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| 19 | This is a good conversation starter | Field Report | S-Tier_Commenter | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 09:23 AM |
| 8 | Any good cold openers for sharing? | Fundamentals | S-Tier_Commenter | /r/seduction | 09/04/26 05:25 PM |
| 8 | Have pool boy energy | Fundamentals | S-Tier_Commenter | /r/seduction | 24/07/26 12:54 PM |
| 6 | Girls and nicotine | Field Report | S-Tier_Commenter | /r/seduction | 12/02/26 11:32 PM |
| 0 | I was out with a girl, and all of the sudden she had to sneeze. Is this a shit test? | Outer Game | S-Tier_Commenter | /r/seduction | 28/02/26 08:25 AM |
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| 1 | Field report #3 demoralized by humillation, hope it gets better in the next sessionDelete this post you creep. | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 05:32 AM |
| 2 | Field report #3 demoralized by humillation, hope it gets better in the next sessionDude. You film girls in secret, upload the footage to the internet, and then declare, because they were giggling: "they humilliated me, i dont mind what happens to them". If there is any way to fix this, it's to get some therapy first asap. Like wtf is the matter with you? | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Field report #3 demoralized by humillation, hope it gets better in the next session"Yooo I'm gonna approach these giggling girls, to ask about my hair" 1 min later "I can't believe they were giggling, how dare they??" Get a grip bro. | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 05:29 AM |
| 3 | Field report #3 demoralized by humillation, hope it gets better in the next sessionLol I didn't even see the video. That's so weird. Delete this post /u/BuffaloSpecial8596 | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 01:33 PM |
| 5 | Field report #3 demoralized by humillation, hope it gets better in the next sessionApproaching someone to then talk about yourself is a tough strategy. Also, when the girls laugh at you, it's a grand opportunity to show how grounded you are. Just laugh with them. The opposite of that would be asking what's going and then commencing retreat. | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Getting Pussy is too hardCrawl, walk and then run | /r/seduction | 15/07/26 09:38 PM |
| 1 | How to get good casual hookups as a womanFirst time hearing about it. Does anyone have experience with it? | /r/seduction | 15/07/26 05:43 PM |
| 1 | How to get good casual hookups as a womanSimply do a video call before you set up a date. This way you can tell if the vibe is right, as texting is an akward medium in comparison. You can even discuss date ideas during this video call in a far more effective way. If their vibe checks out, you can also take them dancing. If they're good at it, those skills should spill over to the bedroom. Best part is that you will have men that are either reluctant to have a video call, or reluctant to go dancing. These you can write off immediately. … | /r/seduction | 15/07/26 05:39 PM |
| 11 | How to avoid "performed reluctance" / anti-slut-defenseYeah, that manosphere bullshit really has boys sabotaging their own chances. I'm not complaining tho, as it has noticeably increased my desirability. | /r/seduction | 15/07/26 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Field Report: Threesome on a first dateWhich philosopher tho? Gotta be Camus. He fits this sub too. | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 12:14 AM |
| 1 | No bs answer - how can I become a player?The idea is nice, to just let go. But the book became a bit too spiritual for me. At one point, the dude claims to have the core of all religions. That shit is bs. How can u have the core of all religions when like Christianity beliefs God made himself born as a human to die for our sins and if you let Jesus and the Holy Spirit into your heart, you will be saved. All the while Islam believes that God explicitly did not do that, and that you simply to accept Muhammed's word as the final revelatio… | /r/seduction | 12/07/26 08:41 PM |
| 0 | If Black Pill is true, then make this make senseYeah, you’re definitely projecting by seeing feminism as evil. Let me riddle you this: do you believe your mom and dad aught to have the same civil rights? If yes, then you’re already a feminist. If no, then you’re by definition a sexiest. | /r/seduction | 08/07/26 01:03 PM |
| 0 | If Black Pill is true, then make this make senseYou're confusing feminism with misandry. They're different things. | /r/seduction | 08/07/26 04:56 AM |
| 1 | If Black Pill is true, then make this make senseI feel like the black pill and other ideologies have poisoned the minds of so many men that simply being genuine, positive minded, and funny these days will get you incredibly far. Oh fuck yeah. I love being ahead of the curve by simply not being a raging bigot. For real. And feeling sorry for all the women that they have to deal with that bs. | /r/seduction | 07/07/26 02:22 PM |
| 2 | If Black Pill is true, then make this make senseAll of them. The whole black pill, reactionary stuff, is a bs grift fishing for the money of young frustrated men. Try to be feminist instead, for real, not only because girls will be more likely to like you, but also because men and woman simply deserve equal rights. | /r/seduction | 07/07/26 02:18 PM |
| 1 | What one thing improved your success the most ?That medicine looks hardcore | /r/seduction | 06/07/26 07:09 PM |
| 1 | What one thing improved your success the most ?how did you fix bad skin | /r/seduction | 06/07/26 06:56 PM |
| -1 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I am"hey wanna go back to my place" "I wanna make some home made pizza" "I wanna play a game of jenga" (thx /u/Competitive_Dare4939) "I'm not in the mood to go out, but we can chill over here" All these work too. Be smart about it | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 06:01 AM |
| 1 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amNot a big fan of humid places This confirms your old age lol | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 05:57 AM |
| 1 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amDo you have a dating profile online? Some here look down on that. But in your situation it definitely has benefits. Like one of the reason you're seeing lots of coeds is because they're still studying (and partying), and don't have careers. I once met a lady that organises speed date nights. She'd tell me all the ladies coming to these would be career minded power women that lacked time to go out to find someone. All the guys would be autistic people lol. | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 05:56 AM |
| -3 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amJust become a leosexual, bro | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 05:39 AM |
| 2 | Am I a stalker?It would frame all our previous interaction as an excuse to get her social media/number. Stuff can be framed in different ways, and you have a big role in that. A friendly chat doesn’t become “just an excuse to get her number” unless you treat it that way yourself. If the vibe was genuinely good, asking to stay in touch is normal. The manipulative frame is coming from your own anxiety more than from anything she actually did. | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Getting super soft rejections, how to have a more assertive vibe?Irish communication can be very indirect around criticism. Like saying “I can tell you're a great planner” when the actual meaning is “your plan is shit”. | /r/seduction | 01/07/26 10:14 AM |
| 5 | If you ask for her number and she offers Instagram instead, don't fall for itIf the only way you can read interest is “she gives me her number right now or I leave,” that’s a pretty crude test. There are other IOIs besides instant compliance. Give your number, move on with your mind (don't be so thirsty), and let her show investment if she wants to. | /r/seduction | 01/07/26 10:11 AM |
| -4 | If you ask for her number and she offers Instagram instead, don't fall for itLolwut. So because you shouldn't waste time on an uninterested girl, don't give your phone number but instead ask her phone number and send her a message? This makes like 0 sense. | /r/seduction | 01/07/26 07:15 AM |
| 26 | If you ask for her number and she offers Instagram instead, don't fall for itI never take the number, I give mine. It gives her the opportunity to invest, which usually makes the interaction cleaner and more attractive. Plus, selfishly, it saves me the hassle of adding a contact for someone who may not even be interested. If she doesn’t reach out, you simply didn’t show up on her radar enough. Calling it “a tactic women use” sounds like projection, especially when we’re literally the ones gathered here dissecting tactics. | /r/seduction | 01/07/26 07:14 AM |
| 2 | Getting super soft rejections, how to have a more assertive vibe?Sounds like Irish culture. They raise concerns by giving compliments. | /r/seduction | 30/06/26 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Crowded areasGroups can actually be more easy because it's multiple people all thinking what they can say back to you. Just make sure to open with enough good energy. | /r/seduction | 30/06/26 05:06 PM |
| -2 | How do Tinder hookups work?Nah. Give number, meet up. Always give number. | /r/seduction | 30/06/26 09:38 AM |
| 10 | Need advice after sex on a first dateYeah and don't forget, best strat is to arrange the second date during the end of the first. Can even be the next day. Like my previous GF (absolute baddie) I saw 28 days in a row after meeting her for the first time. Playing hard to get is overrated. Just don't be thirsty. Be slightly hungry instead. | /r/seduction | 28/06/26 05:57 PM |
| 8 | If our thougths are not even our own? Then what is attraction.This post could be summed up as "we live in a society" | /r/seduction | 28/06/26 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Do you have to be good looking to use Tinder?Whats the last time you've used Tinder? Because I felt like it died too. But now I've launched a new account like a month ago, and it seems to have made some comeback. Although I've also changed countries, which might explain that. | /r/seduction | 26/06/26 10:43 PM |
| 3 | Do you have to be good looking to use Tinder?Yeah like even DJ Khaled aught to have photos where he looks awful, but also pictures where he is looking good. You can also be king of the gym and have ass photos. It's about the vibe you bring with those photos. | /r/seduction | 26/06/26 10:40 PM |
| 1 | How To Make Any Boring Conversation FlirtyYeah I'm happy to have helped to solve this dead internet accusation, I suppose | /r/seduction | 25/06/26 05:09 PM |
| 8 | How To Make Any Boring Conversation Flirtylol this dude actually uploads videos of him using this technique | /r/seduction | 25/06/26 03:05 PM |
| 1 | I‘m resilient and thats what you should bestoicism ftw | /r/seduction | 21/06/26 09:49 AM |
| 3 | Actually having amazing results. This is what I changedYou most probably just have mediocre photos. You pictures gotta be fire, like they show you living a fulfilling life with pleasure and might. | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 07:38 AM |
| 9 | How to Smash as Soon as You Meet HerWhat? You want advice to make it more difficult? | /r/seduction | 19/06/26 05:28 AM |
| 5 | She slept with another guy quickly, but is taking things slower with me. How should I interpret that?Yeah like this subreddit can give the most brain rot advice. Like wtf. If she is with someone else before you went into monogamy, you can actually score points by not giving a fuck about it, and to be above it. You'd be seen as a rare catch. I had a past gf have a date with some rando before we went monogamous. Dude had the same name and nationality as me even, like wtf. I didn't give a fuck, and she told me afterwards that she didn't want to open the meme I send her during her date, because I a… | /r/seduction | 18/06/26 08:25 PM |
| 6 | Focus on yourself and your ideal partner will come?I've met all my three girlfriends when I was a mess lol Luck remains a factor. And that is partly unlocked with patience. | /r/seduction | 18/06/26 04:13 AM |
| 5 | Cold approach has changed my lifeHow tf do you open?? "hey how are you doing", "you seem like a hi well spend", "I've never seen you here before, you must be new". I suppose these all work but I keep freezing irl. | /r/seduction | 17/06/26 06:12 PM |
| 1 | You can see women as equals and do wellNah, I suppose it's just that I'm this history buff that, when studying history, sees the societal benefit of emancipation. Like some people think that the way things are, is how they ought to be. Yet in the past it has been drastically different. Therefore in the future we can make it better. Simple as that. And yeah, I've had women share their relief that I'm not like a misogynist. | /r/seduction | 16/06/26 11:53 AM |
| 1 | You can see women as equals and do wellYeah, but how do you think that disparity came about? I think it’s an interesting question. If the numbers were reversed and men were getting most of the degrees, a lot of people would probably say, “well, this proves that men are simply more competent.” But I doubt you’d accept that explanation here in reverse. So maybe the issue isn’t that we’re “past equality,” but that different social pressures, expectations, and incentives are producing different outcomes. That seems more useful to talk ab… | /r/seduction | 16/06/26 09:16 AM |
| 3 | You can see women as equals and do wellWomen have equal value as people, as men do. What is so vague about that? You asked the value of what: it's the value of you as a person. | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 07:33 PM |
| 6 | You can see women as equals and do wellYou’re attacking a version of equality nobody here argued for. Equality doesn’t mean “treat every person identically in every situation.” It means equal moral worth, equal rights, and equal access to opportunities unless there’s a relevant reason to make an adjustment. Your own examples prove that. Extra time for someone with dyslexia isn’t rejecting equality, it’s how you make the opportunity more equal. Pregnancy support isn’t proof women are “unequal” as people; it’s a specific accommodation … | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 07:03 PM |
| 2 | You can see women as equals and do wellThe value of personhood. | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 06:57 PM |
| 2 | You can see women as equals and do wellIf you can explain what the difference in opinion actually is, I can explain to you how it's mysoginistic. | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 04:27 PM |
| 3 | You can see women as equals and do wellYou might be inferior in terms of experience, knowledge or reddit karma. But you're still allowed to comment here, equally like everyone else. Some men have difficulties understanding that women deserve equal opportunities too. And the downvoted comments show that. This is what this post is about. | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 04:25 PM |
| 4 | You can see women as equals and do wellEqual in value. | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Is there a version of this for making platonic friends?Then simply do kino until you can go for make out, like a real bro | /r/seduction | 13/06/26 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Is there a version of this for making platonic friends?Yeah the book is from 1936, which makes it a really timeless. Your suggestion might be slightly more modern lol. | /r/seduction | 13/06/26 08:51 AM |
| 0 | IVE HAD ENOUGH! Can someone please teach me how to Text better?!Just exclaim "fuck yeah" and then text her back with that energy | /r/seduction | 13/06/26 12:15 AM |
| 1 | What are the biggest factors that stop you from cold approaching?And how do we know that that is not some misogynist myth stemming from projection? In my experience, women date like one guy at the time, and they can even go panda for months like it's willy nilly. And this simply makes the most sense, because biologically men can reproduce as much as they want, while women have to be careful about what they will carry for 9 months. The behavioural differences this causes should be obvious. | /r/seduction | 12/06/26 09:58 PM |
| 1 | What are the biggest factors that stop you from cold approaching?My friend from highschool would love dicks. Now she fell in love with a girl. This shows that to get a girl, a dick can be redundant in it's entirety. You just have to become a pussy magician. Like get some hand grip strengtheners, watch some raunchy tutorials, and become the satyr that makes her shiver. | /r/seduction | 12/06/26 09:43 PM |
| 1 | How to smash without taking her number (actual results, not theory)Yeah, my chat list is also full of +1234567890 instead of actual names. Some get upset when they notice that. But getting added to my contacts is like LTR to me. | /r/seduction | 11/06/26 12:14 PM |
| 1 | How to smash without taking her number (actual results, not theory)Yeah, I didn't say you can fake it. It's a mindset that derives from having an actual abundance options. But if giving your number is more advanced, what makes asking a number instead recommendable for beginners? If I'm understanding you correctly. | /r/seduction | 11/06/26 06:27 AM |
| 2 | How to smash without taking her number (actual results, not theory)Oh damn, if you already have one, just use that one for sure. If you're afraid it might make things look stiff or serious, just approach her with the opposite energy and the stiff business card would rather show what a versatile person you are instead! | /r/seduction | 10/06/26 07:04 PM |
| 1 | How to smash without taking her number (actual results, not theory)Abundance mentality isn't advanced theory at all. It just means you're drowning in options. It changes mindset like night and day. | /r/seduction | 10/06/26 06:49 PM |
| 2 | How to smash without taking her number (actual results, not theory)What about handjobs while she makes out with me? This is a legit question tho. I've been there. Does this give points or not? | /r/seduction | 10/06/26 06:47 PM |
| 1 | How to smash without taking her number (actual results, not theory)How about a business card that says massage expert or some shit like that | /r/seduction | 10/06/26 06:43 PM |
| 3 | How to smash without taking her number (actual results, not theory)Yeah i always get annoyed on the dating apps when she gives her number before I do. It means I have to add the contact and everything, while normally they just shoot me a message after I’ve given mine. | /r/seduction | 10/06/26 05:42 PM |
| 6 | Unpopular opinion: 9s are overrated - a 7 with a good body is worth moreThe main take away for me is that people are able to increase our score by 2 points, which includes us 😎 | /r/seduction | 10/06/26 02:09 PM |
| 3 | Unpopular opinion: 9s are overrated - a 7 with a good body is worth moreSays who? Half the posts in this subreddit are M(24) complaining they're past their prime, lol. Double that age and plenty of ladies will have great bodies still, when talking from experience. One can argue that tits might sack, but faces also wrinkle. So I don't get where this is coming from. | /r/seduction | 10/06/26 06:01 AM |
| 0 | Unpopular opinion: 9s are overrated - a 7 with a good body is worth moreWriting something down doesn't make it true lol The number you give to her looks aught to be a total score. If her body scores 7, her face needs to score 9 to reach a total of 8. If her face scores 8, she can only get a total score of 8 if the body also scores 8. | /r/seduction | 10/06/26 05:51 AM |
| 1 | Admit to have no experience to be more confident on dates?My brother, honestly, I’d struggle to go on dates knowing sex could theoretically be on the table while having zero idea what it’s even like. Not saying it’s some magic fix, but I’d seriously consider booking an escort first, with someone independent/reputable. Not because “virgin = bad,” but because it removes the giant mystery from your head. Grab a drink with her beforehand, while don’t have to worry about rejection, you don’t have to perform confidence, and you get to find out that sex is ju… | /r/seduction | 09/06/26 06:56 PM |
| 6 | Admit to have no experience to be more confident on dates?What? A first date is like an audit combined with an activity. Leadership qualities are definitely part of that audit. | /r/seduction | 09/06/26 06:42 PM |
| 35 | Jealousy among women is realThe context is woman, jealousy and seduction. | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Why is it always "maybe" with girls.Yeah I know the feelings. Still you gotta find the balance between being respectful, and being bold. Like I tried explicitly asking for a kiss from time to time, but that tends to make it more awkward and prompts her to decline. Last time I even asked her why she declined, to which she responded I should just go for it, which I then did. What you can do instead, is doing it real slow. Just give her that look, put your fingers under her chin, and take like 5 seconds while you slowly go in for the… | /r/seduction | 06/06/26 06:52 AM |
| 0 | Why is it always "maybe" with girls.Yeah don't mind them. It's the sour side of this subrerddit, where woman are dishonest manipulative people or some bs like that. A type of energy that is the opposite of actual seducing. | /r/seduction | 06/06/26 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Why is it always "maybe" with girls.Cause you don't gotta carry nothing for 9 months. | /r/seduction | 06/06/26 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Travelling to a different country to learn Cold Approach?It's a wishful excuse. The reason why you're not able to pull the trigger is because your mind is telling you to avoid a uncomfortable risk (who doesn't play, doesn't lose). Now you've iterated it as being afraid to run in to them again in the future. It's a bs excuse as Toronto has like 3 million inhabitants. And you still have the option of approaching tourists. But the point is your mind will make up other bs excuses to keep you in the comfort zone. Like being afraid she'll scold you, people … | /r/seduction | 05/06/26 01:26 PM |
| -1 | Why Approaching Women in Real Life is a CheatcodeWhat nightclub are you visiting? We're talking about music and alcohol. Aught to be easy mode. | /r/seduction | 04/06/26 03:44 PM |
| 5 | Why Approaching Women in Real Life is a CheatcodeIf American girls are hardcore mode, then what are Irish girls? | /r/seduction | 04/06/26 03:43 PM |
| 2 | How do you safely sleep with hoes?That's Poe's Law in action | /r/seduction | 03/06/26 04:43 PM |
| -16 | How do you safely sleep with hoes?Just put on multiple condoms at once bro. I mostly put in two or three. One time I even went up to five to feel safe, but that was in Florida. A good side effect is that blood stays in your dick and makes it like rock solid. Most of the times the girls will tell me it’s weird to put on multiple condoms… but that gives me more reason to do it because they probably would say that with other hook ups too. Don’t forget to get back to us and tell us how it went! | /r/seduction | 03/06/26 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Good pick up lines/OpenersYeah most def. The trick is to do it too when it isn't convenient. As all my cold approaches have been very situational oriented, I'm upset about the ones that I didn't have a reliable canned one for. | /r/seduction | 29/05/26 03:32 PM |
| 16 | does head make penetration shorter for men?This is a classic red flag. It means he is cheating on you with his boss and is also gay. | /r/seduction | 25/05/26 01:49 PM |
| 23 | anyone ever been to an orgy?But that's like with sex in general | /r/seduction | 25/05/26 01:18 PM |
| 5 | anyone ever been to an orgy?What are some tips and tricks for organising a good orgy? Asking for a friend. | /r/seduction | 25/05/26 01:18 PM |
| 6 | Is this really all bar/club game is?I used to do this when I was 14, back in like 2007. You'd just grabbed a girls ass and started grinding, while her friends would judge you and give a thumbs up or down. Different times. | /r/seduction | 24/05/26 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Some tips with regards to sexual health?Some offer it for free. Like if you're in Brussels you can say you work for the European commission and they provide one for free, anomalously (diplomats are raunchy) In any other city, if you're male, you can just claim to have sex with other men and then get a free one also at the local LGBT clinic. | /r/seduction | 24/05/26 10:42 AM |
| 0 | Some tips with regards to sexual health?So true. Been spoiled by a long term relationship. And I tell myself to use protection next time every time, but then in the heat of the moment I can't seem to help myself. I haven't learned the hard way yet. Does anyone here have experience with STDs? | /r/seduction | 24/05/26 10:40 AM |
| 3 | What are the most distinctive signs of interest women show?Yeah why do you want to sit on my lap when there is a chair available right next to me?? /s | /r/seduction | 23/05/26 11:51 AM |
| 3 | Here's how I've successfully gotten my dates to come over to my place. Quite simple.I take her out somewhere for drinks and then bring her back to cook her a meal (home made pizza (seriously, it takes like 15 mins (excl oven time (you can keep her busy in the meantime)))) | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Probably needs to be said about looksmaxxing... Unless you're top 1%, physical looks are a feature for women, not the main courseBut don't you think that's behaviour instead of looks? | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Probably needs to be said about looksmaxxing... Unless you're top 1%, physical looks are a feature for women, not the main courseYou mean like girls can see who has autism, and are attracted to them? | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Probably needs to be said about looksmaxxing... Unless you're top 1%, physical looks are a feature for women, not the main courseWhat is ND? | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Probably needs to be said about looksmaxxing... Unless you're top 1%, physical looks are a feature for women, not the main courseI'd swear the post is saying that looks are not the main course for women. | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 10:19 PM |
| 0 | Probably needs to be said about looksmaxxing... Unless you're top 1%, physical looks are a feature for women, not the main courseI think you're confused with men, whom are able to decide in less than a second if they'd do or don't. Women don't function like that. You're projecting. | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Probably needs to be said about looksmaxxing... Unless you're top 1%, physical looks are a feature for women, not the main courseDo they enjoy the top male body as much as we enjoy the top female body? Of course they do. What is this even based on except for vibes? Trans men have said plenty times, once you transition on the testosterone, that's when you start hounding for real. | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 08:53 PM |
| -1 | Probably needs to be said about looksmaxxing... Unless you're top 1%, physical looks are a feature for women, not the main courseYou're assuming that personality and attitude cannot serve as a foot in the door. While they're actually even better than looks in such a scenario. | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 08:46 PM |
| 1 | The only flirting guide you'll ever need - techniques, mindsets, how to practice, and moreComplaining that something reads like AI actually isn’t legitimate criticism. There is no way to accurately determine what’s AI writing, and what isn’t. Therefore it’s a mere assumed opinion, why something is bad. If you want to objectively criticise the article, one should engage with its content instead. | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 01:08 PM |
| 1 | How often do you work out?Where are your rest days bro I try to go twice every three days. Giving your muscles the rest they need, yields more results. | /r/seduction | 17/05/26 07:30 PM |
| 5 | How do you get over approach hesitation in the moment?All my openers have always about the situation. I want a canned opener, but can't think of any besides "you look new". Does anyone have any good ones? | /r/seduction | 14/05/26 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Things NOT to Say to a Girl You LikeI told the girl yesterday that i could lift her with one arm as she looks like 40kg. | /r/seduction | 14/05/26 09:04 AM |
| 2 | Getting fatigued at this shitDroughts come and go, and fatigue is a natural byproduct of effort. Keep calm and carry on! | /r/seduction | 08/05/26 04:20 AM |
| 1 | So Basically Everyone is Playing The Numbers Game When It Comes To Dating?I have an issue with demonizing one gender while making the other seem like victims How ironic | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 04:46 AM |
| 0 | So Basically Everyone is Playing The Numbers Game When It Comes To Dating?You can push them out of the way with ease. Same can't be said for women. | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 06:44 AM |
| -5 | So Basically Everyone is Playing The Numbers Game When It Comes To Dating?Meanwhile, throughout history, we've got women dying in child birth after having to carry that for months. Regardless if she wanted that or not. Claiming they've got it easier is absolutely wild. | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 06:43 AM |
| 1 | For the men who have casual sex a lot, how physically attractive are you?11/10, if you ask me | /r/seduction | 02/05/26 07:01 PM |
| 8 | For those who are very experienced with women, has dating made you trust them less?I just went through it with a breakup. Metaphorically speaking (...) It was all metaphors. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 07:07 PM |
| 26 | For those who are very experienced with women, has dating made you trust them less?Can you reveal any of that in a non-metaphorical way? Like what was the candle under the curtain? | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 03:44 PM |
| 3 | Cold approaches are one of the healthiest things men can do.Wait, does this mean it doesn't matter if the approach is indirect or direct? Or does that mean direct is inadvisable (especially for big bearded men)? | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 06:16 PM |
| 14 | Cold approaches are one of the healthiest things men can do.That sounds nice in theory, but ‘be respectful and don’t have expectations’ still leaves a ton of room for interpretation. Do you say ‘Hey, I saw you and wanted to meet you’ or ‘Nice shoes, what’s your story?’ Both are respectful, neither has expectations... but your results and vibe will be completely different. Like does anyone have actual specific examples? The only few times my cold approaches were successful, it was always specifically situational. So I'd love to hear some of those weaponis… | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 06:12 PM |
| 4 | Stop treating dating/women like the 'final boss' of a video game. This attitude is a self worth issue.I feel personally attacked | /r/seduction | 19/04/26 07:32 PM |
| 7 | Why it’s important to go on dates with women you aren’t that attracted to when you are first starting out. “My opinion”Yeah shout out to Lisa. The first girl that would let me do her on the regular. I would avoid public places because her face did not make any sun rise. Great boobs and personality tho. She brought me comfort as a sexual being, which is essential in this game | /r/seduction | 18/04/26 12:03 PM |
| 1 | I don’t deserve p*ssyWhat did he say? | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 05:07 AM |
| 1 | What is your experience with 'low' chatters that dont want to chat first, but request a meeting for a drink first? meeting on dating appsCommunicating trough text is the least efficient way in getting a feel for someone’s personality. So your argument isn’t it. | /r/seduction | 10/04/26 06:24 AM |
| 2 | How important is having your own place?I can fix her 😂😂 | /r/seduction | 08/04/26 03:27 AM |
| 2 | How important is having your own place?Yesterday I had a girl from bumble on whatsapp arranging a date. She asked me if I lived alone. I replied: "No, are you looking to move in already? [cryemoji]" She replied that her bumble profile made it clear she's not looking for that and blocked me. So I went to her bumble, and told her her profile didn't make it clear, I have lived alone but didn't like it, and that I run two companies so I am quite independent, and wished her the best. She wished me the best too and unmatched me on Bumble. … | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Personal moments with my FWB that made cold approaching & reading these post well worth it .. thanks seduction!I remember my mate telling me, I must've been 17 or 18, that there is this book on how to get girls called The Game. I cannot believe it started with that cringy shit but it did for sure. | /r/seduction | 05/04/26 02:18 AM |
| 1 | You don't need more techniques or information... You've to grow a SPINE. No way around it.Love it. I can already see her head spinning about that. | /r/seduction | 04/04/26 09:23 PM |
| 1 | You don't need more techniques or information... You've to grow a SPINE. No way around it.Look! This is tactics! Thank you for this. If I might add to that, other nice tactics are showing her pictures on your phone which is an absolute opportunity to go stand closer to her, touching arms. Especially when you're sitting across her on a date, got an excuse to go sit next to her instead. Another grand trick is telling them that they aren't the type you'd usually go for, and then telling them you cannot elaborate on that. Drives them crazy. But for the fake stories, do you have like a pr… | /r/seduction | 04/04/26 09:00 PM |
| -5 | Personal moments with my FWB that made cold approaching & reading these post well worth it .. thanks seduction!PUA = pick up artist. But have you ever heard of this website called google? You should google that. | /r/seduction | 04/04/26 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Personal moments with my FWB that made cold approaching & reading these post well worth it .. thanks seduction!Hey, look at it this way. Us westerners will never be able to pull a girl by doing a seductive head wobble. | /r/seduction | 04/04/26 08:25 PM |
| 5 | Personal moments with my FWB that made cold approaching & reading these post well worth it .. thanks seduction!Idk where I would be in life without PUA theory. | /r/seduction | 04/04/26 08:23 PM |
| 1 | You don't need more techniques or information... You've to grow a SPINE. No way around it.Lets play hide and seek! I'll hide, and you seek professional help. | /r/seduction | 04/04/26 08:20 PM |
| 2 | You don't need more techniques or information... You've to grow a SPINE. No way around it.You’re describing how socially skilled people behave, not how people improve and perfect their social skills. That’s the part that actually matters. Again, I am perfectly able to hold a conversation and be charismatic while at it. It's just that I can't help but start talking about history or geopolitics or shit like that, even on the dancefloor. Your instructions won't prevent that. So tactical advice is far more valuable to me. | /r/seduction | 04/04/26 08:17 PM |
| 1 | You don't need more techniques or information... You've to grow a SPINE. No way around it.Understandably the first step is to keep your balance, so react unfazed to anything thrown your way. And also everything will get easier when you take sincerity out of the equation. I choose to play it hard instead by minding to stay honest. Also because I do have plenty of outlandish stories that I've actually lived. But do you have an example of the stuff you tell girls that you've made up? | /r/seduction | 04/04/26 08:15 PM |
| 8 | You don't need more techniques or information... You've to grow a SPINE. No way around it.Exactly. I open a group of hot girls no problem. It's just that digestible kind of small talk is not part of my algorithm. So I need tactical advice instead of strategic. | /r/seduction | 04/04/26 06:05 PM |
| 1 | what's everyone's body count here?Penis enter vagina. Vagina only gets tagged once | /r/seduction | 02/04/26 09:12 AM |
| 2 | what's everyone's body count here?63 total, 53 of those in the last 3 years. I’m +30, residing in Europe | /r/seduction | 02/04/26 09:10 AM |
| 2 | 3 Reasons Why Good Looking Guys Rarely Get The Girl They WantNo types are your gym that stand out, and everyone knows what guy you’re talking about? | /r/seduction | 30/03/26 02:26 PM |
| 6 | 3 Reasons Why Good Looking Guys Rarely Get The Girl They WantYou can have fame on a smaller scale too, like at work, at the gym, or within a hobby club. Fortune is also relative. And girls do definitely pay attention to those things. Heck, even certain infamy can pull some types. | /r/seduction | 30/03/26 12:10 PM |
| 6 | 3 Reasons Why Good Looking Guys Rarely Get The Girl They WantThey don't? Jay Z is still with Beyoncé, and he is ugly af. | /r/seduction | 30/03/26 12:04 PM |
| 29 | 3 Reasons Why Good Looking Guys Rarely Get The Girl They WantThey say that don't approach women at the gym It's a fine line between preventing autistic disaster and being a crab in a bucket. I suppose the meta is that talking to women at the gym is fine (it has loads of goddesses after all) but keeping the gym a safe space for women by being discreet with romantic/sexual intentions. | /r/seduction | 30/03/26 12:02 PM |
| 5 | Advice for a loner?If you wanna meet people, choose a nice hostel instead. Loads of girls too! Then join a pub crawl. You don't need any friends whatsoever! | /r/seduction | 29/03/26 04:33 PM |
| 1 | How do you handle dead chats when girls suddenly go cold and stop responding?Again, the point is displaying courage. The courage can be tested, to see how real it is. It might break. So the simple thing is not to break it. Then it's real courage, and there is nothing to see trough. Just learn to be confident. | /r/seduction | 25/03/26 06:10 PM |
| 0 | How do you handle dead chats when girls suddenly go cold and stop responding?They are indeed shameful. But doing shameful shit while maintaining frame is a great display of courage. | /r/seduction | 25/03/26 06:02 PM |
| 2 | How do you handle dead chats when girls suddenly go cold and stop responding?Gifs also work great. I've gotten girls to respond, just as an example, with "mr bean waiting"-gif, although that's more online dating territory where ghosting happens in an unconscious way. | /r/seduction | 25/03/26 06:00 PM |
| 5 | How do you handle dead chats when girls suddenly go cold and stop responding?Special recipe that I use is to make a shoddy photoshop. Works with anything, really. Reference something you've spoken about. Like for example, if you've spoken about pizza, photoshop cut out picture of you and her together, add pizza.png and get some ridiculous picture or nice location as background. The sillier, the better. Girls go really good on those and it has def gotten me laid a few times. Oh, and photopea.com is basically professional photoshop for free. | /r/seduction | 25/03/26 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Would you get into serious relationship if the girl has previous experience of ONS/FWBobv. I mean, I can invite anyone and have let mediocre women into my bedroom without ever meeting them beforehand, due to plain boredom. Women won't do that because their instinct tells them they can only reproduce 4 times in 3 years max-max, where men can reproduce more than 4 times every day. Also women have more to fear from men than visa versa, due to men being both stronger and thirstier. Still, a decent women can go on a date with a total 10/10 stud, have the best time, and then naturally … | /r/seduction | 24/03/26 01:11 PM |
| 6 | Would you get into serious relationship if the girl has previous experience of ONS/FWBYet counties aren’t monolith neither. Lots of sexists in western countries believing outdated bs, while my bumble was also humming fine during my trip to Morocco. | /r/seduction | 24/03/26 10:14 AM |
| 4 | Would you get into serious relationship if the girl has previous experience of ONS/FWBInteresting how vague you keep that. Because what difference dictates that one shouldn’t tolerate their woman to have had this kind of past experience? | /r/seduction | 24/03/26 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Casual Dating Biosjust fucking swipe her off fuck I can’t tell if you mean swiping to decline or swiping to accept. you kinda want the guy to be a provider and protector like in the 50s, buuuut you also want all the good new stuff And what’s the conflict in that? Maybe explain what “all the good new stuff” entails? | /r/seduction | 22/03/26 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Casual Dating BiosAsk them. Every time I’ve asked someone what they meant by that, they were genuinely unaware as they had it displayed in some other language where it meant something different, or because dating platform change the displayed text in those tags all the time. Just talk to them. In my experience 50% of them put NO ONS because they keep failing to resist those. Get them on a date. Do one drink per venue. Find the timing to kiss them. Come up with an excuse to bring them home (I’m going home to cook … | /r/seduction | 22/03/26 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Is getting hot girls still fun if you’re a late bloomer? Like a virgin in your 20s or older?Rating is subjective, bro. All my exes are total 10s | /r/seduction | 21/03/26 10:49 PM |
| -1 | Tips for a 45m who is attracted by 20 and 30 years old in the UK.Ask yourself why you disliked the more mature women first. How mature are you yourself for example? | /r/seduction | 21/03/26 06:37 PM |
| 1 | What is the best dating app for meeting quality girls?Interesting how someone barely using said product gets the top comment trashing said comment | /r/seduction | 21/03/26 04:55 PM |
| 5 | What's the right strategy?Idk if fastfood is average decent. An average decent meal is fine. I’d advice to do both, but mainly what you feel like. I wouldn’t want to eat Michelin dinner every day either. | /r/seduction | 15/03/26 10:06 PM |
| 20 | When a girl goes to bed with you but says no to sexStop assuming insincerity. Because your reaction should be an unbothered one regardless. | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 08:54 AM |
| 1 | What’s The Best Way To Approach Women in The Gym?/s | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 07:06 AM |
| 2 | If you had to pick a career to meet women, what would you choose?That’s me! 😎 | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 06:35 AM |
| 0 | If you had to pick a career to meet women, what would you choose?Man go watch the rehearsal season 2. It runs into some issues | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 06:34 AM |
| 1 | If you had to pick a career to meet women, what would you choose?Sorry to hear that bro. Good you got rid of her | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 06:34 AM |
| 0 | If you had to pick a career to meet women, what would you choose?I’ve used to deliver pizzas, so it would feel very very familiar. Because you’re allowed to smell, but not to taste. | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 06:32 AM |
| 7 | Mainland Chinese girls don't seem interested once on date?Had a Chinese girl invite me over one night after we matched on bumble. Was going there assuming to get some, but on arrival she told me she refrained from even touching on the first meet. I was a bit pushy and did manage to get an arm around her, but that was it. We arranged another date for tea the next day at my place, when we did kiss. She left for a party but then messaged me late at night if she could come over again. We went on to meet each other 28 days in a row, and she became my gf for… | /r/seduction | 12/03/26 10:25 AM |
| 1 | What is the best way to text girls for a ONS?HYGE FYVE!! 🖐🏼 | /r/seduction | 12/03/26 05:57 AM |
| 3 | Kissing and making out on date is rookie moveFirst time I read someone saying XP on this subreddit and now I'm imagining a "Level increased!" message randomly appearing after arranging a date, getting that kiss or making her cum. | /r/seduction | 10/03/26 07:29 PM |
| 4 | Im deleting dating appsThat's the same logic as you being on reddit proving you cannot find content or people to talk to irl. Dating app is a tool. It can make you complacent, indeed. But for me, like only 1/5th of the girls I've hooked up with came from IRL. I love to use bumble on my desktop. It can be like a buffet sometimes. And what is especially impactful is creating shoddy yet creative photoshops with both her and my pictures, referencing the banter that's going on. Or like the free version: photopea. | /r/seduction | 07/03/26 10:32 PM |
| 9 | Most men talk about the wrong topicsYeah, what is your type? I'm barely able to answer that either. Instead, ask about character traits. | /r/seduction | 07/03/26 03:17 AM |
| 3 | Most men talk about the wrong topicsI had a girl telling me she once fell and got used by this boy, because he talked about how romantic relationships aught to work at a dinner gathering. Met the boy later and he was a total dork. | /r/seduction | 07/03/26 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Best city in the EU to be single?About half of girls don’t speak English tho. Although that does keep me from talking about politics and shit during the date, as my vocabulary is at toddler level. | /r/seduction | 05/03/26 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Is it common that fwb girls will be monogamous with a guy even though you're seeing others?Yeah, it's funny because this sub can give healthy advice. But other times, its equally cynical incel bs | /r/seduction | 05/03/26 01:16 AM |
| 6 | Dating apps seems to be a lot easier if done rightNah you can be the prettiest boy, but if it's all bedroom selfies, few women are going to go with that. Some ugly Jay Z looking mf showing what cool life he lives, will get Beyonce. | /r/seduction | 04/03/26 08:54 PM |
| 5 | Which cities in Europe have you had the most consitently positive experiences dating?Barcelona is fucking great. Huge pool overall. Short attention spans is all. | /r/seduction | 04/03/26 08:36 PM |
| 5 | Is it common that fwb girls will be monogamous with a guy even though you're seeing others?ITT: Men unable to imagine that woman, unlike men, don't want to fuck everything that moves. | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 09:06 AM |
| 12 | Anyone notice patterns in the girls they attract?For some reason, many of them are traumatized workaholics | /r/seduction | 02/03/26 05:55 PM |
| 4 | When a girl asks for your Instagram while texting, is that a shit test?Yeah it would be a weird claim that the value people perceive in you is unrelated to your IG. They go hand in hand. So either you improve your IG pictures .. or you tell them you don't have one. But also, to answer your original question, you also cannot conclude anything from why they're asking for it. Safest to assume she's just want to know what it looks like. | /r/seduction | 28/02/26 08:54 AM |
| 5 | I was out with a girl, and all of the sudden she had to sneeze. Is this a shit test?Yeah that was also my initial thought. Why else would she sneeze like that? | /r/seduction | 28/02/26 08:47 AM |
| 2 | Women become assholes when I pursue their friend after they rejected meIronic comment as your take isn’t original either. A far more important factors are that, unlike men, woman are far more likely to get judged, slut shamed, for sharing a bed. Dating also carries greater risks for women. And lastly, unlike many men, woman don’t gain validation from sleeping around. This means chaste is simply the safer choice for women. It’s your challenge to deal with this phenomena. Saying women lack the ability for original thought rather sounds like some incel cope. | /r/seduction | 27/02/26 03:49 PM |
| 1 | I am glad this community exists.Honestly, idk where I would be in life without that PUA theory laying the rails | /r/seduction | 26/02/26 10:29 PM |
| 3 | Night game sober is soo much harder but it’s got to be done.Like saying it's impossible to complete a video game on the hardest difficulty setting. Yet plenty of people still achieve so. | /r/seduction | 26/02/26 12:54 PM |
| 3 | 5 rejections in a monthYeah you need good pictures, showing yourself to have fun in life. | /r/seduction | 26/02/26 11:15 AM |
| 1 | 5 rejections in a monthJust use online dating bro. No boyfriends nowhere, supposedly. | /r/seduction | 26/02/26 10:19 AM |
| 1 | An innocent man was attacked and humiliated after a woman falsely accused him of trying to steal her bag, only to later claim she was “confused” when police found his belongings and ID inside.It always mixes. Everything does. The field of intersectionality goes into this. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/26 02:32 PM |
| -1 | How Do You Know If “I Have a Boyfriend” Means She’s Not Interested or Just Testing You?I mean, the respectful thing is to accept, because why you'd want to be with a person that test you this way? But the witty thing to say is either: "how long have you had that problem?", or "do you benchmark?" | /r/seduction | 24/02/26 02:37 PM |
| 3 | My FWB said “is that all you care about is pussy?” .. all i’m saying is, guys never forget about the friend part!The whole point is that they don’t need to be separated. But they do need to be both there. | /r/seduction | 22/02/26 07:13 AM |
| 26 | My FWB said “is that all you care about is pussy?” .. all i’m saying is, guys never forget about the friend part!Yeah. Fwb is a type of relationship | /r/seduction | 22/02/26 07:11 AM |
| -5 | My FWB said “is that all you care about is pussy?” .. all i’m saying is, guys never forget about the friend part!Nah. Be better | /r/seduction | 22/02/26 07:10 AM |
| 4 | How I Get Girls To Come Straight Over (Vid Proof)Doesn’t read like that to me | /r/seduction | 17/02/26 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Girls and nicotineYeah too bad that cigarettes is all and everything I have to offer /s | /r/seduction | 13/02/26 01:21 PM |
| 10 | how i manage to get girls to come over directly from dating apps with no effortThis subreddit is so back | /r/seduction | 08/02/26 11:45 PM |
| 0 | Slept with 65 girls last year.. here’s what I learnedIf you think the content on this subreddit is mere brag, then you using the term incel must be pure projection. | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 06:17 PM |
| 5 | Slept with 65 girls last year.. here’s what I learnedWould you like to post a pic of yourself? | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 03:52 PM |
| 4 | I went out with an 'expert' - still really feels like a numbers game though, tbhI'm like a fumbling pro. Comes with the autism I suppose. Still yield results tho, so not complaining. | /r/seduction | 23/01/26 10:40 PM |
| 1 | The Fastest Shortcut To Success - How To Take Responsibility For Yourself And OthersHere is AI tl;rd Responsibility = your ability to respond. Whatever you fully take responsibility for comes under your control; whatever you blame on others does not. Take ownership first, then build competence. Responsibility without competence causes damage; competence without responsibility goes nowhere. A responsible person: Owns outcomes Builds skill Knows limits Acts without preference or whining Gives full effort Serves others with integrity and compassion Results follow responsibility: H… | /r/seduction | 21/01/26 03:18 PM |
| 3 | Making out on a dateI always feel the pressure to go in for a kiss asap, but notice this is probably due to being anxious for a bit of validation. But it works best to simply not go in for a make out, and let her anticipation simmer for as long as it takes until you get her into bedroom distance. In the meantime, you can tease her. Tell her "give me a kiss" and then it's just give her a little peck on the lips. Shows you to be grounded instead of needing that validation. | /r/seduction | 19/01/26 08:03 PM |
| 13 | She is testing me. What would you do?Be like water | /r/seduction | 13/01/26 05:53 PM |
| 3 | Ultimate hidden hack to attract woman - energyDepends. If you're on the same wavelength about commitment, as in lack thereof, then it's easy peazy. Like someone you see around 10 times a year. But most women (i'm in my 30s) will be looking for more connection, and aim to meet like 10 times a month even. And if you're upfront about the lack of long-term ambitions, the success rate is likely to drop considerably. I might do 3 fwb max, but they tend to have an expiration date, like right after we start to talk about what we're doing (:being fw… | /r/seduction | 12/01/26 06:34 PM |
| 1 | How to not get jaded/jealous of how easy women have it ?You mean like a one-way settle thing? You settled with her, but she not with you? | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 07:33 PM |
| 0 | How to not get jaded/jealous of how easy women have it ?Yes, and all that is why it's thoughtless to go "hurr durr, women can fuck anyone", because you're ignoring all the other shit women have to worry about. | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 07:32 PM |
| -1 | How to not get jaded/jealous of how easy women have it ?Doesn't seem so selective if they settled with a desperate guy. | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 07:29 PM |
| 0 | How to not get jaded/jealous of how easy women have it ?There are loads of horror stories I've personally heard by simply talking about this stuff. On what do you base this bet? | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 07:24 PM |
| 1 | How to not get jaded/jealous of how easy women have it ?And there is tons of ugly chicks that will settle. Did you settle for an ugly chick? | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 07:19 PM |
| 0 | How to not get jaded/jealous of how easy women have it ?She can also get overpowered much easier | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 07:16 PM |
| -1 | How to not get jaded/jealous of how easy women have it ?maybe less quality ones but they do have more options Options that compromise your safety aren't to be considered viable options, are they? | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 07:15 PM |
| -2 | How to not get jaded/jealous of how easy women have it ?If a woman becomes insisting in a physical way, I will just knock her the fuck over. Because men are far more powerful. You're missing this aspect completely. | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 07:14 PM |
| 1 | How to not get jaded/jealous of how easy women have it ?A man can reproduce multiple times a day. A woman can't by far. You're implementing your own standards on people that also have to worry about safety and quality. "Never stick your dick in crazy" is like 10 times more important for women. Not having to worry about all of that makes dating far more easy for men. | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 07:10 PM |
| -1 | How to not get jaded/jealous of how easy women have it ?“Let them eat cake”? Kinda ironic considering your comment seem to be out of touch, at least as much. Obviously women are going to be more selective then men. I don't have to worry if she gets aggressive, because I will win the fight with my superior strength. I can also decide to run away if she gets pregnant and never have to get an abortion (which can be traumatizing for those that do not know). Yet here y'all whining how women have it so much easier. | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 07:02 PM |
| 9 | How do I stop caring?That's some Camus energy: the philosophy of absurdism. Basically we're always looking for meaning, yet the cosmos provides none. Therefore we are entirely free to construct our own meaning. Then we can share that meaning in a positive way with others, in ways that reduce harm and add value. | /r/seduction | 29/12/25 12:31 PM |
| 3 | 20+ Hinge dates , 0 second dates [ SF ]Isn't that what people mean with "fuck racist people"? | /r/seduction | 28/12/25 07:57 AM |
| 2 | Hinge response helpUgh plz no. It’s far from the worse, but it’s still simpesque with better options available | /r/seduction | 24/12/25 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Is it weird to hook up with your ex?Extremism is a hell of a drug | /r/seduction | 23/12/25 11:21 AM |
| 8 | Is it weird to hook up with your ex?A man is allowed look at the menu as long as he dines at home | /r/seduction | 23/12/25 11:20 AM |
| 5 | Is it weird to hook up with your ex?Now that I think of it, none of my three exes stopped receiving right after breakup | /r/seduction | 23/12/25 11:18 AM |
| 5 | Girl does not want to come over yet?Nah she is obviously cheating on you bro. Just forgot about her. I mean, she receives all that snapchat attention from you over the span of an entire week, and now she still doesn’t want to retire to your dwelling. I’ve never seen something this disrespectful in my life. I’d go straight to permanent celebacy if I was you, as to protest this outrageous behaviour. That will teach them! Btw, have you read the rules of this subreddit? Especially rule 1 is an interesting one. | /r/seduction | 18/12/25 08:39 AM |
| 10 | I think I'm deleting TinderI get like 90% of my girls though online dating. Main thing is that, in my experience, tinder is out of fasion. Go to hinge or bumble instead! | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 03:51 PM |
| 4 | I think I'm deleting TinderHinge and Tinder are the same group. But bumble is a different one. | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 03:46 PM |
| 6 | How do you react when another guy uses you to score pointsWhen they say something, you gotta say something back that is like super smart and funny and turns the optics around | /r/seduction | 06/12/25 09:02 AM |
| 1 | Do you go cold approaching alone? I'm especielly interested in night game.Man, I think you’re being paranoid here. Like if anyone would start a fuss, it’s easy to defuse such a situation by simply explaining you mean no harm in a apologetic manner, while putting up a sad eyes with that tense smile. Defusing and getting yourself off the hook is a skill thats easily mastered. This might make it more complex, but it’s still a resource I’d like to share: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interpersonal_circumplex Besides, if anyone is psychotic enough to do prison time because… | /r/seduction | 02/12/25 09:44 AM |
| 3 | When dealing with friends with benefits, should convo be limited to only setting up meets?Nah you’re confusing friends with benefits with something else, like unfamiliar people with benefits or some shit | /r/seduction | 01/12/25 06:10 PM |
| 3 | The theory on "Non-neediness" in practiceThe difference between neediness and abundance is visible in the mindset after getting rejected: “this rejection is unfair to me and therefore upsetting” vs “meh, her loss” | /r/seduction | 30/11/25 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Is there a way to boost self esteem?When you're at a place, just imagine you're the owner coming to see if everything is humming alight. | /r/seduction | 26/11/25 07:57 PM |
| 5 | Tall girls are an untapped resourceI once had a girl that was my exact same hight. It was weird, I didn't like it. | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 09:46 AM |
| 28 | What do you talk about on first dates?You need to be super relaxt first. You can't flirt tense. So be in the moment by disregarding any desires. Then, a simple start, is laser focus eye contact. Keep a faint smile like you're happy to see her, you desire her, but are still able to disregard that same desire. Does that make sense? | /r/seduction | 16/11/25 05:12 PM |
| 52 | What do you talk about on first dates?The politics behind the Spanish Civil war, obviously | /r/seduction | 16/11/25 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Serious question: does watching the hottest and most intense porn actually affect you somehow? Like getting desensitized by it?Like how much were you using for life to get boring? | /r/seduction | 07/11/25 11:58 AM |
| 99 | Just watched my natural friend open a set (a girl and her boyfriend) and it was beautiful.Unknown technology | /r/seduction | 01/11/25 06:39 AM |
| 8 | She’s telling you about her problems with another guy? Bro, you’re already in the friendzone.Such a common conversation lol: They suck! -They can't be that bad They are, they even did ABC -Ok, seems like you were right! | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 06:49 AM |
| 7 | She’s telling you about her problems with another guy? Bro, you’re already in the friendzone.If a girl has a crush on you, don't you think it would be super rude to go to her and ask her advice on other girls? Like I can see that happening as a tease, with clear tongue in cheek. But asking for geninue advice? Super rude. If in such a situation, your concern is still not to be rude yourself, you're simply behaving like a lap dog. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 06:46 AM |
| 4 | been thinking about moving to thailand and making one night stands part of my daily routineYou’re actually using prep? I suppose this subreddit isn’t heteronormative. | /r/seduction | 19/10/25 07:27 AM |
| 7 | been thinking about moving to thailand and making one night stands part of my daily routineThe ladyboys! Duh | /r/seduction | 19/10/25 07:26 AM |
| 1 | I got laid"percentage chance contracting hiv vaginal sex" Yeah, it's a very interesting fact that few people know! | /r/seduction | 16/10/25 08:00 PM |
| -1 | I got laidYeah I don't think that's really a thing anymore in 2025. There have been gigantic leaps in medical technology. You can acutually see how much the concern has died down, as freshman aged students don't even know what Aids is anymore. Let alone the low likelyhood of contracting it trough vaginal sex (0.04%). Has anyone ever contracted anything here? Altough I'd still reccomend to anyone to use protection. | /r/seduction | 16/10/25 07:51 PM |
| -3 | I got laidJust asking about the prevalence. No responses yet. | /r/seduction | 16/10/25 07:40 PM |
| -17 | I got laidI gotta ask tho, for a friend! Someone who only manages to unwrap the protection if she insists, because of... reasons. Never had issues tho, and get tested regularly. Has anyone here ever catched one? | /r/seduction | 16/10/25 11:10 AM |
| 1 | How many times a week should you go out with girls?let me be | /r/seduction | 11/10/25 05:32 PM |
| 3 | How many times a week should you go out with girls?When I met my last ex, we saw each other 28 days in a row. Was fine. All you need is the time and energy, and a girl that’s worthwhile. | /r/seduction | 11/10/25 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Tips for breaking the touch barrier?One trick is to mention something that you've got photos of on your phone. Then you can stand or sit besides them, bodies touch, to show said pics. Is really usefull when you're sitting across her, and want to change that. | /r/seduction | 06/10/25 08:26 PM |
| 3 | Software engineers and girlsYeah I also need to know about pastry chefs and ferris wheel operators. Are they skilled with girls and a good fuck? Can someone please make a generalising statement based on profession, completely ignoring how diverse individuals can be in particular? Thanks! /s | /r/seduction | 28/09/25 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Why does this girl resist all physical affection?Why would she give him a condom | /r/seduction | 23/09/25 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Why does this girl resist all physical affection?If you're on date 4 without touching, you've done a lously job in that field. I'm here to motivate OP to do a better job. What is your goal? | /r/seduction | 23/09/25 12:07 PM |
| 3 | Why does this girl resist all physical affection?I've literally been there. Girl insisting that touching on the first date is off limits. We ended up cuddling, and the gate way to that was an arm around her back when sitting next to each other. The trick is to go about it like it is the most normal thing ever, and she is the one being weird. What's your experience, mr fantasy? | /r/seduction | 23/09/25 11:45 AM |
| 3 | Why does this girl resist all physical affection?Go for an arm around her back next time. If she shuts you down, call her behaviour out for being weird, and insist that on the 5th date, touch is just an important element, that you've held hands on the first date plenty of times, and if she can't see that, that you're wasting your time playing her games. | /r/seduction | 23/09/25 07:53 AM |
| 12 | Why does this girl resist all physical affection?These are all negative assumptions. Shit advice with zero substance. Why don't you assume she is just anxious instead? Or she is afraid to be too slutty, insecure about her body, and thinks she'll lose the guy after handing him the booty? Why would you rule these possibilities out? | /r/seduction | 23/09/25 07:48 AM |
| 12 | Girls are being approached less than you might thinkSome people just make the "hello human recources?"-meme their world view | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 06:01 AM |
| 11 | How to cure validation-addictionThis scenario we might know all: the conversation goes silent, and you think, oh no! what should I say or ask next? She might find me boring! Instead, during that silence, think: how much do I enjoy her company? | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 12:13 PM |
| 3 | Do you want a legit super power that doesn’t involve pickup lines?No one knows these exact stats. Thats why we're all here. But dancing aught to help a lot, if you can do it with strenght, skill and confidence. | /r/seduction | 08/09/25 02:27 PM |
| 1 | In your experience how often do girls sleep with multiple guys at once?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qDii69YCh_Q | /r/seduction | 06/09/25 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Made out with a girl who likes me but we didn’t have sex.But bro. You making this post shows outcome dependency. You’ll fumble that way. Try to stay above the situation by removing her as a priority, and instead point your focus to your hobby, job, friends or even other girls. | /r/seduction | 06/09/25 07:34 AM |
| 6 | How to become more attractive as a manI got this 3 day routine. Day 1: hit core, chest, shoulders and triceps Day 2: hit back, legs, biceps and forearms Day 3: rest day (mostly more than one day, depending on my scheduale and energy lol) Train until failure. The goal is to rip your muscles appart by pushing them to their failure limit. Find the weight you're able to do around 8 reps with. I do 3 sets, but you can also do 4. Keep track of reached weight trough notes. Then, over the days (that is what I do at least) increase your reps… | /r/seduction | 31/08/25 05:40 AM |
| -1 | Question: if I (woman) want to be picked up during daytime, how do I make myself available?Guys want to feel useful Like this: https://youtu.be/ucglA9Vv_Ys | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 06:25 AM |
| 3 | How did y'all beaten your lust and p addiction?Drinking beer is also normal. Therefore alcoholism is fake! /s | /r/seduction | 26/08/25 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Fake muscle suits for dating?Yeah this totally works bro. I got like 8 girls texting me when I’m finally going to fuck them, bro. They’re totally yearning for me, bro, because I’ve got the realistic muscle body suit. But you gotta understand, bro, I cannot fuck them, because then they’ll find out about the realistic muscle body suit. It’s a total curse, bro. Run, while you still can, bro! | /r/seduction | 25/08/25 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Does almost having sex but being both too tired mean there’s no chance for a second round?I mean, depends entirely on the guy. Only one way to find out. Just remember that profit is mostly gained trough taking risks. | /r/seduction | 25/08/25 01:58 PM |
| 33 | Does almost having sex but being both too tired mean there’s no chance for a second round?Before he leaves this weekend. I’m dressing cute and leaving my bedroom door open suggestively This is some incest porn shit On a serious note, all you need to do is isolate him. Just tell him you need him to fix something on your computer, or whatever bs excuse. Then, when you're alone, just give him that look, or start rubbing him. Expecting him to just walk in because the door was open instead, is too ambiguous and gives high chance of disappointment. | /r/seduction | 25/08/25 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approach Will SAVE YOU.Kinda. Like, you're asking for their time and attention. That's a bother. And the same happens when people ask something from you. Yet that is how society works. If no one was to bother anyone, nothing would ever happen. Cells consume, Morty. Life itself is wrong, and that means death is right. But you can’t side with that. So you live, even when it means eating. | /r/seduction | 24/08/25 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Talked to a cute girl, and complemented her… what next?Yeah sure thing. Go for that "I want to kiss you"-energy. That's def what girls are looking for! /s Instead, you can also treat her like a normal human being, and not like a glass of water for someone thirsty af. | /r/seduction | 20/08/25 12:11 PM |
| 8 | Watching pron and wasting energy instead of going after girls & goalsMaybe he's talking about wasting his energy watching videos of Patricio Pron https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EPwgujewpCE | /r/seduction | 19/08/25 05:42 PM |
| 4 | Dealing With Mr Nice Guy SyndromeI just wanna share how I figured to flip the script lately. When you feel that anxiety when the convo dies down, that you might bore her and start thinking what to say next to keep her entertained ... instead think: she is boring me. | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 06:40 AM |
| 27 | If a guy goes in for a kiss on a first date and she turns her head…100% bs. Multiple times. Some girls simply plan on it happening a later date. Recently even, she was like: I’m not ready yet, only for me to run into her at the gym two weeks later, and her inviting me to her place to make breakfast for me. | /r/seduction | 16/08/25 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Date with a 47 years old latina milfYeah. That’s comedy. Not real advice. Posting it dry like that on this sub, won’t offer the help people are looking for. | /r/seduction | 16/08/25 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Date with a 47 years old latina milfShare the Instagram video where this is from | /r/seduction | 16/08/25 11:08 AM |
| 2 | Date with a 47 years old latina milfFirst off, afaik it’s against the subreddit policy to ask advice for a specific person. Having said that: have zero expectations. Invite her for whatever, and make it that you want to merely probe her, because you’re exclusive. This can also be done trough video call. If the meetup/video call is nice, casually invite her with reason: like you’ve got this wine bottle that you opened yesterday that still needs to be finished before it goes sour. | /r/seduction | 16/08/25 11:05 AM |
| 1 | I just pulled a woman with huge boobs & shes all mine, Thanks seduction!boobs | /r/seduction | 03/08/25 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Why is escalating to sex on dates so difficult?"If they wanted to hire me, it woudn't have mattered how the job interview went." -me, after fumbling a job interview | /r/seduction | 31/07/25 08:45 AM |
| 6 | Why is escalating to sex on dates so difficult?You sound thirsty. That'll give women the ick. You have to become more outcome independent. | /r/seduction | 31/07/25 08:41 AM |
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