You can say, "Ok good luck" like runningwily said, or something more aggressive if it is your personality. "Oh damn, I didn't take you for the childish type, but I'm glad I found out now before I wasted my ti…
/r/askTRP06/04/20 12:55 PM
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Of course there are aspects of the other within us. It's like the Yin Yang symbol. Yang has a little Yin within it and vice versa. However, they will never be fully the other. A leader will always lead. That doesn't mean he won't take advise from his follower, and perhaps even agree that it is the best option, but the decision is ultimately his. A boss needs his employees, but he is always the boss. A good boss will allow his employees to have a voice, but he will never BE the employee. As fully…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 12:46 PM
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Same. I think his teachings (books or videos) are essential for every man to read/watch. Whether or not you believe in everything he says, there is undoubtedly something there that will help you change for the better
/r/askTRP06/04/20 12:40 PM
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They need guidance. It isn't their fault. Social media is absolutely designed for women to get addicted to it, and with the lack of real men out there today, nobody is teaching them how to navigate their lives. Masculinity leads, but we live in feminine times. Basically, it's a bunch of ships going in circles and/or crashing into the rocks. It is our jobs as men to guide these women, but first, most of you need to learn how to be men.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 12:37 PM
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Self-improvement is my number 1 priority. That being said, If I go too long without sex, it becomes more important in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 12:31 PM
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She is staying because she enjoys playing with her food. You said she isn't the submissive type, which means she needs a strong man to make her feel comfortable being submissive. She can sense your lack of confidence and probably likes you enough that she's hanging around. But yes, you two will be wildly unhappy. You can turn it around. It is suggested that you start fresh, but it isn't impossible to flip the tables. The problem is, you have some internal work to do and that takes time. However,…
/r/askTRP06/04/20 12:09 AM
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Yes, some people really do go their whole life without getting laid. Tragic
/r/askTRP06/04/20 12:01 AM
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Do whatever you want, it's your hair. Asking dude's advice about your haircut on the internet is pretty gay bro.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 12:00 AM
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She is in control. You are operating in her frame. Bottom line is, you wanted to break up with her and you're still in the relationship. She talked you out of your decision. You are not in control
/r/askTRP05/04/20 11:57 PM
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I think they are genuinely interested in the field. Mind fucking is part of their nature
/r/askTRP05/04/20 11:48 PM
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Shut em down or walk away. People learn 1 of 3 ways. From being praised, shamed, or being ignored. If she's giving you behavior you don't like, you shame her or ignore her If you're skilled enough, you can turn her behavior around with your quick wit and humor, which is still technically shaming her, but you can do it playfully and she'll turn it around
/r/askTRP05/04/20 11:42 PM
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The only thing you can do when people challenge your point is to either let it go and laugh along, and then bring it back to your story when the laughing stops. Or, you can challenge him/call him out and take the chance of the group turning on him or turning on you.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 11:38 PM
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Well said. I agree with this statement. We have to repair the foundations. I think too many people are getting the wrong idea about TRP and see it as a tool to get pussy. It certainly can be used that way, but it's supposed to be a lifestyle guide and pussy is a consequence of being a better more "alpha" you. If you're interested, I just started a new subreddit for this very thing. A place where men can discuss masculinity and share strategies and advice on how to repair those foundations from w…
/r/askTRP05/04/20 11:33 PM
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I'm happy to help. I have plenty more coming. I'm working on starting a subreddit dedicated to content like this. I'll keep you posted
/r/TheRedPill05/04/20 07:51 PM
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I think I will do that. Thanks for the encouragement. I'll take the day to think about what to call it and I'll report back
/r/TheRedPill05/04/20 04:52 PM
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Hmm, it also says there are 0 members in TRP. I wonder what happened
/r/TheRedPill05/04/20 04:46 PM
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I have no idea. I didn't even know it got deleted until you just posted this and I got a notification
/r/TheRedPill05/04/20 04:42 PM
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It'll take an awareness. When you're tired from working all day and you come home, you'll have to slip back into SAHM mindset and tend to your family. Obviously, there will be things that change as far as what you can do, given you aren't there all day, but don't let your family become your second priority and you should be fine.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/20 01:15 PM
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Lol not everyone has the gift to teach but it sounds like he tried
/r/TheRedPill05/04/20 12:20 PM
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There are 3 things you need to start your journey to repairing your foundations. 1: Make your bed every day 2: Self Affirmations 3: Read "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert Glover (you can Google the free pdf online) ​ 1: Making your bed everyday is a simple task that will change your life forever. It's a small, obtainable goal that you will actually feel proud of, but more importantly, what it does is being to train your brain that it is possible for you to make a goal and achieve it. It might not…
/r/askTRP05/04/20 03:03 AM
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You have to learn to be happy from within. Placing your happiness on external circumstances is the source of discontent. You have no control over anything outside of your mind. You can only control yourself. So, take control, and you will no longer be unhappy with anything, because you will be happy inside. You can't control what happens around you, but you can control how you react to those things. I have some advise for how to start repairing your internal foundations. If you're interested, le…
/r/askTRP04/04/20 08:49 PM
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Say something like, "Nice, see if he'll throw you some money for these bills."
/r/askTRP04/04/20 06:22 PM
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I hate to agree with you. The west is weak af. Some of us are fighting the good fight, but places like Armenia have men that know how to handle their women. We can't be too proud to learn fellas
/r/askTRP04/04/20 06:16 PM
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Dope read. Creatively written too. Nice job
/r/TheRedPill04/04/20 06:03 PM
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It's in the comments. I posted it already
/r/TheRedPill04/04/20 04:54 PM
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It's a great career path. I miss it often. Especially when life starts to get a little confusing as to what's next, I will always wonder where my life would be had I just stayed in. (I would have been in for 10 years now and half way to retirement if I didn't get out.). Retired at 42...man that would have been fucking sweet. Obviously I'd still work, but that extra pension money would be nice. You could join now at 40, and actual retire at the age of retirement, which is not something a lot of p…
/r/askTRP04/04/20 12:25 PM
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I'm happy to help, but I need a little more context. Can you give us more details to the situation?
/r/askTRP04/04/20 12:19 PM
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I have a suggestion. Job: Military. I was a bit older in boot camp (22, the majority of others were 18 ish) and there was a guy in there who was 31. He said "I tried a bunch of other things, and this is my plan Z." The military is a great career choice, but also, it's a great jump off if you don't want to commit for 20 years. (Military retirement is 20 years, so you could join at 30 and still retire at 50 with a pension). However, if you just want to use it as a tool like I did, then you can use…
/r/askTRP04/04/20 12:16 PM
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Give this lady props. You sound like a good one
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 12:04 PM
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Not if he takes care of himself. A guy comes into his physical prime in his early 30s til about 34-35, and then he starts to decline, but if he take care of himself, the rate of decline can be slowed.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 12:03 PM
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If you want a guy that is around your age, then you should be dating a guy in his 30's, even early 40's. Guys mature later than women, so mentally, y'all will be the same age. If you are hell bent on dating a guy in his late 20s, then you just have to be able to compete with the girls in their early 20s. Remember what you were like in your early 20s? Fun, bubbly, outgoing, up for adventure, late nights, etc.? That is your competition. Now, it doesn't mean you have to do the same things per se, b…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 12:01 PM
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Reading out loud is excellent advise. Thank you. another method is to record yourself talking so you can hear your progress
/r/TheRedPill04/04/20 11:46 AM
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It's like a super power. I'm glad it worked out
/r/TheRedPill04/04/20 11:44 AM
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Little late to the party
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 01:19 AM
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Yes you fucking tell them. That shit can spread even without an outbreak. Don't get your STD advice from Reddit. Ask your doctor.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 12:54 AM
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I stopped my nail biting habit a few years ago by keeping clippers and a file on me while I watched tv (which is when I bit them most) and that really helped
/r/askTRP03/04/20 11:04 PM
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"I want someone who’s able to tell me what he feels and why he feels it." Absolute lie. You will grow to resent him for being sensitive. Your pussy dries up when he cries. You want emotional? Get a girlfriend. That's not what you really want.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/20 10:41 PM
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Lol trust me, he is either hiding his true self or he hates himself for being so feminine.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/20 10:35 PM
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All he wants is a full belly, empty balls, and for you to hit the treadmill. All that other stuff he said is what he thinks you want to hear. Clearly, he was right since you came here posting about it
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/20 10:33 PM
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Oh come on, don't act like you don't know the answer to this already
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/20 10:25 PM
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Like how a ceo would talk to an employee. Or a cop would talk to someone they pulled over.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 09:52 PM
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You're welcome and go fuck yourself
/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 09:23 PM
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I posted a link in the comments, another person asked
/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 09:13 PM
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It's annoying to me that I wasn't born rich, but that isn't going to do much to solve the issue now is it?
/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 08:43 PM
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He lied to you
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/20 08:28 PM
8

Dumb or not, it's human behavior. You can hate the game or learn how to play it and win
/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 08:26 PM
1

🤙
/r/askTRP03/04/20 06:56 PM
7

No, don't use rapport seeking for first meeting. You can pepper it into a conversation but first impressions are important and you want to appear confident and cool
/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 06:53 PM
15

Thank you. I will continue to post quality. I'm turning this franchise back around
/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 06:28 PM
2

Go for it. Just be honest about your progress. Being on the journey doesn't disqualify your expertise. You can see what needs to be done even if you're still working on getting it done
/r/askTRP03/04/20 06:28 PM
20

It will only seem weird at first but eventually they'll get used to it. Just gotta power through the awkward phase of change
/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 06:15 PM
1

It's sad but luckily we have resources now that we can learn and grow on our own. I'm currently writing a "how to" guide for boys/men to learn how to become masculine
/r/askTRP03/04/20 06:05 PM
2

There is a severe lack of masculine guidance for the past 60-70 years
/r/askTRP03/04/20 06:02 PM
3

Hopefully he'll learn too OP, happens to the best of us. It's up to you if you want to take this advice or not
/r/askTRP03/04/20 06:00 PM
2

Don't stop there. Tell OP what you really think. He needs to hear it
/r/askTRP03/04/20 05:46 PM
2

Ouch
/r/askTRP03/04/20 05:41 PM
4

Exactly. Either take over the group or leave and start over. OP can't succeed sitting side saddle to the ex bf
/r/askTRP03/04/20 05:36 PM
6

You can do that or just post it and I'll probably see it. I'm on here daily I'm on a mission to get some good content out on this forum because I feel like it needs some straightening out. There's so much good shit on here that is getting lost and there are also things I'd like to add.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 05:33 PM
3

I disagree with some of this. In the military they told us "perception is reality." One day at work I was leaning on my hand while doing some computer stuff and my boss (Chief) came up behind me, threw a marker at my head and yelled "Stop Sleeping!" I turned around and said, "Chief, I wasn't sleeping. I was just leaning on my hand." He said, "Perception is reality. If it looks like you're sleeping, you're sleeping." Then he made me stay late and clean. Now, I do agree with you that you can't con…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 05:30 PM
28

I'm glad to hear you guys found a middle ground. Too many people don't understand the power of vocal tonality. Thanks for sharing your story
/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 05:21 PM
21

You must begin with repairing the foundations of your masculinity. I'm currently working on a "how-to" guide for this but I say it starts with awareness, then acceptance, and then begin taking the steps. The first step after acceptance is to teach your mind that change is possible. I recommend a popular one of making your bed every day. It is an easy goal but you'll still feel good about yourself. It will take about a month or so to build the habit of making your bed without even thinking about …
/r/askTRP03/04/20 05:17 PM
1

Anytime. I look forward to hearing back from you
/r/askTRP03/04/20 04:55 PM
8

Yeah, I don't know why people think they have to only speak in a rapport breaking tone. Unless you're a state trooper pulling someone over, I don't advise anyone to only use this tone. It's a balancing act, though not evenly distributed (rarely use rapport seeking, but it isn't forbidden).
/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 04:54 PM
1

Let's start there. Primarily women. Before we talk about casual sex, let's talk about your post. You said, "I like being Beta, how do I get over it?" Let's start with the first half of your post. "I love being..." You don't mention casual sex until later, so we'll get to that, but the qualities you love being, you said, "I don't think that these feelings come from "feminine upbrining." Yes they do. You were raised in feminine energy by primarily women. It's okay, many of us were. It all started …
/r/askTRP03/04/20 04:51 PM
6

Calisthenics for working out, read for knowledge, and start practicing self-improvement at home with things like making your bed everyday, or if you bite your nails, make it a focus to stop. Anything to improve yourself from the inside-out.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 04:41 PM
4

I honestly don't think that these feelings come from "feminine upbringing". Were you raised in a feminine upbringing?
/r/askTRP03/04/20 04:38 PM
10

I appreciate the compliment and yes, you are absolutely right, facial expressions, body language, the way you stand, all these things play a factor is how you're perceived.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 04:29 PM
29

Her exbf is also the leader of our social group That's a dangerous game you're playing. She should view you as the leader of a group, and it won't do well for your status if another guy is, especially her ex... Think about it. She has been dicked down by the alpha in your group. Let that sink in. As far as guarding her, that's something you can't do. Betas guard their woman. You're afraid to lose her. Alphas don't care. If she cheats, then she's gone, and she loses him. Now, if someone is blatan…
/r/askTRP03/04/20 04:13 PM
5

Good that you did. The value of tonality is incredible. I hope more men become aware of it and utilize their vocal tonality to imrpove their lives
/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 03:58 PM
19

This is the video I saw. This guy has some good stuff. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kFgJCPzkuy8
/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 03:30 PM
12

I agree that you shouldn't always have a rapport breaking (downwards) tone. I thought I got that message across, but yes, you have to know how to use tone correctly and even use "seeking" at times.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 03:25 PM
25

Rapport neutral is just your regular voice, like when you're talking to your friends and feel comfortable. people tend to change their voice when they are speaking to people they view as higher status or lower status. Rapport neutral has elements of both 'seeking' and 'breaking.' It happens naturally, and your voice can raise up a little and drop a little as appropriate, otherwise you'll just come off as monotone. (But you just want to check yourself to make sure you aren't using too much of a '…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 03:22 PM
6

I wish I knew earlier in life but in hindsight I can see many situations that my tone disadvantaged me
/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 01:40 PM
1

I think you're misreading my post. "It's bad but it's not my fault" isn't the narrative I'm suggesting. I'm saying the opposite actually. Take the 'blame' so that it is your fault. I recognize that some things are out of your control, therefore aren't your "fault," such as where you're born, whom you're born too, etc. But If you grab the wheel, then you are able to take responsibility for your entire life, circumstances and all. Being grateful is a fantastic quality as well and for sure a great …
/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 10:55 AM
1

Thank you
/r/askTRP03/04/20 02:22 AM
13

Tell her that if she's so concerned, then she shouldn't come over until she feels safer. Give her the option, but let her know that you've made a decision and you're sticking to it, however she wants to handle herself is up to her.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 10:18 PM
2

Thanks. I'll post more like this. Maybe get this back on track a bit
/r/TheRedPill02/04/20 05:52 PM
3

You lost me at cuddling
/r/askTRP02/04/20 03:29 PM
2

If you can have kids and want your own, but your woman decides she wants to adopt then that is beta because you're woman didn't want your genes but wants to be a mother to someone else's genes and you went along with it like a beta bitch. If you're adopting because it is what you truly want, then fuck what anyone says. Alpha is a mentality and an Alpha does what he wants.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 03:19 PM
1

Get the fuck away from that bitch before she kills herself and gets you locked in prison for murder somehow
/r/askTRP02/04/20 03:14 PM
1

I realized how pathetic I was in the past. What tipped you off? Was it the fact that you saved all your old texts?
/r/askTRP02/04/20 03:02 PM
10

That's understandable. I grew up poor in rough neighborhoods and people who live in trauma take that baggage with them. It took a long time to realize that most people don't operate with immediate violence in the "real" world. The first step is identifying your trauma which you've done so you're ahead of the curve. Next is repairing that damage. Sometimes it can be something as silly as self-affirmations and repetitive mantras that will heal you. I don't mean mantras like Buddhist prayers, but j…
/r/askTRP02/04/20 01:19 PM
8

Prude
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 12:57 PM
1

Thank you
/r/askTRP02/04/20 12:36 PM
9

If you already deem her high quality, and like she's passed every test you've put her through, then it sounds like you've already vetted her. The problem here is it sounds like you will be getting involved in a LDR upon entering a LTR, which I don't recommend. Don't commit to a LTR until you both are living in the same area, otherwise keep her as a plate and keep doing your thing.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 12:23 PM
1

If she's interested in you, she'll listen to whatever the fuck you say.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 12:15 PM
1

You save your old text messages?
/r/askTRP02/04/20 12:11 PM
1

You did not get it back.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 12:08 PM
1

bodyweight exercises are great. Also, your body is used to lifting weights so right now you're experiencing the 'muscle shock.' When you change things up, your muscles respond super well to it.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 12:05 PM
5

It's just another case of the blonde and the bad boy. You solved it yourself. You are the 'good guy' and he is the 'bad boy' and he will win every time. If this rings a bell. If you feel like a 'nice guy' then I recommend you read "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert Glover. You can google the free pdf online. Book is a real eye opener
/r/askTRP02/04/20 12:02 PM
16

Try saying, "no." That's the easiest way. Or, "Don't do that." It isn't the words you need help with though, it is the confidence. You are afraid to tell people not to treat you poorly because you're afraid of confrontation. Perhaps you're afraid that if you stand up for yourself, people will leave you. Maybe you're afraid they will physically dominate you. I don't know your exact situation, but I know fear and that is what's happening here. You have to love yourself more. If you don't value you…
/r/askTRP02/04/20 11:56 AM
30

Single women should do whatever they want about it. Masturbate, fuck a guy, whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 10:41 AM
7

Monk Mode
/r/askTRP02/04/20 02:33 AM
12

My motivation is to work hard to get out of the hamster wheel. I get up and dedicate time in my day towards my goal, which at the moment is writing this book I'm working on. It starts with figuring out what you want from this life. Specifically. Not a general goal of "I want to be rich." But figure out the exact future you want. "I want to be a published author who makes a living off his writing, and I want to live somewhere close to nature, just far enough outside of a city that I can visit whe…
/r/askTRP02/04/20 02:31 AM
1

That's an excellent perspective. A "can-do" attitude and mindset is half the battle and my goal in life is to help, particularly young men, to achieve that mentality.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/20 02:27 AM
3

Thank you, I got more to come, so you can hate me more later
/r/TheRedPill02/04/20 02:17 AM
1

First off, you ain't DZK second, If you split the bill, you're not a man, period.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 02:00 AM
2

The basics are the most important
/r/TheRedPill02/04/20 12:12 AM
2

Go fuck yourself but also thank you You see that roller coaster I just took you on. That's what your comment was like for me too lol
/r/TheRedPill01/04/20 11:42 PM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP01/04/20 07:07 PM
5

Do you judge water for being wet?
/r/askTRP01/04/20 06:49 PM
5

"look i'm sorry for giving you an anxiety attack" This is where you fucked up. You apologized to her, even after she apologized to you. She was wrong. Not you. It's still salvageable, but given how you acted in this exchange, it's highly likely that you will fold the next time you two have an argument or you hurt her feelings. I'm not above apologizing if I am in the wrong, but I am definitely against apologizing just to soothe someone else's feelings. Good luck
/r/askTRP01/04/20 06:38 PM
1

specifically not on tinder. If you can't find women outside of an app, then you might be beyond help
/r/askTRP01/04/20 06:32 PM
1

Get a slow cooker if you don't have one. Pot roast, potatoes and carrots. Healthy meal, easy to make, and should last a few days depending on how big of a roast you make. Other than that, protein shakes and eating less calories since my activity levels are way lower
/r/askTRP01/04/20 06:06 PM
1

Any girl I've ever slept with I met out in the real world. There's tons of places you can go. Bars, walking the city street, cafes, grocery store, the gym, etc.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 06:01 PM
1

No, I disregarded it entirely because I've made my point pretty clear. Tinder is not like passive income because you have to still put in your time and pussy is not worth your time like money is. That's a silly analogy. If you need pussy that bad then you're controlled by your dick. Investing your time in tinder is lame af and there's no way around it
/r/askTRP01/04/20 05:53 PM
1

I've never used tinder. Never will.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 05:26 PM
1

"Nothing is more beta than putting yourself on the virtual bachelorette and letting thousands of women decide your worth." This is from another users comment, but well said. "tinder is a woman’s frame and boys are jumping right into it" Another well said comment. Taking the easy route is the Beta way.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 05:01 PM
1

Anytime
/r/askTRP01/04/20 04:30 PM
14

how one manages their guilt when they make a mistake First, what is the purpose of guilt? It is inevitable that we all make mistakes. If you learn from your mistake, then that is all that matters. You can feel bad for a moment when you realize you've made a mistake, but just a brief moment, because feeling bad doesn't accomplish anything. What you do is acknowledge your error, make a plan to correct it if possible, and move forward. You can't control the past, so don't let the past control you. …
/r/askTRP01/04/20 04:21 PM
4

lol this guy
/r/askTRP01/04/20 04:11 PM
4

Thank you, I'm working on a book of compiling all the best parts of different philosophies for alpha men mixed with my own take on it so it is nice to hear the writing is well received
/r/TheRedPill01/04/20 04:07 PM
1

Lol nailed it
/r/askTRP01/04/20 03:39 PM
-1

Then enjoy. That "if it gets me laid" mentality is how you will end up being some woman's beta bitch though. Best of luck
/r/askTRP01/04/20 03:29 PM
1

Whatever you have to tell yourself to justify it. You said "I have tried tinder before and hated it everytime" Seems illogical to try it again Use this time to improve yourself. Tinder is not for real men. Period.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 03:10 PM
2

Then it looks like we found some common ground. Now let's end this discussion about Hinduism because this post has absolutely nothing to do with that and this is steamrolling my point which is not cool. Feel free to make a post about Hinduism and we can debate all you want there, but no more on here.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/20 02:46 PM
1

Yes, I agree with you on that (not necessarily that I subscribe to Hinduism). I just don't think there is anything in the Gita that states you have control over the details of your rebirth. Which is how we got into this discussion in the first place was you disagreeing with my statement that you have no control over to whom you are born, where, etc. I still don't see how your belief in Hinduism and rebirth disputes what I said originally. Even if your life practice will influence your rebirth, I…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/20 02:41 PM
1

You decline her offer and you pay like a god damn boss. She is making you operate within her frame and she's taking charge when she pays. You must stay in control of the frame and don't let her dictate shit. She has one thing and one thing only that she is in charge of. Fuck, or not fuck. That's her choice.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 02:36 PM
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It can be hard to tell through text what the intentions are. But I appreciate the clarity. And thanks for the compliment on my post
/r/TheRedPill01/04/20 02:33 PM
1

Ok, so "afterlife" was the wrong choice of words, but the rest of what i said is accurate. Krishna states that whatever you think as your final thought is where you will go when you die. "Think of me and you will come to me." But I don't see any claim in the Gita that you have complete control over Who you come back as, or Where you come back to. We are reborn according to our Karma, but it isn't like you're thinking "I want to be reborn as John Stamos" and that's what happens.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/20 02:32 PM
1

I'm pretty sure this is inaccurate. My understanding of the Bhagavad Gita is that whatever your last thought is determines where you go in the afterlife, like if you think of Krishna, you will go to Krishna, but if you worship a different God, you will go to them, and that's where you will remain for some time, depending on your karma, and then you are reborn, not as the same being, but as something/someone else. Which even if you can make choices to influence your karma and rebirth, you still a…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/20 02:23 PM
134

I don't know if you're being sarcastic or not, but either way, the fact that this sub is quarantined just shows that society has been feminized. It's because "People in that sub can be mean, and that hurts my feelings."
/r/TheRedPill01/04/20 02:19 PM
1

Exactly! These few months are a blessing (so long as you're not facing homelessness, etc.). The gift of time to improve yourself isn't going to happen often (if ever again) in our lifetime.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 02:16 PM
-5

My first thought is "why are you splitting the bill?" That already downgrades you in her eyes. As the man, you're supposed to cover the tab. Third date, she paid for everything? That's probably where you lost her. No sex is the proof. Logistics my ass, if she wanted you, y'all would've fucked. I think the fact you are making her pay her own way with cash and ass is causing the bigger problem.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 02:14 PM
1

tinder is a woman’s frame and boys are jumping right into it Well put. This is exactly right. Good on you for resisting the temptation and putting in the work like a man. These mfs are afraid to go monk mode. They aren't in control of their dicks and can't imagine a life not centered around chasing pussy. It isn't their fault though, they were raised in this culture and it is normalized.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 02:01 PM
14

Jocko is awesome. I haven't read Extreme Ownership yet but it is on my list. I'm currently reading his book "Leadership Strategy and Tactics"
/r/TheRedPill01/04/20 01:55 PM
3

Then again, we can't have a practical debate if we disagree on a fundamental belief about birth. However, we seem to both agree that it is up to each individual to take control over their life so let's just leave it at that
/r/TheRedPill01/04/20 01:53 PM
3

Then you're agreeing with the rest of my post. I said to take the "blame" for everything. Did you only read the first few lines and then rush to comment?
/r/TheRedPill01/04/20 01:48 PM
3

If you're a baby or toddler, you can't do much for yourself. Teens are mostly unaware of what is in their control and what isn't Your brain isn't even fully developed until your mid 20s, so even for people in their early 20s, rationality can be a bigger challenge
/r/TheRedPill01/04/20 01:47 PM
6

You're missing the point of my post just to argue metaphysics. It's a post telling people to take charge of their life. Do you want to argue hard determinism next and claim people have no control over their lives? There is no point is having this discussion.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/20 01:45 PM
5

If you believe you have control over your birth then I can't argue with you and this post isn't meant for you. I do not share that belief, so we can't have a productive conversation.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/20 01:28 PM
3

I don't think so. Which part of what I wrote sounds like I am saying "worry about shit outside your control"? I am saying, "Figure out what is outside of your control and what is in your control and forgive yourself for not taking control of what you could have but don't excuse yourself. Grab the wheel and take control of what you can."
/r/TheRedPill01/04/20 01:16 PM
1

This
/r/askTRP01/04/20 01:07 PM
5

Just own it. If you aren't lying when someone accuses you of lying, then it is up to them to deal with that, not up to you to prove it to them. If you laugh at 'inappropriate' times, then that's just you. You're the guy who laughs at inappropriate times. People will learn that you can't help it and get over it. Now, if you start laughing at your mother's funeral, then that might be a different situation, but maybe not...
/r/askTRP01/04/20 01:03 PM
1

Well, depending on this Coronavirus you might want to rethink that If everything is cool by the summer then it seems like your best bet is to travel somewhere and just go out and meet the locals. Go to local bars, cafes, check the nightlife, and don't be afraid to talk to strangers and ask them what there is to do around there.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 01:00 PM
2

Lesson learned. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 12:59 PM
-10

Because it takes away the need for confidence in approaching a woman in person. It takes away the skills of talking to her on the "battlefield" where everything besides your words come into play. Your body language, your tone of voice, your ability to hold eye contact. It also removes the barrier on her side because she can be choosy behind a screen. In person, her defenses are heightened, and it requires a sharpened set of skills to be able to disarm her and charm her. Tinder does not need that…
/r/askTRP01/04/20 12:57 PM
1

I discovered it a few days ago. I replied to a comment and got banned. I was able to get the ban lifted after messaging the moderator, but they are pretty serious about men not participating "much." I recently commented on another girl's post, didn't get banned, but damn those women downvoted the shit out of me lol It is definitely better to just lurk that page if you have a penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 12:50 PM
1

What do you want to do? The options are limitless Workout, hike, travel, practice and instrument, write, read, start learning a language, rock climb, go camping, etc. It all depends what you like and what is available to you and what you can afford.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 12:44 PM
-6

I guess that's better but Tinder is gay af regardless. If it isn't in person, it's gay.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 12:42 PM
3

Women can totally improve themselves. I don't understand why anyone wouldn't think so. I think the problem is that these online forums get so convoluted and misinterpreted and somebody has to be able to untangle this mess and straighten things out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 12:37 PM
-7

Good one...
/r/askTRP01/04/20 12:29 PM
4

I put my dick on standby for 9 weeks when I was in boot camp. If my circumstances don't allow for it, then I focus on the present and do what I have to do for me. So, yes, I would just use this time to work on myself. Monk mode. I will not lessen myself because I'm horny.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 12:29 PM
1

Jockooooo
/r/askTRP01/04/20 12:13 PM
0

I'm not forgetting that most of the world is quarantined. Time to monk mode. Tinder still gay as fuck. The whole concept of posting your pictures online as a way to get a girl is whack. No offense to OP, dude is obviously a stud and would have problem getting girls in real life if he is confident, but these pictures are gay af. That isn't anything against him, posting pictures like this has been normalized in today's young generations, but seriously, look at this objectively, outside of the cont…
/r/askTRP01/04/20 12:09 PM
1

Your face looks a little too serious, but other than that you're good, but I wouldn't be me if I didn't say this, get off Tinder, that shit is gay as fuck. Meet chicks in person
/r/askTRP01/04/20 11:48 AM
11

It all depends on you. Any age is fun if you handle them right
/r/askTRP01/04/20 11:44 AM
2

Meditations of Marcus Aurelius
/r/askTRP01/04/20 11:26 AM
3

My advice? Get off Tinder. That shit is gay and for Betas that can't talk to a woman in person. I understand we're in a pandemic blah blah, monk mode and get your fuck on when this is over.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 10:49 PM
8

They're most likely concerned that it will lead to another dude fucking their girl eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 10:47 PM
1

I would love it. I would certainly think higher of her for being able to come to terms with that and I'd even be appreciative that she was willing to try that out. That would save me a whole lot of convincing on my part. I would hope that I could push it a little farther towards a full blown 3some, but if she wants to start by watching, that would be fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 10:45 PM
5

I haven't seen it but I'm pretty well versed in stoicism. Stoicism is specifically learning to live by the 4 virtues: Wisdom Courage Justice Temperance Essentially, Learn from reading and from life. Have the courage to stand up for what you believe in and injustice. Do the right thing, even when nobody is watching. And moderation in all things. Also, the temperament of a Stoic is indifference. Don't get attached to results or anything out of your control. You can have preferences, but don't plac…
/r/askTRP31/03/20 10:40 PM
2

I meant, talk to her about why she doesn't want to come to your place. Get her to say the reason. If she says, "I'm a virgin and I don't want to lose my virginity to you" then at least you know and you can make a choice right there on whether you want to stick it out and get her to change her mind or just move on. Or continue getting bjs. You have to keep frame, and in order to be in the drivers seat, then you have to beat her down with logic. whenever I try to get her back to my place she’ll te…
/r/askTRP31/03/20 10:31 PM
1

Maybe. Talk to her, find out the answers from the source, then you will be in the position to make a move or give her some options.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 10:19 PM
1

I second this.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 10:11 PM
2

How do you know she's a virgin? I doubt she really is. She is blowing you in the park...that doesn't sound like virgin behavior. If she won't come back to your place, next time just fuck her in the secluded place in the park. If she doesn't want to fuck, I guess this will be your blowjob plate and you can find someone else who wants to fuck.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 10:10 PM
5

Biting your head off wouldn't be conducive to learning. You asked a question and I am here to help if I can
/r/askTRP31/03/20 10:07 PM
-23

It sounds to me like the issue is with you. You are blessed with the opportunity to be a stay at home mom. Those early years with your kids are absolutely paramount to their development and many moms don't have the privilege to do that, and your husband is doing everything he can to assure you can. We have not had sex in 4 months, because he simply cannot be bothered to spend the time on it. Umm, highly unlikely. He's a guy. He has a penis. He wants to fuck. He probably isn't turned on by your d…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/20 10:06 PM
3

I agree with this.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 09:43 PM
2

Nope. That's boss as hell. She is licking your asshole. Clearly, she is getting the short end of that stick. Now if she starts pegging you with a strap-on, you fucked up
/r/askTRP31/03/20 09:37 PM
18

You never have to treat her like shit. You just never let her run the show. Treat her well because she deserves it, but if she ever begins acting entitled because of it, scale back your kindness and put her in her place, calmly, but with authority.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 09:34 PM
3

I am doing all I can to learn more skills, read many books and work out as much as I can to gain muscle. Keep doing this
/r/askTRP30/03/20 04:00 PM
1

After her crying for some time I gave in to her demands and I said I would be her boyfriend. You failed. Get out of this relationship and move on.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 01:56 PM
1

She wants you to say "yes, we're just gonna talk" However, she knows that is not the case. You don't have to respond to her. If you do, just keep it light but avoid saying "Yes, we'll just talk." Again, she's looking to absolve herself of ALL responsibility.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 12:34 PM
13

She's shit testing you. You have to be able to counter with wit Say something like, "Thank god! I'm tired of being blamed for the increasing homeless population around here."
/r/askTRP30/03/20 12:29 PM
1

It won't.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 12:17 PM
1

Don't feel guilty. That's her life, her choices, and another man's problem. You do you.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 11:59 AM
1

You did it right by saying "let's do it another time." She probably wants the phone call because she knows that telling you off in person is going to be more difficult and she'll probably give in. Over the phone is easier and she might even have a friend right there giving her courage. At this point, either keep it light with some text flirting here and there, real aloof and brief, or just go NC and move on and if she hits you up, great, go from there
/r/askTRP30/03/20 11:51 AM
2

I'm totally honest about my past. I admit that I was a Beta bitch and worked my ass off to overcome that. Unless you mean my sexual past, in which case, I agree, that shit never goes over well with a female
/r/TheRedPill30/03/20 11:43 AM
3

I think we're getting off the topic of honesty with your GF vs honesty to the entire world, but I agree that you will lose a lot of people, but I think you'll also gain the right people around you. I love listening to people talk about Patrice O'neal's honesty. They say that guy burned so many bridges in Hollywood and should be much more famous than he was, but everyone respects the hell out of him.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/20 11:42 AM
3

I couldn't have said it better myself. Though, I encourage people to be brave and be honest with others whenever they can, but to be smart about it. I work on a college campus. There are many things I simply can not say or I'll lose my job. Until I have another form of income to support myself and my family, then I have to make a smart decision. However, I am aware of my dishonesty in this situation and it kills me daily. I'm actively trying to find a way to become self-sufficient enough to say …
/r/TheRedPill30/03/20 11:40 AM
3

I know exactly what you're talking about. I've done the same thing. It sucks when you think you're doing right by being silent and having no needs, but it turns out that it's very dishonest and they can smell it on you a mile away. Women like an honest guy. I think these forums often misinterpret that as being a jerk who leads like a dictator and doesn't give a fuck about anything for real. Being honest is just setting boundaries and not budging on those boundaries for anyone.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/20 11:32 AM
9

I think TRP is more like 90/10 ratio but you make a valid point. That's why not everyone can do it. It is a forever battle and balancing act and it can be exhausting. Many will give up and just fall into the Beta lifestyle and become 90 Nice Guy and 10 Bad Boy when they are fed up, much like my example. That's an unhappy life to live as a man, but a sad reality for most.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/20 11:28 AM
6

Nobody said there isn't compromise. But if I reach a fundamental disagreement with someone. I'm choosing me. I've learned to draw lines in the sand where before I operated on an open beach. I'd stand wherever I thought the other person wanted me to in order to keep the peace and I expected that because I was so nice, i'd be rewarded with sex and love. It wasn't until I drew some lines and stood up to those who tried to cross or erase them that I actually got more sex and love. I can compromise w…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/20 10:38 AM
7

Same here! Absolutely eye opening
/r/TheRedPill30/03/20 10:33 AM
1

Did you lose someone to steroids or something? You're hell bent on getting your two cents in. My alcohol example was on point. You saying it isn't doesn't make you right. Also, people using steroids and then advising against it doesn't mean they're bad. There's also people who use steroids and think they're awesome. greg doucette is an example of a guy who competed natty and then switched over to steroids and talks openly about them. You said it yourself "I personally dont believe they're health…
/r/askTRP30/03/20 10:32 AM
8

If you're doing productive things then you're not watching Netflix and playing video games ALL day. You're good.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 02:56 AM
4

I'm not here to change your mind or convince you that it's true. I'm expressing something that happened to me and realized the moments in my life that have lead me to where I am today. I recognize the flaws of my past, and I want to help others who are where I was.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/20 02:49 AM
9

You can lean towards whatever you want. That makes no difference to me. The reason why it seems like such an unrealistic fantasy to you is probably because your name is Bumbling Beta... If you're interested in learning how to achieve these "fantasy" like events in your own life, stick around, I can learn you a thing or two
/r/TheRedPill30/03/20 02:35 AM
14

That's because when you really want one specific woman, you're more than likely not treating her like you would the others, and your Beta traits come out, and she can smell them on you, and she dries right up.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/20 02:04 AM
1

There are elite level natural lifters who agree that steroids shorten your life span. Of course they're going to hate on steroids. They're natty. It's like the vegan vs meat eaters debate. Each side has "evidence" that the other side is bullshit and bad for you. I'm not saying roids can't do harm, but there's no evidence stating that roids WILL cause kidney and penis problems or shorter life span. CAN and WILL are different things. Fucking Alcohol and even Tylenol CAN be harmful to your organs a…
/r/askTRP30/03/20 01:36 AM
21

In the context of the argument, sex was what I wanted. We were arguing about our sex life. She is an ex because like I stated, I had moments of honesty, and moments of being an alpha male during our relationship, but overall I was a beta bitch and she ended up cheating on me twice and then leaving me for my best friend. It was a tragedy lol but I eventually moved on and worked on myself. Hindsight is 20/20 and I can see the many, many errors I made in that relationship that stemmed from my disho…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/20 01:30 AM
3

Sort of. It's mainly just the side effect of growing up. You don't need the RP to know that sitting home and doing drugs isn't going to take you places. But, the RP will definitely help you see that clearly.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 11:46 PM
7

I know exactly what you mean and you're crazy if you think that a dress wouldn't look good on Bindi Irwin's body type. I think dresses look better on every body type. Just wear it confidently and boom, radiant!
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/20 11:14 PM
6

Ok
/r/askTRP29/03/20 11:01 PM
1

The only thing I can say is that if your man can't take out the trash because of spring allergies. That's not a man. That alone is a serious red flag. I can't imagine what it must be like around the house when his tum tum hurts.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/20 10:52 PM
4

I can not confirm nor deny the taking of illegal supplements, but let's just say, I know that steroids aren't bad if you know where you're getting them from and don't abuse them.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 10:43 PM
10

I haven't put much thought into why, but I ALWAYS notice them. Whenever I'm out and about in the summer, when I see a lady (especially if she's attractive) wearing a sun dress, I won't even notice the girl in the belly shirt and with her tits hanging out. Maybe it has something to do with the "lady in the streets but freak in the sheets" or "sexy librarian" fantasy that men love, and the dress radiates an "innocent" look? I'll definitely give this more thought to come up with a definitive answer…
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/20 10:42 PM
3

No it isn't. Though I also said if he doesn't want to use roids he can just eat a lot and lift heavy to get as big as he can without them.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 10:34 PM
3

Not this exact scenario, but I've stayed with cheating exes before because they suddenly "wanted" my dick until we got back together. I was younger and dumber then. Trust me, it's a strategy
/r/askTRP29/03/20 10:32 PM
5

absolutely do not fuck her. trust me, she isn't begging for dick. she sees sex as a way to make you want her again. DO NOT FUCK HER.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 10:07 PM
8

there's a few things about this that stands out to me. 1st. I won't go into it too much because I can see others have already said it in the comments, but moving in is a huge change. Whatever your reasons is not my business, but before you two lived together, he most likely still spent most of his time playing video games, you just didn't notice because you weren't seeing him in that light. He isn't broken, you're just seeing his day to day. 2nd. Guys honestly don't care much about outfits. That…
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/20 09:59 PM
10

I absolutely love seeing women in sundresses. Drives me bananas
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/20 09:47 PM
1

This.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 09:13 PM
1

You're fine. You said that the age of consent is 15 in your town. That literally means a 50 year old man can bang a 15 year old legally. People might find it gross, but that's their problem so long as the law says it's ok. You're a perv bro, own it. You'll get farther if you just own it than if you try to hide it and are ashamed. Once people know you're ashamed of your actions, then they have power over you. If you say, "Whatever, she's legal." Then the worst they can do is judge you from afar.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 09:11 PM
2

Oh damn, my b, I didn't see that. This guy obviously isn't looking for advice. He's looking for people to agree with his bad decision. Good Luck OP, hope that shit ends well for you
/r/askTRP29/03/20 09:06 PM
2

Dude, what? This is crazy talk. Definitely sociopathic. Which is fine if you own it, otherwise you're being a pussy. The rational way to do this is: A: Find another hot female who can sing. There are so many out there. or: B: Just be honest and upfront that you aren't interested in dating but you find her attractive, but if she's not interested in you like that, that's fine, but you still think her voice is amazing and can go places. This whole fantasy you conjured up is just a weird way for you…
/r/askTRP29/03/20 09:04 PM
2

I never advise dudes to go through the legal system when it comes to custody. I never advise against it either. That's completely up to them. Dads get fucked in the legal system all the time so it's a slippery slope. He might end up with legal visitation, but it might be less than he gets to see his kids right now. He might have to get supervised visits. Best bet, try to work out visitation in a civil manner. Use the legal system as a last resort.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 08:56 PM
13

But nobody is going to talk shit to his face is my point
/r/askTRP29/03/20 08:47 PM
3

exactly. It is a mutually beneficially relationship. They wouldn't do it otherwise.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 06:39 PM
27

After Covid, hit the barber, have them help you find the right beard style for your face and hit the gym and get swole bro. Nobody will care about your bald head when you got traps like Tom Hardy as Bane.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 06:38 PM
4

Why would women feel guilt about their manipulation tactics? Manipulation is the tools they were given because they're physically weaker than men. They shouldn't feel bad about using what they have to their advantage. Women do know what they want. They want a man who knows what he wants. So, unless they're with that man, it appears like they don't know what they want.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 06:36 PM
28

can you at least grow a good stubble? Also, if not roids, just eat a lot and lift heavy and get as big as you can naturally. People will change how they act around you
/r/askTRP29/03/20 06:31 PM
3

Well, in person she has more control over the men in the class. Over the internet, she doesn't. The one thing she can control is, "I know I'm hot, and since you guys are being rowdy, I'm taking that away" and she kept her camera off. So, first, she doesn't feel in control. Also, screenshots of them licking her feet? I think you're explaining this wrong? But, either way, of course she would report that. She still is the teacher and that is now evidence of inappropriate behavior and that could com…
/r/askTRP29/03/20 06:28 PM
78

Take roids and grow a beard. Nobody will fuck with you.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 06:22 PM
18

It's a relationship that benefits them both. The ugly girl makes the pretty girl even hotter in comparison, and the pretty girl gives the ugly girl a higher chance of getting laid because dudes roll in packs and one of them will take the 'grenade.'
/r/askTRP29/03/20 06:21 PM
1

Oh you... I was speaking to other women and telling them that this is how they get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 06:07 PM
7

Keep it light, amused mastery, If you're feeling bold, say something like, "I think it's hot that you're getting jealous. You must love this dick!" That'll drive her crazy and she'll probably try to put you down, but you'll still be in the driver's seat.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 06:03 PM
1

Puke face? I love it! I bet you're going to angrily masturbate to this later. You're welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 05:56 PM
2

Dear other women, Take notes. Even though this (I hope is a chick) is trolling me, it's working and this is how you get ahead and get what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 05:53 PM
0

Please... If we met, I guarantee you'd be subscribing. My gut tells me that you're unattractive and bitter and that's the root of much of your anger, but with a little work, I'd help you through that and you'd be very appreciative and helpless to my charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 05:50 PM
2

Are you flirting with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 05:46 PM
0

I don't think that's accurate. Also, you're proving my point because you shouldn't be this comfortable talking to me like this. It's only because you know there is zero chance of anything happening to you that you have this false confidence. If we were in person, and you didn't know me, then you would never be this comfortable expressing yourself like this. Now, I would never harm you, but you wouldn't know that unless you got to know me. After you know me, then you would TRUST that I wouldn't h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 05:45 PM
1

You're adorable. Thank you for proving my point. Have a lovely day
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 05:35 PM
1

Still haven't answered my follow up questions. Even if my pitbull analogy is disturbing, at what point did I say I wanted to be treated like an animal. You still haven't owned the fact that your comment made no sense and was inherently flawed. My original statement has nothing to do with animals at all. I used an animal as an example of my point that you should respect the power of the stronger being.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 05:33 PM
3

Good girl Except, the playing field isn't equal online either. I'm still far less likely to let emotions cloud my logic
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 05:31 PM
2

And completely ignoring my follow up questions to your "are pitbulls not animals?" Question. Typical woman "rationale" Losing the battle so she changes the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 05:27 PM
2

As they should. My comment is referencing the move to change this dynamic. Men are bound by law and by society to "never hit a woman." Now, we're witnessing a woman's movement and women will literally yell in a man's face "you need to shut the fuck up. It's our time!" And similar disrespectful rhetoric. These women are the ones that men are angry with because they don't appreciate that we are letting them speak to us that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 05:25 PM
5

That's a great way to disengage from this conversation and not having to admit that your original comment was misplaced.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 05:21 PM
5

Yes it is. Now did I say men ARE pitbulls? Or did I use pitbulls as an example to illustrate my point?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 05:19 PM
3

That's what you got from this? Try again
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 05:00 PM
65

Stop sleeping with her. Tell her that you're not interested in getting back together and that you like how things are right now. Tell her that being cordial for the kid is your first priority and that you both should just continue doing that. If you sleep with her, it isn't just that you're at risk of ending back together, but worse, if you fuck her AND resist getting back together, she might go the petty route and make it hard for you to see your kid. Pretend her pussy is poisoned and stay the …
/r/askTRP29/03/20 02:47 PM
5

Yes. Men's physical strength is a very real threat and the fact that most of us restrain ourselves goes very underappreciated these days. Men don't blame women for being 'deceitful' because we're aware of the power dynamic. We get mad because our physicality is being taken from us and disrespected. We don't hate on your survival mechanisms. We've learned how to operate within them. What we want is for women to respect (not fear) our physical nature and act accordingly. Like petting a trained pit…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 02:13 PM
3

This. Heal up. Don't let your ego take over. You will most likely end up delaying your recovery time. Just bite the bullet here and hit it hard when you're 100%
/r/askTRP29/03/20 02:02 PM
3

What did you do to get her to send you nudes before? Try that again
/r/askTRP29/03/20 01:46 PM
-1

Why are the Marines your only military option? I'd say go Navy, Airforce, or Coast Guard. You're far less likely to see combat and you'll learn skills that are transferrable after you get out. I tell people this all the time. Guys get this "I want to be a Marine because then I'll be a badass" mentality but unless you're joining the military specifically because you want to kill, the other options I mentioned are far better for your well being and your long term goals. Also, trade schools are a g…
/r/askTRP29/03/20 01:35 PM
3

If cold approach is on pause, then the game is on pause. Tinder still ain't the game.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 02:33 AM
8

What concerns me most is that you refer to Tinder as the game. That isn't game. It's shooting fish in a bucket. Either way. Monk mode
/r/askTRP29/03/20 02:25 AM
18

Consider it a blessing. You could have ended up in a LTR with this girl.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 12:56 AM
9

Sounds like you think you're better than people and the rules don't apply to you, and the more you get away with it the deeper the belief goes. You're not actually asking us for advice. You're hoping that your brag will get you cool points. Totally worked. Rules are for pussies. Live it up
/r/askTRP28/03/20 11:12 PM
3

This.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 07:36 PM
2

Anytime. Best of luck to you
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:42 PM
1

Social media is for females and beta men. It removes the one barrier that separates the boys from the men. Face to face rejection. Having the guts to see a girl across the room and go initiate a conversation with her takes guts. Sending a DM is easy and there's no risk. We've all done it, and I'm no better, but I don't condone it overall. Right now with the quarantine you should just step back and focus on you. Practice your guitar more or start a new hobby. The world is on 'pause' right now.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:41 PM
11

Your instinct is correct. Your friends are flexing on you. Of course they are going to say you're overthinking. They're putting you in your place by shutting you down. Men always test each others status to establish a hierarchy. How do you think it looks to your woman that another man is "leading" her? You don't have to get angry or make a scene. You can keep it 'joking' but don't waiver. Nobody likes change and once you start standing up to them, they're going to double down or dismiss you, but…
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:35 PM
2

Accept that you might not get them. The key to victory is you must be willing to lose. Make your intentions known. Some of them might take to it right away. Others will try to bring you down by saying, "I don't like who you're becoming. You used to be so nice, and now you're acting just like every other jerk." But you know what? Every other jerk gets laid. I recommend reading the book "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert Glover. It is eye opening.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:30 PM
6

I recommend the book "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert Glover. You can find the free pdf online, but it isn't expensive to buy otherwise. podcasts... Joe Rogan Experience. That guy is like a pseudo dad figure to many young men. Also, Jordan Peterson (No podcast, but just watch YouTube vids of his advice to young men). Advice - Do some reflection and figure out what qualities you dislike in yourself. Work on them 1 at a time and keep in mind that things take time. Don't expect to change overnight.…
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:28 PM
5

Sounds like you have the tools but you're not using them. I don't know you from Adam, but this post gives me the impression that you aren't going for it. Seems like you're waiting for girls to seduce you instead of vice versa. Go chat up them ladies, and let them know that you want to fuck. (use tact of course) but let your intentions be known.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:19 PM
11

shoulders are the biggest vanity muscle IMO. I've always heard girls talking about men's shoulders (I guess traps too). Even as a guy, when I'm in the gym and another guy has really built shoulders, I always think he's bigger than he actually is at first glance. You want "big boobs" work them shoulders.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:14 PM
2

Relationships are like a battery. Women are the negative terminal and men are the positive terminal. Energy always flows from negative to positive. Once the positive terminal is filled to it's potential, it gives the excess back to the negative terminal to create a flow. A good woman will give herself to her man. A good man will then give back to his woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 06:04 PM
14

Just look at the phone, read the text she sent you, then put the phone down and go do something else.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 01:20 AM
1

I think you're just angry at the whole world
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 12:50 AM
1

Good luck
/r/askTRP28/03/20 12:05 AM
4

Well, my hunch says she is going to do the initial talking. She'll probably say something like, "I want to be with you but I'm worried about what my family will say about the age difference." Try to avoid agreeing with her. Instead, see if you can convince her to wait on making a decision or telling her family. Say "Don't worry about all that yet. We can figure that out later." Get her comfortable putting off the decision so she can feel relaxed about not having to talk to her family. Tell her "…
/r/askTRP27/03/20 11:25 PM
3

She's willing to meet you in person so you're in. She wants you to convince her that it's a good idea to be with you so that she can absolve herself from the responsibility of making a decision. She'd rather be able to blame you if/when it doesn't work in the long run. She's totally down to fuck. Don't commit. (Unless that's what you want).
/r/askTRP27/03/20 10:43 PM
1

Yes. It's always bad to show possessiveness. The goal is to be so desireable that she chooses to stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 09:20 PM
1

All good. Good luck!
/r/askTRP27/03/20 08:42 PM
1

That is not how it comes off. It sounds like an ultimatum. Like "You'll protect me, right?" "I only protect what's mine, so are you mine?"
/r/askTRP27/03/20 08:39 PM
0

Because I'm on the wealthy side and have the room in my house I was able to afford a sports cage, bench, Olympic bar and over 180kg in weight plates all brand new. Where you live? Let's be friends
/r/askTRP27/03/20 08:37 PM
4

There is a reason to turn in late work, but there is no reason for the work to be late.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 08:35 PM
1

Okay, you gotta change directions. She was flirting and then you turned it into a possessive thing. She's thinking, "Is he saying I'm his? Does he think we're dating? I'm don't want to hurt his feelings but I don't want him to think we're dating." That's where you left her. Keep it light, keep it flirty and sexy. Don't say anything that indicates possession or dating.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 08:35 PM
4

Anything but send her nudes. Keep it light like you did. Or, this might sound crazy, but move on. Seems like a waste of time.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 08:29 PM
3

Bro, have the chick get tested and show you her records that she's clean. 50 guys is a Russian Roulette of STD chances. If she's clean, then it depends on how it sits with you. If you aren't comfortable with it, leave. Don't say "it's cool" and then resent her.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 08:05 PM
3

First off, I know Chad is a popular name in this group for the "cool" guy but whenever I hear Chad I think "loser." Also, Gilbert sounds dumb, but Gil, bad ass. Lastly, I guess a name does have some cache when it comes to impressions, but not much. If you have charisma and skills, then your name could be Nut Sack and you'd still get laid. One of the best to do it is Patrice O'neal, and Patrice is a female name.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 07:56 PM
1

Make her feel silly for asking for nudes. Say something like, "Anyone dumb enough to send you a nude yet?"
/r/askTRP27/03/20 07:52 PM
1

I assume that it's her talking first in this example? It would help for you to label who is who.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 07:47 PM
16

I love them all. There are hot women on every continent.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 07:41 PM
6

Do not send her nudes
/r/askTRP27/03/20 07:40 PM
5

There's no reason to submit late work. Why aren't you doing it within the time frame? Seems like your professor was pretty clear about the penalty
/r/askTRP27/03/20 07:12 PM
0

Disgusting or not, it's reality. The world isn't sugar coated because it hurts your delicate sensibility. Also, I better be? Now I'm gonna knock my girl up, make her keep it, then leave her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 07:10 PM
2

I second this route.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 05:35 PM
9

Say, "you should. I'm missable"
/r/askTRP27/03/20 05:33 PM
0

That's if the woman takes him to court. Or if she even knows who he is. Lot of one night stands end in pregnancy and she doesn't even know the guys last name. Again, a man should be safe, but if he's not, she is responsible to look out for herself
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 05:31 PM
-1

Nope. I could ditch the girl and the baby if I were the type to do so. Let me clarify. A man should have protection but it's her responsibility to make absolutely sure that he's wearing one or that she's on the pill because she has more to lose. I can cosign a lease for you. Now you are supposed to make the payments but if you don't, guess who is responsible? Me, the cosigner. Women are the cosigners when it comes to safe sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 05:22 PM
3

True. I think "bad" is misleading because the typical definition means something else. When it comes to the "bad boy" it doesn't mean he's bad. It just means he's "edgy" and doesn't follow all the rules. Same as a "good guy" isn't by definition good. He is just predictable, and sticks to the book. "Nice/good guys" are actually dishonest because they will do whatever it takes to preserve the image of being good. They will lie and cover up their mistakes to be perfect in everyone's eyes. I think w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 03:31 PM
-7

You've been with your woman for 3 years. She's hot, she cooks, cleans, everything you want. Here's the real test to see if she's the "one." Talk to her about the potential of a threesome and see how she reacts. If you aren't able to explain to her that even though you love her and want to spend your life with her, you are a man and want to fuck other women, then you aren't being honest in your relationship. Forever is a long time. 3 years is a blink of an eye when compared to the potential 80 mo…
/r/askTRP27/03/20 03:18 PM
-1

No. I wouldn't take it. Safe sex is a woman's responsibility. Patrice explains it best: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWffzNm0jiM
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 03:10 PM
18

I see a lot of what femininity isn't. What would you say femininity is?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 03:03 PM
2

I think where things get tricky is the word "prefer." Preference is a choice, and choices are the will of the mind. So, a woman can prefer a beta man. That's a decision rooted in experience and weighing the pros and cons of going with what comes naturally. So, I believe that AWALT when it comes to their biological desire for an alpha male, but based on her experiences/goals, she may prefer a beta male because the juice might not be worth the squeeze for her when going for an alpha. When a man "p…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 02:56 PM
2

television really screwed us up with these "bad boys with a soft core" idea. Yes, I agree that television has screwed us all up by "teaching" us how we should be and what to expect from the other sex. In the 90's, it was the last era of males being allowed to be masculine. After that, you'll notice all tv shows took a turn and the male became a dumbass who was lucky to have his wife, and the wife became the leader of the household. These shows also screwed us up. Dylan the bad boy is much mkre m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 02:25 PM
13

First, she doesn't care about your age. That doesn't bother her. What bothers her is she thinks her friends/family will judge her because of your age. Obviously, she was willing to fuck, so she's attracted to you. What you can do is just give her options. Don't come off like you want it, but text her something like, "Hey, I had fun when we hung out and I thought you did too. I'd like to see you again but if you're not feeling it that's cool. You have my number, hit me up if you change your mind.…
/r/askTRP27/03/20 11:58 AM
4

Valid argument. Responsibility is much clearer and men should always be clear and concise with their words. I've been saying 'fault' for a long time and I feel like I have to do more explaining afterward to people who seem to cringe at it. After I explain that I mean "it's your fault because it is up to you what you're going to do about it now." Just saying "It's your responsibility" seems to sum it up quite nicely. Thanks brother
/r/TheRedPill27/03/20 11:48 AM
3

Not interested? Great! You have nothing to lose. Practice your skills bruh
/r/askTRP26/03/20 03:21 PM
2

say, "You after tonight." ​ That could be fun to see how she responds, but realistically, it sounds like she's running the show, so it's better for you to just jump ship and go find others
/r/askTRP26/03/20 03:18 PM
14

This
/r/askTRP26/03/20 03:15 PM
3

"lEt mE eAt dAt pUsSy gIrL." The fact that you're typing like this shows immaturity. You're getting your influence from memes. You're suggesting the OP takes her out for drinks and let the situation escalate "organically," but you seem to be missing something. He doesn't know how to do that, otherwise he wouldn't be in a 2 year friend zone. His "organic" nature leads to the friend zone. Again, you aren't even offering actual advice. Speaking in vague terms like, "let it organically escalate" sou…
/r/askTRP25/03/20 03:22 PM
2

Women are women. No matter where you go in the world they all want to be wanted.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 02:50 PM
2

You're dumb. All you did was hate on a real strategy, and you provided no direction of your own. OP - What did you learn from this fool other than "Don't do what he says."? He provides no value or substance. ​ Do what you want. I know exactly what I'm talking about. Feel free to try whatever nonesense this guy provides you, but when it fails, and it will, feel free to message me for guidance.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 02:48 PM
5

You're already friend zoned. She is not interested in you at all. Why would she be? She has the best part of you (your time) without having to give anything in return. It might be too late, but the only way to find out is to lay it all out there. Let her know that you want to fuck. Calmly. Don't get mad or emotional, don't confess your love for her, just let her know that you're available if she needs to blow off some steam. Next time she's mad about her boyfriend, say, "That must be frustrating…
/r/askTRP25/03/20 02:12 PM
6

I'd say follow your family's advice and get back out there. However, actually go out. These apps are a young man's game. After all this lockdown shit is over (not sure if your state is on coronavirus hiatus or not) but go out and talk to women the old fashioned way. You'll have a better chance of convincing women to be a plate in person than over some app. Also, don't be afraid to flaunt your financial status a little. You don't have to take care of anyone, but she should at least believe you co…
/r/askTRP25/03/20 01:52 PM
7

You are correct Man up is "be more masculine" and grow up is "be an adult" Also, if you tell a guy to "grow up and act your age." and his response is "you're just saying I should man up" Well, then he needs to grow up AND man up. Men don't whine like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 01:13 PM
1

I wouldn't get offended. Run away from me for all I care
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 07:05 PM
1

Lmao
/r/askTRP24/03/20 05:08 PM
2

What part isn't making sense here? Her fear/discomfort is her problem. I am just sympathizing with the OP because he said he's a black man and I know that changes the rules. I still believe the white woman's fear is her own problem and that the black man should NOT have to alter his behavior because of it, but I also know the world we live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 03:32 PM
0

I don't care about a woman's discomfort. If she's uncomfortable, that's her problem. I'm not going to attack her. The reason why I said "you're black, so actually, if she's a white woman, you probably should give her a few paces..." is because if a white woman is uncomfortable and calls the cops, the black guy could be a bad situation. It isn't the same if the woman is black and the man is white. Either way, the discomfort is the woman's problem, but in the case of a black man, her discomfort co…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 03:28 PM
5

Indeed it does. Thanks for the chat. Usually these things go sideways. Have a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 02:59 PM
5

I don't think guys are hoping to lock a woman down. It's the other way around. Guys don't want marriage, women do. We make money to gain access to hotter pussy with less required work to get it. Once you get it, it's her job to find ways to keep you around and wanting to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 02:56 PM
4

I think we've found common ground. I don't think she'll be as sexually attracted to her mate if he's a 6. If I were a 6 with money, I wouldn't get married. I'd keep several girls around because I wouldn't trust any of them not to stray. Either that, or if I married her, I'd allow her to get side dick and I'd get side pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 02:47 PM
6

My point being that women prioritize resources over looks. There is no biological benefit for a woman to risk banging a guy unless he can provide for the potential child. Sure, she'll be sexually attracted to a guy with good features so she can pass those traits to her offspring, but if she doesn't feel like he could provide and protect her and the child, then she'll opt for another mate with more security. That doesn't mean it is impossible for a handsome bum to bang a hot chick. But it takes s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 02:32 PM
1

Anytime
/r/askTRP24/03/20 02:23 PM
1

Would bringing it up hurt your relationship?
/r/askTRP24/03/20 02:23 PM
7

I don't know if height factors into "looks." I guess I'm more talking about physical features like a handsome face and a chiseled body. Height is a different thing and it matters a lot because even if you looked like Brad Pitt but you were 5'2, she isn't going to get with you. BUT! If you were 5'2, but you're rich and famous, you'll get more women than the Brad Pitt guy that's 5'2 that works at the gas station. I still say, status matters MORE. I'm not saying that women don't care about looks, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 02:17 PM
3

Again, that isn't evidence of follow through. People talk shit in online chats. How many people would say in an online forum, "You're lucky I don't know where you live, otherwise I'd fuck you up?" or some other E-Thug threat. That doesn't mean that when it becomes reality, they'll do that. Women might be hitting on these Chad type guys because they're hoping they can spin a conversation into an opportunity. It doesn't neccessarily mean they are attracted to pedophiles. But, like I said above, Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 02:11 PM
3

Again, there isn't any real evidence to support this claim. I need to see more than a DM message. Anyone can talk shit online. I admit that you can probably find a few cases of real life women who would date a pedophile, but it is not the norm. This is getting into a weird place that I'm not interested in continuing debating. I'm bowing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 02:08 PM
1

That depends on your relationship with your dad. My dad and I never really had a father-son type of relationship, but in adulthood we've become the best of friends. I could talk to him about this type of stuff and it wouldn't be that weird. It would be like talking to your bro about it. If you don't have that type of relationship, then it comes back to, are you willing to risk your relationship with your dad over this broad? I suspect not, so don't do it.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 02:03 PM
1

I can't go back and forth with you here. You keep taking my words out of context and then I have to backtrack to re-explain myself. For example, "Not accept it and use it as an excuse to be sociopath who thinks about locking people away after exploiting them, like you did." I never said that I want to lock people away after exploiting them, nor did I say that I think about doing that. I actually said the opposite. I said that we aren't designed to want them around because if we were, then there'…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 02:00 PM
3

This. lol
/r/askTRP24/03/20 01:21 PM
5

Pussy vs No Pussy ​ That's the difference.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 01:20 PM
3

"looking cool" and "looks" like your physical features are two different things. Rick Ross is a fat ass, even after his weight loss, and that dude can bang anything he wants because of his status. He "looks cool" but that doesn't mean he's "Good looking."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 01:19 PM
8

I mean, maybe if we were walking down a dark alleyway, but if you're not a rapist, then her discomfort is her problem. Though, you said you're black, so actually, if she's a white woman, you probably should give her a few paces. The sad truth is, in today's world, her discomfort could very much be your problem. It ain't right, but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 01:10 PM
2

Again...this doesn't apply to family. We don't hate our family or love them for sexual reasons. It's familiarity over time that builds bonds. However, when it comes to women OUTSIDE of the family, men aren't going to build that bond for no reason, which is why sex comes into play. It gives us something to go after, and once we get it, it is the woman's job to do what she can to keep the man around until that bond is created, and then he will stick around, even though he typically gets less and l…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 01:06 PM
3

Sure you will, otherwise you wouldn't have commented. I gave you a real response, but you are only interested in a response that is in line with your narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 12:56 PM
2

Well I don't know if i'm "perfect" but I appreciate the compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 12:55 PM
5

Umm...what? No dude...just...no. This world is large enough and fucked up enough that I'm sure you can find me 1 example of a woman who did that, but that isn't indicative of all women. Just like you could probably find a handsome man who raped a child, but that isn't indicative of all men. Now, I can find you a million examples of less than handsome men with beautiful women because they have either money, or status. That is a clearer indication of what's real.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 12:53 PM
2

Whoa dude, paging Dr. Freud. Who said anything about family? That's some sick shit you got going on upstairs. We're not programmed to fuck our family, I would assume that was implied in this post, but apparently you got some secret desires. So, let me be clear. This doesn't apply to family. Now, we're all addicts. It's a stimulus response. Why do you think people get so obsessed with social media, or Reddit comments, or video games, etc. It's because when you get a like, or a dumbass response, o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 12:48 PM
3

It is like a drug. Do you think men would care about women at all if it weren't for sex? We'd much rather hang with the guys and have fun than to spend our time with women. They are fun-ish at times, but they don't even compare. Pussy has to be the strongest drug in the universe so that the species will procreate. And, since men are physically stronger than women, we have to not really want them around after we orgasm because otherwise we'd lock them all in cages and there is nothing they could …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 12:27 PM
1

Fuck, she's telling me on my death bed? That's cold as ice. At that point it's whatever. Other than that, I'd either leave her, or demote her. A woman works hard to gain status in the relationship. If she puts in the time and effort, she earns some say, and if I found out she was cheating, and if she feels guilty, then I might keep her around but demote her back to the status of a girl I'm just dating. She'll remember how it felt when I was aloof and didn't respond to texts, or when she was wond…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 12:22 PM
12

The issue with this post is that women don't fall for guy based on their looks like we do. They "love" or whatever emotion you want to input, for other reasons. Looks are a bonus to them just like a good personality is a bonus for us. A guy can improve his status immensely by becoming cool. If he can be the cool guy in his group, then ladies that are around that group are going to want him because he will be at the top percentile of that group. You don't have to be better than 80% of the entire …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 12:13 PM
1

If you get serious about it, I will show you the way. I'm currently taking on pupils. Think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 12:05 PM
1

That is true. If you say it for the social image and you aren't truly confident, then it will only last so long. The truth always reveals itself. But, if you actually put in the work to build yourself up from the foundation, which I have, and I could teach any man how to do, then it will last forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 12:05 PM
1

Sure. Tons of things would be more productive. Wouldn't it be more productive for us to work on something else rather than chatting on a Reddit forum? That's just not how people operate. We're a rather counter-productive species much of the time. Electricity flows through the path of least resistance. However, we have intelligence and we can decide to go the path of more resistance, and that will lead us to good things, but man is it hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 02:09 AM
5

If you like it, then fuck what TRP guys say. It's only submissive if you're doing it for her. If you're doing it because you like doing it then that's a different story. Never let her dictate how and when you do it though. You just do it when you feel like doing it. If you eat her pussy good and then just leave her on the bed and go watch TV. She'll be confused as fuck and not know what to do. When she asks, just say, "I like eating pussy, I did that for me, a happy side-effect is that you got t…
/r/askTRP24/03/20 02:02 AM
4

most likely. It is easy to pretend to be confident and secure, but not too many are actually about that life. They're like most rappers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 01:56 AM
5

It is from insecurity. I personally don't care about her past lovers, nor do I even want to know about them. Her past is her past. My past is my past. When we're together, we're creating something new. When I was a teenager I cared about these silly things. That was because of my lack of confidence in myself. I would guess that many posts you've read come from a similar lack of confidence. When a guy becomes truly confident in himself, so many things that used to matter no longer do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 01:46 AM
1

Certainly. After it was over, we sat down and had a nice, civil talk about it. She could see that something was different with me. She was the one who told me that I should write about it and tell my male friends. She believes in my philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 01:42 AM
2

First things first. Do you want to get better? If you don't want to get better, then you will not get better. Let's identify your problem. You are a 22 year old male. I'm going to go out on a limb here and say that you don't have any positive male role models in your life? Raised by a single mom? Or perhaps dad works all the time and isn't around? Or also common, dad is around but he isn't really a "manly" man type. I suspect one of the above is true. I would guess the reason you're so depressed…
/r/askTRP24/03/20 01:31 AM
0

Yup. That's why the options are either don't get legally married, or be willing to take an L.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 01:05 AM
3

No need to thank me, you already handled it like a boss. Keep up the good work
/r/askTRP24/03/20 12:44 AM
19

You did the right thing. Women want to know because they are taught to stack ammo for future fights. She wants to find out your past so she can also make judgements about what type of guy you are. If you have a lot of girls, she'll think you're a player. If you have too few, she'll think you're a target. There's no good. Keep her wondering. "The only winning move is not to play."
/r/askTRP24/03/20 12:34 AM
2

No way. The woman is out to lock down the highest quality man she can manage. What usually happens is the guy gets comfortable and lazy and then eventually the woman starts running the show. I've lived it. But if he keeps his Alpha game sharp, she'll act right because she'll know that he can take his time and provisions to another woman who will.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 12:30 AM
1

What kind of mistakes? Maybe we can solve this and get you back on track my dude
/r/askTRP24/03/20 12:26 AM
1

Well, for starters, do you enjoy eating pussy? If you do, then you can use that. She'll definitely reciprocate. If you don't enjoy eating pussy, then don't do it because it'll be dishonest and set a precedent that you'll do it from time to time. If you don't want to eat her pussy, then another way you can "ease" her into being more submissive is to try being dominant with your actions and words when you're fucking her. Like grabbing her hair rough and saying "Who's pussy is this?" If she says "I…
/r/askTRP24/03/20 12:24 AM
4

The answer is that all men just want to sleep with them. Commitment is her responsibility. If she wants a man to commit, then she has to make him want to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 12:07 AM
1

If you never had sex then this is a very different conversation. I would say, have sex and see if you still feel the same
/r/askTRP24/03/20 12:03 AM
9

The only way you're going to succeed is if you have unwavering confidence and by being bold. You have to let her know you're serious but you also have to play it cool. There aren't any definitive "openers" given that I don't know the details of your exact situation But, an idea to start is to give her a compliment that you know she'll respond to. Not like, "You look pretty blah blah" but something specific like if you can tell she recently got her nails done, if you say, "Wow, those are some nic…
/r/askTRP23/03/20 11:39 PM
2

Anytime! Sometimes women need a reminder. They are like children and will test your boundaries often, for the rest of your life. Don't break and you're golden. If she becomes more trouble than she's worth, get rid of her and find another
/r/askTRP23/03/20 11:30 PM
1

I have nothing against you or MGTOW. There are a few reasons. One of them being, I can't afford a hooker habit. I like to fuck. I'm happily married to a woman who knows this. We fuck several times a week, sometimes twice a day. Having a wife is expensive too, but there are other benefits. I like that I have someone with a personality I enjoy. My wife is fun to be around, but she also gives me space. Sure, there are times when I wonder why I got married or wish I were single, but that's just life…
/r/askTRP23/03/20 11:27 PM
3

You've already answered it in your question. I thought I was clear about not wanting a relationship, but her jealousy seems to be acting up. Let her know that you were already clear about not wanting a relationship and that you're concerned about her level of jealousy this early on. Give her some options, and let her decide. One of those options, of course, is that she is free to leave.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 11:19 PM
2

I have no desire to change your mind. If you prefer to get rich and bang hookers, then to each his own. Enjoy
/r/askTRP23/03/20 11:15 PM
5

your wife's boyfriend.* Say whatever you want to save face on this online forum. You obviously have no idea what's what my dude. Women don't fuck around when they have it good. They fuck around for revenge, or to transition to a better position financially. There is no benefit to a woman to fuck another guy for pleasure. If my wife cheated on me because she found a richer guy that would take care of her, so be it, peace out. I'll find another. Your comments are only showing off your insecure, be…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 11:05 PM
1

I had a false sense of bravado when we first met. Usually a relationship starts off with what is referred to as the "honeymoon phase." During that time, she supressed her A-type personality and I hid my Beta side. She was down for whatever I wanted to do, and we were fucking like rabbits, which while she was "letting" me be the man, I felt like the fucking man. After the honeymoon phase wore off, she started challenging me and I began backing down. That's basically how we ended up together. Then…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 10:57 PM
-1

Tell her "The curvature of my kitchen table's legs makes me horny so don't get too excited."
/r/askTRP23/03/20 10:49 PM
1

Pretty much. Some dads are cooler than others
/r/askTRP23/03/20 09:47 PM
2

In the context of dating, "nice guy" has a definition. You can google it and you will find what I mean. Or you can read an awesome book called "No More Mr. Nice Guy" which you can find online for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 09:26 PM
7

Absolutely false. If you attach your happiness to her body then you're a slave to your emotions. I am just as happy driving a used car as I am driving a new car. If it rides, it rides. Either way, when I'm driving it, I make IT look good, not the other way around. I can be dressed to the nines in a suit and tie, or I can be wearing sweats and a hoodie, either way, I make IT look good. You see where I'm going with this? I have my priorities and my integrity in tact. It seems as though you place y…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 08:59 PM
2

exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 08:51 PM
1

Well, I would totally disregard her feedback if she weren't my wife. Think of it like a military ranking system. My wife now has a higher rank than a girlfriend or fuck buddy would. She has earned a voice. But I still said I will consider her input, and I will do what I believe is best for the family. If what I believe is best ends up completely disregarding her feedback, then I will disregard her feedback, just like a General will listen to the advice of a Captain, but will do what he believes …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 08:50 PM
2

Ghost of Girlfriend's Past. Fun movie. The ending was gay but before that, his character was cool. Lol yeah, her character in the movie hit the jack pot! The movie seemed to have a happy ending, but his character is going to regret it in 5-10 years...
/r/askTRP23/03/20 08:42 PM
4

Her past relationships aren't necessarily a good indicator of her character. People are generally different with different people. She might be a complete bitch to one guy and a sweet angel to another. She might be adventurous with a different guy and a stay-at-home boring broad with another. If she's with me, I give her a clean slate and we start fresh. A woman who doesn't want guidance will make that clear real quick. Once you give her the option to leave unless she gets on board, she will lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 08:39 PM
3

"Nice" does mean those things. I am not a selfish asshole, but the way it works now is that if we reach an issue that we can't seem to agree on, then she submits to me because I am leading this ship and she has to trust my leadership. It doesn't mean she doesn't have a voice or a say. It just means that I will consider her stance and then I will decide. I consider her in my decision-making. I don't do what is only beneficial to me, I do what is best for the family. When she was making decisions,…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 08:33 PM
1

Her: I don't want to worry about "stds" You: Don't worry, I practice safe sex with them. Ball is in her court now.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 08:21 PM
5

My wife would probably say that it was about time I stepped to the plate. My wife is an "A" type, assertive woman. I was terrified to take charge, but when I did it, and once she knew I was serious and not just trying to make a statement, she seemed relieved. I can say that she has been more genuine, and even silly/playful since I changed. It's like she can let her guard down because she finally trusted me. Being a "nice guy" is dishonest, and I think women can sense it on a subconscious level t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 08:15 PM
1

I would say I love her more now. I was being dishonest before by being the "nice guy" because it was who I thought I had to be. Now, I am my authentic self, and she's happy. I am happier now because I know that I am contributing to her happiness. It's a win/win situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 08:11 PM
3

Lol exactly
/r/askTRP23/03/20 08:07 PM
2

It's her hair, let her do whatever with it, but just don't lie to her about it and pretend to like it because it'll encourage her to keep it. Don't be a dick either, like, "Eww, that's ugly as fuck." But remind her that you prefer her natural hair color (or whatever color you prefer). If she says she's keeping it and too bad, then you have some options. How bad do you hate it? Enough to leave? Then leave. Otherwise, you could try to get "caught" checking out girls that have the hair color you pr…
/r/askTRP23/03/20 08:06 PM
1

Check out "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert Glover. You can find the pdf free online, although I think every man should own a copy.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 07:58 PM
1

This.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 07:56 PM
5

Game is just your strategy on how to get girls. yup
/r/askTRP23/03/20 07:55 PM
7

The problem with the role of women today is that they've been brainwashed into believing that being a traditional woman is bad and that they should strive to be what is considered traditionally male. I'm not saying women shouldn't work or be CEO's, but they can't let that carry into their home life. They still need a strong man to lead. However, they've been taught that submitting to their man is weakness and oppressive. On the flip side, men have been brainwashed into believing that they should…
/r/askTRP23/03/20 07:53 PM
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Do you care about your relationship with your dad? If not, go for it. Are you two close enough to talk about it? Bro code applies here. Maybe he'll give you the green light! Otherwise, it isn't worth it. There's tons of broads out there to bang.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 07:48 PM
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also this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 07:25 PM
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I knew that women preferred to date "assholes" in school. I knew that the "jerks" got the ladies in movies, and when I became an adult and saw my "jerk" friends get the girls at the bar. The part I also believed was that if I was the "nice guy" then I would be the man that women preferred when they "grew up" and stopped dating losers. I was taught that being the "nice guy" was going to make me "win" in the end. It wasn't until getting married and spending years going back and forth with my wife …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 07:20 PM
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All men are obsessed with sex, unless they are getting it regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 07:03 PM
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I don't understand. It is still her job to keep the man in this scenario. If she wants to leave, she is welcome to leave. She doesn't have to keep the man if she doesn't like or trust him as a leader. But if she wants him, then yes, she has to work at keeping him around.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/20 06:35 PM
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1: Women are people. This I agree with. However, the current feminist agenda is to prop up women and push men down. I believe in equality, not superiority. Feminist also tend to not believe there are differences between the genders. I work on a college campus. Women literally say things like, "All men are trash." or "All men are rapists." And the teachers cheer them on. As a man, I can't even say facts like, "Men are physically stronger than women." without people getting offended and calling me…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 06:31 PM
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I disagree with a few things here. First, I wouldn't even ask her how many past relationships she's had. I don't care. Second, her past relationships could also be failing because she needs a man that knows how to guide her. I know how to guide my woman. My wife dated more people than I had before we got together. We've been together now for 10 years. The difference is me. Lastly, I don't care about her body count either. People who are insecure care about that shit. All I care about is if she c…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 05:55 PM
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Who truly wants a virgin? I certainly do not. Learn some tricks before you get to me because I'd rather take you to new levels, not teach you the basics. I agree with you that Disney type fairytales have fucked us all up immeasurably. For me, it wasn't my expectations of a Disney princess, my expectations of women were screwed up from porn, but Disney made me believe that I had to be a Prince Charming type of guy to get a girl. What I learned is that women don't want that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 05:31 PM
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Should the long sought after virgin, looks match with an easy going personality and no hidden crazy present themselves. Have you lead a life that would make you worthy of her interest? I'm not sure I understand this question. The way I lead my life doesn't change because of her personality. Would you have the personality to court and win her love? Again, my personality is what it is. Either she digs it or she doesn't. I'm not going to be somebody I'm not to trick her into love. I will give her o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 05:21 PM
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I like this revision (or rephrasing) of your previous post. I agree with you on this. Attracting women is a great indication that you are being an alpha male, or that you are winning, however you want to word it. Have you ever seen Patrice O'neal's joke about fishing? That line about women being a fancier means of masturbation is spot on. That's why I believe it is a man's job to GET the girl, it is her job to KEEP her man.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/20 05:11 PM
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Relax Charlie Sheen, we're just splitting hairs here at this point
/r/TheRedPill22/03/20 02:06 AM
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Masculinity isn't about getting pussy. Getting pussy is a side-effect of masculinity. I agree with what many other commenters are saying here. It's about being true to yourself and not sacrificing your values just to get pussy, or to please others. It's about putting your needs first and having the balls to fight for it if necessary.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/20 12:02 AM
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A-fucking-men! TRP is an awesome tool for men. I wish I stumbled upon it sooner but whatever, it is what it is. I was crippled with anxiety about "I have to say/do the right thing" when speaking to a woman. Luckily, I found forums like TRP, and I read this awesome book called "No More Mr. Nice Guy" that I highly recommend for all men, especially those dealing with self-confidence issues. Great post my dude
/r/TheRedPill21/03/20 11:52 PM
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Do you have a recommendation as to what would make it more topical?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 11:22 PM
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A man needs a purpose. I think conflicts are within purpose, but the purpose isn't for conflict. Without purpose, a man is useless, and nothing makes a guy feel worse than being useless. Feeling useless leads to depression, and then you're mentally unhealthy and emotionally void. Find a purpose, add value, be "needed" and a man will thrive. We are problem solvers by nature. It's just what we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 10:30 PM
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My advice to unattractive women: For starters, I'll say the obvious. Get an attractive body. Don't shoot yourself in the foot. If you're already lacking in the face, don't make it more difficult by being a fat mess too. Other than that, learn some tricks in the bedroom that'll keep him coming back. The more time he spends with you, the more opportunity you have to show him how cool you are. Which brings me to my next part...be cool. I'm not saying be something you're not, but look for a man that…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 10:20 PM
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Short answer. No. A "hot guy" still isn't the same value as a "hot girl" Now, a rich guy, he can passively dread a woman because she'll know that any other woman out there will happily take her place. When it comes to looks, women are at the top of the food chain. We know that you don't even have to be that attractive to get most guys. So, if you're hot, we know that any dude will jump at the chance. If we're hot, ladies aren't going to act the same. However, like Bill Burr said, [When you becom…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 10:02 PM
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