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| 1 | [deleted by user]I’ve tried day of dates and it hasn’t been super successful. I’ve got lucky a few times with day of dates but usually the girls are too late to respond | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 05:37 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Yeah tbh I fucking hate texting in general and that may come off as cold to some girls? Idk | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 01:04 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Pretty sure this is normal in online dating for everyone | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 01:03 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]I’m aware it’s low interest but why not just tell people you’re flaking? | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 06:38 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]So I should also mention I haven't been in contact with her either. Asking her what's up with the cold shoulder when I've pulled back seems a little... hypocritical imo. I'll be more direct with her, but that was something that came to mind as I read your comment | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 11:15 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Never told her about Saturday, but she did offer a reschedule. I guess I'm just not sure how to handle the "maybe". If she wanted to see me I don't feel like she would've used "maybe" | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 08:46 AM |
| 11 | [deleted by user]I do need to chill out lol. I'm overthinking, but I'm used to getting sweet little texts in between dates | /r/seduction | 16/11/21 10:36 PM |
| -6 | [deleted by user]Not at all | /r/seduction | 16/11/21 10:36 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Annnnnd she unmatched lol | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 05:31 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Girl: "With yo fine ass" Me: "Thank you. Wait till you see it in person" How's that for a response? I like to ask questions, but I feel like asking a question like "how's your week been?" after a flirty reply just sets the mood off. | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 04:59 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I used to ask girls what they were looking for on dating apps and I don't think I've ever gotten a response back lol. Then again, I don't recall asking them after they open up with something flirty | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 03:44 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Is this the case for guys you haven’t met in person? If a girl hits me up before we met or we’ve been on a date or two I usually don’t text back right away. I always felt it looks like I’m too excited or obsessing. Plus I just prefer to text people when I have some free time | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 02:25 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]All good points. I’ll text her tomorrow with a time and location. What do guys do to make you feel like they will hurt you in the long run? I’m just casually dating and I’m really not trying to be in a relationship, but I’m not trying to break any hearts either. Too much fucking guilt, lol. | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 01:22 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]So I do take the lead. I'm literally talking to a girl now on tinder and asked her out. Me: Are you free to hangout this week? I feel like we vibe pretty well. Her: I would love to Me: Lets do tomorrow night at 7pm at xxx. Does that work for you? Her: I've never heard of it Me: It's a low key spot near xxxxx. I've been there and it's always a fun crowd. Her: Oh fun I'm so fucking confused here. | /r/seduction | 09/07/21 12:18 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Hmm all good points. I'll give this a try | /r/seduction | 08/07/21 09:58 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I mean it's a dating app so I think it's pretty straightforward that I'm just looking to date. Whatever happens happens imo, but I don't want to put anyone under pressure by telling them I'm looking for a relationship. I'm honestly just casually dating. | /r/seduction | 08/07/21 09:05 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]No I don't ever ask to meetup the same day and sometimes the conversation can go on for a couple of days. The only time I would meetup on the same day is if the girl asks first. | /r/seduction | 08/07/21 08:46 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I've tried this and I've found being flexible to what time/day works for them is a lot easier. I have the ability to move stuff around in my schedule, so I want to make it easy for them to setup dates. | /r/seduction | 08/07/21 08:20 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]I think you're confusing "mind reader" with intuition. Just for clariry. I was 100% sure she was eye fucking me. I don't need intuition to see somebody's eyes. Once again, please tell me the non verbal cues you look for when determining if someone is interested in you. I'm waiting. | /r/seduction | 16/06/21 09:09 PM |
| -1 | [deleted by user]Never claimed to be a mind reader. Just talking from experience. I'd be interested to hear what signs you look for when determining if someone is interested. | /r/seduction | 16/06/21 08:23 PM |
| -1 | [deleted by user]I can 99% guarantee that wasn't a worker just "being nice". I've been an ugly dude in the past. Trust me I know the difference. The interactions between nice and flirty are very different. As someone who has gotten their looks and shit together I can tell you that the looks I get now are completely different from what I used to get. There's nothing "friendly" about holding eye contact that long especially after I decided not to leave them a tip. You're right I shouldn't follow anyone to their ca… | /r/seduction | 16/06/21 05:08 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]She waived for me to order but I was the only person she waived to when she left. There was about 15 other customers inside. She was off her shift and not obligated to speak with anyone. | /r/seduction | 16/06/21 04:38 AM |
| -3 | [deleted by user]Are you saying asking her out in front of her boss would've been more ideal? She was stuck at the register not walking around the restaurant. Thank fuck I didn't ask her out inside with customers around. | /r/seduction | 16/06/21 04:32 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]This has happened to you in public places with multiple people and cameras around in broad daylight? I'm from a 3rd world country where people will approach your car to sell you a sim card. | /r/seduction | 16/06/21 04:31 AM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]Are you seriously asking why her friend would laugh? It would've been more weird if she sat there in silence. Stop thinking women are lying about every situation. Is it that hard for you to think she was telling the truth? | /r/seduction | 16/06/21 04:24 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]How is it sad that I'm asking this question? I never said that life is all about pleasure and I have been building my own business for the last 3 years. I spend most of my weekends working on my business and I'm looking to travel city to city to get out of my comfort zone. I didn't ask for life advice, and clearly you're not in a position to be giving it. | /r/seduction | 15/06/21 05:13 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I've thought about getting rid of them entirely. I kind of work two jobs so it's difficult especially since I work on weekends, and I'm absolutely drained at the end of the day. I'm focusing a lot on my passion so I'm busy, but do want to meet girls. Luckily I work from home so I've started going to the library and various coffee shops around town | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 05:03 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Did she ever get back to you? Or was the last message you sent asking her for a second date? I had another girl a few weeks ago pull the same thing. We made plans for a second date, and when Friday night rolled around no response. She's hit me up a few times after that and I've responded back, but don't get a response from her when she reaches out. Ironically she texted me "what are you doing tonight" during my date with this girl I just went out with. Texted her the next day "sorry was out. How… | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 08:37 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I definitely don't plan to text her again since the ball is in her court. At this point, I'll sit back and wait while I make other plans | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 04:43 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]After a few dates he gave you his number? I'm confused as to why he did that after a few dates | /r/seduction | 20/04/21 04:47 PM |
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