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Yea that’s generally not a positive from our view
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 07:48 AM
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Imagine somebody asks your bf how he feels about you and says shes “ good enough “. That doesn’t sound enthusiastic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:51 AM
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we like to be desired not “ good enough “
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 01:10 PM
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It's about being disgusted by fat rolls. So unhealthy. There is a difference between chunky/thick vs being big
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 01:36 PM
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Thank you, i wish more women were trying to actually have a conversation on this instead of being reactive or daft.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:31 PM
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Thank you for an honest response
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:08 PM
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the comment you are pretending can’t be read
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:04 PM
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nope, not the case nor the post topic . yall just seem unable to actually read let alone focus on the topic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:09 PM
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If you want to take that literally name some issues women commonly bring into relationships since everyone knows men have a rap sheet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:08 PM
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Like how in the world is all that the man’s responsibility when you consent to sex knowing he ain’t do all that? You are equally responsible are you not? magically find themselves with babies they never intend to raise. You do grasp an absent father isn’t the same as unexpected parent….right? Here’s the thing, if all those men raised children alone the very stuff being said about men applies to the mothers who carried the child then dipped. How you all say things without seeing the bias, implica…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:46 AM
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Thank you for being honest, actually trying to have a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:36 AM
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it’s like yall are purposely being obtuse to the point. So it takes the man and woman having sex completely because of the woman's consent. 1+1=2 Why do women have sole authority with keeping the child against the fathers wishes while simultaneously saying if he wants to keep the kid & she doesn’t it’s her decision since the child is carried by her? 0+1=1 like it is this simple and yall are doing the most most not to have a honest conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:30 AM
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Anything less than an enthusiastic yes is a no. yes , because every boy understands the obscure , indirect way girls communicate once the balls drop. and your own behavior. …… Soooooo not properly communicating and making serious decisions against concerns of the other party are things women should appropriately hold themselves accountable for.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:21 AM
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Pick a lane. So either every one of you is getting raped into pregnancy or consented to sex, allowed it, got pregnant then had a child against the fathers wishes But somehow the man is responsible for getting the woman pregnant when the woman agreed to have sex with said dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:14 AM
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thank you. That’s exactly what guys are talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:10 AM
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Oh, you do not want to claim ownership of the passive voiced “friendzoned”?? Quel surprise. because phrases have original meanings despite change. Like when every post on reddit was “shade” , “ woke” which are specific contextual phrases that got hijacked, language is fluid She didn’t do a goddamn thing exactly. instead of “ hey i’m flattered but don’t feel the same, ok ?” women like the attention so they keep the guy on a string. Men generally aren’t in a position to friendzone women considerin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:07 AM
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male friends furious about being “friendzoned”, a phrase women also warped on tumblr around 2011-13 from the original meaning, which made them responsible. Knowing a guy likes you, is doing things for your attention, giving him just enough to stay engaged while deliberately not stating the feelings aren’t mutual. That is friendzoning not this new age shit “ Just because you held the door for me i’m not entitled to anything “. Women were being called out for this so somehow the actual meaning got…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:51 AM
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You will very quickly notice that the majority of posts is not women blaming men but the other way around. we can literally go through each comment here. Can women even give examples of general stuff women do while dating they dislike? real shit examples not “ women who don’t like men have female friends are crazy “ Why on Earth should women accept men's endless blame?? Women don’t understand the difference between accountability and blame As in this case you are asking women for choices that ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:32 AM
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Women have zero concept men want to be desired not settled for or worked with. There is rarely any enthusiasm for the “ good things “ yall say why we don’t believe it. if not saying one thing with an outright contradiction the next post.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:05 AM
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I partially wish these boyfriends would get to read these comments. “I prefer bigger dicks for fun but yours is ok”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:58 AM
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They honestly do not register the bias. Interesting as equally annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:57 AM
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So at what point is the child being raised without a father factored in or is that not an issue until money is needed? I’m just failing to understand how men are chastised for not being fathers when all of you are right now saying a child doesn’t inherently need a father
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:55 AM
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yall always pretend not to understand when a point is clearly dismantled
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:52 AM
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…………… So raising a child as a single mother is easier than not having the child in the first place?………..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:51 AM
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Every single interaction men have with women always turns into the mans fault somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:50 AM
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Is there anything regarding dating that women hold themselves accountable for? Like , if women make their own choices how is everything within dating always leaning on men being at fault if it’s negative?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:48 AM
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you are outright being condescending then telling me an issue which men talk about openly doesn’t exist and is a generalization. Is this not exactly what men do to women’s ire?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:44 AM
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So again it is better to raise a fatherless child for your sake or the child? none of you are making any comment of how this effects children of both sexs in each direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:41 AM
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we ain’t even gonna play with that train today
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:39 AM
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This is a topic men actually speak with each other about openly and why boys gravitate towards coaches,teachers, old heads , etc as father figures. Why women want to dismiss everything men across the board can relate to then say we don’t communicate or open up makes no sense. Dudes on reddit are catching on to how we are supposed to listen and care for women issues, be better men for women; Yet near literally anytime men talk about their own issues or how women effect them yall absolutely refuse…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:37 AM
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It’s such a confusing thing to see women constantly speak of lazy/absent fathers to turn around implying they serve zero role raising them if not financially. My parents divorced but my mom did the same thing until she got older. Didn’t understand boys eat x2-x3 more than girls so i “ ate everything “. didn’t give me any physical outlet( boxing,etc) for my energy/anger ( natural ) so i was “ problematic “ until i started running & cutting wood around 13, myself. Didn’t allow me to express any op…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:28 AM
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Not a single woman is actually speaking of their children in these responses. Like literally the only role a father apparently has is paying the bills or child support. All of you want to say it takes two making a child ( which isn’t the topic ) followed by one parent to raise-mom
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:02 AM
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not have the child ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:47 AM
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So instead of aborting a child while having the chance 100% knowing the father will never return,. you would still continue the pregnancy raising the kid as a single mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:46 AM
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So a woman faking romantic interest for money,food,rides, or items isn’t comparable to men faking interest for sex. correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:43 AM
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Our comment towards this is eventually men can sense/read what a woman is into him for and will avoid accordingly. So thats why we don’t understand women with years and multiple partners worth of experience falling into the exact same situations again and again. I’ve had girls ask for coke just before a date Literally plan hype & plan the entire date ( sometimes they ask other times let them ) to ghost dine & dash a date was actually me third wheeling for the dude she was actually trying for ( m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:30 AM
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Are yall getting angry and just not reading the post? i am quite simply asking when abortion is still an option with the dad ghosting, being unknown or whatever why do you still willingly raise that child knowing his father will never be around?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:21 AM
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My issue with this is there is zero consideration for the child which this topic is supposed to be about. from the responses it seems like literally only one woman so far thought about the child’s life over her own feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:19 AM
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Fatherless children are not just a result of whether she chose to get an abortion or not. i really don’t understand how a pregnancy works then considering women grow the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:15 AM
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Thank you this is literally the conversation i am trying to have but everyone seems to magically not understand
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:13 AM
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If the two are equally responsible why did you let him? It is not hard to search for posts where men absolutely did not want to be fathers trying to convey that being disregarded as “ it’s her choice “. Women always seem to do this thing where the choice is theirs until the outcome is negative then the man is to blame. you can’t have it both ways if a guy has zero say in the pregnancy then you are solely making that choice
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:12 AM
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Because i hyper-specifically asked “ when you know the father won’t be around “ as in if you just broke up with a dude understanding it is completely over why would you have his kid. Not sure how “ why won’t you get an abortion over raising fatherless children “ was misconstrued
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:08 AM
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don’t you have to be insecure to overcome insecurity? It isn’t attractive for men to be insecure, women have 50 million insecurities men hear and accommodate yet it’s only acceptable for men in extremely small doses. This segways into men opening up about their feelings which women swear they want until it happens then they feel burdened or start losing attraction. You can’t understand everyone has flaws while simultaneously not allowing insecurity perceived or otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:07 PM
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how you gonna tell me how men are raised an what we think? not liking the answer doesn’t negate the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:36 AM
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I think a man whose open about his insecurities is like one of the most intimate things emotionally It’s not attractive to be insecure ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:10 AM
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At the same time, of course, men are told that they shouldn’t date a slut we aren’t told anything it’s a natural thing considering we all have similarly the same thoughts without talking to each other. It just isn’t attractive, indicitive of mental health issues ( posssible ), and generally those women are more open to cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:04 AM
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Not at all honestly, I work retail rn and you’d be surprised how far being well groomed with mild charisma will get you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:36 AM
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On average woman care far far more about social media than due, it’s completely superficial and not a good metric to judge someone
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:10 AM
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years to decide if you're into someone. You take time to figure out your feelings in your teens. Once you're 21 or so, well, you should know what you want. Yeah that isn’t how life works whatsoever nobody magically knows their future feelings for somebody day one. not sure if you meant something else but this is rather immature. hears she's not good enough to be asked on a date or a girlfriend, but now all of a sudden he... what? Wants to settle? I think you entered this thread with preconceptio…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:26 AM
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wouldn’t you prefer the dude to remove himself if he can’t let the feelings go? Guys who can’t leave otherwise both parties would be uncomfortable with the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:38 AM
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the ones that have been on a LTR with them i think it just begs the question if one can be satisfied settling after so much fun. This is were she usually cheats with a opossum,becomes a starfish or inadvertently verbally comparing you to a former. Probably best to stick with someone near the same count or emotionally distant in this aspect
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:09 AM
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Until (and if) you find a woman like my fiancee, who had a discrete and modest past, no hook ups, and still believes in that "special-ness", the "ever lasting love", "the one", and views you as the most amazing man in the world. Everytime I look at her I think "that girl is dumb as fuck... But damn she's cute". I think the women should save this comment the next time one of you goes off about women wanting nice guys around 30. The women who do this make yall irate yet here we are smh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:01 AM
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I think one has to begin with the understanding that men do have a biologically instantiated aversion to higher female body counts Another biological aspect of dating overlooked. I deff have no issue in theory with the count but do feel a way hearing “ i’m on 50-60 “ when statistically thats not bad being near 30. it’s conflicting and seems every guy has this mental conversation. Then also look at the damage that high body counts can do to either gender, I don’t know a single girl with a highbod…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:56 AM
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well the estrogen is why they need our daily emotional support
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:21 AM
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she’s being more careful with how the relationship develops, because ideally, it affects how she’s treated both in and out of the bedroom for a long time. Ok, Ok, Ok these are way better responses !
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:36 AM
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I honestly think the internet flipped it’s definition of friendzone on tumblr around 2013-2015. What do you call a person who is aware someone is into them from their actions yet instead of stating plainly there is zero interest gives them enough attention to stay engaged for emotional/ financial support? This is what was called friendzoning until it got warped into “ This girl won’t have sex with me because i said hi “ shit. I think woman misconstrued the original meaning to get themselves off …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:33 AM
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Men and women are more or less the same as other mammals and we have similar gender roles and mating patterns. We aren’t; everytime a man tries to explain this yall don’t like the answers downvoting them to hell labelling it “ toxic “.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:19 AM
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Yall say comments like this while never being single more than a few weeks to step back seeing how you chose the same type of men constantly while complaining men aint shit. Which is true because those are the men yall chose to be with since women don’t approach guys. you can’t have it both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:13 AM
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Don’t women also date around having loveless sex until 25-27 when they are ready to settle down? One post will be about a womans freedom to physically enjoy herself when the next says women don’t sleep around or like nsa sex. It’s always contradictory statements which complained behavior is better in practice for the guy than theory of the latter. Asking for a kiss is probably one of the best examples because every woman in my early 20s said that was a lack of confidence and ability to read for …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:07 AM
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But once feminism has been promoted, the particular feminists benefitting from that extra social capital may well be the ones to successfully lobbying national governments to keep male rape legal on the ground that if raping men was illegal, they might make false accusations which could hurt women It’s wild reading this when a guy said the woman who sexually assaulted him ended up being a speaker for feminism the other day. I get downvoted to hell commenting it was my highly aware girl-friend wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:54 AM
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I never understood this logic when the woman takes it upon herself to have a child father or not which is another big issue. Women willingly raise kids without fathers/stable minded men with zero thoughts of how the kid will be affected
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:38 AM
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The language they use feels extremely objectifying and derogatory but apparently that can’t apply. Yeah , i agree though the base is fine, women need to vent. Hard to tell if there was infiltration or became a emotional echo chamber after long
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:12 PM
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Men are terrified of being pressured into any kind of relationship they don't want, though I don't know why seeing as how they are physically stronger and more economically empowered than women. Probably because there are thousands of ways a woman can ruin your life in less than an hour with society instantly rushing to her support while you struggle with zero evidence she’s a fucking liar; with her straight up telling you this. Anytime we try talking about these women and instances it’s instant…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:06 PM
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They don’t see the level of hypocrisy if not irony in dismissing men with the exact same phrases which are toxic to them. Whenever we try talking about our sexual abuse or false allegations they respond with statistics….. or how it isn’t true?? It’s STRANGE. There is a magic ratio of acceptable vulnerability here otherwise idfk
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:57 PM
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those conversations are off limits i’m noticing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:24 AM
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you misunderstood
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:04 AM
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I know women cheat too but I’ve met too many men Why do yall always downplay other women’s shitty actions? Obviously a strip club would have those types of men, it’s a given This whole “ women are angels “ mentality is beyond toxic and why men who don’t play that game pisses you off
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:53 PM
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i’m not sure this follows what i was saying
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:18 AM
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It’s interesting how a guy with options is a fuckboy but a woman with options isn’t entitled to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:05 AM
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He probably wouldn’t have taken you seriously at a all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:58 AM
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it shows a perspective that doesn't see any value in any attempt to understand how men think differently Which is why when we actually speak of our burdens they just up and leave despite us being their therapist on the daily The landscape for these kind of discussions is so far out of proportion that I find it surprising that women, with everything in their favor, so quickly attempt to weasel out of the smallest things I don’t understand this either how is it the guy’s fault you willingly slept …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:54 AM
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Until you gather enough brain cells to actually have a conversation instead of spouting random assumptions, I'm done with this https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/sat1k7/comment/htw2gb0/ There is a whole other part of the conversation yall seem to be avoiding . But be childish
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:46 AM
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Should i respond or was the posted before the other comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:30 AM
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In a way, some sexually successful men are trained by women to be bad partners, because they are rewarded for having subpar traits in one way or another You aren’t actually considering his responses which are spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:59 AM
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they unironically think having casual sex alleviates their loneliness or is empowering here we go; When i asked a girl who called me such she gave a similar answer clearly feeling uncomfortable. THIS is what needs to be discussed with your guy as we’ll feel assured and empathetic instead of #2-4
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:48 AM
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Why feel the need to describe anything about those experiences in the same conversation without being asked? This isn’t a mutual conversation of past experiences than oversharing in a belittling way. “ yeah we had fun but there wasn’t any actual interest with me just wanting to get laid tbh” - not what is said. Your initial sentiment is expressed with “ big dick hurts, i’d rather have something smaller like 5-6inchs…..” why is there a need to say anything like this? Speak on the women who do not…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:16 PM
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this contributes how?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:14 PM
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You’ve gotta realize that, as fucked up as it is, everyone’s self-interested when they’re single; That isn’t the conversation whatsoever or the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:10 PM
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under 25, and I don’t rank their maturity level very high at all. So not fully developed mature men with life experience
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:09 PM
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you as bf material, she will see you as just something to fuck. What's more important is she doesn't care if you see her as something just to fuck. If she does see you as boyfriend material, she will try to do anything in her power to make sure you don't just see her as something to fuck. A married woman said the exact same when i asked which was assuring as are similar expressions here. All of that isn’t the issue which keeps being sidestepped. Why feel the need to describe anything about those…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:43 PM
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You’d rather have one night of sex or multiple nights of sex in a longterm relationship? How does that make you feel less desirable? Because that isn’t what yall say and there is zero concept of how a man thinks or what is important to us. This always comes up in comparison to a former which checked most if not all boxes with it being made clear either the sex was better or his size large; but that is ok because i like you. A man is visualizing however the former is described enjoying you, you e…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:26 PM
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I think the whole concept is probably oversharing and not something to talk with your guy about. As i guy the waiting isn’t an issue and i’ve been kinda doing the same with an interest. However i wouldn’t randomly bring up “ wife material “ or express differences my sexual approach to her with others. I vaguely remember doing this in high-school, the response wasn’t great.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:13 PM
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My question to you is what age do you think the dudes saying that are and where you’d rank their maturity level.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:05 PM
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And you think it's great for a woman, if he fucked his way through town already and you start questioning yourself if the previous girls where hotter, more fun, better or whatever? Neither side feels good understanding their SO has been with other people the number isn’t important as the feelings/reason. You can’t say sex didn’t matter while remembering and feeling necessary to tell us. husband material" she's not only there for your dick, Do you think the potential husband feelings good visuali…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:50 PM
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The body language doesn’t match your feelings when saying these phrases which is why we don’t really believe the common response. If anything yall usually seem to perk up talking about the dude to us..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:30 PM
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It’s the same reason men will shell out money, attention and certain types of compliments on only fans girls How? He is essentially cheating and immature while the girl is reminiscing on the past in context of the current/potential relationship. I mean hearing it feels like being cheated on because you aren’t #1 and she’s comparing you to others For a guy you do like though, rejection from him would hurt, you don’t want him to judge you negatively, you want to impress him and you have to test th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:22 PM
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Many women have a fear of being seen as easy. I feel like this is complicated and self-fulling . When you fuck a guy you fuck him. Whatever reason on your end is irrelevant (for us) because he got laid and better yet didn’t have to put any effort Usually when a woman tells her man this the sex with whatever guy (s) was really enjoyable hence being remembered/compared to or telling us his dick was bigger “ but i like you”. I can’t describe how emasculating it is for your girl to look directly at …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:44 PM
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imma leave this alone
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:31 PM
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Yes we would like to hear from women what they mean by these phrases. Not mansplaining “ alpha/ beta “ crap which isn’t even real
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:10 PM
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can we please have some women explain this ? Every guy feels a type of way about the “ boyfriend/ husband material “ because it feels more like backhanded settling than actual desire for your SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 01:16 PM
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It’s weird how women chose to do something then feel entitled towards a certain response. Always think what situations would be in reverse; here it’d be some weird feminist empowerment of using men for the one thing they are good for
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:02 AM
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We give the example because it’s what happens. I’m not aware of any woman who divorced due to her cheating yet remained single that doesn’t even sound right. nor is anybody talking about “ feeling better “. The conditions and reasoning for cheating matter especially after 10+ years that’s why marriage counseling exists. Now it seems as if i’m defending cheating when i tried to simply different mentalities are play
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 09:03 PM
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A disconnect isn’t disagreement
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:29 PM
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That’s the disconnect though not an excuse. A woman cheating means she checked out months ago staying until things line up with number two. Men cheat as a stress response or absence of X with zero intention of leaving or emotion. This can be repair with extreme work on the guy’s end. The cause for cheating may differ but women have an emotional aspect that’s deeper than the man fucking whatever on the side. That’s why men are generally defeated after a divorce where women have a whole new happy …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:21 PM
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the thing is men from a distance wonder why women marry guys before living with them. If he was’t doing his part prior thinking he’ll magically change after marriage or kids doesn’t make sense. I think marriage statistics are heavily skewed due to everyone rushing for the endgame after just two years of dating skipping checkpoints which would have weeded out bad partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:09 PM
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The emotional consequences of that incident for me were so bad that it took me YEARS to "get over it". That was 3 years ago now and I've definitely learned from the experience and won't do it again. If a guy flirts with me at a party and I don't make out with him, am I "not applying my standard equally" I think the hangup is being hammered women form emotions prior to physicality with guys traumatized from being cheated on/ overlooked. This wasn’t a fixation/ avoidant behavior of mine until a ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:00 AM
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Quick question for you if a woman slept around fast earlier in her life but fast forward a couple of years her waiting to sleep with you(the guy trying to date her) it is ok Sex itself isn’t the issue more so reasoning for in context of current relationship. It’s only an issue if the man is dated primarily for economic and emotional stability
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:07 AM
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when a 40 year old dates a 26 year old when it's literally economics Young women in their sexual desire / fertile height want a established man who can provide for them. Men have better stability, economics, physicality , and life experience from late 20s unwards. There are foundational socio-biologic aspects to dating ignored in preference of the current sociocultural climate. We see this when women say one thing but respond favorably to something else. I think we remember highschool filled wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:55 AM
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We want you to understand not just agree because this is a problem with all of you that we’d like to start addressing. Early on she was showing me her tinder with a matched guy having a description merely wanting physical acknowledgement (hugs,etc ) and reciprocation . It was painfully sad & relatable because guys don’t get touch at all platonically. He clearly didn’t give af only wanting to express himself. She said it was pathetic as fuck and unattractive, which yea , but there was zero concer…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:17 PM
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The comment hit really deep for you to double down this hard
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:18 PM
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You aren’t getting that women as whole are like this because you aren’t dating women as a man. Even my most progressive gf made occasionally comments or jokes that were really really bad “ not understanding “ until i deadpan make the same remarks about random women in public. All of a sudden she magically gained perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:16 PM
5

so you have no response huh ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:58 PM
4

How is being childish adding to the conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:34 PM
6

like you ignoring women have issues as well which aren’t even acknowledged because every issue is projected unto the men with zero self-reflection or accountability .
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:04 PM
16

He was saying a woman won’t stay with a man who has breakdowns twice a month but men are expected to support women through their never ending emotional distress. which honestly every guy is use to and expects until a certain threshold. Men however literally see a woman’s attraction to him fade in a moment of extreme distress
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:00 PM
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notice she didn’t apologize for assuming, congratulating on find a “ hvm “. Crazy how every guy on earth is his woman’s emotional support animal/ therapist but lord forbid that be reversed for a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:51 PM
2

do you have lesbian friends or friend group? One of them will express understanding how hard dating women is because they take the dominate/ male / initiate role or however i needs to be worded.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:16 AM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:57 AM
4

Lesbians have given actual advice compared to straight women. honestly, men generally ignore advice from straight women after a certain point because the guys she sleeps with and actions don’t line up with advice given
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 08:36 PM
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