I will say I have never been a fan of going out and doing daygame. The first few times I did it never seemed to work out and I mostly ended up feeling like a creep. Even when the interactions went well I still left feeling as if I was doing something wrong.

Then I went out one day without the intention of meeting any girls to the mall to buy my Grandma a present. I walked around the shop but couldn't find anything good so while I was looking in one of the shops I asked the girl standing next to me what would be a cute gift.

Surprisingly she had a couple good ideas. After talking for a bit I asked if she wanted to help me look for a good present. She agreed and then we went around the mall looking for a good present. It ended up being a fun instant date and of course I got her number afterward.

What I learned is that just having something else to do that doesn't only involve picking up girls makes the whole process so much easier and less creepy.

Now when I go out to talk to girls during the day I give myself an assignment ie buy a new shirt, get a cup of coffee, or even buy a sandwich. I then pick a place where I can complete this assignment but also talk to girls. If the girl likes me, I try and get her to join me for the instant date. Whether its helping me pick out a new shirt, get a cup of coffee or a sandwich.

Having something to do other than going out to pick up girls makes it feel much less weird and helps you with where to take it next if the interaction goes well. And here's the thing you don't even have to spend that much money. A cup of coffee costs almost nothing and if you think the shirt she picked out was too expensive you can always come back the next day and return it.

Giving myself these little assignments makes doing the approaches that much easier and gives you a reason to approach in the first the place. This will make it much less weird.

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