I am speaking of one night stands, hookups, failed relationships and anything else similar. Knowing the father will either be horrible or absent why do you willingly have a child?

A lot of men are raised by single moms or in a environment primarily of women. There can be some benefits but ultimately a woman can only do so much boys need their fathers. Not knowing how to treat/interact women generally stems from lack of a proper paternal figure early on. What women say and do are two completely different things which is why advice from moms generally get eye rolls or causes embarrassment.

As for women i’ve notice a lot of hypersexual women chose sex as an expression of desire for an absent father figure or sexual trauma early on. They don’t know the glaringly obvious signs of shitty/manipulative/physically abusive men because that tended to be the norm without a proper father figure to compare or speak with.

I don’t have many points for women because i am not one, just going off experience and what my girl-friends have said. As a boy growing up in a woman household it was absolutely frustrating not being understood or taken seriously. I didn’t have any guidance with dating so it took more initiative and time to catch up.

These are generalizations of American society in which the choice is solely on the woman regardless of the man’s input. lets not derail by talking about how this doesn’t apply to everyone as people can turn out ok. The point is we have zero way of knowing the future and you were still raised without a biological/ day one father.

To end: I just want to understand why women have children knowing their fathers won’t be around not taking into account the developmental issues this causes