| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 8 | How to seduce a girl that is opposite from youYou got a valid point. I should take this as a lesson. | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 12:02 PM |
| 1 | She has a BF, she agreed to a coffe with me, now what? How to escalate, how to steal her?She hot as hell | /r/seduction | 28/03/25 10:08 AM |
| 0 | She has a BF, she agreed to a coffe with me, now what? How to escalate, how to steal her?Dude, I just want to have a good time. Times are rough, and I like this girl. | /r/seduction | 28/03/25 07:35 AM |
| -2 | She has a BF, she agreed to a coffe with me, now what? How to escalate, how to steal her?Hard truth bro, you got it bakwards. If she agrees to my advances, she a snake. Another hard truth bro _ women and men cant be friends It is calculating yes. But in the end, it is all about womans choice. She can say no. That is all there is to it. | /r/seduction | 28/03/25 07:30 AM |
| 1 | She has a BF, she agreed to a coffe with me, now what? How to escalate, how to steal her?Thanks for encouragment. I dont know why all the downvotes, after all goal is to seduce her | /r/seduction | 28/03/25 07:04 AM |
| -1 | She has a BF, she agreed to a coffe with me, now what? How to escalate, how to steal her?Yes | /r/seduction | 28/03/25 07:03 AM |
| -4 | She has a BF, she agreed to a coffe with me, now what? How to escalate, how to steal her?I was a rabbit once. Never again. | /r/seduction | 28/03/25 07:02 AM |
| 1 | She has a BF, she agreed to a coffe with me, now what? How to escalate, how to steal her?Yeah but I am a dimwit. Hah | /r/seduction | 28/03/25 07:01 AM |
| 2 | She has a BF, she agreed to a coffe with me, now what? How to escalate, how to steal her?My thoughts exactly. If I had money I would pay for prostitute xD | /r/seduction | 28/03/25 06:59 AM |
| 1 | What are you struggling with the most ?I am a retard, plan or no plan, I manage to forget things, not notice things or act a fool. The worst thing is, good opportunities I passed. At this point, I dont know is ot anxiety or pure cowardice. | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 09:35 AM |
| 2 | What are you struggling with the most ?Courage to approach | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 05:45 AM |
| 5 | Fundamentals: The simple, crucial basicsHow to carry yourself? | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 07:48 PM |
| 7 | YOU TALKED TO HER. NOW WHAT?I am stupid, I need this form of instructions. Thanks | /r/seduction | 24/02/25 06:14 AM |
| 1 | I still want to steal her, help me seduce her or at least try.Yeah, now that I read that I realised I dont got that, I am not experience guy, I am just a regular boring office worker. I will still ask her, for closure sake. Such a shame. | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 07:18 PM |
| 0 | I still want to steal her, help me seduce her or at least try.Just 1 night, I need her for 1 night and I would let her go. | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 04:50 PM |
| 0 | I still want to steal her, help me seduce her or at least try.Maybe not. I just cant stop thinking about her. | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 04:49 PM |
| 0 | I still want to steal her, help me seduce her or at least try.If she leaves, she leaves. Not many like her brother. | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 04:48 PM |
| 0 | I still want to steal her, help me seduce her or at least try.It was a stupid "casual" approach on Valentines day That is on me. I wouldnt think she had a boyfrend from her behavior towards me. I cant, I need direct rejection. I need closure. | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 04:47 PM |
| 0 | I still want to steal her, help me seduce her or at least try.If that is, I will leave her alone. But after I try it once more. | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 04:44 PM |
| 2 | I still want to steal her, help me seduce her or at least try.I knew her on the surface level for 6 months. Our closeness became more intense over the last month. I asked her if she had boyfriend to give myself and out. It was wrong thing to do. I feared the direct rejection. 3.our time is limited, very limited, once per day, maybe minutes, maybe 10. It is lile you sre meeting your bakery seller. You go in, and out. But yeah, I would say my chances are pretty slim aswell, but I have got a gut feeling I just need to do it right, with a right approach And if… | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 04:43 PM |
| 1 | I still want to steal her, help me seduce her or at least try.Because I am retard I didnt even try. We see each other once after work, each day. That is all I can say. I get your point. First plan would require a week Second plan could take a month Both plans require her to accept my coffie proposal. Unfortunatley, we are not friends. We just happen to talk in a certan period of the day. Like smalltalk with your local bakery seller. If I ask her right now, I will get rejected. But, what my plan wants to acchive is to get us little closer. It is cringe and … | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 04:37 PM |
| 1 | FriendsI dont think there are rules But we must be wary of becoming second choice or saftey net Only rule is women and men cant be friends | /r/seduction | 17/02/25 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Methods to deal with approach anxiety.Smalltalk with people you meet on regular basis first | /r/seduction | 17/02/25 09:40 AM |
| 1 | pathetic FR. Im literally starting this journey at ground zeroIf I want a pretty high value woman, I have to shoot out of my leauge She is marriage material, the problem is I got to get my shit togheter because I fear the drill more than her | /r/seduction | 17/02/25 09:37 AM |
| 1 | Generaly - when asking a girl, should I ask if she has a boyfriend?I had tjis girl flirting with me for months, and I ask her if she had a boyfriend and she said yes. What to do in this situation? I said shame and went my way. I still like her. Bitch played me, but why | /r/seduction | 17/02/25 05:19 AM |
| 1 | pathetic FR. Im literally starting this journey at ground zeroNahh she already saw me at my worst and lowest (that is every dentist appointment) Next time I go I will ask her out Fuck it And yeah, to solve our problem (yours and mine) you have to force yourself to speak to pretty women. Improvise, dont try to seduce them, just talk abou tje weather, her clothes, ask questions, but dont be a creep, read the room. It is what it is. 2 months ago I found a pretty cashier (i dont know how to spell it) at lockal supermarket. I talked few times to her, and I trie… | /r/seduction | 17/02/25 05:15 AM |
| 2 | Generaly - when asking a girl, should I ask if she has a boyfriend?Fair enough, I just cant get over this one girl man | /r/seduction | 17/02/25 05:08 AM |
| 3 | Generaly - when asking a girl, should I ask if she has a boyfriend?Yeah I dont have that kind of charisma or confidence | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Generaly - when asking a girl, should I ask if she has a boyfriend?I wish | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Generaly - when asking a girl, should I ask if she has a boyfriend?I meet her 3-4 times a week when buying shit I mean, I didnt see her for a week and she ignored me one day, then she approached me another day and gave me a fistbump only to troll me and grab my fist We talked for a few minutes and I decided to ask her out, but I asked if she had a boyfriend. Man, this chick has been driving me crazy for months | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 04:37 PM |
| 1 | pathetic FR. Im literally starting this journey at ground zeroYep, almost 30 aswell I have 10/10 dentist, I went to her After fixing my shit i got up and somehow gsthered the courage to aske her a question I started shakimg, my voice was shaking, and realising I was anxious I became even more anxious and forgot what I was going to say She is so damn pretty | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Generaly - when asking a girl, should I ask if she has a boyfriend?She didnt, even though all signs were pointing that she likes me. So I asked her, and she told me she does. | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 03:49 PM |
| 1 | pathetic FR. Im literally starting this journey at ground zeroHappened to me few times | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Generaly - when asking a girl, should I ask if she has a boyfriend?I had this thing last week. Georgeous girl I talked for months. I mean she was clearly interested and intp me. So I ask her if she has boyfriend, she said yes. I said shame, greeted her amd went my way. I knew she had a bf, she was way too pretty. All in vain for me in the end. | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 03:37 PM |
| 2 | The fumble of a lifetimeYeah, I am same as you. First time I fumbled on a chance of lifetime I didnt notice, second time, nahh, after maybe 7th time I noticed I was the problem (at least 4 were lifetime changers how ever I put it, the rest would gain me respect, status, desire...) Anxiety, maybe fear of success, subconcious self sabotage. Even in times pure lazyness. Problem I had is (out of my head): - I thought opportunity was going present itself again - that was a fucking lie. Lesson - u need to act and be up to th… | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 11:10 AM |
| 3 | Generaly - when asking a girl, should I ask if she has a boyfriend?What is M2W (man to woman?) and hook point (I guess meeting). | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 10:53 AM |
| 5 | Generaly - when asking a girl, should I ask if she has a boyfriend?I mean it is great way, maybe we protect ourself from rejection, yes. But you get the answer eather way, if she mentions husband, or notices you are interested with that question, all she simply does is rejects you in diplomatic way. No strings attached. But direct rejection, no matter how we talk about moving, has a string of tension and awkwardnes. I mean who cares if you just met a girl random, but getting to know them on daily basis, meeting them, maybe in work enviroment or higher friendshi… | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 10:50 AM |
| -3 | Generaly - when asking a girl, should I ask if she has a boyfriend?Yeah I get what you are saying. But in scenarios I desribe - local bakery, I find a hot girl looking at me, daily. If I ask her straight out and it is no. It is definitive, but it will create consequence - when I enter that bakery next time, I will be the guy who is rejected, and it will be tension. That is natural. Giving girl excuse to reject you, diplomatic and wussy as it is. In this scenario lets me come back to that bakery, still talk to the girl. You know you wont get pussy but there is n… | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 10:47 AM |
| 2 | Wardrobe and watches to get attention? It worked for me, also Colours - Usefull fake confidence?Hahaha you are screwing with me? If not that is actually smart and impressive | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 09:57 AM |
| 1 | Do I need social media? I have Whats up and Linked-in xDI am thinking that aswell | /r/seduction | 15/02/25 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Wardrobe and watches to get attention? It worked for me, also Colours - Usefull fake confidence?What do you mean in the second paragraf, like, she bores you and you look at the watch, or in the sense hey, I have been texting her for 3 hours, fucki it | /r/seduction | 15/02/25 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Wardrobe and watches to get attention? It worked for me, also Colours - Usefull fake confidence?i belive that somwhere between the lines it was implied that attention I was refering to is of positive nature | /r/seduction | 15/02/25 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Wardrobe and watches to get attention? It worked for me, also Colours - Usefull fake confidence?I get what you are saying, but some of us cant get even a second, let alone a minute of attention I completley agree, In the long run it wont help, but that minute might be something someone never expirenced | /r/seduction | 15/02/25 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Wardrobe and watches to get attention? It worked for me, also Colours - Usefull fake confidence?bullshit, you can get attention with elegant look also, fat bastards are better looking in suits and shirts than regular clothes great shape body requiers great genetics - height, shulder width, you can improve some stuff but not most important ones | /r/seduction | 15/02/25 03:07 PM |
| 7 | I did it, I gathered the courage and got defeated, again.Yeah, easier said than done | /r/seduction | 14/02/25 06:34 PM |
| 1 | I did it, I gathered the courage and got defeated, again.Yeah, first I need to get shit togheter, all teary eyed and shit. | /r/seduction | 14/02/25 06:32 PM |
| 5 | I did it, I gathered the courage and got defeated, again.Years passed since the last time I "clicked" with a girl like her. I dont really see any bright future. | /r/seduction | 14/02/25 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Ok, we know how to flirt. How does it look like when, women flirt?Hmm, I better stop thinking about this I dont belive I am up to the task | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Ok, we know how to flirt. How does it look like when, women flirt?Bullshit, if one of them is playning with hair Then my hot 45 yo coworker with kids and fantastic tits today indicated she is interested in me I dont belive it | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 09:08 PM |
| 0 | How to steal somebodys girlfriend?Of course it is stupid, but dem blue eyes and ass and slim waist Damn | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 09:04 PM |
| 2 | How to steal somebodys girlfriend?I already passed those phases. Except revealing I am interested Maybe.. hmm you got a new job? It is time for s new boyfriend (pointing to myself) or slowly wispering "I am available" Fucking gonna die of cringe even thinking about that | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 09:03 PM |
| 0 | How to steal somebodys girlfriend?Lets hope, mf bitch be giving me signs already, all giggly and shit...all the fucking time | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 08:59 PM |
| 3 | How to go from here?Man do a TLDR | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 07:57 PM |
| 0 | How to steal somebodys girlfriend?Clever | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 07:56 PM |
| 0 | How to steal somebodys girlfriend?Actually, I am. But the problem is I am incompetent with women haha. I guess I have only 1 shot, if I improvise and fail it I can easily leave. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 07:55 PM |
| -2 | How to steal somebodys girlfriend?Ive been beaten before, risk I am refering is the akward silences, pity looks and gossip in the company. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 07:52 PM |
| -4 | How to steal somebodys girlfriend?I want to have fun with her. All there is to it. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 07:50 PM |
| -2 | Girl I am talking to has been with a friend of mineYou are ignoring the external factors. But I would generally agree, but under one condition _ she must be worth it, madly on love or "the one". Everything else I would spproach with utmost secrecy. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Girl I am talking to has been with a friend of mineYou are moralising and idealising a world thst foes not exist It doesnt even have to be about being immature, there is hierarchy in group of friends, and there can be ill will Stupidly, if he was to steal that girl from the friend, situatiom would be same, but very very different Term sloppy seconds still is weaponized you know | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Girl I am talking to has been with a friend of mineBullshit, it is reputation damage You might act like mature person, but society and friends will be immature | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 07:30 PM |
| 6 | Girl I am talking to has been with a friend of mineUnpopular opinion, that friend or friends group will make fun of you, and you cant take her to your group activities It is what it is Have fun with her, but if you and your friend are close, and are in similar circles, then strong no to any relationship Unless you are like above 40 | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 07:27 PM |
| 1 | I had George Constanza momentEasier said than done, it is always high stake drama for me | /r/seduction | 23/01/25 08:05 PM |
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