This is a good conversation starter

becomesharp · 2025-11-09T09:34:25+00:00

It's okay. It's not going to do wonders for you, but anything that gets you talking to women is good. Most women are not going to be super excited to take a photo of a stranger, even if she says yes, and she's also going to wonder why you didnt just take a selfie.

Might make a bit more sense if youre standing in front of a huge tourist attraction, but that severely limits the applicability of this opener.

ComplexTell25 · 2025-11-09T09:25:37+00:00

Okay, then what to do next? Or, how to move things forward?

Rhino3750ss · 2025-11-09T13:43:55+00:00

I find "hello" to be an excellent ice breaker. Her response will make it clear if she wants to stop and talk or not, and if she is open to conversation you can use anything about the present moment for material.

You don't necessarily need anything premeditated, everything depends on how you speak, not what you speak. All that matters is appearing preselected and patient as if you can easily do better.

For example, that play where you ask a girl to take a picture of you CAN work if you speak low and slow with patience as if it's no big deal if she refuses.

If you use that same line with any type of "try hard" energy or urgency in your tone or cadence or body movements that signals a need to make the play work or that you will be butt hurt if she refuses, she will be out real quick if not pulling out the mace.

ElBajitoGordito · 2025-11-09T09:55:21+00:00

If you see her taking a photo, or you have a camera on you, its a tourist attraction etc. I think its a playful next step, it shows leadership, competence, artistry you can put her in frame of modelling for you. But some lower stakes warm up conversation to build investment/hook seems more calibrated.

Brilliant_Travel3587 · 2025-11-09T10:05:23+00:00

I did this years ago. Works for just socialisation but not for seduction. My coaches always advised me to only do direct game because she knows that you want to sleep with her and not ‘just be friends’.

BurnItDownSR · 2025-11-09T15:39:07+00:00

Do it at least 20 times first before you come to any conclusion.

I don't doubt that you've experienced the benefit of doing this at least once and I have dated girls who I met through asking them to take my picture but it's not as big of a deal as you think it is.

Few_Competition_1989 · 2025-11-09T11:18:57+00:00

It's cool if you're scared to be direct with your intentions but you'll eventually realize that friendly openers and conversations are a waste of time, learning to take the rejections early is a more efficient way to go about approaching women.

Title	This is a good conversation starter
Author	S-Tier_Commenter
Upvotes	19
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Date	November 9, 2025 9:23 AM UTC (8 months ago)
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