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| 3 | How to never run out of things to sayOutline of main points: Stop filtering Stop giving such short answers i. Power of passion drills 5 questions a. Who are you? b. Where are you from? c. What do you do? d. Where are you friends? e. What are you doing? Chain of association a. Be able to associate different words with new subjects b. This is actually kind of how women talk Teasing examples a. You seem like the type of girl who ___ b. Oh man its not good to talk to you right now Ask her to talk more “Tell me more about yourself” “Wha… | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 02:31 AM |
| 2 | How to turn a woman on with just your wordsAwesome man! Yeah I have over a 100 videos on YouTube so if there is a topic that you are interested in hearing my take on just search for it on my channel and I've probably covered it. | /r/seduction | 05/04/19 03:25 AM |
| 1 | How to turn a woman on with just your wordsSummary: It's not what you say its how you say it. In this video I'm going to talk about turning a woman on with just your words. You can create sexual tension with a woman just by talking to her. 0:00 Men and women are turned on by different stimulus 0:47 Assume the attraction (Speak confidently) 1:50 Show emotion when you speak 3:55 Playfully spike her emotions (positive, negative, flatline) 7:23 Have a dominant frame 9:15 Make sure YOU are turned on as well | /r/seduction | 03/04/19 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Why women give bad dating advice to men (written portion included)Haha thanks. And I can assure you I'm plenty strong | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Why women give bad dating advice to men (written portion included)Main Points: Not all women give bad dating and pick up advice to men but most do. The truth is most people give bad information to others about dating, but most guys assume that a girl, especially a hot girl, will give good advice thanks to her gender. Unfortunately this is not true. You should always vet someone's advice before blindly following it. Here are the times in the video and the main points from them: 1:10 Women do not understand your experience - If you want to learn to fish, ask a f… | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 02:32 AM |
| 1 | How to know if a girl actually likes you or is just playing youOk I can try and write more too. I'll put some more written articles. Thanks for the support my man. | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 02:20 AM |
| 2 | How to know if a girl actually likes you or is just playing youYeah hopefully people will take more time to actually view the content as opposed to just downvoting it because its a video. Thanks for the comment. | /r/seduction | 22/03/19 10:32 PM |
| 5 | How to know if a girl actually likes you or is just playing youSummary: Although we are taught to respect women they can be very manipulative and if you are not mindful of this you WILL fall victim to it. In this video I talk about why women use men, how to spot a woman who is doing this, why most men fall victim, and the high value mentality that will prevent this from happening to you for good. Here are the timestamps. 0:51 Why women use men 2:00 Follow her actions not words 3:05 My example 5:30 List of behaviors to look for (I list them here:) - She's ho… | /r/seduction | 22/03/19 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Rejection is better than regretSummary: If a man is doing his job he should be experiencing rejection. When a lot of guys hear this however they complain that it is not fair that women don't have to do this. In this video I discuss how just because women don't experience as much rejection as men do, when it comes to dating, that doesn't mean they got the better end of the deal. I cover a few stories about how regret hurts far worse and longer than rejection does. With rejection you are learning and maximizing your potential. … | /r/seduction | 20/03/19 06:24 AM |
| 0 | How to pick up a waitress/serverSummary: Picking up a waitress can seem like a daunting task especially if you don't know if she's actually interested in you or just doing her job. In this video I give you a step by step guide on the best way I like to do it. 1:25 Take her out of the work mindset 3:00 Use her name 4:20 Get to know her 6:05 Get her phone number away from her coworkers 7:00 Talk to her in her off hours 9:10 See if she comes out with you first before investing too much | /r/seduction | 10/03/19 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Conversation topics that lead to sexSummary: It's not the topic of conversation that leads to sex but the person having the conversation. However some topics I find that lead to sex more than others are: - alcohol - partying - traveling - crazy stories The reason they lead to sex a lot is that if a girl is willing to talk about them she is probably more open to hooking up. In general talking about sex can lead to them getting more aroused but this doesn't always get you laid. Being able to talk about any subject and make it have t… | /r/seduction | 08/03/19 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Review of Transformational Mastery by JulienThank you for posting your opinion. RSD and other huge companies/cults need to be held accountable for the products they release. Since they don't sell their products on a 3rd party site its difficult to get accurate reviews. | /r/seduction | 08/03/19 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Know your worth | When to walk away from a girlSummary: The importance of being able to walk away cannot be overstated. In this video I talk about why its important to be able to walk away, when to walk away and how to do it. Remember a man who is the most dangerous is a man who knows his own worth. Too many people spend endless hours pursuing women that are bad for them when they could be spending time with those that value them. Walking away can even create attraction, however I would not recommend using that tactic to keep a relationship … | /r/seduction | 21/02/19 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Why you should be giving your number out instead of asking for hers.Giving out your number is not a good strategy for attracting high quality women. It feels good, might get you a good reaction temporarily, and seems like its saving you time. However the only girls that will go for you are ones that will usually be much below your mate value. If you're cool with that then its a good strategy | /r/seduction | 21/02/19 06:54 PM |
| 4 | I need help getting with my mom's friend.This is awesome. Just hit her up, you don't have to give an explanation. And please for the love of God tell us what happens in the end. | /r/seduction | 21/02/19 06:49 PM |
| 1 | How to get girls while travelingIt might have changed since I was there man. Don't sweat it. Some of my friends didn't even get laid. You'll figure it out just give yourself time and don't give up | /r/seduction | 19/02/19 09:40 PM |
| 1 | How to make a woman want you sexuallySummary: Most men feel unwanted sexually from women. I think a large part of this is because we tend to think of women as something they are not. There are a lot of reasons for this but certainly mainstream advice is not helping. In this I give you the truth about how to make a woman want you sexually, which is based on evolution and my own experience. I believe this to be 100% true. Innately a woman is looking for a guy that can care for her and the child she will bear. If you seem like a good … | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 08:25 AM |
| 2 | How to bring a girl home at the end of the night | Step by step guideYes you can find it here https://youtu.be/W1uucwvSpw0 | /r/seduction | 06/02/19 01:31 AM |
| 1 | "I'm not attracted to any of the girls I'm getting" | If the girls you like don't like youThanks man. But dude there are definitely women who have been and will be attracted to you. But because of your attitude you may never see it. Keep working on yourself and trust that it will happen because if you work on yourself it will. I mean what's the alternative? | /r/seduction | 30/01/19 05:45 PM |
| 4 | "I'm not attracted to any of the girls I'm getting" | If the girls you like don't like youSummary/Main Points: Many guys say that they can get some level of success with women, but many times they say that they are not getting the girls they actually want or are attracted to. Unfortunately there are no quick fixes for this. Basically this means your mate value is not high enough. I talk about how to get this up and how to make your mate value look like it is high, which is just as important. Many students I have are really awesome guys but the way the woman perceives them is not so g… | /r/seduction | 30/01/19 07:21 AM |
| 2 | How to tell great stories and be captivatingSummary: It's no secret that women love the story and if you are a good storyteller you will be able to command the room and her attention. Here are some tips on how to do that from all my years of public speaking and talking to women. 0:31 A good storyteller captivates 1:12 Bring them into the story 2:18 Show emotion 3:53 Have a point 5:18 Start with a baiting sentence 7:01 Vary it up 9:03 Pay attention but don't expect them to react | /r/seduction | 23/01/19 07:50 AM |
| 1 | How to stop feeling bitter and angry towards womenYes a lot of guys do need to see this. Although in the manosphere its a tough thing to admit to yourself | /r/seduction | 21/01/19 05:10 PM |
| 6 | How to stop feeling bitter and angry towards womenSummary/TLDW: It is understandable for that many guys feel bitter and resentful when it comes to women but in the end having these feeling will only hurt you. In this video I talk about the way I stopped feeling like this. 0:00 Its understandable 1:50 You're not unique with these feelings 3:04 Start asking yourself why 4:12 Take an honest look at yourself 6:02 Men get better with age 6:58 Understand women more 7:45 Practical tips 8:35 Focus on the positive 9:19 Don't give up | /r/seduction | 21/01/19 03:36 AM |
| 1 | How to get a girlfriend | Weekly group activitiesSummary/TLDW: Getting a girlfriend means attracting her in the ways that we talk about on this channel, but also building a good foundation where you two can see if you get along. A great way to do this is using weekly group activities. There are other ways but these are ones that everyone can do. 0:37 Bars not best place 1:17 Group activities 2:50 Set it up to raise your mate value 3:46 Don't dive in too quick 5:38 The right way to have that conversation 6:39 Review | /r/seduction | 17/01/19 09:36 PM |
| 1 | How to succeed with women as an introvertSummary: There's nothing wrong with being an introvert but it can make meeting women tough. I talk about my story and some tips to help you fix this problem. 0:32 What is an introvert 1:37 Being introverted is not an excuse to live in fear 2:17 Focus on others 4:18 Start with positive reactions 5:45 Relax 6:28 Go out | /r/seduction | 14/01/19 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Why women cockblock and how to prevent this from happening to youSummary: Dealing with a woman's friends is an incredibly important part of the process. I've noticed a lot of guys tend to make the same mistakes I made awhile back. In this video I tell you why women do this and the step by step process I use for handling a girl's friends. 0:38 Main reason they cockblock 2:38 Female friendship dynamics 6:20 Talk to the girl you like first 7:23 Introduce yourself to the friends 10:00 Check in on her friends intermittently 11:52 Show you're a trustworthy guy 12… | /r/seduction | 09/01/19 06:13 PM |
| 1 | How to bring a girl home at the end of the night | Step by step guideIts weird I get some guys telling me I'm ugly and others saying I am good looking. I think I'm decent but the fact of the matter is I used to suck with women and looked exactly the same as I do now back then. Doing these things helped me. | /r/seduction | 28/12/18 09:46 PM |
| 2 | How to bring a girl home at the end of the night | Step by step guideWhy don't you think my videos are applicable to you? Do you think that you are not good looking enough? | /r/seduction | 27/12/18 05:19 PM |
| 5 | How to bring a girl home at the end of the night | Step by step guideSummary: This should seem obvious to many of you guys but it can help those who are new and those who want some more consistency. Some guys tell me that they have no problem talking to girls and getting them attracted, but they don't know what to do when it comes time to bring them back to their place. In this video I'm going to go over a step by step process that should help those guys out. It's certainly not a strict guideline but more of a framework. 1:23 Have a solid interaction beforehand… | /r/seduction | 27/12/18 07:06 AM |
| 1 | "Women go for an experience" 4 steps to having fun while you're outSent you an email | /r/seduction | 21/12/18 04:35 AM |
| 2 | "Women go for an experience" 4 steps to having fun while you're outHaha don't get tied up in the specifics. Making it into a VIP table was the goal so everything we did needed to VIP. But I mean you can literally say anything is VIP if you want to. We turned the tables so it was all inclusive. Pretended that we had a bottle of Cristal and acted like we were better than everyone. Ironically people thought it was a little silly at first but after enough people played along everyone wanted to be part of the "VIP table" which is something we had just made up an hou… | /r/seduction | 19/12/18 10:15 PM |
| 1 | "Women go for an experience" 4 steps to having fun while you're outMy name is Lloyd man. email is [email protected] | /r/seduction | 19/12/18 10:10 PM |
| 1 | "Women go for an experience" 4 steps to having fun while you're outHaha of course. Thanks for tuning in. | /r/seduction | 19/12/18 08:27 PM |
| 4 | "Women go for an experience" 4 steps to having fun while you're outthanks man hope to be less unknown in the future. Trying to change this game. | /r/seduction | 19/12/18 07:27 PM |
| 4 | "Women go for an experience" 4 steps to having fun while you're out"overly detailed PUA advice"... yep that's why my videos exist | /r/seduction | 19/12/18 07:26 PM |
| 29 | "Women go for an experience" 4 steps to having fun while you're outSummary: If you are not good looking or rich the best way to get hot girls at bars or clubs is to be fun. Many guys talk in vague terms about this but I am actually going to give you steps on how I go about my night to have the most fun and bring women into your fun. In a separate video I will go over more specific examples. 1:02 Stop judging yourself and others 3:36 Move around more 4:17 Get positive references 6:00 Bring people into the party 7:42 Example | /r/seduction | 19/12/18 06:52 AM |
| 2 | How to daygame without feeling "weird"Summary: Many of my students suffer from a lot of approach anxiety and feeling creepy when talking to girls during the day. I would get these feelings frequently as well no matter how often or how much practice I would put in. The classic pick up ideas here are just to go out and push those weird feelings down. However talking to girls should feel more natural, the way I like to accomplish this is to have something else to do besides trying to hit on girls. 0:25 Typical advice 0:52 Give yourse… | /r/seduction | 12/12/18 05:33 PM |
| 2 | How to do daygame without feeling "weird"Exactly man | /r/seduction | 11/12/18 06:25 AM |
| 1 | How to get her interested right from the start | How to hook the setSummary: The best way to get a girl, or really anyone, interested in you from the start is to bring value at the beginning of the interaction. Value can take a variety of forms but the best way, when you are out, is to bring fun. Fun is what everyone is looking to have when they go out if you are where the fun is, girls will follow you. 1:00 Provide value to the interaction 1:24 Be fun 2:22 Bring value thru conversation 3:06 Know your area 4:15 Provide a fun experience 5:03 Learn to enjoy yourse… | /r/seduction | 06/12/18 05:41 AM |
| 20 | "Jerk off smarter" Proven tips to last longer in bedSummary: A lot of guys stress about their sexual performance especially in this area. Hopefully after you see this video you'll stop worrying about the problem so much and take steps to start correcting it. The tips are quite simple to implement. 0:50 Vaginal sex usually is 5-7min 1:21 Don't stress and Be ready for round 2 2:25 Practice mindfulness (meditate) 3:15 Train your mind through masturbation 4:23 Figure out the trouble positions 4:45 Make sure you're comfortable with your partner 7:32 G… | /r/seduction | 04/12/18 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Why she says "no" at the last minute and what to do about it (LMR)If it works for you man then awesome. Even if you didn't like that part there still should have been a lot of good info in there. Hopefully it helped you out. And yes I am in the process of getting a new assistant so I can get more infield up | /r/seduction | 01/12/18 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Why she says "no" at the last minute and what to do about it (LMR)If she's not comfortable enough to give a hard "no" what makes you think she'll be comfortable enough to disobey you commanding her to say she wants to fuck you? | /r/seduction | 30/11/18 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Why she says "no" at the last minute and what to do about it (LMR)good plan | /r/seduction | 30/11/18 07:40 PM |
| 3 | Why she says "no" at the last minute and what to do about it (LMR)Summary/TL;DW: This is a very touchy subject where there is a lot of misinformation. Obviously if a girl doesn't want to have sex, don't make her. However if it seems like she wanted to and then abruptly changes her mind you either misread the situation or something happened to make her change her mind. In this video I'm going to go over ways to prevent this. 0:54 Men and women like sex in different ways 2:40 Make sure your place is nice 3:23 Don't go for it right away 4:07 Have something to do … | /r/seduction | 30/11/18 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Australian University game as a STEM major? Have next to no opportunities to even MEET girls.yes | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 05:53 PM |
| 4 | How to get a girl's phone number without being creepy or awkwardSummary: You're talking to a girl and it seems like its going well but then it becomes time to ask for the phone number. At this point a lot of guys panic or don't know what to do. In this video I'm going to talk about the best way to ask for a girl's number or social media without making it creepy or awkward. 0:30 Have a solid interaction 1:08 Have a reason to get the number 2:43 The way you ask is important 3:47 Advanced ways 5:25 It's better to ask than not to ask In reality getting a phone… | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Australian University game as a STEM major? Have next to no opportunities to even MEET girls.^^This. Get involved in clubs that have girls in them that interest you. Remember to be patient here. You will not join a club and immediately start having girls wanting to fuck you. Women take time here, like months. I had this problem to at University as I was a physics major. | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 04:20 PM |
| 3 | How to demonstrate leadership/assertiveness and attract womenSummary/TLDW: Women in all cultures are attracted to men who lead, however showing true leadership can be difficult in the modern era when we are out. In this I talk about some of the little things I do to demonstrate leadership and assertiveness when I am out at a bar, a date or just talking to a girl I like. 0:48 Navigating crowds 1:38 Ordering things 2:48 Making plans 4:24 Handling situations 5:28 Leading the conversation 6:36 Own your space 7:14 Be kind 8:49 Show concern for her safety | /r/seduction | 19/11/18 06:44 AM |
| 0 | Just because a girl "likes" you doesn't mean she is a good fit for youThis is from a written post I did last week which was pretty popular. If you want you can read it instead of watching the video and it provides a pretty good summary of the main points. | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 08:04 AM |
| 2 | How do some of you guys hook up with 50+ girls in a Year?Yes a lot of pick up guys use this and sometimes I have to just roll my eyes that they are using this proof that their method works, but being able to find your niche is important. You might not get to bang a new chick in that niche everyday but you will have a lot of selection and be able to pick the best girls for you. | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 07:38 AM |
| 1 | How do some of you guys hook up with 50+ girls in a Year?I just turned 27 and really only started getting laid when I was 23 | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 07:36 AM |
| 1 | How do some of you guys hook up with 50+ girls in a Year?I've gotten Chlamydia twice from like 200+ girls. Probably have HPV but that is impossible to test for in men, and most likely have herpes too although I've never gotten any symptoms and my tests have come back negative for everything. Most of the hysteria around STDs is from old school prudes trying to discourage the youth from promiscuity. | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 07:33 AM |
| 27 | How do some of you guys hook up with 50+ girls in a Year?Ok so I did 50 girls two years in a row. One was while I was traveling in Asia and the other was in San Francisco. In both cases I was going out A LOT. In SF I was going out like 5 nights a week every single week and basically got a new girl every week on average. While I was traveling I was also going out a lot and it was just way easier. Girls were much more down to hook up while they are on vacation or in a foreign country. I could sleep with a new girl pretty much every other day. You have t… | /r/seduction | 14/11/18 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Any tips for hostels?I went to Cambodia, Thailand, Laos, Vietnam staying for awhile in each city. In Thailand my favorite spot was Pai. | /r/seduction | 11/11/18 08:02 PM |
| 3 | Just because a girl "likes" you doesn't mean she is a good fit for youbahaha it used to be for me too. This could also be interpreted as stop spending all your time pursuing women who are being difficult. Put in an effort but also keep trying to find other women that will not give you so much of a headache | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Any tips for hostels?Some hostels will suck, find the biggest loudest party hostel in the center of town. The way you find this is usually by word of mouth. Hostelworld and other sites like that are really a mixed bag I've found. If you're in SE Asia I may be able to give you some recommendations | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 10:21 PM |
| 2 | The person who moves less in the conversation usually has more powerHoly cow a positive comment. Thanks homie haha | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 07:15 AM |
| 2 | Hey there, are these good times to hit on a girl at parties?If you are wondering what to do next in situations like these, ask yourself instead "what would be fun for the two of us?" Whatever that is do that. If she's still hanging around you towards the end of the night see if she's down to hang out at your place. That is if you are trying to get laid. You have to figure out what you want first and then do it. | /r/seduction | 06/11/18 06:02 AM |
| 1 | An extraordinary dating life requires doing extraordinary thingsThanks for watching me channel my inner Gary Vaynerchuk for this one | /r/seduction | 24/10/18 07:49 AM |
| 2 | How to make high quality friends as an adultSummary TL/DW: Navigating the modern world to find high quality, close friends can be difficult despite what common knowledge might tell us. If you have a good group of friends not only will this get you to meet attractive women but it will also boost your social status and will give you a happy life. In this video I lay out all the strategies that have worked for me and my friends. 0:00 Making friends in the modern era 1:36 Go out 1:49 Make an effort 2:14 Don't be selfish 2:52 Give more than … | /r/seduction | 22/10/18 03:15 AM |
| 2 | If you want an extraordinary dating life you must do extraordinary thingsThanks man. With daygame I find that hitting on random girls on the street has very little success. The only girls I really ever got were either visiting or foreigners. Most of the infield footage you see of this are those girls actually. Try finding social events during the day. I usually hit up places like Dolores Park in San Francisco where there are tons of people talking to each other. Where do you think you are at right now with women? | /r/seduction | 20/10/18 09:23 PM |
| 1 | If you want an extraordinary dating life you must do extraordinary thingsAwesome man good luck to you | /r/seduction | 19/10/18 09:07 PM |
| 2 | If you want an extraordinary dating life you must do extraordinary thingsIt's not 90% how they look and dress | /r/seduction | 19/10/18 06:07 PM |
| 2 | If you want an extraordinary dating life you must do extraordinary thingsI don't really go out to clubs. Bars mostly. And going as often as I did is considered extraordinary. Most people only go out maybe once a week or every other week. I put in 10x the work and am 10x better at bringing girls home because of it. If you don't care about being able to bring girls home then this is probably not the path for you. | /r/seduction | 19/10/18 06:05 PM |
| -1 | If you want an extraordinary dating life you must do extraordinary thingsExactly. And for the record I was going out to practice hitting on girls. I love a good party but that's not why I was going out. | /r/seduction | 19/10/18 05:56 PM |
| 4 | Does anyone ever feel lonelier as you get better at seduction?Went through this too man. I was getting a new girl every week and felt lonelier than ever. This is what I did. Have a stable group of close friends. I like my squad of dudes that I hang out with and also some female friends. If you have good close friends that care about you, then everything else can be handled. Also now you have a group to share your awesome stories with and that's almost half the fun | /r/seduction | 17/10/18 08:53 PM |
| 3 | 5 questions I ask every girl when I'm out at a barSummary TL/DW: Although no two conversations are exactly alike I find that I end up asking the same questions when I meet a girl at a bar or when I’m out and about. I believe these, especially the last two, are necessary if you are looking to hook up with or at least make progress with a girl. The first three are just basic small talk questions that you probably already know but are good to default to. 0:49 Who are you? 1:12 What do you do? 1:48 Where are you from? 2:29 Who are you here with? 4:… | /r/seduction | 17/10/18 05:42 PM |
| 3 | I'm a straight female and welcome any serious questions from guys wanting advice on how to approach women/dating etc. (if this isn't the right place to post - sorry!)If you were 19 and giving advice I'm not sure anyone would take it seriously. lol Definitely, things get heated and I don't like how men and women have to take a side on this | /r/seduction | 17/10/18 04:57 AM |
| 14 | I'm a straight female and welcome any serious questions from guys wanting advice on how to approach women/dating etc. (if this isn't the right place to post - sorry!)Probably going to regret asking this but what are your thoughts on new wave feminism? Do you think this effects how guys should approach women? Also how old are you? | /r/seduction | 17/10/18 04:12 AM |
| 4 | Yo reddit seducers, how do you manage work-life and seduction ?whenever I hear the phrase "work-life balance" I feel physically ill For me I used to go out 5 nights a week with a full time shitty job that I hated and was terrible at. I think you can be a reasonably good employee and go out at least 3. There are also options to hit up happy hours which last from 5 - 9pm and can still give you enough time to get back and get a decent amount of sleep. | /r/seduction | 17/10/18 04:10 AM |
| 3 | 5 questions I ask almost every girl when I'm at the bar or out and aboutNice man. Yeah the last two are the most important! | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 04:58 PM |
| 0 | How to not care about women and attract them: "it's not that you need to stop caring about women, it's that you need to have a higher purpose"Summary TL/DW: I used to hear this all the time from older guys and my friends who thought they were naturals. It seems really counterintuitive, but what they really mean is to have a higher purpose than women. 0:44 Have a higher purpose 1:15 You still need to be going out and practicing 3:40 If you don't know your purpose 6:00 Focus on self-improvement if nothing else 8:20 Other resources/summary | /r/seduction | 09/10/18 05:03 AM |
| 1 | How to overcome crippling depression and start succeeding with women (my story)TL/DW: I don't really have a summary for this video it's just me telling my story. Basically what I did was I started writing down all the things that were making me unhappy. It can be hard at first but once you start tackling those then you can make slow incremental improvements to be less and less unhappy. From there I was finally able to have enough energy to start hitting on girls. | /r/seduction | 04/10/18 06:08 AM |
| 1 | How to get girls while travelingDude I just gave you an example. But you still assumed because he succeeded that he was attractive even though I said specifically he wasn't. I would love to help you but I cannot if this is your belief. | /r/seduction | 03/10/18 06:26 AM |
| 1 | How to get girls while travelingYeah I know I was hoping you would be more specific to what you are self-conscious about. In any case there were a lot of people traveling that were not good looking that had sex with some super fine girls. One guy I remember during Castaways was fat, ugly and just overall disgusting, but he was one of the staff and was incredibly social and confident. He ended up sleeping with the hottest girl on the trip the first night. In short, good looks will help you but confidence, social value, and conn… | /r/seduction | 03/10/18 03:49 AM |
| 1 | How to get girls while travelingWhat about yourself do you think is not attractive? | /r/seduction | 03/10/18 01:08 AM |
| 7 | How to ask a girl for her number"Getting her number isn't this big, scary, and stressful occurrence." Absolutely man. I don't know if I think about all the stuff that you said but a cool easy line you can use is "I have to go but I'd love to continue this conversation with you.." then she'll usually give you her number if she likes you. | /r/seduction | 02/10/18 06:13 AM |
| 2 | How to get girls while travelingSummary TL/DW: It is much easier to find and hook up with girls when you are traveling if you do the right things. I had no luck with the ladies the first time I went traveling but the second time had tons of success. In this video, I'll tell you about how I got girls while I was traveling through Southeast Asia for a year, and what I learned from my mistakes. 1:03 Stay at a good hostel 3:12 Meet as many people as you can 3:50 Do group activities 5:45 Go out and have fun! 7:30 If you just want b… | /r/seduction | 01/10/18 07:43 PM |
| 4 | What to do when a girl looks at you or (How to pick up a girl at the bar)Written Summary: So, let’s say you’re at the bar and you catch a girl making eye contact with you. What should you do? Well this isn’t a 100% chance that she’s checking you out but it is more than enough of a sign to go up and talk to her. I wouldn’t immediately drop everything and go rushing over to her but play it cool. Maybe finish your drink talk to your homies for another couple minutes and then head over to her. You don’t have to say anything too crazy if I can’t think of anything I usuall… | /r/seduction | 27/09/18 02:47 PM |
| 7 | What to do when a girl at you or (How to pick up a girl at the bar)Written summary So, let’s say you’re at the bar and you catch a girl making eye contact with you. What should you do? Well, this isn’t a 100% chance that she’s checking you out but it is more than enough of a sign to go up and talk to her. I wouldn’t immediately drop everything and go rushing over to her but play it cool. Maybe finish your drink talk to your homies for another couple minutes and then head over to her. You don’t have to say anything too crazy if I can’t think of anything I usuall… | /r/seduction | 27/09/18 04:10 AM |
| 2 | How to get a girl to think about you nonstopI like to think of it as just starting a conversation. Also the more you go out the more realize how little people around you care about what is going on. I think a big reason people get nervous is caring what others around them might think. Everyone gets nervous it's those who push through it and aren't slowed down by the awkward situations that succeed. Good luck my man! | /r/seduction | 27/09/18 04:04 AM |
| 1 | How to compete with Frats for sorority girls? I'm not sure what I can offer to make them want to hang out with me instead of going to frat parties.I'm not sure. For some, it might, but you'd have to talk to the guys in the fraternity first to find out what they really need. Also, dude, I forgot to tell you that the best girls to hit up might be the seniors. Freshman girls are usually dumb enough to go for the idiot frat boys but the seniors are almost always going for older guys outside of the school by this point. Anyway best of luck and hope this helped | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 04:14 PM |
| 1 | How to get a girl to think about you nonstopthanks homie just trying to provide some value for everyone | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 03:56 PM |
| 2 | How to compete with Frats for sorority girls? I'm not sure what I can offer to make them want to hang out with me instead of going to frat parties.Your solutions all sound reasonable. Cold approaching for friends on a college campus does not sound like a good solution. But find out what other extra curricular activities these frat bros do besides hit the gym. Club sports? Events? Classes? Sign up for those and make as many friends as you can with dumbest and frattiest of these guys. Once they see you're a chill dude and are old enough to buy beer you'll have no problem getting into all their parties. At any other place in life, your value … | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 04:36 AM |
| 4 | How to get a girl to think about you nonstopSummary TL/DR: The way to get a girl to be thinking about you a lot is to embody all the attractive traits we talk about in this channel and add an aura of mystery to yourself. You want to be revealing but not too revealing. Validation is also part of the equation. If she is seeking your validation, then she is going to be thinking about you A LOT. However, playing with this can only work for a short amount of time though. Remember to keep going out so you have options, a lot of times this will … | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Went Clubbing Solo Yet AgainSounds like you were being a bit boring. When you are at the club girls are trying to have fun so if they are around a guy who is bringing their energy level down they will gravitate to whatever or whomever will bring it back up. Think of fun things to do. Maybe you could go dance, or go get a drink, or maybe you could introduce them to some of your friends. | /r/seduction | 24/09/18 08:57 PM |
| 3 | What to do if she never texts first and you are always the one to initiate contactSummary TL/DR: At the beginning, when you first get her number, the guy is usually the one to pursue. However, if you've been talking to a girl for a bit and you are always the one to initiate then something is up. There are a lot of tips and tricks I can give you to try to get a girl to message you but that won't solve the underlying problem. 0:30 Guy usually pursues at the beginning 1:00 Don't message her for a week 1:55 Post stories on Instagram 3:16 She's not making you a priority 4:50 My ex… | /r/seduction | 22/09/18 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Female lurker insight to cold approached and catcalling.Thank you for posting this and trust me I am rooting for you to feel safer and more confident but you honestly have to stop being the victim in this situation if you want to improve your life. You're 22 and only been on one date, these feelings are clearly holding you back and they won't get any better if you continue to blame other people for them. | /r/seduction | 22/09/18 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Went Clubbing Solo Yet AgainHey man I made this step by step guide to going out solo video, hope it helps https://youtu.be/K41O98cKKpg. I think you should also focus on getting some wingmen and people to go out with you. No matter how good you are going out alone all the time will drive you crazy. You can meet guys through hobbies or us RSD inner circle to find guys to go out with in your city. | /r/seduction | 22/09/18 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Examples of how to tease a girl - pick a few of these and make them your own (just don't overdo it)Summary Tl/DW: Learning to tease a girl is an important skill in talking to women. It is my favorite thing to do when I am flirting with a girl I like. Here are a bunch of examples of lines I use to tease girls. Watch and pick one or two you think you could pull off. Remember it's all in the delivery so don't be afraid to mess up. If you feel like a line wouldn't work for you then don't use it! All of these have worked for me but there are times where they didn't work. The context and situation … | /r/seduction | 10/09/18 11:54 PM |
| 4 | How to be persistent without being needySummary TL/DW:Pursuing a girl seems like an inherently needy activity. So how do you do it in a way without coming across as such? Well, the first aspect is having the right mindset. Most women like being pursued or picked by a guy that has a lot of options. If you pursue her in the right way, playful and fun, then you will have a lot more success. Women frequently come around. 0:00 Be playfully persistent and have the right mindset 1:33 Invite them to something fun 2:25 My example 4:30 How to k… | /r/seduction | 08/09/18 06:24 PM |
| 1 | You are screwing yourself by not going solo.I have a lot of experience from going out solo. I traveled solo for a year and used to go out every week by myself. During this time I slept with hundreds of women and came up with a system after not even being able to work up the courage to approach at first. Here is the video https://youtu.be/K41O98cKKpg | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Dale Carnegie's Core Principles in "How To Win Friends and Influence People" are incredibly useful for everyday interactions with everyone. Try incorporating one of these each day.I have seen this posted about a dozen times here | /r/seduction | 04/09/18 06:18 PM |
| 3 | "Treat her like your kid sister" - Examples of how to tease a girl - Steal some of these and make them your ownSo it's all about the delivery. I've used pretty much all of these and made a girl laugh with them. When I first started teasing girls my lines were more or less the same but they did not work as well and I even offended some girls. The context and situation matter a lot and that's why recommend you pick a few that you feel like you could pull off and practice! In the end though, sometimes if the girl doesn't laugh and feel good from your teasing then maybe that's not someone who you should purs… | /r/seduction | 30/08/18 11:21 PM |
| 9 | "Treat her like your kid sister" - Examples of how to tease a girl - Steal some of these and make them your ownExactly, that's why I said "pick one or two of these you think you could pull off." Some will work for some people, some won't work for others. Well said man. | /r/seduction | 30/08/18 05:42 PM |
| 7 | Is there a guide for solo-travelers or solo club game as a traveler?Most of the advice here is pretty good. I just disagree with the anti-American sentiment. Most just don't like Trump. I traveled solo for 9 months in Asia and came up with a step by step guide for this sort of thing. https://youtu.be/K41O98cKKpg I was extremely successful with women while traveling and really anyone can as well. It's the best and easiest way to get laid honestly. | /r/seduction | 30/08/18 01:48 AM |
| -18 | How to get a girl back after you've messed up (When she says "let's just be friends")Holy cow dude. Cheeeeel. This is just to get a girl you like back, no need to make it overcomplicated | /r/seduction | 28/08/18 05:34 AM |
| 2 | im 29, and trying to learn how to flirt with girls for the first time in my adult life.....Excellent job cleaning up homie. My first recommendation to you is to get some hobbies and other interests. You can meet better friends who will love the new you and also women as well. Depending on the hobby. Going from no experience to cold approach will probably not be the best technique for you. | /r/seduction | 28/08/18 05:28 AM |
| 2 | Indirectly opening a girl at the park and getting her numberGreat question. I sometimes go in with more intent but in this case, I didn't. I tease her a little bit to build attraction which is why she showed up later. If I hadn't been with the girl and was trying to bang her I would have to show my intent then, otherwise, it would end up with us just being pals or nothing at all. It's not always necessary to show intent right away but you have to at some point in the if you want it to go anywhere. In fact, showing too much intent right away can hurt you. | /r/seduction | 25/08/18 02:40 AM |
| 1 | I feel way more confident and successful when speaking in English (than in my mother's language)/I have two peronalities, depending on the language I speak inWhat's your mother language dude? | /r/seduction | 24/08/18 04:21 PM |
| 7 | Indirectly opening a girl at the park and getting her numberWhen I first talked about hanging out she replied with "I'm being introverted today" some guys might have just given up at that point | /r/seduction | 24/08/18 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Indirectly opening a girl at the park and getting her numberbahaha I had to look that one up | /r/seduction | 24/08/18 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Indirectly opening a girl at the park and getting her numberIt's a good spot | /r/seduction | 24/08/18 04:15 PM |
| 7 | Indirectly opening a girl at the park and getting her numberexactly | /r/seduction | 24/08/18 05:30 AM |
| 7 | Indirectly opening a girl at the park and getting her numberYep. The goal was to show anyone can do this. | /r/seduction | 24/08/18 05:30 AM |
| 29 | Indirectly opening a girl at the park and getting her numberSummary TL/DW: Here is a quick video my buddy got of me while we were walking through the park. This was the second girl I talked to. Basically, I just sat down next to her, had a pretty normal conversation and got her number. She came to meet up later that day but I was already with a girl that I liked so nothing happened but she was pretty cool. Here are the major points and breakdown: Approach indirectly Time constraint Logistics (where she is from what she's doing here) Normal conversation O… | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 11:27 PM |
| 23 | If, by Rudyard Kipling. Pretty damn good advice. Almost a blueprint for frame.Probably the best poem about how to get through life, ever | /r/seduction | 21/08/18 01:02 PM |
| 4 | How to flirt over text (with examples and breakdown)Knowing how to flirt over text is a fine art. The way to express yourself using this medium can take time. But following these examples of what a boring texter sends and what an exciting charming guy sends, you'll get an idea of how its done. 0:28 - A boring text example 4:05 - A flirty text example 7:33 - closing statements | /r/seduction | 21/08/18 04:10 AM |
| 3 | A few ways to stop guys from stealing your girl (Amoging without being a dick)Summary TL/DW: I know from my appearance you probably think I'm the guy who would be the one trying to steal your girl but it actually used to happen to me a lot until I learned what I was doing wrong lol. When you are out most people are trying to have a good time, however, some guys will come in and try and steal your girl if they think they can. I talk about how to avoid this and a crazy story I had regarding this. Spoiler: don't get into fights! Be more man to woman Don't get flustered Be ni… | /r/seduction | 09/08/18 04:55 AM |
| 10 | What are some flirty, funny and teasing texts to send a girl when she doesn’t reply for a while?the answers displayed here are appalling. They either show the level of IQ on this post or how ridiculous Tinder really is | /r/seduction | 07/08/18 02:55 AM |
| 1 | What to do if you are getting a lot of make-outs but not bringing any girls homeYes, it's tough to maintain tension when you go physical right off the bat. Things should be increasing, however slowly. | /r/seduction | 06/08/18 07:34 PM |
| 1 | What to do if you are getting a lot of make-outs but not bringing any girls homeThat could be a reason but it's far more likely the guy is going for it too soon and not building up enough attraction and comfort first. | /r/seduction | 06/08/18 07:05 PM |
| 8 | What to do if you are getting a lot of make-outs but not bringing any girls homeSummary TL/DW: If you are going out and making out with a bunch of girls but aren't able to bring any of them home with you, then you need to change up your game. Stop going for the make-out so soon and focus on building attraction. This is a pretty common problem I see a lot of new guys running into because they get a little bit of success and forget the fundamentals. It happened to me as well, which I talk about in the video. | /r/seduction | 06/08/18 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Youtube Infields rely on the tourist angle for easy conversation?Yes this is true but there is more to it than that | /r/seduction | 06/08/18 05:50 PM |
| 2 | The female perspective of pick up and seduction (interview with a girl)Summary TL/DW: It's good to hear the other side 0:30 Why understanding women is important for men 1:43 Men are stronger than women 3:30 How women judge each other 5:28 How society judges women 6:52 How women judge themselves 9:01 Ways to make women feel good about themselves | /r/seduction | 04/08/18 06:31 PM |
| 2 | 23 Kissless Virgin idk wtf to do.Sounds like you have to start doing more stuff to make you feel more confident. What do you think that would be for you? Getting in shape? Becoming proficient at something? | /r/seduction | 04/08/18 06:23 PM |
| 1 | 23 Kissless Virgin idk wtf to do.No, I'm not suggesting that, if you are doing group activities with women and go out, then you definitely have girls that want to fuck you. You are either not seeing it or you do and you don't think these women are attractive. | /r/seduction | 03/08/18 05:32 PM |
| 3 | 23 Kissless Virgin idk wtf to do.Lifestyle changes are necessary. Start engaging in group activities where you can meet women. It's cool to work on yourself but you've been wallowing in your own self-pity long enough, time to get out there. | /r/seduction | 02/08/18 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Things women wish men knew about them (I interview my female friend)In this video, I talk to my friend about all the things women wish men knew about them. I think hearing this will help cut down on some of the frustration. It's nice to hear her side of the story in all of this. 0:30 Why understanding women is important for men 1:43 Men are stronger than women 3:30 How women judge each other 5:28 How society judges women 6:52 How women judge themselves 9:01 Ways to make women feel good about themselves | /r/seduction | 02/08/18 07:07 AM |
| 3 | Easy fun ways to get physical with a girlIt's kind of a playful hug from the side you can use on short girls. The people's elbow is for Steve Austin. Not sure if he's used that in pick up | /r/seduction | 01/08/18 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Anyone recommend any hobbies?I did a post where I went over places that are not bars in clubs that are great to meet women and develop good skills, Improv, dancing and intramural sports might interest you. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/7zl4ey/7_places_to_meet_women_that_arent_bars_and_clubs/ | /r/seduction | 31/07/18 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Easy fun ways to get physical with a girlI show BJJ moves to girls all the time | /r/seduction | 31/07/18 05:48 PM |
| 2 | How to get over a girl you are falling for | or how to deal with being in scarcityTL/DW: When you are going out a lot it's pretty common to fall for a girl. There's nothing wrong with falling for a girl but if you've only known her briefly, this is bad. What this means is that you are in scarcity. Here's how to realize what's going on and how to get out of it. 0:47 You are in scarcity 1:41 It happens to me too 2:55 Realize you don't even know her 4:25 You are afraid of ground zero 5:35 Be the man who you want to be 6:14 She's not better than you | /r/seduction | 31/07/18 04:16 AM |
| 15 | Easy fun ways to get physical with a girlPalm reading inspecting their manicure comparing who is more tan that's just off the top of my head | /r/seduction | 31/07/18 04:12 AM |
| 4 | How to hook up at a music festival ?drugs | /r/seduction | 31/07/18 01:44 AM |
| 2 | How to approach sets with guys in them (mixed sets)Fuck ya that'll get me to 12 | /r/seduction | 28/07/18 05:42 PM |
| 1 | How to approach sets with guys in them (mixed sets)Haha thanks homie. About only 7 people have watched tho lol | /r/seduction | 28/07/18 03:06 AM |
| 1 | How to approach sets with guys in them (mixed sets)Most guys are intimidated about going up and talking to groups of guys and girls with the intention of talking to the women. You more or less have to treat the guys like ugly girls with a few key differences. I go over how to approach, manage the group and eventually bring the girl you like away from the group. Approach lightly (don't rush in) Find out how everyone knows each other If she just met the guys then be friendly but mostly ignore them If she's friends with them, be cool with them Don'… | /r/seduction | 27/07/18 09:39 PM |
| 1 | How to handle mixed sets | Step by step guide from approach to pullSummary TL/DW:Most guys are intimidated about going up and talking to groups of guys and girls with the intention of talking to the women. You more or less have to treat the guys like ugly girls with a few key differences. I go over how to approach, manage the group and eventually bring the girl you like away from the group. Approach lightly Find out how everyone knows each other If she just met the guys then be friendly but mostly ignore them If she's friends with them, be cool with them Don't … | /r/seduction | 27/07/18 07:36 AM |
| 1 | How did you overcome Approach Anxiety?You never really get over it but it gets less and less the more you go out and have positive experiences. How long have you been going out for? | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 09:52 PM |
| 1 | How to meet up with a girl over text | The four super simple stepsMeeting a girl in person is why you got the number in the first place isn't it? This might sound like an obvious point to make but a lot of guys forget this and cause the girl to lose interest because it doesn't seem to be "going anywhere." Here are the steps, they are ridiculously simple. 0:38 Figure out her schedule 1:36 Pick a time and a location 3:08 Follow up during the week 3:57 Text her the morning of That's it, those are the five simple steps. I have more videos about how to flirt over t… | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Any advice on going out solo?I did a video answering exactly this https://youtu.be/K41O98cKKpg | /r/seduction | 19/07/18 05:50 PM |
| 5 | How to game using InstagramThe best way to get girls on instagram is to post stories. See who keeps watching them and who messages you through them. People are telling you to have a good follow ratio but do not worry about that at all when you are first starting, women don't really care about it that much anyway. | /r/seduction | 17/07/18 07:42 PM |
| 1 | "You're too young for me!" - How to pick up older womenAwesome man sounds like you're getting it | /r/seduction | 17/07/18 06:29 PM |
| 1 | "You're too young for me!" - How to pick up older womenSummary: If you are a young guy. who is going out and approaching women, a common objection you might often get is the "your too young for me" line. In this video, I talk about how to handle that and how to pick up women that are older than you in general. Hint: Be more direct 0:00 "You're too young for me" 1:01 Make a playful joke out of it 2:16 Its a test 3:20 Prove that you're fun 4:47 How to act around older women 6:23 Be a man not a boy | /r/seduction | 17/07/18 01:27 PM |
| 2 | Ways to look better instantlyTL/DR:There are changes to your body that you can consciously make right now that will make you more attractive. I list the five best ones I could think of. Hope they help. 0:42 Smile more 2:35 Posture 3:37 Expansive gestures 4:47 Be engaged 7:33 Style | /r/seduction | 15/07/18 06:33 PM |
| 2 | How to instantly improve your look in 5 waysTL:DR There are changes to your body that you can consciously make right now that will make you more attractive. I list the five best ones I could think of. Hope they help. 0:42 Smile more 2:35 Have good posture 3:37 Use expansive gestures 4:47 Be engaged in what you are doing 7:33 Have good style | /r/seduction | 14/07/18 06:29 PM |
| 2 | How to avoid being a nice guy?Invite her to a group event where you both will have friends there | /r/seduction | 12/07/18 07:36 PM |
| 1 | What are you guys doing on weekday nights?Here are some great things to do during the week that will almost certainly get you to meet hot girls: volunteer activities co-ed sports improv classes dance class (salsa, ballroom) crossfit seminars Check Meetups.com for more | /r/seduction | 12/07/18 05:19 PM |
| 1 | How to have attractive body language, posture and swaggerYou can definitely pull it off. All hairstyles have something attractive about them. My hair gets big but not at the Fellaini level. I'd have to put a lot of product in it, to get it to do that | /r/seduction | 11/07/18 04:39 PM |
| 7 | How to have attractive body language, posture and swaggerThat guy is the man | /r/seduction | 11/07/18 01:31 AM |
| 10 | How to have attractive body language, posture and swaggerTL/DR:The way you stand, move and walk communicate far more to a girl than anything you could possibly say. People say that more than 70% of our communication is done through body language. I would say that is at least true. Here is how to make sure your posture and body language convey confidence and all the attractive qualities women are looking for. 0:00 Our posture and body language is getting worse 1:05 How to have correct posture 3:24 Submissive gestures 4:23 Bad habits 5:12 Keep your feet… | /r/seduction | 10/07/18 09:22 PM |
| 28 | How do you get rid of negative thoughts?Just reminding yourself you are a good person is not enough. Start by writing down things you like about yourself every day. Try and focus on unique traits. These should be specific. List accomplishments that you are proud of. A good question to ask yourself is "if I were a girl, why would I date myself?" If you can't think of an answer to these questions embody someone who you think does and emulate his behavior. Just giving yourself vague affirmations like "I am special!" or "I am strong" won'… | /r/seduction | 09/07/18 09:17 PM |
| 2 | How to know if a girl likes you: The signs to look forDid you watch the whole video? I put a bunch of positive mindsets in there such as "assume the attraction," and "maintain your frame" | /r/seduction | 03/07/18 01:07 AM |
| 4 | How to know if a girl likes you: The signs to look forSummary/TL:DR Women are usually subtle in how they let men know they are interested in them. On top of this women will show interest in different ways. This can make it very difficult to know if a girl actually likes you. However, there are some pretty reliable ways to know if a girl likes you, and I go over the most important ones in this video. 0:15 She stays in your space 1:15 She's giving you her full attention 2:40 She moves with you 3:00 She laughs at everything you say 4:07 Her behavior i… | /r/seduction | 03/07/18 12:28 AM |
| 2 | Got nudes out of the blue from a girl I met online. How do I play it cool?Not too concerned about meeting up?? That should be your primary concern homie. It sounds like this could take up time that could be better spent with a girl who you will see in person. | /r/seduction | 02/07/18 10:48 PM |
| 2 | Got nudes out of the blue from a girl I met online. How do I play it cool?A women sending you nudes before you have met is usually not a good thing. It seems pretty cool, but this will make it harder to meet up with her. Although this sounds like a unique situation I think this rule still applies | /r/seduction | 02/07/18 04:33 PM |
| 1 | "You guys look like a cute couple" - What to say to a set that is a girl and a guy and you're not sure if they are togetherI can see people giving you more of a negative reaction to your, line see MonsterDevourer's comment above. But it could work fine as well | /r/seduction | 30/06/18 04:11 PM |
| 14 | "You guys look like a cute couple" - What to say to a set that is a girl and a guy and you're not sure if they are togetherIf someone does this to you, the best method is to put it back on him. I would look at him and say "Oh no we are so not a couple! You're crazy man, why'd you think that? I mean look at this girl we'd never get along!" After this, I'd pull her in and give her a playful hug or a kiss. Now you can come up with all the crazy scenarios that "wouldn't work" between you and the girl. At this point the guy is playing YOUR game not his. Key here is to take charge. You can also tease by saying "Yes we're … | /r/seduction | 30/06/18 05:55 AM |
| 1 | "You guys look like a cute couple" - What to say to a set that is a girl and a guy and you're not sure if they are togetherI am very confused by your description | /r/seduction | 30/06/18 03:46 AM |
| 4 | "You guys look like a cute couple" - What to say to a set that is a girl and a guy and you're not sure if they are togetherIf you come off as a dick then it could definitely push her more towards him. If he knows what he's doing he could put you on the back foot too. So just make sure to start out friendly. You have the right idea tho, it's just an opportunity for you to open and see where things go. | /r/seduction | 30/06/18 01:45 AM |
| 63 | "You guys look like a cute couple" - What to say to a set that is a girl and a guy and you're not sure if they are togetherRight after you talk about all the great candy you have lying in the back seat | /r/seduction | 30/06/18 12:40 AM |
| 19 | "You guys look like a cute couple" - What to say to a set that is a girl and a guy and you're not sure if they are togetherYou play into it. "Oh no way, you totally look like you would be going out to brunch together on a Sunday... blah blah blah" they should start laughing and feeling a little bit uncomfortable with each other. Then you can introduce yourself and put most of your attention on the girl, while being polite but not nice to the guy. The guy usually will either stand there bored or fuck off by this point. If you want to get her number and the guy is still standing there, invite them both to a party or s… | /r/seduction | 30/06/18 12:36 AM |
| 2 | How to stop being the Nice Guy society conditioned you to be. (Start by saying "no")Alright that cracked me up | /r/seduction | 20/06/18 05:02 AM |
| 4 | How to stop being the Nice Guy society conditioned you to be. (Start by saying "no")This is my step by step process to go from being the helpless nice guy society has conditioned you to be, to being a man who women flaunt over. 0:00 There's nothing wrong with being nice 1:21 Start saying no 2:09 Stop seeking permission and validation 2:56 Be prepared for conflict 4:10 Ask yourself why you are being nice 4:50 Express yourself more 5:33 Be interesting / have an edge to you 6:30 Stop listening to the mainstream media 7:24 My story with the nice guy | /r/seduction | 19/06/18 09:13 PM |
| 1 | How to go from a nice and friendly conversation to sexually arousingappreciate the comment my man. Anything else you'd like to see in the future? | /r/seduction | 15/06/18 06:55 AM |
| 8 | How to go from a nice and friendly conversation to sexually arousingYup. It's way in the back. | /r/seduction | 14/06/18 04:32 PM |
| 2 | How to go from a nice and friendly conversation to sexually arousingOne Day They'll Know (Odesza Remix) - Pretty Lights | /r/seduction | 14/06/18 04:31 PM |
| 3 | If you could read only one seduction book in your entire life then which book would that be?Best advice on the thread^ just reading one PUA book will probably turn you into a lightweight sociopath. This teaches you about people. THOSE are the fundamentals | /r/seduction | 14/06/18 02:56 AM |
| 13 | How to go from a nice and friendly conversation to sexually arousingThanks a lot homie. Anytime ya wanna get in the van lemme know | /r/seduction | 14/06/18 02:40 AM |
| 116 | How to go from a nice and friendly conversation to sexually arousingTL/DR: Many of my students complain that their conversations are just pleasant and friendly. Here is how to change it to a man to woman interaction. 0:58 You are a sexual being 1:50 Eye contact 2:14 Body position and physicality 2:29 Break Rapport 3:14 Embrace the story 4:00 Push Pull 4:32 Leading and showing dominance 5:06 Being present to the moment 5:30 Express yourself 6:10 Tease her 8:54 Right Mindset (reprise) | /r/seduction | 13/06/18 09:46 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being the Nice Guy and be a Man - step by step guideTL/DR The world today has made most men into just nice guys. There's nothing wrong with being nice but just being nice won't get you the girls. Although in life you are not 100% responsible for your conditioning you are responsible for how you respond to it. If you want to stop being the nice and be a man women flaunt over, here is exactly how to do it. I crammed every single practical and actionable step I could into this video. Let me know your thoughts. 0:00 There's nothing wrong with being n… | /r/seduction | 08/06/18 07:54 AM |
| 4 | Seduction/Pickup villainized the mainstreamNo offense meant here but I think its better that we not read this article and continue doing what we're doing. The mainstream has never approved of most masculine action | /r/seduction | 07/06/18 01:21 AM |
| 2 | How can I find a social circle by talking to people in public?Social Circle game is one of the most widely talked about subjects in the pick up world. The problem with this is its implementation. To meet people in public and create this will take A LOT of work. I can almost guarantee you the guy who you saw this video from is exaggerating his results. The best way to meet people and expand your social circle is through group activities. This will get you better friends and give you motivation and hobbies in life. | /r/seduction | 04/06/18 07:52 PM |
| 2 | How to compliment a girl you like: "Don't just say she's pretty... make it more meaningful"Are you sure? It's got padded seats... | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 07:53 AM |
| 3 | How to compliment a girl you like: "Don't just say she's pretty... make it more meaningful"TL/DR: Many guys are scared to give a girl a compliment because they don't want to be seen as needy but a truly great compliment can set you apart from all the other guys out there. Focus on things she clearly spends a lot of time doing. For example a better compliment than "you are so pretty" could be "I really like your sense of style." 0:00 Good vs bad compliments 0:45 Compliment things she's worked on 2:19 Be genuine and pay attention to her 3:10 Some good compliments I use 4:00 Timing is im… | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Step by step guide for going out aloneI am not a lady so I might be leading you in the wrong direction but if a girl leaves her friends to hang out with me or if she is asking me what I'm doing later these are pretty clear signs she wants to hook up that night. This help? | /r/seduction | 14/05/18 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Step by step guide for going out aloneI was confused when you said you were a cis woman never heard that term before. Yeah, it doesn't sound like his approach would have been the best. Might have worked in a straight club where everybody is rubbing up against each other already haha. Are you asking the ideal response if you had been attracted to him? | /r/seduction | 13/05/18 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Step by step guide for going out aloneYes! It's the simplest and easiest tip to making yourself more popular and your night better. | /r/seduction | 13/05/18 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Step by step guide for going out aloneSounds like he's forgetting to have fun and be social. This should be your primary objective, getting laid comes secondary. If he is in that environment by himself and only talking to girls, he's not providing any value. Only taking. I'm curious though. Tell me how he approached you. | /r/seduction | 13/05/18 09:50 PM |
| 38 | Step by step guide for going out aloneSummary: Going out solo is one of the toughest tests of social and game mastery because it is up to you, and only you, to make the night good. I've gone out solo and gotten laid more times than I can count. Here is my step by step process for going out solo and achieving true freedom. I have also included at the end an instruction for turning your hometown into a place where you never have to go out alone again. 1:32 Have the right mindset 3:20 Start as soon as you leave the house 4:40 Start som… | /r/seduction | 13/05/18 02:04 AM |
| 1 | You'll never completely get rid of your Approach Anxiety but you can reduce it. Here is a video of every technique and tip we could think of in order to do thisHey man I just released a video on how to go out solo. I think the principles in it will help cut down on your AA when you are out solo https://youtu.be/K41O98cKKpg Hope it helps | /r/seduction | 13/05/18 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Tips for setting up our threesomesI think it works best if your girl has the contact details. | /r/seduction | 11/05/18 05:55 PM |
| 1 | You'll never completely get rid of your Approach Anxiety but you can reduce it. Here is a video of every technique and tip we could think of in order to do thisI'm the guy in the middle. My number is over 200. My buddy Chris is somewhere in the 100s. The guy on the left is a bit older, and is known as Evil Stifler on the web, his number is well into the 1000s. | /r/seduction | 11/05/18 05:29 PM |
| 4 | Banned from /r/socialskills for referencing this sub.Casanova and Don Juan were shunned by their mainstream society as well. | /r/seduction | 09/05/18 08:52 PM |
| 7 | Banned from /r/socialskills for referencing this sub.Throughout human history, the art of seduction has always been taboo. That's probably not gonna change even if we started posting more happy go lucky G rated mainstream advice here. | /r/seduction | 09/05/18 06:44 PM |
| 1 | If you are with a girl and don't know what to do next, ask yourself "How can I make this fun for us?" rather than "what's the right move."Yup I agree on all counts homie | /r/seduction | 08/05/18 04:49 AM |
| 1 | 7 places to meet women that aren't bars and clubsI'd say about half of these fit that criteria | /r/seduction | 08/05/18 02:47 AM |
| 5 | Almost 60 approaches. Was bold/direct. Never got a date. Most ostracize/distrust/creep shame me. (college)Your circumstances are not that crazy. I and a lot of people I know used to be in that position in college. I got out of it, but some didn't. All the advice telling you to find groups of like-minded people is good. This should be your #1 focus, not cold approach. Don't give up on a group just because it doesn't have the hottest girls, or you don't get laid immediately. This takes time. Take a year to build your army and then reap the benefits in the years to come | /r/seduction | 07/05/18 09:59 PM |
| 3 | Almost 60 approaches. Was bold/direct. Never got a date. Most ostracize/distrust/creep shame me. (college)He doesn't have autism homie. His problems are not all that crazy. Hence why this has been upvoted so many times | /r/seduction | 07/05/18 09:53 PM |
| 0 | Almost 60 approaches. Was bold/direct. Never got a date. Most ostracize/distrust/creep shame me. (college)Telling someone to just be happy is not great advice dawg. Your other advice was good tho. Practical changes | /r/seduction | 07/05/18 09:51 PM |
| 3 | If you are with a girl and don't know what to do next, ask yourself "How can I make this fun for us?" rather than "what's the right move."It only seems that way right now. Things are tough at the beginning but they get much better as your skills and results improve. | /r/seduction | 07/05/18 08:23 PM |
| 3 | If you are with a girl and don't know what to do next, ask yourself "How can I make this fun for us?" rather than "what's the right move."There are some other examples I put in the last paragraph. | /r/seduction | 07/05/18 06:34 PM |
| 12 | If you are with a girl and don't know what to do next, ask yourself "How can I make this fun for us?" rather than "what's the right move."Exactly what I'm talking about! Except don't actually be 5 cause statutory rape ya know | /r/seduction | 07/05/18 02:20 PM |
| 4 | If you are with a girl and don't know what to do next, ask yourself "How can I make this fun for us?" rather than "what's the right move."Yes I agree with you his conversation skills need to improve however for this piece I meant he was always wondering what the next step was in general and not just in conversation with the girl. | /r/seduction | 07/05/18 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Hooking up with co-workers in a corporate environment || My experienceI didn't have much of a problem with it. As long as you don't sleep around a lot or make her feel uncomfortable you'll be fine. | /r/seduction | 04/05/18 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Hooking up with co-workers in a corporate environment || My experienceTL:DR I used to work a corporate job at one of the largest software companies in the world. The pressure to not sleep around in the office was high and for good reason, there were serious repercussions. However, I still had sex with a few of my colleagues. Many people will tell you to not date or sleep with people at your work. I think it can be done but you won't be able to behave the same way you act at the bar or with your friends. | /r/seduction | 04/05/18 05:51 PM |
| 1 | The 6 steps to asking out a co-worker or classmate and not getting in troubleYup that's exactly what I'm trying to do. I tried that once with a guy but the sound didn't work so I'll have to do it again. Camera was pretty shaky too | /r/seduction | 04/05/18 04:38 AM |
| 1 | The 6 steps to asking out a co-worker or classmate and not getting in troubleHaha I just pulled a threesome in front of Jeffy from RSD's face over the weekend and my number is well over 200 so I'd say I have some game. The problem is I'm doing this shit all by myself and I don't have anyone shooting for me. I am working on solving this problem right now | /r/seduction | 03/05/18 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Bill Clinton is charismatic as hell! Look at his carefree laugh. A good reference to self-amusement and acting congruent to what you feel like inside without caringGreat fucking clip from, in my opinion, the most charismatic man in recent history. Got any more clips of Bill? | /r/seduction | 02/05/18 05:57 PM |
| 2 | The 6 steps to going out soloIf you have a two girls and are trying to isolate one of them you can make friends with a random dude and introduce them to her. I've done this many times. This is actually a pretty boss thing to do and shows a lot of social leadership | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/18 11:42 PM |
| 1 | The 6 steps to going out soloYou are absolutely right. I was actually going to add this in but wanted to keep it short. If you can make friends with the bouncers and bartenders at the bars you frequent it will be like bringing girls home from your backyard. It also means you are never really "alone" when you are surrounded by people you know. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/18 11:40 PM |
| 1 | The 6 steps to going out soloMake sure that you are actually meeting people who you can consider friends. Having friends who motivate and educate you is an important aspect of becoming successful. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/18 11:38 PM |
| 1 | The 6 steps to going out soloIt did. I was at a corporate job that I hated but it paid good money and was ridiculously hard to get fired from thanks to all the HR rules. I showed up late every day on the days that I showed up at all. What's your situation? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/18 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Why you keep getting ghostedIf it keeps happening to you then it might be time to ask yourself why | /r/seduction | 01/05/18 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Why you keep getting ghostedYes | /r/seduction | 01/05/18 09:59 PM |
| 3 | Why you keep getting ghostedIf you keep getting ghosted the problem lies with you and is most likely because you start acting needy when you get the number, however any change in behavior can cause this. | /r/seduction | 01/05/18 05:56 PM |
| 1 | [FR] 3 years of effort without a single notch, starting up againCold approach is good but you need to be surrounding yourself with women you are actually attracted to you. What kind of girl are you attracted to? What does she look like? What does she do? And most importantly, where does she hang out? Once you have this information now comes the plan of attack. How can I meet this person? My advice would be to find groups that you can join which would contain such a person. Does she volunteer? Does she take dance classes or is part of a book club? These are a… | /r/seduction | 01/05/18 04:59 AM |
| 1 | The 6 steps to going out solo (#3 create a home base)That could work as long as it doesn't come off as dismissive. I think the main mindset for this one is treating the whole thing as no big deal. | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 04:05 PM |
| 1 | The 6 steps to going out solo (#3 create a home base)It can be. Throughout the night you may have to establish multiple home bases. | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 04:02 PM |
| 1 | How to stop using alcohol to talk to womenI traveled through Asia for a year solo and the way to get good solo is to make friends while you are out. I used to go out alone too plenty even when I wasn't traveling. Forming groups is natural. | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 03:47 AM |
| 1 | How to stop using alcohol to talk to womenAre you saying you are having trouble getting into social circles with hot girls? | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 12:22 AM |
| 1 | How to stop using alcohol to talk to womenGoing out solo will NEVER be natural and quite frankly shouldn't. Humans evolved for millions of years to cooperate in groups and being by yourself without a group almost always meant death. Get some wings man, you're success will go up and your nights will get way easier my man | /r/seduction | 18/04/18 11:30 PM |
| 1 | How to stop using alcohol to talk to womenThis is a problem that a lot of people in the pick up community do not address properly. Most just call you a pussy for drinking but the reality is if you are going out to bars and clubs you are surrounded by it. Thus making it tough to quit. 0:37 Why its hard to quit 1:37 Start off slowly 3:30 Why most people fail at quitting 3:53 Learning how to make the night fun without booze 5:30 Other ways to meet women not at a bar Outro song: Kai Wachi - Cadaverous | /r/seduction | 18/04/18 09:30 PM |
| 6 | When a girl smiles at you does that for sure mean shes into you..Homie even when a girl doesn't smile at you she's into you ;) | /r/seduction | 18/04/18 05:27 AM |
| 2 | Don’t waste time “befriending the friends,” spend your time talking to girls you want to talk toGotcha, handling her interruptions politely and not having it throw you off can be pretty attractive actually. Did you get a number or something at the end? | /r/seduction | 17/04/18 02:19 AM |
| 2 | To those who have been really bad at meeting and seducing girls, and now have good success in doing it: what was your main turning point(s)?I stopped looking for that turning point and concentrated on the basics to get results. I find if you are expecting a moment when everything starts to become easy you'll usually be disappointed | /r/seduction | 16/04/18 05:49 PM |
| 1 | How to isolate a girl from her friendsSummary: Here are some easy ways to get a girl away from her friends. Basically you want to invite her to go do something with you. I give some basic examples. There are a lot of coaches out there who for some reason think its a good idea to spend your time befriending the friends. Don't do this, spend your time talking to girls you are interested in. | /r/seduction | 07/04/18 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Clean your room before you go out tonightSounds like you'll be pimping and killing it at life for awhile homie | /r/seduction | 07/04/18 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Clean your room before you go out tonightA-fucking-men man. Well said | /r/seduction | 07/04/18 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Clean your room before you go out tonightShould've seen that one I'm actually halfway through his book right now | /r/seduction | 07/04/18 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Clean your room before you go out tonightPeople overcomplicate things because I don't think they actually begin with the end in mind. They don't know what their end goal is | /r/seduction | 07/04/18 03:07 PM |
| 3 | Clean your room before you go out tonightWho is Jordan? | /r/seduction | 07/04/18 03:06 PM |
| 0 | Is she taking a long time to respond? If so, do thisNice man, persistence is a key trait of successful guys. You'll get smarter and know when to pursue harder too | /r/seduction | 06/04/18 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Is she taking a long time to respond? If so, do thisOk so girls in programs like that do take a long time to respond and its not because she isn't into you its just because she really is working. The problem is this will not stop once you start dating her. If you can deal with that frustration or if you just wanna hook up with her then its fine but even then its usually too much of a headache. | /r/seduction | 06/04/18 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Is she taking a long time to respond? If so, do thisObviously something changed. It's impossible for me to know for sure but my guess is she met another guy. You probably weren't the only one she gave her number to and maybe this other person was a better fit for her. Don't sweat it though there's plenty other hotties out there and you never know what can happen in the future between you two. | /r/seduction | 05/04/18 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Is she taking a long time to respond? If so, do thisI would also try and make plans as quickly as possible. See what her schedule is like for the week and try and make a plan for you two to meet. | /r/seduction | 05/04/18 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Is she taking a long time to respond? If so, do thisIt sounds like the texting wasn't the problem it was the date. What are you doing on your dates usually? | /r/seduction | 05/04/18 04:26 PM |
| -3 | Is she taking a long time to respond? If so, do thisNo worries man, the van ain't for everyone. Hope you enjoyed the post. | /r/seduction | 05/04/18 03:52 PM |
| 8 | Is she taking a long time to respond? If so, do thisThat could work for a lot of girls but some would find it needy too | /r/seduction | 05/04/18 03:43 PM |
| 3 | Is she taking a long time to respond? If so, do thisSounds like this girl was really into you. For a lot of people if they are texting a hot girl she has other cool guys hitting her up too, so if they want her they are going to have to put in effort and things like this may happen. | /r/seduction | 05/04/18 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Is she taking a long time to respond? If so, do thisThat's the other part I should mention. Sometimes she'll respond quicker as time goes on, but sometimes that's just who she is and you have to decide if you want to be with someone that takes forever to respond to anything | /r/seduction | 05/04/18 03:39 PM |
| -4 | Is she taking a long time to respond? If so, do thisDon't worry about sending a double text if you send her something funny. If you ask "What are you doing tonight?" and you get no response, and then send a funny meme, she'll more likely to respond. But if you follow it up with another question it can become very needy very quickly. | /r/seduction | 05/04/18 03:37 PM |
| 3 | [19 M] I need help with meeting women.Some people here are telling you to lower your standards. I don't think you need to at all. I think a few changes to your lifestyle and some real effort could get you exactly what you want. | /r/seduction | 05/04/18 06:41 AM |
| 4 | Girls lose interest after a whileMost likely because they feel like the interaction isn't going anywhere. If you are texting then you should be trying to establish a time and place to meet in person. There should be some next steps. Otherwise, girls get bored and move on. | /r/seduction | 05/04/18 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Best places at a community college for the "cold pickup".....?Community colleges and colleges, in general, are not great for doing daygame especially if you go to the school. My recommendation would be to join some activities or clubs that have a lot of girls. From there you will get invited to parties and so on. Girls in college usually go for guys they know or through their social circle | /r/seduction | 05/04/18 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Did I do the right thing?yeah man you're good | /r/seduction | 05/04/18 04:39 AM |
| 3 | How to overcome self consciousness??Have you ever tried to get rid of bad acne? | /r/seduction | 05/04/18 04:38 AM |
| 2 | How to overcome self consciousness??There are some foundation makeups you can use to take the edge off that are not noticeable. | /r/seduction | 05/04/18 04:37 AM |
| 1 | There are a lot of girls in my business class. What is the best way to approach and date women in my class without being "that guy"?Talk to her after class and invite her to do something you and your friends are doing later. This is even better if you are hanging out with some other people from the class as well. This is not at all creepy and totally normal. If she comes then flirt with her. | /r/seduction | 05/04/18 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Does peacocking actually work?TL:DR Summary: When I first learned about seduction and pick up online peacocking was all the rage. But does this technique of wearing ostentatious clothing actually work? Well mostly no, but in certain circumstances, it can. I would recommend just wearing one unique article of clothing for a conversation starter 0:15 Why it worked for Mystery 2:02 Dress normally but with one unique item 3:25 When you should peacock | /r/seduction | 04/04/18 03:54 AM |
| 2 | How to spot a bad pick up coachShould probably take out that squarespace logo :p | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 05:20 PM |
| 1 | How to spot a bad pick up coachbahaha sounds about right | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 05:19 PM |
| 1 | How to spot a bad pick up coachI had one a long time ago but looking back on it wasn't all bad and definitely helped my development in certain ways but harmed it in others. I think it could have been better. Which is what I aim to do | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 05:17 PM |
| 1 | How to spot a bad pick up coachDude I would love to see those programs! | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 05:15 PM |
| 4 | How to spot a bad pick up coachSame logic as hiring a personal trainer. Knowledge isn't everything | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Flaky girl who was previously super responsive has not replied yet, what to do?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P4y0Fwfqrd0 | /r/seduction | 29/03/18 08:25 PM |
| 1 | How to be confident but not arrogantSummary: Confidence is believing in yourself and arrogance is needing others to believe in you. One comes from insecurity, the other from security. One brings others around you up and the other brings people down. I find a lot of guys, not all, in an attempt to kill the nice guy can end up coming across as arrogant. Hopefully, this will help avoid the problem. | /r/seduction | 28/03/18 04:52 AM |
| 2 | 10 attractive traits assholes have and how to have them without being oneno problem. I was worried it was a little long | /r/seduction | 27/03/18 04:50 PM |
| 10 | 10 attractive traits assholes have and how to have them without being oneyup trying to make it easy for you guys | /r/seduction | 27/03/18 04:50 PM |
| 1 | How long after a first-night lay should I text to make plans?I don't see any reason to wait. Just come up with an actual plan | /r/seduction | 27/03/18 04:27 AM |
| 1 | How to be assertive but not aggressive: assertiveness allows input, aggressiveness does notall of this is true. Yes. | /r/seduction | 26/03/18 10:55 PM |
| 2 | Telling women they are pretty or not?Nothing wrong with telling a woman she's pretty. Matters who's saying it, who they are saying it to and what they mean when they say it. | /r/seduction | 23/03/18 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Interview with Asian Dating Coach: "Stop being in your head so much about your race" (20min interview, advice and success story)You should add him on Facebook and join his group. https://www.facebook.com/real.jeremy.jong https://www.facebook.com/groups/wearepowerfulmen/?fref=nf You can also check him out at his website JeremyJong.com | /r/seduction | 23/03/18 06:25 PM |
| 2 | How To Be Emotionally Stable - Diversify Your Identity - “Invest your self-esteem and what you care about into a variety of different areas — business, social life, relationships, philanthropy, athletics — so that when one goes south, you’re not completely screwed over and emotionally wrecked.”This is a good topic. I think most important is having good close friends. | /r/seduction | 23/03/18 05:24 AM |
| 10 | Interview with Asian Dating Coach: "Stop being in your head so much about your race" (20min interview, advice and success story)Here my buddy Jeremy and I talk about some of the common concerns that Asian guys, or other minorities have when it comes to pick-up and dating. 1:07 #1 concern most Asian guys have 3:10 Asian success story 4:50 Successful guys vs unsuccessful guys 8:43 Your circumstance does not dictate your success 10:00 Jeremy's story 15:08 When he realized he'd "made it" 17:42 Practical tip #1 (style) 20:07 Practical tip #2 (friends) Get in contact with Jeremy by joining his fb group https://www.facebook.com… | /r/seduction | 23/03/18 04:02 AM |
| 1 | What are the “do’s” and “don’ts” of taking nude photos for a guy?no dick unless by request good lighting and angles add a little comedy | /r/seduction | 20/03/18 07:26 PM |
| 8 | Use "How" questions to keep the conversation goingI posted this as a written article a month ago and it seemed to help a lot of people. This is the video version. The written version can be found here | /r/seduction | 15/03/18 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Getting sexual. Where to start?Flirting is basically showing intent but not being serious about it. This is why statements like "We're too alike we'd never get along" are so great because it shows interest but then disqualifies it playfully. You can do this not just verbally but also physically. This is where the term "push-pull" came from. Pull her in and then push her away playfully. Try using some of these principles. Hope this helps. | /r/seduction | 14/03/18 10:52 PM |
| 1 | The Do's and Don'ts of SextingThis can backfire a lot of times for people who are inexperienced. I generally don't but on some occasions I will. | /r/seduction | 14/03/18 10:36 PM |
| 2 | The Do's and Don'ts of SextingIf you are thinking about her then don't be afraid to sext! | /r/seduction | 14/03/18 05:08 PM |
| 2 | The Do's and Don'ts of SextingAh shucks I knew I should have put more of the instructions in bold | /r/seduction | 14/03/18 05:09 AM |
| 5 | Girl distant next morning after sexPossible explanations i've noticed: she's just hung over from the night before she doesn't want to stay too long and be clingy she just sees this as a hookup situation and is trying to compartmentalize it as such | /r/seduction | 12/03/18 07:30 PM |
| 1 | 5 steps to bring a girl back to your place and have sex with her on a dateThis can be a touchy subject and everyone has their own method but I think these five steps will give you the best opportunity for success with a girl who is into you. 0:27 Pick a location that is close 1:19 Pick a seductive location 1:57 Position yourself so you can get physical 3:21 Lead her back to your place 5:23 Make sure she is comfortable 6:09 What to do if she says no | /r/seduction | 11/03/18 09:51 PM |
| 2 | What to do if she seems interested but keeps flakingThat's the goal man. Thanks for reading. Solid straightforward advice is what I'm going for. Obvious in hindsight but in the moment when your emotions are tied up it can seem confusing. | /r/seduction | 08/03/18 01:45 AM |
| 1 | What to do if she seems interested but keeps flakingExactly | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 05:47 PM |
| 1 | What to do if she seems interested but keeps flakingTalk is cheap, actions speak louder than words | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 05:46 PM |
| 2 | What to do if she seems interested but keeps flakingYeah, I'd hit her up again but then after that, it's not worth it. Definitely got the right idea man. | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 05:45 PM |
| 4 | Tip of the day: Keep a JournalI kept a journal and did a write up at the end of every week. At the bottom I would write key takeaways. Every so often I would go back and re-read these key takeaways to remember the basics. | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 02:51 AM |
| 1 | When you tell a HB9.5 to shut up for a secondalright this cracked me up | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 11:31 PM |
| 2 | The goal of texting a girl is to get her to meet you in person. Here are the 5 super simple steps to do it.EXACTLY. Well done man. | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 08:17 PM |
| 2 | The goal of texting a girl is to get her to meet you in person. Here are the 5 super simple steps to do it.Cool buddy. Yeah, some people prefer steps. Whatever floats your boat. | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 06:23 PM |
| 1 | The goal of texting a girl is to get her to meet you in person. Here are the 5 super simple steps to do it.yeah that's fine too | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 06:22 PM |
| 1 | The goal of texting a girl is to get her to meet you in person. Here are the 5 super simple steps to do it.You should give a little more. Not too much but if you are the one pursuing her then it makes sense you would be pushing the interaction in an upward direction | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 06:20 PM |
| 1 | The goal of texting a girl is to get her to meet you in person. Here are the 5 super simple steps to do it.no problem buddy thanks for taking the time to read | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 06:17 PM |
| 1 | The goal of texting a girl is to get her to meet you in person. Here are the 5 super simple steps to do it.If I didn't make that clear it is supposed to be sent earlier in the day yes | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 05:26 PM |
| 2 | The goal of texting a girl is to get her to meet you in person. Here are the 5 super simple steps to do it.I never said to say you'll never flake | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 05:25 PM |
| 6 | The goal of texting a girl is to get her to meet you in person. Here are the 5 super simple steps to do it.Seems like you didn't read the post dawg. I said exactly that ;) | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 05:23 PM |
| 0 | The goal of texting a girl is to get her to meet you in person. Here are the 5 super simple steps to do it.There's nothing wrong with being considerate about her schedule. Worrying about your status as a low-value male is inherently low value. | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 05:20 PM |
| 5 | The goal of texting a girl is to get her to meet you in person. Here are the 5 super simple steps to do it.If you expect women to ditch plans for you then you are batting below your league. Reminding her is part of it but it also let's her know that you won't ditch either. | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 05:18 PM |
| 3 | The goal of texting a girl is to get her to meet you in person. Here are the 5 super simple steps to do it.killer useful line isn't it? | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 02:04 PM |
| 3 | The goal of texting a girl is to get her to meet you in person. Here are the 5 super simple steps to do it.Yeah man, that is a variation that could definitely work too. I find though if you ask her what days she is free, the temptation is for people to assume they are busy and the responses tend to be more on the "I'm not sure, I'll let you know" side. | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Ight I need to get better a sex. Tell me your movesA couple quick tips: try and match her breathing start slowwwwwww The best way to get good at sex is to get repetitions in and the best way to get that is to have a girlfriend or someone who will let you fuck them all the time every day. Get feedback from her and you'll get better. | /r/seduction | 27/02/18 02:17 AM |
| 1 | 7 places to meet women that aren't bars and clubsWhat is indigo? | /r/seduction | 26/02/18 05:03 PM |
| 1 | 7 places to meet women that aren't bars and clubsYeah I've been to those events before. It's a great place for guys but not something I'd go to regularly. | /r/seduction | 25/02/18 08:18 PM |
| 2 | 7 places to meet women that aren't bars and clubsSo I was thinking about this and talking to my female friends and most of these were picked as female-dominated. But if you find activities, clubs or events that are more male-dominated that will give you a better selection. The only one on this list that is male-dominated is co-ed sports. Seminars and other events might be under that category as well | /r/seduction | 24/02/18 10:20 PM |
| 2 | 7 places to meet women that aren't bars and clubsit really depends on your area and you may have to try out a few to see which ones have girls and are an activity where you can actually meet each other. Don't get too impatient because this is an area where you can get a really hot girl. | /r/seduction | 24/02/18 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Visualize succeeding with women to make it happenThis is not some "the Secret" nonsense, this is picturing what you want and going out and getting it. Visualizing an activity improves your performance and builds confidence in it. If you've never visualized a result it's going to be very difficult for you to achieve it. 0:00 What are visualizations and who use them? 1:03 Be as detailed as you can 2:50 Visualize handling objections 3:44 As your visualizations get better you will get better | /r/seduction | 24/02/18 09:05 PM |
| 1 | 7 places to meet women that aren't bars and clubsAwesome dude well if a grocery store is what you got then keep at it. You'll definitely get a girl from there. I don't go there much but even I've gotten a girl or two there | /r/seduction | 23/02/18 09:05 PM |
| 1 | 7 places to meet women that aren't bars and clubswhat's wrong with your state homie? | /r/seduction | 23/02/18 08:49 PM |
| 3 | 7 places to meet women that aren't bars and clubsmeetups is a good one for finding events and ones that people are going to. I would recommend working with people or animals those are the ones women tend to gravitate towards. You should expect to try out a few groups before you find one that you gel with. Let me ask you a question? Are you trying to get a girlfriend or just sleep with a bunch of women? | /r/seduction | 23/02/18 06:01 PM |
| 2 | 7 places to meet women that aren't bars and clubsYou're not a slimeball at all dude. This is a good way of thinking about it. Out of all of these, a volunteer group is the best place to get a girlfriend. I would recommend trying a few different groups and seeing which one you like. There will be some that suck and some that are absolute money. | /r/seduction | 23/02/18 05:46 PM |
| 2 | 7 places to meet women that aren't bars and clubsYo thanks homie! Trying to provide some good value. Any feedback is appreciated | /r/seduction | 23/02/18 05:45 PM |
| 1 | 7 places to meet women that aren't bars and clubsIf you're already at the grocery store its fine. A lot of female friends have complained to me about getting hit on at the grocery store too much | /r/seduction | 23/02/18 05:44 PM |
| 3 | 7 places to meet women that aren't bars and clubsMy female friends complain a lot about getting hit on at the grocery store. I've only gotten one from that. I think the bookstore is much better but definitely could work if you're already there. | /r/seduction | 23/02/18 05:25 PM |
| 5 | 7 places to meet women that aren't bars and clubsGirl's are usually chilling on the sidewalk, smoking, hanging out. It's a great place to talk to them if they are not heading anywhere in particular | /r/seduction | 23/02/18 05:23 PM |
| 3 | 7 places to meet women that aren't bars and clubsYeah "totally dominated" was a bit of an exaggeration. There are more women than men but not by that much. I'd say if you're a guy with game tho you won't find much competition. Your reply is excellent | /r/seduction | 23/02/18 05:22 PM |
| 1 | 7 places to meet women that aren't bars and clubswhat events do you go to on Meetups.com? | /r/seduction | 23/02/18 05:18 PM |
| 16 | 7 places to meet women that aren't bars and clubsThey are very aware of it because it works. But you have a point. With a lot of these groups, I wouldn't recommend trying to fuck a girl immediately after joining. | /r/seduction | 23/02/18 05:16 PM |
| 3 | 7 places to meet women that aren't bars and clubsawesome dude. Feel free to give me feedback on what you'd like to see there | /r/seduction | 23/02/18 06:04 AM |
| 7 | 7 places to meet women that aren't bars and clubsNo problem buddy, thanks for reading | /r/seduction | 23/02/18 06:03 AM |
| 37 | 7 places to meet women that aren't bars and clubsIt's got padded seats ;) | /r/seduction | 23/02/18 06:03 AM |
| 3 | Is RSD Fake?The videos are mostly real but keep in mind but this is made up from dozens and dozens of approaches | /r/seduction | 21/02/18 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Turn your painful experiences with women into leverage to fuel growthTony Robbins always said that escaping pain is the biggest motivator for change. Use your painful experiences with women as leverage to fuel your development. Most guys don't get good at dating and pick up because they don't want it bad enough. 0:00 We all have painful experiences 1:29 I got rejected in front of my entire class 2:40 Painful experiences = leverage 3:40 My painful experiences make me who I am 4:46 Conclusion | /r/seduction | 21/02/18 07:47 PM |
| 1 | If you've been having sex regularly with a girl for more than 3 months you need to sit down and talk to her about where it's goingIf you wait that long she's usually already pissed. If you address it earlier then she's more likely to want to hook up with you longer. | /r/seduction | 21/02/18 05:16 PM |
| 1 | A good test to see if a girl is interested in you when you are at a bar or club is to move and see if she moves with you.A lot of conversations can go nowhere. If you've been talking to a girl for a minute and want to know if she is genuinely interested in you a good test is to move and see if she moves with you. 0:00 At a bar or a party girls love to talk 0:45 Try and move her 2:38 Real life example Let me know if this was helpful guys, and thanks for watching. | /r/seduction | 20/02/18 04:07 AM |
| 1 | How to communicate higher value IMMEDIATELYIf you found this helpful you might like my YouTube channel where I answer a lot of questions like this. https://www.youtube.com/c/TheSingleGuy | /r/seduction | 19/02/18 06:35 AM |
| 2 | Books for Being Better in Bed?"She Comes First" by Ian Kerner However, the best way to learn how to be good in bed is to get repetitions in. The best way to do this is find a girl who is into you and fuck her as much as she will let you. Gauge her feedback and find out what works and what doesn't. This is different for every girl but the basics of good sex will remain the same. Also a good tip is to get your breathing to match. | /r/seduction | 19/02/18 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Question for Advanced Guys"guys that understand the game to such an extent that they can use it to get their way in every social interaction, even when its interactions that have nothing to do with sex or women." - you're expectations are all out of wack homie that's not how it works. | /r/seduction | 19/02/18 04:42 AM |
| 2 | Problems with erectionThis is the best comment | /r/seduction | 18/02/18 06:42 PM |
| 18 | I have a hard time being flirty. What are some good general flirty lines I can use to show interest? (Not pick up lines)"oh you and me would never get along" | /r/seduction | 17/02/18 05:42 AM |
| 6 | When talking to a girl use "how" questions to keep the conversation goingNo problem, hopefully more will follow this format so we can have more productive conversations | /r/seduction | 16/02/18 11:01 PM |
| 2 | When talking to a girl use "how" questions to keep the conversation goingNot every girl is looking for advice. If she doesn't know you that well a shy girl might find it difficult to open up about that stuff. | /r/seduction | 16/02/18 06:08 PM |
| 1 | When talking to a girl use "how" questions to keep the conversation goingSome open-ended questions are too open and make a response challenging. | /r/seduction | 16/02/18 06:07 PM |
| 3 | When talking to a girl use "how" questions to keep the conversation goingDefinitely, it's a subtle difference but it works wonders | /r/seduction | 16/02/18 06:06 PM |
| 2 | When talking to a girl use "how" questions to keep the conversation goingUse these more when you're already having a conversation. For the approach stoping them when they are walking in the opposite direction is a pretty tough one. | /r/seduction | 16/02/18 06:01 PM |
| 5 | When talking to a girl use "how" questions to keep the conversation goingbahaha | /r/seduction | 16/02/18 06:00 PM |
| 22 | When talking to a girl use "how" questions to keep the conversation goingDefinitely but I find some questions to be more effective than others. | /r/seduction | 16/02/18 12:38 PM |
| 68 | When talking to a girl use "how" questions to keep the conversation goinglol. I can't remember but it was probably from Steven Covey or Dale Carnegie. They give some good guidelines for conversation. | /r/seduction | 16/02/18 12:37 PM |
| 30 | When talking to a girl use "how" questions to keep the conversation goingThanks for taking the time to read this guys. Tried to make it short sweet and to the point as always. If you found this helpful then you might like my YouTube channel, https://www.youtube.com/c/TheSingleGuy . | /r/seduction | 16/02/18 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Valentines Day: What do you send a girl you are seeing casually?It can be kind of awkward to know what to do for those girls that you are seeing or hooking up with but aren't dating. It depends on what your goal is for these girls or girl but you if you want to continue seeing them or want something more you should send them something. A cute thoughtful text message is good but a card or phone call is even better. Anyone who says their girl doesn't care about Valentines Day does not know women. If you are talking to a girl you are trying to get with then her… | /r/seduction | 14/02/18 06:18 PM |
| 2 | If you want to spark sexual energy while you are out try physically picking up the girl.Haha I'm sure you'll be fine dawg. Just get a couple practice ones in and you'll be a pro | /r/seduction | 13/02/18 11:50 PM |
| 0 | If you want to spark sexual energy while you are out try physically picking up the girl.Just remember to lift using your legs not your back and maintain balance. The toughest part is a girl's weight is not uniform like the weights in the gym are. Especially depending on the girl ;) | /r/seduction | 13/02/18 11:31 PM |
| 5 | Self-Amusement: What are your tips for getting into a self-amused stateAny physical activity will get you into a good state. Move around more. Give high fives to people. All these things help. Also, the way you stand and your posture can influence your mood. Having good posture and smiling more will make you feel just a little bit more in state. | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 12:14 AM |
| 1 | I like a girl and I’m back at being needy.No reason to beat yourself up man. | /r/seduction | 07/02/18 09:13 PM |
| 1 | I banged around 100 girls from cold approach and now I can't even make eye contact without crippling anxietySounds like you need to get into a relationship dawg. | /r/seduction | 05/02/18 08:03 PM |
| 2 | My guide on how to kiss girls at clubs.I think this is written by a guy who is new to going out or is really young, maybe like 21. Going through the "making out with girls every night stage." It's time to start bringing girls home homie! | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 10:02 PM |
| 2 | A better way of thinking about rejectionThank you for bringing this up and making it past halfway haha. I think this is a big point right here. I don't think guys have to go through this "all I get is rejected stage" there are ways that you can engineer your life to meet women organically. You won't be going through new girls every week but certainly can date multiple girls and/or get a girlfriend. My recommendation would be to join groups that engage in an activity. I've done this as well and it works. Intramural sports leagues, impr… | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 07:53 AM |
| 1 | A better way of thinking about rejectionRejection is a subject that I am all too familiar with. Dealing with it is one of the biggest steps in being a man. I almost felt like giving up because I was thinking about rejection all wrong. Here's how I changed my way of thinking about it. 0:05 My experience with rejection 1:56 Rejection doesn't exist? 3:12 A lot of it is agendas 4:44 Even the best guys deal with this 6:00 Summary | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 03:25 AM |
| 2 | How to talk to girls: Eye contactGood eye contact is a powerful tool you can use in conversation and one of the best ways to create intimacy and connection that leads to sex. 0:09 Eye contact is getting worse 0:40 Eye contact can build intimacy 1:25 Practice giving eye contact 2:07 Be present to the moment 3:17 Shoot for 90% eye contact 4:45 Smile with your eyes Thanks for watching you guys and lemme know what your thoughts and questions are | /r/seduction | 24/01/18 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Some advice on how to get a threesome (feat my friend Evil Stifler)A threesome with two girls is one of the most awesome things a man can experience. I've had plenty of them but my buddy Evil Stifler takes it to a new level. Here is our advice on the subject. 0:27 The approach 2:50 Physical escalation 3:45 Bringing them home 5:30 Flirt with both of them 6:10 Problems you will encounter 7:37 Respect boundaries 9:21 Lead! | /r/seduction | 18/01/18 10:04 PM |
| 1 | How to get girls in loud clubs (with Evil Stifler)I got this question a few days ago. I brought Evil Stifler in to help me answer it. 0:34 Game changes with the environment you are in 1:04 Use your body to talk 2:12 Hand of God 4:06 Talk louder! 6:08 Don't disrupt her fun The language of love is universal there are plenty of ways to attract women in loud clubs without relying on talking. | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 11:54 PM |
| 3 | Signs a girl wants to be approached (bar, club, social event)These are some of the biggest signs I look for if I'm out at the bars or a social event. If a girl is doing one of these the chances are high that she wants someone to come up and talk to her. 0:38 She's looking around 1:44 Proximity (She's hanging out near you) 2:32 Preening (adjusting her clothes/hair or touching her body) 3:02 Her body position is open 4:01 She's Drinking a lot 5:08 Smiling and being friendly 5:44 She goes out by herself | /r/seduction | 11/01/18 01:45 AM |
| 3 | Came on too strong??How did you come on too hard? What makes you say this? | /r/seduction | 09/01/18 08:38 PM |
| 1 | My Fundamentals of Text GameRight?! Don't know why everyone doesn't do this | /r/seduction | 09/01/18 08:03 PM |
| 6 | My Fundamentals of Text GameHere are some of the texting fundamentals that I go by. 0:20 The goal is to meet in person 0:50 Keep it fun and positive 1:22 Know how to re-engage 2:06 Respond quickly 2:57 Don't stress too much about what you are saying | /r/seduction | 09/01/18 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Is social circle game worth it?Yes absolutely and once you get with a girl in the social circle it makes its going to be hard to hook up or get with any of the other girls if that is important to you | /r/seduction | 08/01/18 09:15 PM |
| 3 | What is your experience doing Game alone?So much harder. Go out with friends homie. They'll keep you sane. | /r/seduction | 08/01/18 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Is social circle game worth it?In short, I think Social Circle game is worth it but I DO NOT think it should be your primary focus. That should be about developing yourself. 0:00 Social Circle Game on the web 0:38 The reality of the situation 1:03 Good things about Social Circle Game 1:52 Guys who do well 3:00 The lifestyle 3:39 Social Media Game 4:11 Need to have your own skills | /r/seduction | 08/01/18 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Write down your goals with women for 2018What are your goals with women this year? | /r/seduction | 31/12/17 11:02 PM |
| 3 | Should you buy a girl drink?This is my opinion. My rule was "never buy a girl a drink under any circumstance." However, I have changed it slightly. I still think you should never use money to attract women but if she is already attracted to you getting a drink with her at the bar is a great tool to get her away from her friends. | /r/seduction | 30/12/17 02:31 AM |
| 1 | 7 sex tips I learned from a top earning prostituteNo problem man. Thanks for watching till the end. Happy Xmas! | /r/seduction | 26/12/17 12:26 AM |
| 1 | 7 sex tips I learned from a top earning prostituteThis is a good point. There are biases from everyone's perspective and this is a possible one for hers. Take a look at the advice first before you discount it though. Her profession is certainly different than most people but she still has the same parts as all other women but a much better understanding of how they should be used. | /r/seduction | 26/12/17 12:24 AM |
| 4 | 7 sex tips I learned from a top earning prostituteGoing to have to disagree with you bud. I have personally made girls squirt. It's not piss haha it's more the lubrication that is used during sex coming out more rapidly. | /r/seduction | 26/12/17 12:20 AM |
| 2 | Why does society condition men to be beta males instead of alpha males?oh shit sorry about that man | /r/seduction | 26/12/17 12:17 AM |
| 3 | Why does society condition men to be beta males instead of alpha males?I tend to be careful with this line of thinking. https://www.youtube.com/edit?o=U&video_id=k757dFxysOI Let me know if this helps you | /r/seduction | 25/12/17 07:59 PM |
| 3 | Awkward tension wherever talking to people(mostly dudes)If you see a reoccurring pattern in your life you have to look at the common denominator of the situation. Usually when i do this the problem can be traced back to me. You say you are very conscious about not coming off as needy and that's good but it could also be seen as standoffish. Try taking more of an interest in these people and see if over time their demeanor changes. I myself have a pretty angry resting face so I always try and be extra friendly so people know I am not a douche. | /r/seduction | 25/12/17 07:56 PM |
| 7 | Conversation skills that trigger girls to engage and talk?This can be a pretty frustrating process but you basically have to ask questions that allow her to tell a story rather than ones that encourage one word answers. Here is a video that can help https://youtu.be/0cC4KkgcADs . I find "how" questions to be helpful with this. | /r/seduction | 25/12/17 07:49 PM |
| 17 | 7 sex tips I learned from a top earning prostituteWell, it is from a "she" not a "he" haha. And yes that's correct I used to think same as you but it starts as soon as you start touching each other and ends when the sex parts become involved. | /r/seduction | 24/12/17 11:47 PM |
| 59 | 7 sex tips I learned from a top earning prostituteOne of the top earning sex workers in the country, Alice Little gave me some great sex tips that I thought I'd share with you guys. 0:40 Timing 1:20 Ramp up slowly 2:10 10 minutes of foreplay 3:05 If she likes it don't change it 3:35 Communicate with her 4:15 Write the alphabet with your tongue 4:39 Modify positions for maximum stimulation | /r/seduction | 24/12/17 10:15 PM |
| 6 | Back up Todd's Channel if you like his videosalready doing it | /r/seduction | 20/12/17 07:15 PM |
| 1 | The most important skill in conversationAbsolutely but the principles are more or less the same. That is why I used the example of Bill Clinton. Believe it or not despite how he portrays himself in the media a lot of those close to Trump have said he is a good listener. My view is that being charismatic in the business and political world is certainly important but once you have made your intentions known (that you are attracted to the woman you are speaking with) then the tone of the conversation becomes much more intimate and sexual… | /r/seduction | 20/12/17 07:14 PM |
| 1 | The most important skill in conversationI haven't heard of him but checked him out. His stuff looks pretty cool but didn't find any of the listening stuff you were talking about | /r/seduction | 20/12/17 07:06 PM |
| 1 | The most important skill in conversationOne syllable answers are pretty common but a great way to cut down on that is to ask better questions. I prefer "how" questions as opposed to "what" "who" and "why" questions. The "how" invites them to tell a story. If a girl says she majored in psychology you can ask "how did you get into that?" I talk about this in depth here https://youtu.be/0cC4KkgcADs. Let me know if it helps | /r/seduction | 20/12/17 07:03 PM |
| 1 | The most important skill in conversationOk when you respond a good technique to use is you want to restate what the person just told you but in your own words. I talk about the exact way to do this here https://youtu.be/-c_awC4BgIY. For the questions you want to ask I think "how" questions are the best. For instance, if she mentions she majored in psychology you could as oh "how did you get into that?" This invites them to tell a story. I talk about this part here https://youtu.be/0cC4KkgcADs. Let me know if these help you and any fol… | /r/seduction | 20/12/17 06:55 PM |
| 4 | The most important skill in conversationVery good question. I find that in order to get things started you have to start the talking. Asking good questions is key here. I find that the best questions are "how" questions. For instance, if she says she is a psychology major asking "how did you get into that?" is better than "why did you choose psychology?" The difference is slight but the former invites her to tell you a story and requires less time to think. I go more in-depth on this here. Lemme know if it helps https://www.youtube.co… | /r/seduction | 20/12/17 03:23 AM |
| 2 | The most important skill in conversationHaha exactly the same for me. Better game with half the effort. | /r/seduction | 19/12/17 10:31 PM |
| 1 | The most important skill in conversationAbsolutely, couldn't agree more! | /r/seduction | 19/12/17 10:31 PM |
| 2 | The most important skill in conversationLater on I talk about about some of the subtle tips that you can use to improve your listening which I absolutely think was good advice for me. If it did not help you no worries. Thanks for tuning in, even if you didn't manage to read the whole thing. | /r/seduction | 19/12/17 10:31 PM |
| 2 | The most important skill in conversationLOL :)))))) | /r/seduction | 19/12/17 10:27 PM |
| 2 | The most important skill in conversationDo you know of any that do? Would love to check out their stuff. I follow and know a lot of the guys from RSD and a few others. | /r/seduction | 19/12/17 10:25 PM |
| 3 | The most important skill in conversationAbsolutely. What surprised me the most too was it actually helped me hook up with more girls. Never thought I would say that. | /r/seduction | 19/12/17 08:57 PM |
| 4 | The most important skill in conversationHaha yeah for me ironically shutting my mouth was one of the biggest improvements to my game. But also the other stuff I talked about here really helped me too | /r/seduction | 19/12/17 08:56 PM |
| 6 | The most important skill in conversationHow important do you guys think listening is in conversations? | /r/seduction | 19/12/17 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Smile to attract womenah ok I see. If you're doing a wide smile then maybe mouth closed. I find those can look pretty natural if done right. what do you think? | /r/seduction | 19/12/17 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Smile to attract womeneven if you should just a hint of teeth it looks bad? When I smile only a small fraction of my teeth are actually visible | /r/seduction | 19/12/17 01:06 AM |
| 0 | Smile to attract womenMight not seem obvious to you but a lot of guys don't do this | /r/seduction | 18/12/17 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Smile to attract womenI used to be exactly that kind of guy. | /r/seduction | 18/12/17 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Smile to attract womenSmiling is important It's the first communication you make with someone It'll increase your charisma instantly Get a better smile by practicing Focus on smiling with your eyes too Make sure your breath and teeth are clean Do you guys work on your smile? | /r/seduction | 17/12/17 11:07 PM |
| 4 | I’m a freshman in college is wondering how I could possibly pickup girls that I see in passing sometimes but don’t have any classes with them or an obvious connection of any kind?ok a lot of people here are giving you bad advice man. If you do classic cold approach on a college campus it will destroy your life. | /r/seduction | 17/12/17 11:29 AM |
| 3 | How to be vulnerable but not needyThis is awesome. Great on your recovery and great on getting laid ;) | /r/seduction | 15/12/17 01:57 AM |
| 1 | How to be vulnerable but not needyhaha mischievious... that's a good way of putting it. Sounds like you good solid Ninja game ;) | /r/seduction | 14/12/17 02:11 AM |
| 1 | How to be vulnerable but not needyGood example showing the difference | /r/seduction | 13/12/17 08:07 PM |
| 1 | How to be vulnerable but not needyThe way you reframe a lot of things that seemingly were vulnerable into something that is not is a big point I am trying to make and it's a great technique. I think we maybe mostly just disagree on semantics. As for the never telling a girl that you like and are interested in her, I think that you must show be showing the girl that you are interested in her in some way, maybe not with your words, otherwise she'll eventually stop trying to get you | /r/seduction | 13/12/17 08:06 PM |
| 1 | How to be vulnerable but not needyFirst of all, thank you for reading through my post. If you have time could you please elaborate on two of your points. The first being how you disagree with me on the 'spammy pick up artist' portion and what you mean by 'unstable over dead.' Thanks homie! | /r/seduction | 13/12/17 08:00 PM |
| 2 | How to be vulnerable but not needyYou bring up a great point, the 'normal stuff' probably seems to work better because everyone can relate to that and not everyone can relate to your previous story. I think I agree with you that saving the hard stuff for later is probably the best move, unless its a Barbara Walters interview ;) | /r/seduction | 13/12/17 07:39 PM |
| 2 | How to be vulnerable but not needyNot worth it in my opinion as well she's obviously into you but has something else going on right now. Not you're job to message her a bunch to figure it out. | /r/seduction | 13/12/17 07:35 PM |
| 1 | How to be vulnerable but not needyVulnerability is one aspect of the puzzle and not the whole thing. I state this about midway through. I am not asking you to make up anything. Vulnerability is a method by which you open up to establish a connection. | /r/seduction | 13/12/17 07:34 PM |
| 3 | How to be vulnerable but not needyDealing with things in a calm way is a great way of putting it. And absolutely don't throw a monologue at them when you first meet haha! I wish I had more room to type out the amount I feel is appropriate to be vulnerable about. That's another topic entirely. But if you say things like you said calmly and even with a positive mindset, a lot of things you think make you look vulnerable can end up sounding not vulnerable at all. | /r/seduction | 13/12/17 07:37 AM |
| 25 | How to be vulnerable but not needyWell for me I did it because I thought that hot girls would think I was a pussy if I even showed the slightest lack of confidence. It's fine to be nervous or have insecurities. I just didn't know that back then. As a result, I acted like someone else. | /r/seduction | 13/12/17 06:57 AM |
| 0 | How to be vulnerable but not needyI agree I think its the first step | /r/seduction | 13/12/17 06:07 AM |
| 9 | How to be vulnerable but not needyWhat are times where you guys have been vulnerable where it has worked/didn't work? | /r/seduction | 13/12/17 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Are crazy women better in bed?Haha exactly | /r/seduction | 09/12/17 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Are crazy women better in bed?I think the answer is no | /r/seduction | 09/12/17 02:56 AM |
| 1 | [M23] Despite my attempts, I still fail, and I think it's due to lookssorry I didn't read the title apparently. Its fine to go through these periods. You'll pull out of it trust me man, just keep at it. | /r/seduction | 08/12/17 06:55 AM |
| 1 | [M23] Despite my attempts, I still fail, and I think it's due to looksYou're a good looking guy man. That's not the problem. It sounds like you're going through a rough patch. How old are you? | /r/seduction | 08/12/17 01:28 AM |
| 2 | How to be funnyI know right couldn't make up my fucking mind haha | /r/seduction | 07/12/17 10:34 PM |
| 1 | How to be funnyBeing funny is not something you're born with. You can get better at it, but it will take practice. Here I break down some comedic principles which you can use in conversation when you are talking to women. 0:00 Being funny isn't easy 0:42 Being fun is better than being funny 1:20 Comedy is relateable ridiculousness 2:08 Be specific 3:15 Self-deprecating humor 4:45 Doubling down 5:45 Build on a premise 6:43 You will mess up! 7:50 Practice, practice, practice!! | /r/seduction | 07/12/17 07:10 PM |
| 1 | 5 conversation topics that women loveNo problem!! | /r/seduction | 03/12/17 11:25 PM |
| 3 | 5 conversation topics that women love1) Personality Types 0:26 2 ) Astrology and Horoscopes 1:47 3 ) People watching 2:34 4) Hypothetical situations 3:38 5) Male-female dynamics 4:26 What topics do you guys find that are good? | /r/seduction | 02/12/17 02:00 AM |
| 2 | What to do if she is taking a long time to respondI wasn't texting her everyday. Also after you've slept with a girl you don't need to message her that much because you've already won her over. To win her over you have to put in work at the beginning. If she's a hot girl she'll forget about you with all the other messages she's getting from other guys. Sending a text message in itself isn't seen as needy. It definitely depends on what you send. Just my opinion I've done this with countless women. it works for me but it sounds like your strategy… | /r/seduction | 02/12/17 01:48 AM |
| 2 | What to do if she is taking a long time to respondthat too ;) | /r/seduction | 02/12/17 01:43 AM |
| 1 | What to do if she is taking a long time to respondExactly man thanks for reading or watching | /r/seduction | 02/12/17 01:43 AM |
| 2 | How do I reduce awkwardness on a date?This topic was discussed briefly before. I believe TinderellaWorldwide had a pretty good post on it. I think the setup is an important part and then the conversation. Typical mainstream dates usually suck. 0:00 Setting up the date 0:48 Do an activity on the date 3:09 Questions to ask during 5:28 Small talk is important | /r/seduction | 30/11/17 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Do looks matter? (what the pick up community doesn't tell you)If they succeeded without improving their looks then they should be teaching me haha! Almost everytime I see someone improve they almost always improve their posture, smile, and their overall swagger as well. I consider all of these part of "looks" no just those things you are born with and your body type. Also, I know why the post is not on the front page. The mods think this violates the guidelines because the question of "do looks matter" has already been answered. However, I have read their … | /r/seduction | 29/11/17 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Do looks matter? (what the pick up community doesn't tell you)This is awesome man. You definitely need to have game. Also, you're a perfect example of how you can change your looks. This is another reason why it annoys me that it continues to get repeated that looks don't matter. Some guys might use it as an excuse to not get in shape or clean up their appearance. Also has my post been deleted from reddit? When I look at the front page of seddit I can't find it. Or on any of the other pages behind it | /r/seduction | 28/11/17 10:37 PM |
| 2 | How are you supposed to have an "interesting life" when you have to work and go to school full time?You can make even mundane aspects of your life seem interesting. It depends on how you describe it. Showing how passionate you are for a subject no matter what it is will be interesting to her | /r/seduction | 28/11/17 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Do looks matter? (what the pick up community doesn't tell you)You DON'T have to be good looking to get hot girls but they obviously help. I find it frustrating that a lot of dating coaches do not address this more. 0:00 Most common pick up advice 0:41 My opinion 1:12 You can improve your look 2:09 We don't all start out at the same level 3:42 Find situations to help you win 5:20 Summary | /r/seduction | 28/11/17 08:04 PM |
| 2 | 30 First Date Conversation Starters That Will Kick Awkwardness In The Buttmore of this please | /r/seduction | 24/11/17 08:40 AM |
| 4 | How do you change a mustache from a liability to an asset when dating or hooking up?don't listen to these pussies, Movember is a manly thing to do. Sure most women don't like it but that is the WHOLE POINT of Movember. Doing things purely because women like and because they are in style are for the people that hate on this post. So cheers to you mate, getting slightly less pussy to have fun is still a win in my book | /r/seduction | 22/11/17 02:25 AM |
| 1 | 6 steps to FAKE confidencenot much I can do about that | /r/seduction | 18/11/17 11:15 PM |
| 2 | 6 steps to FAKE confidencebahahaha I actually do lol | /r/seduction | 18/11/17 10:36 PM |
| 0 | Why do I keep dating crazy women?We've all dealt with a lot of crazy women. Or if you haven't you will. If this keeps happening to you though then its a problem. It was for me. Here are some reasons why. 0:00 the common denominator 0:25 what girls are you picking? 2:07 what are you doing to make the crazy? 3:43 make an effort to figure out why There are many more reasons I didn't cover. I could go on a long list about all the crazy girls I've been with. | /r/seduction | 18/11/17 10:35 PM |
| 1 | I'm 29 and i have no idea what to do...Go do activities where you are required to be in teams and work with other people. Everyone goes to the gym alone and few make friends. Improv classes, intramural sports require you to work and communicate with others. I think that should help. Where do you live by the way? | /r/seduction | 14/11/17 11:01 PM |
| 2 | I'm 29 and i have no idea what to do...I think you have to get more friends. That would be the first thing I would recommend. I think this is the biggest solution to your happiness and the women will follow after that. imo | /r/seduction | 14/11/17 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Bad Advice: "Just Be Yourself""Being genuine" is a great way to put it. That's more or less what I meant when I said "don't try and be like someone else." Great advice my man! | /r/seduction | 14/11/17 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Bad Advice: "Just Be Yourself"I used to hate it when girls would constantly give me this advice. 0:00 Why its the worst advice 0:47 Be your best self 1:20 Don't try and be someone you're not 2:23 My example 3:17 Ways to find your strengths Basically what they are telling you is don't try and be someone you are not. I remember when I was going out a lot with Evil Stifler I would try and copy him exactly but that had mixed results. Once I found my strengths and what I was good at, I had much more success. | /r/seduction | 14/11/17 06:11 PM |
| 1 | I’m a 21 year old guy who’s still just as afraid of hot girls as I was when I was 15.My fear didn't start decreasing until after the age of 23. I still get nervous around them but am much comfortable and kill it now. I'm 26. You still got time homie | /r/seduction | 14/11/17 05:53 PM |
| 1 | What if she seems interested but keeps flaking?Thanks for watching man. In your situation, because of how she acted I would assume that you maybe didn't show her enough interest afterward but you've tried to make plans with her three times this week that's pretty obvious interest. I would just straight up ask her if everything is ok and if anything is going on. From the information I have on this situation I don't know what's going through her mind. Women are crazy. | /r/seduction | 13/11/17 03:58 AM |
| 1 | What if she seems interested but keeps flaking?yes that's me. Beard and man bun included! | /r/seduction | 12/11/17 05:12 PM |
| 8 | What if she seems interested but keeps flaking?We've all been there, including me. Here are some general ground rules I've found. It basically comes down to going after other girls because she's not interested. 0:00 2x the charm 0:39 why she's sending mixed signals 1:40 my experience with this 3:17 We've all been there | /r/seduction | 11/11/17 08:25 PM |
| 6 | [Need Advice] A girl I have been seeing and really like just intentionally blue balled me and not sure how to handle.She'll bang you dude. She's just trying to make sure you don't run away after and she feels used. | /r/seduction | 11/11/17 08:22 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with flakes?also a few hours before the date you can text her "Hey gonna be 5min late because..." that way it gives her the easy out if she's gonna flake and you don't get stood up | /r/seduction | 11/11/17 08:20 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with flakes?This might help you out a bit. Basically, you need to be messaging her throughout the week. I text something funny so I'm staying in her mind and I'm showing her that I'll be there https://youtu.be/0HlYuCGV4kc | /r/seduction | 11/11/17 08:19 PM |
| 1 | College Town For A Nightare you over 21? Also which college town? | /r/seduction | 11/11/17 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Why women keep suddenly breaking up with youIf anyone is having this issue, it used to happen to me a lot. 0:00 look at the common denominator 1:00 what kinds girls are you seeing? 1:33 getting too clingy? 3:15 could be something obvious your not seeing 4:36 ask your close friends | /r/seduction | 11/11/17 12:06 AM |
| 3 | [23/M] Really struggling to get into the dating scene (online + apps aren't working for me). Should I be talking to random women, or spare myself the embarrassment?Yeah man try doing an activity once or twice a week that gives you the opportunity to meet people men and women (guys to go out with and women to either date or use to meet other women). I used soccer but you can use whatever hobby you like. Change won't happen overnight but you build the pipeline within a couple months you'll realize things are a lot better | /r/seduction | 09/11/17 06:58 PM |
| 1 | [23/M] Really struggling to get into the dating scene (online + apps aren't working for me). Should I be talking to random women, or spare myself the embarrassment?How are you meeting people in general? What kinds of friends do you have? Going the route of meeting people randomly is do-able but very frustrating and low percentage of success for most people. A great change to make is alter your lifestyle so you are meeting people and doing activities with them regularly. It sounds like your work is not a good place for this. For me I played a lot of intra-mural soccer during the week and made a lot of awesome friends that way. I not only met a lot of girls … | /r/seduction | 09/11/17 06:36 PM |
| 1 | How to be vulnerable but not needyFirst thanks for taking the time to watch the video. How long have you two been together? Why do you think you love her? | /r/seduction | 09/11/17 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Met wonderful woman online, she lives in florida but will be back to Cali in December - How do i keep the attraction alive until she comes backno problem homie. I think you'll be fine a lot of the stuff I said you can still do with just the number. Not sure how your interactions have been, but if you give her no contact she could assume you're not interested | /r/seduction | 09/11/17 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Met wonderful woman online, she lives in florida but will be back to Cali in December - How do i keep the attraction alive until she comes backNo you need to be in her mind. Do you just have her number or do you have her instagram or snapchat? I like to send girls funny videos or photos on that app. Sending her snapchats of you can be really fun and will definitely keep you in her mind especially if she gets to see your face. I also like to facetime girls but it depends on how much interaction you had beforehand | /r/seduction | 09/11/17 02:16 AM |
| 1 | How to be vulnerable but not needyAbsolutely man. I've found this gets women super into you because you build a great connection | /r/seduction | 08/11/17 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Run out of things to say? How to keep the conversation goingI find that asking "how" questions are usually the best. For instance she majored in psychology. "How did you get interested in psychology" This will get her to tell you a story and now you have even more avenues to go down. | /r/seduction | 08/11/17 07:03 PM |
| 2 | How can i graciously reply to a text rejection?maybe just take out "if you want to join us" it was probably fine before but that's slightly better. | /r/seduction | 08/11/17 06:59 PM |
| 3 | 19yo virgin. Advice?get small wins man. Being a 19 yo virgin is fine. I was pretty similar to you when I was your age. Now life is paradise | /r/seduction | 08/11/17 06:49 PM |
| 7 | How to be vulnerable but not needySomething I struggled with a lot was opening up without being seen as needy. In fact, I just wouldn't do it at all. Not good for happiness and not good for getting the girl imo 0:14 The Wounded Warrior 1:02 Need to have other stuff going on 2:37 How to practice being vulnerable the right way 4:02 Being in Pick Up is a vulnerable position 4:38 Example 5:15 Vulnerability = more and better girls | /r/seduction | 08/11/17 06:46 PM |
| 1 | I feel like being good with girls takes too much effort and time.Don't sweat it man. I was in your exact same position in college. Let me ask you. Who do you see doing well with women? Are these people your friends, acquaintances or people that you hear about? | /r/seduction | 02/11/17 05:00 AM |
| 2 | How do you flirt with someone without coming across as weirdly awkward and creepy?You need to smile with your whole face. Don't forget to smile with your eyes. A trick models use is they press their tongue to the back of their teeth | /r/seduction | 02/11/17 04:59 AM |
| 6 | How to build tension with just eye contact?Smile with your eyes. What I mean by this is that when a person smiles they smile with their whole face not just their mouth. In this instance smile but just with your eyes. They should get a little wider. Practice in the mirror. This one is super seductive. | /r/seduction | 02/11/17 04:56 AM |
| 2 | Which book on seduction/game should I start off with?"How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie | /r/seduction | 02/11/17 04:47 AM |
| 13 | How do you get over a girl when you don’t have any other girls in line for you?the best way to get over a girl is actually not to sleep with another one or have one in line. Sure it can help but it's spending time with those that care about you like your close friends or family that are usually the best. If you don't have close friends to spend time with that should be your #1 priority. | /r/seduction | 02/11/17 04:33 AM |
| 2 | why vulnerability is an attractive qualityI struggled with this for awhile. Not many people talk about vulnerability and the pick up community seems to actively discourage it. I disagree. Women usually say its an important attractive quality. 0:00 findings of a college study 1:15 vulnerability establishes a connection 2:11 young guys are the worst at this 3:05 vulnerability leads to more success with women 4:00 how to be vulnerable | /r/seduction | 02/11/17 03:36 AM |
| 2 | Should I be ashamed of having sex with a chubby girlyou're friends are all virgins | /r/seduction | 01/11/17 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Should I be ashamed of having sex with a chubby girlnaw bro. Pussy is pussy. We've all been there | /r/seduction | 01/11/17 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Are coaches destroying YOUR game on purpose? I have noticed this a few times too.Coaches definitely pick at your insecurities very effectively. I've seen it first hand. They usually have a lot of their own issues they are trying to run from and make money off of others. I actually discussed this very issue here https://youtu.be/MUBVkuXgRio | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Why most pick up advice sucksThis is my opinion 0:00 How pick up hooks you 1:15 Most pick up guys are damaged 2:20 Pick up can get you to lose friends 3:21 How to keep yourself sane 4:17 Pick up dehumanizes women 5:16 Pick up will get you to hate women 6:10 Have friends | /r/seduction | 26/10/17 08:50 PM |
| 1 | how prehistoric men attracted womenThere's a lot of bad information on this topic and everyone has their own opinion about it. Here is mine from all the paleolithic anthropology books I've read. Let me know what you think would love to discuss. 0:00 Information online is mostly "broscience" 0: 44 what we do know 2:40 how to be more attractive groups 3:31 example of a valuable skill for the group 4:25 how to apply to our everyday lives | /r/seduction | 18/10/17 06:54 AM |
| 7 | Tips on how to stop paying for dates?Try going for something that doesn't require either of you to spend too much money. If its a first date a couple drinks are fine and that way you can relax and get to know each other. I used to invite girls to the park and share a cheap bottle of wine. If she is a good girl she will offer to split on the second date. But even if she doesn't this shouldn't be an issue. I usually make the first few dates fun and low cost to both people. Women usually prefer these because formal dinner dates can be… | /r/seduction | 18/10/17 06:51 AM |
| 1 | The dangers of alpha vs beta male thinkingYou sure? It's got padded seats ;) | /r/seduction | 17/10/17 09:06 PM |
| 2 | The dangers of alpha vs beta male thinkingExactly, being confident and alpha (as most people in the community refer to it) are not the same thing. Thanks for watching the whole video. | /r/seduction | 17/10/17 07:14 PM |
| 6 | How to arrange 3someDon't listen to this guy its JUST as awesome as it seems. Threesomes are the shit. The problem here is that talk is cheap. Almost every girl I've been with consistently says into it but most chicken out when it actually comes down to it | /r/seduction | 17/10/17 05:29 PM |
| 2 | In college. Girl in class constantly looks over, want to talk to her but don't want to start it off the cheesiest way possiblesometimes the cheesiest way is the best way. Just after class, as you are walking out, ask her what she thinks of the professor or something. | /r/seduction | 17/10/17 03:36 AM |
| 3 | I think I pinned down what the source of my AA is.Tell us about how you approached her. A good way to gain confidence is smiling at people and seeing if they smile back. Try holding the gaze for a second longer than most would | /r/seduction | 17/10/17 01:45 AM |
| 5 | The dangers of alpha vs beta male thinking0:00 Why the Pick Up community is obsessed with Alpha vs Beta 0:58 The true science behind Alpha Male 2:07 The history of Alpha Males in human society 3:40 "Non-alpha" attractive traits 5:15 Be confident not "alpha" | /r/seduction | 16/10/17 11:45 PM |
| 15 | How guys like RSD Todd and RSD Tyler do so well on night game without even dancing?These guys are not nearly as good as they make themselves look on camera. They're normal guys like the rest of us who just edit out their failures like the guy below says. I recommend you go to bars more if you like talking. | /r/seduction | 14/10/17 04:59 PM |
| 4 | Little piece of advice if a girl isn't interestedcould've said all this a lot quicker | /r/seduction | 14/10/17 04:53 PM |
| -3 | 25 Rules on WomenThis list is very extreme. Women really aren't that bad homie. I agree with most of your list but some are just going to make you hate women more. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/17 08:20 PM |
| 1 | How I got out of the FriendzoneI was more referring to asking her out on a date which is what I did. | /r/seduction | 12/10/17 05:15 PM |
| 3 | So I am into this hot girl at my schoolI would go with complimenting her sense of humor first. She probably doesn't get as much attention for that and is bound to be much more proud of that than her boobs or ass. This is a good rule of thumb for most girls | /r/seduction | 12/10/17 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Can anyone tell me about San Diego?I think they are actually a lot nicer than the girls I deal with in San Francisco or LA | /r/seduction | 07/10/17 06:55 PM |
| 1 | The best way to talk to girls in conversationcouldn't agree more. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RAlXWOIXXbc | /r/seduction | 07/10/17 06:51 PM |
| 3 | The best way to talk to girls in conversationits got extra padded seats ;) | /r/seduction | 06/10/17 11:46 PM |
| 5 | The best way to talk to girls in conversation0:00 be passionate! 2:05 what to talk about 2:39 example 3:49 why this example works 4:47 What you can do today to improve | /r/seduction | 06/10/17 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone tell me about San Diego?The ratio is great. The girls are hot. If you want the best place to go hang out go to Pacific Beach. Its more or less where everyone goes after they graduate or sometimes while they are at San Diego State. SDSU has some of the hottest girls in the country | /r/seduction | 06/10/17 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Any of you approach at your college campus?you can definitely meet girls thru Tinder in college. But it is not the best way to go especially if it's kind of a closed campus. A lot of girls meeting guys thru Tinder means their college isn't great for meeting guys. There are plenty of colleges like this | /r/seduction | 24/09/17 01:39 PM |
| 2 | Tinder Plus - does it get more matches?I live in San Francisco | /r/seduction | 21/09/17 09:14 AM |
| 18 | Any of you approach at your college campus?Don't do the standard daygame. This will fuck up your whole world especially if you have a low student body count. Girls in school sleep with the guys who they already know about. Meet them through parties, events, friends, clubs, classes, and fraternities. Keeping girls "warm" is the way to go. | /r/seduction | 20/09/17 10:35 PM |
| 1 | I'm 30, average looking, a bit overweight but manage to do very well with Tinder - figured I'd share what I do for a point of referenceI can see the slightly overweight part but you are far from average and are quite a good looking guy. I am not saying this trying to criticize you. I mean it as a compliment. The problem is not everyone on this reddit page can emulate you. | /r/seduction | 19/09/17 10:19 AM |
| 2 | No more click bait vids pleaseSAY THESE THREE THINGS TO GET ANY WOMAN TO SLEEP WITH YOU! GUARANTEED!! 100%!! IM SERIOUS THERE IS LITERALLY NO WAY YOU FAIL!! (NOT CLICKBAIT)!!! | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 08:52 PM |
| 1 | I'm 30, average looking, a bit overweight but manage to do very well with Tinder - figured I'd share what I do for a point of referenceYou didn't include the most important thing on Tinder. Your pictures. | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 08:49 PM |
| 5 | I have no fucking clue how to show interestlisten, smile and show good eye contact. Ask her questions about herself. The best way to show interest is to BE interested in her. | /r/seduction | 16/09/17 09:33 PM |
| 1 | One trick to use to get a woman more turned onhmmm that is weird that its not starting at the beginning. Make sure to go back at start at 0:01 guys. Thanks for pointing it out man | /r/seduction | 16/09/17 07:31 PM |
| 1 | One trick to use to get a woman more turned onyeah I know I'm wearing basketball shorts. Try not to give me too much shit about it ;) | /r/seduction | 16/09/17 01:24 PM |
| 1 | What are some things you should keep to yourself early on in dating?the fact that you are on /r/seduction ;) | /r/seduction | 16/09/17 01:20 PM |
| 5 | Tinder Plus - does it get more matches?Regular swipes don't really get you a higher ELO score on Plus but if you use a Boost, which you get one a month of and start out with five, you automatically go to the front of the list. If you already have a killer profile and do this at a great time, say a Friday night, then you can expect to get a shit load of matches. The number is obviously subjective. Also super likes do make a difference. I think its always better to meet girls in real life but there are definitely advantages. All my fri… | /r/seduction | 16/09/17 01:14 PM |
| 14 | The Best Advice for Dating You Will Ever Hear.The funny part about this is most people in the pick up community don't know how to talk like a normal person. The more pick up stuff they read the worse they get at this. | /r/seduction | 15/09/17 09:23 PM |
| 1 | How do I get a girl in bed after she agreed to come over?Do you have any roommate issues to worry about here? | /r/seduction | 15/09/17 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Why men need to approach womenFor the pregnancy part it obviously is a huge cost to a man if he knocks a woman up in the modern day. However for most of the 200,000-year existence of humanity lawsuits and child support did not exist so our brains have evolved without these concerns in mind and the costs are as mentioned. For 2:20 although she might not be explicitly offering sex she is presenting herself to a lot of men. A guy who does the same thing the social consequences are not as severe in my opinion. If I had to re-do … | /r/seduction | 14/09/17 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Why does Robert Greene's Art of Seduction say to carry a melancholic mood, yet a speech training CD I'm listening to says to speak with an uplifting inflection with no end-taper?Both tones work in different ways. Robert Greene kind of thinks he knows everything. His books are very thorough and explanatory but I feel sometimes he overestimates his reach | /r/seduction | 14/09/17 02:34 PM |
| 3 | How do I Stop being the odd guy out in social events?Japan is pretty racist, but I feel like this kind of racism can work in your favor. You're forbidden fruit bro ;) | /r/seduction | 14/09/17 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Is kino mandatory ?Could you be more specific? Obviously, you will need to touch a girl at some point if you want to have sex with her. Do you mean you don't like touching them in public? or too soon? | /r/seduction | 14/09/17 09:57 AM |
| 3 | Pre-openers are key in Daygamethe best opener is a killer smile. | /r/seduction | 14/09/17 09:55 AM |
| 1 | How to ask a girl out at workhaha yes that's more or less the main point of the video | /r/seduction | 14/09/17 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Approach a Girl In Class?I would start by saying hi to her everyday. Don't feel worried about trying to talk to her after class. Unless she sprints out the door everytime the bell rings that's totally fine. Eventually invite her to hang out later with you and your friends. If she has none like you say she does she'll be down. Just hanging out with friends also prevents it from getting awkward in class if you find out she's not interested. Judging from this your chances look good though! | /r/seduction | 13/09/17 03:17 PM |
| 3 | How to talk to girls: The most important skill in conversationThe funny part about this is he probably thought the conversation went great. Wanna be pick up guys do this kind of thing all the time. | /r/seduction | 10/09/17 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Utilizing social proof from working at a popular barIt sounds like you kind of have the right idea. If everyone knows and likes you then girls will take notice. There should be at least one or two girls out there that stick around to closing to try and go home with you. The longer you work the easier it will be to spot that person. | /r/seduction | 10/09/17 02:18 AM |
| 4 | 28 in College Fraternity. Girls are around 19. How do I sell myself?You are being straightforward and honest. Anything can sound insecure from the wrong frame of mind | /r/seduction | 10/09/17 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Does this count as a shit test?Yeah dude, she was fucking with you. I love it when girls do that. | /r/seduction | 09/09/17 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Was she interested: Initiating contact after 6 months?Yeah dude, of course, she was interested in you. Message her back with something funny like "This reminded me of you ..." and send her a funny meme or something and ask her how she's doing. | /r/seduction | 09/09/17 10:53 PM |
| 0 | How do I remove this negative image that I have of myself?I think this video might help you. Let me know if it does https://www.youtube.com/edit?o=U&video_id=fymPAgK0MDs | /r/seduction | 09/09/17 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Do you get more attractive the more interesting you are?yes, of course, being more interesting makes you more attractive | /r/seduction | 09/09/17 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Opening/Closing Tips? (in need of a little bit of everything)Are you in college? <-this matters | /r/seduction | 09/09/17 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Texting all the time with a girl , is it bad?you could be spending this time talking to a girl who you'll actually see in person | /r/seduction | 09/09/17 07:40 PM |
| 15 | 28 in College Fraternity. Girls are around 19. How do I sell myself?Girls at this age are pretty dumb and are so full of insecurities that I think it's good to address the age but do it in a fun way. If you don't want to lie (respect to that) I think it might be good to make a joke out of it. Smile and say like "...Yeah, I'm basically the house dad" or "...Yeah I know I'm an old man, probably should've been asleep by 8 tonight." This kind of humor shows you're socially aware and will definitely crack her up. If she laughs really hard at this, she wants to fuck y… | /r/seduction | 09/09/17 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Need advice on picking up girls, but not dating them. Ive never been the "hook up" type beforeThe biggest difference I see between "hook up" guys and guys that don't is that hook up guys care less about what the girl thinks. He'll go up to a bunch of girls get turned down and still keep trying. The other guy will try maybe once or twice and give up. Not only does this reduce his chances but the guy who hooks up is improving faster because he's giving himself more repetitions. In short my advice is to give yourself permission to fuck up as much as possible. It'll be a tough emotionally bu… | /r/seduction | 08/09/17 05:29 PM |
| 1 | How to get a girl talking/open upSometimes it can be a nightmare to get a good conversation going with a girl. But in my opinion asking these questions can get her to open up and allow you two to build a connection. | /r/seduction | 08/09/17 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Need advice on picking up girls, but not dating them. Ive never been the "hook up" type beforeWhat is your goal? One night stands or maybe like a casual 1-3 month fling? | /r/seduction | 08/09/17 05:10 AM |
| 1 | This is how to get comfortable in social situations. Contrary to what the pick up community says.Is the link not working? Or are you referring to the video I posted? | /r/seduction | 07/09/17 01:21 AM |
| 1 | This is how to get comfortable in social situations. Contrary to what the pick up community says.Gawdammit is the link not working anymore? It's linked to a video | /r/seduction | 06/09/17 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Did you ever hook up with a friend of yours?All the girls that I hook up with are friends :D. But yeah I know what you mean I was friendzoned pretty aggressively in college but managed to get out. Eventually, we dated for like two months and then broke up fairly dramatically | /r/seduction | 06/09/17 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Hooking up while travelingExactly what the guy below me just said. You need to find the biggest party hostel you can find. If it's not obvious on hostelworld, ask around when you get there. Party hard the first few nights, everyone will friendly because EVERYONE is a stranger. I'm probably going to do a video on this since I was able to sleep with around 50 girls while I was in Asia for 6 months. 95% of these girls I met in hostels. My YouTube channel is https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC1s5LtohsQt-rVUPmfeEecA I'll post … | /r/seduction | 06/09/17 05:43 AM |
| 1 | So tell me if I'm getting this right, the first step to success with women is to get rejected enough times to get used to it?Getting rejected a bunch is NOT the answer to getting good with women I talk about this in a video I literally just made about social situations. lol https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6zUGKwXJcHo&feature=youtu.be | /r/seduction | 06/09/17 05:13 AM |
| 1 | How to get rid of your shame. A technique I used and still use to get rid of it. Lemme know your thoughts on this you guys!haha no im puerto rican and english | /r/seduction | 04/09/17 10:50 PM |
| 1 | I approached a girl for the first time today and I got her number!that's still pretty awesome. Just trying to give you a little bit of stoic mentality here haha | /r/seduction | 01/09/17 05:40 AM |
| 4 | I approached a girl for the first time today and I got her number!Awesome job man. Just don't get carried away there are plenty of times where things won't go your way in this but just remember that it only takes one to make it a success! | /r/seduction | 01/09/17 05:35 AM |
| 3 | How I buy drinks and get resultsYo what's up with the buying drinks thing? I NEVER buy girls drinks unless I am already having sex with them or it is a 100% for sure thing. Why would you pay someones drink if they haven't given you anything in return? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 06:05 AM |
| 9 | When talking to women, talk with your cock not with your brain.Yeah I believe its the guys job to bring sex into the conversation. This might piss some girls off which is actually good. If you're not pissing a few girls off from time to time something is wrong. However if they ALL get pissed off by it, then you are not bringing in enough positivity behind it. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 06:02 AM |
| 5 | Top Ten Feminist Fiascoes of 2014The ban bossy was in my opinion the biggest fiasco by far. We have one of the richest and most influential females in America trying to censor the English language, that's a big... failure. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 05:58 AM |
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