A better way of thinking about rejection

GET_IN_THE_VAN · 2018-01-30T03:25:37+00:00

Rejection is a subject that I am all too familiar with. Dealing with it is one of the biggest steps in being a man. I almost felt like giving up because I was thinking about rejection all wrong. Here's how I changed my way of thinking about it.

0:05 My experience with rejection

1:56 Rejection doesn't exist?

3:12 A lot of it is agendas

4:44 Even the best guys deal with this

6:00 Summary

Aeon199 · 2018-01-30T05:01:44+00:00

I rarely even watch until the halfway point of any video here.

I think I made it past that point with yours, so I think you're doing something right (but hopefully not selling a product ;P )

Anyway, I know about the plenitude of rejection... having been exposed to it constantly online, I gave up 95% of that avenue a while ago.

I agree with your tacit advice you should meet women in real life. I'm not at the "all I get is rejected stage" that you and most guys went through; I've been stuck in the "no point in trying" stage for a long-ass time and life has passed me by in the process.

I justify not trying through a combination of knowing I'm socially awkward and low-status, also, not enjoying group social situations. That tends to limit everything. In fact, I'm not sure I've even made one approach and I'm not young anymore.

Not saying you have to offer any advice, just wondering if have any, at any rate, for the hard-cases especially "socially-off" kinda guys which is an apt description.

Title	A better way of thinking about rejection
Author	GET_IN_THE_VAN
Upvotes	3
Comments	4
Date	January 30, 2018 3:25 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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