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I had the same mindset for years when I was younger and still figuring out a lot about life. It all comes down to you accepting.the fact that you are someone women can be attracted to.
/r/seduction25/06/17 06:49 AM
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Your name is Daygamecoach?????? Lol holy shit dude. And you're here assuring random internet strangers that your super dope with the ladies.... Honestly laughing out loud. It's too much. Seriously thank you.
/r/seduction25/06/17 06:29 AM
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You probably deserved it. That may not be what you want to hear, but your future self will agree.
/r/seduction25/06/17 06:25 AM
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Welcome to being a human, more specifically a male new to dating and women. Life is supposed to have it's awkward moments and it's times where courage needs to be mustered. Just take some chances, the worst thing that could happen is you get shot down, you're embarrassed for a little bit and then you get over it and try again with the next one. The best thing that could happen is that your fucking dreams come true. Seems pretty simple when you think of it like that
/r/seduction25/06/17 06:22 AM
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dude. Too much. All you guys looking at women through the eyes of PUA are really overthinking this shit. A lot of guys here enjoy the hobby of studying pick up and the subtleties of social interactions more than they do actually enjoying a woman's company. Just play it cool and have some backbone
/r/seduction25/06/17 06:16 AM
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Only sending her text messages just reinforces her potential perception of you being shy, awkward and lacking in testicular fortitude . Talk to her. In person. Look her in the eye, smile, make light of your awkward past. Ask her out. Then if she blows you off then just take your lumps and move onto the next one, don't dwell on it
/r/seduction25/06/17 06:08 AM
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As with anything in life it takes a balance, very much so. What I am moreso alluding to is the fact that a staggering majority of folks around here have made a hobby out of the theory, strategy, social science and analysis/philosophy of meeting women and the social dynamics of meeting women to the point where it drowns out the actual goal of studying all that crap. For a lot of the PUA crowd these forums are a strokefest of their own hypothesis and self-validation. Dudes that will have 100 ways …
/r/seduction18/08/16 01:28 AM
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Get the hell out of there, it's not like you don't already know every single girl already
/r/seduction14/08/16 05:26 AM
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"And thank god for THAT..." The next thing you hear will be "lol what do you mean???" That is a response chocked full of opportunity for a witty gamesman
/r/seduction14/08/16 05:18 AM
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I find that people that focus on social theory and breaking this shit down to a science have much less success than those who go out just wanting to have a good time. It can be fun to immerse yourself in game theory and all this PUA nonsense, but it's almost a totally separate endeavor to meeting women. The guys who consistently find success are not the guys who write essays on breaking down social dynamics of any and every social encounter
/r/seduction14/08/16 05:14 AM
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This is a good post, what it is basically alluding to is not to worry about goals and not taking yourself too seriously and getting in your own head. Honestly almost every night I had a successful pick up I went out not giving a shit if I found success that night or not, best thing you can do for yourself is to go out and just have a good time. Fun is contagious and if you're having a great time people, especially cute gals, will want to be a part of it with you
/r/seduction14/08/16 05:10 AM
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Stop taking yourself so seriously, i guarantee no one else
/r/seduction11/08/16 03:17 AM
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Practice? Just dont be shy about striking up conversation with any and all women you find attractive. Women aren't mysterious creatures so different than men, they have high sex drives, want to meet guys, and would love to be wooed by a strapping gent. Just have fun out there. Watch what happens when you just have fun
/r/seduction11/08/16 03:12 AM
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How to make conversations fun? I'm afraid there isn't some PUA algorithm( on second thought, there probably is) you are asking how to become a genuine social butterfly . This is one of those things that every man learns to figure out for himself through the crucible that is life
/r/seduction10/07/16 07:38 PM
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Don't overthink it, she was just a girl out having a good time and wasn't ready to change up her environment yet
/r/seduction10/07/16 07:36 PM
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Running a pretty old system, it's called the real world . People communicate with archaic technology but there are ways to hack it-this dated but still effective platform is referred to as "conversation"
/r/seduction10/07/16 07:35 PM
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Dance on...
/r/seduction10/07/16 07:33 PM
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Be a consummate gentleman
/r/seduction10/07/16 07:31 PM
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You were too in your own head and probably came off super weird as a result
/r/seduction10/07/16 07:26 PM
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Welcome to being a guy
/r/seduction10/07/16 07:24 PM
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Good man
/r/seduction10/07/16 07:20 PM
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This is the answer I should have given. Good shit man. The last sentence is the one that reigns most important: If she is into you, then you have the potential to cause someone one of life's more unique forms of pain. It's better to just wait for someone more fitting to sleep with, but also.... cccmmmmmoooooooooooonnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn practice girls dude
/r/seduction29/06/16 02:59 AM
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Better than she's a little too much on the fat side! There is great value in the 'practice girl'. Its a cynical and fucked up concept speaking from a decent human being's perspective, but in one's young 20's you are going to want to learn some of life's harsher lessons with someone you don't really give a shit about as opposed to the woman of your dreams
/r/seduction29/06/16 02:56 AM
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To add my 2 cents to the actual topic though: Direct vs Indirect? Neither. Take the best of both. If you are interested in someone, ABSOLUTELY dont dilly dally, go strike up a conversation and don't be shy about the fact that she caught your attention because she's gorgeous. -but also- ABSOLUTELY have a developed enough wit so as to differentiate yourself from the hordes of other caveman dumbasses making passes at this woman. Make her memory of you engaging, fun, attractive and just generally sp…
/r/seduction29/06/16 02:53 AM
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The problem with pick up culture, this sub, ect. is that so many dudes find themselves becoming professionals at breaking down every subtle aspect to the various social situations dating life exposes us to. Getting their jollies from intellectual debates with other guys in the same boat, earning the respect of other PUA psychology understudies. Becoming so involved with game theory and social psychology that they forget the point of it all - to get to a point where you don't need all that bullsh…
/r/seduction29/06/16 02:47 AM
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Ahhh. I remember this. Hopefully you are now a more successful, outgoing, put-together, gym-attending version of your high school self. If so, then just walk in and let their wandering minds do the heavy lifting for you. Don't pretend like they may not know who you are/remember you. They do.
/r/seduction29/06/16 02:42 AM
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Kids these days gotta quit all this 'i better wait 36 hours to respond so she doesnt think im a desperate, bored loser' crap. Texting social strategy is the passion of the tool. A man speaks his mind when he has a mind to speak
/r/seduction29/06/16 02:40 AM
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I started doing this when I was about 19 after years of being self conscious and introverted. I still kind of do it, but for different reasons now. Thing is, most of the shit you blurt out will not be funny. Most of it will make people think you are kind of a weirdo. BUT the fact that you are so open with your thoughts and so emotionally approachable will make others feel comfortable around you moreso than they would someone else
/r/seduction29/06/16 02:38 AM
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Sounds like you are in high school? Fucking it up is a valuable part of the process
/r/seduction29/06/16 02:35 AM
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There exists not a set of questions formulated to discovering if you have found your soul mate or not. It's one of those things where if you met that person in your life, you won't need to ask the questions. BUT... to answer your question: Anything that gets you guys into a dialogue about the core values and expectations you each have...
/r/seduction29/06/16 02:28 AM
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African or European
/r/seduction29/06/16 02:26 AM
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Having a social circle is a symptom of a healthy social life and social skills in general. They say the best measure of a man is the company he keeps. Women know this too, what do you think a lady would think when she finds out you don't have a group of guy friends? Anyway - it is very possible to do well with women without a social circle, ask anyone who has travelled abroad. Thats the thing though, when someone is doing well socially without a social circle, its usually because they are on a b…
/r/seduction29/06/16 02:25 AM
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Depends what the first text was, could be you blew it with what you said on that first one. Furthermore maybe the timing of the first text, or some other intangible is to blame. But assuming the best and that she is just not replying as some girl-code strategy, or if she genuinely is just too busy to text back (bullshit - it takes all of two calories burnt and 5 seconds to text someone) - anyway assuming things are good and she just didn't respond, I always would go funny/self deprecating. At th…
/r/seduction29/06/16 02:21 AM
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Wait so is your central thesis here that if a girl agrees to go on a date with you, she has already essentially green-lit that you guys are going to have sex? Go in to the date expecting sex, and not hesitating or thinking about it? If so that is some of the worst advice this sub has ever seen.
/r/seduction29/06/16 02:05 AM
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Atta boy! Its the small victories that make all the difference sometimes. For the record, by the sound of it she thinks you are cute too - dont fuck it up!
/r/seduction29/06/16 02:03 AM
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This sort of circles back to the "stop taking yourself so seriously, no one else does" point. Anyone who is reading this thread is doing so in an attempt to give you advice/help. Why the hell would you care so much about what a bunch of random internet people on a forum think? Like so the fuck what if people laugh at you. If you are this worried about internet strangers than i can only imagine the level of self consciousness you operate at in day to day real life... Your question is a good one r…
/r/seduction29/06/16 01:31 AM
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Dude... c'mon you are better than that. Take a step back out of yourself and try to look at this whole getting women thing on an unbiased, non judgmental level. At the core of all this is your true self, not the self that you hope other people respect.
/r/seduction29/06/16 01:25 AM
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Because your situation is very different for a 37 year old than a 21 year old... You came to this sub looking for help, remember? 'Why'... Cuz I love jerking off to anonymous internet strangers ages.... Fuckin guy
/r/seduction28/06/16 01:50 PM
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It isnt necessarily weird at all, it just has the potential to be is all
/r/seduction28/06/16 06:08 AM
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Lol! It has dude. It has happened to every kid who was ever a kid. Is it possible that you are focusing so heavily on that memory and giving it so much power over justifying your current state because it's easier to relegate your stress and failures to this 'traumatic' experience than it is to confront the changes you need to make with yourself? It's such an insignificant thing to have happened, it's like you haven't really had to face any real hardships in your life, getting hit in the nuts in …
/r/seduction28/06/16 06:07 AM
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Get out of your head! Stop thinking and just wing it! What's the worst that could happen? What actually did happen is almost the worst so what is there to be afraid of anymore ?
/r/seduction28/06/16 05:50 AM
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Shut uppppppppp
/r/seduction28/06/16 05:44 AM
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1) Stop taking yourself so seriously, no one else is. 2) stand tall with your shoulders back and wear clothes that fit 3) The absolute best pick up line is "hi!"
/r/seduction28/06/16 05:43 AM
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How old are you mate?
/r/seduction28/06/16 05:39 AM
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Call me old fashioned, but if she has a boyfriend then just leave it be man. You never know what the future will bring - she may not always be taken. There are thousands of women out there. Single ones. Don't get all hung up on the taken one. Don't put all your eggs into that basket
/r/seduction07/06/16 01:27 AM
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Dont rely on innuendo for a romantic connection. Women will be confused whether or not you are serious or kidding.
/r/seduction07/06/16 01:24 AM
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What is the nightlife like in Geneva? I know this isnt a travel subreddit but im super curious about the bar scene in Switzerland and what the women are like...
/r/seduction07/06/16 01:22 AM
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Don't just dive in and start gaming every chick in the office. Let them wonder about you for a bit, then start letting them get to know you. Mystery can be a good thing - when a woman is interested in you and wants to know what you are all about - its a beautiful thing. If you just go straight to spaz mode and chat up every gal in the office trying to charm the pants off of the whole department you will be labelled a weirdo, and a desperate one at that. Play it cool bossman, the eyes of your fem…
/r/seduction07/06/16 01:21 AM
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lol dduuuuudddddeeeeeee..... C'mon are you really sabotaging yourself over something that happened when you were 8 years old???? Thats like saying "People at work don't take me seriously because I got picked last for kickball in the 2nd grade" The fact that some small child hit you in the nuts with her friends and laughed about it is NOT the reason you are struggling with women almost two decades later. For the record, what the girl did IS pretty fucking funny. I laugh when i picture some little…
/r/seduction07/06/16 01:18 AM
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Sounds like you are overly self conscious. You may feel weird going out for the sole purpose of picking up chicks.....because it is kinda weird. As much as people will probably downvote the shit out of this, its kinda weird being a guy that goes out lurking the streets trying to score a date. Anyway the long and short of it, is that you need to stop taking yourself so seriously, I assure you that no one else is.
/r/seduction07/06/16 01:06 AM
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You are overthinking things wayyyyy too much. Going to seminars? c'mon man you are better than that. Just be cool brotha. Cool as a cucumber. Women want to be seduced and charmed, but they also want you to be cool about it.
/r/seduction07/06/16 01:03 AM
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That I am someone they can relax and be themselves around. That i'm not some secret creep/criminal posing as a normal guy. That its totally chill to just have a low stress, easy going hangout where we both can get to know each other without over analyzing the shit out of everything
/r/seduction07/06/16 01:01 AM
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Stop taking yourself too seriously... no one else is. If you truly are a slave to your droll apathy, then fucking fake like you are a fun person. Fake it till ya make it son
/r/seduction07/06/16 12:59 AM
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Active, unconventional dates are fantastic for getting to know someone for the first time. As with anything relating to picking up women - just enjoy yourself. Be the catalyst of a good time. If you are having fun you are fun to be around. I don't think you will have to rely on the hail-mary play of the selfie kiss move.
/r/seduction07/06/16 12:58 AM
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This is a good example of what can easily happen in the realm of pickup: Over-analysis It goes without saying you should have a good spot to bring the gal
/r/seduction07/06/16 12:56 AM
3

Bouncer is the kind of position where patrons of the bar enjoy being 'cool with'. Like many gals and guys alike enjoy having a good 'whats up dude! Good to see you again!' kind of relationship with the bouncers. Embrace the role of someone people want to be cool with.
/r/seduction07/06/16 12:54 AM
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She may have been nervous as well, its easy to forget that women on the other side of the table may be stressing a bit as well. We all say and act strangely on first dates as humans. It does sound like she wasn't feeling it though. In situations like that what I have done (with success at times, sometimes it turns things around for the better) is just to drop any and all expectations of anything and just enjoy the here and now. Try jokes you think may not land, say whatever dumb crap comes to mi…
/r/seduction07/06/16 12:53 AM
3

Well congrats on your freedom! Have some dignity though man, don't touch that woman again after what she did to you. I know you two were as close as two people can be, but you need to make a stand for yourself. Boss it up out there.
/r/seduction01/06/16 09:01 PM
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lol people still call it Sarging??? Damn that friggin book has gotten out of hand..
/r/seduction01/06/16 09:00 PM
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This falls into the category of overthinking shit in general. Just be the best man you can be, if you are interested than don't be afraid to let her be aware of it. Maybe don't go flying in guns blazing, just keep on keeping on. As Don Draper says: If you don't like what's being said (or not being said..) Change the conversation!
/r/seduction01/06/16 08:59 PM
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Interesting thought!
/r/seduction01/06/16 08:56 PM
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For sure just be a normal dude and say hi. If you were a single gal would you go for the dude coming around with lines? No. Girls want to be charmed and seduced and all that, but more than that they want you to just be cool about it.
/r/seduction01/06/16 08:55 PM
1

Are you still with your wife?
/r/seduction01/06/16 08:53 PM
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Are you really asking this question? C'mon dude like wtf... "Is it ok to have standards????" The fuck outta here with that crap. Do it if you want practice.
/r/seduction01/06/16 08:52 PM
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Just put this one on the back burner, in the future she will come around
/r/seduction01/06/16 05:36 AM
1

She is just insecure with her growing attraction, the prospect of falling in love can be intimidating. Just be cool
/r/seduction01/06/16 05:34 AM
1

Im almost 30 and my long term gal is almost 26 and even that gap sometimes makes me take a step back.
/r/seduction26/05/16 01:58 AM
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Well, i know its not the worst thing in the world... but at the end of the day they are still 12 years younger than you and just cant relate yet to your view of the world. Remember yourself at 23? seems like you were still a fucking kid....cuz you are pretty much. Its not super socially looked down upon to date someone that age, by your young-mid 20's you definately have enough maturity to make informed decisions and all... but your also still a fucking idiot. Idunno man, more power to ya but it…
/r/seduction26/05/16 01:57 AM
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Its just so easy to overthink things, when really the opposite is whats needed. Go out and have a good time, its contagious if you let it be. If you find yourself talking to a gal dont be afraid to think maybe she thinks you're cute. Make a little bit of physical contact, like a hand on the lower back when saying something nice, anything, and just play it cool. You've done harder shit in your life, physically whats up with you? Are you overweight? Super underweight? Like if you are decently norm…
/r/seduction26/05/16 01:54 AM
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Of course it isn't one size fits all, but if you don't take yourself too seriously, have some confidence, keep yourself relatively put together and let your personality radiate then you'll find success.
/r/seduction26/05/16 01:43 AM
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Also 25-30 could be glorious. A lot of folks have their greatest successes in their young 20's then get tied down in relationships in their older 20's... you have that seasoned grace of an older chap but can enjoy the fun of getting to know new gals.
/r/seduction26/05/16 01:41 AM
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Get out from your parents house dude, why on earth would you live with them in college? Also no excuse to not have a phone for 4 years. Stop giving yourself excuses wether it be your parents or aknowleging that youre showing no courage. I suspect that really letting yourself shine, personalitywise, and feeling comfortable with the prospect that girls may be attracted to you comes a bit hard, STOP TAKING YOURSELF SO SERIOUSLY!!! Sometimes you just gotta go in for the kiss, its not always gonna wo…
/r/seduction26/05/16 01:40 AM
0

Well it gets depressing when all your friends are married with kids, or kids on the way. Pickup doesn't end if you're a single guy at 30 but your audience sure does - don't expect to feel at home chatting up a young 20's gal in a bar. Also don't chat up young 20's gals, your 30. But hey your (and mine, im almost 30) age does open up a demographic of hot single gals in their mid-30's who would never waste time on our jackass 24 year old selves!. So what if they used to be married or something...
/r/seduction26/05/16 01:35 AM
1

Eh it happens man. Atleast she opened you up. There's hope for the future! Just get her number next time, who cares
/r/seduction26/05/16 01:12 AM
1

Nope. Don't do it. Just try to run into her more in the real world, and dont let her have to wonder how you found her. Its not flattering
/r/seduction26/05/16 01:07 AM
1

Stop overthinking it, and pull back. Maybe get some attention from other gals, she'll smell it on ya ;)
/r/seduction26/05/16 01:06 AM
1

Or you can replace that novel with but one word: Drugs. His way is probably better though
/r/seduction26/05/16 01:00 AM
1

Be energetic and fun, dance monkey!
/r/seduction25/05/16 11:53 PM
2

Well if you are about to leave for college, than who gives a shit what people in your present environment think. Get some practice girls in your roster. They dont have to be fat though, they can just be sort of plain
/r/seduction23/05/16 03:49 AM
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Thats how women function in groups out in the wilds of the social jungle. That's why its of tantamount importance to charm the friends, once you have that as a base-coat you can go for the apple of your eye. Just like gladiator had to win the crowd. Win the friends, and you will win your freedom.
/r/seduction23/05/16 03:48 AM
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First and foremost drop the PUA bullshit. You are better than that. We all are. Be confidant, and trust in the time-tested most successful pickup line in history - "Hi!"
/r/seduction23/05/16 03:46 AM
1

Well you're 17. you are right where you should be. This is what all those older folks refer to as 'those awkward teenage years' and they are essential in instilling some character in you. Don't stress out, one day you will wake up having had tons of success with women and cherish these times
/r/seduction23/05/16 03:45 AM
1

Well the baristas are 100% going to think you are just that... because you 100% would be just that. First and foremost stop being that fuck who posts up in coffee shops on your laptop, being one dude taking up a whole table for hours on end. I know its common in today's world and all, but ugh.. thats just a pet peeve of mine. But down to brass tax, if an attractive gal walks in you have two moves: 1) In a lulled moment, remark on something like the drink she ordered, or let fly some witty commen…
/r/seduction23/05/16 03:43 AM
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Well she's not wrong. You for sure should have used the opportunity she gave you and kissed her when the moment was prepared. First off, calm down man there are going to be a million more opportunities in life to succeed. Also, don't take it so hard. She was trying a little bit to show you that you blew it. Don't let her blow rock you so hard. A good gamesman would rub this one off and get back to business. Don't overreact, in the scheme of things its not that big of a deal. No one cares if you …
/r/seduction23/05/16 03:31 AM
1

Stop texting so much, next time you talk let it be a phone call. But it kinda sounds like you missed your chance. he gave you a shot and you declined.
/r/seduction23/05/16 03:22 AM
1

No. Its creepy that you researched her and tracked her down, atleast that's what she will think. Firstly, if its not possible to encounter her in person, that why the hell are you trying in the first place? The real only good way to have a social media connection come about is if you guys have a positive memorable experience in person, but fail to get her number for one reason or another.
/r/seduction23/05/16 03:21 AM
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Just do what normal people who are confidant and sociable do.... say hi
/r/seduction23/05/16 03:18 AM
1

lol very good sir
/r/seduction23/05/16 03:18 AM
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