The Pool Boy is a SNL skit from 10 years ago, here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gn2933vMylY

Whenever a girl behaves in a way that makes me confused, uncertain or anxious, I just think about the pool boy. He is a complete fool, but also 100% grounded. The pool boy doesn't ask for attention or affirmation, because he has his own life, that's about cleaning pools and gawking at dead rats. There isn't a shit test he'll fail.

Use the pool boy energy to stay grounded!