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| 7 | [FR] Turning A Night "Ruined" By Being Stood Up Into A Great Night (Part 2 - I Do A Bit Better #-Close, and #-Close + K-Close) | Field Report | Seddit_Participant | /r/seduction | 31/10/13 05:38 AM |
| 6 | [FR] Turning A Night "Ruined" By Being Stood Up Into A Great Night (Part 1 - I Screw Up) | Field Report | Seddit_Participant | /r/seduction | 31/10/13 03:40 AM |
| 4 | A Self-Introduction, My Reflections On What I've Seen Here, And The Lessons I'm Learning | Seddit_Participant | /r/seduction | 30/10/13 05:59 PM |
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| 1 | Homewrecking over this Christmas breakI feel kind of bad about this, because I know if my significant other ever cheated on me, the relationship would be over and I'd be seeking revenge on the guy who got with her. Some people have addressed this, but I've got pretty specific experience that I think qualifies me to address this. I was married for 13 years. I was with my wife for five years before we were married. She decided there were problems with our marriage - without ever bothering to tell me so - and decided to embark on an af… | /r/seduction | 26/12/13 06:08 PM |
| 4 | Caught being Greedy, And Paid the Ultimate PricePaid the ultimate price? She shot or stabbed you to death when she saw you with another girl? Who's writing this report? Ohhhhhh, no, you just missed out on a chance with one girl. One. One girl who may have turned out to not be that great, anyway. That's more like "paid the price of a Happy Meal." | /r/seduction | 12/12/13 06:06 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Party over at my house, first real approach,You'll learn alot plus you have nothing to lose. Take that shit to heart. If you don't pursue, nothing will ever happen with her. You won't spend time with her, you won't kiss her, you won't have sex with her, she will be gone. And the only thing you'll have learned is that nothing happens when you don't do anything. That's the best case scenario. If you pursue, the worst that happens is that she rejects you, and you won't spend time with her, you won't kiss her, you won't have sex with her, she… | /r/seduction | 22/11/13 04:09 PM |
| 0 | Tying her shoes... Is this a test?No, I'm not. But I'm certainly interested in why you think so. I wasn't there, I haven't seen their interaction/his level of physicality with her so far, but he certainly could have used this as an excuse to escalate kino a bit one way or another. Maybe not to the extent I suggest, if he's barely even touched her before, but he could still escalate quite a bit. Still, I'm open to hearing a cogent explanation for your textual outburst. | /r/seduction | 13/11/13 05:38 PM |
| -2 | Tying her shoes... Is this a test?Take advantage of the shit test. I mean, this one is unlikely to ever come up again, but you could have used it. Instead of showing her on your shoe, you could have sat behind her, legs on either side of her, leaning over to show her how to tie her own shoe, under the guise of needing to show her from the same perspective she'd see it from when she's doing it. So, legs around her, arms around her, helping her tie her shoe. | /r/seduction | 13/11/13 05:25 PM |
| 3 | Any tips on how to dance?Here are the results of a search for "dance" in the search box to the right, restricted to this sub: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/search?q=dance&restrict_sr=on These two may be helpful: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hqsmb/tips_on_dancing_for_the_true_beginners/ http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1f71nn/dancing_tips/ | /r/seduction | 11/11/13 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Been applying the standard PUA techniques and finally have my first date later today, what can I make sure to do to really blow her mind?I'm kind of considering this date the make-it-or-break-it with this girl... Well, there's your first mistake. No, wait, that's not your first mistake. There's this: We will be sitting across from each other most of the time, so kino will probably be a bit limited. So, I'm guessing that means dinner? Don't sit across from her, sit on either side of a corner of a table, where there's easy access to engage in both intentional and "unintentional" kino. A table between you and her creates a gulf that… | /r/seduction | 08/11/13 04:45 PM |
| 1 | So i'm going out tonight.No need to lie about your friends, man. Confidence. "Where are your friends?" "I'm not sure, probably sitting around at home, I felt like going out on my own tonight." I actually said this to a couple of people last weekend when I went out alone, it garners some respect. If you're doing something that PANICS most people, you're willing to own it completely, and you clearly aren't at all bothered by it, people will find it amazing. | /r/seduction | 07/11/13 04:33 PM |
| 5 | Fear to close the deal?Just start spending time with people. Girls, guys, whoever. Go somewhere that sounds fun and hang out. Do something that sounds fun. Find a group that seems fun that you can try hanging out with. The beauty of life experience is that it's the easiest thing in the world to get - you just have to go out and live. Make some massive mistakes, that's where your fun stories and worthwhile experiences are going to come from. And stop thinking of closing that deal as a short term emergency goal. Instead… | /r/seduction | 06/11/13 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Can you change somebody's view from "just a friend" to more?It sounds like you have a bit of a Madonna-whore thing going on. You put the girls who become "just friends" with you on a pedestal. To you, they're the "good girls," the girls you could "love," the girls who are worth investing yourself more. Meanwhile, the girls who will date you and show some physical affection aren't worth investing in and becoming real friends (or more) with. Seriously, ask yourself what it is about dating a girl that makes it "impossible" for you to concurrently form a fri… | /r/seduction | 06/11/13 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Having trouble with getting it to the next step in online dating/u/cugar isn't wrong, and his linked post is good. I don't want to just post to say, "Yeah, what he said," but I've got very recent experience that's directly relevant to you, OP. I didn't just have a breakup, it's a divorce after almost two decades with the same woman, so I feel you on the social anxiety and depression. Good job moving on. I used online dating to get me back into it, too. /u/cugar hits the nail on the head - don't be pen pals with these girls. Write a few messages, get a little… | /r/seduction | 01/11/13 03:29 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Turning A Night "Ruined" By Being Stood Up Into A Great Night (Part 2 - I Do A Bit Better #-Close, and #-Close + K-Close)Thanks, appreciate it. That is another way to look at it...it seemed like such a natural way to engage another person, I don't think I even really registered it as that big a deal. Hell, a couple of the dudes who did a great job I high-fived or shook hands with, so it just seemed like nothing. Though I'm quite sure I gave this little hottie a different kind of vibe when I took her hand. Interesting, I'll have to take that into account when I'm working out my own take-away from the night a little… | /r/seduction | 31/10/13 04:28 PM |
| 1 | A Self-Introduction, My Reflections On What I've Seen Here, And The Lessons I'm Learning/r/malefashionadvice It's got some good stuff, even if some of it is geared a bit young for me. Some of it has helped me bring my clothes back down to the "not an old dude yet" place I should be in. Well worth having a look around. | /r/seduction | 30/10/13 08:39 PM |
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