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Hey. I'll see you at 9 That's exactly what I say. It works
/r/seduction22/05/18 03:49 AM
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Exactly. I was out Saturday night and got separated from my friends. We were at a bar/club. A girl came up to me and introduced herself and then asked me to dance. I wasn't attracted to her, but I was alone, so I said yes. It was definitely more fun than dancing alone!
/r/seduction14/05/18 05:53 PM
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I appreciate the positive spin. Weird has many meanings. I'm "weird" and many of the girls I've liked are "weird" but this is in a quirky, fun way. Then theres "weird" in the sense that I wouldn't want to be seen in public with this person
/r/seduction12/05/18 01:04 PM
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My point is just that it doesn't really matter what you have. If shes into, the snacks won't change that
/r/seduction12/05/18 02:41 AM
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What do call a girl that comes home with you on the first date, allows for quick escalation, says she "likes it" as you are rubbing her outside of her pants, and then immediately leaves the second you try putting your hand down her pants? I call that my friday night. Now my wing and I are going out. A chance at redemption for Smooth21. Her titties were fucking phenomenal. She sounded like she was literally on the verge of cumming. "It's not that I don't want to, but I just met you. I don't even …
/r/seduction12/05/18 02:05 AM
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deez nuts bruddah...you're overthinking it. Your post smells strongly of oneitis
/r/seduction12/05/18 01:59 AM
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Sure man. For me it's that the girls are socially awkward. Remember "weird" is a subjective term. One girl looked at me like I was trying to kill her after I attempted to hold to hand one hour into the date. Another girl didnt have a drivers license at the age of 26. Maybe a better phrase would be "not my type" These girls could be great for another guy. One girl was a pharmacist. After two dates I cut it off because I had zero physical attraction. She was "normal " just not my type. I'm into ed…
/r/seduction11/05/18 11:22 AM
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I didnt assume anything man. I'm saying that I didnt have any luck on there in spite of my above average looks
/r/seduction11/05/18 11:16 AM
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Let me clear this one up quickly. No. Now let me elaborate. My parents bribed me exactly one year ago to try match. I was one month out of a serious break up and they thought it would be good for me for some reason (it wasn't) In my one year, I went out with maybe 5 or 6 girls from match. I did not like any of the girls. They were mostly weird and awkward because let's face it...hotter and more desirable women would never pay to use a dating service. I had a one night stand with one of the girls…
/r/seduction11/05/18 12:28 AM
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If it makes you feel any better, I'm 0/50+ with regular dates in the past year But guess what? It just takes one
/r/seduction07/05/18 04:30 PM
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Yeah it's a shame. We had fun, and I was attracted to her. But realistically a girl like that won't fuck until like the 6th date. I literally dont have time for that. So many girls sleep with me on the first date
/r/seduction07/05/18 01:20 AM
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This reminds me of the date I just got home from. We spent 90 minutes at the bar. She was cute, conversation was great. Then as we are walking to our cars, I try holding her hand. She pulls away and says "it's only our first date" Then she says that she had fun and talks about having a second date. When we get to our cars, I hug her and say "I'm not even going to try to kiss you because you're clearly very reserved. I had fun though" Aka too bad you're stuck in the 1920s. Next
/r/seduction07/05/18 01:13 AM
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Next. She sounds like a headache. This isn't something that is just going to go away. She's damaged, and it's not your responsibility to fix her
/r/seduction07/05/18 01:00 AM
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Yes haha. I couldn't even imagine just diving in face first. I always start with my hands
/r/seduction05/05/18 03:21 PM
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I'm gonna leave the ass eatin for Vibez_ I'll stick to bangin
/r/seduction05/05/18 03:02 PM
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Sounds like you need a hobby
/r/seduction05/05/18 02:59 PM
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I always pay for the first date. It's only a drink or a cup of coffee, so around $3-$8.
/r/seduction05/05/18 02:05 AM
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Good shit. I would never buy a girl a drink if she asked me to. I always buy the first drink on a date, and I make it clear that "the first one's on me" but that's it never buying for a rando
/r/seduction01/05/18 02:20 AM
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This happens to the best of us man! I banged 4 different girls this month alone. I am the definition of abundance, but yet somehow I catch feels so easily. End result: I chase girls away and have tons of one night stands. I have had 9 or so one night stands in 2018
/r/seduction01/05/18 01:43 AM
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That group seems too big for solid pick up in my opinion. It's called a "wingman" for a reason. There's supposed to be one haha. It sounds like you were too concerned about where the other guys in your group were. I either go out with my wing in a duo or I go out in a larger group, accepting that I will mostly be hanging with my group, and it will not be a big time pick up night.
/r/seduction29/04/18 03:57 PM
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I just had a booty call. A girl I went out with a month ago on one date texted me a few hours ago. She flaked on our second date and I just moved on. She texted me tonight saying "Im drunk and wanna see you 😜😉 you should come over" So I went over. Laid the pipe. And she wants to see me again next weekend. I'm about to go out with my wingman. This should be a good night because I have zero pressure since I already got laid tonight
/r/seduction29/04/18 02:17 AM
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Yes. Not everyone responds. Most don't in fact. Then some girls give me that "let's talk more first" I just next those girls. Tinder is for getting cell phone numbers. Cell numbers are for setting up dates. If the girl doesn't like my style, I move on. I dont waste hours messaging or texting
/r/seduction28/04/18 09:35 PM
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I'd like to have a rotation. The girl from last night isn't relationship material, but she was hot. Maybe she can be a part of the squad
/r/seduction28/04/18 09:13 PM
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You I and I want different things. I'm screening for a potential girlfriend. And I'm banging along the journey. So I bang a lot of girls, but still looking for the relationship along the way
/r/seduction28/04/18 09:05 PM
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I number close after 3-5 tinder messages. Then set the date within 3-5 texts. I regularly have 2 or more dates per week
/r/seduction28/04/18 08:36 PM
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It sounds like you have a good system going. I just take the "shotgun" approach. Aka high volume of dates. 50% of my first dates come home with me. 50% of the girls that come home with me, also put out. So I get laid on 25% of my dates. Last night I had sex with my 6th girl in two months. I only have sex though. I dont take head or hand. I've gotten head once in the past year haha. It's strictly for foreplay in my world. So I got a few minutes of head last night before the smash
/r/seduction28/04/18 08:32 PM
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Now rinse and repeat with the next girl. I use this confirmation method with every girl. As a result, I have never been stood up. I've been flaked/ghosted, but never left sitting at the bar waiting for my master like a lost dog
/r/seduction28/04/18 01:53 PM
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I've been more dominant lately thanks to your advice. Tonight went really well. First date lay. Then she gave me a massage after, so I know I hit it right
/r/seduction28/04/18 05:25 AM
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Texting 301 - A guide to turn texts into sex
/r/seduction28/04/18 04:49 AM
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This is what I do: "Hey. See you at 8" I text them that on the day of the date. Just do that. If she doesn't respond, dont show for the date because she ghosted you and she won't be there either Also dont be a push over and accept that maybe bull shit. It's a sign of disinterest
/r/seduction28/04/18 04:47 AM
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I just like posting mini FRs in random comments haha. I dont want to be that guy the posts a FR every week (although mine tend to be well received) I've been with 6 girls in the last two months. 2 out of my three dates this week came home with me. I really enjoy talking about this shit, so I'll tell anyone that's up for listening
/r/seduction28/04/18 04:43 AM
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Smooth :p Yeah you literally just said "come over and fuck" I ask girls to come to eat pizza and watch a movie. You need to be more subtle. I had a first date tonight. One drink, then I asked her to go for a walk around the city with me. We were holding hands, then I randomly stopped her and we made out. As the date was wrapping up, and I was walking her to her car, she goes "what's next?" To which I respond "I want you to come over and watch a movie" She gets over, and we are in my bed. I'm str…
/r/seduction28/04/18 04:24 AM
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I do both. I go out once per week, but have access to tinder every day. This week I had 4 dates scheduled. 3 from tinder, one from last weekend's bar approaches. One of my 3 tinder girls flaked. As a result, 75% of the girls I hook up with are from tinder. 25% are from bar game. 16 girls in 8 months. Also I use "tinder" as a blanket term for online dating. This includes tinder, bumble, hinge, coffee meets bagel, etc
/r/seduction27/04/18 02:33 PM
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I've set a self imposed 3 dates per week limit because sometimes I get a little carried away on tinder...
/r/seduction27/04/18 02:24 PM
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I'm curious, why are the introverts being grouped with the noobs, the awkward, and the bad looking guys? I give a voice to the introverts! Haha jk. But I'm introverted, and I still manage to hook up with at least 2 girls per month. 2-3 dates per week. It's all about confidence. I dont have to be the loudest guy in the room to get attention. I'm also a natural leader. When I'm out with my other introverted friends, it is clear that I'm the one who leads. I'm the one that initiates sets. I'm the o…
/r/seduction27/04/18 12:56 PM
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Good luck man
/r/seduction26/04/18 10:06 PM
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That's what I was thinking. I guess it's no different than picking a girl up. The odd part about my situation was that we were already on our first date. We met at a brewery. So I drove from the brewery back to my place, then an hour later, I had to drive her back to the brewery to get her car. It was a little bizarre. But shes supposed to come over Monday for pizza and game of thrones. And a dick appointment
/r/seduction26/04/18 09:44 PM
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I'm reposting my comment from another thread: Try to schedule dates asap. If a date is more than 3 days away, send a small text in between just to stay in touch. If the date is 5+ days away I would recommend texting her on two separate days that are a couple days apart. I literally pinged a girl with "Did you manage to get a sun burn this weekend " It just expresses my interest and conveys that we are still on. And I always text day of "Hey! See you at 8" The further a date is schedule out, the …
/r/seduction26/04/18 08:36 PM
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We all make beta moves sometimes. I gave a girl a ride to my apartment because she was complaining about being a broke grad student and not having gas money In hindsight, I shouldn't have given her a ride. But it did get her to my place and in my bed...
/r/seduction26/04/18 07:13 PM
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Happy to hear it! On that note, keep up the good work. Getting a text back the next morning is the hardest part. I had a date this week with a girl I hit on at the bar last weekend. It was literally a 90 second interaction, which likely peaked her interest because she wanted to learn more. This was my first time trying the quick number close and leave strategy. I was going to a different bar, so I number closed, gave her a hug, then left
/r/seduction26/04/18 07:01 PM
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I'm just unsure of how drunk she was. She very well could have only been buzzed. Not sure. I'm sure you wouldn't do that, I just tend to think frat parties are full of wasted kids that dont handle their booze well. I was in a relationship in college, so I never was involved in the party scene, so I'm a terrible source. I had only been with 2 girls in the first 24 years. 8 months later I'm up with 18 girls, but it's mostly tinder, with some occasional bar game
/r/seduction26/04/18 06:46 PM
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This story gives me a bad vibe. I can't help but questions the ethics behind frat party hookups in college. Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I try to focus on girls that aren't sloppy drunk And of course I could be completely wrong here, it just seems a bit off putting to me
/r/seduction26/04/18 06:36 PM
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Hang out means fuck by the way. She wants you to have her over. Just making sure you are seeing what I'm seeing
/r/seduction25/04/18 05:11 PM
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75% tinder. 25% bar game Bar game text response rates are absolute shit though. Only about 25% of the numbers I get ever respond to my text the next day. Interesting point: on Saturday I hit on a girl 2 minutes before my group was changing venues. Brief chat, number close, hug. All in under 2 mins. She actually texted me back and two days later (yesterday) we had our first date. We both had no idea what each other looked like because the bar was dark. She ended up being really hot. She came back…
/r/seduction25/04/18 05:01 PM
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Try to schedule dates asap. If a date is more than 3 days away, send a small text in between just to stay in touch. If the date is 5+ days away I would recommend texting her on two separate days that are a couple days apart. I literally pinged a girl with "Did you manage to get a sun burn this weekend " It just expresses my interest and conveys that we are still on. And I always text day of "Hey! See you at 8" The further a date is schedule out, the higher the flake rate. This is from my own dat…
/r/seduction25/04/18 04:57 PM
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I just straight to the point. 2-3 messages and then I ask for their number. I tell them that I want to grab a drink with them
/r/seduction23/04/18 09:29 PM
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Sadly I live 10 minutes away from the good bars and 15 minutes away from down town. But I still manage to bring at least half my dates home. I just put my address in their GPS. My rent is $275 a month, I cant move into the city :P I've had bad luck with dental, pharmacy, and medical students. I normally dont like them. I'm going out with a med student on Wednesday
/r/seduction23/04/18 06:27 PM
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I'm considering placing a self imposed dates per week limit on my self. I have abundance, but sometimes I get carried away. I already have 4 dates planned this week. 3 from tinder and one from bar game. I think I might limit myself to 2 dates per week and start being much more selective. I gets dates so easily, I struggle with pumping the breaks I regularly have 2-4 dates per week. Unfortunately if I go on 10 dates, I dont like 8 or 9 of the girls. And then the 1 or 2 I do like rarely like me ba…
/r/seduction23/04/18 05:52 PM
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It's not a hard rule. As I mentioned, I have a black and white mind. This is simply how I view these things. I was talking to my wingman this week about how I am attempting to shift my rating system to a binary scale. "Would bang" or "would not bang" This would allow me to continue being black and white, but eliminate my shitty attitude towards getting with 9s and up.
/r/seduction23/04/18 02:13 AM
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I've done it many times. I used to only do coffee dates, but decided 8pm coffee and sleeping dont mesh! I have 4 dates this week, and average 2-4 dates per week. All bars or breweries. I never have more than 1 drink on a date, then I attempt to pull within the first hour I'm drinking at least 4 nights per week as a result, but by the end of the week, I only had about 6 drinks, so it's not a health risk I have dates most week nights, and then I go out with my wing man one or two nights on the wee…
/r/seduction23/04/18 01:24 AM
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Tell her you want to see what's under the hood
/r/seduction23/04/18 01:20 AM
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I popped into a bar last night, solo. It was spur of the moment after a first date with a girl. I went home with her, and fingered her, but she wouldn't even touch me. So I left, and went to a bar. I ended up striking up a conversation with two dudes and had fun talking to them for over an hour. Basically just go out and go with the flow. Nothing wrong with making friends, but talking to guys can also help build social momentum, which will help your interactions with women.
/r/seduction22/04/18 12:29 AM
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My most successful night out, I explicitly told my wing man "We are going out to have fun. Zero expectations" I told him this because the previous time we went out was complete shit because we had high expectations. End result: We both went home with girls. ZERO EXPECTATIONS
/r/seduction22/04/18 12:26 AM
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Yeah. I'm just forgetting about it. Perhaps something will happen in a month, but I'm not holding my breath
/r/seduction21/04/18 05:58 PM
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I just want to bang. Shes only 19. I only date 21+
/r/seduction21/04/18 05:48 PM
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Update: I saw the gym employee this morning at the gym. She never texted me, so when we made eye contact I gave her a short "Hey" She greeted me excitedly with "Smooth21!!" I just walked away and didnt even acknowledge her exciting because she's the one that didnt text me. I decided to talk to her as I was leaving. She goes "So here's the thing...I got in trouble for taking your number. Let's give this a few weeks to die down. Let me know what you get your mom at the mall today for her birthday!…
/r/seduction21/04/18 04:47 PM
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Let me rephrase that. I want to find a relationship, but I'm not forcing anything. I'm going to keep fucking a bunch of girls until I find the right girl for me
/r/seduction18/04/18 11:05 PM
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BJs take me like 30 mins to finish. I dont ask for them. That's only a foreplay thing for me. I decided to try communicating more. I asked her where she liked to be kissed as I was kissing her all over. I pulled her hair a few times and then asked if she liked it. I've come to realize that part of the reason I fuck so many girls, but never keep any girls around is because I'm selfish in bed. Communication is key when is comes to making women cum. Going forward I'm going to have girls begging for…
/r/seduction18/04/18 10:56 PM
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We were both shirtless. I was sucking her tits and kissing her neck. I believe her. Also I'm getting over fucking easy girls. I'm starting to look for a relationship. We had so much fun. Tons of laughs. Similar sense of humor. Smart girl. That's what I want. I'm still gonna slay others on the side of course. But I want more with her
/r/seduction18/04/18 10:52 PM
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The date went really well. We had an instant connection. I brought her home with me after 40 minutes at the bar. Also, I am a nice guy. I'm just confident. She told me that she came home with me because of how nice and genuine I am. We were half naked and making out. But then she told me she was on her period when it was getting hot. We just laughed about it. She was so happy.
/r/seduction18/04/18 10:43 PM
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We were making out. I slipped my hand down her pants and she said "I cant" I go "You cant?" She says "I literally cant. I'm on my period" I started cracking up. We shared a laugh. She was happy with how I responded
/r/seduction18/04/18 09:03 PM
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I had a cute girl half naked in my bed last night. I've commented about her recently. She ghosted me, then we saw each other at the bar last week and she texted me the next morning. She was on her period, so I couldn't close, but i like my chances of closing with her this weekend. She used to be my ex's friend, so she was shit testing me a bit by bringing her up, and I dodged the tests and had her in my bed after a 40 minute date
/r/seduction18/04/18 08:43 PM
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Date is in one hour. I honestly just have to not shoot myself in the foot and I'll be golden. I texted her this morning with my standard confirmation "Hey! I'll see you at 9" She responds "Hey!! Okay!" Then 12 hours later she texts me again "Were still going right??" I go "Yes!" She says "Just checking haha! I'll text you when i'm there later" Man, why can't all women make my life so easy??
/r/seduction17/04/18 11:57 PM
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Yes! Let me post a MINI FR right here. Today I was at the gym, getting a sick lift in. Both head phones in and feeling pretty alpha to be honest. A cute (8/10) gym employee approaches me, despite double headphones and having a look on my face like "don't bother me" She goes Hey! I'm sorry for almost taking your head off with the vacuum cord last month I had no idea what she was talking about... Then she goes Yeah you were doing floor exercises. And I just felt really bad, so I wanted to apologiz…
/r/seduction17/04/18 11:50 PM
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Lift weights. When you're bench pressing 315 pounds, nobody is gonna give a shit. Your confidence will be sky high.
/r/seduction17/04/18 10:37 PM
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Corey suggests waiting until the following week to contact a girl you went out with. This is to give her an opportunity to reach out to you if you've built enough attraction. So if you go out on a Thursday, then you would wait until Monday or Tuesday of the following week to contact her and try to set up another date. The longest I've managed to go without texting a girl is three days. One week is too long and feels unnatural.
/r/seduction17/04/18 02:12 AM
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This is the backstory: A Prequel FR if you will... A couple months ago I ran into one of my ex gf's former friends at the bar I go to. We talked for 5-10 minutes. I matched with her on tinder a couple weeks ago. She gave me her number. We texted a little bit and then she ghosted me after I asked her out. I refuse to double text a girl, so i let her go. Then yesterday she sent me the heart eyes emoji on snap chat in response to a selfie I took. This was my cue to text her. She told me that she wa…
/r/seduction17/04/18 01:57 AM
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I've yet to find a girl that puts in the effort that I also like in my one year of being single. I did have a girl text me Saturday morning saying It was nice seeing you last night! Even though it was a short time haha This was her text to me after I saw her at the bar for 5 minutes, hugged her, and had a brief conversation Pulling from 3% man, I used this as an opportunity to set up a date. There may be another Smooth21 FR coming in the near future. This was requested by an anon. Due to her exp…
/r/seduction17/04/18 01:46 AM
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pedestal Yep...it's already over, unless he changes his tune real quick. He's gonna kiss her ass and scare her away.
/r/seduction17/04/18 01:10 AM
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I try to avoid it. It makes you look desperate. A girl that is interested in you would never flake and not offer to reschedule. Flaking is a clear sign of low/no interest. Find the girl that's excited to meet you or go on a date with you.
/r/seduction16/04/18 11:40 PM
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I've never met up with a girl that I've super liked. I rarely get a message back from a girl that I super liked... But...I only super like less than 1% of my swipes. So the sample size is very small. Let's not use the word chemistry either when it comes to tinder. Chemistry is unknown until you meet the girl. Just because you like dogs and her profile says "must love dogs" does not mean you have chemistry. Get the number, set the date, have fun, try to escalate. Rinse, repeat
/r/seduction16/04/18 02:35 AM
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Respect! But yeah I've closed with 8 girls already in 2018. I'm far from a rookie. Ive had two girls in my bed this week alone. My last field report was such a hit. I dont want to let this community down with lame FRs, so I only post them occasionally
/r/seduction15/04/18 10:29 PM
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I dig the supplement joke. I had 4 protein shakes and a protein bar today because I dont cook on sundays...need 180 grams per day You dont need to delete tinder. I do recommend that you start going out at least twice per month. Also, as of yesterday I decided to start working on my cold approach in normal every day activities. So I cold approached a cutie working at a candle store in the mall, and got her number. Number was fake lol, but I still feel good for shooting my shot.
/r/seduction15/04/18 10:18 PM
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There will always be a place for approach in the dating world. It will never be obsolete. Tinder should be viewed as a supplement to your dating life. Obviously if you're more attractive, you'll have more success online. That's why I still mostly meet girls online. I normally have 2-4 dates in any given week. I can always swipe on tinder, but I can only go out once or twice per week to meet women. I look forward to the weekend, but in the mean time I run my online game
/r/seduction15/04/18 10:06 PM
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Guys that can confidently approach women are at an even bigger advantage than ever before. This is great news for guys that have a pair. Of course 12 out of the 16 girls ive had sex with in the last 7 months were from online....but I am actively trying to approach more women! I would prefer to have a 50-50 ratio as opposed to my 75-25 ratio of online vs direct approach, but online is so damn easy. Side note: I only approach women that I find very attractive and want to sleep with. As a result, m…
/r/seduction15/04/18 05:30 PM
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This is straight up 3% man. I'm on page 175/261
/r/seduction15/04/18 02:17 PM
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I tried to pull her. She wouldn't leave. I also tried to pull a girl from the group I was with (I just met them, I was with my wingman) She wouldn't leave the group. As I was leaving, she took her phone out and walked really close to me and pressed it again my stomach gently. I asked "Can I help you?" And then she asked me for my number. She's down to hang some time. Here's the most interesting part of the day/night to me: A couple months ago I ran into one of my ex gf's former friends at the ba…
/r/seduction15/04/18 02:25 AM
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I went from 30 followers to 185 in a year. It's still really low, but I'm not ashamed to show a girl my IG. I just followed a bunch of people....and then unfollowed. I view it like "bulking" and "cutting" Now I just follow girls that I meet on tinder and they follow me back. It's also important that you have more followers than following. Also, in the real world, IG doesn't mean shit. Back when I only met girls online, I would see their IG with 200 followers and 400 following, and I would next t…
/r/seduction15/04/18 12:49 AM
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"Game" only works if there's some level of attraction. If a girl is not attracted to you, you are not going to get into her pants. Closing with an attractive women takes more than just looking good. You have to be confident and make them comfortable. Here's my two cents. If you are attractive, then you will sleep with more attractive women. If you are unattractive, you will sleep with less attractive women. But an attractive man getting an attractive women is just as hard as an unattractive man …
/r/seduction15/04/18 12:14 AM
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I would just ignore it. That sounds like a shit test to me. Also this girl was super drunk and just wanted a guy to talk to and kiss. I couldn't pull her
/r/seduction15/04/18 12:04 AM
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I normally just say Hey Sarah. This is Smooth21 from (place you met)
/r/seduction14/04/18 11:21 PM
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Yeah. I just introduce myself too. I dont talk much though. I let them do the talking. I just use strong eye contact to build sexual tension
/r/seduction14/04/18 07:17 PM
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That's my only fear. I dont want to get into a fight. I'm 6'2 and 185 pounds, so most guys would just back down. I would never fight
/r/seduction14/04/18 07:14 PM
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If you have a ton of confidence, you can also approach girls that are talking to guys. Especially if it's obvious that they aren't a couple. This has happened to me a few times, so now I do it on occasion. I call it out-alphaing or getting out-alpha'd
/r/seduction14/04/18 07:10 PM
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Number flakes after a night out are very common. The best way to reduce this is to make a great impression. I'm also experimenting with a new move. I'm going to give you my number. Text me your name and your favorite emoji This way in their mind, they are starting the text conversation. Also this approach is unique, and hopefully makes me stand out I haven't tried it yet. But it sounds good in my head.
/r/seduction14/04/18 06:57 PM
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Awesome FR! Confidence is the name of the game! And social momentum is huge. I went out last night with a friend and several girls, but I let being with girls ruin my social momentum. I did not hit on one girl all night :( But...I managed to get a kiss from a 9/10, which is the hottest I've ever kissed. She looked at me as I was coming back from the bar and said: You have beautiful eyes. You need to find someone that is fine, and procreate with them This caught be off guard a little bit. She had…
/r/seduction14/04/18 06:49 PM
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Self control. When I go out, I limit myself to three drinks. This way you aren't the oddball that is not drinking and just hitting on women. But you are also not the drunk dude that would fuck anything that moves.
/r/seduction14/04/18 01:16 PM
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Amature PUA here. I only wear V-necks and unbuttoned henley shirts when I go out. If your body is part of your seduction game, use it. If you are scrawny or really overweight, then you should avoid extra skin exposure.
/r/seduction14/04/18 01:06 PM
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Great post! Many guys waste way too much time on girls that are not interested in them. If she doesn't text you back, she's not interested. If she's not receptive to your approach, she's not interested. If she flakes on a date, and doesn't offer to reschedule, she's not interested! Don't waste your damn time with these girls! If a girl is into you, it is so easy and effortless. Find that girl. Find the girl that meets your expectations, that wants to spend time with you. She is the girl that is …
/r/seduction13/04/18 06:11 PM
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If you try changing the date, you're going to end up with zero dates this weekend. A girl texted me this morning to flake on our 9pm date. I responded "ok" This is my attitude towards flakes now. I used to try to reschedule with flakes, now I just say fuck them. I am actively not allowing myself to chase women anymore. A girl from tinder ghosted me last week via text. This morning she sent me the heart eyes emoji in response to my snap story selfie. That was my cue to text her. We are both going…
/r/seduction13/04/18 05:46 PM
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I'm not a newbie, but I really like this post! Also, you never mentioned confidence. Girls absolutely love a confident man. Lately I've been one a roll. I've had three girls this week blatantly comment to me in person about how I am so confident. This has only made me more confident and sure of myself. Sometimes I am borderline cocky, but I would rather be cocky than a beta.
/r/seduction13/04/18 04:50 PM
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dessert I believe the girls these days are calling themselves "snacks" :p
/r/seduction12/04/18 06:18 PM
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I only go out with a wing or solo if I am trying to game. If I go out with a group, then I generally am there to socialize with my group. If I am solo, then I'm on a mission. If I am with my wing, then we are on a mission. That mission is to have fun by the way. It just so happens that I find picking up women to be very fun.
/r/seduction12/04/18 05:21 PM
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I'll try to work that into my game when I'm out this weekend. Will report back
/r/seduction12/04/18 05:02 PM
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I'm just a mama's boy
/r/seduction12/04/18 04:54 PM
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Good post. If are you posting about a specific girl. You are over invested. Case closed. If you are posting about a specific girl, you are already out. She's not into you. I am speaking from experience here. We all do it. Over analyze everything. If a girl likes you, she will make it extremely easy for you to set up dates and communicate. If she is making it hard on you to set up dates, or she isn't responding to your texts, just move on. It's easier said than done of course. To quote what I tex…
/r/seduction12/04/18 02:55 PM
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You're the man. You are going to do the initiating. In the perfect world, you will approach a girl, get her number, and then go on a date. After that date, assuming it went well, and she's into you, she may start contacting you. By the time you've gone out several times, she should be doing most of the pursuing. It's our job as men to get the ball rolling. Once that ball is rolling, our job gets a lot easier. All we have to do is not fuck it up or get needy/over invested.
/r/seduction12/04/18 02:12 PM
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At least get dinner first or drinks after. Anything! Don't only do a movie. You don't even know each other yet. You need time to talk. You would have been better off asking her to come over to watch a movie, pizza and wine tends to go over so well.
/r/seduction12/04/18 01:42 PM
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4 of my dates were from online. I just send a few messages back and forth, and then jump to "Let's grab a drink this week" if they say yes, then I get their number. Then I text them later that day to say hi. Followed by the time and place I want them to meet me. One date was from bar game. It was my second date with the girl from my FR. I am handling all of these dates differently. As a case study almost. Date 1: She doesn't kiss on the first date, so I texted her when I got home to next her. Da…
/r/seduction12/04/18 11:32 AM
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According to every girl I've ever hit on, being a CPA means I'm good at math. Do I qualify for the math guy title?
/r/seduction11/04/18 10:19 PM
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I originally read with comment as: High value and low effort Honestly it still hold true in my opinion
/r/seduction11/04/18 10:17 PM
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Yeah most DMs aren't read. Of course go the the lay To quote myself I'm not looking for a pen pal I said this to the girl I hooked up with last night. It was in response to her saying how great it was that I came right out and asked her on a date
/r/seduction11/04/18 04:13 PM
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I'll try to get a date from a DM this year. Just as a personal challenge. I'll start shooting off a few DMs per week. A girl once told me that any DM they ever respond to is when the guy is being "normal" such as asking them a question about one of their pictures to convey interest. Not sending a pick up line
/r/seduction11/04/18 03:52 PM
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I've been shut down my fair share of times. But I try not to let it bother me. I don't go out as much as I would like to. My wingman and I plan on going at least once per week this summer. I might even work on my solo game a little bit. We stay sober. 3 drinks max. We don't get girls when we get drunk. We save getting drunk for when we go out with larger groups, but not when we are trying to meet women.
/r/seduction11/04/18 03:32 PM
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I tend to not read posts. Only titles. Sorry. But honestly, it doesn't matter if you are doing cold approach, tinder, first date, 5th date. Direct vs indirect does not matter. It's about delivering with confidence and certainty. Act like you've been there before. Women feel more comfortable in the presence of a confident man. I'm just saying don't go around giving random compliments. My cold approach is "Hi. I'm Smooth21" Then I shake her hand. This is direct because I'm not trying to mask the f…
/r/seduction11/04/18 03:20 PM
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You're confusing my style for the "stereotypical" direct approach. I never tell a girl that she is cute or hot when I approach them. That's chode behavior. If a girl is actually attractive, she already knows that. If I have a girl on a date, or if my approach is going well, I might say something like "You smell nice" "You have pretty eyes" Your dimples are cute" But a blanket statement of ur kinda cute is worthless
/r/seduction11/04/18 03:11 PM
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I want to be clear. There is no right or wrong answer. There is what works for you and what makes your feel the most comfortable. One thing that is not up for debate. You have to be confident. As long as you are confident, your methods will work. To quote the girl I hooked up last Friday You are so confident. Guys just aren't like that anymore To quote the girl I hooked up with yesterday You came right out and asked me for a date. Most guys just vaguely ask me what I want to do. I want a guy to …
/r/seduction11/04/18 02:13 PM
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You should be feeling really proud of yourself man! It took a ton of balls to say that you thought it was a date in front of another guy. I don't think I would have done that, and I'm pretty bold myself!
/r/seduction11/04/18 01:02 PM
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I might add that I have many options, which makes it easier to have an abundance mentality. But even If you don't have tons of options, you have to at least act like it! I can't help myself sometimes. I set up 5 dates this week Monday through Friday. I was very direct with all of them. 2 dates down, 3 to go. I F-closed last night. Monday didn't work, she doesn't kiss on the first date she told me. So I nexted her when I got home Tonight I have a second date with the girl from this FR Tomorrow - …
/r/seduction11/04/18 12:47 PM
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I prefer direct. It's the most effective way to get high value women. I'm going to share my text conversation I had yesterday. I took a direct approach and got a date with a pharmacy student, which I consider to be high value - I value a good career/career path. me: Hey (name). It's Trevor from tinder her: Hey! How's it going me: Great! How about you? Let's grab a drink at (bar) on Friday at 9 her: I might be able to fit that into my schedule Here's where it gets good: me: I don't do maybes. I w…
/r/seduction11/04/18 12:17 PM
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I tried to slide into some DMs. I've either gotten no response or a few weak ass responses that amount to nothing. I would much rather use tinder or bar game. I only DM a couple girls per month because it's so ineffective
/r/seduction11/04/18 12:03 PM
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Is this your personal account? 200k, holy shit. Girls should be droppin panties. I only have 184 followers...
/r/seduction11/04/18 02:25 AM
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I have less than a year of dating experience, but I've probably been on a solid 50 dates. When a girl doesn't commit to a time or offer concrete alternative times, it is typically a death sentence. I have 5 dates Monday through Friday this week. Setting up these dates was not like pulling teeth with any of them. When a girl say "I'll let you know" I just assume it's a no, and I move on. My date for friday responded to my proposed date with "I might be able to fit that into my schedule" given tha…
/r/seduction10/04/18 08:54 PM
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I wrote this to myself yesterday...not worth a post, but maybe I can help someone in the comments section. Going forward, before sending that double text, before reaching out too soon after the first date/hookup, ask yourself “what advice would I give to another guy in this position?” Now take your own advice and act upon it! You have all of the tools, you just need to learn how to use them. You have earned the right to be selective. Do not act like every girl you meet is the one, putting them o…
/r/seduction10/04/18 08:13 PM
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I wrote this to myself yesterday...not worth a post, but maybe I can help someone in the comments section. Going forward, before sending that double text, before reaching out too soon after the first date/hookup, ask yourself “what advice would I give to another guy in this position?” Now take your own advice and act upon it! You have all of the tools, you just need to learn how to use them. You have earned the right to be selective. Do not act like every girl you meet is the one, putting them o…
/r/seduction10/04/18 08:13 PM
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I wrote this to myself yesterday...not worth a post, but maybe I can help someone in the comments section. Going forward, before sending that double text, before reaching out too soon after the first date/hookup, ask yourself “what advice would I give to another guy in this position?” Now take your own advice and act upon it! You have all of the tools, you just need to learn how to use them. You have earned the right to be selective. Do not act like every girl you meet is the one, putting them o…
/r/seduction10/04/18 08:10 PM
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Do you burn every good set to the ground being direct about sex and if theyre not interested move on? Never do that. This is not going to work. You're going to look like a scum bag, and perhaps build a bad reputation at that bar. I go to the same bar most weekends, so I have to remain respectable. If the set is going really well, I will stay in set. I ask for their number early on. If a girl won't give you her number, that's your queue to leave. Changing venues is a great way to end up going hom…
/r/seduction09/04/18 04:37 PM
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My ex was honestly so fucking hot that I keep trying to find a girl as hot or hotter than her and that benchmark fucked with my physical standards. Same. I found a girl a few months back that sounds similar to the girl in your story. She was cute, had a good career, and was a really good person. But...I knew I could do better. I knew that I could never commit to her. After seeing her for a few weeks and hanging out 4 times, I told her that I could not commit to a relationship and that we were no…
/r/seduction09/04/18 03:33 PM
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Little bitch. What are you? A 6 year old on the playground? Men don't fight. We prove our worth to women. Fighting will never get you anywhere. You post this incoherent story, and then shit on someone trying to help you.
/r/seduction09/04/18 03:17 PM
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Does breaking up with someone count as rejection? My ex gf was an 8. We were together for more than 5 years. But eventually I came to realize that I was miserable, and could no longer be with her. Thankfully for me I was only 23 when I had this realization. Also, girls have more options, but their struggle is finding the guy that isn't a total piece of shit that is only trying to get into their pants. Guys have less options, because our role is to convince the girl that we aren't a piece of shit…
/r/seduction09/04/18 02:52 PM
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I was about to comment on how the LMR sounds like it would have been very easy to break through, but you beat me to it. A couple lines, and he would have been golden. She wanted him, badly! She just needed reassurance that it was the right decision. I honestly don't like it when girls withhold sex to be used as a bargaining chip to get a second or third date. I reiterate the fact that they want me, and that they should do what feels natural, not let some arbitrary rule stop them from doing what …
/r/seduction09/04/18 01:50 PM
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We try to do the choosing. But one time I was more interested in the girl that he was talking to, and we were really early in the set, so I asked him to switch sides. Generally we go into a set with a target, so it is unlikely that his girl will be interested in me, or mine in him because we focus most of our attention on the girl we are talking to.
/r/seduction09/04/18 12:11 PM
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She found out the next morning when my alarm went off. She didn't seem to care But assuming you only number close and don't end up hooking up, I would do the phone thing and then try to start a new set a little after that. This way she won't be in contact with you
/r/seduction09/04/18 11:13 AM
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He finally made it lol. I linked the URL in my post
/r/seduction09/04/18 12:32 AM
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I approve of this FR. Have an upvote
/r/seduction09/04/18 12:31 AM
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I did! Thanks
/r/seduction08/04/18 09:40 PM
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I'm with him right now. He's going to do it. Hopefully soon lol
/r/seduction08/04/18 09:32 PM
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do you think you haven't been with a 9 because you've mentally told yourself it's impossible? And you've been with girls below your rating easily because you tell yourself it's easy and are therefore more confident/relaxed when approaching them? I've heard this before. And it's true. I act differently around the hotter girls, and it's a problem. I hit on a 9/10 at my gym a few months ago. Got her number, and then she flaked/ghosted me. I approached her again last month. She agreed to go out with…
/r/seduction08/04/18 06:31 PM
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I am a very black and white person in terms of how my mind works. Let me give you my point of view. I believe that women tend to be with guys that are more attractive than them in terms of a 1-10 rating. This is simply because they can be because...they have a vagina. I consider myself to be an 8/10. As a result, I have never been with a 9 or a 10. I have only been with a couple 8s. Naturally most of the girls I'm with would be considered 7/10s by American standards. I can get a 6 with no effort…
/r/seduction08/04/18 06:05 PM
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I'm about to run to the gym, but here's a quick overview of my tinder. Bio: 6'2. Gym, mexican food, dogs Picture 1: This is a picture of me from the chest up with a very slight smirk on my face. Picture 2: A candid shot of me with a towel around my shoulders and chest wearing a bass pro hat, slightly squinting because the sun was in my eyes Picture 3: Picture of me sitting down, slightly hunched forward with a smirk Picture 4: Sitting down with my brother in law and sister before getting dinner …
/r/seduction08/04/18 03:13 PM
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Alright man. I respect your point of view. I would rather be with a girl that sleeps on the first date because it aligns with what I like to do. I don't like going out with women that have a bunch of "rules" I want everything to happen naturally
/r/seduction08/04/18 02:57 PM
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Biggest shit test from black shirt was when she told me that she wanted to have sex with me, but she has morals, and needs to be taken on a date first. By telling her that I respect her morals, it allowed her to let her guard down more. Girls want to fuck guys that don't act thirsty. The less you act like you want to get into their pants, the more likely you are to get laid. The friends never shit tested me. They saw black shirt smiling ear to ear, and after talking with me, they realized I was …
/r/seduction08/04/18 02:50 PM
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Don't be that guy, my friend. I try to not have a double standard. Remember, I slept with her too. Does that mean I'm not relationship material? We were really connecting, naturally it lead to sex. She told me that she doesn't have sex before going on a date, but she was so turned on by me, that she couldn't resist. I see absolutely nothing wrong with having sex before you really know someone. She's cute, has a good job, and I had a lot of fun with her. I absolutely want to see her again. I don'…
/r/seduction08/04/18 02:46 PM
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We are always learning. In fact, I'm struggling right now with deciding if I should text the girl that I mentioned in the post to confirm our date. We are supposed to meet for coffee in 4 hours. But the time and place were firmly set yesterday, so I'm considering not texting her today and just showing up at the coffee shop
/r/seduction08/04/18 02:34 PM
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Indicators of interest such as eye contact increase your chances of success for sure. But most of the girls I approach never even noticed me prior to the introduction
/r/seduction08/04/18 02:28 PM
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Don't even think of it as an opener. I think of it was starting a conversation. If the girl is attracted to me, we have a conversation. If the girl isn't interested, the conversation dies so quickly, and I walk away. I don't really look for girls that are looking at me. I look for girls that I want to talk to, and I make it happen. I don't care if she's been looking at me or not That's being confident
/r/seduction08/04/18 02:23 PM
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Good bot
/r/seduction08/04/18 02:08 PM
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"Hi, I'm Smooth21" then I shake their hand. I don't use pick up lines. And if there is an opportunity for a better opener, I take it. Such as when these girls were playing darts. I said "How'd the game of darts go?" then I said "I almost came over and asked if I could take a celeb shot" For those of you that don't know, a "celeb shot" is when you are not part of the game of darts, beer pong, etc, but you take a turn for someone that's actually playing.
/r/seduction08/04/18 02:07 PM
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Being attractive helps, absolutely. But do you honestly think that I spent 9 straight hours with this girl, and also have a confirmed date with her later today purely because of my looks? I'm not a model. I am tall and in good shape. Above average would be a fair summary of my looks. She made it very clear that my level of confidence was what attracted her to me. That's why I went home with her. I was not just another chode trying to get into her pants. I was being fun, adding value, and being c…
/r/seduction08/04/18 01:58 PM
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Looks are a factor, but it is not the only thing. My looks are why I am successful online, but in person, looks are just a small piece of the puzzle. In person, it's all about confidence. Act like you've been there before. Make her feel comfortable.
/r/seduction08/04/18 01:54 PM
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Thanks man. You absolutely can improve. I wouldn't consider myself to be at a high level. I had to start from square one in 2017. I broke up with my GF of 5 years. The last time I was single was 2011, I was only 17! So I didn't have to pick up a single girl in college, or adulthood. I had no clue what I was doing. Tomorrow actually marks one year since the break up. I didn't have sex with another girl until 5 months after the break up!
/r/seduction08/04/18 01:52 PM
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Yes. Saturday nights. I worked til 2 pm, then I was free the rest of the night, and had Sunday off. About twice per month.
/r/seduction08/04/18 01:48 PM
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always be on the lookout for more Absolutely! I have a date tomorrow with another girl. I also have a second date with the girl from This FR
/r/seduction08/04/18 01:47 PM
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I was just really friendly with the friends. I talked to them like we were old friends. Her friend said something about making sure I get her number and I was like "I already got it" and then I showed her the text I had received with her first and last name with an emoji. I then told her that we already had a date planned. The friend was like "Wow! She must really like you!" Another memorable friend moment: The other friend was really drunk, she kept wandering off and dancing/talking to random p…
/r/seduction08/04/18 01:44 PM
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Good news. My wing is going to post his side of the story. Either tonight or early tomorrow!
/r/seduction08/04/18 01:25 AM
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Making new friends as an adult is very similar to picking up women at first. Besides the sex and other physical things. I've decided to include my initial interaction with my wingman and the comments I made in my personal FR document. Basically I realized that him and I could potentially be great friends some day, but I had to remind myself to chill out and let things develop naturally. AKA not invest more than he did. I moved to a new city in October, so I didn't have any friends outside of wor…
/r/seduction08/04/18 12:28 AM
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Sorry! But still, did he do the things I mentioned above? Did he text you to confirm the date? If I were a girl, I wouldn't show up for a date, unless the guy confirmed. I would be shocked honestly if any of my three scheduled dates for this upcoming week showed up if I didn't confirm with them. This only applies to the first few dates by the way. Until you've been some rapport and trust
/r/seduction08/04/18 12:07 AM
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Her loss my man. I don't get stood up, I just get flaked on. Text the girl the night before the date "Hey. Are you still good for tomorrow" Text her a few hours before the date "See you in a few hours!" If she doesn't respond, then you don't show up. This makes it so you'll never get stood up
/r/seduction08/04/18 12:01 AM
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I love hearing stuff like this! I plan to do more FRs going forward because I really enjoy writing them and the feedback has been very positive
/r/seduction07/04/18 10:42 PM
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Thank you. It's great to hear a woman's perspective on here! Once we were in her bed with the door shut, I asked her if she wanted to watch a movie. Given that she told me that she didn't want to have sex an hour earlier. She goes "No" and then was all over me!
/r/seduction07/04/18 09:56 PM
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You have a valid point. I just don't like cold approaches. I have plenty of success online and in bars. I don't need to start approaching girls at the grocery store and parks. It's not my style. Absolutely nothing wrong with it, but I just don't like it.
/r/seduction07/04/18 09:54 PM
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I would write a field report about meeting my wingbro, but I don't think it would be very popular lol. I actually have a field report from that night. I wrote it on google docs. It was never intended to be seen by anyone beside me. 5 total sets that night, all sets described. But I didn't get laid. Highlight was meeting that guy I was trying to keep a personal field report journal to learn from my mistakes and capitalize on my successes. I ended up writing two FRs, and then decided it wasn't wor…
/r/seduction07/04/18 09:44 PM
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I don't cold approach. I've done it maybe 10 times in my life. I've gotten a couple numbers, but zero dates. I'm going to stay on the apps, but try to only use then sparingly. Maybe 30 minutes a night.
/r/seduction07/04/18 09:40 PM
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Kenic made the right move. Two of the girls I've been with gave me LMR and one gave me resistance an hour before we even got to her place. Reading body language is a skill, and it requires a great level of social awareness. If you are truly awful at reading people, then take no as a no, and move on. Both girls that gave me LMR admitted afterwards that they wanted to have sex with me. Some women do it as a shit test. In both cases, I flat out asked them after "I want to make sure you don't feel l…
/r/seduction07/04/18 09:36 PM
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Not weird at all. Unfortunately it's assumed that the guy will pay, so the girl has to offer to split. I really appreciate it when a girl does that
/r/seduction07/04/18 09:12 PM
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I am praying for that too. I'm gonna get tested in the next month or so. I've been going raw a lot lately. I used a condom last night...but that was after pumping raw for like a minute, then I wised up. It's a problem. I have shitty self control when it comes to condoms
/r/seduction07/04/18 09:09 PM
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Glad to hear it man. My posts have been really well received lately as I've been more active in the community. I tend to get 2-3 girls per month, so I can keep them coming as long as the community continues embracing me
/r/seduction07/04/18 08:24 PM
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The Ravens play my boys at home this year.
/r/seduction07/04/18 08:13 PM
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That would be fun. Like I hinted at last week, I think you know where abouts I live. I'm down if you're ever in town
/r/seduction07/04/18 08:11 PM
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I take back my comment about being a solo artist. I'm a closing artist. Basically if I catch a girl's interest, I have a very high success rate with closing. The only thing "solo" about my game is that it mostly revolves around online dating. Also, Protip: If you guys read something good on here, actually implement it into your game. That's all I do. I learn every day. And then implement. My line about why i'm here alone, my play last night about my phone being dead, telling girls "I would hold …
/r/seduction07/04/18 08:09 PM
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I'm a needy little bitch boy haha. I just know how to hide it. But it rears its ugly head typically after I bang. But I am not being needy with the girl from yesterday. Time, place, boom. No fluff text. You make a good point though. When I am just acting natural, my intuition is pretty damn solid. Hence why I have a girl every other week, but when I get into my head, I start acting differently and fucking up
/r/seduction07/04/18 08:05 PM
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"My friends were being lame and didn't want to go out tonight, but I want to meet new people and make new friends" This worked very well for me. I have only gone out alone once in my life. But it went so well, that I am afraid to do it again. I met my wingman that night, it was about two months ago. This could be a story in and of itself...but basically I recognized him from the gym, so I approached him at the bar, introduced myself, and he invited me into his group. Then I went around the rest …
/r/seduction07/04/18 07:48 PM
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I think that it gives the wrong vibe. It says "I use this line on everybody" because it's not original at all. It's cheap. And let's take How to Beast - the youtuber, for example. He cold approaches asking for directions or some shit, and then goes "I really just stopped you because I think you're cute" Well how to beast is a really attractive dude. He can say whatever he wants. For an average guy, the compliment is chodey. This is just my opinion. I did a FR today. Check it out. You can see how…
/r/seduction07/04/18 07:37 PM
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You must be hot. NY.
/r/seduction07/04/18 07:33 PM
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Brooo. Good shit my man! She sounds sexy as fuck too. I haven't gotten around to reading the book yet, unfortunately. I don't like to read books, and I'm a terrible procrastinator. If I'm being honest with myself, I will never read the book lol. I'll try the audiobook though. I love those! Anyways, this is just my opinion, take it with a grain of salt. Don't wait a week to text her. In my opinion that comes across as sleazy. You had great sex with her. If you don't text her, she might be left fe…
/r/seduction07/04/18 07:27 PM
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That's why I only take women out for coffee or a drink on a first date. Low investment. Not until you prove you're worth my time and money
/r/seduction07/04/18 07:15 PM
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Lol plot twist
/r/seduction07/04/18 07:14 PM
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That would be really cool! Maybe I'll mention it to him later. It's his bday weekend, so I'll be going over to his house later with some friends. I've told him about this subreddit, and how I have learned a lot from it. Because he thinks I'm really good at talking to women.
/r/seduction07/04/18 07:11 PM
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Both he and I never bring up our professions unless we are asked. I like to ask what a girl does, so the question naturally comes up because she asks me after. Girls always say to me "oh, so you're good with numbers" That's about it. Honestly, we both do our own thing when we are in set. I don't hear his conversations, and he doesn't hear mine. That's why we work well together. We are two individuals, that go out together with a common goal. So we aren't really together once we open a duo set. H…
/r/seduction07/04/18 07:09 PM
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Time to check it out! Man I just love this sub
/r/seduction07/04/18 06:57 PM
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Thanks man! Picking up women in person really boosts my confidence. I feel great right now. Date is scheduled for tomorrow. Afternoon coffee date. Picking up women online is fun, but it is not fulfilling to me.
/r/seduction07/04/18 06:51 PM
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Haha. I'm sure you'll have just as much success or more with an extroverted wing. We are just working with the cards we were dealt in life. We are both average to above average looking guys, in good shape, and have respectable careers. I'm a CPA and he's an engineer.
/r/seduction07/04/18 06:48 PM
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We just try to help each other out mentally. As in just reminding each other to stay level headed. Don't get in each others way. If you see your wing succeeding, don't do anything to cock block. Talk to the friends, so your wing can make his plays. It works both ways. I do all of the initiating, but that's because I am more experienced and confident. Then I introduce my wing, and we are suddenly in set. I am sort of a solo artist, but having my wing with me completely shuts down any of that "who…
/r/seduction07/04/18 05:11 PM
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Thanks man! I always enjoy making field reports. For two reasons: Hopefully I can give at least one person a new idea that could help them out with their game. And of course, who doesn't like to casually talk about a successful pick up?
/r/seduction07/04/18 05:01 PM
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Bro. Stop telling girls that they are cute as an opener. That's lame as fuck. Girls have to earn compliments. Not just get them handed to them. Also the cuter the girl, the more often they hear those cheap compliments, the less the compliment means. I typically just approach the girl I want to talk to and say "Hi, I'm Smooth21" Then I shake their hand. If they are interested, we talk. If they are not interested, I walk
/r/seduction07/04/18 04:03 PM
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Bull shit. Some girls are
/r/seduction07/04/18 12:35 AM
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You don't know if they are into or not man! Not unless you actually approach
/r/seduction07/04/18 12:19 AM
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My point is that it happens to everyone. I'm still working on accepting that fact. Due to the amount of dates I have, I get flaked and ghosted more as well. I handled a flake really well today
/r/seduction06/04/18 10:35 PM
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If you see a guy named lingeringGnome, listen to him. He seems to really know his shit. I specialize in converting first dates into sex. I also special in getting ghosted and flaked. Can't win them all
/r/seduction06/04/18 10:28 PM
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There's varying degree of experience here. Some are experts. Others come here knowing nothing and are looking for advice from more experienced guys. My resume: 14 girls in the last 7 month. Could have been 16, but I couldn't get hard for these two girls
/r/seduction06/04/18 10:19 PM
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My guess is nobody knows what to do on a two on one date because they are extremely rare. 99% have never done it
/r/seduction06/04/18 10:16 PM
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I was just reading the comments. Why don't you just take one of them out?
/r/seduction06/04/18 10:04 PM
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I'm taking a different approach. Hear me out... You are wasting your time taking two girls on a date. Oh, but the threesome with twins fantasy!! Guess what, it's not gonna happen. That would be incest. I'm sorry to burst your bubble, but someone has to give you some clarity that is not dreaming of a twin threesome fantasy
/r/seduction06/04/18 09:37 PM
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She's probably not interested. I say this because this happens to me all too often
/r/seduction06/04/18 07:32 PM
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Well man, I got flaked by a girl that wanted to go out with me tonight. She actually reached out to me and picked the spot. But I played it cool, and I'm really proud of myself. She gave me "Busy with school BLAHAHAHHA BLAH, I'm stressed BHAHB" Aka wall of text bull shit. I literally said "No prob. Good luck school" I am laughing to myself as I type this. I cared so little, that I didn't even proofread my text. That's a huge improvement for me. I already have other plans. Going out tonight with …
/r/seduction06/04/18 04:47 PM
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I use a loofah. Best soap lather in my opinion.
/r/seduction06/04/18 04:29 PM
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A thorough shower takes me about 10 minutes. I wash from the top down (head to toes) Shampoo first. Then pits, shoulders, arms, etc. Work your way down to your toes. Rinse the soap off. Boom you're done. Guys aren't typically taking 30 minute showers. Completely unnecessary in my opinion.
/r/seduction06/04/18 03:20 PM
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Upvote for the Tl;DW. I can't watch these vids at work. It's always embarrassing when after like 3 mins, you have to awkwardly tell the girl that you accidentally finished
/r/seduction06/04/18 02:36 PM
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I may get downvoted, but this guy is just being a pussy. Looking for a pity party. Wants to give up on girls, but won't approach 10 random girls due to his fear of rejection or "embarrassing himelf", so instead he posts on here to get embarrassed by anons On this subreddit we support eachother. It has become my favorite reddit community. But we only support those who want to be helped. People striving to improve themselves, not negative people that most likely suck the life out of everyone they …
/r/seduction06/04/18 02:17 PM
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Here to reiterate what has already been said: Accutane I never had terrible acne, but I was so self conscious about acne, that I tried accutane. I was 17 when I tried it. Accutane is very strong, and it has some negative side effects, but after a few months, your acne should be gone, and most likely will never come back. It was completely worth it to me! Side effects that I experienced: Dry skin - you will be to use lotion every day. And aquaphor for your lips. Fatique and decreased appetite - Y…
/r/seduction06/04/18 01:52 PM
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Touche. That was my mind subliminally telling me that I would specifically give her another shot...lol She's a 9. But I'm definitely not talking to her for a while
/r/seduction06/04/18 11:20 AM
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I'm trying to decide if she deserves a next time. She's ghosted me twice via text, despite agreeing to go out with me in person
/r/seduction06/04/18 11:14 AM
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The movie had nothing to do with it. Girls ghost me all the time after dates. It's normal, it happens. I get anxiety too when a girl doesn't respond, and I'm working on that. I hope the therapy is helping you, man. But at the end of the day, you and I both need to stop worrying so much about what other girls think about us. If you have 3-4 options, or at least understand that you COULD have multiple options, then we should not get oneitis so easily My roommate hasn't had sex in more than 5 years…
/r/seduction05/04/18 08:40 PM
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I don't even link my tinder to my facebook. I dont think I would get the new user boosts if I linked to my facebook because it would just recognize me as a returning user
/r/seduction05/04/18 08:33 PM
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Lol that's defeatist. I don't think that's true at all. I can tell you this. I remade my tinder last night. I currently have 9 matches and then I have "25+" girls that have liked me, but I haven't swiped them yet. Bumble I have 6 matches since last night. Hinge I have 3 girls that liked me since last night. I have to look at them and decide if I want to match. I haven't sent anyone messages yet.
/r/seduction05/04/18 05:10 PM
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Fuck that. That's bottom feeder mentality Preying on sloppy drunk girls is low. And that statement sounds borderline rapey
/r/seduction05/04/18 04:53 PM
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I've gone out alone once in my life. A little over two months ago. It help so well, that I haven't gone out since...because I'm scared of it being a let down. Essentially, I ran into a guy I recognized from my gym. I introduced myself and we really hit it off. A week later, he invited me to his super bowl party. We go out together almost once per week now. I am in a new city, and he is my first real friend that I met here. Ive met a bunch of his friends, and I've even gone out with his other fri…
/r/seduction05/04/18 04:51 PM
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I can only speak for myself, but I'm sure I'm not alone. I use tinder as a generic term for online dating apps. Although tinder has the largest user base, it is not the app the gets me laid the most. Bumble got me laid a ton between September 2017 and December 2017. Now I get laid on an app called Hinge. I have had several dates on an app called Coffee meets bagel, haven't gotten laid yet, but I have a second date tomorrow and we are hanging out at her place, so probably will get laid. To summar…
/r/seduction05/04/18 03:12 PM
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I avoid, but man, those big girls know how to S this D! lol
/r/seduction05/04/18 02:57 PM
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I matched with a really hot girl today. I've seen her on tinder for almost a year now, but have never matched with her (I recreate my account about once per month) I used "Hey (name)! Not trying to move too fast, but I would hold your hand in public" I'm not a fan of complimenting women on tinder. Any hot girl with a high social value gets compliments all of the time. I avoid the compliments, and I have decent success online
/r/seduction05/04/18 02:53 PM
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Being direct is what works best for me. To quote the girl I'm going out with tomorrow "I have high standards, but I'm digging your confidence" by being direct, I came across as confident, which is why she gave me her number and met me later that day.
/r/seduction05/04/18 01:34 PM
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/r/dataisbeautiful Interesting. I would say if you do have an elo, it would be somewhere between average and slightly above average. Would you agree with my hypothesis? Another thing I've found with all dating apps: The first few days, you see all of the hottest girls. This is an attempt to hook you on the app. After a few days, the Demi-gorgons come out. This is when I delete the app for a day or two, then make a new profile :) I can get like 20-30 tinder matches in the first few days, and then…
/r/seduction05/04/18 12:57 PM
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Is setting up a date for the same day a bad idea? It's a great idea. It reduces the chance of a flake. I have a second date tomorrow with a girl I matched with online, and then set up a same day date. Is it a bad idea to ask for a girls number in a bar setting or is this just socially retarded? Another great idea. This is how you meet new women. Approach them, talk to them, get their number. Repeat. Suppose that we were playing a game at a coffee shop setting with my friends and a few girls that…
/r/seduction05/04/18 12:51 PM
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This is something I struggle with. I know im not alone on this one. I just don't want to send the dreaded double text. But I guess if it's a few days later, there's no harm. If they don't respond to the second text a few days later, then next them. Girls that like me respond quickly. There is a direct correlation between response time, and level of interest.
/r/seduction05/04/18 12:47 PM
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3. That's me :( I always want everything to develop quickly. So I get over zealous and it ruins what I built up during the first date. I'm introverted, so I'm a less is more person in conversations I always try to escalate, and I'm successful more often than not I personally think I'm pretty good in the bedroom. Gained tons of experience due to a 5 year relationship
/r/seduction05/04/18 12:45 AM
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I'm an attractive man(based on my online dating success). I get first dates all the time. My issue is after the first date. Getting to the second and third date. My text game is weak as fuck. I have a second date on Friday. And I will most likely have a second date next week with another girl.
/r/seduction05/04/18 12:32 AM
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Wanna get baptized?
/r/seduction04/04/18 10:51 PM
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Do you want to meet her? Then yes, go for it. 25 minutes is about the farthest I'm willing to go for a date. 45 minutes if it's a guaranteed lay
/r/seduction04/04/18 10:50 PM
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To quote my gym bro's response to me asking if I should wait a day to respond to a girl that took a day to respond to me: That's child's play. We are men
/r/seduction04/04/18 10:43 PM
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Agreed. I'm not sure why the consensus around here to to play games and not respond to the girls in life. It just perpetuates the game. If a girl that I'm interested in texts me back a day later, I normally just text them back when it's convenient for me. Typically within an hour.
/r/seduction04/04/18 10:41 PM
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My mind prefers to just act hard and cool by doing dumb shit like walking past her without acknowledging her presence, intentionally looking every direction but the one she’s in, subtly flexing in her line of sight, lifting weights that are way too much, etc. This sounds like me with my gym crush lol. I got her number a few months ago, then she ended up flaking/ghosting me. So I started doing this for a few months. Then I approached her again recently and asked her out. DEJA VU. She said yes, th…
/r/seduction04/04/18 12:38 PM
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If I don't hear back from her, I'll just go the the gym and then read some of how to be a 3% man
/r/seduction04/04/18 01:42 AM
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Haha valid point. But I don't currently have plans tomorrow. So this would be convenient for me. I have plans Thursday through Saturday
/r/seduction04/04/18 01:37 AM
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Too late haha. I just said "No worries! You should come over tomorrow" Not trying to play games I guess. But I have two second dates coming up within the next week, so I'm not too concerned if I manage to get a third second date. This is me really adopting the abundance mentality
/r/seduction04/04/18 01:15 AM
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There's still hope for me despite my chode move. She texted me back "Hey! Sorry I didn't get back to you last night! I worked 7-4 at the hospital and then 5-10 at the restaurant and crashed as soon as I got home"
/r/seduction04/04/18 12:20 AM
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Match.com sucks ass in my opinion. My parents bribed me to use it after a break up. The response rate is awful. The few girls I went out with were weird. I only f-closed one girl. I get all my girls on tinder, bumble, hinge, and coffee meets bagel. The general consensus around here is that online dating sucks in general. It should just be used as a supplement to your dating life. Today I deleted all of my dating apps. I am taking several months off to focus on my game and self improvement. 11/14…
/r/seduction03/04/18 08:20 PM
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User name checks out
/r/seduction03/04/18 08:08 PM
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That line is weak. Non-committal. Just ask her out. "Hey (Baeski), let's grab coffee(or a drink)." Then tell her the time and place. Signed, a fuckboi
/r/seduction03/04/18 06:18 PM
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I'm gonna read "How to be a 3% man" this week for something different. I'm gonna have fun on my second date on Friday, then I'm gonna go out Saturday. Online dating stresses me out for some reason. I just have to remind myself that I can get girls. Just because I have the option of getting women, does not mean I constantly need to have one. I'm honestly not particularly proud of how many women I've been with since September. I had only been with 2 girls in the previous 24 years of my life.
/r/seduction03/04/18 05:06 PM
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Have you ever tried stepping away from online dating? I'll be interested to see how much success I can have at bars. Maybe I'll stay offline until summer!
/r/seduction03/04/18 04:59 PM
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If you ever find yourself in a certain part of the country famous for losing 4 straight superbowls and chicken wings, I bet you'd be a cool guy to grab a beer with. I go to the gym 4-6 days per week. I play in a soccer league once per week. I work full time. I watch a lot of youtube videos. I'm generally busy every day until about 7:30 PM, then I'm left to myself, deep in thought. The one girl that likes me is moving back home to her parent's house after she gets her masters degree in May. She w…
/r/seduction03/04/18 04:52 PM
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"I have this secret pick up line, but I can't tell you." What is the point of this post?
/r/seduction03/04/18 04:41 PM
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Attractive guys always get shit on here lol. I'm 6'2, 188 pounds, and I lift. I get girls online. But guess what? I still have to meet these women, build attraction, pull, and escalate. You're exactly right. My looks get my foot in the door, but once I'm in the door, I still have to close just like any other guy on this sub. 14 girls in 7 months is not purely because of my looks. According my my username I'm pretty Smooth as well. Smooth21 has nothing to do with seddit for the record. I was drun…
/r/seduction03/04/18 03:02 PM
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I choded...wtf is wrong with me man My buddy made me feel a little better by reiterating this fact: If she likes you, it won't matter that you made a small mistake. She will overlook it and text you back. It's so true though, I sit here over analyzing every little move I make, but at the end of the day it boils down to one thing: Attraction. If I built enough attraction on our first date, she will want to see me again. If I didn't, she will not text me back It's like I'm intentionally trying to …
/r/seduction03/04/18 02:10 PM
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I could do a whole post on this, but I'll just leave this in the comments for you. There is a VERY DIRECT correlation between a girl's texting response time and how into you they are. The same can be said about almost anyone you text. For example, the following people would text me back within an hour, guaranteed: My mom, my three closest friends, the girl I am going out with Friday, and my ex (we've remained friendly, im actually grabbing coffee with her tomorrow) As for the girls that text you…
/r/seduction03/04/18 02:06 PM
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I'm seeing mixed review on this post. I think you offer some great insight though! The metaphor about a large puzzle speaks to me. It actually fits perfectly with my post about over investing in any particular girl. When you over invest or "put the puzzle together too quickly", the girl gets scared and ghosts. Teamwork is a must. If you are going to have a relationship, you must invest no more than the other person.
/r/seduction03/04/18 01:27 PM
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In my experience, phone calls tend to get ignored. Girls in their early to mid 20s don't seem to like phone calls. Of course there are exceptions. I have a second date with a girl this Friday. Our first date was set up like this: Match on dating app. I come across as assertive and confident, and she notices and comments on that. I get her number. I text her saying Im at work at that I would call her around 4:30. I call her, we set up the date, and meet up at 7:30. I tell the girls that I don't l…
/r/seduction03/04/18 01:14 PM
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I closed with a hot 29 year old on Friday. Im 24. She told me that she likes it from behind. So next time...DOGGY
/r/seduction03/04/18 02:56 AM
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Naw man it was drinks at a bar. I tried to get her to come home with me by asking her to watch a movie. Booty was indeed thick. Boobs are very nice too. Her face is cute, and to top it all off she makes more money than me. I think I fucked it up with her with my lame text game. Oh well. I'm going to another girl's apartment on friday
/r/seduction03/04/18 02:53 AM
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Yeah I know "let you know" tends to be a death sentence. I asked her to come watch a movie with me. She asked me what time it was. It was 9:40 PM. She said that she had to be up at 6am to help with Easter cooking. She lives 40 minutes away, so definitely believable. She told me that she would come over after work on Tuesday or Wednesday I touched her back and leg a few times during the date. I walked her to her car, holding her hand. We hugged and then kissed 3 or 4 times as we said goodbye. I t…
/r/seduction03/04/18 02:46 AM
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We saw each other Saturday. Sunday was easter. And Monday she started a new job, so we decided Tuesday or Wednesday. I decided to just text her, taking your advice. I did tell her I was gonna text her. In the future I will just say "sounds good" when a girl tells me that they will let me know
/r/seduction03/04/18 02:33 AM
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Please lmk how it goes haha
/r/seduction03/04/18 02:24 AM
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"Just call me daddy"
/r/seduction03/04/18 01:57 AM
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From a comment on another thread: The date went well, but she wasn't able to come over after because she had to be up early to help cook for Easter. There was definitely attraction on both sides and we floated the idea of her coming over after work this week Tuesday or Wednesday. Great news, but when she texted me last night saying "I'll let you know which day works better once I get my schedule :)" I responded with "Sounds good! I'll check in tomorrow" As you can see, I fucked up by telling her…
/r/seduction03/04/18 01:48 AM
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That's awesome! I'm at 6 this year too. Along with a couple hookups that didn't involve sex. I might have an interesting field report coming up this week entitled "The Ghost of Christmas Past Edition" This girl flaked and ghosted me from bumble right around Christmas time. Here we are three months later. Matched on tinder, got her number, and we are working out the details of meeting up this week
/r/seduction03/04/18 12:55 AM
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You're the best! Thanks man
/r/seduction02/04/18 10:33 PM
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I just read your FR. Bro we are so similar. I WILL NOT TEXT THIS GIRL TODAY. The only reason I'm so anxious here is because the plan is for her to come to my place. Which let's be real, this most likely is a green light for sex. Well guess what buddy? Not this time, I'm not gonna be a fucking chode. I can get sex, fairly easily to be honest, so I'm not gonna be a beta with this girl. If she wants to see me again, we will make it happen. It doesn't have to be this week. In fact, it took us two we…
/r/seduction02/04/18 08:11 PM
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I didn't give enough context. I thanked her for coming out because I was already going out with a group of friends, and I invited her to join. So it wasn't a typical date. She joined me and 4 of my friends at a bar. I said it was fun because I took her home with me and we had sex, raw. That's fun to me. As for the other girl, which I went out with the next day, I guess I will let her squirm for a day. I told her I would text her today, but instead I will wait until tomorrow night. Tuesday doesn'…
/r/seduction02/04/18 07:52 PM
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Any advice on this scenario would be greatly appreciated: I went out with a girl on Saturday. The date went well, but she wasn't able to come over after because she had to be up early to help cook for Easter. There was definitely attraction on both sides and we floated the idea of her coming over after work this week Tuesday or Wednesday. Great news, but when she texted me last night saying "I'll let you know which day works better once I get my schedule :)" I responded with "Sounds good! I'll c…
/r/seduction02/04/18 07:24 PM
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Most of the time I hook up with a girl and lose interest after. I'm naturally an extreme person, as in I either don't care at all, or I care too much. Finding a happy medium has always been a struggle for me. My next day text to my most recent girl was "Thanks for coming out last night. It was fun" Can you give me your thoughts on this situation? I went out with a girl on Saturday. The date went well, but she wasn't able to come over after because she had to be up early to help cook for Easter. …
/r/seduction02/04/18 07:13 PM
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I hope it does help you. The whole reason I made this post was to spell it out clear as day why I keep fucking up with girls. I want to use this as a reminder to myself to step back, take a deep breathe, and chill the fuck out
/r/seduction02/04/18 06:37 PM
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Good luck man! Ultimately, less is more. When I act a bit more aloof, I tend to get better results. If a girl doesn't want to be with me again, so what? I can find other girls. Oneitis is a hell of a disease. It warps your brain
/r/seduction02/04/18 06:28 PM
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Here's an an example of over investing in a girl: Match online, get number after a few messages. Set up date after a few texts. Confirm date the day before. Reconfirm date the morning of. Go on date. Greet with a hug. Have conversation, throw in some light kino. Start talking about their favorite movies/tv shows on netflix after about 30 minutes of getting to know each other/building attraction. Invite them back to my place to watch a movie or TV show on netflix. Grab blanket, cuddle, kiss them.…
/r/seduction02/04/18 06:06 PM
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You sound so similar to me haha. I'm 24. I'm also very introverted. There's a chance that my "failure rate" might actually be 36% as opposed to 43% because I just heard back from the girl I hooked up with on Friday. I sent her three texts in a row (I know, I'm pathetic and I should know better) We made plans to hang out today, but she just texted me saying "I think I might have to work late tonight unfortunately"
/r/seduction02/04/18 05:34 PM
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Hey Anon. I want to get your opinion here. The hot girl from the gym is essentially an afterthought now because i haven't heard from her in 4 days. Anyways: I went out with a girl on Saturday. The date went well, but she wasn't able to come over after because she had to be up early to help cook for Easter. There was definitely attraction on both sides and we floated the idea of her coming over after work this week Tuesday or Wednesday. Great news, but when she texted me last night saying "I'll l…
/r/seduction02/04/18 05:17 PM
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I've been out with several girls in the last couple weeks. Ironically the girl that clearly likes me the most, is the girl I've given the least to. Our texts were getting dull, so I stopped texting her. Three days later she texted me and was acting really interested. She actually suggested an idea for a date, which we are going to do on Friday. We are grabbing a cheap dinner, and then going back to her place. Edit: Of course I fat fingered my phone as I referenced the text I quoted and accidenta…
/r/seduction02/04/18 04:30 PM
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Good work man. It's not just easy mode for me by the way. I get more matches, numbers, and dates online than most guys, but I still have to go on the dates and be interesting, fun, and make the girls feel comfortable. I often turn 45 min coffee dates or a drink into an invite back to my place to "watch a movie" If the average guy is a 7, I'm a 7.5. So it's not like im just raking in women solely because of my looks. I still have to seal the deal just like everyone else after I actually meet thes…
/r/seduction02/04/18 11:11 AM
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I made myself attractive though. I was average at best a year ago. I started lifting weights, eating right, got a stylish haircut, grew a nice beard, and updated my wardrobe. I lost 10 pounds last year and had some decent strength gains. This boosted my confidence. I didn't have sex once between May and August last year. That's when I was working on myself.
/r/seduction01/04/18 12:08 PM
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I get girls all the time online. Tinder, bumble, hinge, coffee meets bagel. I do occasionally meet girls at bars, but online is so much easier for me. I went out with three girls this week. I brought a girl home with me last night from hinge. Tonight I ALMOST brought my date from coffee meets bagel home, but she lives 40 minutes away and has to be up at 6am for easter stuff. She's going to come over on Tuesday. I have a girl coming over on Friday from CMB as well. I'll admit it, you have to be a…
/r/seduction01/04/18 02:51 AM
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You're correct. But I don't want a baby with a girl I just met lol
/r/seduction01/04/18 02:35 AM
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You are so right. I need to get my head out of my ass. Even if a girl doesn't "make me" use a condom, I need to put one on. I am not ready for a kid, not even close. I'm meeting another girl at a bar in about two hours. If she comes back with me, I will absolutely use a condom tonight
/r/seduction31/03/18 10:27 PM
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That's exactly what she told me haha. "Never assume a girl is on birth control" What I don't get is what was her game plan here though? She was on top of me. We had literally just met about an hour earlier. She knows nothing about me, and she was ok with having sex with me without a condom. I easily could have came inside her, but luckily I was able to use my brain for above 2 seconds at the end.
/r/seduction31/03/18 10:19 PM
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So I may have had my 5th one night stand in a row last night. Just depends on if we have a second date or not, because I would like to. This girl was 29 and I'm 24. Online (Hinge) She met my friends and I out at a bar around 10:30 last night. A girl coming out that that is typically a good sign. I bought her a couple drinks, and we talked. I started putting my hand on her leg as we got more comfortable, she didn't mind. Then I told her about the youtube video my roommate and I made (comedic food…
/r/seduction31/03/18 11:43 AM
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I'm smooth21. Moderately attractive, moderately successful, no criminal record That's it man!
/r/seduction31/03/18 03:47 AM
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I'm sorry, but no girl wants my hairy ass in their face for a lap dance 😂😂
/r/seduction30/03/18 10:14 PM
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Sounds like a hell of a night! You gonna see her again? Or just a one nighter? I'm going out with a girl tomorrow night that has the build you're into. 5 feet tall, big boobs, and I'd imagine a nice ass because so many short girls have a booty
/r/seduction30/03/18 10:07 PM
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Have good pictures. This means no selfies. Have a friend help you. A picture of you, a picture doing something such as hiking, a picture with friends, a pic with a dog doesn't hurt! The goal of online dating is to take the conversation offline ASAP. This means no small talk garbage. 2-4 messages, and then tell them that you'd like to grab a drink or coffee with them. Ask for their number. Get the number, message them, set up a date. Rinse repeat. This is online dating in general, not just one ni…
/r/seduction30/03/18 08:23 PM
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My last four girls were one night stands. 3/4 met online. One at a bar through a mutual friend. 2/4 girls I took on a coffee date, then back to my place after. The other two came right over. Only one of the four was intended to be a one night stand. It was a girl that was home from college for the week about a month ago. The other three were not intended to be one night stands, but there just wasn't a connection, so I didn't see them again. I'm meeting a girl at a bar tonight and another girl at…
/r/seduction30/03/18 07:06 PM
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Good job! You just need to practice kissing. It sounds like the vibe was killed when she realized you didn't know how to kiss
/r/seduction30/03/18 03:11 AM
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Make a flirty comment to the girl you like the most after she does it. "At least by me a drink first"
/r/seduction29/03/18 02:49 PM
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As long as you are comfortable with it, then of course it's alright. If you are not comfortable with it, make it known that it has to stop. This is absolutely flirting. Girls do not just touch any random guy. Imagine if you were extremely overweight, smelled bad, and had a shitty personality. Do you really think that they would still be pinching your butt? Absolutely not!
/r/seduction29/03/18 02:26 PM
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I love it! I'm sure you were embarrassed, but it will be funny looking back on this moment. We've all crashed an burned. Next time just have a bit of a game plan. You don't need to plan the whole thing, but at least have your opener ready. I go with "Hi, I'm Smooth21." and then I extend my hand for a hand shake. Sometimes I use different openers, but only situationally. Another move that I have had success with: If you see a group of girls trying to take a selfie, approach them and offer to take…
/r/seduction29/03/18 02:22 PM
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Ok so I almost texted her last night...thankfully I stayed cool and didn't. She text me back this morning...three days later. "Hey! I wanted to check my schedule with my boss (I just started bartending on Sunday) and she put me on the schedule for Friday and Saturday to train. Do you want to get a drink sometime next week?" I said yes, but I just hate when girls play the no response game. She always responds to me, but its 1-3 days later. And once it was a full week
/r/seduction29/03/18 12:46 PM
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I knew you would say that. You're completely right. I just have a feeling that I'm going to approach her. I can't help myself sometimes :/ I have two dates Saturday. I may have a date tonight. And I have two girls that I went out with last week that want to see me again, but are unavailable due to vacations until next weekend. And of course these girls are all 7s. I have a seemingly endless amount of 7s as options. But I can do better. It's just much more difficult as soon as they get even a ste…
/r/seduction28/03/18 05:58 PM
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Well it's been two days since I texted her. No response and I havent seen her at the gym. When i inevitably see her at the gym, what would my best move be? Keep in mind that this girl told me that she wasn't talking to anyone, would go on a date, and liked the idea of going to a brewery when I mentioned it last week. She did the same shit two months ago. Interested in person, but a ghost via text. I'm pretty sick of the way she handles these situations. I know I'm gonna approach her and act like…
/r/seduction28/03/18 02:08 PM
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Keep grinding buddy. Get to the gym as soon as you can. Try to make it a habit. The gym has become something that I look forward to. It's my passion. I'm dropping 10 pounds for summer. I've got about 12 weeks to go. Once you build a solid muscular foundation and get down to a healthy body fat range (15%-18%), you'll feel great, and this will likely result in increased confidence. I'm just trying to take it one step further as I enter my second year of lifting. Trying to get down to 10%-12% body …
/r/seduction28/03/18 12:42 PM
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Hahahah. I have all the same issues as you and everyone else on here. I texted her last night, still haven't heard back. But i'm keeping my cool. I'll calmly approach her at the gym later or tomorrow depending on when I bump into her and see what's up
/r/seduction27/03/18 04:35 PM
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I went with "Hey (girl). It's smooth21. Let's grab a drink at bar x. Friday at 8"
/r/seduction26/03/18 11:57 PM
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MVPua. Texting her now. Updates to come. The main reason I'm avoiding texting her is because 2 months ago she would only text me back once per day or sometimes not at all, and it got into my head. I was thinking about the lack of response and her too much. I didn't like the way I felt. Luckily I learned from this experience because now I don't think twice when a girl doesn't text back
/r/seduction26/03/18 11:51 PM
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Holy shit! It's like you're in my head man. I have oneitis for her. Edit: thankfully I didn't show her my oneitis, so she still views me as a chill and good looking guy I get girls all the time, I have options, but my options are all 7s and 8s. I havent even kissed a 9, so I put her on a pedestal. I was literally going to offer to pick her up...its a move I do when I'm nervous about a flake. Any 7, I tell them when and where to meet me. But the really hot girls, I tell them to meet me at my plac…
/r/seduction26/03/18 11:40 PM
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I'm about to YOLO it I think. Honestly just that she always smiles at me when we make eye contact. And she's very friendly towards me. I had been mostly avoiding her lately because i didn't want to make it awkward. The interest stems from the first time we met and she stuck her hand out to shake mine and introduced herself before i had told her my name. We talked for like 5 mins and connected a bit. It turns out her mom went to the same college i did. And then she told me about how she's in grad…
/r/seduction26/03/18 11:24 PM
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You might be right. I literally almost texted her 10 minutes ago to set up the date. I was hoping to run into her at the gym today and casually set the date, but she wasn't there. I'm running the risk of her making plans by waiting. But I was really hoping to set this up in person. I was gonna give it until Wednesday, and then text her if I didn't see her at the gym. Now I'm thinking I should give it one more day. My friend told me today that he sees her there every Tuesday at the time we go. Or…
/r/seduction26/03/18 11:10 PM
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Haha you're right. I made it sound too rigid. I'm an accountant, I can't help but sound analytical sometimes. In reality: you're just having a casual conversation. You'll normally figure out pretty quickly if you're vibing with them on not. For me, I start talking about Netflix if the date is going well, which makes for an easy transition to asking them to come over to watch the show or movie we were talking about. It works more often than not for me. The coffee dates tend to last about 45 mins …
/r/seduction26/03/18 05:57 PM
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Flirting, light kino, and the fact that you know almost nothing about each other, so you're being analyzed and you're analyzing as well
/r/seduction26/03/18 05:19 PM
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2 reasons. I took her response as a no. She would have went out with me if she was interested, but I wanted to handle it in a high value way. I didn't want her to feel bad, and I wanted to keep the door open for a future move. By calmly letting her know I was not phased, it kept the door open for me. 2nd reason: I'm an accountant. The winter months =60 hour work weeks. So I decided I was gonna wait to make my next move until after my schedule returned to normal.
/r/seduction26/03/18 01:01 PM
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You're not a puss. You're normal. I try to avoid hitting on girls at the gym. I really care about lifting. I get in the zone. I left out one minor detail...I started going to this gym in October. I noticed this girl right from the start. It took me 3 months to build the courage to talk to her. I literally silently said to myself "shoot your shot 2k18" and then I went in guns a blazin This was the perfect set up though. My workout had ended, she was walking back the from the drinking fountain as …
/r/seduction26/03/18 12:27 PM
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I did respond. About a day later. Just saying no problem. I just haven't talked to her in person in 2 months. Besides a 60 second small talk conversation last month
/r/seduction26/03/18 12:18 PM
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I am going slow. I'm normally really fast, but I'm handling this one differently since she ghosted me in January. I get girls, but honestly I've never gone out with a girl as attractive as her. A legit 9/10. My gym friends are pretty proud of me lol. Most of the girls I go out with or hook up with I would consider to be around a 7. I dated an 8 for 5 years. I'm 24 by the way
/r/seduction26/03/18 01:24 AM
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I'll let you know friday... I'm supposed to be taking one of the hottest girls at my gym to a brewery. I just caught her after she filled up her water bottle. I signaled to take out her head phones. Then I asked her if she went to the same college as me because she looked familiar. This was complete BS, I knew she didn't go to my school, and she didn't look familiar. After some small talk, I asked her to hang out some time and then got her number. After a few initial texts, she ghosted me for a …
/r/seduction26/03/18 12:43 AM
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I convert almost half of my coffee dates to an invite back to my place. I normally ask after about 45 minutes if they want to come watch a movie or tv show. I always ask them about what they like on Netflix, and then a transition that into a way of giving the girl plausible deniability. I did this last Saturday. I almost did it yesterday, but I got cock blocked by her little sister calling her and completely killing the vibe we had worked up She's going home for spring break tomorrow, but she sa…
/r/seduction22/03/18 03:57 PM
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I took a girl there once. Second date. It was fun! But we blew through the $25 in like 30 mins. I would much rather just get coffee or grab a drink the first time I meet a girl. $5 coffee date. I don't want to put money into a girl I don't know if I even like
/r/seduction22/03/18 03:52 PM
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Mini Field Report: Gym Edition: 2.5 months ago, I hit on one of the hottest girls in my gym. I got her number and she agreed to go on a date. She ended up ghosting me for a week, and then she texted me to apologize. She explained that she didn't text me back because she was on the fence due to the fact that she is talking to a guy. She told me that she thought I was "Very nice and really handsome for what its worth" Fast forward to today. I was getting a good lift in, really feeling myself. So I…
/r/seduction22/03/18 02:05 AM
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Pics make or break your profile. NO SELFIES. Get a friend or family member to help you out. I'm also extremely forward online. To quote a girl that I matched with today "haha wow forward okay I dig your confidence" we are getting coffee at 7:30 tonight
/r/seduction21/03/18 07:00 PM
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My stats: 6'2, 188 pounds. Solid haircut (high fade) I style my hair on the top of my head with pomade. I have a solid, well trimmed beard. Dark hair, blue eyes. Decent wardrobe. I lift weights, but I only started less than a year ago TLDR solid 7.5/10. Maybe an 8 on a good day Honestly any guy that isn't overweight, lifts weights, has an up to date haircut and clothing should have decent luck on tinder. I think my height and my blue eyes are what give me a slight edge Also I mostly use bumble b…
/r/seduction21/03/18 06:51 PM
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My personal experience: If you are truly good looking, you will be able to get girls on tinder/bumble. I am fortunate to be a good looking guy. I get girls online all the time. Getting all these girls has helped boost my confidence. My confidence shows when I go out now. I approach girls in bars by introducing myself and shaking their hand. I don't use pick up lines. Once you attract a few girls, you build some sort of a "momentum" I have been with 13 girls since September. 10 were from online. …
/r/seduction21/03/18 02:15 AM
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Wow that is a scary story. Luckily she was with a good guy (you) that was able to take care of her and keep her safe. I'm not perfect. The last four girls i've been with were one night stands. But at the end of the day, I know deep down, that I am a good person. Maybe it was the fact that I was drunk, but the whole time I was talking to this girl, I was thinking to myself that I would like more than a one night stand with her. Our connection was oddly strong (possibly due to alcohol and her stro…
/r/seduction21/03/18 01:44 AM
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To my knowledge, there's individual bathrooms, not stalls. She did not give many details to me. I would guess that this guy snuck in behind her and/or she didn't lock the door. I made it clear to her tonight that we could talk about whatever she wanted, and I really just wanted to talk more about her because on Sunday we only talked about me for some reason.
/r/seduction21/03/18 01:30 AM
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We are getting coffee in two days. I guess she felt the connection too.
/r/seduction21/03/18 01:26 AM
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She sounded very upbeat and happy to talk to me during our phone call tonight. She is being very positive, and I truly think that she can get through this
/r/seduction21/03/18 01:25 AM
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Good point. I was thinking that too. We just talked on the phone for over 30 minutes and we are meeting for coffee on Thursday
/r/seduction21/03/18 01:20 AM
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We just talked on the phone for over 30 minutes. She's meeting me for coffee on Thursday after work. Our phone conversation was upbeat and fun. I'm not sure if this is considered a date, but we both admitted that we are excited to meet each other sober. I'm really happy right now
/r/seduction21/03/18 12:45 AM
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She doesn't owe me anything. I would like to see her again eventually. I don't care about sex with her. I just want to make sure she's ok
/r/seduction20/03/18 02:19 PM
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Nice as hell
/r/seduction20/03/18 03:36 AM
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Your call man. Just my opinion. But that's not the point of my comment. If you take one thing away from what I said, it's that confidence is what changed my life. Build your confidence, and the women will follow
/r/seduction20/03/18 03:03 AM
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Yes. It almost always means that she's not interested. This is extreme, but think about it like this. If you were Channing Tatum (insert universally attractive man), would she be too busy? HELL NO. She would find the time, make the time, excited to spend time with you.
/r/seduction20/03/18 02:58 AM
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April 2017 - Tough Break up. 23.5 years old. I had only slept with 2 girls in my life. This was the low point of my life. I was out of shape and had zero confidence. I used this break up as motivation to change. I started lifting weights and eating right. I lost about 15 pounds, but got a lot stronger. My body looks completely different. - Huge confidence boost because I feel attractive and desired now. New Hair Style: I started getting a nice fade, and using hair product to style my hair. I the…
/r/seduction20/03/18 02:53 AM
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I just got a message on snap chat. "so the reason ive been blowing you off for two weeks...." "I didn't get my period" My heart sank. I was more scared than I have ever been in my life. A minute later she tells me that she took a pregnancy test and it came back negative, and then she got her period. HOLY SHIT. LESSON LEARNED. WEAR A GOD DAMNED CONDOM YOU HORNY MOTHER FUCKERS
/r/seduction13/03/18 03:34 AM
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Awesome dude! Good work
/r/seduction08/03/18 12:14 PM
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Yep I'm in the US. That's interesting. I wouldn't have expected a difference
/r/seduction05/03/18 01:32 PM
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Update? Hope it went well, but my guess is that she flaked. Tinder probs
/r/seduction05/03/18 04:44 AM
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My opener: "Hi. I'm smooth21" I then extend my hand for a hand shake, unless it's a larger group. It works for me. I say it confidently. No need to be clever. If a girl wants to talk to me, she won't give a shit what I open with. It's all about attraction Also if I ever see a girl out that ive matched with on tinder, I approach them. I went 2/2 last night by approaching tinder matches at the bar. Brief conversation to jog their memory, number close, hug, then leave. I just say "Hey are you (inse…
/r/seduction05/03/18 04:34 AM
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What's better though? A key that can open many locks or a lock that can be opened by many keys? It takes some skill to get laid as a guy. Something to be proud of
/r/seduction04/03/18 03:06 PM
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She's really into you man. You would literally have to TRY to fuck this one up. Just invite her over for dinner and a movie. Offer a blanket before the movie starts. She will say yes. Put your arm around her. Watch the movie, but also talk to her. Hold her hand. Then I generally just kiss them on the cheek or lips when the moment feels right. This always escalates quickly after the kiss on the couch. I pull them on top of me, so she is straddling me. We make out, i take her shirt off, then mine …
/r/seduction26/02/18 08:22 PM
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Yes. I put out on the first date
/r/seduction23/02/18 05:20 PM
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Everyone plateaus. It doesn't mean you stop going to the gym just because you are no longer getting "newbie gains" You're an intermediate gamer now. There's a tons more to learn, but you won't make huge strides every single time you go out now. Back the the gym analogy. Just because I'm not adding 10 pounds on my bench press every week, doesn't mean I'm gonna stop going. I keep pushing myself. And you should too
/r/seduction18/02/18 02:03 AM
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This happens to me all the time. Although in the past few months it stopped. 2 changes that I made: I stopped masturbating I switching from cutting to bulking (weight/fitness goals) I'm not sure which changed helped more, but I'm 90% sure it's that I started bulking. The excess calories and fat in my diet made everything easier for me. But without masturbating, I was more easily aroused. One last thing. I started getting out in front of the issue by saying to the girls "sometimes I get nervous a…
/r/seduction16/02/18 08:02 PM
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Just try to find them in the "add friends" section of snap chat. If you can find them, it's a real number
/r/seduction12/02/18 12:43 PM
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8 out of the last 10 girls I've been with were from tinder/bumble. I never go out. I've decided to start going out more and trying to be more social. I deleted tinder and bumble a week ago, and I've been happy with my decision. I went out alone last week for the first time ever. I ran into a guy I recognized from the gym, and I introduced myself. We ended up clicking. I was going up to girls with the "Have you met ted?" Line from How I Met your Mother. We were getting into good sets with attract…
/r/seduction03/02/18 05:32 PM
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I don't like making posts, so I'm just going to leave this here.... Yesterday I went to the Bar solo, and I saw this guy that goes to my gym and introduced myself. After, I asked him if he wants to meet some girls. He obviously did. So I told him I was gonna hit on girls with the classic "have you met ted?" line from How I Met Your Mother. It worked surprisingly well on pairs of girls.
/r/seduction29/01/18 02:47 AM
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If I'm being honest, I would ask her why she felt the need to tell me that. That was immature. Either a shit test or her way of telling you she's not interested in you. Either way, I'd next her if I had self respect
/r/seduction29/01/18 02:15 AM
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She sounds immature. My guess is that she's about 21 years old and still in college.
/r/seduction29/01/18 01:34 AM
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I did it in the reverse order. Committed relationship from 18-23. Fuck boy from 23-present. I'm 24 now. I don't want to be a fuck boy. But I also want to have sex, and I lose interest quickly. It's a tough thing to figure out. I always want what I can't have
/r/seduction26/01/18 10:52 PM
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Best way to not get sex: asking for sex. Actions speak louder than words. Make out, escalate, and things will happen naturally
/r/seduction26/01/18 03:01 AM
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Not kissing her was your mistake. It's ok, you're learning. But in the future, go for the kiss. In the past, I used to not go for the kiss. And I never got second dates. Then I started going for the kiss every time, unless I wasn't interested in the girl. It makes it clear that you are more than friends. Ideally you can get them to your place after the date and escalate to making out, which may or may not lead to sex
/r/seduction26/01/18 01:03 AM
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Good for you man. Sounds like it was just a booty call, but being so fresh out of a long term relationship, you're probably ok with that.
/r/seduction23/01/18 03:18 AM
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That's exactly right. Reading between the lines, this guy is overweight, hence /r/loseit He has low self esteem and confidence. He feels alone and empty. And this feeling of rejection just reiterated his own views on himself. Feeling unwanted and alone
/r/seduction22/01/18 06:46 PM
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Lol whoa...poor guy has some serious issues if a flake made him cry hysterically
/r/seduction22/01/18 03:46 PM
1

I can't help myself. I tend to me really attracted to the extroverted party girl. I get bored with the vanilla girls. The problem is, these girls tend to be the flakiest and most likely to ghost you
/r/seduction21/01/18 10:09 PM
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Girls are probably more receptive during night game. You hit a bar, and there's tons of girls. Dressed nicely and looking to talk to people. I went out last night and the best part of the night was before my friends got to the bar. I was going up to groups of 2-3 girls and saying "Hey my friends aren't here yet, so I'm gonna hang with you" I did this to 3 separate groups of girls, and they all welcomed me in. I ended up kissing one of the girls later in the evening. I number closed two other gir…
/r/seduction21/01/18 02:34 PM
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My bio: 6'2 I used to have: Taller than you in heels I thought it was a clever line, but it doesn't seem like there's a whole lot of brain power on tinder
/r/seduction21/01/18 01:30 AM
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I filter out the garbage by asking for their number after about 2-3 messages. If they give it, I text them to set up a date. If they don't give it, I next them
/r/seduction21/01/18 01:28 AM
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I feel like this would be an appropriate place to put this odd story. Today a girl messaged me first on a dating app, "Coffee Meets Bagel" so naturally the conversation went smoothly and I quickly got her number. This was so bizarre to me because she's actually attractive. I think this is the first time an attractive girl messaged me first (not counting Bumble). We've already set up a date for tomorrow. She's meeting me at my place and then we are going to grab a drink together. I have zero risk…
/r/seduction21/01/18 01:25 AM
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Let's be real here...99% of us are not getting with 10s. The best I can close with is an 8. I've noticed that girls that are 8s and above tend to be the flakiest. My scale is really strict, but I personally have never met a girl that id consider to be a 10. The hottest girl I know, I consider to be a 9. I consider myself to be an 8, so my real world experience seems to agree
/r/seduction19/01/18 06:11 PM
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Who hurt you, friend?
/r/seduction18/01/18 02:46 AM
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Compatibility is the most important thing to me, but attraction is a very close second. I was seeing this girl for about 3 weeks. She was such a sweet girl. One of the nicest girls I ever met. She really liked me for who I was. She was cute too, but at the end of the day, I had to admit that I wasn't attracted to her sexually. I just really love beautiful women. Cute doesn't do it for me. I felt bad telling this girl that I couldn't commit to her, she left my apartment, and texted me saying she …
/r/seduction18/01/18 02:24 AM
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I've sadly come to the conclusion that I've been acting like a "fuck boy" lately and I am disappointed in myself. I used 2017 to get into good shape and build confidence after breaking up with my long term girlfriend. Now I keep finding myself in situations where I have sex with girls and then after seeing them once or twice more, realizing that I don't want to be with them. I've come to the conclusion that I can only commit to a girl that I consider truly beautiful, so out of respect for myself…
/r/seduction18/01/18 01:57 AM
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Rejection does feel good for some reason. It gives me peace of mind. If you just had your first rejection, you must have also just had your first approach because EVERYONE gets rejected.
/r/seduction15/01/18 03:23 AM
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I was in a relationship in college, as a result my social media presence is total garbage. I'm 24 now. I have 110 followers on IG. I don't think it hurts me too much. But honestly...if I see a girl with 200 followers that is following 500 people...it really makes me think. But the girls with 1000+ followers have plenty of social proof, and in my opinion, tend to be more attractive. I think my follower count was in the 20s back in April, but now that I'm more active, and meeting more people, it h…
/r/seduction15/01/18 12:24 AM
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I haven't gone out with her yet. We've sent a few texts back in forth. Most recently: I asked her when she's free next week. She said most days except Thursday and Friday. I told her to meet me at 7:15 on Monday at a specific bar. Now I'm just waiting for her response. It's annoying because she takes long to respond, I'm talking 1 or 2 days, but when she does respond, it's a good text that's long and exclamation points in every text. She probably does this with every guy to test if they are need…
/r/seduction14/01/18 01:56 PM
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I want to keep this short and sweet. Netflix. Blanket. Cuddle. Increase physical contact. Kiss Make out Touching Clothes off Fuck
/r/seduction14/01/18 01:07 AM
1

Normally "good luck"
/r/seduction13/01/18 08:15 PM
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High school
/r/seduction13/01/18 07:27 PM
1

Looking for Buffalo NY pua. Tonight we game. PM me
/r/seduction13/01/18 05:38 PM
1

I randomly remake my tinder all the time because I love the first couple days Not sure if it actually makes a difference, but it feels cool matching with like 20-30 of my first 200 swipes
/r/seduction13/01/18 05:36 PM
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I love it when a girl rejects me. Because most girls in their early 20s "ghost" aka just stop responding. When a girl has the decency to tell me they aren't interested in a date with me, I tell them "Thank you for your honesty. I respect that. You have my number if you change your mind. Good luck"
/r/seduction13/01/18 05:32 PM
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FR: The weather was shitty yesterday, so I had to make some alterations for our first date. Instead of going out for drinks, she came over for pizza and wine. She brought the wine, I made the pizza. As I made the pizza, we talked. She made comments about how it looked like I knew what I was doing. We drank wine and ate pizza on my couch. Then it was movie time. I reclined the couch, grabbed a blanket and asked "want a blanket?" She joined me under the blanket. Her hands were cold, so I grabbed t…
/r/seduction13/01/18 02:35 PM
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I let ya know. Hopefully grabbing drinks with her Monday or Wednesday evening. Just waiting for her response
/r/seduction12/01/18 10:45 PM
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That's a good line. Definitely more than one option here. My "beta" line of "what's your schedule like. We can set something up" worked for me with a very attractive girl last night because she texted me this morning, "I'm free most of next week except Thursday and Friday!"
/r/seduction12/01/18 02:56 PM
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She texted me back this morning saying she's free most days next week except Thursday and Friday. Your mileage may vary, but this is an actual account of my advice to OP working. She's interested, so she's giving me all the info I ask for
/r/seduction12/01/18 02:52 PM
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FR: She was lifting. Two head phones in. Suddenly she goes to fill up her water bottle. Here's my chance. I make eye contact as she's walking towards me, and motion for her to take out her earbuds. She takes them out and I go "Hey did you go to (state college)?" I obviously knew that she didn't, but it sounded like a great ice breaker. She was like "no I didn't, but my mom went there and I almost did!" At this point I told her that she looked familar, and she agreed that I looked familiar, which…
/r/seduction12/01/18 02:42 PM
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Question for you: what else could i have said to this Girl? I'm currently waiting to hear back, but so far she's only sent me one text per day. The texts are long though with value I hit on one of the hottest girls at the girl on tuesday. My second text to her was "I always have coffee before I go the the gym. Meet me at the Tim Hortons near the gym 10am saturday" To which she responded "Hey!! Okay counter offer (my friends coming up tomorrow so I'm not sure if I'll make it to the gym) how about…
/r/seduction12/01/18 10:04 AM
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My date to the 8th grade dance ended up being my gf for 1.5 years. Good for you buddy. Keep it up
/r/seduction12/01/18 03:15 AM
1

I randomly decided to stop masturbating about 6 weeks ago. I think it helps motivate me to get girls. Sex is my only option now
/r/seduction12/01/18 03:13 AM
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Start with hello. If the girl is showing all the signs of being interested, it should flow pretty naturally. No need for a pick up line
/r/seduction12/01/18 03:09 AM
2

Bumble, tinder, bar. Mostly an online guy. Working on my in person approaches though. 90% of my women are online
/r/seduction12/01/18 03:07 AM
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Don't over think it. Just ask her what her schedule is like. If she tells you, she probably wants to hang, if she doesn't tell you, just say let me know when you're free. And move on
/r/seduction12/01/18 03:00 AM
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Pull her hair. Slap her ass, hard. Some girls even like some light strangling
/r/seduction12/01/18 02:53 AM
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Be careful to not get the reputation as the guy that goes to the gym the pick up women. I've done it once in my life. This week. I number closed one of the most attractive girls at my gym. But I was calculated. I've been considering making my move for 2 months now. Because I refuse to become "that guy" i wouldn't do it more than once a month
/r/seduction12/01/18 01:49 AM
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Ahhh high school. I was with my gf for 3 months before she gave me some hand action. The good ol days. Happy times for a 14/15 year old
/r/seduction12/01/18 01:31 AM
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Tinder FR: Me: wanna build a pillow fort and make out? Girl: sounds good to me Me: Number? Girl: (gives her number) Wow ok I guess this works lol
/r/seduction11/01/18 04:25 PM
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Coffee dates can be boring for sure. I used to be against them. But I've gotten girls back to my place after a one hour coffee date before. I'm trying to play it cool with this girl. Since we had briefly talked about our groups meeting out Saturday night, I figured I'd invite her to join me for coffee in the morning, hit the gym, and then meet up with her later at the bar if we both are still interested
/r/seduction11/01/18 03:30 PM
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I'm not going to text her back until after work and the gym. I don't want to appear eager. But I'm thinking my next text to her I will ask her out. I'm gonna tell her that I drink coffee before I go to the gym. I'll be at the coffee shop by the gym at 10am Saturday. I want you to join me Sound pretty good? If I'm lucky, she will be at the gym later when I'm there and I can ask in person
/r/seduction11/01/18 02:52 PM
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See my final edit. She texted me back :)
/r/seduction11/01/18 12:12 PM
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I have a habit of getting too excited when I'm really attracted to the girl. At least this week I discovered that hitting on a girl isn't hard. Rejection doesn't even bother me anymore. Today I hit on the hottest girl in my office. She said that she had a boyfriend. I calmly responded with you never know unless you try. She said good for you for trying! She actually seemed flattered. Possibly the most attractive girl I've ever talked to in person. Made my day
/r/seduction11/01/18 01:47 AM
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Hey man. I appreciate the advice. You're absolutely right. I'm going to work on that!
/r/seduction10/01/18 10:17 PM
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Yeah man I fucked up haha. Plus our plans were generic. As in, I would text her to make an official plan, but we established that we were both free. I can't double text her. I'm just gonna wait until I run into her in the gym again. I'll consider texting her Saturday if I don't see her because her and I happen to be going out in the same part of town, and we had mentioned the idea of our groups meeting up Saturday night
/r/seduction10/01/18 06:21 PM
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Thanks man. I'm too analytical for my own good sometimes I work with numbers. I live and breath numbers, so it's hard not to use numbers haha. Regardless of the arbitrary number, it all boils down to me acting differently around the women I perceive to be the most beautiful I've got a girl that I've been seeing for 2 weeks now. Sunday will be the 4th time she's come over. She is cute, fun, intelligent, and an all around nice person. I was planning on settling down for the winter, as I'm an accou…
/r/seduction10/01/18 03:38 PM
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Yeah I'm not gonna text her. I have a bad habit of developing oneitis with girls that are HB 8 or higher. I come across as needy and they run away. Give me an HB 7 and I can easily attract and seduce her. I just lose my cool with 8s for some reason It's because I don't give a shit what happens with the 6s and 7s, so I come across as so confident. I consider myself to be in the HB 7-8 range, and my history with women seems to agree because the girls are 7-8 every time unless I'm just looking for …
/r/seduction10/01/18 03:32 PM
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Great stuff. I needed this. Yesterday I hit on a beautiful girl at the gym. Conversation went great. She initiated Kino with a handshake and even asked for my name. She came right out and told me her schedule when I asked for it. The set ended by us informally agreeing to hang out tomorrow and she said told me to text her. So I texted her an hour later asking her if she crushed her work out. She didn't respond. There's still a chance she responds, but I doubt it. It's confusing because the inter…
/r/seduction10/01/18 02:10 PM
1

I ask for the girls number within the first few messages. This separates the girls looking for an ego boost from the girls that actually want to meet. This has been a game changer for me. If they give me resistance, I get their snap chat instead. After a few snaps, I get their number. If a girl is an HB6 or worse and gives me resistance, I next them. I "play" the game with 7s and 8s for a few more messages to build rapport. I've only number closed a couple 9s, but have never ended up meeting a 9…
/r/seduction08/01/18 09:45 PM
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I did the same thing in 2017. It require discipline to get out of fuck boy land. Raise your standards and take girls on dates and try to build an actually connection. That's what I started doing last month. I'm happier and I'm actually getting more dates now
/r/seduction08/01/18 05:08 PM
1

It's ok man. You'll find another one. I've had the same experience
/r/seduction07/01/18 04:34 PM
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You won't get a second date. You didn't try to kiss her. I've never gotten a second date with a girl I did not kiss
/r/seduction07/01/18 04:02 AM
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In the past 2 months I've had sex with a CPA, a dental student, a girl that plans on going to law school. I'm also talking with a girl that is entering her final semester of grad school to become a Physician's assistant. My ex was a pre-med student. I went on a couple dates with a Pharmacist in October. I tend to have good luck with highly educated, professional women. I am a CPA, which probably helps because I think they prefer professionals as well. But ultimately they are just like any other …
/r/seduction06/01/18 12:24 AM
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She's a saint. Wife her
/r/seduction05/01/18 05:10 PM
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Honestly there's red flags all over. She probably just loves the attention. What kind of girl says like that before you've even met? The deepest thing any girl has said to me in the past 6 months was "I like you" after we had sex. This girl sounds like the type to never actually come through and meet. Biggest takeaway: text her all you want, but keep trying to meet other women. She might be amazing, but she's just another girl. Remember this, if you looked like channing Tatum (or any other unive…
/r/seduction04/01/18 08:54 PM
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She sounds flakey to me. I would try calling her. I think calling sets you apart from the 20 other guys trying to text her. I also believe it makes the plans feel more concrete
/r/seduction04/01/18 07:53 PM
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I'll bite. I'm a 24 year old man. ZERO Just 8 months ago I broke up with a beautiful girl that I was planning on marrying some day. We were together for 5.5 years. April 2017 was the low point of my life. I was in the worst physical shape of my life, and I was arguably depressed between cutting things off with the girl I once loved, but realized that we were no longer compatible, and starting my career as an accountant, so I was just finishing my first tax season. I went 3 whole months without h…
/r/seduction04/01/18 03:51 AM
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Pretty good. I closed with the girl that that said she doesn't have sex on the first date. It just took some foreplay at my place after our second date. The girl that was on her period was just using that as a excuse because I saw her a third time and we were in my bed under the covers and she still wouldn't have sex. I think she's not over her ex. The third girl, which I've only seen for an hour and kissed is the most appealing to me though. She's the prettiest and we have the most in common. I…
/r/seduction03/01/18 01:05 PM
2

I get several matches per day on Tinder (Yay) I have zero pick up lines, so I never close (Boo) Thank the Lawd for Bumble. My witty profile and nice pictures do all the work for me. I just respond with "hey what's up" then I get their number and then I meet girls. Bumble is my secret weapon for getting laid
/r/seduction03/01/18 04:35 AM
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Listen to your jungler :) but yeah 2017 was wild. I went from the lowest I've ever been in my life, to the highest in about 8 months. 2018 is going to be amazing. As long as you are truly happy and carry yourself with confidence, people will notice and they will want to be around you.
/r/seduction02/01/18 10:01 PM
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I played all those video/card games in high school too. Those are just hobbies and and no impact on your ability to get girls. I also played Pokemon on my Nintendo DS. My girlfriend was an HB 8. Anyways, you want to make changes for yourself. Grow as an individual and the girls will naturally started being more attracted to you. I broke up with that HB 8 in April. Low point of my life mentally and physically. 5.5 year relationship. I couldn't attract any women. I was out of shape, my style was s…
/r/seduction02/01/18 09:31 PM
1

Just get coffee in the morning over the weekend. I had a one hour coffee date at 10 am on NYE. It was nice. Just remember to naturally Kino. Date still ended with several kisses and her texting me about how nice it was to meet me. She's coming over the my place on friday to watch a movie
/r/seduction02/01/18 06:56 PM
1

You're a good man. You don't need wasted girls
/r/seduction02/01/18 03:02 PM
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I'm seeing 2 girls again today. Second date and a third date. With great power, comes great responsibility. I think they are both expecting sex, but I know I should not have sex with both of them. One date was already planned, but then the other girl texted me saying she was free tonight. So I said "then you should come over later" she said alright. The only reason we didn't have sex the first two times we hung out was because she was on her period. The only reason I didn't have sex with the fir…
/r/seduction01/01/18 06:21 PM
1

The irritating girl continues to play games. She texted me at 6pm yesterday. "Do you have any plans, haven't heard from you today" The night before when I was at her place, she told me that she didn't want to be out with a guy this year on NYE, this is why I didn't text her. I tell her that when im into a girl, i ask them to hang out. If the girl is into me, they say yes. No games. She goes "forget it" Then an hour ago she texted me "im free tonight" I told her to come over and she said alright.…
/r/seduction01/01/18 05:51 PM
1

Definitely just go online. If you're attractive tinder/bumble are an easy way to get dates. If you want to try some other options, coffee meets bagel has given me some success. Personally I find the older paid sites to be complete garbage, such as match.com. I had more dates with week from bumble/coffee meets bagel than I had on match after 7 months. I meet 95% of my women online. I'm introverted, but attractive. Once I get a girl one on one, I can easily create attraction. There's nothing wrong…
/r/seduction01/01/18 02:17 PM
2

They call it cuffing season for a reason :p
/r/seduction01/01/18 04:22 AM
1

They don't know each other. Both from bumble. Holy fuck it's been a busy week for me. I k-closed 6 girls this week. I was doing 2 dates per day at one point lol. I deleted my tinder and bumble yesterday because I'm getting so many dates. Now it's time to start f closing. I like 3 of the girls. Last night I went to the first girls apartment, but she was still on her period. Tomorrow the second girl is coming over for our second date. And the 3rd girl is coming over Friday for our second date. One…
/r/seduction31/12/17 04:32 PM
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Don't worry my legs are weak too :) I only commented because 175 isn't something I'd try to impress a girl with. I just make jokes to girls about how my legs are weak if the gym comes up
/r/seduction30/12/17 09:07 PM
8

Wasn't much weight on that bar :p
/r/seduction30/12/17 04:32 PM
1

About as well as it could have i guess lol. I'm going to her place tonight. But she's still shit testing me. She told me to go on second dates with the girls I like and then contact her in a week if it doesn't work out with them. I put my foot down and said no, I want to see you again. You're my second date. And then she's like "fine i guess you can come over tomorrow then" She's an HB 8, but she acts like a 9, which is a bit irritating. The other girl i like is a 7, but she doesn't give me any …
/r/seduction30/12/17 01:08 PM
2

Here's a couple things I do: I always offer to pick the girl up. This guarantees that at the end of the date, there's a natural opportunity to hook up if we both want to. 2 nights ago I was supposed to pick a girl up, but her plans changed and she met me a my place and we rolled out together. After an hour at the bar she was in my apartment and we were making out. She was on top of me. She was on her period though, so no sex. Yesterday I went on an afternoon coffee date with someone else. This g…
/r/seduction30/12/17 12:57 PM
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Currently have ice cream, popcorn, bbq chips, chili fritos, prezels, chips/salsa, peanuts. Fridge is stocked with Beer and wine. Also have a couple servings of rum left.
/r/seduction30/12/17 02:48 AM
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Her response to these texts aren't that important, but these are the three texts I sent her. I'm going to be calling her in a couple hours. "Your friends won't be finding me on Bumble. It's causing drama in my life and I have zero tolerance for drama, so it's gone" "I didn't delete bumble because of you. I deleted bumble because I don't need it anymore " "Bumble works great for getting me dates. I've had dates, some went well, others didn't. I've had enough first dates. Now I'm looking for a sec…
/r/seduction30/12/17 01:45 AM
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My dude. Already deleted it. Thanks man. Of course her friend is over, so the phone call lasted 10 seconds lol. I guess I'll just tell her to call me later. She texted me and said "We can text, but I know you don't like texting" I'm making a habit of telling girls I don't text, so I should stand my ground. I only call or talk face to face. Text is only for setting up plans
/r/seduction30/12/17 01:13 AM
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Would deleting my bumble and telling her deleted it be vulnerable? If I met her ANY other way, she would still want to see me. It's irrational because bumble is just another way for me to number close, and has no impact on how things progress. Should I tell her that I've had opportunities to fuck other women, but didn't because I know she won't have sex with me if I'm with other girls? Or perhaps the have generic or anecdotal advice how to show vulnerability. She seemed to respond really well to…
/r/seduction30/12/17 12:28 AM
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Update: She texted me again 2 hours later because I didn't respond to her text about wanting to call me later. She said "unless you meant tired of bullshit aka me being the bull shit idk i'm not good at uncoding messages if they aren't direct. I say "I'll call you later. You're definitely not bull shit (Name). I'm always direct. What I say is what I mean" I feel like i've got her chasing me a bit now. Which is great. But...today I went on a coffee date with another girl. Within an hour we were b…
/r/seduction30/12/17 12:05 AM
1

All this fucking girl does is shit test me. It's driving me crazy. Oddly making me want her more. I pass the tests though. Met her on bumble. Getting her number was a struggle. I got it same day after some shit test resistance. Getting her to hang out was a shit test. She asks me "you're so so direct with women, how many dates do you go on per week, damn" I go "157. I don't even have time to sleep" She leaves my apartment after 20 minutes because her friend is sad and wants to talk to her and th…
/r/seduction29/12/17 06:51 PM
1

Yeah! That's the right move. I'm looking for something real now. Casual sex isn't fulfilling for me anymore
/r/seduction29/12/17 04:41 PM
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Yeah I wouldn't recommend it haha. I don't want to be sleazy though. So I only have been kissing them. Due to a recent confidence boost my body count went for 2 to 10 in less than 3 months. I decided I was getting out of hand, so I started managing my body count. As a result I've only been with 2 girls in the last 2 months. Yes I was this 6 girls in one month...I moved out of my parents house and started using my new freedom to my advantage
/r/seduction29/12/17 04:23 PM
1

At the time of asking this question, I didn't understand abundance mentality. I thought it meant having a bunch of girls. I've been on 5 dates in the past 3 days. Starting to feel burnt out. I get it now though. I don't have to date multiple girls at once. I have plenty of options. I just don't have to pursue all of them. Knowing that if things don't work out with one girl, I have tons of other interested girls, that's abundance mentality
/r/seduction29/12/17 04:08 PM
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Ok this makes a ton of sense. It's not actually dating multiple woman. It's simply knowing that if I pursue a girl and things don't work out, it's no big deal because there's tons of other girls that are into me
/r/seduction29/12/17 12:46 PM
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I prefer to be with one girl, but I don't want to settle. But dating all these women is stressful Great point by the way. Thank you
/r/seduction29/12/17 05:55 AM
1

Thanks OP. My issue is that I'm an accountant. Tax season starts in 2 week. This means 60 hour work weeks. 6 days per week. So I'm trying to cuff a girl because I know I won't have time to meet tons of girls. That's why I'm going on so many dates right now. I have 3 girls right now that want to go out with me again. One is a teacher, one is a 3rd year dental student, one is a last semester physicians assistant grad student. Lucky me, medical professionals have a thing for the young CPA
/r/seduction29/12/17 04:49 AM
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Just ask her about herself. Try to get her talking. As she responds, try to maintain solid eye contact. Nod your head. Make comments on occasion to show you are listening. Show empathy. "Oh yeah, that sounds really shitty. How did that make you feel" Relate to her by telling a story that fits the conversation
/r/seduction29/12/17 04:44 AM
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I'm 6'2" and I never close on tinder because I don't have any pickup lines. It sucks because I'm tall and probably an HB 7-8, but my game is weak. So I go on Bumble and close all day long because my height and looks take care of business and I don't have to use pick up lines.
/r/seduction29/12/17 04:31 AM
1

Where I come from we say "Go Bills" and you are instantly friends
/r/seduction29/12/17 04:23 AM
1

Anecdote: I brought up something we talked about during the date. We were talking about game of thrones. So I go "I want to watch game of thrones." She goes "Ok, do it" Me: ok let's Her: (3 second pause) Ok This was a success. Went to her place. Situation 2: Failure edition: Me: (after going to two bars and connecting) Want to join me for a drink at my place? Her: I can't because I have to pick my little sister up from a movie. Next time though!(which is true because she told me about this befor…
/r/seduction29/12/17 12:08 AM
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Your job has very little impact on your ability to get laid. I'm a god damn accountant and I get laid. It's all about your you carry yourself. And your ability to close. Quitting your great job, growing a man bun, and working as a bartender at a trendy club won't get you laid. You are still the same person
/r/seduction26/12/17 02:39 AM
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This sounds like an awful life stemming from parental neglect. Without a base level of attraction, you have nothing. I went on two dates with a pharmacist. She made 6 figures and was easy to talk to. She liked me, but I ended it after the second date because there was zero attraction.
/r/seduction26/12/17 01:12 AM
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That can be a bad thing. You can tell they read it and chose not to respond. On the positive side, I was snapping a bumble girl all day and then decided not to open her snap as a way of ending the conversation
/r/seduction24/12/17 04:07 AM
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