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if you're dating someone who is honest about what he wants, he likes you, and you like him, then I see no reason to wait.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/22 01:27 PM
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who you get with is a choice. There are plenty of decent black men. focus on them
/r/ExRedPill10/06/22 02:13 PM
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you're right. There's a lot of desperation with men in general. I'd rather be alone than with a low character woman
/r/TheRedPill22/03/22 07:33 PM
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fair enough. all valid points and Im the same way. Other than the brewery, I dont go out much to drink. I have never invested much time or effort in online dating but maybe ill give it a try.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/22 12:06 PM
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An ex of 3 years and the rest flings who would have wanted something serious with me had I wanted the same.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/22 09:33 PM
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women say that shit but in my experience it doesnt matter. Im bi and it hasnt been an issue. granted I tend to mess with more educated women. maybe that is why
/r/TheRedPill21/03/22 06:00 PM
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If you go out once or twice a week you should be able to meet 10 to 20 girls weekly if you live in a nice sized metropolitan area. Why do you think tinder gold is a better option? No need to choose one or the other, you can do both but I do think going out is the better of the two
/r/TheRedPill21/03/22 01:42 AM
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You a fool man. Dealing with women cost money. If you can't afford to play, then don't date them or cut directly to the point and invite them for sex without the date in-between
/r/ExRedPill04/12/21 08:59 PM
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Right. Chick was insufferable smh
/r/ExRedPill04/11/21 02:32 AM
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I like mediocre tutorials. I don't think he's red pill. Obviously he holds some of the beliefs but I'd say a lot of guys do. Unfortunately feminism has a PR problem. The woke nonsense has overshadowed what feminism was about. I went on date once with a women was the stereotypical woke caricature you would see online. She bitched about how bad men were and how horrible the United States was, etc. After 15 mins of this I got up and left. These women unfortunately exist He posted recently that he m…
/r/ExRedPill03/11/21 10:46 PM
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Take that 2k and fuck a few hookers over there. Way better investment
/r/seduction27/10/21 11:13 PM
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I grew up with guys who did this stuff naturally and they would also push me to try with the ladies. After high school I joined the military and it was the same thing; being around men who constantly chased after women. Its an environmental/cultural thing IMO
/r/seduction12/10/21 10:23 PM
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No such thing as a unicorn. Even if there existed the perfect woman, whether she were indeed so, depends on the guys perspective. So if you believe that, then what type of woman is a "unicorn"?
/r/seduction12/10/21 01:44 AM
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Yes you are wrong. Who knows why she ghosted you. Worry about how you behaved with her. Psychoanalizing women is a waste of time. How long did you wait to ask her out?
/r/seduction12/10/21 01:16 AM
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You talking like we are looking for Bigfoot. There's plenty of available women guy
/r/seduction12/10/21 01:10 AM
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He's mentioned all the time
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:09 PM
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Fair enough. If you havent read man's search for meaning, then maybe it can help you. Meditation and writing are good practice to gain some clarity for your path Good luck to you brother. What you wrote are things I have struggled with also and I'd say most men included.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/21 08:02 PM
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I understood you completely. You said you were scared, depressed, anxious, etc and that you are not the man you want to be. This is the human condition and you can't change that. The drinking is prolly making the anxiety worse
/r/TheRedPill04/10/21 07:51 PM
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I want to be a better version if myself. I want a proper home, be a boss. Be the man I dream of. Including the drinking, this is another one of your problems. The people we often dream of being are a fantasy. Western culture is making us all desire nonsense and we do ourselves a serious injustice by buying into it. This is why so many men are deleting themselves. If they have no money, women, success, etc then they have deemed themselves losers. More isn't better and more doesn't make you happy.…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/21 07:44 PM
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You're her male girlfriend who buys her food and listens to her bs
/r/seduction03/10/21 11:06 PM
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You sure are obsessed with gays... prolly got some cock in your ass right now
/r/TheRedPill03/10/21 10:31 PM
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Jamaica was a spanish then British colony. We were sold by our own to the Portuguese in Western Africa. Western Nigerians would often sell Eastern Nigerians to European slave dealers. The Cuban island was also ravaged by the Spaniards. Go pick up a book. I can smell your ignorance through my phone
/r/TheRedPill03/10/21 10:27 PM
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I'm jamaican dumbass. Nice try though
/r/TheRedPill03/10/21 10:11 PM
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Once again, more nonsense. I bet your weak ass ain't out there fighting
/r/TheRedPill03/10/21 10:07 PM
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Plenty of african nations operate under forms of western values and economics. You don't know what you're talking about And there's plenty of civil unrest happening in Africa right now. I question whether you are even african with the nonsense you are typing
/r/TheRedPill03/10/21 10:00 PM
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Also Africa is unstable because there are high levels of masculinity. That's the dumbest shit I've ever read
/r/TheRedPill03/10/21 09:32 PM
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Give girls your time who are enthusiastically interested in going out and interacting with you. These are the girls who when you ask them out, they immediately agree and are excited. This is a "fuck yes". Girls who are unsure about you but still agree to a date are a "yes". These girls are not exicted to go out with you. Maybe they are bored and have nothing better to do so why not engage with you. Or maybe they are kinda interested in you but not enough to feel any genuine excitement about seei…
/r/seduction30/09/21 02:10 AM
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It's fuck yes or fuck no. Internalize this so you don't ask a question like this again
/r/seduction30/09/21 12:57 AM
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I'm like an 8. Maybe higher with some girls and/or lower with others.
/r/seduction29/09/21 01:39 AM
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This is western culture that makes too big of a deal out of cheating. Trust is something you just have to learn to let go of. You give it until it is broken. Nothing more you can do. Now if you're constantly being cheated on then I'd say you don't know how to vet women who are virtuous versus those who aren't. Get some therapy. I'll say this. Monogamy requires discipline. Avoid women who lack discipline in various parts of their lives. It shows they can't be trusted to do the things that are req…
/r/ExRedPill28/09/21 06:23 PM
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I think those guys are idiots but that belief is common amongst men. I've slept with girls first night or even the second and I never looked down on them. In fact, with some, we had an ongoing fling. Had I been in a different mindset, I may have dated some of them seriously. I do think it is not wise to meet a guy and immediately go to his house for sex. That's not a safe move for women. My point is, use common sense but if a guy is serious about you, he won't care if you "give it up" too fast. …
/r/ExRedPill27/09/21 10:54 PM
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I think guys understand that a lot of women are loose with these holding out rules depending on the guy. Do whatever you want but understand that these tactics dont work. Do it for you but you're mistaken if you think holding out will help you find a man or make men respect you more
/r/ExRedPill27/09/21 10:14 PM
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Im a dude but it sounds like you are doing it right. Serious guys will wait but how long they wait will vary. Dating is too casual nowadays so being straightup i.e. im here to find a commited relationship towards marriage or whatever, is the way to go or else people find themselves in these relationships which are heading nowhere since they entered into them with no direction nor intention.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/21 04:24 PM
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plenty of girls dont care if you have muscles but yes, having a nice physique can improve your odds with the ladies even if your face isnt the most attractive. Obviously your personality matters also
/r/ExRedPill22/09/21 02:07 PM
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dating apps and real life are two different things. Women like muscles. Yea if the dude looks like arnold schwarzenegger then that's excessive but in real life, ive had women all over me simply off looks. dating apps are not good for most men anyway so this article is null to me. If you are a fit man, with pecs and arms that show through your shirt, you can attest just like i can that if you hit the bars/clubs or whatever women will give you attention.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/21 09:57 PM
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Obviously. We all age and die. Do you think a guy in his 80s is getting the some quality of ass that he was getting when he was younger? the wall doesnt mean you have no more options. it means your options are narrowed. for men and women it is different but there is an individual component also. I dont think it is anything to be concerned about though. its common sense. I think the people that are bothered by it just cant except the realities that come with aging
/r/ExRedPill21/09/21 09:49 PM
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thats why you dont do that. its called equal effort. you dont chase after women who arent putting in any effort. that simple. doing that diminishes you as a person. Only people with low self-esteem do these sorts of things
/r/seduction21/09/21 03:51 PM
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Man just stop messing with this girl. You arent fucking her, she's broke and she doesnt want to be exclusive with you. Come one man. If you had other options would you really be giving this girl any attention?
/r/seduction21/09/21 03:48 PM
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Lol relax. He didn't say he got in their personal space. That's your interpretation. I took it as he approached them and spoke his mind. Idk how close he was but he said the kid got into his face first and escalated the violence. The youtuber obviously should have just kept to himself though. With that said, 13, 14, 15 whatever, I'll slap the fire out of a kid if he runs up on me.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/21 12:54 AM
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this youtuber is an idiot but i listened to the video and the 13 year old was the first to attack according this youtuber. why make shit up?
/r/ExRedPill20/09/21 10:03 PM
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No more Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover and man's search for meaning by Emil Frankl. No more Mr Nice guy is great for these types of guys that pedstalize women and then end up filled with resentment because they never get what they want from women due to them having no boundaries, low self esteem, and being people pleasers Man's Search for meaning to show this dude that your life can change drastically when choose to view the experience differently even in the worst situations this planet can place…
/r/ExRedPill17/09/21 01:16 AM
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Yep. Confidence is a state of mind which we can all access in any given moment.
/r/seduction16/09/21 02:14 AM
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You're asking something that has no answer. Other than being respectful and honest, anything goes when approaching women. It's all in how you conduct it. Don't go down this path of over-analyzing like so many guys in this sub do.
/r/seduction16/09/21 12:45 AM
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Just cause it's bs doesn't mean it isn't widely understood. You fail again. Good day troll
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 11:31 PM
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It's called common sense. Everybody understands that there is nuance within any generalization. You don't understand that so my mistake Based on your responses, you know nothing of stoicism. So forgive me for not taking your opinion seriously.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 11:22 PM
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What are you talking about? I never placed blame nor negated it. Simple people want simple answers. We operate off ideology and plenty of ideologies have cultivated bad things and good. It's complicated. You know this is true yet you keep pushing. Why? Stoicism doesn't just mean controlling your emotions. Like I said it was and is a wholesome ideology with depth and great teachings and propelled the intellect of Romes greatest emperor.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 11:02 PM
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I'm not sure why you're responding with so much angst. Yes I see value in religion but I am not a believer in any of them. Some concepts I have even incorporated into my life. How is that a cop out? As for trp being supporting emotionally stable men, a lot of the rhetoric no but some yes. One of the main books pushed is "Meditations" by Marcus Aurelius which I have read and is based on the teachings of stoicism which was considered a religion in ancient Rome. Great book by a very wise man Anyway…
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 10:48 PM
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It's an obvious generalization. You're playing dumb like you don't know what take control means. There has never been any evidence of any matriarchal society to have ever existed. Go look at the wiki page. Nobody has ever discovered a matriarchal system. It's a myth. There are societies where matriarchal families are more pronounced but not the society at large. You're playing yourself with your abysmal ignorance
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 10:31 PM
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Relax. It's a reference. The reality is that billions of people follow these religions and jeudo-christian values have molded the western world. It is what is. Being an emotionally stable man with vision and strength isn't easy for a lot of men which one could argue is part of why these religions formed in the first place. You speak as if living a life of virtue is something a person is born with. We are wild animals at heart living in a modern world. Without some form of ideology we would not h…
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 10:04 PM
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take control means to lead. Women definitely want a man who knows what he wants, can be stoic when necessary, and accomplish what he wants and whatever the family needs. Lets not pretend that across cultures, that this is not what is expected of any man in the context of society and his family. trp isnt the primary conveyor of this but rather all of the juedo-chrisitan religions and of course islam. According to these systems, the man is the head of the household and women are required to submit…
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 08:30 PM
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What happened???
/r/ExRedPill13/09/21 03:09 AM
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Nothing magical here. The girl is just attracted to you. That simple
/r/ExRedPill13/09/21 01:46 AM
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Good response. Personally hypergamy never bothered me. If a woman thinks she can do better, go for it. Her loss
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 03:00 AM
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Most people dont even know about the redpill nor the manosphere. Did you even read my comments? ive stated that loneliness is a big factor. I called the guys "lone wolves".
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 01:01 PM
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I more or less conveyed this. Obviously if a man feels unwanted by women or even society then he is more prone to self harm or even hurt others. The issue is the scale of people committing suicide and that has more to do with tainted street drugs & addiction, depression, no purpose in life, no community, lackluster economic situation, etc. honor culture, lack of vulnerability, being a lone wolf, no life coping skills, addiction, etc are more plausible than you linking this to the redpill. We liv…
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 02:59 AM
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Seduction has nothing to do with suicide. Suicide in men has a lot to do with men being conditioned to believe that your worth in society is directly tied to your honor, what you can provide, and being stoic and resilient in the face of adversity without the help of others. When men have no purpose i.e. maybe they lost their job and are now economically in a bad spot, they now view themselves as less than because they aren't able to provide for themselves nor others. They feel down but men have …
/r/ExRedPill06/09/21 07:45 PM
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With your perspective you're going to cross the wrong person in life. Your actions mean something. Guys have been killed for sleeping with someone's significant other. Life isn't a game my friend. Start taking it more seriously
/r/seduction06/09/21 03:42 PM
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And? Most black men respect black women. I grew up with black people and a lot of this rehtoric is nonsense. Within any group you will find men who disrespect their women but for some reason our women choose to focus on what low quality guys think. If you want to avoid harmful stereotypes in the dating world then stick to black men. Out of any group within the US I truly believe that we respect our women the most and there are historical facts that justify my position
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 04:34 PM
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Okay. Society propagates a horrible image of black men also. Never stopped me from living my life. Maybe we should care more about ourselves than what white people think
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 04:23 PM
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ill say this. in our culture; African americans, the men have bravado. its similar to the stereotypes of irish americans. irish americans and african americans have a lot in common since post slavery, we tended to live in adjacent or even the same communities. thats why a lot of african americans have irish last names. Stereotypically we dont pedstalize women and we can be seen more as dominators but remember, that is how african americans and those ensalved throughout america (latin america, ca…
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 03:35 PM
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Why are you focusing on that? It's the same as black women focusing on black guys with white women while the reality is that most black men date black women
/r/seduction04/09/21 03:06 PM
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Sounds like you're hating. I'm black and most of my boys are into black women. Do black guys date white women? Obviously but it's overstated. Even post slavery you had black men dating white women and some even married them. This isn't new Maybe the guys you see with white women are guys that those women are into??? It's that simple. The fact that you keep trying to attribute it to some stereotype about black men is ridiculous. African American men and white American men have a lot in common dep…
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 03:04 PM
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Plenty of people like black women including myself but I am black
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 02:46 PM
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I went to ucsd also and yea the latinos are everywhere. I'm a fan of the latinas though so I didn't mind
/r/seduction04/09/21 01:12 AM
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Man stop with that bs. I see plenty of Asian men in California with women.
/r/seduction03/09/21 10:40 PM
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Approaching is a waste of time most of the time and I'm someone who has no issue walking up on a girl. Op start putting yourself around women. Take a cooking class, dance classes, etc. Do something you're interested in. This will get your social skills with women lubricated. Learn to chat people up. You'll learn to tell when a woman is interested in you Go out to social events and bars/clubs. Definitely approach in these environments. Women aren't going to come to you. You need to get out more a…
/r/seduction03/09/21 10:00 PM
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I agree but this is how life is
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 09:54 PM
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RP is amoral. Hence, most guys who fall under the RP umbrella could care less about abortion. I'd go even further to say that if it were possible guys in the manosphere would support a bill that absolved the father of any financial responsibilty of being a father if a woman chose to continue with a preganancy that the father did not want. I would even support that. My only issue is that the state would then most likely foot the bill as the mother would be using welfare benefits to support the ch…
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 01:45 PM
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yea the asian born girls have more societal pressure to stay within their culture but it varies. California has a lot of asians and I do see that they tend to congregate with others of their culture but they are american girls hence, they are more willing to date outside of their race. Most girls are shy so it is always the case that you wont know whether or not she is interested unless you make a move. IMO approaching randoms yields low results unless you are doing it in a social space but when…
/r/seduction02/09/21 08:13 PM
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yea i had that happen quite a few times but most of the time I was doing the approaching
/r/seduction02/09/21 08:05 PM
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Full disclosure, I'm a good looking guy and I'm tall. Back then I wasn't muscular but I am now. I went out a lot. We'd be mobb deep in the bars/clubs chasing women. I was in Seoul damn near every weekend and I wasn't hesitant when it came to approaching women and neither were my boys. Whether it's Seoul or san diego, it's a numbers game. I did get rejected there quite often but there were always women who showed interest. If you want to guarentee getting action then go to foreigner district's li…
/r/seduction02/09/21 06:51 PM
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It's complicated. Labeling it racist is a somewhat superficial critique. In Latin America there is a saying "para mejorar la raza" meaning that people often place value on lighter skinned people because the child will come out lighter so they are "making the race better" by having lighter children. So latinos of darker complexion deal with that sort of ignorance. My opinion is that most people date within their culture and to go further, people who look like them. Regardless, I believe that wome…
/r/seduction02/09/21 03:57 PM
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Well she's not racist. This girl is super atypical. She went to university in the east coast. She even speaks like a prototypical north Eastern African American. She even uses the word nigga 🤣 Blacks are just her preference. Those are the Americans she has spent the most time with so she's comfortable with our culture
/r/seduction02/09/21 03:10 PM
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Not at all. I dated a girl over there for over a year who was your typical Korean college girl. To your point, the americanzied/westernized girls are the ones you will see in the foreign districts but I tended to hang out where the Koreans partied The country is diverse in thought like most nations so its hard to put people in a neat box.
/r/seduction02/09/21 05:09 AM
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I have a Korean friend that I met out there. All she dates are black guys. She's more americanized though
/r/seduction02/09/21 03:22 AM
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Yea. It wasn't hard for me. There's even a sizeable hip hop culture out there so you'll see people stereotypically dressed like African Americans in the foreign districts of Seoul
/r/seduction02/09/21 01:23 AM
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Korean girls love the brothas. When I was out there it was easy pickings
/r/seduction02/09/21 12:20 AM
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I'm black. When I was there I was running through girls. No need to use OLD. Just hit the bars and girls will be throwing it at you
/r/seduction02/09/21 12:20 AM
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Damn 28 by 26. You beating the dudes here 👏🏾
/r/seduction01/09/21 05:02 AM
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You need to put the ladies to the side and seek some help. Being lonely is a common theme nowadays. If you live near a metropolitan area then I'd check out meetup.com. it's a great platform to start finding social gatherings.
/r/seduction31/08/21 04:38 AM
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I was living there for the past year and some change. Don't go to the bad neighborhoods and use some common sense and you'll be fine. Hong Kong is definitely a unique spot. Once I saw a 60-65 year old Mexican lady fingering a chick who was on stage
/r/TheRedPill31/08/21 04:34 AM
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Yea I used to use some agencies every now and then when I lived out there. Its definitely better than quick 30 minutes you get at the club
/r/TheRedPill31/08/21 12:08 AM
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hong kong brother. best strip club on the west coast
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 04:26 PM
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The obsession with younger women stems from a traditional conservative POV. That younger women have lower body counts, more fertile, less baggage and can be molded to your liking more so than an older woman. That's the spark notes of it. Unfortunately the tradcon perspective has infested the manosphere. IMO tradcon views are easily digestible because they loosely line up with evolutionary psychology concepts. The issue is that we don't live in hunter-gatherer societies nor do we live in a feudal…
/r/ExRedPill29/08/21 09:59 PM
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Well then I'd say stop focusing on this girl and just go enjoy the party. You care too much. Be indifferent towards her. If she starts showing you interest again then entertain her. I wouldn't go out of my way to initiate anything with her though.
/r/seduction29/08/21 07:10 PM
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You asking this means that you probably are going to go the party and chase the girl like a dog in a heat. You said you don't even know the chick who is hosting the party so you are only going because your crush invited you. Don't go. You going is chasing. Find something else to do for the night
/r/seduction29/08/21 05:20 PM
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Guys will sleep with anything across the age bracket as long as she isn't so old that she looks dead. As for the 60 year old man. It depends. I don't believe a man over 60 has many options with women in their 30s but rather in the mid to late 40s and older given that his health is more or less good.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/21 04:28 PM
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Yea women above 30 aren't undesirable IMO. The aging nonsense is just a way that people can feel better about getting old. Your body gets worse as you age so the phrasing is quite ridiculous. Im 31 and I don't tend to date seriously women older than me. I met a 38 year old woman recently who was awesome but I want kids one day so I never called her back. Funny thing is that I prefer older women or at least one my age. Quite the quagmire
/r/ExRedPill29/08/21 03:44 PM
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if you are 40 year old man thats in shape and has decent finances you are golden. He will continue to have options well into his 60s as long as he maintains his health. A good diet and exercise should help him age just fine. He may not be getting women in their 20s but there will be plenty in their 30s, 40s, 50s, etc to choose from if he lives near a metropolitan area. The same could be said for women but women arent as flexible as men when it comes to dating. Men will date down quite often and …
/r/ExRedPill29/08/21 03:26 PM
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You'd most likely be wasting your time. Is this going to be purely casual? If so, I'd be honest with her about that. These younger girls aren't so damaged by the game like older women are so don't ruin the girl.
/r/seduction26/08/21 01:19 AM
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These guys are having quite the month. Even after the clarification video they uploaded, they can't unexplain these points. The scam courses, the scam party, and them having no game are my biggest issues with them. If they came out and admitted this and refunded the money, I'd maybe continue to support them
/r/ExRedPill25/08/21 08:34 PM
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"the guy who is gonna blow your back out" thats who
/r/seduction24/08/21 11:09 PM
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Not use it. Plenty of women don't use OLD either. The people who live online overestimate how many people live in that world also. If men do want to use OLD, then don't expect anything from it. Use it as secondary tool with the primary one being real life effort
/r/seduction23/08/21 11:23 PM
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Tell her you're going out of town and you will hit her up when you get back. You don't need to do anything else. Stop overcomplicating the process
/r/seduction22/08/21 07:14 PM
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IG models are just attention whores. One side of the same coin
/r/ExRedPill22/08/21 07:05 PM
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195
/r/seduction21/08/21 02:22 PM
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Of course man. I never said I did anything special
/r/seduction21/08/21 06:34 AM
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I've said a lot worse to women lmao
/r/seduction21/08/21 03:43 AM
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I'm muscular, 6ft 1, covered in tats and yea girls generally think I'm attractive but I'm not out here running through girls. I don't even get laid that much nowadays but when I try it's not hard
/r/seduction21/08/21 02:54 AM
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Haha yea. She told me that she had went to Italy for awhile and I asked her how do the guys fuck out there? lol I think it got here juices flowing
/r/seduction20/08/21 09:47 PM
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I walk in the club. Within 10 minutes a girl grabs me. We start making out heavy. 10 minutes later I take her to a hotel and smash. Another girl, I approach her on the beach. We talk for about 15 minutes. I go buy a 40oz across the street and bring her back one(she paid for hers) and we chat some more. I part ways with her after maybe 40 minutes. 10 minutes later she hits me on Instagram asking "hey you wanna fuck" and we go back to my hotel 😉
/r/seduction20/08/21 08:46 PM
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To be honest, joke is on Aba and Preach. Why the fuck would they associate with a couple of clowns that say the dumbest, meanest shit always beefing with everybody in the first place? They went on the podcast before it had blown up so maybe they didn't know the depth of f&f's views or better, lack of depth
/r/ExRedPill17/08/21 08:21 PM
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Just interact with them with a skeptical mindset. Stop being so "ready" to get the number. Be ready to walk away. You care too much and it probably is showing. Step back a little
/r/seduction17/08/21 01:06 AM
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Yea it's a shit show. I don't blame them either. The healthy ones will make eye contact and shoot a 👋. Just common courtesy. Not every glance or eye contact means I wanna fuck I tend to look everyone in the eyes unless I'm in a rough or unknown neighborhood. It's just a sign of respect if I'm crossing someone's proximity.
/r/seduction17/08/21 12:27 AM
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this isnt even worth giving thought. A lot of women are damaged and thus wont make eye contact with men. They've had too many bad encounters or they have heard horror stories so rather than take the risk of making eye contact with randoms, they alter their behavior. the problem is that now they do it with most men so they filter out most men. its the snake eating itself.
/r/seduction17/08/21 12:01 AM
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I've never been to Europe but I've met people from various regions. I'd assume western European countries are shades of differences from the US. I just met some French girls in mexico and they were no different then your average American chick with liberal ideals and a disdain for monogamy. I've met several Mexican girls with a similar attitude. In the eastern european nations I have heard that people are more humble in general so the women may be less superficial and more practical when it come…
/r/seduction16/08/21 08:28 PM
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Yea it is very repetitive and they do try to force specific answers out of the women. For those reasons I don't see it lasting long unless they make some changes.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/21 05:47 PM
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I do enjoy the after hours show but I knew from the first episode I watched that Myron and fresh weren't good with women. Yea fucking girls is one thing but keeping the women around is another skill.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/21 03:53 PM
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Bro you're 21. Take yo ass to the club/bar this weekend and just start approaching. Trial by fire
/r/seduction11/08/21 06:16 PM
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Sit there and do nothing. Why do you care anyway? I'm sure she can handle herself
/r/seduction10/08/21 11:02 PM
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Find the girls who are attracted to you, and from that point, the amount of 'game' you need is basically 'don't be super weird and have the guts to make a move'. I wish the guys constantly posting this insecure nonsense would understand THIS. Stop overcomplicating the process guys
/r/seduction10/08/21 10:54 PM
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This is just trauma being projected onto the society. Just because there are dangerous men out there doesn't mean we need to change our behavior. Yea im not going to approach a women at her car at night, a public garage, etc but I refuse to cater to anyone saying I can't do something simply because you feel uncomfortable. You being uncomfortable does not mean I did anything wrong
/r/ExRedPill09/08/21 05:57 PM
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I don't blame them at all, it's gotta be difficult to stay on a date with someone when your best friends or friends that you haven't seen in a while are just a couple tables over How do you know they hadn't seen each other in awhile? I was thinking that these friends were invited. Would you just ditch the date if your friends showed up? It's rude. I could understand if the date wasn't going well but thats when you simply end it. Leaving was the right thing. Plenty of women don't behave this way.…
/r/seduction07/08/21 10:45 PM
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My point is more what comes with the hustle. Hustle to get girls, the luxury, etc. Waste of time for me but working towards a meaningful purpose is something I'd never throw shade it
/r/ExRedPill07/08/21 07:33 PM
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I'd say "frame" is a solid notion pushed by trp. It stems more from stoicism so it's definitely not a trp original idea but the application towards women has utility The over generalizing and the hustle culture are my biggest problems with trp. For example, I don't believe that a woman who has slept around is incapable of monogamy
/r/ExRedPill07/08/21 12:29 PM
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Did they cry due to the situation or the insults? could be the latter but you never know. Like I mentioned, even if the women who calls on his show aren't the greatest people it shouldn't describe it as the majority of women or even how men operate. I remember some young guy called on his show that he was depressed and lonely and he told him to just man the fuck up and stop being a bitch and chase money. I felt bad for the young dude because he was getting the opposite of what the guy needed. He…
/r/ExRedPill04/08/21 11:49 PM
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so you've never had a conversation with someone and the difficulty of speaking with them made you lose your patience? Ill admit, the guy can be mean at times but most of the time he is extremely helpful to these ladies for FREE. Ive seen women shed tears on the show after he opened their eyes to how misguided they were. One women called in complaining so much about her husband and when kevin dug deep with her, it turned out that the husband was a good guy. She just thought she was better than hi…
/r/ExRedPill04/08/21 09:47 PM
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I've seen him make this point within context several times. One woman called in claiming that her ex-husband had physically abused her which was true but as kevin asked more questions, it turned out that this woman also verbally and physically abused the ex-husband. It was a toxic relationship. The point is that many women dish it back too but too often we only here the woman's side of the story.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/21 08:25 PM
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She brought up kevin samuels. Women call into the show. If you watch his old stuff he would go in on the guys too. Regardless as men we are used to hearing that we aren't shit. The reality is that more men are speaking on women's problems and it is triggering some. Some people do it in bad faith while others don't. I think the conversation is worthwhile
/r/ExRedPill04/08/21 07:26 PM
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kevin samuels does not hate black women. I watch the show and so many women come on expecting to find the high value man when their lives are representative of them never finding that. Many are overweight, have little to no relationship experience, arent around men of that calibre, they didnt grow up with two parents married, single mothers, obese, etc. ​ African American women have the highest rates of obesity or being overweight compared to other groups in the United States. About 4 out of 5 A…
/r/ExRedPill04/08/21 03:21 PM
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smh more reasons to not even bother with OLD
/r/seduction02/08/21 09:09 PM
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Exactly. So they get what they can. I just don't believe that these apps are riddled with high quality men and the ones that are using them are just running through women. It's an assumption though so idk
/r/seduction02/08/21 06:51 PM
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The point of the comment was that any moderately attractive woman can put herself around men in a social context consistently; which is how you become familiar with people, and easily meet a man. Women understand this and thats why plenty of them don't use OLD Doesn't have to be the bar and it doesn't mean guys will just be throwing themselves at you like flies on shit. Relax
/r/seduction02/08/21 06:46 PM
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I'm sure he didn't mean just the bar but any sort of social context. I'm a loner but I still venture out into the real world. The introvert label is an excuse to not take action in real life
/r/seduction02/08/21 06:30 PM
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If it's the obvious then go for it. The poster should know that it is a turn off. The more subjective topics like the approach, escalation, frame, direct game, are not easy for guys to do and I rarely see good advice on these from women because as a women you don't deal with it unless you're like I said, a leabian or bi seducing women
/r/seduction01/08/21 03:43 AM
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I don't need this sub. Stop trolling. Men know how women are. There is no need for further understanding. The problem is that some men here have no actual real in-depth experience dating women. That is why we promote just getting out there and interacting with women in a respectful manner to develop intuition. Ask questions, be nonchalant, be stoic, be able to walk away, flirt, etc. You learn these by doing Once they get a few successes, interacting with women won't feel so alien to them.
/r/seduction01/08/21 01:01 AM
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Unless you actively game women, I don't think there is much knowledge you can offer. Now if you are talking about relationship advice fine but seducing a women into to bed is something either lesbians understand to do and/or men. And even lesbians don't fully grasp the man's side of the equation Everything must be learned in the field. I grew up with guys who were always going after women, including myself. That is how men learn to seduce but too many men here just want the secret. I can't expre…
/r/seduction01/08/21 12:53 AM
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Who is trying to understand women? The point of this sub is to seduce them. Doesn't require much understanding. We aren't taking about aliens here... Just practical social skills, making effort, and not pedatalizing them are a good start. The rest is just trail and error
/r/seduction01/08/21 12:39 AM
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Op I understand where you are coming from but regardless, getting laid is a skillset. That is what you ladies don't understand. That is the point of this sub, to instruct. Guys must understand when a woman is interested in them and then seal the deal. This is not something that comes naturally to most men. Too man ladies come to this sub with generic advice and you arent doing the men here any favors.
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:27 PM
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But I thought I could make her a steady fuck buddy. All the woman you can make a fuck buddy and you were trying to recruit this one? She sounds insufferable. This may be why she nexted you. Probably noticed you weren't that into her yet you still pursued. Girls who know they are low quality question the value of a man who still pursues her when she talks about and complains about another guy often and mentions having numerous sexual encounters with no protection. Guys with options and/or standar…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 01:25 AM
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Take some of that money and go travel for a year solo. Even with covid going on some countries in Latin America are more or less open. Stay in hostels so you'll be forced to interact with people.
/r/seduction27/07/21 06:23 PM
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I haven't checked out Tulum nor Cancun but puerto vallarta is a tourist trap too but I enjoyed it. Not much of a party scene either. It's more family oriented IMO Sauylita is like a 30 min drive from Puerto vallarta which was a blast. Bad ass women from all over mexico and Latin America and a fun ass party scene
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 03:50 AM
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Shit you gotta hit mexico. Fine ass women, cheap food & drinks, beautiful beaches, deep history, 3 large cities (and plenty smaller ones to enjoy) and the culture is so laid back. I'll be in La paz this week. One of my favorite spots
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 03:36 AM
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When you about to cum press her head down and let loose in her throat. That's how we do 🍆👀💪🏾
/r/seduction24/07/21 08:22 PM
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Makes sense. The economy is screwed smh 🤦
/r/seduction23/07/21 08:28 PM
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I definitely don't find them invalid. So what propaganda were the brits being force fed towards the end?
/r/seduction23/07/21 03:41 AM
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Well it's inaccurate in that these traits that are called toxic also benefit the society. Noncompetitive males don't produce. On a family scale, noncomeptitive males generally don't provide. We all understand what is bad human behavior and its annoying that western countries are constantly painting men as demons while phrases like toxic feminity never gets thrown around but toxic masculinity does. It's a ploy to divide men and women. The middle class and lower are stronger together but we have t…
/r/seduction22/07/21 06:49 PM
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That's not toxic masculinity. Women also peer pressure other women to engage in bad behavior and to conform. What you just detailed is human nature which is not exclusive to men. What I view as toxic within the male homosapien is honor culture, violence, lack of acknowledged vulnerability, thirst for success, extreme competition, etc. These things aren't inherently toxic and I would argue in a lot of contexts these characteristics serve us but they are often taken to extremes with men. That is w…
/r/seduction22/07/21 12:49 AM
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Well explain what it is then
/r/seduction21/07/21 01:41 PM
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Haha well I see them more often these days with the increased interest of Eastern philosophies in the states.
/r/seduction18/07/21 11:03 PM
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Not at all. The sexual undertone is all in your demeanor but saying overt sexual stuff works. All depends on the delivery. Recently met a girl with a buddist tattoo. I asked her if she was having an existential crisis or if she was a true believer... led to a good convo and the number but I never called her... ask what the tattoo means, why she got it, etc. Link it to her personality in a joking way. Have fun with it You have to show a true interest in the woman.
/r/seduction18/07/21 04:40 AM
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Well being too nonchalant or thirsty are subjective criticisms so I would ignore those unless there was something specific you did. I met some girl recently and we were talking at my friends house. I could tell she was into me so I started saying crazy shit just too see how she would react. She's one of those girls who likes to dye her hair so off that I said, I bet you have a wild side or some corny shit like that. I told her that I know how to handle a woman like you. She was intrigued but tak…
/r/seduction17/07/21 10:40 PM
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I flirt back. But I naturally flirt with everyone. That is a bantar with people alot, both men and women. You have to do with everyone and eventually you will just do it naturally. My ex would complain often that I was a flirt which is where the problem with this habit comes. It's hard to turn it off
/r/seduction17/07/21 09:37 PM
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I get it. I've been around the block myself. Fucked a lot of women. I've had situations where the girl just wasn't doing it for me physically. One time I pushed a chick off of me because I wasn't feeling it and she threw a glass of water at me lmao But yea i understand the difference with most women
/r/seduction17/07/21 02:00 AM
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Men can achieve the same orgasm with their hand. That was my point Edit: I see your point which is true but casual sex for men is a was of time imo
/r/seduction17/07/21 12:05 AM
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I'd say women do get something out of casual sex, dick. If you're saying that dick is not that valuable then I would say the same with men who have a lot of casual sex. That is, they aren't getting much either.
/r/seduction16/07/21 10:02 PM
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For women it's not realistic either. A lot women don't go anywhere. No social events or social hobbies. They go out in packs when they do go out to a bar or the club. Although we all know women won't approach, they don't put themselves in situations to be approached. Not many men are willing to walk up on a group of women. I do it every now and then but I'd be lying if I said it was easy. Usually you are getting cock blocked immediately and have to win over the friends. It's fun to do but requir…
/r/seduction14/07/21 08:57 PM
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This is the west. Too many lives without purpose and too many men living as lone wolves. If men had friends these things wouldn't be a big issue because friends hold each other accountable. I'll be damned if my boy is simping in front of me and I don't say anything. This is why men come to trp to ask these questions because in their real lives they lack council. The social network is broken. The mission falls on our backs as individuals to build one and fortify it. Back in the day this wasn't a …
/r/TheRedPill14/07/21 01:47 PM
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Nah we pitbulls out here! WHERE MY DAWGS AT!!! rip DMX
/r/TheRedPill12/07/21 04:30 PM
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Understood. Nice discussion 👌🏾
/r/seduction10/07/21 06:58 PM
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She said own a house. Obviously at 30 you should be saving and understanding different forms of investing. If you can take care of yourself, you have stable living, a skillset and are working, then that man will build wealth. It takes time. At 30 most men will not be there yet
/r/seduction10/07/21 06:40 PM
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I spread this perspective in hope that men read it and start to value the women who value them even if they have little. Of course women shouldn't date bums but to have a house and decent earnings takes time. Plenty of women will endure the struggle with a man who knows where he is heading. You are speaking on the mosquitos which a lot of women are so obviously I agree with you. The point is to avoid them
/r/seduction10/07/21 06:37 PM
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Of course. You thought I was complaining. She wanted a particular type of man but the age was off. Look for an older man if financial security is what you want or recognize a younger man who is heading there. That was my point You supporting this "wait at the finishline" perspective is where you and I disagree. There is no point in marrying a woman who is just a grown ass kid. If she is at the finishline she better have some money too I understand that women in their early to mid twenties aren't…
/r/seduction10/07/21 06:11 PM
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You don't understand. I am about it and that is why I don't take most women seriously although I understand good ones do exist I don't think any man should marry a woman who is not economically in a similar situation to him. Most women don't make much money. Median income for women in the US is 25,000. I'll be damned if I marry or date some bum chick. If women are gonna have these standards then men should too. This standard of providing does not serve men in a context where marrying a bum-ass w…
/r/seduction10/07/21 05:42 PM
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Who's crying? She literally stated that she expected a man in a similar situation as her to be in the same financial position as her. Most likely not gonna happen. If a woman feels that way then date older men Good for her for finding a guy her age with those things but most women will not. Women don’t care, they wait at the finish line for winners And those women get nothing but a stiff arm from me. Keep simping my guy. There's plenty of women out here who will hop on the train with a man on hi…
/r/seduction10/07/21 05:16 PM
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The disconnect is real. Women just don't understand men and they wonder why they have such trouble dating
/r/seduction10/07/21 03:37 PM
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So you expect a man in his mid to early thirties; same age as you, to have all these things lined up financially? Thats ridiculous. Most men hit their stride into their late thirties financially. If the man can take care of himself and is on his purpose then that should be sufficient. You just want to show up at the finish line and reap the benefits. You're a woman. You enter geriatric pregnancy at 33. Men can have kids into their 70's. Biologically we have more space for trail and error. Women …
/r/seduction10/07/21 02:43 PM
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I suppose it depends on the type of reputation he is labeled with. I used to salsa dance and I hit on a lot women in the classes. I'm sure it was to my detriment so I understand your point.
/r/seduction10/07/21 12:05 AM
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Most women have reported they never want to be approached at the gym as they are already feeling too vulnerable and those that have been approached report it's been some of the creepiest things ever. That's why I said it depends on the guy. Dudes with game know how to seduce without the woman even being aware that she is being gamed. Obviously a lot of the thirsty guys on here should not practice in the gym but a seasoned man with some notches in the belt and who is smooth can operate just fine …
/r/seduction09/07/21 09:44 PM
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That's the thing. Life isn't black and white. These "don't do that perspectives" are generalizations that never account for the individual. If a guy can can approach at the gym and not be overly awkward and take rejection well then go for it. As a man I don't tend to like chatting at the gym but I sometimes do it because people chat me up. Most of the time it's not awkward and often the convos are interesting. If you want to talk to someone do it. Fuck the rules
/r/seduction09/07/21 06:36 PM
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I dont think I stated one incorrect thing. Obviously most was me talking shit but the meaning is true. Focus on screening the woman while you are having sex with her. It's not rocket science. Men are the gatekeepers for relationships and men need to understand the power in that. If you are doing everything right she will eventually ask to be exclusive if that is what she wants. Fuck her good, have fun, be on your purpose, and she may want to join you and that is when a man controls the keys to t…
/r/seduction09/07/21 03:24 PM
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Maybe you'll even wife me if you like my 🐈 enough ❤️ gosh Gee willikers, I do hope so 😍 Nah you a jump-off but I'll bust it wide open 👌🏾👈🏾💥
/r/seduction09/07/21 05:56 AM
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You must really want the dick since you keep bothering me. Come over to the states so I can wax that thick ass and show you how all that bs in your head is indeed bs Have you so dick crazed you'll wonder why you ever believed the nonsense you are spewing
/r/seduction09/07/21 05:46 AM
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The point is that you're fucking before an exclusive relationship is developed. It's part of the courting process. Learn how to read. I'll shove something up your ass for sure. Have you calling me daddy in Croatian.
/r/seduction09/07/21 05:32 AM
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Op is a virgin because of his flawed perspective on women. Sex comes before the relationship and/or emotional connection and better start understanding that. Like I said a woman must demonstrate that she is wife material. But yea you know more about seducing a woman whether that be for sex or a relationship than me a grown ass man. Stop with the nonsense and stay in your lane
/r/seduction09/07/21 05:17 AM
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You are exactly why I tell men in this sub to ignore advice from women. Fucking her brains out and sending her off to work with her legs weak would have made her day. Thats not taking advantage, it's called being a gentlemen. Last time I checked, women like to fuck too. I don't care about any damn narrative and neither should any man In this sub. Women love to shame men for wanting sex. All it is are hyenas screeching. Seduction is about getting laid. If a woman comes along who has demonstrated …
/r/seduction09/07/21 05:02 AM
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Damn you should have gave her some dick before work brother. Come on man
/r/seduction09/07/21 01:23 AM
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Before you even get to the crib make sure you've made a move sexually. Kiss her, grab her ass, etc. Before yall are watching the movie, put on some music first and lighten the mood. Grab her hand and motion her towards you. Start doing the above. Make sure your room is clean too guy
/r/seduction07/07/21 08:11 PM
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This is a dumbass post. Why tear a woman down who is into you? Only unhealthy women; aka damaged ones, will be drawn towards this sort of belittling and mind games.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/21 03:50 AM
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This is a dumbass post. Why tear a woman down who is into you? Only unhealthy women; aka damaged ones, will be drawn towards this sort of belittling and mind games.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/21 03:50 AM
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Get clear on the type of women you are willing to deal with. I'm talking about their values, habits, and goals. If girls don't aline with you, then don't mess with them. And stick to that. When you knowingly deal with women who don't share what you want that hurts your self-esteem and you are wasting your time. It tells you that you aren't good enough to get what you deserve; assuming your standards are reasonable. It's matter of self-control. Yea abundance can help but it starts with self-estee…
/r/seduction30/06/21 02:21 AM
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Yea dude is a weirdo. As for what is a normal amount of texting, I'd say anything other than texts on his part to initiate contact and set a date are doing too much. Do the talking in person
/r/seduction29/06/21 07:31 PM
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alL WoMen ArE wHoRes. DoNt wAsTe yOuR tImE oN tHeM mAnnnn. alL jUsT wAnT ChAd aNd TyRoNe.... Yea this sub is infested with incels and bad advice from women
/r/seduction28/06/21 08:09 PM
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Lol yea more or less things were open most of the year except the universities, grade schools, and libraries. In the states we just saying fuck it now.
/r/seduction25/06/21 02:23 AM
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I'm in cali and we're complete open with no masks
/r/seduction25/06/21 02:09 AM
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You just have to be more proactive when you are older. I'm 30 going on 31 and we just aren't forced to be around women; not being in school anymore. When covid is over grab the dating scene by the balls and you'll see results
/r/seduction23/06/21 03:01 AM
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Most of that sounds Freudian too me. But yeah removing shame can make a man more honest but I'd say that most men understand that.
/r/seduction21/06/21 12:29 AM
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I interviewed an escort who has started to focus on men's shadow therapy via exploring sexual kink - Her insight into what men need to change in order to become more appealing to women was SPOT ON, and taught me some valuable things. So what's the cliff notes of what she told you?
/r/seduction20/06/21 11:09 PM
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Well said. My opinion is also that Op should pull back on spinning plates and figure out why he wants a woman or women in his life. Dating without intention is a waste of time
/r/TheRedPill20/06/21 07:16 PM
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The fact that she's a stay at home mom and you make a lot means you will be paying a lot in alimony. Prepare for that and speak to a lawyer
/r/askTRP20/06/21 02:06 PM
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What's your alternative explanation? Idk. I wasn't there to witness his approaches so I cant say. Doesn't matter to me though. It's part of the game The truth is a lot of women hate it and just want to be left alone. And a lot of women don't mind. See what I just did? There are 7 billion people on this planet. Half being women. I've heard women say that they wish guys would approach them. Even hot ones who claim they never receive that sort of attention from men A lot of the women who are good l…
/r/seduction18/06/21 01:04 PM
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I see you have no argument but just an anything goes perspective. This is a sub about seduction in case you forgot which involves human contact. Take care. You've already wasted too much of my time
/r/seduction18/06/21 12:12 AM
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We have too many women on this sub saying not to approach which is a subjective view. Not all women feel that way which you just proved. That was the point of my perspective. They are using their skewed experience to spread an anti-approach agenda. It's no different from incels saying all women are whores and avoid messing with them because of their personal experiences.
/r/seduction17/06/21 11:49 PM
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Plenty of guys, including myself, have encountered great women by approaching them. Shit one of my exes was a woman I saw on the street and started a convo. What some women find uncomfortable, others welcome. You don't speak for all women.
/r/seduction17/06/21 11:39 PM
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A lot of women don't like being approached by strangers. And i know plenty of women who like being approached. the reality is that so many women are lonely just like plenty of guys are. We should be encouraging men to approach and also women to get some skin in the game. I see to many women on this sub spreading anti-approach propaganda and it needs to stop
/r/seduction17/06/21 09:45 PM
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no kids? shit get the hell outta there brother. You are only 49 and she most likely isnt going to change. Sounds like you are in a good position my dude. Making money, fit, set for retirement... Yea go live your life without her
/r/askTRP17/06/21 09:40 PM
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First get your self esteem together. No woman wants to deal with an insecure man. As for the unicorn piece, you can meet one woman who is a great fit for you, marry her, and live a meaningful life. Matter of fact, there're several women out there but you have to be ready; meaning be wholesome, healthy person, with a mission. Don't frame it as a "unicorn" because that type of fantasy framework may warp your view of the women you are dealing with. There are no perfect women but there are really go…
/r/askTRP17/06/21 03:11 AM
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Do you want to have kids with her? If so, when that happens will you still have this 50/50 mindset?
/r/askTRP16/06/21 03:47 PM
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I asked based off other comments by Op dumbass. He said in another comment that he didn't know why white chicks weren't giving him attention. Go back to your cave troll
/r/askTRP16/06/21 12:51 PM
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Obviously the second option
/r/askTRP16/06/21 04:42 AM
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Preach to these simps my brother 🙌🏾
/r/seduction16/06/21 04:10 AM
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Jesus christ. Some of you guys are pitiful including you Op. Get over it. Laugh about it. You know your friends character better than us. He probably knew you wouldn't do a damn thing to fuck that bitch and you can't be mad at him for that. It's not like he hid it from you. Learn from it and start taking risks.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 12:56 AM
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It's most likely a fetish on the part of the black and latina chicks. I'm black and I've dealt with this. A lot girls, just like guys, have these obsessions with race. As for why white chicks don't like you, I need to ask, how many white women have you approached and/or dated?
/r/askTRP16/06/21 12:48 AM
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Take a high dose of shrooms or acid together
/r/askTRP15/06/21 11:50 PM
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The fact that you care so much is the problem. Life involves risk. You may pick a girl who does something that crosses your boundaries completely but you may not. There are loyal women out here yet you focus on things that are outside of your control i.e. who dms some girl you're with. It's a waste of mental space. If the woman has not displayed anything that should warrant you not trusting her, then trust her but not blindly. That is all you can do. Anything else is just unhealthy to focus on a…
/r/askTRP15/06/21 02:20 AM
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Trust issues? Thats just another excuse to behave badly and irrationally. Get therapy if you need to. do something to get over it.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 01:56 AM
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Yep. Op needs to tone down the tough guy bs. There are guys in these streets that will blow your head off for the slightest perception of disrespect. My cousins husband's brother just got shot and killed last week just for looking at a guy while on the street in Manhattan during the night. This is real life guys, not some jean claude van damme movie where the protagonist always survives.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 02:04 AM
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If you didn't see it happen than you should have let it go. A lot of men are in the grave too soon because of honor. Dude could have shot you, stabbed you, etc. Learn to walk away
/r/askTRP13/06/21 11:40 PM
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Savage mode my dude
/r/askTRP12/06/21 02:44 AM
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Good for you for recognizing that you were being used 👏🏾 Next time you gotta make your expectations and boundaries clear. When we behave like nice guys, girls will prey on that because nice guys give too much while they receive little in return which leads to resentment
/r/seduction11/06/21 07:33 PM
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Having someone in your life that you deem replaceable is an internal mindset, not external That's a great way to put it. You don't treat people like dirt but understand in your core your value. The original commenter is playing armchair psychology with the concept of replacement. Obviously it can manifest in various ways
/r/seduction11/06/21 01:39 PM
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I agree that you shouldnt discard anyone for small things and that you should not treat people like objects which can be discarded. We all have flaws but some attributes have no middle ground. Its straight youre nexted from my perspective. When I start thinking that I can replace a woman, that is because she is being uncooperative, not peaceful/bringing stress to my life, she doesnt do anything for me other than sex, too opinionated, needs to be right, isnt disciplined, nagger, etc. If you as a …
/r/seduction11/06/21 01:32 PM
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Having that mindset of your partner being replaceable makes you treat them like dirt That's not true. If you are not doing your part in the relationship your significant other needs to understand that this leads to replacement. It is incentive to behave accordingly. So many women actually believe that the guy they are with can't do any better and that type of mentality is what results in the man or woman in that situation being treated like dirt. Most people have never experienced abundance. A m…
/r/seduction11/06/21 01:05 PM
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tell her you still gotta slurp me up
/r/askTRP10/06/21 06:52 PM
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good post. this is why i recommend meditation. the mind is in constant rumination and meditation can help you understand how your mind operates. the beliefs you hold can be better understood and you can begin to notice what is just rumination of the mind and your biases.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/21 06:50 PM
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Monk mode is dumb af. You can form better habits while you game women. I would say deprioritize women for now and solve your porn issue.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 09:24 PM
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https://www.amazon.com › Warren-... The Myth of Male Power (8601400276730): Farrell, Warren: Books - Amazon.com Go educate yourself.
/r/seduction05/06/21 02:49 PM
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I just don't understand why women care about these whack ass jobs. A flight attendant? aka glorified waitress
/r/askTRP04/06/21 11:10 PM
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we live in weird times brother. Age of the Simp I didnt see it as anitmale just tough medicine. at the end of the day as men, we have to take action
/r/seduction04/06/21 11:05 PM
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I agree but maybe you replied to the wrong comment? I didnt mention anything about evil women
/r/seduction04/06/21 10:49 PM
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good to see you out here trying. My brother had a stroke and lost half the use of his body some years ago. Although he has improved a lot; he can walk and move most of his arm, he still struggles with confidence because of the disability. I tell him the same things you've described. At the end of the day, if you want a women or a few, then you have to take action
/r/seduction04/06/21 10:40 PM
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Our society worships at the altar of the Victim. It’s difficult to take complete ownership of your faults and failures, I certainly struggle with taking ownership at times you just described the modern woman. society does not hold women accountable for their actions. Women are constantly painted as victims in the media. How often have we heard about women being victims of domestic violence, sexual violence, etc? In none of those narratives are women held accountable for entering the relationship…
/r/seduction04/06/21 10:37 PM
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Definitely get a DNA test on those kids. I wouldn't worry about dating if I was you. Of course do it casually but nothing serious. Focus on developing a skillset and making/saving money. As for your ex, treat her amicably. Don't go out of your way to please her but you have to keep it peaceful since yall have two kids together. Communicate about the kids but other that, she doesn't need to know anything about your life. Lastly, get a hobby or two. I started playing the guitar about a year ago an…
/r/askTRP04/06/21 04:50 AM
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I assume she'll ask for a reason since they just spoke about exclusivity
/r/askTRP03/06/21 02:38 AM
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Definitely a red flag. She thinks she's better than you and she's judging that off looks which tells me she doesn't understand the value of having a good man. You said you could easily replace her. There's plenty of women out here who won't blatantly disrespect you. Court them
/r/seduction03/06/21 12:38 AM
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she for the street bro. Women know that advertising that sort of behavior is unjustifiable when you are about to become exclusive with someone. Tell her straight up with no emotion that you were entertaining exclusivity but after seeing that photo, she wont be getting another oportunity and move on.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 09:59 PM
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Shit homeboy could have kicked her ass to the side.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 04:55 AM
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Well if you jerked off and you still didn't want to meet the girl, I would say that is a sign that you didnt really want to meet her. Dating is time consuming so why spend time with women you don't want? I see no issue here
/r/askTRP02/06/21 12:33 AM
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I'm black. I've had several Asian women be into me. My last gf was Philippina. Also I was in Korea for a year and the ladies were all over me. Yellow fever is a fetish. Get off porn. Start dating a diverse pool of women. You'll realize they are all the same
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:37 PM
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Just move on. If you had other women you were seeing and/or more confidence would you really be asking about ONE girl who is uninterested in you? Girls who have interest will reciprocate. You won't be confused about what is happening because she is reciprocating your advances. And if she finally messages you back after two times of waiting days to message you back, I would ignore. Don't disrespect yourself giving time to women who don't have a moderate to high interest in you.
/r/seduction27/05/21 01:10 AM
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Just leave the house, go somewhere where there are women, and approach. Stop complicating things. You know what you need to do
/r/askTRP25/05/21 11:53 PM
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I thought it was guys talking to women in public??? You're very slow. Maybe stop shoving the dildos and butt plugs up yourself for a few days and shove some knowledge in that hollow space of a skull you have
/r/seduction23/05/21 02:01 AM
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I'm the freak? Says the one with a reddit page full of nudes and pics of shit shoved up her cooch... weirdo
/r/seduction23/05/21 01:45 AM
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Such a stupid opinion. Going to a public place to speak with strangers respectfully is now stalking. Understood
/r/seduction23/05/21 12:58 AM
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Reading comments on here from women saying not to cold approach is why this sub should be exclusive to men. These women have no idea how to attract a woman yet have the nerve to offer shit advice on here. Approach fellas. Be bold
/r/seduction23/05/21 12:53 AM
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These women are literally saying not to cold approach. Why should any man listen to that? You see a girl when you are out and about and you approach. It's simple and works.
/r/seduction23/05/21 12:49 AM
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So approaching women is stalking now? Such nonsense
/r/seduction23/05/21 12:44 AM
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I understand. Well whatever happens, good luck dating. All we can do is try and adapt
/r/seduction16/05/21 07:41 PM
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I’m just looking for someone I can joke with and who actually wants to get to know me. Is that too much to ask for? Nothing wrong with that. I'd add that shared values and goals should be the focus on top of good vibes. Sounds like you're active. Just keep doing you. Also the gym is a good place to meet someone. I tend to always chat people up in between sets I’m relatively active but I like a bit hencher guys Hencher guys? What does that mean
/r/seduction16/05/21 03:36 PM
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Funny thing is now that bitch is marrying Young Jezzy
/r/TheRedPill16/05/21 01:34 AM
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Just because guys approach you with confidence doesn't make them "player types" who just want to fuck and throw you too the side. You're being a little judgemental. As for your issue, get out of the house. Join social clubs. Book clubs, hiking groups, dance clubs, etc. Use your girlfriends and social circle to meet guys. Most guys don't approach so don't bet on that. I approach but it's a difficult thing for most guys to do. Also make sure you're a fit. Most guys don't like women bigger than the…
/r/seduction15/05/21 11:47 PM
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Women don’t need confidence you fucking monkey. Where did I write that? Men are programmed by society and women to accept women for how they are. Name 1 single time where a guy said “you’re not confident enough for me to be interested in”. What does this have to do with my point? My point is, success is not a REQUIREMENT with men having confidence in interacting with women. We are talking about women in this sub dumbass not doing back flips. Stop wasting my time with your babbles simple jack
/r/seduction13/05/21 02:30 PM
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We are talking about women retard. You don't have to be successful to be confident with women. You can interact with women confidently by just being mindful and assertive. Once again, nothing to do with success. You really need to understand the dumb shit you type.
/r/seduction13/05/21 01:57 PM
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Mode One. Look into it. ARC
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:01 PM
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How old are you? Focus on the woman in front of you. Most women have been around the block. Who cares
/r/askTRP11/05/21 12:10 AM
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Just be able to hold a convo and show genuine interest in him with your questions and overall presence. Don't hold back. The rest is on him
/r/seduction11/05/21 12:08 AM
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All depends on the delivery. It has worked for me.
/r/seduction09/05/21 08:27 PM
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I never stop flirting and I never talk to them about other men or their problems. If you she's does bring up other men or traveling in other countries I like to ask "how well did so and so fuck you? Or could those french guys lay the pipe well?" Met a girl recently and did this. Had her in the bed an hour later.
/r/seduction08/05/21 01:41 PM
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Yep confidence is a state of mind. Well said
/r/seduction05/05/21 10:11 PM
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There's plenty of women out here man. Just find another one who is reciprocal
/r/askTRP05/05/21 02:31 AM
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Simple. First date or at the most 3, you typical initiate but you should be looking for signs of effort on her part. Is she engaging you in convo (actually getting to know you during those dates or are you asking ALL the questions), did she text you the next day after or before the date for whatever reason i.e. hey are we still on for tomorrow? Or hey I had a great time..., have you kissed her or fucked, etc. Look for reciprocation and effort on her part. If she's giving you none, then stop purs…
/r/askTRP04/05/21 08:27 PM
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Definitely a red flag. I would plate for sure until more info is gathered. The extra pronoun concept is so outside of reason that any person entertaining this would give me pause and this is coming from someone with a very open mind.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 08:18 PM
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Just be indifferent and keep doing you. We kept on talking where she send me a lot of messages, and made plans to meet again Stop doing this though. Don't fall into the text buddy trap. Talk on the phone/text only to step up dates/logistics. Do the talking in person.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 01:22 AM
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Of course it is. Just find people in similar life situations. Sounds like your current friends are assholes. I have friends in relationships too but they still invite me out. I don't mind being the 3rd wheel
/r/askTRP03/05/21 07:34 PM
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Yea I saw the study that was done recently. We've lost out on the equivalent of 6 figures in the lost of wages since the 70s smh Yea I liked Warren too but when she fucked over bernie, supported the dnc establishment, and did the whole native nonsense I lost respect for her
/r/askTRP03/05/21 07:25 PM
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I had never thought about how women now working contributed to the increase in pricing of goods. Makes sense.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 07:11 PM
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Whats the two income trap? I do think if you can hold frame then this stuff isn't much of an issue so yea in a sense it is a big shit test but for the greater good of the society this sort of vanity and lust can be destructive long term. I think it's wishful thinking but yea hopefully we can build a generation of stronger men but we live in a society that ostrochizes men so I don't see that happening
/r/askTRP03/05/21 06:56 PM
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Very true. Of course there are women with beauty who are of good character but within the US I'd say that within any metropolitan area the problem with women is worse. Doesn't matter if you meet her in club or the bookstore. The guys bitching are hopefully just discussing it within a systemic i intellectual context. I see no point in harping on it either but it's huge problem. My main issue is the unrealistic standards when it comes to wealth. Yes I understand that women seek security but this i…
/r/askTRP03/05/21 06:30 PM
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All girls are THOTS. just depends on the moment/context when you meet them. All you can do is screen for virtues and good character. I do agree that as men we put too much focus on beauty and it causes many to chose bad women. Maybe go for that 5 or 6 fellas but if she is virtuous and of good character give her an extra point
/r/askTRP03/05/21 06:06 PM
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Life isn't black and white. Rejection is important and also not important. Rejection tells you right away that there isn't a connection. You move on and no additional time is wasted on that girl but you don't take it personally. That's what is meant by it not being important. To not let it crumble your ego Not to be rude but I shouldn't have had to explain that to you.
/r/seduction03/05/21 05:54 PM
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Well said brother. A female acquaintance of mine and I went on a date the other day. At the end of the date I went for the kiss and she rejected it. I called her tightwad jokingly while we both laughed awkwardly. We then parted ways confirming later plans. Funny thing is we had made out like a week or two before furiously. A few days later, we were supposed to hang out but she texts me that they ways behaved at the end of the date made her uncomfortable and she was waiting on me to send an apolo…
/r/seduction03/05/21 05:50 PM
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All the time. You aren't gonna bag every chick. Part of the game
/r/seduction02/05/21 06:53 PM
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Just live man and get some hobbies. Don't fall into the american trap of constant work for the sake of working
/r/askTRP30/04/21 09:25 PM
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Obviously that's an extreme scenario. I don't think that's what he meant by flaws
/r/askTRP30/04/21 12:32 PM
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Well jump in that deep in and drown. I've heard that drowning is a peaceful death.... good luck brother
/r/seduction30/04/21 03:32 AM
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Journaling is a great way to sustain perspective so go for it. I do it occasionally. When it comes to interacting with people though, stop thinking so much. I promise you that they are insecure too. The fact that you are doing it in spanish a language you didnt speak growing up makes it even harder. Confidence is a state of mind my dude. Pretend and don't let your ego make it more than what is. You are just talking to other humans. Nothing more, nothing less
/r/seduction30/04/21 03:10 AM
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What you need to do is just go talk to people daily to understand that they won't bite your head off. Develop that I don't care about the outcome muscle. I'm currently in mexico and I speak Spanish too but in spanish I used to be way more insecure with approaching women but now that I've done it and my skills are sharp i.e. I'm more or less fluent, the insecurities don't bother me. The other day I met a chick at the beach and fucked within an hour. Whereas I met up with a girl today who I had me…
/r/seduction30/04/21 02:06 AM
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Lmao bro she just wasn't that into you. What you said wasn't that bad my dude. Any girl with a moderate to high attraction towards you would have let that go. Just an excuse to send you on your way. I'm proud that you didn't apologize. Keep approaching my brother
/r/seduction30/04/21 01:47 AM
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wanting a relationship and being selective is not oneitis. oneitis is putting a chick on a pedestal
/r/askTRP29/04/21 01:46 PM
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These are women who are older. 25-40. Obviously most women in developed nations are too busy chasing money. Women want to be stay at home moms because working sucks ass so I don't blame them and If I had the money to support a wife who could stay home and home school my children I would do the same. It's worth the investment and women with sense see the value in controlling the information that is channeled to their children. It's just a matter of having the money to be able to do it
/r/seduction29/04/21 01:44 AM
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Well I understand women's expectations but the reality is that we aren't living in those contexts anymore and on top of that women now in the west have attained equality. Women work too. Look at the average earnings in the United States. It's around 50,000 grand for men yet too many women want the stay at home mom lifestyle with traveling and the nice home. It's unreasonable in modern times when men aren't making that sort of money and we live in a expensive country i.e. the United States. The m…
/r/seduction29/04/21 12:34 AM
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I can't speak for all men but I don't hate women and a matter of fact, I understand their expectations but the reality is that most men can't fulfill them. Just because you and maybe your friends don't think this way doesn't mean that a lot of women are not thinking this way. We as men are interacting with women romantically and this is what we are experiencing. These arent stereotypes. This is the modern woman. That doesn't mean that there aren't women out here with sense. We as men just have t…
/r/seduction29/04/21 12:02 AM
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I believe what men wanted was good conversation, cooperation, and attraction which is subjective. You just had to interpret that negatively. A woman is a flawed human just like men and it's a good thing that men understand that and aren't looking for superwoman. I can't say the same for you women.
/r/seduction28/04/21 10:54 PM
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Understandable but any relationship is gonna have that sort of ebb and flow. You are the one experiencing it so I can't see what you see but from what you've explained to me, it sounds like yall have a lot in common. You just aren't enjoying the relationship right now. Take a break from hanging with her. Get clear and then make a decision brother
/r/askTRP28/04/21 04:01 PM
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Well as for not seeing a fulfilling future with this woman you need to get clear if that is an objective view or some form of FOMO. She can be trained to fuck better if she's open to it so that's not a big deal. If you guys share 80% in common or more with values and overall wants/needs in life then that's a good woman IMO. You aren't gonna find a perfect woman.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 03:38 PM
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It's pretty simple. Date intentionally. If ya just want a casual thing then be honest about that. If you are open to something serious but what to take things slow, then honest about. Same If you are looking for marriage... If you are being honest then I don't see the need to view this through a lens of right or wrong. If you are being vague and ambiguous with women then that is wrong. As for evaluating the women. Simply too. Shared values, morals, virtues, and vision on what you both want out o…
/r/askTRP28/04/21 03:26 PM
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If you really don't think the modern women's expectations are insanely high then go check out kevin samuels videos. Women call in all the time explaining what they want. They want to be stay at home moms, 3-5 kids, have a house, a man who is attractive, traveling with the family, and to top it off, a man who can fund all of this. Often times they don't even understand how much this lifestyle costs. Here's some science: https://www.amazon.com › Marry-H... Resultados de la Web Marry Him: The Case …
/r/seduction28/04/21 02:29 PM
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Yea I've noticed that also but the show is still entertaining. It'd be better if they chilled with the overt explications of RP knowledge to the women. It comes off as too technical and empty of actual real world reference when they articulate the information. It's like they are reciting what they've read from the rationale male or from posts on here
/r/TheRedPill28/04/21 02:09 PM
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Exactly. I don't understand why guys don't understand this. Common sense
/r/askTRP28/04/21 01:55 PM
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Even though you said you weren't looking for anything serious you were treating as if you were. Yea she probably wants more but figure out what you want and start from there. No sense in being exclusive with her if you don't want marriage or some form of long term companionship. Define what you want out of a woman man
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:40 PM
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You said you treat her like an LTR and you've met her parents... You know what you're doing and why this chick feels used. Did you ever tell her straight up that this was just a fwb relationship? Even if you did tell her, your actions plus meeting her parents speak otherwise
/r/askTRP27/04/21 01:24 PM
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Most of the advice Ive seen on this thread isnt at the expense of Op's identity. Its practical common sense. Not sure what your point is so there is nothing radical to your perspective. Stop drinking your own koolaid. You have a dumb perspective that lacks practicality in the real world and its no surprise that you have no man. good luck to you
/r/seduction25/04/21 12:04 AM
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This is exactly the kind of response I was expecting from men who are scared to learn that women care more about what WE want to be, than what you like. So you are saying what the men want does not matter? relationships involve compromise. the desires of both individuals matter. What a selfish statement and it says a lot about your lack of cooperative skills. Good luck finding a man with this perspective
/r/seduction24/04/21 10:34 PM
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Very bad advice. This is more of the same self help nonsense of "just keep improving yourself and the right people will come along". WRONG. People need practical advice. Op can take concrete steps to improve her odds of finding a partner and hearing the perspective of men is valuable in this context. Op will find no man just working on herself. She needs to interact with men and do it effectively to weed out those who are just wasting her time versus those who are serious. the right person will …
/r/seduction24/04/21 09:41 PM
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Obviously looks initially are what draw us in. Career, wealth, and education arent things most men care about when it comes to women. When a girl is educated I do think "oh maybe shes intelligent and cultured" but ive met plenty of women who are educated and lack real world/common sense and are unimpressive when it comes to intellectual topics. My point is, education can be a plus if it is reflective in the womans intellect and how she conveys here thoughts but if she is just one of thousands of…
/r/seduction24/04/21 09:27 PM
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Yep. Kevin really exposing to the world the delusions of so many modern women. So many call in saying they want a man but the type of things that they often want i.e. 3-5 kids, good looking man, a house, romance, traveling, stay at home mom, etc are qualities that require an exceptional earner of a man aka the top 10% and these women are at best 5-7's with average qualities. Quite a few are overweight too with these delusions None of these women want average guys. average earners with average li…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/21 01:02 PM
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Chances of the encounter leading to anything meaningful were slim to none so take solace in that. When I don't approach I beat myself up too. Shit it just happened today but the reality is there's always another bus. Just learn from it and make a move next time.
/r/seduction23/04/21 12:34 AM
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Im stealing this one from Allan Roger Currie. His perspective is that a lot of these false accusations and hatred towards men from individual women stem from dishonest men. Men who are not honest and direct with the women they are courting. These men hide their intentions towards women. Its the age old, lead her on with both my words and actions making her think there is more to the relationship than just casual sex and/or a fwb relationship. Protect yourselves by being clear and honest with wom…
/r/askTRP22/04/21 08:03 PM
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She told me one day he invited her to the funeral home, yes where the dead bodies are kept, and she sucked his dick. LMAO i almost flipped my laptop of my lap when I read this dying of laughter. Homeboy was moaning like the walking dead while she was topping him. Holy hell
/r/askTRP06/04/21 12:57 PM
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Just had a fuck buddy ask me for one the other day. Gladly obliged
/r/seduction21/03/21 12:43 AM
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Bro just because you are making good money, you have your own pad, and you look good does not make you high value. There's plenty of guys with money and cool hobbies getting played by women. Your social standing in the community, your generosity, wisdom/life experience, your overall personality, values, etc are additional factors in defining value Maybe homeboy has a charismatic personality. Maybe she enjoys actually being around him despite the negatives you see in him. Who knows. Play the fiel…
/r/askTRP21/03/21 12:32 AM
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The weekend later i texted her, hey wanna hangout in the evening? She replied after an hour or two: "hey id love to but i cant today. How about next week?" I said fine. Thursday i texted: "hey, saturday 8pm @ x?" dont hit girls up the day of to make plans. so i dont blame her there. Make plans a few days in advance. People have shit going on Secondly, make definite plans. Instead of "How about next week?" you should have said, hey im free next week saturday night at 8, lets meet at so and so pla…
/r/askTRP19/03/21 01:16 PM
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Go join the military as an officer. You'll make some decent change, travel, make connections, maybe even learn a valuable skill (depends on what job you are tasked with), and you can work on something on the side. There are a lot of things you can do with a finance degree. Get creative. Shit the CIA and FBI also need finance guys to catch these white collar criminals. Maybe combine it with some tech experience (software dev & cybersecurity) and you'll be way ahead of the game. Barely anyone like…
/r/askTRP18/03/21 10:54 PM
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if you arent in debt as I read in one of your comments then you are in a good place. Others have given you good advice on jobs/trades you can pursue so I wont go there. A good book is the millionare next door. it talks about how 10% of millionares acquire their wealth and its nothing magical. Its saving your money and marrying someone who can contribute to that financial ascend. One of the examples in the book is a fireman who is married to a secretary. Over time with saving, 401k, etc they were…
/r/askTRP17/03/21 05:43 PM
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lol bro you're good looking guy. You dudes need to learn how to self-evaluate. I'd say your problem is frame and self-confidence. You shouldn't care this much about getting some THOT in the 8-10 range. Why does that matter so much? You are putting these women abover yourself and thats obvious from the framing of this post. if you understood you are a catch also you would think more highly of yourself. Improve that and focus on meeting women in real life. OLD is a mind fuck
/r/askTRP16/03/21 01:28 PM
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OLD does take effort, thats why i stated "little to no effort". it takes less effort than meeting people in real life. less vulnerability. You operate based on the filtering of your mind which learns through dynamic engagement, not sitting behind a computer sending messages to people. Interacting with people in real life i.e. approaching, conversing, being vulnerable to rejection, actively making connections, etc. This is real effort and through this process you develop social intuition and conf…
/r/seduction15/03/21 03:30 PM
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Meeting in person has always been much easier and more gratifying. i can get an immediate yes or no and know I did everything i could. chemistry can be built or not felt much faster and worth it than a rando that may ghost me the moment i text the wrong thing or just hit them up at the wrong time. i can at least gauge their reaction and adjust irl. Also in general it's more fun and exciting to meet a new person and see if we vibe than "invest" texting time on a person i know nothing about but cu…
/r/seduction15/03/21 03:15 PM
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I decided to take a break for 6 months from all online dating. I just keep telling myself that someone will come along and be what I’ve been waiting for. You may be waiting a long time. Online dating shouldn't be a primary way to meet a partner. There's no risk, no strong emotional connection (the person is just another profile of many), too many options, and many more issues that everyone understands. Meet people in real life. As humans the society is losing its was way this social media false …
/r/seduction14/03/21 07:51 PM
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A man making 50,000 a year is more than enough especially with combined incomes. I see you watch too much TV Where's that 6 figure man proposing to you??? 👀 And if you do find him and he has no time for you because he's working a shit ton then don't complain
/r/seduction12/03/21 11:31 PM
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What a false equivalence. I'm talking about the actual numbers that men in the US earn (and there's nothing wrong about that) and you are comparing that with healthy body sizes. Being obese and/or overweight is WRONG. point blank Your disengious points are a waste of my time. Good day ma'am and good luck finding man with being so out of touch with reality
/r/seduction12/03/21 10:56 PM
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Ive heard plenty of women state their regret of focusing too much on the career instead of putting time into dating. you can do both. A lot of women want a family and that takes effort to make happen. Prince charming just aint gonna appear out of thin air in front of them. Id be skeptical of listening to those women in your circle. its called rationalization for the choices they've made. if they dont want a family then that it is fine but dont lie to yourself because id say most women want a man…
/r/seduction12/03/21 09:54 PM
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lol you the one that stated that because you get approached X times a week and got simps blowing you dms up that that means something. I wasnt hurt but im all for bringing someone backdown to earth when they think too much of themselves
/r/seduction12/03/21 09:48 PM
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just be honest. those guys approaching you just want to hit it and keep it moving or else you'd be in a serious relationship if you had all these good options. dont confuse fucking with actual committment
/r/seduction12/03/21 09:37 PM
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yea because the CEO can fuck whoever he wants. girls are throwing themselves at him. Now if had met that woman on his ascend then it would be a different story. Plenty of guys marry women when they are younger and build with them. The higher earning CEO or business man that wifes up another high earning woman is fantasy for most women and is just another media made "power couple" fabrication. The above is way more likely to happen but woman want to wait at the finsih line and jump on board or wa…
/r/seduction12/03/21 09:35 PM
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any of them ask you to marry them yet? ill wait...
/r/seduction12/03/21 09:29 PM
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its a matter numbers. The men like that commenter seeks are rare. She earns a lot of money but how many men in the united states are earning $80,000 or more??? the medium income for american men is 53,000. Those men earning 6 figures have A LOT of options so why would they choose that commenter? its not about complaining. its about having pragmatic and realistic expectations in life. Not many women earn 6 figures so to compare them to men who earn that much is ridiculous. On top of that, men don…
/r/seduction12/03/21 08:00 PM
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as long as a woman is fit; meaning not overweight, thats enough for me. that what people value. stop that bs with "we value different things". If you want to go there then look at his quote: ​ I'm a high earning "alpha" female and I'm absolutely not attracted to any men that I perceive to be beneath me in terms of status, income or resources this is what this woman was speaking on. This is her value system AKA money. She never stated what makes her "level" so desirable other than the fact that s…
/r/seduction12/03/21 07:51 PM
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some people are doomed to be slaves to their biology. All i ask is for those women have read what I have stated to give it some thought and understand that a lot of these expectations of a man are just media caricatures. men and women can build together. I never stated that a woman should get with a bum but what makes a man valuable is more than just money and men who make median incomes are military men, plumbers, eletricians, firemen, etc so are you saying that those men are low value? get rea…
/r/seduction12/03/21 07:41 PM
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I only said I'm not attracted to men that aren't on my level You think you are so special smh. Come back down to planet earth
/r/seduction12/03/21 07:03 PM
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I appreciate the tip but right now im focused on C++. I dont fail to realize anything. I understand that but women work now. A lot of yall make more money than men but when it was the reverse there was no issue. Now that you make a lot you cant support a man? Of course a man should be bringing income to the house but maybe hes a great father, cooperative, intelligent, community oriented (coaching the basketball team, volunteering, etc). By the way being community oriented is status but you only …
/r/seduction12/03/21 05:56 PM
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I wouldn't mind actually. I don't care how much a woman makes as long as our values match.. The problem with woman who make a lot of money is that it gets to their head just like guys who make a lot. Their expectations go up but expectations don't always coincide with reality. Stop worshiping money and start looking at what really matters. A good life can be lived on average incomes. My mother makes quite a bit more than my father and he has no issue with it but I'm african/jamican american and …
/r/seduction12/03/21 05:43 PM
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Lol funny thing is there are 5 million more unmarried American women than american men and 4 million more divcored american women than american men The modern woman is the snake eating itself so yea I hope they enjoy those cats 🐈 because so many of them will end up alone
/r/seduction12/03/21 05:36 PM
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Good luck with that. Most men are medium income earners and the guys you want i.e. a higher income earner could care less about how much you make and obviously don't want a masculine woman like yourself; you referred to yourself as a "alpha". The same guys you look down on; those who make less than you, have other qualities that make them better than you i.e. character, discipline, cool hobbies, etc but all you see is money. I don't know why women can't just accept an average guy. Most people ar…
/r/seduction12/03/21 05:19 PM
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the reality is that life involves risk. Yea what you are saying is troublesome; the lack of moral/ethic orientation of the modern woman, but there are ways to lean the odds of finding a decent woman in your favor. you say you have good social status and a culture that pushes marriage. Use your family. Get help from your mother or father to find someone suitable. I know in the west this is looked down upon but our parents often know us the best and can help us find suitable marriage options. I ca…
/r/askTRP12/03/21 03:02 PM
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I found out an ex of mine was sleeping with a mutual friend before we started dating but what set me off was that everyone else knew and also while we were all friends; this is before i started dating her, we went to a party of this mutual friends girlfriend. My ex was acting like best friends with this girl while simultaneously fucking the mutual friend who was her boyfriend... when my ex confessed that she had a fuck buddy relationship with him I stood there and thought about that night we all…
/r/askTRP12/03/21 01:07 AM
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I'd say a solid handful that I can call up anytime.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 03:42 AM
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I've gone a year and sometimes longer without talking to friends. Before social media do you really think people just constantly kept in contact? You are definitely overthinking
/r/askTRP11/03/21 03:16 AM
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Definitely. Just dont take more than you can handle. for a first timer a half an 1/8 or maybe an 1/8 is good a sample. The real mind warping experiences are when you take a lot like I did and have done but if you do that just have someone with you to make sure you dont do anything stupid
/r/askTRP10/03/21 02:45 PM
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I haven't really considered much of a future (housing, kids, ect) with her as I'm still quite young and casual about my dating Why are you just half-heartedly dating someone for damn near 2 years? Just go be single and play the field until you figure out what you actually want from a woman
/r/askTRP10/03/21 12:12 AM
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You need to stay single for awhile. Plate her and learn to stop caring so much. If you aren't a needy person and you start to distrust your partner you should trust those instincts but in your case, you're needy and paranoia is always plaguing the needy person. I don't know why you guys in your early to mid twenties are in LTRs. Play the field and enjoy life for a little
/r/askTRP09/03/21 11:39 PM
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Even though she was messaging guys on there around 4 months ago. Why didn't you post this in the post??? Definitely get outta there asap
/r/askTRP09/03/21 11:27 PM
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yea and as the tech during the industrial revolution got better, those immigrants were replaced with machines or the jobs were offshored only to have those same foreigners be replaced by tech also. automatization is a thing and as the book the end of work lays out, most of the American worker class is unskilled labor and machines and AI can do the work better. Dont assume that if we theoritically bring back industrial jobs that that will benefit the average american worker. it depends on the typ…
/r/askTRP08/03/21 05:34 PM
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I know about NAFTA and the China Shock. I was referencing a book called the End of Work which goes into how since the industrial revoultion tech has steadily displaced workers while the political parties keep saying "dont worry, tech will provide more jobs" which isnt happening edit: ill say this, in that convo I had, nafta and the china shock is relevant also so yea, the chicano was just looking at just race while all this economic hellfire is happening
/r/askTRP08/03/21 02:50 PM
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Your body is ONE system. Your glutes help stabilize your back and walking patterns. Your quads are also stabilizers. By skipping leg days you are literally not training your core which STABILIZES your entire body. You need to go get educated on the human body. Lifting and fitness isn't just about looking good. First and foremost it's for good health.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 01:33 AM
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Unfortunately I do think there's truth to your NPC point. The rat race and just overall conformity does exacerbate this. I took a massive dose of shrooms in my mid twenties and it showed me that my actions and beliefs matter. Before that I'd say I was NPC. I literally thought I died lol 😆 Yep your not crazy. The world is
/r/askTRP07/03/21 11:46 PM
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Yea man. Most people are just average everyday joes who dont engage in these "intellectual" conversations. Nor do people know how to adequately articulate their beliefs or even opinions about average ordinary things so they come off as dull and uninteresting. I don't know if its that people just dont care or that they are in their own life bubbles. its maybe a mix of both. In those circles you described, its no surprise that they defer to the lowest common denomitor of conversation topics when t…
/r/askTRP07/03/21 11:11 PM
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Im black too. it depends on the situation but for the most part I don't just go along with these narratives. This is where conversational skills are key. the other day I was playing ball at the park chatting with a chicano from LA and an older guy from Israel. The chicano kid brought up the incident that happened at the capitol where those retards stormed it. He called all of the inividuals racists who are full of hate etc... I said to him, there is more to the story than just race. I told him t…
/r/askTRP07/03/21 09:52 PM
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Right now my main focuses are software development, guitar, and reading. I havent really dedicated much time to gaming women especially since this pandemic started. I am feeling the itch though. I understand why people are posting this stuff but a lot of these posts are questions where no one can answer them adequately since we arent there to observe whatever the poster is referencing while other posts are just common sense scenarious where the Op should know what to do but i digress. it speaks …
/r/askTRP04/03/21 10:57 PM
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I also lift like the beast that I am and I dont agree with running game at the gym just to clarify. Use some common sense. In the case of Op he should have noted that the girl wasnt receptive but thats part of the learning process. Im not gonna tear the guy down for approaching one girl. i've also met plenty of people at the gym and hung out with a few outside of the gym. Life isnt black and white. There are a lot of exceptions and if you are in the gym and see an opportunity then take it
/r/seduction04/03/21 06:08 PM
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thats what you believe. Maybe in the moment some women may be annoyed but with reflection, if the man was respectful and approached with confidence then more than likely they will respect that. most women get no attention from men. Ive heard hot chicks say they cant remember the last time a man approached them. be bold and stop spreading negativity
/r/seduction04/03/21 01:56 PM
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Guys need to assess each woman and situation uniquely. A lot of questions on here seek answers to situations that we arent observing and with that comes difficulty in offerring any sort of solution or solid advice. That is why guys should play the field and interact with a lot of people in general to develop common sense within the social realm so that they themselves can determine what actions they need to take. The guys that Op is referring to are men who have no value system thus they adopt t…
/r/askTRP03/03/21 05:48 PM
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girls respect a man who trys and thats what you did. They dont have the balls to do what we do so be proud that you went outside of your comfort zone
/r/seduction03/03/21 03:07 PM
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Think about all the time it took for you to fuck your life up this way and now understand that to reverse the damage it will also take time. Start eating right, workout and lose weight. Build a skillset. Plumbing, hvac, electrician, etc. Go do something. Save your money and get out your parents house. While doing these things interact with women but women should be of little to no concern to you since your life is so backwards. Focus on the above and within the next year you can see progress in …
/r/seduction02/03/21 11:22 PM
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Yea you handled that wrong brother. You should have just said "Okay love, if you change your mind, then just hit my phone". There was no need to give that drawn out explanation. the girl was just emotionally stung and wanted to control the situation by friendzoning you and you should have showed indifference
/r/askTRP02/03/21 03:38 PM
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It takes time to develop indifference my friend. Start working on yourself i.e. exercise, hobbies, building a skillset and while you do those things keep interacting with women. Understand that you don't need to fuck everything and learn to be friendly and joyful with women for the sake of being a joyful person. Your 20 so just take things week by week. With enough experience under your belt you'll learn that women are just dumb animals just like us men. No need to pedstalize an animal right?
/r/askTRP02/03/21 12:29 AM
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Shit 5 minutes of constant humping will make most men cum. When you feel you are about to cum just pull out and start going down on her, making out, fingering, etc. Or just bust that nut, continue making out or whatever and then go another round 😎
/r/askTRP28/02/21 11:30 PM
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At what point do you go uncovered with a plate? When you are in a committed relationship with her and know her well enough to know that she is taking some form of birth control
/r/askTRP28/02/21 03:55 AM
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you ever seen The Help? be careful not to eat any "gifts" from this woman. She may pull some similar "shit" lmao
/r/askTRP27/02/21 07:54 PM
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"Act black" bro you must have grown up with just white people... I'm black and we aren't a monolithic so as a black person, you need to stop saying that bs. As for tinder, most girls won't give a fuck about politics. Stop thinking so much and go have fun. It's good to be somewhat aware of the cultural and political environment just so you can have more of arsenal with general conversation but the internet is not the real world. There's plenty of "normal" people out here who aren't caught up in T…
/r/askTRP25/02/21 06:58 PM
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I know if had made plans with ANYONE I always let my partner know straight away so she knows in not available if she did want to plan something, also I like to make sure she's aware of everything that's going on with me. What the hell is this? No you dont need to let your partner know your every move. Why do people think like this??? Obviously if its a past romantic partner or some dude then yes. ​ As the title says, I'm BF [25] struggling with my girlfriend [23] meeting a guy that she used to s…
/r/askTRP24/02/21 04:44 PM
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This is aka "I'll keep simpin"
/r/seduction24/02/21 03:01 PM
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yep. You gotta come at women as if they are ANY other woman. Doesnt matter if shes hot or ugly. Treat them all the same. A good way to avoid simpin IMO is to flirt with girls you dont find attractive or just be really friendly/outgoing with them. By doing this you begin to naturally behave this way with all women; that is if you are interacting with women weekly.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/21 04:47 PM
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Jeez this sub is full of people so out of touch with reality that it pains me when I see the shit perspective being spewed on here because it is truly misguiding those who want to grow and learn. There is nothing wrong with crying. When my brother attempted suicide and I called my dad to tell him that he was in the hospital in bad condition and I didnt know if he was gonna make it, my pops screamed crying and I heard him fall on the floor sobbing while my mother was right there next to him. I wa…
/r/askTRP19/02/21 02:29 PM
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You already explained to her what you want and her actions are telling you that she isn't willing to change anything about this situation. If your stats are as well as you claim you shouldn't have any problem finding a replacement
/r/askTRP16/02/21 06:56 PM
2

Tell him straight up that he's acting like a little bitch and that no self respecting man would behave that way.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 09:50 PM
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There is nothing wrong with being average my friend. We live in a world of social media with gurus and self help assholes constantly pushing the narrative of "work hard" and "realize your dreams" but the reality is that these narratives are not relavent to the lifes of most people. Most people are content with good health, there family & firends being around, a job that pays the bills and that affords some luxuries and there isnt anything wrong with that. To be honest, I too share some of your p…
/r/askTRP14/02/21 04:31 PM
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Its no biggie. My brother and I are in our 30s and we often laugh at all the embarrassing simping we were doing in our early to mid-twenties. Learn and move on but the "cringe factor" that you speak of does slowly dissipate if like I said, you learn from it and make better choices in future
/r/askTRP09/02/21 03:51 PM
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I get the ego boost aspect. Me personally, I would bring it up to her since you sound unclear and the fact that you made this post. Be nonchalant about it if you do Gauge her reaction and go from there. Godspeed brother 🙏🏾
/r/askTRP02/02/21 10:40 PM
1

I get it but to me thats a scarcity mindset my dude. There are plenty of women out here who won't disrespect you this way. Give those women your time. Would you keep hanging with guy friends who went out of there way to hurt your feelings? If not, then keep that same energy with women
/r/askTRP02/02/21 10:29 PM
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It's okay to acknowledge that someone hurt your feelings. No biggie. Now if you keep hanging out with this girl after her doing something this disrespectful then I would be questioning your manhood
/r/askTRP02/02/21 10:09 PM
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I'm curious Op. What does her brother think about all this?
/r/askTRP01/02/21 11:30 PM
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Most rich people started their businesses in a garage....Their millionaire parents 19 car garage. To go further, that is outside of western or wealthy nations in general, 95% of people don't even have a garage or let alone a car to put inside of one. Shit most Americans don't even have a garage.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 01:58 AM
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Well my point was that businesses are being forced to temporarily close. I live in mexico and they just closed all the gyms a month ago including a lot of bars and other establishments. So yea, we need to be aware that we are not living in normal times and its okay to be uneased about that and the limitations of what we can actually do to solve these loneliness issues in the current state of this quarentine bs
/r/askTRP30/01/21 06:01 PM
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Like dude above said you answered the why in your post. We are in a pandemic right now so it is hard to create a inner or larger circle of friends but thats where you need to start. Join a fight club. Muay Thai, boxing, jujitsu, etc. You'll make friends who are disciplined and strong willed. If you are of the spiritual type like myself then join a church. The unitarian church is something I've been interested in since it doesn't put jesus on this pedestal of god-like like other most Christians. …
/r/askTRP30/01/21 04:39 PM
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If I can't see her face then I'm not approaching
/r/askTRP30/01/21 12:41 AM
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Bro relax. Every now and then Ill get a hooker but I usually only go back to ones Ive had a good experience with. Dont tie your self worth to women. I havent been laid in a few months and I dont give a shit. Before then it had been months before that I had got laid. We all have moments of performance ebbs and flows. Be mindful that we are in a quarantine so start prepping to get back into the mindset of gamming. Life isnt that serious brother. Relax
/r/askTRP27/01/21 02:53 PM
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Muay Thai lessons are fun. Lately I've been doing more calisthenics also with a weight vest. Swinging from monkey bars, pull ups, push-ups, etc. Also I throw some yoga poses in the routine
/r/askTRP22/01/21 07:54 PM
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Yep, i started reading the first rationale male a few years ago and stopped after chapter one. It's more or less sloppy pop-psychology. Plenty of better books within the genre I just don't understand the hype around it
/r/askTRP22/01/21 12:23 AM
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I hear you and it may be true but if I was Op i would be damn sure of her cheating before throwing accusations.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 10:06 PM
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I meant to say ultimatums rarely work where you created the environment for the problem to exist in the first place. Sounds like Op got married with little thought to why he was marrying this women and the role she would play in his life. Best ultimatum in this situation IMO is to say if you don't commit to change and I don't see evidence of that, then I'm leaving and like you said, have the balls to stick to your words As for the cheating, idk
/r/askTRP12/01/21 08:10 PM
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Ultimatum like this rarely work. When you get married what's your is hers and vice versa. You knew this before choosing to marry her. First why did you even marry her? And what contributions did you want from her? Did you want kids? If you aren't working on having kids I don't understand why you wouldmarry someone and choose to take care of them. In a sense she is your child now. Women should have a purpose in your life, especially your wife. Sounds like her purpose is too mooch off you. I would…
/r/askTRP12/01/21 07:31 PM
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I wouldn't but do you. If I had already established a relationship with her (fuck buddy, friend, etc) then I may drive that distance but for some girl on tinder? That's a hard pass
/r/askTRP08/01/21 12:31 AM
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Just ask her questions (hobbies, family, work, favorite music/movies, etc). Tease her and be humorous. Don't take it so serious. Get a feel for who she is When she asks you questions, share but be a little mysterious in that you don't reveal too much about yourself. There's an art to conversing but it's not rocket science.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 05:30 PM
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Check out a hostel or couch surfing if ya decide to go. Best of luck
/r/askTRP28/12/20 06:31 PM
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I am married now, and proof on point, you can’t let your guard down and lose your masculine frame, because after I got married I got soft and sweet and nice again. I now have a deadbedroom! As a result. I wasn't expecting that ending. Thats perspective
/r/askTRP28/12/20 06:28 PM
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Lol this happened to me too like 5 years ago. I was in the backseat with the girl and my buddy was driving. He heard me scream WTF! as she puked all over my crouch, pants and shirt. We pulled over on the highway and I'm outside of the car damn near naked. What a night I'd just laugh about it if she brings it up. No biggie
/r/askTRP23/12/20 12:21 PM
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