RogBlue Archive

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1	The Friendzone I get it completely. I have the habit of knowing but not admitting it to myself. Once you have it happen a couple of times you will start to realise. See my mentality is about sleeping with them and then whatever happens happens. Of course there is that one girl every so often that rocks the boat.	/r/seduction	13/12/18 09:04 PM
2	The Friendzone In this situation my advice would’ve been, 1) When you were making out on the couch you should’ve escalated as far as you could both go. If you had slept with her then you either got laid and she chinned you off or b)she could see you are in control of your actions/situation. 2) Sometimes from an emotional stand point it’s wiser not to display that level of emotion while courting (I appreciate why this circumstance is different from the childhood trauma comment). Once you had displayed this, you…	/r/seduction	13/12/18 09:18 AM
3	What is my move I recommend that if you get the chance, show your interest pre-party, flirt, light touch’s. Be slightly sexual but not overtly forward. Make it clear you are interested. If you kiss her pre-party to the event you will consciously be wanting to be with her and guard her from other males and general fun. Ultimately being over jealous. Instead, Enjoy yourself like you normally would, talk to other females (don’t over flirt), just enjoy the company. She will naturally be keen to know where you are, …	/r/seduction	07/12/18 08:07 PM
1	Hot and Cold - Whats my move? To be honest, I don’t really actively over date. Only because the area I’m in makes that difficult for friendship circles not to cross. I would also not normally ‘date’ unless I’m actually really interested in a girl. Some guys (probably some here) date for the sake of dating. The issue is that if you focus on one person until the commital moment all emotions are amplified. You will do anything to ensure that happens, where is infact a girl does not want that, it’s such a silly paradox. Be the g…	/r/seduction	05/12/18 09:49 AM
–	Hot and Cold - Whats my move? Just updated the above on more context.	/r/seduction	05/12/18 07:10 AM
–	Hot and Cold - Whats my move? Played it cool, we kissed she negged claiming I was flirting with her friend when we absolutely weren’t and went completely cold. Current stance, she can jog on.	/r/seduction	05/12/18 12:30 AM
–	Hot and Cold - Whats my move? The function is this evening, I’ll give you an update afterwards!	/r/seduction	04/12/18 01:19 PM
–	Hot and Cold - Whats my move? That’s more then 2 cents. What a hero. Currently how I feel at the moment. Immediately stopped focusing on just her. Just to clarify I am absolutely not interested in playing games, I think she just caught me off guard with her whole demeanor it knocked my confidence abit. With that all in mind, I feel more clear headed about it now.	/r/seduction	04/12/18 01:18 PM
–	Hot and Cold - Whats my move? Interesting you say that, I went with fuck it I’m coming over...with the intention of smashing her. She didn’t respond (fell asleep she says) then messages me asking why I didn’t turn up. I think I needed her to kick me into reality, I feel a lot less angsty about it and more chill.	/r/seduction	04/12/18 01:16 PM
–	Hot and Cold - Whats my move? Both. She explicably said she likes to ‘chill’ with me.	/r/seduction	04/12/18 06:12 AM
1	Hot and Cold - Whats my move? Thanks, interesting to see advice from another female on this!	/r/seduction	04/12/18 04:50 AM
1	Hot and Cold - Whats my move? I agree, maybe played this one wrong. We live and learn.	/r/seduction	04/12/18 04:49 AM
–	Hot and Cold - Whats my move? Cheers bud for the blunt advice. It all came to a head anyway last night, lost the game in that one. She pulled out the old ‘I’m not ready for dating/relationship card’ which we all know is ‘Not ready to date/relationship’ you, I immediately controlled it and pulled the plug my end, making her feel like it’s my decision. We live and learn, try a new tactic and move one.	/r/seduction	04/12/18 04:41 AM