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[–]Menlistenhere 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If you're in a room with her and she's with other guys and girls, then make sure you treat her differently than they do. Make witty sexual remarks, neg her, question her choices and what she says. All of this should be done playfully. Also, talk to other women at the party, don't just stalk this girl. If you do this, you will catch her looking at you and being curious about what you're up to, it will also give you an advantage.
When you're alone with her, at some point you need to escalate. So yes, put your tongue down her throat and continue to escalate. If she lets herself get into a situation where she's alone with you, then she's probably comfortable with escalation so don't eats your chance. Good luck, homie.
[–]eht_amgine_enihcam3 points 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Don't do this shit lol. If she likes you already and you neg her you'll fuck up a sure thing. Nothing worse than when you're vibing and some guy comes along and tries to be the alpha of the group.
Party's real hard, lots of different variables. If you can take her back to your room pre-gaming, do you have any tasty (Bailey's) alcohol? You can tell the rest of the group you're both just going to get some beer and then sneak some with her in your room. The main point is you need some excuse. She needs plausible deniability to go to your room. If she likes you then everything will "just happen" from there if you escalate.
[–]Funkimonkey 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Parties are super tricky. Pre-party will have little time for you to develop anything. Also, def don’t tell her you like her. Just show interest by flirting - girls already know
Best plan is to want to hookup with her but not give a fuck whether it happens or not that night.
Flirt with her and chat early in the night. Then, go to chat with dude friends, flirt with other girls, enjoy the party. Check in with her later, flirt more, hangout, then leave again. Rinse and repeat.
Don’t spend too much time around her. Don’t show any care if other guys are hitting on her. Do tell her she looks hot if you feel like it. Show interest, but don’t over do it. Just one statement is fine.
As the night progresses judge how she’s reacting to you. If she’s trying to hang with you more than anyone else, then you’re gold. Find a private place to take her, lead her there, and then just kiss her.
If it’s the end of the party, suggest continuing to drink or go eat somewhere else and go somewhere private.
If the above doesn’t work either a) she wasn’t into you to begin with b) you messed up the plan somewhere or c) you got outgamed by another guy.
You don’t need any games or tricks or negs or lines or whatever. If you follow this exactly and it doesn’t work, then there was nothing else you could have done.
Bonus: if it doesn’t work and you maintain your attitude of not giving a fuck, then you will still have another chance moving forward.
Best of luck
[–]RogBlue3 points 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I recommend that if you get the chance, show your interest pre-party, flirt, light touch’s. Be slightly sexual but not overtly forward. Make it clear you are interested.
If you kiss her pre-party to the event you will consciously be wanting to be with her and guard her from other males and general fun. Ultimately being over jealous.
Instead,
Enjoy yourself like you normally would, talk to other females (don’t over flirt), just enjoy the company. She will naturally be keen to know where you are, if she sees you having a good time she will be more attracted to you.
When you do see her at intervals at the party, do the same things you did before, flirt with her, touch her mid back, her arms etc. Be consistent in showing her you are interested with body language and flirtation.
DO NOT GET PLASTERED DRUNK
There will be an opportunity to close, whether it be mid party or near the end.
A ballsy move that works for me if I’m certain she is interested and responds well to the touch tests, when I see her later in the evening I just walk up, kiss her and walk away. It will throw her off and show true confidence if you pull it off.
The rest comes naturally, don’t overthink it because she’s already game.
Good luck my friend.
[–]J_A_B_88 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
If there is one way to scare of a girl it's by telling you like her. Instead, show her your intentions by flirting, and leading the interaction.
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[–]eht_amgine_enihcam 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't use hot, comment on outfit or shoes for looks. People like it if you compliment them on something they did (choose nice outfit) rather than just genetics.
[–]bulldog_in_the_dream 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The danger of telling her you like her in your room is that you trap her and force her to make a decision there and then.
Instead of telling her with with words, you can use eye contact and touch at the party. That will charge the interaction and you'll both know you like each other.
Ideally you should signal: I want you, but I don't need you. In other words, do show sexual interest by intense eye contact and touch, but at the same time show that you'll survive without her too. E.g. don't cling to her at the party, let her talk to other people and do the same.
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