Bad Advice: "Just Be Yourself"

GET_IN_THE_VAN · 2017-11-14T18:11:24+00:00

I used to hate it when girls would constantly give me this advice.

0:00 Why its the worst advice

0:47 Be your best self

1:20 Don't try and be someone you're not

2:23 My example

3:17 Ways to find your strengths

Basically what they are telling you is don't try and be someone you are not. I remember when I was going out a lot with Evil Stifler I would try and copy him exactly but that had mixed results. Once I found my strengths and what I was good at, I had much more success.

ethical_pa · 2017-11-14T21:27:41+00:00

When girls say "be yourself" it means be genuine.

Example: I was talking to this girl on a first date and was explaining the kind of things that I like to cook. It was coming out naturally since we were talking about food. I was not trying to impress her. I saw her eyes light up and I realized after that she found this attractive because:

1 - She likes a guy that can cook

2 - More importantly, she could tell it was coming out naturally; not for her benefit. This turned her on even more.

So find hobbies and interests and be passionate about them. Build up a great version of yourself. And then be yourself.

EDIT: I think a lot of women say they like a guy that can cook, not because they expect great meals or anything. Probably because it shows independence and maturity.

Title	Bad Advice: "Just Be Yourself"
Author	GET_IN_THE_VAN
Upvotes	5
Comments	5
Date	November 14, 2017 6:10 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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