So, you’re messaging a girl and she takes several hours or even days to respond. This usually means she’s not that interested, busy, or she’s thinking about what to say.

Whichever reason it is you should still go by these principles I’ve laid out.

  • Don’t focus all your energy on this person, you should be going after other girls as well. Ironically this behavior will give you the best chance of success in the end.
  • Do re-engage her with a funny message. If I ask a girl a question over text and she doesn’t respond I will usually follow up the next day with a hilarious meme or something silly that happened to me that day. She’ll usually laugh and then answer my question after.
  • Do invite her to do something fun you are already doing. Whether she responds or not you still remain a high value guy and SHE is the one losing out on the fun. You can even send her a message the next day saying something silly about it like “wish you had been there the midgets started breakdancing!” This is just an example, think of your own.
  • Don’t try and have conversations with them until they start responding regularly. Get to the point and invite them out to something, that’s why you are messaging them in the first place right?!
  • Do keep things positive. Do not send her “Why aren’t you responding?” or “Hey butthead! are you still alive?” Even the second one is too needy. (See second bullet point)
  • Don’t try and make a big deal about setting up a date. Putting pressure on her might be part of the reason she is not responding in the first place. Make meeting up seem casual and fun. (See third bullet point)

In general women that take a lengthy time to respond usually aren’t worth your time but more often than not you can turn it around using this method. Just don’t lose your cool and keep on pimping boys 😉

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