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Clubs, intramural sports and hobbies. Someone said something really good in the fact that going to the same place a girl might say no one time and yes another. One thing thats not talked about a lot in dating is how much familiarity matters. This group lauds cold approach but you have a much better chance of getting laid with a girl who sees you often. Wanna know what the greatest indicator of a relationship is? Proximity. If you’re a cool guy around a lot of attractive women you will naturally …
/r/seduction04/03/25 03:37 PM
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Agreed
/r/seduction18/02/25 09:43 PM
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I know 🙄. They’re scary good at it too. If I wasn’t aware of this sub id think she was in love with me.
/r/seduction18/02/25 09:42 PM
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Yes, this is usually the case for me too. But I don’t date coworkers and only recently decided to leave. Which is why I just asked her now. Probably the reason it didn’t work out in the first place tbh, killed the attraction.
/r/seduction18/02/25 09:40 PM
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You feel guilty because society has conditioned you to feel guilty. When you do something against social norms thats your hindbrain telling you, that you may be ostracized from the group, which would mean death in old days. You’ve done nothing wrong assuming your intentions were pure especially if you didn’t know. In todays world girls like that 9/10s are all fucking way more successful and older dudes because they can. With the power of Insta and social media an 18 yr old girl can get a celebri…
/r/seduction07/08/24 01:15 PM
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Online blowsss. Join events based on your interests. Number one tip I give to Women is you need to appear approachable at the very least. Get good at making eye contact with guys you’re interested. Flirting, touching their arm, brushing your hair, laugh at his jokes, eye contact again. Guys are REALLY dense Also don’t get sucked in the trap of dating guys who clearly aren’t looking for anything. Im not going to elaborate but its fairly obvious. Lastly I would stop putting so much pressure on thi…
/r/seduction26/03/24 11:29 PM
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Now imagine if makeup and filters didn’t exist. What a world we live in. Thats exactly why people need to go outside. So many of these girls look nothing like their pics. If you want a reality check watch a girl edit and instagram photo.
/r/seduction15/02/24 03:47 AM
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I feel like this only applies to 9-10s who rely solely on their looks. 9-10s who were raised to develop actual personalities tend to have lower bodies imo because they can pick whoever and don’t need as much external validation because all their worth doesn’t lie in their looks.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/23 01:24 AM
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It’s actually insane how much being seen with a hot women would do for you. Especially with girls that initially reject you, it makes them go nuts.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/23 11:50 AM
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Tinder is dead its like 80% guys. 20% women so women are doubly selective. Girls that would never be able to date a fit guy are now demanding he be at least 6ft because they can. Guys that would do well in person are shooting down, its simple economics. This in turn fuels there egos. The ratio used to be better and Tinder has gotten especially greedy in the last couple years and who do you think is paying for subscriptios , not women. Tinder realized they make more money with frustrated men, the…
/r/seduction19/09/23 05:52 PM
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Also putting yourself in good situations where you meet these women is probably the most important. Bartenders, Bouncers, Djs, Promoters. Look up Zach bia he dated Madison beer. It doesn’t matter how much game you have if you’re not where the dimes are.
/r/seduction15/08/23 01:48 AM
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No I just deleted social media don’t tell me they got Jonah.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/23 07:30 PM
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Getting laid like you said teaches you valuable lessons that can only be learned through experience as I get older I see so many friends marry horrible girls, fail with girls, spend money on them and settle. Meanwhile she was getting her back blown out every weekend in college confirmed. It’s honestly amazing how girls reveal their red flags, like in a 2min convo I can prob estimate whether she’s ltr material or not. That is the point being able to not need women, because you understand what the…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/23 06:53 PM
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Feel that I always had the theory that its the collective attitude of short men that repulses women and they just lump the two together.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/23 06:48 PM
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It his location Miami is where all the party girls and instawhores move after college. Especially ones from that area. Im talking Fsu, Umiami etc. To them college never ends. New York is a little different because no one gives a shit who you are so girls aren’t getting the validation and actually have to get a job, LA is the same as Miami. Source. Me and my 3 best friends live in Miami, NY and LA.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/23 06:32 PM
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late reply but I actually did go to a Bad Bunny concert he was lit
/r/seduction06/10/22 01:04 AM
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Fuck yea you’re right. Can I recover or is it chalked
/r/seduction19/07/22 03:11 AM
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I’ m black not him lol
/r/askTRP19/05/21 02:06 PM
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I’m black lol I guess I wrote that wrong. But yea I only brought it up because I live in a majority white town and everyone is constantly telling me oh she may not like black guys and it’s getting to me.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 02:05 PM
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While I do agree with the 80/20 rule I think a common fallacy about it is that girls only choose the top 20% of men to fuck, rather I think it is only the top 20% of men know how to get girls and therefore do the fucking. Therefore even with social media the ratio remains constant. The vast majority of guys just have no clue how to get pussy tbh (ie 80% ) which leaves plenty for those who do (20%). If anything the rise of social media has just created a greater disparity between the 10% and up. …
/r/askTRP17/05/21 09:42 PM
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Wait why was there blood
/r/seduction02/03/21 03:04 AM
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Before I read these comments I was going to say value is having a good job, social life etc... but it seems a lot of people are saying value is subjective ie value = your terms of success. Which can mean anything from having a high paying job to backpacking through Europe or volunteering. I agree with this value is whatever you make out of life.
/r/seduction16/02/21 06:36 PM
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Just saw this. Not trying to contradict you or insinuate you’re wrong. But for one I’ve heard girls insult guys looks on a large number of occasions and still hu with them and I’ve personally had women admit to me that they didn’t find their SO attractive at first but the more they got to know them the more they grew on them and so did attraction. I think women might not even realize it themselves but they subconsciously factor personality into their attraction for a person. Not saying physical …
/r/seduction11/02/21 04:02 AM
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I would say the reason the sub doesn’t pertain to men is mainly because there really is no technique or game to getting guys. They really either like you or they don’t. Also the average women tend to typically have a lot more options as opposed to the average man. Honestly the best advice I could give is just to keep it as simple as possible. We are very straightforward in that if you tell us how you feel it is either a yes or no. You can play a million games but guys are either interested or th…
/r/seduction08/02/21 07:22 AM
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Never worry about something thats out of your control, its either A you can do something about, then you do it, B if you can't, then why worry. But remember regret is a lot worse than rejection I promise you that. You'll never have to wonder what if. Use that feeling to motivate you next time. Take it as a lesson learned.
/r/seduction11/12/20 05:08 PM
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yea Ig one thing I left out is you still have to talk to girls lol.
/r/seduction11/12/20 04:47 PM
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Exactly
/r/seduction11/12/20 04:01 PM
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I actually recently decided to cut down on alcohol intake so I understand where you're at. Things I think that help are staying present, get out of your head and stop thinking and just do, which is essentially what alcohol does. Also talking to as many people as possible helps, the first couple minutes sober will feel weird but you'll start feeling more comfortable as time goes on. One of my closest friends never plays drinking games but is the most social person I know and is always having the …
/r/seduction11/12/20 04:00 PM
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True! was actually about to write a post on this but on male friends!
/r/seduction09/12/20 09:38 PM
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100% agree it's so easy to get caught up in mental masturbation because scrolling through this sub is much easier than talking to girls and provides a feeling of instant gratification. When I first started I realized that this was happening to me and it stunted my growth more than it helped. I suggest not reading this sub at all and only using it if you have questions or want to provide some of your own input.
/r/seduction01/12/20 02:14 AM
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Depends on the person saying it and the person you’re saying it to. It might work really well for some and bad for others. I personally really like it because you won’t have to guess if a girls into you or not. And even if shes not if saves you time. Girls do like compliments but not too many. Could come of creepy if you have that demeanor but only way to know is to try Good Luck!
/r/seduction14/10/20 04:28 PM
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LMFAO so triggered. Clearly didn’t get the point of the post. Never said anything about him being poorer than me and since when is bad grammar comparable to homelessness. Didnt come to reddit to write an essay apa format with citations.
/r/seduction04/10/20 06:43 AM
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Public transport is the way to go for cities and metropolitan areas. But good luck not having a car in most suburban areas.
/r/seduction04/10/20 04:17 AM
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Not straightforward and nothing wrong with looking for advice. But clearly this guy was ignoring the bigger problem. Sometimes they need to hear the hard truth and get their priorities right. His improvement is the bare minimum, you can’t compare homelessness to the average person on this subs personal improvement.
/r/seduction04/10/20 04:14 AM
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Ofc but food and shelter come first as basic survival needs.
/r/seduction04/10/20 03:23 AM
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Focus on doing well in school, get good grades join clubs etc it’ll make your life MUCH easy trust me.
/r/seduction04/10/20 03:21 AM
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Have to disagree def dont ask saying from personal experience from when I was way younger, girl liked me the whole way through even told other people. Asked and ruined the whole mood girl thought I lacked confidence. After that never asked again and can say just doing it goes over much better. Also found that while some girls might respond well to asking almost all girls will respond well to you just going for it. You can also make your way back from a misread kiss. Asking can I kiss you and the…
/r/seduction03/10/20 12:26 AM
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I could tell by reading this sub your just look for reassurance that you should learn pick up and ignoring all the other advice telling you to focus on your life. Hate to be a dick but the mindset is probably why you’re in this situation. If you seriously think you should be learning pickup instead of looking for a job or home you’ll be miserable forever. And Pick up is just dumb tricks real attraction is formed by making connections with actual people and building your life. I’ve also seen that…
/r/seduction02/10/20 11:54 PM
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Good Post needed to hear this myself. So many guys including myself give up at the first sign of trouble. Girls are notoriously flaky and moody she could change her mind on a dime. Maybe you caught her at a bad time the first time. So much is happening. Starting to go the route of burning my interactions to the ground where its I keep going till I get a definite yes or a definite no. Yes while this can be needy if you do it where your not being persistant out of desperation it works. it gets peo…
/r/seduction22/08/20 08:54 PM
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