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In case anyone hasn't read this: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2016/03/17/the-four-sirens-of-the-sexual-apocalypse/
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 12:47 PM
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Donated $25. Let's keep this going.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 05:30 PM
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This is reasonable advice, /u/skulk2fade. There's obviously a ton of pressure on you from her, from your parents, from everyone's "expectations." Marriage is TRP-hard-mode 24/7, and you are just not ready.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 05:30 PM
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OP, I know TRP is harsh, but it's better to deal with the harshness and unpleasantness now than with something potentially much worse down the line. I am going to focus on my SMV and my ability to provide. [...] My plan at the moment is: - Increase SMV - Incease burden of performance - Implement Dread She threw a shit test at you (make more money!) and your response is "yes, dear?" Have you learned nothing in your time here? She WANTS you to wreck her shit tests. The point isn't "go break up." T…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 05:17 PM
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Just had a small epiphany: In selecting a potential mate to have kids with, she is testing that guy's ability to be a father - this is another reason why shit-tests take the form of bratty teenage behavior. She wants to try out what this guy would be like as a father to her children. To change topics, this is actually what I wanted to address: We talk a lot about what these traits are, but let's just sum it down to: confidence, charm, dominance, physical fitness, etc. I'd like to give a more spe…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 02:55 PM
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Keeping your finger on the nuke button is a great way to put it. Once you accept "scorching the earth" it gives you a sense of freedom, which in turn leads to easy frame maintennace, which in turn prevents the very fallout so many men are terrified of.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 01:38 PM
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While we're taking about AWALT, all women have a rape fantasy, they just call it "ravishment." The way to do it is to establish a safeword. Note: is on you to manage her expectations about the safeword, about you and about her own feelings. Yes you are responsible for her feelings.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 11:34 AM
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I'd be willing to donate (anonymously of course) to make this into an audio book on the condition it is distributed for free.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 08:07 PM
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Does she have female friends?
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 11:29 PM
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"This is how I feel" is both good good enough and makes complete sense to women. Obviously don't use this with men.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 02:11 PM
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Agreed. Jack's weekend was made worse even if he was too polite to say otherwise. OP, keep your shit separated, because plates come and go but you can't replace a good male friend.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 11:51 AM
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It is an actual requirement. You need special permission to trim it or cut your hair, usually for your "day job."
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 01:10 PM
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Read the Heartiste archives. In my post history is a "best of". Google mystery method or other PUA stuff like Roosh's Bang and Day Bang, but the heart of game is your attitude, which is done through self directed change. Change yourself and it won't be " game" it will be you. Read the rational male year 1. Feel free to PM me with questions too.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 12:52 PM
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I also genuinely think she believes that I was “the one”, and is desperately trying to fix things and hold onto any strand of connection between us…I may inadvertently have Alpha Widowed her. With all respect, no she doesn't and no you didn't. She's freaking out not because she lost an alpha (you may be one to other women, but you aren't to her). She's freaking out because you were her last chance for a normal life. When people get desperate, they do desperate things. Just to put it into perspec…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 05:16 PM
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she's a hard six To an alpha an average girl is pretty enough for sex but not for commitment, so 6s and 7s will always shit test the most and have the highest ASD. 8s and up don't get hit on often (not counting online validation) and they tend to keep an alpha for a long time, which makes them a lot more pleasant to deal with.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 12:09 PM
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Rational male, dalroc, vox day are all married, but you never know if someone is RP or not. After all RP is just an accurate way to describe reality, and not a belief system. Anyone that accurately describes (and takes advantage of) the SMP is technically RP
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 07:01 PM
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Interview with "Dom" - https://youtu.be/iRjE0acNY9Y he seems pretty chill. Don't know if he is a member here, bit the videos reference misc and /fit/ so he's probably heard of this place. Don't forget that this place exists to being men back to "normal", so naturals or those not brainwashed by BP / female imperative wouldn't get anything out of it.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 12:54 PM
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I start my new job soon and I can't wait to tell my bosses. The look on their faces will be priceless. Just like with women, pumping and dumping a company should be done in a way that benefits you in the long-term. You can enjoy the "look on their faces" or you can tell them "with deep regret" that you have to move on and "find yourself," but that you'll be happy to help them transition to someone "with better fit" and collect a contractor fee to train that new person since neither of your bosse…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 06:49 PM
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The main driving force was female birth control and no-fault divorce laws. If women ever played good wife, it was 100% for personal benefit. Women are not "tired" of cheating husbands, they are turned on by them, however much they might dislike the idea rationally. This is why you would never say a man is "tired" of his cheating wife- instead there is anger or disgust.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 06:21 PM
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I understand the no video rule, but how about an audio recording for those that can't make it out all the way to Vegas?
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 04:13 PM
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This is from the book of pook on his transformation from being skinny http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=60002
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 12:30 PM
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Don't forget garbage collectors and janitors.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 01:39 PM
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Don't forget your social security number too
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 12:26 AM
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This is for you http://therationalmale.com/2011/09/23/wait-for-it/
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 12:08 AM
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You may think so, but you'll probably experience a very different gut reaction when seeing a man vs seeing a woman get the shit beat out of them. That's just how our bodies are wired, because protecting women and sacrificing men allowed our species to survive. It is what it is.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 09:19 PM
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women have very little understanding or empathy for men. Actually women have very high empathy for men. This is why you can't show weakness around a women - she feels what you feel, and she doesn't like those feelings, so she'll leave to find a man who gives her good feelings. What women (and men) lack is sympathy i.e. compassion. This is part of why men are the disposable sex.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 04:09 PM
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When the model was on the bed, it was cute, but not breathtaking by any means. Put her on the couch? Better results. Odd, right? It really started to make sense when they tested the couch vs the kitchen counter. Apparently if you put a hot blond spread-eagle on the kitchen counter, she'll sell lingerie like hot cakes. So, what did we do? Obviously....put the model on the desk in what was obviously a man's office. Reception of this photo was insane. And....it never happened in print because it lo…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 03:14 PM
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Thanks! I'm sure you know about Edward Bernays and Torches of Freedom. Are there any similar campaigns today? "Social justice warriors" have been getting traction lately especially with something they call "rape culture" which de facto means all frat guys are rapists until proven innocent, see Rolling Stones UVA girl, Columbia's mattress girl, Obama's "1 in 4 women on campus are sexually assaulted," California's "yes means yes" law, etc. Politicians and media are eagerly jumping on anything to d…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 01:11 PM
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Example of an ad and a discussion on open Hypergamy. Please share your opinions on the ad. http://therationalmale.com/2014/08/07/open-hypergamy/
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 12:18 PM
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http://therationalmale.com/2014/08/07/open-hypergamy/
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 12:16 PM
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Thanks for taking the time to do this. Why are men so often represented in a negative way - as emasculated semi-hipster doormats, as idiots who can't think beyond beer and boobs, or as exaggerated hyper masculine neanderthals? The only exception is the James Bond type guys in ads for cologne or wrist watches. Why do commercials have so much "random" Family Guy-esqe humor? I understand the simple answer is "because it works," but what is it that makes these ads work? Which demographic do they tar…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 02:28 AM
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There was a news article a few years balk talking about how Russians seem gloomy, but are better able to handle stress and aren't as likely to be depressed as Westerners. The article attributed this to many factors, but one of them was Russian literature which can be downright brutal. "Everything is terrible and then the people you care about die, and hope is all you have left" is a reasonable summary for many classic Russian novels. I don't know if darker tastes in music and literature shape pe…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 09:08 PM
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You have to be proactive and organize your own events and invite people to them, you have to be valuable to your peers. They're all also waiting for someone to invite them out to an adventure. Before dating women you have to learn to date yourself first. Same thing with non romantic relationships.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 12:51 PM
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Don't let your girl go down the wrong path; I disagree. Better let her act how she wants or it will just make her hide it better if she was already going to do it. Let her weed herself out.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 01:54 AM
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Thing is, women have no honor and they'll try to snag a "friend's" man just for the validation. Your job is to keep them in a perpetual state of ambiguity. This is both automatic dread game and women will treat you with respect. Also don't let them call you names- one proper conflict and word will spread for women to not mess with you, just don't be dumb about it or you'll make it worse.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 01:34 AM
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I think most people who have gone through a ton of self improvement reach this state - all things are objectively good, but something feels like it's missing. On paper you should be extremely content - you figured out and took control of your looks, personality, social status, love life, etc, but you just have this feeling of "well OK, I did all these things ... what now?" I know because I was in your situation about two years ago. The way to get out of it for me was to recognize and to act on t…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 04:51 PM
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Emma: Why can’t he just only love me The perfect example of how women feel towards alpha men. No stupid questions, no unreasonable demands, no hoops to jump through.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 12:37 PM
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Your best bet is dread game. Have a conspicuous "lost and found" box with a ton of female stuff in there - hairpins, underwear, even sex toys
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 12:23 PM
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Tyler does a great job explaining that BP mentality and the insecurities it stems from https://youtu.be/HGEO6ig8WsM
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 12:47 PM
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One theory is that since she didn't get pregnant, she's trying to scare off the inferior male who wasn't able to do the job.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 02:10 PM
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TL;DR
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 12:55 PM
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You messed up by taking her question seriously. At the beginning, never ever answer a question directly, only when she "wins you over" enough and you do it to build a deeper connection. Even then don't talk about work in simple logical terms like engineer. Say something like "I'm building the future, one ______ at a time."
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 01:12 PM
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"Men and women are different."
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 01:07 PM
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She broke up with him first, over text, and later said stuff about motivation so she doesn't seem like a golddigger. Him not replying to her is reasonable.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 01:03 PM
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she's the only one getting laid, and wanting to still smash her husband. That's how you explain it. It's the same reason women superficially complain about their asshole boyfriends and then bend over backwards for them in every way possible.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 11:16 PM
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If she lied about rape once she'll do it again. Don't be an idiot and cut all contact as amicably as possible.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 03:50 PM
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If you want "flavor" check out eastern orthodoxy.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 02:44 PM
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To the other posters worried about giving wine to an 18 year old: First of all OP, may not be in the US, second, if you're worried about a false rape accusation or any other negative fallout from a woman, then you are not managing her expectations. Girls have expectations. For example, she expected an alpha, but after sex realized the man wasn't one, or she expected commitment and found out she was one of many plates, or she expected discretion and her bf, friends and family found out she's a ch…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 06:08 PM
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So if a 2/10 could get a 7-8/10, a 5-6 must go for a 9-10, because this is a market here and the market price is constantly ruined by betas. A man's "rank" isn't just his looks, but rather the sum of personality (game), social status, looks, money, and a few other factors. Just because a man is pretty does not make him a 7 or an 8. Since that former model is with a 2, he is a 2. If a "9-10" is with a "5-6" then the man is a 5-6 also.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 03:01 PM
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Your job wasn't stocking shelves, it was making your boss happy. You didn't make her happy so you lost your job. Be glad you learned this lesson early.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 12:59 PM
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For some reason, this is the hardest thing to understand for both critics and new members.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 03:24 AM
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You can have other outlets for your attention like work, hobbies, projects, etc. She should feel she has to compete for your time.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 02:34 PM
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Plate spinning is good, but leave 'em better than when you found 'em. Sexual strategy is amoral, we all know that, but let's not pretend that anything good is happening here. If she dumps you, she feels like she wasted her time. If you dump her, her N-count is higher and she has a bit more of alpha widow in her. There is no possible outcome besides a happy life-long commitment that could possibly leave her "better."
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 03:58 PM
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The thing is, you are a threat. From the rational male: Nothing is more threatening yet simultaneously attractive to a woman than a man who is aware of his own value to women. By hanging out with their bf's you might spread your awareness onto them, which means those women will have to step up their own game beyond shaming tactics.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 03:31 PM
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I'm actually dealing with this right now. After being in an LTR for for a few months, it's a constant struggle to keep myself motivated. It's just so much easier to drink and play video games, especially since I know the lay is guaranteed. Of course, you can only "guarantee" it for so long - eventually you'll stagnate or fall behind and her instincts will drive her to seek elsewhere. I wish him the best of luck.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 08:06 PM
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Hypergamy has both the BB and the AF side. Clearly he satisfies BB, but if he's not careful, she'll find her AF elsewhere. I know you know this, I find it helps people to understand hypergamy better if they know there are (at least) two components to it.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 05:02 PM
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To be fair, the German people were oppressed.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 03:38 AM
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Mostly from social circles. Make friends with younger people - male and female and if they like you, they will invite you to parties, introduce you their friends, classmates, etc. I'd recommend not hooking up with anyone in your new social circles for at least 4-6 months while you build up your network. After the initial period of investment, you will have continuous access to new girls that you're "allowed" to hook up with since you're now friends with a core group of people and they trust that…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 09:38 PM
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I'm in my late 20's. With the exception of one girl who is older than me and one girl who is my age, I've never dated anyone over 23, with about half them in the 18-20 range.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 07:39 PM
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All shit-tests are handled either by ignoring them or by agree-and-amplify. Ignore is obvious - just carry on. A&A - snap your fingers 3 times in a "z" pattern and say "You don't know me, you don't know my life!"
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 07:37 AM
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Vox at alpha game breaks it down in his socio-sexual hierarchy http://alphagameplan.blogspot.com/2011/03/socio-sexual-hierarchy.html
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 03:53 AM
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If that's the case, maybe O should give her a call, explain the situation and tell her she has nothing to come back to. After all, it was his own fault for being a doormat and V was just following her female nature. No need for her to come back and have to deal with all that drama and whatever bullshit she can throw at him like /u/FasKap described.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 05:43 PM
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I have a friend exactly like this. It's amazing how he can go on and on about "Science!" when it relates to leftist ideals, but as soon as I point out observable female behavior and how one should look at it rationally, he accuses me of being too logical and insensitive.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 05:50 PM
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I'm assuming they'll issue female quotas for garbage collectors too... Right?
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 05:26 PM
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Examples of fraud committed by women to gain some kind of advantage which will never be prosecuted even if this bill were to pass: lying about sexual past to get a higher status husband lying about birth control to get pregnant and force marriage lying about paternity of a child to get child support lying about rape lying about domestic violence lying about sexual harassment Just more anti-male sexist bullshit. On top of that, the last 3 bullet points hurt real victims by trivializing their expe…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 04:32 PM
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Or about birth control, or paternity of a child. This could be fun.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 04:25 PM
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TRP at its core does not advocate, it just informs. Make your own decisions. In my opinion men should not forgive because their LTR will stop respecting them and respect towards the man is mandatory for the relationship to work whereas despite verbal contradictions respect towards women is optional as can be seen by watching their behavior - girl dating a cheating asshole is a cliché for a reason.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 12:41 AM
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Excellent! I would make one change, however: Talk about the product and act indifferent. I would change it to "Talk about the product, show interest, but not dependency or lack of options." As a seller, I would avoid indifferent customers even if they pay more in favor of customers who do care, because it shows I can build a relationship with them. This is important, because the cost of acquiring new customers is so much higher than repeat business. It's true in sales and it's true in dating. Ba…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 01:58 AM
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I like to think of negging as giving her a hard time with a cheeky grin on my face. That's called teasing and it's similar, but different from negging, and both are quite different from straight up insults. http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/09/12/study-the-neg-works/
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 05:25 PM
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This is an interesting way to think about seduction. It really is an iterative process and your analogy helps to put that into perspective. Also, I can't wait for the spergs to interpret your post literally.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 04:46 PM
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I have also reached the conclusion that people who don't see it are just mentally unwell. Even before RP, I was acutely aware of this phenomena... For plugged-in men, it is the ego (and a person's inability to face up to it) that's preventing them from seeing things as they are. It is much easier and much more pleasing to oneself to sweep all the little inconsistencies under the rug instead of facing up to yourself and admitting that things aren't as great as they seem. Thankfully, these more dr…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 03:15 PM
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It's ridiculous that you're getting downvoted for basically telling people to own their shit.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 02:20 PM
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"Hi we'd like to hire you as CEO, but we have an outside consultant that we'll listen to instead, and if anything goes wrong it will be your fault since you're the CEO."
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 03:29 PM
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Who wins? The courts do, because they take a cut of the child support payments.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 08:26 PM
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In that case instead of worrying about women, try to divert your energy into stuff you like - hobbies, gym, career, studies, friends, etc. If you're in a slump, then learn something new - your brain releases anti-depressants when you recruit new neural stem cells. It will help if the new stuff that you learn is related to increasing your SMV - dancing, art, whatever. Unfortunately, there's no easy solution, but I can tell you that most people in TRP are not here because life has been completely …
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 06:29 PM
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If it were me, I'd go with sprinting over "normal" running. http://www.t-nation.com/training/ez-guide-to-sprinting Does your university have a gym? If not, local gyms will typically give discounts to students. Worst case scenario, go to a playground and you can do a body-weight routine for free - pull ups, dips, etc. Also, what are your goals for working out? On that note, if you can't get a job in your field of study, consider a physical or trade job. You'll earn some money, meet some people, l…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 03:00 PM
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Well, what are you doing to fix that?
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 01:31 PM
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She said she was only crying because she was ovulating Wait, now they get two "times of month?"
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 02:21 AM
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Congrats, bro! Now shoot for 1,000 with OHP instead of bench ;)
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 02:19 AM
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The consequences resulting from a DV accusation are getting depressingly close to the consequences of actual domestic violence. Sooner or later men will start taking the logical if immoral solution to defend themselves, not with legal means, but with something that actually works: psychology. Haven't you ever notice that the real male predators, the real abusive men, are very seldom arrested for domestic abuse, and are even less often convicted of anything? On the rare occasions they are charged…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 02:11 AM
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True, he will have to face an AMOG sooner or later. Much better to do it on his own terms and to show that he can handle himself.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 02:59 PM
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She wants you to ask her out. Because she's solipsistic she thinks you want to ask her out too. Because you're not asking her out, it doesn't mean you don't want to, but literally don't know how. Since you supposedly don't know how to talk to her it means you don't know how to talk to women in general. Welcome to female solipsism.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 12:40 PM
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Perfect is boring Believe it or not, there can be too much of a good thing. I also highly recommend the rest of the Book of Pook - google for the pdf.
/r/askTRP27/10/14 10:56 PM
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If a girl is interested she will pursue to the end. The fact that she lost interest so fast means she was just horny and wanted to use you to get off. No big loss
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 09:29 PM
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There is a concept of benevolent sexism that 99.9% of all women including feminists are not very quick to be rid of. Regardless of what they say, feminism fights to remove double standards that benefit men and keep those that benefit women. In the same vein, it makes sense to embrace a concept of "benevolent selfishness." This is just a label to describe the logical outcome of a TRP mindset - you create your own happiness, so invest in yourself, don't be a doormat, pursue your mission, etc. etc.…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 08:31 PM
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You messed up by answering logically. Should have treated it like any other shit test.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 10:39 PM
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It's supposed to show how ridiculous the post is and how easy it is to demonstrate just by adding in a word.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 06:20 PM
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Perfect opportunity to black-knight (no pun intended): On a daily basis, if I'm going anywhere in public, there are 5 things (at minimum) I make sure to do: 1) I have to make sure I have my phone on me at all times in case I need to fake a phone call so strange black guys won't approach me and try to make conversation, or in case said strange black guy gets angry I won't talk to him and I need to call 911 2) Make sure I bring sunglasses along so I can pretend I'm sick or to give the impression t…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 03:25 PM
2

"OK mom"
/r/askTRP17/10/14 03:57 AM
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Literally the opposite of what she said is true: http://www.returnofkings.com/32053/this-accidental-experiment-shows-the-superiority-of-patriarchy
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 08:28 PM
7

Yes they do. Hypergamy ideally wants to have the AF and the BB in one person. There are plenty of AF that can't keep a woman because they don't satisfy the BB part of the equasion.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 12:23 PM
2

She doesn't respect you, and based on your own actions it doesn't seem she has a reason to. Move on, work on yourself and try again with someone else.
/r/askTRP14/10/14 10:27 PM
4

Not only is she married, she could also get in trouble because this is a workplace. If anything goes south, she'll be talking to HR that same day - ruining your career is a lot better than risking her own career, marriage, and social standing. Talk to HR before she does and maintain a strictly professional manner with her. If you can, talk to her only through e-mail. Also, don't shit where you eat. Hope this blows over.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 12:57 AM
7

Thanks! Like I said, the goal is to elicit a shit test, in other words to provoke a reaction. This is done to get an otherwise indifferent girl to notice you, then shit test you. So, this is better for new women who wouldn't be put off by your incongruent behavior, but can work on girls you know too. Examples might be ordering her around and actually being an asshole, in what most people would agree is "a bad way." On the milder side of things you can just contradict her or call her out on her B…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 11:43 PM
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Woman have all sorts of different pattern recognition systems going throughout their brain at any given time. This is a very important concept to understand. Women have incredibly powerful brains, but that energy goes primarily towards things that improve survival - empathy, mate selection, understanding social hierarchies, putting up appearances, and fighting psychological battles. Also, I absolutely agree with embracing shit tests. A girl only does that when she begins to find you attractive. …
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 08:13 PM
19

Last Man Standing with Tim Allen is surprisingly good. They call out politically correct bullshit and the father figure is competent,loved and respected.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 02:27 AM
5

Wow yeah. All I can say is I had a long day.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 02:18 AM
11

I'm sure there are a whole range of statistics somewhere that show just how well adjusted children raised by single mothers are. They really aren't though. http://redditlog.com/snapshots/125229 http://redditlog.com/snapshots/1061949 (with link to article)
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 11:14 PM
1

"I'm not like those other guys." - battlecry of every beta
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 08:49 PM
1

With the modern sedentary lifestyle and the various pseudo-estrogens from plastics and pollution, average testosterone levels have fallen dramatically, so yes he most likely does. I guess I never found the need, but wouldn't mind giving it a try. Anything you can recommend? Right now I'm on 5/3/1 with assistance (5x10) and some explosive movements thrown in - jerks, box jumps, hand-clap pushups, etc.
/r/askTRP02/10/14 08:28 PM
1

AlphaGamePlan.com Thumotic and his other project Freedom Twenty Five Someone mentioned Laid NYC Not a blog, but a collection of posts - The Book of Pook (google for pdf)
/r/askTRP02/10/14 07:50 PM
1

That was a great blog. Too bad it's out of commission. Once someone becomes great, they just.. move on with their life.
/r/askTRP02/10/14 07:39 PM
1

Don't. The opportunity cost is too high - you'll need a ton of effort to re-ignite something old. Spend that same energy on multiple other girls.
/r/askTRP02/10/14 07:37 PM
1

So, my first question is, can i just start doing curls and see results? Do I need to bulk up first? ... Also, what kind of training do you all recommend for someone trying to bulk up their arms? You need to increase your testosterone levels. More test = bigger everything. Best way to do it is through: Heavy compound lifts and movements - squats, deadlifts, bench press, OHP, dips, pull ups, pendlay rows. Squats will be most imoprtant. Food. Get 150 grams of protein a day, split the rest between c…
/r/askTRP02/10/14 07:28 PM
2

"Nothing surprises me anymore, but I do believe it is lack of a better judgment, they should have known better." Switch the genders and the country would come to a standstill holding vigils and you'd hear how everyone is so outraged. In this case, it's "eh, shoulda known better, but what are ya gonna do. They just need better judgement!" Another incident you won't hear about from SJW or our friends at the BP. So much for equality.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 06:21 PM
2

Bravo! Like you said, after a while it does become a part of your own nature. By then it's both amusing to look at your past self, but also horrifying to think where you'd be had you never found the red pill.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 04:05 PM
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And if two fathers are great, why not 5 or 6? The more the better! The post said they're in an open relationship, so are and will be lovers continually coming (heh) and going. In addition to the divorce, to their dad being gay, that's a ton to deal with. If the woman has a strong male influence in her life (her father or brother?) the kids would be better off with her. Not only that, but our main complaint about marriage 2.0 is that women are free to breach their side of the contract (she can ch…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 03:48 PM
1

Cold feet means one of two things - she's either not sufficiently attracted to you, or if she is, then she needs to be comforted and reassured.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 06:31 PM
0

So if we watch something we both have to chill in the bed. That's exactly what you should do. Have some booze and snacks, grab a blanket "in case it gets cold" and put your arm over her. From them on standard kino escalation. See Step 3: Seduction
/r/askTRP01/10/14 06:22 PM
1

Unless your looks are in the top 15%, stay away from online dating - it will depress you and take away time and energy that could be used to approach in real life. It's also a buffer for not approaching. Unfortunately there's no quick and easy way to "bag beautiful girls in only a few minutes." Understand what women are attracted to and work on improving those aspects of yourself - game, looks, social status, and money. Since you're in college, your best bet is to go to house parties and be intr…
/r/askTRP01/10/14 06:14 PM
2

"Who pissed in your cereal?" then turn around and order a drink. Give her a chance to apologize. If she doesn't, move on.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 06:07 PM
1

6+ months is a long time, of course you're bound to start feeling something. The best solution is to increase the number of plates you spin - you will simply be too busy, plus your emotional energy will be split into many directions. Having said that, there's nothing wrong with feelings. There's also nothing wrong with feelings for multiple girls at the same time.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 06:04 PM
1

Treat her like a male friend, and make sure she reciprocates. Friendships are based on cooperation and mutual benefit. If you're not getting yours, it's not a friendship and she's just using you. If she reciprocates equally - great, keep doing that.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 06:00 PM
1

Here are a few CH posts that should help: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/11/26/stealing-bait-from-women-fishing-for-compliments/ http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2014/08/21/how-to-handle-girls-playing-the-poor-me-act/ http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2014/01/14/gaming-attention-whores/ Basically, say something that shows you're not taking her ridiculous statements seriously. Have fun with it. Also, nice use of ellipsis. Her: Im depressed You: thanks for the psych report
/r/askTRP01/10/14 05:58 PM
1

Ask yourself why you would want to change the subject when a shit test comes up. Is it because you're trying to avoid conflict? If so, then the girl will pick up on that you will have failed the shit test. Think about the prescribed ways of dealing with a shit test - you either ignore it or agree & amplify it to the point of absurdity. This shows that you're 1) not afraid of conflict, and 2) you're so used to dealing with conflict and with women in general that this is all just a joke to you now…
/r/askTRP01/10/14 05:51 PM
4

The Book of Pook is an excellent resource for inner game.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 05:32 PM
1

Confidence is simply believing that you will succeed. You will believe in your success if you have been successful many times before. In addition, this applies on a topic by topic basis - you will have different levels of confidence for the various different skills that you have. So, your level of confidence in women will be different from skiing, making fiends, learning a new language, going on job interviews, etc. There are three ways to increase confidence in a particular skill and each has i…
/r/askTRP01/10/14 05:31 PM
1

Just some things to think about: In 10 years you'll be 35 and she 60. You'll still want to have wild passionate sex while she will most likely be a grandmother. When her kids drop off their kids with your gf, how will you react? Do you want kids of your own? It's nigh impossible for her to have any, if she even wants more. You already feel trapped. How will you feel after giving her the next ten years - your most productive years as a man? Beyond traveling do you like, you know, doing things? Sk…
/r/askTRP01/10/14 05:19 PM
1

Heartiste does a good job of it http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2014/09/09/when-a-hot-woman-slips-the-cold-shiv/
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 03:41 AM
1

Sure thing
/r/askTRP01/10/14 02:42 AM
1

Good luck. I recommend working in predefined time intervals, for example 20-30 minutes on then take a break, then again 20-30 minutes on, etc.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 01:56 AM
1

Wait a bit and on the day you want to see her (a weekday if possible), text her around 3-4 pm to meet you wherever you want to meet her at 8pm. It's better to open with a non-sequitur
/r/askTRP01/10/14 01:26 AM
1

I want this woman BAD. She knows this too, which is why you're at a disadvantage. On top of that 31 is a magical age at which women will either completely shut down or be incredibly easy. If the former, you can't do anything about it. If the latter, be bold, fun, outgoing, funny and make her feel young again.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 01:18 AM
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How do I interject her "own little world" Women always have accessories and there should be plenty of stuff to talk about in art class. Start with that. Learn how to be a challenge (cocky/funny, teasing, ordering her around) and hold your frame during / after. If you prefer a less confrontational approach that's fine too. There's something different about this girl No there isn't. She's an imperfect human just like the rest of us. Connect with her over your experiences, struggles, fun times, and…
/r/askTRP01/10/14 01:12 AM
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strangely enough, she had become even more intense even though I wasn't reciprocating She's become more interested specifically because you lessened your participation. This is classic hot-cold-hot-cold game. when things can only progress so far Not necessarily true. If she's not just attention whoring then she is looking to upgrade her dating situation via monkey branching. For example, when I first met my ex (we wound dating for over a year) she was in a relationship. Women typically don't lea…
/r/askTRP01/10/14 01:05 AM
1

You shouldn't even ask these questions, because she won't be able to answer them. Women hate making verbal commitments and prefer to operate around plausible deniability. Instead make statements about your actions to inform her of your intent. This will be a balancing act - too obvious and you become boring; too vague and you come off as indecisive or socially inept. Reading CH is a great idea and will help with the above. I actually put together a list of my favorite CH posts if you're interest…
/r/askTRP01/10/14 01:00 AM
3

High SMV man here. I feel stupid talking about "qualifications" (I guess PM me if that really matters to you) but in regards to women I made the journey from a place of frustration to that of satisfaction and confidence. All in all it took about 3 years of working on myself. I'd be glad to share that with you if you like. A quick summary of what makes men attractive to women: Game / personality Looks - fitness, clothes, face, grooming, body language, and more Social status - dominance as well as…
/r/askTRP01/10/14 12:45 AM
1

I'm talking about girls who don't show insecurity. Is she an alien or from the future? If not, she's an imperfect person just like all of us. They're confident in themselves. This is a good thing. They don't respond to alpha male or redpill theory and actions. If it doesn't work, it's not the red pill. You're doing something wrong or she's just putting up a front. This is typical of "ice queens" but once you get past that exterior, they're perfectly human. You need to be a lot more specific for …
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 09:18 PM
15

Start with "How to win friends and influence people" by Dale Carnegie. Next have something of value you can contribute - host parties, research events, organize trips, play an instrument, tell cool stories, etc. Next place yourself in situations where you can meet new people. For the first few months avoid hooking up with girls in your new social circles.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 07:55 PM
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I have a very similar preference, but my recommendation would be to unlearn that as soon as you can, or at least get it under control. If you want that kind of excitement, keep it at a very casual plate / FWB status. It is better to be "bored" with submissive women than to go through rape / domestic violence accusations, unintended pregnancies, and all the other drama that psycho girls are capable of. As far as being bored, that feeling comes from the inside, so take a look at yourself and maybe…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 04:41 PM
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Just remember that as she gave these things she can just as easily take them away. It may be better to find a girl who is naturally affectionate in the ways you like.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 04:02 PM
13

I don't think you need to use donotlink on Heartiste - give the man some recognition.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 01:56 PM
4

All those things sound nice, which is why we already have all of them - the pay gap myth has been debunked, even by feminists, and you can't possibly believe that women in your country are prevented from going to school, driving, and choosing their own husband. I don't know where you live, but there are plenty in cities on the North American east and west coasts. Even if you don't know any, their policies still affect you and your daily life. Assuming you've spent some time here you've seen that…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 06:01 PM
3

I think this is the wrong question to ask. The feminist approved counter-argument is that men to be feminists not because it will get them laid (men wanting sex? that's just creepy and rapey, ew!), but for moral reasons, i.e. supporting equality, ending discrimination, etc. On the surface, this isn't a bad thing - plenty of men have followed philosophies that didn't get them laid and yet we still acknowledge their greatness. In addition, you could apply the same logic and claim that MGTOW is a p…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 05:28 PM
7

I just looked up the National Socialist German Workers' Party - equal rights for the German people in respects to other nations? That doesn't sound so bad, now does it? Assuming you're not trolling, look at what people do, not what they say.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 05:09 PM
7

Another analogy is a guy treating all his previous girlfriends lavishly - paying for them and taking them on fancy vacations and then when he gets married he is extremely frugal with his wife.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 05:01 AM
14

That's orbital strike levels of dread and not necessary unless you're in a "nothing left to lose" situation.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 08:48 PM
4

It could also be projection - she loves aggressive cocky attitudes in men so she thinks if she acts like that it will be attractive too. What usually works is beating her at her own game and once she's accepted this you let her know it's ok to be vulnerable around you that you won't judge her for it.
/r/askTRP26/09/14 05:08 PM
3

Don't listen to promises of good stuff in the future. Think of it like Briffault's Law. Also it's always a good idea to "spin plates" in the sense of always having your resume out there and always interviewing for new jobs. It'll help you evaluate your worth and give you confidence from knowing you have options, which will make you more valuable at your company.
/r/askTRP26/09/14 05:03 PM
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Hah. In the most typical TRP relationship but she's still strong and independent and unique.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 04:28 PM
2

http://therationalmale.com/2013/05/13/soft-dread/ Dread game doesn't need to be over the top, most of the time she just needs a reminder that you're still attractive, and she knows this because other women think you're attractive.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 11:38 AM
1

Those are nice numbers bro
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 11:21 PM
1

Good luck to you. If you check my post history, I put together a "best of" from old Heartiste.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 05:59 PM
3

That's not good for your friendship man. There's plenty of women to go around and this kind of mentality will not only mess things up w/ your friend, but will likely lose you the girl because she can sense the scarcity mentality. Also, some chicks get off on this, so be aware and don't indulge them. See #4
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 05:34 PM
2

Dont know why you'd even talk to her, but a good way is to flip things things around. Whenever she says "men should..." replace it with "black men should..." or "women should..." and send it back to her. You mean to tell me a 14 y.o. girl didn't want to have sex? That's BS
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 05:50 PM
1

There's just so much wrong here... When I asked her the difference she pretty much described that she wanted me to use her. What she described was like a scene out of a porno. And 50 Shades is a top seller. 2+2=? All of the "this is the best sex ever" comments I got were from porn-like banging, i.e. sexual objectification. I used to think this was messed up, but now I see that's just how it is. so I told her is be willing to try if she gave me the chance. She just shrugged and said "I don't thin…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 05:42 PM
1

I sincerely recommend Rational Male best of year 1: http://therationalmale.com/the-best-of-rational-male-year-one/ This is what converted me to RP, and it covers a good chunk of theory as well. The writing is a little dry, but once you get used the style it's a goldmine of information and insights.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 09:14 PM
12

http://therationalmale.com/2012/03/27/dread-games/ http://therationalmale.com/2013/05/13/soft-dread/ http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2008/03/27/dread/
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 05:35 PM
1

This is a good place to start - http://therationalmale.com/the-best-of-rational-male-year-one/
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 02:30 PM
9

The other replies here are good, but something to consider is that ideal women are made, not born. So, "willing to constantly self improve" would be number 1, followed by the traits listed in other replies.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 01:00 PM
3

Assuming you want to stay with her, I think getting a bike now would be counter productive. Since you already got the tablet and the quadcopter, it'll be just another "nyah nyah you can't tell me what to do" which is fine if you're doing non-seriously, but it looks like you're doing it out of spite, which all boils down to you being extremely reactive towards her. Doing the opposite of what she wants is still falling in line with her wants, which is to get a rise out of you, and if she does that…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 06:55 PM
3

Alpha-beta-alpha game. So occasional Acts of Beta are not a horrible thing; in fact they’re necessary if you want a relationship with a woman longer than three months that isn’t corrosive or emotionally exhausting. But there are more and less attractive ways to “be beta.” Giving of oneself can come from a place of neediness — supplication, cloying flattery, fearful obeisance — or it can come from a place of self-assured joy. What works for me is giving out compliments followed by teasing. For ex…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 06:28 PM
5

Also: http://www.independent.co.uk/arts-entertainment/films/news/the-man-who-made-femen-new-film-outs-victor-svyatski-as-the-mastermind-behind-the-protest-group-and-its-breastbaring-stunts-8797042.html So much for strong, independent feminists.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 07:20 PM
5

Once you create sexual attraction you can do all the talking you like and the option for a deeper relationship is there. It doesn't really work the other way. My girl has a higher libido and she just deals with it. I joke with her "No means no!" It really just comes down to holding frame - "this is how I see the world and therefore this is how things ought to be." Also, what is your actual question?
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 11:39 AM
7

You call that unnecessary use of force. In both cases, the defender should use the minimum force required to stop the attacker with as little damage as possible to either party.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 09:10 PM
0

They were doing the female equivalent of cocky & funny and it went completely over your head. You should study up on social interaction and not take things so personally.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 04:58 PM
3

I get better results with "2 steps forward 1 step back." It really helps to be the first to pull back and then reengage. It builds up tension and shows non-neediness
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 12:45 AM
6

Legitimate complains from women you care about are handled in one of two ways: If she can't fix it and you can, then just fix it and move on. Don't ask or offer, just fix it. Unless of course you don't want to. If neither of you can fix it, then just acknowledge it and let her know you empathize with her (she knows that you understand what she's feeling). This is part of being her "rock."
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 06:48 PM
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"I guess drunk me still has feelings for you." Apparently having feelings means "I'd like to use your home as a free hotel for me and my friend so let me wake you up in the middle of the night and call you an asshole if you don't give me what I want when I want it."
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 06:43 PM
1

Anyone else notice that the bad roommates were in three categories: women, drug dealers, and people with schizophrenia? It's true, women will do anything and everything up until they hit some kind of boundary. I guess that's how people are in general, but it seems to affect females the most.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 04:47 AM
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Also the part where she molests a mentally challenged Forrest and no one cares because the sexes are reversed. Try and tell this to any feminist - you can almost see their hamster wheels spinning in their heads trying to rationalize it.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 01:57 AM
44

Game is like male make-up. Do you know that women wear heels, push up bras and paint their faces? Sure you do, but it still works.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 01:42 AM
2

I noticed that too but can't figure out why.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 05:30 AM
9

These are the parts I thought were RP: Women love attention. Even on her wedding day, when everyone is forced to pay attention to her, she sings a friggin song right in the middle of church, during her entrance. Modern pastors cater to women and BP mentality (although there are exceptions). "She did it all for you." Obviously this was planned and rehearsed. Pastor gave her a pass to attention whore in church, and spun it like it was some noble act. Look at the top comment on youtube - "Tear! Mak…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 07:50 PM
-2

Because his actions were done at real personal risk, I say this was not white knighting, but just standing up to bullies. Yes, the comments are retarded, but what do you expect? This is nothing new. As to your slave / master morality argument, it falls apart as soon as any appreciable number of people start acting as "masters." Everyone will catch on that helping others is dumb, because it won't be reciprocated when it matters - in emergencies.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 02:28 AM
12

White knighting is when 10 guys pile up on someone who defended himself against an attacker. White knighting is when some internet heroes wail on about oppression hoping it'll get them noticed. Calling out thugs for being assholes to strangers at real personal risk isn't white knighting, it's standing up to bullies.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 01:58 AM
30

I remember your previous post. Serious question - What benefit is there for men to attend speed dating events? How is better than going to bars, public events, or even online dating? As I see it, if you have even numbers of women and men, the women can "sample" every guy and figure out who the best one or two is and then try to get with him. Now, this is normal, and to be expected, but why should any guy show up? Especially if they are automatically competing with you - clearly a high status guy…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 08:59 PM
5

Skip the wedding, go on the trip. If you feel that bad about it, get her something from the registry. She's getting married, and not to you. If it came as a surprise, she's not as good of a friend as you thought.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 06:33 PM
21

"Should I break up with her?" Take it easy, buddy. Your post betrays your insecurity, and women have a 6th sense for these things. The more you worry, the more justified she will feel about losing attraction to you and it will be your fault for being "too controlling." Instead, in the last few weeks before she leaves, do some dread game, but nothing blatant or over the top. Just show that you're attractive to other women without making a big deal out of it. Wish her a good time on her trip. As f…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 06:10 PM
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"A week after the sexual encounter, according to Parisi, his accuser called him from a blocked phone number to apologize for “ruining” his life. “She sounded like she was crying when she said it,” Parisi told the Examiner. Parisi informed university police that she broke the no-contact order and that her complaint was false, as it was his understanding the order worked both ways. Drew University's response to Parisi's lawsuit, however, only states that it placed the order on Parisi." An accusati…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 05:34 PM
61

Stop feeding these people attention. I mean, seriously, what do you expect from someone who chooses to look like this? https://d262ilb51hltx0.cloudfront.net/fit/c/670/670/0*K2TMH7mpt96spWFm.jpeg
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 01:32 PM
1

Lay out your expectations with them and if they don't agree or agree and don't follow through then don't spend as much time with them.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 12:24 PM
4

It shouldn't make you sick, this is just natural female behavior. Generally speaking they are happiest when in a support role to a lover they look up to. This works for men as well. There's a reason that the following is true - "You shall make your mission, not your woman, your priority." You do your thing as a man, and she will support you as a woman. This is normal and natural. Both parties should be proud of their achievements. After all, couples are meant to complement each other, not compet…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 07:11 PM
2

If you knew she was playing games you should not have touched her. It rewards bad behavior. Better yet cut her from your life completely.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 01:18 PM
9

"You're too good to me" would be a truer statement on the woman's part. When you act too good, they get suspicious that that's all you have to offer.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 01:07 PM
1

OP, I agree with you about the rest of the comments. Good looks are only a foot in the door. As to your guide, I like how quickly you transition to setting up the date and getting the number. It would help to see your failed interactions, with your own analysis for why they failed. This would also shed more light on the looks vs game debate.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 03:35 PM
3

Some of them are more like Venus fly traps
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 12:53 PM
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TRP isn't a way, it's just a bunch of observations. Some of these observations result in a set of tools you can use, but these tools aren't "the way" either - they're just tools for you to do whatever it is you're trying to do. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 03:04 PM
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Poorly! See BetterToBeFeared's comment
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 11:10 PM
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This should be the proper response if she caught you cheating
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 02:01 AM
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Remember, you can't negotiate desire. The only thing you can do is produce changes in yourself to make her desire you more. No amount of logic will work to change this. Having said this, I think you have several options: Break up with her, and focus on your exams. There's plenty more girls on the girl tree. Fun fact: it was shameful for samurai to sleep with a woman before a battle. You could take a similar approach with your certification. Demote her to plate status and never go back to exclusi…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 12:21 AM
1

Could you like a good documentary? Also, how'd you get into a hobby like that?
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 02:46 AM
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I think AWALT means all women have the same motivations given a set of environmental conditions, but it is possible for some to act against those motivations.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 04:46 PM
1

As an Eastern European myself, I agree with you on the above, but as a counter-point, divorce statistics are much more favorable with foreign women: http://www.returnofkings.com/4658/dont-believe-the-lies-about-foreign-brides
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 02:33 PM
1

A combination of both of those. 4-ish K to 20K was a factor of 4 or 5. 20K to 60K is a factor of 3. I think the growth is becoming a log scale, and it has to slow down just because the TRP sub-reddit is limited, well, to redditors. You have to have an account to hit "subscribe." As a comparison, /r/seduction is at 175K, and PUA while not loved or even liked by the mainstream (think SWPL's and SJW's) is at least seen as reasonable given certain conditions. Almost everyone has at least heard of Th…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 06:38 PM
2

I loved the Preventive Medicine series. When is part 2 coming out?
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 05:03 PM
2

I agree. A common trend is that "rewards" should be an overall representation of how she perceives you - unpredictable. This means the acts of love need to be, or seem to be: spontaneous, i.e. unpredictable as to when they happen and, performed from a place of outcome independence, i.e. unpredictable as to why they happen
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 04:43 PM
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♂
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 05:06 PM
5

Masculine-style.com is good especially the "staples" series
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 05:19 PM
2

Just practice with a bro first. N-no homo.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/14 12:56 AM
1

How come?
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 12:25 PM
5

Also /r/EntrepreneurRideAlong/ to see someone describe the process
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 10:18 PM
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Women always complain about men they find attractive. This is like saying "woman complains about asshole boyfriend - will likely leave him. Any day now!"
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 08:00 PM
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On the one hand, it probably wasn't a big deal to the guy. On the other, I'm sure the lady is somewhat embellishing her story to make herself look better.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 07:56 PM
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Check out Art of Seduction by Robert Green. He brings up many seducers throughout history (male and female) and talks about them having both masculine and feminine characteristics simultaneously.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 05:16 PM
2

To be fair, self defense extends only as far as stopping the attacker. The girl walks away and the guy walks after her to continue the fight. Now he is the aggressor of this second fight. If women (especially drugged up women) are "the most responsible teenager in the house," then it doesn't make sense to fight them on an equal level. It's about as silly as fighting a child or an animal. How would you react in this situation? The same way you would react if a drugged up 13 year old came at you -…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 10:17 PM
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I'll add it to the main post.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 06:12 PM
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Forrest Gump and Jenny It's a funny scene, but imagine the sexes switched: "guy takes advantage of low IQ girl"
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 03:57 PM
5

Thanks I'll add it.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 02:44 PM
5

This was linked yesterday - the guy discusses the inevitable dead-end of the player lifestyle. Definitely gives some perspective. http://www.thumotic.com/std-made-me-better-man/
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 02:06 PM
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Thanks, I especially agree about #4 and made a new post to petition the use of donotlink. With 50K members, I think it's worthwhile to not give extra revenue to the sites you mentioned.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 02:01 PM
1

"All women have dual, oftentimes mutually exclusive mating strategies, often manifesting itself in simultaneous desires for both stability and excitement." or "All women are crazy" is good enough for the person I was replying to. Try and add some of your own good content first.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 01:23 PM
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All women are crazy, bro. She's just being honest.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 04:42 PM
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Top three comments sum up all of r/relationships: you probably know that you've been a shitty husband marriage counseling is a must we always cruify the cheater and what not, around here, but
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 02:48 PM
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Yup. Also, perfect opportunity for some teasing. "I'm boring" - "Your childhood must've sucked!" "I'm not as cool as you" - "And not as hot either!"
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 03:47 AM
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Heartiste has done a few "rate these girls" posts and you can see the results of what people voted for and compare them to your own. Most voters agree on one specific number for a specific girl, implying that statistically, beauty is objective and will be consistently rated across the entire male population. http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2014/03/11/real-female-beauty-from-0-to-10/
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 03:43 AM
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Tabloids are written for women, and if women didn't buy them, they wouldn't exist. All this proves is that women make themselves feel better by putting down other women.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 05:09 PM
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The point of that cover was satire - same as yours, and the same elements of ripped man / submissive woman are present. It only shows that others have made the same conclusions as you.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 03:42 PM
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Great example of female solipsism and how it applies to everyone who isn't her. They can't even step out of their own shoes to empathize with one of their own sex: I was explaining to her than I never get hit on by anyone. Ever. Not even a cat call. I get no male attention whatsoever. And my friend asked questions and treated me like I was some desperate, horny, crazy girl. That I was LOOKING to be harassed by men. Which is not the case at all. My friends are beautiful girls who sit around talki…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 01:43 PM
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See "Points Symbol" on sidebar in the Welcome section
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 03:02 PM
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The video comes down to "be attractive, unapologetic, and aloof or we'll make fun of you." Then take a look at the comments - male responses are "hey ugly people are people too and if you don't want this behavior just be direct." Then the responses range from calling them bitter, or that they're mansplaining, or "women are only judged by their looks" to "whenever I'm direct, men the wild animals that they are, just fly into an uncontrollable fury." [Side note: look how conveniently a woman slips…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 02:20 PM
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You should add some analysis as to why these are good or bad, otherwise this belongs in r/seduction.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 07:09 PM
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Probably around the 80th percentile. Remember that OKC article about how women rated 80% of men as below average in looks?
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 02:10 PM
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Kind of. I'm saying there's a lot less carefree partying in poor countries, and people get tired of living like that much earlier and want some kind of out.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 03:11 PM
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There are a number of forces at play here: First, foreign women are still women. All of these girls found their BB and are looking to cash out. To us, this isn't news. However! Even with perfect red pill understanding of their situations, these guys' alternatives are what? Settle down with an overweight, obnoxious, entitled feminist who will constantly nag him and publicly disrespect him and then finally leave to chase after some cad who deigned to drunkenly romp her on a Wednesday night? I thin…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 01:17 PM
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It's gotta be great to have so much free time on your hands you can worry about bear family dynamics. On the next episode: Will she use her free time to learn a marketable skill or complain about the gender pay gap?
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 02:53 AM
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I wish I could isolate you from your family/friends but you refuse to comply Woman needs to chill the hell out. Dread game is necessary in all relationships, but it too much can push crazy girls over the edge. Make sure you have an exit strategy, bro.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 12:40 AM
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Some people do complain, but it usually goes along the lines of "It sucks how the dating market has become. Girls on the CC is a bad thing, but I just have to adjust and make the best of the current situation." You're arguing against an imagined general consensus that just doesn't exist here. We all understand that we have to become one of the rides on the CC if we want to sleep around, but that doesn't mean we can't lament the present conditions. If you want to sleep with a lot of girls, you wa…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 07:42 PM
2

You can just hit "save" under a post
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 01:58 PM
1

When the time comes, will you teach your BIL about TRP?
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 04:45 PM
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This is a space for men, so I don't think she'd get much value out of it. Try /r/redpillwomen On a side note, all she really needs to know is what behaviors will attract or push away quality guys: Don't give up sex on date 1, but don't withhold it either. No guy wants to feel like a BB. There is a fine line of "I find you sexy for who you are but I'm not a slut either" that she has to walk. Also, stop sleeping around with "hawt guys" if she still is. No matter how PC the west becomes, N count st…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 03:39 PM
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Don't teach men not to pay for sex. Teach women not to sell it.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 03:29 PM
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Well, shit-testing isn't a bad thing. It's a way for people to find out if the other person is acting truthfully or just putting up a false front. Guys in general care about looks, pleasant personality, loyalty, femininity and kindness. Looks you can see for yourself, but it's important to see how she looks the "morning after." Loyalty can be tested by pushing for sex and seeing how fast she agrees to it. Also, for loyalty and for the rest of the qualities, don't be controlling nor judgmental so…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 03:26 PM
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I wouldn't reply either. You won't gain anything except resentment and neither she nor any other women are going to change their behavior nor "awaken." Let people live in their "good feelings" cocoon and carry on with your life.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 03:13 PM
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I think what makes this community great is that people make the decision to come here on their own and are therefore coming from a place of humility and wanting to learn and later to give back in the form of quality posts. However, it might make sense to give out a link to some kind of primer - Rational Male Year 1, Book of Pook, Chateau Heartist and then let people find the rest on their own.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 05:36 PM
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Good for you, bro. You saved another man's life.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 01:42 AM
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Inner game comprises of two parts: Disillusionment: Understand that besides your mom, no one in this world gives a shit about you. Go read "The Rational Male Best of Year 1" (link at top of www.therationalmale.com ) Finding your own purpose and mission in life. Read the Book of Pook ( http://www.djbible.classicalgasemissions.com/book_of_pook.pdf ) I'm sure you could stop it by focusing, but you're addressing symptoms, not the root cause, which is that your internal state is somewhat off. You can…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 08:58 PM
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From your replies in this thread: Haha believe it or not my facial hair is... and You can't really see the rest of the mustache but its there. Still bad? haha and my hair has been growing back in hence the funky hairdo haha and 13 years of lean muscle doesn't give up easily haha haha. haha. The problem is your attitude, your inner game, and how you perceive yourself. A girl with no self control will get fat, similarly your inner self shows up through these nervous laughs - this is what turns wom…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 08:02 PM
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It's a crappy way to find out (aren't they all?), but I'd want to know. On the other hand you'll be shooting yourself in the foot if any future girls know you have a reputation for "kiss and tell" This is crappy all around, and I don't even think there's a lesson to learn here. Sluts gonna slut
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 04:11 PM
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This is a great first post, please continue to add more. I'd like to see more about marriage and why men are dropping out. You mentioned the misandry bubble article, but only as an example of how the current system is un-sustainable.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 11:50 AM
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Yeah, she'll be a friend so long as you provide attention, entertainment and validation, and you'll get cut off the moment you push for your own friendship needs (the same ones) to be met.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 10:23 PM
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You'll notice that as you change for the best your "friends," friends, and even loved ones will try to stop you and will give you crap about it. "You're turning into an asshole" "Stop losing weight it's unhealthy" "Stop going to the gym so much, you don't want to look like one of those roid monkeys do you?" "Why don't you spend more time with me, come our favorite show is on" People hate it when you change the status quo, because they can see how stagnant they themselves are in comparison
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 02:08 PM
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Theoretically it's meant to discourage de-railing a subreddit. Let's say something from /r/Christianity is directly crossposted to /r/atheism, then those guys would go over and contribute upvotes / downvotes in a way that wasn't "supposed" to happen given the actual distribution of that subreddit. It's supposed to keep discussions meaningful to that subreddit. The other reason is "brigading" where members from one subreddit go en-masse to another to downvote whatever they disagree with to push i…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 08:48 PM
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From the sidebar: No crosslinking anything from reddit at all. Not in submissions. Not in comments. If you want to post a conversation or post between members on reddit you must take a screenshot, and edit it for the following requirements: No URL in picture or post, Subreddit name must not be present in the picture or in the post, Must be self-post with analysis. No low-hanging "look this guy is a moron" posts. Constructive posts only. Everything else will be deleted without warning. Edit: or u…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 08:39 PM
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I agree, I did say that TRP is not an ideology, and it's definitely not a movement. However, no man is an island and for the sake of making our own lives easier I proposed a model on how to discourage (for example) feminist ideology from reaching the Overton widow within each individual's social circle or family, while at the same time encouraging an environment friendly to whatever a TRP subscriber might choose. For example, for anyone within an LTR or with children, nipping radical feminist id…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 08:30 PM
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Don't link directly to other subreddits, even to your own posts. Check the rules, please. Also, from a pure "let's do unbiased research" perspective, your methodology isn't very good. From askreddit someone replies "it doesn't matter" and you egg him on with "Are you sure about that?" This is just bad conduct. However, to continue with your train of thought - you might want to look into comparing number of sexual partners for women vs number of women emotionally invested in for men - there is a …
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 07:38 PM
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Absolutely. It's like when we get a big influx of new subscribers after each one of those "TRP is the worst subreddit of all time" threads
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 04:41 PM
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This "in trouble" dynamic is even used to sell cars. http://alphagameplan.blogspot.com/2014/04/the-international-gamma.html And a good follow-up on how to handle these situations: http://alphagameplan.blogspot.com/2014/04/alpha-mail-how-to-respond.html
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 01:51 PM
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They also have a higher rate of domestic violence abuse than experienced by heterosexual women: It has been estimated that between 17-45% of lesbians have been the victim of at least one act of violence perpetrated by a female partner (Burke et al, 1999; Lie et al, 1991), and that 30% of lesbians have reported sexual assault / rape by another woman (Renzetti, 1992). http://www.americanprogress.org/issues/lgbt/news/2011/06/14/9850/domestic-violence-in-the-lgbt-community/ And this, from the "gentl…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 07:35 PM
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Be attractive and don't be unattractive. Make sure she had a good time and her emotions are positive. Always text her to make sure she had a good time and keep the texts. http://www.thumotic.com/how-to-avoid-a-false-rape-accusation/
/r/TheRedPill05/04/14 03:06 PM
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New shaming tactic? "Don't get in the way of science!"
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 07:48 PM
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You have to understand it in context: Self-improvement is readily a good thing. But a very big problem (or should I say cancer?) occurs when self-improvement becomes a 'security'. The idea that improving yourself, in this or that way, will boost your chances. But the problem is that it never stops. Go into a gym and you will find many single guys working out. They will remain there because they always think they have to be perfect to get the ladies! Watch television and you will see ads implying…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 04:05 PM
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"Not in a mood to play."
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 12:40 AM
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Lighten up, man. Wouldn't you lend a male classmate some lunch money for a day? You're trying really hard to show how much you don't care (even though you obviously do, otherwise this post wouldn't exist), and, no offense, but it makes you come off as either an ass or socially incompetent.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 12:37 AM
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That he's a good boy
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 04:52 PM
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Google "strong lifts 5x5" and "starting strength mark rippetoe." While they have some slight differences, both will give you the correct approach - lift heavy weights using compound movements. Pick whichever you like better. Both routines above are beginner routines and provide linear gains (adding 5-10 lbs per workout to each exercise), and with consistent application will run out their usefulness in 6-9 months after which point you will want to evaluate what your goals are and either continue …
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 05:12 PM
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Depends on your personality. The fact that you're even asking yourself this means you think you'll be affected negatively by shooting for girls that you consider below your standards. I feel the same way - it's better to have a good relationship than being alone, but it's better to be alone than to have a bad relationship. You listed debt (i.e. money), fitness, and education as what you should be focusing on for the next 3-4 years. As I see it, attraction comes down to game, status, looks (fitne…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 02:37 PM
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She's into fitness, has good relations with her family, is saving money, investing in her education, and doesn't want to be thought of as a slut. What's the problem again?
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 09:50 PM
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This sentiment applies when starting out in RP theory, but quickly falls apart once you've "made it." My plates actually treat me very well, and I certainly want to bang them. Once sex with attractive women is both consistent and relatively easy to get, factors that determine whether you want to bang someone begin to depend on personality rather than looks (because good looks are consistent). There will always be an element of reciprocal attraction. It's not enough for me (really, my ego) for a …
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 08:41 PM
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Goes hand in hand with http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-looks-and-online-dating/ As you can see from the gray line, women rate an incredible 80% of guys as worse-looking than medium.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 08:29 PM
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Wheymen
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 06:42 AM
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This is freaking weird, and border-line child abuse. Let's hope none of those children remember any of this.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 09:55 PM
5

At least you got your 20-30 minutes of fasted state cardio
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 03:02 PM
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OK, so she left her marriage (dis-loyal), is now older, has ex husband drama, and automatically takes things personally and gets defensive, but none of those matter because she's just too strong and confident?
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 01:44 AM
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If you want kids, what's the alternative?
/r/TheRedPill02/03/14 04:48 PM
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I agree, I meant more like marriage vs plate spinning. As for children, marriage does give you some leverage when fighting for custody.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/14 04:36 PM
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Cons: commitment is hard, statistically high chance of divorce, family courts will rape you Pros: children, chance to develop one of the deepest possible connections with another human being
/r/TheRedPill02/03/14 04:20 PM
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Go troll somewhere else. Did you not realize that when you're around other people you have to "sacrifice" some of your true nature and "play their game" - you have to wash yourself, brush your teeth, not use racial slurs, have table manners, etc, etc. Did you not realize that when you go to work you have to "play their game" too? How about learning a new skill? "I'm such a natural alpha, I should just know how to play the piano and perform olympic lifts straight out of the womb, and if I can't, …
/r/TheRedPill02/03/14 02:34 PM
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You might want to check out /r/seduction for "quick fixes," as in my opinion, TRP is more suited to making long-term internal changes to character and life-style. Having said that here are the essentials: Maintain frame. Consider other people's opinions, but never apologize for who you are. Deal with shit tests - "agree & amplify" or "ignore" are your go-to's. Lead. Body language: lead her by the hand or guide by the small of her back. Date: even though she's showing you around, have an itinerar…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/14 02:22 PM
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Yup. It's not about power or control, but about generating genuine attraction, which more often than not needs power and (self frame) control because that's what women like. But they also like independence, aloofness, being fun and not being scared of your sexuality.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 02:59 PM
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So are women of history oppressed victims or have they been in power for centuries?
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 02:49 PM
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/r/talesofprivilege
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 02:32 AM
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Exactly. I would go with "who is this?" But sure she knows it's a joke
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 11:16 PM
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never had sex with her dropped frame sulked in a corner at a concert This isn't exactly a master craftsman of pick up over here. The whole point of Game is that it works. If it doesn't work, it's not game. And after all that she still found him "perfect" at least initially. Even if a girl knows you're using game, it's still attractive just like even if a guy knows about heels, makeup and push bras, all that still creates an attractive image.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 08:50 PM
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From the glossary on the sidebar: Hypergamy – The instinctual urge for women to seek out the best alpha available. This is marked by maximizing rejection (therefore women are the selective gender). A woman will vet her alpha through various shit tests to ensure his "health" on the alpha scale. She is conditioned to recognize a declining alpha, as hypergamy also tends to continue seeking out higher status males even while with an alpha male. Shit tests allow her to prepare herself for eventually …
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 02:31 PM
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low value guy -> no attraction -> no need to shit test (OP's original situation) unsure of value -> possible attraction? -> shit test to make sure (OP's current situation) high value guy -> attraction -> no need to shit test (Ideal end-game state for any man) The woman's open marriage thing is a shit test. Shit testing is a good thing, because it gives you an opportunity that if you pass it, you will be more attractive. Not passing a shit test will hurt you, which it seems like what's happening …
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 11:56 PM
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Unrelated to OP's question, I tried reading Superior Man and it just came off as new age nonsense. Do you think it's worth reading?
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 07:39 PM
2

What would go into this TRP care package?
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 11:46 PM
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Mostly for the social networking part, but also for the piece of paper that differentiates you later on. I agree about education != knowledge though.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 02:05 PM
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Rolls-Royce annual revenue: 12.2 billion pounds, or $20.32 billion USD Bentley annual revenue 1.4 billion euro, or $1.92 billion USD Procter & Gamble is the top U.S. ad spender with a $4.2 billion media budget. Their yearly revenue is $84.2 billion USD Of course, it doesn't make sense for a luxury car brand to spend money marketing to people who can't afford their products in the first place, whereas, since we're talking about sexual strategy, it makes a lot of sense to market yourself to ALL wo…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 11:10 PM
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Pretty much, except so many of them have been told by feminism that they can put off marriage and children indefinitely and still have the same choice in men as they did in their early 20's and still have the same fertility well into their 30's or even 40's, which is just un-realistic. I mean, if you want to focus on one choice over another, that's fine, but just be aware of the consequences, and don't complain about it, and certainly don't be a bitch to everyone around you because you made poor…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 10:57 PM
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Advice I would give my daughters / sisters if I had any would be to work their asses off to get into a good college and spend their time there expanding their social circles, exercising, watching their diet, learning girl-game, and learning to recognize their own hypergamy (the latter to avoid getting knocked up by a pump-and-dumper). By the time they're 20-23, lock down the best guy they can find and have however many kids they want while they're young to make sure the children are as healthy a…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 10:17 PM
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V-day on a Friday is like some kind of cosmic alignment of celestial bodies meant to deliver desperate snatch into an aloof, one armed embrace. Hope to see some great FR's on Monday!
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 07:20 PM
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Nah, women tend to dress the same as each to blend in (not be ostracized), but a little different to stand out (catch an attractive guy's attention). Very few have personal style. http://i.imgur.com/A06riBV.jpg
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 05:04 PM
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That was painful to read. Here's something that will actually work: http://www.thumotic.com/the-100-guaranteed-first-date-bang/ http://www.thumotic.com/the-guaranteed-second-date-ban/ Edit: Here's some analysis of why the quora top post is bad: First and foremost, you have to find someone that you share interests with, are attracted to, and also seem to be interested in you as a person. As usual, these "helpful suggestions" open up with the assumption that you've already successfully done 80% of…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 05:07 PM
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"Hamstering" is the act of rationalizing. It's done mostly by women, and mainly to either feel good about themselves or to look good in front of others (which are really the same thing). See glossary of terms in sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 03:00 PM
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That stood out to me too. Way to give complete non-advice from your high horse. Q: "I have this problem. Can I have specific steps to solve it, please?" A: "Just don't think of it as a problem and it will magically disappear." Q: "OK, I stopped thinking about it, but it's still there, and it's preventing me from gaining respect from peers and admiration from women." A: "Patriarchy."
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 08:29 PM
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Sounds very similar to "How to win friends and influence people" by Carnegie
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 03:53 PM
4

Would be a great addition to /r/becomeaman
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 04:51 PM
17

Anyone else get a fight-or-flight response from this video?
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 04:48 PM
1

You have a blog?
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 06:47 PM
2

Just keep in touch occasionally - once a month or so. If things are as you say they are, she'll let you know, then just ask her to drinks or w/e.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 03:15 PM
2

Why leave a bad tip? It's not the waitress' fault that this kind of thing works on the vast majority of men. She's there for the money, not to fight some ideological battle of "it's wrong to flirt to get your male customers to tip better" at her own expense.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 03:13 PM
7

improve SMV: game, fitness, money, social status soft dread pass shit tests
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 04:58 PM
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Absolutely. From the Book of Pook: Girl: I don't like the nice guy. To me he's a definite turn off. He seems too timid to pursue intimacy, and personally I love it when a guy is real horny (as long as he's attractive and knows when to stop). It makes me feel a lot more comfortable. Pook: Too timid to pursue intimacy! Perhaps he needs a shot of testosterone? Notice how she loves a guy being horny (just not a stupid type of horny). She feels COMFROTABLE when the guy is following his nature rather …
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 03:59 PM
1

I have a bitch of a time developing my shoulders and calves I meant workout routine.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 06:07 PM
3

What's your routine look like?
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 04:59 PM
0

US northeast. Guys will talk shit and maybe push each other but a fight is rare, compared to say, eastern Europe.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/14 07:00 PM
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Well, again, step 1 is to not get angry. You wouldn't get angry with a child or an animal for doing stupid shit, so why would you get angry with a girl, right? "Is this how you flirt?" make and hold eye contact, shrug, and turn away "Who brought their baby sister?" You get the idea. As for white knights, most guys are pretty reasonable, and no one really wants to get into a fight. Just hold your ground and don't say anything. If a woman's coming at you, block, dodge, and weave. She'll get pulled…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 09:31 PM
4

"Now I see what everybody is talking about" That's a great one
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 08:53 PM
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Don't know what to tell you man, just don't put yourself in that situation. Late 20's here, never had anything like that happen and I go out often. One time a girl poured water on me, I made fun of her as if she was trying to come onto me but was socially retarded and didn't know how to properly flirt - that was all it took for her to walk away.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 06:24 PM
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If it's something annoying like pouring a drink on you or slapping you, counter with amused mastery - treat her like a bratty, spoiled little sister. After the encounter, cut contact - you don't need that drama in your life. If it's something like getting your car keyed, call the cops / insurance company. Basically, she's acting out emotionally to get attention. You treat her the same way you treat children - keep your frame and don't reward her negative behavior by giving her attention.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 04:05 PM
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thanks
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 03:59 PM
1

You should share your story
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 03:08 PM
6

douche nugget Hmm.. this sounds like a phrase you might hear on a feminism blog. Ick. Period hormones are the worst. Until I started my antidepressants, my PMDD was serious business. Sorry, boo. :( Oh, there it is.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 02:50 PM
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So the end result is one partner works and the other stays home to take care of the kids, the house etc. This approach looks real familiar, doesn't it? To these people, progress is taking shit that works and flipping it upside down. Remember that feminism is just a shit test.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 02:18 AM
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You're right, that's a unicorn right there. She would do well over at /r/redpillwomen
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 09:35 PM
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Go on please. I've never been either too fat or too skinny but that's what I heard.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 04:34 AM
2

For a guy being too skinny is almost as bad as being too fat.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 02:38 AM
0

Same here. I gained close to 40 lbs of muscle over 2-3 years. At +10 I was getting actively and constantly hit on by fat girls. By +30 this thankfully stopped.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 02:37 AM
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Post wall / fat chicks have to be proactive because no one they like will initiate with them. Shit testing is done to see if you're really as attractive as they think you might be. So, if this is a new thing as a result of self improvement then this is good.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 02:31 AM
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If she gets upset it wasn't a neg, but an insult.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 02:26 AM
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Learning game is best done in a large city. You're driven hard by all the competition to improve yourself, there's a large selection of women, and chances are, your living arrangements will make for good logistics. When you're ready to settle down, you'll probably want to raise your kids in a more rural setting, which is where you'll find more traditional / religious women anyway.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/14 06:47 PM
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As soon as your in a happy committed relationship tons of rando bitches come out of the woodwork, touching your arms and flirting. They're like sharks, except instead of blood, they smell a chance to spread chaos.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/14 03:29 PM
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According to these concerned bloggers, positive body images are only for fatties one writer Heidi said: 'Is it really necessary to post a halvnakent picture of themselves?! It's just to show off, thinking's not much on how that image can affect readers.' Hopefully to get their asses to the gym, and then to the grocery store to buy lean meat and vegetables
/r/TheRedPill17/01/14 03:11 AM
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It's so sad and ironic that it's women who mess things up for other women, talk behind each other's backs, and slut shame, all the while spouting about sisterhood. And it's women again who encourage destructive or negative behavior with "you go girl" and similar slogans.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 09:56 PM
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N.B.: Who downvoted me? I didn't say anything beta or Blue Pill or anything like that. Or is it just Reddit's work to distract spam? Chill, man. In case you haven't noticed, there's a ton of new members, people just visiting, and of course our fan club at TBP.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 09:46 PM
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TBP says that all recent feminist-led laws and policies embrace equality. TRP says that this is bullshit and provides counter examples. I think "MRM" is a decent way to tag those counter-examples, but I'd be OK with renaming the flair too. As it applies to us here, people should be made aware of how the legal system is stacked against men - it's yet another reason to spin plates and to very seriously consider (and re-consider) if marriage is the right thing to do.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 09:41 PM
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Guy at 4:00 resting head on girl's shoulder in public looks like a lost puppy. Do not do this! For attracting women, I feel that once the basics are taken care of - fitness, status, game, clothes / hygiene, the rest of it is just making sure you don't sabotage your own efforts.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 09:05 PM
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For me, it's been really helpful to type things out to better understand a new concept. Now that TRP is more or less internalized, I have less need of this, but I imagine many other users do. I suggest we create new weekly themed threads in addition to FR Mondays to let people ask questions, vent, and attempt to wrap their heads around the new ideas. This may also work well for red pill / blue pill example threads.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 07:49 PM
4

"When in doubt, next and hit the gym?" Sounds good to me.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 06:36 PM
3

Keeping TRP closed off will only increase the divide between the haves and the have nots for men in terms of sex. The current setup of 20% of the guys banging 80% of the girls, will only become more extreme. Previously almost every guy was able to pair off with another girl through marriage, and a high value placed on female virginity really helped keep partner counts low for both men and women. With the sexual revolution, women were able to pursue whomever they wanted to for sex, namely the top…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 06:12 PM
3

Well there is still some risk. No contraceptive is 100%. Aside from that, 50 years of contraceptives are not enough to turn off the subconscious impulse, developed over tens of thousands of years of "if this guy puts his dick in me I may very well get pregnant and be unable to take care of myself."
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 08:45 PM
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How is displaying social dominance lead to oozing insecurity? Also, if you're competing or winning to be attractive, you're really wasting your time and effort. Maybe true for you, but OP came here for help, not to get blown off with "just be be alpha bro." What would you propose instead?
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 08:42 PM
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I'm a pretty smart guy(I'm an actuarial student with a 3.9 GPA), but that's not really an attractive trait in men. Smarts by themselves are fairly neutral. On the other hand, dominance is attractive. Competing with other men and winning is attractive. Use what you got, man. As far as being skinny, look up the terms Strong Lifts, Starting Strength, and 5x5. Squat heavy and eat animal based fat and protein. I gained 35 pounds (still around the same bf%) in two years doing just that.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 07:51 PM
2

Go away
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 07:14 PM
60

Reminds me of the documentary about a man who went to work into an all female industry and had endure extreme climate conditions and lack of household conveniences. Oh wait.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 05:14 PM
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The Red Pill needs to be constructive, not deconstructive. It needs... TRP is not an ideology, it's just information. Go do whatever you want to with it. Saying TRP isn't for you is like saying that the concept of gravity isn't for you. Similarly, just because gravity isn't "positive," doesn't mean you're exempt from it.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 04:58 PM
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Sounds like you enjoy drama. Do what girls do - get your kicks watching reality tv and gossiping. ... Or, you can take charge of your relationship. Figure out why the arguments start and address those things before they even come up. If they do come up again, hold your frame, but after the argument take more corrective action. Also, don't forget that girls do crave drama, so spice things up every once in a while
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 03:09 PM
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An average looking woman has no trouble "convincing" attractive men to sleep with her, but an average guy will not convince attractive women to sleep with him. Conversely, average guys have no trouble convincing attractive women to make use of his time, money and attention. In a very simplistic way, women exchange sex for commitment. The "male slut" therefore is someone who freely gives away commitment, which is an investment on his part. Sex is an investment on the part of the girl because she …
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 02:07 PM
2

really?
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 01:44 PM
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It ranges: Friend 1 - fit, but heartbroken after gf left him. Taught him to take women off the pedestal and to spin plates. He says he's the happiest he's ever been. He's a few years younger and says he's always looked up to me, so I'm sure that helped. Friend 2 - not fit, same age as me. Got him on 5x5 and had him read Rational Male Year 1. His response was among the lines of "I wish I didn't learn this, but now I know it and it sucks, but I guess that's life." However, he's slowly incorporatin…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/14 11:05 PM
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http://content.time.com/time/business/article/0,8599,2015274,00.html
/r/TheRedPill13/01/14 10:33 PM
3

Tell us about the trip
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 09:39 AM
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I'd start dating slightly older women, say 25-30. The ones your age seem like they aren't mature enough for you. haha
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 03:38 PM
1

Squats and milk bro. Look up 20 rep squat programs and GOMAD - this is the fastest weight gain possible
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 06:44 AM
3

You messed up for a number of reasons : Failed to get past LMR You let her control the interaction You were bored, and therefore boring You let her get under your skin As always, everything is your fault, you are the only one responsible for your happiness
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 11:12 PM
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Talk more with everyone you meet, not just hot girls. And with the hotties, talk with them the same as with plain girls or old people or children.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/13 02:12 PM
2

They don't teach hypergamy in public schools either. Don't make the mistake that you're immune to it just because you were isolated - you're still a human woman and are as prone to hypergamy as men are to staring at beautiful women. When I'm committed, the beautiful women still exist, but knowing my nature I make an effort to fight it. When you're committed, your brain will always be on the look out for the highest value man it thinks you can pull in. At this point you can rationalize that "the …
/r/TheRedPill22/12/13 03:43 AM
1

Men with options marry for one reason only - children. A woman who is a good mother and a loyal life partner is getting nearly impossible to find, an will become only more valuable as our society "progresses." That value, combined with facing life's challenges together over a course of 20+ years will make your man love you and his kids more than his own life - at least I know that's the reason my great grandfather volunteered for and died in ww2 when he could have stayed with civilians far behin…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/13 03:35 AM
1

It takes practice to internalize an attitude that you hopefully can maintain consistently or at least slip into when necessary. The trigger is different for everyone but the end result is the same - act like a person who ______ where you fill in the blank with however it is you see yourself at your best. The book "The Art of Learning" does a great job explaining this and other useful ideas too. It always comes down to holding frame. Remind yourself of the successes you had with holding frame and…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/13 03:22 AM
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Way to ruin weekend plans, Buzz Killington
/r/TheRedPill21/12/13 05:47 AM
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you will never hear a woman say "my boyfriend used to do anal with his ex gf, but doesnt want to do it with me. this hurts me." The analogy would be a woman finding out that her husband used to treat his ex-gf to trips, flowers, dinners at fancy restaurants, etc, but has only ever taken her to Appllebees and bought her really average flowers
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 04:46 PM
1

you should definitely check it out, especially "year 1" at the top
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 04:41 PM
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Similar situation, which was handled well: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/09/10/reader-mailbag-emailer-gives-an-update-about-girlfriend-drama/
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 04:27 PM
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Instead of giving you a fish: A neg is a back handed component - it is a compliment phrased in a way that could be interpreted as an insult and should leave the person guessing. It's similar to teasing but a little different. The end result of a neg is a smile, otherwise it's not a neg but an insult. For example: your big ass makes up for your small tits is not a neg, but an insult. No one is smiling after that one. "I love your style, you dress just like my mom" is a better neg. Another rule of…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 03:58 PM
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For all intents, the history is now irrelevant. Here is one aspect of feminism: http://www.returnofkings.com/22936/this-is-what-a-feminist-looks-like Not all feminists are like that, etc, but these aren't fringe cases, and these people care very little about your equality - just theirs. And sure, there's lots of good and bad people everywhere in all social strata, with all kinds of political views and moral values. The point is that you will have people in every group tell you "give me this thin…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 10:46 PM
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Wanting to wake up the masses to a truth is itself a moral act, and will have consequences and benefits involved. You're making this way more dramatic than it is. Yeah, bros want to help other bros, so what? If I'm wrong, you and I have a date back here in 20 years so I can tell you you were right all along. TRP doesn't guarantee anything. It's just a bunch of people who share their observations about trends - what works, what doesn't, why do girls say one thing but do another, etc. TRP also und…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 10:16 PM
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Take what TRP offers, where there is no morality to sexual strategy and people are allowed to maximize best outcomes for their own genes in all instances. What do you see? It was actually feminism that has embraced this model. Prior to the sexual revolution there were very clearly defined laws and social mores - the "patriarchy." If you're concerned about morality, it was feminism that has brought about 50% divorce rates, abortions, single-motherhood, and the hook-up culture. In general, TRP is …
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 09:54 PM
2

Check out /r/nootropics If you do your research right, you get all the benefits of that in-focus state, without the dependency I personally run on a piracetam/coffee/theanine/rhodiola stack that does wonders Edit: This is complementary to my mandatory stack of fish oil, vitamin D3 and a multivitamin
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 07:06 PM
2

They don't think this stuff can or should be taught, they believe in the supernatural magic alphas genes are in the balls of masculine men they are attracted to (just as shit-testing is natural for them). This is a shit-test too. So meta.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 07:03 PM
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You should research and understand the concepts of frame and dread. Check out: http://therationalmale.com/2011/10/12/frame/ http://therationalmale.com/2013/05/13/soft-dread/ Application of these and other game concepts: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 09:53 PM
2

This article needs to be made into a pamphlet and given out to young parishioners. And so many guys, not just the religious need to understand that "but I'm a good guy" will not work for them. They also need to understand that young, thin virgins are still human women, just like the "low quality" women they currently disregard as sour grapes. The only difference, is that the young, thin virgin will have that much more choice when it comes to getting commitment.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 04:43 PM
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I try and use that argument with some friends, but they always reply with "that only works because you're good looking," which of course is b.s. In the end, I don't think it's worth it to push something on others - they have to come to it on their own terms. And it's especially not worth it to sacrifice real friendships
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 03:49 PM
3

/r/weightroom too
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 11:42 PM
7

All of those are in the sidebar - "Glossary of Terms and Acronyms"
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 11:32 PM
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One of the reasons TRP exists is to describe concepts for which no terms exist. They're obscure only because they didn't exist one, five or ten years ago. Think about how dumb sounding some of the feminist terms are that are now becoming mainstream - rape culture, privilege, cis-gendered, etc And it's not limited to topics on sexuality. How about phrases like "trolling" or "doxxing?" As far as the quoted passage, Rollo is a real bright guy, and even if his writing can be a bit dry, he is one of …
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 11:30 PM
4

You been where? With who? How much money did you spend?
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 10:08 PM
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The police reportedly told the media they were unable to intervene because “they are women." http://www.lifesitenews.com/horror-mob-of-topless-pro-abort-feminists-attacks-rosary-praying-men-defend.html
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 06:30 AM
2

You're reaching a bit here. If someone, man or woman, offered me to ride around in a nice car like that, I'd go, just because it's a cool thing to do and a cool story to tell Edit: Although this does illustrate a couple of points: When they connect the guy and the car, the girls get all flirty. So I guess keep in mind that a girl's flirting (words) has nothing to do with how she feels or thinks The guys were average looking, OK dressed, but with atrocious body language and very nervous when spea…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/13 03:52 PM
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Welcome. As this sub is mostly about sexual strategy for heterosexual men, you might not find most of it to be too interesting. However, check out Jack Donovan's "The way of men." Also, TRP isnt' a "belief system" - it's merely a collection of observations on human nature, especially women's nature. There is no ideology to support or oppose. Either trends and general behaviors are correctly described or they are not. A simple analogy might be saying that the sky is blue when for whatever reason …
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 11:04 PM
4

No need to give her more views or attention
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 03:53 AM
1

Oh ok lol. I thought it was some of kind staggered cycle where you do 12 off 8 on and eventually wind up eating at 4 am or whatever.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 12:50 AM
1

12 + 8 = 20.....
/r/TheRedPill18/11/13 09:20 PM
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Don't mind the haters. Your FR's are a great contribution to TRP
/r/TheRedPill18/11/13 08:52 PM
1

Squats and milk bro
/r/TheRedPill16/11/13 04:10 AM
1

Thanks for these
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 04:37 PM
5

It's on the side bar - didn't want to be redundant
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 04:37 PM
2

Can you reconcile your tag line You don't have to be born a natural, you can become one. and this part in your first post? I am a natural, it is hard for me to understand what I am doing and why it works. If this is just a place to put down your thoughts, that's cool - do you. But if this is meant to be helpful to the RP community, you might want to rethink your approach.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 04:36 PM
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Of course, this goes without saying
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 03:04 AM
2

I think that's part of the charm.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 01:25 AM
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"___" because of auto link removal http://www.reddit._________com/r/talesofprivilege
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 10:10 PM
1

The stays are stainless steel, so they're less likely to bend than plastic. The magnets go inside the shirt and keep the collar from flaring out. Example Example 2
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 08:06 PM
1

Magnetic shirt collar stays Seems like a small thing, but it really makes a difference. It's all in the details.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 04:29 PM
1

Sure. Btw don't know why all the hate - like you said anyone can workout, dress better, etc. In the end you either stamp down your ego and go for self improvement and out of your comfort zone, or you don't.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 02:16 PM
2

Do day game
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 02:03 PM
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Try adding "Black" or "Hispanic" to the title of the article to see how ludicrously bigoted this is. 101 Everyday Ways for Black / Hispanic Men to Be Allies to Women Be conscious of where your eyes wander as a woman walks by. Change that behavior. Stop assuming that random girls like you just because they smile at you and make eye contact. Be aware of how you flirt with a woman. And my favorite - Walk on the other side of the street when a woman is walking towards you at night.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 10:52 PM
2

I'm glad she was OK
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 06:41 AM
2

Fried, chopped liver with onions is so good!
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 02:13 PM
2

Can you talk more about the coffee part? What does single sourced mean?
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 02:12 PM
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I dunno about the BP tag, he's married miss USA 2009, so I'm sure he did something right. Edit: I'd say this should be "RP theory" - he has some legit standards for a potential wife: smart, good looking, organized, emotionally mature, supportive, and selfless. Sounds good to me.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 12:30 AM
12

Bro.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 06:53 PM
0

Good advice.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 07:09 PM
8

http://therationalmale.com/2013/05/13/soft-dread/ http://therationalmale.com/2012/03/27/dread-games/
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 07:00 PM
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The term "last name" translated into other languages literally means "family name." The purpose of marriage is to create a new family - this is why the husband and the wife should have the same last name. If two people have different names, they telling the world that they are not one family. In some east Asian countries, the family name is placed before the given name to signify that the family is more important than the self. Remember that article from yesterday about how "marriage isn't about…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 04:11 PM
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When I visit Eastern European relatives, one the main things I look forward to is the food. What I learned is that when in doubt just put sour cream on everything.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 01:12 PM
3

Why game married women?
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 09:29 PM
1

Can you explain about the not into each other part?
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 02:39 PM
3

turning an acquaintance to a girlfriend Your thought process is backwards. You have a mental box named "girlfriend" and you're trying to fit acquaintances into it. Instead you should examine all of your friend-girls on an individual basis, and decide how far you want to take her into your life. "Girlfriend" should not be a goal - it should be an organic result of your interaction with a specific, individual girl. As to the process itself, check out: the heartiste archives, especially the first t…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 07:50 PM
3

Take dance classes and take martial arts classes and learn a very technical sport like fencing or skiing. Dancing is about leading an interaction in a physical way and there is massive crossover with combat and sports. The basic breakdown is lead with a movement feel your partner for feedback adjust your lead and start again It helps to ask your partner to resist your movements a bit so you feel them better Some girls resist way too much or will try to lead too. Break that tendency by gently inc…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 02:59 AM
3

Personal life is like catnip. I've caught women going through my mail, checking under my bed and taking a video of my bedroom. And they always act like it's supposed to be cute.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 11:33 PM
5

What does it mean to take the L?
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 11:29 PM
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Here you go - http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2007/06/20/im-saving-myself-for-an-asshole/
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 09:02 PM
0

Can you go more into this?
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 07:43 PM
10

Thank you. For anyone who wants to read up more on specific nutrients, vitamins, etc, check out www.examine.com
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 06:25 PM
1

Thanks. I'm in the low 300's wilks score, but can't seem to get below 15-20%. I'll check out the BB forum and will be on the lookout for your post!
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 06:17 PM
1

More like entrapment.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 05:37 PM
5

Be careful that this doesn't turn into a habitual excuse or rationalization on your part. Getting the girl doesn't obligate you to sleep with her or date her either. "I didn't get that girl? That means she wasn't all that great." http://therationalmale.com/2011/09/14/afc-social-conventions/ and http://therationalmale.com/2011/08/26/buffers/
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 05:31 PM
1

That's a great turnaround! I have a similar story and shudder to think where I would be were it not for Game and TRP. I think a big part of showing higher value is the actual process of improvement (the delta) as well as the absolute value you can bring. On that note, what steps did you take to drop to 12% from 30%?
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 05:22 PM
2

Observing a system can change it. I'm sure the studies were "blind"
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 09:30 PM
15

While her actions are crappy on a personal level, she's actually doing the world a favor. She's honest about how much contempt pretty girls have for losers. Hopefully some will see this and will start questioning their views on inter-sexual relations. As a fun aside, she go called on her shit by some dude, and said she was attracted to him. Yay TRP! http://restauranttipsfromaserialdater.tumblr.com/post/57915463116/can-i-get-some-good-conversation-for-dessert
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 07:05 PM
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This Chivers lady has some serious RP leanings. She put it mildly to say the least, but yeah, men tend to be more self aware. Chivers said she has considered, too, research suggesting that men are better able than women to perceive increases in heart rate at moments of heightened stress and that men may rely more on such physiological signals to define their emotional states, while women depend more on situational cues. So there are hints, she told me, that the disparity between the objective an…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 06:19 PM
3

Let's flip the script: You chat with a girl online and get to know her without ever meeting her face to face. You decide she's not worth your time - she's bitchy, sarcastic, swears a lot, and can't step outside of her narrow beliefs to see others' points of view. Then you randomly meet her in person and she's a 9.5 and really likes you. Suddenly you change your mind! Sure you'll go on a date wit her! Maybe those first few interactions didn't quite tell you everything about her? Maybe you missed …
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 03:47 PM
1

The best definition of alpha I have for myself is "getting the results you want using the methods you prefer." For example, you can bang more chicks by lying to them, but you'll be giving up some of your own values while doing so. At the other extreme you can go with "my way or the highway" and stand lonely and proud. The ideal combination is "my way or the highway" and then actually getting the results you want at the frequency you desire.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 02:38 PM
4

RIP
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 03:10 PM
2

This sub isn't about self improvement, it's about seeing socio-sexual interactions as they really are, based on behavior instead of words. People will rant, and that's OK - this is one of the few places Men can do so in modern society. Also the "bitterness" is a natural part of the RP process and is not surprising to see given how many new subscribers we have. Bottling it up will slow one down from moving onto acceptance and eventually making self-beneficial use of this information. Pook is awes…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/13 03:03 AM
3

Enjoy - each chapter gives so much to think about. I often come back to it and always find something new in it.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/13 07:31 PM
2

They're Georgian monks
/r/TheRedPill18/10/13 08:21 PM
9

Take a look at this, this, and this. These guys don't have looks, money, or women, but they're just chillin and living an awesome life. The problem isn't this sub-reddit, or women, or anything else. The problem is you. Bro, go do things that make you happy. Life isn't about girls - it's about being excellent.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/13 03:27 PM
3

As cliched as this sounds, girls just want to have fun. Nowadays they can pay their own way, and if they know that marriage is years and years away, they can date whomever brings them the most fun until their uterus yells at them to have babies.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/13 08:37 PM
23

Aside from being high, dude doesn't seem that bad. Yeah, he's annoying, but that's about it. I find a lot of guys, myself included, have a tendency to think someone else is a douche or an asshole for no other reason than he has a hot girl on his arm. It's a completely natural feeling, probably arising from a thought process similar to this one: Someone has something I want -> I want to have it -> We both can't have it, so there has to be conflict -> Clearly I'm the good guy, because I'm me -> Th…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/13 06:29 PM
1

Search "pook" and "womanese" together
/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 11:22 PM
2

Start writing, painting, exercising etc. Blow off steam and self improve at the same time!
/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 11:21 PM
2

Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/13 02:35 PM
1

So now what?
/r/TheRedPill11/10/13 04:49 AM
7

Read www.adarkheart.com blog and Day Bang by Roosh. It's really easy to get a girl to come over given the proper set up of expectations, logistics and thinly veiled justifications for why it's ok for her to do so.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/13 02:30 AM
20

"I got first round" has been good for me.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/13 11:49 PM
8

Another post that won't be linked by TBP. Anyone else notice how selective that sub is?
/r/TheRedPill10/10/13 11:44 PM
2

This reminds me of a general trend on reddit that any religion, belief system, or rule of social conduct should boil down to "don't be a dick." While it seems nice and simple on the surface, the problem lies in that someone else is responsible for defining what "being a dick" means. If you give into the mentality of trying to be PC or nice or pro-feminist, or "not a dick," you're giving into someone else's frame, which can be changed at any point for any reason. In trying to make a novel or a pl…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/13 04:48 PM
19

I know that my sense of humor is intimidating to men and women alike. I don't know about this specific person's sense of humor, but I've seen so many women default to snark comments and sarcasm and then wonder why men avoid them.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/13 02:37 PM
5

Make her take someone else out. Double solved.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/13 03:34 AM
5

Reminds me of this http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/05/19/be-a-skittles-man/
/r/TheRedPill08/10/13 11:04 PM
3

Check out theanine and rhodiola for anxiety. Pairs well with caffeine and piracetam if you're into nootropics. Edit: Wouldn't anxiety automatically disqualify someone from being DT? The whole point is not caring right?
/r/TheRedPill08/10/13 09:23 PM
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In regards to TRP, the issue isn't that sexism against men is wrong or whatever (that's MRA stuff), the issue is that this is an example of men and women being different. The thing to notice here is that those talk-show ladies were indifferent to a guy getting mutilated, therefore they won't care much for something relatively trivial like loving opportunistically. Keep this in mind and use it as you will. The second thing to notice is that women are more concerned about consensus than their own …
/r/TheRedPill08/10/13 09:11 PM
4

Lots of guys, myself included are guilty of jumping from one extreme to another, thinking "this thing works so let's amp it up times a hundred and it'll work even better!" We see that being an ass works to build the initial attraction, so we keep it up past the point of usefulness. Change is important to keep things interesting
/r/TheRedPill04/10/13 07:36 PM
7

In and out, bro. Orgasm is a race she ain't gonna win.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/13 10:24 PM
7

For use anytime, but especially after sex Her: shit test Me: look at her with slight confusion, narrow eyes slightly, tilt head as if trying to remember something "Just to make sure, your name is <say her name,> right?" The delivery should be confused look / deadpan into shit eating grin.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/13 07:43 PM
7

Yup. Once you figure out fitness, clothes, game, and have something interesting to say, it's all just logistics.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/13 03:53 PM
8

People should be free to bare themselves except whenever a feminist doesn't think so
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 08:33 PM
24

"Convicted murderer turns sappy beta after first date sex." This is a whole new level of game. Do you think there are henna tatoos with gang symbolism? Should I go crips or bloods? Probably both, just in case.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 03:31 PM
3

Don't be dumb. From your own link: Be sure to write what you mean. If you want to emphasize specific words or phrases, you should use boldface type or italics. Give the quotation marks a break!
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 02:26 PM
8

And how many "don't count" because she was traveling, drunk, lonely, or the guy was really hot but in town for just the week?
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 12:58 PM
7

She didn't "lie" in quotation marks. She actually did lie.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 12:55 PM
21

She started off the relationship by lying to you. There are plenty of post wall single moms who want nothing more than a guy with kids and a nice income, she's not "the one" Is a lying, high-count woman someone you want raising your kids?
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 12:49 PM
7

Body language is very important and in many cases communicates more content than just words
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 03:57 AM
1

Well you won't get anywhere with that attitude
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 01:57 AM
0

You should have no problem establishing yourself as an Alpha-Female: Next time there is rivalry between you and another girl, clean-and-jerk, and then overhead squat her. Below parallel, of course. Double the domination by wearing red heels.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 11:26 PM
1

Girls grunting is always cute
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 10:20 PM
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Furthermore, a girl with "beta male game" would actually do well, because it is feminine in nature - giving gifts, being nice, constantly smiling, submissive, etc. Maybe this is where beta game comes from? A guy reasons "well, I want these qualities in a girl because they are attractive to me. Since they're attractive to me, those traits must be attractive to everyone else as well." And I bet this is why a lot of girls think that having a great career will attract men in the same way it attracts…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 07:26 PM
1

I did see that, but I don't see the difference between empathy / being there and just regular, run of the mill relationship stuff. As in, what you described falls into relationship category, not friend category. After I finished typing out the above, I figured out what you were going for. Empathy and especially "being there" is just something guys do for their friends - this includes both men and women. Initial attraction doesn't need this, and the girl is drawn in by typical 'alpha' characteris…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 07:17 PM
1

What do you mean by become her best friend? I'm guessing you're not talking about shopping, gossiping, and having her cry to you about her one night stands?
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 05:38 PM
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Tell her you're non-judgmental, and then be non-judgmental, then sit back and listen to what she says.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/13 10:04 PM
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"In fact there was a time when I believed in the sisterhood - but that was before women at war led to my emotional and financial ruin." It's never her fault, is it? How about your poor decisions led to poor consequences?
/r/TheRedPill27/09/13 02:48 PM
1

Lol.. it means, "I want you to come over AND I'm thinking about sex, so much so, that I have to voice my thoughts out loud." Just make sure to pull back first on the makeout and any escalation. 2 steps forward, one step back.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/13 02:44 PM
1

Snark remark
/r/TheRedPill27/09/13 02:32 AM
1

Yep. Makeout outside the apartment, then go in, put on the movie, and escalate as soon as it begins playing.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/13 08:14 PM
15

Plenty of gay men dislike feminism. See Alex Knepper and Jack Donovan.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/13 10:15 PM
2

but did you bang her?
/r/TheRedPill25/09/13 09:51 PM
2

So... don't? You understand your problem, you know what to do, now just put it in action, and then come back and post your impressions for the benefit of others.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/13 07:37 PM
2

I don't think you should be putting arbitrary limitations like this on yourself. Life and other people are difficult enough as it is. If an individual person has a problem, they'll let you know about it, and you can then discuss personal boundaries. Are you sure you're qualified to make judgement calls about "an entire generation" at 19 years old?
/r/TheRedPill25/09/13 07:05 PM
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Age doesn't matter. What matters is what you want out life and out of the people you share that life with. Time is your most important resource, so use it wisely. For me that means dating multiple girls simultaneously until one of them can convince me otherwise. I'm sure the girls you know have hundreds of expectations from you. What are they doing in return? Do they stop flirting with all other guys after your first date? Do they stop wearing make up on days they don't see you? I'm not saying b…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/13 06:57 PM
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Spin more plates. Once you're dating multiple girls, you can spread all that extra energy and intensity you've got built up, and your current mentality will calm down into something more healthy or manageable.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/13 03:27 PM
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Don't downvote him. We need to keep each other accountable on basic things like grammar. This is in the same vein as not using redditisms such as "feels" and "this."
/r/TheRedPill25/09/13 03:17 PM
1

Chicks dig scars
/r/TheRedPill25/09/13 03:12 PM
1

Don't ever call a guy 'nice.' That word has a stigma attached to it now. When a guy does something nice for you, they just want a 'thank you.' "Thank you for doing _____. I know you're busy and I appreciate your time." If you want to compliment, do it in relation to something else, like taste in things he has (music, clothes, paintings) or things he does (hobbies, work). It will seem more genuine if it's actually something you admire. Explain why you liked it enough to compliment it. "I really l…
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/13 04:01 PM
2

I had a similar experience and it turned out to be a lack of vitamin D3. Get your bloodwork done and see if all your levels are normal
/r/TheRedPill21/09/13 11:57 PM
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Sometimes I lose track of what's important in life. Thanks for having my back bro
/r/TheRedPill21/09/13 11:56 PM
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Her advice in bold is surprisingly good, but her explanations in non-bold are typical "this is how I imagine things are in my Happy Unicorn Land, and how I wish things were in real life." It starts with eye contact. Look at me across the room, show interest. Don’t just barge up. She's right eye contact works, but not because she wants to know if you're interested. It's because unapologetic intent is attractive. I like it when a man looks me straight in the eyes. Like he can’t take his focus off …
/r/TheRedPill21/09/13 06:34 PM
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I text back: "long term for me is a weekend" This is awesome. You should still text her to get a confirmation that she had a good time and that you didn't 'rape' her in case she changes her mind later
/r/TheRedPill21/09/13 06:00 PM
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"Are you guys even friends with him? You're weird. You guys aren't any fun." On a different topic, this is a great example of the neg.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/13 05:47 PM
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The comments are full of "this is the hottest thing ever!" Moral of the story - when a girl turns on the waterworks to get something from you, be a cold, heartless bastard. Cancel dinner.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/13 04:58 PM
2

It could also mean "he's trying to figure out if he likes me or not."
/r/TheRedPill21/09/13 02:26 PM
3

You've got a good friend.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/13 08:32 PM
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Men feel accomplished when they "get" somewhere with a girl - name, number, date, kiss, sex, etc. Women feel accomplished when the guy gives chase. I think this is where your confusion is coming from about her mixed signals - they're not mixed at all. She wants your attention and she's getting it. Girls spin plates too. Game her friends and tease her, and she'll either get into you sexually, or cut you out of her social circle. I'd bet on the former. When she begins to see you in a sexual light …
/r/TheRedPill20/09/13 08:10 PM
2

This is a great idea.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/13 05:43 PM
7

woody allen perfected the art of having a lot of money
/r/TheRedPill20/09/13 01:39 PM
6

What's wrong with tests?
/r/TheRedPill19/09/13 07:00 PM
3

Child's play donates toys to kids in hospitals, I think.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/13 07:18 PM
3

It's from the book of pook. Good luck http://www.djbible.classicalgasemissions.com/book_of_pook.pdf
/r/TheRedPill27/08/13 10:10 PM
0

Rendlay bows
/r/TheRedPill22/08/13 02:06 AM
5

Soviet Russia wasn't the best at PR. Nowadays countries that do the same thing call it "tax break for families with children."
/r/TheRedPill21/08/13 11:36 PM
2

What does couples counseling actually do?
/r/TheRedPill20/08/13 02:30 PM
2

Hahaha, there's closure for you.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/13 01:07 PM
2

American women get a lot of hate here, a lot of which is definitely deserved. How are Canadian girls?
/r/TheRedPill15/08/13 03:18 AM
4

Sounds like swole discrimination to me, bro
/r/TheRedPill15/08/13 03:10 AM
2

Which book?
/r/TheRedPill14/08/13 11:49 PM
1

Lol. If the guy is that good at sex he won't limit himself to just one girl.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/13 11:46 PM
3

The only thing I don't like is the idea of a parent talking about sex with their child past the age of 9 or 10. It just comes off as creepy beyond that point. Please explain more. I think kids understand sex differently at different ages, so to me, it would make sense to have sex talks at different ages as well. I wasn't trying to make a point, just an observation that this is a bluepill example, and the arguments are more of an analysis that I hope showed that to be true. If I were to make a po…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/13 04:03 PM
2

Yet another reason to date younger girls - they're not trying to get pregnant.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/13 03:28 PM
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Then your seduction days were over before they ever began.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/13 03:21 PM
1

Hahaa, can you image this as an actual headline on CNN? TRP should make it's own news channel.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/13 03:03 PM
9

I agree with OP - showing appreciation without overtly asking for attention is a good trait. I have a few as well, and I decided to categorize them based on how well they work on me, however I do not think myself so special that these should not be applicable to other men too. Having said this, these are supplemental traits that would make me want to see them beyond physical intimacy or would otherwise make them stand out from the crowd (or not, depending on the category). For me, and many other…
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/13 06:06 AM
2

Do you think any woman who says "yes" to being engaged in the back of her mind is thinking "muhaha, now I can let myself go"?
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/13 04:18 AM
2

The same way America almost did. Similar tensions were there, it's just the US wasn't ravaged by WWI, the economy was better, and the US government had the opportunity to observe and learn from what happened to Russia. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Battle_of_Blair_Mountain
/r/TheRedPill12/08/13 02:33 PM
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And then the simpin', bluepill shite: They open the door for you and pull out your chair. They ask if you’re getting enough water and vigilantly top off your wine (as a woman, you never ever pour wine). They tie your shoes for you if they see your laces are loose. They always, always pay, proudly frisbeeing their credit cards at the bill, idly chatting and signing the check without even looking at it. In Russia, having a man pay for you obligates you to absolutely nothing, just as having him wal…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/13 01:59 PM
7

If only we had more feminism, we could end this oppression.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/13 09:38 PM
2

To follow up, yes the girl wants to know you as you "truly are" so she has more information and this is a conscious decision. However, she also enjoys being attracted to the guy. For me, when I see a good looking girl, I enjoy that. For her, when she interacts with a great guy, she, by definition enjoys that. So what I meant by "she really means" is "she really wants you to" so she can enjoy herself. So yes, you're right, but I'm also right, because we're talking about two different things.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/13 09:35 PM
1

This is a great comment, thank you for taking the time to write it. In terms of positive spin, what can I say - that's just how I am. I don't thinking understanding the true nature of something precludes one from staying positive. I'm not saying everything is wonderful, I'm saying I make a conscious choice to view things positively. Also I said that love is transactional and opportunistic. I never said women look for morally good traits, and I agree that, on a subconscious level, the brain opera…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/13 09:27 PM
3

I'd have to disagree. Genuineness is often times not desirable, for example if I'm having a shitty day, it would be genuine of me to display all that negativity, but no one actually wants to see it. As far as being tricked goes, I'll start "being myself" when girls stop wearing make-up.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/13 08:59 PM
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Most of my good friends I've known since middle school. I don't think most guys have more than 3-4 close friends. Also learning TRP, and in general the process of self improvement will alienate a lot of people. In general, relationships are transactional, so take a look at what kind of value you're bringing to other guys. If you're good with women, maybe try setting up situations where you can bring them out to your guy friends. Or come up with cool / active things to do and do that with them - …
/r/TheRedPill09/08/13 07:00 PM
3

Her acting indifferent is a shit test. Like with all shit tests you either "agree and escalate," which could mean walking off and talking to another girl, or you "ignore and keep going," which means you just continue doing whatever you were doing. Like in the video, try and get a rise out of her just to show her she's not the ice queen she's pretending to be. If she's actually indifferent, then just next her.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/13 06:15 PM
1

Like this.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/13 05:55 PM
1

Mine is "supercalifragilisticexpialidocious"
/r/TheRedPill09/08/13 05:48 PM
1

Seconded.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/13 04:44 PM
7

When a girl says "be yourself" she really means "believe in yourself" I agree, life in general is a pretty good deal :)
/r/TheRedPill09/08/13 04:07 PM
2

Thank you
/r/TheRedPill09/08/13 02:23 PM
1

This actually makes a lot of sense
/r/TheRedPill08/08/13 10:48 PM
3

This was also reposted on r/feminism. First comment: Absolutely fucking pathetic. White knights, when will you learn?
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 08:42 PM
3

Heads up: " Zinc is known as an aphrodisiac and Testosterone Booster, although the former is anecdotal and the latter only applies to the deficient (directly)." http://examine.com/supplements/Zinc/ Over-supplementing can be bad for you bro
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 04:07 PM
2

The ideas presented here were a great help for my self improvement journey http://www.thumotic.com/the-30-day-challenge/
/r/TheRedPill29/07/13 09:18 PM
1

What's the 3rd date rule?
/r/TheRedPill18/07/13 01:59 AM
8

Half of these make sense - men and women should have basic hygene, fitness and education levels, but the rest can be summarized as "he must be better than I am." This video comes to mind.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/13 11:24 PM
3

http://www.powerliftingwatch.com/node/4420
/r/TheRedPill06/07/13 11:16 PM
16

There is so much in these simple words.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/13 06:14 PM
13

I can't say anything that hasn't been described time and again in this forum: I've stopped trying to follow The Plan of college -> work -> marriage -> kids. I still want those things, but in a way that fits me, not some imagined societal ideal Stopped putting women on a pedestal and developed personal boundaries of acceptable behavior Went through an extremely cynical phase that lasted about a month where I disillusioned myself from the image of women portrayed by society/media/feminism Realized…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 09:50 PM
2

So what changes have you seen in yourself? How was 30? You should do some kind of "10 years of red pill" post with your impressions. I'm mid 20's and it's interesting thinking about what to look forward to.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 02:43 PM
17

Yes
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 03:12 AM
17

Donations are tax deductible. Refunds are not.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 04:58 PM
11

"It's complicated."
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 08:40 PM
13

The girl in your example never liked the guy in the first place, she just liked the idea of him that she had made up in her mind. His actual life and history dispelled the fantasy she imagined. You can't love someone without understanding the person as they really are. I think this is why TRP is so successful and so criticized - girls are by nature insecure mysterious and don't like to be "found out," but in the end they love us because we accept them (however briefly) into our life as they real…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 03:32 PM
2

I like both, but I prefer cats. They're the ultimate "aloof assholes" of nature, and I empathize with that.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/13 01:24 PM
1

I asked this same question a little while ago http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1dyxnf/red_pill_classics_compiled/
/r/TheRedPill19/06/13 01:18 PM
1

Then you're way, way overreacting. This was never a date in her mind - just coworkers getting together. If I were you, I'd apologize to her for the sake of your work relationship. P.S. Don't shit where you eat is a great rule to follow.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/13 12:43 PM
10

From the same thread - Ouch.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/13 05:14 AM
6

There have been a few turning points for me. One actually happened yesterday - I played very generic game, and a hooked up with a "strong, independent woman" who has a bf. She kept telling me how "no one has been able to dominate her" and how "this is an exception." I feel shitty about it for the other guy and at the same time very cynical about people in general, including myself. I tried giving myself excuses like "oh she's on the way out of this relationship anyway," but it is what it is. You…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 10:05 PM
5

I like to send a "confirmation text" about 4-6 hours before the scheduled meet up time. If she doesn't reply by 2 hours before the event, I text her again and say "hey you didn't confirm so I made other plans" At this point they apologize like crazy and ask you for a raincheck. I'd suggest replying with a non-committal "ok no problem" and following up in a few days or a week. If you're spinning plates and improving yourself through gym, hobbies, male friends, etc, making actual other plans shoul…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 09:54 PM
6

It's the former. When a high value male makes his appearance, most rodent and some primate females would rather voluntarily abort their own fetuses to try and get the better DNA
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 05:35 PM
7

you can always train him yourself. One of the biggest criticisms of TRP is the sidebar article comparing women to teenagers, and yet women's magazines have no issues comparing men to dogs.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 07:21 PM
1

Thanks, man. My coworker told me about it when we started tangentially discussing redpill topics.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/13 04:47 AM
1

Are they TRP? MRA? What's the deal?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/13 09:44 PM
2

I forgot about his previous post. Yeah, nevermind on what I said. OP, just move on.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/13 02:30 AM
2

And if he isn't? I think he is using the best possible approach to keeping her and to keeping her loyal - be willing to walk away. What would be better?
/r/TheRedPill30/05/13 02:24 AM
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I just wrote a post on this.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/13 02:39 PM
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Same here
/r/TheRedPill09/05/13 02:38 PM
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No, but I feel like this gets brought up often in the material on the sidebar. Do you feel his work should be added to the list?
/r/TheRedPill09/05/13 01:40 PM
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That's a great point. Would it make sense to give a TRP context for each one? Also, we have wikipedia now and people can research whatever they're about to read instead of having to plow through a few hundred pages only to realize this isn't for them.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/13 01:39 PM
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Done.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/13 01:38 PM
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I won't be done anytime soon, but I would like to compile a list and make a separate post later. Please add anything else you think is relevant.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/13 03:29 PM
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This is amazing - exactly what I was looking for. This post should be on the sidebar under required reading. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill08/05/13 02:48 PM
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Yes, please.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/13 01:00 PM
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