I am incompetent to even find a decent girl who is single, and now I want to go a level above and try to steal.

I like this girl from work, she is like another department but I see her every day. Her BF is some kind of boxer. Yeah. 3 years of relationship but she dont look lile she glows, except when she talks to me.

I can missread, I probably am. But risk is huge. How do I approach this topic, how do I probe.

Shit I cant even flirt.