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| 5 | Questions to improve my game - infield reflectionsYou probably never had any prolonged street approaches. I had a number of situations, not all, but some, when girls do open up if you persist. Check this by Krauser. He persisted and got a number to show on date. If he is a creep, then most of the guys are fucking bottomless spine worms, because he is actually quite good at PUA. I don't go above 2 tries normally, depending on the situation, not more than 3 absolutely, if I am warming up and for beginners it's absolutely necessary to plow. You pr… | /r/seduction | 20/11/21 10:11 PM |
| 2 | Questions to improve my game - infield reflectionsRight. I've been daygaming for quite some time, bro. Sounds much better than incel shooting yoga pants class allegations awaiting you. | /r/seduction | 20/11/21 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Questions to improve my game - infield reflectionsWhat? | /r/seduction | 20/11/21 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Questions to improve my game - infield reflectionsDude, my approach/lay ratio leads to ~2 girls a month from daygame. I know the shit, l'right? | /r/seduction | 20/11/21 03:01 PM |
| 4 | Questions to improve my game - infield reflectionsJudging by your responses, you are nowhere close to understanding the depth of the questions. "Leave her alone." is such a superficial reaction to a more profound question concerning both outer AND inner reaction to interpret, not to mention such a defeatist view of giving up, that I wonder what kind of success with girls do you have, mate. Probably none. | /r/seduction | 20/11/21 03:00 PM |
| 1 | The last line of defense for the female imperative against daygamer mentality - spiritual?Not sure to what specifically you relate: to my question, or to the average redpiller on the Internet. Because I don't think this ^ cycle is anything else, but a learning process (with some adjustments to the context of learning from online community in an area, which is highly tabooed and misinformed in the society). At least, when I did first approaches, I did very mechanical (on an academic level), and then I slowly got to somewhere, where I could at least be more "normal" (which I'd rather c… | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Is there anyone here who actually went from "Zero to Hero"? Anyone who went through massive dry periods, but then started dating with ease? How did you do it?Not an MPUA. Just average success, given my relatively high natural SMV that I anti-gamed to hell. But I can share a story. I had a terrible day (and then other mini-versions of it). It went like this: terrible mood, highly valued ego, feeling like "I am hot as fuuuuck", and then 20 rejections in a row, like ignored, or "Why you touch me?? [implying perv]", or sidestepping my front stops, being bitchy and all that, making me wanna like rage. All the way, tried to maintain a good posture. Fucking… | /r/seduction | 06/05/21 04:20 PM |
| 2 | I'm Neglecting My PurposeYes. That's the game. I also have that "some bitchy 9 or 10 looked the wrong (that is, unattracted to me) way" inciting my inner demons to rawr like mad, chasing the skirt like a maniac. That is, even though I have a 7-8 under my belly sucking my dick well any time I want. That's like, this bitchy kick-starter motivation is soo deeply and physiologically in-built (that is, the dominance status chasing and chasing for the top sexual attractiveness in women), that given the right personality (that… | /r/seduction | 06/05/21 03:58 PM |
| 1 | The dark side of daygame masteryHi, yes, thanks for the post. I feel like striving towards the game mastery, including techniques, seduction, theory, philosophy, and psychology of it all. That's something that kept me motivated to get from the pit hole I was in just a couple years ago. And now, I feel like I am falling into another pithole (or fallen already, considering that I am now emotionally unease for breaking up with her) of relationships, which make me bounded, in some way. I hate that. And I hate that I may not simply… | /r/seduction | 06/05/21 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Relationships & Daygame learning benefitsDirect like in LDM - these start with opener, stack + sexual intention as a direct part, but I try to make these indirect as in by implying direct sexual intention in words | /r/seduction | 05/05/21 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Mainstream PUA is significantly lacking in a strategic/mission viewBut then, there's also a level slightly below that - the recognition of oneself not only as a PUA and a player, but also as a man with a strategic view of the relationships. I mean, having a harem, having one-night stands, or having open relationships, or having monogamy and marriage - are only a set of arrangements, with their pros and cons. In financial management, you have several types of derivative contracts, loan types, each just an instrument. You could apply the same logic to relationshi… | /r/seduction | 12/04/21 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Stop putting her before your goalsUnfortunately, you mean a K-route. And this route, is good for SMV value building. But, it's bad for hedonism and female psychology awareness. The most effective seducers are worthless socially (take, mumble rappers, 90% of rock stars, porn stars, etc.) This is r-selected. At the level of archetypes, this corresponds to having a strong Lover archetype (which is of hedonism, love, women and sex) against Warrior/Magician/King (which are about the disciplined work). I've been both. Arguably, the r-… | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Natural wit and charm seems to disappear when I try to sexually escalate with women...Seduction (including flirting and sexualising escalations) is a stage, coming after comfort (mundane chit-chat), which comes after attraction (where you banter the girl, like "You have nice red shoes. They make you look like a lazy cat" or some bollocks). Besides, ^ these three stages are somewhat like parallel (with more attraction needed in the first, than in the marriage, but still needed). So, check this also. But also - check the girl's interest. Sparking eyes, flashing glances, all that ma… | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Relationship Dependence - How being a dark triad with issues is almost a prerequisite for truly mastering DaygameI believe that I am some level dark triad based on a more holistic analysis of my behaviour. Not pathologically, but certainly some. I've been in sales, after all, and been rather good at it. This speaks it, I think. Or at least - disagreeable and mistrusting. Regardles, these are the traits that can be destructive, if misused (what I say about "learning how to control" and "directing for the good" above). It could very well be that it's simply a shadow recognition, not a dark triad, but the two… | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 09:23 PM |
| 1 | The only sensible way to live in this world is without rules.Don't forget your own rules. Rule-less is abundant chaotic 100% r-selected life. Rule-driven is K-selected "pillar of community". Depends on where you lay, and what's your personality. I am 1/3 r-selected, and 2/3 K-selected naturally. I mean, I love crazy shit. I love exhibiting my masculine will of taking the girls off the street to my bed, even if it violates the normal (but unnatural) code of "Tinder, 3 dates, flowers, gifts, sex". But I also like some rules to push my other life areas, like… | /r/seduction | 26/03/21 09:13 PM |
| 0 | Natural wit and charm seems to disappear when I try to sexually escalate with women...Well, it's practice and inner game. I mean, I know that I wanna fuck. Sometimes, in a kinky way. Who cares? I mean, those, who wanna fuck, but hide it - they care the most usually (moralists). If she's liking and wanting to fuck, then she will support you. Otherwise - she will be like a moralist (or a K-selected girl, and you - her provider, who must wait 3-5-10 dates before sex with a good "Madonna girl"). Regardless - a good principle is to display what you want. Hopefully, not too blunt like … | /r/seduction | 26/03/21 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Advice needed: Do women notice your insecurities?Oh yes. They fucking do. It's like their Ying essence - always be testing Yang for being phoney. I know - they tend to be noticing even slightest insecurities. However, if you are like improving these insecurities - it's generally 200% better and more "stronger alpha" move, than being a "nice guy". I.e., I can be quite nervously moving my body around a girl, because - it's my personality. However, I know that I may be nervous, wrong, etc., and I am ok with that. It's then something unique. I don… | /r/seduction | 26/03/21 08:23 PM |
| 3 | No need crazy seduction techniquesNatural vs technique-driven game discussion is very old. Reality is somewhere in-between. Do you need techniques to study swimming? maybe, as an autist beginner or something. Do you need to study techniques as a natural pro-daygamer? Fucking not - you should have more than enough creativity for making up "on the spot". Regardless, it depends on what you call a "technique". Is it a push-pull dynamic compliment made subconsciously? Is it a shallow, outward daygame technique of a "top 10 PUA line" … | /r/seduction | 26/03/21 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Becoming more physically attractive has made me realize I’m def gonna be single foreverIt's not only about body-fat (genetical makeup could allow you get a shredded body), but also about the endocrine system. Anyway, it's worthwhile checking, just in case. | /r/seduction | 22/03/21 12:16 PM |
| 2 | Becoming more physically attractive has made me realize I’m def gonna be single foreverGo check testosterone. It's a doom of this generation's males: be brainwashed into fem-centric paradigm, whilst loosing motivation and drive. | /r/seduction | 21/03/21 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Relationships & Daygame learning benefitsThanks :) | /r/seduction | 17/03/21 02:54 PM |
| 1 | [Lifestyle-level question] Exclusivity in relationships in the middle of learning DayGame- worth it?The thing is, it's not about "how to get this girl" TM (I know how, lol), it's about the overall concept of monogamy/polygamy in the context of learning Daygame... | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 02:04 PM |
| 4 | If a guy replies a girl immediately over text or answers her questions logically, he's just being a good person and down to earth. Can someone explain me why this doesn't work in dating?Answer logically == any man could do it. Answer flirty == only a mate/potential mate can do it. Do the math yourself. | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 07:58 PM |
| 1 | What do you mean when you say “physical touch”?Women LOVE socially acute and gradually escalating touch. I mean, if you are a potential mate, you are kinda supposed to touch at some point, right? Usually the following escalation ladder: her hands, ears, hair, leg, shoulders, belly, inner thigh, boobs/ass... Like, if you should touch only her inner thigh, but you touched her boobs - she should show a red signal, so you retreat, joke, change subject, and then decide whether to re-try or save it for later... If you touch her boobs (esp. skin), … | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Shy girl IOI signalsHad a girl today, who bited her tongue or lips playfully, after she said "yes" to my telephone request. She was quite reserved, but she had blushed cheeks to my teases. So, it's a stealth on girl, who is hard to distinguish. Harder than the Vietcong snipers on the palm trees in Vietnam :) | /r/seduction | 27/01/21 11:49 PM |
| 6 | What do you mean when you say “physical touch”?Very hard to master, takes some time and practice (mostly, not in how/where to touch, but when to touch - it's a subject of social acuity). Emotional state is important, as touch is 90% subcommunication. Which basically means the very fundamental problem of seduction: "how do you get good/confident with women, so your confidence translates into the flowing/natural actions?" No single best answer. But mostly, it's practice, I think (and some theory, maybe). Usually, touch/kino on the relevant ver… | /r/seduction | 27/01/21 11:46 PM |
| 1 | First public report I write. A hurdle day - randomly unlucky... or not?That's what a girl said, looking like Scarlett Johanson before going for a 2DL and giving me a bj, haha :) | /r/seduction | 27/01/21 11:04 PM |
| 1 | First public report I write. A hurdle day - randomly unlucky... or not?Probably with just leaving vague off-topic comments | /r/seduction | 27/01/21 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Daygame (LDM) | Inner Game: Questions about the reasons for keeping approachingWhat mistakes? For me currently the only mistakes I make are coming from that I am learning to be good with women. These can't be avoided in practice. But yes, I am following the spiritual approach of Deida - fucking the femininity open to God. Besides purely moral groundwork, it also makes fractionation of sex/spiritual for the girls. What I was talking about - is how to unwind the social conditioning "polygamy is bad cuz it's bad for society" type of crap-bs. Which is something I wonder may pu… | /r/seduction | 25/01/21 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Daygame (LDM) | Inner Game: Questions about the reasons for keeping approachingOk, thanks, I might take a look and see if he's any good | /r/seduction | 25/01/21 10:02 PM |
| 1 | What would you do to be in good mood or "state" all the time, so you could approach easily?Here's no single best answer. The best way is through practice for yourself. Personally, I am just walking the streets chilling, smoking a cig, putting my mind on the positives, and somehow it works to improve one's mood. I am also relying on my skillset increasingly more. As I approach, I rely on my routines if I am out of creativity. I can take longer pauses, while being present with the girl. Also ignoring/neutralising negative feedback: as if me and the girl are two actors rehearsing the rol… | /r/seduction | 23/01/21 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Daygame (LDM) | Inner Game: Questions about the reasons for keeping approachingWhat he means is friendzoning the gals from the social circle. But generally it's possible to just ignore girls after taking their numbers, chatting with them on the chat, and then cooling off. It sometimes happens that they reach out for a date or indirect date (especially during their ovulation cycles), and then you just catch the "low-hanging fruit", with no to little resistence. | /r/seduction | 23/01/21 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Daygame (LDM) | Inner Game: Questions about the reasons for keeping approachingI know, that's the grind, and also I am trying to work smarter by approaching IOIs + reflecting on the better approaches. But really, daygame is the most effective strategy for me: not very sociable, Tinder + nightgame is too awkward for me. It might not be the efficient one (social daygame is), but daygame is independent: I travel a lot, so I can take this with me anywhere. Social game is like place-bound. But the thing I was talking about: that "player lifestyle" is met with certain barriers l… | /r/seduction | 23/01/21 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Daygame (LDM) | Inner Game: Questions about the reasons for keeping approachingIdk, that's the K-selected route I was talking about, and the exact reason why I am learning daygame. No problems with that, just some issues like inner blocks or something I guess from the society that you shalln't be a player. | /r/seduction | 23/01/21 09:39 PM |
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