Salohcin22 Archive

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1	Why do you think feminists enjoy submissive fantasies? Yeah I think this guy is using the wong term too. There is a difference between what he is saying and ravishment. The former cannot have a fantasy, because it's against their will and could only count as a nightmare. However, a fantasy about being ravished is about being deeply desired by someone they deeply desired and after there is consent, the partner being barely able to control himself with how much he desires her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/20 05:12 AM
17	Most Women Here Miss the Point of “Go Lift” Getting less fat/skinnier and more toned is going to make someone objectively more attractive. And it's easier to date people when you're more attractive. That being said, that line he said about panties dropping is the cringiest r/Ihavesex thing I've ever heard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/20 05:06 AM
1	CMV: As a bisexual guy women are generally far more homophobic than men are when it comes to their partner being bisexual or having experimented with the same sex Yeah, that's all I was trying to say. Is that It's hypocritical for them to pretend to support the community or be preachy about it when they clearly don't actually support it and still hold prejudice. I agree that those types of girls don't want submissive men, but the difference is that that was in the past and if leading up to the guy telling her, he was dominate and not submissive, then the way he acted with previous partners should be none of that girls business. So in that situation either…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/20 05:02 AM
1	CMV: As a bisexual guy women are generally far more homophobic than men are when it comes to their partner being bisexual or having experimented with the same sex Sure, that's a perfectly fine thing to want. You can never force yourself to be attracted to something. In this case it would be the equivalent of any homosexual activity is an extreme fetish that someone doesn't want their partner to have and would be seen as an attraction that is most definitely not normal. I was just listing out reasons for other posts earlier that were unrelated to you. For example, the girls that didn't like imagining their partners possibly being submissive in the past is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/20 12:05 AM
1	CMV: As a bisexual guy women are generally far more homophobic than men are when it comes to their partner being bisexual or having experimented with the same sex As far as casual sex goes, there's no shame in avoiding bi guys as there is no way to have them do an STD check or know how much and with who they are sleeping around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/20 11:59 PM
1	CMV: As a bisexual guy women are generally far more homophobic than men are when it comes to their partner being bisexual or having experimented with the same sex I agree, not wanting to have sex with anyone should never be labeled as any type of phobic. That's like saying: You don't want to fuck me? That must mean you're a bigot that is prejudiced against me! That being said, not wanting to date someone they are initially attracted to because of their past if it involves anything less than 100% on the kinsian scale show's they look down upon, see as dirty, or judge any form of homosexuality. There can be a person who doesn't hate People of color, but tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/20 11:54 PM
1	CMV: As a bisexual guy women are generally far more homophobic than men are when it comes to their partner being bisexual or having experimented with the same sex You're right. It's a preference and doesn't mean they are homophobic as that assumes they hate homosexuality, but it does indicate they look down upon homosexuality, see it as unclean, see it as unmanly, and judge it. The problem with your comparison is that race has physical appearance elements in it. Someone might not be attracted to bone structure. But when your partner says they previously kissed a girl before and that changes nothing, and then they mentioned they also kissed 1 boy before, a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/20 11:45 PM
3	CMV: As a bisexual guy women are generally far more homophobic than men are when it comes to their partner being bisexual or having experimented with the same sex This is the real answer. My favorites were: "It's because all the gays have those gross STDs." Get an STD check then. "When I let my boyfriend fuck other guys, I didn't like it" No one likes their partner cheating and you should never encourage that. "Imagining my boyfriend be submissive makes me not want to be with him" So the made up mental situation of him not with you is what bothers you? Or the fact that you can imagine him doing something unmanly? That's just not being okay with him having…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/20 11:37 PM
2	Should everyone be looking for a real partnership from their relationship? Nahhhh, RPW sub got taken over by the TRP sub ages ago	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/18 02:48 PM
3	Why do men like wasting money on women. One side are deadbeats, and one side pedestalizes deadbeats.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/18 02:31 PM
3	Purge the negativity "#"NotAllIncels, haha. Yeah it's all about looks, but it's also all about social groups. If you're an engineer, then you're going to have a very little opportunities to be in a social group with girls. That means you need to get out more and take more things like cooking classes and art classes on Groupon or something	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/18 02:33 PM
1	Reminder that Atlas_B_Shruggin married a convicted felon who went to prison for wife beating. Literally no one should care about her opinions re: relationships I figured you were a toxic troll. People don't like you because you're blatently sexist and blatently an asshole. Wishing cancer on those who don't like you doesn't change that. Also, stop trying to add Racist to the list.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/18 11:36 PM
1	RP MEN: Don't hate the player, hate the game. Do you have any other ideas on what some categories might be? Obviously the binary is a false dichotomy, but what would a more nuaunced version be that could describe the dating scene more accurately?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/18 05:14 AM
2	RP MEN: Don't hate the player, hate the game. I agree for the most part. Right away when I met my wife, she 100% intended on having all her children with the same guy. This is one of the main reasons I chose to reproduce with her. Haha, I read that in a robots voice though. It's logical, but you could have worded it differently man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/18 05:08 AM
1	RP MEN: Don't hate the player, hate the game. Nice point on the unemotional part	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/18 05:04 AM
-1	RP MEN: Don't hate the player, hate the game. Lmao, you're being pretty dramatic by saying there are tons of 13year olds and 30year olds going to frat parties	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/18 05:00 AM
10	RP MEN: Don't hate the player, hate the game. Holy crap, you had some good points, but the more you talk with others the more I see they're right and you're the similar to the rest of the radical blues on the sub. He's not making fun of you, his point was that it sounds like the same old tale where a progressive woman tries to convince a bunch of trp guys that they should fit into a certain role to help them with the 'having their cake' part now that the 'eating their cake' part is over. "Who hurt you" is a condescending deflection tactic, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/18 04:57 AM
2	Tinder Studies Part Deux Huh, good point. Really wanted to down vote you there, haha	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/18 12:21 AM
4	Question for RP: do you think that 90% of people know that looks matter when trying to date? Thats a great term, a secular sin. Ive always wanted to use that but could never articulate it correctly	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/18 06:49 PM
2	Is effeminacy in gay men and masculinity in gay women a function of nature or socially constructed? Electra generally has very out there opinions on the left. In reality it doesn't make sense and isn't consistant because if sexuality and gender were socialized, then she that would mean gay conversion therapy works and is effective, which it isn't. Like all factors in biology, I think its more of a percentage and not black and white, similar to how height works, which is ~87% biological and the rest is environment. Cant remember the exact number or research papers. Sexuality is likely similarly…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/18 06:46 PM
0	[q4w] ladies why don’t you approach men first? you clearly didn't listen to what I said, and you're arguing against a wall. I basically said your whole second paragraph earlier, that it's rediculous for guys to complain about lack of being approached instead if approaching. The first paragraph is obvious, and of course there is going to be less drive on the girls side. That doesn't make it any less true that she is going to be behind all of the girls that don't approach, just like all the guys that don't approach are going to be behind most …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/18 02:24 AM
11	Feminism has given the women freedom to make stupid choices.......and some men really don't like that Well, I'd like to come in and say that I'm glad women have more rights, and just because someone doesn't like what feminism devolved into doesn't mean that they are somehow against women's rights. My issue with feminism as the ideology is that it goes against a lot of what used to be its core principles. I didn't like hearing women giving blanket statements against men as a whole on campus, I didn't like seeing the feminist group's Facebook spouting a bunch of hate poems against men about being …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/18 12:06 AM
1	[q4w] ladies why don’t you approach men first? to get to know all of them is a waste of time. is wisely eliminate bad options. by getting to know them, haha. If you want to be passive about finding a life partner, that's on you. I wasn't saying waste a bunch of time on everyone that asks you out. Just that Being proactive is going to help you in the long run instead of thinking life will deliver exactly what you're looking for to you. Adding to her options isn't self defeating when there is a filter on people that ask you out, they could eas…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/18 09:49 PM
1	[q4w] ladies why don’t you approach men first? Right, that's part of my point. If you're not interested in getting to know people all that's left is guys looking for sex and sex workers or whatever motivation a girl might have asking people. No one would try to befriend and get to know other people or casually date others to see what they're like if everyone thought like this. It's just saddening.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/18 07:43 PM
1	[q4w] ladies why don’t you approach men first? Well, I'm trying to show you how it can limit who you meet, and if you're trying to get a partner you're compatible with that line of thinking is self defeating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/18 07:40 PM
2	[q4w] ladies why don’t you approach men first? 1) No man is really all that interesting for me to want to get to know him better if I don't know anything about him to begin with. on the flip side guys could say "1) No woman is really all that interesting for me to want to get to know her better if I don't know anything about her to begin with." That being said introversion is a fair point, and I've had a decent amount of girls ask me out, so I never understand why guys complain and whine. Just ask out more girls if you want to date more, don…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/18 06:11 PM
1	How do you evaluate dating advice, concepts or models Yeah, definitely. All groups have the problem of those who it worked for leave, especially redpill.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/18 03:59 PM
1	How do you evaluate dating advice, concepts or models To be fair, they learned all of this from going in the field and testing hypothesis out, and diverged from what was told to them by society from the evidence they saw first hand conflicting with what was being told was 'true'. That's as close as you can get to the scientific method without going full academic with studies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/18 05:49 AM
1	[Q4All] what is Toxic feminity to you? Studies show that women tend to do more housework, child rearing and also shoulder more of the emotional burden even in households that claim to be equal. You do realize that equal ones don't have to do 50/50 of everything, right? Some people dont like fixing the car, some dont like cleaning, some don't like to work, and some dont like children. Of course if you pick the tasks that women generally like or are fine with doing and men generally arent, you're going to find women doing it more becau…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/18 12:52 AM
1	Having a good job is the bare minimum for men [Discussion] Right, and Im sure theres a lot more on the girls side of arguments. I'm showing you that guys can have just as many complaints about "modern women" as you have about "modern men", the fact is that everyone is different, and just like you are in the top 5% or whatever of women that go to the gym and care about getting toned/some muscle, there are an equal number of guys that are just like you. And yeah, when you have quotas for women all over the place and any social role its more beneficial to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/18 01:53 AM
2	Having a good job is the bare minimum for men [Discussion] Ehhh, no that is a pretty low range. No to mention she said she made good money and the 40-60 was the minimum. Plus, if you've got a life goal of family, the combined income needs to afford it, otherwise you're not living without the family you always wanted for yourself which leads to major regrets.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/18 05:44 AM
3	Having a good job is the bare minimum for men [Discussion] Yeah, don't listen to them, that's some backwards 3rd wold country crap if Ive ever seen some. It takes an extremist to say women shouldn't be getting equal pay for equal work, let alone 0.25 on the dollar.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/18 05:39 AM
1	Having a good job is the bare minimum for men [Discussion] I have to use a lot of my spare time for beauty maintenance while men get to just play video games and jack off to porn. Hahaha, this is a lot of people I admit. Great on you for offering to split, that's really considerate of you. That being said, guys generally have the same complaints but in different areas, so I think its safe to assume that there are equal numbers of lazy people on both ends since we're all humans. The guys complaints will often be why do I have to go to the gym all the tim…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/18 05:28 AM
1	Why Are So Many Men Verbally Abusive In Dating? Uthere you go! I hate that typical: If you have a lot of complaints or think everyone has an issue, then YOU have an issue while also doing exactly that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/18 12:04 PM
2	Male, overweight, short and unattractive in teenage years to tall, athletic and handsome in my 20s. How to overcome viewing women as so shallow? ;) Fair point, you win this one, hahaha	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/18 04:00 AM
-1	Male, overweight, short and unattractive in teenage years to tall, athletic and handsome in my 20s. How to overcome viewing women as so shallow? Well that's just mean and ridiculous. Using a common insecurity among the recently fit for a cheap, low-blow shot? You must be real fun irl.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/18 10:09 PM
1	Physical attractiveness. Well, you can't say that they don't care. They generally care disproportionately about looks, but it depends on the guy. I'd say the really intelligent guys care a lot more about personality. And the ones that want marriage and that want an equal partner also care a lot more about personality. I'm just saying biologically in the past those guys get weeded out a lot, and guys generally care more about the SMV instead of the RMV, which is part of the reason for the dis-proportionality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/18 04:20 AM
1	Physical attractiveness. Ehhh, men do care about personality, just the more they care about sex the less they care about personality. When it comes to marriage they will indeed marry the agreeable girl. Also, when men like the same things that women like, they will be less likely to like that because of the whole natural selection thing. If men also liked height or also liked money, then they are already conflicting with the girls they are trying to date, as the girls are looking for the same thing, so why date a guy th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/18 08:07 PM
10	CMV: When men say "ladylike", they really mean "motherly". What argument? You just claim men act like children. I don't even see any anecdotes in there, which is probably what this huge generalization is based on. I despise parts of my mother and if any girlfirends remind me of her, I lose a good chunck of attraction and will leave if I think it won't change. Ive had to mentor and help grow my last girlfriend, should I make the same silly argument that women are children because my last girlfriend acted like one? No. That would be sexist and disregardin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/18 07:51 PM
1	Why A Woman's Sexual Past Matters yeah, that's the issue I had with my last relationship. I dated a girl for a year, granted she was an extreme introvert and/or had extreme social anxiety. She never really opened up and acted like who she really was, even though she did at small points and I encouraged her. I told her I wanted to see what she was really like, even with some of the flaws because then I can really love her, but she kept putting up the mask. Whenever I encouraged or complimented her, she would become discouraged, w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/18 11:24 PM
1	Why A Woman's Sexual Past Matters yeah, that's the issue I had with my last relationship. I dated a girl for a year, granted she was an extreme introvert and/or had extreme social anxiety. She never really opened up and acted like who she really was, even though she did at small points and I encouraged her. I told her I wanted to see what she was really like, even with some of the flaws because then I can really love her, but she kept putting up the mask. Whenever I encouraged or complimented her, she would become discouraged, w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/18 11:24 PM
1	Why A Woman's Sexual Past Matters Right. you're good. I figured you meant people who were both high n count and extroverted, but was curious. Also, I've heard a bunch of rumors that two introverts generally have a hard time if they're in a relationship together because of either communication issues, a lack of talking with/spending time together, or not completely opening up together, but have only heard vague stuff and would like to hear if that's true or not, or any cases where that wasn't true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/18 03:57 PM
4	Why A Woman's Sexual Past Matters Alright, with point number one then the logic holds up. And I missed his point on #2 because I was referencing your quote. That is another stupid statement on his part. And the character limit explains a lot. Even if his statements were retarded, the 'lol no' and emoticon isn't really a refutation, but with that many quotes and rebuttals, it makes sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/18 03:33 PM
1	Why A Woman's Sexual Past Matters Saying men liking virgins is insecurity is disingenuous. The same logic could be applied to Marriage, Child care, and Alimony for women. And of course a smaller subset of men that want marriage. Plus, while you have some great points, such as the extra factors not taken into account into the study, and I agree it's a stupid point that virginity matters for girls but not for guys. It's quite clear, however, that you are arguing against his every point just for the sake of argument. Especially wit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/18 03:10 PM
1	Why A Woman's Sexual Past Matters so does that mean if someone had a low n count but is more extroverted then you'd want to be with them less? I've personally seen somewhat extroverted people match up well with somewhat introverted people, partly because the extrovert can do all of the communication tasks, and partly because conversations are a lot more rare between two really introverted people. Just curious on the reasons.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/18 02:37 PM
1	Q4Feminists: Why do you have so much difficulty admitting that sexism against men is a thing? no, your answer was fine for a different question. Please explain what I'm missing here because I want to give you the benefit of the doubt but I can't see how this answers the question with anything I can interpret from your answer. Q4Feminists: Why do you have so much difficulty admitting that sexism against men is a thing? A: Boys were treated more harshly/physically a couple of decades ago (but so were girls) A: Boys did not have freedom to run around wild, and were mostly ignored unless the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/18 06:51 AM
1	Q4Feminists: Why do you have so much difficulty admitting that sexism against men is a thing? Can you make a response to the question please? Violence and sexism are two different things, and while I agree with you that there is less violence today, the sexism against men has only gotten worse, and not only has feminism denied it exists, but they've contributed to the problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/18 01:07 AM
4	Q4Feminists: Why do you have so much difficulty admitting that sexism against men is a thing? Well, there are a lot of feminists and whiny feminists on Tumblr. A lot of feminist activists go against men's right issues such as these, so it's disingenuous to say that feminists are helping men's rights issues like those when they are actively hurting and do very little on them. Obviously feminism doesn't have to help those issues, but you can't claim it's fighting for men's rights or even equal rights because of the section that actively hinders men's rights. He went overboard with the slav…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/18 12:56 AM
1	Q4Feminists: Why do you have so much difficulty admitting that sexism against men is a thing? He expressed himself perfectly. Also, writing something vague doesn't mean he can't write or express himself. 'To be fair' is a colloquialism used in the United States which means they are on your side or agree with you, but think your arguments are a little too far or too harsh. They will then come with a counter point or counter example.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/18 12:46 AM
2	CMV: During sex, men commit to the possibility of a child. Women commit to the possibility of pregnancy. So men who regret impregnating a woman only have themselves to blame. Not to mention, you're forgetting the fact that a lot of women still think that killing a fetus is the same as killing a human baby. Whether or not that's true, which biologically, it is, doesn't matter. They don't have a choice in this because whether your beliefs are correct or not, If you think what you're doing is murder then it breaches your ethical bottom line and it is quite reasonable to say that someone with that set of beliefs has no choice because their choice in their eyes is for the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/18 02:57 AM
1	CMV: My/A former slut can not fully commit to monogamy But of-course, you and the other poster hsve gone off the original topic of "material gains", not why women get divorced and if it is "worth it" I never did such a thing. I advise sticking to the topic and actually providing some substance to your answers. I never argued anything against you, just expressed agreement with someone else, who I normally disagree with. I talk to divorced women all of the time... First thing they talk about is how much money they can get from the divorce. well I appr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/18 04:51 PM
1	CMV: My/A former slut can not fully commit to monogamy I agree, /u/Actanonverba11 is just repeating dogma	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/18 03:25 PM
3	A Letter for Blue Pill He is trying to communicate with people that completely disagree with him so that each side can understand each other, and hopefully gain any additional truths that they didn't see because "That's what the other side believes, that can't be true." I wish you learned from him, Electra. I appreciate that you're always civil and use logic appropriately, but a lot of the times your comments always seem like an extreme left, or what the opinions of some extremist feminist would have. The comments loo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/18 01:04 AM
8	Men, would you rather share a hot woman or have an 'ok' woman exclusively? B obviously. People are saying you put too little negatives on B, but I say you didn't put enough positives on A. Sex with A is on her schedule, which when she could easily pull 3 guys out of her league for the ones on the side, it's obvious the guy will almost never get any sex. She wants the cuck to do more of the cooking, which seems like she has enough disdain for him to turn him into a housemaid. I doubt she can respect a guy that would let her do that and THEN do all the cooking and cleani…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/18 05:42 AM
2	Is there a red pill for women who want to find attractive beta providers? You go pink rose! This dude is obviously being bitter while you're being reasonable. I hate how sexist feminism has become as the next dude, but if we had more reasonable people leading by example and policing the sexist in each group, then the world would be better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/18 09:57 PM
1	Weekly Saturday Gender Wars Megathread (27 January 2018) It already did crash pretty terribly once China banned exchanges. It could crash again if another country bans exchanges but long term I think it's just going to go up and up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/18 09:38 PM
3	Weekly Saturday Gender Wars Megathread (27 January 2018) Thank you! This sooo much. If financial responsibilities are split then cleaning, chores, and raising kids should also be split. That being said if one person is making more then I think the other person should be doing that % work of the chores.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/18 09:35 PM
1	Q4Men: would you marry/ LTR a woman who doesn’t do her hair, wear makeup, or dress stylishly? I'm sure there are plenty out there. I'm not saying it as if it's a bad thing to wear makeup. I'm saying given that both have the exact same personalities starting off, the one with makeup will be treated better by everyone, will have a much easier time getting boyfriends (which in and of itself can keep raising expectations for future relationships) and so on. I'm not a good person to try and make a rule for how guys act, as I'm generally an out-lire in a lot of things. The question was would y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/18 01:31 AM
1	Q4Men: would you marry/ LTR a woman who doesn’t do her hair, wear makeup, or dress stylishly? no, it was a random example. of course 5/10 is average. it was simplest to talk about looks as well. of course other stuff is way more important. I didn't want to bore anyone with a long set up. I generally don't care that much about weight and stuff like that, and care tons about their personality and drive	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/18 01:31 AM
1	Do women not want to be treated like objects? If not, then why do they act like them? I completely agree that most had it made for them by a lack of sexual options that they're happy with. I'd say extremely few went down my path, and I went down it because I became obsessed with ethics, religious influences, and girls that take that route generally want guys that take that route. I only really care about marriage and one girl, and am not really attracted to most women's personality. So maybe its partially that I didn't feel connected enough with the women I met and therefore didn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/18 02:42 AM
1	Do women not want to be treated like objects? If not, then why do they act like them? oooohhhh, XD no wonder, that makes waaaaayyy more sense. Yeah take it as bragging or BS all you want, I feel surprised a lot, my self, especially when I see everyone constantly complaining and putting down girls for not doing that. Yeah, I definitely need to ask girls out way more. At the moment I'm super focused on work so once I've met a few more goals I'll put a ton more effort into asking girls out and dating. Yeah a lot of people think my choice is retarded, but I still think that abstinenc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/18 02:25 AM
3	Q4Men: would you marry/ LTR a woman who doesn’t do her hair, wear makeup, or dress stylishly? Easy. Because makeup and hair styling is temporary and not genetic. If there are two girls that are 7/10 for example and are exactly the same, but one of them is great at style, makeup, and doing their hair, and the other is not, then the one that is will have over-inflated their sense of worth to lets say a 9/10, and there will be more demand for her and less supply of girls that look like her. Because of this, it is much easier to lock down or marry the 7/10, and lets be honest, they will prob…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/18 02:02 AM
0	Do women not want to be treated like objects? If not, then why do they act like them? haha, I guess. I don't think that I do though. I just feel really lucky. I'm not religious but think its the right and ethical thing to do. That and I want someone I can spend the rest of my life with, and if you're used to doing stuff with different people you just met on the second date, then I don't think that anyone that acts like that really wants marriage or can hold themselves from cheating. Especially after you got used to so many varieties of sex, things will get old a lot faster and if…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/18 11:58 PM
1	Do women not want to be treated like objects? If not, then why do they act like them? Sure. The last one was last week at a wedding, we got paired up. She gave me her number through my friend that I was the groomsman for and said she thought we got interrupted. She ended up wanting to do stuff on the second date, but I kind of want to save it for marriage, and that was definitely way too fast for me, so even though she offered for me to sleep over I left and she told me she just wanted to be friends on the fact that I don't drink much/ am a light drinker and the age difference. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/18 05:49 PM
3	Do women not want to be treated like objects? If not, then why do they act like them? Im 22, so no. Im 5'10 so not 6'. I don't consider myself the top whatever percent of men because I'm balding, but I do have some muscle from high school swimming because I knew from an early age the more I brought to the table the better. I have a moderate gut too. 39" waist, so not too bad but definitely not perfect. I'm very friendly though? Not sure why I get so many girls asking me, so maybe its because I show a lot of interest in what they're interested in? I'm very handy and have a lot of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/18 05:37 PM
10	Do women not want to be treated like objects? If not, then why do they act like them? Does anyone else think this post is ridiculous and bitter? Women ask men out all the time, but are discouraged from doing so because of guys that like to be the ones to pursue. The last 6 girls I've been on a date with asked me out, and Im balding. About stem, I wish more women were doing that, as I'd love to see more women around the workplace but they value human interaction and caring for or taking care of other people more. The only girls that do that are the entitled feminists Instead they …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/18 02:32 PM
2	what should women write on dating profiles? I think /u/prodigy2throw meant more of a turn off to those that are looking for long term relationships. Of course a lot of men who just want sex will ignore any personality turn off when they only care about looks and if they can get sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/17 12:37 AM
1	Q4BP: Is a guy an asshole or wrong for breaking up with a girlfriend due to lack of sex or not getting good sex? not really. That applies to normal statements but no an absolute for everyone. statistically Bear would be in the clear because after living however many years lets assume 20, if women really said that all the time then it would be basically statistically impossible for her to not hear that statement her whole life. And like I said, something that is fallicious can still be true. It doesn't really matter. my point was that she was hardly arguing and just giving her experience and the first guy w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/17 03:48 AM
1	Q4BP: Is a guy an asshole or wrong for breaking up with a girlfriend due to lack of sex or not getting good sex? Except Samurai used an anecdote. https://yourlogicalfallacyis.com/anecdotal Not to mention, the claim he made was an absolute about half the population saying one statement "all the time", plus Bear wasn't even actually trying to disprove anything. Bear literally said that they personally have never heard that in their life, and never claimed that what samurai said was wrong. Also, because samurai made an absolute claim, the anecdote actually works as a correct logical way to disprove it, as inf…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/17 03:35 AM
1	Q4BP: Is a guy an asshole or wrong for breaking up with a girlfriend due to lack of sex or not getting good sex? This is not a tu quoque fallacy. That happens when the same person makes inconsistent claims, and you exert that the second claim can't be true because they said the first claim which opposed it. That statement was good enough. it wasn't a rebuttal that completely disproved it with evidence, but since the first statement was an anecdotal, an anecdotal response is enough to level the field. I said "to be fair" because it was likely that you saw the first anecdote as evidence, and was just giving …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/17 02:04 AM
1	How prevalent is female sexual harassment of males? More common than you'd think or almost nonexistent? I replied to the wrong person	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/17 01:52 AM
1	Q4W: What would it take for you to go WGTOW? oh ok, I apologize for misunderstanding you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/17 01:52 AM
1	How prevalent is female sexual harassment of males? More common than you'd think or almost nonexistent? Thanks for the info. Seeing a lot of people to help the numbers game helps out. Are these doing the harassing or getting harassed?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/17 06:21 PM
6	How prevalent is female sexual harassment of males? More common than you'd think or almost nonexistent? The western world isnt africa. This isnt cherry picking because no one knows or cares when a guy is sexually harassed and the talk show hosts suffered 0 social reprocussions, showing that its socially acceptable to secually harass men. Dont go to different locations of the world where there are more criminals and less laws to try and support your sexist views against men. All you have to do is switch gender roles in situations to see how prevalent this is on TV. A lot of my favorite shows do thi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/17 06:16 PM
1	Q4W: What would it take for you to go WGTOW? Not at all. That would mean that every time someone who planned to have a long term relationship but ended up breaking up was lying or didn't know himself. There are tons of situations where this is because of other reasons. My last relationship I believed in my gf too much and while I learned after a couple of months she was pretty useless skill wise, she had the best personality I could hope for, and was really caring, understanding, and loving. After the relationship went on, I learned that t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/17 12:41 AM
5	Q4BP: Is a guy an asshole or wrong for breaking up with a girlfriend due to lack of sex or not getting good sex? To be fair, /u/theiamsamurai used the exact same line of logic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/17 12:20 AM
1	Q4W: What would it take for you to go WGTOW? I understand that statement for if he left you if you two were married, but if that's not the case, how would him leaving you make him worse / not the guy you thought he was?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/17 04:27 AM
3	Q4All: Is higher intelligence a trait that women desire? Your first paragraph hits reality spot on. Every time someone talks about their "162 IQ" while also in a child-like rant, it brings back fun memories of /r/Iamverysmart	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/17 06:28 AM
1	Q4All: Is higher intelligence a trait that women desire? Nothing!!!! Haha	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/17 06:23 AM
2	Q4All: Is higher intelligence a trait that women desire? The main problem is that there is no reliable way to do an IQ test. Most online IQ tests are BS and give you a high score. www.iqtest.dk seems to work for me. I got pretty high the first time, but after that you cant really measure accurately because you already know some patterns. Also, IQ only measures pattern recognition, so that means those who are more paranoid or see patterns where there aren't any or see more false positives will do better. In fact there were a few studies correlating men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/17 06:19 AM
5	CMV: Sexless marriage is the mirror of pump and dump. yeah, this sounds pseudoscience-y. Is there any way to verify this thought process? Will this mean that women will view their one-night stands more favorably than their current boyfriends or spouses if asked? I don't believe in your statement, but assuming it's true, what would we have to ask/do that logically shows that it is?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/17 10:56 PM
1	Updated Male Participation Rule and General Reminders I did that in the past, and am asking if you want me to do that again and do it continuously. Your answer is "yes" correct? And when you said earlier that RPM is not a casual place to post, but men should mostly lurk and only post occasionaly, how does that work? Am I misunderstanding? Also, I was banned on my last account from trp when I posted theories that would actually be more beneficial to RPW in TRP, askTRP etc. when I posted theories that were more productive and more of the male side to…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/11/17 02:59 PM
2	Updated Male Participation Rule and General Reminders Quick question: how much do we have to actively participate in trp if we have in the past? One of the main reasons I lurk on this sub and support peoples posts or shoo away a guy who is breaking the rules is because I think some of TRPs actions in response to the truth is toxic, and rpw does a great job about being productive instead of being angry, resentful, or taking all that they have learned about male and female nature that is negative and using it in a gross/ignorant PUA way. Are you sugg…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/11/17 06:00 AM
5	Where can I find quality men? I agree. I think the study he used in particular is statistically fallicious. The statistic is an oversimplification of an oversimplification. If you were to put women in two main groups: those who are actively trying to raise their N count and dont want marriage/ long term relationship versus those who want the opposite, you can make that fallicious claim that every time your n count raises, there is a higher rate of divorce, when the reality could easily be that at lower n counts, if its raise…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/11/17 05:53 AM
6	What is the mans vs womens "jobs" in a RPW household? Ignore him. RPW does well in that it is actually productive with the information. It's common sense that TRP is somewhat corrupted by some bitterness, and resentment. Any idiotic statements like "Women are incapable of loving men as he expects." That also sound like some angsty incel teenager should be ignored. Your analysis was way more valid than his, and follows reality more accurately.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/11/17 01:54 AM
5	Please help me know if what I did was really wrong or he is overreacting. Daaaang, that cuts so deep but it's extremely true. Perfect wording, best and most concise comment in this thread by far.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/10/17 02:10 AM
1	I hate myself because of my high n-count..advice? You're not tarnished. If you stick to RPW advice, you can recover after a long period of time. As long as you're still able to properly pair bond with him, you don't compare him sexually with your previous bfs, wishing for the past, then I don't see that there is that much of an issue, especially if you are actively going against that past. Also, the average amount of partners in their life that a girl has is 22 while the amount for a guy is 7 so that amount is at least managable still, although…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/10/17 01:32 AM
5	We hit 20,000 members. Lurkers and Newbies come out and say hi! Lurker here, sometimes comment. I try to help those I can and love that RPW takes a lot of truths from TRP but is productive with the info and constructive to relationships, a family, and marriage	/r/RedPillWomen	30/10/17 06:27 AM
2	Afraid of being alone forever... "I tend to be an anxious-avoidant attachment type, so as soon as someone tells me they like me I'll be fine to move on to someone else" I found the problem, you're only attracred to guys that don't like you! Hahaha In all serious though if you keep asking guys out you will be much better off than most girls. I'm trying to start my own business and have an education and nice job, and want to start a family and build my life with someone. While I can't speak some for everyone in the category, I ca…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/10/17 02:04 PM
-7	Afraid of being alone forever... I dont think she ever said she had a phd.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/10/17 12:57 PM
6	Husband said leading is "sickening" Yeah, this is pretty true. He could also think that you are either suddenly feeling lazy or censoring yourself if you had an opposing opinion. I think what you could do is tell him a lot of the times you disagreed was because you wanted to get your way or didnt want to look wrong, etc. and you weren't being as supportive as you should have been. Tell him that you will still have your own opinions and disagreements, but that you are giving him a veto power to override the 50 50 if he deems necess…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/10/17 04:42 AM
1	Lay it on me straight--can I have nerdy tendencies and still be feminine, or should I forsake them completely? Guys saying stuff like that is very unusual in my personal experiebces, but Im multiple states away so the culture may be different. I can only imagine party bros saying that unless there is a significant smv difference to the point that any guy can see it. Don't act like a different person and feel like being nerdy is unattractove; its not. Girls that are also nerdy are pretty rare, and many are making a living playing games on twitch because of it. While the bimbo profile may have gotten more …	/r/RedPillWomen	01/10/17 02:40 AM
1	Temptation Truer words have never been spoken. Well said. TRP has been stuck and stagnated. I like to believe that most of the community never actually realized the truth. They became anger phase and were lucky to stumble upon the truth while trying to find rationalizations for their hatred. They found the rationalizations but unfortunately that was their only goal.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/09/17 04:30 AM
2	I hate trying to date. Edit: oops, cant reply to the post from my phone and acidentally replied to you instead of /u/pinkdrawings If it makes you feel better, I would love to date someone in this situation. I think im thin for the most part and have some muscles, and a steady job and appartment, hoping to find someone to marry, and while weight decreases smv for other guys, Im still attracted, especially if they are hard working. I care about intelligebce, loyalty, kindness, and gratitude more than anything. I think t…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/09/17 05:13 AM
10	boyfriend's threesome in the past. sexual content inside. What? Hahaha you're confusing the two. I player type guy would do a FFM, a desperate or bisexual guy would do a MMF. I dont know why the double male makes you shudder. Maybe you're homophobic and that is a deal breaker for you. You wouldn't be in the minority, according to dating websites, most women wouldn't date bisexual guys. Just ask more about the situation and find out what was going through his head.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/09/17 01:38 PM
1	I need emotional support but I do not want to be needy Literally if you tell him almost verbatum this, it will have the desired effect. He will then know its a one off and that you desire emotional suplort but will also show your desire to avoid being needy. This opens it up to him telling you if you're being too needy, but more than likely he will reassure you that he loves helping you and that you are not being needy at all. Im sure he will just feel better and/or more masculine from you relying on him more.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/09/17 05:13 AM
3	'Slag culture' has destroyed dating I dont think she is lieing by saying how long she has been single. I do agree with you on everything else though. Saying the truth will always clear up almost all miscommunications. Of course something to make the conversation lighthearted afterwards is still good. OP can eaven ask if they have ever been deeply hurt by someone that was close to them, and it might have you two truley reveal who you are and flaws and stuff. As long as you're not 100% negative of course	/r/RedPillWomen	12/09/17 01:50 AM
4	Former feminist facing a crossroads Im a guy in STEM, it may be other things. The ratio is so bad in stem that if you even try and make friends with some of the girls it'll be seen as hitting on, so guys either learn and don't talk to the girls they aren't already friends with, or they are already socially awkward and loved playing video games instead. It could be other things, but dating a non engineering person, a lot of times engineering related topics can be boring. I personally don't think that men are ever intimidated by the…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/08/17 05:04 AM
2	RP Relationships & Abortion? thank you, I didn't want to say it but it is definitely no where near as effective as birth control. Not at all.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/08/17 10:55 PM
0	RP Relationships & Abortion? they did not want that many kids because they wanted to. Most of these kids were from "Safe Days". I highly doubt it is really that effective, and Condoms should be used instead. The rigor required seems like too much, and doing this with the pull out method should not be used as a substitute for using a condom. Frankly, it seems like part myth and pseudoscience to me, or at least unreasonable to stick to correctly where all it takes is one day of not sticking to it correctly out of 365 (or 0.27…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/08/17 04:05 AM
0	RP Relationships & Abortion? Just so you know, most of my family ised the NFP ovulating tracking method, and most have 7+ kids. Our family is catholic, literally most if not all big catjolic and mormon families use this method and think it works. (It doesn't) You should tell him, deciet is never the answer. You should also tell him parts of what you said here. "I'm not ready to be a mother and I don't want to start a family like this. I feel really trashy. I just wish this wasn't happening." Is a perfect thing to say. You N…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/08/17 01:15 AM
1	how do you feel about video games? I don't really feel like I should be actively competing with an inanimate object. That's the point she is trying to make. It could easily be that he's overly obsessed with them and that is his problem, or it could be that he considers the time with you less because of a flaw of yours that makes him dislike spending time with you. He may feel like he is stuck with you and dislikes spending time with you / is going through the motions. My friend is in that situation with his girlfriend. I honestly…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/08/17 06:01 PM
4	how do you feel about video games? u/Shaela90 is completely right. Honestly though, I think a lot of guys get addicted to gaming and they are neglecting their girlfriends. And bringing the problem to him will definitely help. There is a game one of my game obsessed friends is recommending I play called "Contradictions". It is basically a movie with choices but he loves it. Another thing is you guys could try playing "The Walking dead" or many other games made by "TellTale" that are also games that are mainly cut scenes with optio…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/08/17 05:33 PM
6	How do I politely tell the gentleman I'm just not interested in you. just block him then. Tell him clearly that you are sorry but what he is doing is unethical and that you don't want to interact with him every again, and that you will consider any further attempt to interact with you harassment. From then on, I'm pretty sure you can get moderators involved.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/08/17 05:09 PM
2	Advice for how to handle a month away from each other? This part is a more personal story of mine, and less objective and more of an opinion piece, so it's up to you if you want to read it, but it gives my answer background. Also, this may turn into a bigger problem down the road. My last girlfriend had this problem where she let her parents control her and her life even though she was 22, and I eventually broke up with her because of it. I loved because of her personality. Weight, fashion sense, and somewhat looks didn't matter to me. As well as I …	/r/RedPillWomen	06/08/17 05:06 PM
1	Advice for how to handle a month away from each other? You're asking for advice on how to deceive your grandma, but I would say that the truth of the matter is that what she is doing is controlling, her behavior is unacceptable, and Although the culture dictates that an elder can boss you around even if you're an independent adult, and shouldn't allow a relative to control you into damaging your relationship. I know it may cause discord, but I would choose openly opposing the grandma than be deceitful about it every time. Especially when they are th…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/08/17 05:04 PM
6	How do I politely tell the gentleman I'm just not interested in you. I think also telling him that you would never date or marry anyone that is or was married would help. That way you can reject any possibility of you two being together without rejecting him as a person. Also, if you were to tell him that talking with him is taking up too much time and you want to talk only every other day, or only one day a week would be fine. I think anyone that asks you to marry them online without dating needs a reality check in some way, so I wouldn't be too worried about hu…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/08/17 04:33 PM
1	girlfriend donating eggs and It's making me uncomfortable. Thoughts from TRP women? The 'quick money' way of thinking most of the time ends up in financial ruin. Some people have thought like this in my family, and they have lost so much and have developed gambling problems or become lazier and less ethical over time. With the exception of my uncle of course, after he got a job as a plumber.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/08/17 04:19 PM
1	Picking a career, but my goal is to be a stay at home mom Just FYI, swift is not a back end programming language. I think she paused while typing and started a completely knew line of thinking. Backend is payed a lot more because it seems boring and is a lot harder because all of the concepts you are implementing are all abstract/imaginary, and an error can't be immediately seen. Swift is the Front end for Iphone Apps, and java is used as a front end for android phones. (It can also be used for a back end, and for desktop applications) VR and AR are de…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/08/17 03:49 PM
2	Picking a career, but my goal is to be a stay at home mom I can teach you some java if you want. I know a ton of it, and do it at my job every day. Also I'm a little rusty since I used to teach a ton in high school so It would help me get the concepts better solidified and defined in my mind, so it won't be too much trouble.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/08/17 01:46 AM
4	Picking a career, but my goal is to be a stay at home mom Holy crap, I'd like a wife like this, haha. I'm computer Science as well and you have to keep in mind that girls still get hired 2:1 in the field, and while things can change fast, people will always be willing to mentor and teach programmers that are willing to learn, especially if it's a girl programmer. I'm pretty sure its easy to do Part time as a contractor. While STEM isn't for everyone and can be Really hard, especially since guys care more about things and ideas, once you make it, you'll…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/08/17 01:44 AM
1	Reiterating RPW I completely agree. Charisma is a very hard thing to develop, and if you're not naturally charismatic then it uses a lot of energy. Everything else you said is spot on as well. You should check out the youtube channel Charisma On Demand. All of his videos are really insightful and pick up on a lot of complex techniques that I thought only I was noticing.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/08/17 12:49 AM
1	How to start vetting in the beginning stages of getting to know each other? Yeah, They were just some random ones I could think of off the top of my head. The dating experience definitely don't ask till much later on, but it's at lest A tool for vetting, even if you know him for the most part. Yeah, that one was manipulative, but I didn't have much experience for vetting on a girls side. That one was one from my first girlfriend, and now that I think about it, it is manipulative, which she was actually psychotic on other things(starving pets, manipulation, emotional/phy…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/08/17 12:45 AM
2	Reiterating RPW Yeah, that's completely true. I think it's also harder for women to develop charisma just because guys will give attention to girls just because they are pretty or are girls, so you can't really develop it well when there isn't much of a pressing need and you get false positive signals all the time while trying to develop it. This is what I really want to find, is someone that is really responsible and great in all other aspects, but is maybe "boring" or lacks charisma so that I can get an amazi…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/08/17 04:21 AM
0	How to start vetting in the beginning stages of getting to know each other? I'm having a case of the old reddit ego where I'm worried the person you're talking about might be me, which makes me wonder what I did to be sociopathic, hahaha. If it's alright could you tell me the first letter of his name? As for vetting, it's easiest if you have a gay friend or a guy friend that you trust befriend him and say really garbage bro things and see if he agrees or distances himself. Although, a guy might just act macho in that situation. If you can get a bunch of info on his past…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/08/17 04:15 AM
2	Reiterating RPW Thank you! :)	/r/RedPillWomen	02/08/17 03:14 AM
1	Reiterating RPW That's a very interesting and true point. Thanks for the comment, I never thought about that before. Do you think that in these cases they were lacking a high level of charisma or were considered "boring" by today's excitement standards, or do you think there were other RMV comparability factors as well?	/r/RedPillWomen	02/08/17 03:14 AM
3	Reiterating RPW You're good, I wasn't correcting you or anything. I was just trying to add on what I've seen personally somewhere that made sense in the comments. Your post is way more concise, and I hopefully didn't come off as sounding egotistical as I suspect I might. Thanks for the complement though. I appreciate it.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/08/17 03:58 AM
5	Reiterating RPW this is very true. Men that have higher values and want marriages with an equal partner or of equal age will almost never ruin a good relationship for some random young girl.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/08/17 01:55 AM
5	Reiterating RPW I do think that having a high RMV will keep a man from running off even when I hit the wall. I think it most definitely does. I'm going to add on some for u/cuspids if you don't mind fluffdumpling. RMV is also what most men base marriage potential off of, as they don't want to spend the rest of their lives putting up with crap. Most of the men that I have seen online talking about trading for a younger girl is because their gf or wife didn't develop their RMV over time, so they do cost analysis …	/r/RedPillWomen	01/08/17 01:50 AM
1	would you borrow money from a BF you lived with? Honestly, you sound like a pretty awesome girlfriend, so you shouldn't have to worry much. Guys like supporting their partners, and all the other things you do is more than enough to be waaaaay better than most girls out there. Especially if you're taking financial advice from him, as long as you're willing to learn, and are really thankful, he will like you more. Especially if you are going to get a better job than him in the future. If you're both cooking together, then you're completely fine.…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/08/17 01:33 AM
3	Still new and learning, any advice? No idea what you're like so I can't quite help you on that front, but one of the things I have noticed with the women I've met that were in debate in high school (I know, not quite a lawyer) is that they love to argue and be right. Almost all men that are confident and intelligent can tell when someone loves to argue or is trying to manipulate so that they win, and you will only lose them for it. Of course, I have no idea if this is even remotely true for you, but make sure not to use your legal…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/08/17 01:11 AM
3	what is your favourite thing that TRP taught you? Oh my gosh, I never thought about this, but it is 100% true. This may not be true for the first few interactions if a guy has anxiety, but after that it is completely accurate. This also indicated that I was unhappy with my relationship right before I split up with my girlfriend of a year. She and her mom thought it came out of nowhere, and I felt kind of bad, but that was definitely a sign.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/08/17 01:03 AM
16	Why he might consider marrying you. hahaha, yes I lift, bro. it's just how passive aggressive your statement is. It's just a little cringe and really spiteful sounding is all. You could have easily communicated these concepts in past relationships if you're tired of dating girls that don't get them.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/07/17 11:58 PM
25	Why he might consider marrying you. Ladies, are you paying attention yet? That sounds kind of condescending. A Lot of women here already realize a lot of these things, which is why they are here. Talking down to them and acting spiteful is not productive at all.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/07/17 10:39 PM
1	Questions about RPW beliefs from a newcomer I agree a lot with your statement on nagging and want to add on. I think that any time you are doing something and ask for help, it is almost impossible to be called nagging. I've seen in my neighbors, who are a married couple that the wife will just sit there and command or dictate to the husband what he needs to do. In that case, the wife seems to be bossing the guy around or controlling him, and when the guy won't submit, the girl will keep 'nagging' If you were to start doing something, even…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/07/17 07:13 PM
1	How do you determine a man's character? In my experience, the lest fratty a guy acts and the lower the n count, the more his character tends to be intact. This isn't universal, but generally the more they care about ethics, are reasonable, and the less crappy things they've done, the better. I think the more open they are to marriage and the more invested they are in finding a life partner, the better. I think taking all of TRP values for finding what kinds of girls have a good character and flipping the gender for the most part works…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/07/17 06:35 PM
8	How to treat men at work? Don't listen to u/wn36 , u/TheLaughingRhino is on here a lot and gives some pretty solid advice. I would say if you're managing men, if you were to switch over your communication style to a more masculine one, that will definitely help. I don't mean talk manly, but women generally have a more subtly form to communicate what they really mean, and that can piss off a lot of guys. Take the advice to pretent like everyone is a snitch and a walking lawsuit like above, and then just act moderately lik…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/07/17 05:56 PM
5	What does your perfect marriage look like? I would love to be with a partner that was an equal. Someone who can help me improve and become a better person, and achieve my goals. Of course I would love to do that for them too/first, as long as its asked for and I don't come off as pushy/ungrateful. I would love to build my career as my wife builds hers, start and make a business that makes more than enough profit to quit my day job, and then teach our 4 kids everything I know, guide them into becoming responsible and disciplined, and help…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/07/17 04:11 AM
1	THE DAY SEX ROBOTS SAID NO TO FAT CHICKS - A book about a generation that's detached emotionally, how women put their feelings before logic, and a society of men with no attractive male attributes. That's actually an amazingly accurate twist. I love the plot, I'll read it once I'm done with my current book.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/07/17 03:53 AM
5	Promiscuity and pair bonding Don't listen to him. You know that avoiding marriage and children is not going to live to a fulfilled life.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/07/17 04:17 PM
1	Red Pill Advice for a 17 year-old? yeah, haha. it is ideal to know exactly what you want and find the right person. As for vetting her, the problem was that before we started dating, there were no signs whatsoever. I think before the relationship, she had actually changed a few times with our interactions. She was a valedictorian as well. My suspicion is that she figured out what kind of girl I liked from process of elimination and was targeting me the whole time, but it's impossible to know. And I made the classic mistake of loo…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/07/17 03:54 AM
1	Red Pill Advice for a 17 year-old? Yeah, I think the clarifications are important and complement what I was trying to say better. You're right, /u/RedPillWonder has some pretty good advice on improving. Sorry to think you were being accusatory, it's really hard to tell in text alone. After reading RedPillWonder, I think it might be better to have the first relationship with a guy that is more beta so that she can keep her n-count low and move on easier while also getting used to being social even if she is shy. I made that mistak…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/07/17 03:37 AM
6	Red Pill Advice for a 17 year-old? woh woh woh, chill, haha. I only said shy because she is shy so that is common in case she wants that shared commonality. The wife thing is because there is a chunk of men that regretfully just want to pump and dump, expecially with women that have lower SMV, and because I am guessing in the dark as to why she had no mother or father. Maybe her father did just that and her single mother couldn't take care of her so she gave her to the grandmother? Also, just because there is a vacuum/ shortage o…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/07/17 03:16 AM
6	Red Pill Advice for a 17 year-old? Some of the anecdotal things that I've seen that are very valuable traits in women are 1. Asking guys out 2. Complimenting guys 3. leading conversations 4. being interested in what your partner is interested in 5. Cooking (not a big one for me, as I love to cook, but most people in general were never taught how to cook and guys LOVE this trait) I think most girls put waaaay too much emphasis on their SMV and completely neglect their RMV, especially when they are trying to gain long term partner …	/r/RedPillWomen	09/07/17 05:04 PM
2	Do you ever take back a cheater? Definitely not. this happens when someone's respect for their partner is less than their desire for sex with just about anyone, which is a pretty low bar if you ask me. If it happened once, it will happen again, especially if its a LTR. Unless you are soon going to be close together, there's no way this is getting better. Also, out of the guys I've met that are cheaters, they end up having 0 compassion for the girls. I don't understand it at all but they seem like they regard women as a number o…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/07/17 12:42 AM
1	boyfriend (29) always vague about marriage when talking to me (25) about it ok, I think I unfairly included you in when the other guy seemed to be making the assumption that the entitlement was because she was a woman, so I apologize for including you in that statement. She has confronted him multiple times about it from the post, and the guy seems to be misleading with some of his statements. She might not deserve a timeline, but she deserves to at least be told the truth on what the problems or reasons are after she's confronted him. It sounds like he is being passive…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/07/17 06:05 PM
2	Are the majority of men that you encounter flaky/not that great at dating as well? ok, well I completely agree with you on that and I think it's ridiculous to invite someone out and then not pay for it on the first few dates, but what this thread was originally about was u/smirk_addict asking why that random user above expects the man to do all the interactions and pay for every single meal. The men that have a high RMV will not want to date financially broke women just like women with high SMV don't want to. So while yes, the high value women are going to be annoyed if you do…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/07/17 01:15 PM
3	boyfriend (29) always vague about marriage when talking to me (25) about it I think you misinterpreted what she thinks she deserves. She's not saying she deserves to get married, she is saying she deserves a better answer than misleading or waiting around. I think she deserves to at least be told the reasons he doesn't want to and her character flaws, as I believe she has said in other posts she would like to find out, if I'm not mixing up posts. that being said I believe the main problem of u/fairtdust91 due to more of her posts and more information is that she is extr…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/07/17 01:00 PM
2	Respect for women Thank you very much, I did not catch that, and have problems with reddit's formatting sometimes.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/07/17 12:34 PM
3	boyfriend (29) always vague about marriage when talking to me (25) about it Screw both of you. Stop coming in with your "You must be a feminist" crap. This is RedPillWomen and the last place a feminist will ever be. If both you and u/md8716 could stop it with the sexist undertones, then maybe you wouldn't be so bitter all the time. Any girl that has been dating a guy for years does deserve at least some hints about marriage. If the guy has been doing leading correctly, then he will have helped his partner improve to be marriable or have broken up with her.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/07/17 09:31 AM
1	How to manage awkwardness/social anxiety around someone you are attracted to? Go for it! he probably doesn't express interest because of that client relationship as well as you make it seem like you're not into him. u/Cardiscappa had the perfect response. Even if he didn't like you and he's single, let's be honest: He probably really loves boxing and wants to share that hobby with a significant other so there are few girls he can actually choose from. If you can't say it, even if you give him a note expressing your feelings I think that would still allow you to get into a…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/07/17 09:02 AM
2	Respect for women Some people allow the desire to win, others allow the respect to win. Therefore, acting on this desire expresses a lack of respect, it does not express a lack of love. That is so insanely true and insightful. I just had an epiphany when you did that and remembered all the different instances of videos and people that got cheated on, and this is extremely true!	/r/RedPillWomen	03/07/17 08:46 AM
1	Male friends exist... I think. FR I think a lot of guys want close female friends as of course a different perspective and all the other beneficial aspects of it help, but I think when they know that you are saving yourself for marriage, it will make some of the guys "friendzone" (cant find a better term) you because they don't want to marry you or want to date a girl like that. Of course u/MetalDevils could be right and he could be keeping you around as an option if he decides that waiting till marriage is worth it. Although, I…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/07/17 08:38 AM
1	boyfriend (29) always vague about marriage when talking to me (25) about it you do deserve a better answer, and don't worry about bringing it up too much. Ask him "what do you mean by in due time?" because that sounds like the perfect escape line for people that don't want to marry Last night he had a dinner party with colleagues and he told me that his boss asked him again whether we will be getting married and whether it will be happening soon but this time in front of everyone at the dinner table (he has already asked him the same Qs in private) and at first he refus…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/07/17 08:29 AM
1	How to set boundaries with nosy family? I always like going the honesty route. They could just be curious and have no idea you don't like it. When people don't know what to talk about relationships are one of the defaults. Can you provide more examples of questions? If you think they are purposefully probing despite you not wanting them to, try and figure out any possibilities. Are they curious, are they just making sure you're doing well? do they secretly dislike your boyfriend because of who he is or an action he's taken? Those ques…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/07/17 08:05 AM
3	Are the majority of men that you encounter flaky/not that great at dating as well? First off, I want to preface all this with: Obviously this has nothing to do with you and probably most women on this thread. These are just theoretical situations. I think he had at least somewhat of a valid point though. I understand paying for the first few dates, but what makes a girl deserve being paid for even if they are the initiators and ask the guy out? People aren't just entitled to free meals. Also, I think you missed one of his points and were skimming what he said the whole time. O…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/07/17 07:52 AM
1	How to define your "league" and handle rejection from guys in (or below) it? a lot of people like a lot of different things. One way you could do it is by making it more obvious. If you give a guy a complement, and I mean like any complement, it will be way more apparent to him that you want to date him. Don't worry about that guy at the gym as much. A lot of guys often feel creepy when trying to hit on or complement girls, and don't follow through because of a lot of other reasons. I didn't call this one girl because I had gotten out of a long term relationship and wasn…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/06/17 03:16 AM
4	Understanding infidelity On the other hand, male side of red pill crowd is mainly dominated by butthurt people and incels. All they ever talk is how fucked up the modern society and women are yet their solution to this problem is pumping and dumping them. This. I'm a guy but I only ever go to RedPillWomen because it's got some of the same content, but it's constructive and completely opposite of the extremely toxic RedPill men culture if Pick Up Artists (PUAs) and MGTOWs.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/06/17 03:01 AM
1	Non-RP men haha, this makes me feel a lot better. I'm 22 but I only want long term relationships and an equal that I can improve with. I've had this feeling that I'm weird or a " beta cuck loser" just because the relationship and partnership is what matters to me instead of sex. I have a really hard time figuring out where girls are that are really responsible. College is an obvious one but I already graduated =/	/r/RedPillWomen	08/06/17 12:26 AM