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Yawn, you're weak. Take your hurt feelings to someone that's listening
/r/MGTOW21/07/18 04:45 PM
-2

Kiss my ass
/r/MGTOW21/07/18 04:35 PM
1

Point me to em please, I can't find any
/r/MGTOW21/07/18 03:19 PM
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It's sad to see There should be an "acceptance program" and a "what I love about women" post stickied Ultimately if men were in women's shoes, they'd likely be playing the same games, using the same strategy to make it through life. There's a case for both sides I understand where the anger is coming from but it's like level 0 of the potential of mgtow
/r/MGTOW21/07/18 01:33 PM
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(y)
/r/MGTOW21/07/18 01:23 PM
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His wife must've been giving him great blow jobs
/r/MGTOW21/07/18 12:44 PM
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(y)
/r/MGTOW21/07/18 12:18 PM
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👍
/r/seduction19/07/18 07:22 PM
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Because MM is linear, it's not really equipped to navigate reality on a moment to moment level She can go from "stage one" to the "last stage" in seconds, while you still running your routine in g6. If you think about sex and foreplay, it doesn't work like this. You fuck with your own cock, not another mans, so why speak from another mans words. MM is button pushing, as if women are robots etc. There's several flaws with MM in practice for the average guy It's a nice theory that started all of w…
/r/seduction19/07/18 06:19 PM
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Depends if you go out during the night or day
/r/seduction19/07/18 06:05 PM
1

Cos they 19 haha
/r/seduction19/07/18 05:57 PM
1

Yes it's easy, too easy. Easier to have influence with her, easier to lead her They're not thinking like that "weird/creepy old guy", they're thinking what's fun and accessible
/r/seduction19/07/18 04:55 PM
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Authentic - yourself, opposite would be contrived - cocky, etc. She's interested, so all you have to do is lead In my mind, you are trying to get her to like you.. yet she already likes you .. but she won't take the lead. This is what my post was about yesterday, even if she approaches you first, messages you first.. you have to take the lead If you knew you were going to hook up tonight 100%, signed contracts and all haha but the contract says you have to hang out 2 hours before, what would you…
/r/seduction19/07/18 04:42 PM
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Try be normal and as clear with her as you can be
/r/seduction19/07/18 02:57 PM
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You're insecure with her, so you play games. If you thought she was into you, you wouldn't act like this. You'd know you're on the same team and wouldn't try to one up her all the time She's interested but every time you say something she loses more interest
/r/seduction19/07/18 01:12 PM
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"Hey - it's _" Don't even try
/r/seduction18/07/18 11:40 AM
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No not really, the skills are useful though
/r/seduction18/07/18 11:37 AM
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It's more like getting into the zone in sport, than a meditation So if we were playing basketball, we wouldn't think about our intentions while we are in the air doing a jump shot And starting an interaction is jumping to take that shot, if you know what I'm saying
/r/seduction16/07/18 10:29 PM
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No really, just stop thinking altogether
/r/seduction16/07/18 07:15 PM
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It's cos you're a long term guy dealing with short term women
/r/seduction16/07/18 07:11 PM
5

Run dude
/r/seduction16/07/18 05:31 PM
2

All natural game is basically simplified mm
/r/seduction16/07/18 03:22 PM
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They work but there are simplified methods out today, so they are also outdated
/r/seduction16/07/18 03:18 PM
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Haha it's a long way of saying stop thinking
/r/seduction16/07/18 03:14 PM
3

Talk to her, tell her how it feels from your perspective. How I feel when I'm paying all the time is that I'm exchanging it for sex, which degrades the whole relationship, especially when I like her as a person
/r/seduction16/07/18 03:01 PM
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How many of these guys make the change, let alone have the time to write bout it
/r/seduction16/07/18 02:55 PM
0

It would be possible, so not unrealistic
/r/seduction16/07/18 02:52 PM
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I call these "extra thoughts". There's the first one, "woah/damn", then there's the rest of them. After a couple seconds there's the "but" thought. "but she's listening to music .. but there's people that can hear me" Meditation will help you slow down your thoughts and be more clear with your intentions (your first thoughts, if I could say) See the problem is your focus of attention, your attention goes from the girl to other things. If you keep your attention on the girl, there is nothing to s…
/r/seduction16/07/18 02:45 PM
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"Hey, how's it going" Think social before "seduction"
/r/seduction16/07/18 02:23 PM
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I misread. I was making a joke on the "alpha's do this" thing by saying "real men do this"
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 03:48 PM
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There's a lot going on here You withhold the resources, she withholds the sex. That was the whole dynamic from the get, it was always an exchange. If she came over then you went to eat would you not have paid ? Redpills aint about teaching women a lesson
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 03:14 PM
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Real men don't split the check hahaha
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 03:07 PM
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You're projecting. We were talking about respect and high status
/r/seduction11/07/18 04:37 PM
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By being yourself the whole way
/r/seduction11/07/18 03:13 PM
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Why show her you can walk away when you can just walk away. You're trying to bluff I think if you want her in your life you should probably be very clear with her very quickly, not try to control her to keep her around The message depends on how intimate you have been. Judging by what you have described, ask if everything is going okay with her first. Say you thought you were having fun together and feel like there's a distance/you're growing apart and you wanted to know if it's something you sa…
/r/seduction11/07/18 02:56 PM
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Yes, ask her if she wants to come over for a beer
/r/seduction11/07/18 02:54 PM
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It's only been four weeks. These same four weeks you look at with disdain will play an important role as a reference for the beliefs you'll have 4 months from now Keep going, keep taking action. If it's too much, take a break and return when your attitude is more positive
/r/seduction11/07/18 02:52 PM
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High integrity and being beyond the pussy chase
/r/seduction11/07/18 02:40 PM
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Nah man, go find a hobby
/r/seduction11/07/18 02:34 PM
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There needs to be some sort of precedence or it very well may feel like something out the blue I think a simple, genuine compliment and a little lingering eye contact should send the right message. From here, play with sexual tension. If it's been released from your friendly terms then I would forget about it if I were to avoid risk
/r/seduction11/07/18 02:30 PM
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The same thing that makes men respect you, integrity. Have a spine Immediate respect can be a simple as the way you dress to as complex as being decisive or having clear boundaries You don't have to focus on it
/r/seduction11/07/18 02:25 PM
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/r/seduction11/07/18 02:14 PM
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I use it, it's a great tool for personal development, especially looking into your own unconscious perceptions. It also builds an accurate Theory of mind. It will give you a map of your own mind but how you navigate is a different story I'm intp so my mind kinda thinks like that anyway, intuitively. The hardest types to relate with for an intp are isfp and esfp. I used mbti to help my relationship with an isfp and we were very strong together. I remember there were points in the begining where I…
/r/seduction09/07/18 02:08 AM
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Don't look for them, let them take your attention while you are doing your thing. If you were hooking up with 3-4 women, what would you do for those two hours instead of walking around campus ? You're creating the right circumstances. Women are everywhere, you don't need to look for them
/r/seduction09/07/18 01:54 AM
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Men are only more motivated to make sex happen, women also push agendas I'm not sure what you mean by cultural targeted dating situations
/r/seduction06/07/18 04:45 PM
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I hear you. That's definitely the thinking currently Ultimately it's the context and the circumstances. If there isn't another context, then a date is the most recommended though I don't feel it's the best
/r/seduction06/07/18 04:18 PM
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100% Dating comes from courtship. Courting was my first (social conditioned) idea of how to relate to women that I was interested in sexually. Thing I learned though is it's windows 95 software Really it's just two friends/people hanging out, trying to enjoy each other's time
/r/seduction06/07/18 03:42 PM
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I agree and that's actually my direction since being on "dates"
/r/seduction06/07/18 02:54 PM
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I'm the same. One of my rules is that I'm sincerely not going to try to get anyone to do anything they don't want to do But I never take the lead with a take it or leave it attitude Chasing is a huge mistake made by men who don't know their value, and why online dating is the way it is
/r/seduction06/07/18 12:13 PM
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My desire isn't an illusion
/r/seduction05/07/18 02:34 PM
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Focus on being relaxed and comfortable. Haha have fun, this is one of those things you don't want to plan ahead. Get close then go for it. I don't kiss with tongue first but if you want to, why not
/r/seduction03/07/18 10:36 PM
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Haha I remember my first date. Nervous as hell and wanting to just focus on her, scared to hold her hand.. good times It gets better man, it gets a whole lot more fun Next time go for the kiss, if it's what you want to do, good chance she's expecting it
/r/seduction03/07/18 10:06 PM
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1) Get in touch with your sexuality. What turns you on, why and how 2) Internalize that women want sex just as much, if not more than men. They are sexual like you. Read stuff out there that explores female sexuality. Have a look at a sex course, have an idea of what pleasures women You'll get to a point where you'll see your dick as a good thing. Could take a little longer, there's a lot of media that shames men When you're talking with a woman and she turns you on, it's already sexual. You hav…
/r/seduction03/07/18 11:29 AM
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Stick to making out
/r/seduction01/07/18 01:29 PM
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His name is Chris. It's four books
/r/seduction01/07/18 12:17 PM
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Any persona doesn't work. Acting is hard, not everyone is getting oscars. Women are much too sharp, a large number are putting on an act themselves
/r/seduction01/07/18 04:58 AM
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60yearsofchallenge
/r/seduction01/07/18 04:55 AM
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"I hate wasabi"
/r/seduction01/07/18 04:46 AM
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If you're both clear you want to see each other why are you looking to others, why are you looking for what's socially acceptable
/r/seduction01/07/18 04:42 AM
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Guys that are good don't talk about it, if they do it's simplified. It's easy they don't want to think about it It's the guys that seem to be beyond women The guys that aren't getting much play are the one's that chase, so they talk about efficient and effective ways to chase women
/r/seduction01/07/18 04:39 AM
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"Am I touching your ass right ? Do you approve ? Wasn't awkward right .. can I get a kiss ? Will you let me touch your hand please"
/r/seduction01/07/18 04:31 AM
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That's enough internet for today
/r/seduction01/07/18 04:27 AM
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I agree You'll enjoy the attraction code
/r/seduction01/07/18 03:03 AM
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There's a lot of noise out there
/r/seduction01/07/18 02:47 AM
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Tools are only as effective as the operator. Technically, the ladder is sound but how many guys can actually operate on this "removed" level ? Handful His attraction code is one the best books out there
/r/seduction01/07/18 02:16 AM
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Bits and pieces of vin di carlos work, especially the attraction code. Warren lance has some interesting thoughts but I haven't bought any of his books That's as far as I would recommend within pick up. Then I'd move away from it, into Deida's (way of the superior man is #1) work and those that teach a similar point of view (spirituality as a vector). Never read anything from assanova, you got anything of his ?
/r/seduction01/07/18 01:38 AM
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He has a lot of material, check his forum To my knowledge his first book is out at end of the month
/r/seduction01/07/18 12:21 AM
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I always recommend 60years to guys "Logistically" I'd also recommend Manwhore
/r/seduction01/07/18 12:12 AM
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Good chance you're giving off provider vibes. Sure you're a cool guy but are you actually gonna pull the trigger
/r/seduction29/06/18 01:33 PM
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Enough so that she won't turn into your girlfriend
/r/seduction29/06/18 12:00 PM
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Yeah, I'm all over albinos
/r/seduction29/06/18 02:15 AM
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In the bigger picture, she's still on a pedestal so does it actually matter who takes the number Guys always try to display what value they have in a womans life. It can't be simple. Women would hook up with you based on your desire for them alone
/r/seduction29/06/18 02:06 AM
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I'd say keep going but be careful to not slip into chasing/validation Also an important belief is to assume attraction. If you have to work with something neutral, it's a great way to exercise this belief. That you're used to girls being into you Sometimes you gotta take the lead competely
/r/seduction20/06/18 03:28 PM
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Be friendly, a little nonchalant. When you're alone, make your move
/r/seduction17/06/18 09:49 PM
1

If you trip and fall everyone knows it hurt, you laugh at yourself and get up again I'm not talking about having a cheesy smile on your face, I'm talking about letting go through your body I encourage you to try it
/r/seduction13/06/18 08:22 PM
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How is laughing at yourself trying hard ? Not looking for the "right" thing to do here. I'm talking about a proactive way to move on from your interactions
/r/seduction13/06/18 08:08 PM
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It's a good idea, sounds like fun If I'm still in this community in 3 years I'll start working on this
/r/seduction26/05/18 06:03 PM
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Only one way to find out
/r/seduction25/05/18 07:07 PM
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There's only two things you need to be to be very attractive to women. A man, else it's not appealing at all what you do, and a leader In any one environment these two may not be the smartest, fittest or richest but they are the one's that the girls will be paying the most attention to
/r/seduction25/05/18 07:04 PM
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Not in a vacuum though
/r/seduction25/05/18 06:36 PM
1

When things don't go your way you don't need to beat yourself up now
/r/seduction25/05/18 04:42 PM
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Get in touch with the part of you that wants her sucking your balls Generally speaking there are no second chances, take your lesson and move forward
/r/seduction25/05/18 03:17 PM
1

Should probably stop counting. You're taking things personaly
/r/seduction25/05/18 03:13 PM
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If she likes you she'll want to invest and comply, in any way really
/r/seduction25/05/18 02:57 PM
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Yeah it's an important concept called micro-avoidance
/r/seduction20/05/18 04:37 PM
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Make things in common and have an intention to communicate with and not to them. Relate and if you enjoy them, make an offer to see each other again. Towards deeper layers we're talking about being vulnerable .. don't need to stare into each other's soul either, just express what you believe is true All of this can be best described as how your consciousness impacts other's. Humans are a bundle of needs and wants. Before you even say hello to anyone you should have an idea about what you like in…
/r/seduction20/05/18 02:14 PM
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I just seem to get filled with self doubt whenever the idea of wanting to chat to a girl and get her number or ask someone out on a date comes up. My mistake. I thought you meant that you had trouble making interactions sexual Seems like you just need to be honest with yourself and your desire with women hey. Accept yourself and where you're at and take the steps I would recommend reading 60yearsofchallenge, with regards to making moves If you're introvert I know of a couple excellent resources
/r/seduction15/05/18 08:20 PM
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Sounds like you only need to become comfortable with your sexuality and expressing it
/r/seduction14/05/18 10:18 PM
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"Well, I don't have the time to commit to dating." Translation: I don't have the time for a relationship.. only hanging out and sex She just wants to chill and fuck. If you can make her perceive you won't be clingy, needy and want a relationship after you kiss then you can fuck her and just hang out .. for however long this lasts I hope this makes sense
/r/seduction14/05/18 04:26 PM
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Sounds like you only need to become comfortable with your sexuality and expressing it
/r/seduction14/05/18 04:02 PM
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Once an impression has been formed it's difficult to change it. It would be healthier to learn your lesson and move on She said you didn't make any moves, not that you didn't touch her hands a couple times and didn't smirk enough. If you want to turn her on, make bold moves If you want help with this please read 60yearsofchallenge
/r/seduction14/05/18 03:41 PM
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Maturity blurs the lines. I think in terms of leadership. The more mature a guy is, the better a leader he is (the more influence he will have on the woman .. and people in general). The less mature a girl is, the easier it is to lead her (to influence her) In your case, the older women probably understand what you are communicating. You may be relating less with people in your age bracket (even though you would have more influence with them). The girls in your age group may not need the show of…
/r/seduction14/05/18 02:31 PM
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You may be giving the impression that you want a relationship with them and it's something that they don't want but feel it's heading that direction As weird as it sounds, treat them like friends not princesses
/r/seduction13/05/18 06:56 PM
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Can these really be put on a spectrum ? What's interesting is subjective and the definition of confidence is vague, not something to focus on
/r/seduction13/05/18 06:47 PM
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Only one way to find out
/r/seduction13/05/18 06:08 PM
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I think internalizing the dynamic is fundamental. I don't think it's something to do (pick up may make it seem like something you do) It permeates everything. For eg. when you take her number or ask her out, are we offering her more of our time or are we asking for more of hers So it may be reassuring to hear verbally why she likes you but I think the dynamic plays out subtly
/r/seduction13/05/18 06:02 PM
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I'm good at playing rock, paper, scissors for drinks. On another day I'd be the one paying for it Having her do things for you is important and it's one way to do it with someone you've just met that's fun
/r/seduction13/05/18 05:12 PM
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Haha well she bought me a drink and told her friends off to hang out with me more so I knew all I had to do was be alone with her. I said "I don't think about it" and we kissed My main point is the frame. It's like a "verbal" ink blot test. If I said, "Cos I think you're a cool person, you're smart, stunning, yada yada", I'm certain we would not have kissed The frame is: prove yourself
/r/seduction12/05/18 07:56 PM
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This is one of the very few things women are taught from a young age when dealing with men It's potent but it's only a frame. When I go for the kiss she says, "wait why do you think I should let you kiss me". Ink blot test It can come out your mouth (I'm more used to girls working for me) but it's more deadly in your behavior. Women want to work for you, they just aren't taught how, like we are. To me, working for anyone is insecure
/r/seduction12/05/18 07:30 PM
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That's what I'm talking about. For many pick up is the first course of action to engage with women within the context of intimacy else they would never have spoken to the girl at all
/r/seduction12/05/18 07:04 PM
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Many guys initiate interactions during the day. Depending on who you are it can be very effective Personally I feel there has to be another reason for being at a place than women. I noticed that there wasn't a difference in the quality and number of women I'd meet when I'd go to the mall, for example, specifically to game vs when I just went there to get something to eat, get clothing etc. I also noticed that it was incongruent So while our social and sex lives can, in a way be directly addresse…
/r/seduction12/05/18 03:57 PM
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You get one on one and then you make a move
/r/seduction07/05/18 11:37 PM
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Could be a number of things. Pushing people away isn't an issue within seduction though
/r/seduction07/05/18 11:34 PM
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I think framing sex that way (win/lose) with her in the first place was a huge mistake It's important that your foreplay with her next time is about her (her feeling confident, sexy ect.) and her enjoyment Next time let her win, then fuck her
/r/seduction05/05/18 06:03 PM
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If I could speak to 18 year old me (5 years ago) I would tell him to not focus on girls at all and to focus on building a life that allows my relationships with people to grow; to create opportunities for girls to contribute to my life and my goals. Instead of learning what to say or what to do to instead learning to be supportive, positive, decisive and courageous I would tell him to trust himself and express his truth, not to hide, run or escape. I would tell him that it's okay to fail and not…
/r/seduction05/05/18 02:59 PM
1

Focus on building your life/lifestyle and then invite a girl to join you
/r/seduction02/05/18 03:49 PM
4

How many times have you invited a girl out with you
/r/seduction01/05/18 10:30 AM
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"flight yada yada oh yeah btw I like you ..uh yeah cos you dance like nobodies watching.. um yeah nvm" Apparently she hasn't said or done anything for you to say that you like her I also feel like some things are better said in person and that timing is important. Something like "I like you" could be said by holding her hand Tell her you got ahead of yourself and ask her out to do something with you Keep it simple hey
/r/seduction01/05/18 10:25 AM
2

Try laughing at yourself too
/r/seduction28/04/18 07:11 PM
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Next
/r/seduction28/04/18 06:43 PM
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Well done man, valuable lessons
/r/seduction28/04/18 06:40 PM
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They aren't doing anything. Women want to hookup with someone they like/turns them on already, they love dick already You just have to move things along as fluidly as possible, sometimes she will even help
/r/seduction28/04/18 06:11 PM
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Haha this reminds me of a time when my buddy walked past a woman and then he's like "she wants me man" and I was like "but she didn't even look at you" Frame is crucial. However I don't see women as under me
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 05:58 PM
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The root of the pedestal mentality is perceiving the difference in value in the first place. See you are the one that sees her as polished and as yourself having less to offer Your idea of bringing down these women is how the whole concept of negging was born The only thing you can note is that the more attractive a girl, the stronger her frame The whole key is to treat people the same. That hot girl is only a human. She has fears, dreams, goals etc. just like you. That's how you get passed this…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 05:46 PM
1

If you tilt your phone 38 degrees and stand on one leg while facing north it will go more smoothly and you'll get more dates
/r/seduction26/04/18 12:55 AM
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What I think is really interesting is how our behaviour changes when we want something from someone
/r/seduction25/04/18 11:49 PM
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Women are flaky in general. Even the best, at their best have plenty flakes
/r/seduction23/04/18 10:56 AM
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Introverts are good at one on one and it just so happens interactions with women are for the most part one on one Also atleast 50% of the women you meet will be introverted I will say infj is not exactly suited to this line of work, they're naturally submissive. Maybe you can create some romantic style that appeals to other idealistic types and dominant woman
/r/seduction13/04/18 05:39 AM
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Nothing is going to happen Girls hate awkwardness, afterwards they will still be laughing at your jokes but inside they'll be like "I haaatee this guy" haha
/r/seduction13/04/18 05:26 AM
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I go with myself. I learn faster At a new venue I will go with friends the first-second time if I can, then I will go with myself from there. In an evening I won't meet enough girls with guys taking my attention, riding my coat tails, following me Note that I say with myself. The fact is, you're always with yourself, not by yourself Social circle is logging in on safe mode
/r/seduction13/04/18 05:20 AM
0

While you're figuring out your game plan your girl is going to get taken from you haha I'm kidding She will follow your lead. If your comfortable and having a good time, she will too
/r/seduction13/04/18 05:00 AM
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Trying to be witty, edgy or flirty is a huge error You're only stifled, try teasing The easiest way to understand teasing is to speak to a 6-10 year old. They will stop paying attention if you do the "get to know you stuff" but if you're illogical, playful and curious they will be engaged. Same with women
/r/seduction13/04/18 04:38 AM
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Being dominant socially isn't what most may assume. It's about team building and bringing the best out of people. It's a skill, learned You beat yourself up a lot, you're overly focused on yourself. Focus on what you want and the steps that could get you there
/r/seduction10/04/18 01:18 PM
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Your beliefs and frames, what you're passionate about, what you're working on and technically, your introducing yourself to women, getting to know and turning them on
/r/seduction09/04/18 08:40 PM
1

You don't want her to qualify her self sexually. You want her to feel confident and wanting to please you, then you can have your way Sometimes you have to teach her how you like it. Sex is about communication
/r/seduction09/04/18 07:51 PM
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In high school you were in the baby pool, now you're in the ocean. She's in her prime, sexually Could be a number of things really. What I did notice is that you are scared of the girls now. That fear is everything, day and night difference
/r/seduction09/04/18 07:47 PM
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Yeah pretty much A thing I do these days is have the women I approach at the bar buy me drinks. I leave my cash at home yet return half drunk It's how you carry yourself. What you think of yourself and her is more important than your bank account. More important than money is having pride about you, you have to walk upright and hold your head up. Having pride about what you do, doesn't matter if you flip burgers but be passionate and be the fucking best and lastly you have to love women, that's …
/r/seduction09/04/18 07:38 PM
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Are those 10-15% hookers ? Seems a little cold to not kiss the person you'd be intimate with
/r/seduction09/04/18 07:10 PM
5

Welcome to life, friend
/r/seduction09/04/18 07:05 PM
1

You do what you want to, that's what makes it fun
/r/seduction09/04/18 06:59 PM
1

Focus on the basics and your virginity will take care of itself It will stay around as long as you are thinking about it
/r/seduction09/04/18 06:56 PM
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It would be a waste of time because when you open your mouth, you'd reveal what you really think of them, what you really think of yourself and what you're doing
/r/seduction09/04/18 04:02 AM
1

You flip the script It's her that wants you
/r/seduction09/04/18 03:44 AM
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I do have aspergers/multiple personality disorder. I match with some very attractive, even 8/10 girls at times but cannot escalate or talk to them in a way that they like me. I was also an incel and have pretty wild mental breakdowns. You have work to do. The good news is that it's not your looks. If you get your shit together, some self-assurance, you have the potential to have a great social life
/r/seduction09/04/18 03:35 AM
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You don't, it's already done
/r/seduction09/04/18 03:29 AM
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It's never good to bring people in general down
/r/seduction09/04/18 03:28 AM
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No it's not your looks, it's when you open your mouth
/r/seduction09/04/18 03:25 AM
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What do you mean, your work is done Get the wine, oil and candles
/r/seduction09/04/18 03:25 AM
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Let it go. Next time just show some appreciation
/r/seduction09/04/18 03:23 AM
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You're nice to look at but when you open your mouth what you are is revealed. You neglect the basics because you assume your looks will do the job Better to be a "creep" homie
/r/seduction09/04/18 03:20 AM
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they know me well enough to know that I am not their type to know that I won't fuck them. They think you're a pussy for not moving things forward. They lose respect and women don't feel anything for men they don't respect
/r/seduction09/04/18 01:37 AM
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Sounds like there are traumas/unprocessed events there
/r/seduction06/04/18 06:20 AM
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Try taking off your shirt
/r/seduction06/04/18 06:11 AM
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A good place to start would be your attitude
/r/seduction06/04/18 06:08 AM
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Focus on her
/r/seduction06/04/18 06:05 AM
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Okay professor bitches, phd I only agree with the premise, challenge her
/r/seduction06/04/18 05:52 AM
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Hahaha on your upper back I remember hooking up with this girl, I take off my shirt she looked at the stretch marks on my shoulders and said "sexy". I was thinking "oookaaay then" Man nobody cares. Only babies don't have scars
/r/seduction06/04/18 02:24 AM
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If she takes a long time to reply, you edit the contact, "flake" next to the name and then at the end of the month, you message all your flakes a double emoji, then the next text you ask all of them out for the same day in a light and friendly, non needy way. If you are building your rotation and she takes long to text back, you do not send another text, delete her number. You focus on building your rotation
/r/seduction06/04/18 02:14 AM
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Nerd talk
/r/seduction06/04/18 02:04 AM
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Humor releases tension You need tension for passionate kisses. You must become comfortable with tension, and create it
/r/seduction06/04/18 01:45 AM
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Give yourself time to work through this When you feel yourself becoming too attached, take some time off for yourself, give to yourself or other people than the women whose attention you want. Switch off your phone if you must, change your focus of attention
/r/seduction06/04/18 12:02 AM
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Not unless you don't want to have sex with her It's more important for the girl to feel confident. In this dance you're the leader, your responsibility is to make her feel good by focusing on her, not your insecurities. Your virginity is not news, unfortunately in society I don't think a man's virginity means anything at all. She won't realize anything. It's not like most guys fuck like porn stars or even satisfy their partners. At the very least she'll just think your sex is shit. Missionary, d…
/r/seduction03/04/18 11:58 PM
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My message was love yourself and then go and meet women
/r/seduction03/04/18 04:32 PM
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Never ever
/r/seduction02/04/18 03:55 PM
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Take that money, buy a pair of shoes that make you smile, eat a nice a lunch/lunches and go and approach and escalate on women
/r/seduction01/04/18 05:04 AM
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You can reframe what you're doing and change your self talk. So at home you think about your intent - you wanna make a girl smile today, you wanna brighten some girls day, you want to meet new people, learn and play. When you see her you say to yourself, "let's do this, I got this" or whatever Realistically the fear doesn't go away. All we do is become comfortable with it existing within us and manage it. Some days are more comfortable and easier to manage than other's. Every day you start at ze…
/r/seduction01/04/18 04:55 AM
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Wake up
/r/seduction01/04/18 04:29 AM
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Chill out
/r/seduction01/04/18 04:26 AM
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I focus on the next task, the next target, the next goal, getting the next win In the bigger picture the next opportunity is close by and she is a lesson learned
/r/seduction01/04/18 04:16 AM
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You're asking for trouble
/r/seduction01/04/18 04:12 AM
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Read 60yearsofchallenge's book "I'm pretty good at conversation" - so are her best friends. What they probably aren't that great with is escalation and initiation You must initiate and escalate. Think about it, you're never going to see her again. There's nothing to lose
/r/seduction01/04/18 04:11 AM
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Try practicing gratitude Mindsets; abundance - "it's all good, I'm excited about the future", scarcity - "i fucked up, there's no point, i'm worried about tomorrow" So then you either take actions and move towards your vision or you stop taking actions and stop moving forward in your life
/r/seduction25/03/18 11:09 PM
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Focus on the women, be curios about her, learn about her and share who you are and your experiences Take more action
/r/seduction25/03/18 10:57 PM
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Often your approach with women parallels your approach to life
/r/seduction25/03/18 10:56 PM
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You need to take action. You need experience to reference the theory you read. Can't plan your approach and manage how you come across
/r/seduction25/03/18 10:54 PM
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You need experience. You're not being honest with yourself How all your "flaws" effect you depends on you. If you're comfortable with being a virgin, being awkward etc. it won't effect you and you'll grow past it fairly quickly. If you identify with them and internalize them, then they create a filter for you to perceive your world through
/r/seduction25/03/18 10:44 PM
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As far as your "closing", go to 60yearsofchallenge and buy his book for 10 bucks You're still very young and have a lot of potential to kill it. Keep your head up and your attitude in check
/r/seduction25/03/18 10:36 PM
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Work on your self talk and self acceptance
/r/seduction25/03/18 10:30 PM
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The crocodile is an apex predator and this thread doesn't give them enough respect
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 05:58 PM
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