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This story is my favorite I've ever seen on this board. Cute/adorable=<3
/r/seduction18/02/19 01:42 AM
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Hey this metaphor kciks ass. I wanna suggest some ways to "beef it up" with specific examples. For instance, what would be 3 more examples that fit into the "Tinder" section? How can newbies understand what makes an exchange "fit" into that level of progress? You have a good starting thing here because the metaphor's image and feeling conveys a lot unconsciously. Add to it!!
/r/seduction12/02/19 05:53 AM
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Yes. Hence why my girlfriend does the work. \o/ Tinder is garbage for men who have even decent real life approaches
/r/seduction12/02/19 02:40 AM
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> It’s particularly funny if she’s overseas, because her music will probably be crap. HAHAHAHah. Oh man. This post was great.
/r/seduction12/02/19 02:37 AM
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psa my girlfriend found it really easy to hop on tinder and start fishing that way she just matches attractive women with us both in the pictures (maybe the pics focus primarily on her and i'm in like 2/5 of them) and she just propositions it works
/r/seduction10/02/19 01:10 AM
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useful headline
/r/seduction10/02/19 01:08 AM
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Wrong tool for the job. Go in and tell someone armed with Parts Therapy to use Parts to get rid of the desire for her to text you back. You sit down in the chair and they guide you to communicate with the part. Turn it off, send it away (I don't recommend this) or change its perspective until it's working when and how you want it to. Bonus: You might uncover more things worth exploring once you realize how easy and powerful it is to conjure up permanent changes.
/r/seduction09/02/19 01:13 AM
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> Attraction is fueled by humor, charm, smart-ass comments, unpredictability, wit, i.e. the intangible characteristics. I keep thinking, "It's time to tone this smart ass arrogant asshole thing down, she's had enough, might be bad for her self esteem" Then I remember "nope, this is why she enjoys me."
/r/seduction09/02/19 01:10 AM
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hypnotist.
/r/seduction09/02/19 01:09 AM
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presupposing that fairness exists and is something worth pursuing... just follow the old David DeAngelo rule: "leave her better than you found her," and the silver rule: "Do not do unto others what you would not want them to do to you."
/r/seduction08/02/19 01:30 AM
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Start figuring out ways to be mean-funny to people. Simultaneously, learn to take their problem not-at-all seriously. Goad them about their problem: "Oh, gee, you sure can't enjoy the rest of your week with THAT looming over you!!!" My suggestion is that you start overriding the "help someone" habit with the "enjoy their issue until they start enjoying themselves too and stop talking about it" habit, or a near-version of it. Not every time of course
/r/seduction07/02/19 11:15 PM
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i think a hypnotherapist can end that struggle for you in about 3-4 visits. source: am a hypnotherapist. check your city's local listing, call them up, ask 2-3 of them if they can do it for you
/r/seduction07/02/19 11:12 PM
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no, success is
/r/seduction24/01/19 07:27 AM
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There are girls who like texting back and forth, but you don't want to do that with your time. Loser application. If they want your attention, they can come get it in person. Warm it up via text just enough to move the conversation towards meeting up. Then do the "let's meet up at time x or time y for sushi" or whatever date you wanna go on. Small, personal suggestion: Make the date be whatever YOU wanna do that day.
/r/seduction24/01/19 07:26 AM
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The point is not that they will interact with you. The point is that you, internally, will adjust to being around them. After enough time, your expectations will adjust. You will have a set of experiences that, properly interpreted, show you, "Hey, I can talk to them casually about a topic just like everyone else." A stepping stone towards success. You also reveal a belief: "They don't like awkward guys who don't like being awkward." Do you believe that, supposing we took thirty thousand model-h…
/r/seduction24/01/19 06:21 AM
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I think you are missing: He's learned from the experiences and has stopped acting that way.
/r/seduction24/01/19 02:53 AM
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The final paragraph in this dude's post is great advice. You get to see the live version of the personality/attitude instead of the forum-board description that is vulnerable to misinterpretation.
/r/seduction24/01/19 02:50 AM
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Stop Non-jerk answer: I worked at a bottle service nightclub as a busboy for a year. My first day was literal shock at how hot the girls were. By a few months into it, they were regular people. Could've done even more to desensitize if I'd made effort to friend up with them (but I didnt). Some even made passes at me. It was literally outside of my belief system the first time it happened, and in retrospect I can tell that was the case. So, there is work to be done. Being around them helps a lot …
/r/seduction24/01/19 02:46 AM
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echo chamber
/r/seduction23/01/19 12:48 AM
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Personal opinion: Just do it quickly, < 2 mins. Say hi, introduce yourself WITH a time restraint so she knows you'll kick rocks asap. Makes you both feel comfortable that the interaction won't drag. Then respect your stated time restraint unless she expresses relief to have a distraction, or gives you some other emotive cue to stay (err on the side of caution, meaning, it better be a pretty strong signal). So like, "Hey I'm about to head back to my car, only have a moment, I just noticed..." and…
/r/seduction23/01/19 12:47 AM
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Interesting. Mine is dead so I can imagine yours doing far better
/r/seduction21/01/19 04:33 PM
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Go pay a local NLP practitioner for assistance resolving an internal emotional issue or recurring source of negativity in your life and notice yourself never see, feel or hear from it again.
/r/seduction21/01/19 03:57 PM
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this is another good answer. it'll yield a worthwhile payoff like 1 time for every 400 to 2000 attempts at best
/r/seduction21/01/19 11:29 AM
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this is better than what I do, good advice too because "what she just posted about" = what she's interested in at the moment
/r/seduction21/01/19 11:27 AM
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Coach Corey Wayne I like this guy, thanks for the suggestion. His site is simple and I'm getting ideas for like, "read about someone's submitted story of nervousness and discuss internal cues for those fears" content I could write about. Giving advice about what to say doesn't suit me but I can explain how the anxiety and nervousness I want to help with comes into being fairly well. Appreciate you.
/r/seduction14/01/19 02:08 PM
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I did what I would say is probably thousands of approaches over a few years and it still gets me sometimes, like flickers where there used to be a storm, but it's still there. Let me see if I can figure something out for you to try. This is just me making stuff up based on hypnotism or hypnotism-esque stuff I learned. Read the rest of the post and then, if you want to, go back and try from here: Go back to a recent experience where you got approach anxiety. See yourself in the scene in the momen…
/r/seduction14/01/19 01:53 PM
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I actually prefer to avoid the term now. The community helped me once many years ago (7-8) and I respect that it helps lots of men but... I don't see any need to attach "PUA" to the service I am working on. More like it's just a service that helps people with similar problems. In the meantime, the hardcore PUAs have the market's fears, problems, anxieties etc., figured out, and they are pretty close to identical to the issues my market would have. So I figure I can get some ideas on what to writ…
/r/seduction14/01/19 01:38 PM
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I'm with the dudes that say: Fun and light stuff. Just laugh. My presumption from my own experience is that you felt some feeling internally that makes you think, "Oh, I need to change the topic now because..." Nope! It's just another casual part of the night.
/r/seduction14/01/19 11:43 AM
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No desire to "instruct" PUA. Sounds like something to leave to others. I'm interested in removing the blocks that prevent guys from even starting, which is different.
/r/seduction14/01/19 11:42 AM
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You can even address the underlying triggers that cause you to clam up and start using the "body language no-no's" once you identify them. There are a few different routes to doing that which would fall under the "inner game" category.
/r/seduction14/01/19 11:39 AM
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Your analogy is low quality and addressed in the OP. Yawn.
/r/seduction14/01/19 11:35 AM
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Seems like Tinder frontloads your matches when you first sign up. Then you get fewer over time for whatever reason.
/r/seduction14/01/19 09:39 AM
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Yawn, it's below you. Smile, look him dead in the eye, flash a thumbs up sign and ignore him.
/r/seduction12/01/19 08:15 AM
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There are good experiences for you to have along the way.
/r/seduction11/01/19 07:28 AM
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When a person goes into it with no intention of learning and changing... Yeah.
/r/seduction10/01/19 11:39 PM
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It is possible to change. I've witnessed my own mind switch from "Can't do this, can't do that," to "I just took care of two things with one action." "My mind finds coincidences and opportunities aligning to improve multiple areas of my life at once."
/r/seduction10/01/19 11:37 PM
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Bizarre. I expected an argument. We both learned. Kudos.
/r/seduction10/01/19 01:56 PM
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I love this: "...I've *heard* work"
/r/seduction10/01/19 09:50 AM
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I supported your post in another thread but this is the wrong, wrong place to shit on someone. -3/10 for empathy my guy. edit: if OP sees this, keep going, you might be doing better than you think you are... in a number of ways. You can improve and have a great life.
/r/seduction10/01/19 05:24 AM
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Therapy. ​ edit: I'll even do you one better. Therapy is sold TERRIBLY. Go find me a website that has great sales copy for therapy. I'll wait. Just do an exercise for me to help sell it to yourself. You want to know if it's worth the investment of time and money right? Imagine what it would be like to see and hear yourself acting with good self esteem. What do you look like, how does it feel to be you? How many new and positive behaviors will you use that you cannot or will not now? Call up a th…
/r/seduction10/01/19 05:16 AM
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For some, this is great advice. For others, you're sending them back to worry-land when they were just fine. Not agreeing or disagreeing, just observing. The block of text starting with "this sub-reddit preaches..." and onward is great, by the way.
/r/seduction10/01/19 05:15 AM
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Go sit next to a still pond and do your best to think of nothing. Repeat. After a while, add in: "My mind is completely still." Notice what happens when your mind begins to be still and empty, even if that interrupts your emptiness a little bit. Repeat for a while and you may begin to notice how maintaining emptiness gets easier. It's an experience, not a thought. Find a public place. Repeat exercise. Never bother to think about why it's different. Just realize that it can work and that is suffi…
/r/seduction09/01/19 08:28 AM
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Without knowing anything about you: Every past experience contributing to your assessment has alternative framings. Suppose you don't know yourself as well as you do. Even the same story you're telling yourself now has thousands of other outcomes available.
/r/seduction08/01/19 01:30 AM
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I will probably have some troll find this later and use it against me but: I met a girlfriend by going in to kiss her neck two minutes after I met her in a dark nightclub. We hadn't said more than basics. I made a comment that had a lot of implied sexuality going and she was receptive so I went in. That kiss ended up being a bite on the ear by the time I was done -- because I felt her move gently. So I'm like, "She's into it, go further." There were multiple points in that interaction where I co…
/r/seduction08/01/19 01:29 AM
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Someone more qualified can write the post if they want to. I'm just a student.
/r/seduction05/01/19 09:03 AM
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Pinch your nose, make the most nasally high pitch siren noise you can, wait until you feel the vibration bothering the top of your mouth and the lower bits of your sinuses. It'll end up moving the resonance towards the front of your mouth. It might already be there, but if it isn't (mine isn't), that's where you want it. The sound carries further and sounds fuller. Better for speaking. Source: I take singing lessons. Speaking deliberately from the chest FUCKED UP my voice, now I'm working to cor…
/r/seduction05/01/19 08:04 AM
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It is a good video. One criticism: "Speaking from your chest"... bad advice. You want to speak from the mask, nowhere else.
/r/seduction05/01/19 04:55 AM
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> Main takeaway - never write anything that could potentially be taken the wrong way No thanks, I'll keep having fun telling jokes. The ones who get offended and walk away didn't make the cut. (Your post is overall very good btw, I'm just here to keep other guys from adding more limitations than they need to. Risk:reward for everything.) 2nd edit: > 3 - Put all the girls you know in a single WhatsApp broadcast list comedy. I like it but you're cut from their existence as soon as they find out.
/r/seduction25/12/18 12:03 AM
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There are therapeutic solutions to all of the addictions mentioned above. Approach anxiety, too.
/r/seduction22/12/18 02:48 AM
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" I want to practice proper protocol and avoid being disrespectful..." He also said that.
/r/seduction21/12/18 01:37 AM
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I endorse asking for a number within 5-10 msgs if not straight up asking for a date.
/r/seduction21/12/18 01:27 AM
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I also support the post. I'm just a random poster to you, the reader, but remember that you can tell when someone is feeling negative internally while they talk to you. Every time. So consider the difference: Billy does the exercises. He feels more positive overall on average. Over the next few months, people seem to like Billy more. Tracey doesn't do the exercises. She could have felt more positive overall on average with some effort. Over the next few months, she perceives no change, and forge…
/r/seduction21/12/18 01:24 AM
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Right
/r/seduction17/12/18 09:47 AM
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It's a club. It's loud. They are gonna use their nonverbal communication. Feels like you got some good rejection stories out of it. Take a moment to imagine another man experiencing those rejections, and adjust whatever is needed to sense that he feels a kind of "nothing" about those events. Maybe he feels amused or faux-offended instead. Notice that you have everything you need to feel that way about those events, because if another person can do it, so can you.
/r/seduction16/12/18 08:20 PM
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The prettiest girls have a similar range of personality "quality". I've met ones who have awful personas, and others who are saints. A variety exists.
/r/seduction16/12/18 08:13 PM
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I am curious what background provided you with that insight. (In part I am checking credentials. You won't mind.) Separately, I wonder what you'd say about fear of rejection with outside sales, and cold approaching potential clients. I have some blocks there that would be valuable to get over.
/r/seduction16/12/18 08:11 PM
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I too wonder why rejection hurts at all. Congratulations on your successes. I counted four, though you only noticed one, somehow.
/r/seduction16/12/18 10:42 AM
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"What do I do?" Start. The dude in the comments who said your belief system is fucked also might be onto something -- talking to girls is fine. Checking out girls is nothing to feel guilty about. Lots of them even *want* you to do it. So you can flip it around (if you want to) and feel guilty for NOT approaching them (choose context appropriate situations to apply this...). It's totally cool to approach women solo. If you want to be "organic," make a habit of saying hi to women as you go about y…
/r/seduction16/12/18 07:14 AM
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I recommend talking to a therapist to resolve any internal pains you have about this. It will be beneficial for you totally separate from women and game. Because it's nice to feel good internally, isn't it? Then when you've finished a few therapy sessions, and improved your internal experiences, you can notice things going better with women. ​ Outside of the above suggestions... You feel like you have to be perfect, and yet you can recognize ways in which that isn't true. For instance, you might…
/r/seduction16/12/18 06:22 AM
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Some questions to answer, just internally if you prefer... Was today a complete failure, or another learning experience? Are you "worthless," or can you name several things that are going well because of value you created for yourself? Where are other men deriving their internal sense of value? Is it only from women, or are there other ways to do it? ​ Lastly... Can you improve how you dress, groom yourself, and your range of interests? Pick up a few new hobbies FOR YOURSELF, not to improve your…
/r/seduction16/12/18 04:13 AM
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Without adding much, a compliment: It is good that you are aware of your desired outcomes, and are taking steps towards resolving issues. Keep going! :)
/r/seduction16/12/18 03:52 AM
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This post is quality.
/r/seduction16/12/18 01:04 AM
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You're fine.
/r/seduction14/12/18 06:18 AM
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On the plus side, you'll know you've made progress when this incident is funny, later.
/r/seduction11/12/18 07:18 AM
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Several years ago I found myself with similar feelings as you. I let the feelings sit and not only did they show occasionally, they also affected some of the girls who *did* choose me. Meaning that I allowed my own internal pain to ruin one gold-quality relationship, and damage another. So, say it with me: Not Their Fault. Take some time off if you need to, maybe follow /u/Uberslaughter's advice and get therapy. Negativity can be resolved in favor of a beneficial outcome for you and future partn…
/r/seduction11/12/18 07:16 AM
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I like that your name is /u/GET_IN_THE_VAN. very fitting.
/r/seduction11/12/18 07:08 AM
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Ignore her the whole time and you'll probably be just as well off.
/r/seduction10/12/18 01:43 AM
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Both work. Use logistics, which is closer?
/r/seduction10/12/18 12:32 AM
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The point on relatability is great general-purpose humor advice. A person can't figure out where the tension and release is in a joke unless they can relate.
/r/seduction10/12/18 12:29 AM
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This and remember to supply a "fake" reason like going to check out your guitar (or suitcase contents, whatever)
/r/seduction10/12/18 12:17 AM
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juuuuust a hunch.
/r/seduction08/12/18 07:13 AM
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My interpretation is that she just told you her response to the reaction she had internally. Meaning she went, "I wonder if he's right for me" -> texts you, reads response, goes "Oh, that doesn't work, nevermind" -> Out comes the "I'm not looking for that right now, I'm mostly a switch." Curious if board members would agree with me here or have another interpretation. Might be impossible to say for sure since it's text, the king of ambiguity.
/r/seduction08/12/18 06:52 AM
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Go to the gym + boxing, learn to play guitar, learn to sing, and make some fuckin' money. Congrats 20 year old me, you are a total slayer. (Also: Skip College.)
/r/seduction08/12/18 06:48 AM
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Skip it, go find a hot girl in real life.
/r/seduction08/12/18 06:47 AM
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The 5 of the 6 comments that were here before me were commendable. The board is good!
/r/seduction08/12/18 06:46 AM
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Someone wrote some text to help the same people I'm helping -- a bloo bloo!! :( :( :(
/r/seduction07/12/18 06:44 AM
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If anyone's lookin' for assistance with fears and nerves, I can help via Skype hypnotism sessions. Hit my DMs or see my recent thread on the topic.
/r/seduction07/12/18 06:21 AM
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