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| 7 | Straight men shouldn't be OBGYNs- what are your thoughts?Hmm what are y’all’s thoughts on women urologists? (Urologists deal with women too, but also have to deal with a lot of penises) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 03:51 AM |
| 2 | Us telling men “I’m not interested anymore” after seeing them follow tons of new girls in the same city on Instagram. Stay vigilant queens!Watch her Pickle ASMR !! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 07:10 AM |
| 29 | Us telling men “I’m not interested anymore” after seeing them follow tons of new girls in the same city on Instagram. Stay vigilant queens!Hahaha this lady is my mood 24/7 I love her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 06:13 PM |
| 58 | Us telling men “I’m not interested anymore” after seeing them follow tons of new girls in the same city on Instagram. Stay vigilant queens!“My exes were always jealous of my lady friends, is that why you’re ending it with me?” Must have been a reason they were “jealous” SWEETIE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 04:14 PM |
| 18 | Us telling men “I’m not interested anymore” after seeing them follow tons of new girls in the same city on Instagram. Stay vigilant queens!Ohhh and during a pandemic! No thank you 😙 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 04:09 PM |
| 19 | What is the funniest thing a LVM has said to you?Just let me be a fat ass who loves food in peace dang 😔🤩😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 06:55 AM |
| 155 | What is the funniest thing a LVM has said to you?We were at a farmers market and I said “ooo” about some food while a guy was in front of me. LVM ex said: “wow you’re cheating on me??” and gaslit me for 2 hours into thinking I said OOO about the guy. They like to make up drama for fun I swear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 06:59 PM |
| 12 | Some of these men are absolutely repulsive.Ummm this is REPULSIVE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Low Value Men on Tinder“You’re all hoes” I LAUGHED OUT LOUD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 05:46 AM |
| 17 | Do you use hinge?In my area (medium sized city) I’ve only met trash men on Hinge. N=3. For some reason I’ve only encountered f-boys who only want sex and I have been ghosted before after having sex so it’s demoralizing. I would try okcupid ! You can weed out significantly on there because people have to answer questions, although I had a four month relationship with a GIGANTIC LVM from there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 05:44 AM |
| 95 | My friend has been using OLD recently and told me 10 men in a row have asked her for a PARK DATE. I AM GOING TO SCREAM!!!!I think the solution is to not date at all until this pandemic is over :-/ but I can see why people want to date the winter will be a lonely dark time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 04:08 AM |
| 3 | He told you who he was, don’t let his words convince you otherwise.You got it sis! Please PM me if you want to talk ever. I’m also still struggling post breakup even thought it’s been almost 2 months and even though he was a POS; here if you need me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 04:42 AM |
| 5 | When you redownload OkCupid and see that your LVM ex has done a profile makeover and writes about how he’s so great and 6” and wants to take you out to eat but you see beyond the facade. Pray for the ladies in my city y’all 🙏Omg I was just telling my friends how I wish we could leave reviews on men. I’d be saving girls time and energy if they knew what he had in store for them after the courting phase. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 05:34 PM |
| 6 | When you redownload OkCupid and see that your LVM ex has done a profile makeover and writes about how he’s so great and 6” and wants to take you out to eat but you see beyond the facade. Pray for the ladies in my city y’all 🙏Ewww wtf ? Wait I want more backstory on this, he lied about his age to you?? That reminds me my ex said he was a business owner on his profile and I was like wtf is he lying?? And then I thought about and realized it’s because sometimes he buys things on fb and sells them for a higher price. “Business owner” Hahahah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 02:42 PM |
| 5 | When you redownload OkCupid and see that your LVM ex has done a profile makeover and writes about how he’s so great and 6” and wants to take you out to eat but you see beyond the facade. Pray for the ladies in my city y’all 🙏I did..... I messed up sorry y’all and can’t edit my post. He did say six FEET tall but honestly wouldn’t be surprised if people like him put 6 inches lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 02:11 PM |
| 23 | When you redownload OkCupid and see that your LVM ex has done a profile makeover and writes about how he’s so great and 6” and wants to take you out to eat but you see beyond the facade. Pray for the ladies in my city y’all 🙏Girl how did you just describe my sex life during the summer. One time we had unprotected sex (I made him get std tested beforehand, Im on BC don’t worry y’all) in his car and he lasted 20 seconds and there was no bathroom nearby. Y’all know how that goes. I was LIVID😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 02:13 AM |
| 113 | When you redownload OkCupid and see that your LVM ex has done a profile makeover and writes about how he’s so great and 6” and wants to take you out to eat but you see beyond the facade. Pray for the ladies in my city y’all 🙏Where’s the part about him being an alcoholic and lasting <1 minute in the bedroom tho 😱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 02:09 AM |
| 9 | Obvi? I just got back on tinder and after FDS I digress. Hard.Girl if I knew a good dating app I’d tell you. Hinge has fkbois galore, bumble is annoying tbh I never got people to respond to me, okcupid has 30+ year olds liking me constantly (I’m 23 and just dated a 30 year old narcissist so would like to avoid that gap again THANKS), and tinder is gross. Catch me single until we can go out in the wild again 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 01:59 AM |
| 3 | you deserve someone who takes care of you ❤️I’m so sorry to hear this :( I hope you are recovering well. You deserve the the world and a mans who cares for you through thick and thin. It’s too bad people like this exist in the world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 06:54 PM |
| 16 | Neurochemical reasons why a woman should not sleep with a man until after he has fallen in love with her, and how to train your brain to fall out of love (hint: block and delete scientifically works!)Wait I love this thank you for sharing!! I always tell people going through breakups who feel crazy that brain chemicals really sabotage us lol. Have you heard about prairie voles that are actually legitimately monogamous and never cheat? Something about vasopressin release. Humans don’t have that HA | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 03:32 AM |
| 4 | please take the time to watch this 1 minute video on reactive abuse.Awww Im glad you’re out of that situation, he sounds insecure and dreadful and lacking the fundamental principle of trust. I’m sure you’ve heard this before but breaking up with narcs is better over the phone, when you can’t see them and you can escape. They’ll 100% try to fight the breakup if it’s in person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 03:07 PM |
| 3 | When LVM and I took a personality test together...Wtf?? That’s appalling but also not surprising from people with fragile egos. That happened to me too any time I mentioned someone from my past. Like one time this idiot was harassing me even though I hadn’t seen him in months and I blocked him and after some happy times and dinner I thought I could tell my ex I was distraught and he got angry and said “I told you I don’t like talking about your flings and exes.” Ok glad to know you care about my wellbeing let me pretend I was Virgin Mary before… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 08:49 PM |
| 5 | When LVM and I took a personality test together...Omg yes this is so true. I started dating again because I felt confident, happy and secure. I have no drama with any of my friends because I project happiness and deal with issues using communication. Yet my narc ex and I got into a fight every two weeks about something I said or did. For example, if I looked at a guy in a certain way. They LOVE drama because they’re pathetic and bored (but they’ll tell you that you love drama, lol OKAY). I could only take 4 months of it and I did call him out o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 02:46 PM |
| 22 | When LVM and I took a personality test together...Tru good point for all the ladies! If he’s doing nothing to improve, like learning new skills, then he isn’t smart. If he says he’s smart he isn’t smart. The smartest HVM I dated was humble and admitted he didn’t know a lot. Even though he was so intelligent and we had philosophical and political and medical discussions all the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 03:03 AM |
| 12 | When LVM and I took a personality test together...The AUDACITY of this man. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 02:57 AM |
| 63 | When LVM and I took a personality test together...God he thought he was HOT SHIT he was like “I know how these tests work, they want you to say strongly agree or strong disagree for everything.” I was like no they want to screen out narcs and you made it easy for them you clown | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 01:35 AM |
| 25 | When LVM and I took a personality test together...Never knew click clacking away at a computer and making useless apps could make someone feel so cocky. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 01:33 AM |
| 66 | When LVM and I took a personality test together...We really need to make a FDS personality test for when we vet men. Company avoided him using that test. Wish I could’ve too. Waste of 4 months. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 12:39 AM |
| 69 | When LVM and I took a personality test together...That company dodged a MAJOR bullet lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 12:27 AM |
| 2 | On men who are obsessed with a specific type of women (aka scrotes who reduce women to what gets their pp hard)Honey!! don’t be sorry that I took out the trash. 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 06:11 PM |
| 6 | On men who are obsessed with a specific type of women (aka scrotes who reduce women to what gets their pp hard)Omg that’s gross.... even if you have a “specific type” don’t fucking say it? My LVM ex kept telling me I’d look good with short hair in the beginning of our relationship (my hair is halfway down my back) and then when I found out his most recent ex and most recent fling before me both had short hair (to the shoulders) I called him out on it and he shut up real quick about it, and started telling me he likes my long hair. Anyway ladies call men out on their bullshit and then dump them if you nee… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 04:48 PM |
| 18 | Let’s Discuss PERSONAL Requirements, Red Flags and Dealbreakers! 😍🤡Omg definitely. I’m a med student so I pretend like I know what alcoholism is haha- but binge drinking (5+ drinks in one sitting , multiple times a month) is alcohol abuse disorder (fun fact for everyone!). Glad we are away from this. Occasional drinking is ok but seems our exes had alcohol abuse issues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 10:29 PM |
| 39 | Let’s Discuss PERSONAL Requirements, Red Flags and Dealbreakers! 😍🤡YESSS binge drinking is a HUGEEE issue. Whenever my ex and I would go out, I’d be done after 2 drinks (one bar) and he would want to keep going from bar to bar (4 bars and 7+ drinks a night). It was gross, and embarrassing to beg his drunk ass to go home. One time he was blackout drunk begging me to go to a party w him at 1 am (during corona mind you, dumbass) and was threatening to Uber and leave me alone. I felt so unsafe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 10:15 PM |
| 169 | Let’s Discuss PERSONAL Requirements, Red Flags and Dealbreakers! 😍🤡No more alcoholics for me!! Ladies if he drinks every night RUN AWAY!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 10:08 PM |
| 31 | Recognize when you’re doing this and block that man on everything. When you’re truly over someone, you won’t care if they see you leveling up.Yessss. My favorite part is that he blocked me on Venmo a week after I blocked him on Insta/FB. Like sweetie what am I gonna do message ur ass on Venmo?? 😂🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 09:42 PM |
| 89 | Recognize when you’re doing this and block that man on everything. When you’re truly over someone, you won’t care if they see you leveling up.Also the best way to get back at a narcissist is by blocking them and never talking to them again. They’ll be SHOOK and ANGRY you aren’t begging for them back. My ex was so mad he blocked me on Venmo even though we weren’t even friends on Venmo lmao🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 08:16 PM |
| 127 | Recognize when you’re doing this and block that man on everything. When you’re truly over someone, you won’t care if they see you leveling up.Same, blocked my ex during the breakup phone call. I don’t want to post things and keep looking to see if he’s seen it. I don’t want to see the next girl who has to suffer lol. I like to think: being in my life is a privilege, and that includes knowing what I’m up to and what I’m accomplishing. He lost that privilege by being a LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 08:11 PM |
| 22 | This is why the six month period before declaring someone a HVM is a MINIMUM. Strap in ladies, this is fun.Queen this is awesome, no begging for him back or crying. An inspiration to us all. I love this. At 20 (I’m 23 now lol) I was begging for my crap ex back and telling him he was the love of my life ew lol. Breakup 2 weeks ago with some other gross scrote he apologized half heartedly for his bullshit and I said I’m tired of his shit and blocked his ass. FDS level up.👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 05:15 AM |
| 11 | How is #KickHimOut2020 going?YASSS Queen 👸 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 02:41 AM |
| 25 | Ended things with a guy it’d been dating for like 2 months because of horrific communication issues and he had the audacity to ask I NOT be on dating anyone or on dating sites while he works on his communication issuesOmg gross... recent LVM ex had a massive miscommunication issue along with insecurity and anger that led to breakup but I blocked his sorry ass on social media and he hasn’t come running back. Block that idiot and show him you don’t stand for this behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 02:28 AM |
| 9 | Just don't need any more BS from 2020Dick rehab girl you kill me 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 12:28 AM |
| 9 | Dating someone that sucks but their kids or pets are awesome, amiright?My ex treated his dog better than he ever treated me LOL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 02:33 PM |
| 8 | Reality checkGirl we are about to get attacked through DMs by the LVMs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 03:20 AM |
| 15 | Reality checkI know it further proves sexuality is NOT A CHOICE why would I choose to like men, it makes no sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 03:08 AM |
| 2 | 2 weeks post breakup with LVM, would love your encouragement !Lmaoooo “stupid scrote” ily from Afar. 100% sounds like my ex freaking NAST | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 02:09 AM |
| 74 | Reality checkEvery day I wake up and regret that I like penis 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 11:21 PM |
| 6 | NVM begging for nudes even though we lived 15 minutes away from each other 🤡Met him three times - once over zoom (this was beginning of quarantine times), then we got takeout at the park, and third time he came over to my place . Then texted me “Send nudes” the next day. HAHAHA. What a joke lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 11:05 PM |
| 24 | NVM begging for nudes even though we lived 15 minutes away from each other 🤡HAHAHAHAHHA. clowns all over the place | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 11:02 PM |
| 6 | NVM begging for nudes even though we lived 15 minutes away from each other 🤡Yup, I did...... so the answer is yes. :-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 11:00 PM |
| 31 | NVM begging for nudes even though we lived 15 minutes away from each other 🤡HAHA YUPPP i commented on this post about how he texted me 3 months later | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 08:58 PM |
| 32 | NVM begging for nudes even though we lived 15 minutes away from each other 🤡Aww thanks, yeah she’s precious!! and she scratches men so she’s our FDS Queen 👸 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 08:08 PM |
| 14 | NVM begging for nudes even though we lived 15 minutes away from each other 🤡Right wtf ?? Get in your car and drive 15 minutes and get over here. He was probably collecting nudes and would’ve used it as blackmail against me since he was so persistent. Trash trash TRASH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 07:36 PM |
| 39 | NVM begging for nudes even though we lived 15 minutes away from each other 🤡Lmao look at my post on here a few days ago about a potato I met on an app. I too am done with online dating indefinitely | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 07:16 PM |
| 70 | NVM begging for nudes even though we lived 15 minutes away from each other 🤡Good point queen, definitely next time I was still exhibiting some pickme clown behavior here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 07:10 PM |
| 77 | NVM begging for nudes even though we lived 15 minutes away from each other 🤡Lmao after this fool I had to write “don’t ask me for nudes” on OLD profiles.... like wtf can’t believe I have to write that out to weed out the clowns | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 07:09 PM |
| 29 | NVM begging for nudes even though we lived 15 minutes away from each other 🤡Absolutely negative effort, he was also the type who wouldn’t stop talking during the deed. Yes we did the deed and he still asked for nudes. Loser men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 06:30 PM |
| 16 | Thoughts on dating younger men? Current thoughts: they always want someone younger and it puts you at risk of waiting for him to grow up/supporting him/always unsure if he is secretly pining for a younger woman...Change my mind.Ended a relationship with a 7 year age gap two weeks ago (posted about it here if you’re curious), absolutely HORRID manipulator and acted like a literal child. In mid 20s id say date your age or 1 or 2 years above and below and no more than that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 06:29 PM |
| 172 | NVM begging for nudes even though we lived 15 minutes away from each other 🤡I hate trash men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 05:36 PM |
| 35 | NVM begging for nudes even though we lived 15 minutes away from each other 🤡Oh he’s Defs blocked, this is from April. Thought y’all would appreciate this monstrosity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 05:23 PM |
| 209 | NVM begging for nudes even though we lived 15 minutes away from each other 🤡Also he had audacity to text me three months later saying “wanna fuck?” And I said “Nope, is that fair enough? take care” 👻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 05:21 PM |
| 6 | The venn diagram of things LVM do and things babies do is almost a circleFunnily enough my first boyfriend did actually shit his pants in front of me and he was sober🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 05:12 AM |
| 9 | 2 weeks post breakup with LVM, would love your encouragement !Oh gosh I didn’t even realize the gifts was love bombing, I thought love bombing was words. definitely signs of abuse thank you for mentioning that. “Send proof” is sickening and disgusting, I’ve dated 20 year olds (in the past) who are more secure and never tested me like that. God he has hella issues. I’m so sorry that happened to your friend. I hope she is better now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 09:21 PM |
| 6 | 2 weeks post breakup with LVM, would love your encouragement !Sorry to hear the last part :( i hope you are recovering well. I definitely recognize the alcoholism is a huge issue, and something that would’ve kept coming up even if he “quit for two weeks.” Couple that with insecurity and jealousy, would’ve been a horrid cycle of abuse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 08:49 PM |
| 6 | 2 weeks post breakup with LVM, would love your encouragement !Good on us for not taking abuse , pieces of shit deserve piece of shit women and we aint that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 06:32 PM |
| 7 | 2 weeks post breakup with LVM, would love your encouragement !Thanks queen 🥰🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 06:31 PM |
| 8 | 2 weeks post breakup with LVM, would love your encouragement !Freak I wish we could get reviews from their exes , his last ex had two kids and that’s why “they broke up.” imagine how revolting he was to her and her kids | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 06:31 PM |
| 9 | 2 weeks post breakup with LVM, would love your encouragement !Ugh thanks dear. His previous exes have also been on the younger side. 30 yo thinks he can manipulate a 23 yo? Guess what I have a past and I learned from it boi bye 👋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 06:30 PM |
| 13 | 2 weeks post breakup with LVM, would love your encouragement !Yes especially what led to the breakup, like I offered up my home to you when you needed somewhere to stay and you’re making demands? Holy crap how is this man going to handle marriage, finances, kids?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 06:29 PM |
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